WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classics: High Flyer Liar + The Bartender and the Biker

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning and you

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<v Speaker 1>get double the dose. On Saturday, we got two classics

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<v Speaker 1>back to back.

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<v Speaker 2>Which is definitely listen to.

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<v Speaker 1>That's true. And hey, just on the side, if anybody

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<v Speaker 1>is a huge swiftye out there, Alexis put together a

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<v Speaker 1>really fun game. We do a podcast exclusive over on

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<v Speaker 1>our other feed, just the Brook and Jeffrey main feed,

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<v Speaker 1>where we play a game called Today Versus Back in

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<v Speaker 1>the Day and it's all Taylor themed. Yeah, because of

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<v Speaker 1>Life of a Showgirl that got announced this week. So

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<v Speaker 1>if you guys want to have some fun, get some

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<v Speaker 1>good tailor trivia and a little bit of nonsense, head

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<v Speaker 1>over to that main feed. But right now we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>start with comments before we get into this double second date.

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<v Speaker 1>Joel the cool guy. Oh, not me saying he's cool,

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<v Speaker 1>but I appreciate that guy said, always listen to you

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<v Speaker 1>guys while drawing or biking to work. Keep it up.

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<v Speaker 1>I love listening. Greetings from the Netherlands, Yeah, where everyone bikes. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>basically it's so cool. I want to know what you're drawing?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you drawing us? Do we look good? You want

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<v Speaker 1>to be model? Okay? Alexis just volunteered. All right, your

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<v Speaker 1>double dose of Second Date Classics starts right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe it's just me, but I feel like whenever I'm

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<v Speaker 2>out in the world, it's a huge conversation changer the

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<v Speaker 2>moment I tell someone I actually host a radio show. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you guys get that too.

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<v Speaker 1>People are always really interested in what that looks like.

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<v Speaker 2>Everyone to me is like, whoa, Really, you don't seem

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<v Speaker 2>good at talking in real life.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, your coworkers say that too, Well, that all.

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<v Speaker 2>Might be true. I'm just saying. Our jobs are definite

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<v Speaker 2>attention grabbers when we bring them up, but it's nothing

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<v Speaker 2>compared to the woman that we call today, because when

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<v Speaker 2>we found out what she does for a living, everyone

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<v Speaker 2>in the room stopped and wanted to know every single detail.

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<v Speaker 2>You're gonna understand why when you hear it in your

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<v Speaker 2>second Date update right after this Second Date Update date.

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<v Speaker 2>Occasionally we check back in with callers months after they

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<v Speaker 2>come on the show to see how their relationship is

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<v Speaker 2>going love. When we do that, we call it a

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<v Speaker 2>second Date Update Update. Yeah, but today we're doing something

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<v Speaker 2>kind of new. We have a second Date Update Update Update.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a triple update.

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<v Speaker 1>Now we're getting clingy. Can you know what I mean? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>can't we just let people live their lives at some point?

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<v Speaker 2>Jeff, It's like second update Square. No, we want to

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<v Speaker 2>be as deeply involved in our listeners' lives as possible

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<v Speaker 2>with them. We're doing a TRUP date today. Yeah, in

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<v Speaker 2>a few of those different meaning though, But seriously, one

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<v Speaker 2>of our listeners, Anthony, reached out to us again. So

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<v Speaker 2>first of all, Anthony, welcome back to the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey guys, thanks for having me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm in a hard time placing what Anthony, what

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<v Speaker 1>you were on before.

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<v Speaker 2>So last time Anthony was on, you were dating a

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<v Speaker 2>woman named Mallory, and you guys were saying that you

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<v Speaker 2>were happy together, but she was having you pay for

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of her and her friend's activities.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I kind of remember this, and we're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>she's using you. And then you're like, no, she's hot.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that am I remembering?

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<v Speaker 4>Right?

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<v Speaker 3>That's pretty close?

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<v Speaker 2>No, Mallory, it's just you today, Anthony. What's going on?

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<v Speaker 3>H So with Mallory? I ran out of money?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wait, you broke what?

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<v Speaker 2>Just go get a bank loan?

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<v Speaker 4>Man?

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<v Speaker 1>Did she wait? Did she leave you?

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<v Speaker 2>Well?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she basically dropped me after I stopped paying for

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<v Speaker 3>everything for her and her friends.

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<v Speaker 2>So alexis good.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, I see where she's coming from, Like, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Go, girl, that sucks, man, But it sounds like you're

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<v Speaker 2>better off.

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<v Speaker 1>Without that, which I think told you so Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>think that.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So is that it?

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<v Speaker 1>Guess if you went on at a date with another

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<v Speaker 1>person that you're interested in?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, that has been happening.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, who's the new girl?

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<v Speaker 3>I found a new woman named Lisa?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right, and what do you like about her?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, the first thing that stands out to me about

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<v Speaker 3>her I find fascinating is that she does private security

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<v Speaker 3>detail for celebrity.

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<v Speaker 2>Whoa, wow, that's such an interesting one of your employees.

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<v Speaker 2>It's amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's get her on the phone.

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<v Speaker 2>Was that was that like right there on her dating profile?

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<v Speaker 3>No, that's just something that came out after. But she

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<v Speaker 3>won't tell me who these clients are. And that's what

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<v Speaker 3>I'm always trying to get out.

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<v Speaker 2>Of her job at least, yeah, privacy.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So have you guys been on one date? Two dates?

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<v Speaker 1>Where you at?

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<v Speaker 3>We just got out once?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, how did it go?

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<v Speaker 3>It went pretty well? I mean, another thing that I

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<v Speaker 3>thought was pretty funny. Is one thing I did see

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<v Speaker 3>on her profile is there's like an a that comes

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<v Speaker 3>up on people's profiles that says today's high flyer of

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<v Speaker 3>the week, like when they're getting a lot of action.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess that's what.

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<v Speaker 1>They call it app it's funny.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that a good thing for you or a red flag?

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<v Speaker 3>Jury's out on that, but I mean I call it.

