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It is the Strawberry let. 10 00:00:26,840 --> 00:00:30,120 Speaker 1: Up Thanking nephew, subjects Everything Ain't funny. 11 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:32,199 Speaker 3: Dear Stephen Shirley. I met my. 12 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:34,879 Speaker 1: Boyfriend one day when I was out shopping with my 13 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:38,280 Speaker 1: mother and my sister. My mom knew him, so she 14 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:40,720 Speaker 1: introduced him to me and told him I. 15 00:00:40,720 --> 00:00:42,360 Speaker 3: Was single and available. 16 00:00:42,760 --> 00:00:45,280 Speaker 1: I hated it whenever she did that because she was 17 00:00:45,360 --> 00:00:48,200 Speaker 1: dead set on finding a man for me. I didn't 18 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:51,160 Speaker 1: know it at the time, but my man, my boyfriend, 19 00:00:51,560 --> 00:00:54,320 Speaker 1: used to twist my mother up like a pretzel. His 20 00:00:54,640 --> 00:00:57,960 Speaker 1: exact words he told me about my mother seven months 21 00:00:57,960 --> 00:01:01,360 Speaker 1: into our relationship, while we were having sex. He told 22 00:01:01,400 --> 00:01:04,360 Speaker 1: me that I don't have the stamina that my mama has, 23 00:01:04,920 --> 00:01:06,759 Speaker 1: and then he burst out laughing. 24 00:01:07,800 --> 00:01:08,920 Speaker 3: I flipped him off. 25 00:01:08,760 --> 00:01:11,160 Speaker 1: Of me and onto the floor, and he was still 26 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:14,760 Speaker 1: laughing hysterically, and he said it was a joke. But 27 00:01:14,880 --> 00:01:16,959 Speaker 1: as I was kicking him out of my house, he 28 00:01:17,080 --> 00:01:19,720 Speaker 1: told me the truth. He said he and my mom 29 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:22,880 Speaker 1: met at the grocery store and I was in the car. 30 00:01:23,319 --> 00:01:26,760 Speaker 1: He said he asked my mother about me. Then. He 31 00:01:26,800 --> 00:01:29,399 Speaker 1: asked my mother about me then, but she was being 32 00:01:29,520 --> 00:01:33,280 Speaker 1: very flirtatious and told him that she was a lot 33 00:01:33,319 --> 00:01:36,279 Speaker 1: more experienced than her daughter is. My mother is forty 34 00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:39,360 Speaker 1: two and I'm twenty five, so this is always an 35 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:42,000 Speaker 1: issue with my mother and I. She still looks great, 36 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:45,880 Speaker 1: so we compete for men. I should have known when 37 00:01:45,880 --> 00:01:48,480 Speaker 1: she introduced me to my boyfriend it was too good 38 00:01:48,520 --> 00:01:52,000 Speaker 1: to be true. When I confronted her about him, she 39 00:01:52,160 --> 00:01:52,800 Speaker 1: laughed too. 40 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:53,800 Speaker 3: She said she. 41 00:01:53,800 --> 00:01:55,640 Speaker 1: Had to try him out first to make sure he 42 00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:58,480 Speaker 1: was right for me. I found out a week ago, 43 00:01:58,880 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 1: but I still get sick to my stomach when I 44 00:02:01,200 --> 00:02:03,640 Speaker 1: think about it. Not only did he sleep with my 45 00:02:03,720 --> 00:02:06,320 Speaker 1: mother first, he had the audacity to laugh in my 46 00:02:06,440 --> 00:02:09,080 Speaker 1: face right while he was telling me the truth. I 47 00:02:09,120 --> 00:02:11,640 Speaker 1: want to get revenge and laugh in their faces like 48 00:02:11,720 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 1: they did me. What can I do? To even the score. 