Speaker 1: Ay, you found the Second Date podcast. Thank you so much.
Speaker 2: Finally, it's pretty easy.
Speaker 1: Actually, thanks for being here, Hose. I love it.
Speaker 3: I love it.
Speaker 1: And hey, just a reminder, if you want to endure
Speaker 1: or punish yourself for forty five more minutes, we've got
Speaker 1: a full show, whole hour long. I dare you to
Speaker 1: try it the Brook and Jeffrey Feed. But for now
Speaker 1: we'll get into some questionable relationship advice.
Speaker 3: I think people get a lot of credit for all
Speaker 3: the good things that they do, but should don't we
Speaker 3: also deserve credit for the bad things that we didn't do.
Speaker 2: Jay I agree.
Speaker 3: I definitely think so. Because one of our listeners went
Speaker 3: on a beach date with a beautiful woman and you're
Speaker 3: gonna hear the one thing he did not do.
Speaker 1: Oh, we're gonna aplaud him for it.
Speaker 3: Well, he deserves kudos for that, we're still gonna judge
Speaker 3: him for even thinking it. In fact, our audience might
Speaker 3: freak out once they hear what it was. But bottom line,
Speaker 3: he did not do it.
Speaker 1: Okay, that makes it feel like he did. Jeffrey, you
Speaker 1: keep saying that.
Speaker 3: Promise you he did, and you can be the judge
Speaker 3: when you hear it. In your second Date update next.
Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Update.
Speaker 3: Brook, do you believe people deserve second chances?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Why do you think I'd be here with you
Speaker 1: if I didn't?
Speaker 3: Does that mean.
Speaker 1: Scond chance?
Speaker 3: Okay, I don't know what I'm serious though. If somebody
Speaker 3: makes a mistake, are you willing to let bygones be
Speaker 3: bygones and give him a fair shake?
Speaker 1: Yeah? I mean especially if there's like an apology, you know,
Speaker 1: like if you talk things out. I think you can
Speaker 1: always work through.
Speaker 3: Something is amazing. We have a return caller on the
Speaker 3: phone today named Scott, who you were not too happy
Speaker 3: with the last time he.
Speaker 1: Was on this set.
Speaker 2: If you have an apology ready.
Speaker 3: Because he put a little blue pill into his own
Speaker 3: drink at the dinner table and you use the word
Speaker 3: creep to describe him, So maybe we need to start
Speaker 3: with an apology from Brook to Scott. Here, go ahead, Broke,
Speaker 3: you said you believed in second chances especially here's.
Speaker 1: My question, have you no? Yes?
Speaker 4: Yes? Yes?
Speaker 1: Commuification. I am not apologizing it. Yeah, that's not gonna happen.
Speaker 1: But what will happen is if you have stopped sneaking
Speaker 1: those pills into your drink at first.
Speaker 3: Date, your own self drink.
Speaker 1: Still not cool, Jeff?
Speaker 3: Okay, have you changed your ways? Scott?
Speaker 5: You know, I think I've gotten a lot better since
Speaker 5: the last time we talked.
Speaker 3: Okay, I really do. So now does he get the
Speaker 3: apology for what he was big enough to look past
Speaker 3: all the mean things that we called him on the
Speaker 3: show and give us another chance? I think we should
Speaker 3: give him another chance with his dating life here. So okay, Well,
Speaker 3: a little bit of a rough room, but welcome back.
Speaker 5: Yeah, should leave, man, You're good.
Speaker 2: I think you should.
Speaker 5: Okay.
Speaker 3: Well, so apparently you've reached out because there's a new
Speaker 3: woman that you met.
Speaker 5: Yeah. Yeah, her name's Mandy.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, and how did you How did you meet Mandy?
Speaker 5: I was spping at a hardware store. She comes up
Speaker 5: to me and asked me about like the stuff I'm
Speaker 5: looking at, like she needs help. Maybe I looked like
Speaker 5: I was dressed like I worked there or something, or maybe.
Speaker 2: Just being a guy.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. If you're wearing a polo shirt in one
Speaker 1: of those stories you automatically fake.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I was wearing an orange and white polo shirt.
Speaker 3: Well, this is I mean it's given you the perfect
Speaker 3: chance to talk to her. So what do you do? Well?
Speaker 5: You know, I thought she was cute, and I was like, look,
Speaker 5: I don't know how it works. I'm sorry, I barely
Speaker 5: know what I'm looking at here that it's good. But
Speaker 5: I thought she was cute and I told her that,
Speaker 5: and I asked her if she would go out.
