Speaker 1: Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning and you
Speaker 1: get double the dose. On Saturday, we got two classics
Speaker 1: back to back.
Speaker 2: Which is definitely listen to.
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Speaker 1: start with comments before we get into this double second date.
Speaker 1: Joel the cool guy. Oh, not me saying he's cool,
Speaker 1: but I appreciate that guy said, always listen to you
Speaker 1: guys while drawing or biking to work. Keep it up.
Speaker 1: I love listening. Greetings from the Netherlands, Yeah, where everyone bikes. Yeah,
Speaker 1: basically it's so cool. I want to know what you're drawing?
Speaker 1: Are you drawing us? Do we look good? You want
Speaker 1: to be model? Okay? Alexis just volunteered. All right, your
Speaker 1: double dose of Second Date Classics starts right now.
Speaker 2: Maybe it's just me, but I feel like whenever I'm
Speaker 2: out in the world, it's a huge conversation changer the
Speaker 2: moment I tell someone I actually host a radio show. Yeah,
Speaker 2: you guys get that too.
Speaker 1: People are always really interested in what that looks like.
Speaker 2: Everyone to me is like, whoa, Really, you don't seem
Speaker 2: good at talking in real life.
Speaker 1: Well, your coworkers say that too, Well, that all.
Speaker 2: Might be true. I'm just saying. Our jobs are definite
Speaker 2: attention grabbers when we bring them up, but it's nothing
Speaker 2: compared to the woman that we call today, because when
Speaker 2: we found out what she does for a living, everyone
Speaker 2: in the room stopped and wanted to know every single detail.
Speaker 2: You're gonna understand why when you hear it in your
Speaker 2: second Date update right after this Second Date Update date.
Speaker 2: Occasionally we check back in with callers months after they
Speaker 2: come on the show to see how their relationship is
Speaker 2: going love. When we do that, we call it a
Speaker 2: second Date Update Update. Yeah, but today we're doing something
Speaker 2: kind of new. We have a second Date Update Update Update.
Speaker 2: That's a triple update.
Speaker 1: Now we're getting clingy. Can you know what I mean? Like,
Speaker 1: can't we just let people live their lives at some point?
Speaker 2: Jeff, It's like second update Square. No, we want to
Speaker 2: be as deeply involved in our listeners' lives as possible
Speaker 2: with them. We're doing a TRUP date today. Yeah, in
Speaker 2: a few of those different meaning though, But seriously, one
Speaker 2: of our listeners, Anthony, reached out to us again. So
Speaker 2: first of all, Anthony, welcome back to the show.
Speaker 3: Hey guys, thanks for having me.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm in a hard time placing what Anthony, what
Speaker 1: you were on before.
Speaker 2: So last time Anthony was on, you were dating a
Speaker 2: woman named Mallory, and you guys were saying that you
Speaker 2: were happy together, but she was having you pay for
Speaker 2: a lot of her and her friend's activities.
Speaker 1: Oh I kind of remember this, and we're like, oh,
Speaker 1: she's using you. And then you're like, no, she's hot.
Speaker 1: Is that am I remembering?
Speaker 4: Right?
Speaker 3: That's pretty close?
Speaker 2: No, Mallory, it's just you today, Anthony. What's going on?
Speaker 3: H So with Mallory? I ran out of money?
Speaker 1: Oh wait, you broke what?
Speaker 2: Just go get a bank loan?
Speaker 4: Man?
Speaker 1: Did she wait? Did she leave you?
Speaker 2: Well?
Speaker 3: Yeah, she basically dropped me after I stopped paying for
Speaker 3: everything for her and her friends.
Speaker 2: So alexis good.
Speaker 1: Right, I see where she's coming from, Like, you.
Speaker 2: Go, girl, that sucks, man, But it sounds like you're
Speaker 2: better off.
Speaker 1: Without that, which I think told you so Yeah, I
Speaker 1: think that.
Speaker 2: Okay, So is that it?
Speaker 1: Guess if you went on at a date with another
Speaker 1: person that you're interested in?
Speaker 3: Yes, that has been happening.
Speaker 2: Okay, who's the new girl?
Speaker 3: I found a new woman named Lisa?
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, and what do you like about her?
Speaker 3: Well, the first thing that stands out to me about
Speaker 3: her I find fascinating is that she does private security
Speaker 3: detail for celebrity.
Speaker 2: Whoa, wow, that's such an interesting one of your employees.
Speaker 2: It's amazing.
Speaker 1: Let's get her on the phone.
Speaker 2: Was that was that like right there on her dating profile?
Speaker 3: No, that's just something that came out after. But she
Speaker 3: won't tell me who these clients are. And that's what
Speaker 3: I'm always trying to get out.
Speaker 2: Of her job at least, yeah, privacy.
Speaker 1: Okay, So have you guys been on one date? Two dates?
Speaker 1: Where you at?
Speaker 3: We just got out once?
Speaker 2: Okay, how did it go?
