1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,040 Speaker 1: Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning and you 2 00:00:02,040 --> 00:00:04,720 Speaker 1: get double the dose. On Saturday, we got two classics 3 00:00:04,720 --> 00:00:05,360 Speaker 1: back to back. 4 00:00:05,240 --> 00:00:07,520 Speaker 2: Which is definitely listen to. 5 00:00:09,039 --> 00:00:11,920 Speaker 1: That's true. And hey, just on the side, if anybody 6 00:00:12,000 --> 00:00:14,840 Speaker 1: is a huge swiftye out there, Alexis put together a 7 00:00:14,920 --> 00:00:17,439 Speaker 1: really fun game. We do a podcast exclusive over on 8 00:00:17,480 --> 00:00:20,120 Speaker 1: our other feed, just the Brook and Jeffrey main feed, 9 00:00:20,520 --> 00:00:22,360 Speaker 1: where we play a game called Today Versus Back in 10 00:00:22,400 --> 00:00:25,479 Speaker 1: the Day and it's all Taylor themed. Yeah, because of 11 00:00:25,560 --> 00:00:28,040 Speaker 1: Life of a Showgirl that got announced this week. So 12 00:00:28,080 --> 00:00:29,760 Speaker 1: if you guys want to have some fun, get some 13 00:00:29,800 --> 00:00:32,520 Speaker 1: good tailor trivia and a little bit of nonsense, head 14 00:00:32,520 --> 00:00:35,200 Speaker 1: over to that main feed. But right now we're gonna 15 00:00:35,200 --> 00:00:37,640 Speaker 1: start with comments before we get into this double second date. 16 00:00:38,320 --> 00:00:40,720 Speaker 1: Joel the cool guy. Oh, not me saying he's cool, 17 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:45,519 Speaker 1: but I appreciate that guy said, always listen to you 18 00:00:45,520 --> 00:00:48,680 Speaker 1: guys while drawing or biking to work. Keep it up. 19 00:00:48,760 --> 00:00:54,400 Speaker 1: I love listening. Greetings from the Netherlands, Yeah, where everyone bikes. Yeah, 20 00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:56,440 Speaker 1: basically it's so cool. I want to know what you're drawing? 21 00:00:56,440 --> 00:00:59,840 Speaker 1: Are you drawing us? Do we look good? You want 22 00:00:59,840 --> 00:01:03,880 Speaker 1: to be model? Okay? Alexis just volunteered. All right, your 23 00:01:03,960 --> 00:01:07,160 Speaker 1: double dose of Second Date Classics starts right now. 24 00:01:08,959 --> 00:01:11,720 Speaker 2: Maybe it's just me, but I feel like whenever I'm 25 00:01:11,720 --> 00:01:15,160 Speaker 2: out in the world, it's a huge conversation changer the 26 00:01:15,200 --> 00:01:19,399 Speaker 2: moment I tell someone I actually host a radio show. Yeah, 27 00:01:19,560 --> 00:01:20,440 Speaker 2: you guys get that too. 28 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:23,080 Speaker 1: People are always really interested in what that looks like. 29 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:26,760 Speaker 2: Everyone to me is like, whoa, Really, you don't seem 30 00:01:26,800 --> 00:01:28,160 Speaker 2: good at talking in real life. 31 00:01:29,240 --> 00:01:32,880 Speaker 1: Well, your coworkers say that too, Well, that all. 32 00:01:32,840 --> 00:01:34,920 Speaker 2: Might be true. I'm just saying. Our jobs are definite 33 00:01:35,040 --> 00:01:38,319 Speaker 2: attention grabbers when we bring them up, but it's nothing 34 00:01:38,360 --> 00:01:41,120 Speaker 2: compared to the woman that we call today, because when 35 00:01:41,160 --> 00:01:44,240 Speaker 2: we found out what she does for a living, everyone 36 00:01:44,240 --> 00:01:48,280 Speaker 2: in the room stopped and wanted to know every single detail. 37 00:01:49,840 --> 00:01:52,120 Speaker 2: You're gonna understand why when you hear it in your 38 00:01:52,160 --> 00:01:56,280 Speaker 2: second Date update right after this Second Date Update date. 39 00:01:57,600 --> 00:02:00,840 Speaker 2: Occasionally we check back in with callers months after they 40 00:02:00,840 --> 00:02:02,960 Speaker 2: come on the show to see how their relationship is 41 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:05,640 Speaker 2: going love. When we do that, we call it a 42 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:09,880 Speaker 2: second Date Update Update. Yeah, but today we're doing something 43 00:02:10,200 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 2: kind of new. We have a second Date Update Update Update. 44 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:18,760 Speaker 2: That's a triple update. 45 00:02:19,440 --> 00:02:21,760 Speaker 1: Now we're getting clingy. Can you know what I mean? Like, 46 00:02:21,919 --> 00:02:23,880 Speaker 1: can't we just let people live their lives at some point? 47 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:26,360 Speaker 2: Jeff, It's like second update Square. No, we want to 48 00:02:26,360 --> 00:02:29,320 Speaker 2: be as deeply involved in our listeners' lives as possible 49 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:35,280 Speaker 2: with them. We're doing a TRUP date today. Yeah, in 50 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:38,720 Speaker 2: a few of those different meaning though, But seriously, one 51 00:02:38,760 --> 00:02:41,560 Speaker 2: of our listeners, Anthony, reached out to us again. So 52 00:02:41,639 --> 00:02:43,519 Speaker 2: first of all, Anthony, welcome back to the show. 53 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:45,359 Speaker 3: Hey guys, thanks for having me. 54 00:02:45,520 --> 00:02:48,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm in a hard time placing what Anthony, what 55 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:49,480 Speaker 1: you were on before. 56 00:02:49,639 --> 00:02:52,240 Speaker 2: So last time Anthony was on, you were dating a 57 00:02:52,240 --> 00:02:54,639 Speaker 2: woman named Mallory, and you guys were saying that you 58 00:02:54,680 --> 00:02:56,920 Speaker 2: were happy together, but she was having you pay for 59 00:02:57,000 --> 00:02:59,600 Speaker 2: a lot of her and her friend's activities. 60 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:02,440 Speaker 1: Oh I kind of remember this, and we're like, oh, 61 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:06,239 Speaker 1: she's using you. And then you're like, no, she's hot. 62 00:03:06,520 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 1: Is that am I remembering? 63 00:03:07,560 --> 00:03:07,720 Speaker 4: Right? 64 00:03:08,360 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 3: That's pretty close? 65 00:03:11,840 --> 00:03:14,320 Speaker 2: No, Mallory, it's just you today, Anthony. What's going on? 66 00:03:15,400 --> 00:03:18,960 Speaker 3: H So with Mallory? I ran out of money? 67 00:03:19,200 --> 00:03:21,519 Speaker 1: Oh wait, you broke what? 68 00:03:21,840 --> 00:03:22,760 Speaker 2: Just go get a bank loan? 69 00:03:22,880 --> 00:03:23,040 Speaker 4: Man? 70 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:27,600 Speaker 1: Did she wait? Did she leave you? 71 00:03:27,680 --> 00:03:27,960 Speaker 2: Well? 72 00:03:28,120 --> 00:03:31,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, she basically dropped me after I stopped paying for 73 00:03:31,800 --> 00:03:33,160 Speaker 3: everything for her and her friends. 74 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:34,800 Speaker 2: So alexis good. 75 00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:39,280 Speaker 1: Right, I see where she's coming from, Like, you. 76 00:03:39,120 --> 00:03:42,839 Speaker 2: Go, girl, that sucks, man, But it sounds like you're 77 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 2: better off. 78 00:03:43,400 --> 00:03:45,800 Speaker 1: Without that, which I think told you so Yeah, I 79 00:03:45,840 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 1: think that. 80 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:53,560 Speaker 2: Okay, So is that it? 81 00:03:55,360 --> 00:03:57,280 Speaker 1: Guess if you went on at a date with another 82 00:03:57,320 --> 00:03:58,560 Speaker 1: person that you're interested in? 83 00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:01,440 Speaker 3: Yes, that has been happening. 84 00:04:01,680 --> 00:04:04,160 Speaker 2: Okay, who's the new girl? 85 00:04:04,880 --> 00:04:07,240 Speaker 3: I found a new woman named Lisa? 86 00:04:07,720 --> 00:04:10,240 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, and what do you like about her? 87 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 3: Well, the first thing that stands out to me about 88 00:04:14,720 --> 00:04:17,599 Speaker 3: her I find fascinating is that she does private security 89 00:04:17,640 --> 00:04:19,480 Speaker 3: detail for celebrity. 90 00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:24,080 Speaker 2: Whoa, wow, that's such an interesting one of your employees. 91 00:04:24,440 --> 00:04:25,400 Speaker 2: It's amazing. 92 00:04:26,160 --> 00:04:27,039 Speaker 1: Let's get her on the phone. 93 00:04:27,160 --> 00:04:29,360 Speaker 2: Was that was that like right there on her dating profile? 94 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 3: No, that's just something that came out after. But she 95 00:04:34,120 --> 00:04:37,039 Speaker 3: won't tell me who these clients are. And that's what 96 00:04:37,120 --> 00:04:38,480 Speaker 3: I'm always trying to get out. 97 00:04:38,320 --> 00:04:43,120 Speaker 2: Of her job at least, yeah, privacy. 98 00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:46,400 Speaker 1: Okay, So have you guys been on one date? Two dates? 