WEBVTT - Second Date Update UPDATE: Middle School Melee

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<v Speaker 1>Second dat day. We've helped people rekindle old flames on

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<v Speaker 1>the show before. Ye and when I say we, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean Jose Alexis and I'm talking about the other person

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<v Speaker 1>usually barges into the conversation a pouty and sad and

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<v Speaker 1>snuffs the flame right now. I love love. I think

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<v Speaker 1>love is fantastic. I think it's what you don't have

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<v Speaker 1>to scream it into my ear. I'm just asking out

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<v Speaker 1>of the bottom of my heart, Brook today, Please let's

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<v Speaker 1>not give up on these people so quickly. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like the only times you ever say that is when

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<v Speaker 1>the people really have screwed something. I can feel you

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<v Speaker 1>giving up already. I'm just saying, whatever happened, whoever said

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<v Speaker 1>whatever to whoever. Let's give them some grace. Okay, Let's

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<v Speaker 1>give them some leeway. Yeah, can make mistakes. Let's be

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<v Speaker 1>the healers that are listening. Audience deserves to hear, because

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<v Speaker 1>that's so hard doing your own speed. That's the type

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<v Speaker 1>of energy we're looking for, listeners to the only person.

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<v Speaker 1>Can we ask that of you today? I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>you're setting me up for something, but sure, half hearted,

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<v Speaker 1>Sure is the best we're gonna do today. Thomas so

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<v Speaker 1>we're in a mildly safe place, she says she we

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<v Speaker 1>have Welcome to the show man. Thank you, thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for having me, Thomas. We're ready to hear about the

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<v Speaker 1>date that you went on. Tell us about who it

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<v Speaker 1>was with. So it was with Marie, okay, and she

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<v Speaker 1>is somebody that I knew in middle school? Did you

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<v Speaker 1>guys slow dance at a at a middle school dance before? Um? No,

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<v Speaker 1>we were never closed. Okay. She actually beat me up,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh when I was a kid. What she's like? You're

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<v Speaker 1>so beautiful to me. Is she still scary or no,

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<v Speaker 1>she's not as scary, slimmer, a little bit intimidating me.

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<v Speaker 1>Did she remember that you're the guy that she beat up? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>So maybe I'm jumping ahead too much. But when I

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<v Speaker 1>went out on the date with her, I actually wore

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<v Speaker 1>a boxing helmet, like boxing like headgear. Rematch. Let's do

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<v Speaker 1>this now, let's go. What did she say when you

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<v Speaker 1>showed up wearing that? She laughed. She thought it was great,

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<v Speaker 1>she knew exactly what it was. Oh my god, that's

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<v Speaker 1>actually pretty funny. How did you guys reconnect? Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like recently divorced. I got on the dating app

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<v Speaker 1>and and she was on there and I didn't recognize her,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I've sort of recognized her, but not completely. You're like,

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<v Speaker 1>can I get a picture of your fists coming towards

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<v Speaker 1>my face? Then I'm recognize. But it's kind of crazy

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<v Speaker 1>how many people like stay in town like a high school,

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<v Speaker 1>like you're all in the same community. Still, that's great, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was great. Um, so what did you guys end

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<v Speaker 1>up doing for the date? We just went to like

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<v Speaker 1>a sports bar and had some food and oh that

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<v Speaker 1>made our headgear not stand out as much since what

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<v Speaker 1>was the chemistry? Like I thought we had like great

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<v Speaker 1>chemistry at first, I thought we had great chemistry. I

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<v Speaker 1>thought everything was like good you know, conversation, like energy,

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<v Speaker 1>the whole thing. Like I just felt like we had

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<v Speaker 1>a really good dynamic at first. Yeah. Yeah, so, like

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<v Speaker 1>I guess this was a dune move on me. But

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<v Speaker 1>I told my mom, you know, it's a small community,

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<v Speaker 1>so we all kind of knew each other's parents and

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<v Speaker 1>all that stuff. Yeah, and my mom actually ended up

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<v Speaker 1>showing up on the date. Oh yeah, I don't blame me.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like my parents are the same. If I was, like,

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<v Speaker 1>you remember the blankety blanks from tr did she like

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<v Speaker 1>brook Brook, don't give up? You're ready to quit on this.

