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Speaker 1: Dunn dunta da, dun dunt da.

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Speaker 2: You've married.

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Speaker 1: Now I'm a married woman.

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Speaker 2: No, that's so weird.

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Speaker 3: I can't believe you're married.

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Speaker 1: I can believe it because it was a lot of work.

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Speaker 1: I feel married. I feel old. I feel like I've

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Speaker 1: aged in like the best way. I may sound a

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Speaker 1: little haggard, but we just we just flew back from

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Speaker 1: beautiful Savannah where we had the wedding this uh, this afternoon,

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Speaker 1: so we've been home for like all of two hours.

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Speaker 1: And yeah, that happened. You were there, What was your

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Speaker 1: Tell me how it went. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: It's all are fun, so much fun.

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Speaker 3: So one, your hands down, your Your ceremony was the

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Speaker 3: best ceremony. I never attended, like usually the ceremonies like

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Speaker 3: want want you like whatever, just let's cut this cake

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Speaker 3: and eat this food and dance.

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Speaker 2: You know. But no, the ceremony was huh lariya. So one, guys.

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Speaker 3: It was in Savannah, which is already beautiful, and Mandy like,

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Speaker 3: I guess you uh secured some trolleys. Savanna has trolleys

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Speaker 3: that do like sightseeing tours, and so Mandy secured a

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Speaker 3: trolley for her guests to go from downtown to where

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Speaker 3: was the place.

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Speaker 1: Hell, it's a it's a at a manner called the

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Speaker 1: Macki House, which is like ten minutes outside of downtown.

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Speaker 2: Uh huh.

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Speaker 3: So it was really pretty. And then so you get there,

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Speaker 3: you're like, oh, it's so nice. Everybody's bess all nice.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know you did the trolley. Yeah, okay, keep going.

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Speaker 3: And so so we got on the trolley and then

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Speaker 3: we get them like ooh, this is pretty. It's outside,

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Speaker 3: and so we're all sitting, you know, thinking this is

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Speaker 3: gonna be this formal thing I see. I almost said,

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Speaker 3: what are we gonna call him husbye husband boo?

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Speaker 1: We're just gonna call him mister. Yeah, we'll just call

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Speaker 1: him husbye Husbie.

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Speaker 3: So you know your friend I forget her name, uh,

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Speaker 3: the Nigerian one who read the lu Yeah, so Tulu

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Speaker 3: that's her secret name for her boots. She's gonna be

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Speaker 3: like they stole it. We did, so Husbie.

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Speaker 2: You know, he's standing off to the side and.

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Speaker 3: I was like, oh, he looks so like cool, calm

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Speaker 3: so one I thought it was hilarious. I was like

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Speaker 3: the music was you know, you are so non traditional.

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Speaker 3: The music was like like, wait for what part? I

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Speaker 3: don't remember. The people like when when, like when your procession?

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Speaker 3: Like walk down? They were like walking to a beat.

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Speaker 3: You know, usually it saw a somber like.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, we picked a really

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Speaker 1: cool song. Well I'm gonna say.

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Speaker 2: Way, but it was me, but it was like the beat.

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Speaker 3: They were walking like you you see me get into

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Speaker 3: it walking down. Oh I wish they could have been

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Speaker 3: fucking little beat. I was like, okay, and then we're

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Speaker 3: all waiting for Mandy and I'm like, whoo, how's Manny

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Speaker 3: gonna look? Your dress?

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Speaker 2: Honestly was everyone.

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Speaker 3: People who didn't even know you were writing on my

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Speaker 3: don't know her, but that dress fit her perfectly.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 3: Not every wedding dress is great, but yours was beautiful

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Speaker 3: and it fit you like it was like literally it

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Speaker 2: I know it was Honestly, it was perfect. And then

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Speaker 3: I'm just like, ooh, how's Mandy gonna wear her hair?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, it was perfect. And you had like this pretty.

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Speaker 1: That was my sister. She let me borrow it.

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Speaker 3: Oh, it was really pretty. Honestly, it was perfect because

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Speaker 3: you weren't working. You know, some people were like a

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Speaker 3: I was like, oh, it's her dad gonna cry. Dad.

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Speaker 1: My dad low Ki had probably like half a bottle

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Speaker 2: He was hilarious.

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Speaker 3: First of all, your dad was over there like getting

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Speaker 2: What do you call him? An afici?

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Speaker 3: Right? So it was what was his name, Frank, Frank whatever?

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Speaker 1: Really good friends? Frank.

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Speaker 2: He was hilarious.

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Speaker 3: So instead of doing a traditional sermon, did like the

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Speaker 2: But it was so funny. It was like sweet, it

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Speaker 3: It was so amazing, Yo, Frank was literally perfect. I

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Speaker 3: What I loved is that I loved how your vows

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Speaker 3: Totally agree on the sidebar. As we waited for the food,

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Speaker 2: People were like attacking the waiter.

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Speaker 3: I thought so bad at them had like you had

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Speaker 3: But the empanadas were everything.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, yes, I'm so glad the food. See,

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Speaker 3: Sort of thing did perfectly, honestly, And that's what it

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Speaker 2: I told everyone, I'm like, there was a biscuit bar.

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Speaker 3: I never even heard of one. People were like, biscuit.

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Speaker 1: Oh man, I'll take your word for it.

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Speaker 3: It was so good. The shrimp kebobs were delicious. It

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Speaker 2: Not having a Dagon wedding. We're going to Justine's piece.

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Speaker 2: And I was like I could see it.

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Speaker 3: Maybe if it's like this, like it's happening, that's what

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Speaker 3: That's what it takes. I was like, I was telling Superman.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. He was like, oh boy, and what

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Speaker 3: of my friends that are listening, thank you so much,

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Speaker 2: My god, but Janie's write I.

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Speaker 1: Totally I told you. I told you you will not

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Speaker 3: None of my family, your friends listened to the podcast.

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Speaker 3: Linda Mark, none of my friend I'm calling you right by.

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Speaker 2: Name because you don't listen anyway. But that part I

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Speaker 1: I built into the timeline because I had every hour

434
00:19:24,760 --> 00:19:28,639
Speaker 1: of the wedding day planned as realistically as possible, but

435
00:19:28,680 --> 00:19:31,280
Speaker 1: I built in an hour an hour and a half

436
00:19:31,359 --> 00:19:34,359
Speaker 1: of just me sitting in a room at the venue

437
00:19:34,800 --> 00:19:37,719
Speaker 1: where I was just with a couple of bridesmaids, you know,

438
00:19:37,880 --> 00:19:40,119
Speaker 1: and no one was allowed to bother me, like no knocking,

439
00:19:40,160 --> 00:19:43,880
Speaker 1: no photographer, no video, no nothing. And I just sat

440
00:19:43,920 --> 00:19:46,840
Speaker 1: there and I was braiding my best friend Kristen's hair,

441
00:19:46,880 --> 00:19:48,720
Speaker 1: who's a bridesmaid, because her hair was all. It was

442
00:19:48,720 --> 00:19:52,440
Speaker 1: so windy that day, like like the the wind was nuts.

