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Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heeart Radio podcast.

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Speaker 2: All right, guys, well, I'm really glad everyone got together.

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Speaker 2: Even in the icy conditions.

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Speaker 1: I've made it out of the tundra. Yes, it's so

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Speaker 1: pretty out there though.

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Speaker 2: You know, I took a photo because when the sun

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Speaker 2: was glistening on the trees and little icicles, it was beautiful.

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Speaker 2: It's really pretty and damaging but pretty. You know some

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Speaker 2: of the trees that have fallen down. But besides that,

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Speaker 2: we're here. Roads are getting clear.

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Speaker 3: Which is good they are.

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Speaker 4: It's funny because our northern my northern family is like,

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Speaker 4: you know, this is a light day right the north.

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Speaker 1: It's not.

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Speaker 4: And I feel that too, Like it makes me feel

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Speaker 4: trapped because I'm like, this isn't impossible, like growing up,

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Speaker 4: this is literally like you would just be going to school.

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Speaker 3: Well, I caps.

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Speaker 2: Locked, or I mean I did my little air quotes

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Speaker 2: on the snowed in you could still see the snow,

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Speaker 2: the grass.

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Speaker 3: In the snow.

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Speaker 2: Right, It's weird, like that's not things that happen in Michigan.

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Speaker 3: But I know that structure is different.

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Speaker 4: I don't plant trees that like can withstand ice and

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Speaker 4: snow and the weight of things, so that's why everything

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Speaker 4: was falling down.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's really crazy.

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Speaker 2: It was really funny because on the day that so

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Speaker 2: Friday night, I thought the snow was going to come,

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Speaker 2: like you'd wake up in the morning snow.

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Speaker 3: So did Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So I of course in the morning Saturday morning, opened

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Speaker 2: my blines and I'm like not a drop, yeah, nothing,

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Speaker 2: nothing like literally nothing. So I'm like, well, shoot, I

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Speaker 2: want to go to the go to the gym, you know,

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Speaker 2: let's get a little workout because the treadmill is still broken.

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Speaker 2: So I was like, hey, Alan, why don't I go

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Speaker 2: to the gym first, and then I'll meet you at

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Speaker 2: Whole Foods with Roman and then we can exchange babes

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Speaker 2: and then you can go to the gym, so we

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Speaker 2: both get a little workout in. So it had started

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Speaker 2: to snow, but it wasn't bad. I'm like, okay, I

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Speaker 2: got this from Michigan again, totally totally good. And then

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Speaker 2: finish working out, come out, and was like.

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, got fast.

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Speaker 3: It happened really fast.

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Speaker 2: What I realized is in my car is amazing, but

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Speaker 2: it's really bott in the snow.

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Speaker 1: Well I was gonna ask you that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so I call Alan, so the side. So I'm

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Speaker 2: just I mean going down, I'm on the break and

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Speaker 2: so again Michigan. I can do this, but my car can't.

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Speaker 2: So I call Alan and I say, car is not honest, No,

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Speaker 2: not a Michigan car. We're real cute, not Michigan.

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Speaker 1: No.

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Speaker 2: And the problem is that if I lived in Michigan,

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Speaker 2: I would have different tires in the car.

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Speaker 1: So everything would be different. Everything would be different.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So like I wouldn't have those type of tires.

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Speaker 2: I would have gotten more like you know whatever, all

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Speaker 2: the things. So and I'm not going to get different

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Speaker 2: tires for the one time.

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Speaker 1: The one time.

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Speaker 3: It happens every year exactly.

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Speaker 2: So but I call it Alan, and I go, okay, again,

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Speaker 2: Michigan heart, Michigan girl. I can handle. I've driven many times.

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Speaker 2: I've even gotten into ditches, found a way out of them,

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Speaker 2: even in my little Alero red Alaro, you know, like

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Speaker 2: got this said, I don't think the g's got it though.

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Speaker 3: It's not doing great right now.

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Speaker 2: She is slipping and sliding and I pretty much almost

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Speaker 2: just went right through an intersection. And so I was,

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Speaker 2: you know, driving, and so I'm like, I think I

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Speaker 2: and so I meet him at Whole Foods. We then

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Speaker 2: change cars and we just bring Sadie nicely home. But

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Speaker 2: he was like yeah. He was like, I'm so glad

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Speaker 2: you called because we would have been bad.

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Speaker 1: Does Scotland weather like this?

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Speaker 4: I wondered about, yeah, but not like yeah, yeah, it's interesting.

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Speaker 4: It's it's also just wild because it's like I don't

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Speaker 4: feel it's very well known. I don't like winter and

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Speaker 4: only being cold it frustrates me, or tornadoes, no weather

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Speaker 4: actually at all. Maybe I should move to San Diego

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Speaker 4: on second thought, but I don't. I don't often feel

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Speaker 4: like it's it's a weird feeling to go we can't

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Speaker 4: a cloud truck and it's like a really trapped feeling.

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Speaker 4: And then it moved to what I can what I

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Speaker 4: am associating best in my brain of twenty twenty PTSD.

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Speaker 4: I started to feel like, can't get out and how

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Speaker 4: long are we going to be here? Like the last

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Speaker 4: time we felt like this, it was that like for

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Speaker 4: it took us forever to get back out into the

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Speaker 4: wilderness on my rational in my rational brain, I know

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Speaker 4: that it's not true, but I could just feel it.

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Speaker 4: I was like, there's no air, you can't get out

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Speaker 4: of it's frozen. We're stuck in our driveway. It's weird.

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Speaker 2: I go anxious, and I go to the part where

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Speaker 2: if we can't travel, what if there's an emergency, like

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Speaker 2: what if we have to leave?

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Speaker 3: And then the car.

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Speaker 2: But Alan's like his truck said he was, you know,

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Speaker 2: it's like it was made for the apocalypse, like we

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Speaker 2: got this, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Somebody drive. Yeah, it's I didn't know if I didn't

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Speaker 1: know how it works, if it's like electric, if they

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Speaker 1: oh is a electric?

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Speaker 1: Because his other one was electric, this one's not. God,

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Speaker 1: I didn't know how that works. Yeah, not upgraded. But

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Speaker 1: he got a different car, so yeah that makes sense.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, He's just like, if someone is sick and

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Speaker 2: needs to get to the we will find a way.

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Speaker 3: Correct, There's always a way. But I go to the

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Speaker 3: well God.

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Speaker 1: Well, just yeah, it's like a weird feeling.

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Speaker 2: I will say, though not having power for those like

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Speaker 2: five hours, was it got really chilly. So I can't

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Speaker 2: imagine the people that are still we're you know, are

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Speaker 2: still without power. My ex husband did not have power,

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Speaker 2: still doesn't. And so I was just like, do you

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Speaker 2: need to come here?

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Speaker 1: It's a real grit teeth invite day it.

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Speaker 3: No, but he's you know, he has a friend.

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Speaker 2: I would never obviously not of course not offer or

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Speaker 2: he went to a friend's because that would have been weird.

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Speaker 4: One big, little happy family, one awkward holiday moment. I yeah,

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Speaker 4: we offer. We actually had at one point three or

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Speaker 4: four families that were playing our lives.

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Speaker 2: We were packed and ready, and then all of a sudden,

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Speaker 2: literally right as Alan was putting some of the cooler

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Speaker 2: and I screamed so loud.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's wild.

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Speaker 4: It are flickered and we and we kept reading that

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Speaker 4: if it flickers, it'll probably go.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Preston actually got us a generate or guys.

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 3: I told Alan we don't need it.

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Speaker 4: I usually am like, we don't need it because I

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Speaker 4: don't want to spend the money.

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Speaker 2: Yep, and this is I said it. Yeah, it was

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Speaker 2: one thousand dollars and I said, nah. The builder said,

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Speaker 2: our lines are underground, were good?

