WEBVTT - Ep. 76 — A Very Brown Ambition Wedding 0:00:16.280 --> 0:00:21.239 Dunn dunta da, dun dunt da. 0:00:22.120 --> 0:00:22.880 You've married. 0:00:22.960 --> 0:00:26.120 Now I'm a married woman. 0:00:26.920 --> 0:00:28.040 No, that's so weird. 0:00:28.200 --> 0:00:29.320 I can't believe you're married. 0:00:30.080 --> 0:00:32.240 I can believe it because it was a lot of work. 0:00:34.440 --> 0:00:36.599 I feel married. I feel old. I feel like I've 0:00:36.680 --> 0:00:40.920 aged in like the best way. I may sound a 0:00:40.920 --> 0:00:44.000 little haggard, but we just we just flew back from 0:00:44.320 --> 0:00:49.200 beautiful Savannah where we had the wedding this uh, this afternoon, 0:00:49.240 --> 0:00:51.479 so we've been home for like all of two hours. 0:00:52.440 --> 0:00:56.319 And yeah, that happened. You were there, What was your 0:00:56.920 --> 0:00:58.240 Tell me how it went. I don't know. 0:00:59.480 --> 0:01:01.280 It's all are fun, so much fun. 0:01:01.360 --> 0:01:06.800 So one, your hands down, your Your ceremony was the 0:01:06.840 --> 0:01:09.600 best ceremony. I never attended, like usually the ceremonies like 0:01:09.680 --> 0:01:11.880 want want you like whatever, just let's cut this cake 0:01:11.880 --> 0:01:13.120 and eat this food and dance. 0:01:13.040 --> 0:01:18.200 You know. But no, the ceremony was huh lariya. So one, guys. 0:01:18.240 --> 0:01:23.320 It was in Savannah, which is already beautiful, and Mandy like, 0:01:23.360 --> 0:01:27.480 I guess you uh secured some trolleys. Savanna has trolleys 0:01:27.480 --> 0:01:32.360 that do like sightseeing tours, and so Mandy secured a 0:01:32.360 --> 0:01:34.600 trolley for her guests to go from downtown to where 0:01:34.640 --> 0:01:35.080 was the place. 0:01:35.160 --> 0:01:38.039 Hell, it's a it's a at a manner called the 0:01:38.080 --> 0:01:41.240 Macki House, which is like ten minutes outside of downtown. 0:01:41.840 --> 0:01:42.160 Uh huh. 0:01:42.160 --> 0:01:44.200 So it was really pretty. And then so you get there, 0:01:44.280 --> 0:01:46.280 you're like, oh, it's so nice. Everybody's bess all nice. 0:01:46.280 --> 0:01:49.920 I didn't know you did the trolley. Yeah, okay, keep going. 0:01:50.400 --> 0:01:53.360 And so so we got on the trolley and then 0:01:53.920 --> 0:01:56.200 we get them like ooh, this is pretty. It's outside, 0:01:56.640 --> 0:01:58.400 and so we're all sitting, you know, thinking this is 0:01:58.440 --> 0:02:02.960 gonna be this formal thing I see. I almost said, 0:02:03.120 --> 0:02:04.880 what are we gonna call him husbye husband boo? 0:02:05.200 --> 0:02:07.880 We're just gonna call him mister. Yeah, we'll just call 0:02:07.960 --> 0:02:09.920 him husbye Husbie. 0:02:10.080 --> 0:02:13.240 So you know your friend I forget her name, uh, 0:02:13.280 --> 0:02:19.280 the Nigerian one who read the lu Yeah, so Tulu 0:02:19.400 --> 0:02:21.079 that's her secret name for her boots. She's gonna be 0:02:21.120 --> 0:02:26.800 like they stole it. We did, so Husbie. 0:02:27.160 --> 0:02:28.639 You know, he's standing off to the side and. 0:02:28.600 --> 0:02:31.120 I was like, oh, he looks so like cool, calm 0:02:31.120 --> 0:02:34.280 and collected, and his boys were all behind him, and 0:02:35.080 --> 0:02:37.400 so one I thought it was hilarious. I was like 0:02:37.440 --> 0:02:40.080 the music was you know, you are so non traditional. 0:02:40.160 --> 0:02:44.840 The music was like like, wait for what part? I 0:02:44.880 --> 0:02:47.960 don't remember. The people like when when, like when your procession? 