Speaker 3: She said, yeah, wow, that was really quick. So did
Speaker 3: you end up seeing her for an actual date?
Speaker 5: Yeah? We did, and I really wanted to avoid doing
Speaker 5: something stupid.
Speaker 1: Okay, that should always be good. That is such a
Speaker 1: good lesson to take from this show.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so what was the date?
Speaker 1: Like?
Speaker 5: We went to the beach?
Speaker 1: Uh huh oh interesting?
Speaker 5: Yeah, so we were like hanging out. We're just like
Speaker 5: people watching, and I thought it would be funny if
Speaker 5: we were like started to rate the women who walked by.
Speaker 5: Oh god, I didn't.
Speaker 3: You didn't do that.
Speaker 5: I didn't do it.
Speaker 3: Okay, you had the thought, but you didn't follow through
Speaker 3: with it.
Speaker 5: You know, I want you guys to know all the
Speaker 5: bad ideas I didn't do.
Speaker 3: This is gross, This is exactly what we wanted from
Speaker 3: hard for your thoughts.
Speaker 1: Okay, a worse idea that you had than that.
Speaker 3: What else didn't you do?
Speaker 5: All right? So, like the sun started to set and
Speaker 5: I brought my camera. I like to take pictures and stuff,
Speaker 5: and I started to photograph the sunset. Okay, okay, what
Speaker 5: I wanted to do was ask for a model for me.
Speaker 5: Didn't do that?
Speaker 3: Oh you didn't.
Speaker 1: Okay, it's not too bad. I mean some women would
Speaker 1: be flattered by picture.
Speaker 3: Yes, some would be offended that you weren't asking them
Speaker 3: to model. Hey, get out of my frame. Trying to
Speaker 3: capture the sunset.
Speaker 5: Don't make me get more in my head. I tried
Speaker 5: to do my best.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that was a good thing. Anything else.
Speaker 5: I also didn't tell her about the camera because like,
Speaker 5: I'm a big camera nerd, and I was like, I
Speaker 5: can go on for days about the text specs of
Speaker 5: the camera.
Speaker 3: Camera spet Alexis are not hot.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 2: You don't know what to do.
Speaker 3: Just talking about the different of the camera. That was
Speaker 3: a good choice. Don't tell her about the details of
Speaker 3: your camera. Good call.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I for some reason kept thinking about gas prices.
Speaker 5: Didn't bring that up.
Speaker 6: Are you focused on the date?
Speaker 1: Did you talk much?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: What did you talk about?
Speaker 1: What did you do well?
Speaker 5: I mean we talked about like our recent dating history.
Speaker 5: I've been on a lot of dates. She's only been
Speaker 5: on one lately.
Speaker 2: Oh do you think did that rubb her the wrong
Speaker 2: way at all?
Speaker 5: Did you notice once I knew that she hadn't been
Speaker 5: on as many dates, I sort of backed off and
Speaker 5: didn't like go into detail.
Speaker 2: Okay, good, Yeah, you don't want to sound that.
Speaker 5: I didn't tell her that I was on the radio
Speaker 5: and what I was on.
Speaker 1: The radio for for your last one.
Speaker 3: You're making a lot of good decisions here. So how
Speaker 3: do you end this night with? Mandy?
Speaker 5: Walked her, actually she walked me to my car first.
Speaker 5: I guess we gave each other a hug. Okay, I
Speaker 5: consider taking out the guitar from my trunk to play
Speaker 5: a song, but I did not do it. Did I
Speaker 5: learned my lesson from Barbie? You don't do that? But
Speaker 5: I don't like that.
Speaker 2: That's it, all right?
Speaker 3: Maybe not till like the third or fourth day.
Speaker 1: Then you pull out your Matchbox twenty soundstrack.
Speaker 3: H overall, that sounds pretty solid. What's happened since then?
Speaker 3: You know?
Speaker 5: I thought it went well too, But nothing radio silence.
Speaker 5: I haven't heard a thing.
Speaker 1: Who interesting. I wonder if you were just like two
Speaker 1: up in your head and you were able to actually
Speaker 1: be your self, you know, like I feel like the
Speaker 1: whole time you're telling yourself what not to do, not
Speaker 1: how great you are.
Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe you should bust out those blue pills again
Speaker 3: and see how it goes. It's back on board.
Speaker 5: Okay, Well, you know, you guys made me think that
Speaker 5: maybe I'm not so great.
