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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all. It's your girl Lex Feet.

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Speaker 2: Any sugarl Drey in the cold, and you.

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Speaker 1: Are tuned in to another episode of forore Mine.

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Speaker 2: We're a drunk of mine speaks sober talk.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, we end have done so many episodes. I don't

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Speaker 1: even know if I wore this hole before. So if

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Speaker 1: I see if y'all seen this dress already, just act

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Speaker 1: like it's new. Beach. Okay, just act like it's motherfucking new.

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Speaker 2: No, I be losing trick of the stuff I'll be

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Speaker 2: wearing too.

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Speaker 3: I know, like sometimes I like try to scroll through

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Speaker 3: and see what I warn and what I haven't worn. Honestly,

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Speaker 3: you know how everybody like, ooh, I can't wait till

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Speaker 3: winter because call me rinch, I'll be dressing like everybody

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Speaker 3: loves wintertime. For everybody be saying everybody be saying that,

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Speaker 3: and honestly, it's not giving.

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Speaker 1: It's not I'm not y'all know me. I am missus.

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Speaker 1: Don't put that shit on all.

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Speaker 2: Don't be seeing people say this.

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Speaker 3: They do a lot of people be like, oh I

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Speaker 3: love winter, I can really dress, but like I really

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Speaker 3: don't be dressing. But I also stay in my lane

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Speaker 3: and don't say I can dress. Everybody swear up and

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Speaker 3: down that they are just missus and miss the fashion.

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Speaker 1: It's us, especially in Atlanta.

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Speaker 3: Especially in Atlanta, everybody think they putting that ship on,

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Speaker 3: but I'm here to.

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Speaker 1: Say you are not.

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Speaker 4: They definitely do not. They not be putting that ship on.

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Speaker 4: But it's okay. I mean, it's a few people that

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Speaker 4: I just be feeling, like, really be putting that shit on.

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Speaker 4: I'm trying to think of some people like celebrity wise,

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Speaker 4: like Cardi B.

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Speaker 1: Card to be putting this shit on. But that's that's

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Speaker 1: on a whole other level.

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Speaker 3: I'll be seeing some girls that be wearing fashion over

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Speaker 3: when they put that ship on, because it's about how.

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Speaker 1: You put it together.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, I can't agree with that. I can't agree with that.

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Speaker 4: But yeah, I mean, yeah, you don't be giving with everybody.

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Speaker 4: Most people be thinking it's giving.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm like, I don't mean to be negative, but

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Speaker 3: like I said, we just we.

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Speaker 1: Should all just stay in our lane.

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Speaker 2: So what you been up to think that they be dressed?

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Speaker 3: Everybody swears that they are fashionisa, it's crazy.

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Speaker 2: I don't think everybody swear cause it's just so crazy.

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Speaker 1: Because you see people like even with us.

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Speaker 3: One time we had posted a picture of us when

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Speaker 3: we was like on the boat whenever we went to Jacksonville.

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Speaker 3: We just had some little cute little roppers on just

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Speaker 3: to be comfortable, and they was like, oh my god,

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Speaker 3: they so tacky. It's like, well, let me see what

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Speaker 3: you got on, bitch, let me see because I thought

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Speaker 3: my little ten dollars ropper was cute.

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Speaker 2: I don't be wanting to be rude or anyhing, but girl,

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Speaker 2: I don't be caring about them people because at the

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Speaker 2: end of the day, like girl, go pull the niggas,

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Speaker 2: I'll be pulling off. I know that's right people, cause

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Speaker 2: the niggas do not like whatever. Okay, people love to

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Speaker 2: just have something. I just feel like.

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Speaker 4: People love to just have negative sheet to say, like

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Speaker 4: when you can't find nothing else to say, say odem

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Speaker 4: Hoole's techy Okay.

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Speaker 3: I mean either way it goes. I feel like everybody

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Speaker 3: has their own lane. But that's the problem with people,

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Speaker 3: Like everybody wants to be the greatest at everything, Like

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Speaker 3: if you're this, if you're like a ten on this,

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Speaker 3: you're not gonna be ten and everything else.

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Speaker 1: I know, my lad I'm not missus fashionist.

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Speaker 2: You don't and you don't have to be. Within.

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Speaker 4: The crazy thing about it is because because of the

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Speaker 4: fact of who you are and what you're doing with

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Speaker 4: your life, eventually you're gonna have a stylist.

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Speaker 2: Then what they gonna say?

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna have something up?

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Speaker 3: I mean something unna say.

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Speaker 4: I feel like people just always gonna find something. But

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Speaker 4: that's a good point that you just made, like people

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Speaker 4: just gonna always find something to say no matter what.

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Speaker 2: You could be super polished, and.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, y'all want me to host this show?

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Speaker 3: Be funny, eat ass, have good pussy, and I gotta dress.

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Speaker 1: Maybe y'all gonna get two out of three pick them.

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Speaker 2: It just be like them stupid, very dumb.

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Speaker 1: And so other than that, How was your holidays? What

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Speaker 2: My holidays was great? Why are you looking like that?

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Speaker 1: Because I just know you was up to no good?

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Speaker 2: Why you think I'll be up to good? Is it

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Speaker 1: You're a Taurus? What does that mean?

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Speaker 4: Y'all are sneaky? I'm not sneaky. It just ain't your busneys.

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Speaker 2: I'm not you, but you know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: You weren't talking to me.

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Speaker 2: I want to talk about you. I'm just staying in

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Speaker 2: general people.

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Speaker 4: I think people do have this like idea that tauruses

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Speaker 4: are very sneaky, but it's like, we're not sneaky.

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Speaker 2: It's just like it ain't your disneys because I don't

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Speaker 2: walk without you. Liked you all need to be in

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Speaker 2: my business like genuine because it ain't.

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Speaker 1: It ain't.

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Speaker 2: But I mean telling Legs everything.

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Speaker 1: She knowing what's going on.

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Speaker 3: I'd be like, I love when you call me early

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Speaker 3: in the morning because I know something went down, like

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Speaker 3: usually when we do.

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Speaker 1: Something and I always got some shit going on.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like usually your business calls come in the evening. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: like the business calls will come like midday.

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Speaker 1: But if it's.

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Speaker 4: Like early, if it's like early, like that morning, good morning,

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Speaker 4: the busted morning.

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Speaker 1: Oh you called me at like five am. I said, hello,

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Speaker 1: that was a wild night.

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Speaker 4: Wow, wow, real juicy, real juicy. Maybe one day I'll

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Speaker 4: talk about that on Patreon. I thought, no, I did

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Speaker 4: it because I just felt like it was too soon,

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Speaker 4: too soon. It was too soon afterwards, so I just

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Speaker 4: felt like it wasn't like a good time to talk

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Speaker 4: about it. And being there, we know you know somebody

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Speaker 4: be talking me. I just felt like they was gonna

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Speaker 1: But you definitely got to do a story time on

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Speaker 1: that one day? What day I will?

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Speaker 2: One day I will. I feel like we'll be having

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Speaker 2: some juicy little stories.

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Speaker 3: Well, honestly, I ain't been up to she I've just

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Speaker 3: been chilling, relaxing. A much needed break we was all

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Speaker 3: for a few weeks. Definitely needed that. I think that's

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Speaker 3: the one goal that I want to do for myself

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Speaker 3: this year, just start taking some more meat time and relaxing.

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Speaker 3: I already take a lot of meat time, but I'm

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Speaker 3: gonna do it even more this year. Like y'all thought

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Speaker 3: I was fucking with y'all, ast y'all really with y'all

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Speaker 3: this year, Like if I want to do something that

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Speaker 3: I don't think y'all realize that. You know, if I

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Speaker 3: don't want to do something, I am absolutely not gonna

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Speaker 3: do it. I don't be feeling bad remorse, not a

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Speaker 2: I'm the one who be feeling mad remorse.

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Speaker 1: What's that? I don't know that emotion? I really don't

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Speaker 1: so it's.

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Speaker 2: Gonna get not Ryan out there last day.

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Speaker 3: You gonna get even worse this year because I'm just like,

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Speaker 3: I feel like you gotta spend your time being happy

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Speaker 3: and doing it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you definitely have to do things that make you

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Speaker 4: happy and things that you enjoy.

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Speaker 2: You should.

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Speaker 1: Yes, life is meant to be enjoyed. It is.

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Speaker 2: It is, But sometimes you do gotta do shit you don't.

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Speaker 3: Want to do. I mean, yeah, if it's like I

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Speaker 3: don't know, man, I'm no, I'm not doing nothing.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to do. No.

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Speaker 3: I'm trying to think of like a situation cause I

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Speaker 3: I have to show up.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, man, if I don't want to go, man,

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Speaker 1: fuck that nigga. He only turning three. He ain't even

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Speaker 1: remember this shit?

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Speaker 2: He turning three?

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Speaker 4: Yes, yes, really, yes, that's crazy.

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Speaker 3: I think two or three one of them his birthday

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Speaker 3: in March February?

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Speaker 1: Is he two or three?

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Speaker 2: I can't remember two legs because does he really be

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Speaker 3: Hell right, because I'm.

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Speaker 1: Like, I'm like something like that.

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Speaker 2: I think he only turned he turning.

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Speaker 3: So much like I said, he ain't gonna remember if

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Speaker 3: from now or now I might show up for him,

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Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying, that doing a little.

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Speaker 1: Something, you know, but he ain't gonna remember, like Jack's

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Speaker 1: I gotta show up for Jack's birthday, you know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying. So way Jacks his birthday yeah before Beyonce.

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Speaker 3: Yes, Yeah, he's definitely strange, like our girl be You

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Speaker 3: think he's strange, Beyonce, strange. Burgos are strange. Really, I

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Speaker 3: have never met a normal Vergo.

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Speaker 4: I don't think that they're strange. I just think they're

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Speaker 4: very detached. Yeah, very detached. And then they're all perfectionists.

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Speaker 1: Yes, which is that?

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Speaker 3: Like if you go into his room and touch anything

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Speaker 3: and messing Auntie, all right.

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Speaker 2: He'll be kicking you.

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Speaker 3: He kicks everybody in his room. He's like, okay, peanut

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Speaker 3: shoes shooting. It's not like people in his.

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Speaker 4: Room like that are very much perfection he see, everything

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Speaker 4: has to be asserting a certain way with them. My

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Speaker 4: dad was a Virgo, was a Burgo, a whirlwind romance.

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Speaker 4: I just don't think you're compatible with Earth sign men.

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Speaker 4: But I feel like you try to date them anyway.

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Speaker 3: I don't try to date anybody. These men keep coming

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Speaker 3: to my life. It's harassing me.

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Speaker 4: It's like me with fire sign and air sign me

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Speaker 4: and it's like I shouldn't be dating them, but however,

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Speaker 4: they just keep coming and I end up and you know,

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Speaker 4: it's crazy. We were having this crazy love connection.

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Speaker 1: I am very like I'm a Leo. I'm very compatible

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Speaker 1: with air signs.

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Speaker 3: But like every time I need an air sign and

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Speaker 3: be like okay, cool, like it's cool.

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Speaker 2: But you and them fucking earth signs.

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Speaker 1: I love it.

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Speaker 4: And I can't stand Earth time in Capricorn, Yes.

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Speaker 2: And I cannot. That's guy. They're the most boring people ever.

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Speaker 1: They are. They're boring. But once she gets hot, it's

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Speaker 1: hot because they.

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Speaker 2: Ain't never got hot with one of them around me.

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Speaker 2: It's always cold.

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Speaker 3: Well, you know rapper Base, I know, and she definitely

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Speaker 3: well stay tuned.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think. Do you think Rapper Bay is coming back?

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Speaker 1: Is he coming back?

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Speaker 2: What he always come back? What do you mean it's

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Speaker 2: like when did he leave?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 4: What do you consider not talking? Because y'all be friendly

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: I've seen that ship I said, look at you so friendly.

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Speaker 1: He's sweeting me first.

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Speaker 2: See, I wouldn't even go to slay what it was.

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Speaker 3: At this point everybody, no where, everybody is I don't

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Speaker 2: The hole in these men.

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Speaker 4: Be it freely as s fuck all the timeline.

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Speaker 2: I started to say, Hi, people.

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Speaker 2: The show girl next peak and it's sugarl Dre and

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Speaker 1: Know as much as possible.

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Speaker 3: Were you trying to talk to y'all about financial responsibility

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Speaker 3: And like due to recent COVID surges, the interest rates.

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Speaker 1: Okay, let's get into these topics.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna let you introduce this one cause I feel

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Speaker 1: This one, So go ahead. Why because I'm say, with

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Speaker 4: Want to wanted to talk about, like, you know, the

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Speaker 4: I feel like, you know, in some of our families,

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Speaker 1: Well that was Was that a slow t?

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Speaker 2: No, the slug. It's not a slug if I'm telling

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Speaker 2: the truth, all right, But yeah, like I just feel

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Speaker 2: like people be asking you for money.

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Speaker 4: Yes, yes, so people be wanting to come busy all

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Speaker 1: No, have you had.

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Speaker 3: Anybody like pop up that's really not your family, but

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Speaker 2: On well you like pop up if you don't know

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Speaker 3: Well, not pop up and like sliding your dms like hey,

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Speaker 3: like you my cousin, you, my cousin and my cousin macas.

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Speaker 4: It's not really like cause I know all my cousins

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Speaker 1: So because my my family is really big.

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Speaker 4: But like growing up, I have one of them families

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Speaker 4: where we used to have like family reunions and.

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Speaker 1: She all the time.

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Speaker 4: So like even my family that isn't like my immediate family,

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Speaker 4: I still pretty much know who they do it.

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Speaker 3: But my mom and my sister. Yeah, so anybody can

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Speaker 5: Like, what's up on?

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Speaker 1: What's what to dude?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I haven't had no situations like that. It's more

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Speaker 2: The tab was five hundred dollars or six hundred dollars.

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Speaker 1: The hell y'all paid this ship.

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Speaker 3: I know that's right because I wuld have been like, boy,

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Speaker 3: fuck you. On my daddy's side, I don't even really

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Speaker 3: like but what I but what I will say about

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Speaker 3: that particular uncle and aunt, they're like really really successful

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Speaker 3: they always be paying for everything to everybody.

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Speaker 2: So like now that I'm older, I don't mind.

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Speaker 4: Like paying for them if we go out to eating

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Speaker 4: because my uncle always pay like every time we go

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Speaker 4: it's when the shit came, like, oh yeah, you're gonna

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Speaker 2: No, oh nah, it's my time to sit down to

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Speaker 2: get treated.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, But you know it's crazy, like my family is

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Speaker 1: the opposite.

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Speaker 3: I was like the last one. Everybody's like, when is

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I was I'm definitely.

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Speaker 3: Not like the one successful person in your mama was

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Speaker 1: Like I definitely don't have that family like now.

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Speaker 3: I will say there's a difference, Like you know how

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Speaker 3: people say like I'm the Beyonce of the family.

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Speaker 1: I don't like to use that saying cause I feel

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Speaker 3: But you think it's weird because I feel like people

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Speaker 3: I'm the finest in my family. Everybody be waiting for

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Speaker 3: And I just think that's a little weird to kind

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Speaker 1: I think that is weird.

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Speaker 3: But I will say I do feel like I'm the

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Speaker 3: on obviously the fuck I got on, like what is this?

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Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm the one pouring up shots. I used

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Speaker 3: So I feel like, if anything, that's why I would

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Speaker 3: on my last phone call. When you know when you

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Speaker 1: A little something.

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Speaker 3: I was on my last hey uncle call, like he

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Speaker 3: was like, hey, brouh. I was like, hey man, I

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Speaker 3: He was like, finally, I feel like something you ain't

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Speaker 4: And I've always I've I am like literally all of

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Speaker 2: I've always been good and been on my own.

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Speaker 4: And I feel like even with like what I'm doing

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Speaker 2: Like they expected me to be the one to move

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Speaker 2: to always call me the superstar that my whole life.

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Speaker 2: But and that's how.

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Speaker 3: I felt like people I kind of knew, Like you

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Speaker 3: know how when you see somebody that's talented, they use

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Speaker 1: Niggas was skeptical about me?

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Speaker 3: Was that cousin, Like, hey man, let me get dollars.

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Speaker 2: You was borrowing money for your family Thanksgiving?

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Speaker 3: Why, just like opening my eyes, I'm seeing who looking

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Speaker 2: Why you why you ain't just ask y'all, i'maa put

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Speaker 1: Used off all my chances.

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Speaker 3: You know, I told you I was on my last Hey, uncle.

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Speaker 4: I told you, I think it's weird when people borrow

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Speaker 2: If you gonna borrow some money, you need, say at

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Speaker 3: But guess what, I got five people to borrow twenty

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Speaker 3: dollars from.

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Speaker 2: You would just ask one person one hundred out.

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Speaker 1: But see that's how I know you don't borrow money

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Speaker 1: for real. I don't because you don't nobody.

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Speaker 3: But if you borrow a hundred dollars from one person,

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Speaker 3: they really gonna expect that hundred dollars back. If you

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Speaker 1: Five people, none of y'all.

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Speaker 3: Y'all not getting y'all twenty dollars back, none of y'all.

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Speaker 2: I am zig look at it.

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Speaker 1: Last hustle. It's a hustle you Is you hustling at all?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 2: I'm not because I just and I guess this is

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Speaker 2: I don't get me wrong, Like I used to ask my

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Speaker 2: like I really started making my own money and like

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Speaker 2: I used to borrow money from my parents all the time.

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Speaker 2: But I feel like that's why I never used to

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Speaker 2: just call my mama and them, and then I lie

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Speaker 2: and be like I'm paying the back, and I knewdamn

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Speaker 2: will I wasn't pay the big. Yeah, I never paid.

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Speaker 1: My mom nobody big. I'm not gonna lie see it.

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Speaker 2: And I used to borrow like large sums. See like

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Speaker 2: I'm talking like and I'm talking about like my mom,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna give you a thousand dollars back, I promise,

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Speaker 2: and not see. I never get this sheet big, But

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Speaker 2: now you know, now I do put money up. You

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Speaker 2: know you should be all happy about this, She say,

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Speaker 2: not me.

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Speaker 1: I was giving that twenty dollars back. I got your twenty.

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Speaker 1: I'll be showing up passing out my little twenty dollars.

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Speaker 1: I only got five. I'm gonna pass out, but I'm passing.

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Speaker 3: Them out soon as you lose you didn't get your

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Speaker 3: twenty dollars back, that's on you.

445
00:18:50,640 --> 00:18:51,199
Speaker 2: But I don't know.

446
00:18:51,280 --> 00:18:53,760
Speaker 4: So, like going back to the topic, I just feel like,

447
00:18:54,040 --> 00:18:56,960
Speaker 4: why is it like that? Like why when you when

448
00:18:57,000 --> 00:18:59,560
Speaker 4: your family look at you and they feel like, okay,

449
00:18:59,800 --> 00:19:02,640
Speaker 4: you know, if she doing well, she making good money,

450
00:19:02,920 --> 00:19:05,520
Speaker 4: she got her shit together, why do they feel like

451
00:19:05,600 --> 00:19:07,680
Speaker 4: that's a license to ask you for something?

452
00:19:07,840 --> 00:19:10,320
Speaker 3: Because I feel like that's what a lot of people

453
00:19:10,400 --> 00:19:13,200
Speaker 3: view as what family is though, Like you're supposed to

454
00:19:13,240 --> 00:19:15,360
Speaker 3: help your family, like that's what you always Because when

455
00:19:15,400 --> 00:19:17,960
Speaker 3: did you help me? But you never needed help? You

456
00:19:18,040 --> 00:19:20,720
Speaker 3: just said you was asking your mama for one thousand dollars.

457
00:19:20,680 --> 00:19:23,119
Speaker 4: Right, So I didn't need your help, So I expect

458
00:19:23,160 --> 00:19:25,119
Speaker 4: you do not need my help. That's not you didn't

459
00:19:25,160 --> 00:19:26,200
Speaker 4: need your mama help.

460
00:19:26,040 --> 00:19:26,640
Speaker 2: The way I need.

461
00:19:27,200 --> 00:19:28,360
Speaker 1: You know about family.

462
00:19:28,520 --> 00:19:30,880
Speaker 3: Just because you didn't ask me for nothing, don't mean

463
00:19:30,960 --> 00:19:32,160
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna ask you.

464
00:19:32,160 --> 00:19:33,400
Speaker 1: You ain't ever asked me for shit.

465
00:19:33,480 --> 00:19:35,240
Speaker 3: That don't mean I wasn't sleeping on your couch and

466
00:19:35,280 --> 00:19:37,000
Speaker 3: asking you for dur let me get twenty dollar.

467
00:19:37,960 --> 00:19:39,960
Speaker 2: That on't mean you do still on me like twenty

468
00:19:40,000 --> 00:19:40,680
Speaker 2: dollars and.

469
00:19:40,640 --> 00:19:43,760
Speaker 3: You ain't getting it. You not getting that twenty dollars.