443
00:19:52,520 --> 00:19:55,600
Speaker 1: We were taking we did photos before the wedding, and

444
00:19:55,840 --> 00:19:57,880
Speaker 1: my mom was like running when we were doing make

445
00:19:57,920 --> 00:20:00,800
Speaker 1: hair and makeup. She was running around with hairspray and

446
00:20:00,920 --> 00:20:02,920
Speaker 1: chasing me. She's like, come here, it's not gonna stay

447
00:20:03,280 --> 00:20:05,560
Speaker 1: I swear to god, I had like a gallon of

448
00:20:05,600 --> 00:20:06,680
Speaker 1: hairspray on my hair.

449
00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:07,680
Speaker 3: I like it.

450
00:20:07,680 --> 00:20:10,200
Speaker 1: It was because the hair stylist was amazing. And that's

451
00:20:10,200 --> 00:20:11,440
Speaker 1: a whole story, honestly.

452
00:20:11,760 --> 00:20:14,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, because you I didn't really I saw your picture

453
00:20:14,160 --> 00:20:17,760
Speaker 3: on Instagram where she was straightening. I said, wow. I mean,

454
00:20:17,760 --> 00:20:19,040
Speaker 3: I alway knew you had a lot of hair, but

455
00:20:19,080 --> 00:20:20,760
Speaker 3: I'm like Mattie, I've got a lot of hair.

456
00:20:21,640 --> 00:20:24,119
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was what I loved. I found a natural

457
00:20:24,160 --> 00:20:28,280
Speaker 1: hair stylist in Savannah, and I loved her. I got

458
00:20:28,359 --> 00:20:31,000
Speaker 1: so lucky because I don't I mean, I literally had

459
00:20:31,040 --> 00:20:32,920
Speaker 1: to just google. I don't know any hairstylists there. I

460
00:20:32,920 --> 00:20:34,840
Speaker 1: didn't know any I didn't know any African American women

461
00:20:34,840 --> 00:20:36,359
Speaker 1: I could talk to in Savannah about where do you

462
00:20:36,400 --> 00:20:38,879
Speaker 1: get your hair done? And also you're entrusting someone with

463
00:20:38,920 --> 00:20:41,960
Speaker 1: your like the huge wedding day, and I didn't know

464
00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:43,920
Speaker 1: if I wanted to do curly or straight. I needed

465
00:20:43,920 --> 00:20:48,520
Speaker 1: someone who could do either. I found Divine Allure Salon,

466
00:20:48,840 --> 00:20:51,000
Speaker 1: which was owned by a woman named Aliyah, and I

467
00:20:51,040 --> 00:20:53,440
Speaker 1: got in touch with them. They they didn't have any

468
00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:55,600
Speaker 1: bridal photos, but I liked what I saw on their website,

469
00:20:55,600 --> 00:20:57,600
Speaker 1: I could at least tell, okay, well she knows how

470
00:20:57,640 --> 00:20:59,359
Speaker 1: to work a flat iron and she also knows how

471
00:20:59,359 --> 00:21:02,800
Speaker 1: to work some curl Okay. So I booked them, and

472
00:21:02,920 --> 00:21:05,359
Speaker 1: I booked them for my two cousins too, and I

473
00:21:05,400 --> 00:21:08,040
Speaker 1: did not meet her until Tuesday when I went when

474
00:21:08,080 --> 00:21:10,240
Speaker 1: I landed in Savannah, I went straight to her for

475
00:21:10,280 --> 00:21:10,919
Speaker 1: a hair trial.

476
00:21:11,440 --> 00:21:13,760
Speaker 3: Okay, and at the hair that you with the wind

477
00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:15,520
Speaker 3: at the wedding was like the hair that you got

478
00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:16,280
Speaker 3: for the hair trial.

479
00:21:16,480 --> 00:21:18,720
Speaker 1: It was a better version of what the hair trial was. Yeah,

480
00:21:18,720 --> 00:21:21,080
Speaker 1: we we edited and well really I came up with

481
00:21:21,119 --> 00:21:24,320
Speaker 1: the final style, but she she executed it amazingly like.

482
00:21:24,440 --> 00:21:27,000
Speaker 3: She did Honestly, I was like, wow, Mandy's hair looks

483
00:21:27,040 --> 00:21:29,280
Speaker 3: amazing because you just never know, like you know how

484
00:21:29,320 --> 00:21:30,240
Speaker 3: it is with natural hair.

485
00:21:30,359 --> 00:21:31,760
Speaker 2: Who is gonna do what I want to do?

486
00:21:32,400 --> 00:21:34,920
Speaker 1: Yes, Mandy this this. She was in a good mood

487
00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:37,040
Speaker 1: that day, thank God. And the weather helped, you know,

488
00:21:37,200 --> 00:21:38,400
Speaker 1: the humidity was not there.

489
00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:42,200
Speaker 3: Yes, I was thinking that about Yeah, everybody was saying that,

490
00:21:42,280 --> 00:21:44,159
Speaker 3: like people, I think your friend Tulula is.

491
00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:45,760
Speaker 1: That her name, Tulula Tulu Tulu.

492
00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:49,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, Talu was saying whoo, thank goodness, because she was

493
00:21:49,119 --> 00:21:51,680
Speaker 3: thinking like, oh, my hair is gonna be all over

494
00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:54,480
Speaker 3: the place, like if if the normal humidity was there,

495
00:21:54,520 --> 00:21:55,080
Speaker 3: but it wasn't.

496
00:21:55,600 --> 00:21:58,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, everyone looked at the Yeah the weather honestly for

497
00:21:58,800 --> 00:22:01,600
Speaker 1: being such a jerk on when day it just completely

498
00:22:01,640 --> 00:22:03,119
Speaker 1: showed out for the wedding day and.

499
00:22:03,800 --> 00:22:07,399
Speaker 2: Your your your reception dress that was so pretty, the gold.

500
00:22:07,440 --> 00:22:08,040
Speaker 3: I was like, look a.

501
00:22:08,080 --> 00:22:09,280
Speaker 2: Mandy, thank you.

502
00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:13,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've been I've been collecting things I wanted to wear.

503
00:22:13,680 --> 00:22:19,120
Speaker 1: Everyone's like, did you plan your outfits? And I was like, well, yeah, yeah,

504
00:22:19,240 --> 00:22:20,960
Speaker 1: I kind of planned my outfits as if I was

505
00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:23,040
Speaker 1: going on a press tour, you know, like I was like,

506
00:22:23,040 --> 00:22:26,800
Speaker 1: I'm gonna wear this to thatause for several reasons.

507
00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:29,720
Speaker 3: Like your picnic outfit, I was like, oh cute, and

508
00:22:29,720 --> 00:22:31,520
Speaker 3: then your hair was cute to match. I was like

509
00:22:32,800 --> 00:22:35,040
Speaker 3: I could tell like from your shoe being perfect. I

510
00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:36,720
Speaker 3: was like, look at Mandy. Mandy is a damn planet

511
00:22:36,760 --> 00:22:39,800
Speaker 3: to the end. Look every last drop. She's like, everything

512
00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:41,440
Speaker 3: will be perfect, it will and you'll love it.

513
00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:44,119
Speaker 1: Well, No, I think it was more just like it

514
00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:45,920
Speaker 1: was more I didn't want to have to make decisions

515
00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:47,240
Speaker 1: about what I was going to wear and I wanted

516
00:22:47,240 --> 00:22:48,800
Speaker 1: to feel good on the way, you know, I wanted

517
00:22:48,840 --> 00:22:50,639
Speaker 1: to feel good at every moment and look because everyone's

518
00:22:50,680 --> 00:22:53,040
Speaker 1: taking pictures. Yeah, and you're gonna get these pictures forever

519
00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:54,120
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna look crazy.