Speaker 1: So no, we didn't think that. No, I didn't mean
Speaker 1: that anyone made me good.
Speaker 5: I believe was tossed her out.
Speaker 1: Well it was bad. Well, there's a bad assumption to
Speaker 1: make on a first date.
Speaker 3: As he redeemed himself from the creep label in this date.
Speaker 1: So far. Yeah, we haven't talked to her yet, Jeffrey.
Speaker 3: All right, so so far it's pretty good. We're going
Speaker 3: to get the rest of the story when we call
Speaker 3: Mandy for you and try and get you your second
Speaker 3: date update right after this. Okay, sounds good. All right,
Speaker 3: don't move you creep.
Speaker 1: Here we go Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Second
Speaker 1: date updates.
Speaker 3: If you missed the first part of the second date
Speaker 3: we got a returning listener to the show, Scott back
Speaker 3: with Us He went down a list of things he
Speaker 3: considered but did not do on his date with Mandy,
Speaker 3: including he didn't ask her to rate the other women
Speaker 3: on the beach on a scale of one to ten.
Speaker 3: He thought about it, but to his credit, didn't do it.
Speaker 1: You did credit when you think about it.
Speaker 3: Still, I guess we're taking baby steps with Scott here. Also,
Speaker 3: when they went to the parking lot for their goodbye hug,
Speaker 3: he considered taking out his guitar for a little John
Speaker 3: Mayer serenade, but said no, Brooke wouldn't like me to
Speaker 3: do that.
Speaker 1: I actually probably would have felt for that if I
Speaker 1: was the one on the date for him. Well, I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: I'm a sucker for a guitar was a stereotype.
Speaker 2: I really am.
Speaker 3: Well, so, Scott. If we call her and she says
Speaker 3: that you whipped it out, I'm gonna be slightly disappointed, Hope,
Speaker 3: because I thought you made significant growth here. And that's
Speaker 3: not a little blue pill joke. That's just an honest
Speaker 3: observation of you.
Speaker 1: I want to hear. No, there is something wrong in
Speaker 1: my head. It's really funny saying that. You're saying with
Speaker 1: a clean thought.
Speaker 3: That's you projecting what you want to hear. That has
Speaker 3: nothing to do with what I'm saying. I'm saying that
Speaker 3: Scott has turned a page. The only weird part is
Speaker 3: his date, Mandy has completely ghosted afterwards. So let's find
Speaker 3: out what that's about. Scott. You ready to do this,
Speaker 3: Let's do it.
Speaker 1: Look at that you did the whole first half not
Speaker 1: getting shamed for anything, Scott. I think this is already
Speaker 1: a good sign of how this him.
Speaker 2: He's only said three words.
Speaker 3: If anything, Brooke is the creepy pervert who's thinking bad thoughts.
Speaker 3: So there we go.
Speaker 1: I keep the thoughts inside. Jack just said that that's
Speaker 1: a win.
Speaker 3: You said. Okay, there we go. We're all in the
Speaker 3: winning page.
Speaker 4: Here.
Speaker 3: Let's call Mandy. Now, let's do it. Here we go.
Speaker 4: Hello.
Speaker 3: Hi is this Mandy? Yes speaking Hey Mandy. This is
Speaker 3: a radio show. My name is Jeff and I'm part
Speaker 3: of Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 4: Sorry you're what?
Speaker 3: Sorry? Did I say that? Weird?
Speaker 1: Hey Mandy?
Speaker 3: Hey, there's a random person in the background who just
Speaker 3: said hi to you on the vote.
Speaker 1: I told her who I was.
Speaker 3: I guess technically we work together, but yeah, that's Brooke.
Speaker 3: I'm Jeff and you're on Brook and Jeffrey in the
Speaker 3: morning with a whole room full of people.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Alexis are here too.
Speaker 4: Hell, what what are you calling me about?
Speaker 3: Okay, you get right to it. So, uh, this is
Speaker 3: called a second date update. It's a segment where we
Speaker 3: try to help our listeners reconnect with somebody after they've
Speaker 3: gone out with them once. And you went out with
Speaker 3: a guy who listens to our show name Scott.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so what Oh well.
Speaker 3: Well, so Scott had a really good time at the
Speaker 3: beach with you, and he was hoping that.
Speaker 4: It wasn't a nice time. It was. It was fun.
Speaker 4: I won't speak badly on anybody.
Speaker 3: It was a it was an okay, well, if you
Speaker 3: had a good time. We're just trying to help Scott
Speaker 3: figure out why there hasn't been a second date.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he wants to see you again.