99 00:04:46,400 --> 00:04:46,920 Speaker 1: Where you at? 100 00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:48,559 Speaker 3: We just got out once? 101 00:04:49,080 --> 00:04:50,960 Speaker 2: Okay, how did it go? 102 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:55,200 Speaker 3: It went pretty well? I mean, another thing that I 103 00:04:55,240 --> 00:04:57,520 Speaker 3: thought was pretty funny. Is one thing I did see 104 00:04:57,560 --> 00:05:00,680 Speaker 3: on her profile is there's like an a that comes 105 00:05:00,720 --> 00:05:04,120 Speaker 3: up on people's profiles that says today's high flyer of 106 00:05:04,160 --> 00:05:06,200 Speaker 3: the week, like when they're getting a lot of action. 107 00:05:06,360 --> 00:05:08,720 Speaker 3: I guess that's what. 108 00:05:08,720 --> 00:05:11,239 Speaker 1: They call it app it's funny. 109 00:05:11,400 --> 00:05:13,920 Speaker 2: Is that a good thing for you or a red flag? 110 00:05:14,400 --> 00:05:16,000 Speaker 3: Jury's out on that, but I mean I call it. 111 00:05:16,040 --> 00:05:18,640 Speaker 3: I was calling her the high flyer as as a joke. 112 00:05:18,800 --> 00:05:18,960 Speaker 5: Though. 113 00:05:19,279 --> 00:05:21,560 Speaker 1: Is that something that she puts on her profile or 114 00:05:21,600 --> 00:05:23,760 Speaker 1: is it something that the app does automatically? Sorry, I'm 115 00:05:23,760 --> 00:05:25,200 Speaker 1: an idiot when it comes to apps. 116 00:05:25,720 --> 00:05:27,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think the app does that if you're really 117 00:05:27,720 --> 00:05:28,600 Speaker 3: popular on the app. 118 00:05:28,680 --> 00:05:30,880 Speaker 2: That's another interesting talking point though, to bring up on 119 00:05:30,920 --> 00:05:32,000 Speaker 2: the date, like how did it go? 120 00:05:33,279 --> 00:05:35,520 Speaker 3: I was good At first. I couldn't tell if she 121 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:37,800 Speaker 3: was going to be a real person or not. But 122 00:05:38,080 --> 00:05:40,719 Speaker 3: she was exactly how she described herself. 123 00:05:40,839 --> 00:05:42,440 Speaker 1: So she's real pretty is what you're saying. 124 00:05:42,600 --> 00:05:46,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, well she's pretty casual. She showed up in 125 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:50,320 Speaker 3: Gucci sweats, a Tupac couldie. 126 00:05:50,800 --> 00:05:53,600 Speaker 2: Okay, she doesn't have a sense of styles. 127 00:05:56,600 --> 00:05:59,320 Speaker 3: It's kind of cute, but I thought it was pretty 128 00:05:59,320 --> 00:06:02,800 Speaker 3: cool and we did have fun. She talks a lot 129 00:06:02,839 --> 00:06:05,200 Speaker 3: about this charity work she does, so she's really big 130 00:06:05,240 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 3: on giving back to the community. And I was able 131 00:06:08,480 --> 00:06:10,839 Speaker 3: to relate because I was just involved with the charity 132 00:06:10,880 --> 00:06:12,479 Speaker 3: with my ex girlfriend and her friends. 133 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:14,320 Speaker 2: So I hope did say that. 134 00:06:14,640 --> 00:06:15,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, is that how you brought it up? 135 00:06:17,080 --> 00:06:17,120 Speaker 6: No? 136 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:21,120 Speaker 3: No, I made that joke and then failed to go 137 00:06:21,279 --> 00:06:23,080 Speaker 3: to further detail about it with their books. 138 00:06:23,080 --> 00:06:27,160 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay, so we didn't even ask what were 139 00:06:27,160 --> 00:06:28,520 Speaker 1: you guys doing? Were you drinking? 140 00:06:28,600 --> 00:06:28,920 Speaker 5: Eating? 141 00:06:28,960 --> 00:06:29,880 Speaker 1: What was the date about? 142 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:32,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, we got a couple of drinks. We went to 143 00:06:32,600 --> 00:06:33,280 Speaker 3: a happy hour. 144 00:06:33,480 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 1: Okay, So it's chill. So that's why she could wear 145 00:06:35,760 --> 00:06:38,719 Speaker 1: the sweatshirt in the sweatpants. I see you budgeting. 146 00:06:40,480 --> 00:06:40,560 Speaker 5: That. 147 00:06:41,080 --> 00:06:43,640 Speaker 3: I I think she wanted to see me in the daylight. 148 00:06:43,800 --> 00:06:45,720 Speaker 2: Did you feel like you had a good connection with her? 149 00:06:45,720 --> 00:06:45,960 Speaker 7: Though? 150 00:06:46,800 --> 00:06:50,599 Speaker 3: I did, But yeah, I could definitely tell why she 151 00:06:50,800 --> 00:06:54,760 Speaker 3: is the high flyer because her phone keeps buzzing the 152 00:06:54,800 --> 00:06:59,719 Speaker 3: whole time we're together. I have a suspicion that she's 153 00:06:59,720 --> 00:07:02,200 Speaker 3: definitely talking to more guys than just me. 154 00:07:02,600 --> 00:07:02,840 Speaker 5: Yeah. 155 00:07:03,240 --> 00:07:03,800 Speaker 1: Probably. 156 00:07:04,080 --> 00:07:06,000 Speaker 2: I mean, jose, if you were out on a date 157 00:07:06,040 --> 00:07:07,720 Speaker 2: with someone who was a high flyer, is that a 158 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:09,159 Speaker 2: red flag to you. 159 00:07:09,200 --> 00:07:11,320 Speaker 1: No, I would just be happy that I'm on a date. 160 00:07:13,280 --> 00:07:14,760 Speaker 2: You're buying a ticket onto that plane. 161 00:07:15,040 --> 00:07:17,680 Speaker 1: Maybe she wants to take step off the fast plane, 162 00:07:17,720 --> 00:07:19,640 Speaker 1: move on to the slope plane with him. 163 00:07:19,600 --> 00:07:25,000 Speaker 2: And I'm definitely over overall, though, how do you think 164 00:07:25,040 --> 00:07:26,360 Speaker 2: the first date went good? 165 00:07:26,440 --> 00:07:26,640 Speaker 5: Bad? 166 00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:31,080 Speaker 3: I think it went good, okay. I was hoping that 167 00:07:31,400 --> 00:07:34,640 Speaker 3: we're gonna go on another date. But her responses are 168 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:35,440 Speaker 3: a little spotty. 169 00:07:35,640 --> 00:07:36,840 Speaker 2: I don't know, and I don't know if you did 170 00:07:36,840 --> 00:07:39,480 Speaker 2: this or not, but did you ever point out, hey, 171 00:07:39,520 --> 00:07:41,080 Speaker 2: your phone is buzzing a lot, or you're getting a 172 00:07:41,080 --> 00:07:42,920 Speaker 2: lot of dudes trying to hit you up right now? 173 00:07:43,640 --> 00:07:44,840 Speaker 1: Come across as weirdly? 174 00:07:45,080 --> 00:07:47,440 Speaker 3: I didn't think that would be a good style. I'm 175 00:07:47,440 --> 00:07:50,480 Speaker 3: a fire. I played it cool. I played it cool. 176 00:07:50,760 --> 00:07:53,040 Speaker 3: It was, it was just slightly up inside. 177 00:07:54,840 --> 00:07:57,560 Speaker 2: You seem to have answers. Let's find out what Lisa 178 00:07:57,600 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 2: has to say for herself. We're gonna call the high 179 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:00,800 Speaker 2: flyer directly. 180 00:08:00,960 --> 00:08:07,720 Speaker 1: Maybe she charted it as well. 181 00:08:04,280 --> 00:08:07,200 Speaker 2: As what's on her chart. We do your second date 182 00:08:07,280 --> 00:08:13,520 Speaker 2: update right after this second date update. Imagine being out 183 00:08:13,520 --> 00:08:17,160 Speaker 2: with someone you're very interested in and finding out that 184 00:08:17,240 --> 00:08:20,840 Speaker 2: they do security detail for the rich and famous cool, 185 00:08:21,000 --> 00:08:23,720 Speaker 2: but they won't tell you who not only that they're 186 00:08:23,760 --> 00:08:26,640 Speaker 2: a verified high flyer on the dating app where you 187 00:08:26,720 --> 00:08:27,360 Speaker 2: met them. 188 00:08:27,320 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 1: Which means that they get a lot of action on 189 00:08:29,800 --> 00:08:30,360 Speaker 1: the front page. 190 00:08:30,400 --> 00:08:33,679 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, or I don't know, someone just paid to feature. 191 00:08:33,400 --> 00:08:35,040 Speaker 1: Them or something like that. 192 00:08:35,480 --> 00:08:39,600 Speaker 2: And they wear Gucci sweats with Tupac hoodies to first 193 00:08:39,679 --> 00:08:41,240 Speaker 2: dates like it's no big deal. 194 00:08:41,440 --> 00:08:44,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean they're cool for me personally. 195 00:08:44,760 --> 00:08:47,079 Speaker 2: This is a very interesting second date call because, like 196 00:08:47,200 --> 00:08:50,720 Speaker 2: jose said before, I really hope that she actually answers 197 00:08:50,760 --> 00:08:52,320 Speaker 2: us because we don't get to talk to people like 198 00:08:52,360 --> 00:08:53,160 Speaker 2: this very often. 199 00:08:53,320 --> 00:08:56,120 Speaker 1: Y he cannot be the one that also like pries 200 00:08:56,240 --> 00:08:58,240 Speaker 1: into who the celebrities are she works for. 201 00:08:59,320 --> 00:08:59,640 Speaker 2: Just ask. 202 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:02,679 Speaker 1: I know he already want the day she didn't want 203 00:09:02,720 --> 00:09:03,120 Speaker 1: to answer her. 204 00:09:03,160 --> 00:09:05,680 Speaker 2: But if she's like standing next to Kim Kardashian right now, 205 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:08,160 Speaker 2: is like I can't talk. I mean, we do want 206 00:09:08,200 --> 00:09:10,080 Speaker 2: a lot of answers from her, but the main thing 207 00:09:10,120 --> 00:09:11,800 Speaker 2: we want to know is why she's not going out 208 00:09:11,840 --> 00:09:14,520 Speaker 2: with Anthony. That's true because this is a very unique 209 00:09:14,559 --> 00:09:16,760 Speaker 2: type of woman and Anthony. Best part is she hasn't 210 00:09:16,760 --> 00:09:18,920 Speaker 2: made you pay for anything yet. Either, but you are 211 00:09:18,920 --> 00:09:19,760 Speaker 2: willing to yes. 212 00:09:19,880 --> 00:09:23,800 Speaker 1: Wait oh yeah, wait you paid for the date though, right, Anthony? 