520
00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:57,520
Speaker 3: Yeah. It was like I love that. Like I think

521
00:22:57,520 --> 00:22:59,760
Speaker 3: they call it like tea length right under the knee. Yeah,

522
00:22:59,760 --> 00:23:02,399
Speaker 3: and it strappy. It was honestly the dress. And what

523
00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:04,600
Speaker 3: I loved is that I was like, oh, such a

524
00:23:04,640 --> 00:23:06,399
Speaker 3: great dress, because that's the kind of dress that you

525
00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:08,920
Speaker 3: could totally wear like over and over, you know.

526
00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:11,439
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and I definitely will. I mean I call

527
00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:13,080
Speaker 1: it the shredder dress because I don't know if you've

528
00:23:13,119 --> 00:23:15,879
Speaker 1: ever worn a full on SEQ one dress before. But

529
00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:18,199
Speaker 1: it rubbed the inside in my arms sover all. I

530
00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:21,040
Speaker 1: woke up the next day, it was like the next day,

531
00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:22,760
Speaker 1: I woke up and I was like, did I get

532
00:23:22,840 --> 00:23:24,760
Speaker 1: run over by a truck? First of all, I barely

533
00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:27,399
Speaker 1: drank my own wedding because everyone sort of brings you drinks,

534
00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:29,639
Speaker 1: but I was I just had my priority, which was

535
00:23:29,640 --> 00:23:31,680
Speaker 1: to dance and to be there, so you take once.

536
00:23:31,760 --> 00:23:36,000
Speaker 1: I maybe had one entire cocktail in total, And the

537
00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:38,080
Speaker 1: next day I was like, why do I feel like death.

538
00:23:39,119 --> 00:23:41,479
Speaker 1: My feet I couldn't feel like three of my toes.

539
00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:46,200
Speaker 1: I had blisters everywhere. The inside in my arms were

540
00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:49,720
Speaker 1: completely shredded from that glitter dress. Like I mean, it

541
00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:52,120
Speaker 1: was like I had been beat, but like the most amazing,

542
00:23:52,720 --> 00:23:55,560
Speaker 1: like lovely pain. I guess that is how I'll put it. Yeah,

543
00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:57,480
Speaker 1: because you just the adrenaline, it's pumping all day. And

544
00:23:57,520 --> 00:23:59,520
Speaker 1: really i'd been going on and like I hadn't been

545
00:23:59,560 --> 00:24:03,440
Speaker 1: sleeping because not only was I, you know, just nervous

546
00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:05,280
Speaker 1: and like nerves and jittery and I don't I don't

547
00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:07,080
Speaker 1: know if you remember, but we did a surprise dance

548
00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:08,159
Speaker 1: for our first day.

549
00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:09,120
Speaker 3: Yes, I saw.

550
00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:10,520
Speaker 2: I thought I was wondering.

551
00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:12,800
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, you guys did the traditional like oh,

552
00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:14,280
Speaker 3: you know, we come out and then all of a sudden,

553
00:24:14,320 --> 00:24:16,479
Speaker 3: it was like psych get into these hips.

554
00:24:18,359 --> 00:24:20,920
Speaker 1: We couldn't have a Dominican wedding without doing a little

555
00:24:20,960 --> 00:24:25,639
Speaker 1: bit shot that, like it's just yeah, Possiblee and Rique,

556
00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:27,679
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm just gonna call him and Rique husband,

557
00:24:28,160 --> 00:24:31,600
Speaker 1: mister Santos. He was in the beginning. It took me

558
00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:33,919
Speaker 1: months to get him to agree because he's shy for

559
00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:37,360
Speaker 1: one thing, and not give, you know, not for a Dominican,

560
00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:39,959
Speaker 1: not the most you know, adept with the hips as well,

561
00:24:40,640 --> 00:24:41,720
Speaker 1: and you tell I'm gonna.

562
00:24:41,480 --> 00:24:43,399
Speaker 2: Stay it nicely, and I fairly have a little shuffle

563
00:24:43,440 --> 00:24:43,600
Speaker 2: in me.

564
00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:46,320
Speaker 1: I mean I make up for that, I feel like,

565
00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:49,960
Speaker 1: for both of us. But finally, like about I don't

566
00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:52,880
Speaker 1: know a month or two, but maybe six five, six

567
00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:55,640
Speaker 1: weeks before the wedding, he was like okay, mostly because

568
00:24:55,680 --> 00:24:57,320
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm putting, I'm paying for this, We're

569
00:24:57,320 --> 00:25:00,800
Speaker 1: doing it. And we started lessons and it was rough.

570
00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:02,720
Speaker 1: I mean, I felt like I was in a Dancing

571
00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:05,239
Speaker 1: with the Stars episode like down to the Wire and

572
00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:08,040
Speaker 1: our instructor Mario bless you. Mario got to give a

573
00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:11,720
Speaker 1: shout out to Salsa on Fever Too or Salsa Fever Onto.

574
00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:16,359
Speaker 1: It's in Jersey Jersey Heights, Yeah, Jerseys the Heights area

575
00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:19,800
Speaker 1: of Jersey City. He runs his own little studio. He's

576
00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:24,840
Speaker 1: an army veteran amazing person. He had the most incredible

577
00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:27,879
Speaker 1: patience for us, and he taught us the steps for

578
00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:30,879
Speaker 1: this like ninety second but shots on dance and it,

579
00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:32,679
Speaker 1: you know, it was really up to us in the end,

580
00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:34,439
Speaker 1: though we learned the choreography and then I and it

581
00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:37,280
Speaker 1: was practicing. And what really killed me is I couldn't

582
00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:39,000
Speaker 1: tell anybodys. I wanted to I wanted to keep it

583
00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:41,520
Speaker 1: a surprise. And so I was like leaving work at

584
00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:43,639
Speaker 1: four thirty to go to you know, dance class, and

585
00:25:44,040 --> 00:25:47,080
Speaker 1: you know, stressing out and and all that about this

586
00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:49,080
Speaker 1: dance class. And that was really at the end, that

587
00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:51,200
Speaker 1: was what was keeping me awake. It's like, oh my god,

588
00:25:51,280 --> 00:25:52,280
Speaker 1: is this dance gonna be good?

589
00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:54,239
Speaker 2: They're gonna like, yeah, they were good. You know who

590
00:25:54,320 --> 00:25:56,960
Speaker 2: was really good? I think is that his brother?

591
00:25:57,240 --> 00:25:57,800
Speaker 3: Is that Allen?

592
00:25:58,000 --> 00:25:58,760
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah? Yeah?

593
00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:01,800
Speaker 2: What is that his wife's girlfriend?

594
00:26:01,800 --> 00:26:03,440
Speaker 1: His girlfriend? Yeah?

595
00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:05,560
Speaker 2: They were so cuy. I was like, look at that

596
00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:08,600
Speaker 2: and look like a movie. They were like like, I just.

597
00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:11,280
Speaker 3: I love to see because I cannot dance that well,

598
00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:14,560
Speaker 3: and especially not to Latin music. So just to see

599
00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:16,639
Speaker 3: when people have the moves and the steps and the

600
00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:18,960
Speaker 3: hips and the swings. I love like when people have

601
00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:19,520
Speaker 3: it all together.