470
00:19:43,760 --> 00:19:45,840
Speaker 4: It's okay because you gonna give me a Christmas gill

471
00:19:46,240 --> 00:19:47,480
Speaker 4: not unless he making money.

472
00:19:47,520 --> 00:19:49,400
Speaker 2: I let her make up for her dicks with you.

473
00:19:49,800 --> 00:19:54,280
Speaker 1: And she'd be asking for the craziest shit he saw knew.

474
00:19:54,440 --> 00:19:56,600
Speaker 1: But it feels better because you're not I'm not here.

475
00:19:56,720 --> 00:19:57,879
Speaker 1: I'm never hear that.

476
00:19:58,880 --> 00:20:00,960
Speaker 3: I don't even need no care you like, I don't

477
00:20:01,000 --> 00:20:02,600
Speaker 3: need casing.

478
00:20:06,359 --> 00:20:10,120
Speaker 4: That's what I ain't work though, But that's what I'm saying.

479
00:20:10,119 --> 00:20:12,240
Speaker 3: I feel like that's what the support of family, because

480
00:20:12,240 --> 00:20:14,680
Speaker 3: you're my family. Like we're not blood related, but you're

481
00:20:14,720 --> 00:20:17,040
Speaker 3: my family. So I feel like, yeah, you was doing

482
00:20:17,080 --> 00:20:17,840
Speaker 3: well for yourself.

483
00:20:18,280 --> 00:20:19,639
Speaker 1: Bro let me get to a dollar.

484
00:20:20,640 --> 00:20:25,160
Speaker 3: Why wouldn't you If you're doing well and I'm your

485
00:20:25,240 --> 00:20:28,200
Speaker 3: family and you see me struggling, let me get one now.

486
00:20:28,320 --> 00:20:30,720
Speaker 4: And I feel and it's the thing I do feel like,

487
00:20:30,880 --> 00:20:33,280
Speaker 4: to a certain extent, you can look out for your family.

488
00:20:33,320 --> 00:20:35,359
Speaker 2: But then when you start to do ship like that all.

489
00:20:35,240 --> 00:20:39,160
Speaker 4: The time, now you're enabling a person to not really

490
00:20:39,200 --> 00:20:41,960
Speaker 4: go hard and hustle and go giddy for themselves because

491
00:20:41,960 --> 00:20:43,240
Speaker 4: they know it's I can't giddy.

492
00:20:43,520 --> 00:20:45,720
Speaker 2: I can always just call my cousin. Then she gonna

493
00:20:45,720 --> 00:20:46,080
Speaker 2: look out.

494
00:20:46,920 --> 00:20:49,240
Speaker 4: But there's also and it's like, now you need to

495
00:20:49,240 --> 00:20:51,760
Speaker 4: be concerned, you need to be wondering, Like if I

496
00:20:51,760 --> 00:20:53,600
Speaker 4: can't get these twenty dollars, how the fuck am I

497
00:20:53,640 --> 00:20:54,440
Speaker 4: gonna pay my rent?

498
00:20:54,760 --> 00:20:54,960
Speaker 1: Right?

499
00:20:56,359 --> 00:20:57,720
Speaker 2: Maybe you short twenty.

500
00:20:57,520 --> 00:21:00,560
Speaker 3: That's what I mean short, But I I will say,

501
00:21:00,600 --> 00:21:03,960
Speaker 3: now there's a difference too, because you don't want to

502
00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:06,120
Speaker 3: go in debt trying to help people as well, right,

503
00:21:06,680 --> 00:21:10,240
Speaker 3: Like I would never ever ask somebody like for a

504
00:21:10,320 --> 00:21:12,760
Speaker 3: large like if I needed a large lump sum of money,

505
00:21:12,840 --> 00:21:16,000
Speaker 3: slump something lump some of money, I would ask my

506
00:21:16,080 --> 00:21:18,160
Speaker 3: sister or my mom. Those are the only two people

507
00:21:18,200 --> 00:21:22,840
Speaker 3: I'm asking for like a lot of money from. But

508
00:21:23,000 --> 00:21:25,280
Speaker 3: my sister or my mom would never like go in

509
00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:28,440
Speaker 3: the negatives. Well, I'm not gonna lie. My mom never did,

510
00:21:28,520 --> 00:21:30,199
Speaker 3: but if she had to, she probably would go with

511
00:21:30,200 --> 00:21:32,359
Speaker 3: the negatives to help me. But I was it was

512
00:21:32,440 --> 00:21:35,760
Speaker 3: never like that. But I feel like immediate family should

513
00:21:35,760 --> 00:21:37,600
Speaker 3: be able to ask you for anything. I do feel

514
00:21:37,600 --> 00:21:39,480
Speaker 3: like that immediate family, if you're close to them and

515
00:21:39,520 --> 00:21:41,159
Speaker 3: y'all have a good relationship, Like my sister and my

516
00:21:41,200 --> 00:21:43,280
Speaker 3: mama can ask me for anything and they die.

517
00:21:43,320 --> 00:21:44,119
Speaker 1: But that's different.

518
00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:46,040
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. Amedate is different.

519
00:21:46,080 --> 00:21:49,000
Speaker 4: Like when I think of like my parents, me and

520
00:21:49,440 --> 00:21:50,440
Speaker 4: you know I don't have siblings.

521
00:21:50,440 --> 00:21:53,320
Speaker 2: Well, I mean, yes you do. I have a little sister.

522
00:21:54,160 --> 00:21:56,920
Speaker 4: But we can't even like in a lot of conversations,

523
00:21:56,920 --> 00:22:00,240
Speaker 4: we can't even use her because she's only three, Like

524
00:22:01,240 --> 00:22:03,119
Speaker 4: what the fuck she gonna borrow money from me for?

525
00:22:03,480 --> 00:22:05,560
Speaker 2: Like she don't need no money for sip.

526
00:22:05,440 --> 00:22:08,880
Speaker 1: For now them roe blucks and she don't need twin dollars.

527
00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:11,640
Speaker 1: She don't be like dre, let me get to her mom.

528
00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:13,560
Speaker 2: Her mom and her dad have a lot of money, like,

529
00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:15,080
Speaker 2: so she needs to ask them before me.

530
00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:16,920
Speaker 3: I mean, but sometimes they be trying to like I'm

531
00:22:16,920 --> 00:22:19,240
Speaker 3: not gonna lie. Jack's got me one time because his

532
00:22:19,320 --> 00:22:21,480
Speaker 3: mom wasn't giving him no. He needed v bucks that's

533
00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:24,159
Speaker 3: what they call v bucks for some game okay, And

534
00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:27,720
Speaker 3: my sister was like no, like you're not getting like

535
00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:31,119
Speaker 3: you've spent too much money. He asked Rod his stepdad.

536
00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:33,280
Speaker 3: He was like, no, Jacks will call me and be

537
00:22:33,359 --> 00:22:36,639
Speaker 3: like let me get on. He learned that from his

538
00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:39,159
Speaker 3: autien and said, hey, you learn in a young Champ

539
00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:43,639
Speaker 3: slid him at twenty dollars so it's like, oh, no,

540
00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:46,480
Speaker 3: he has a he has a debit card, so he

541
00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:48,520
Speaker 3: has an Amazon account too, So I'll buy it and

542
00:22:48,600 --> 00:22:50,440
Speaker 3: just send it to his little Amazon account on high.

543
00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:51,680
Speaker 6: Yeah.

544
00:22:51,800 --> 00:22:53,920
Speaker 1: So like she's gonna ask for twenty dolls.

545
00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:57,080
Speaker 4: I mean she probably will, but that's nothing though, Like

546
00:22:57,280 --> 00:22:58,680
Speaker 4: that's nothing for my little sister.

547
00:22:58,760 --> 00:23:00,880
Speaker 2: And this is my little sister. And it's like I said,

548
00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:04,840
Speaker 2: immediate family. But when we started talking about third cousins,

549
00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:06,280
Speaker 2: fourth cousins.

550
00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:11,119
Speaker 3: No, your cousin said you was motivating the streets. Drad

551
00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:13,360
Speaker 3: cousin was like, yo, you're motivating the streets out here.

552
00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:16,439
Speaker 1: Man, let me hold something like he said Dred was

553
00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:19,159
Speaker 1: motivating the streets and is.

554
00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:21,400
Speaker 2: Motivating.

555
00:23:23,119 --> 00:23:23,359
Speaker 1: No.

556
00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:25,560
Speaker 3: If y'all don't know this is it is a street.

557
00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:30,720
Speaker 3: We're all the prostitutes beyond. That's the only street we motivated.

558
00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:32,280
Speaker 3: Like I don't need a pimp no more.

559
00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:35,639
Speaker 4: Maybe I'm motivating them because if I was motivating them,

560
00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:36,800
Speaker 4: they wouldn't be on besting it.

561
00:23:37,160 --> 00:23:38,680
Speaker 1: I mean, you got to start somewhere.

562
00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:45,439
Speaker 4: I ain't never you judges, judge. I'm just saying I

563
00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:46,520
Speaker 4: don't condone that.

564
00:23:47,200 --> 00:23:49,160
Speaker 1: You don't condone what sell is.

565
00:23:52,200 --> 00:24:02,200
Speaker 6: I don't condone it okay said? Not all I said

566
00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:05,520
Speaker 6: is I don't.

567
00:24:05,760 --> 00:24:08,440
Speaker 1: Okay, So you don't believe in helping your family out

568
00:24:08,440 --> 00:24:08,920
Speaker 1: and giving.

569
00:24:08,760 --> 00:24:11,760
Speaker 2: Them money, Bro, That's not what I'm saying.

570
00:24:12,040 --> 00:24:13,479
Speaker 1: So I'm just trying to figure out what you say.

571
00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:14,960
Speaker 2: I'm not with U's not what I'm saying.

572
00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:17,080
Speaker 4: I'm just trying to figure out why all of a

573
00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:19,480
Speaker 4: sudden do people be feeling like they can ask you

574
00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:22,520
Speaker 4: for money? And then I'm not saying that I don't

575
00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:24,679
Speaker 4: believe in helping them. I'll help you out a little bit,

576
00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:26,560
Speaker 4: but don't think you can always come to me and

577
00:24:26,640 --> 00:24:28,159
Speaker 4: ask me for some money and I'm gonna give it

578
00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:28,920
Speaker 4: to you every.

579
00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:30,880
Speaker 3: Time that does get exhausting and a whole lot. I'd

580
00:24:30,960 --> 00:24:33,840
Speaker 3: rather be the person in my family. Like it sounds

581
00:24:33,920 --> 00:24:36,520
Speaker 3: really corny, but I'd rather what is it saying, is

582
00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:38,600
Speaker 3: like I'd rather show you how to fish than to

583
00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:40,000
Speaker 3: give you food or whatever it is.

584
00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:42,000
Speaker 1: And absolutely I rather like put you.

585
00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:43,680
Speaker 3: On or something and show you how to make your

586
00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:46,600
Speaker 3: own money. Cause I'm not gonna lie like being like

587
00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:49,159
Speaker 3: doing what I'm doing now, I'm learning so much like

588
00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:50,800
Speaker 3: we learn a lot from Chad, we learn a lot

589
00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:53,600
Speaker 3: from Ryan, like we learned so much, and that's way

590
00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:57,080
Speaker 3: more valuable than somebody just handing me a paycheck every.

591
00:24:56,880 --> 00:24:58,080
Speaker 1: Two weeks, you know what I'm saying.

592
00:24:58,400 --> 00:25:01,560
Speaker 3: So if my family, I'd rather have somebody like ask

593
00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:03,280
Speaker 3: me like, oh, Lex, how do I do this? Or

594
00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:05,119
Speaker 3: how can you teach me how to do that? How

595
00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:08,240
Speaker 3: can I make money doing this? Like that's way more

596
00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:11,040
Speaker 3: valuable than just let me get torn it off.

597
00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:13,600
Speaker 2: And I think that that be the problem though. Unfortunately.

598
00:25:13,680 --> 00:25:15,960
Speaker 4: I think that when people end up having somebody in

599
00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:19,200
Speaker 4: a family that is the successful family member or the

600
00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:22,879
Speaker 4: successful friend even you know in friendships, like instead of

601
00:25:22,920 --> 00:25:25,960
Speaker 4: people trying to use that as motivation for them to

602
00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:27,600
Speaker 4: get on their shit and figure out how they can

603
00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:29,240
Speaker 4: make money. And it's like, okay, we came from the

604
00:25:29,280 --> 00:25:32,000
Speaker 4: same place. If you could come from the same place

605
00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:34,440
Speaker 4: as me, and then you could bossub and start making

606
00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:36,560
Speaker 4: your own money and become an entrepreneur, I could do

607
00:25:36,600 --> 00:25:37,240
Speaker 4: the same shit.

608
00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:39,119
Speaker 2: But most people don't look at it like that.

609
00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:40,760
Speaker 4: They just look at it like, oh, well, this person

610
00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:43,840
Speaker 4: got money, so I know now I can just always

611
00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:45,680
Speaker 4: go to them if I need right And I feel

612
00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:48,440
Speaker 4: like you take away the hustle in some people because

613
00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:50,280
Speaker 4: they feel like they got somebody who that could depend

614
00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:52,200
Speaker 4: on all the time. And let's be real, I ain't

615
00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:54,880
Speaker 4: gonna never be their person. Motherfuckers. No, don't come ask

616
00:25:54,960 --> 00:25:57,720
Speaker 4: me because I'm gonna tell your ass no, no, you're not.

617
00:25:57,760 --> 00:26:00,480
Speaker 4: You definitely me I have.

618
00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:03,720
Speaker 1: If I ask you for twenty dollars right now.

619
00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:05,920
Speaker 2: You twenty dollars, it's nothing, But you don't even need

620
00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:06,560
Speaker 2: twenty dollars.

621
00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:09,280
Speaker 1: You're not about to an You don't know that.

622
00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 4: What I'm saying is I feel like people around me

623
00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:14,000
Speaker 4: know that I'm not the person that you come to

624
00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:16,320
Speaker 4: and be like, oh can I have DC, especially if

625
00:26:16,359 --> 00:26:17,440
Speaker 4: I give it to you one time.

626
00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:19,159
Speaker 2: I mean, you know, damn what, don't come asking me

627
00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:20,640
Speaker 2: again if you ain't paying me big.

628
00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:24,040
Speaker 4: But I feel like there are people out there who

629
00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:28,240
Speaker 4: they become successful and they just give give to their family,

630
00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:30,040
Speaker 4: you know what I mean, and to their friends until

631
00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:32,280
Speaker 4: it's like the person just the people just be using

632
00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:32,679
Speaker 4: them up.

633
00:26:33,840 --> 00:26:35,480
Speaker 2: But you can't let people get to that point.

634
00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:37,639
Speaker 3: Well, and I will say this, I was always the

635
00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:41,000
Speaker 3: person like I'm not gonna lie. Yeah, you know, borro

636
00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:45,720
Speaker 3: a little money here and there, borrow take Damn, it's.

637
00:26:45,600 --> 00:26:48,520
Speaker 1: Strict in this motherfucker you. I gotta use the right

638
00:26:48,840 --> 00:26:51,840
Speaker 1: words and shit, all right. You was not borne I

639
00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:52,800
Speaker 1: take money from the.

640
00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:57,560
Speaker 3: I it was like something that I knew, like I

641
00:26:57,600 --> 00:26:58,679
Speaker 3: didn't want to do again.

642
00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:02,399
Speaker 1: Like I was always like, no, for real though, I don't.

643
00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:05,640
Speaker 3: Want to ball twenty dollars all the time. I don't

644
00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:07,919
Speaker 3: want to do that all the time. But it was

645
00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:09,760
Speaker 3: just like it wasn't like I was just like, oh man,

646
00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:11,080
Speaker 3: I know she gonna give it to a me again.

647
00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:13,120
Speaker 1: It was more so like I gotta make shit.

648
00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:16,679
Speaker 3: I gotta make something fucking happen, because it was just

649
00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:20,400
Speaker 3: like I cannot be doing this forever. I cannot ask

650
00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:23,320
Speaker 3: people for twenty dollars forever. Like you really think you

651
00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:25,520
Speaker 3: can really live off of somebody forever?

652
00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:26,480
Speaker 2: People do.

653
00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:28,560
Speaker 3: And it's a lot of people who have whole families

654
00:27:28,560 --> 00:27:30,560
Speaker 3: that are living off of other people, you know what

655
00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:33,480
Speaker 3: I'm saying. So if you're that person that you have

656
00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:36,199
Speaker 3: somebody like that's successful in your family, I feel like

657
00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:38,879
Speaker 3: the best thing you can do is let them teach

658
00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:41,520
Speaker 3: you how to make money making money on your own.

659
00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:43,119
Speaker 3: Like I said, I don't care if you got a BDB,

660
00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:46,960
Speaker 3: a rich cousin, whatever you got, making money on your

661
00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:49,639
Speaker 3: own is the best thing you can do for yoursel people.

662
00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:52,920
Speaker 1: Just yeah, that is true, like on truth.

663
00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:55,560
Speaker 4: But like for real, Like you could try to teach

664
00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:57,920
Speaker 4: people how to make money, but some people just ain't

665
00:27:57,960 --> 00:28:01,560
Speaker 4: meant to be Like, but that's when you Okay, not

666
00:28:01,600 --> 00:28:04,240
Speaker 4: everybody's meant to be a boss, but you can work

667
00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:05,520
Speaker 4: for me, or you can get a job.

668
00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:07,640
Speaker 3: I can help you get a job. Not everybody's meant

669
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Speaker 3: to be a boss. We already understood that. But if

670
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Speaker 3: you are, if your.

671
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Speaker 1: Cousin is a boss, and I'm may not meant to

672
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Speaker 1: be a boss, but I can work for you.

673
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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. I can get a paycheck

674
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Speaker 3: from you. I can do something rather than just ask

675
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Speaker 3: you for money.

676
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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

677
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Speaker 1: Like, there's a lot of stuff you're like.

678
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Speaker 3: Your little cousin could be doing. You could put him

679
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Speaker 3: on the mark. You know how to work a TikTok

680
00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:31,080
Speaker 3: and stuff.

681
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Speaker 5: Is he young?

682
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Speaker 1: Is he? Oh?

683
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Speaker 3: I didn't ask because he said you you motivate the streets.

684
00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:36,280
Speaker 3: I just assumed he was young.

685
00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:44,360
Speaker 1: Hold, we like the same age all that nigga don't

686
00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:46,040
Speaker 1: know how to work, No damn TikTok.

687
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Speaker 4: We like the same age. But yeah, I mean, I

688
00:28:49,240 --> 00:28:54,320
Speaker 4: don't know. I just be feeling like, just go and

689
00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:58,360
Speaker 4: work and get you some money. It ain't hard to

690
00:28:58,400 --> 00:28:59,680
Speaker 4: get some money, or maybe it is.

691
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Speaker 3: Yes, because I hate when people say that. First of all,

692
00:29:04,560 --> 00:29:06,880
Speaker 3: it takes money to make money. Once you make money,

693
00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:10,320
Speaker 3: and it's easier to make more money, but to make

694
00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:14,320
Speaker 3: that initial money is fucking hard. And I hate when

695
00:29:14,360 --> 00:29:18,080
Speaker 3: people say that. They'd be like, oh, like Rick Cross

696
00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:20,040
Speaker 3: sweet that ship every morning. He'd be like, Oh, it's

697
00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:25,040
Speaker 3: a beautiful day to boss up? How How like how

698
00:29:25,600 --> 00:29:29,800
Speaker 3: showed me the game Ghosts. Everybody be like, boss up,

699
00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:33,760
Speaker 3: start your ship? How that shit is hard? That shit

700
00:29:33,880 --> 00:29:37,080
Speaker 3: is fucking hard. Like everybody be like, oh, scared money,

701
00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:39,800
Speaker 3: don't make no money if I ever go broke. That's

702
00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:42,400
Speaker 3: why I took your money, because that's shit hard.

703
00:29:42,520 --> 00:29:43,560
Speaker 1: I didn't know how to figure shit.

704
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Speaker 4: What is your definition of hard? Bro Like you said, like,

705
00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:51,120
Speaker 4: sh it ain't easy. Nothing worths having comes easy.

706
00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:53,240
Speaker 1: Right, But everybody makes the same everybody can do the

707
00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:56,040
Speaker 1: same sheet. But that's why everybody can.

708
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Speaker 2: I mean when I say when I say the same.

709
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Speaker 4: She, I don't mean the exact same thing that you're doing.

710
00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:02,960
Speaker 4: But I do feel like everybody has it in them

711
00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:05,280
Speaker 4: to be successful. Yeah, but that's just like if you

712
00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:07,560
Speaker 4: have enough drive and you want that shit bad enough,

713
00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:09,200
Speaker 4: anybody can be successful.

714
00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:09,560
Speaker 1: Yeah.

715
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Speaker 3: But it's just not how it all works. It's just

716
00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:15,680
Speaker 3: not how it works. Like some people like it just

717
00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:17,760
Speaker 3: don't work for them. Like I hate when people be.