213 00:09:23,880 --> 00:09:24,840 Speaker 1: You paid for happy hour? 214 00:09:25,280 --> 00:09:27,880 Speaker 3: Yeah? I paid for the date at the bar. But 215 00:09:28,080 --> 00:09:30,400 Speaker 3: it wasn't like with Mallory. I wasn't paying for her 216 00:09:30,480 --> 00:09:32,079 Speaker 3: parking and you know. 217 00:09:32,360 --> 00:09:34,520 Speaker 1: The last girl that you were on the show with. 218 00:09:34,679 --> 00:09:37,480 Speaker 2: Okay, but you'll pay for her parking on the second 219 00:09:37,559 --> 00:09:39,920 Speaker 2: date at least. Let's let's call her and try and 220 00:09:39,920 --> 00:09:41,840 Speaker 2: figure out where that's going to be and if she'll 221 00:09:41,880 --> 00:09:54,040 Speaker 2: go out with you. Here we go. Hello, Hey is 222 00:09:54,080 --> 00:09:58,360 Speaker 2: this Lisa? Yes, it is Hey Lisa. What's up? You're 223 00:09:58,400 --> 00:10:00,400 Speaker 2: on the radio right now with Brooke and Jeffrey and Morning. 224 00:10:00,800 --> 00:10:02,160 Speaker 1: Welcome to the show, Lisa. 225 00:10:03,400 --> 00:10:07,760 Speaker 7: Oh hi, I guess I can't project us. 226 00:10:09,760 --> 00:10:11,960 Speaker 2: If you haven't heard us before. We're low key Bougie, 227 00:10:13,520 --> 00:10:14,920 Speaker 2: the lowest key. 228 00:10:15,040 --> 00:10:22,120 Speaker 1: I feel like he's wearing a free show shirt. 229 00:10:21,880 --> 00:10:26,880 Speaker 7: Got Okay, what is it all about? I don't get it. 230 00:10:27,080 --> 00:10:30,480 Speaker 2: Well, we're one of those weird shows that helps listeners 231 00:10:30,480 --> 00:10:33,400 Speaker 2: with their dating lives. When they go out with someone 232 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:36,840 Speaker 2: and they're not getting a return callback, we reach out 233 00:10:36,960 --> 00:10:41,520 Speaker 2: and try and help figure out the reason why. Okay, 234 00:10:41,640 --> 00:10:44,960 Speaker 2: I know, pretty pathetic on our part, but people get 235 00:10:44,960 --> 00:10:45,600 Speaker 2: paid to do it. 236 00:10:45,600 --> 00:10:47,880 Speaker 1: Thanks Jeff. I kind of like this segment, but I 237 00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:48,480 Speaker 1: like it too. 238 00:10:48,840 --> 00:10:51,680 Speaker 2: My parents are really ashamed of it. But that's not 239 00:10:51,800 --> 00:10:54,120 Speaker 2: it's not about us. We're trying to ask about you 240 00:10:54,200 --> 00:10:56,320 Speaker 2: and your relationship with a guy named Anthony. 241 00:10:57,160 --> 00:11:02,280 Speaker 7: Oh. Okay, you guys would to Yeah we did. 242 00:11:02,960 --> 00:11:05,880 Speaker 2: Okay, pretty great guy, huh. 243 00:11:05,960 --> 00:11:08,640 Speaker 7: I mean yeah, he's a nice guy, good looking. 244 00:11:09,120 --> 00:11:12,960 Speaker 1: Oh what was your thoughts on the date? 245 00:11:14,520 --> 00:11:17,200 Speaker 7: I mean it was really chill. We just had a 246 00:11:17,200 --> 00:11:20,560 Speaker 7: couple of drinks at happy hour and it was just 247 00:11:20,800 --> 00:11:21,200 Speaker 7: a date. 248 00:11:21,679 --> 00:11:24,199 Speaker 1: Oh, nothing to write home about, Okay. 249 00:11:25,000 --> 00:11:27,440 Speaker 2: I mean, was there any like big red flags to 250 00:11:27,520 --> 00:11:30,079 Speaker 2: you for why you're not going out with him again 251 00:11:30,120 --> 00:11:32,199 Speaker 2: because he said he's been trying to organize a second 252 00:11:32,200 --> 00:11:33,800 Speaker 2: meetup and it's not quite happening. 253 00:11:34,400 --> 00:11:36,280 Speaker 7: I mean no, there weren't any red flags when we 254 00:11:36,280 --> 00:11:39,120 Speaker 7: were sitting there talking. I mean, he was very interesting, 255 00:11:39,200 --> 00:11:41,800 Speaker 7: he was interested in me, asked me a lot of questions. 256 00:11:41,880 --> 00:11:44,760 Speaker 2: Okay, can I offer something up that he told us? 257 00:11:45,440 --> 00:11:48,080 Speaker 2: Because sure, he said he was worried he may have 258 00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:51,600 Speaker 2: offended you by prying too much into your job because 259 00:11:51,600 --> 00:11:54,800 Speaker 2: he found out you helped organize security for big time celebrities. 260 00:11:57,160 --> 00:12:01,720 Speaker 7: Oh my gosh, yeah, I just made that up to 261 00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:02,920 Speaker 7: sound interesting. 262 00:12:03,040 --> 00:12:10,480 Speaker 2: Wait what, man? I was interested even We were prepared 263 00:12:10,520 --> 00:12:12,320 Speaker 2: with all these questions to try and get you to 264 00:12:12,360 --> 00:12:14,160 Speaker 2: reveal who you do security for. 265 00:12:15,000 --> 00:12:17,800 Speaker 1: Usually when somebody lies on a date, there's like shame 266 00:12:17,960 --> 00:12:22,199 Speaker 1: and stuff. You're laughing like a joke to you. 267 00:12:22,280 --> 00:12:25,800 Speaker 7: Well, I couldn't tell him what my real job is. 268 00:12:26,280 --> 00:12:28,320 Speaker 2: What can you tell us your real job? 269 00:12:28,920 --> 00:12:30,160 Speaker 7: I guess at this point, if I'm not going to 270 00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:31,800 Speaker 7: see him again and share, I'll tell you what my 271 00:12:31,880 --> 00:12:32,560 Speaker 7: real job is. 272 00:12:33,160 --> 00:12:33,760 Speaker 2: What do you do? 273 00:12:34,760 --> 00:12:39,800 Speaker 7: So I am actually part owner of the dating site? 274 00:12:40,720 --> 00:12:44,840 Speaker 2: Wait way, wait a minute, you met Anthony? 275 00:12:45,600 --> 00:12:49,600 Speaker 7: Yeah. Oh, some friends had the idea and we were 276 00:12:49,760 --> 00:12:52,480 Speaker 7: just talking about stuff and it's just an idea. Well, 277 00:12:52,600 --> 00:12:55,000 Speaker 7: they moved forward and they asked if I wanted to 278 00:12:55,040 --> 00:12:58,720 Speaker 7: be an early investor, and so let's do it, and 279 00:12:58,960 --> 00:13:00,200 Speaker 7: it just kind of blew up. 280 00:13:00,400 --> 00:13:03,480 Speaker 1: So when it says high flyer on your dating app, 281 00:13:03,480 --> 00:13:09,040 Speaker 1: that just means like CEO or something modeling pretty much. 282 00:13:09,400 --> 00:13:12,000 Speaker 7: I mean, we were looking for trying to like do 283 00:13:12,280 --> 00:13:14,840 Speaker 7: a feature like on the app, and I just said 284 00:13:14,960 --> 00:13:17,200 Speaker 7: I'll do it. I'm single. I don't care about the 285 00:13:17,200 --> 00:13:18,280 Speaker 7: attention whatever. 286 00:13:19,600 --> 00:13:22,480 Speaker 1: Wow, market research Apparently it makes an impact. 287 00:13:22,600 --> 00:13:24,240 Speaker 7: Yeah, I guess so. 288 00:13:25,080 --> 00:13:27,920 Speaker 1: Okay, so wait, why did you just tell him that 289 00:13:28,000 --> 00:13:29,120 Speaker 1: you were the app owner? 290 00:13:29,920 --> 00:13:32,160 Speaker 7: Well, to be honest, I go on a lot of dates, 291 00:13:32,200 --> 00:13:35,000 Speaker 7: and I mean, eventially I would tell people what the 292 00:13:35,040 --> 00:13:38,040 Speaker 7: deal is, but also it would be a little creepy. 293 00:13:38,080 --> 00:13:41,000 Speaker 7: I would think in the beginning, we're trying. 294 00:13:40,720 --> 00:13:43,080 Speaker 2: To help him figure out what's the reason that you're 295 00:13:43,080 --> 00:13:47,240 Speaker 2: not going out again? That's what he's confused about. Okay, okay? 296 00:13:47,400 --> 00:13:49,679 Speaker 2: Is it so many men? Just so many men you 297 00:13:49,840 --> 00:13:50,680 Speaker 2: can't choose one? 298 00:13:50,800 --> 00:13:54,080 Speaker 7: No, No, that is not the reason. So as an admin, 299 00:13:54,720 --> 00:13:58,800 Speaker 7: I can tell that he's been messaging other women, and 300 00:13:58,840 --> 00:14:01,920 Speaker 7: when we are on a day and talking, he told 301 00:14:01,960 --> 00:14:04,440 Speaker 7: me in conversation that it was just him and I talking. 302 00:14:08,000 --> 00:14:12,880 Speaker 1: That feels like invasion of privatesten when you check off 303 00:14:12,920 --> 00:14:15,360 Speaker 1: on the agreement, I mean, it says. 304 00:14:15,400 --> 00:14:19,440 Speaker 7: Any co founder or manager can monitor your account in 305 00:14:19,480 --> 00:14:22,640 Speaker 7: your activity, So well, am I right. 306 00:14:22,520 --> 00:14:24,880 Speaker 2: To do that? That's crazy and it. 307 00:14:24,960 --> 00:14:26,960 Speaker 7: Just proves that men are pigs. 308 00:14:27,040 --> 00:14:33,040 Speaker 2: Oh weird, Anthony, what do you think about hearing all that? 309 00:14:33,520 --> 00:14:33,760 Speaker 7: Wow? 310 00:14:34,240 --> 00:14:38,600 Speaker 2: Hi, Lisa, because I forgot to tell you, Lisa it's down, way, 311 00:14:38,600 --> 00:14:40,360 Speaker 2: way deep in our agreement. When you come on the 312 00:14:40,360 --> 00:14:46,240 Speaker 2: phone that listening. Okay, oh wow, you're super chill. 313 00:14:47,600 --> 00:14:51,720 Speaker 3: I'm a little shocked, but I totally understand like that 314 00:14:51,760 --> 00:14:54,600 Speaker 3: you could that Why you had to put that in 315 00:14:54,640 --> 00:14:55,720 Speaker 3: your profile. 