Speaker 3: It went pretty well? I mean, another thing that I
Speaker 3: thought was pretty funny. Is one thing I did see
Speaker 3: on her profile is there's like an a that comes
Speaker 3: up on people's profiles that says today's high flyer of
Speaker 3: the week, like when they're getting a lot of action.
Speaker 3: I guess that's what.
Speaker 1: They call it app it's funny.
Speaker 2: Is that a good thing for you or a red flag?
Speaker 3: Jury's out on that, but I mean I call it.
Speaker 3: I was calling her the high flyer as as a joke.
Speaker 5: Though.
Speaker 1: Is that something that she puts on her profile or
Speaker 1: is it something that the app does automatically? Sorry, I'm
Speaker 1: an idiot when it comes to apps.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think the app does that if you're really
Speaker 3: popular on the app.
Speaker 2: That's another interesting talking point though, to bring up on
Speaker 2: the date, like how did it go?
Speaker 3: I was good At first. I couldn't tell if she
Speaker 3: was going to be a real person or not. But
Speaker 3: she was exactly how she described herself.
Speaker 1: So she's real pretty is what you're saying.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, well she's pretty casual. She showed up in
Speaker 3: Gucci sweats, a Tupac couldie.
Speaker 2: Okay, she doesn't have a sense of styles.
Speaker 3: It's kind of cute, but I thought it was pretty
Speaker 3: cool and we did have fun. She talks a lot
Speaker 3: about this charity work she does, so she's really big
Speaker 3: on giving back to the community. And I was able
Speaker 3: to relate because I was just involved with the charity
Speaker 3: with my ex girlfriend and her friends.
Speaker 2: So I hope did say that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, is that how you brought it up?
Speaker 6: No?
Speaker 3: No, I made that joke and then failed to go
Speaker 3: to further detail about it with their books.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay, so we didn't even ask what were
Speaker 1: you guys doing? Were you drinking?
Speaker 5: Eating?
Speaker 1: What was the date about?
Speaker 3: Yeah, we got a couple of drinks. We went to
Speaker 3: a happy hour.
Speaker 1: Okay, So it's chill. So that's why she could wear
Speaker 1: the sweatshirt in the sweatpants. I see you budgeting.
Speaker 5: That.
Speaker 3: I I think she wanted to see me in the daylight.
Speaker 2: Did you feel like you had a good connection with her?
Speaker 7: Though?
Speaker 3: I did, But yeah, I could definitely tell why she
Speaker 3: is the high flyer because her phone keeps buzzing the
Speaker 3: whole time we're together. I have a suspicion that she's
Speaker 3: definitely talking to more guys than just me.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Probably.
Speaker 2: I mean, jose, if you were out on a date
Speaker 2: with someone who was a high flyer, is that a
Speaker 2: red flag to you.
Speaker 1: No, I would just be happy that I'm on a date.
Speaker 2: You're buying a ticket onto that plane.
Speaker 1: Maybe she wants to take step off the fast plane,
Speaker 1: move on to the slope plane with him.
Speaker 2: And I'm definitely over overall, though, how do you think
Speaker 2: the first date went good?
Speaker 5: Bad?
Speaker 3: I think it went good, okay. I was hoping that
Speaker 3: we're gonna go on another date. But her responses are
Speaker 3: a little spotty.
Speaker 2: I don't know, and I don't know if you did
Speaker 2: this or not, but did you ever point out, hey,
Speaker 2: your phone is buzzing a lot, or you're getting a
Speaker 2: lot of dudes trying to hit you up right now?
Speaker 1: Come across as weirdly?
Speaker 3: I didn't think that would be a good style. I'm
Speaker 3: a fire. I played it cool. I played it cool.
Speaker 3: It was, it was just slightly up inside.
Speaker 2: You seem to have answers. Let's find out what Lisa
Speaker 2: has to say for herself. We're gonna call the high
Speaker 2: flyer directly.
Speaker 1: Maybe she charted it as well.
Speaker 2: As what's on her chart. We do your second date
Speaker 2: update right after this second date update. Imagine being out
Speaker 2: with someone you're very interested in and finding out that
Speaker 2: they do security detail for the rich and famous cool,
Speaker 2: but they won't tell you who not only that they're
Speaker 2: a verified high flyer on the dating app where you
Speaker 2: met them.
Speaker 1: Which means that they get a lot of action on
Speaker 1: the front page.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, or I don't know, someone just paid to feature.
Speaker 1: Them or something like that.
Speaker 2: And they wear Gucci sweats with Tupac hoodies to first
Speaker 2: dates like it's no big deal.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean they're cool for me personally.
Speaker 2: This is a very interesting second date call because, like
Speaker 2: jose said before, I really hope that she actually answers
Speaker 2: us because we don't get to talk to people like
Speaker 2: this very often.
Speaker 1: Y he cannot be the one that also like pries
Speaker 1: into who the celebrities are she works for.
Speaker 2: Just ask.
Speaker 1: I know he already want the day she didn't want
Speaker 1: to answer her.