718
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:19,520
Speaker 1: Like, oh, we all got the same twenty four hours

719
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Speaker 1: in the day.

720
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Speaker 3: Yeah, but it just doesn't work like that, Like it

721
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Speaker 3: really just doesn't lie it.

722
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Speaker 1: It just doesn't. I don't know why. It's just the way.

723
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Speaker 2: And then you have you don't have a valid point.

724
00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:32,120
Speaker 1: No, I do have a valid point. Let me. It's

725
00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:33,200
Speaker 1: about capitalism.

726
00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:36,480
Speaker 3: Okay, it works because you're always gonna have people who

727
00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:40,200
Speaker 3: are consumers, and like people are gonna take advantage people

728
00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:42,320
Speaker 3: that are rich. They're gonna do things to stay rich

729
00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:43,880
Speaker 3: and make sure that people stay poor.

730
00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:48,640
Speaker 1: Why do you think rent prices? Literally, rent is unlivable.

731
00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:52,360
Speaker 3: Rent highest, That's what I'm saying. Rent is unlivable. People

732
00:30:52,440 --> 00:30:55,440
Speaker 3: are that are making minimum wage. Minimum Wage is supposed

733
00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:57,560
Speaker 3: to be for you know, people that have regular jobs

734
00:30:57,560 --> 00:31:00,280
Speaker 3: to be able to feed themselves and live. So if

735
00:31:00,280 --> 00:31:03,120
Speaker 3: I'm working a minimum wage job, but I'm like a

736
00:31:03,200 --> 00:31:05,560
Speaker 3: rapper on the side, or I'm trying to be a

737
00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:07,560
Speaker 3: lawyer on the side, and I want to go to school.

738
00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:09,520
Speaker 3: How the fuck am I supposed to pay my rent,

739
00:31:09,760 --> 00:31:12,880
Speaker 3: feed myself, give my kid if I have a child,

740
00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:15,480
Speaker 3: give them a babysitting and do all that and go

741
00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:19,560
Speaker 3: to law school or pay for studio time. This world

742
00:31:19,640 --> 00:31:24,400
Speaker 3: is not meant, especially America, especially for black people. It's

743
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:27,480
Speaker 3: not meant for us to be successful. The fact that

744
00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 3: they're even successful black people right now, them old motherfuckers

745
00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:32,680
Speaker 3: is rolling in the grave right now.

746
00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:35,760
Speaker 1: George Washington, like, what the fuck? All right, this is

747
00:31:35,880 --> 00:31:38,760
Speaker 1: not what I signed up. This is not what I

748
00:31:38,840 --> 00:31:43,080
Speaker 1: plan for you. That's what he said. Not niggas, this

749
00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:43,520
Speaker 1: is not.

750
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Speaker 2: I don't like y'all. I don't like saying it the

751
00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:46,800
Speaker 2: hard you are.

752
00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:50,000
Speaker 3: I say, that's not what we're supposed to. But that's

753
00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:52,320
Speaker 3: the point I'm making. It's hard because we have the

754
00:31:52,360 --> 00:31:55,280
Speaker 3: odds against us. So that's the point I'm making. It's

755
00:31:55,360 --> 00:31:57,560
Speaker 3: not meant for us to do anything.

756
00:31:57,960 --> 00:31:59,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's that's very true.

757
00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:02,320
Speaker 4: But I feel like it's so many people though they

758
00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:03,320
Speaker 4: have shown us that you.

759
00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:05,880
Speaker 1: Can do Yeah, you can do it. But like I said,

760
00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:09,240
Speaker 1: it's not fucking easy. It's really not.

761
00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:11,760
Speaker 2: Because it ain't easy. You just gonna saying, can I

762
00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:12,880
Speaker 2: borrow twenty dollars?

763
00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:13,440
Speaker 1: Yeah?

764
00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:15,680
Speaker 3: I did that for let me do it all of them.

765
00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:18,080
Speaker 3: But like I said, it was different from me now.

766
00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:19,080
Speaker 3: But let me tell you why.

767
00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:21,800
Speaker 4: I just don't believe in like giving. Like I said,

768
00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:24,000
Speaker 4: I don't know. Maybe it's just my faith and stuff

769
00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:25,960
Speaker 4: that I be having in God. Like, I just feel

770
00:32:25,960 --> 00:32:26,320
Speaker 4: like if.

771
00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:28,680
Speaker 2: You put the work in, because that's another thing.

772
00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:30,600
Speaker 4: So many people be like, Oh, I'm just gonna keep

773
00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:33,280
Speaker 4: praying and I'm gonna hope that God bring me out

774
00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:33,960
Speaker 4: of this situation.

775
00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:34,480
Speaker 1: He ain't.

776
00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:38,360
Speaker 4: God, Like, he ain't gonna bring you out of it

777
00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:40,600
Speaker 4: if you ain't working well and you ain't trying to

778
00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:43,320
Speaker 4: get yourself out of it. But if you are putting

779
00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:47,080
Speaker 4: the work behind it, I feel like anybody can become successful.

780
00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:48,880
Speaker 4: You just have to want it bad enough and you

781
00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:51,920
Speaker 4: have to grind for it. It's not gonna be easy.

782
00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:54,280
Speaker 1: I mean, it's a long.

783
00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:55,400
Speaker 2: Row, even with us.

784
00:32:55,400 --> 00:32:55,720
Speaker 1: It's like.

785
00:32:56,200 --> 00:32:58,720
Speaker 3: But also, like I said, I have people around me

786
00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:01,600
Speaker 3: that have money that were helping me and getting me

787
00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:04,480
Speaker 3: off of my feet. If you think about somebody that's

788
00:33:04,520 --> 00:33:06,720
Speaker 3: like a single mother or a single father working a

789
00:33:06,760 --> 00:33:11,680
Speaker 3: minimum waste job trying to make it's to get off

790
00:33:11,720 --> 00:33:14,360
Speaker 3: that hole. Like if I would have not got out

791
00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:17,040
Speaker 3: of that hole that I was in if it wasn't

792
00:33:17,080 --> 00:33:19,959
Speaker 3: for my mom, you, my sister, Like I had a

793
00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:23,640
Speaker 3: support system around me that literally was pulling me by

794
00:33:23,720 --> 00:33:24,880
Speaker 3: my fucking.

795
00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:27,680
Speaker 2: Not by your ankle, by the ankles.

796
00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:31,200
Speaker 3: Bitch, like seriously, but not for the people who don't

797
00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:33,480
Speaker 3: have that, you know what I'm saying. So that's why

798
00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:35,440
Speaker 3: I feel like people in the family, they feel like,

799
00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:39,160
Speaker 3: oh damn, somebody made it out. And like I said,

800
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Speaker 3: even though it's kind of uncomfortable and you shouldn't be

801
00:33:41,280 --> 00:33:43,400
Speaker 3: asking people for money. But that's why I feel like

802
00:33:43,840 --> 00:33:48,320
Speaker 3: education and teaching people is way more valuable than money.

803
00:33:47,960 --> 00:33:51,080
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like that's a given.

804
00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:53,280
Speaker 3: So I feel like being a successful in your family,

805
00:33:53,320 --> 00:33:56,000
Speaker 3: everybody like, oh she asked me for Yeah, it's a

806
00:33:56,000 --> 00:33:58,800
Speaker 3: bad but it's a blessing because you know what, maybe

807
00:33:58,840 --> 00:34:01,120
Speaker 3: you should just have a conversation with your cousin Shu,

808
00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:03,280
Speaker 3: like Okay, well what can you do, Like let's let's

809
00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:06,440
Speaker 3: make you like, how can we hustle like, what can

810
00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:08,200
Speaker 3: we do so you don't have to ask me for money?

811
00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:09,719
Speaker 3: How can you teach them how to make some money?

812
00:34:09,719 --> 00:34:11,800
Speaker 3: Because but you know how to make some money.

813
00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:13,319
Speaker 2: I do know how to make some money. But I

814
00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:15,239
Speaker 2: just feel like that's some shit that's just in me.

815
00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:18,480
Speaker 1: Though, But you said it, Okay, but it's just in you?

816
00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:23,120
Speaker 3: Or is it everybody can be successful? I feel like, bitch, No,

817
00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:25,920
Speaker 3: I feel like everybody can be successful. But you you

818
00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:27,359
Speaker 3: misunderstanding what I'm saying.

819
00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:29,080
Speaker 2: Some people it's just in them.

820
00:34:29,280 --> 00:34:31,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, they don't necessarily need to be taught because that

821
00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:34,160
Speaker 4: shit is in them. You know how to get you

822
00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:36,880
Speaker 4: some money. Yeah, But that's what I'm saying. So everybody

823
00:34:36,960 --> 00:34:39,440
Speaker 4: is capable of being successful. Some people just have to

824
00:34:39,480 --> 00:34:42,440
Speaker 4: be taught. But I'm speaking for myself, bitch, I'm saying

825
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:45,160
Speaker 4: that she just in me. I'm gonna get some money.

826
00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:46,240
Speaker 1: So you just teach your cousin.

827
00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:47,920
Speaker 4: It's a lot of people out there that are like that,

828
00:34:48,080 --> 00:34:49,720
Speaker 4: Like they just hustlers by nature.

829
00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:51,160
Speaker 2: They know how to get them some money.

830
00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:54,000
Speaker 4: They don't need to. I mean, you're never above being

831
00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:55,799
Speaker 4: taught anything. It's still a lot of shit that I

832
00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:57,799
Speaker 4: can learn a lot of things that I still need

833
00:34:57,840 --> 00:34:59,640
Speaker 4: to learn, you know what I mean? But I feel

834
00:34:59,640 --> 00:35:01,480
Speaker 4: like just being a hustler and knowing how to get

835
00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:03,759
Speaker 4: some bread. I just always been this type of person.

836
00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:06,160
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna not have money, right, I mean, I

837
00:35:06,200 --> 00:35:08,200
Speaker 4: feel the same like I don't feel I wasn't if

838
00:35:08,200 --> 00:35:10,080
Speaker 4: I don't got no money, right, I get that.

839
00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:11,240
Speaker 1: And I feel like if.

840
00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:12,560
Speaker 2: I can't do the shit that I want to do,

841
00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:14,359
Speaker 2: you know what I mean when I want to do.

842
00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:17,240
Speaker 1: It, because I mean I learned shit from you too. Yeah.

843
00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:20,440
Speaker 3: I went from leimmea twenty dollars to let me your

844
00:35:20,440 --> 00:35:23,359
Speaker 3: thumb knock two, you know, let me get too nam knock.

845
00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:26,080
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. You can learn different things.

846
00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:28,719
Speaker 4: I had a dream last night that somebody depositive twenty

847
00:35:28,719 --> 00:35:30,680
Speaker 4: five thousand dollars in my bank account.

848
00:35:31,760 --> 00:35:32,200
Speaker 2: Hopefully.

849
00:35:32,719 --> 00:35:36,120
Speaker 3: All right, Okay, let's just watch the next topic because

850
00:35:36,120 --> 00:35:37,440
Speaker 3: we spend a lot of time on that.

851
00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:39,479
Speaker 1: Because what thing you gonna talk about it some money?

852
00:35:39,560 --> 00:35:41,280
Speaker 2: Bit y'all love fucking money.

853
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856
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857
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858
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859
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860
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Speaker 1: Makeup application actually looks.

861
00:35:57,600 --> 00:36:00,799
Speaker 3: But also people gotta realize it's not just about people

862
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863
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864
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865
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885
00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:06,839
Speaker 3: first visit from Okay, Okay, i' gonna let you bringing

886
00:37:06,880 --> 00:37:08,759
Speaker 3: this one too, because I have a situation I want

887
00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:09,640
Speaker 3: to talk about with this one.

888
00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:12,840
Speaker 4: Okay, So for the next topic we wanted to talk about.

889
00:37:13,440 --> 00:37:16,359
Speaker 4: You know, women that are always talking about women empowermen

890
00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:19,360
Speaker 4: and how they want to see other women wen and

891
00:37:19,440 --> 00:37:21,680
Speaker 4: a lot of the time those same women really don't

892
00:37:21,840 --> 00:37:23,719
Speaker 4: be for women and they really don't want to see

893
00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:26,200
Speaker 4: other women, you know. I mean, it's just a faciety.

894
00:37:26,200 --> 00:37:28,360
Speaker 4: It's just something that they're doing on social media to

895
00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:32,880
Speaker 4: make themselves likable. Are sometimes to make money. Going back

896
00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:34,680
Speaker 4: to what we were talking about about making money, you know,

897
00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:39,160
Speaker 4: it's so many women who start these women empowerment tours

898
00:37:39,360 --> 00:37:42,040
Speaker 4: and all of these different things, and you know, women

899
00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:44,239
Speaker 4: are paying money to them to try to go to

900
00:37:44,320 --> 00:37:47,600
Speaker 4: these meetings and see how to make them some money

901
00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:50,080
Speaker 4: and see how to become successful and all this type

902
00:37:50,080 --> 00:37:52,560
Speaker 4: of stuff, or are be mentored by the specific women.

903
00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:55,600
Speaker 4: But these women, a lot of these women aren't really

904
00:37:55,680 --> 00:37:58,000
Speaker 4: who they portray themselves to be in real life.

905
00:37:58,200 --> 00:37:58,480
Speaker 1: Right.

906
00:38:00,239 --> 00:38:03,120
Speaker 3: Oh Okay, Well, I want to say first, because I

907
00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:04,560
Speaker 3: know what people are gonna be there, like, okay, but

908
00:38:04,600 --> 00:38:05,319
Speaker 3: what about men?

909
00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:07,239
Speaker 1: Because men don't be for men. I can't speak on

910
00:38:07,280 --> 00:38:07,520
Speaker 1: a man.

911
00:38:07,520 --> 00:38:09,000
Speaker 3: I'm not a man. I don't have balls, I don't

912
00:38:09,000 --> 00:38:11,920
Speaker 3: have a dick. Contrary to popular belief, when people like.

913
00:38:11,880 --> 00:38:14,439
Speaker 1: To say nobody says this, let me trying to say

914
00:38:14,440 --> 00:38:19,240
Speaker 1: I give him. I'm giving, but there's a put weird.

915
00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:22,799
Speaker 1: But anyway, we're not talking about men right now.

916
00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:24,799
Speaker 3: We're just speaking from a woman's point of view because

917
00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:26,480
Speaker 3: I know that's the first thing people are gonna say,

918
00:38:26,520 --> 00:38:27,840
Speaker 3: So are women.

919
00:38:27,640 --> 00:38:28,799
Speaker 1: Really for each other?

920
00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:32,120
Speaker 3: I had an experience one time. Of course I'm not

921
00:38:32,120 --> 00:38:34,560
Speaker 3: gonna name drop, but I looked up to this person.

922
00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:40,560
Speaker 3: She was still is a millionaire. She was making fire content,

923
00:38:40,880 --> 00:38:44,279
Speaker 3: like signing these deals, doing this and doing that, and

924
00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:46,359
Speaker 3: she was like, oh, I'm going to drop a book

925
00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:50,640
Speaker 3: on how to get your social media, you know, interactions up,

926
00:38:50,680 --> 00:38:52,360
Speaker 3: and how to make money and how to meet with

927
00:38:52,400 --> 00:38:55,480
Speaker 3: these brands and do this and do that, y'all. And

928
00:38:55,600 --> 00:38:57,480
Speaker 3: y'all know I always talk about it. When I moved

929
00:38:57,520 --> 00:39:00,640
Speaker 3: out here, bitch, I was broke. I'm like down to

930
00:39:00,719 --> 00:39:03,239
Speaker 3: my last let me get torn you know what I'm saying,

931
00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:06,240
Speaker 3: So we remember in order to buy her book.

932
00:39:06,239 --> 00:39:07,839
Speaker 1: That's why I was like, let me get torn on,

933
00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:09,400
Speaker 1: because I was trying to buy her book.

934
00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:12,000
Speaker 3: So I had to borrow twenty dollars from four people

935
00:39:12,040 --> 00:39:14,000
Speaker 3: on this occasion to get her book. It was like

936
00:39:14,000 --> 00:39:16,560
Speaker 3: an eighty dollars book. Then it wasn't even a physical

937
00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:19,839
Speaker 3: copy book. It was an online book. Mind you, When

938
00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:21,880
Speaker 3: I let me just say this, maybe this is a

939
00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:23,959
Speaker 3: cheap person in me, or maybe it's a business woman

940
00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:26,319
Speaker 3: in me. Anytime I buy a product from somebody, I

941
00:39:26,320 --> 00:39:27,320
Speaker 3: always think about.

942
00:39:27,080 --> 00:39:30,720
Speaker 1: The margin and like how much they're making honestly.

943
00:39:30,600 --> 00:39:34,480
Speaker 3: Because if you're selling an online course that's very short,

944
00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:36,080
Speaker 3: why the fuck is it eighty dollars?

945
00:39:36,239 --> 00:39:37,880
Speaker 1: Because you're not using no materials?

946
00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:40,759
Speaker 3: You not everything is online and not it's not physical,

947
00:39:40,800 --> 00:39:41,439
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying.

948
00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:43,560
Speaker 4: Maybe it's just more so one of them situations where

949
00:39:43,560 --> 00:39:44,960
Speaker 4: you're like just paying for the knowledge.

950
00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:47,560
Speaker 2: You know how people live to say, so not told.

951
00:39:47,760 --> 00:39:50,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, but once I bought the book, it was stuff

952
00:39:50,760 --> 00:39:54,600
Speaker 3: that was literally and that's when I knew women are

953
00:39:55,040 --> 00:39:56,719
Speaker 3: not a lot of times let me not speak for

954
00:39:56,760 --> 00:40:00,319
Speaker 3: all women. A lot of times it made me sad

955
00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:04,600
Speaker 3: because it made me realize how much we take advantage

956
00:40:04,960 --> 00:40:09,239
Speaker 3: of each other. Because the I feel like women are

957
00:40:09,360 --> 00:40:11,279
Speaker 3: very hungry, like we want to get it. We gonna

958
00:40:11,320 --> 00:40:13,960
Speaker 3: go out there and do it. Like remember the statistic

959
00:40:14,040 --> 00:40:15,480
Speaker 3: we talked about a long time ago and it was

960
00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:19,879
Speaker 3: like the most educated like demographic in America was black women,

961
00:40:20,080 --> 00:40:21,799
Speaker 3: like trying to go out there and get it. So

962
00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:24,480
Speaker 3: for me to take advantage of that and be like

963
00:40:25,480 --> 00:40:28,000
Speaker 3: selling a book, that was like telling you, oh, you

964
00:40:28,120 --> 00:40:31,239
Speaker 3: have to get a good camera. Oh you have to

965
00:40:32,320 --> 00:40:36,360
Speaker 3: interact with the people in your comments. Basic shit, you

966
00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:40,720
Speaker 3: know what I'm saying, Like the super super basic stuff

967
00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:43,160
Speaker 3: that everybody need. Everybody there, Like, yeah, if I want

968
00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:44,759
Speaker 3: my content to get up, I know I have to

969
00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:46,760
Speaker 3: post more. I know I have to have clear pictures.

970
00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:48,640
Speaker 3: I know I have to interact. But like tell me, like,

971
00:40:48,920 --> 00:40:51,560
Speaker 3: is there like something with the algorithm like break the

972
00:40:51,600 --> 00:40:55,200
Speaker 3: shit fucking down and tell me. Like whenever we first

973
00:40:55,239 --> 00:40:57,160
Speaker 3: started podcasts, like people ask me all the time, Oh

974
00:40:57,200 --> 00:40:59,200
Speaker 3: how do you get asked? And I tell people all

975
00:40:59,239 --> 00:41:02,600
Speaker 3: the companies that use when we first started, I'm like, hey,

976
00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:04,359
Speaker 3: they may not pay you that much, but guess what

977
00:41:04,400 --> 00:41:06,879
Speaker 3: it's gonna be something to put in your pocket. I'll

978
00:41:06,920 --> 00:41:09,200
Speaker 3: be telling people how to directly go to the money.

979
00:41:09,239 --> 00:41:11,239
Speaker 3: Like if you have a question, I'm telling you how

980
00:41:11,280 --> 00:41:13,920
Speaker 3: to directly go. So I'm thinking she gonna like be

981
00:41:14,040 --> 00:41:17,400
Speaker 3: putting every time I bought like a book, went to

982
00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:20,399
Speaker 3: a brunch. It's never like literally showing you directly how

983
00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:23,400
Speaker 3: to get to the money. It's just like, oh, stay confident,

984
00:41:23,760 --> 00:41:25,120
Speaker 3: be consistent.

985
00:41:24,719 --> 00:41:29,200
Speaker 1: Stay strong. It's like, y'all phonies, that's some whole ass shit.

986
00:41:29,760 --> 00:41:32,879
Speaker 3: That's really some whole ass shit if you really really

987
00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:35,880
Speaker 3: think about it, bro, It's like, yeah, it's like a hustle.