602
00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:21,560
Speaker 2: Yeah. I was like, look at Alan showing off on

603
00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:22,280
Speaker 2: the dance floor.

604
00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:24,120
Speaker 1: I know. I was like, yeah, you guys can dance

605
00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:27,719
Speaker 1: after us because it's not going to be that good.

606
00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:31,720
Speaker 1: But I've watched that. I've watched our dance like like, no, lie,

607
00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:35,320
Speaker 1: probably sixty five times makes me so happy and just

608
00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:37,199
Speaker 1: you know, and the fact that he did it, you

609
00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:39,280
Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like, I mean you heard my vows.

610
00:26:39,320 --> 00:26:41,000
Speaker 1: I was like, this guy is willing to go so

611
00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:42,960
Speaker 1: far outside his comfort zone just to Yeah.

612
00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:46,320
Speaker 3: And I can tell you know with me because when

613
00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:47,919
Speaker 3: you you dragged him out on the dance floor, it

614
00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:50,000
Speaker 3: was like near the end you took off his jackie,

615
00:26:50,160 --> 00:26:53,240
Speaker 3: took off his tie then and he was like, look,

616
00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:55,800
Speaker 3: I won't force for as no time, but this color

617
00:26:55,880 --> 00:27:01,760
Speaker 3: will stay up. We're like, we're like yo. Husbane was like,

618
00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:04,440
Speaker 3: look I've already been as as I get.

619
00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:08,359
Speaker 2: This collar is not popping. I thought that was so cute.

620
00:27:08,359 --> 00:27:10,760
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, Mandy was like okay, okay, okay, okay,

621
00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:11,600
Speaker 3: this is good. This is good.

622
00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:13,000
Speaker 2: Well, I won't push you too far.

623
00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:16,560
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Nick was there A magnified money team was

624
00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:17,440
Speaker 1: out in full force.

625
00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:20,240
Speaker 2: They were awesome. Honestly, it was great sitting next to them.

626
00:27:20,880 --> 00:27:23,280
Speaker 1: I'm glad everyone anyway. But one thing I don't know

627
00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:25,160
Speaker 1: if you've ever and I'll show up about the whole

628
00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:27,359
Speaker 1: wedding thing is I can go on forever. But the

629
00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:29,480
Speaker 1: one thing I didn't anticipate, you know, the next day,

630
00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:31,199
Speaker 1: I had a whole weekend plan. The Thursday was the

631
00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:33,879
Speaker 1: welcome picnic and the rehearsal lunch and the rehearsal, and

632
00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:36,040
Speaker 1: then Friday was the wedding, and then Saturday, We're gonna

633
00:27:36,119 --> 00:27:37,800
Speaker 1: do like a beach day and get everyone together and

634
00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:42,800
Speaker 1: continue celebrating. Here's why I didn't anticipate. One is how

635
00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:45,280
Speaker 1: like emotional I would be the day after the wedding.

636
00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:47,879
Speaker 1: Because I held it together. I didn't cry during the ceremony.

637
00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:50,280
Speaker 1: I didn't, you know, I teared up a little bit,

638
00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:51,960
Speaker 1: but I heard everyone around me crying. I just was like,

639
00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:53,400
Speaker 1: you got to keep it together. You got to get

640
00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:57,320
Speaker 1: through these like everyone's losing it. And then leading up

641
00:27:57,359 --> 00:27:59,320
Speaker 1: to the week, I was keeping it together because the

642
00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 1: flights were delay and I was trying to, like, you know,

643
00:28:01,119 --> 00:28:03,680
Speaker 1: play it cool. And not just that, but the whole

644
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:06,240
Speaker 1: like year, like the weeks before preparing at work to

645
00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:08,600
Speaker 1: get ready for this, and just like the wedding, just

646
00:28:08,640 --> 00:28:10,879
Speaker 1: all the ran, like the regular stresses of planning a

647
00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:14,399
Speaker 1: wedding building up over a year. And on Saturday we

648
00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:16,359
Speaker 1: were setting. We had to say all the goodbyes. You know,

649
00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:18,560
Speaker 1: you go into the lobby to say goodbye to one person,

650
00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:20,320
Speaker 1: and then ten more people show up. And there are

651
00:28:20,359 --> 00:28:22,919
Speaker 1: ten of your dearest friends that you've known, you know,

652
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:26,680
Speaker 1: since college and you know since you know, years and years,

653
00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:29,160
Speaker 1: and they've traveled from Iowa and they traveled from Seattle,

654
00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:31,320
Speaker 1: and you know, you're trying to have an intimate, an

655
00:28:31,320 --> 00:28:34,080
Speaker 1: intimate moment with everybody to tell them how much it means.

656
00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:36,320
Speaker 1: And then our parents we had to say goodbye to,

657
00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:38,840
Speaker 1: you know, my parents, and then and that took, you know,

658
00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:40,720
Speaker 1: several hours. And then because you know, we got stuck

659
00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:42,320
Speaker 1: at a as you do, you get stuck at these

660
00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:44,600
Speaker 1: family lunches you didn't really want to go to, and

661
00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:47,240
Speaker 1: they're like dragging you and you can't say no because

662
00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:49,840
Speaker 1: they've come from so far. And then you know, by

663
00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:51,960
Speaker 1: the time we wrapped up all that, it was about

664
00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:55,239
Speaker 1: two pm. And I literally felt dead. And then it

665
00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:59,040
Speaker 1: was the weather was really cold and windy, and I

666
00:28:59,120 --> 00:29:02,200
Speaker 1: just decided. I was like, I can't give anything else,

667
00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:04,880
Speaker 1: I can't do anything else, Like I just want to

668
00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:07,480
Speaker 1: sit in a dark room and just like sob into

669
00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:10,760
Speaker 1: a pillow. And not only that, but it was like

670
00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:12,720
Speaker 1: the fact that everything had gone so well when you

671
00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:15,800
Speaker 1: have all that built up stress and then when everything

672
00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:21,239
Speaker 1: goes perfectly, you're like what because you're so happy? And

673
00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:23,880
Speaker 1: we ended up so we we everyone sort of did

674
00:29:23,920 --> 00:29:25,240
Speaker 1: their own thing, and you know, a lot of people

675
00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:27,240
Speaker 1: went to the beach, a lot of them went, you know,

676
00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:32,080
Speaker 1: in sightseeing around Savannah. We ended up like taking an

677
00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:35,120
Speaker 1: hour to ourselves, and then some friends met up with

678
00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:39,000
Speaker 1: them at some like some like in retrospect amazing like

679
00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:43,240
Speaker 1: outdoor crab shack, like Crab Restaurant or whatever, which is

680
00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:46,000
Speaker 1: like has like live Savannah oaks and in the middle

681
00:29:46,000 --> 00:29:47,720
Speaker 1: of the restaurant and the restaurants like built around them

682
00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:52,200
Speaker 1: and they have alligators and birds you can go see. Yeah,

683
00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:53,840
Speaker 1: it was amazing, but I wouldn't know because I got

684
00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:56,160
Speaker 1: out of the uber. The uber driver just had to

685
00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:57,640
Speaker 1: play this one. I don't even know what song. It

686
00:29:57,760 --> 00:30:02,640
Speaker 1: was Coldplay or something, but it's it's set it set

687
00:30:02,680 --> 00:30:05,080
Speaker 1: me loose, Like it was like and the faucet is

688
00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:06,640
Speaker 1: on and it will not be turning off for the

689
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:09,040
Speaker 1: next hour and a half because you're just gonna sit

690
00:30:09,080 --> 00:30:12,040
Speaker 1: there like a crazy person and be sobbing, like in

691
00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:16,160
Speaker 1: public with your you know, three foot tall cocktail that

692
00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:18,000
Speaker 1: someone orders you because they feel so bad.

