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Speaker 1: Second date Update. A girl who's on the phone to
Speaker 1: do a second date update today had her date end
Speaker 1: in one of the most awkward ways possible. Her name
Speaker 1: is Meredith. Meredith, how are you hey? I'm doing okay.
Speaker 1: Thank you for doing a second date update today. I
Speaker 1: appreciate it. No, no, thanks for having me. You're welcome.
Speaker 1: We don't normally do this, but why don't we start
Speaker 1: this second date update with the end of your date.
Speaker 1: Let's start at the end because I was dying to
Speaker 1: hear what happened. Why don't you tell everybody what happened?
Speaker 1: It ended with a hug, right, okay, But that's not
Speaker 1: the worst part. What happened before the hug? Okay? So
Speaker 1: keep in mind that we spent almost three hours together. Um,
Speaker 1: and he said, was nice meeting you. But the entire
Speaker 1: time of our date, you've actually been calling me matt um,
Speaker 1: but it's actually Mike. You were calling him the wrong
Speaker 1: name then, yeah, but he didn't correct me. You know,
Speaker 1: I think that's on him. Yeah, I mean, how am
Speaker 1: I supposed to know? I heard it incorrectly and he
Speaker 1: never once tried to correct me again, so I had
Speaker 1: no idea. He did correct you at the end. And
Speaker 1: what did you say after he said, actually, what is
Speaker 1: his name Matt or Mike? Now I'm confused. I was
Speaker 1: calling him Matt, but his name is actually Mike? Okay,
Speaker 1: And what did you say when he corrected you? Finally
Speaker 1: at the very end. I was just so embarrassed, and
Speaker 1: I was just like, I am so sorry. I had
Speaker 1: no idea. So how did you meet this dude? We
Speaker 1: met at swing dancing class okay, okay, like previously or
Speaker 1: that night. It was literally that day, like we did
Speaker 1: the swinging dancing class, and then he asked me to
Speaker 1: go there right after. Oh that's good because I imagined
Speaker 1: you having classes with this guy for weeks and weeks
Speaker 1: and weeks. No, no, no, no, it was the first class.
Speaker 1: I'd only heard his name when you first introduced himself,
Speaker 1: or the wrong name. Okay. That makes it a little
Speaker 1: more excusable then if it's the first night that you
Speaker 1: met him and you got his name wrong, not if
Speaker 1: you guys had known each other for a while, right
Speaker 1: right right, And I assume you thought that the drinks
Speaker 1: after dancing were going great. Yeah. I was having a
Speaker 1: really good time, and I thought he was too. I
Speaker 1: was hoping that, you know, the night would just keep
Speaker 1: going on. Maybe we could do something after or you know,
Speaker 1: get another drink or something. But he ended up saying
Speaker 1: that he had to go because he had worked the
Speaker 1: next day. So I don't know, I guess, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I thought he was really enjoying himself, so I was
Speaker 1: a little bit disappointed. Other than the name stuff, what
Speaker 1: did you like about this guy? Why do you want
Speaker 1: to do a second date? Update? When I first met him,
Speaker 1: he just seemed really like goofy and he said something
Speaker 1: really funny. When I first heart up the class, I
Speaker 1: looked around and I was the only person who wasn't
Speaker 1: in a couple. I was the only single person. I
Speaker 1: mean I I was pretty sure that there'd be other
Speaker 1: people there, but it was just me and him. So
Speaker 1: they immediately matched us together and he cracked a joke
Speaker 1: like he made me feel less embarrassed, and he was
Speaker 1: just like, you know, maybe we should just get married
Speaker 1: and make this less awkward. Yeah, yeah, he was really funny.
Speaker 1: It was just you know, it made me feel a
Speaker 1: lot better about taking the class. And you know, for
Speaker 1: a guy who has such a great sense of humor,
Speaker 1: it just seems really weird that would like the reason
Speaker 1: that he hasn't texted me back anymore. Was there any
Speaker 1: other awkward moments that you can think of at all?