988
00:41:35,920 --> 00:41:39,440
Speaker 3: But at the same time, you know that people are

989
00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:41,719
Speaker 3: desperate to make money and be rich or it's like,

990
00:41:42,080 --> 00:41:43,920
Speaker 3: as a black woman, how can you do that to

991
00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:46,040
Speaker 3: other black women that are trying to get to where

992
00:41:46,080 --> 00:41:49,239
Speaker 3: you are? I would never if we ever sell a

993
00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:51,000
Speaker 3: book on here, trust me, it's gonna be some tea

994
00:41:51,480 --> 00:41:53,480
Speaker 3: and you gonna know what the fuck to do.

995
00:41:53,800 --> 00:41:56,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I don't know.

996
00:41:56,280 --> 00:42:00,279
Speaker 4: I feel like because people are money hungry. You know,

997
00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:02,439
Speaker 4: people are money hungry, So it's like if they see

998
00:42:02,440 --> 00:42:04,720
Speaker 4: a space and an opportunity where they can make money

999
00:42:04,760 --> 00:42:08,080
Speaker 4: off of people who are not to say naive, but

1000
00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:10,320
Speaker 4: like you said, people that are desperate maybe right, know

1001
00:42:10,320 --> 00:42:11,960
Speaker 4: what I mean? Cause a lot of people be desperate,

1002
00:42:12,040 --> 00:42:15,319
Speaker 4: like they be down today, last they be indeed me,

1003
00:42:15,920 --> 00:42:17,680
Speaker 4: they be in a lot of dead you know what

1004
00:42:17,680 --> 00:42:19,360
Speaker 4: I mean. They trying to figure a way out of

1005
00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:22,200
Speaker 4: their situation. And so then when you follow these people

1006
00:42:22,200 --> 00:42:24,279
Speaker 4: on social media and you have a person who is

1007
00:42:24,560 --> 00:42:27,200
Speaker 4: you know, they're telling you how they made their first

1008
00:42:27,239 --> 00:42:29,560
Speaker 4: million dollars in here and all of this stuff, it's

1009
00:42:29,600 --> 00:42:32,120
Speaker 4: like you're gonna try to follow that exact same blueprint

1010
00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:35,000
Speaker 4: that they claim that they took to get to the money. Right,

1011
00:42:35,120 --> 00:42:36,719
Speaker 4: But like you said, a lot of the time you're

1012
00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:40,279
Speaker 4: not really even giving no great advice or you're not

1013
00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:45,600
Speaker 4: telling someone exactly how you exactly. So I don't know,

1014
00:42:45,960 --> 00:42:47,880
Speaker 4: I think it's very strange, you know what I mean.

1015
00:42:47,960 --> 00:42:50,359
Speaker 4: I feel like we have met some people too, like

1016
00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:53,360
Speaker 4: living in their LANDA. Have definitely met some people women

1017
00:42:53,920 --> 00:42:56,319
Speaker 4: who try to act like they just sow for women,

1018
00:42:56,400 --> 00:42:58,960
Speaker 4: empower me and they really lowkey hate women.

1019
00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:01,920
Speaker 3: And let me say this as well, because you know what,

1020
00:43:02,000 --> 00:43:04,400
Speaker 3: I feel like, it's cool right now, It's cool right

1021
00:43:04,440 --> 00:43:06,680
Speaker 3: now to be like, oh, let's band together and bash

1022
00:43:06,800 --> 00:43:09,640
Speaker 3: mean to let me tell yall something we love obviously,

1023
00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:10,719
Speaker 3: we love niggas.

1024
00:43:11,040 --> 00:43:15,120
Speaker 1: We love men. Episode we talk about niggas.

1025
00:43:15,160 --> 00:43:17,880
Speaker 3: So it's like, even though people feel like we bash men,

1026
00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:19,719
Speaker 3: we're really not bashing men. I feel like we're just

1027
00:43:19,719 --> 00:43:22,120
Speaker 3: telling them how to be better men and how we

1028
00:43:22,239 --> 00:43:23,480
Speaker 3: like to be courted and shit.

1029
00:43:23,360 --> 00:43:24,879
Speaker 2: Like I mean, and we just talk about our own

1030
00:43:24,920 --> 00:43:26,280
Speaker 2: personal exactly.

1031
00:43:26,880 --> 00:43:29,000
Speaker 3: But at the end of the day, we're not faking

1032
00:43:29,080 --> 00:43:31,520
Speaker 3: like we really are for women, like we really want

1033
00:43:31,560 --> 00:43:34,440
Speaker 3: to see women when like we love having we have

1034
00:43:34,560 --> 00:43:36,160
Speaker 3: more women on the show than we do men.

1035
00:43:36,719 --> 00:43:40,000
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. So it's not faking to me.

1036
00:43:40,560 --> 00:43:44,239
Speaker 3: A lot of people fake like they are a feminist,

1037
00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:47,960
Speaker 3: they're four black women because it's marketable right now, everything

1038
00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:52,880
Speaker 3: about especially like everything goes viral, like like when like

1039
00:43:53,200 --> 00:43:56,680
Speaker 3: a woman is dark skin or she's not a small

1040
00:43:56,680 --> 00:43:59,640
Speaker 3: waist fat like big butt, like you know, it's because

1041
00:43:59,640 --> 00:44:01,440
Speaker 3: it's more marketable right now. A lot of people are

1042
00:44:01,440 --> 00:44:03,319
Speaker 3: doing shit just because it's marketable, Like oh, I want

1043
00:44:03,320 --> 00:44:05,279
Speaker 3: to shoot you, And it's like you don't really want

1044
00:44:05,280 --> 00:44:07,560
Speaker 3: to see the essence of this woman and see her succeed.

1045
00:44:07,760 --> 00:44:09,440
Speaker 3: You're just doing that because you probably know this picture

1046
00:44:09,520 --> 00:44:12,400
Speaker 3: is gonna go viral because that's what everybody's doing right now.

1047
00:44:12,640 --> 00:44:14,040
Speaker 3: You know, Like, I feel like a lot of people

1048
00:44:14,080 --> 00:44:17,440
Speaker 3: aren't moving genuinely anymore when it comes to the black

1049
00:44:17,520 --> 00:44:23,040
Speaker 3: woman's market because guess what, if any demographic is gonna

1050
00:44:23,040 --> 00:44:26,880
Speaker 3: spend money, it's black women, right, We gonna spend some

1051
00:44:26,920 --> 00:44:30,200
Speaker 3: other fucking money. And everybody knows that if we want something,

1052
00:44:30,239 --> 00:44:33,600
Speaker 3: we gonna buy it. Literally ninety percent of our customers,

1053
00:44:33,640 --> 00:44:34,600
Speaker 3: like when we buy.

1054
00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:36,800
Speaker 1: Stuff, I mean when we sell stuff, go.

1055
00:44:36,719 --> 00:44:39,560
Speaker 3: To live shows, it's the black women, right, you know

1056
00:44:39,600 --> 00:44:41,800
Speaker 3: what I'm saying, Like they gonna buy something, they're gonna invest.

1057
00:44:41,840 --> 00:44:44,799
Speaker 3: So people have caught onto that. That's why there's so

1058
00:44:45,000 --> 00:44:48,360
Speaker 3: many Twitter accounts that have been put on blast for

1059
00:44:48,480 --> 00:44:52,880
Speaker 3: not even being black women. Like a whole episode that

1060
00:44:52,920 --> 00:44:56,240
Speaker 3: happened about like this Twitter account and it was always

1061
00:44:56,280 --> 00:44:58,640
Speaker 3: posting like black stuff, positive black things, and it.

1062
00:44:58,600 --> 00:45:00,839
Speaker 1: Came out it was like a a gay black guy.

1063
00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:03,600
Speaker 3: But that just goes like to show you, like, people

1064
00:45:03,640 --> 00:45:06,239
Speaker 3: take advantage of our market so much that black women

1065
00:45:06,280 --> 00:45:09,080
Speaker 3: have started doing it ourselves. And it's like instead of

1066
00:45:09,160 --> 00:45:13,960
Speaker 3: taking that shit back and really making it meaningful, they

1067
00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:15,759
Speaker 3: just adding to the bullshit.

1068
00:45:15,760 --> 00:45:20,200
Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, I mean it definitely sucks because, like I said,

1069
00:45:20,200 --> 00:45:22,920
Speaker 4: it's something that we see all the time, unfortunately, And

1070
00:45:23,000 --> 00:45:25,839
Speaker 4: there are a lot of women that make a lot

1071
00:45:25,840 --> 00:45:27,919
Speaker 4: of money off of these soup you know what I mean.

1072
00:45:28,000 --> 00:45:29,799
Speaker 4: But they make a lot of money off of it

1073
00:45:29,840 --> 00:45:31,560
Speaker 4: because y'all be supporting.

1074
00:45:31,760 --> 00:45:33,680
Speaker 3: But they don't know no better. Cause, like I said,

1075
00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:35,759
Speaker 3: I was a victim to that. I didn't know no better.

1076
00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:39,160
Speaker 3: I was like, man, she's four women and I bought

1077
00:45:39,160 --> 00:45:41,840
Speaker 3: that book, and I was like me and Dre already

1078
00:45:41,840 --> 00:45:42,880
Speaker 3: figured this out ourselves.

1079
00:45:42,880 --> 00:45:43,440
Speaker 2: Who was he?

1080
00:45:43,760 --> 00:45:44,719
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you later?

1081
00:45:46,080 --> 00:45:47,720
Speaker 4: Well I knew he wasn't gonna say it out loud.

1082
00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:52,440
Speaker 4: Oh okay, but that makes.

1083
00:45:52,239 --> 00:45:52,960
Speaker 1: A lot of sense.

1084
00:45:53,800 --> 00:45:56,719
Speaker 4: So but yeah, I don't know, I never been really

1085
00:45:56,719 --> 00:45:58,480
Speaker 4: being a person who had like I don't think I

1086
00:45:58,560 --> 00:46:01,040
Speaker 4: ever bought like no she like they like pay for

1087
00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:05,000
Speaker 4: a corysupport from somebody, or bought one of their books

1088
00:46:05,080 --> 00:46:06,600
Speaker 4: or they claim they gonna show you how to get

1089
00:46:06,640 --> 00:46:09,239
Speaker 4: some money. Because I just feel like it'd be a

1090
00:46:09,280 --> 00:46:11,200
Speaker 4: lot of other ship that be going on behind the

1091
00:46:11,200 --> 00:46:13,880
Speaker 4: scenes too, Like a lot of the time people are

1092
00:46:13,880 --> 00:46:15,719
Speaker 4: trying to make it seem like they self made and

1093
00:46:15,760 --> 00:46:17,920
Speaker 4: this and this, but they be havingt seed money.

1094
00:46:18,280 --> 00:46:19,240
Speaker 1: What seed money?

1095
00:46:19,440 --> 00:46:21,839
Speaker 2: Like, somebody gave you the money to start your bes?

1096
00:46:21,920 --> 00:46:24,239
Speaker 1: Me getting hot now all I.

1097
00:46:24,160 --> 00:46:26,040
Speaker 4: Mean, somebody gave you the money to start your business.

1098
00:46:26,520 --> 00:46:28,840
Speaker 4: Somebody or you had somebody helping.

1099
00:46:28,480 --> 00:46:30,120
Speaker 1: You, you know, putting you on.

1100
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Speaker 4: Game or somebody else that was super successful at the

1101
00:46:32,600 --> 00:46:34,239
Speaker 4: same thing that you were trying to do. That kind

1102
00:46:34,280 --> 00:46:36,160
Speaker 4: of put you on and told you what you needed

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00:46:36,200 --> 00:46:38,919
Speaker 4: to do and gave you the connections.

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00:46:38,320 --> 00:46:39,240
Speaker 1: And all that stuff.

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Speaker 4: It's a lot of times that type of stuff be

1106
00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:44,879
Speaker 4: going on too, and women and women and me trying

1107
00:46:44,880 --> 00:46:46,480
Speaker 4: to make it seem like they just self made.

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Speaker 3: I like that you said that the seed money, because

1109
00:46:48,840 --> 00:46:50,520
Speaker 3: that's a big, big, big.

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00:46:50,640 --> 00:46:53,399
Speaker 1: Big, big big deal. Hell yeah, you can't start.

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00:46:53,400 --> 00:46:56,239
Speaker 4: It's certain businesses you can't start without no money up

1112
00:46:56,280 --> 00:46:57,440
Speaker 4: front something.

1113
00:46:58,640 --> 00:47:01,399
Speaker 1: If you don't have at least five hundred you can't

1114
00:47:01,440 --> 00:47:02,439
Speaker 1: even get into that ship.

1115
00:47:02,600 --> 00:47:05,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's some stuff you can do without some money.

1116
00:47:05,239 --> 00:47:09,479
Speaker 4: Like with us, it's like starting for money. You ain't

1117
00:47:09,600 --> 00:47:10,920
Speaker 4: really really need no money.

1118
00:47:11,239 --> 00:47:12,120
Speaker 1: If you broke.

1119
00:47:14,160 --> 00:47:15,839
Speaker 2: Me, you ain't really This is the type of ship.

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Speaker 4: You don't really need money to start you just gotta start,

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00:47:18,560 --> 00:47:20,360
Speaker 4: you know what I mean. It's like, I mean, I

1122
00:47:20,360 --> 00:47:23,399
Speaker 4: guess technically you don't need well, you gotta be good,

1123
00:47:23,560 --> 00:47:26,279
Speaker 4: that's number one. But then you do need certain things though,

1124
00:47:26,360 --> 00:47:28,640
Speaker 4: like you need a you need a camera, you need

1125
00:47:28,680 --> 00:47:32,640
Speaker 4: a slaptop, you know, you need a thing. But you

1126
00:47:32,680 --> 00:47:34,400
Speaker 4: don't need a lot of money to start.

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00:47:34,680 --> 00:47:35,480
Speaker 1: You don't know what I mean.

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Speaker 4: So I mean there are things like I said that

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00:47:38,800 --> 00:47:40,560
Speaker 4: you don't need a lot of startup money with any

1130
00:47:40,680 --> 00:47:43,160
Speaker 4: certain ship. Yeah, you you had somebody give you a

1131
00:47:43,160 --> 00:47:45,239
Speaker 4: good little team car to start their disneys.

1132
00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:48,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, for show.

1133
00:47:48,520 --> 00:47:51,360
Speaker 4: And it ended up turning into a million dollar business.

1134
00:47:51,440 --> 00:47:54,680
Speaker 4: But you got some startup money, right, and you didn't

1135
00:47:54,800 --> 00:47:57,040
Speaker 4: just blind and get that ship out the mud and

1136
00:47:57,080 --> 00:47:58,280
Speaker 4: then now you're a millionaires.

1137
00:47:58,360 --> 00:47:59,840
Speaker 3: If people are honest, that could be like, you know,

1138
00:48:00,320 --> 00:48:04,320
Speaker 3: to start this, you need ten k because to be like, okay,

1139
00:48:04,360 --> 00:48:08,000
Speaker 3: cool my nigga for tenk, like be honest, just be asked,

1140
00:48:08,200 --> 00:48:11,040
Speaker 3: just be fucking honest. But like I said, a lot

1141
00:48:11,040 --> 00:48:12,640
Speaker 3: of these and I don't want to just say women,

1142
00:48:13,320 --> 00:48:15,200
Speaker 3: but a lot of people do be like scamming. So

1143
00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:17,240
Speaker 3: I just want to know a lot of people be scamming.

1144
00:48:17,320 --> 00:48:18,120
Speaker 3: That's what I was saying.

1145
00:48:18,160 --> 00:48:21,480
Speaker 4: People be saying shit, that is not how they story went,

1146
00:48:21,560 --> 00:48:24,120
Speaker 4: but they try to make it sound like that just

1147
00:48:24,160 --> 00:48:28,040
Speaker 4: because I feel like struggle, for whatever reason, make people

1148
00:48:28,080 --> 00:48:31,520
Speaker 4: want to support you more. Yeah, yep, And that's something

1149
00:48:31,520 --> 00:48:34,360
Speaker 4: that I'm realizing with our show. You know what I mean, Like,

1150
00:48:34,440 --> 00:48:36,839
Speaker 4: I feel like I say certain stuff sometimes and then

1151
00:48:36,840 --> 00:48:39,240
Speaker 4: people be feeling like I'm like, I make it seem

1152
00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:41,440
Speaker 4: like I've never been through nothing, and it's like it

1153
00:48:41,480 --> 00:48:42,839
Speaker 4: ain't that I ain't ever been through nothing.

1154
00:48:42,880 --> 00:48:44,400
Speaker 2: I just ain't been through what you want me to

1155
00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:44,839
Speaker 2: go through.

1156
00:48:45,160 --> 00:48:46,839
Speaker 4: Like you want me to lie. You try to make

1157
00:48:46,880 --> 00:48:49,560
Speaker 4: my boat them more relatable. I didn't start from the bob.

1158
00:48:49,600 --> 00:48:50,239
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie.

1159
00:48:50,239 --> 00:48:52,480
Speaker 3: Like, yeah, I talk about like I talk about me

1160
00:48:52,520 --> 00:48:56,080
Speaker 3: being broken, like between us always had a roof over

1161
00:48:56,120 --> 00:48:56,960
Speaker 3: my head when I was.

1162
00:48:56,960 --> 00:48:59,879
Speaker 1: Living on dragon couch. Please believe it was a men

1163
00:49:00,120 --> 00:49:02,360
Speaker 1: rise pool views. I was in a.

1164
00:49:02,360 --> 00:49:06,239
Speaker 3: Good struggling and eating every day. I was a very

1165
00:49:06,280 --> 00:49:09,360
Speaker 3: pampered homeless person. Okay, it's not the same.

1166
00:49:09,800 --> 00:49:10,520
Speaker 1: No why, but.

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Speaker 4: I do feel like and I don't know why it's

1168
00:49:14,520 --> 00:49:16,840
Speaker 4: like that, but it's like people want to support Like

1169
00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:19,240
Speaker 4: people will support you if they feel like you struggle

1170
00:49:20,000 --> 00:49:23,360
Speaker 4: more than they. Yeah, and that's just not everybody's story.

1171
00:49:23,440 --> 00:49:24,839
Speaker 4: So I do feel like a lot of time, that's

1172
00:49:24,840 --> 00:49:27,359
Speaker 4: why people lie about this type of shed. They'll lie

1173
00:49:27,400 --> 00:49:28,839
Speaker 4: and try to make it seem like, oh, I just

1174
00:49:28,880 --> 00:49:31,000
Speaker 4: had such a hard time and I came from the

1175
00:49:31,000 --> 00:49:32,920
Speaker 4: bottom and let me tell you how I made it.

1176
00:49:33,160 --> 00:49:35,200
Speaker 4: But in reality, you ain't really go through all that.

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00:49:35,360 --> 00:49:35,760
Speaker 2: You ain't.

1178
00:49:36,040 --> 00:49:38,360
Speaker 4: You ain't really been through nothing for real. You just

1179
00:49:38,520 --> 00:49:40,640
Speaker 4: was kind of lucky. And some people do just end

1180
00:49:40,719 --> 00:49:42,960
Speaker 4: up being lucky. Let's call a spade a spade.

1181
00:49:43,280 --> 00:49:43,520
Speaker 1: Life.

1182
00:49:43,560 --> 00:49:44,320
Speaker 2: Ain't there like that.

1183
00:49:44,600 --> 00:49:45,120
Speaker 1: It's nice.

1184
00:49:45,160 --> 00:49:48,080
Speaker 4: Some people just end up getting in lucky, luckier positions

1185
00:49:48,120 --> 00:49:48,760
Speaker 4: than other people.

1186
00:49:48,880 --> 00:49:50,600
Speaker 3: I definitely agree with that, But that's why I said

1187
00:49:50,640 --> 00:49:53,319
Speaker 3: it's not easy. It's not meant some people just but.

1188
00:49:53,320 --> 00:49:56,520
Speaker 4: I feel like if you're lying about what you've been through,

1189
00:49:56,719 --> 00:49:57,840
Speaker 4: that's you're skimming people.

1190
00:49:57,920 --> 00:50:02,320
Speaker 3: Okay, So the real house, it's not what is it

1191
00:50:02,840 --> 00:50:07,000
Speaker 3: na Potomac? What's the other one? What Seattle? Is it Seattle?

1192
00:50:08,000 --> 00:50:09,759
Speaker 3: I can't think of the name, okay.

1193
00:50:09,520 --> 00:50:15,120
Speaker 1: But basically the girl the lady got arrested for I'm

1194
00:50:15,160 --> 00:50:16,239
Speaker 1: about to google it real quick.

1195
00:50:16,280 --> 00:50:19,600
Speaker 3: The lady got arrested because she was a scammer and

1196
00:50:21,640 --> 00:50:25,200
Speaker 3: what is it Salt Lake City. I watched a documentary

1197
00:50:25,239 --> 00:50:28,359
Speaker 3: on her. She was scamming people. Mind you, she has

1198
00:50:28,400 --> 00:50:31,839
Speaker 3: a chalet in Salt Lake City. Everybody's trying to keep

1199
00:50:31,920 --> 00:50:33,640
Speaker 3: up with her. She got on do check about her.