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<v Speaker 3>I was calling her the high flyer as as a joke.

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<v Speaker 5>Though.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that something that she puts on her profile or

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<v Speaker 1>is it something that the app does automatically? Sorry, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>an idiot when it comes to apps.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think the app does that if you're really

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<v Speaker 3>popular on the app.

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<v Speaker 2>That's another interesting talking point though, to bring up on

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<v Speaker 2>the date, like how did it go?

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<v Speaker 3>I was good At first. I couldn't tell if she

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<v Speaker 3>was going to be a real person or not. But

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<v Speaker 3>she was exactly how she described herself.

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<v Speaker 1>So she's real pretty is what you're saying.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, well she's pretty casual. She showed up in

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<v Speaker 3>Gucci sweats, a Tupac couldie.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, she doesn't have a sense of styles.

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<v Speaker 3>It's kind of cute, but I thought it was pretty

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<v Speaker 3>cool and we did have fun. She talks a lot

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<v Speaker 3>about this charity work she does, so she's really big

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<v Speaker 3>on giving back to the community. And I was able

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<v Speaker 3>to relate because I was just involved with the charity

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<v Speaker 3>with my ex girlfriend and her friends.

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<v Speaker 2>So I hope did say that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, is that how you brought it up?

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<v Speaker 6>No?

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<v Speaker 3>No, I made that joke and then failed to go

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<v Speaker 3>to further detail about it with their books.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, okay, so we didn't even ask what were

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<v Speaker 1>you guys doing? Were you drinking?

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<v Speaker 5>Eating?

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<v Speaker 1>What was the date about?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we got a couple of drinks. We went to

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<v Speaker 3>a happy hour.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So it's chill. So that's why she could wear

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<v Speaker 1>the sweatshirt in the sweatpants. I see you budgeting.

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<v Speaker 5>That.

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<v Speaker 3>I I think she wanted to see me in the daylight.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you feel like you had a good connection with her?

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<v Speaker 7>Though?

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<v Speaker 3>I did, But yeah, I could definitely tell why she

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<v Speaker 3>is the high flyer because her phone keeps buzzing the

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<v Speaker 3>whole time we're together. I have a suspicion that she's

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<v Speaker 3>definitely talking to more guys than just me.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Probably.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, jose, if you were out on a date

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<v Speaker 2>with someone who was a high flyer, is that a

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<v Speaker 2>red flag to you.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I would just be happy that I'm on a date.

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<v Speaker 2>You're buying a ticket onto that plane.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe she wants to take step off the fast plane,

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<v Speaker 1>move on to the slope plane with him.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm definitely over overall, though, how do you think

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<v Speaker 2>the first date went good?

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<v Speaker 5>Bad?

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<v Speaker 3>I think it went good, okay. I was hoping that

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<v Speaker 3>we're gonna go on another date. But her responses are

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<v Speaker 3>a little spotty.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, and I don't know if you did

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<v Speaker 2>this or not, but did you ever point out, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>your phone is buzzing a lot, or you're getting a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of dudes trying to hit you up right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Come across as weirdly?

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't think that would be a good style. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>a fire. I played it cool. I played it cool.

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<v Speaker 3>It was, it was just slightly up inside.

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<v Speaker 2>You seem to have answers. Let's find out what Lisa

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<v Speaker 2>has to say for herself. We're gonna call the high

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<v Speaker 2>flyer directly.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe she charted it as well.

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<v Speaker 2>As what's on her chart. We do your second date

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<v Speaker 2>update right after this second date update. Imagine being out

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<v Speaker 2>with someone you're very interested in and finding out that

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<v Speaker 2>they do security detail for the rich and famous cool,

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<v Speaker 2>but they won't tell you who not only that they're

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<v Speaker 2>a verified high flyer on the dating app where you

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<v Speaker 2>met them.

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<v Speaker 1>Which means that they get a lot of action on

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<v Speaker 1>the front page.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah, or I don't know, someone just paid to feature.

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<v Speaker 1>Them or something like that.

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<v Speaker 2>And they wear Gucci sweats with Tupac hoodies to first

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<v Speaker 2>dates like it's no big deal.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean they're cool for me personally.

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<v Speaker 2>This is a very interesting second date call because, like

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<v Speaker 2>jose said before, I really hope that she actually answers

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<v Speaker 2>us because we don't get to talk to people like

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<v Speaker 2>this very often.

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<v Speaker 1>Y he cannot be the one that also like pries

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<v Speaker 1>into who the celebrities are she works for.

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<v Speaker 2>Just ask.

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<v Speaker 1>I know he already want the day she didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to answer her.

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<v Speaker 2>But if she's like standing next to Kim Kardashian right now,

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<v Speaker 2>is like I can't talk. I mean, we do want

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of answers from her, but the main thing

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<v Speaker 2>we want to know is why she's not going out

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<v Speaker 2>with Anthony. That's true because this is a very unique

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<v Speaker 2>type of woman and Anthony. Best part is she hasn't

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<v Speaker 2>made you pay for anything yet. Either, but you are

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<v Speaker 2>willing to yes.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait oh yeah, wait you paid for the date though, right, Anthony?

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<v Speaker 1>You paid for happy hour?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? I paid for the date at the bar. But

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<v Speaker 3>it wasn't like with Mallory. I wasn't paying for her

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<v Speaker 3>parking and you know.

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<v Speaker 1>The last girl that you were on the show with.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, but you'll pay for her parking on the second

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<v Speaker 2>date at least. Let's let's call her and try and

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<v Speaker 2>figure out where that's going to be and if she'll

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<v Speaker 2>go out with you. Here we go. Hello, Hey is

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<v Speaker 2>this Lisa? Yes, it is Hey Lisa. What's up? You're

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<v Speaker 2>on the radio right now with Brooke and Jeffrey and Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the show, Lisa.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh hi, I guess I can't project us.

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<v Speaker 2>If you haven't heard us before. We're low key Bougie,

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<v Speaker 2>the lowest key.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like he's wearing a free show shirt.