Speaker 2: But if she's like standing next to Kim Kardashian right now,
Speaker 2: is like I can't talk. I mean, we do want
Speaker 2: a lot of answers from her, but the main thing
Speaker 2: we want to know is why she's not going out
Speaker 2: with Anthony. That's true because this is a very unique
Speaker 2: type of woman and Anthony. Best part is she hasn't
Speaker 2: made you pay for anything yet. Either, but you are
Speaker 2: willing to yes.
Speaker 1: Wait oh yeah, wait you paid for the date though, right, Anthony?
Speaker 1: You paid for happy hour?
Speaker 3: Yeah? I paid for the date at the bar. But
Speaker 3: it wasn't like with Mallory. I wasn't paying for her
Speaker 3: parking and you know.
Speaker 1: The last girl that you were on the show with.
Speaker 2: Okay, but you'll pay for her parking on the second
Speaker 2: date at least. Let's let's call her and try and
Speaker 2: figure out where that's going to be and if she'll
Speaker 2: go out with you. Here we go. Hello, Hey is
Speaker 2: this Lisa? Yes, it is Hey Lisa. What's up? You're
Speaker 2: on the radio right now with Brooke and Jeffrey and Morning.
Speaker 1: Welcome to the show, Lisa.
Speaker 7: Oh hi, I guess I can't project us.
Speaker 2: If you haven't heard us before. We're low key Bougie,
Speaker 2: the lowest key.
Speaker 1: I feel like he's wearing a free show shirt.
Speaker 7: Got Okay, what is it all about? I don't get it.
Speaker 2: Well, we're one of those weird shows that helps listeners
Speaker 2: with their dating lives. When they go out with someone
Speaker 2: and they're not getting a return callback, we reach out
Speaker 2: and try and help figure out the reason why. Okay,
Speaker 2: I know, pretty pathetic on our part, but people get
Speaker 2: paid to do it.
Speaker 1: Thanks Jeff. I kind of like this segment, but I
Speaker 1: like it too.
Speaker 2: My parents are really ashamed of it. But that's not
Speaker 2: it's not about us. We're trying to ask about you
Speaker 2: and your relationship with a guy named Anthony.
Speaker 7: Oh. Okay, you guys would to Yeah we did.
Speaker 2: Okay, pretty great guy, huh.
Speaker 7: I mean yeah, he's a nice guy, good looking.
Speaker 1: Oh what was your thoughts on the date?
Speaker 7: I mean it was really chill. We just had a
Speaker 7: couple of drinks at happy hour and it was just
Speaker 7: a date.
Speaker 1: Oh, nothing to write home about, Okay.
Speaker 2: I mean, was there any like big red flags to
Speaker 2: you for why you're not going out with him again
Speaker 2: because he said he's been trying to organize a second
Speaker 2: meetup and it's not quite happening.
Speaker 7: I mean no, there weren't any red flags when we
Speaker 7: were sitting there talking. I mean, he was very interesting,
Speaker 7: he was interested in me, asked me a lot of questions.
Speaker 2: Okay, can I offer something up that he told us?
Speaker 2: Because sure, he said he was worried he may have
Speaker 2: offended you by prying too much into your job because
Speaker 2: he found out you helped organize security for big time celebrities.
Speaker 7: Oh my gosh, yeah, I just made that up to
Speaker 7: sound interesting.
Speaker 2: Wait what, man? I was interested even We were prepared
Speaker 2: with all these questions to try and get you to
Speaker 2: reveal who you do security for.
Speaker 1: Usually when somebody lies on a date, there's like shame
Speaker 1: and stuff. You're laughing like a joke to you.
Speaker 7: Well, I couldn't tell him what my real job is.
Speaker 2: What can you tell us your real job?
Speaker 7: I guess at this point, if I'm not going to
Speaker 7: see him again and share, I'll tell you what my
Speaker 7: real job is.
Speaker 2: What do you do?
Speaker 7: So I am actually part owner of the dating site?
Speaker 2: Wait way, wait a minute, you met Anthony?
Speaker 7: Yeah. Oh, some friends had the idea and we were
Speaker 7: just talking about stuff and it's just an idea. Well,
Speaker 7: they moved forward and they asked if I wanted to
Speaker 7: be an early investor, and so let's do it, and
Speaker 7: it just kind of blew up.
Speaker 1: So when it says high flyer on your dating app,
Speaker 1: that just means like CEO or something modeling pretty much.
Speaker 7: I mean, we were looking for trying to like do
Speaker 7: a feature like on the app, and I just said
Speaker 7: I'll do it. I'm single. I don't care about the
Speaker 7: attention whatever.
Speaker 1: Wow, market research Apparently it makes an impact.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I guess so.
Speaker 1: Okay, so wait, why did you just tell him that
Speaker 1: you were the app owner?
Speaker 7: Well, to be honest, I go on a lot of dates,
Speaker 7: and I mean, eventially I would tell people what the
Speaker 7: deal is, but also it would be a little creepy.
Speaker 7: I would think in the beginning, we're trying.
Speaker 2: To help him figure out what's the reason that you're
Speaker 2: not going out again? That's what he's confused about. Okay, okay?