Speaker 3: The way that he described your communication afterwards was radio silent, which.
Speaker 2: We appreciate because we want to keep the word radio relevant.
Speaker 3: But we understand Scott doesn't like that. So is there
Speaker 3: a reason?
Speaker 4: Well, yeah, I mean I feel like it was pretty obvious.
Speaker 5: It was just a.
Speaker 4: Complete turn off for me that he had been on
Speaker 4: eight dates already. This year, that he's just kind of
Speaker 4: juggling all these women, whereas I'm in a different place.
Speaker 4: I've only been on one date, Like it's just felt
Speaker 4: like different life.
Speaker 1: Arenas he's been on eight dates and that's too many
Speaker 1: for you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean he's just what if he have like
Speaker 4: a little rollo.
Speaker 1: Deck, that's not like you could still count that on
Speaker 1: two hands. I think that's fine.
Speaker 4: I don't know. I just I'm just more traditional person.
Speaker 4: I'm not into the short term casual dating that a
Speaker 4: lot of guys are looking to hook up nowadays. I'm
Speaker 4: not looking for that.
Speaker 6: But do you know that he even hooked up with
Speaker 6: all those people or was it just like a it
Speaker 6: could just be bad.
Speaker 2: D doesn't even mean did Sam?
Speaker 4: He had a look in his eyes. He kind of
Speaker 4: implied it. I wasn't going to ask you, guys, we could.
Speaker 1: Guarantee that one of those dates he did not hook up.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we got into his dating history before, and yeah,
Speaker 3: it hasn't worked out for him. But you're saying he's
Speaker 3: coming across like a player to you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, And my belief is that if you spend an
Speaker 4: hour or two with somebody, you know what you need
Speaker 4: to know. You know, if it's right and if you
Speaker 4: want to make things a little more serious. So if
Speaker 4: he was willing to commit to something a little more serious,
Speaker 4: I would say yes. But it sounds like he dates
Speaker 4: a lot and he's not looking for something like that.
Speaker 3: Honestly, we don't know, like what the state of his
Speaker 3: current dating situation is. All we know is that he
Speaker 3: reached out to us to get another date, specifically with you.
Speaker 3: So that should tell you something and we should probably
Speaker 3: ask him about it if he does have a giant
Speaker 3: roster of girls that he's seeing. Because he is on
Speaker 3: the phone right now.
Speaker 2: What can I get a handoff over here?
Speaker 3: He's listening to this and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 5: Yeah, hey man, you're going Hi.
Speaker 3: Really turned it on.
Speaker 4: I just wasn't expecting to be having this conversation in
Speaker 4: this format.
Speaker 5: Yeah. I'm just not sure what I did wrong. You
Speaker 5: just think I'm a player?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm not younger.
Speaker 5: I mean, I'm definitely dating in hopes to meet someone
Speaker 5: to be with.
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, okay, you're not just doing it for the sport. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 3: just for fun.
Speaker 1: You can date for fun. That's okay too.
Speaker 5: I didn't realize that I had to commit after an hour.
Speaker 3: It sounds like, Scott, the only way that Mandy is
Speaker 3: willing to even consider going out with you is if
Speaker 3: you agree to, like right now, not see anybody else,
Speaker 3: and give it one hundred percent with her. Is that
Speaker 3: something that's.
Speaker 1: A big assumption? Jeff, Are you sure that's what she's saying?
Speaker 3: That's what I'm hearing? Is that right, Mandy?
Speaker 4: Yeah? I had a feeling when I was on the date.
Speaker 4: I don't know if that was mutual.
Speaker 1: What was the feeling?
Speaker 4: Just that I could see myself with this person. I
Speaker 4: could see this progressing into something real.
Speaker 3: So okay, see chemistry.
Speaker 2: You just thought, hey, he's in this phase of dating
Speaker 2: and you're not in that phase of dating. Right.
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, and I'm not looking to get her.
Speaker 1: So quick to give up on it.
Speaker 4: I know.
Speaker 3: Well, you were turned off because you thought that he's
Speaker 3: dating lots and lots and lots of women all right now.
Speaker 3: You don't want to be amongst a huge list of women.
Speaker 4: Yeah, if it's me, it's me, okay.
Speaker 3: So, Scott, is that something that you're even willing to
Speaker 3: consider dropping any other girl that you're talking to right
Speaker 3: now and only focusing on Mandy?
Speaker 2: To clear the roster.
Speaker 5: Bro I mean, I'm not talking to anybody else right now.