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<v Speaker 7>Got Okay, what is it all about? I don't get it.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, we're one of those weird shows that helps listeners

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<v Speaker 2>with their dating lives. When they go out with someone

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<v Speaker 2>and they're not getting a return callback, we reach out

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<v Speaker 2>and try and help figure out the reason why. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I know, pretty pathetic on our part, but people get

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<v Speaker 2>paid to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks Jeff. I kind of like this segment, but I

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<v Speaker 1>like it too.

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<v Speaker 2>My parents are really ashamed of it. But that's not

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<v Speaker 2>it's not about us. We're trying to ask about you

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<v Speaker 2>and your relationship with a guy named Anthony.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh. Okay, you guys would to Yeah we did.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, pretty great guy, huh.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean yeah, he's a nice guy, good looking.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh what was your thoughts on the date?

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<v Speaker 7>I mean it was really chill. We just had a

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<v Speaker 7>couple of drinks at happy hour and it was just

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<v Speaker 7>a date.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, nothing to write home about, Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, was there any like big red flags to

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<v Speaker 2>you for why you're not going out with him again

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<v Speaker 2>because he said he's been trying to organize a second

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<v Speaker 2>meetup and it's not quite happening.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean no, there weren't any red flags when we

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<v Speaker 7>were sitting there talking. I mean, he was very interesting,

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<v Speaker 7>he was interested in me, asked me a lot of questions.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, can I offer something up that he told us?

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<v Speaker 2>Because sure, he said he was worried he may have

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<v Speaker 2>offended you by prying too much into your job because

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<v Speaker 2>he found out you helped organize security for big time celebrities.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh my gosh, yeah, I just made that up to

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<v Speaker 7>sound interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait what, man? I was interested even We were prepared

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<v Speaker 2>with all these questions to try and get you to

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<v Speaker 2>reveal who you do security for.

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<v Speaker 1>Usually when somebody lies on a date, there's like shame

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff. You're laughing like a joke to you.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, I couldn't tell him what my real job is.

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<v Speaker 2>What can you tell us your real job?

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<v Speaker 7>I guess at this point, if I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 7>see him again and share, I'll tell you what my

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<v Speaker 7>real job is.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you do?

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<v Speaker 7>So I am actually part owner of the dating site?

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<v Speaker 2>Wait way, wait a minute, you met Anthony?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah. Oh, some friends had the idea and we were

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<v Speaker 7>just talking about stuff and it's just an idea. Well,

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<v Speaker 7>they moved forward and they asked if I wanted to

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<v Speaker 7>be an early investor, and so let's do it, and

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<v Speaker 7>it just kind of blew up.

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<v Speaker 1>So when it says high flyer on your dating app,

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<v Speaker 1>that just means like CEO or something modeling pretty much.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, we were looking for trying to like do

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<v Speaker 7>a feature like on the app, and I just said

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<v Speaker 7>I'll do it. I'm single. I don't care about the

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<v Speaker 7>attention whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, market research Apparently it makes an impact.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I guess so.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so wait, why did you just tell him that

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<v Speaker 1>you were the app owner?

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<v Speaker 7>Well, to be honest, I go on a lot of dates,

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<v Speaker 7>and I mean, eventially I would tell people what the

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<v Speaker 7>deal is, but also it would be a little creepy.

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<v Speaker 7>I would think in the beginning, we're trying.

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<v Speaker 2>To help him figure out what's the reason that you're

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<v Speaker 2>not going out again? That's what he's confused about. Okay, okay?

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<v Speaker 2>Is it so many men? Just so many men you

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<v Speaker 2>can't choose one?

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<v Speaker 7>No, No, that is not the reason. So as an admin,

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<v Speaker 7>I can tell that he's been messaging other women, and

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<v Speaker 7>when we are on a day and talking, he told

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<v Speaker 7>me in conversation that it was just him and I talking.

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<v Speaker 1>That feels like invasion of privatesten when you check off

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<v Speaker 1>on the agreement, I mean, it says.

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<v Speaker 7>Any co founder or manager can monitor your account in

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<v Speaker 7>your activity, So well, am I right.

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<v Speaker 2>To do that? That's crazy and it.

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<v Speaker 7>Just proves that men are pigs.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh weird, Anthony, what do you think about hearing all that?

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<v Speaker 7>Wow?

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, Lisa, because I forgot to tell you, Lisa it's down, way,

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<v Speaker 2>way deep in our agreement. When you come on the

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<v Speaker 2>phone that listening. Okay, oh wow, you're super chill.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm a little shocked, but I totally understand like that

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<v Speaker 3>you could that Why you had to put that in

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<v Speaker 3>your profile.

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<v Speaker 1>Feels like the last time you were on the show,

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<v Speaker 1>like you just agree with women no matter what what

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<v Speaker 1>they do to you. Woman's been light. She like invaded

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<v Speaker 1>your privacy and you're just chill still.

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<v Speaker 3>So wait a second. You could actually go into my

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<v Speaker 3>app and see all the messages, like everything that I've

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<v Speaker 3>ever written on there?

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<v Speaker 7>Yes, I can.

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<v Speaker 2>I know.

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<v Speaker 1>I know Anthony's thinking of like three things said hope.

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<v Speaker 2>You keep a PG on their money. That's how you

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<v Speaker 2>know she cares.

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<v Speaker 3>You can't see pictures right, Yes, I can.

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<v Speaker 2>No, you can zoom in on them.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know if you'll have to zoom in.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, why do I doubt that? I doubt that.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's go down a bad path.

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<v Speaker 1>Does that mean that you weren't talking to anybody else either, because.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, yeah, I'm talking to some people. Oh I

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<v Speaker 7>was honest about that. On the dates, he implied that

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<v Speaker 7>I was the only person he was talking to you.

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<v Speaker 1>But you wouldn't have cared if he said, I see that.