316 00:14:56,080 --> 00:14:57,640 Speaker 1: Feels like the last time you were on the show, 317 00:14:57,760 --> 00:15:00,160 Speaker 1: like you just agree with women no matter what what 318 00:15:00,200 --> 00:15:03,920 Speaker 1: they do to you. Woman's been light. She like invaded 319 00:15:03,960 --> 00:15:05,760 Speaker 1: your privacy and you're just chill still. 320 00:15:07,840 --> 00:15:10,280 Speaker 3: So wait a second. You could actually go into my 321 00:15:10,320 --> 00:15:12,680 Speaker 3: app and see all the messages, like everything that I've 322 00:15:12,720 --> 00:15:13,600 Speaker 3: ever written on there? 323 00:15:14,240 --> 00:15:14,840 Speaker 7: Yes, I can. 324 00:15:17,520 --> 00:15:17,760 Speaker 2: I know. 325 00:15:18,120 --> 00:15:22,040 Speaker 1: I know Anthony's thinking of like three things said hope. 326 00:15:21,840 --> 00:15:23,800 Speaker 2: You keep a PG on their money. That's how you 327 00:15:23,840 --> 00:15:24,560 Speaker 2: know she cares. 328 00:15:26,040 --> 00:15:29,600 Speaker 3: You can't see pictures right, Yes, I can. 329 00:15:30,320 --> 00:15:33,040 Speaker 2: No, you can zoom in on them. 330 00:15:35,120 --> 00:15:36,600 Speaker 3: I don't know if you'll have to zoom in. 331 00:15:36,920 --> 00:15:41,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, why do I doubt that? I doubt that. 332 00:15:41,160 --> 00:15:42,480 Speaker 2: Let's go down a bad path. 333 00:15:43,560 --> 00:15:46,800 Speaker 1: Does that mean that you weren't talking to anybody else either, because. 334 00:15:46,520 --> 00:15:48,720 Speaker 7: I mean, yeah, I'm talking to some people. Oh I 335 00:15:48,760 --> 00:15:50,760 Speaker 7: was honest about that. On the dates, he implied that 336 00:15:50,800 --> 00:15:52,400 Speaker 7: I was the only person he was talking to you. 337 00:15:54,360 --> 00:15:57,360 Speaker 1: But you wouldn't have cared if he said, I see that. 338 00:15:57,400 --> 00:15:58,800 Speaker 1: Why why did you say that, Anthony? 339 00:15:59,520 --> 00:16:01,880 Speaker 3: Well, you're the only person that I've met on the 340 00:16:01,920 --> 00:16:04,520 Speaker 3: app that I actually like and respect. 341 00:16:05,160 --> 00:16:11,960 Speaker 1: Oh, you don't respect any other person you're talking about? Well, 342 00:16:12,680 --> 00:16:13,480 Speaker 1: it's not good. 343 00:16:14,120 --> 00:16:16,320 Speaker 3: I mean, I came out wrong, baby, But you's the 344 00:16:16,360 --> 00:16:19,360 Speaker 3: only one I have really found interested in and I 345 00:16:19,400 --> 00:16:21,600 Speaker 3: haven't met anybody like you, whether it was on the 346 00:16:21,680 --> 00:16:22,280 Speaker 3: app or not. 347 00:16:23,400 --> 00:16:26,560 Speaker 7: Well, I have your profile pulled up right now, and 348 00:16:26,600 --> 00:16:28,680 Speaker 7: it looks like that you're trying to set up something 349 00:16:28,720 --> 00:16:30,760 Speaker 7: with somebody named Clarissa. 350 00:16:31,160 --> 00:16:32,600 Speaker 1: Oh. 351 00:16:33,480 --> 00:16:39,240 Speaker 2: Respect Lisa. You said a little bit jealous of that, 352 00:16:39,280 --> 00:16:40,000 Speaker 2: even I. 353 00:16:40,040 --> 00:16:42,240 Speaker 7: Don't know about jealous. But look, I would have been 354 00:16:42,280 --> 00:16:44,120 Speaker 7: totally fine if he had said, Yeah, I'm talking to 355 00:16:44,160 --> 00:16:46,360 Speaker 7: other people too. I get it. It's not a big deal. 356 00:16:46,760 --> 00:16:49,320 Speaker 3: I'm blocking I'm blocking Clarissa right now. 357 00:16:50,320 --> 00:16:50,600 Speaker 2: Wow. 358 00:16:52,280 --> 00:16:54,720 Speaker 1: It just sounds like you need to be truthful about 359 00:16:54,760 --> 00:16:56,000 Speaker 1: everything another app. 360 00:16:58,120 --> 00:17:01,800 Speaker 2: Definitely, something is happening here for sure, and it feels good. 361 00:17:01,920 --> 00:17:03,640 Speaker 2: It does feel good, And I'd like to offer to 362 00:17:03,680 --> 00:17:05,680 Speaker 2: send you guys out on another date that we will 363 00:17:05,720 --> 00:17:07,160 Speaker 2: pay for once. 364 00:17:07,080 --> 00:17:10,239 Speaker 3: Once again, can I just reiterate that I'm serious you 365 00:17:10,240 --> 00:17:12,080 Speaker 3: are the only one I've taken serious that I've met 366 00:17:12,119 --> 00:17:13,840 Speaker 3: on there, and I'm really hoping that you're going to 367 00:17:13,880 --> 00:17:14,359 Speaker 3: say yes. 368 00:17:15,160 --> 00:17:15,760 Speaker 1: That's cute. 369 00:17:15,840 --> 00:17:19,840 Speaker 7: Well that's very sweet, Anthony. I appreciate that. Yeah, I 370 00:17:19,840 --> 00:17:23,080 Speaker 7: mean I'm a yes. I would say yes. Start over, 371 00:17:23,720 --> 00:17:26,119 Speaker 7: fresh slate, start from the beginning. Now that everything's on 372 00:17:26,160 --> 00:17:27,680 Speaker 7: the table, we start over. 373 00:17:27,840 --> 00:17:30,000 Speaker 2: Okay, And we also have fourteen other guys who want 374 00:17:30,040 --> 00:17:33,040 Speaker 2: to know if you'll go out with them. What would 375 00:17:33,080 --> 00:17:33,880 Speaker 2: you like to say to them? 376 00:17:34,440 --> 00:17:36,640 Speaker 7: Well, I mean, if I'm being honest, I am still 377 00:17:36,640 --> 00:17:38,800 Speaker 7: talking to the other guys fourteen on the other side 378 00:17:38,800 --> 00:17:39,000 Speaker 7: for me. 379 00:17:39,640 --> 00:17:43,600 Speaker 2: Okay, but how many of those guys do you respect? 380 00:17:44,080 --> 00:17:44,399 Speaker 7: All Right? 381 00:17:44,440 --> 00:17:47,280 Speaker 2: Well, more research with the second day on our bill, 382 00:17:47,320 --> 00:17:48,080 Speaker 2: we're going to pay for it. 383 00:17:48,119 --> 00:17:49,000 Speaker 7: Okay, I'm good. 384 00:17:49,240 --> 00:17:52,280 Speaker 2: Before you go, can you force matches because there's a 385 00:17:52,280 --> 00:17:53,960 Speaker 2: couple of girls that aren't responding to me that I'm 386 00:17:53,960 --> 00:17:57,080 Speaker 2: wondering to help out a little creepy. 387 00:17:57,240 --> 00:17:58,000 Speaker 7: That's a hard no. 388 00:18:00,720 --> 00:18:02,280 Speaker 5: Freaking Jeffrey in the morning. 389 00:18:03,480 --> 00:18:05,440 Speaker 2: You know. The thing that I'm coming to terms with 390 00:18:06,000 --> 00:18:08,080 Speaker 2: us is we just have to get it through our 391 00:18:08,119 --> 00:18:11,879 Speaker 2: heads that people lie on dates. Yes, it can be 392 00:18:12,040 --> 00:18:15,359 Speaker 2: small little white lies or big giant ones. But people 393 00:18:15,359 --> 00:18:17,640 Speaker 2: do it all the time, whether it's to make themselves 394 00:18:17,640 --> 00:18:20,240 Speaker 2: look better or for whatever reason, and we don't all. 395 00:18:20,119 --> 00:18:22,400 Speaker 1: Have the access to fact check them like she did. 396 00:18:22,800 --> 00:18:26,080 Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean, and it's not so much if you lie, 397 00:18:26,359 --> 00:18:30,320 Speaker 2: it's what you lie about that's really important. She lied 398 00:18:30,359 --> 00:18:32,840 Speaker 2: about what her job was out of boredom from all 399 00:18:32,840 --> 00:18:35,359 Speaker 2: the dates that she goes on. He lied saying that 400 00:18:35,400 --> 00:18:37,240 Speaker 2: she was the only girl that he was talking to 401 00:18:37,320 --> 00:18:40,360 Speaker 2: on the dating app, and she found out that was untrue. 402 00:18:40,480 --> 00:18:42,200 Speaker 1: Why wouldn't he even offer it up? 403 00:18:42,520 --> 00:18:45,840 Speaker 2: Don't you know, like, just don't it sounds like one 404 00:18:45,880 --> 00:18:48,320 Speaker 2: of those nice lies that you tell someone that they're 405 00:18:48,359 --> 00:18:50,440 Speaker 2: the only one that you like, or it's like. 406 00:18:50,960 --> 00:18:53,160 Speaker 1: I never do this when you know that that person 407 00:18:53,480 --> 00:18:54,199 Speaker 1: always does it. 408 00:18:54,320 --> 00:18:57,119 Speaker 2: You're really good at it. Yeah, but I do you 409 00:18:57,160 --> 00:19:00,680 Speaker 2: feel like society has really progressed because they were totally 410 00:19:00,680 --> 00:19:02,240 Speaker 2: okay with each other's lies in the. 411 00:19:02,240 --> 00:19:03,520 Speaker 1: End each other out. 412 00:19:03,800 --> 00:19:09,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's how lies work. Yes, Yes, no matter what, 413 00:19:09,800 --> 00:19:12,000 Speaker 2: no lie, You can always email the show for help. 414 00:19:12,000 --> 00:19:14,120 Speaker 2: We're willing to call that person who wasn't calling you back. 415 00:19:14,600 --> 00:19:16,520 Speaker 5: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning. 416 00:19:17,520 --> 00:19:19,800 Speaker 2: When you need some quality life advice. Who do you 417 00:19:19,840 --> 00:19:26,280 Speaker 2: turn to, your friends, your parents? Sometimes local morning radio show. 418 00:19:28,600 --> 00:19:29,040 Speaker 1: Flattered. 419 00:19:29,720 --> 00:19:31,560 Speaker 2: I don't know if that's a good idea, but one 420 00:19:31,560 --> 00:19:34,560 Speaker 2: of our listeners says he got some unsolicited life advice 421 00:19:34,800 --> 00:19:38,760 Speaker 2: from a bartender one night, which wasn't really sure about. 