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<v Speaker 1>You're feeling it's feeling bad. How long? How long was

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<v Speaker 1>the interaction with your mom? Please tell me it was,

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<v Speaker 1>like I'll put the judgment. How long did she stay

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<v Speaker 1>on your day? She didn't stay that long. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>she showed up, said hi, I gave her a hug,

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<v Speaker 1>but like I didn't tell her to come meet up

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<v Speaker 1>with it. So I hope that she didn't think it

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<v Speaker 1>was like set up or something by me. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Honestly. It could just be that, like

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<v Speaker 1>suddenly there's the adult, sexy version of you, and then

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<v Speaker 1>when you introduce the mom, all she could see was

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<v Speaker 1>the dorky, junior high version of you that she beat

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<v Speaker 1>up harsh. Yeah, some people in this room actually use

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<v Speaker 1>their moms as their wingman to this day, Isn't that right?

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<v Speaker 1>Elect I do think a guy would like me more

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<v Speaker 1>of a But like, it sounds like it didn't work

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<v Speaker 1>out quite that well for you. Now you say that

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<v Speaker 1>the chemistry changed totally after the mom, So that's you're

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<v Speaker 1>thinking that's where everything went wrong. Yeah, I think so.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, the day didn't last much longer after that,

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<v Speaker 1>like we pretty much just like we paid, we hugged

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<v Speaker 1>and that was it. Yeah, even like a chess bump.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, bro activity. But okay, have you reached out

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<v Speaker 1>to her since that happened? Yeah, and it's nothing nothing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>has your mom tried reaching she about her? Not like

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't ask her to go. Well, we'll find out

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<v Speaker 1>for sure when we play a song come back call

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<v Speaker 1>Marie for you your old middle school bully. I just

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<v Speaker 1>want to like let you guys know that she did

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<v Speaker 1>beat me up. But I did get a few licks

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<v Speaker 1>then too, so it wasn't like on the ground. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna do it right after this with your second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. Hold on second update. You're in the middle

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<v Speaker 1>of a second eate update update. We're gonna find out

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<v Speaker 1>how the couple is doing right after you here part two.

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<v Speaker 1>You know they say in middle school, if a boy

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<v Speaker 1>has ever mean to you, it's because secretly he actually

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<v Speaker 1>likes you and he just doesn't know how to show

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<v Speaker 1>it's true. Sometimes it's true an adulthood. But I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>realize when a girl in middle school roughs you up,

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<v Speaker 1>it means she wants to go on a date with

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<v Speaker 1>you twenty years later. Ye see, if you've manned up

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<v Speaker 1>at all in that time. That's why I never got

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<v Speaker 1>beat up by any girl. Because that's how Thomas reconnected

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<v Speaker 1>with a woman named Marie from back in his middle

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<v Speaker 1>school days. They went out to dinner together, and the

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<v Speaker 1>weird part of it was when Thomas's mom showed up

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<v Speaker 1>unannounced halfway through just to say hi to Marie again.

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<v Speaker 1>My gosh, So that obviously threw a wrench into the

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<v Speaker 1>romance part of the day and hasn't seen her or

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<v Speaker 1>spoken to her since. Brooke, is there any final things

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<v Speaker 1>that you want to say to Thomas before you ruin

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<v Speaker 1>it once we get Marie on the phone. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>your mom ruined it. It sounds like and that was

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<v Speaker 1>a bad move on your mom's part, and you definitely

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<v Speaker 1>need to have a conversation with your mommy about boundaries. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and I promise, if you guys get me a second day,

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<v Speaker 1>I promise I will not tell her about any I

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<v Speaker 1>won't tell her where we're going. That's a good rule

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<v Speaker 1>to live by, Yeah, secretive. Yeah, all right, So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna dot Marie's number. We're gonna see what she has

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<v Speaker 1>to say. You ready, Thomas, yep, Okay, here we go. Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey is this Marie? Yeah? Who's this? My name's Jeff

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<v Speaker 1>from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Um okay, yeah, exactly, such a weird phone call. Again.

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<v Speaker 1>Well I'm cleanly in here. What's going on? This is

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<v Speaker 1>something we do call the second date Update, and one

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<v Speaker 1>of our listeners, Thomas, reached out to us because he

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<v Speaker 1>says he went out on a date with you. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>you're being connected okay, yeah, yeah, so he's been having

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<v Speaker 1>trouble reaching you after the date and he's not a

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<v Speaker 1>hundred percent sure why. He does have a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of a idea of maybe what caused it, though, Um, well,

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<v Speaker 1>not that it's any of your business, but I was

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<v Speaker 1>on a business trip bread after that date. I had

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<v Speaker 1>to actually leave early to catch it early flight in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning. Oh, were you planning on getting back with

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<v Speaker 1>Thomas then and having another date? Okay, so maybe we

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<v Speaker 1>were reading it right. What's going on? Yeah, it was

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<v Speaker 1>kind of cool. I don't know if he said anything

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<v Speaker 1>to you, but we knew each other middle school and yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we heard the story about how you actually beat him

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<v Speaker 1>up once. Yeah, yeah, yeah, that sounds like a fond

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<v Speaker 1>memory for you. And he told us that he wore

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<v Speaker 1>headgear when he showed up to the date. Was that

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<v Speaker 1>fun for you? It kind of was funny, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like we took care of the elephant in the room. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I beat the snot out of him in sixth grade.