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Speaker 1: Find that builder? Oh Doug, oh sweet Dug, you pants

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Speaker 1: on fire? Yeah, we never had to use it, so

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Speaker 1: I feel grateful. We did, though, have a bunch of

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Speaker 4: I said, we can come get you, you know, like

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Speaker 4: come get you guys. And you guys offered, yeah, we

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Speaker 4: want to come get Yeah. It's just a weird It's

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Speaker 4: these situations are hard, right because from Michiganders, we're like, okay,

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Speaker 4: but if you did grow up here, it is scary.

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Speaker 4: And then it was wild because people were literally trapped,

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Speaker 4: like people didn't have power and couldn't get and still

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Speaker 4: some of them can't get through their roads.

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Speaker 1: So it's like I can't.

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Speaker 4: Imagined yeah with kids, and it is cold. I mean

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Speaker 4: single digits, that's wild. Pipe'es bursting. We've had a couple

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Speaker 4: of friends that have it's the hotels are booked out. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I mean you can. It's hard to find a hotel now,

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Speaker 2: And that was what was so I was calling gaylord.

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Speaker 2: But then we have a dog, so I'm like, we

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Speaker 2: can't leave Leo. People want to leave their cats. I've

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Speaker 3: They have like I think they're like the easiest thing.

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Speaker 4: Has a bearded dragon and a hermit crab, so she

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Speaker 2: Well that's what because I'm like the fish indigo in

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Speaker 2: to save the fashion And I'm like, I can't lose

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Speaker 1: So it's just a lot.

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Speaker 4: It's a lot of moving pieces and parts. But here

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Speaker 4: we are, thankfully together.

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Speaker 2: So lots going on, I will say.

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Speaker 4: With.

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Speaker 2: Things happening in the world right now. I did make

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Speaker 2: a little statement on my Instagram because lots of people

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Speaker 2: I was actually really shocked with the amount of people

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Speaker 2: popular opinion, but she goes actually love that you don't

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Speaker 2: attacking that She's like Instagram has become a place where

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Speaker 2: it's I just want to see happiness in your family.

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Speaker 2: And I actually I got that ninety nine percent. I

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Speaker 3: I did too.

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Speaker 4: I got hummeled for a minute. Yeah, And I was

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Speaker 4: trying to be respectful. And it is a weird feeling, right,

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Speaker 4: because if you have any influence at all, people are

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Speaker 4: expecting you to speak. And I don't also feel qualified

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Speaker 4: when I say certain things? That's I guess always, And

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Speaker 4: this is not my excuse by any means, And I

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Speaker 4: really mean that I just am going is what am

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Speaker 4: I contributing? There's, in my opinion, righteous anger and anger,

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Speaker 4: and so they are two very different things and they

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Speaker 4: lead to very different places. So if I'm just busy

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Speaker 4: filling in content and gaps about things that I'm not

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Speaker 4: well versed, it's speaking about or I. The other thing

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Speaker 4: filtering news and understanding and also filtering for them, not

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Speaker 3: Is that really an assumption?

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Speaker 1: Absolutely it's an assumption. You probably don't even know how

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Speaker 4: This is just not the way. And I don't know

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Speaker 4: And if you sit and attack a stay at home mom,

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Speaker 4: When I get frustrated with things, I sometimes snap at

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Speaker 4: People are frustrated and they don't have anywhere for the

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Speaker 3: I think their passion.

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Speaker 2: With like what you just said, where it's there they

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Speaker 2: and that's where it's not okay. That's where it does divide,

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Speaker 1: I actually my friends in Minnesota yesterday. Yeah, that's what

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Speaker 1: So the people that actually work down town, yes, do

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Speaker 2: But like, just we all have our own things. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think I fair I had shared my fair share,

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Speaker 3: I mean, I've got some wines I can whine about.

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Speaker 1: I just do so much.

442
00:20:20,240 --> 00:20:23,760
Speaker 4: And I was like, we need that, Like I miss

443
00:20:23,800 --> 00:20:26,960
Speaker 4: my Saturday Night Live like release, you know where you

444
00:20:27,080 --> 00:20:29,119
Speaker 4: just watch and you're like, what funny thing do you

445
00:20:29,119 --> 00:20:30,119
Speaker 4: have to say to me today?

446
00:20:30,920 --> 00:20:33,240
Speaker 1: You know, Yeah, that's what we need.

447
00:20:33,320 --> 00:20:35,840
Speaker 2: But I was listening today at the gym, so treadmill

448
00:20:35,840 --> 00:20:37,879
Speaker 2: has been broken. I've been going to a gym, you guys.

449
00:20:37,960 --> 00:20:41,399
Speaker 3: I I don't know if I'm a gym person.

450
00:20:41,720 --> 00:20:44,880
Speaker 1: I am not actually say like going to the gym.

451
00:20:44,920 --> 00:20:46,119
Speaker 1: I was like, wait, which gym?

452
00:20:46,280 --> 00:20:46,720
Speaker 3: Exactly?

453
00:20:46,840 --> 00:20:48,440
Speaker 1: Is it the gym that everyone goes to here?

454
00:20:48,760 --> 00:20:50,320
Speaker 3: No, I'm too cheap to go to Lifetime.

455
00:20:51,359 --> 00:20:55,640
Speaker 1: I was just.

456
00:20:55,240 --> 00:20:56,680
Speaker 3: Same, by the way, way too expensive.

457
00:20:56,800 --> 00:20:58,959
Speaker 1: Wild? Can I add this?

458
00:20:59,000 --> 00:20:59,160
Speaker 4: Maybe?

459
00:20:59,280 --> 00:20:59,960
Speaker 1: Is my wine about it?

460
00:21:00,400 --> 00:21:00,760
Speaker 3: Sure?

461
00:21:01,280 --> 00:21:02,840
Speaker 1: Inside of this absolutely?

462
00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:06,360
Speaker 4: So what's crazy to me is we were founding members

463
00:21:06,400 --> 00:21:09,040
Speaker 4: of Lifetime here when it hadn't it was just a

464
00:21:09,040 --> 00:21:12,320
Speaker 4: trailer and ground and hadn't been broken, and so we

465
00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:14,560
Speaker 4: joined in as a family of the time at the

466
00:21:14,600 --> 00:21:15,160
Speaker 4: time of four.

467
00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:16,280
Speaker 3: Okay.

468
00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:18,320
Speaker 4: Then COVID hit and they're like, you can pause your

469
00:21:18,359 --> 00:21:20,600
Speaker 4: membership yourself to pay monthly to keep it. And I'm like,

470
00:21:20,680 --> 00:21:23,880
Speaker 4: well every penny counted, no touring, no nothing. So we

471
00:21:23,880 --> 00:21:25,639
Speaker 4: were like, we're not doing that. And we didn't know

472
00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:28,679
Speaker 4: would gyms even come back, you know, Giant TVD.

473
00:21:29,240 --> 00:21:30,840
Speaker 1: So we stopped.

474
00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:33,800
Speaker 4: So we go back in after the dust is settled

475
00:21:33,840 --> 00:21:36,720
Speaker 4: and we go in and there it was.

476
00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:41,359
Speaker 1: Almost three hundred and fifty dollars more to come back.

477
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Speaker 3: Its gonna be like five hundred dollars to the family.

478
00:21:43,320 --> 00:21:45,320
Speaker 1: Unbelievable. And then they told me and do you want

479
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Speaker 1: to add well, I will say that sounds low. And

480
00:21:47,680 --> 00:21:50,280
Speaker 1: then they said do you want access to the outside pool?

481
00:21:50,359 --> 00:21:51,040
Speaker 1: And I said, well.

482
00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:55,080
Speaker 3: Yes, I was no access to anything like.

483
00:21:54,800 --> 00:21:57,280
Speaker 1: Well, I would love access to the entire place my kids.