Speaker 1: There was one other like slightly awkward moment, but again
Speaker 1: it was like closed with a laugh, you know, like
Speaker 1: midway through or so, I was feeling this connection with him,
Speaker 1: and you know, I'd already had a drink and I'm
Speaker 1: a lightweight, and I sort of blurted out like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, you remind me of my dad. Oh nobody
Speaker 1: wants to man. I feel like that's worse than calling
Speaker 1: him the wrong name. I mean, can you imagine if
Speaker 1: he would have said, oh, you remind me of my mom. Gross?
Speaker 1: But no, I didn't mean it like that, Like I
Speaker 1: was like, no, not in that weight, Like you know
Speaker 1: what I mean, Like, my dad's really funny and he
Speaker 1: cracks joke. He just reminded me that like kind of
Speaker 1: goofball the way that he cracked. So, yeah, dad humor
Speaker 1: as a compliment. You know, I love my dad sense
Speaker 1: of humor, and if it's just something that I thought
Speaker 1: I could connect to him with, Like, if it's a
Speaker 1: guy that's you're romantically interested in, you might not want
Speaker 1: to draw that comparison. All right, well we'll play a song.
Speaker 1: Come back, call your sort of dad guy named Mike
Speaker 1: or Matt or whatever, and get your second day updated. Okay, hey,
Speaker 1: frooking jubil in the morning, we're halfway through the second
Speaker 1: date update. And if you're just joining us, Meredith is
Speaker 1: on the phone and Meredith wants to date her dad. Oh, unfortunately,
Speaker 1: I think her dad spoken four. So she wants us
Speaker 1: to call a guy named Mike today. The reason I
Speaker 1: say that is because during the date, Meredith laughed and said,
Speaker 1: you remind me of my dad, and there was an
Speaker 1: awkward moment then. And there was also a major awkward
Speaker 1: moment when at the end of the date Mike said, Hey,
Speaker 1: by the way, you've been calling me Matt all night,
Speaker 1: and then they shared a hug and he walked out
Speaker 1: of her life forever. Okay, Meredith, we're about to call
Speaker 1: Mike and see why he's not calling you back, even
Speaker 1: though we think we might know the answer. I feel
Speaker 1: horrible that that happened. But we had such a good
Speaker 1: chemistry together. Yeah, but listening to that recap, don't you
Speaker 1: even feel like you totally bruin that day? Totally? I mean,
Speaker 1: you know, onto the circumstances. It wasn't the worst thing
Speaker 1: that could happen. Yeah, you just told him that you're
Speaker 1: remind him of your dad, That's all. I mean. You
Speaker 1: could have said it while you guys were naked in
Speaker 1: bed together, and that would have been worse. You're right,
Speaker 1: Oh god, he knew it was the sense of humor,
Speaker 1: I explained, you know, all right, I'm gonna dial his
Speaker 1: phone number right now. Okay, Oh god, I'm nervous, Hulu,
Speaker 1: I was looking for Mike. This is Mike. Hey Mike,
Speaker 1: how are you. My name is Jubil and I host
Speaker 1: a radio show called Brook and Jewel in the Morning.
Speaker 1: Who are you. My name is Jubil and I host
Speaker 1: a radio show called Brook and Jewbil in the Morning.
Speaker 1: I'm calling you today because we actually got an email
Speaker 1: about you from one of our listeners. Okay. Her name
Speaker 1: is Meredith, Oh my god. And you met Meredith at
Speaker 1: a swing dance in class, and then you guys went
Speaker 1: out for drinks after Yes, that happened. Okay, that is confirmed. Good,
Speaker 1: I'm glad we got that out of the way. The
Speaker 1: same page, Well, Meredith is wondering why you're not giving
Speaker 1: her a call back after your date. Really? Yeah, So
Speaker 1: she asked us if we could get you on the
Speaker 1: phone and figure out if she did something wrong. Huh?
Speaker 1: All right? All right, well all right? What all right?