49 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:17,680 Speaker 1: I can shut my mom out of my life, So 50 00:02:18,040 --> 00:02:20,000 Speaker 1: what do I do? I can't shut my mom out 51 00:02:20,040 --> 00:02:22,360 Speaker 1: of my life? So what do I do? Should I 52 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:25,399 Speaker 1: seek revenge or should I let karma catch up with 53 00:02:25,480 --> 00:02:31,320 Speaker 1: them later? This is sick, I mean really really sick 54 00:02:31,840 --> 00:02:34,920 Speaker 1: and sorry. But your mother, who's supposed to be the 55 00:02:34,919 --> 00:02:37,960 Speaker 1: mature one, the role model here, is to blame for 56 00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:41,320 Speaker 1: all of this. There's no way she should be competing 57 00:02:41,720 --> 00:02:44,320 Speaker 1: with you in the man department. There's just no way. 58 00:02:44,400 --> 00:02:47,840 Speaker 1: She's your mother. That's not what mothers do. And this 59 00:02:47,960 --> 00:02:50,360 Speaker 1: is not a game to you. I mean, you're twenty five, 60 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:53,400 Speaker 1: You're just starting to really get serious about the men 61 00:02:53,480 --> 00:02:56,200 Speaker 1: in your life, and this would make anyone sick to 62 00:02:56,240 --> 00:02:58,240 Speaker 1: their stomach. I see why you're sick to your stomach, 63 00:02:58,360 --> 00:03:01,079 Speaker 1: especially with them laughing and all of that, like it's 64 00:03:01,120 --> 00:03:05,079 Speaker 1: a joke. So please don't in the future let your 65 00:03:05,080 --> 00:03:08,320 Speaker 1: mom know anything about what's going on in your love life, 66 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:11,520 Speaker 1: and definitely don't allow her to introduce you to anyone 67 00:03:11,639 --> 00:03:14,240 Speaker 1: or pick anyone for you. The fact that she said 68 00:03:14,280 --> 00:03:16,080 Speaker 1: she had to try your guy out first. 69 00:03:16,240 --> 00:03:19,680 Speaker 3: Do you understand that this is not normal. That's not normal, 70 00:03:19,760 --> 00:03:21,440 Speaker 3: that's not what normal moms do. 71 00:03:21,919 --> 00:03:24,760 Speaker 1: I hope you see that, and that man was just 72 00:03:24,919 --> 00:03:27,800 Speaker 1: really trash to throw that up in your face and 73 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:30,080 Speaker 1: to laugh about it. I would usually say, don't let 74 00:03:30,160 --> 00:03:32,640 Speaker 1: a man come between you and your mom, but in 75 00:03:32,639 --> 00:03:35,760 Speaker 1: this case, I say, get away from them all and 76 00:03:35,880 --> 00:03:38,440 Speaker 1: never let them know anything about your business or who 77 00:03:38,440 --> 00:03:38,960 Speaker 1: you're dating. 78 00:03:39,000 --> 00:03:40,400 Speaker 3: And that's the best revenge. 79 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:50,800 Speaker 4: Steve, I wasn't expecting this. Okay, everything ain't funny. This 80 00:03:50,840 --> 00:03:55,520 Speaker 4: woman meets his boyfriend through an introduction from her mother. 81 00:03:56,080 --> 00:03:59,320 Speaker 4: They were in the ghost grocery store. She introduced the 82 00:03:59,400 --> 00:04:03,880 Speaker 4: boyfriend to his daughter. She hates when she does that, 83 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:07,080 Speaker 4: but her mother's dead settle helping her find the man. 84 00:04:08,480 --> 00:04:14,880 Speaker 2: Well. She said that the mom knew the guy and 85 00:04:15,000 --> 00:04:21,800 Speaker 2: introduced her. So time went by, and. 86 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:28,200 Speaker 4: Your boyfriends told her one time, I used to twist 87 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:33,560 Speaker 4: your mama up like a pressort. Those were his exact words. 