0:02:48.000 --> 0:02:50.320 Like walk down? They were like walking to a beat. 0:02:50.360 --> 0:02:52.240 You know, usually it saw a somber like. 0:02:53.240 --> 0:02:55.280 Oh yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, we picked a really 0:02:55.280 --> 0:02:56.760 cool song. Well I'm gonna say. 0:02:56.560 --> 0:02:58.919 Way, but it was me, but it was like the beat. 0:02:58.960 --> 0:03:01.400 They were walking like you you see me get into 0:03:01.440 --> 0:03:04.640 it walking down. Oh I wish they could have been 0:03:04.720 --> 0:03:09.000 there walking down aisle and they're walking to like a 0:03:09.040 --> 0:03:12.799 fucking little beat. I was like, okay, and then we're 0:03:12.800 --> 0:03:15.679 all waiting for Mandy and I'm like, whoo, how's Manny 0:03:15.720 --> 0:03:16.600 gonna look? Your dress? 0:03:16.600 --> 0:03:18.440 Honestly was everyone. 0:03:18.600 --> 0:03:20.239 People who didn't even know you were writing on my 0:03:20.280 --> 0:03:22.360 page because I posted it later. They were like, I 0:03:22.360 --> 0:03:25.000 don't know her, but that dress fit her perfectly. 0:03:25.080 --> 0:03:26.359 I mean, I'm not gonna lie. 0:03:26.480 --> 0:03:29.320 Not every wedding dress is great, but yours was beautiful 0:03:29.360 --> 0:03:32.040 and it fit you like it was like literally it 0:03:32.080 --> 0:03:33.959 looked custom made for your body. 0:03:34.160 --> 0:03:37.520 Well it was there enough money on tailoring that that 0:03:37.560 --> 0:03:39.000 makes me feel so justified. 0:03:39.320 --> 0:03:41.520 I know it was Honestly, it was perfect. And then 0:03:41.560 --> 0:03:42.320 your hair. I was wondering. 0:03:42.320 --> 0:03:43.960 I'm just like, ooh, how's Mandy gonna wear her hair? 0:03:44.000 --> 0:03:46.040 Because I know you're natural. I was like, is she 0:03:46.080 --> 0:03:48.480 gonna be curly? Like how's it gonna go? But honestly, 0:03:48.840 --> 0:03:51.080 that where you were, your hair was perfectly, like it 0:03:51.120 --> 0:03:54.360 fit them dressed perfectly because it was like old school 0:03:54.600 --> 0:03:56.560 yet like you know, I know you like you straightened it, 0:03:56.560 --> 0:03:58.360 but it wasn't like you got a perm but it like, 0:03:58.440 --> 0:04:00.280 you know, so you had fullness because you know, firms 0:04:00.280 --> 0:04:01.400 take away all the fullness. 0:04:02.520 --> 0:04:04.760 Yeah, no, it was perfect. And you had like this pretty. 0:04:04.480 --> 0:04:06.200 Little baret in the back that I like that held 0:04:06.240 --> 0:04:09.480 on to your your your your veil. 0:04:09.920 --> 0:04:11.760 That was my sister. She let me borrow it. 0:04:12.320 --> 0:04:14.240 Oh, it was really pretty. Honestly, it was perfect because 0:04:14.240 --> 0:04:15.800 you weren't working. You know, some people were like a 0:04:15.800 --> 0:04:17.960 lot of jewely. You weren't wearing like a lot of jewely, 0:04:17.960 --> 0:04:20.200 so it was a nice little like bejeweled touch. And 0:04:20.240 --> 0:04:24.680 I was like, oh, it's her dad gonna cry. Dad. 0:04:25.320 --> 0:04:28.080 My dad low Ki had probably like half a bottle 0:04:28.240 --> 0:04:30.800 of apple brandy before the wedding. 0:04:31.880 --> 0:04:32.640 He was hilarious. 0:04:32.640 --> 0:04:35.000 First of all, your dad was over there like getting 0:04:35.040 --> 0:04:37.000 something and your brother came because you guys were like 0:04:37.000 --> 0:04:38.920 after the wedding, so, well, what anyway during the wedding, 0:04:39.160 --> 0:04:39.920 you're officient? 0:04:40.000 --> 0:04:41.120 What do you call him? An afici? 0:04:43.560 --> 0:04:46.760 Right? So it was what was his name, Frank, Frank whatever? 0:04:46.960 --> 0:04:48.000 Really good friends? Frank. 0:04:48.080 --> 0:04:52.120 Yeah, amazed when I say amazing, amazing. First of all, 0:04:52.120 --> 0:04:53.800 I was like, Frank, you do this on the side 0:04:53.839 --> 0:04:55.920 or something, because I need to do my wedding. 0:04:56.240 --> 0:04:57.320 He was hilarious. 