693
00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:23,200
Speaker 3: So everyone was like, what is wrong? I said, nothing

694
00:30:23,280 --> 00:30:26,480
Speaker 3: is wrong. I'm so happy.

695
00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:30,360
Speaker 1: Oh my god. And Enrique's like, yo, what is happening.

696
00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:32,840
Speaker 1: I'm like, you don't know, because you didn't blame this thing.

697
00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:34,200
Speaker 3: You know, yeah, no, you know what.

698
00:30:34,680 --> 00:30:37,520
Speaker 1: It was a release, Yes, absolute totally was, and it

699
00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:41,600
Speaker 1: continued until it's still there. It's still I need I

700
00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:43,640
Speaker 1: probably need like a week to decompress just like that.

701
00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:46,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, it takes, because it's it's it is such a

702
00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:49,120
Speaker 3: release because it's just like because you know, you don't

703
00:30:49,120 --> 00:30:53,960
Speaker 3: realize how much pent up just anxiety comes from, you know,

704
00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:57,440
Speaker 3: planning such a momentous occasion and like you said, for

705
00:30:57,480 --> 00:31:00,680
Speaker 3: everything to go well, especially it's not even just normal anxiety.

706
00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:02,800
Speaker 3: It's like, okay, yeah, it's the normal I'm planning a

707
00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:05,680
Speaker 3: wedding anxiety. But then for everything to look like it

708
00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:08,360
Speaker 3: was going to go to you know, hell in the

709
00:31:08,360 --> 00:31:10,600
Speaker 3: handbasket just the day before, with the weather and the

710
00:31:10,760 --> 00:31:13,760
Speaker 3: travel and the and then for it to go well,

711
00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:16,080
Speaker 3: I just can't even imagine. I don't even know how

712
00:31:16,120 --> 00:31:17,560
Speaker 3: you held out for as long as you held that

713
00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:18,480
Speaker 3: before sobbing.

714
00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:21,600
Speaker 1: I'm a tough chick. Man. I had my sister, That's

715
00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:23,640
Speaker 1: what I am. My sister and my mom and here

716
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:23,959
Speaker 1: I go.

717
00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:26,520
Speaker 3: It's yeah, I don't think you had an older brother.

718
00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:32,240
Speaker 1: Oh we do not speak of him, you know, there's

719
00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:36,480
Speaker 1: always one in the family. He ain't right, No, but

720
00:31:36,560 --> 00:31:39,200
Speaker 1: my little brother was there, and yeah, you know, and

721
00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:42,320
Speaker 1: Enrique's family. I don't know, man. I don't mean to

722
00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:45,120
Speaker 1: be like annoying about it, but I don't know what

723
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:48,640
Speaker 1: I did to like, I have married into an amazing family,

724
00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:50,560
Speaker 1: and not just family, but his friends. And I think

725
00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:52,480
Speaker 1: I said that during my toast, although it's all a blur,

726
00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:57,040
Speaker 1: but like one of the first things about that I

727
00:31:57,080 --> 00:32:00,000
Speaker 1: loved about Enrique was not just him, well h yeah,

728
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:02,840
Speaker 1: of course him, but then you really can tell who

729
00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:04,840
Speaker 1: a person is by the people around him and like

730
00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:07,480
Speaker 1: his friends or I mean, everyone just gets along and

731
00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:10,800
Speaker 1: everyone's just good, just good. You know, there's you know,

732
00:32:11,360 --> 00:32:13,560
Speaker 1: the Randas, but everyone's just good for the most.

733
00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:16,160
Speaker 3: Partner there You're like, I don't really like it, but

734
00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:20,480
Speaker 3: the rest of them green. Then my favorite, probably my

735
00:32:20,560 --> 00:32:22,760
Speaker 3: favorite part of the whole now that I think about it,

736
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:25,120
Speaker 3: was when your dad got up and did such a

737
00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:30,040
Speaker 3: dad speech. I was god hollery. So for those who

738
00:32:30,040 --> 00:32:32,840
Speaker 3: don't know, Mandy's dad is awesome. He does this speech

739
00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:36,160
Speaker 3: where he talked about basically it was very much a

740
00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:38,680
Speaker 3: dad baby girl speech, like oh my baby girl, like

741
00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:40,560
Speaker 3: he was just like talking about her as a baby girl.

742
00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:43,080
Speaker 3: He talked about how how Mandy learned how to count

743
00:32:43,120 --> 00:32:44,280
Speaker 3: by counting French fries.

744
00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:48,200
Speaker 1: I knew my daughter was gonna be some kind of

745
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:52,640
Speaker 1: some type of mathematical yeah, some type of love.

746
00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:55,160
Speaker 3: It was such a dad move. I always knew she

747
00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:58,400
Speaker 3: was going to do something mathematical or financial because my

748
00:32:58,640 --> 00:33:00,440
Speaker 3: girl learned how to count the French fries. Every time

749
00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:02,240
Speaker 3: we passed by Donalds, we had to hold her down

750
00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:04,680
Speaker 3: in the car because baby girl wanted frenk fried And

751
00:33:04,720 --> 00:33:06,600
Speaker 3: if you add baby girl for a French fry, she

752
00:33:06,640 --> 00:33:08,920
Speaker 3: would dig in the bottom of the bag, find the

753
00:33:09,040 --> 00:33:11,240
Speaker 3: smallest fry and break it in half and give you.

754
00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:15,600
Speaker 3: I was like, if that is not the most dead

755
00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:18,480
Speaker 3: moment of all time, and it was so cute. I

756
00:33:18,560 --> 00:33:20,440
Speaker 3: was like, that probably was my favorite. Everybody at the

757
00:33:20,480 --> 00:33:23,160
Speaker 3: table was both cracking up and like, oh, look at

758
00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:25,200
Speaker 3: Manby's dad, Like you could tell He's like, wait, this

759
00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:27,960
Speaker 3: used to be my baby. What's going on? How did

760
00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:30,719
Speaker 3: she get married? But yeah, that was like the that

761
00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:33,120
Speaker 3: I mean, you could not have planned that better. That

762
00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:35,600
Speaker 3: was such a sweet, tender, hilarious moment.

763
00:33:35,720 --> 00:33:36,000
Speaker 2: Friends.

764
00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:40,280
Speaker 1: Speech was brought to you by Crown Royal and thank

765
00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:43,880
Speaker 1: you for all the sponsors of this wedding. He was

766
00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:46,840
Speaker 1: lit when he started walking up. I was like, Oh no, Daddy,

767
00:33:46,880 --> 00:33:48,440
Speaker 1: what have you done? What have you been doing? Where

768
00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:50,719
Speaker 1: have you been what have you been drigging? And I

769
00:33:50,760 --> 00:33:53,040
Speaker 1: held my breath the entire time because he actually had

770
00:33:53,080 --> 00:33:55,200
Speaker 1: practiced the French fries speech. It's been dubbed the French

771
00:33:55,240 --> 00:33:58,480
Speaker 1: fry It's like his Nikki Pickle juice speech or whatever.