422 00:19:38,920 --> 00:19:41,679 Speaker 2: But when he actually tried it, not only did this 423 00:19:41,760 --> 00:19:45,800 Speaker 2: advice instantly triple his income, it also may have helped 424 00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:48,280 Speaker 2: him meet the love of his life. Oh my god, 425 00:19:48,800 --> 00:19:51,719 Speaker 2: you're gonna hear what a total stranger convinced him to 426 00:19:51,760 --> 00:19:54,880 Speaker 2: do to change his fortunes in your second Date update, 427 00:19:55,160 --> 00:20:00,199 Speaker 2: next Second Date up date. This is gonna be be 428 00:20:00,320 --> 00:20:03,960 Speaker 2: extremely helpful for our listeners because not only are we 429 00:20:03,960 --> 00:20:06,560 Speaker 2: going to hear a new second Date update, but this 430 00:20:06,640 --> 00:20:10,760 Speaker 2: is a situation with a potential new job opportunity where 431 00:20:10,760 --> 00:20:14,919 Speaker 2: our listeners can leave their sucky workplaces and start making 432 00:20:15,080 --> 00:20:17,680 Speaker 2: triple their normal salary. 433 00:20:17,720 --> 00:20:21,160 Speaker 1: Is this streaming too, because I already discovered that are 434 00:20:21,160 --> 00:20:22,040 Speaker 1: you making triple yet? 435 00:20:22,160 --> 00:20:24,040 Speaker 2: I'm making a lot of money. It's not playing video 436 00:20:24,119 --> 00:20:27,480 Speaker 2: games with kids online. No. Our listener says he did 437 00:20:27,520 --> 00:20:30,480 Speaker 2: this and ended up actually meeting someone that way. His 438 00:20:30,560 --> 00:20:33,800 Speaker 2: name is Zach, and Zach, you're doing your email said 439 00:20:33,800 --> 00:20:36,960 Speaker 2: your life has changed dramatically in the last twelve months. 440 00:20:37,240 --> 00:20:38,720 Speaker 2: Why big time. 441 00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:43,359 Speaker 4: I met this girl due to my new job, because 442 00:20:43,440 --> 00:20:44,800 Speaker 4: I went from I like. 443 00:20:44,760 --> 00:20:46,320 Speaker 1: How your voice gets deep when. 444 00:20:46,160 --> 00:20:48,159 Speaker 2: You say it sorry, it sounds like you like it. 445 00:20:48,280 --> 00:20:49,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, what's your new job? 446 00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:52,679 Speaker 4: Well, the ill job sucked. I was only making like 447 00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:55,680 Speaker 4: forty k there. It was dead and wasn't gonna get 448 00:20:55,680 --> 00:21:00,200 Speaker 4: any better. I hated it. So anyway, the company if 449 00:21:00,280 --> 00:21:03,679 Speaker 4: I had an event for all the employees, and I 450 00:21:03,760 --> 00:21:06,840 Speaker 4: went to it and they had an open bar there. 451 00:21:07,119 --> 00:21:09,200 Speaker 1: Okay, and you're talking about the sucky company that wasn't 452 00:21:09,200 --> 00:21:10,000 Speaker 1: paying you anything. 453 00:21:10,680 --> 00:21:12,199 Speaker 4: Yeah, I know it sounds good right now with an 454 00:21:12,240 --> 00:21:13,520 Speaker 4: open bar, but yeah, it gets pretty bad. 455 00:21:14,960 --> 00:21:18,920 Speaker 1: Wait a minute, okay, open bar equals ye, like, I'll 456 00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:20,000 Speaker 1: take payment in white cloth. 457 00:21:20,960 --> 00:21:23,840 Speaker 4: I ended up passing back a few and during that 458 00:21:24,320 --> 00:21:27,320 Speaker 4: I bonded and became friends with the guy that was 459 00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:31,600 Speaker 4: bartending all right, And I was telling him about the 460 00:21:31,720 --> 00:21:34,400 Speaker 4: job I was doing in my situation and how bad 461 00:21:34,440 --> 00:21:36,439 Speaker 4: it was, and he tells me, he goes, man, you 462 00:21:36,480 --> 00:21:39,520 Speaker 4: should just quit and start what I'm doing. And what 463 00:21:39,640 --> 00:21:42,360 Speaker 4: he was doing he was a mobile bartender. 464 00:21:42,960 --> 00:21:46,600 Speaker 2: Oh, I have a buddy who just started a company 465 00:21:46,760 --> 00:21:47,080 Speaker 2: like this. 466 00:21:47,320 --> 00:21:50,080 Speaker 1: Wait, isn't that just like catering? Like, I don't what's 467 00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:50,680 Speaker 1: the difference. 468 00:21:51,240 --> 00:21:54,800 Speaker 4: It's kind of more like a food truck that served drinks. 469 00:21:56,880 --> 00:21:57,920 Speaker 1: People have little. 470 00:21:59,200 --> 00:21:59,520 Speaker 7: Yeah. 471 00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:02,240 Speaker 4: So he tells me that I could triple my old 472 00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:05,240 Speaker 4: income and he and so he starts filling me in. 473 00:22:05,320 --> 00:22:07,320 Speaker 4: He goes, you only work a few hours a day. 474 00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:09,640 Speaker 4: You can make your own schedule. 475 00:22:09,960 --> 00:22:13,159 Speaker 1: Okay, it sounds too good to be true. Do you 476 00:22:13,200 --> 00:22:14,720 Speaker 1: have experience bartending? 477 00:22:16,280 --> 00:22:17,960 Speaker 4: I don't, not really I do. 478 00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:19,439 Speaker 2: Now, oh, now you do? 479 00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:22,040 Speaker 1: Okay, correct, and that's what you're doing now. 480 00:22:22,160 --> 00:22:27,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's exactly what I'm doing. It's going really good. 481 00:22:27,680 --> 00:22:29,600 Speaker 4: I mean, you get hired to do this stuff and 482 00:22:29,640 --> 00:22:31,240 Speaker 4: you go to a lot of different places. 483 00:22:31,440 --> 00:22:33,960 Speaker 1: Okay, are you just calling for a second date because 484 00:22:33,960 --> 00:22:35,280 Speaker 1: you want to promote your company? 485 00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:37,120 Speaker 7: No? 486 00:22:37,119 --> 00:22:38,040 Speaker 4: No, no, no, no no. 487 00:22:38,640 --> 00:22:42,359 Speaker 2: Okay, So this is how you met the woman that 488 00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:43,240 Speaker 2: we're going to call here. 489 00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:47,080 Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, her name is Bethany, and I got hired 490 00:22:47,520 --> 00:22:52,159 Speaker 4: to do a backyard party that was a bachelor flash 491 00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:55,119 Speaker 4: bachelorette party. I guess they just wanted to do it 492 00:22:55,160 --> 00:22:56,119 Speaker 4: all together. 493 00:22:55,880 --> 00:22:58,760 Speaker 2: So they didn't brook did the same thing. Because she's cheap, 494 00:22:58,840 --> 00:22:59,360 Speaker 2: like that, so. 495 00:23:01,560 --> 00:23:03,800 Speaker 1: It's fun, like all the wedding party gets to know 496 00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:06,000 Speaker 1: each other, like the girls know the guys, and it 497 00:23:06,040 --> 00:23:08,040 Speaker 1: makes it more like fun at the wedding zoo. 498 00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:10,040 Speaker 2: You can choose another guy you want to leave too, 499 00:23:10,560 --> 00:23:13,119 Speaker 2: if you want to. I get it. So, how did 500 00:23:13,119 --> 00:23:14,040 Speaker 2: you meet Bethany there? 501 00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:16,760 Speaker 4: So she ends up being a guest at that party. 502 00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:17,359 Speaker 1: Okay. 503 00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:19,600 Speaker 4: And the more she came up, which was only a 504 00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:23,719 Speaker 4: few times, but we started having good conversations, started talking. 505 00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:26,920 Speaker 4: She was super fun. She was real bubbly and outgoing. 506 00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:31,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, by her seventh Margarita, I would expect her to 507 00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:32,080 Speaker 2: be fun. 508 00:23:32,240 --> 00:23:36,119 Speaker 1: So, I mean, you probably meet so many different people now, like, 509 00:23:36,320 --> 00:23:37,720 Speaker 1: but she really stood out to you. 510 00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:41,080 Speaker 4: Yeah she did. And you know she's in great shape. 511 00:23:41,119 --> 00:23:43,400 Speaker 4: She tells me that she's a cycling instructor. 512 00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:47,680 Speaker 2: Oh okay, yeah, okay. 513 00:23:47,960 --> 00:23:50,680 Speaker 4: But while we were talking, she had asked me what 514 00:23:50,760 --> 00:23:53,720 Speaker 4: I do. I told her, well, you're looking at it, 515 00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:55,280 Speaker 4: this is it, this is my business. 516 00:23:55,320 --> 00:23:57,600 Speaker 2: Now cool? She impressed. 517 00:23:58,480 --> 00:24:01,879 Speaker 4: I don't know, I don't know. It seemed like she 518 00:24:02,119 --> 00:24:05,359 Speaker 4: was okay with it. But she goes, oh okay, yeah. 519 00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:07,920 Speaker 1: Well, I will say there's a stigma that comes along 520 00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:11,480 Speaker 1: with bartenders you know, too much fun, too much fun. 521 00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:13,879 Speaker 1: I think it's more like too much fun without you. Yeah, 522 00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:14,720 Speaker 1: it's the problem. 523 00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:15,159 Speaker 2: Okay. 524 00:24:15,280 --> 00:24:16,960 Speaker 7: And when they are free it is terrible times. 525 00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:17,280 Speaker 5: Yeah. 526 00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:19,760 Speaker 2: Now he's also the bartending business owner. 