0:04:57.360 --> 0:05:00.719 So instead of doing a traditional sermon, did like the 0:05:00.800 --> 0:05:03.520 story of husband and Mandy how they met. 0:05:03.839 --> 0:05:06.159 But it was so funny. It was like sweet, it 0:05:06.200 --> 0:05:06.640 was funny. 0:05:06.640 --> 0:05:09.240 It was like every emotion we're all going through in 0:05:09.279 --> 0:05:11.840 the audience together and we were damn near hugged afterwards, 0:05:11.880 --> 0:05:12.599 like oh my. 0:05:12.520 --> 0:05:15.800 God, oh kind of make me cry again. I've been 0:05:15.880 --> 0:05:16.640 like such a wreck. 0:05:17.880 --> 0:05:20.960 It was so amazing, Yo, Frank was literally perfect. I 0:05:20.960 --> 0:05:23.320 mean perfect, because like I said, he was funny. He 0:05:23.400 --> 0:05:25.680 was a little irreverent, but then it was sweet. And 0:05:25.720 --> 0:05:27.640 then it was like, oh, it's just like all so 0:05:27.680 --> 0:05:31.159 many peaks and valleys and I was like, oh, like 0:05:31.240 --> 0:05:33.599 it was just such an awesome He did such a 0:05:33.640 --> 0:05:37.800 great job with the sermon part. And then Mandy, being Mandy, 0:05:37.839 --> 0:05:39.360 of course, was like, wait till I read my vows, 0:05:39.360 --> 0:05:40.880 you guys are gonna love that. She literally said that 0:05:40.960 --> 0:05:43.560 upside so I love that because that is so you 0:05:44.800 --> 0:05:45.800 and you're like, it's so good. 0:05:46.080 --> 0:05:47.000 They're so good. 0:05:47.480 --> 0:05:51.159 What I loved is that I loved how your vows 0:05:51.240 --> 0:05:56.320 and husband's vows that they weren't the same. But clearly 0:05:56.360 --> 0:06:00.760 you had a template because thing like that you didn't 0:06:00.839 --> 0:06:03.000 mean like a basic template like I promised you. I 0:06:03.040 --> 0:06:04.680 love the promises at the end that you guys made 0:06:04.720 --> 0:06:09.080 to each other. They were both really beautiful. And then yeah, 0:06:09.120 --> 0:06:12.640 it just was the service itself, like I said, I 0:06:12.680 --> 0:06:14.720 usually like usually the ceremony, I'm like I can take 0:06:14.760 --> 0:06:17.040 it or leave it. And then like where you had 0:06:17.120 --> 0:06:19.480 your reception, which is like right upstairs, which is great 0:06:19.520 --> 0:06:22.359 because I hate having to get into the car to drive. 0:06:23.760 --> 0:06:28.320 Totally agree on the sidebar. As we waited for the food, 0:06:28.400 --> 0:06:31.000 like the the appetizers were freaking yummy. 0:06:31.000 --> 0:06:32.760 People were like attacking the waiter. 0:06:32.920 --> 0:06:36.240 I thought so bad at them had like you had 0:06:36.320 --> 0:06:39.120 chicken and waffle bites, which were delicious. Yes, I don't 0:06:39.120 --> 0:06:41.080 even think he got two feet He was like, uh, 0:06:41.240 --> 0:06:42.760 you know, there's more. All we back people were like 0:06:42.760 --> 0:06:45.400 shut up and give me one and then but my 0:06:45.480 --> 0:06:47.400 favorite I must have had like six to them, and 0:06:47.440 --> 0:06:49.520 like I didn't want the one waiter who had them 0:06:49.800 --> 0:06:52.679 to see me, so I kept finding like another waiter. 0:06:52.720 --> 0:06:54.599 But the empanadas were everything. 0:06:54.640 --> 0:06:57.720 Oh my gosh, yes, I'm so glad the food. See, 0:06:57.720 --> 0:06:59.520 we tried all that stuff. I didn't get by the way, 0:06:59.560 --> 0:07:01.760 I barely ate any of the food that we paid 0:07:01.800 --> 0:07:04.479 for because you know, of like we had to be 0:07:04.600 --> 0:07:06.880 walking and I wanted to just dance or whatever. But 0:07:06.920 --> 0:07:09.600 we I tasted everything. So we had a tasting back 0:07:09.640 --> 0:07:12.280 in November. So it makes me so happy because those 0:07:12.320 --> 0:07:15.080 chicken and waffles were everything, and we like that was 0:07:15.080 --> 0:07:17.400 a specific I've never we did, like a custom menu, 0:07:17.480 --> 0:07:19.240 and it was so cool because we wanted to like 0:07:19.320 --> 0:07:23.040 incorporate I love that, like a Latin and Southern. 