WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classic: Second Chance Scott 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:02.840 Ay, you found the Second Date podcast. Thank you so much. 0:00:03.800 --> 0:00:05.040 Finally, it's pretty easy. 0:00:05.080 --> 0:00:08.280 Actually, thanks for being here, Hose. I love it. 0:00:08.320 --> 0:00:08.720 I love it. 0:00:08.760 --> 0:00:11.680 And hey, just a reminder, if you want to endure 0:00:11.840 --> 0:00:14.440 or punish yourself for forty five more minutes, we've got 0:00:14.440 --> 0:00:17.439 a full show, whole hour long. I dare you to 0:00:17.520 --> 0:00:20.400 try it the Brook and Jeffrey Feed. But for now 0:00:20.440 --> 0:00:23.400 we'll get into some questionable relationship advice. 0:00:24.960 --> 0:00:26.880 I think people get a lot of credit for all 0:00:26.920 --> 0:00:30.200 the good things that they do, but should don't we 0:00:30.280 --> 0:00:33.680 also deserve credit for the bad things that we didn't do. 0:00:35.240 --> 0:00:37.040 Jay I agree. 0:00:36.800 --> 0:00:39.680 I definitely think so. Because one of our listeners went 0:00:39.720 --> 0:00:42.200 on a beach date with a beautiful woman and you're 0:00:42.200 --> 0:00:45.400 gonna hear the one thing he did not do. 0:00:45.640 --> 0:00:46.879 Oh, we're gonna aplaud him for it. 0:00:47.200 --> 0:00:49.560 Well, he deserves kudos for that, we're still gonna judge 0:00:49.600 --> 0:00:52.319 him for even thinking it. In fact, our audience might 0:00:52.360 --> 0:00:54.920 freak out once they hear what it was. But bottom line, 0:00:54.960 --> 0:00:56.240 he did not do it. 0:00:56.400 --> 0:00:58.400 Okay, that makes it feel like he did. Jeffrey, you 0:00:58.480 --> 0:00:59.200 keep saying that. 0:00:59.160 --> 0:01:01.520 Promise you he did, and you can be the judge 0:01:01.560 --> 0:01:04.399 when you hear it. In your second Date update next. 0:01:04.200 --> 0:01:07.039 Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Update. 0:01:08.240 --> 0:01:11.040 Brook, do you believe people deserve second chances? 0:01:11.480 --> 0:01:13.039 Yeah? Why do you think I'd be here with you 0:01:13.080 --> 0:01:13.639 if I didn't? 0:01:15.680 --> 0:01:16.319 Does that mean. 0:01:17.800 --> 0:01:18.399 Scond chance? 0:01:19.560 --> 0:01:23.040 Okay, I don't know what I'm serious though. If somebody 0:01:23.040 --> 0:01:25.880 makes a mistake, are you willing to let bygones be 0:01:26.040 --> 0:01:27.520 bygones and give him a fair shake? 0:01:27.720 --> 0:01:30.200 Yeah? I mean especially if there's like an apology, you know, 0:01:30.400 --> 0:01:32.520 like if you talk things out. I think you can 0:01:32.560 --> 0:01:33.440 always work through. 0:01:33.280 --> 0:01:36.000 Something is amazing. We have a return caller on the 0:01:36.040 --> 0:01:38.520 phone today named Scott, who you were not too happy 0:01:38.560 --> 0:01:39.520 with the last time he. 0:01:39.520 --> 0:01:40.240 Was on this set. 0:01:40.680 --> 0:01:42.000 If you have an apology ready. 0:01:41.840 --> 0:01:44.400 Because he put a little blue pill into his own 0:01:44.480 --> 0:01:47.320 drink at the dinner table and you use the word 0:01:47.480 --> 0:01:50.600 creep to describe him, So maybe we need to start 0:01:50.640 --> 0:01:54.240 with an apology from Brook to Scott. Here, go ahead, Broke, 0:01:55.400 --> 0:01:59.440 you said you believed in second chances especially here's. 0:01:58.840 --> 0:02:01.440 My question, have you no? Yes? 0:02:01.680 --> 0:02:02.400 Yes? Yes? 0:02:02.560 --> 0:02:06.480 Commuification. I am not apologizing it. Yeah, that's not gonna happen. 