772
00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:01,000
Speaker 1: It's like everyone is like, I'll never forget the French

773
00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:04,040
Speaker 1: fry speech. And when he started, I was holding my breath.

774
00:34:04,400 --> 00:34:06,960
Speaker 1: I've never heard my dad like speak in front of

775
00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:09,880
Speaker 1: more than two people ever. That was really but I

776
00:34:09,880 --> 00:34:10,319
Speaker 1: think he did.

777
00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:12,080
Speaker 3: He did a good job, and he did he did

778
00:34:12,120 --> 00:34:12,640
Speaker 3: a great job.

779
00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:14,480
Speaker 1: It was his big day too. And I haven't seen

780
00:34:14,480 --> 00:34:17,520
Speaker 1: my dad in a suit since I was ten, and

781
00:34:17,520 --> 00:34:19,319
Speaker 1: he used to work as a car salesman. He just had,

782
00:34:19,360 --> 00:34:21,520
Speaker 1: you know, he guessed he had gastric bypass surgery two

783
00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:25,240
Speaker 1: years ago, and he's still wearing his like five X

784
00:34:25,400 --> 00:34:29,400
Speaker 1: size like Fubu and Sean John like track suits. You know,

785
00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:32,319
Speaker 1: I'm like, you look homeless. Put some fitted pants on.

786
00:34:33,640 --> 00:34:35,960
Speaker 1: And to see him in that nice tailored suit and

787
00:34:36,080 --> 00:34:41,200
Speaker 1: his little bow tie, and he looked yeah, yeah, yeah,

788
00:34:41,280 --> 00:34:44,040
Speaker 1: yeah yeah. I just I'm just getting text right now.

789
00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:46,000
Speaker 1: Seeing the cake was good. The cake was from publics.

790
00:34:46,120 --> 00:34:49,480
Speaker 1: Shout out to publics, I had affordable wedding cakes in

791
00:34:49,520 --> 00:34:53,760
Speaker 1: an area near you. Yeah all right, well it happened,

792
00:34:53,960 --> 00:34:57,200
Speaker 1: and I think I'm so grateful that you were there.

793
00:34:57,560 --> 00:35:03,120
Speaker 1: Everyone loved you, who encountered you obviously no surprise, and

794
00:35:04,120 --> 00:35:04,680
Speaker 1: looking after me.

795
00:35:04,719 --> 00:35:07,319
Speaker 3: He made sure like Okay, Tiffy, you good, Tivy, Okay,

796
00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:09,840
Speaker 3: tivity drink. Yeah he was.

797
00:35:10,160 --> 00:35:12,160
Speaker 2: But honestly, all your friends were great, everybody. That's what

798
00:35:12,160 --> 00:35:12,880
Speaker 2: I liked about that.

799
00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:17,600
Speaker 3: Everybody was really friendly and introducing themselves to me and

800
00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:20,000
Speaker 3: just to everyone around them, like your cousins from both sides.

801
00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:22,560
Speaker 3: It was just such a like I said, it's such

802
00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:27,000
Speaker 3: a great wedding. It wasn't stuffy pretentious. It was fun

803
00:35:27,080 --> 00:35:30,319
Speaker 3: and lighthearted the whole way you know, so kudos.

804
00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:32,480
Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you, thank you. I will take my

805
00:35:32,560 --> 00:35:36,759
Speaker 1: bow now, all right, So what else is happening in

806
00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:39,920
Speaker 1: the world. I was checking my news feed. I'm like,

807
00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:40,640
Speaker 1: what Syria.

808
00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:46,640
Speaker 3: We can take care of Syria next week. Yes, because

809
00:35:46,680 --> 00:35:49,560
Speaker 3: Syria will always be there. This was a happy occasion

810
00:35:49,840 --> 00:35:51,360
Speaker 3: that deserves some some spotlight.

811
00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:54,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, so we're off Friday for the honeymoon. And what

812
00:35:54,400 --> 00:35:57,840
Speaker 1: does that mean for Brown ambition? I believe that means

813
00:35:57,840 --> 00:36:02,360
Speaker 1: we're gonna have a bye week schedule until May, okay

814
00:36:02,360 --> 00:36:02,600
Speaker 1: with you?

815
00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:03,759
Speaker 3: That's why of me?

816
00:36:03,960 --> 00:36:05,799
Speaker 2: I mean, well, you know, the listeners are like, it's

817
00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:08,040
Speaker 2: not fine, but don't.

818
00:36:07,880 --> 00:36:09,680
Speaker 1: You guys want me to have a honeymoon though, and

819
00:36:09,680 --> 00:36:11,879
Speaker 1: not be running around trying to do like Tiffany, can

820
00:36:11,920 --> 00:36:14,560
Speaker 1: you can you record at seven o'clock Italy time? And

821
00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:16,480
Speaker 1: you know that's like, well, I don't even know what

822
00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:17,600
Speaker 1: time it is American time.

823
00:36:18,160 --> 00:36:21,839
Speaker 2: Enjoyed. We will be back on our weekly schedule sooner

824
00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:23,000
Speaker 2: than you think. I think.

825
00:36:23,040 --> 00:36:25,160
Speaker 3: What we'll try to do too, is we should definitely

826
00:36:25,160 --> 00:36:28,759
Speaker 3: try to schedule some uh like do some Q and

827
00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:30,920
Speaker 3: A on one like put some in the bank, you.

828
00:36:30,880 --> 00:36:34,240
Speaker 1: Know, definitely. Yeah, we have actually a backlog of questions,

829
00:36:34,280 --> 00:36:35,120
Speaker 1: and we said.

830
00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:36,880
Speaker 3: Perfect if we could just do you know, one day,

831
00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:39,239
Speaker 3: do like two hours, and now we could chop them

832
00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:41,480
Speaker 3: up and that way, you know, when things like this happened.

833
00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:43,800
Speaker 2: We always have some some episodes.

834
00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:46,040
Speaker 1: In Q when things like this happen, when weddings happened,

835
00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:53,200
Speaker 1: hopefully not hopefully not again. Oh wait, wait, I can't

836
00:36:53,280 --> 00:36:55,360
Speaker 1: end by asking, I'm gonna post this picture. Did you

837
00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:56,239
Speaker 1: see my uncle Ray?

838
00:36:57,120 --> 00:37:00,359
Speaker 3: Which one was you? Uncle Ray? Just guess the one

839
00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:02,320
Speaker 3: with the with the braids, didn't.

840
00:37:02,080 --> 00:37:06,160
Speaker 1: Know with the with the with the long red carpet

841
00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:09,560
Speaker 1: that he turned into a suit. Please tell me, sonle Ray,

842
00:37:09,600 --> 00:37:12,840
Speaker 1: how do you miss Uncle Ray? Oh my god, my

843
00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:15,600
Speaker 1: great uncle totally surprised me by showing up, not only

844
00:37:15,640 --> 00:37:18,840
Speaker 1: just showing up, but showing up like high and drunk

845
00:37:19,000 --> 00:37:23,120
Speaker 1: and in a dark red suit. How could you he'd like,

846
00:37:23,160 --> 00:37:24,800
Speaker 1: we got he got up and like sort of dancing

847
00:37:24,840 --> 00:37:27,319
Speaker 1: with me when he wasn't supposed to, and that like,

848
00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:30,960
Speaker 1: wait a second, so he gave that wedding was just

849
00:37:31,000 --> 00:37:33,480
Speaker 1: like the extra little sprinkle it needed. So shout out.

