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Speaker 1: My mother in law keeps talking about me behind my back,

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Speaker 1: and my husband doesn't care.

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Speaker 2: What are you doing, hubby?

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Speaker 3: What honest?

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Speaker 1: I'm not caring, dude, He's trying to be zen. So

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Speaker 1: I twenty female, had a consensual arranged marriage to my

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Speaker 1: husband twenty three male, and we have a beautiful six

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Speaker 1: month boy. My mother forty five and my mother in

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Speaker 1: law forty two female, are childhood friends. My mom got

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Speaker 1: married and moved abroad and lost all contact with her

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Speaker 1: best friend. We moved back home in twenty eighteen. My

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Speaker 1: mom got in contact with my mother in law in

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Speaker 1: twenty nineteen and they started catching up. By the way,

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Speaker 1: this comes from you Amazing Market five eight three seven

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Speaker 1: on the our slush Okay storytips, I read it. So

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Speaker 1: my mom ended up liking my husband, who was the

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Speaker 1: oldest son. A lot like a lot, A lot like

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Speaker 1: a lot of lot like Stacy's mom A lot. Oh,

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Speaker 1: but it was my mother in law who asked for

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Speaker 1: my hands romantic. We are religious, so my husband and

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Speaker 1: I only talked under supervision of parents, and dang, I

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Speaker 1: fell in love. He is smart, good looking, and has

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Speaker 1: weird humor that I absolutely love. You love when the arrangement,

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Speaker 1: marriage works out.

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Speaker 2: You know, I've never been in an arrangement or marriage,

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Speaker 2: so I wouldn't know.

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Speaker 1: I mean neither I but you know, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: But you just love. You just love what it. You know,

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Speaker 1: if my mom hooked me up with a battye, I

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Speaker 1: would be thankful.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well it wasn't a battie.

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Speaker 1: Well then I would be less thankful. But if it's love,

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Speaker 1: then I would be Okay. A battye with with with

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Speaker 1: a loving personality. That's what I want. Shout out mom. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: he is smart, good looking, and has a weird humor

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Speaker 1: that I absolutely love. We got married pretty soon, which

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Speaker 1: no one was expecting. But one thing led to another.

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Speaker 1: The thing about me is that I cannot cook. I

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Speaker 1: hate cooking or even being in the kitchen. I can

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Speaker 1: do every other household chore, even laundry. Laundry is not

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Speaker 1: that hard. I mean, you just put in the washing machine.

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Speaker 2: I mean, listen, some people out there really hate laundry.

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Speaker 1: But you just put you just literally put in the washing.

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Speaker 2: But I think it's also folding. And I say, I'm

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Speaker 2: cool laundry. I'm just saying, yeah, it.

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Speaker 1: Sounds like you're not cool laundry. The only guy like

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Speaker 1: a beef with laundry. Honestly, my mom knew it and

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Speaker 1: never forced me to be in the kitchen. In our culture,

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Speaker 1: women belong in the kitchen. But obviously times are changing.

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Speaker 2: Excuse me, wow, not on my wad.

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Speaker 1: My mom shared her concern on this, and my mother

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Speaker 1: in law shrugged it off, saying I am young and

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Speaker 1: will learn if I wanted to. Emphasis on the wanted to,

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Speaker 1: because throughout my first year of marriage she said she

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Speaker 1: said that to everybody who asked if I knew how

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Speaker 1: to cook. Wait, oh, because she said that to everybody

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Speaker 1: who asked if I knew how to cook. My mom's

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Speaker 1: still worried because she didn't want My mother and allowed

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Speaker 1: to throw remarks about this because that is the because

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Speaker 1: that is what most mother and laws in my country do.

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Speaker 1: I guess put remarks around not being able to cook.

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Speaker 2: Anybody can cook, that's true, but.

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Speaker 4: Only the fearless can be great.

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Speaker 1: I'm also a student and also now a mother. It's

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Speaker 1: hard to juggle all of this, which is why I

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Speaker 1: try my best to take it easy on chores. I

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Speaker 1: live with my in laws and mostly do dishes or

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Speaker 1: serve tea and biscuits to guests, and that is all

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Speaker 1: no cooking. We also have a maid for cleaning the house,

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Speaker 1: another maid for laundry. You have different maids for cleaning

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Speaker 4: You did the laundry.

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Speaker 2: I thought you did all the household chores.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, so you do all the household chores, but

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Speaker 5: the maid does all the household chores.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we do all the household chores, but the like

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Speaker 1: you have a maid for cleaning and a made for laundry.

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Speaker 1: The only thing you're good at is laundry, but the

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Speaker 2: I yeah, what chores do you do?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it sounds like you don't do much. I mean,

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Speaker 1: is hard that though, I mean, I guess depends on

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Speaker 1: and said that she wasn't that old. I boast about

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Speaker 1: her to everyone, literally everyone. She is the kind of

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Speaker 1: mother in law that girls in my country dream for.

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Speaker 1: Do people dream about their mother in laws?

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Speaker 2: I lost my antenna. Don't look at me well.

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Speaker 4: I feel like when.

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Speaker 5: You're in an arranged marriage situation, you want to have

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Speaker 5: a good you like having a good family.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I don't like I like I dream about

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Speaker 1: maybe like you marriage situation. I don't dream about my

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Speaker 1: perfect mother in law. Well, maybe it'll start, you gotta start.

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Speaker 2: I mean you are on at least a good mother.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I'm not dreaming about it like I'm like, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't want to care you dream about your future

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Speaker 1: mother in law. Who's who's out here dreaming about their

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Speaker 1: mother in laws? Let me know. Put your answers in

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Speaker 1: the chat.