88 00:04:34,279 --> 00:04:38,000 Speaker 4: I used to twist your mama up like a pretzel. Wow, 89 00:04:40,880 --> 00:04:44,640 Speaker 4: that's a hell of a statement to make, and it's 90 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:51,320 Speaker 4: rather shocking. And then he told her about him and 91 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:55,000 Speaker 4: his mother. Seven months months into the relationship, while they 92 00:04:55,120 --> 00:04:59,120 Speaker 4: was having sex, he told me, he told the lady, 93 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:02,359 Speaker 4: I don't have the stamina that my mama has. And 94 00:05:02,400 --> 00:05:09,360 Speaker 4: then he bust out laugh. What kind of guys this? 95 00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:12,159 Speaker 2: You know? I don't talk about your mama right now. 96 00:05:12,480 --> 00:05:16,159 Speaker 4: First of all, your mother should have never introduced y'all 97 00:05:16,480 --> 00:05:17,720 Speaker 4: in the first place. 98 00:05:18,240 --> 00:05:19,919 Speaker 2: That's just for starters. 99 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:23,520 Speaker 4: I mean, if you know you've had this dude before, 100 00:05:24,040 --> 00:05:27,720 Speaker 4: why would you introduce him to your daughter, and then 101 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:30,159 Speaker 4: to turn around after you confront him. 102 00:05:30,240 --> 00:05:31,440 Speaker 2: And tell your daughter. 103 00:05:31,880 --> 00:05:35,039 Speaker 4: I had to try him out first to make sure 104 00:05:35,120 --> 00:05:40,960 Speaker 4: he was good enough. What are y'all doing? I mean, 105 00:05:41,200 --> 00:05:44,359 Speaker 4: I can't even tell you, this is not how anyway. 106 00:05:45,760 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 4: So I flipped him off of me onto the floor, 107 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:55,159 Speaker 4: and he was still laughing hysteric. He said it was 108 00:05:55,279 --> 00:05:58,040 Speaker 4: just a joke. But as I was kicking him off 109 00:05:58,120 --> 00:06:00,640 Speaker 4: my house, he told me the truth. He said that 110 00:06:01,440 --> 00:06:03,920 Speaker 4: him and your mother met it to grocery store and 111 00:06:04,279 --> 00:06:05,279 Speaker 4: you were in the car. 112 00:06:05,760 --> 00:06:06,160 Speaker 2: He said. 113 00:06:06,160 --> 00:06:08,760 Speaker 4: He asked my mother about me then, but she was 114 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:11,360 Speaker 4: very flirtatious and told him she was a lot more 115 00:06:11,400 --> 00:06:14,240 Speaker 4: experienced than her daughter. My mother forty two and I'm 116 00:06:14,279 --> 00:06:14,919 Speaker 4: twenty five. 117 00:06:16,720 --> 00:06:18,760 Speaker 2: That's fifteen. She had you at seventeen. 118 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:21,360 Speaker 4: So this is always an issue with my mother and I. 119 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:25,039 Speaker 4: She still looks great, so we compete for men. I 120 00:06:25,080 --> 00:06:28,240 Speaker 4: should have known what she introduced me to my boyfriend. 121 00:06:28,360 --> 00:06:29,760 Speaker 2: It was too good to be true. 122 00:06:31,120 --> 00:06:34,800 Speaker 4: When I confronted her about him, she laughed too and 123 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:37,160 Speaker 4: said she had to try him out first to make 124 00:06:37,200 --> 00:06:39,039 Speaker 4: sure he was right for me. 125 00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:40,279 Speaker 2: I bet did. 126 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:44,280 Speaker 1: Hang on, Steve, we'll have part two of your response 127 00:06:44,360 --> 00:06:47,159 Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's 128 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letters subjects everything ain't funny? 