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<v Speaker 1>Why why did you say that, Anthony?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, you're the only person that I've met on the

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<v Speaker 3>app that I actually like and respect.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, you don't respect any other person you're talking about? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not good.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I came out wrong, baby, But you's the

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<v Speaker 3>only one I have really found interested in and I

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<v Speaker 3>haven't met anybody like you, whether it was on the

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<v Speaker 3>app or not.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, I have your profile pulled up right now, and

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<v Speaker 7>it looks like that you're trying to set up something

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<v Speaker 7>with somebody named Clarissa.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>Respect Lisa. You said a little bit jealous of that,

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<v Speaker 2>even I.

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<v Speaker 7>Don't know about jealous. But look, I would have been

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<v Speaker 7>totally fine if he had said, Yeah, I'm talking to

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<v Speaker 7>other people too. I get it. It's not a big deal.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm blocking I'm blocking Clarissa right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>It just sounds like you need to be truthful about

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<v Speaker 1>everything another app.

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<v Speaker 2>Definitely, something is happening here for sure, and it feels good.

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<v Speaker 2>It does feel good, And I'd like to offer to

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<v Speaker 2>send you guys out on another date that we will

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<v Speaker 2>pay for once.

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<v Speaker 3>Once again, can I just reiterate that I'm serious you

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<v Speaker 3>are the only one I've taken serious that I've met

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<v Speaker 3>on there, and I'm really hoping that you're going to

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<v Speaker 3>say yes.

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<v Speaker 1>That's cute.

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<v Speaker 7>Well that's very sweet, Anthony. I appreciate that. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 7>mean I'm a yes. I would say yes. Start over,

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<v Speaker 7>fresh slate, start from the beginning. Now that everything's on

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<v Speaker 7>the table, we start over.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, And we also have fourteen other guys who want

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<v Speaker 2>to know if you'll go out with them. What would

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<v Speaker 2>you like to say to them?

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<v Speaker 7>Well, I mean, if I'm being honest, I am still

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<v Speaker 7>talking to the other guys fourteen on the other side

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<v Speaker 7>for me.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, but how many of those guys do you respect?

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<v Speaker 7>All Right?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, more research with the second day on our bill,

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<v Speaker 2>we're going to pay for it.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, I'm good.

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<v Speaker 2>Before you go, can you force matches because there's a

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<v Speaker 2>couple of girls that aren't responding to me that I'm

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<v Speaker 2>wondering to help out a little creepy.

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<v Speaker 7>That's a hard no.

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<v Speaker 5>Freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>You know. The thing that I'm coming to terms with

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<v Speaker 2>us is we just have to get it through our

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<v Speaker 2>heads that people lie on dates. Yes, it can be

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<v Speaker 2>small little white lies or big giant ones. But people

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<v Speaker 2>do it all the time, whether it's to make themselves

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<v Speaker 2>look better or for whatever reason, and we don't all.

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<v Speaker 1>Have the access to fact check them like she did.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I mean, and it's not so much if you lie,

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<v Speaker 2>it's what you lie about that's really important. She lied

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<v Speaker 2>about what her job was out of boredom from all

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<v Speaker 2>the dates that she goes on. He lied saying that

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<v Speaker 2>she was the only girl that he was talking to

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<v Speaker 2>on the dating app, and she found out that was untrue.

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<v Speaker 1>Why wouldn't he even offer it up?

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<v Speaker 2>Don't you know, like, just don't it sounds like one

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<v Speaker 2>of those nice lies that you tell someone that they're

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<v Speaker 2>the only one that you like, or it's like.

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<v Speaker 1>I never do this when you know that that person

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<v Speaker 1>always does it.

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<v Speaker 2>You're really good at it. Yeah, but I do you

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<v Speaker 2>feel like society has really progressed because they were totally

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<v Speaker 2>okay with each other's lies in the.

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<v Speaker 1>End each other out.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's how lies work. Yes, Yes, no matter what,

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<v Speaker 2>no lie, You can always email the show for help.

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<v Speaker 2>We're willing to call that person who wasn't calling you back.

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<v Speaker 5>Brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>When you need some quality life advice. Who do you

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<v Speaker 2>turn to, your friends, your parents? Sometimes local morning radio show.

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<v Speaker 1>Flattered.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if that's a good idea, but one

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<v Speaker 2>of our listeners says he got some unsolicited life advice

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<v Speaker 2>from a bartender one night, which wasn't really sure about.

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<v Speaker 2>But when he actually tried it, not only did this

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<v Speaker 2>advice instantly triple his income, it also may have helped

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<v Speaker 2>him meet the love of his life. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 2>you're gonna hear what a total stranger convinced him to

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<v Speaker 2>do to change his fortunes in your second Date update,

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<v Speaker 2>next Second Date up date. This is gonna be be

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<v Speaker 2>extremely helpful for our listeners because not only are we

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<v Speaker 2>going to hear a new second Date update, but this

0:20:06.640 --> 0:20:10.760
<v Speaker 2>is a situation with a potential new job opportunity where

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<v Speaker 2>our listeners can leave their sucky workplaces and start making

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<v Speaker 2>triple their normal salary.

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<v Speaker 1>Is this streaming too, because I already discovered that are

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<v Speaker 1>you making triple yet?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm making a lot of money. It's not playing video

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<v Speaker 2>games with kids online. No. Our listener says he did

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<v Speaker 2>this and ended up actually meeting someone that way. His

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<v Speaker 2>name is Zach, and Zach, you're doing your email said

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<v Speaker 2>your life has changed dramatically in the last twelve months.

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<v Speaker 2>Why big time.

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<v Speaker 4>I met this girl due to my new job, because

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<v Speaker 4>I went from I like.

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<v Speaker 1>How your voice gets deep when.

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<v Speaker 2>You say it sorry, it sounds like you like it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, what's your new job?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, the ill job sucked. I was only making like

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<v Speaker 4>forty k there. It was dead and wasn't gonna get

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<v Speaker 4>any better. I hated it. So anyway, the company if

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<v Speaker 4>I had an event for all the employees, and I

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<v Speaker 4>went to it and they had an open bar there.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, and you're talking about the sucky company that wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>paying you anything.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I know it sounds good right now with an

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<v Speaker 4>open bar, but yeah, it gets pretty bad.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait a minute, okay, open bar equals ye, like, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>take payment in white cloth.