Speaker 1: You can tell us what happened? Or is this whole
Speaker 1: thing just a joke. No, it's not at all. It's
Speaker 1: a segment we do on our show called the second
Speaker 1: Date Update. That's why I'm calling you today. I'm wondering
Speaker 1: if Meredith did something wrong on your date. Uh. I
Speaker 1: don't know, not really, I guess I just don't think
Speaker 1: we're a great match. Is it? Is it because she
Speaker 1: called you Matt instead of Mike the entire time? How
Speaker 1: are you doing that? Oh? Because we talk to Meredith
Speaker 1: about your date and she told us everything that happened.
Speaker 1: She also said that there was one awkward moment where
Speaker 1: she kind of compared you to her dad and she
Speaker 1: thought maybe that was the reason that you didn't want
Speaker 1: to go out with her again. Yeah, that was definitely
Speaker 1: a little weird. Um. Yeah, well, I mean a lot
Speaker 1: of people like their parents, so that was probably well,
Speaker 1: I mean, just in general, that was maybe a compliment, Mike.
Speaker 1: You ever think about that. It's a weird thing to say.
Speaker 1: So was that? It is it? Those two things in
Speaker 1: calling you the wrong name and comparing you to the dad,
Speaker 1: those are pretty big things. Uh, it was that and
Speaker 1: something else? Well what else was there? I don't know.
Speaker 1: She just kind of takes off a pet peeve. It's like,
Speaker 1: you know, it's more it's more me than it is her.
Speaker 1: It's like, it's not her fault. She's a sweet girl.
Speaker 1: That's like the worst breakup line ever. Though it's me,
Speaker 1: it's not you. What is it? She was doing this
Speaker 1: weird thing when we were at the bar, and maybe
Speaker 1: she was doing it all night, but I me noticed
Speaker 1: when we got to the bar. But I was telling
Speaker 1: her a story and she goes, oh my god, are
Speaker 1: you smurfing serious? Smurphy serious is what she said, like
Speaker 1: the cartoon show Smurphy. Yeah, I guess so I was
Speaker 1: just like, what do you mean? She responded by saying,
Speaker 1: your story is florkeing crazy sporking. Oh yeah, she said florking.
Speaker 1: It was like every single time she went to swear,
Speaker 1: she just replaced it with a nonsense word. You gotta
Speaker 1: give her a break, Like maybe she was just trying
Speaker 1: to be ladylike or watch her manners on a first date,
Speaker 1: I guess, But this isn't like the nineteen fifties. You know,
Speaker 1: you can it's okay to swear. Was it just that
Speaker 1: instance or was it more than that? Yeah? Like, you know,
Speaker 1: I'd be telling her a story and then she just
Speaker 1: like cut me off and yellow something like holy heppel specs. Wow,
Speaker 1: she said that. I don't think we can air that
Speaker 1: on the radio. That's edgy stuff. Good gracious, Mike, poor thing.
Speaker 1: I think she sounds kind of cute. Hey, Mike, I
Speaker 1: do need to let you know that she's actually on
Speaker 1: the other line right now listening and wants to talk
Speaker 1: to you. Wait, are you serious? Yes? I am Meredith
Speaker 1: you there? Yeah, Hi, Mike, this is pretty weird. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I wasn't expecting that to come out of your mouth,
Speaker 1: expecting what to come out of my mouth. Holy yeah,
Speaker 1: you may have just pissed Meredith off there. Oh, I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: sorry about that narrative. I mean, did you want me
Speaker 1: to curse like a sailor? The whole time. I was like,
Speaker 1: I mean, you don't necessarily have to swear, but if
Speaker 1: you're gonna do it, you should do it right. But I,
Speaker 1: Joe don't like to curse, and you started doing it,
Speaker 1: and I kind of wanted to, you know, follow suit,
Speaker 1: but I don't. I don't. I don't curse, and so
Speaker 1: you know, I just do what my sister and I
Speaker 1: do at home. When you know it, that's really started
Speaker 1: when we wanted to like say things, and like our
Speaker 1: parents were there and we didn't want to be disrespectful.