527 00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:22,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like a little extra. Hey, Monday at noon, 528 00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:24,000 Speaker 1: do you want to go on a day because that's. 529 00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:27,359 Speaker 4: The only time I have available, right, And I guess 530 00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:30,840 Speaker 4: bartenders are normally struggling for money, So maybe she thought 531 00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:32,680 Speaker 4: that that was a different tech bro. 532 00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:41,160 Speaker 1: That's actually not part of the stigma. 533 00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:40,280 Speaker 2: What you do in your free time. 534 00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:43,520 Speaker 1: Socially, it is for work hours. 535 00:24:43,760 --> 00:24:48,040 Speaker 2: But it sounds like you and Bethany had a stronger 536 00:24:48,080 --> 00:24:48,840 Speaker 2: connection than that. 537 00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:51,919 Speaker 4: Yeah, and she gave me her number, okay, and she 538 00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:54,880 Speaker 4: came up a few more times. But I've been trying 539 00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:57,320 Speaker 4: to get a hold of her, been trying to text her, 540 00:24:57,880 --> 00:25:01,440 Speaker 4: and she's kind of ghosting me her anything back at all. 541 00:25:01,640 --> 00:25:03,639 Speaker 1: So you guys haven't gone out on a date yet. 542 00:25:04,240 --> 00:25:06,679 Speaker 4: We have not gone out on a date, okay. 543 00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:10,600 Speaker 2: I mean, looking back on the event that you work, 544 00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:13,120 Speaker 2: was there any awkward moments between you two? 545 00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:16,480 Speaker 4: The only one I can think of, which isn't all 546 00:25:16,480 --> 00:25:19,720 Speaker 4: that bad. She's you know, naturally as she started coming 547 00:25:19,800 --> 00:25:22,000 Speaker 4: up to the bar. She was getting a little tipsy 548 00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:26,440 Speaker 4: towards the end of the night. Hopefully she wasn't embarrassed 549 00:25:26,560 --> 00:25:31,400 Speaker 4: by me actually suggest that she pulled her dress up 550 00:25:31,640 --> 00:25:35,200 Speaker 4: a little bit because well, things were starting to fall 551 00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:35,960 Speaker 4: out of the top. 552 00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:36,320 Speaker 5: Of the top. 553 00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:38,119 Speaker 2: I was. 554 00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:45,440 Speaker 1: She's trying to help her out different next time. 555 00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:55,080 Speaker 4: I was telling her that the shirt or anything. 556 00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:55,240 Speaker 2: Because Alexis has done that five different times and it's 557 00:25:55,320 --> 00:25:59,119 Speaker 2: never worked out. Proud my skirts, about my neck. I 558 00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:02,679 Speaker 2: don't get anything, all right, So you said you've been 559 00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:05,159 Speaker 2: in contact with her, but nothing has come of it. 560 00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:06,560 Speaker 4: Nothing. 561 00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:09,040 Speaker 1: And do you promise us that you didn't ask for 562 00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:14,359 Speaker 1: anyone else's number at that party, because well they're all friends. 563 00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:17,320 Speaker 4: Not only did I not ask for anyone else's number 564 00:26:17,359 --> 00:26:20,760 Speaker 4: that day, I've been doing this for over a year 565 00:26:21,160 --> 00:26:23,720 Speaker 4: and have never asked anybody. 566 00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:27,760 Speaker 2: We've met the one upstanding bartender in the entire world, 567 00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:28,720 Speaker 2: because he done it. 568 00:26:29,520 --> 00:26:30,879 Speaker 1: He's a rookie. 569 00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:33,520 Speaker 2: Given another year, you'll be a different man. But in 570 00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:37,440 Speaker 2: the meantime, let's call Bethany for you. We're gonna come 571 00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:39,520 Speaker 2: back and try and get your second date update. Right 572 00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:45,879 Speaker 2: after this second date update, t Payne once said, I 573 00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:50,080 Speaker 2: love the bartender. Yeah, we'd be looking for me, but 574 00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:55,199 Speaker 2: our bartender is not getting any love. That's what he 575 00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:57,199 Speaker 2: does for a living. He left his old job a 576 00:26:57,280 --> 00:27:01,480 Speaker 2: year ago and started a mobile business serving drinks at 577 00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:04,679 Speaker 2: different events, where he ended up meeting a lady named 578 00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:08,280 Speaker 2: Bethany at a backyard joint bachelor bachelorette party. 579 00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:10,960 Speaker 1: And it's the only woman in an entire year that 580 00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:12,520 Speaker 1: he's ever asked for her number. 581 00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:14,840 Speaker 2: That's the type of impact that she had on him. 582 00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:17,880 Speaker 2: They opened up to each other there, shared about their 583 00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:21,600 Speaker 2: lives and their interests, even after she gave him her number, 584 00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:24,720 Speaker 2: though she is not responding to him and they haven't 585 00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:28,840 Speaker 2: done an official first date. She's the opposite of t paint. 586 00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:32,320 Speaker 2: She's not in love with Yeah, but we wanted to 587 00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:35,720 Speaker 2: get there so I mean, honestly, Zach, you're lucky that 588 00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:37,600 Speaker 2: you're on the phone right now because if you were 589 00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:40,000 Speaker 2: in studio, Brooke would be filling up your tip jar 590 00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:43,959 Speaker 2: with so much cash, that's right, and other things trying 591 00:27:44,040 --> 00:27:45,760 Speaker 2: to big. 592 00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:51,159 Speaker 1: Poor that is. It's not a euphemism or anything. I 593 00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:53,240 Speaker 1: just like a lot of alcohol in my cup. 594 00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:57,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, it is a euphemism. Brook is a problem at 595 00:27:57,200 --> 00:27:59,120 Speaker 2: every event that she goes to in a good way. 596 00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:01,639 Speaker 2: But she's actually going to be on your side today. 597 00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:04,080 Speaker 1: I am, I am. You know you said that the 598 00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:07,960 Speaker 1: only like maybe kind of embarrassing moment was at the 599 00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:09,560 Speaker 1: end when you told her to pull her top up 600 00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:13,400 Speaker 1: because she was kind of losing things. I don't know, 601 00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:16,119 Speaker 1: I mean as a drunk woman that the tops are 602 00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:18,240 Speaker 1: always falling off. Did you say topp her dress? You 603 00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:23,960 Speaker 1: know there's different like understood, Yeah, understood? I see. 604 00:28:23,560 --> 00:28:26,280 Speaker 2: I Well, maybe she was pulling it down for you. 605 00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:33,520 Speaker 2: Classic broke she'd be like, hello, I showed up with 606 00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:35,720 Speaker 2: put it away. Excuse me, sir. 607 00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:37,359 Speaker 1: The left ones out for a reason. 