484
00:21:57,320 --> 00:22:00,399
Speaker 4: Yeah, a membership is what I consider to be access

485
00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:03,159
Speaker 4: to this entire place. Well, it'd be an extra one

486
00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:04,959
Speaker 4: hundred dollars a month if you want to use the

487
00:22:04,960 --> 00:22:09,520
Speaker 4: outside pool. And I'm like, what is what is happening.

488
00:22:10,200 --> 00:22:14,240
Speaker 1: My husband has a loan membership just him, like I

489
00:22:14,320 --> 00:22:16,159
Speaker 1: used to see him there. Actually, I mean he goes

490
00:22:16,200 --> 00:22:18,440
Speaker 1: there almost every day and then he'll work from there

491
00:22:18,480 --> 00:22:20,360
Speaker 1: as well. That's what I saw. One point he's like, hey,

492
00:22:20,359 --> 00:22:22,800
Speaker 1: maybe we could add us on and he's like, nope, yeah,

493
00:22:22,800 --> 00:22:23,680
Speaker 1: it's good.

494
00:22:23,480 --> 00:22:29,280
Speaker 4: Point wild face timing from the pool for almost two months,

495
00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:31,959
Speaker 4: and it's obviously really chilly in my garage.

496
00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:33,960
Speaker 2: It's chilli outside. I can't go for a run on

497
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Speaker 2: the street. I can't go for a stock in the

498
00:22:35,720 --> 00:22:37,200
Speaker 2: street right now. I can't do trap.

499
00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:41,679
Speaker 1: Stopping the driveway walking into the garage.

500
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Speaker 3: I'm trying.

501
00:22:42,520 --> 00:22:46,280
Speaker 2: I also the driveway piece of things. I told Alan

502
00:22:46,359 --> 00:22:48,280
Speaker 2: to make a path like I don't and I said,

503
00:22:48,320 --> 00:22:50,200
Speaker 2: I said, this will ice and then you won't be

504
00:22:50,280 --> 00:22:52,639
Speaker 2: able to shovel it. I should have gone out and

505
00:22:52,640 --> 00:22:54,680
Speaker 2: shoveled it. But it's almost like he had to learn

506
00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:56,800
Speaker 2: from the experience. And it's like and now it's nice

507
00:22:57,200 --> 00:22:58,080
Speaker 2: sky skating rink.

508
00:22:58,200 --> 00:22:59,040
Speaker 1: It's my whole one.

509
00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:04,920
Speaker 2: So AnyWho, So, but Alan's been working out at this

510
00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:09,240
Speaker 2: at this gym and our friend is one of the owners,

511
00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:11,960
Speaker 2: so he's been going and I was at the point

512
00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:16,960
Speaker 2: where again two colds can't run outside, so I need

513
00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:19,560
Speaker 2: to do something. So our friend was like, you will

514
00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:21,719
Speaker 2: just come, We'll give you a membership at this gym,

515
00:23:22,720 --> 00:23:25,320
Speaker 2: and so I was like, okay, great, So I go

516
00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:27,840
Speaker 2: and it was one of those where I walk in

517
00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:30,680
Speaker 2: and I was like, I need to immediately turn around.

518
00:23:30,920 --> 00:23:34,800
Speaker 1: Is this beefy. I can't do those. I can't do

519
00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:36,679
Speaker 1: gyms at all, but especially a beef one.

520
00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:40,919
Speaker 2: But not their fall now, no, not their fault, but

521
00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:44,120
Speaker 2: it was just I felt very out of place. I'll

522
00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:46,240
Speaker 2: say that, like, I think lifetimes more on my crew.

523
00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:48,520
Speaker 1: You know, of course, because you can.

524
00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:53,840
Speaker 2: The other one even get It's like the only smoothie

525
00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:56,639
Speaker 2: is like nothing less than one hundred grams of protein.

526
00:23:58,080 --> 00:24:00,440
Speaker 1: It's called man milt. I've seen it.

527
00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:05,520
Speaker 2: And also like these women are so beautiful. But also

528
00:24:05,560 --> 00:24:08,800
Speaker 2: I'm like over there with my ten pound dumbbells and they're,

529
00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:13,359
Speaker 2: you know, doing way more weight, and why don't I

530
00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:17,040
Speaker 2: feel so out of place here? So but at the

531
00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:20,880
Speaker 2: same time, again, it's been snowpocalypse ice the whole thing.

532
00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:25,320
Speaker 2: So I've I've gone now quite a few times, and

533
00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:28,040
Speaker 2: I've found my little corner in the gym. It's been,

534
00:24:28,119 --> 00:24:30,920
Speaker 2: it's actually been really nice. So my guess my wine

535
00:24:31,000 --> 00:24:34,159
Speaker 2: was at first not feeling like I fit in in

536
00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:37,480
Speaker 2: a gym, but now it's I think it's all mentally

537
00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:40,400
Speaker 2: my fault too, oh for sure, because now I've found

538
00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:43,040
Speaker 2: my little corner and it feels comfortable.

539
00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:46,560
Speaker 1: The reality is these people aren't paying attention to us zero, right.

540
00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:49,120
Speaker 3: But I'll be paying attention to them, right exactly.

541
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Speaker 1: I mean, it's probably one of the most intimidating things

542
00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:53,359
Speaker 1: to me, Like I don't like classes. I don't like

543
00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:54,640
Speaker 1: it is so intimidating.

544
00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:59,600
Speaker 2: But why not why people are thinking anything nothing but

545
00:24:59,640 --> 00:25:01,160
Speaker 2: why I want to come help me with my.

546
00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:03,120
Speaker 1: Form if I don't know what I'm doing right?

547
00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:05,160
Speaker 2: But I also like sort of kind of fell over

548
00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:07,040
Speaker 2: when I was doing it a because I grabbed this

549
00:25:07,080 --> 00:25:09,399
Speaker 2: is my problem. I grabbed a bigger weight when I

550
00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:11,480
Speaker 2: was doing my Bulgarian split squats because I'm like, well.

551
00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:13,280
Speaker 3: I can't grow up with twenty, let's go over the thirty.

552
00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:14,359
Speaker 3: And then I'm like I can do it.

553
00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:17,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I like fall over, you know what I mean,

554
00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:19,560
Speaker 2: It's just like all for sure, why though it is

555
00:25:19,560 --> 00:25:19,920
Speaker 2: my thing?

556
00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:21,400
Speaker 3: Like why do we heay?

557
00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:21,879
Speaker 1: Why?

558
00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:22,480
Speaker 3: Why?

559
00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:22,840
Speaker 4: Well?

560
00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:24,520
Speaker 1: I will common nature. I don't know. I'll say this.

561
00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:27,960
Speaker 4: I've just always been a runner, so I feel confident

562
00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:30,879
Speaker 4: on a treadmill until I fall off, which is always

563
00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:32,800
Speaker 4: the fear, right, and someone's gonna catch it on camera.

564
00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:35,280
Speaker 4: But then I think the weight's part for me was

565
00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:38,360
Speaker 4: always so overwhelming because I just automatically assume I'm doing

566
00:25:38,400 --> 00:25:38,760
Speaker 4: it wrong.

567
00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:40,919
Speaker 3: That's why I found a corner.

568
00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:44,040
Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, and I'm like, well, they all have the machines.

569
00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:46,359
Speaker 2: The machines, that's the thing. I'm like, I'll look at

570
00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:48,520
Speaker 2: these machines and how do they work? Do they have

571
00:25:48,520 --> 00:25:50,520
Speaker 2: a manual? This is exactly how do I do it.

572
00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:53,120
Speaker 2: I'm used to my little tonal thing. Yeah, and then

573
00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:55,080
Speaker 2: then the instructure showing me how to do it as

574
00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:56,600
Speaker 2: I just look at all this and I'm just like,

575
00:25:57,480 --> 00:25:59,159
Speaker 2: I can't go weight in line for that one thing

576
00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:00,040
Speaker 2: because I don't know how to use.