0:02:06.960 --> 0:02:10.480 But what will happen is if you have stopped sneaking 0:02:10.919 --> 0:02:12.880 those pills into your drink at first. 0:02:12.760 --> 0:02:15.080 Date, your own self drink. 0:02:17.000 --> 0:02:18.040 Still not cool, Jeff? 0:02:18.080 --> 0:02:20.200 Okay, have you changed your ways? Scott? 0:02:20.480 --> 0:02:22.480 You know, I think I've gotten a lot better since 0:02:22.480 --> 0:02:23.560 the last time we talked. 0:02:23.800 --> 0:02:26.440 Okay, I really do. So now does he get the 0:02:26.480 --> 0:02:30.040 apology for what he was big enough to look past 0:02:30.160 --> 0:02:32.160 all the mean things that we called him on the 0:02:32.200 --> 0:02:35.560 show and give us another chance? I think we should 0:02:35.560 --> 0:02:39.760 give him another chance with his dating life here. So okay, Well, 0:02:41.160 --> 0:02:43.280 a little bit of a rough room, but welcome back. 0:02:43.880 --> 0:02:47.280 Yeah, should leave, man, You're good. 0:02:47.360 --> 0:02:48.200 I think you should. 0:02:48.320 --> 0:02:48.639 Okay. 0:02:48.840 --> 0:02:52.040 Well, so apparently you've reached out because there's a new 0:02:52.080 --> 0:02:53.080 woman that you met. 0:02:53.720 --> 0:02:55.440 Yeah. Yeah, her name's Mandy. 0:02:55.600 --> 0:02:58.639 Okay, okay, and how did you How did you meet Mandy? 0:02:59.400 --> 0:03:02.800 I was spping at a hardware store. She comes up 0:03:02.840 --> 0:03:05.240 to me and asked me about like the stuff I'm 0:03:05.280 --> 0:03:10.040 looking at, like she needs help. Maybe I looked like 0:03:10.080 --> 0:03:13.640 I was dressed like I worked there or something, or maybe. 0:03:14.120 --> 0:03:14.800 Just being a guy. 0:03:14.960 --> 0:03:17.280 I'm sorry. If you're wearing a polo shirt in one 0:03:17.320 --> 0:03:19.040 of those stories you automatically fake. 0:03:19.880 --> 0:03:22.079 Yeah, I was wearing an orange and white polo shirt. 0:03:23.639 --> 0:03:25.400 Well, this is I mean it's given you the perfect 0:03:25.480 --> 0:03:28.160 chance to talk to her. So what do you do? Well? 0:03:28.240 --> 0:03:30.320 You know, I thought she was cute, and I was like, look, 0:03:30.360 --> 0:03:33.880 I don't know how it works. I'm sorry, I barely 0:03:33.919 --> 0:03:37.640 know what I'm looking at here that it's good. But 0:03:38.160 --> 0:03:39.960 I thought she was cute and I told her that, 0:03:40.040 --> 0:03:41.360 and I asked her if she would go out. 0:03:41.480 --> 0:03:45.560 She said, yeah, wow, that was really quick. So did 0:03:45.600 --> 0:03:47.200 you end up seeing her for an actual date? 0:03:47.760 --> 0:03:51.480 Yeah? We did, and I really wanted to avoid doing 0:03:51.520 --> 0:03:52.400 something stupid. 0:03:52.680 --> 0:03:56.360 Okay, that should always be good. That is such a 0:03:56.360 --> 0:03:57.800 good lesson to take from this show. 0:03:57.960 --> 0:03:59.240 Yeah, so what was the date? 0:03:59.360 --> 0:03:59.440 Like? 0:04:00.040 --> 0:04:00.840 We went to the beach? 0:04:01.320 --> 0:04:02.960 Uh huh oh interesting? 