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<v Speaker 1>Like it sounds good? Yeah, I mean what else did

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<v Speaker 1>you think about the date? His mom showed up? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we also know about that, and he says that up,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we're back in sixth grade. Oh my head defense.

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<v Speaker 1>He had no idea that she was gonna just randomly

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<v Speaker 1>showed up. He didn't invite her there. He felt the

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<v Speaker 1>same way what you just said was just like, did

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<v Speaker 1>it bring you right back to junior High? Is that way? Oh? Yeah? No?

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<v Speaker 1>Just like do I need a haul pass for a

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<v Speaker 1>second date? I mean, it was just it was weird.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I mean, can't you forgive him for that?

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<v Speaker 1>It clearly wasn't It was out of his decision. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>well okay, so maybe that's out of his control. But

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<v Speaker 1>I was actually thinking about getting back in town and

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<v Speaker 1>maybe giving him a calling going out again, because it

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<v Speaker 1>was she was It was a great dit up until

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<v Speaker 1>that point. And then his mother called me. Did you

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<v Speaker 1>say called his mother called old me? How did she

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<v Speaker 1>get your phone? Oder? I mean it's a small town.

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<v Speaker 1>We all grew up here. We don't know each other,

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<v Speaker 1>so I mean it was that she probably called my

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<v Speaker 1>mother and got my cell phone. Why say I get

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<v Speaker 1>this call? And she says, why aren't you noting my

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<v Speaker 1>Tommy back? He had a wonderful time with you. He

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<v Speaker 1>has no idea that his mom called you. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>know that? I don't know. I don't know. I'm telling

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<v Speaker 1>you he doesn't know. Yeah, I don't think he knows.

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<v Speaker 1>We should ask him if he has any idea because Tommy,

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<v Speaker 1>because I was calling Tommy Thomas, our Thomas is on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line listening. He's been there the whole time.

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<v Speaker 1>He wants to talk to you, Marie. Yeah, you talk

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<v Speaker 1>to her now. Yes, Um, I had no idea you

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<v Speaker 1>and I apologize. I don't know what compelled her to

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<v Speaker 1>do that. I really apologize. I promise you my barriers,

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<v Speaker 1>I will like set up barriers for this in the

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<v Speaker 1>future will never happen again. Physical barriers, just like your

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<v Speaker 1>mom told me on the phone. In addition to reaming

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<v Speaker 1>me out for not calling you, back. She also said

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<v Speaker 1>that she's spoken to your ex wife over the years

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<v Speaker 1>and just between us girls, he's hot in the stack

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<v Speaker 1>no quote to in the stack, And I'm like, oh no, Thomas,

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<v Speaker 1>is your mother right about that? Um? I actually just

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<v Speaker 1>want to jump out of my second story window right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like Jeffrey, of all people, has empathy for you.

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<v Speaker 1>He's got a mom like you have a mom like this.

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<v Speaker 1>She signed you up for a dating app without you

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<v Speaker 1>even knowing about it, but then you just get used

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<v Speaker 1>to having her in the room when you're kissing the girls.

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<v Speaker 1>She actually does have a lot of knowledge of it.

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<v Speaker 1>I can see your I'm like, let me just take

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<v Speaker 1>some pictures. Yeah, I feel bad. Do you feel bad

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<v Speaker 1>for him? You got to feel a little bad for Thomas.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, I do. I feel really bad for him.

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<v Speaker 1>But do I need to jump into that kind of mojo?