1200
00:50:33,719 --> 00:50:36,279
Speaker 3: She's got a personal design, she got on this, she

1201
00:50:36,360 --> 00:50:39,000
Speaker 3: got on that. Everybody's looking at this woman like, oh

1202
00:50:39,040 --> 00:50:41,040
Speaker 3: my god, Oh my god.

1203
00:50:41,280 --> 00:50:44,359
Speaker 1: She's literally on Bravo. Bravo is one of the most

1204
00:50:44,400 --> 00:50:45,640
Speaker 1: like if you I'm not gonna lie to.

1205
00:50:45,640 --> 00:50:50,960
Speaker 3: Y'all to get on Real Housewives and Bravo, you doing

1206
00:50:51,000 --> 00:50:53,359
Speaker 3: something like you really making some money, Like if you're

1207
00:50:53,400 --> 00:50:55,360
Speaker 3: in the reality world or you like reality TV, you know,

1208
00:50:55,360 --> 00:50:59,440
Speaker 3: if you're on Housewives, you're doing you're making some serious cash. Okay,

1209
00:50:59,480 --> 00:51:01,840
Speaker 3: So she's on Real Housewives of Salt Lake City.

1210
00:51:03,320 --> 00:51:04,400
Speaker 1: And it came out.

1211
00:51:04,239 --> 00:51:06,920
Speaker 3: That she was a scammer, like of like doing like

1212
00:51:06,960 --> 00:51:09,560
Speaker 3: the telephone calls, like she had a whole fake company.

1213
00:51:10,280 --> 00:51:12,000
Speaker 1: They had people like literally a lady.

1214
00:51:12,080 --> 00:51:14,400
Speaker 3: It was an old it was an older black lady,

1215
00:51:14,600 --> 00:51:17,920
Speaker 3: and she was trying to start a company. And she

1216
00:51:18,080 --> 00:51:20,880
Speaker 3: has spent like I want to say, they said like

1217
00:51:21,680 --> 00:51:24,040
Speaker 3: twenty thousand dollars trying to invest in her company, and

1218
00:51:24,080 --> 00:51:26,879
Speaker 3: basically they was just eating her money up. But this

1219
00:51:27,080 --> 00:51:29,880
Speaker 3: is the shit that I'm talking about, because it's the

1220
00:51:29,920 --> 00:51:32,520
Speaker 3: same thing y'all are taking advantage of, like older women

1221
00:51:32,560 --> 00:51:34,760
Speaker 3: that oh, I want to start at my own business

1222
00:51:34,800 --> 00:51:36,840
Speaker 3: because I see, oh you can make money online.

1223
00:51:36,880 --> 00:51:38,920
Speaker 1: Like y'all are taking advantage.

1224
00:51:38,440 --> 00:51:41,879
Speaker 3: Of people, and like, yeah, my situation, I only spent

1225
00:51:41,960 --> 00:51:44,040
Speaker 3: eighty dollars, but then yeah, there's women out here that

1226
00:51:44,080 --> 00:51:47,040
Speaker 3: are end up spending ten fifteen thousand dollars and they

1227
00:51:47,040 --> 00:51:48,279
Speaker 3: don't get that shit back.

1228
00:51:48,520 --> 00:51:50,560
Speaker 1: So it's like, when do your morals kick in? Is

1229
00:51:50,640 --> 00:51:52,200
Speaker 1: money that important to you?

1230
00:51:52,760 --> 00:51:56,279
Speaker 3: I my goals in life if I do see it

1231
00:51:56,280 --> 00:51:57,960
Speaker 3: in my future that I am going to be a

1232
00:51:58,000 --> 00:52:00,040
Speaker 3: millionaire and I am going to be successful, But my

1233
00:52:00,520 --> 00:52:03,360
Speaker 3: goals in life outs always been to be comfortable, and

1234
00:52:03,400 --> 00:52:06,040
Speaker 3: everybody around me is comfortable, and we have the freedom

1235
00:52:06,239 --> 00:52:09,799
Speaker 3: to live life like we want. That greediness of just

1236
00:52:09,840 --> 00:52:12,560
Speaker 3: wanting to show off and say I got this and

1237
00:52:12,600 --> 00:52:13,319
Speaker 3: say I got that.

1238
00:52:13,320 --> 00:52:16,640
Speaker 1: That is evil. That is different, yeah, and I can't

1239
00:52:16,640 --> 00:52:17,279
Speaker 1: fuck with it.

1240
00:52:17,600 --> 00:52:19,799
Speaker 4: I definitely feel like it's okay to want to be

1241
00:52:19,920 --> 00:52:21,960
Speaker 4: rich and successful and make a lot of money, but

1242
00:52:22,239 --> 00:52:25,520
Speaker 4: you like fucking people over in the process, then you

1243
00:52:25,560 --> 00:52:28,960
Speaker 4: need to re evaluate you know, your goals and need

1244
00:52:29,000 --> 00:52:31,120
Speaker 4: to re evaluate your goals and just beat you as

1245
00:52:31,120 --> 00:52:32,880
Speaker 4: a person because you're a fuck up individual.

1246
00:52:33,000 --> 00:52:33,800
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying.

1247
00:52:33,880 --> 00:52:37,799
Speaker 3: So all these scammers and this and that, a lot

1248
00:52:37,880 --> 00:52:40,480
Speaker 3: of times they're taking advantage of older women.

1249
00:52:41,160 --> 00:52:42,399
Speaker 1: You know what, I'm older women.

1250
00:52:42,440 --> 00:52:44,239
Speaker 4: I feel like they just be taking advantage of women

1251
00:52:44,280 --> 00:52:47,279
Speaker 4: in general. Yeah, everybody want to be successful.

1252
00:52:47,360 --> 00:52:47,720
Speaker 1: Everybody.

1253
00:52:47,760 --> 00:52:48,880
Speaker 2: Don't think it's nobody that.

1254
00:52:49,040 --> 00:52:52,160
Speaker 4: Don't want to live a comfortable life, you know. I

1255
00:52:52,160 --> 00:52:55,600
Speaker 4: mean success has a different definition for everybody, right, but

1256
00:52:55,640 --> 00:52:57,920
Speaker 4: I think everybody wants to be comfortable.

1257
00:52:58,040 --> 00:52:59,720
Speaker 2: Nobody wants to struggle.

1258
00:52:59,400 --> 00:53:02,759
Speaker 1: Right exactly. And the most women that want that.

1259
00:53:03,239 --> 00:53:06,000
Speaker 3: The biggest demographic that wants that though, and it's gonna

1260
00:53:06,040 --> 00:53:08,280
Speaker 3: go do it is Black women, That's what I'm saying.

1261
00:53:08,680 --> 00:53:11,000
Speaker 3: So a lot of times it's us being attacked in

1262
00:53:11,080 --> 00:53:14,319
Speaker 3: these scams and this and that. So it's like when

1263
00:53:14,400 --> 00:53:16,319
Speaker 3: you know you're putting something together and you know it's

1264
00:53:16,320 --> 00:53:17,880
Speaker 3: really not what it's supposed to be giving.

1265
00:53:17,920 --> 00:53:22,759
Speaker 4: So you know, just sometimes you just gotta use use

1266
00:53:22,840 --> 00:53:25,839
Speaker 4: your little sense that God gave you because I just

1267
00:53:25,880 --> 00:53:29,400
Speaker 4: feel like if you taking advice from a white woman,

1268
00:53:30,040 --> 00:53:32,880
Speaker 4: not a I'm just saying you gotta understand as a

1269
00:53:32,920 --> 00:53:36,480
Speaker 4: black woman, it ain't gonna necessarily be as easy for

1270
00:53:36,560 --> 00:53:40,279
Speaker 4: you to No, I know, but I'm just saying because

1271
00:53:40,280 --> 00:53:42,480
Speaker 4: I feel like there are We're talking about women in general.

1272
00:53:42,840 --> 00:53:46,200
Speaker 4: The conversation was our women for each other. We didn't say,

1273
00:53:46,680 --> 00:53:50,480
Speaker 4: you know, black women specifically, So I'm saying sometimes I

1274
00:53:50,520 --> 00:53:53,520
Speaker 4: feel like a lot of women are taking these courses

1275
00:53:53,520 --> 00:53:56,040
Speaker 4: from women of all different races because you also have

1276
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Speaker 4: to understand that it's.

1277
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Speaker 2: Different ver her paths.

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Speaker 4: It's gonna be a little different from your pad, right,

1279
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Speaker 4: but yeah, like her past is gonna be a little

1280
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1281
00:54:10,920 --> 00:54:15,400
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1282
00:54:15,520 --> 00:54:19,680
Speaker 4: has a factor into why some people are not successful

1283
00:54:19,680 --> 00:54:20,719
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1284
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Speaker 1: So I said, we just need to come together. What's up, y'all?

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Speaker 3: My struggle was I had so many things I was

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Speaker 1: Do it. So, now we're gonna get into the bed

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Speaker 1: out bow. I told you dance like that, mm so

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Speaker 2: Say I dance like that. You said, I'd be fucking

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Speaker 2: like that.

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Speaker 1: Are you say that's how you talk? I don't talk.

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Speaker 3: Like you be like, hey, no, I don't you be

1316
00:55:57,000 --> 00:55:57,759
Speaker 3: like what's up?

1317
00:56:01,760 --> 00:56:02,920
Speaker 1: You did that at the restaurant?

1318
00:56:03,480 --> 00:56:04,040
Speaker 2: I need what?

1319
00:56:04,400 --> 00:56:05,920
Speaker 1: He was like, can I get a shot at name?

1320
00:56:06,440 --> 00:56:09,440
Speaker 2: I did not run my nipple? Why are you lying?

1321
00:56:09,880 --> 00:56:10,239
Speaker 1: All right?

1322
00:56:10,560 --> 00:56:14,320
Speaker 2: You are such a liar? Bro Beau.

1323
00:56:15,800 --> 00:56:18,080
Speaker 3: Show today, y'all, I really wanted to talk about this

1324
00:56:18,080 --> 00:56:19,719
Speaker 3: because a lot is going on, and I feel like

1325
00:56:20,239 --> 00:56:21,960
Speaker 3: we have a lot of young listeners, so we really

1326
00:56:22,000 --> 00:56:23,080
Speaker 3: need to educate.

1327
00:56:22,760 --> 00:56:25,440
Speaker 1: Them on things, on a lot of things.

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00:56:25,480 --> 00:56:29,759
Speaker 3: So I wanted to talk about sex education laws. So

1329
00:56:29,800 --> 00:56:33,600
Speaker 3: I'm actually reading this from Planned Parenthood. Okay, because this

1330
00:56:33,640 --> 00:56:36,959
Speaker 3: is some shit that fucking blew my mind. So let's

1331
00:56:36,960 --> 00:56:41,680
Speaker 3: talk about this first. You know how like women, we

1332
00:56:41,800 --> 00:56:44,400
Speaker 3: go get tested, more like we go make sure like

1333
00:56:44,440 --> 00:56:46,120
Speaker 3: things are good. And a lot of times I'm not

1334
00:56:46,160 --> 00:56:47,720
Speaker 3: putting this on all the men, but a lot of times,

1335
00:56:47,719 --> 00:56:49,319
Speaker 3: like a man will be like, oh, I fucked her.

1336
00:56:49,440 --> 00:56:52,319
Speaker 1: She said she clean. That means I'm clean, we said, like.

1337
00:56:52,400 --> 00:56:54,680
Speaker 3: Men will do that a lot they feel like, oh,

1338
00:56:54,680 --> 00:56:56,560
Speaker 3: because you fucked her, she didn't get us.

1339
00:56:56,560 --> 00:56:57,960
Speaker 1: She went and got tested that you clean.

1340
00:56:58,120 --> 00:57:01,040
Speaker 3: But you know, you growing up in the house, like

1341
00:57:01,200 --> 00:57:03,080
Speaker 3: your mom worked in the hospital. She was like she

1342
00:57:03,200 --> 00:57:05,720
Speaker 3: put that on you, like my mom being like open

1343
00:57:05,840 --> 00:57:08,080
Speaker 3: talking about sex, like she put that on me. But

1344
00:57:08,120 --> 00:57:10,360
Speaker 3: not everybody was raised like that. And I think that

1345
00:57:10,480 --> 00:57:13,799
Speaker 3: really goes back to sex education. When I think about

1346
00:57:13,800 --> 00:57:16,800
Speaker 3: the stuff that I learned and how important it is

1347
00:57:17,320 --> 00:57:19,360
Speaker 3: for all that stuff, it goes back to like my

1348
00:57:19,520 --> 00:57:22,640
Speaker 3: first conversations about sex. And you have to realize a

1349
00:57:22,640 --> 00:57:27,200
Speaker 3: lot of people's kids first conversations about sex are in school,

1350
00:57:28,440 --> 00:57:31,640
Speaker 3: and they're not educating these kids properly on like getting

1351
00:57:31,680 --> 00:57:33,400
Speaker 3: tested safe sex.

1352
00:57:33,720 --> 00:57:35,720
Speaker 1: All they're doing is going to YouTube and seeing niggas

1353
00:57:35,720 --> 00:57:39,560
Speaker 1: talking about oh yeah, fuck 'all, fucking all, fucking fuck

1354
00:57:39,640 --> 00:57:41,480
Speaker 1: on ninies. I take the condo all. That's what the

1355
00:57:41,520 --> 00:57:44,920
Speaker 1: little rapper boys be saying. That's what say, take it

1356
00:57:44,960 --> 00:57:48,200
Speaker 1: off and fucking off the doll. That's what they said,

1357
00:57:51,040 --> 00:57:52,880
Speaker 1: take it off of the fucker all, send it to

1358
00:57:52,920 --> 00:57:57,440
Speaker 1: the fucking doll, the doll, the doll, doll, Oh.

1359
00:57:57,320 --> 00:57:57,880
Speaker 2: The doll.

1360
00:57:58,280 --> 00:58:03,320
Speaker 1: The changed the words. That's what they be saying. Let

1361
00:58:03,360 --> 00:58:05,640
Speaker 1: me write that down. I got a song, I got.

1362
00:58:05,600 --> 00:58:09,160
Speaker 4: Hit, don't y'all steal my shit either, nah, low key

1363
00:58:09,200 --> 00:58:12,320
Speaker 4: though every song like it's not been an album a

1364
00:58:12,400 --> 00:58:15,760
Speaker 4: rap album that I've listened to, and I would say

1365
00:58:15,800 --> 00:58:17,880
Speaker 4: the last two years where it wasn't a song on

1366
00:58:17,960 --> 00:58:19,360
Speaker 4: there by a nigga fucking harrah.

1367
00:58:19,520 --> 00:58:21,240
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. And you don't need to be

1368
00:58:21,280 --> 00:58:22,320
Speaker 1: out here doing it. You don't.

1369
00:58:22,360 --> 00:58:24,160
Speaker 2: You should not take that advice.

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00:58:24,400 --> 00:58:26,480
Speaker 3: Okay, So let me read this paragraph because this is

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00:58:26,480 --> 00:58:30,480
Speaker 3: what shocked me, and also about homophobia too as well.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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00:58:31,720 --> 00:58:35,800
Speaker 3: It says, sometimes state and local requirements on sex education

1374
00:58:35,920 --> 00:58:40,560
Speaker 3: are helpful. For example, fifteen states require instruction to be

1375
00:58:40,920 --> 00:58:47,360
Speaker 3: medically accurate only fifteen all right. Twenty six states and

1376
00:58:47,840 --> 00:58:52,120
Speaker 3: District of Columbia require that it be age appropriate, But like,

1377
00:58:52,160 --> 00:58:54,800
Speaker 3: what's age appropriate? If we're fucking we need to talk

1378
00:58:54,840 --> 00:58:55,520
Speaker 3: about everything?

1379
00:58:56,920 --> 00:59:00,720
Speaker 4: But I guess technically no, you would like to believe

1380
00:59:00,800 --> 00:59:03,440
Speaker 4: that people aren't supposed to speaking before a certain actions

1381
00:59:03,560 --> 00:59:03,959
Speaker 4: they are.

1382
00:59:04,160 --> 00:59:06,600
Speaker 3: People are fucking at fourteen and fifteen, so fuck the

1383
00:59:06,640 --> 00:59:09,760
Speaker 3: age appropriatea shit, let's talk about it, okay, And then

1384
00:59:09,800 --> 00:59:13,720
Speaker 3: it says, while thirty seven states have laws requiring that

1385
00:59:13,880 --> 00:59:16,720
Speaker 3: abstinence is included in sex education.

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00:59:16,960 --> 00:59:19,240
Speaker 1: Only Eighteen states require.

1387
00:59:18,960 --> 00:59:24,160
Speaker 3: Educations educators to also share information about birth control, So

1388
00:59:24,240 --> 00:59:29,120
Speaker 3: there's only eighteen states out of the fifty educating them

1389
00:59:29,160 --> 00:59:31,200
Speaker 3: on birth control. And when we say birth control, we're

1390
00:59:31,200 --> 00:59:33,240
Speaker 3: talking about condoms, pills.

1391
00:59:33,400 --> 00:59:34,680
Speaker 1: All that shit is birth control.

1392
00:59:34,760 --> 00:59:39,280
Speaker 3: So there are only eighteen states that are educating children

1393
00:59:39,360 --> 00:59:41,000
Speaker 3: on fucking conducts.

1394
00:59:44,120 --> 00:59:48,040
Speaker 1: I'm not even none. Whether or not such education.

1395
00:59:47,880 --> 00:59:52,720
Speaker 3: Is LGBTQ inclusive is also left up to state and

1396
00:59:52,800 --> 00:59:58,480
Speaker 3: local governments to decide. Only nine states currently require discussion

1397
00:59:58,680 --> 01:00:04,000
Speaker 3: of LGBTQ identities and relationship to be inclusive and affirming.

1398
01:00:04,880 --> 01:00:09,320
Speaker 3: Nine states out of fifty are only talking about things

1399
01:00:09,440 --> 01:00:11,479
Speaker 3: like that, So that's why you have these grown ass

1400
01:00:11,520 --> 01:00:13,840
Speaker 3: men talking about popsicle.

1401
01:00:13,880 --> 01:00:15,240
Speaker 1: That's good, It said.

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01:00:15,360 --> 01:00:20,840
Speaker 4: Seventy Southern states either prohibit six educators from discussing LGBTQ

1403
01:00:21,040 --> 01:00:25,400
Speaker 4: identities and relationships or actually require six educators to frame

1404
01:00:25,600 --> 01:00:28,680
Speaker 4: LGBTQ identities and relationships negatively.

1405
01:00:28,880 --> 01:00:29,840
Speaker 1: Do you know how crazy?

1406
01:00:29,880 --> 01:00:30,800
Speaker 2: It's crazy?

1407
01:00:31,320 --> 01:00:32,080
Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying.

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01:00:32,080 --> 01:00:34,200
Speaker 3: I feel like a lot of people aren't even educated

1409
01:00:34,320 --> 01:00:36,960
Speaker 3: on sex education laws because I didn't even know a

1410
01:00:36,960 --> 01:00:37,640
Speaker 3: lot of this stuff.

1411
01:00:37,760 --> 01:00:41,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, it says these laws further stigmatize LGBTQ youth and

1412
01:00:41,880 --> 01:00:44,919
Speaker 4: leave them without the information they need to protect their

1413
01:00:44,960 --> 01:00:48,160
Speaker 4: sexual health, putting them at greater risks of STD's pregnancy

1414
01:00:48,160 --> 01:00:50,080
Speaker 4: and unhealthy or abusive relationship.

1415
01:00:50,280 --> 01:00:52,520
Speaker 3: Right, so let's break this down. Let's break this down crazy,

1416
01:00:52,560 --> 01:00:57,640
Speaker 3: Let's break this down. Eighteen eighteen states are only requiring

1417
01:00:57,680 --> 01:01:02,000
Speaker 3: you talk about safe sex. The breaking down further, only

1418
01:01:02,200 --> 01:01:06,640
Speaker 3: nine nine states are requiring you talk about safe sex.

1419
01:01:07,040 --> 01:01:10,080
Speaker 3: So really think about the there's probably only like one

1420
01:01:10,160 --> 01:01:13,480
Speaker 3: or two or three states that are talking about safe sex,

1421
01:01:13,800 --> 01:01:16,840
Speaker 3: teaching you about how other people love and how other

1422
01:01:16,840 --> 01:01:20,080
Speaker 3: people have sex, because it's not just heterosexual sex anymore.

1423
01:01:20,400 --> 01:01:22,560
Speaker 3: So it's like when you really think about states that

1424
01:01:22,640 --> 01:01:25,680
Speaker 3: are really educating people and telling them what's going on

1425
01:01:25,760 --> 01:01:28,080
Speaker 3: in the real world. Like you don't just wake up

1426
01:01:28,120 --> 01:01:30,720
Speaker 3: in like eighteen and be like, oh, I'm gay or

1427
01:01:30,760 --> 01:01:33,600
Speaker 3: I'm a lesbian, or oh I'm eighteen. Let me educate

1428
01:01:33,640 --> 01:01:34,760
Speaker 3: myself on condoms.