0:04:03.560 --> 0:04:05.560 Yeah, so we were like hanging out. We're just like 0:04:05.600 --> 0:04:10.480 people watching, and I thought it would be funny if 0:04:10.480 --> 0:04:12.920 we were like started to rate the women who walked by. 0:04:13.280 --> 0:04:15.640 Oh god, I didn't. 0:04:15.880 --> 0:04:16.719 You didn't do that. 0:04:17.120 --> 0:04:17.640 I didn't do it. 0:04:17.640 --> 0:04:19.800 Okay, you had the thought, but you didn't follow through 0:04:19.880 --> 0:04:20.160 with it. 0:04:20.320 --> 0:04:22.240 You know, I want you guys to know all the 0:04:22.320 --> 0:04:23.600 bad ideas I didn't do. 0:04:26.240 --> 0:04:28.600 This is gross, This is exactly what we wanted from 0:04:28.839 --> 0:04:31.479 hard for your thoughts. 0:04:31.640 --> 0:04:34.920 Okay, a worse idea that you had than that. 0:04:35.120 --> 0:04:36.080 What else didn't you do? 0:04:37.080 --> 0:04:39.680 All right? So, like the sun started to set and 0:04:39.720 --> 0:04:42.040 I brought my camera. I like to take pictures and stuff, 0:04:42.520 --> 0:04:47.479 and I started to photograph the sunset. Okay, okay, what 0:04:47.600 --> 0:04:49.919 I wanted to do was ask for a model for me. 0:04:50.320 --> 0:04:51.039 Didn't do that? 0:04:51.440 --> 0:04:52.159 Oh you didn't. 0:04:52.400 --> 0:04:55.080 Okay, it's not too bad. I mean some women would 0:04:55.120 --> 0:04:56.880 be flattered by picture. 0:04:58.880 --> 0:05:01.920 Yes, some would be offended that you weren't asking them 0:05:01.920 --> 0:05:05.520 to model. Hey, get out of my frame. Trying to 0:05:05.520 --> 0:05:06.279 capture the sunset. 0:05:06.320 --> 0:05:08.200 Don't make me get more in my head. I tried 0:05:08.240 --> 0:05:08.800 to do my best. 0:05:10.440 --> 0:05:12.719 Yeah, that was a good thing. Anything else. 0:05:12.839 --> 0:05:15.599 I also didn't tell her about the camera because like, 0:05:15.680 --> 0:05:17.599 I'm a big camera nerd, and I was like, I 0:05:17.640 --> 0:05:20.159 can go on for days about the text specs of 0:05:20.200 --> 0:05:20.720 the camera. 0:05:21.960 --> 0:05:23.960 Camera spet Alexis are not hot. 0:05:24.320 --> 0:05:24.800 I don't know. 0:05:26.200 --> 0:05:27.120 You don't know what to do. 0:05:28.560 --> 0:05:34.720 Just talking about the different of the camera. That was 0:05:34.760 --> 0:05:36.880 a good choice. Don't tell her about the details of 0:05:36.920 --> 0:05:37.839 your camera. Good call. 0:05:38.120 --> 0:05:42.560 Yeah, I for some reason kept thinking about gas prices. 0:05:42.760 --> 0:05:43.640 Didn't bring that up. 0:05:43.800 --> 0:05:44.920 Are you focused on the date? 0:05:46.200 --> 0:05:47.360 Did you talk much? 0:05:47.440 --> 0:05:47.600 Yeah? 0:05:47.640 --> 0:05:48.600 What did you talk about? 0:05:48.680 --> 0:05:50.960 What did you do well? 0:05:51.000 --> 0:05:55.160 I mean we talked about like our recent dating history. 0:05:55.920 --> 0:05:57.600 I've been on a lot of dates. She's only been 0:05:57.640 --> 0:05:59.000 on one lately. 0:06:00.080 --> 0:06:02.520 Oh do you think did that rubb her the wrong 0:06:02.520 --> 0:06:03.000 way at all? 0:06:03.240 --> 0:06:06.080 Did you notice once I knew that she hadn't been 0:06:06.120 --> 0:06:08.080 on as many dates, I sort of backed off and 0:06:08.120 --> 0:06:09.440 didn't like go into detail. 0:06:09.520 --> 0:06:11.360 Okay, good, Yeah, you don't want to sound that. 0:06:11.640 --> 0:06:13.400 I didn't tell her that I was on the radio 0:06:13.760 --> 0:06:15.080 and what I was on. 0:06:15.040 --> 0:06:17.240 The radio for for your last one. 0:06:17.360 --> 0:06:19.480 You're making a lot of good decisions here. So how 0:06:19.480 --> 0:06:21.640 do you end this night with? Mandy? 