0:07:22.760 --> 0:07:25.320 Sort of thing did perfectly, honestly, And that's what it 0:07:25.480 --> 0:07:27.440 was about it that it was very clear that both 0:07:27.720 --> 0:07:31.200 cultures were were represented because it's like, ooh, chicken waffles 0:07:31.200 --> 0:07:36.680 so yummy and Banaa is oohioso, you know, and just 0:07:36.720 --> 0:07:39.080 like I love that even though it's outside and it 0:07:39.120 --> 0:07:41.560 was like Savannah and now anyway, it was a little 0:07:41.600 --> 0:07:43.680 bit cool, but you know, the heaters made it and 0:07:43.760 --> 0:07:46.320 it just was so pretty. The reception where you had 0:07:46.320 --> 0:07:48.080 it like you know, the covering of like the tent, 0:07:48.480 --> 0:07:50.000 and then the food. I was like, Mandy had it. 0:07:50.040 --> 0:07:51.920 I told everyone, I'm like, there was a biscuit bar. 0:07:52.720 --> 0:07:55.640 I never even heard of one. People were like, biscuit. 0:07:55.680 --> 0:07:59.000 I'm like, all the way back to New Jersey and 0:07:59.160 --> 0:08:02.520 there was some hunt any honey gravy that you could 0:08:02.600 --> 0:08:05.320 literally slap on like a bark of a tree and 0:08:05.360 --> 0:08:07.280 eat it. That's how good that honey gravy was. 0:08:07.600 --> 0:08:10.320 Oh man, I'll take your word for it. 0:08:10.320 --> 0:08:14.080 It was so good. The shrimp kebobs were delicious. It 0:08:14.120 --> 0:08:15.640 was just the food was really good. And then the 0:08:15.720 --> 0:08:18.000 music was like it was such a great mix of like, oh, 0:08:18.160 --> 0:08:20.480 traditional wedding music. Of course we did every line dance, 0:08:20.520 --> 0:08:23.240 which I loved, and then there was definitely Latin music 0:08:23.240 --> 0:08:25.080 where ever they could swing their hips if they wanted to. 0:08:25.920 --> 0:08:27.120 And then there was like a mix of like I 0:08:27.160 --> 0:08:29.400 guess contemporary pop, which I didn't know any of the word. 0:08:29.440 --> 0:08:34.360 I was like, I don't know this one who shit 0:08:34.480 --> 0:08:38.680 to pull bull dog but it was great and just 0:08:38.720 --> 0:08:41.160 like the music that you guys danced out to were 0:08:41.280 --> 0:08:44.120 just it Just what I like is that somebodies are 0:08:44.160 --> 0:08:47.000 so uptight and you're like, oh, is anybody having fun? 0:08:47.120 --> 0:08:49.240 But everyone was having such a good time. That's what 0:08:49.280 --> 0:08:50.680 I liked about it that it just. 0:08:51.080 --> 0:08:52.600 It didn't seem pretentious. 0:08:52.679 --> 0:08:55.560 It wasn't like, you know, I don't know, Like I said, 0:08:55.559 --> 0:08:57.120 some weddings you go to because you have to, and 0:08:57.160 --> 0:08:59.000 you're like, all right, I'm ready to go. But this 0:08:59.040 --> 0:09:00.800 one was like fun the whole, from the beginning to 0:09:00.840 --> 0:09:02.680 the end. I'm like, this is such a It made 0:09:02.760 --> 0:09:04.800 me and normally, you know, I was like, I'm. 0:09:04.600 --> 0:09:06.560 Not having a Dagon wedding. We're going to Justine's piece. 0:09:06.760 --> 0:09:08.160 And I was like I could see it. 0:09:08.320 --> 0:09:15.680 Maybe if it's like this, like it's happening, that's what 0:09:15.760 --> 0:09:18.360 That's what it takes. I was like, I was telling Superman. 