1429
01:01:34,800 --> 01:01:37,560
Speaker 4: Like, but when I look back to when I was

1430
01:01:37,600 --> 01:01:41,280
Speaker 4: taking six ED in high school and stuff, honestly sex

1431
01:01:41,480 --> 01:01:43,280
Speaker 4: ed from what I can remember, it was just more

1432
01:01:43,400 --> 01:01:47,640
Speaker 4: south teaching you about the reproductive systems, yeah, and teaching

1433
01:01:47,680 --> 01:01:50,840
Speaker 4: you about the sexual organs. It was like that, but

1434
01:01:50,880 --> 01:01:54,760
Speaker 4: it wasn't. It wasn't sexual education as far as like

1435
01:01:54,840 --> 01:01:58,560
Speaker 4: teaching you how to protect yourself. Abstinence was the conversation

1436
01:01:59,160 --> 01:02:01,360
Speaker 4: now that I'm thinking of. So it's crazy because it

1437
01:02:01,360 --> 01:02:03,640
Speaker 4: says that in the article, but it's like that's more

1438
01:02:03,720 --> 01:02:06,520
Speaker 4: so what they teach you in school is to be abstiny,

1439
01:02:06,720 --> 01:02:10,800
Speaker 4: but like nobody is being abstiny in a class full

1440
01:02:10,800 --> 01:02:14,920
Speaker 4: of fifty students in a sex education class, probably at

1441
01:02:15,040 --> 01:02:16,760
Speaker 4: least thirty of them fucking, oh you.

1442
01:02:16,760 --> 01:02:19,520
Speaker 1: Better than me about four to five. I went to

1443
01:02:19,520 --> 01:02:20,480
Speaker 1: a white school, you know.

1444
01:02:20,960 --> 01:02:23,200
Speaker 4: But I'm just but I'm just saying, like, you know,

1445
01:02:23,240 --> 01:02:26,040
Speaker 4: I'm trying to be fair, Like in a class full

1446
01:02:26,040 --> 01:02:28,360
Speaker 4: of fifty students, at least thirty of them is probably

1447
01:02:28,400 --> 01:02:33,360
Speaker 4: hooking or at least half of the class.

1448
01:02:33,440 --> 01:02:35,440
Speaker 3: I'm not trying to be funny. But like Ace was

1449
01:02:35,480 --> 01:02:37,360
Speaker 3: something like, I'm not trying to be funny.

1450
01:02:37,520 --> 01:02:39,720
Speaker 1: Then we laughed at it. We really laugh at this shit.

1451
01:02:39,800 --> 01:02:44,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, So it's just like that's something that why are we, yes,

1452
01:02:44,600 --> 01:02:45,640
Speaker 3: teach abstinence, but that.

1453
01:02:46,000 --> 01:02:48,320
Speaker 2: Is what you should do, But that's so funny.

1454
01:02:48,400 --> 01:02:50,320
Speaker 3: I feel like that's something that's for like more so,

1455
01:02:50,560 --> 01:02:55,040
Speaker 3: like religion, marriage stuff. Well, I get why people will know,

1456
01:02:55,200 --> 01:02:58,080
Speaker 3: I think realistic, yeah, but I don't necessarily think it's

1457
01:02:58,160 --> 01:03:00,640
Speaker 3: reserved for religion and stuff like that. I feel like

1458
01:03:01,160 --> 01:03:04,360
Speaker 3: you teach children to be abstinate because it's a lot

1459
01:03:04,400 --> 01:03:06,040
Speaker 3: of emotional.

1460
01:03:05,440 --> 01:03:07,080
Speaker 2: Shit that comes with having sex.

1461
01:03:07,560 --> 01:03:10,400
Speaker 4: But especially when you're that age, you don't know how

1462
01:03:10,400 --> 01:03:13,240
Speaker 4: to compartmentalize your emotions the way that you do as

1463
01:03:13,280 --> 01:03:13,800
Speaker 4: you get out.

1464
01:03:14,000 --> 01:03:15,680
Speaker 1: Right, of course, and even still.

1465
01:03:17,040 --> 01:03:19,880
Speaker 2: Age you still struggle with that. She like, you know

1466
01:03:19,880 --> 01:03:22,959
Speaker 2: what I mean, it's a lot of better right there.

1467
01:03:23,520 --> 01:03:23,960
Speaker 1: Help me.

1468
01:03:24,280 --> 01:03:27,200
Speaker 4: It's a lot of emotional baggage and trauma that comes

1469
01:03:27,240 --> 01:03:30,240
Speaker 4: with having sex with somebody, especially at a young age.

1470
01:03:30,280 --> 01:03:32,240
Speaker 1: Absolutely, one hundred percent agree.

1471
01:03:32,320 --> 01:03:34,760
Speaker 3: So I feel like this is the importance on doing

1472
01:03:34,760 --> 01:03:36,240
Speaker 3: your research and voting though.

1473
01:03:36,480 --> 01:03:38,120
Speaker 1: I feel like people when they look at.

1474
01:03:38,080 --> 01:03:41,320
Speaker 3: Voting and paying attention to what's going on locally, they

1475
01:03:41,400 --> 01:03:43,040
Speaker 3: just be like, Oh, that shit don't affect me, it

1476
01:03:43,080 --> 01:03:43,520
Speaker 3: don't matter.

1477
01:03:43,560 --> 01:03:44,320
Speaker 1: But yes it does.

1478
01:03:44,360 --> 01:03:47,280
Speaker 3: It's affecting the youth, it's affecting the future. Like, you

1479
01:03:47,360 --> 01:03:49,280
Speaker 3: need to really pay attention to what the fuck is

1480
01:03:49,320 --> 01:03:52,240
Speaker 3: going on and what whoever you're voting for or believes,

1481
01:03:52,280 --> 01:03:55,520
Speaker 3: and when it comes to sex education laws. I'm just

1482
01:03:55,640 --> 01:03:58,000
Speaker 3: I'm glad. I'm glad we talked about this, you know.

1483
01:03:58,040 --> 01:03:59,840
Speaker 4: I'm glad we talked about this too, because I mean,

1484
01:03:59,880 --> 01:04:01,760
Speaker 4: that's crazy, and I feel like it's stuff that a

1485
01:04:01,800 --> 01:04:03,520
Speaker 4: lot of people didn't know. Like even with us, we

1486
01:04:03,520 --> 01:04:06,520
Speaker 4: didn't know this stuff until we found this article because

1487
01:04:07,040 --> 01:04:08,760
Speaker 4: we haven't been in school in so long.

1488
01:04:09,120 --> 01:04:11,760
Speaker 1: Speak for yourself in.

1489
01:04:11,720 --> 01:04:13,240
Speaker 2: School even more time than me.

1490
01:04:13,600 --> 01:04:24,480
Speaker 5: I just graduate. That's because I was, damn it stricting.

1491
01:04:24,520 --> 01:04:25,640
Speaker 1: This motherfucker let me get to.

1492
01:04:27,840 --> 01:04:31,280
Speaker 3: Oh I do know, all right, so we gonna get

1493
01:04:31,400 --> 01:04:33,960
Speaker 3: into oh wait before we get into the box. Honestly,

1494
01:04:34,000 --> 01:04:35,640
Speaker 3: if you want to look up anything like that, I

1495
01:04:35,680 --> 01:04:41,160
Speaker 3: looked up this stuff on Planned Parenthood Action dot org. Yeah,

1496
01:04:41,240 --> 01:04:44,840
Speaker 3: Planned Parenthood Action dot org. But honestly, whatever state you're in,

1497
01:04:45,040 --> 01:04:47,240
Speaker 3: please research to sex education laws, and.

1498
01:04:47,280 --> 01:04:48,480
Speaker 1: Y'all please vote.

1499
01:04:48,520 --> 01:04:50,440
Speaker 3: We just had to vote for the mayor, and Atlanta

1500
01:04:50,560 --> 01:04:52,800
Speaker 3: made sure I went out and did my civil duty

1501
01:04:52,800 --> 01:04:56,280
Speaker 3: and voting. Y'all, anytime an election is up, please research

1502
01:04:56,320 --> 01:04:59,440
Speaker 3: whatever right issues that you care about and go vote.

1503
01:04:59,480 --> 01:05:01,480
Speaker 1: This is not pay for it, This is not sponsored.

1504
01:05:01,600 --> 01:05:04,960
Speaker 3: But I'm a person I always vote for everything, like

1505
01:05:05,160 --> 01:05:09,640
Speaker 3: so y'all just make sure your your civic duty.

1506
01:05:09,800 --> 01:05:13,040
Speaker 1: Okay. So now we're gonna get into the.

1507
01:05:13,160 --> 01:05:18,920
Speaker 3: Bop about a now somebody, uh least the other we

1508
01:05:19,080 --> 01:05:21,120
Speaker 3: called me old because it was like oh lex with

1509
01:05:21,240 --> 01:05:23,360
Speaker 3: her R and B. I love how she shows her

1510
01:05:23,400 --> 01:05:25,760
Speaker 3: age because she never has rap music. Well, I gotta

1511
01:05:25,840 --> 01:05:29,160
Speaker 3: rap song today, I gotta rap song today.

1512
01:05:29,280 --> 01:05:31,640
Speaker 2: She loved this album. This is My Box is actually

1513
01:05:31,640 --> 01:05:32,200
Speaker 2: from this album.

1514
01:05:32,480 --> 01:05:35,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, so shout out to our Frank Kellen. She put

1515
01:05:35,560 --> 01:05:37,920
Speaker 3: us on the album. She works with the label and

1516
01:05:38,040 --> 01:05:41,240
Speaker 3: naughto Wick. Y'all know a lot of times these new artists,

1517
01:05:41,240 --> 01:05:43,360
Speaker 3: they'll drop a song you never hear from them again.

1518
01:05:43,400 --> 01:05:46,680
Speaker 1: But Nato Wick actually has a solid album. He does.

1519
01:05:47,600 --> 01:05:50,520
Speaker 3: It's very, very fucking good. So he has a song

1520
01:05:50,560 --> 01:05:53,600
Speaker 3: called Wicked Witch. And I love when niggas talk about

1521
01:05:53,600 --> 01:05:56,760
Speaker 3: getting a girl her things, especially because he's young learning

1522
01:05:56,960 --> 01:05:59,800
Speaker 3: he learning the game early. So like in the song

1523
01:05:59,800 --> 01:06:03,120
Speaker 3: you talking about she won't Gucci Louie deal.

1524
01:06:03,320 --> 01:06:05,320
Speaker 4: Produ like he named all the shit that his bitch

1525
01:06:05,400 --> 01:06:08,360
Speaker 4: was Gucci Louie popped them tag and.

1526
01:06:08,400 --> 01:06:11,080
Speaker 1: I see that wasn't and it wasn't a hit. This

1527
01:06:11,160 --> 01:06:13,680
Speaker 1: is a hit. We talking about hits, right, now okay,

1528
01:06:14,280 --> 01:06:16,640
Speaker 1: all right, So yeah.

1529
01:06:16,520 --> 01:06:18,600
Speaker 3: Not al. We've got a song called Wicked Witch, and

1530
01:06:18,640 --> 01:06:21,200
Speaker 3: I just really I like his tone. He has a

1531
01:06:21,240 --> 01:06:24,760
Speaker 3: good tone. He'd be having his little punchlines. So honestly,

1532
01:06:25,760 --> 01:06:27,040
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm not gonna set up here, and I

1533
01:06:27,040 --> 01:06:29,400
Speaker 3: mean he not like the next Lil Wayne, but I

1534
01:06:29,440 --> 01:06:33,040
Speaker 3: feel like he got potential to like really do something. Yeah,

1535
01:06:33,080 --> 01:06:35,600
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying. It's very rare that I

1536
01:06:35,640 --> 01:06:37,720
Speaker 3: listened to like a rap album. I'm like, okay, like

1537
01:06:37,760 --> 01:06:40,920
Speaker 3: I fuck with him, I fuck with wi I do.

1538
01:06:41,200 --> 01:06:42,000
Speaker 3: I like his album.

1539
01:06:42,080 --> 01:06:45,640
Speaker 4: It's good, so crazy enough. My song is actually from

1540
01:06:45,680 --> 01:06:48,600
Speaker 4: his album too. It's called Me or Soon and it's

1541
01:06:48,600 --> 01:06:52,320
Speaker 4: featuring Future one Little Baby ate everybody up like that though,

1542
01:06:52,600 --> 01:06:55,480
Speaker 4: Baby always eat everybody up though, it's just unfair at

1543
01:06:55,520 --> 01:06:56,160
Speaker 4: this point.

1544
01:06:56,040 --> 01:06:58,880
Speaker 1: Like why he'd be eating everybody up on everything, everybody

1545
01:06:58,960 --> 01:07:00,440
Speaker 1: up on their own song. Child?

1546
01:07:00,560 --> 01:07:05,040
Speaker 2: So yeah, me or some me are some but some

1547
01:07:05,360 --> 01:07:06,600
Speaker 2: like issue, I mean so.

1548
01:07:07,520 --> 01:07:09,520
Speaker 1: Not umu me.

1549
01:07:10,840 --> 01:07:13,040
Speaker 3: Okay, So now we're gonna get into the pour your

1550
01:07:13,080 --> 01:07:15,720
Speaker 3: Heart out segment. If you want your question answered on

1551
01:07:15,720 --> 01:07:17,680
Speaker 3: the show, make sure you email us at ask poor

1552
01:07:17,760 --> 01:07:21,240
Speaker 3: Minds at gmail dot com. If you're a Patreon member,

1553
01:07:21,520 --> 01:07:23,160
Speaker 3: make sure you put that in the subject line and

1554
01:07:23,200 --> 01:07:24,760
Speaker 3: make sure y'all subscribe.

1555
01:07:24,280 --> 01:07:27,560
Speaker 1: To the channel and all that good stuff. So go ahead, little.

1556
01:07:27,440 --> 01:07:30,800
Speaker 4: Drea, Hey lex Andrea. I do not know if I'm

1557
01:07:30,960 --> 01:07:34,560
Speaker 4: orgasming with men. I have been making myself come for years,

1558
01:07:34,640 --> 01:07:37,080
Speaker 4: and I don't know what to expect. I experience a

1559
01:07:37,120 --> 01:07:40,600
Speaker 4: full release and get super sensitive after I masturbate. I

1560
01:07:40,680 --> 01:07:43,800
Speaker 4: mostly have really good sex with my last boyfriend and

1561
01:07:43,960 --> 01:07:46,840
Speaker 4: current partner. I cannot figure out if I am finishing.

1562
01:07:47,360 --> 01:07:51,160
Speaker 4: I experience these overwhelming, pleasurable moments during six with guys

1563
01:07:51,160 --> 01:07:53,320
Speaker 4: who really take the time to make me feel good,

1564
01:07:53,600 --> 01:07:56,880
Speaker 4: but it never matches what an orgasm from masturbation feels like.

1565
01:07:57,480 --> 01:07:58,880
Speaker 2: However, I wonder if.

1566
01:07:58,800 --> 01:08:02,400
Speaker 4: The frequent masturbation has just screwed my expectations. When I

1567
01:08:02,480 --> 01:08:06,480
Speaker 4: make myself oh, I cannot keep touching myself. But I

1568
01:08:06,560 --> 01:08:09,400
Speaker 4: know that women can have multiple orgasms during sex, so

1569
01:08:09,480 --> 01:08:12,800
Speaker 4: I wonder if it's just different. Side note, I have

1570
01:08:12,960 --> 01:08:15,919
Speaker 4: been able to squirt hodd On. I have been able

1571
01:08:16,000 --> 01:08:18,439
Speaker 4: to make myself squirt in the past, and it wasn't

1572
01:08:18,520 --> 01:08:20,800
Speaker 4: until recently that a man was able to do it.

1573
01:08:21,120 --> 01:08:23,200
Speaker 2: I still don't know if this was the big Oh.

1574
01:08:23,320 --> 01:08:26,720
Speaker 4: It definitely felt a little sensitive afterwards since he was

1575
01:08:26,760 --> 01:08:29,040
Speaker 4: playing with the clique, But I never get that fully

1576
01:08:29,080 --> 01:08:32,759
Speaker 4: satisfied feeling. What is the difference between clitoral and vaginal

1577
01:08:32,880 --> 01:08:35,960
Speaker 4: orgasms or the difference between finishing yourself or with a men.

1578
01:08:36,439 --> 01:08:38,960
Speaker 4: Do either one feel more pleasurable or intense?

1579
01:08:39,520 --> 01:08:40,120
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1580
01:08:40,760 --> 01:08:43,559
Speaker 4: I know it's different for everyone, but when I can

1581
01:08:43,560 --> 01:08:46,519
Speaker 4: officially say a man's made me orgasm, I'm going to

1582
01:08:46,600 --> 01:08:49,280
Speaker 4: start thinking that that was a long time ago and

1583
01:08:49,320 --> 01:08:51,840
Speaker 4: I have just been underwhelmed.

1584
01:08:52,439 --> 01:08:55,160
Speaker 3: Well, first of all, we said this on the past

1585
01:08:55,200 --> 01:09:00,280
Speaker 3: episode when Samoya was on squirting is not an orgasm.

1586
01:09:00,760 --> 01:09:03,320
Speaker 3: Just because you squirt, you are not having an orgasm.

1587
01:09:03,720 --> 01:09:06,080
Speaker 3: Like literally ninety nine percent of the time when I

1588
01:09:06,160 --> 01:09:09,559
Speaker 3: use my vibrator, I don't squirt, like, so squirting is

1589
01:09:09,720 --> 01:09:12,519
Speaker 3: not an orgasm. So just because you squirt, it shows

1590
01:09:12,560 --> 01:09:16,400
Speaker 3: that you're feeling good, but it's not an orgason Like

1591
01:09:16,960 --> 01:09:19,320
Speaker 3: you can squirt with an orgasm, but most of the

1592
01:09:19,360 --> 01:09:21,600
Speaker 3: time when a woman squirts, that's not an orgasm. So

1593
01:09:21,680 --> 01:09:24,400
Speaker 3: let's just get that understood first. So I feel like

1594
01:09:24,760 --> 01:09:28,200
Speaker 3: the reason you're probably not having an orgasm because it's

1595
01:09:28,280 --> 01:09:29,800
Speaker 3: different We just talked about this on.

1596
01:09:29,760 --> 01:09:31,000
Speaker 1: The episode last week.

1597
01:09:31,600 --> 01:09:36,479
Speaker 3: Platorial stimulation and penetration is different to a different thing.

1598
01:09:36,520 --> 01:09:38,080
Speaker 1: When you're masturbating.

1599
01:09:38,240 --> 01:09:40,559
Speaker 3: I can guarantee you, I know you're masturbating and you're

1600
01:09:40,600 --> 01:09:45,519
Speaker 3: not inserting anything in your vaginay you're yeah, you're rubbing

1601
01:09:45,560 --> 01:09:45,960
Speaker 3: your you.

1602
01:09:45,920 --> 01:09:47,080
Speaker 1: Have a vibrator on your click.

1603
01:09:47,240 --> 01:09:50,520
Speaker 3: I guarantee you she's not inserting anything in her vagina.

1604
01:09:50,880 --> 01:09:53,640
Speaker 3: I'm assuming, but I'm saying because I know this is

1605
01:09:53,640 --> 01:09:54,720
Speaker 3: what I struggled.

1606
01:09:54,320 --> 01:09:55,080
Speaker 1: With for a long time.

1607
01:09:55,520 --> 01:09:58,879
Speaker 3: So I feel like, you know what makes yourself orgasm

1608
01:09:58,920 --> 01:10:02,280
Speaker 3: by yourself, you have to learn how to bring that

1609
01:10:02,320 --> 01:10:04,920
Speaker 3: into the bedroom with your partner. Once you learn how

1610
01:10:04,960 --> 01:10:06,960
Speaker 3: to make yourself orgasm, I think that's what a lot

1611
01:10:07,000 --> 01:10:08,920
Speaker 3: of women fail to do. If you're doing this to

1612
01:10:08,920 --> 01:10:11,639
Speaker 3: make yourself orgasm, do that with your partner. So, if

1613
01:10:11,640 --> 01:10:14,519
Speaker 3: you know you need clatorial stimulation, bring a toy in

1614
01:10:14,520 --> 01:10:16,760
Speaker 3: the bedroom. Why are people so scared of toys in

1615
01:10:16,800 --> 01:10:20,320
Speaker 3: the bedroom. We say that every week, we say that.

1616
01:10:20,400 --> 01:10:22,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like a lot of people, for whatever reason,

1617
01:10:22,400 --> 01:10:25,160
Speaker 4: just think it's so cliche or something. I don't know,

1618
01:10:25,320 --> 01:10:27,080
Speaker 4: Maybe it makes someone I don't know, Is it like

1619
01:10:27,120 --> 01:10:29,360
Speaker 4: a thing where it's like it makes the man uncomfortable

1620
01:10:29,400 --> 01:10:30,439
Speaker 4: to have like a man.