Speaker 2: Is it so many men? Just so many men you
Speaker 2: can't choose one?
Speaker 7: No, No, that is not the reason. So as an admin,
Speaker 7: I can tell that he's been messaging other women, and
Speaker 7: when we are on a day and talking, he told
Speaker 7: me in conversation that it was just him and I talking.
Speaker 1: That feels like invasion of privatesten when you check off
Speaker 1: on the agreement, I mean, it says.
Speaker 7: Any co founder or manager can monitor your account in
Speaker 7: your activity, So well, am I right.
Speaker 2: To do that? That's crazy and it.
Speaker 7: Just proves that men are pigs.
Speaker 2: Oh weird, Anthony, what do you think about hearing all that?
Speaker 7: Wow?
Speaker 2: Hi, Lisa, because I forgot to tell you, Lisa it's down, way,
Speaker 2: way deep in our agreement. When you come on the
Speaker 2: phone that listening. Okay, oh wow, you're super chill.
Speaker 3: I'm a little shocked, but I totally understand like that
Speaker 3: you could that Why you had to put that in
Speaker 3: your profile.
Speaker 1: Feels like the last time you were on the show,
Speaker 1: like you just agree with women no matter what what
Speaker 1: they do to you. Woman's been light. She like invaded
Speaker 1: your privacy and you're just chill still.
Speaker 3: So wait a second. You could actually go into my
Speaker 3: app and see all the messages, like everything that I've
Speaker 3: ever written on there?
Speaker 7: Yes, I can.
Speaker 2: I know.
Speaker 1: I know Anthony's thinking of like three things said hope.
Speaker 2: You keep a PG on their money. That's how you
Speaker 2: know she cares.
Speaker 3: You can't see pictures right, Yes, I can.
Speaker 2: No, you can zoom in on them.
Speaker 3: I don't know if you'll have to zoom in.
Speaker 1: Yeah, why do I doubt that? I doubt that.
Speaker 2: Let's go down a bad path.
Speaker 1: Does that mean that you weren't talking to anybody else either, because.
Speaker 7: I mean, yeah, I'm talking to some people. Oh I
Speaker 7: was honest about that. On the dates, he implied that
Speaker 7: I was the only person he was talking to you.
Speaker 1: But you wouldn't have cared if he said, I see that.
Speaker 1: Why why did you say that, Anthony?
Speaker 3: Well, you're the only person that I've met on the
Speaker 3: app that I actually like and respect.
Speaker 1: Oh, you don't respect any other person you're talking about? Well,
Speaker 1: it's not good.
Speaker 3: I mean, I came out wrong, baby, But you's the
Speaker 3: only one I have really found interested in and I
Speaker 3: haven't met anybody like you, whether it was on the
Speaker 3: app or not.
Speaker 7: Well, I have your profile pulled up right now, and
Speaker 7: it looks like that you're trying to set up something
Speaker 7: with somebody named Clarissa.
Speaker 1: Oh.
Speaker 2: Respect Lisa. You said a little bit jealous of that,
Speaker 2: even I.
Speaker 7: Don't know about jealous. But look, I would have been
Speaker 7: totally fine if he had said, Yeah, I'm talking to
Speaker 7: other people too. I get it. It's not a big deal.
Speaker 3: I'm blocking I'm blocking Clarissa right now.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 1: It just sounds like you need to be truthful about
Speaker 1: everything another app.
Speaker 2: Definitely, something is happening here for sure, and it feels good.
Speaker 2: It does feel good, And I'd like to offer to
Speaker 2: send you guys out on another date that we will
Speaker 2: pay for once.
Speaker 3: Once again, can I just reiterate that I'm serious you
Speaker 3: are the only one I've taken serious that I've met
Speaker 3: on there, and I'm really hoping that you're going to
Speaker 3: say yes.
Speaker 1: That's cute.
Speaker 7: Well that's very sweet, Anthony. I appreciate that. Yeah, I
Speaker 7: mean I'm a yes. I would say yes. Start over,
Speaker 7: fresh slate, start from the beginning. Now that everything's on
Speaker 7: the table, we start over.
Speaker 2: Okay, And we also have fourteen other guys who want
Speaker 2: to know if you'll go out with them. What would
Speaker 2: you like to say to them?
Speaker 7: Well, I mean, if I'm being honest, I am still
Speaker 7: talking to the other guys fourteen on the other side
Speaker 7: for me.
Speaker 2: Okay, but how many of those guys do you respect?
Speaker 7: All Right?
Speaker 2: Well, more research with the second day on our bill,
Speaker 2: we're going to pay for it.
Speaker 7: Okay, I'm good.
Speaker 2: Before you go, can you force matches because there's a
Speaker 2: couple of girls that aren't responding to me that I'm
Speaker 2: wondering to help out a little creepy.
Speaker 7: That's a hard no.