0:09:18.440 --> 0:09:22.000 I was like, wait, Mandy's wedding was good. I might wait, 0:09:22.040 --> 0:09:25.480 I don't know. He was like, oh boy, and what 0:09:25.600 --> 0:09:28.120 they have to say is your friend, I am. Any 0:09:28.160 --> 0:09:30.240 of my friends that are listening, thank you so much, 0:09:30.480 --> 0:09:33.320 because literally every single one of me and these friends 0:09:33.400 --> 0:09:35.040 or family member was like, oh. 0:09:34.920 --> 0:09:36.560 My god, but Janie's write I. 0:09:36.480 --> 0:09:39.680 Totally I told you. I told you you will not 0:09:39.720 --> 0:09:40.440 stay alone. 0:09:41.200 --> 0:09:43.240 None of my family, your friends listened to the podcast. 0:09:43.280 --> 0:09:46.880 They're like, you have what's the podcast? So it was 0:09:46.920 --> 0:09:49.200 so nice. I was like, Wow, this is what support 0:09:49.240 --> 0:09:51.600 looks like. Drina, you're not listening anyway, so it doesn't matter. 0:09:51.720 --> 0:09:56.839 Linda Mark, none of my friend I'm calling you right by. 0:09:56.840 --> 0:09:59.560 Name because you don't listen anyway. But that part I 0:09:59.600 --> 0:10:00.400 really loved. Who is that? 0:10:01.920 --> 0:10:04.640 How much you know they really like are into like 0:10:04.679 --> 0:10:06.440 what you do? And it was like the UN I 0:10:06.520 --> 0:10:08.280 was like, Maddy has a friend from every race and 0:10:08.280 --> 0:10:11.320 it was literally like we need Asian check. 0:10:11.800 --> 0:10:13.840 I know it looked like I did it like like 0:10:13.840 --> 0:10:16.920 from a marketing perspective, like when we get bridesmaids of 0:10:16.920 --> 0:10:17.800 every shade the right. 0:10:18.320 --> 0:10:21.160 Literally I was, I mean Indian, like I don't know 0:10:21.200 --> 0:10:25.000 if Chinese, Japanese. I means I just being the meat. 0:10:25.000 --> 0:10:26.840 I mean it was literally every race there meet and 0:10:27.240 --> 0:10:30.160 Nick for Magnified Money. We were like, wow, Maddy has 0:10:30.679 --> 0:10:32.720 the un a friend, so you do. 0:10:33.520 --> 0:10:34.520 It was just really. 0:10:36.000 --> 0:10:37.560 Yeah, I'm already starting to cry again. 0:10:37.679 --> 0:10:41.320 I've never Yeah, it was great honestly, Maddy, well done. 0:10:41.679 --> 0:10:44.800 You know. Husby was like, yeah, she she did it all. 0:10:45.640 --> 0:10:48.319 I really did. I really did. But it was so important. 0:10:48.400 --> 0:10:50.520 It's like everything you're saying is everything I wanted it 0:10:50.559 --> 0:10:53.839 to be, which was like a celebration not just of 0:10:54.120 --> 0:10:56.640 like you know, marriage is, you know, obviously the point, 0:10:56.679 --> 0:10:59.440 but like the fact that like the only reason I 0:10:59.440 --> 0:11:01.600 could just having a wedding, as if we were going 0:11:01.640 --> 0:11:02.839 to do it and we're going to have the most 0:11:02.920 --> 0:11:04.800 amazing time and we're going to give people the most 0:11:04.840 --> 0:11:06.720 amazing party they were going to talk about for years, 0:11:06.800 --> 0:11:10.559 And every picture and every video that I've seen has 0:11:10.600 --> 0:11:12.640 been like it was worth it. Like to see my 0:11:12.800 --> 0:11:15.800 like nineteen year old baby cousin Anna, who was my bridesmaid, 0:11:15.840 --> 0:11:18.400 who I used to babysit when I lived in there 0:11:18.440 --> 0:11:20.840 my uncle's basement after college, when I was broke, you know, 0:11:20.880 --> 0:11:23.280 if she was twelve, to see her be a bridesmaid, 0:11:23.320 --> 0:11:25.800 and then to see her dancing with my my sister's 0:11:25.920 --> 0:11:29.560 wife who's from Wisconsin, and like seeing my mom dancing 0:11:29.600 --> 0:11:33.800 with Enrique's Dominican dad, and like you like just all 0:11:33.880 --> 0:11:37.480 those its like crossover of life, man, and all those 0:11:37.520 --> 0:11:39.600 moments when just watching, because when you're in it, you 0:11:39.600 --> 0:11:41.480 don't like, I'm seeing things happen. But there's a lot 0:11:41.480 --> 0:11:44.720 of stuff that I missed, And I've literally be spening 0:11:44.760 --> 0:11:48.199 the last like seventy two hours just reading, like watching 0:11:48.240 --> 0:11:50.679 every video, looking at every photo I can, and just 0:11:50.720 --> 0:11:54.120 reliving every moment and waking up with a huge stupid 0:11:54.120 --> 0:11:55.000 smile on my face. 0:11:55.040 --> 0:11:57.960 And now it was I mean, honestly, it was just great. 