1621
01:10:30,520 --> 01:10:31,920
Speaker 1: Real niggas don't care they fell a.

1622
01:10:31,960 --> 01:10:35,000
Speaker 2: Vibrater or a deal though that close to the penies.

1623
01:10:35,040 --> 01:10:35,439
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1624
01:10:35,560 --> 01:10:37,599
Speaker 3: I don't know. I feel like real niggas like no,

1625
01:10:37,760 --> 01:10:40,719
Speaker 3: Like if she needs a little vibrator, it's okay, doesn't

1626
01:10:40,720 --> 01:10:44,080
Speaker 3: mean it biggest wag, but for you not to know

1627
01:10:44,280 --> 01:10:47,719
Speaker 3: if it's the big Oh, if you're an orgasm during sex,

1628
01:10:47,720 --> 01:10:50,320
Speaker 3: Like I remember the first time I had an orgasm

1629
01:10:50,400 --> 01:10:53,200
Speaker 3: during sex and it felt the same as my masturbation orgasm.

1630
01:10:53,280 --> 01:10:55,639
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, so this is what it's supposed

1631
01:10:55,640 --> 01:10:56,160
Speaker 1: to be happening.

1632
01:10:56,439 --> 01:10:59,160
Speaker 3: Like you gonta know you're not even gonna if you

1633
01:10:59,280 --> 01:11:01,479
Speaker 3: have the big organ says you would even be writing

1634
01:11:01,479 --> 01:11:02,000
Speaker 3: this question.

1635
01:11:02,280 --> 01:11:04,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I definitely feel like you need to

1636
01:11:05,240 --> 01:11:09,000
Speaker 4: do a little more ground research. Yeah, like figure out

1637
01:11:09,040 --> 01:11:11,080
Speaker 4: what it is that you like and then you teach

1638
01:11:11,120 --> 01:11:12,240
Speaker 4: your partner what you like.

1639
01:11:12,560 --> 01:11:15,760
Speaker 3: And it sucks for women because, like we said, men

1640
01:11:15,880 --> 01:11:19,040
Speaker 3: are gonna come regardless, and it's harder for women because

1641
01:11:19,040 --> 01:11:20,600
Speaker 3: we do have to do things like this like a

1642
01:11:20,680 --> 01:11:23,559
Speaker 3: nigga gonnanut no matter what, but women we have to

1643
01:11:23,600 --> 01:11:24,240
Speaker 3: do more work.

1644
01:11:24,320 --> 01:11:26,400
Speaker 1: So unfortunately that's what.

1645
01:11:26,240 --> 01:11:29,240
Speaker 3: We are because I mean, sometimes we do get lucky

1646
01:11:29,280 --> 01:11:30,880
Speaker 3: and we come across a nigga that just know what

1647
01:11:31,000 --> 01:11:31,280
Speaker 3: to do.

1648
01:11:31,360 --> 01:11:32,559
Speaker 1: But that's very rare.

1649
01:11:32,680 --> 01:11:34,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, I feel like if you want to

1650
01:11:34,160 --> 01:11:37,400
Speaker 4: have an orgasm during sex with your partner and you

1651
01:11:37,400 --> 01:11:40,679
Speaker 4: you wanted to be like him just making you come,

1652
01:11:41,160 --> 01:11:42,200
Speaker 4: it's gonna take work.

1653
01:11:42,320 --> 01:11:44,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, It's gonna take work, you know what I mean?

1654
01:11:44,439 --> 01:11:48,040
Speaker 4: Because even like Li said, you can incorporate the toys

1655
01:11:48,080 --> 01:11:50,880
Speaker 4: and stuff into the bedroom too, just so you can

1656
01:11:50,920 --> 01:11:53,960
Speaker 4: have an orgasm during six But like he did he

1657
01:11:54,080 --> 01:11:56,040
Speaker 4: really do that, you know what I mean.

1658
01:11:56,120 --> 01:11:58,240
Speaker 2: It's like he didn't do that by himself.

1659
01:11:58,320 --> 01:12:02,080
Speaker 4: Like that happened because you're you're getting penetrated and then

1660
01:12:02,120 --> 01:12:04,800
Speaker 4: on top of that, you're also using a toy on

1661
01:12:04,840 --> 01:12:09,120
Speaker 4: your clinics, right, So them, you just gotta teach him. Girl,

1662
01:12:09,200 --> 01:12:11,120
Speaker 4: you just gotta do the work. Figure it out.

1663
01:12:11,760 --> 01:12:12,479
Speaker 1: Question two.

1664
01:12:12,640 --> 01:12:15,519
Speaker 3: Hey, ladies, I absolutely love your show. I found you

1665
01:12:15,560 --> 01:12:18,360
Speaker 3: guys through horrible decisions a long time ago. Shout out

1666
01:12:18,400 --> 01:12:21,519
Speaker 3: to Weezy and Mandy. I'm a twenty three year old Latina.

1667
01:12:21,560 --> 01:12:23,519
Speaker 3: I used to work at Twin Peaks as a server

1668
01:12:23,880 --> 01:12:25,800
Speaker 3: it's kind of like Hooters, but more naked. Girl, I

1669
01:12:25,840 --> 01:12:29,760
Speaker 3: know all about I recently started talking to some of

1670
01:12:29,760 --> 01:12:32,680
Speaker 3: my old regulars and using your guys advice, I've been

1671
01:12:32,720 --> 01:12:37,000
Speaker 3: able to finesse weekly payments, plane tickets, and shopping sprees

1672
01:12:37,040 --> 01:12:40,040
Speaker 3: without having to have sex or really even hug these men.

1673
01:12:40,320 --> 01:12:41,040
Speaker 1: I love to see you.

1674
01:12:41,640 --> 01:12:43,840
Speaker 3: I want to thank you guys so much because listening

1675
01:12:43,880 --> 01:12:46,280
Speaker 3: to the show has boosted my confidence, and you guys

1676
01:12:46,360 --> 01:12:48,400
Speaker 3: have really taught me that the way I carry myself

1677
01:12:48,439 --> 01:12:49,439
Speaker 3: is what really matters.

1678
01:12:49,920 --> 01:12:54,080
Speaker 1: I love a good review because you know what we

1679
01:12:54,160 --> 01:12:58,960
Speaker 1: talked about this motivating the street motivating. Maybe you are

1680
01:12:59,000 --> 01:12:59,960
Speaker 1: motivating the street.

1681
01:13:00,840 --> 01:13:01,840
Speaker 2: Yuh, bitch.

1682
01:13:03,240 --> 01:13:06,920
Speaker 1: In the streets and twin peaks all of it. But

1683
01:13:07,040 --> 01:13:09,120
Speaker 1: I say, like the bar has been in the hell.

1684
01:13:09,320 --> 01:13:12,160
Speaker 3: So I'm glad women watched this and be like, nah,

1685
01:13:12,320 --> 01:13:14,160
Speaker 3: like give me my things, girl.

1686
01:13:14,000 --> 01:13:14,840
Speaker 1: Get your things.

1687
01:13:15,120 --> 01:13:16,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, we love to see it.

1688
01:13:16,479 --> 01:13:19,000
Speaker 1: Oh all right, So question three.

1689
01:13:19,520 --> 01:13:21,960
Speaker 4: When I was sixteen, I got pregnant and I immediately

1690
01:13:22,040 --> 01:13:24,240
Speaker 4: knew that I didn't want the baby and wanted to

1691
01:13:24,240 --> 01:13:27,040
Speaker 4: get an abortion. I told my mom, and her and

1692
01:13:27,080 --> 01:13:28,920
Speaker 4: my aunt came up with the idea that my aunt

1693
01:13:28,920 --> 01:13:30,120
Speaker 4: would raise the baby as.

1694
01:13:30,000 --> 01:13:30,799
Speaker 1: Her own child.

1695
01:13:31,280 --> 01:13:34,160
Speaker 4: I was homeschool from the time from the time I

1696
01:13:34,200 --> 01:13:36,639
Speaker 4: started showing until a couple of weeks after the baby

1697
01:13:36,720 --> 01:13:39,679
Speaker 4: was born, and then went back to school like nothing happened.

1698
01:13:40,080 --> 01:13:41,439
Speaker 2: Fast forward eight years.

1699
01:13:41,520 --> 01:13:44,479
Speaker 4: I graduated from college, have a well paying job, and

1700
01:13:44,520 --> 01:13:47,320
Speaker 4: I'm doing well for myself. I'm not rich or anything,

1701
01:13:47,400 --> 01:13:49,439
Speaker 4: but I have a nice apartment, I go on trips

1702
01:13:49,439 --> 01:13:51,639
Speaker 4: at least twice a year, and can afford the nice

1703
01:13:51,680 --> 01:13:54,559
Speaker 4: things I want. We had a family gathering over the

1704
01:13:54,560 --> 01:13:57,120
Speaker 4: weekend and it came up that basically, my aunt thinks

1705
01:13:57,160 --> 01:14:00,200
Speaker 4: that I should be giving her money to support my child.

1706
01:14:00,439 --> 01:14:02,800
Speaker 4: I love my little cousin, but I look at her.

1707
01:14:02,880 --> 01:14:05,680
Speaker 4: It's just that my cousin. I feel like, since my

1708
01:14:05,760 --> 01:14:07,920
Speaker 4: aunt decided to be a mother and adopt her, it

1709
01:14:07,960 --> 01:14:11,800
Speaker 4: should be her responsibility. Not to sound selfish, but I

1710
01:14:11,840 --> 01:14:14,080
Speaker 4: didn't want her for a reason. If I was going

1711
01:14:14,120 --> 01:14:16,320
Speaker 4: to have to give up my lifestyle for her, then

1712
01:14:16,360 --> 01:14:18,000
Speaker 4: I could have kept her and been a mother.

1713
01:14:18,400 --> 01:14:20,560
Speaker 2: What should I do? Is this my responsibility?

1714
01:14:20,760 --> 01:14:23,800
Speaker 3: I thought this was Barbara at first, I did, why

1715
01:14:23,800 --> 01:14:26,599
Speaker 3: would you think that because I don't have no baby? No, well,

1716
01:14:26,640 --> 01:14:28,000
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying, because that's kind of like

1717
01:14:28,000 --> 01:14:29,320
Speaker 3: the same situation that you.

1718
01:14:29,320 --> 01:14:33,360
Speaker 1: Told on the other kind of like ad a baby

1719
01:14:33,360 --> 01:14:34,880
Speaker 1: within your family. I mean kind of.

1720
01:14:35,120 --> 01:14:39,839
Speaker 4: But my mama never expected my cousin to do anything.

1721
01:14:40,479 --> 01:14:42,960
Speaker 4: It was like my dad decided they was gonna adopt me,

1722
01:14:43,080 --> 01:14:44,160
Speaker 4: and that's what it was.

1723
01:14:44,280 --> 01:14:46,160
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying that first, and I'll say, hold on,

1724
01:14:46,320 --> 01:14:46,800
Speaker 1: who is that?

1725
01:14:47,760 --> 01:14:50,519
Speaker 4: And my mom was way younger than sixteen all, but

1726
01:14:51,479 --> 01:14:56,880
Speaker 4: what she was I talked about this before, But yeah,

1727
01:14:56,920 --> 01:14:59,839
Speaker 4: I mean I don't think that that's her responsibility at all,

1728
01:15:00,120 --> 01:15:01,360
Speaker 4: because you.

1729
01:15:01,160 --> 01:15:03,360
Speaker 2: Talk like you know what I mean. Really, to be

1730
01:15:03,560 --> 01:15:06,360
Speaker 2: completely honest, they should have just let you get the abortion.

1731
01:15:08,920 --> 01:15:15,200
Speaker 1: Wait what you mean that kid is ain't about to go.

1732
01:15:15,439 --> 01:15:18,040
Speaker 4: But I'm saying, I'm saying, if they were not going

1733
01:15:18,080 --> 01:15:21,320
Speaker 4: to want to really take the responsibility and be responsible

1734
01:15:21,320 --> 01:15:23,120
Speaker 4: for the child, this is your body. This was your

1735
01:15:23,120 --> 01:15:25,040
Speaker 4: decision if that's what you wanted to do, and they

1736
01:15:25,040 --> 01:15:26,760
Speaker 4: should have let you do what you wanted to do.

1737
01:15:26,800 --> 01:15:28,720
Speaker 4: I get that you're that she was sixteen and she

1738
01:15:28,840 --> 01:15:31,320
Speaker 4: was kind of underage, but I just feel like that's

1739
01:15:31,360 --> 01:15:33,479
Speaker 4: the problem with a lot of black families, Like why

1740
01:15:33,479 --> 01:15:35,519
Speaker 4: do y'all be trying to make people do things that

1741
01:15:35,560 --> 01:15:36,320
Speaker 4: they don't want to do.

1742
01:15:36,479 --> 01:15:38,599
Speaker 3: But that goes back to the conversation we were having

1743
01:15:38,640 --> 01:15:40,960
Speaker 3: as being like the successful person in the family, because

1744
01:15:41,000 --> 01:15:43,800
Speaker 3: like now they see you as an adult, You're successful,

1745
01:15:43,840 --> 01:15:44,840
Speaker 3: You're doing what you want to do.

1746
01:15:45,360 --> 01:15:48,320
Speaker 1: That child is your cousin. Yeah, I don't care. That

1747
01:15:48,479 --> 01:15:49,280
Speaker 1: is your cousin.

1748
01:15:49,880 --> 01:15:53,160
Speaker 3: Yes, by DNA, that's your child, But that is your cousin.

1749
01:15:53,240 --> 01:15:56,439
Speaker 3: That is not your responsibility. You gave that baby up

1750
01:15:56,479 --> 01:15:58,639
Speaker 3: because you wanted to live your life, and you should

1751
01:15:58,680 --> 01:16:00,240
Speaker 3: not feel bad for that, because you know how many

1752
01:16:00,320 --> 01:16:04,880
Speaker 3: children aren't fucked up situations or bad situations because the

1753
01:16:04,920 --> 01:16:08,120
Speaker 3: pressure of people to make a decision to be a mother.

1754
01:16:08,560 --> 01:16:10,320
Speaker 3: That's what everybody is meant to be a mother.

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01:16:10,400 --> 01:16:11,599
Speaker 2: That's the point that I'm making.

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01:16:11,720 --> 01:16:13,400
Speaker 4: It's like, you know what I mean, I just feel

1757
01:16:13,400 --> 01:16:15,960
Speaker 4: like black families have to stop doing this type of stuff,

1758
01:16:15,960 --> 01:16:18,920
Speaker 4: like stop forcing children to do things that they don't

1759
01:16:18,920 --> 01:16:21,280
Speaker 4: want to do. I mean, I guess, granted you, you

1760
01:16:21,479 --> 01:16:23,680
Speaker 4: was making an adult decision when you decided to have

1761
01:16:23,760 --> 01:16:26,000
Speaker 4: sex and you got pregnant, so I guess you how

1762
01:16:26,000 --> 01:16:27,920
Speaker 4: to deal with the consequences of what comes with that.

1763
01:16:28,000 --> 01:16:29,680
Speaker 4: But it's like if somebody is not ready to be

1764
01:16:29,720 --> 01:16:32,639
Speaker 4: a mom, then why force them.

1765
01:16:32,439 --> 01:16:33,479
Speaker 2: To have a child.

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01:16:33,680 --> 01:16:36,639
Speaker 4: That's crazy to not raise the child, because I feel

1767
01:16:36,640 --> 01:16:41,920
Speaker 4: like it's selfish on behalf of the family members. Sometimes

1768
01:16:41,920 --> 01:16:43,479
Speaker 4: it's like you wanted to bring this child into the

1769
01:16:43,479 --> 01:16:46,200
Speaker 4: world because you wanted to have a baby, right, right,

1770
01:16:46,400 --> 01:16:49,400
Speaker 4: but not thinking about the emotional turmoil and stuff that

1771
01:16:49,400 --> 01:16:49,840
Speaker 4: it's going.

1772
01:16:49,760 --> 01:16:51,400
Speaker 2: To cause the child growing up.

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01:16:52,120 --> 01:16:54,439
Speaker 4: Because I feel like I've talked about this before too

1774
01:16:54,439 --> 01:16:56,920
Speaker 4: on the show. I mean, like being adopted by your

1775
01:16:57,000 --> 01:16:58,840
Speaker 4: family and then when you get old enough to really

1776
01:16:58,880 --> 01:17:01,080
Speaker 4: comprehend what's going on, it be alive.

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01:17:01,000 --> 01:17:02,840
Speaker 1: Right, that's all. It's the same because you've been through something.

1778
01:17:02,880 --> 01:17:04,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like it be a lot for the child,

1779
01:17:05,080 --> 01:17:07,080
Speaker 4: and I feel like a lot of the time people

1780
01:17:07,120 --> 01:17:09,519
Speaker 4: don't be thinking about how it's going to affect the child.

1781
01:17:09,840 --> 01:17:11,840
Speaker 4: It's just a whole bunch of adults doing whatever the

1782
01:17:11,840 --> 01:17:14,679
Speaker 4: fuck they want to do. And that's some bullshit.

1783
01:17:15,880 --> 01:17:19,400
Speaker 3: M So, ma'am, Well, I'm glad they decided to keep

1784
01:17:19,439 --> 01:17:25,120
Speaker 3: you here if that makes you feel better, because I would.

1785
01:17:24,920 --> 01:17:26,479
Speaker 1: Still be let me.

1786
01:17:28,760 --> 01:17:32,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean definitely in my situation it works out.

1787
01:17:32,360 --> 01:17:33,759
Speaker 1: But my mom, I don't think my mom.

1788
01:17:33,680 --> 01:17:36,439
Speaker 4: Was ever considering aborting me though, Like that was just

1789
01:17:36,479 --> 01:17:39,080
Speaker 4: never something that was really on the table with my situation.

1790
01:17:39,479 --> 01:17:42,160
Speaker 4: But like I said, my mom was also younger, way

1791
01:17:42,240 --> 01:17:47,160
Speaker 4: younger than her, and so I just feel like at sixteen, like, girl,

1792
01:17:47,200 --> 01:17:47,719
Speaker 4: you gave.

1793
01:17:47,560 --> 01:17:49,840
Speaker 1: The baby, They made you have the child. You don't

1794
01:17:49,840 --> 01:17:50,479
Speaker 1: want to have the child.

1795
01:17:50,600 --> 01:17:54,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's not your responsibility, So live your life and

1796
01:17:54,680 --> 01:17:56,920
Speaker 3: have a good time. I said this at the beginning.

1797
01:17:56,920 --> 01:17:59,720
Speaker 3: I don't feel no remorse. I don't care if my

1798
01:17:59,760 --> 01:18:01,160
Speaker 3: baby he was living next door to me.

1799
01:18:01,360 --> 01:18:07,280
Speaker 1: Boy, fuck you. Yeah, I don't feel nothing about nothing never. Okay.

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01:18:08,479 --> 01:18:11,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, I definitely think that you should just have a

1801
01:18:11,800 --> 01:18:13,559
Speaker 4: conversation with your own and kind of let her know.

1802
01:18:13,720 --> 01:18:16,160
Speaker 4: Like you know, when I said that I didn't want

1803
01:18:16,160 --> 01:18:18,040
Speaker 4: to have this baby, y'all still forced me to have

1804
01:18:18,080 --> 01:18:20,519
Speaker 4: a baby, and you said that you were going to

1805
01:18:20,560 --> 01:18:22,280
Speaker 4: take care of the baby. So the baby is not

1806
01:18:22,360 --> 01:18:25,200
Speaker 4: my responsibility, it's your responsibility. Like cause you see me

1807
01:18:25,240 --> 01:18:27,559
Speaker 4: out here shiny, and you see me out here getting money.

1808
01:18:27,640 --> 01:18:30,040
Speaker 2: Now you want to and what do you call now?

1809
01:18:30,080 --> 01:18:31,439
Speaker 1: You want me to help with the baby?

1810
01:18:32,160 --> 01:18:36,040
Speaker 4: Nah, I'm just saying, nah, that's not what we're doing.

1811
01:18:36,160 --> 01:18:36,800
Speaker 1: Untie.

1812
01:18:37,040 --> 01:18:40,840
Speaker 3: I'm damn Okay, so question for dear poor minds. I've

1813
01:18:40,880 --> 01:18:43,120
Speaker 3: been vibing with this nigga I meet at a I

1814
01:18:43,200 --> 01:18:45,200
Speaker 3: met at a party at my college, but I'm a

1815
01:18:45,240 --> 01:18:48,559
Speaker 3: little concerned about his age. I'm eighteen and he's twenty five.