Speaker 5: Freaking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: You know. The thing that I'm coming to terms with
Speaker 2: us is we just have to get it through our
Speaker 2: heads that people lie on dates. Yes, it can be
Speaker 2: small little white lies or big giant ones. But people
Speaker 2: do it all the time, whether it's to make themselves
Speaker 2: look better or for whatever reason, and we don't all.
Speaker 1: Have the access to fact check them like she did.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean, and it's not so much if you lie,
Speaker 2: it's what you lie about that's really important. She lied
Speaker 2: about what her job was out of boredom from all
Speaker 2: the dates that she goes on. He lied saying that
Speaker 2: she was the only girl that he was talking to
Speaker 2: on the dating app, and she found out that was untrue.
Speaker 1: Why wouldn't he even offer it up?
Speaker 2: Don't you know, like, just don't it sounds like one
Speaker 2: of those nice lies that you tell someone that they're
Speaker 2: the only one that you like, or it's like.
Speaker 1: I never do this when you know that that person
Speaker 1: always does it.
Speaker 2: You're really good at it. Yeah, but I do you
Speaker 2: feel like society has really progressed because they were totally
Speaker 2: okay with each other's lies in the.
Speaker 1: End each other out.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's how lies work. Yes, Yes, no matter what,
Speaker 2: no lie, You can always email the show for help.
Speaker 2: We're willing to call that person who wasn't calling you back.
Speaker 5: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: When you need some quality life advice. Who do you
Speaker 2: turn to, your friends, your parents? Sometimes local morning radio show.
Speaker 1: Flattered.
Speaker 2: I don't know if that's a good idea, but one
Speaker 2: of our listeners says he got some unsolicited life advice
Speaker 2: from a bartender one night, which wasn't really sure about.
Speaker 2: But when he actually tried it, not only did this
Speaker 2: advice instantly triple his income, it also may have helped
Speaker 2: him meet the love of his life. Oh my god,
Speaker 2: you're gonna hear what a total stranger convinced him to
Speaker 2: do to change his fortunes in your second Date update,
Speaker 2: next Second Date up date. This is gonna be be
Speaker 2: extremely helpful for our listeners because not only are we
Speaker 2: going to hear a new second Date update, but this
Speaker 2: is a situation with a potential new job opportunity where
Speaker 2: our listeners can leave their sucky workplaces and start making
Speaker 2: triple their normal salary.
Speaker 1: Is this streaming too, because I already discovered that are
Speaker 1: you making triple yet?
Speaker 2: I'm making a lot of money. It's not playing video
Speaker 2: games with kids online. No. Our listener says he did
Speaker 2: this and ended up actually meeting someone that way. His
Speaker 2: name is Zach, and Zach, you're doing your email said
Speaker 2: your life has changed dramatically in the last twelve months.
Speaker 2: Why big time.
Speaker 4: I met this girl due to my new job, because
Speaker 4: I went from I like.
Speaker 1: How your voice gets deep when.
Speaker 2: You say it sorry, it sounds like you like it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, what's your new job?
Speaker 4: Well, the ill job sucked. I was only making like
Speaker 4: forty k there. It was dead and wasn't gonna get
Speaker 4: any better. I hated it. So anyway, the company if
Speaker 4: I had an event for all the employees, and I
Speaker 4: went to it and they had an open bar there.
Speaker 1: Okay, and you're talking about the sucky company that wasn't
Speaker 1: paying you anything.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I know it sounds good right now with an
Speaker 4: open bar, but yeah, it gets pretty bad.
Speaker 1: Wait a minute, okay, open bar equals ye, like, I'll
Speaker 1: take payment in white cloth.
Speaker 4: I ended up passing back a few and during that
Speaker 4: I bonded and became friends with the guy that was
Speaker 4: bartending all right, And I was telling him about the
Speaker 4: job I was doing in my situation and how bad
Speaker 4: it was, and he tells me, he goes, man, you
Speaker 4: should just quit and start what I'm doing. And what
Speaker 4: he was doing he was a mobile bartender.
Speaker 2: Oh, I have a buddy who just started a company
Speaker 2: like this.
Speaker 1: Wait, isn't that just like catering? Like, I don't what's
Speaker 1: the difference.
Speaker 4: It's kind of more like a food truck that served drinks.
Speaker 1: People have little.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 4: So he tells me that I could triple my old
Speaker 4: income and he and so he starts filling me in.
Speaker 4: He goes, you only work a few hours a day.
Speaker 4: You can make your own schedule.
Speaker 1: Okay, it sounds too good to be true. Do you
Speaker 1: have experience bartending?
Speaker 4: I don't, not really I do.
Speaker 2: Now, oh, now you do?
Speaker 1: Okay, correct, and that's what you're doing now.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's exactly what I'm doing. It's going really good.
Speaker 4: I mean, you get hired to do this stuff and
Speaker 4: you go to a lot of different places.
Speaker 1: Okay, are you just calling for a second date because
Speaker 1: you want to promote your company?
Speaker 7: No?
Speaker 4: No, no, no, no no.
Speaker 2: Okay, So this is how you met the woman that
Speaker 2: we're going to call here.
Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, her name is Bethany, and I got hired
Speaker 4: to do a backyard party that was a bachelor flash
Speaker 4: bachelorette party. I guess they just wanted to do it
Speaker 4: all together.
Speaker 2: So they didn't brook did the same thing. Because she's cheap,
Speaker 2: like that, so.
Speaker 1: It's fun, like all the wedding party gets to know
Speaker 1: each other, like the girls know the guys, and it
Speaker 1: makes it more like fun at the wedding zoo.
Speaker 2: You can choose another guy you want to leave too,
Speaker 2: if you want to. I get it. So, how did
Speaker 2: you meet Bethany there?
Speaker 4: So she ends up being a guest at that party.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 4: And the more she came up, which was only a
Speaker 4: few times, but we started having good conversations, started talking.
Speaker 4: She was super fun. She was real bubbly and outgoing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, by her seventh Margarita, I would expect her to
Speaker 2: be fun.
Speaker 1: So, I mean, you probably meet so many different people now, like,
Speaker 1: but she really stood out to you.
Speaker 4: Yeah she did. And you know she's in great shape.
Speaker 4: She tells me that she's a cycling instructor.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, yeah, okay.
Speaker 4: But while we were talking, she had asked me what
Speaker 4: I do. I told her, well, you're looking at it,
Speaker 4: this is it, this is my business.
Speaker 2: Now cool? She impressed.
Speaker 4: I don't know, I don't know. It seemed like she
Speaker 4: was okay with it. But she goes, oh okay, yeah.
Speaker 1: Well, I will say there's a stigma that comes along
Speaker 1: with bartenders you know, too much fun, too much fun.
Speaker 1: I think it's more like too much fun without you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's the problem.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 7: And when they are free it is terrible times.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Now he's also the bartending business owner.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like a little extra. Hey, Monday at noon,
Speaker 1: do you want to go on a day because that's.
Speaker 4: The only time I have available, right, And I guess
Speaker 4: bartenders are normally struggling for money, So maybe she thought
Speaker 4: that that was a different tech bro.
Speaker 1: That's actually not part of the stigma.
Speaker 2: What you do in your free time.
Speaker 1: Socially, it is for work hours.
Speaker 2: But it sounds like you and Bethany had a stronger
Speaker 2: connection than that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and she gave me her number, okay, and she
Speaker 4: came up a few more times. But I've been trying
Speaker 4: to get a hold of her, been trying to text her,
Speaker 4: and she's kind of ghosting me her anything back at all.
Speaker 1: So you guys haven't gone out on a date yet.
Speaker 4: We have not gone out on a date, okay.
Speaker 2: I mean, looking back on the event that you work,
Speaker 2: was there any awkward moments between you two?
Speaker 4: The only one I can think of, which isn't all
Speaker 4: that bad. She's you know, naturally as she started coming
Speaker 4: up to the bar. She was getting a little tipsy
Speaker 4: towards the end of the night. Hopefully she wasn't embarrassed
Speaker 4: by me actually suggest that she pulled her dress up
Speaker 4: a little bit because well, things were starting to fall
Speaker 4: out of the top.
Speaker 5: Of the top.
Speaker 2: I was.
Speaker 1: She's trying to help her out different next time.
Speaker 4: I was telling her that the shirt or anything.
Speaker 2: Because Alexis has done that five different times and it's
Speaker 2: never worked out. Proud my skirts, about my neck. I
Speaker 2: don't get anything, all right, So you said you've been
Speaker 2: in contact with her, but nothing has come of it.
Speaker 4: Nothing.
Speaker 1: And do you promise us that you didn't ask for
Speaker 1: anyone else's number at that party, because well they're all friends.
Speaker 4: Not only did I not ask for anyone else's number
Speaker 4: that day, I've been doing this for over a year
Speaker 4: and have never asked anybody.
Speaker 2: We've met the one upstanding bartender in the entire world,
Speaker 2: because he done it.
Speaker 1: He's a rookie.
Speaker 2: Given another year, you'll be a different man. But in
Speaker 2: the meantime, let's call Bethany for you. We're gonna come
Speaker 2: back and try and get your second date update. Right
Speaker 2: after this second date update, t Payne once said, I
Speaker 2: love the bartender. Yeah, we'd be looking for me, but
Speaker 2: our bartender is not getting any love. That's what he
Speaker 2: does for a living. He left his old job a
Speaker 2: year ago and started a mobile business serving drinks at
Speaker 2: different events, where he ended up meeting a lady named
Speaker 2: Bethany at a backyard joint bachelor bachelorette party.
Speaker 1: And it's the only woman in an entire year that
Speaker 1: he's ever asked for her number.
Speaker 2: That's the type of impact that she had on him.
Speaker 2: They opened up to each other there, shared about their
Speaker 2: lives and their interests, even after she gave him her number,
Speaker 2: though she is not responding to him and they haven't
Speaker 2: done an official first date. She's the opposite of t paint.