0:11:58.080 --> 0:11:59.920 Like what I thought was so awesome was like when 0:11:59.920 --> 0:12:01.840 I I met well, I mean, I knew as soon 0:12:01.880 --> 0:12:04.040 as I saw a husband's mom, I'm like, Okay, that 0:12:04.160 --> 0:12:07.280 is clearly his mom, your mom and his mom. There's 0:12:07.280 --> 0:12:09.480 something about moms who have kids that are getting married. 0:12:09.600 --> 0:12:10.200 It's the same. 0:12:10.240 --> 0:12:12.920 I mean, they look like twins on the inside because 0:12:12.920 --> 0:12:15.360 they were both like, it's my day, it's my day. 0:12:15.600 --> 0:12:17.439 It was their day, Oh was it? 0:12:18.920 --> 0:12:21.320 That's what I love is that, like they both your 0:12:21.360 --> 0:12:24.320 mom is so adorable. I was like, look at Mandy's mom. 0:12:24.400 --> 0:12:26.880 She was clearly like you know, I mean, Manny's getting. 0:12:26.600 --> 0:12:27.520 Married, but it's my day. 0:12:27.640 --> 0:12:30.880 Just so we're clear. Yeah, they were both so so 0:12:31.000 --> 0:12:34.199 adorable and they're both so excited, like, yes, the day 0:12:34.240 --> 0:12:36.800 had finally arrived, so that I thought was really cute. 0:12:36.880 --> 0:12:39.880 When you guys, because Mandy had a picnic the day 0:12:39.920 --> 0:12:42.600 before the wedding, and because. 0:12:42.360 --> 0:12:44.040 I didn't really know any of your friends by sight, 0:12:44.080 --> 0:12:44.520 I'm looking. 0:12:44.520 --> 0:12:46.320 I'm looking, and I'm like, okay, there's a group, a 0:12:46.360 --> 0:12:48.720 motley crew of group, and I'm looking, and then I 0:12:48.760 --> 0:12:51.000 saw a guy that looked just like Drake. Sorry, Mandy's brother. 0:12:51.679 --> 0:12:53.160 He told me not to call him that, but whatever, 0:12:53.440 --> 0:12:56.760 and I'm like, oh, there's Drake, literally Manny's brother. When 0:12:56.800 --> 0:13:02.720 I say Drake, I mean build heights, frame faith, Like. 0:13:03.000 --> 0:13:06.440 He looks so much like Drake it's ridiculous. And as 0:13:06.480 --> 0:13:08.080 soon as I saw Drake, I was like, Drake's putting 0:13:08.120 --> 0:13:10.880 up the tent. That must be the you weren't there yet, 0:13:11.240 --> 0:13:12.520 that must be the party right there. 0:13:13.000 --> 0:13:15.079 Yeah, it's kind of silly. Then now that he started 0:13:15.120 --> 0:13:17.760 bulking up, he looks like even more. But whatever, I'm 0:13:17.760 --> 0:13:20.360 done defending him, Like, just call him Drake, it doesn't matter, Like, yeah, 0:13:20.400 --> 0:13:22.320 there's worse things too, there's worse people to look like. 0:13:22.360 --> 0:13:25.680 He can goin, right, Drake is good looking. Yeah, everything 0:13:25.840 --> 0:13:28.640 was really Yeah, it was just a great weekend and honestly, 0:13:28.679 --> 0:13:31.400 you just chose a perfect place because Savannah it's such 0:13:31.440 --> 0:13:32.199 a great backdrop. 0:13:32.280 --> 0:13:33.959 There's certain cities that you. 0:13:33.920 --> 0:13:37.040 Know, you go and you're just there for the wedding 0:13:37.080 --> 0:13:39.760 because you know the city itself, you know, there's nothing 0:13:39.800 --> 0:13:42.080 really to do Summerset in New Jersey or something. You know, 0:13:42.160 --> 0:13:44.480 but nothing does anything wrong with Summerset. But the city 0:13:44.520 --> 0:13:48.040 itself doesn't necessarily lend itself to like good times on 0:13:48.080 --> 0:13:50.880 its own, you know. But Savannah itself is a destination. 