577
00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:01,600
Speaker 1: I know, and then they're going to be watching you

578
00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:03,000
Speaker 1: because they're waiting for you to be done.

579
00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:03,760
Speaker 2: Switch.

580
00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:06,359
Speaker 1: Give me a panic attack thinking about getting on a

581
00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:08,800
Speaker 1: machine and people watching and not being able to get

582
00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:09,240
Speaker 1: it started.

583
00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:13,720
Speaker 4: Nope, oh yes, that has been for it crashing right.

584
00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:15,320
Speaker 4: You didn't put the pin all the way in and

585
00:26:15,359 --> 00:26:16,320
Speaker 4: then you pin has.

586
00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:21,000
Speaker 1: To go in. Yeah, so I do.

587
00:26:21,080 --> 00:26:23,359
Speaker 2: But but I will say the run this morning was great,

588
00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:25,480
Speaker 2: and I'm going to save my armwork out for the

589
00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:26,680
Speaker 2: gym when it thaws off.

590
00:26:26,840 --> 00:26:28,160
Speaker 1: No, you so fair.

591
00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:30,760
Speaker 3: So anyways, I guess my wine is my own personal

592
00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:33,840
Speaker 3: wine to not be afraid to go to the gym,

593
00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:34,720
Speaker 3: beefy or not.

594
00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:36,520
Speaker 1: And you did it, good job.

595
00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:40,040
Speaker 3: I did. I did. I Just again, if you see

596
00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:41,040
Speaker 3: me in a corner.

597
00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:42,320
Speaker 1: Just leave her.

598
00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:44,960
Speaker 2: Just just don't pay it to the yeah face, don't

599
00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:47,800
Speaker 2: watch me doing my little split squats and with my

600
00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:49,840
Speaker 2: ten pound dumbbells.

601
00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:52,080
Speaker 4: Breathing now like you're in Lama's class.

602
00:26:54,119 --> 00:26:56,600
Speaker 2: Whitney Carson says her kids were asked to be quiet.

603
00:26:56,640 --> 00:26:59,199
Speaker 2: I'm a thirteen hour flight. Put some freaking ear plugs

604
00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:00,960
Speaker 2: in question for you guys, to be honest, is it

605
00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:03,000
Speaker 2: appropriate to ask for a child to be quiet for

606
00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:06,840
Speaker 2: the entire thirteen hour flight? She said, Jet was playing

607
00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:08,639
Speaker 2: and giggling with me, and we were asked to be

608
00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:11,040
Speaker 2: quiet because a man upfront said he was trying to rest.

609
00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:13,000
Speaker 2: She says, I totally get it if there needs to

610
00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:14,800
Speaker 2: be a certain time where we need to sleep, but

611
00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:16,800
Speaker 2: it's in the middle of the day. Arson said on

612
00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:19,639
Speaker 2: a Sunday, I'm a big advocate of worry about things

613
00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:21,840
Speaker 2: that are in your control and put some fricking ear

614
00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:25,240
Speaker 2: plugs in. Am I being crazy? In a fall up side,

615
00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:27,920
Speaker 2: Carson reveal that a flight attendant allegedly kept shushing her

616
00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:30,639
Speaker 2: son throughout the flight. I got up and asked the

617
00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:33,200
Speaker 2: aircraft employee if there were certain times in the flight

618
00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:35,919
Speaker 2: we needed to be quiet and we'd respect that. The

619
00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:38,439
Speaker 2: pro dancer added, if not, I don't expect my children

620
00:27:38,640 --> 00:27:40,720
Speaker 2: children to sit quietly for thirteen hours.

621
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Speaker 3: Okay, bye, I'm done what she said.

622
00:27:44,080 --> 00:27:46,040
Speaker 2: They were flying from Australia because they went to go

623
00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:50,199
Speaker 2: see her Robert Irwin in Australia.

624
00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:54,080
Speaker 1: So it was a flight attendant that it was a passenger.

625
00:27:54,320 --> 00:27:57,240
Speaker 2: It was both, so I've been watching I saw. I

626
00:27:57,480 --> 00:27:59,439
Speaker 2: followed up on the rant too. So first it was

627
00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:02,040
Speaker 2: the flight attend and a handent. So I was a

628
00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:04,840
Speaker 2: flight attendant because the man said he was trying to

629
00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:07,480
Speaker 2: sleep to the flight attendant then passed on that message.

630
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:10,840
Speaker 2: But apparently there was a woman or man behind her

631
00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:13,160
Speaker 2: husband that was wearing a mask that said, it looks

632
00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:15,200
Speaker 2: like your son is sick, Can your kid please put

633
00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:18,560
Speaker 2: a mask on? And the husband was like, not sick,

634
00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:22,040
Speaker 2: just been on a flight for thirteen hours, you know.

635
00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:22,960
Speaker 1: Yeah.

636
00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:27,760
Speaker 2: So my thoughts is that if it is during the

637
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:31,440
Speaker 2: sleep time of when it would be sleepy sleepy time,

638
00:28:32,119 --> 00:28:36,160
Speaker 2: to maybe do something quiet activities with the kid at

639
00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:41,400
Speaker 2: least or yes, as best as possible possible, But sounds

640
00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:45,760
Speaker 2: like this was during the day. And I know Whitney

641
00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:48,680
Speaker 2: like she's she's you know, she's she's a great mom,

642
00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:52,360
Speaker 2: all the things, and I don't see that she's she's

643
00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:53,840
Speaker 2: not trying to throw a party in the seat, you.

644
00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:54,360
Speaker 4: Know what I mean?

645
00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:58,720
Speaker 2: And who expects a child to sit listen? We're going

646
00:28:58,800 --> 00:29:01,400
Speaker 2: to if we go to Scotland. Roman's not staying quiet

647
00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:03,360
Speaker 2: for ten hours.

648
00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:05,040
Speaker 1: Yeah.

649
00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:07,320
Speaker 4: In fact, there's adults that also don't stay quiet for

650
00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:10,160
Speaker 4: ten hours. Yeah, there's some loud talkers. Loud talkers.

651
00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:10,480
Speaker 3: Yeah.

652
00:29:10,520 --> 00:29:12,840
Speaker 2: I remember a red Eye flight one time and the

653
00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:15,280
Speaker 2: guy in front they were having a whole conversation for

654
00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:16,680
Speaker 2: the whole flight, very loud.

655
00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:19,640
Speaker 3: But that's their choice, that's their seat.

656
00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:24,120
Speaker 1: Yeah. I just don't know where there's like these rules

657
00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:27,400
Speaker 1: so much on a plane. So if I'm bothered, then

658
00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:30,760
Speaker 1: I feel like I have to control that in my

659
00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:33,600
Speaker 1: own way, put in headphones or whatever, even if someone's

660
00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:37,240
Speaker 1: talking on like it can be frustrating. But what makes

661
00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:41,160
Speaker 1: me trying to sleep more important than a child trying

662
00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:42,520
Speaker 1: to have fun? On a third, I don't know. I

663
00:29:42,560 --> 00:29:44,959
Speaker 1: just don't see where that, to me gets to be, Like, no,

664
00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:48,560
Speaker 1: one's more important in this situation, and you just control

665
00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:49,360
Speaker 1: what you can control.