850
00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:36,320
Speaker 1: So Uncle Ray Lit from the very beginning, Lit, since

851
00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:40,400
Speaker 1: first always Lit always makes his own moonshine and whine

852
00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:43,560
Speaker 1: at home. That's Uncle Ray and that is what weddings

853
00:37:43,560 --> 00:37:46,520
Speaker 1: are all about. So I'm I'm on team Tiffany. Have

854
00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:48,359
Speaker 1: a have a wedding, but do it your own way.

855
00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:49,399
Speaker 1: That's my team.

856
00:37:49,440 --> 00:38:02,680
Speaker 4: Now we all see, we all see.

857
00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:05,359
Speaker 3: So we spent a lot of time on wedding Talk,

858
00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:06,560
Speaker 3: but honestly, it's worth it.

859
00:38:06,640 --> 00:38:07,239
Speaker 2: You loved it.

860
00:38:07,840 --> 00:38:10,680
Speaker 3: So we are going to head on end brown break,

861
00:38:10,680 --> 00:38:15,160
Speaker 3: brown boost, brown break, brown booooo. And I would like

862
00:38:15,200 --> 00:38:18,200
Speaker 3: to give a brown boost honestly, I know, even though

863
00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:20,319
Speaker 3: it's like a piggyback on wedding talk, honestly to your

864
00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:23,440
Speaker 3: family and friends because I love the fact that I

865
00:38:23,520 --> 00:38:27,080
Speaker 3: don't know anyone there that I met aside from like

866
00:38:27,760 --> 00:38:33,600
Speaker 3: husband's family. No even some of them, right though, like

867
00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:35,239
Speaker 3: like because I know like his mom and dad speak

868
00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:38,319
Speaker 3: primarily Spanish, but even a lot of them listen to

869
00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:38,880
Speaker 3: the podcast.

870
00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:41,920
Speaker 2: I cannot believe it. I was like, it was like freaky.

871
00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:44,239
Speaker 2: I'm like, is this real? Everyone's like, oh yeah, yeah,

872
00:38:44,239 --> 00:38:45,000
Speaker 2: I love the podcast.

873
00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:47,919
Speaker 3: So I want to give a brown boost to all

874
00:38:47,960 --> 00:38:49,560
Speaker 3: of Mandy's family and friends that listen.

875
00:38:49,600 --> 00:38:51,800
Speaker 2: Thank you so much. You guys were awesome.

876
00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:54,319
Speaker 3: It was like, I'm like, is this real? Did you

877
00:38:54,320 --> 00:38:56,359
Speaker 3: guys just start listening last week? Or did many put

878
00:38:56,400 --> 00:38:58,960
Speaker 3: you up to this? It didn't seem real. So boost

879
00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:01,160
Speaker 3: to y'all, thank you so much. It was awesome meeting

880
00:39:01,239 --> 00:39:03,200
Speaker 3: you a person I'm not good at name, so I'm

881
00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:05,000
Speaker 3: not even gonna pretend. I'm just gonna say you know

882
00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:06,560
Speaker 3: who you are. I spoke to almost.

883
00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:10,640
Speaker 1: Everyone feeling you mean. Soa and Denny those are our

884
00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:13,520
Speaker 1: probably our two biggest Santos fans BT dubs. It was

885
00:39:13,600 --> 00:39:15,799
Speaker 1: Asura's veil that I was wearing. I was a very

886
00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:16,680
Speaker 1: borrowed bride.

887
00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:18,600
Speaker 3: That's awesome though dress.

888
00:39:18,440 --> 00:39:22,520
Speaker 1: Was new, but the veil I borrowed my hair clip. Yeah,

889
00:39:23,080 --> 00:39:25,120
Speaker 1: I'm so happy. Yeah, because they are true fans, Like

890
00:39:25,200 --> 00:39:27,600
Speaker 1: they listen and I'm almost like, can you not listen

891
00:39:27,840 --> 00:39:28,360
Speaker 1: this week?

892
00:39:28,760 --> 00:39:29,719
Speaker 2: So mane of them were so cute.

893
00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:31,040
Speaker 3: They're like, I don't get to speak to Mandy as

894
00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:33,120
Speaker 3: much as i'd like, but I catch up on all

895
00:39:33,160 --> 00:39:36,319
Speaker 3: her business, which I love.

896
00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:41,680
Speaker 1: It's the new newsletter, the new blog. Yeah, well my

897
00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:44,040
Speaker 1: boost because I can't do a b there's nothing to

898
00:39:44,080 --> 00:39:47,360
Speaker 1: take a break from. Honestly, maybe just sleepless nights. I

899
00:39:47,400 --> 00:39:50,120
Speaker 1: would like to sleep again, and I'd be nice. My

900
00:39:50,280 --> 00:39:54,400
Speaker 1: boost will be It's National Siblings Day. So I really

901
00:39:54,520 --> 00:39:58,080
Speaker 1: would like to take this opportunity because they were my

902
00:39:58,239 --> 00:40:00,719
Speaker 1: pillars of strength, not just like the past week, but

903
00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:03,880
Speaker 1: just in life in general. My big sister Mallory and

904
00:40:03,920 --> 00:40:08,000
Speaker 1: my little brother Alex aka Drake, who was up with

905
00:40:08,040 --> 00:40:10,640
Speaker 1: me till four am keeping the after party going after

906
00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:12,520
Speaker 1: the wedding at this karaoke bar, and Mike.

907
00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:14,120
Speaker 3: I don't even know how. I went home and fell.

908
00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:15,920
Speaker 3: I was like, how are they going to the karaoke?

909
00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:17,839
Speaker 3: They're like, you want to karaoke? I said, I'm going

910
00:40:17,880 --> 00:40:19,399
Speaker 3: to carry Betty. Oh.

911
00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:21,600
Speaker 1: I didn't mention this other sponsor for the wedding. It's

912
00:40:21,600 --> 00:40:24,040
Speaker 1: called five Hour Energy if you heard of them. They

913
00:40:24,160 --> 00:40:26,480
Speaker 1: I took my very first. I took like like one

914
00:40:26,520 --> 00:40:27,959
Speaker 1: that I would have one a day. I've never taken

915
00:40:27,960 --> 00:40:30,239
Speaker 1: them before, but they actually really worked. They really kept

916
00:40:30,280 --> 00:40:34,200
Speaker 1: me going and like not a crazy buzzy, jittery like

917
00:40:34,320 --> 00:40:38,360
Speaker 1: red Bull type feeling, but like slow ability to focus

918
00:40:38,480 --> 00:40:41,279
Speaker 1: and like you know, not wanting to to like zone

919
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:43,680
Speaker 1: out the entire time. So like five hour Energy, thank

920
00:40:43,760 --> 00:40:48,560
Speaker 1: you whoever you are who made that. So anyway, siblings. Yeah.