1816
01:18:48,920 --> 01:18:51,760
Speaker 3: I'm thick, fine and funny and didn't care until my

1817
01:18:51,800 --> 01:18:54,640
Speaker 3: friend pointed out the fact that he's older. She asked me,

1818
01:18:54,720 --> 01:18:56,479
Speaker 3: what do a twenty five year old man want with

1819
01:18:56,520 --> 01:18:58,800
Speaker 3: an eighteen year old female? And I said, he want

1820
01:18:58,840 --> 01:18:59,920
Speaker 3: me to suck that dick.

1821
01:19:00,439 --> 01:19:00,639
Speaker 5: Ooh.

1822
01:19:00,800 --> 01:19:03,400
Speaker 1: She was listening to poor minds being Ah.

1823
01:19:03,479 --> 01:19:06,080
Speaker 3: I'm celibate and do not plan on fucking no time soon,

1824
01:19:06,439 --> 01:19:09,000
Speaker 3: but I'm good with oral. I told this nigga that,

1825
01:19:09,040 --> 01:19:11,800
Speaker 3: and he's been very respectful and not pressuring me due

1826
01:19:11,800 --> 01:19:14,639
Speaker 3: to him graduating next month. Is just fun and probably

1827
01:19:14,720 --> 01:19:17,719
Speaker 3: a one time experience. I'm not sure about the age thing,

1828
01:19:17,880 --> 01:19:20,679
Speaker 3: but assistance in heat. I don't want to mess with him,

1829
01:19:20,920 --> 01:19:24,960
Speaker 3: and he's expecting a throat goat and he ended up

1830
01:19:25,200 --> 01:19:30,160
Speaker 3: getting two licks and a suck. He traveled back and

1831
01:19:30,200 --> 01:19:32,880
Speaker 3: forth to here in Louisiana. I lie to this man

1832
01:19:32,920 --> 01:19:36,120
Speaker 3: and said, I fuck him in Louisiana whenever he leaves,

1833
01:19:36,560 --> 01:19:38,719
Speaker 3: and he did not hesitate to buy my ticket.

1834
01:19:39,000 --> 01:19:41,280
Speaker 1: I did not accept his offer or a link up.

1835
01:19:41,560 --> 01:19:43,880
Speaker 3: Do y'all think eighteen and twenty five is too big

1836
01:19:43,920 --> 01:19:46,160
Speaker 3: of an age different to be fucking in or in

1837
01:19:46,200 --> 01:19:49,080
Speaker 3: a relationship? It's eighteen too young to be thinking about

1838
01:19:49,080 --> 01:19:50,720
Speaker 3: a BDB and getting flood out.

1839
01:19:52,680 --> 01:19:57,520
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know. Eighteen is a touchy age.

1840
01:19:57,439 --> 01:19:59,960
Speaker 1: Jim really is. I ain't gonna lie.

1841
01:20:00,000 --> 01:20:02,280
Speaker 4: I see it's like that's a very touchy age for

1842
01:20:02,320 --> 01:20:04,680
Speaker 4: you to be eighteen and then he's twenty five, like

1843
01:20:04,800 --> 01:20:06,720
Speaker 4: you barely legal, like.

1844
01:20:06,439 --> 01:20:07,880
Speaker 1: Like you just graduated high school.

1845
01:20:07,920 --> 01:20:10,080
Speaker 3: Because I kind of do feel the same, Like as

1846
01:20:10,120 --> 01:20:11,840
Speaker 3: a twenty five year old, what do you want with

1847
01:20:11,920 --> 01:20:13,599
Speaker 3: somebody that just got out of high school?

1848
01:20:13,680 --> 01:20:16,000
Speaker 1: Yeah? I don't like that. I don't like that.

1849
01:20:16,280 --> 01:20:19,160
Speaker 4: I feel like it's it's given, Like he won a

1850
01:20:19,200 --> 01:20:20,439
Speaker 4: date you because he feel like you're.

1851
01:20:20,320 --> 01:20:22,920
Speaker 2: Young and naive and you're trying to manipulate.

1852
01:20:23,080 --> 01:20:25,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, I like that. I don't like that. I feel

1853
01:20:25,320 --> 01:20:26,439
Speaker 1: like eighteen year old.

1854
01:20:26,479 --> 01:20:28,599
Speaker 3: Like I feel like the eighteen to twenty range y'all

1855
01:20:28,600 --> 01:20:31,439
Speaker 3: should date each other, Like you know what I'm saying,

1856
01:20:31,520 --> 01:20:33,799
Speaker 3: Like twenty one and then like that's.

1857
01:20:33,640 --> 01:20:36,920
Speaker 4: When, Yeah, twenty one and you dating a twenty five

1858
01:20:37,000 --> 01:20:38,040
Speaker 4: year old, that's a little different.

1859
01:20:38,160 --> 01:20:40,200
Speaker 3: But like twenty one and even like twenty eight, I

1860
01:20:40,240 --> 01:20:42,200
Speaker 3: would say, like it's a little bit okay cause you're

1861
01:20:42,200 --> 01:20:43,599
Speaker 3: not fresh out of high school.

1862
01:20:43,680 --> 01:20:46,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, you say eighteen and he twenty five, Like that's

1863
01:20:46,720 --> 01:20:48,200
Speaker 4: a lot of life experience.

1864
01:20:48,560 --> 01:20:52,360
Speaker 2: That's a huge age gap. Seven years. That's a big gap.

1865
01:20:53,479 --> 01:20:55,840
Speaker 3: I mean, I am onto a lot of I mean,

1866
01:20:56,120 --> 01:20:59,559
Speaker 3: my age gaps be biggest fuck. But but you also

1867
01:20:59,760 --> 01:21:01,640
Speaker 3: third know I'm talking about when I was younger, Like

1868
01:21:01,680 --> 01:21:03,479
Speaker 3: I had a big age gap with somebody I was

1869
01:21:03,479 --> 01:21:06,040
Speaker 3: talking to, but I wasn't eighteen. Like I feel like

1870
01:21:06,080 --> 01:21:07,920
Speaker 3: when I got to the big age gaps, I was

1871
01:21:07,960 --> 01:21:10,679
Speaker 3: like twenty three, twenty four, twenty five.

1872
01:21:10,800 --> 01:21:11,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree.

1873
01:21:11,520 --> 01:21:13,799
Speaker 4: The first time my daddy somebody that was like forty,

1874
01:21:14,400 --> 01:21:16,120
Speaker 4: I was like twenty three.

1875
01:21:16,439 --> 01:21:18,559
Speaker 1: Now, don't tell me no, I.

1876
01:21:18,560 --> 01:21:19,800
Speaker 2: Was like twenty three, twenty four.

1877
01:21:20,160 --> 01:21:23,720
Speaker 3: Yeah. I mean I think that's still it's still a

1878
01:21:23,720 --> 01:21:28,839
Speaker 3: little touchy, but it's not as weird like I don't know, eighteen,

1879
01:21:28,960 --> 01:21:31,519
Speaker 3: you just walked across that stage he talking about sook

1880
01:21:31,600 --> 01:21:32,080
Speaker 3: that big.

1881
01:21:33,760 --> 01:21:33,960
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1882
01:21:33,960 --> 01:21:35,480
Speaker 1: I don't like the way it sounds.

1883
01:21:35,760 --> 01:21:36,600
Speaker 2: It's a no for me.

1884
01:21:37,000 --> 01:21:38,760
Speaker 4: I don't think eighteen is too young for you to

1885
01:21:38,800 --> 01:21:40,960
Speaker 4: be thinking about bdb's and getting fluid out. I mean,

1886
01:21:40,960 --> 01:21:42,400
Speaker 4: if that's what you want and that's what you want

1887
01:21:42,439 --> 01:21:44,320
Speaker 4: to do, cool, But I feel like, maybe you know,

1888
01:21:44,400 --> 01:21:47,879
Speaker 4: you should talk to somebody that's a little closer to

1889
01:21:47,600 --> 01:21:50,720
Speaker 4: your age group. Because a twenty five year old, I

1890
01:21:50,800 --> 01:21:51,719
Speaker 4: just don't know if.

1891
01:21:51,720 --> 01:21:55,160
Speaker 1: He played on your top because I feel like I.

1892
01:21:55,120 --> 01:21:57,040
Speaker 4: Ain't say he playing on She ain't saying nothing that

1893
01:21:57,160 --> 01:21:58,880
Speaker 4: make me feel like he playing on her top.

1894
01:21:59,120 --> 01:22:01,439
Speaker 1: Twenty five year old don't want nothing but some pussy

1895
01:22:01,479 --> 01:22:03,280
Speaker 1: in eighteen year olds. Is what we just talked about.

1896
01:22:03,320 --> 01:22:04,000
Speaker 1: How women are.

1897
01:22:04,600 --> 01:22:07,680
Speaker 3: We can we tend to get not all women, but

1898
01:22:08,439 --> 01:22:10,200
Speaker 3: we tend to get a little more emotional when it

1899
01:22:10,240 --> 01:22:13,479
Speaker 3: comes to sex. So she says she's been celibate, So

1900
01:22:13,560 --> 01:22:15,479
Speaker 3: imagine that she fucked this nigga, She ain't fucked it

1901
01:22:15,520 --> 01:22:18,360
Speaker 3: a long time thinking about the emotion that comes with that,

1902
01:22:18,760 --> 01:22:21,400
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying. So versus somebody who's been

1903
01:22:21,439 --> 01:22:24,280
Speaker 3: fucking He twenty five, He about to graduate college, Like,

1904
01:22:25,160 --> 01:22:25,559
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1905
01:22:25,640 --> 01:22:27,680
Speaker 1: I don't like that. The don don't like that, the

1906
01:22:27,800 --> 01:22:28,799
Speaker 1: don does not approve.

1907
01:22:28,960 --> 01:22:29,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't approve.

1908
01:22:29,880 --> 01:22:32,120
Speaker 3: I'm street today. I'm being strict on y'all because we

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01:22:32,160 --> 01:22:34,400
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1911
01:22:36,720 --> 01:22:38,719
Speaker 3: acting like this shit Perry.

1912
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Speaker 2: I don't like that neither, see, so I'm not gonna lie.

1913
01:22:41,560 --> 01:22:42,880
Speaker 2: I think you should just let this shit go.

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01:22:43,400 --> 01:22:45,880
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Speaker 4: Yeah, you don't go way up there there, don't it's

1963
01:24:46,160 --> 01:24:46,959
Speaker 4: right there.

1964
01:24:48,080 --> 01:24:49,600
Speaker 1: Let me let me pay it down for you.

1965
01:24:49,640 --> 01:24:51,679
Speaker 2: Ain't even like that you did any wrong.

1966
01:24:52,880 --> 01:24:53,719
Speaker 1: That's too low.

1967
01:24:54,200 --> 01:24:54,720
Speaker 2: No, it's not.

1968
01:24:54,840 --> 01:24:55,760
Speaker 1: That's how he got it.

1969
01:24:58,439 --> 01:24:59,880
Speaker 3: Not you pull off the picture.

1970
01:25:01,360 --> 01:25:02,880
Speaker 2: I didn't pull the bitch of up beach. I put

1971
01:25:02,920 --> 01:25:03,880
Speaker 2: with the lyrics.

1972
01:25:03,920 --> 01:25:05,599
Speaker 1: Let me press it down, so don't fall off.

1973
01:25:06,240 --> 01:25:08,280
Speaker 2: It's don't fall off anyways once.

1974
01:25:08,160 --> 01:25:10,719
Speaker 3: You start, because once you start getting into they already

1975
01:25:10,760 --> 01:25:11,280
Speaker 3: know who it is.

1976
01:25:11,400 --> 01:25:17,280
Speaker 1: Let me talk this bitch'll love you and na kneel

1977
01:25:18,240 --> 01:25:20,679
Speaker 1: Drey love you.

1978
01:25:21,280 --> 01:25:27,720
Speaker 3: I don you no medal, but I do all.

1979
01:25:27,840 --> 01:25:28,280
Speaker 1: I think.

1980
01:25:30,520 --> 01:25:35,640
Speaker 3: He been winning on with Marble. You no longer asy you,

1981
01:25:36,240 --> 01:25:37,000
Speaker 3: no medal?

1982
01:25:42,000 --> 01:25:43,759
Speaker 2: He been wining with Marble.

1983
01:25:44,640 --> 01:25:48,160
Speaker 1: You're no longer asy you. Fu you go ahead. I

1984
01:25:48,240 --> 01:25:48,880
Speaker 1: met this chicken.

1985
01:25:48,920 --> 01:25:50,760
Speaker 2: She just moved right up the block for me and her.

1986
01:25:50,880 --> 01:25:51,840
Speaker 2: She got the house for me.

1987
01:25:51,920 --> 01:25:54,240
Speaker 4: The finest thing out live to see and oh no

1988
01:25:55,040 --> 01:25:56,840
Speaker 4: she got a man in the sun though.

1989
01:25:57,240 --> 01:25:57,719
Speaker 2: Whoa.

1990
01:25:57,800 --> 01:25:59,960
Speaker 4: But that's okay because I was from my cue and

1991
01:26:00,080 --> 01:26:03,200
Speaker 4: just listening paper position like a shortstop, pick up everything

1992
01:26:03,240 --> 01:26:05,000
Speaker 4: my me hitting it in no time.

1993
01:26:05,800 --> 01:26:07,479
Speaker 2: I plan to make this one here.

1994
01:26:07,360 --> 01:26:11,000
Speaker 4: My, that's for sure, because I've never been to sight

1995
01:26:11,080 --> 01:26:13,960
Speaker 4: to break up a happy humbleter. It's something about baby girl.

1996
01:26:14,000 --> 01:26:17,400
Speaker 4: I just can't leave alone. Now tell me, my, what's.

1997
01:26:17,160 --> 01:26:17,840
Speaker 2: It going to be?

1998
01:26:18,120 --> 01:26:21,320
Speaker 1: She said, you don't know what you mean to me.

1999
01:26:22,920 --> 01:26:28,120
Speaker 4: No matter what I do, all I think about issue, yo,

2000
01:26:28,600 --> 01:26:29,679
Speaker 4: even when I'm.

2001
01:26:29,520 --> 01:26:34,280
Speaker 2: With my boo boy. You know I'm crazy yo for you.

2002
01:26:34,280 --> 01:26:38,200
Speaker 4: No matter what I do all out the ink about

2003
01:26:38,400 --> 01:26:41,639
Speaker 4: issue yo, even when I'm with my bles.

2004
01:26:42,479 --> 01:26:44,200
Speaker 2: You know I'm crazy yo for you.

2005
01:26:44,840 --> 01:26:51,280
Speaker 1: The good part, okay. And I love you and you

2006
01:26:53,880 --> 01:26:55,479
Speaker 1: love you. I do.

2007
01:26:56,720 --> 01:27:05,799
Speaker 3: And it's small there, bro boy, it's sure count.

2008
01:27:05,600 --> 01:27:06,240
Speaker 1: On my lap.

2009
01:27:07,040 --> 01:27:11,639
Speaker 2: The East Coast.

2010
01:27:11,720 --> 01:27:15,719
Speaker 4: So you shaking right down South, I know you bouncing right,

2011
01:27:16,560 --> 01:27:18,360
Speaker 4: West Coast, you walking right.

2012
01:27:18,520 --> 01:27:23,000
Speaker 2: You don't know what you need to me? Midwest suster,

2013
01:27:23,080 --> 01:27:24,160
Speaker 2: you swing your right.

2014
01:27:26,160 --> 01:27:30,599
Speaker 3: Look dirty, that's what dirty, dirty, little dirty me?

2015
01:27:31,439 --> 01:27:34,080
Speaker 1: Wait, why was that only calling everybody a little dirty.

2016
01:27:33,800 --> 01:27:36,000
Speaker 2: Because they was dirty?

2017
01:27:36,880 --> 01:27:38,280
Speaker 1: That was a fucking bom.

2018
01:27:39,640 --> 01:27:44,800
Speaker 4: No Nelly, Nelly would never We never thought what was

2019
01:27:44,880 --> 01:27:46,439
Speaker 4: under that band name never.

2020
01:27:46,840 --> 01:27:50,280
Speaker 3: I'm just never see what was that song dropped? Everybody

2021
01:27:50,360 --> 01:27:52,160
Speaker 3: was like singing this song, no.

2022
01:27:52,320 --> 01:27:58,120
Speaker 1: See that orright, Neilly, you've been I'll do it?

2023
01:27:58,760 --> 01:27:59,880
Speaker 2: Why is it so big?

2024
01:28:00,080 --> 01:28:00,320
Speaker 1: Something?

2025
01:28:00,320 --> 01:28:02,760
Speaker 3: My bottle literate And that's why I called him big boy,

2026
01:28:02,880 --> 01:28:06,000
Speaker 3: get the stomping the airport, big boy, the.

2027
01:28:06,000 --> 01:28:09,599
Speaker 2: Al grown bottom. He saw my bottom.

2028
01:28:09,600 --> 01:28:10,080
Speaker 1: That's dirty.

2029
01:28:10,120 --> 01:28:13,000
Speaker 2: That's why I got him. Like the lace, they come

2030
01:28:13,040 --> 01:28:16,160
Speaker 2: a bottle. The last person that touched my business shot.

2031
01:28:18,160 --> 01:28:20,800
Speaker 1: The last person that touched him on bitch shot up.

2032
01:28:20,880 --> 01:28:24,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was serious about the air force one that's

2033
01:28:24,240 --> 01:28:25,080
Speaker 2: get niggas.

2034
01:28:25,960 --> 01:28:28,479
Speaker 1: The song that we talked about, Remember that something you

2035
01:28:28,600 --> 01:28:33,880
Speaker 1: canna vibe? Maang it ain't little way Chance said he

2036
01:28:33,920 --> 01:28:35,400
Speaker 1: had a song of the story about that song.

2037
01:28:35,400 --> 01:28:37,599
Speaker 3: Remember he told us the story about how he got

2038
01:28:37,640 --> 01:28:39,320
Speaker 3: in trouble because he was cussing too much.

2039
01:28:39,960 --> 01:28:42,120
Speaker 1: That was about But Nelly had them hit.

2040
01:28:42,360 --> 01:28:44,519
Speaker 4: Nelly did had a heat because that was my song

2041
01:28:44,960 --> 01:28:48,320
Speaker 4: and for once and the grill smarter.

2042
01:28:48,360 --> 01:28:49,920
Speaker 2: Story telling, make me a grill.

2043
01:28:54,520 --> 01:28:57,840
Speaker 1: Now we gotta give Nelly his flowers for real? Boy,

2044
01:28:58,160 --> 01:29:01,960
Speaker 1: How did you get your grill? That? And how much

2045
01:29:02,040 --> 01:29:03,599
Speaker 1: did you pay? Y'all?

2046
01:29:04,280 --> 01:29:07,240
Speaker 3: Every time I see him the first thing, my little

2047
01:29:07,240 --> 01:29:08,559
Speaker 3: many do not want to stay.

2048
01:29:08,680 --> 01:29:11,439
Speaker 1: I mean I got my Banddad, say smile for me, Dad,

2049
01:29:11,520 --> 01:29:14,559
Speaker 1: smile for me, Daddy, what you're looking at? Let me

2050
01:29:14,600 --> 01:29:16,519
Speaker 1: see your grill? You want to see my what?

2051
01:29:17,080 --> 01:29:20,040
Speaker 2: Let me see your grill? Your grill to.

2052
01:29:20,080 --> 01:29:22,880
Speaker 3: The whole or whatever you said, But shout tell you.

2053
01:29:23,000 --> 01:29:24,599
Speaker 3: We're don't give your flowers because.

2054
01:29:24,360 --> 01:29:28,040
Speaker 1: We love Nellie in the streets. Thank y'all so much

2055
01:29:28,080 --> 01:29:31,160
Speaker 1: for tuning in. Is that great episode we educated the

2056
01:29:31,160 --> 01:29:31,880
Speaker 1: girls today?

2057
01:29:33,960 --> 01:29:34,480
Speaker 2: Episode?

2058
01:29:34,760 --> 01:29:35,599
Speaker 1: Love y'all so much.

2059
01:29:35,640 --> 01:29:38,360
Speaker 3: Thank you opportunity and make sure you subscribe. Make sure

2060
01:29:38,439 --> 01:29:40,519
Speaker 3: y'all go be a Patreon member and we'll see y'all

2061
01:29:40,560 --> 01:29:41,040
Speaker 3: next week.

2062
01:29:41,880 --> 01:29:42,280
Speaker 5: Bye.

2063
01:29:43,720 --> 01:29:48,000
Speaker 3: And Force Ones was a bottom and get the boom?

2064
01:29:48,240 --> 01:29:52,280
Speaker 1: I forgot about that song, Big four? You know what

2065
01:29:52,360 --> 01:29:53,439
Speaker 1: song we need to do next week?

2066
01:29:53,800 --> 01:29:57,560
Speaker 3: And half him my owner, showy what the hook gonna be?

2067
01:29:57,960 --> 01:30:00,280
Speaker 1: Oh see, you don't need no hook on this bait?

2068
01:30:00,600 --> 01:30:03,760
Speaker 6: Did we just do two episodes and as an under

2069
01:30:03,960 --> 01:30:04,519
Speaker 6: four hour