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<v Speaker 4>I ended up passing back a few and during that

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<v Speaker 4>I bonded and became friends with the guy that was

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<v Speaker 4>bartending all right, And I was telling him about the

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<v Speaker 4>job I was doing in my situation and how bad

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<v Speaker 4>it was, and he tells me, he goes, man, you

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<v Speaker 4>should just quit and start what I'm doing. And what

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<v Speaker 4>he was doing he was a mobile bartender.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I have a buddy who just started a company

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<v Speaker 2>like this.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, isn't that just like catering? Like, I don't what's

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<v Speaker 1>the difference.

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<v Speaker 4>It's kind of more like a food truck that served drinks.

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<v Speaker 1>People have little.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>So he tells me that I could triple my old

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<v Speaker 4>income and he and so he starts filling me in.

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<v Speaker 4>He goes, you only work a few hours a day.

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<v Speaker 4>You can make your own schedule.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, it sounds too good to be true. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>have experience bartending?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't, not really I do.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, oh, now you do?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, correct, and that's what you're doing now.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's exactly what I'm doing. It's going really good.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, you get hired to do this stuff and

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<v Speaker 4>you go to a lot of different places.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, are you just calling for a second date because

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<v Speaker 1>you want to promote your company?

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<v Speaker 7>No?

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<v Speaker 4>No, no, no, no no.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So this is how you met the woman that

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<v Speaker 2>we're going to call here.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. Yeah, her name is Bethany, and I got hired

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<v Speaker 4>to do a backyard party that was a bachelor flash

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<v Speaker 4>bachelorette party. I guess they just wanted to do it

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<v Speaker 4>all together.

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<v Speaker 2>So they didn't brook did the same thing. Because she's cheap,

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<v Speaker 2>like that, so.

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<v Speaker 1>It's fun, like all the wedding party gets to know

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<v Speaker 1>each other, like the girls know the guys, and it

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<v Speaker 1>makes it more like fun at the wedding zoo.

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<v Speaker 2>You can choose another guy you want to leave too,

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<v Speaker 2>if you want to. I get it. So, how did

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<v Speaker 2>you meet Bethany there?

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<v Speaker 4>So she ends up being a guest at that party.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>And the more she came up, which was only a

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<v Speaker 4>few times, but we started having good conversations, started talking.

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<v Speaker 4>She was super fun. She was real bubbly and outgoing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, by her seventh Margarita, I would expect her to

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<v Speaker 2>be fun.

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<v Speaker 1>So, I mean, you probably meet so many different people now, like,

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<v Speaker 1>but she really stood out to you.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah she did. And you know she's in great shape.

0:23:41.119 --> 0:23:43.400
<v Speaker 4>She tells me that she's a cycling instructor.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 4>But while we were talking, she had asked me what

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<v Speaker 4>I do. I told her, well, you're looking at it,

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<v Speaker 4>this is it, this is my business.

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<v Speaker 2>Now cool? She impressed.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know, I don't know. It seemed like she

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<v Speaker 4>was okay with it. But she goes, oh okay, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I will say there's a stigma that comes along

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<v Speaker 1>with bartenders you know, too much fun, too much fun.

0:24:11.520 --> 0:24:13.879
<v Speaker 1>I think it's more like too much fun without you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's the problem.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 7>And when they are free it is terrible times.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Now he's also the bartending business owner.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's like a little extra. Hey, Monday at noon,

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<v Speaker 1>do you want to go on a day because that's.

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<v Speaker 4>The only time I have available, right, And I guess

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<v Speaker 4>bartenders are normally struggling for money, So maybe she thought

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<v Speaker 4>that that was a different tech bro.

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<v Speaker 1>That's actually not part of the stigma.

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<v Speaker 2>What you do in your free time.

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<v Speaker 1>Socially, it is for work hours.

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<v Speaker 2>But it sounds like you and Bethany had a stronger

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<v Speaker 2>connection than that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and she gave me her number, okay, and she

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<v Speaker 4>came up a few more times. But I've been trying

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<v Speaker 4>to get a hold of her, been trying to text her,

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<v Speaker 4>and she's kind of ghosting me her anything back at all.

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<v Speaker 1>So you guys haven't gone out on a date yet.

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<v Speaker 4>We have not gone out on a date, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, looking back on the event that you work,

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<v Speaker 2>was there any awkward moments between you two?

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<v Speaker 4>The only one I can think of, which isn't all

0:25:16.480 --> 0:25:19.720
<v Speaker 4>that bad. She's you know, naturally as she started coming

0:25:19.800 --> 0:25:22.000
<v Speaker 4>up to the bar. She was getting a little tipsy

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<v Speaker 4>towards the end of the night. Hopefully she wasn't embarrassed

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<v Speaker 4>by me actually suggest that she pulled her dress up

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<v Speaker 4>a little bit because well, things were starting to fall

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<v Speaker 4>out of the top.

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<v Speaker 5>Of the top.

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<v Speaker 2>I was.

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<v Speaker 1>She's trying to help her out different next time.

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<v Speaker 4>I was telling her that the shirt or anything.

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<v Speaker 2>Because Alexis has done that five different times and it's

0:25:55.320 --> 0:25:59.119
<v Speaker 2>never worked out. Proud my skirts, about my neck. I

0:25:59.119 --> 0:26:02.679
<v Speaker 2>don't get anything, all right, So you said you've been

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<v Speaker 2>in contact with her, but nothing has come of it.

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<v Speaker 4>Nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>And do you promise us that you didn't ask for

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<v Speaker 1>anyone else's number at that party, because well they're all friends.