666
00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:51,680
Speaker 4: This happened to us just recently because we flew home

667
00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:53,920
Speaker 4: on the last flight out from Tampa to Nashville a

668
00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:57,400
Speaker 4: couple of weeks ago. And I don't know why. I

669
00:29:57,560 --> 00:30:00,040
Speaker 4: just assumed that Lyon would just take a nap. I

670
00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:02,240
Speaker 4: just figured it was late enough, she had had such

671
00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:05,000
Speaker 4: a full day, for sure she would just be out

672
00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:09,320
Speaker 4: homegirl just spiraled. And the great news for us is

673
00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:11,080
Speaker 4: that three rows ahead of us there was a child

674
00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:13,600
Speaker 4: that just absolutely was losing it the entire time. I

675
00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:15,640
Speaker 4: felt so bad for these parents because you could tell

676
00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:17,600
Speaker 4: it's like through their ears hurt, are they you know,

677
00:30:17,760 --> 00:30:21,240
Speaker 4: just whatever. But we got to the end of the flight,

678
00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:23,320
Speaker 4: and you know, at one point, Liane is like kicking

679
00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:25,080
Speaker 4: the chair in front of us, and I'm like, oh,

680
00:30:25,120 --> 00:30:27,960
Speaker 4: this is like my nightmare, right, because etiquette always matters

681
00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:30,520
Speaker 4: to me, and being respectful of everyone always matters to us.

682
00:30:30,560 --> 00:30:34,120
Speaker 4: And so I grabbed her and I said her back

683
00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:35,920
Speaker 4: in the chair, and I was trying to do everything

684
00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:37,920
Speaker 4: within my power to keep her like just tidy. And

685
00:30:37,960 --> 00:30:40,000
Speaker 4: this is only just a couple hours. I can't imagine thirteen.

686
00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:42,320
Speaker 4: So we landed and the girl in front and she

687
00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:44,000
Speaker 4: had her headphones on the whole time, this woman in

688
00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:46,880
Speaker 4: front of us, And so finally we landed and I said,

689
00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:49,760
Speaker 4: I just want to thank you for being so gracious

690
00:30:49,840 --> 00:30:52,160
Speaker 4: with this sweet passenger in nine A.

691
00:30:52,440 --> 00:30:53,280
Speaker 1: She's a train wreck.

692
00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:55,840
Speaker 4: And she laughed and she said she was younger, like

693
00:30:55,880 --> 00:30:58,800
Speaker 4: a high school and she said, I'm pretty sure I've

694
00:30:58,800 --> 00:30:59,920
Speaker 4: done that on a flight in my life.

695
00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:02,560
Speaker 1: And I was like, you have a really good mom,

696
00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:05,440
Speaker 1: like yeah, and I.

697
00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:07,800
Speaker 4: Just you forget, like I like, I had to remind

698
00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:09,360
Speaker 4: somebody once in a flight it was actually to go

699
00:31:09,360 --> 00:31:11,680
Speaker 4: see Janna when or when love Bug was really little.

700
00:31:12,120 --> 00:31:13,440
Speaker 4: This guy just kept getting looks and I was like,

701
00:31:13,520 --> 00:31:15,280
Speaker 4: do you realize at some point like you were also

702
00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:18,000
Speaker 4: this yep, yeah, you were this age and you were

703
00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:20,880
Speaker 4: not impeccable, I can almost promise, so like, just can

704
00:31:20,920 --> 00:31:23,520
Speaker 4: you just give us a minute, we're trying again.

705
00:31:23,560 --> 00:31:26,320
Speaker 2: I think it's if the parent, If the kid is

706
00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:29,840
Speaker 2: screaming the entire flight and the parent isn't doing anything

707
00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:32,840
Speaker 2: about it, That's where I usually get a little frustrated.

708
00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:36,239
Speaker 2: It's like or if they're continuously kicking the seed, or

709
00:31:36,280 --> 00:31:38,480
Speaker 2: like I'm very cautious of making sure Roman does not

710
00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:40,080
Speaker 2: touch the seat in front of him, yes, or he's

711
00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:42,880
Speaker 2: kicking because I know that's not enjoy Yeah, it's just

712
00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:45,880
Speaker 2: as long as you're being respectful. That's all you can

713
00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:48,200
Speaker 2: ask of the parent is just to be aware and

714
00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:51,880
Speaker 2: being respectful. But I don't think anybody should be shushed ever.

715
00:31:52,920 --> 00:31:55,080
Speaker 2: I just don't have the bravery to shush someone either.

716
00:31:55,480 --> 00:31:58,280
Speaker 2: I can't imagine that when someone doesn't put their ear

717
00:31:58,320 --> 00:32:01,160
Speaker 2: plugs in when they're watching something on a plane. That

718
00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:03,960
Speaker 2: drives me a little crazy because it's like situational awareness

719
00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:06,920
Speaker 2: with that too correct. But I also have in ears

720
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:11,320
Speaker 2: that I can put in, Like to your point, you know, yeah, because.

721
00:32:11,040 --> 00:32:12,960
Speaker 1: There are things that are going to frustrate us, I

722
00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:16,320
Speaker 1: mean obviously, but again, what I just can't imagine telling

723
00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:17,160
Speaker 1: somebody he's.

724
00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:20,800
Speaker 4: A perfect candidate for a private Jet. Yeah, and that's

725
00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:24,720
Speaker 4: my final say on that. Like, dude, if I'm on Southwest,

726
00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:25,800
Speaker 4: I know what I signed up for.

727
00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:26,760
Speaker 1: I know, right right?

728
00:32:39,920 --> 00:32:43,440
Speaker 2: Uh. Dakota Johnson dating much younger younger singer role Model

729
00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:45,920
Speaker 2: after split with Cold placed Chris Martin over age gap.

730
00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:48,960
Speaker 2: So Dakota and Chris ended their eight year relationship and

731
00:32:49,040 --> 00:32:51,640
Speaker 2: engagement after Johnson called the quits because of their age gap.

732
00:32:51,680 --> 00:32:54,600
Speaker 3: Because of their age gap? What was their age gap?

733
00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:55,640
Speaker 1: That was my question.

734
00:32:56,080 --> 00:32:58,360
Speaker 2: Johnson has been very open about the topic of children,

735
00:32:58,480 --> 00:33:01,800
Speaker 2: wanting to experience everything that like life has to offer.

736
00:33:03,160 --> 00:33:04,560
Speaker 3: And having children of her own.

737
00:33:05,440 --> 00:33:09,000
Speaker 2: So she's now out with this guy who's twenty eight

738
00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:14,720
Speaker 2: since December. Would people be commenting on this relationship with

739
00:33:14,760 --> 00:33:18,400
Speaker 2: the age gap? Roles reversed, No, No, they sure wouldn't.

740
00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:18,600
Speaker 4: No.

741
00:33:19,040 --> 00:33:22,680
Speaker 1: Also, role Model's precious, that's that's his name. He's so cute.

742
00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:23,520
Speaker 3: I just looked him up.

743
00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:25,280
Speaker 1: He's cute and we love his music.

744
00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:26,720
Speaker 3: It would make real cute babies.

745
00:33:27,480 --> 00:33:29,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's I don't know, he's just cute.

746
00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:34,200
Speaker 4: And I also think sometimes artsier more in tune guys

747
00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:36,800
Speaker 4: are just a little more emotionally intelligent, like you know,

748
00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:39,680
Speaker 4: And so I'm sure he presents older than twenty eight

749
00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:41,840
Speaker 4: in more ways than one.

750
00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:47,160
Speaker 2: You know, Dakota Johnson's grown on me over the years. Yeah,

751
00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:51,360
Speaker 2: at first, I wasn't not obsessed, No, just because she

752
00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:53,640
Speaker 2: put off like not the like the super warm.

753
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:55,560
Speaker 3: But I just I love her work.

754
00:33:55,600 --> 00:33:57,800
Speaker 2: And now I'm just like, she seems like a cool check,

755
00:33:57,880 --> 00:33:59,840
Speaker 2: like someone who's just like, no bullshit.

756
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:04,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, just date role model, go ahead, girl, And she

757
00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:05,320
Speaker 4: seems really cool.

758
00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:05,800
Speaker 1: I don't know.