0:06:22.279 --> 0:06:25.279 Walked her, actually she walked me to my car first. 0:06:25.320 --> 0:06:29.159 I guess we gave each other a hug. Okay, I 0:06:29.279 --> 0:06:31.920 consider taking out the guitar from my trunk to play 0:06:31.920 --> 0:06:36.400 a song, but I did not do it. Did I 0:06:36.480 --> 0:06:38.840 learned my lesson from Barbie? You don't do that? But 0:06:39.000 --> 0:06:40.280 I don't like that. 0:06:40.279 --> 0:06:41.640 That's it, all right? 0:06:41.720 --> 0:06:43.280 Maybe not till like the third or fourth day. 0:06:43.520 --> 0:06:46.279 Then you pull out your Matchbox twenty soundstrack. 0:06:46.279 --> 0:06:50.080 H overall, that sounds pretty solid. What's happened since then? 0:06:50.560 --> 0:06:50.760 You know? 0:06:50.839 --> 0:06:53.560 I thought it went well too, But nothing radio silence. 0:06:53.560 --> 0:06:54.280 I haven't heard a thing. 0:06:54.800 --> 0:06:57.760 Who interesting. I wonder if you were just like two 0:06:57.839 --> 0:06:59.560 up in your head and you were able to actually 0:06:59.560 --> 0:07:01.520 be your self, you know, like I feel like the 0:07:01.560 --> 0:07:04.160 whole time you're telling yourself what not to do, not 0:07:04.200 --> 0:07:05.040 how great you are. 0:07:05.880 --> 0:07:07.640 Yeah, maybe you should bust out those blue pills again 0:07:07.680 --> 0:07:10.120 and see how it goes. It's back on board. 0:07:10.280 --> 0:07:12.480 Okay, Well, you know, you guys made me think that 0:07:12.520 --> 0:07:13.600 maybe I'm not so great. 0:07:13.680 --> 0:07:18.080 So no, we didn't think that. No, I didn't mean 0:07:18.120 --> 0:07:19.480 that anyone made me good. 0:07:19.720 --> 0:07:21.880 I believe was tossed her out. 0:07:22.920 --> 0:07:26.400 Well it was bad. Well, there's a bad assumption to 0:07:26.480 --> 0:07:27.600 make on a first date. 0:07:28.360 --> 0:07:31.480 As he redeemed himself from the creep label in this date. 0:07:31.640 --> 0:07:35.520 So far. Yeah, we haven't talked to her yet, Jeffrey. 0:07:35.680 --> 0:07:38.280 All right, so so far it's pretty good. We're going 0:07:38.360 --> 0:07:39.760 to get the rest of the story when we call 0:07:39.840 --> 0:07:41.960 Mandy for you and try and get you your second 0:07:42.000 --> 0:07:45.080 date update right after this. Okay, sounds good. All right, 0:07:45.120 --> 0:07:45.800 don't move you creep. 0:07:45.840 --> 0:07:49.200 Here we go Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Second 0:07:49.280 --> 0:07:50.080 date updates. 0:07:51.000 --> 0:07:52.800 If you missed the first part of the second date 0:07:53.040 --> 0:07:55.760 we got a returning listener to the show, Scott back 0:07:55.800 --> 0:07:58.400 with Us He went down a list of things he 0:07:58.560 --> 0:08:02.800 considered but did not do on his date with Mandy, 0:08:03.040 --> 0:08:06.000 including he didn't ask her to rate the other women 0:08:06.120 --> 0:08:08.160 on the beach on a scale of one to ten. 0:08:08.520 --> 0:08:12.040 He thought about it, but to his credit, didn't do it. 0:08:12.320 --> 0:08:14.480 You did credit when you think about it. 0:08:14.520 --> 0:08:19.840 Still, I guess we're taking baby steps with Scott here. Also, 0:08:20.280 --> 0:08:22.520 when they went to the parking lot for their goodbye hug, 0:08:22.600 --> 0:08:25.119 he considered taking out his guitar for a little John 0:08:25.160 --> 0:08:29.000 Mayer serenade, but said no, Brooke wouldn't like me to 0:08:29.080 --> 0:08:29.360 do that. 0:08:30.240 --> 0:08:31.880 I actually probably would have felt for that if I 0:08:31.920 --> 0:08:33.959 was the one on the date for him. Well, I'm sorry, 0:08:33.960 --> 0:08:36.679 I'm a sucker for a guitar was a stereotype. 