0:26:14.400 --> 0:26:17.320
<v Speaker 4>Not only did I not ask for anyone else's number

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<v Speaker 4>that day, I've been doing this for over a year

0:26:21.160 --> 0:26:23.720
<v Speaker 4>and have never asked anybody.

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<v Speaker 2>We've met the one upstanding bartender in the entire world,

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<v Speaker 2>because he done it.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a rookie.

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<v Speaker 2>Given another year, you'll be a different man. But in

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<v Speaker 2>the meantime, let's call Bethany for you. We're gonna come

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<v Speaker 2>back and try and get your second date update. Right

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<v Speaker 2>after this second date update, t Payne once said, I

0:26:46.119 --> 0:26:50.080
<v Speaker 2>love the bartender. Yeah, we'd be looking for me, but

0:26:50.280 --> 0:26:55.199
<v Speaker 2>our bartender is not getting any love. That's what he

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<v Speaker 2>does for a living. He left his old job a

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<v Speaker 2>year ago and started a mobile business serving drinks at

0:27:01.480 --> 0:27:04.679
<v Speaker 2>different events, where he ended up meeting a lady named

0:27:04.720 --> 0:27:08.280
<v Speaker 2>Bethany at a backyard joint bachelor bachelorette party.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's the only woman in an entire year that

0:27:11.000 --> 0:27:12.520
<v Speaker 1>he's ever asked for her number.

0:27:12.680 --> 0:27:14.840
<v Speaker 2>That's the type of impact that she had on him.

0:27:15.000 --> 0:27:17.880
<v Speaker 2>They opened up to each other there, shared about their

0:27:17.920 --> 0:27:21.600
<v Speaker 2>lives and their interests, even after she gave him her number,

0:27:21.640 --> 0:27:24.720
<v Speaker 2>though she is not responding to him and they haven't

0:27:24.720 --> 0:27:28.840
<v Speaker 2>done an official first date. She's the opposite of t paint.

0:27:29.119 --> 0:27:32.320
<v Speaker 2>She's not in love with Yeah, but we wanted to

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<v Speaker 2>get there so I mean, honestly, Zach, you're lucky that

0:27:35.760 --> 0:27:37.600
<v Speaker 2>you're on the phone right now because if you were

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<v Speaker 2>in studio, Brooke would be filling up your tip jar

0:27:40.119 --> 0:27:43.959
<v Speaker 2>with so much cash, that's right, and other things trying

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<v Speaker 2>to big.

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<v Speaker 1>Poor that is. It's not a euphemism or anything. I

0:27:51.480 --> 0:27:53.240
<v Speaker 1>just like a lot of alcohol in my cup.

0:27:53.480 --> 0:27:57.159
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it is a euphemism. Brook is a problem at

0:27:57.200 --> 0:27:59.120
<v Speaker 2>every event that she goes to in a good way.

0:27:59.440 --> 0:28:01.639
<v Speaker 2>But she's actually going to be on your side today.

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<v Speaker 1>I am, I am. You know you said that the

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<v Speaker 1>only like maybe kind of embarrassing moment was at the

0:28:08.040 --> 0:28:09.560
<v Speaker 1>end when you told her to pull her top up

0:28:09.560 --> 0:28:13.400
<v Speaker 1>because she was kind of losing things. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean as a drunk woman that the tops are

0:28:16.160 --> 0:28:18.240
<v Speaker 1>always falling off. Did you say topp her dress? You

0:28:18.280 --> 0:28:23.960
<v Speaker 1>know there's different like understood, Yeah, understood? I see.

0:28:23.560 --> 0:28:26.280
<v Speaker 2>I Well, maybe she was pulling it down for you.

0:28:29.280 --> 0:28:33.520
<v Speaker 2>Classic broke she'd be like, hello, I showed up with

0:28:34.200 --> 0:28:35.720
<v Speaker 2>put it away. Excuse me, sir.

0:28:35.800 --> 0:28:37.359
<v Speaker 1>The left ones out for a reason.

0:28:41.360 --> 0:28:44.280
<v Speaker 2>Anyway. I mean, we can speculate all we want, we

0:28:44.320 --> 0:28:46.400
<v Speaker 2>actually have to call Bethany here and figure out what's

0:28:46.440 --> 0:28:47.960
<v Speaker 2>going on. Let's do it. I'm gonna call her.

0:28:49.880 --> 0:28:52.040
<v Speaker 1>I just imagining just having one moob out.

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<v Speaker 2>Here. We go call him Bethany. Hello, Hey, we're looking

0:29:05.760 --> 0:29:07.560
<v Speaker 2>to talk to Bethany.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, I'm.

0:29:12.880 --> 0:29:15.600
<v Speaker 2>Hey Bethany. Sorry to interrupt your day, but we're a

0:29:15.680 --> 0:29:17.560
<v Speaker 2>radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, Yi, welcome to the show. Hi.

0:29:23.240 --> 0:29:24.880
<v Speaker 2>We're wanting to be a part of this segment we're

0:29:24.880 --> 0:29:27.680
<v Speaker 2>doing called a Second Date Update, because we're trying to

0:29:27.680 --> 0:29:29.920
<v Speaker 2>help out one of our listeners get in touch with you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you guys never really went on a date, but yeah,

0:29:33.720 --> 0:29:34.600
<v Speaker 1>but you made a connection.

0:29:35.440 --> 0:29:39.360
<v Speaker 2>Okay, Yeah, you don't have to be nervous. We don't

0:29:39.360 --> 0:29:42.640
<v Speaker 2>bite you. Sounds like you just got cornered.

0:29:44.400 --> 0:29:45.280
<v Speaker 8>A lot of voices.

0:29:47.240 --> 0:29:49.640
<v Speaker 2>We just we just want to ask you about a

0:29:49.680 --> 0:29:53.200
<v Speaker 2>guy that you met recently at like a bachelor bachelorette event.

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<v Speaker 2>He was the bartender there named Zach.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, what'd you think of Zach?

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<v Speaker 8>You know, I thought it was really nice at first.

0:30:03.280 --> 0:30:06.400
<v Speaker 1>At first, but then he was really sexy.