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<v Speaker 1>I know? Yeah, Thomas, I do think that you need

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<v Speaker 1>to take a little bit of responsibility here, because apparently

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<v Speaker 1>you told your mom that Marie wasn't calling you back. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>one hundred percent. I mean, but I just didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>that that was going to turn into her calling and

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<v Speaker 1>trying to like get to the bottom of it well,

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<v Speaker 1>and I hope the conversation was, Hey, mom, don't show

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<v Speaker 1>up to my dates because now my date isn't calling

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<v Speaker 1>me back. Yeah, I definitely should have probably brought that up.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm yeah, seriously, Yeah, you don't talk to your mother

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<v Speaker 1>that way, Marie. I just want to say, like, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so sorry that she reached out to you. I did

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<v Speaker 1>not know that was going to happen. And then on

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<v Speaker 1>top of all of that, we're on the radio right now,

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<v Speaker 1>and like we're putting all this stuff out there. So

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to say, I'm like very mortified that

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<v Speaker 1>that happened, and and i'd really like to go back

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<v Speaker 1>out with you. I just you know, I'm sorry about everything.

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<v Speaker 1>That sounds pretty sincere to me to my ears, Marie,

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<v Speaker 1>how do you feel about that? Well? Could you pinky

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<v Speaker 1>promised me that your mom's not gonna have anything to

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<v Speaker 1>do with it. Like I said, I'm gonna definitely have

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<v Speaker 1>to talk with her about like everything that's happened. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>maybe not or yes, stop talking to you. Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I can't stop talking to her. I mean she

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<v Speaker 1>is my mom and good boy, good boy, yes, well, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>so let us step in here, for a second and

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<v Speaker 1>ask Marie, Marie, would you like to go out on

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<v Speaker 1>another date with our little Tommy? We'll pay for that date.

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<v Speaker 1>Now that you know the whole story, you know everything,

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<v Speaker 1>the truth. Yeah, I think I would. Yeah, that's actually cute.

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<v Speaker 1>I do feel like we need to call his mom

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<v Speaker 1>in like an awkward Tuesday and like set some ground

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<v Speaker 1>rolls for your friends. Did she just say yes? Because

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<v Speaker 1>he's such a sexual dynamo? The mom's actually wingman? No comment. Nice,

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<v Speaker 1>this guy's got it going to be going on talking

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<v Speaker 1>about something else? Yeah, broken Jeffrey In the morning, back

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<v Speaker 1>from all the mama drama, Thomas and Marie are on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone once again to give us an update. What's

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<v Speaker 1>going on you too? Are you together? You married? Are

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<v Speaker 1>you in the middle of a bitter divorce where we

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<v Speaker 1>are probably surprised? We are still together and it's going

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<v Speaker 1>really good? Is the mom in the background somewhere? I

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<v Speaker 1>just I just figured she'd be on the phone with us, right,

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<v Speaker 1>That's the thing. We kind of had to set some

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<v Speaker 1>ground rules, but we did, and things are We're going

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<v Speaker 1>out really good. Mom following the rules. I'm shot your

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<v Speaker 1>mom just listened to you, Thomas, No not at first.

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<v Speaker 1>That sounds more accurate what happened. So yeah, after the call,

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<v Speaker 1>it was like kind of awkward. We kind of asked

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<v Speaker 1>her to just kind of back off, not be so involved,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know she's like old and bored. Y. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>but we like kind of found out she's been a

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<v Speaker 1>little lonely and like she just kind of like needed

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<v Speaker 1>a distraction. Yeah, okay, so we set her up on

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<v Speaker 1>a dating profile. Oh idea, She's like, we'll give you

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<v Speaker 1>your own dating drama. Mom really smart. It was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of weird, but it was fun and you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>we took pictures of her and helped her put her

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<v Speaker 1>profile together and every date it's it's actually kind of

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<v Speaker 1>fun for us because what we do is we go

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<v Speaker 1>to that coffee shops where she has her dates and

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<v Speaker 1>we kind of just make sure she's you know, from

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<v Speaker 1>a distance. Oh everything. Now you're being annoyed. You're doing

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<v Speaker 1>exactly what the mom did. She could do just to

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<v Speaker 1>make sure she's okay, because she's kind of ignorant about

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<v Speaker 1>like the real world today. You know, she's getting catfish quick.

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<v Speaker 1>Australia's in love with me and wants me to send

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<v Speaker 1>him money. Modern dating has changed so much, Thomas, how

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<v Speaker 1>do you feel about that? Watching your mom date people,

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<v Speaker 1>It is a little weird for me. Yeah. The good

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<v Speaker 1>news is now she's like focusing her energy on her

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<v Speaker 1>own love life and like you said, just not hours.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's just nice. We have a little bit more

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<v Speaker 1>space now. She's not like a normal moment over she

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<v Speaker 1>was an Italian. I was gonna say they should go

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<v Speaker 1>on a double date, but they may not. Watch yeah much.

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<v Speaker 1>We're never happy for you guys. Keep us updated on

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