Speaker 2: She's not in love with Yeah, but we wanted to
Speaker 2: get there so I mean, honestly, Zach, you're lucky that
Speaker 2: you're on the phone right now because if you were
Speaker 2: in studio, Brooke would be filling up your tip jar
Speaker 2: with so much cash, that's right, and other things trying
Speaker 2: to big.
Speaker 1: Poor that is. It's not a euphemism or anything. I
Speaker 1: just like a lot of alcohol in my cup.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it is a euphemism. Brook is a problem at
Speaker 2: every event that she goes to in a good way.
Speaker 2: But she's actually going to be on your side today.
Speaker 1: I am, I am. You know you said that the
Speaker 1: only like maybe kind of embarrassing moment was at the
Speaker 1: end when you told her to pull her top up
Speaker 1: because she was kind of losing things. I don't know,
Speaker 1: I mean as a drunk woman that the tops are
Speaker 1: always falling off. Did you say topp her dress? You
Speaker 1: know there's different like understood, Yeah, understood? I see.
Speaker 2: I Well, maybe she was pulling it down for you.
Speaker 2: Classic broke she'd be like, hello, I showed up with
Speaker 2: put it away. Excuse me, sir.
Speaker 1: The left ones out for a reason.
Speaker 2: Anyway. I mean, we can speculate all we want, we
Speaker 2: actually have to call Bethany here and figure out what's
Speaker 2: going on. Let's do it. I'm gonna call her.
Speaker 1: I just imagining just having one moob out.
Speaker 2: Here. We go call him Bethany. Hello, Hey, we're looking
Speaker 2: to talk to Bethany.
Speaker 8: Yeah, I'm.
Speaker 2: Hey Bethany. Sorry to interrupt your day, but we're a
Speaker 2: radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 6: Okay, Yi, welcome to the show. Hi.
Speaker 2: We're wanting to be a part of this segment we're
Speaker 2: doing called a Second Date Update, because we're trying to
Speaker 2: help out one of our listeners get in touch with you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you guys never really went on a date, but yeah,
Speaker 1: but you made a connection.
Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, you don't have to be nervous. We don't
Speaker 2: bite you. Sounds like you just got cornered.
Speaker 8: A lot of voices.
Speaker 2: We just we just want to ask you about a
Speaker 2: guy that you met recently at like a bachelor bachelorette event.
Speaker 2: He was the bartender there named Zach.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, what'd you think of Zach?
Speaker 8: You know, I thought it was really nice at first.
Speaker 1: At first, but then he was really sexy.
Speaker 2: Secondly something changed.
Speaker 6: Yeah, he kept going like on and on and on
Speaker 6: about how he like put his job and now he
Speaker 6: has this business and been doing so well and so
Speaker 6: much more money.
Speaker 2: We spoke to him a little bit before, and he
Speaker 2: heard that he's very proud of his new business because
Speaker 2: he started it all himself.
Speaker 8: And that's great, that's great to be proud. But he
Speaker 8: also didn't seem to want to know anything about what
Speaker 8: I was doing.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's too bad.
Speaker 8: It was very uncomfortable. And then and then at one point,
Speaker 8: like things got busy, you know, like a lot of
Speaker 8: people were drinking and he had like ran out of
Speaker 8: diet coke, and so I helped him and I went
Speaker 8: and grabbed some of the dit coke for him, Like, oh,
Speaker 8: I could do that, that's not problem.
Speaker 1: Okay, He's still a little flirty with him at that point.
Speaker 8: It was just yeah, he was alone, and I've worked
Speaker 8: different service industry jobs and so I know how it gets,
Speaker 8: and so I'm like, yeah, let me just help you out,
Speaker 8: Like it's a nice thing to do.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's yeah, that's that's awesome.
Speaker 8: I thought so too, But he'd already had my number
Speaker 8: at that point. He must have really appreciated me grabbing
Speaker 8: those diet cokes because he vinmowed me twenty dollars.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, what do you mean he venmoed you twenty bucks?
Speaker 2: He paid you for what?
Speaker 1: What did he put in the comments of the Venmo?
Speaker 2: That's a good question.
Speaker 8: Can you put here's a tip for the bartender? It's weird,
Speaker 8: kind of like I was just being nice. I just
Speaker 8: felt really weird and kind of like you know, like
Speaker 8: when like creepy old men and you like do something
Speaker 8: nice and then they like slip you like you know something.
Speaker 1: So she's talking to you, give me an comfortable syb
Speaker 1: you're saying, creepy old men started as creepy young men.
Speaker 8: Yeah, And I'm just like, is this the modern version
Speaker 8: of like an old man slipping you some cash?
Speaker 2: Well, I mean yeah, maybe slipping slipping money could be
Speaker 2: a little bit creepy, but this is going to be
Speaker 2: worth There's nothing creepy about somebody quietly listening in on
Speaker 2: a phone conversation wanting to join right about that because
Speaker 2: our company, Because Zach is on the other line wanting
Speaker 2: to talk to you.
Speaker 3: Hello, there, are you serious?
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's sad.
Speaker 3: I apologize.
Speaker 4: I didn't mean to offend you with the tip there.