129 00:06:50,240 --> 00:06:52,680 Speaker 3: Ain't that the truth? We'll be back right after this. 130 00:06:53,240 --> 00:06:55,960 Speaker 3: You're listening hard morning show. 131 00:06:56,440 --> 00:06:59,080 Speaker 1: All right, Come on, Steve, Let's recap today's Strawberry letter. 132 00:06:59,120 --> 00:07:01,000 Speaker 1: The subject every day ain't funny. 133 00:07:02,320 --> 00:07:04,480 Speaker 2: This mother and daughter in the grocery store. 134 00:07:05,200 --> 00:07:08,040 Speaker 4: She sees a guy we find out in a letter 135 00:07:08,080 --> 00:07:10,640 Speaker 4: that she knew, and so she introduced him to a 136 00:07:10,760 --> 00:07:15,280 Speaker 4: daughter and they hit it off, and they started seeing 137 00:07:15,320 --> 00:07:19,160 Speaker 4: each other. Well, then they started having a physical relationship, 138 00:07:19,840 --> 00:07:22,520 Speaker 4: and he told her one day, I used to twist 139 00:07:22,560 --> 00:07:28,200 Speaker 4: your mama of like a presser. Now while they're having sex, 140 00:07:28,880 --> 00:07:33,240 Speaker 4: seven months into the relationship, he's with this girl and says, 141 00:07:33,600 --> 00:07:35,880 Speaker 4: you ain't got the stunt, stamming that your mama. God, 142 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:40,840 Speaker 4: she flips him off. On the floor. He's laughing hysterically, 143 00:07:41,400 --> 00:07:44,400 Speaker 4: and so then he decides to tell her the truth 144 00:07:44,920 --> 00:07:47,280 Speaker 4: as she was kicking him out the house. Me and 145 00:07:47,360 --> 00:07:50,480 Speaker 4: your mama we met at the grocery store and you 146 00:07:50,640 --> 00:07:53,040 Speaker 4: was in the car. I asked about you, but your 147 00:07:53,040 --> 00:07:56,240 Speaker 4: mama said, hey, I'm a lot more She was real 148 00:07:56,280 --> 00:07:58,880 Speaker 4: flirtations and said, I'm a lot more experienced than my daughter. 149 00:07:59,160 --> 00:08:03,680 Speaker 4: Because your mama, you're twenty five, so she still looks great. 150 00:08:03,720 --> 00:08:07,640 Speaker 4: So you say, y'all compete for the same men. Then 151 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:10,520 Speaker 4: you said, when she introduced you to the boyfriend, you 152 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:12,320 Speaker 4: knew through it was too You thought it was too 153 00:08:12,320 --> 00:08:15,280 Speaker 4: good to be true. When you've confronted her about him, 154 00:08:15,360 --> 00:08:17,680 Speaker 4: she laughed too. She said she had to try him 155 00:08:17,720 --> 00:08:20,440 Speaker 4: out to make sure he was right for me. What 156 00:08:20,680 --> 00:08:24,040 Speaker 4: the hell is going on here? The dude ain't no 157 00:08:24,240 --> 00:08:29,640 Speaker 4: damn good and your mama trick you. So you just 158 00:08:29,720 --> 00:08:35,120 Speaker 4: got people in your life, little sister man, you need 159 00:08:35,320 --> 00:08:37,640 Speaker 4: first of all, you need you need a new circle. 160 00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:42,240 Speaker 4: You need to you need to redo your circle. You 161 00:08:42,520 --> 00:08:45,040 Speaker 4: have got to change the circle of people you around. 162 00:08:45,960 --> 00:08:49,360 Speaker 4: You have to stop fragnizing and socializing with your mother. 163 00:08:49,480 --> 00:08:53,320 Speaker 4: You're twenty five, get yourself. Some girlfriends, let her be 164 00:08:53,440 --> 00:08:56,440 Speaker 4: your mother if she knows how, or can wrap her 165 00:08:56,600 --> 00:08:59,680 Speaker 4: that title around her head. But right now she tried. 