0:30:06.480 --> 0:30:12.719
<v Speaker 2>Secondly something changed.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, he kept going like on and on and on

0:30:19.280 --> 0:30:22.320
<v Speaker 6>about how he like put his job and now he

0:30:22.440 --> 0:30:26.600
<v Speaker 6>has this business and been doing so well and so

0:30:26.680 --> 0:30:27.720
<v Speaker 6>much more money.

0:30:28.000 --> 0:30:30.720
<v Speaker 2>We spoke to him a little bit before, and he

0:30:31.000 --> 0:30:33.400
<v Speaker 2>heard that he's very proud of his new business because

0:30:33.440 --> 0:30:34.800
<v Speaker 2>he started it all himself.

0:30:35.000 --> 0:30:38.920
<v Speaker 8>And that's great, that's great to be proud. But he

0:30:39.000 --> 0:30:41.760
<v Speaker 8>also didn't seem to want to know anything about what

0:30:41.840 --> 0:30:42.600
<v Speaker 8>I was doing.

0:30:42.840 --> 0:30:46.760
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, that's too bad.

0:30:47.320 --> 0:30:50.320
<v Speaker 8>It was very uncomfortable. And then and then at one point,

0:30:50.400 --> 0:30:52.600
<v Speaker 8>like things got busy, you know, like a lot of

0:30:52.640 --> 0:30:55.640
<v Speaker 8>people were drinking and he had like ran out of

0:30:55.680 --> 0:30:57.520
<v Speaker 8>diet coke, and so I helped him and I went

0:30:57.560 --> 0:31:00.360
<v Speaker 8>and grabbed some of the dit coke for him, Like, oh,

0:31:00.400 --> 0:31:02.320
<v Speaker 8>I could do that, that's not problem.

0:31:02.440 --> 0:31:06.160
<v Speaker 1>Okay, He's still a little flirty with him at that point.

0:31:06.320 --> 0:31:09.479
<v Speaker 8>It was just yeah, he was alone, and I've worked

0:31:10.000 --> 0:31:12.360
<v Speaker 8>different service industry jobs and so I know how it gets,

0:31:12.400 --> 0:31:14.240
<v Speaker 8>and so I'm like, yeah, let me just help you out,

0:31:14.280 --> 0:31:15.440
<v Speaker 8>Like it's a nice thing to do.

0:31:15.600 --> 0:31:17.920
<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's yeah, that's that's awesome.

0:31:18.280 --> 0:31:20.280
<v Speaker 8>I thought so too, But he'd already had my number

0:31:20.280 --> 0:31:24.120
<v Speaker 8>at that point. He must have really appreciated me grabbing

0:31:24.120 --> 0:31:27.600
<v Speaker 8>those diet cokes because he vinmowed me twenty dollars.

0:31:28.920 --> 0:31:31.960
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, what do you mean he venmoed you twenty bucks?

0:31:31.960 --> 0:31:33.240
<v Speaker 2>He paid you for what?

0:31:33.240 --> 0:31:35.000
<v Speaker 1>What did he put in the comments of the Venmo?

0:31:35.240 --> 0:31:35.920
<v Speaker 2>That's a good question.

0:31:36.160 --> 0:31:40.600
<v Speaker 8>Can you put here's a tip for the bartender? It's weird,

0:31:41.160 --> 0:31:44.040
<v Speaker 8>kind of like I was just being nice. I just

0:31:44.080 --> 0:31:46.400
<v Speaker 8>felt really weird and kind of like you know, like

0:31:46.440 --> 0:31:48.920
<v Speaker 8>when like creepy old men and you like do something

0:31:49.000 --> 0:31:50.960
<v Speaker 8>nice and then they like slip you like you know something.

0:31:51.280 --> 0:31:54.280
<v Speaker 1>So she's talking to you, give me an comfortable syb

0:31:56.080 --> 0:31:58.280
<v Speaker 1>you're saying, creepy old men started as creepy young men.

0:31:58.520 --> 0:32:02.479
<v Speaker 8>Yeah, And I'm just like, is this the modern version

0:32:02.680 --> 0:32:06.960
<v Speaker 8>of like an old man slipping you some cash?

0:32:07.960 --> 0:32:11.840
<v Speaker 2>Well, I mean yeah, maybe slipping slipping money could be

0:32:11.840 --> 0:32:13.600
<v Speaker 2>a little bit creepy, but this is going to be

0:32:13.600 --> 0:32:16.400
<v Speaker 2>worth There's nothing creepy about somebody quietly listening in on

0:32:16.400 --> 0:32:19.680
<v Speaker 2>a phone conversation wanting to join right about that because

0:32:19.680 --> 0:32:22.160
<v Speaker 2>our company, Because Zach is on the other line wanting

0:32:22.160 --> 0:32:22.959
<v Speaker 2>to talk to you.

0:32:23.080 --> 0:32:24.640
<v Speaker 3>Hello, there, are you serious?

0:32:25.120 --> 0:32:25.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's sad.

0:32:28.320 --> 0:32:29.280
<v Speaker 3>I apologize.

0:32:29.440 --> 0:32:33.440
<v Speaker 4>I didn't mean to offend you with the tip there.

0:32:33.480 --> 0:32:36.400
<v Speaker 4>I just didn't know what to do there and just thought, well,

0:32:36.480 --> 0:32:38.200
<v Speaker 4>you know, let me, she helped me out.

0:32:38.280 --> 0:32:38.520
<v Speaker 5>Let me.

0:32:38.640 --> 0:32:39.600
<v Speaker 8>You're a normal person.

0:32:41.640 --> 0:32:45.000
<v Speaker 1>Okay, listen to her, Zach. That was part of the problem.

0:32:45.080 --> 0:32:47.800
<v Speaker 2>Go ahead, beth Andy, tell him how you were feeling, you.

0:32:47.760 --> 0:32:51.400
<v Speaker 8>Know, like just it felt like like you were Yeah,

0:32:51.520 --> 0:32:52.400
<v Speaker 8>I know you felt.