921
00:40:48,560 --> 00:40:50,440
Speaker 1: So my big sister Mallory and I have had a

922
00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:54,560
Speaker 1: very like tumultuous relationship. You know, we were very were

923
00:40:54,560 --> 00:40:56,080
Speaker 1: close in age, like two and a half years, and

924
00:40:56,080 --> 00:40:58,600
Speaker 1: when we were teenagers, you know, we really did not

925
00:40:58,800 --> 00:41:03,560
Speaker 1: get along and we didn't reconnect honestly until I was

926
00:41:03,600 --> 00:41:07,759
Speaker 1: probably a sophomore junior in college and and it's been

927
00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:09,480
Speaker 1: like a slow you know, you have to get to

928
00:41:09,480 --> 00:41:11,680
Speaker 1: know someone again. Yeah, you don't know her life and

929
00:41:11,719 --> 00:41:13,279
Speaker 1: she didn't really know my life, but you want to

930
00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:15,880
Speaker 1: have a sister sisterhood. And I would say for the

931
00:41:15,960 --> 00:41:17,920
Speaker 1: last ten years, we've been working on that in this

932
00:41:18,280 --> 00:41:20,600
Speaker 1: and you know, having her in my corner over the

933
00:41:20,680 --> 00:41:24,000
Speaker 1: last year. And she's a shy person, she's not you know.

934
00:41:24,080 --> 00:41:26,279
Speaker 1: She was the middle child for a while until my

935
00:41:26,280 --> 00:41:28,080
Speaker 1: little brother came around, and she was like a quint

936
00:41:28,200 --> 00:41:31,160
Speaker 1: essential middle child, and I was a quint essential young

937
00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:34,200
Speaker 1: little you know, little sister steal in the shine and

938
00:41:34,239 --> 00:41:37,600
Speaker 1: all that kind of stuff. And Mallory just I she

939
00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:40,880
Speaker 1: showed up for me in so so many ways, like

940
00:41:40,920 --> 00:41:43,640
Speaker 1: so much so that yesterday when I needed to find

941
00:41:43,680 --> 00:41:45,279
Speaker 1: the New York Times because we had been in the

942
00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:49,040
Speaker 1: wedding announcement. Second, yeah, well I couldn't find a freaking

943
00:41:49,080 --> 00:41:51,360
Speaker 1: copy in Savannah. They just don't do that there, I guess.

944
00:41:52,239 --> 00:41:54,359
Speaker 1: And I just mentioned in passing, Yeah, I can't really

945
00:41:54,360 --> 00:41:55,960
Speaker 1: find one here. I guess we'll just have to, you know,

946
00:41:55,960 --> 00:41:57,839
Speaker 1: get a friend to get one in New York. Five

947
00:41:57,840 --> 00:41:59,480
Speaker 1: minutes later, I get a phone call from her. Don't worry,

948
00:41:59,480 --> 00:42:01,800
Speaker 1: I kind of start bucks in midtown Savannah. They're holding

949
00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:03,520
Speaker 1: it for you at the counter. How's your name on it?

950
00:42:03,560 --> 00:42:06,400
Speaker 1: I was like, Mallory, you're off the clock. You're no

951
00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:07,320
Speaker 1: longer a matron about it.

952
00:42:07,440 --> 00:42:14,840
Speaker 3: I got it, Yes, Maddy, how it was so awesome?

953
00:42:14,920 --> 00:42:17,240
Speaker 2: Why one of the dreamcatchers posted it was like.

954
00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:18,480
Speaker 3: Oh, Mandy got married.

955
00:42:18,520 --> 00:42:19,439
Speaker 2: She posted the link.

956
00:42:20,480 --> 00:42:22,919
Speaker 1: They've been so sweet, they really have. I've been getting

957
00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:25,439
Speaker 1: all your messages dream Cutchers, and thank you so much

958
00:42:25,480 --> 00:42:26,720
Speaker 1: for the love.

959
00:42:28,000 --> 00:42:29,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's just awesome. I did to that.

960
00:42:30,000 --> 00:42:32,200
Speaker 2: I was like, ooh, fancy New York Times bride.

961
00:42:32,600 --> 00:42:35,600
Speaker 1: You know, you know, you know, I was like, I

962
00:42:35,719 --> 00:42:37,719
Speaker 1: showed Nick ninety five money. I was like, well, you

963
00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:39,680
Speaker 1: always want a New York Times mentioned there you go.

964
00:42:40,160 --> 00:42:43,120
Speaker 3: Yes, I know. He was like, oh wow, could we

965
00:42:43,120 --> 00:42:47,200
Speaker 3: add this to our you know to our our press roster.

966
00:42:47,600 --> 00:42:49,920
Speaker 1: Why not. Yeah, uh, that's a that's a weird thing,

967
00:42:49,960 --> 00:42:52,200
Speaker 1: like you you really don't know they're gonna do it

968
00:42:52,239 --> 00:42:54,080
Speaker 1: until like the week before the wedding, and even then,

969
00:42:54,360 --> 00:42:56,080
Speaker 1: I when I once I found I got the call

970
00:42:56,120 --> 00:42:57,960
Speaker 1: and I was like, I'm not telling anybody, because they

971
00:42:57,960 --> 00:42:59,520
Speaker 1: could I can get pumped for, like I can get

972
00:42:59,520 --> 00:43:01,960
Speaker 1: bumped for or Miley Cyrus or the daughter of like

973
00:43:02,040 --> 00:43:05,560
Speaker 1: one of the Bloomberg girls any moment. So when it

974
00:43:05,600 --> 00:43:07,640
Speaker 1: came out, I was like, oh, there it is. Now.

975
00:43:07,760 --> 00:43:09,880
Speaker 1: It's great for the parents. You can give them something like,

976
00:43:10,520 --> 00:43:12,920
Speaker 1: you know, a cutout of newspaper that they can you know,

977
00:43:13,320 --> 00:43:17,400
Speaker 1: have forever and a lot just some more sprinkles, just

978
00:43:17,440 --> 00:43:21,000
Speaker 1: more reasons to sob you know. But yeah, I have

979
00:43:21,080 --> 00:43:25,200
Speaker 1: to thank my siblings for just being amazing humans and

980
00:43:25,320 --> 00:43:31,239
Speaker 1: blessing me with their love and support. And that is it.

981
00:43:31,880 --> 00:43:35,719
Speaker 1: That was your Brown Ambition Wedding edition. And I like,

982
00:43:35,760 --> 00:43:38,040
Speaker 1: you know the special episode at every sitcom where it's

983
00:43:38,040 --> 00:43:41,520
Speaker 1: like the wedding episode, Ye, they go to like Disney World,

984
00:43:41,560 --> 00:43:44,200
Speaker 1: and that's just the entire thing that was this episode.

985
00:43:45,200 --> 00:43:47,960
Speaker 1: This was the Disney World Family Matters episode when like

986
00:43:48,040 --> 00:43:54,280
Speaker 1: Stefan and Laura.

987
00:43:52,400 --> 00:43:54,120
Speaker 2: Which made him so much cuter than earcle.

988
00:43:54,640 --> 00:43:58,440
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh yeah, that was it. You're welcome. So

989
00:43:58,480 --> 00:44:02,239
Speaker 1: I'm going to go recuperate and uh yeah, I guess

990
00:44:02,280 --> 00:44:04,360
Speaker 1: I'll talk to you guys after the honeymoon.

991
00:44:04,800 --> 00:44:06,640
Speaker 3: Yes, have fun in Italy.

992
00:44:07,000 --> 00:44:18,480
Speaker 1: Italy Gratzy