759
00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:10,120
Speaker 2: And so I I think there's no issue dating a

760
00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:12,839
Speaker 2: younger dude and it doesn't matter. But if yes, if

761
00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:15,480
Speaker 2: it was reverse, people would not speak about it, unless

762
00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:18,520
Speaker 2: it's like Leo and his young girls, because then they

763
00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:22,000
Speaker 2: always talk about that. Nicki Glazer says, is that's all

764
00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:23,600
Speaker 2: we got, buddy. You don't talk about it like we

765
00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:26,799
Speaker 2: don't know anything else about you. Yeah, it's funny. She's like,

766
00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:30,239
Speaker 2: that's literally all we know about you. True though, so

767
00:34:30,400 --> 00:34:35,000
Speaker 2: funny something to go. But I mean, what eight nine

768
00:34:35,040 --> 00:34:37,120
Speaker 2: years that's not I mean, it's not even that. Chris

769
00:34:37,120 --> 00:34:38,600
Speaker 2: Martin and then the had a ten year difference, but

770
00:34:38,640 --> 00:34:43,719
Speaker 2: that didn't even to me. That's not that huge, No.

771
00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:46,200
Speaker 1: And I just they broke up over their age gap.

772
00:34:46,280 --> 00:34:49,880
Speaker 2: And then he was older though, right, yeah, he was older.

773
00:34:50,480 --> 00:34:51,680
Speaker 2: Maybe he didn't want kids.

774
00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:53,359
Speaker 1: Too, Yeah to say it sounds like there was maybe

775
00:34:53,400 --> 00:34:53,799
Speaker 1: more to that.

776
00:34:55,080 --> 00:34:56,120
Speaker 3: He didn't want any more kids.

777
00:34:56,200 --> 00:35:02,120
Speaker 2: Ah makes sense that I wonder if that changed, you know,

778
00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:04,120
Speaker 2: because obviously if you're going to stay with someone for

779
00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:08,040
Speaker 2: a long time, Yeah, that's yeah, ten.

780
00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:10,160
Speaker 4: Years is a big it's a gap went like even

781
00:35:10,640 --> 00:35:12,040
Speaker 4: for Preston and I and he never likes me to

782
00:35:12,040 --> 00:35:14,320
Speaker 4: talk about his age, but we're like eight years different.

783
00:35:15,719 --> 00:35:17,279
Speaker 3: I didn't even know that. Mm hmm.

784
00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:20,920
Speaker 1: That's something. It doesn't really an eight nine year difference

785
00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:23,319
Speaker 1: when we're this age, doesn't. I wouldn't have I would

786
00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:25,400
Speaker 1: never I would. I don't know. I don't know what

787
00:35:25,480 --> 00:35:26,920
Speaker 1: I thought. How Yeah, I don't think about home.

788
00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:29,200
Speaker 4: And it's interesting because my ex and I were he

789
00:35:29,239 --> 00:35:30,040
Speaker 4: was five years younger.

790
00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:33,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think anything over like fifteen twenty, you start

791
00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:39,120
Speaker 2: to maybe notice. But yeah, again, that to me, like

792
00:35:39,200 --> 00:35:43,640
Speaker 2: who who cares? And I hope they have a beautiful little.

793
00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:45,759
Speaker 1: Unless they're like acting like a child or something and

794
00:35:45,800 --> 00:35:48,080
Speaker 1: being super immature and she's you know, I mean, what's

795
00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:49,319
Speaker 1: the problem. Yeah, I don't know.

796
00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:54,400
Speaker 3: That'd be hard though to date privately.

797
00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:56,520
Speaker 1: We yeah, I mean it's.

798
00:35:56,440 --> 00:36:00,160
Speaker 4: You would know better than anybody here dating anyone for

799
00:36:00,239 --> 00:36:01,960
Speaker 4: any type of spotlight person.

800
00:36:02,000 --> 00:36:04,280
Speaker 1: It's just so difficult. It's just not fair. Really.

801
00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:07,680
Speaker 3: Some of the dates that I went on were kept

802
00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:08,719
Speaker 3: private though.

803
00:36:08,719 --> 00:36:11,520
Speaker 4: You and me both Kramer, but that does not keep

804
00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:13,240
Speaker 4: it from coming out on the wine down stage.

805
00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:14,920
Speaker 1: And that's my favorite part about tour.

806
00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:21,759
Speaker 2: Sure, I have a daughter. I have a daughter the

807
00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:24,839
Speaker 2: same age as Jolie in love. I guess Ramsey there

808
00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:27,920
Speaker 2: were go another January twenty sixteen, baby, She came home

809
00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:30,839
Speaker 2: in the fall telling me some of her friends shave

810
00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:33,600
Speaker 2: their legs at nine years old. I was super surprised

811
00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:35,640
Speaker 2: to hear her telling me that, am I way off here?

812
00:36:35,680 --> 00:36:37,800
Speaker 2: Does it feel like girls are growing up too fast?

813
00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:40,840
Speaker 2: What age are we starting to shave our legs these days?

814
00:36:40,840 --> 00:36:44,120
Speaker 2: I feel as I was much older. So Jolie actually

815
00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:46,880
Speaker 2: just came to me and asked the same question. She said, Mommy,

816
00:36:47,560 --> 00:36:49,319
Speaker 2: can I shave my legs? I actually told her no,

817
00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:55,560
Speaker 2: because I think fourth grade is personally too young. I

818
00:36:55,600 --> 00:37:00,359
Speaker 2: didn't start shaving until middle school, sixth grade. But I said,

819
00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:03,160
Speaker 2: we can revisit next year if it's something that is

820
00:37:03,160 --> 00:37:05,879
Speaker 2: like bothering you. But I think you are totally fine,

821
00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:07,560
Speaker 2: and I just think it. Mike and I had a

822
00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:11,000
Speaker 2: conversation actually before we made that decision, because I said, hey,

823
00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:12,360
Speaker 2: what do you think this is where I'm leaning and

824
00:37:12,400 --> 00:37:13,200
Speaker 2: he said the same thing.

825
00:37:13,440 --> 00:37:17,760
Speaker 4: So I do think that they are growing up faster,

826
00:37:19,000 --> 00:37:20,560
Speaker 4: and I don't love that. I was also in middle

827
00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:23,400
Speaker 4: school and I just remember that my friends were doing it.

828
00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:25,399
Speaker 4: This is actually one of the one of my core

829
00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:27,799
Speaker 4: memories of empowering myself because I remember I went to

830
00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:31,160
Speaker 4: Bamtzvah and it was a pool party and I was

831
00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:33,040
Speaker 4: the only one that didn't shave legs. And I've I've

832
00:37:33,080 --> 00:37:35,560
Speaker 4: always been lucky to have like light haired legs, but

833
00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:38,000
Speaker 4: I remember it hitting the water and just feeling a

834
00:37:38,000 --> 00:37:40,520
Speaker 4: little extra glistening and like weird. And so I came

835
00:37:40,560 --> 00:37:42,600
Speaker 4: home and told my mom listen because I had asked,

836
00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:44,680
Speaker 4: and she said no. And I finally came home and said,

837
00:37:44,719 --> 00:37:46,800
Speaker 4: I'm shaving my legs and you can be with me

838
00:37:46,960 --> 00:37:48,920
Speaker 4: or you can be without me. Yeah, got a girl,

839
00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:51,640
Speaker 4: and I did it, and I but also sixth grade,

840
00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:53,560
Speaker 4: I mean, that's that feels fair.

841
00:37:53,640 --> 00:37:54,280
Speaker 3: It might be different.

842
00:37:54,280 --> 00:37:59,359
Speaker 1: In the cheer, I started shaving in fifth grade. All

843
00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:01,480
Speaker 1: of everyone and I do kind of did it fifth grade.