608 00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:44,280 Speaker 2: Anyway. I mean, we can speculate all we want, we 609 00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:46,400 Speaker 2: actually have to call Bethany here and figure out what's 610 00:28:46,440 --> 00:28:47,960 Speaker 2: going on. Let's do it. I'm gonna call her. 611 00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:52,040 Speaker 1: I just imagining just having one moob out. 612 00:28:54,280 --> 00:29:05,760 Speaker 2: Here. We go call him Bethany. Hello, Hey, we're looking 613 00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:07,560 Speaker 2: to talk to Bethany. 614 00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:10,240 Speaker 8: Yeah, I'm. 615 00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:15,600 Speaker 2: Hey Bethany. Sorry to interrupt your day, but we're a 616 00:29:15,680 --> 00:29:17,560 Speaker 2: radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. 617 00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:22,719 Speaker 6: Okay, Yi, welcome to the show. Hi. 618 00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:24,880 Speaker 2: We're wanting to be a part of this segment we're 619 00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:27,680 Speaker 2: doing called a Second Date Update, because we're trying to 620 00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:29,920 Speaker 2: help out one of our listeners get in touch with you. 621 00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:33,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, you guys never really went on a date, but yeah, 622 00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:34,600 Speaker 1: but you made a connection. 623 00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:39,360 Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, you don't have to be nervous. We don't 624 00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:42,640 Speaker 2: bite you. Sounds like you just got cornered. 625 00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:45,280 Speaker 8: A lot of voices. 626 00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:49,640 Speaker 2: We just we just want to ask you about a 627 00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:53,200 Speaker 2: guy that you met recently at like a bachelor bachelorette event. 628 00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:55,040 Speaker 2: He was the bartender there named Zach. 629 00:29:56,600 --> 00:29:58,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, what'd you think of Zach? 630 00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:03,000 Speaker 8: You know, I thought it was really nice at first. 631 00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:06,400 Speaker 1: At first, but then he was really sexy. 632 00:30:06,480 --> 00:30:12,719 Speaker 2: Secondly something changed. 633 00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:19,080 Speaker 6: Yeah, he kept going like on and on and on 634 00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:22,320 Speaker 6: about how he like put his job and now he 635 00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:26,600 Speaker 6: has this business and been doing so well and so 636 00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:27,720 Speaker 6: much more money. 637 00:30:28,000 --> 00:30:30,720 Speaker 2: We spoke to him a little bit before, and he 638 00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:33,400 Speaker 2: heard that he's very proud of his new business because 639 00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:34,800 Speaker 2: he started it all himself. 640 00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:38,920 Speaker 8: And that's great, that's great to be proud. But he 641 00:30:39,000 --> 00:30:41,760 Speaker 8: also didn't seem to want to know anything about what 642 00:30:41,840 --> 00:30:42,600 Speaker 8: I was doing. 643 00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:46,760 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's too bad. 644 00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:50,320 Speaker 8: It was very uncomfortable. And then and then at one point, 645 00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:52,600 Speaker 8: like things got busy, you know, like a lot of 646 00:30:52,640 --> 00:30:55,640 Speaker 8: people were drinking and he had like ran out of 647 00:30:55,680 --> 00:30:57,520 Speaker 8: diet coke, and so I helped him and I went 648 00:30:57,560 --> 00:31:00,360 Speaker 8: and grabbed some of the dit coke for him, Like, oh, 649 00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:02,320 Speaker 8: I could do that, that's not problem. 650 00:31:02,440 --> 00:31:06,160 Speaker 1: Okay, He's still a little flirty with him at that point. 651 00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:09,479 Speaker 8: It was just yeah, he was alone, and I've worked 652 00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:12,360 Speaker 8: different service industry jobs and so I know how it gets, 653 00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:14,240 Speaker 8: and so I'm like, yeah, let me just help you out, 654 00:31:14,280 --> 00:31:15,440 Speaker 8: Like it's a nice thing to do. 655 00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:17,920 Speaker 1: Okay, that's yeah, that's that's awesome. 656 00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:20,280 Speaker 8: I thought so too, But he'd already had my number 657 00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:24,120 Speaker 8: at that point. He must have really appreciated me grabbing 658 00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:27,600 Speaker 8: those diet cokes because he vinmowed me twenty dollars. 659 00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:31,960 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, what do you mean he venmoed you twenty bucks? 660 00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:33,240 Speaker 2: He paid you for what? 661 00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:35,000 Speaker 1: What did he put in the comments of the Venmo? 662 00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:35,920 Speaker 2: That's a good question. 663 00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:40,600 Speaker 8: Can you put here's a tip for the bartender? It's weird, 664 00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:44,040 Speaker 8: kind of like I was just being nice. I just 665 00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:46,400 Speaker 8: felt really weird and kind of like you know, like 666 00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:48,920 Speaker 8: when like creepy old men and you like do something 667 00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:50,960 Speaker 8: nice and then they like slip you like you know something. 668 00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:54,280 Speaker 1: So she's talking to you, give me an comfortable syb 669 00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:58,280 Speaker 1: you're saying, creepy old men started as creepy young men. 670 00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:02,479 Speaker 8: Yeah, And I'm just like, is this the modern version 671 00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:06,960 Speaker 8: of like an old man slipping you some cash? 672 00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:11,840 Speaker 2: Well, I mean yeah, maybe slipping slipping money could be 673 00:32:11,840 --> 00:32:13,600 Speaker 2: a little bit creepy, but this is going to be 674 00:32:13,600 --> 00:32:16,400 Speaker 2: worth There's nothing creepy about somebody quietly listening in on 675 00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:19,680 Speaker 2: a phone conversation wanting to join right about that because 676 00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:22,160 Speaker 2: our company, Because Zach is on the other line wanting 677 00:32:22,160 --> 00:32:22,959 Speaker 2: to talk to you. 678 00:32:23,080 --> 00:32:24,640 Speaker 3: Hello, there, are you serious? 679 00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:25,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's sad. 680 00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:29,280 Speaker 3: I apologize. 681 00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:33,440 Speaker 4: I didn't mean to offend you with the tip there. 682 00:32:33,480 --> 00:32:36,400 Speaker 4: I just didn't know what to do there and just thought, well, 683 00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:38,200 Speaker 4: you know, let me, she helped me out. 684 00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:38,520 Speaker 5: Let me. 685 00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:39,600 Speaker 8: You're a normal person. 686 00:32:41,640 --> 00:32:45,000 Speaker 1: Okay, listen to her, Zach. That was part of the problem. 687 00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:47,800 Speaker 2: Go ahead, beth Andy, tell him how you were feeling, you. 688 00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:51,400 Speaker 8: Know, like just it felt like like you were Yeah, 689 00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:52,400 Speaker 8: I know you felt. 690 00:32:52,440 --> 00:32:59,360 Speaker 4: I heard the conversation. I get it, well, currying her out, Yeah, 691 00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:02,600 Speaker 4: I just appreciated the fact. 692 00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:04,800 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. 