Speaker 4: I just didn't know what to do there and just thought, well,
Speaker 4: you know, let me, she helped me out.
Speaker 5: Let me.
Speaker 8: You're a normal person.
Speaker 1: Okay, listen to her, Zach. That was part of the problem.
Speaker 2: Go ahead, beth Andy, tell him how you were feeling, you.
Speaker 8: Know, like just it felt like like you were Yeah,
Speaker 8: I know you felt.
Speaker 4: I heard the conversation. I get it, well, currying her out, Yeah,
Speaker 4: I just appreciated the fact.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so really, well, I know that you're a bartender,
Speaker 2: and a good lesson for bartenders is to listen to
Speaker 2: the customers because they'll actually stick around.
Speaker 1: Lesson to just people, right, Like, did you ask her
Speaker 1: one question that you could remember?
Speaker 8: No, I guess not a memory.
Speaker 1: Would you like to ask her anything about herself?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 4: I know what you normally drink? Is there a second
Speaker 4: favorite that you have?
Speaker 2: Well, that's something?
Speaker 1: Is it something, Jeff?
Speaker 2: At least it's a question about her.
Speaker 7: No.
Speaker 4: I didn't think sending her twenty dollars would be that
Speaker 4: big a deal. I figure she she told me she
Speaker 4: was a cycling instructor. Didn't think she was getting rich
Speaker 4: on that.
Speaker 2: Oh wow, it's probably true, though, let's be honest.
Speaker 7: It depends on the studio.
Speaker 8: You can actually make pretty good money.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Zach, maybe you should maybe leave your bartending job
Speaker 2: and getting discycling if there's that much money in it.
Speaker 1: I saw a thing recently where they put a blender
Speaker 1: on the front of a bike and you could do both.
Speaker 1: Where you have to make your own margarita by pedaling
Speaker 1: really fast.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's so smart. That could be your niche.
Speaker 4: I actually don't know how to ride a bike.
Speaker 1: Oh it was it was stationary? Yeah, I bet that
Speaker 1: was a lot to hear. That was a lot to hear. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it sounds like he means well, but it's.
Speaker 2: Not coming out.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Maybe Zach has learned some lessons in the last few minutes. Zach,
Speaker 2: what have you learned from this call?
Speaker 4: I learned that she never answered her question about her
Speaker 4: second favorite drink?
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, and that's this guy.
Speaker 2: Well, we always offer this because we kind of have to,
Speaker 2: But Bethany, we would love to send you out on
Speaker 2: another on a first date, actually with Zach.
Speaker 8: Does he have to be there?
Speaker 2: Yeah, Zach does have to be there. And the good
Speaker 2: news is nobody has to pay through Venmo or anything.
Speaker 2: We're going to cover the bill.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I'm up for anything, really, as long as we don't
Speaker 4: ride bikes anywhere.
Speaker 2: Okay, what did that be?
Speaker 1: Ironic? A cycling instruction? Dating the guy.
Speaker 2: Who couldn't write, Bethany? You want to get him a shot?
Speaker 5: You know?
Speaker 8: I think I should just stick to my gut from
Speaker 8: our first interaction. Okay, I appreciate the offer.
Speaker 2: Oh man, all right.
Speaker 1: Well you got your answer, Zach.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but if you tip us forty dollars, we'll ask
Speaker 2: her again.
Speaker 3: That's okay.
Speaker 4: I mean I can see what's going on. I can
Speaker 4: read between the lines, and.
Speaker 1: I feel like I was very straightforward to I think
Speaker 1: all the lines had all the writing on him.
Speaker 2: I thought you'd be impressed, Bethany, just by the fact
Speaker 2: he could.
Speaker 5: Read yes, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: You know what, I'm not even feeling sad.
Speaker 1: For Zach because Zach wouldn't hear you anyway.
Speaker 2: That's true. Yeah, you don't know. He kind of embarrassed
Speaker 2: himself on the radio. He's meaning so many hotties at
Speaker 2: these bartending events. Now he is going to be just
Speaker 2: fine in the dating world.
Speaker 1: Know if he can stop talking about himself. Yeah, I mean, honestly,
Speaker 1: like it sounds like so simple and it's so hard
Speaker 1: for some people.
Speaker 2: There's a line, if you're excited about your new success,
Speaker 2: you can only tell your old friends that knew you
Speaker 2: when you were broke. If you tell new people, hey,
Speaker 2: I'm rich and I have a company, isn't that cool,
Speaker 2: They're gonna be like, no, you sure, But next week
Speaker 2: we're probably gonna get an email from him saying he
Speaker 2: just met another woman, but this one's his soul made
Speaker 2: because she can't ride a bike either.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I mean it would be cute to see
Speaker 1: him on trading wheels.
Speaker 2: I will love that duel bicycle wheels, Zach. We're all
Speaker 2: rooting for you out therebody, but make sure you listen
Speaker 2: to Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. Wherever you find
Speaker 2: your podcast, you can hear more second dates, just like
Speaker 2: that one.