844
00:38:01,520 --> 00:38:06,319
Speaker 1: I don't know why. Emmy's is really really light, and

845
00:38:06,360 --> 00:38:08,360
Speaker 1: she asked me in fourth grade and at first I

846
00:38:08,400 --> 00:38:10,399
Speaker 1: said no, but then I was like, but I don't

847
00:38:10,400 --> 00:38:12,640
Speaker 1: really have a reason, you know, because that's where I

848
00:38:12,719 --> 00:38:14,239
Speaker 1: kind of go. I'm like, I don't really have a reason.

849
00:38:14,280 --> 00:38:15,839
Speaker 1: I was like, so if you want to try it,

850
00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:18,239
Speaker 1: I was like, that's fine. So she did. So she

851
00:38:18,280 --> 00:38:20,040
Speaker 1: did in fourth grade, but then she kind of stopped

852
00:38:20,040 --> 00:38:21,600
Speaker 1: doing it because her hair is so light, like she

853
00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:23,439
Speaker 1: can go right now without it is a little different

854
00:38:23,480 --> 00:38:25,680
Speaker 1: in the cheer world though, it is. I mean, especially

855
00:38:25,680 --> 00:38:28,960
Speaker 1: as a flyer, they literally have grab the grabbing their lights.

856
00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:31,200
Speaker 1: So that's why I did let her. But then she

857
00:38:31,320 --> 00:38:33,239
Speaker 1: realized it was light and no one really cared. And

858
00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:35,560
Speaker 1: the cheerworld, guess what, a lot of people just don't care.

859
00:38:35,600 --> 00:38:38,160
Speaker 1: They're so used to being like all in your you know,

860
00:38:38,200 --> 00:38:40,239
Speaker 1: they're all up in your business. They really don't care.

861
00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:42,239
Speaker 1: So there are days where I'll look over and I'm like, Immy,

862
00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:45,279
Speaker 1: you should probably shape. But her hair is so light now,

863
00:38:45,360 --> 00:38:48,680
Speaker 1: Ramseys is really really dark. When she asks me when

864
00:38:48,719 --> 00:38:51,360
Speaker 1: she's uncomfortable with it. I will let her at this

865
00:38:51,480 --> 00:38:55,840
Speaker 1: point absolutely for me, because I know with the really

866
00:38:55,920 --> 00:38:58,600
Speaker 1: dark hair, girl got dark and it can't get very well.

867
00:38:58,640 --> 00:39:01,560
Speaker 1: I can't get insecure about it. And I also knew

868
00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:04,720
Speaker 1: some people whose parents had said no, so they started

869
00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:06,319
Speaker 1: just doing it on their own because they were really

870
00:39:06,320 --> 00:39:08,680
Speaker 1: insecure about it. So I just think it depends. I

871
00:39:08,680 --> 00:39:11,279
Speaker 1: think it depends on the kid, and it is a

872
00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:14,920
Speaker 1: lot of responsibility to keep up with. And I so

873
00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:17,120
Speaker 1: with Emmy doing it in fourth grade, she realized that

874
00:39:17,239 --> 00:39:19,120
Speaker 1: and she was like, this is way too much work.

875
00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:20,000
Speaker 3: I don't even like doing it.

876
00:39:20,120 --> 00:39:21,000
Speaker 1: Exactly. I don't either.

877
00:39:21,200 --> 00:39:23,960
Speaker 4: I forgot to do it for a couple of weeks

878
00:39:24,680 --> 00:39:26,920
Speaker 4: with the disaster and all the things, the yikes.

879
00:39:27,040 --> 00:39:29,440
Speaker 1: I was like, Ramsey has mentioned it, but hasn't She

880
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Speaker 1: just has said when? And I said, well, probably fifth grade,

881
00:39:31,680 --> 00:39:34,200
Speaker 1: And I said, you know, but she didn't seem insecure

882
00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:36,520
Speaker 1: about it or worried about it, so we didn't. But

883
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Speaker 1: if she was, if it felt like an insecurity thing,

884
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Speaker 1: I would let her, so.

885
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Speaker 4: Dear listener. In conclusion, we do think everyone's growing up

886
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Speaker 4: too fast.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I think, yeah, I definitely agree, But I guess

888
00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:51,200
Speaker 1: for me since I did in fifth grade. Fourth doesn't

889
00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:55,359
Speaker 1: seem that much off. Yeah, well so doctor complainitely, right,

890
00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:56,799
Speaker 1: I had really dark hair too. I mean I have

891
00:39:56,880 --> 00:39:59,279
Speaker 1: really dark yeah hair too, So I think I think

892
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Speaker 1: that can matter.

893
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think.

894
00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:01,680
Speaker 1: I don't know.

895
00:40:01,719 --> 00:40:03,040
Speaker 4: I guess I just get to the point where it's like,

896
00:40:03,080 --> 00:40:05,840
Speaker 4: if there's anything she's going to be overly embarrassed about

897
00:40:05,920 --> 00:40:08,520
Speaker 4: and it can be preventative, then I usually just take

898
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Speaker 4: it with a deeper consideration.

899
00:40:09,760 --> 00:40:13,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it hurt them or yeah.

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00:40:13,160 --> 00:40:14,400
Speaker 3: For sure. That's why I was like, can we just

901
00:40:14,400 --> 00:40:14,920
Speaker 3: revisit this?

902
00:40:15,040 --> 00:40:17,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, And it doesn't sound like Dollie's worried about it. No,

903
00:40:17,560 --> 00:40:20,160
Speaker 1: you know, so just I that's kind of been my thing.

904
00:40:20,239 --> 00:40:22,560
Speaker 1: I would like fifth But if it becomes a discussion

905
00:40:22,640 --> 00:40:24,680
Speaker 1: and whatever, then we'll.

906
00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:24,759
Speaker 3: Deal with it.

907
00:40:25,239 --> 00:40:28,120
Speaker 4: Sweet babies, of course, because no one wants to be guys.

908
00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:29,920
Speaker 4: Our girls shaving their legs is just a lot for

909
00:40:29,960 --> 00:40:30,719
Speaker 4: me to process.

910
00:40:31,160 --> 00:40:34,280
Speaker 3: They're so big. Yeah, and I also, yeah they are.

911
00:40:34,360 --> 00:40:36,440
Speaker 1: I know, it's crazy, we're getting bigger.

912
00:40:36,719 --> 00:40:38,879
Speaker 3: Leah's at that's a big girl the.

913
00:40:38,800 --> 00:40:41,640
Speaker 1: Big girl thing. It definitely feels like a big girl

914
00:40:41,640 --> 00:40:44,040
Speaker 1: thing when they start shaving their legs, for sure.

915
00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:46,560
Speaker 2: We'll love has had to start to wear deodorant. Well,

916
00:40:46,719 --> 00:40:51,000
Speaker 2: that's that's that's the thing that we've been doing. She

917
00:40:51,080 --> 00:40:53,360
Speaker 2: has to you know, shower every night now, and you

918
00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:56,719
Speaker 2: know her her hormones are changing. Gloves are pretty it

919
00:40:56,760 --> 00:41:01,080
Speaker 2: got pretty stinky. But where I get trigger. So Jace

920
00:41:01,120 --> 00:41:03,799
Speaker 2: has a very sensitive little nose, and so he's always like,

921
00:41:04,680 --> 00:41:07,839
Speaker 2: you stink. And I remember again what my ex would

922
00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:11,000
Speaker 2: say to me, and it became such a complex to me. Again,

923
00:41:11,080 --> 00:41:13,720
Speaker 2: Alan's always like, you smell amazing, You've got a great smell.

924
00:41:13,800 --> 00:41:16,279
Speaker 2: But because I have that in my brain so much,

925
00:41:16,320 --> 00:41:19,600
Speaker 2: I was like jac like, we cannot say that to

926
00:41:19,680 --> 00:41:22,040
Speaker 2: Jolie because I don't want her also having a complex.