693 00:33:05,800 --> 00:33:10,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, so really, well, I know that you're a bartender, 694 00:33:10,560 --> 00:33:13,240 Speaker 2: and a good lesson for bartenders is to listen to 695 00:33:13,280 --> 00:33:16,160 Speaker 2: the customers because they'll actually stick around. 696 00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:20,720 Speaker 1: Lesson to just people, right, Like, did you ask her 697 00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:22,480 Speaker 1: one question that you could remember? 698 00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:30,120 Speaker 8: No, I guess not a memory. 699 00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:32,560 Speaker 1: Would you like to ask her anything about herself? 700 00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:33,200 Speaker 2: Yeah? 701 00:33:33,280 --> 00:33:35,400 Speaker 4: I know what you normally drink? Is there a second 702 00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:36,240 Speaker 4: favorite that you have? 703 00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:38,480 Speaker 2: Well, that's something? 704 00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:39,520 Speaker 1: Is it something, Jeff? 705 00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:41,080 Speaker 2: At least it's a question about her. 706 00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:43,480 Speaker 7: No. 707 00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:45,880 Speaker 4: I didn't think sending her twenty dollars would be that 708 00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:48,360 Speaker 4: big a deal. I figure she she told me she 709 00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:51,720 Speaker 4: was a cycling instructor. Didn't think she was getting rich 710 00:33:51,760 --> 00:33:52,080 Speaker 4: on that. 711 00:33:52,200 --> 00:33:59,280 Speaker 2: Oh wow, it's probably true, though, let's be honest. 712 00:34:00,400 --> 00:34:01,480 Speaker 7: It depends on the studio. 713 00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:03,720 Speaker 8: You can actually make pretty good money. 714 00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:07,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, Zach, maybe you should maybe leave your bartending job 715 00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:09,680 Speaker 2: and getting discycling if there's that much money in it. 716 00:34:10,960 --> 00:34:12,920 Speaker 1: I saw a thing recently where they put a blender 717 00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:14,839 Speaker 1: on the front of a bike and you could do both. 718 00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:16,920 Speaker 1: Where you have to make your own margarita by pedaling 719 00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:17,520 Speaker 1: really fast. 720 00:34:17,560 --> 00:34:17,759 Speaker 5: Yeah. 721 00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:22,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's so smart. That could be your niche. 722 00:34:22,480 --> 00:34:24,759 Speaker 4: I actually don't know how to ride a bike. 723 00:34:25,160 --> 00:34:34,520 Speaker 1: Oh it was it was stationary? Yeah, I bet that 724 00:34:34,600 --> 00:34:37,240 Speaker 1: was a lot to hear. That was a lot to hear. Yeah, 725 00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:39,320 Speaker 1: it sounds like he means well, but it's. 726 00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:39,960 Speaker 2: Not coming out. 727 00:34:40,320 --> 00:34:40,520 Speaker 4: Yeah. 728 00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:44,279 Speaker 2: Maybe Zach has learned some lessons in the last few minutes. Zach, 729 00:34:44,320 --> 00:34:45,719 Speaker 2: what have you learned from this call? 730 00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:49,359 Speaker 4: I learned that she never answered her question about her 731 00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:50,360 Speaker 4: second favorite drink? 732 00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:53,879 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, and that's this guy. 733 00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:57,400 Speaker 2: Well, we always offer this because we kind of have to, 734 00:34:57,800 --> 00:35:00,120 Speaker 2: But Bethany, we would love to send you out on 735 00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:02,440 Speaker 2: another on a first date, actually with Zach. 736 00:35:02,800 --> 00:35:04,040 Speaker 8: Does he have to be there? 737 00:35:04,560 --> 00:35:06,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, Zach does have to be there. And the good 738 00:35:06,719 --> 00:35:09,160 Speaker 2: news is nobody has to pay through Venmo or anything. 739 00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:10,399 Speaker 2: We're going to cover the bill. 740 00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:12,200 Speaker 6: Yeah. 741 00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:14,480 Speaker 4: I'm up for anything, really, as long as we don't 742 00:35:14,520 --> 00:35:15,520 Speaker 4: ride bikes anywhere. 743 00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:18,759 Speaker 2: Okay, what did that be? 744 00:35:18,800 --> 00:35:21,600 Speaker 1: Ironic? A cycling instruction? Dating the guy. 745 00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:25,960 Speaker 2: Who couldn't write, Bethany? You want to get him a shot? 746 00:35:27,200 --> 00:35:27,440 Speaker 5: You know? 747 00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:31,359 Speaker 8: I think I should just stick to my gut from 748 00:35:31,400 --> 00:35:35,600 Speaker 8: our first interaction. Okay, I appreciate the offer. 749 00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:37,600 Speaker 2: Oh man, all right. 750 00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:39,000 Speaker 1: Well you got your answer, Zach. 751 00:35:39,120 --> 00:35:41,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, but if you tip us forty dollars, we'll ask 752 00:35:41,200 --> 00:35:41,640 Speaker 2: her again. 753 00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:45,080 Speaker 3: That's okay. 754 00:35:45,239 --> 00:35:47,120 Speaker 4: I mean I can see what's going on. I can 755 00:35:47,160 --> 00:35:48,319 Speaker 4: read between the lines, and. 756 00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:53,239 Speaker 1: I feel like I was very straightforward to I think 757 00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:54,919 Speaker 1: all the lines had all the writing on him. 758 00:35:55,239 --> 00:35:56,920 Speaker 2: I thought you'd be impressed, Bethany, just by the fact 759 00:35:56,960 --> 00:35:57,480 Speaker 2: he could. 760 00:35:57,239 --> 00:36:01,640 Speaker 5: Read yes, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. 761 00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:04,320 Speaker 2: You know what, I'm not even feeling sad. 762 00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:06,960 Speaker 1: For Zach because Zach wouldn't hear you anyway. 763 00:36:07,040 --> 00:36:09,880 Speaker 2: That's true. Yeah, you don't know. He kind of embarrassed 764 00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:12,839 Speaker 2: himself on the radio. He's meaning so many hotties at 765 00:36:12,880 --> 00:36:15,319 Speaker 2: these bartending events. Now he is going to be just 766 00:36:15,480 --> 00:36:16,800 Speaker 2: fine in the dating world. 767 00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:20,520 Speaker 1: Know if he can stop talking about himself. Yeah, I mean, honestly, 768 00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:24,120 Speaker 1: like it sounds like so simple and it's so hard 769 00:36:24,120 --> 00:36:24,720 Speaker 1: for some people. 770 00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:27,480 Speaker 2: There's a line, if you're excited about your new success, 771 00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:29,360 Speaker 2: you can only tell your old friends that knew you 772 00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:31,560 Speaker 2: when you were broke. If you tell new people, hey, 773 00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:33,520 Speaker 2: I'm rich and I have a company, isn't that cool, 774 00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:36,359 Speaker 2: They're gonna be like, no, you sure, But next week 775 00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:38,480 Speaker 2: we're probably gonna get an email from him saying he 776 00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:41,120 Speaker 2: just met another woman, but this one's his soul made 777 00:36:41,120 --> 00:36:42,880 Speaker 2: because she can't ride a bike either. 778 00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:46,120 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I mean it would be cute to see 779 00:36:46,200 --> 00:36:47,120 Speaker 1: him on trading wheels. 780 00:36:47,360 --> 00:36:53,319 Speaker 2: I will love that duel bicycle wheels, Zach. We're all 781 00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:56,839 Speaker 2: rooting for you out therebody, but make sure you listen 782 00:36:56,880 --> 00:36:58,799 Speaker 2: to Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. Wherever you find 783 00:36:58,800 --> 00:37:01,440 Speaker 2: your podcast, you can hear more second dates, just like 784 00:37:01,520 --> 00:37:01,919 Speaker 2: that one.