Speaker 3: Good answer?
Speaker 1: Okay, nice, it was already only talking to you.
Speaker 3: Maybe we should just go right to this then and
Speaker 3: ask Mandy, would you consider going out with Scott again?
Speaker 3: If he says right now he is willing to commit
Speaker 3: one hundred percent to you? Note anybody else is scared
Speaker 3: basically agree to enter a relationship on this not potentially
Speaker 3: you have to give in right now, one hundred percent,
Speaker 3: give yourself to her. No, I'm trying to have am
Speaker 3: I off, Mandy. I'm sorry.
Speaker 4: I feel like you're a little laughing at me.
Speaker 5: But like that is what I'd like.
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, Scott, the terms have been laid out. What
Speaker 3: do you say?
Speaker 5: Why not let's give it a shot?
Speaker 2: Why not?
Speaker 1: Yeah? I mean I think why not? He has no
Speaker 1: other options right now?
Speaker 2: Does anybody?
Speaker 3: Congratulations? Scott has agreed to commit one hundred percent to you.
Speaker 5: Yeah, look, Mandy, I think you're great. I usually don't
Speaker 5: commit this early, but I honestly I want to spend
Speaker 5: more time with you.
Speaker 3: Oh, Mandy, isn't that nice?
Speaker 1: Excited?
Speaker 4: I'm glad you said that you were really open and
Speaker 4: vulnerable on your ends, So I'm going to be that
Speaker 4: way with you that technically i'm engaged.
Speaker 3: Wait what, my god, that's why.
Speaker 4: I need the commitment. That's why I need the band,
Speaker 4: so I plan to end it with him.
Speaker 1: Hold on, what was your explanation why?
Speaker 4: Like, that's why I need to know if he's in
Speaker 4: this or not with me.
Speaker 6: So if you break your marriage, engage because she needs
Speaker 6: to know if the backup plan is sad before she
Speaker 6: dumps the Curry Guys, what's happening?
Speaker 1: She's crazy?
Speaker 4: Okay, but Scott, you don't need to listen to them.
Speaker 4: I'm just really excited to spend time with you.
Speaker 5: No, we're not hanging out.
Speaker 3: Okay maybe Scott, Now you should tell you wanted to
Speaker 3: rate all the other women on the beach.
Speaker 1: On your.
Speaker 5: I didn't go okay, you wanted to Okay.
Speaker 3: Well, the good news is, Scott, at the end of
Speaker 3: the day, the big takeaway you didn't do anything wrong.
Speaker 3: You did nothing wrong. He just ended up with a strict, controlling,
Speaker 3: pre engaged kind of nut job.
Speaker 1: So congratulate Engage, very engaged.
Speaker 3: You have fun you too.
Speaker 5: I'm gonna ask the radio station to figure out who
Speaker 5: your fance is. He will be his number.
Speaker 3: Doesn't he sound so in love?
Speaker 2: He sounds like he's nervous with the day.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, relationship.
Speaker 3: I could serenade her with your guitar, Scott, good.
Speaker 1: Work and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 3: Oh man, with that woman on the phone. Now it
Speaker 3: all makes sense how she's only been with one man
Speaker 3: in the last year because that was her fiance.
Speaker 1: Yes, oh god together. But aren't we applauding her for
Speaker 1: what she didn't do? Go on other dates with.
Speaker 3: Just go went on this one? But again, that is
Speaker 3: on us for not saying, hey, how did your last
Speaker 3: relationship end? Because her answer have been it hasn't ended.
Speaker 3: We're engaged right now.
Speaker 1: I see, that's all.
Speaker 2: I'm just looking for a backup.
Speaker 3: How did we miss that? Brooke? Where were you on
Speaker 3: that question?
Speaker 1: My head is not in the game today.
Speaker 3: Step it up on these calls going here on out.
Speaker 3: That would have saved us a whole lot of time.
Speaker 3: But in the end, happy ending kind of for who.
Speaker 2: No, definitely not for her.
Speaker 1: I mean she's got the pick of the letter.
Speaker 2: Yeah that it's for her.
Speaker 3: She's got commitments from not one, but two different men.
Speaker 2: I'm sure a couple of people on the textboard that.
Speaker 3: Want her to. Yeah, but we can have you living
Speaker 3: here happily ever after. If you email the show, we'll
Speaker 3: call that person who's not calling you back. And go
Speaker 3: check out all of our Seconday podcast wherever you get
Speaker 3: yours at Brooke and Jeffrey