927
00:41:22,120 --> 00:41:24,520
Speaker 2: Like obviously I until Jace about my complex. Right, it's dad,

928
00:41:24,600 --> 00:41:28,400
Speaker 2: But like I also just said, like, that's not something

929
00:41:28,440 --> 00:41:29,200
Speaker 2: we say to girls.

930
00:41:29,440 --> 00:41:30,320
Speaker 3: I don't say you stink.

931
00:41:30,520 --> 00:41:33,040
Speaker 2: You know, if it's really bothering you that bad, come

932
00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:34,680
Speaker 2: talk to me and then I can be like, hey, Julie,

933
00:41:34,680 --> 00:41:37,719
Speaker 2: did you remember to do it or not? Because we

934
00:41:37,719 --> 00:41:41,200
Speaker 2: had a family sleepover last night and because they've been

935
00:41:41,239 --> 00:41:43,799
Speaker 2: asking forever and so with them not having school, I'm like,

936
00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:46,839
Speaker 2: all right, let's we can all sleep in the bed

937
00:41:46,920 --> 00:41:48,880
Speaker 2: or whatever, and so they all come in the bebby

938
00:41:48,880 --> 00:41:53,440
Speaker 2: watch a movie and Jace that's we had to have

939
00:41:53,480 --> 00:41:56,120
Speaker 2: the conversation again because he was like, did you shower?

940
00:41:56,280 --> 00:41:56,720
Speaker 3: You stink?

941
00:41:56,760 --> 00:41:58,359
Speaker 2: And I was like, buddy, and then that's a alan

942
00:41:58,440 --> 00:41:59,920
Speaker 2: her and He's like, we don't say that to girls,

943
00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:00,319
Speaker 2: you know.

944
00:42:00,520 --> 00:42:01,640
Speaker 3: I was like, I know, I know, I know.

945
00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:03,279
Speaker 4: I'm even careful about the way I say it to

946
00:42:03,360 --> 00:42:05,799
Speaker 4: love because I don't want to be like, hey, it's hard, yeah,

947
00:42:05,840 --> 00:42:07,640
Speaker 4: but I mean it is. It's wild because I don't

948
00:42:07,680 --> 00:42:10,600
Speaker 4: ever remember, and it could be possible that I had that.

949
00:42:10,680 --> 00:42:14,160
Speaker 1: I don't remember it being this young. I can remember,

950
00:42:14,480 --> 00:42:16,879
Speaker 1: but I was middle school and I was like, why

951
00:42:16,920 --> 00:42:19,880
Speaker 1: did my mother like if I smelled it myself? Like

952
00:42:19,920 --> 00:42:22,799
Speaker 1: I can remember smelling it myself and that's so gross, right,

953
00:42:22,840 --> 00:42:29,080
Speaker 1: And I mean I'm obsessed with the odorants.

954
00:42:26,880 --> 00:42:29,319
Speaker 3: Like that's how but I'm like a mother.

955
00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:31,600
Speaker 1: I gotch have, yeah, Like my mother should have said

956
00:42:31,640 --> 00:42:33,880
Speaker 1: something to me and made sure that I was wearing deodorant.

957
00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:36,280
Speaker 1: Like there comes a point where like they don't realize

958
00:42:36,320 --> 00:42:38,480
Speaker 1: it yet, they don't realize there, so you kind of

959
00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:39,960
Speaker 1: got to help them out a little.

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00:42:39,719 --> 00:42:41,880
Speaker 2: Bit, you just find a good deodorant, because I was

961
00:42:42,200 --> 00:42:45,040
Speaker 2: letting her use the one that I didn't add for

962
00:42:45,160 --> 00:42:46,319
Speaker 2: and I actually like them for her.

963
00:42:47,239 --> 00:42:48,920
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I can't remember the name of them.

964
00:42:48,960 --> 00:42:49,120
Speaker 3: Yeah.

965
00:42:49,120 --> 00:42:52,320
Speaker 4: Shoot, I like Jukebox right now for love juke Box.

966
00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:55,440
Speaker 4: It seems it's a natural and it smells really pretty

967
00:42:55,440 --> 00:42:55,880
Speaker 4: and girly.

968
00:42:56,280 --> 00:42:58,600
Speaker 1: I just don't feel like natural ones work, so I've

969
00:42:58,600 --> 00:42:59,840
Speaker 1: tried all the natural ones on.

970
00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:02,120
Speaker 2: I tried the one that it lasted because it's actually

971
00:43:02,160 --> 00:43:03,040
Speaker 2: I don't try it.

972
00:43:03,040 --> 00:43:03,839
Speaker 3: It's it's pretty good.

973
00:43:03,880 --> 00:43:04,319
Speaker 1: I'll try it.

974
00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:04,799
Speaker 3: It works well.

975
00:43:04,800 --> 00:43:07,880
Speaker 2: I just can't name both both, but like not if

976
00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:09,160
Speaker 2: I'm working out right.

977
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Speaker 1: I mean I got it, like I mean like an

978
00:43:11,040 --> 00:43:13,880
Speaker 1: aluminum free one, and Emmy was like, didn't realize it.

979
00:43:13,920 --> 00:43:16,000
Speaker 1: And then after practice she was like, hey Mom, I'm

980
00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:18,000
Speaker 1: not trying to be rude, but like this wasn't the

981
00:43:18,080 --> 00:43:21,160
Speaker 1: right deodorant. I was like, I tried it. I'm so sorry. Yeah,

982
00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:23,960
Speaker 1: center to practice, and I was like, I am so sorry.

983
00:43:24,120 --> 00:43:26,360
Speaker 1: Wrong one. Back to the guys. We're in it.

984
00:43:26,480 --> 00:43:30,439
Speaker 3: We are in it, but we're going to be smelling good.

985
00:43:30,760 --> 00:43:33,239
Speaker 4: Yeah, we just got It's it's wild because I think

986
00:43:33,280 --> 00:43:37,600
Speaker 4: we sometimes parent to protect them from the embarrassment that

987
00:43:37,640 --> 00:43:38,080
Speaker 4: we had.

988
00:43:38,200 --> 00:43:39,879
Speaker 1: That is like ninety percent of.

989
00:43:39,960 --> 00:43:42,960
Speaker 4: Parent Yeah, and then like I remember the core things

990
00:43:42,960 --> 00:43:45,640
Speaker 4: that just really left Mark, like no boobs, Dan Huddleston,

991
00:43:45,680 --> 00:43:47,480
Speaker 4: wherever you are telling me I was a carpenter's dream

992
00:43:47,480 --> 00:43:48,680
Speaker 4: flood as a board, shame on you.

993
00:43:48,880 --> 00:43:49,080
Speaker 3: Yeah.

994
00:43:49,080 --> 00:43:51,600
Speaker 4: And I feel like I'm always parenting like proactively to

995
00:43:51,719 --> 00:43:54,600
Speaker 4: like not let her feel that way because it's just such.

996
00:43:54,320 --> 00:43:57,160
Speaker 2: A My guy's name was Bobby. I won't say his

997
00:43:57,200 --> 00:43:59,880
Speaker 2: last name, but I just ripped him. He took a binder,

998
00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:01,919
Speaker 2: he took his hand, and he went like that, No.

999
00:44:02,440 --> 00:44:04,719
Speaker 1: Everyone did that. That's so mean.

1000
00:44:05,280 --> 00:44:11,520
Speaker 2: Look at my little natrels Now. Bobby also shaved up to.

1001
00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:13,439
Speaker 1: Be a really good man. At least that's my peer.

1002
00:44:13,680 --> 00:44:13,759
Speaker 4: Ye.

1003
00:44:14,120 --> 00:44:17,640
Speaker 1: He's probably a dad of like all girls. Now he's like,

1004
00:44:17,800 --> 00:44:18,560
Speaker 1: you busted me.

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00:44:19,719 --> 00:44:20,680
Speaker 3: See y'all next week.

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Speaker 4: Bye,