166 00:08:59,480 --> 00:09:01,840 Speaker 2: To be your system. 167 00:09:02,080 --> 00:09:04,320 Speaker 4: Y'all competing for the same man, So get out the 168 00:09:04,360 --> 00:09:07,040 Speaker 4: same circle. You can't compete for the same men if 169 00:09:07,040 --> 00:09:08,360 Speaker 4: you're not in the same circle. 170 00:09:09,120 --> 00:09:10,520 Speaker 2: That's for startings now. 171 00:09:13,080 --> 00:09:15,839 Speaker 4: I found out a week ago, but I'm still getting 172 00:09:15,840 --> 00:09:18,080 Speaker 4: sick to my stomach when I think about it. Not 173 00:09:18,240 --> 00:09:20,640 Speaker 4: only did he sleep with my mother first, he had 174 00:09:20,640 --> 00:09:22,920 Speaker 4: the audacity to laugh in my face right while he 175 00:09:23,040 --> 00:09:25,600 Speaker 4: was telling me the truth. I want to get revenge 176 00:09:25,720 --> 00:09:28,640 Speaker 4: and laugh in their faces like they did me. What 177 00:09:28,720 --> 00:09:32,560 Speaker 4: can I do to even the score? I can't shut 178 00:09:32,559 --> 00:09:34,719 Speaker 4: my mom out my life? So what do I do? 179 00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:37,280 Speaker 4: Should I seek revenge or should I let calm and 180 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:39,880 Speaker 4: catch up with them later. First of all, get out 181 00:09:39,960 --> 00:09:42,760 Speaker 4: of the revenge nsus, because all that's gonna do is 182 00:09:42,840 --> 00:09:46,800 Speaker 4: consume you with hate, and that's like a cancer. And 183 00:09:46,920 --> 00:09:49,560 Speaker 4: all that's gonna do is take up time that you 184 00:09:49,720 --> 00:09:56,600 Speaker 4: don't have, and you will accomplish nothing. Seeking revenge accomplishes nothing. 185 00:09:57,760 --> 00:10:02,520 Speaker 4: I've done it before. It's o waste of time. My 186 00:10:02,640 --> 00:10:05,440 Speaker 4: life got better once I let it go. You just 187 00:10:05,480 --> 00:10:07,280 Speaker 4: have to let him go. It's nothing you could do. 188 00:10:07,760 --> 00:10:09,679 Speaker 4: And so what you wanna laugh in they face? No, 189 00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:12,480 Speaker 4: you don't just let calm and take his place. They 190 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:16,679 Speaker 4: not going nowhere. They ain't going nowhere. They gonna all 191 00:10:16,720 --> 00:10:19,679 Speaker 4: watch you shine. One day, she's gonna have to come 192 00:10:19,679 --> 00:10:21,680 Speaker 4: to your wedding with a great guy you then met. 193 00:10:22,440 --> 00:10:24,439 Speaker 4: He gonna have to realize he'd have lost you to 194 00:10:24,520 --> 00:10:27,520 Speaker 4: Mama everything he's he's worthless. 195 00:10:28,040 --> 00:10:29,400 Speaker 2: Don't even worry about this guy. 196 00:10:29,800 --> 00:10:34,040 Speaker 4: Why would you seek revenge on a meaningless, worthless person. 197 00:10:34,440 --> 00:10:36,800 Speaker 4: It ain't even worth it. Don't even put your time 198 00:10:36,840 --> 00:10:39,720 Speaker 4: and effing into it. Don't worry about posting nothing. Don't 199 00:10:39,720 --> 00:10:42,480 Speaker 4: try to say nothing. Put it on his bulleting board down. 200 00:10:42,320 --> 00:10:43,000 Speaker 2: At his job. 201 00:10:43,520 --> 00:10:45,400 Speaker 4: You know you ain't got to, you know, go in 202 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:48,640 Speaker 4: the parking lot and lead notes on his car. You know, 203 00:10:48,800 --> 00:10:52,080 Speaker 4: go down to his job, tape information on his car. 204 00:10:52,120 --> 00:10:53,679 Speaker 4: You ain't got time to do that. I do all 205 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:57,000 Speaker 4: of that, don't. You don't