0:32:52.440 --> 0:32:59.360
<v Speaker 4>I heard the conversation. I get it, well, currying her out, Yeah,

0:33:01.240 --> 0:33:02.600
<v Speaker 4>I just appreciated the fact.

0:33:04.400 --> 0:33:04.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry.

0:33:05.800 --> 0:33:10.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so really, well, I know that you're a bartender,

0:33:10.560 --> 0:33:13.240
<v Speaker 2>and a good lesson for bartenders is to listen to

0:33:13.280 --> 0:33:16.160
<v Speaker 2>the customers because they'll actually stick around.

0:33:16.720 --> 0:33:20.720
<v Speaker 1>Lesson to just people, right, Like, did you ask her

0:33:20.800 --> 0:33:22.480
<v Speaker 1>one question that you could remember?

0:33:23.600 --> 0:33:30.120
<v Speaker 8>No, I guess not a memory.

0:33:30.320 --> 0:33:32.560
<v Speaker 1>Would you like to ask her anything about herself?

0:33:32.680 --> 0:33:33.200
<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

0:33:33.280 --> 0:33:35.400
<v Speaker 4>I know what you normally drink? Is there a second

0:33:35.440 --> 0:33:36.240
<v Speaker 4>favorite that you have?

0:33:37.480 --> 0:33:38.480
<v Speaker 2>Well, that's something?

0:33:38.640 --> 0:33:39.520
<v Speaker 1>Is it something, Jeff?

0:33:39.720 --> 0:33:41.080
<v Speaker 2>At least it's a question about her.

0:33:42.080 --> 0:33:43.480
<v Speaker 7>No.

0:33:43.760 --> 0:33:45.880
<v Speaker 4>I didn't think sending her twenty dollars would be that

0:33:45.960 --> 0:33:48.360
<v Speaker 4>big a deal. I figure she she told me she

0:33:48.480 --> 0:33:51.720
<v Speaker 4>was a cycling instructor. Didn't think she was getting rich

0:33:51.760 --> 0:33:52.080
<v Speaker 4>on that.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wow, it's probably true, though, let's be honest.

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<v Speaker 7>It depends on the studio.

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<v Speaker 8>You can actually make pretty good money.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Zach, maybe you should maybe leave your bartending job

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<v Speaker 2>and getting discycling if there's that much money in it.

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<v Speaker 1>I saw a thing recently where they put a blender

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<v Speaker 1>on the front of a bike and you could do both.

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<v Speaker 1>Where you have to make your own margarita by pedaling

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<v Speaker 1>really fast.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, that's so smart. That could be your niche.

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<v Speaker 4>I actually don't know how to ride a bike.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh it was it was stationary? Yeah, I bet that

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<v Speaker 1>was a lot to hear. That was a lot to hear. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds like he means well, but it's.

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<v Speaker 2>Not coming out.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe Zach has learned some lessons in the last few minutes. Zach,

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<v Speaker 2>what have you learned from this call?

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<v Speaker 4>I learned that she never answered her question about her

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<v Speaker 4>second favorite drink?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, and that's this guy.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, we always offer this because we kind of have to,

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<v Speaker 2>But Bethany, we would love to send you out on

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<v Speaker 2>another on a first date, actually with Zach.

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<v Speaker 8>Does he have to be there?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Zach does have to be there. And the good

0:35:06.719 --> 0:35:09.160
<v Speaker 2>news is nobody has to pay through Venmo or anything.

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<v Speaker 2>We're going to cover the bill.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm up for anything, really, as long as we don't

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<v Speaker 4>ride bikes anywhere.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, what did that be?

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<v Speaker 1>Ironic? A cycling instruction? Dating the guy.

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<v Speaker 2>Who couldn't write, Bethany? You want to get him a shot?

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<v Speaker 5>You know?

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<v Speaker 8>I think I should just stick to my gut from

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<v Speaker 8>our first interaction. Okay, I appreciate the offer.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh man, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>Well you got your answer, Zach.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but if you tip us forty dollars, we'll ask

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<v Speaker 2>her again.

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<v Speaker 3>That's okay.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I can see what's going on. I can

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<v Speaker 4>read between the lines, and.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I was very straightforward to I think

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<v Speaker 1>all the lines had all the writing on him.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought you'd be impressed, Bethany, just by the fact

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<v Speaker 2>he could.

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<v Speaker 5>Read yes, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what, I'm not even feeling sad.

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<v Speaker 1>For Zach because Zach wouldn't hear you anyway.

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<v Speaker 2>That's true. Yeah, you don't know. He kind of embarrassed

0:36:09.920 --> 0:36:12.839
<v Speaker 2>himself on the radio. He's meaning so many hotties at

0:36:12.880 --> 0:36:15.319
<v Speaker 2>these bartending events. Now he is going to be just

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<v Speaker 2>fine in the dating world.

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<v Speaker 1>Know if he can stop talking about himself. Yeah, I mean, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>like it sounds like so simple and it's so hard

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<v Speaker 1>for some people.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a line, if you're excited about your new success,

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<v Speaker 2>you can only tell your old friends that knew you

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<v Speaker 2>when you were broke. If you tell new people, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm rich and I have a company, isn't that cool,

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<v Speaker 2>They're gonna be like, no, you sure, But next week

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<v Speaker 2>we're probably gonna get an email from him saying he

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<v Speaker 2>just met another woman, but this one's his soul made

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<v Speaker 2>because she can't ride a bike either.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, I mean it would be cute to see

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<v Speaker 1>him on trading wheels.

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<v Speaker 2>I will love that duel bicycle wheels, Zach. We're all

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<v Speaker 2>rooting for you out therebody, but make sure you listen

0:36:56.880 --> 0:36:58.799
<v Speaker 2>to Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. Wherever you find

0:36:58.800 --> 0:37:01.440
<v Speaker 2>your podcast, you can hear more second dates, just like

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<v Speaker 2>that one.