0:08:36.679 --> 0:08:39.679 I really am. 0:08:39.920 --> 0:08:43.079 Well, so, Scott. If we call her and she says 0:08:43.120 --> 0:08:46.400 that you whipped it out, I'm gonna be slightly disappointed, Hope, 0:08:46.880 --> 0:08:49.480 because I thought you made significant growth here. And that's 0:08:49.640 --> 0:08:52.200 not a little blue pill joke. That's just an honest 0:08:52.240 --> 0:08:53.200 observation of you. 0:08:53.240 --> 0:08:57.360 I want to hear. No, there is something wrong in 0:08:57.360 --> 0:09:01.960 my head. It's really funny saying that. You're saying with 0:09:02.080 --> 0:09:03.040 a clean thought. 0:09:03.520 --> 0:09:07.800 That's you projecting what you want to hear. That has 0:09:07.840 --> 0:09:10.920 nothing to do with what I'm saying. I'm saying that 0:09:11.160 --> 0:09:13.480 Scott has turned a page. The only weird part is 0:09:13.480 --> 0:09:16.400 his date, Mandy has completely ghosted afterwards. So let's find 0:09:16.440 --> 0:09:18.520 out what that's about. Scott. You ready to do this, 0:09:19.400 --> 0:09:20.000 Let's do it. 0:09:20.080 --> 0:09:22.280 Look at that you did the whole first half not 0:09:22.360 --> 0:09:24.960 getting shamed for anything, Scott. I think this is already 0:09:25.000 --> 0:09:27.520 a good sign of how this him. 0:09:28.000 --> 0:09:29.280 He's only said three words. 0:09:29.280 --> 0:09:33.559 If anything, Brooke is the creepy pervert who's thinking bad thoughts. 0:09:33.600 --> 0:09:34.280 So there we go. 0:09:35.600 --> 0:09:39.360 I keep the thoughts inside. Jack just said that that's 0:09:39.360 --> 0:09:39.680 a win. 0:09:39.880 --> 0:09:41.680 You said. Okay, there we go. We're all in the 0:09:41.720 --> 0:09:42.319 winning page. 0:09:42.360 --> 0:09:42.520 Here. 0:09:42.600 --> 0:09:45.120 Let's call Mandy. Now, let's do it. Here we go. 0:09:54.960 --> 0:09:55.280 Hello. 0:09:56.000 --> 0:10:00.200 Hi is this Mandy? Yes speaking Hey Mandy. This is 0:10:00.200 --> 0:10:02.440 a radio show. My name is Jeff and I'm part 0:10:02.480 --> 0:10:03.600 of Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:10:04.679 --> 0:10:05.880 Sorry you're what? 0:10:06.800 --> 0:10:07.959 Sorry? Did I say that? Weird? 0:10:08.360 --> 0:10:08.920 Hey Mandy? 0:10:09.640 --> 0:10:12.960 Hey, there's a random person in the background who just 0:10:12.960 --> 0:10:14.360 said hi to you on the vote. 0:10:15.480 --> 0:10:16.360 I told her who I was. 0:10:16.440 --> 0:10:19.560 I guess technically we work together, but yeah, that's Brooke. 0:10:19.880 --> 0:10:22.040 I'm Jeff and you're on Brook and Jeffrey in the 0:10:22.080 --> 0:10:23.640 morning with a whole room full of people. 0:10:23.800 --> 0:10:25.640 Yeah, Alexis are here too. 0:10:25.760 --> 0:10:29.959 Hell, what what are you calling me about? 0:10:31.040 --> 0:10:33.760 Okay, you get right to it. So, uh, this is 0:10:33.760 --> 0:10:35.880 called a second date update. It's a segment where we 0:10:35.920 --> 0:10:38.760 try to help our listeners reconnect with somebody after they've 0:10:38.800 --> 0:10:41.640 gone out with them once. And you went out with 0:10:41.679 --> 0:10:44.600 a guy who listens to our show name Scott. 