Speaker 1: But it just kind of makes it makes you sound
Speaker 1: really immature. Well, cussing makes one sound really unintelligent and uneducated.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I guess. But it's just kind of hard
Speaker 1: to have a conversation when someone out of nowhere yells
Speaker 1: son of a booger butt, that's any better than some
Speaker 1: of the other B word that's starting to me. So,
Speaker 1: I mean, it's just I thought you seemed like you had, like,
Speaker 1: you know, a fun sense of humor. So like, we
Speaker 1: laugh about it all the time. Even our parents laugh
Speaker 1: about it because it's funny, Like we make stuff up,
Speaker 1: we're creative about it, and it's oh my gosh, I
Speaker 1: mean it's something maybe your parents think it's funny, but like, honestly,
Speaker 1: to me, it was like having a drink with a kindergartener. Wow.
Speaker 1: So it's like I like me, I know, I remind
Speaker 1: you of your dad, but like I'm not your dad.
Speaker 1: Maybe like your dad funny, but like I don't really,
Speaker 1: I don't know. Like you can cuss. You can cuss
Speaker 1: in front of Mike if you want to, Meredith, I
Speaker 1: think that's what he's saying, but I don't. I don't
Speaker 1: want to cuss. Like. I mean, I know, I have
Speaker 1: freedom of speech. I can say whatever I want. I
Speaker 1: just don't like saying it's not polite, it's not ladylike.
Speaker 1: And it was the first date. So I'm not gonna,
Speaker 1: you know, bring it out. I mean, she has a
Speaker 1: really good point, Mike, but I mean, you can't get
Speaker 1: over some stupid phrases like holy Ravioli or whatever she
Speaker 1: was saying. I don't. I mean, I cuss like a sailor,
Speaker 1: but you know, to each their own, I mean, yeah, exactly,
Speaker 1: I each their own. But I'm just not into it.
Speaker 1: I guess, you know, I kind of want to feel
Speaker 1: like I'm talking to an adult. You know, especially if
Speaker 1: it's like someone that I'm gonna, you know, potentially be
Speaker 1: in a relationship with. Mike, maybe you want to reconsider.
Speaker 1: Maybe she can tone down the nonsense words or whatever,
Speaker 1: and you guys could go out again. Would you like
Speaker 1: to go out on a second date with her? We'll
Speaker 1: pay for it. I maybe if she agree is not
Speaker 1: to I can't believe I'm saying this, But if she
Speaker 1: agrees not to use that kind of language, Meredith, can
Speaker 1: you watch your mouth? Can you watch your mouth? To
Speaker 1: go out with Mike one more time? I mean, yeah,
Speaker 1: I honestly don't really do it with other friends. It's
Speaker 1: just something that my sister and I did. And then,
Speaker 1: like Meredith with the dad, I think you should just
Speaker 1: own that you were the offensive one on this date
Speaker 1: for probably the first time in your life. I'm sorry, Mike,
Speaker 1: not Matt. Would you like to go on a second
Speaker 1: date with me? I sure, let's give it another track?
Speaker 1: All right? Nice a successful second date update. Congratulations you guys,
Speaker 1: Thank you so much. You're welcome. You guys go out,
Speaker 1: have fun, and then snarf all night long, just snarf.
Speaker 1: Their yards are content in the morning. The text end
Speaker 1: at seven eight five nine to two says that second
Speaker 1: date was smurfing fantastic. Yeah, please watch your language. Talking
Speaker 1: about today's second date update. Of course, Meredith wanted to
Speaker 1: call this dude named Mike. He wasn't calling her back
Speaker 1: after their date because she kept replacing curse words with
Speaker 1: nonsense words like forking or smurfing, and it drove him crazy.
Speaker 1: He said it seemed like it was really immature, and
Speaker 1: then Meredith argued that swearing makes you look really uneducated
Speaker 1: and she didn't want to seem unladylike. In the end,
Speaker 1: Mike agreed to another date only if she promised to
Speaker 1: just speak normally normally and Meredith agreed, yeah, just just
Speaker 1: a tagbit. So successful second up date, they actually agreed
Speaker 1: to go out. Remember if you want to do a
Speaker 1: second day update second day up date, I have to
Speaker 1: do an email the show and we will call the
Speaker 1: person who didn't call you back