0:13:51.120 --> 0:13:54.480 So it just was a great backdrop to your wedding. 0:13:55.080 --> 0:13:57.280 The fact that so many it was you know, well, 0:13:57.360 --> 0:13:58.840 we need to like set this up. I need to 0:13:58.960 --> 0:14:01.599 so behind the scenes this week Savannah. The day of 0:14:01.640 --> 0:14:04.600 the wedding was just I mean, it was like Savannah said, 0:14:04.760 --> 0:14:07.560 and I am going to bless this union with the 0:14:07.600 --> 0:14:11.360 best day of weather. Yeah not too hot, not too cold, 0:14:11.440 --> 0:14:16.120 and like a cloudless sky the entire day. But let 0:14:16.160 --> 0:14:17.560 me tell the week leading up to it, because we 0:14:17.600 --> 0:14:21.760 got down there on Tuesday and Tuesday Wednesday were my 0:14:21.800 --> 0:14:23.760 big busy days. I was like, we have so much 0:14:23.760 --> 0:14:25.680 to do these last two days. My sister was there, 0:14:26.160 --> 0:14:29.160 my rider died, made a matron of honor, who you know, 0:14:29.320 --> 0:14:32.960 I just just you know, have never loved more in 0:14:32.960 --> 0:14:35.000 my life than than this week when she was supporting 0:14:35.000 --> 0:14:36.720 me so much. But anyway, we were running around like 0:14:37.280 --> 0:14:38.920 and on Wednesday I was we were looking at the weather, 0:14:38.960 --> 0:14:41.240 and the weather looked great for the wedding day. And 0:14:41.280 --> 0:14:43.440 on Wednesday it was like, oh, chance of thunderstorm, but 0:14:43.480 --> 0:14:45.960 it kept getting moved ahead every hour. You know it's 0:14:45.960 --> 0:14:47.160 gonna hit at three, and then I was going to 0:14:47.240 --> 0:14:48.920 head at four and there all these really ugly dark 0:14:48.960 --> 0:14:52.240 clouds were sort of just behind the horizon all day long, 0:14:52.280 --> 0:14:54.640 and I was saying, I was like, oh, look the 0:14:54.680 --> 0:14:56.000 weather is just going to hold out for me so 0:14:56.080 --> 0:14:57.760 I can finish all these errands. Look at it go 0:14:57.960 --> 0:15:01.800 so nice. Little did I know that this huge storm 0:15:01.880 --> 0:15:04.560 system was going to screw up, like all the flights 0:15:04.560 --> 0:15:08.680 of people trying to get in on Wednesday, because everybody important, 0:15:09.560 --> 0:15:12.800 well not important, but like everyone in the wedding, most 0:15:12.800 --> 0:15:15.160 of the bridesmaids and grooms when we're coming in Wednesday night, 0:15:15.440 --> 0:15:17.120 and many of them were flying in from New York 0:15:17.160 --> 0:15:20.920 City and on rehearsal day because of the storm, people 0:15:21.000 --> 0:15:24.600 couldn't get in. So on the day of the rehearsal 0:15:24.600 --> 0:15:26.920 on Thursday, we had we're missing like half the groomsmen. 0:15:28.200 --> 0:15:31.000 I already was pretty sure that one of our dear, dear, 0:15:31.040 --> 0:15:32.960 dear friends, who's the wife of one of our groomsho 0:15:33.040 --> 0:15:35.280 wasn't being able to come at all. I had a 0:15:35.320 --> 0:15:37.720 friend who was stuck trying to get here from Missouri 0:15:37.840 --> 0:15:40.880 and her flight was canceled, and just oh and so 0:15:40.960 --> 0:15:43.640 you have that going on. But like I remember, at 0:15:43.640 --> 0:15:45.640 a certain point, like this week was brought to you 0:15:45.680 --> 0:15:50.600 by meditation, because I kept telling myself like, Okay, everything 0:15:50.720 --> 0:15:52.520 is happened, like things are going wrong, but you still 0:15:52.520 --> 0:15:55.160 have a lot of people here who you know, are important, 