0:10:45.320 --> 0:10:49.440 Yeah, so what Oh well. 0:10:50.000 --> 0:10:52.439 Well, so Scott had a really good time at the 0:10:52.480 --> 0:10:54.400 beach with you, and he was hoping that. 0:10:54.360 --> 0:10:57.199 It wasn't a nice time. It was. It was fun. 0:10:57.320 --> 0:10:59.200 I won't speak badly on anybody. 0:10:59.240 --> 0:11:01.760 It was a it was an okay, well, if you 0:11:01.880 --> 0:11:03.880 had a good time. We're just trying to help Scott 0:11:03.960 --> 0:11:06.400 figure out why there hasn't been a second date. 0:11:06.920 --> 0:11:08.120 Yeah, he wants to see you again. 0:11:08.360 --> 0:11:12.640 The way that he described your communication afterwards was radio silent, which. 0:11:12.559 --> 0:11:14.760 We appreciate because we want to keep the word radio relevant. 0:11:15.920 --> 0:11:19.160 But we understand Scott doesn't like that. So is there 0:11:19.200 --> 0:11:19.640 a reason? 0:11:20.559 --> 0:11:23.400 Well, yeah, I mean I feel like it was pretty obvious. 0:11:23.840 --> 0:11:24.839 It was just a. 0:11:24.880 --> 0:11:27.840 Complete turn off for me that he had been on 0:11:27.880 --> 0:11:31.199 eight dates already. This year, that he's just kind of 0:11:31.280 --> 0:11:34.680 juggling all these women, whereas I'm in a different place. 0:11:34.720 --> 0:11:37.400 I've only been on one date, Like it's just felt 0:11:37.400 --> 0:11:38.120 like different life. 0:11:38.160 --> 0:11:42.040 Arenas he's been on eight dates and that's too many 0:11:42.080 --> 0:11:42.360 for you. 0:11:43.200 --> 0:11:45.200 Yeah, I mean he's just what if he have like 0:11:45.240 --> 0:11:46.199 a little rollo. 0:11:46.000 --> 0:11:49.920 Deck, that's not like you could still count that on 0:11:49.960 --> 0:11:51.600 two hands. I think that's fine. 0:11:52.880 --> 0:11:55.959 I don't know. I just I'm just more traditional person. 0:11:56.200 --> 0:11:59.080 I'm not into the short term casual dating that a 0:11:59.120 --> 0:12:01.680 lot of guys are looking to hook up nowadays. I'm 0:12:01.679 --> 0:12:03.120 not looking for that. 0:12:03.400 --> 0:12:04.559 But do you know that he even hooked up with 0:12:04.600 --> 0:12:06.079 all those people or was it just like a it 0:12:06.120 --> 0:12:06.719 could just be bad. 0:12:06.800 --> 0:12:09.520 D doesn't even mean did Sam? 0:12:10.440 --> 0:12:12.120 He had a look in his eyes. He kind of 0:12:12.160 --> 0:12:17.400 implied it. I wasn't going to ask you, guys, we could. 0:12:17.280 --> 0:12:19.600 Guarantee that one of those dates he did not hook up. 0:12:20.040 --> 0:12:23.880 Yeah, we got into his dating history before, and yeah, 0:12:24.080 --> 0:12:27.160 it hasn't worked out for him. But you're saying he's 0:12:27.160 --> 0:12:28.679 coming across like a player to you. 0:12:29.400 --> 0:12:31.679 Yeah, And my belief is that if you spend an 0:12:31.760 --> 0:12:34.640 hour or two with somebody, you know what you need 0:12:34.679 --> 0:12:36.600 to know. You know, if it's right and if you 0:12:36.640 --> 0:12:38.719 want to make things a little more serious. So if 0:12:38.720 --> 0:12:43.640 he was willing to commit to something a little more serious, 0:12:43.679 --> 0:12:46.200 I would say yes. But it sounds like he dates 0:12:46.240 --> 0:12:48.400 a lot and he's not