have time for that. I 206 00:10:57,040 --> 00:11:00,920 Speaker 4: was just throwing some suggestions out, you know, but really 207 00:11:00,920 --> 00:11:04,640 Speaker 4: you don't have time for that. He is worthless now, 208 00:11:04,679 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 4: your mother, Like you say, you can't cut ties with 209 00:11:06,920 --> 00:11:12,480 Speaker 4: your mama, but you can stop socializing, and that you 210 00:11:12,640 --> 00:11:17,400 Speaker 4: have to, and then just put her in the mama category, 211 00:11:17,960 --> 00:11:21,400 Speaker 4: take her out the friend category, put her in the 212 00:11:21,400 --> 00:11:22,800 Speaker 4: mama category. 213 00:11:22,360 --> 00:11:25,640 Speaker 2: And let her stay over there. And y'all, y'all ain't 214 00:11:25,640 --> 00:11:26,559 Speaker 2: got to compete for men. 215 00:11:27,280 --> 00:11:35,040 Speaker 4: That's crazy, horrible, what kind of Yeah, she trifling? Your 216 00:11:35,040 --> 00:11:39,720 Speaker 4: mama tricky? The dude is completely trifling, laughing in your face, 217 00:11:39,800 --> 00:11:41,360 Speaker 4: but your mama laughing in your face? 218 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:43,240 Speaker 2: What was it she had. 219 00:11:43,160 --> 00:11:45,200 Speaker 3: To try him out first? 220 00:11:45,480 --> 00:11:48,000 Speaker 2: What you ain't got the stammin in your mama? 221 00:11:48,040 --> 00:11:55,839 Speaker 3: God, Hell, I'm five horrible, wild intimate. That's the crazy. 222 00:11:57,480 --> 00:11:57,640 Speaker 2: Though. 223 00:11:58,520 --> 00:12:07,160 Speaker 4: You're not, No, you're not one of these cigar lighters 224 00:12:07,200 --> 00:12:10,440 Speaker 4: on your ass. I got some torch cigars. I'm finna 225 00:12:10,440 --> 00:12:12,160 Speaker 4: touch you with a couple of these torches. We're gonna 226 00:12:12,160 --> 00:12:13,200 Speaker 4: cut out all this laughing. 227 00:12:13,800 --> 00:12:14,600 Speaker 3: But I do like. 228 00:12:18,559 --> 00:12:20,240 Speaker 1: I like the fact that she kicked him out of 229 00:12:20,280 --> 00:12:22,800 Speaker 1: the out of her house. She flipped him over onto 230 00:12:22,840 --> 00:12:23,280 Speaker 1: the floor. 231 00:12:23,400 --> 00:12:27,120 Speaker 3: I do like that. The young lady. Yeah, the twenty five. 232 00:12:27,040 --> 00:12:30,439 Speaker 2: Doesn't deserve that. I ain't nobody man. 233 00:12:31,840 --> 00:12:34,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, but she was for a month. 234 00:12:34,920 --> 00:12:38,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, But the mother should have never introduced him 235 00:12:38,240 --> 00:12:40,520 Speaker 4: in the first place you've been with this dude. 236 00:12:40,520 --> 00:12:42,760 Speaker 2: You're gonna introduce him to your daughter? Are you crazy? 237 00:12:43,040 --> 00:12:43,240 Speaker 4: Yeah? 238 00:12:43,360 --> 00:12:44,800 Speaker 3: That's how Does that makes sense? 239 00:12:45,000 --> 00:12:49,920 Speaker 4: You find out your child not normal? 240 00:12:50,320 --> 00:12:50,640 Speaker 3: All right? 241 00:12:50,679 --> 00:12:53,440 Speaker 1: Post your comments on today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey 242 00:12:53,559 --> 00:12:56,959 Speaker 1: FM on Instagram and on Facebook, and check out the 243 00:12:56,960 --> 00:13:01,000 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter podcast on the free iHeart Radio app. You 244 00:13:01,080 --> 00:13:04,120 Speaker 1: can download it right now. Coming up at forty six 245 00:13:04,160 --> 00:13:07,280 Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, Nephew Tommy is in for Junior 246 00:13:07,320 --> 00:13:08,160 Speaker 1: and Sports talk. 247 00:13:08,480 --> 00:13:12,720 Speaker 3: Right after this. You're listening Save Harvey Morning Show