0:15:55.200 --> 0:15:56.960 a lot of people who have come and some you know, 0:15:57.080 --> 0:16:02.720 Thank God, Enrique's parents managed to get in somehow, somehow 0:16:02.760 --> 0:16:04.640 they got in at a six pm flight with his 0:16:04.720 --> 0:16:07.160 brother and his brother's girlfriend. They all made it. It 0:16:07.200 --> 0:16:09.760 was the people here on the later flights, like eight 0:16:09.800 --> 0:16:12.480 and nine o'clock on Delta. For some reason, Delta really 0:16:12.760 --> 0:16:14.120 just lost his damn mind. 0:16:14.320 --> 0:16:16.480 Yeah, I was on Delta, and I when I say 0:16:16.520 --> 0:16:19.640 I never fly Delta never they canceled. It was only 0:16:19.720 --> 0:16:21.720 by the grace of God, Like I think I came 0:16:21.720 --> 0:16:25.280 in Thursday morning, and I just missed the storm the 0:16:25.400 --> 0:16:28.480 night before in the Savannah, and I just missed it 0:16:28.480 --> 0:16:30.080 as it was coming to New Jersey. As I was 0:16:30.080 --> 0:16:32.040 flying off, it started to drizzle and then I heard 0:16:32.080 --> 0:16:33.880 as soon as I you know, like, so I didn't 0:16:33.880 --> 0:16:36.120 have any trouble getting into Savannah. But that's because I 0:16:36.160 --> 0:16:39.120 missed the storms on both in Georgia and Jersey at 0:16:39.120 --> 0:16:39.640 the same time. 0:16:39.640 --> 0:16:41.800 And I was like, okay, and then flying home. 0:16:41.840 --> 0:16:46.360 I flew home Sunday morning, and in the evening they 0:16:46.440 --> 0:16:49.120 kept sending me texting, your flight is poked back fifteen minutes, 0:16:49.200 --> 0:16:51.680 your fighters pushed back twenty minutes, your fliers pooked back 0:16:51.680 --> 0:16:53.640 two hours. And I woke up like three o'clock in 0:16:53.680 --> 0:16:55.400 the morning it was like, your flight is pushed back 0:16:56.440 --> 0:16:59.400 like six hours. And I was like, uh so, I 0:16:59.520 --> 0:17:02.320 thankfully I was able to go online and find another flight, 0:17:02.720 --> 0:17:04.480 and I booked myself and I said, okay, and I'm 0:17:04.480 --> 0:17:06.440 going to head to the airport early just in case. 0:17:06.720 --> 0:17:09.320 And sure enough I was able getting out of Savannah. 0:17:09.320 --> 0:17:11.280 That was the hard part, I thought. So I finally 0:17:11.280 --> 0:17:13.000 was able to get on a flight. I didn't wait 0:17:13.040 --> 0:17:15.359 long because I was like constantly on my computer, like 0:17:15.440 --> 0:17:19.199 rebooking myself. And I got to Georgia Atlanta because I 0:17:19.240 --> 0:17:22.119 had to fly from for whatever reason, Savannah to Atlanta. 0:17:22.160 --> 0:17:24.520 It was a cheaper ticket, like getting out of Atlanta. 0:17:24.680 --> 0:17:27.240 They were like, oh, yeah, you're one o'clock is canceled. 0:17:27.440 --> 0:17:30.119 We put you on a nine PM. I'm like, what, No, 0:17:30.320 --> 0:17:31.640 it doesn't eve make any sad, So. 0:17:32.080 --> 0:17:34.080 I'm going online. I rebooked myself. I don't know why 0:17:34.080 --> 0:17:36.199 they put nine pm. I rebooked myself on my computer 0:17:36.320 --> 0:17:38.399 at three and then I looked at the board and 0:17:38.440 --> 0:17:40.320 the board said there's a flight leaving in twenty minutes 0:17:40.320 --> 0:17:40.800 to Newark. 0:17:41.240 --> 0:17:42.520 I run to the. 0:17:42.480 --> 0:17:44.680 Gate, like could you get me on this flight? 0:17:44.800 --> 0:17:47.320 And the lady was like get on now. So I 0:17:47.640 --> 0:17:49.200 just made it with five minutes to spare. 0:17:50.880 --> 0:17:53.399 I know, so I mean it. I saw bad. I 0:17:53.440 --> 0:17:56.080 don't know what happened with Delta. I'm like, so many 0:17:56.119 --> 0:17:58.960 people are still we're still struggling with Delta. 0:17:59.160 --> 0:18:03.000