looking for something like that. 0:12:48.800 --> 0:12:50.920 Honestly, we don't know, like what the state of his 0:12:51.040 --> 0:12:53.600 current dating situation is. All we know is that he 0:12:53.679 --> 0:12:56.480 reached out to us to get another date, specifically with you. 0:12:57.200 --> 0:13:00.440 So that should tell you something and we should probably 0:13:00.520 --> 0:13:02.400 ask him about it if he does have a giant 0:13:02.440 --> 0:13:04.320 roster of girls that he's seeing. Because he is on 0:13:04.400 --> 0:13:07.720 the phone right now. 0:13:06.120 --> 0:13:07.880 What can I get a handoff over here? 0:13:08.760 --> 0:13:11.240 He's listening to this and wants to talk to you. 0:13:11.320 --> 0:13:14.319 Yeah, hey man, you're going Hi. 0:13:17.920 --> 0:13:18.920 Really turned it on. 0:13:23.200 --> 0:13:27.840 I just wasn't expecting to be having this conversation in 0:13:27.880 --> 0:13:28.600 this format. 0:13:31.760 --> 0:13:33.600 Yeah. I'm just not sure what I did wrong. You 0:13:33.640 --> 0:13:34.520 just think I'm a player? 0:13:35.600 --> 0:13:38.840 Yeah, I'm not younger. 0:13:39.240 --> 0:13:42.320 I mean, I'm definitely dating in hopes to meet someone 0:13:42.559 --> 0:13:43.120 to be with. 0:13:43.400 --> 0:13:47.880 Yeah, okay, okay, you're not just doing it for the sport. Yeah, yeah, 0:13:48.120 --> 0:13:48.680 just for fun. 0:13:48.720 --> 0:13:50.840 You can date for fun. That's okay too. 0:13:50.960 --> 0:13:53.559 I didn't realize that I had to commit after an hour. 0:13:55.240 --> 0:13:57.720 It sounds like, Scott, the only way that Mandy is 0:13:57.720 --> 0:14:00.160 willing to even consider going out with you is if 0:14:00.200 --> 0:14:03.400 you agree to, like right now, not see anybody else, 0:14:03.440 --> 0:14:06.280 and give it one hundred percent with her. Is that 0:14:06.320 --> 0:14:06.920 something that's. 0:14:06.800 --> 0:14:09.480 A big assumption? Jeff, Are you sure that's what she's saying? 0:14:09.720 --> 0:14:12.000 That's what I'm hearing? Is that right, Mandy? 0:14:13.480 --> 0:14:16.200 Yeah? I had a feeling when I was on the date. 0:14:16.400 --> 0:14:18.000 I don't know if that was mutual. 0:14:18.240 --> 0:14:19.040 What was the feeling? 0:14:19.920 --> 0:14:22.400 Just that I could see myself with this person. I 0:14:22.440 --> 0:14:24.520 could see this progressing into something real. 0:14:24.840 --> 0:14:26.560 So okay, see chemistry. 0:14:26.600 --> 0:14:28.960 You just thought, hey, he's in this phase of dating 0:14:29.040 --> 0:14:31.160 and you're not in that phase of dating. Right. 0:14:31.520 --> 0:14:33.400 I'm sorry, and I'm not looking to get her. 0:14:33.400 --> 0:14:34.680 So quick to give up on it. 0:14:35.200 --> 0:14:35.520 I know. 0:14:35.600 --> 0:14:37.800 Well, you were turned off because you thought that he's 0:14:37.840 --> 0:14:39.840 dating lots and lots and lots of women all right now. 0:14:39.880 --> 0:14:42.280 You don't want to be amongst a huge list of women. 0:14:43.000 --> 0:14:45.040 Yeah, if it's me, it's me, okay. 0:14:45.080 --> 0:14:47.040 So, Scott, is that something that you're even willing to 0:14:47.080 --> 0:14:49.840 consider dropping any other girl that you're talking to right 0:14:49.840 --> 0:14:51.560 now and only focusing on Mandy? 0:14:51.840 --> 0:14:52.680 To clear the roster. 0:14:52.800 --> 0:14:56.280 Bro I mean, I'm not talking to anybody else right now. 0:14:56.560 --> 0:14:57.440 Good answer? 0:14:57.600 --> 0:15:01.600 Okay, nice, it was already only talking to you. 0:15:01.880 --> 0:15:03.560 Maybe we should just go right to this then and 0:15:03.600 --> 0:15:06.560 ask Mandy, would you consider going out with Scott again? 0:15:06.880 --> 0:15:09.000 If he says right now he is willing to commit 0:15:09.080 --> 0:15:13.520 one hundred percent to you? Note anybody else is scared 0:15:13.640 --> 0:15:18.760 basically agree to enter a relationship on this not potentially 0:15:19.000 --> 0:15:21.280 you have to give in right now, one hundred percent, 0:15:21.400 --> 0:15:23.840 give yourself to her. No, I'm trying to have am 0:15:23.840 --> 0:15:25.440 I off, Mandy. I'm sorry. 0:15:25.800 --> 0:15:27.560 I feel like you're a little laughing at me. 0:15:27.640 --> 0:15:29.600 But like that is what I'd like. 0:15:30.040 --> 0:15:33.400 Okay, Well, Scott, the terms have been laid out. What 0:15:33.400 --> 0:15:33.960 do you say? 0:15:34.720 --> 0:15:36.080 Why not let's give it a shot? 0:15:37.280 --> 0:15:37.720 Why not? 0:15:38.000 --> 0:15:40.480 Yeah? I mean I think why not? He has no 0:15:40.520 --> 0:15:41.400 other options right now? 0:15:44.000 --> 0:15:44.800 Does anybody? 0:15:45.160 --> 0:15:49.040 Congratulations? Scott has agreed to commit one hundred percent to you. 0:15:49.480 --> 0:15:53.760 Yeah, look, Mandy, I think you're great. I usually don't 0:15:53.800 --> 0:15:56.760 commit this early, but I honestly I want to spend 0:15:56.760 --> 0:16:00.000 more time with you. 0:15:57.840 --> 0:16:01.280 Oh, Mandy, isn't that nice? 0:16:01.520 --> 0:16:01.880 Excited? 0:16:03.160 --> 0:16:07.560 I'm glad you said that you were really open and 0:16:08.120 --> 0:16:10.320 vulnerable on your ends, So I'm going to be that 0:16:10.400 --> 0:16:15.760 way with you that technically i'm engaged. 0:16:16.360 --> 0:16:18.800 Wait what, my god, that's why. 0:16:18.680 --> 0:16:20.680 I need the commitment. That's why I need the band, 0:16:21.200 --> 0:16:22.760 so I plan to end it with him. 0:16:25.120 --> 0:16:27.359 Hold on, what was your explanation why? 0:16:27.720 --> 0:16:30.120 Like, that's why I need to know if he's in 0:16:30.120 --> 0:16:31.280 this or not with me. 0:16:31.840 --> 0:16:37.000 So if you break your marriage, engage because she needs 0:16:37.040 --> 0:16:39.480 to know if the backup plan is sad before she 0:16:39.680 --> 0:16:42.160 dumps the Curry Guys, what's happening? 0:16:42.680 --> 0:16:43.400 She's crazy? 0:16:44.000 --> 0:16:47.040 Okay, but Scott, you don't need to listen to them. 0:16:47.400 --> 0:16:50.120 I'm just really excited to spend time with you. 0:16:50.120 --> 0:16:51.440 No, we're not hanging out. 0:16:51.520 --> 0:16:53.600 Okay maybe Scott, Now you should tell you wanted to 0:16:53.680 --> 0:16:55.240 rate all the other women on the beach. 0:16:55.040 --> 0:16:55.440 On your. 0:16:57.160 --> 0:17:00.960 I didn't go okay, you wanted to Okay. 0:17:01.040 --> 0:17:02.880 Well, the good news is, Scott, at the end of 0:17:02.880 --> 0:17:04.920 the day, the big takeaway you didn't do anything wrong. 0:17:05.960 --> 0:17:09.920 You did nothing wrong. He just ended up with a strict, controlling, 0:17:09.960 --> 0:17:11.240 pre engaged kind of nut job. 0:17:11.359 --> 0:17:13.320 So congratulate Engage, very engaged. 0:17:16.200 --> 0:17:17.200 You have fun you too. 0:17:17.359 --> 0:17:19.399