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Speaker 2: I'm dreaming about my future partner.

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Speaker 1: That's cute.

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Speaker 3: It's you.

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Speaker 2: Aw, that's gonna that's already nightmare fuel.

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Speaker 1: I boasted about her to everyone, literally everybody. She's the

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Speaker 1: kind of mother in a lot of the girls in

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Speaker 1: my country dream for. I've always loved her, just like

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Speaker 1: my mom entreated her as such. We do have some arguments,

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Speaker 1: especially regarding the way I parent my son. The way

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Speaker 1: I parent my son. She has some traditional she has

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Speaker 1: some traditional views, whereas I believe in facts. But we

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Speaker 1: both have compromise and many things, and it has been

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Speaker 1: working really well. I have to emphasize on one more thing,

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Speaker 1: and that is that my husband is not a huge

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Speaker 1: fan of homemade food. I guess when you make it, But.

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Speaker 2: What are you making if you don't?

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Speaker 4: Not a fan of homemade food?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it's just like I think it's just like, honey,

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Speaker 1: you don't have to make anything, honey.

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Speaker 2: Takeout?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, please, for the love of God.

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Speaker 5: I mean, if they have the money for two maids,

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Speaker 5: they probably have the money for takeout.

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Speaker 2: Cook they have a problem. You have the money for

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Speaker 2: at least like a cook.

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Speaker 1: That's next, That's next. I have to emphasize on one

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Speaker 1: more thing that my husband's not a huge fan of

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Speaker 1: homemade food. He rarely eats at home and loves having

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Speaker 1: is no food left for him. There's seven people in

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Speaker 1: very bad that my husband does not get his share,

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Speaker 1: so I always volunteer to cook, but my husband just

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Speaker 2: He does not want your cooking. He does not want cooking. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you don't have good cooking, you.

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Speaker 1: Gotta maybe you just gotta like take a cooking class

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Speaker 2: Or if there's just food, well he should cook well.

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Speaker 1: He gets home late, He gets home late, she's at.

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Speaker 4: Home, I guess.

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Speaker 1: So. Yeah, I am sharing this to tell you that

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Speaker 1: I have no obligation to cook because my husband does

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Speaker 1: for me to learn, because it's my job to look

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Speaker 1: after him and not the whole family. It doesn't seem

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Back to my mother in law, she never told me

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Speaker 1: it's because I force her to let me. Today she

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Speaker 1: went to my husband's aunt house. The aunt lives very

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Speaker 1: close to our home and visits almost every day. She

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Speaker 1: We live in a very safe neighborhood and always leave

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Speaker 1: our main doors open, and could hear them from the

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Speaker 1: Oh hear them doing? What?

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Speaker 2: What are they doing?

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Speaker 1: What are they doing? Mother in law really really liked

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Speaker 1: opie'ss mmm. Wait what wait okay wait sorry, I was

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Speaker 1: never mind, never mind, never mind. They couldn't see me

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Speaker 1: as I was removing my slippers. Entered just before I

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Speaker 2: Wait, Sam, what's up with you having trouble with like family.

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Speaker 1: I'm just I'm just getting I'm getting confused. Are you foot?

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Speaker 1: When when? So? I heard the aunt say, when the

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Speaker 1: the family, the fiance is the aunt's niece. She will

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Speaker 1: handle the family. Well, my mother in law answered, yeah,

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Speaker 1: my name doesn't know how to do anything, cannot even cook.

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Speaker 2: Okay, hold on, So.

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Speaker 4: The mother in law is with the aunt right now, yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, to which the aunt replied, yes, my name has

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Speaker 1: no idea how to do anything. Oh damn, they're talking

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Speaker 2: Crap, what's your mouth?

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Speaker 5: Crap, you're dressed as a family friendly sam.

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Speaker 1: I literally wanted to turn around and leave. I was

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Speaker 1: I wanted to cry. This was exactly what my mother

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Speaker 1: insecure about her cooking. Yeah, and now the mother in

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Speaker 2: I think it's time for you to learn how to cook,

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Speaker 2: like you gotta approve these people.

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Speaker 4: Well, but I don't think that.

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Speaker 5: I don't know if that's the lesson here, because it

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Speaker 5: seems like they just need to mind their own business.

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Speaker 1: No, I wouldn't, but well, because I don't think it,

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Speaker 1: because it feels like they're saying like, oh, like your

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Speaker 1: husband's not eating right because you're not cooking. But I

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Speaker 1: so why do they need.

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Speaker 2: I think they just need to mind their own business, exactly,

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Speaker 2: I think.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I think everyone should learn how to cook, but.

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Speaker 1: Zevia crushes it.

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Speaker 5: And I think all human adults should know how to

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Speaker 2: No, just like this into higher experience sounds like my

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Speaker 1: So I was baffled, tears in my eyes. I left

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Speaker 1: And there's another update. Okay, wow, I was not expecting

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Speaker 1: So here it is. I am still at my mom's place.

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Speaker 1: We've started to look for apartments that are affordable and

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Speaker 3: It's bad.

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Speaker 2: This is it's weird.

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Speaker 1: I would be welcome to that house whenever, but these

442
00:20:56,119 --> 00:20:57,960
Speaker 1: things will not go away. My mother in law will

443
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Speaker 1: be good for a little while, but I am sure

444
00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:02,800
Speaker 1: or she will go back to her ways. They were

445
00:21:02,880 --> 00:21:05,000
Speaker 1: very kind in understanding me, and I am so thankful

446
00:21:05,040 --> 00:21:07,120
Speaker 1: for all the advice in the comment section. I hope

447
00:21:07,160 --> 00:21:11,400
Speaker 1: my little family stays mine forever. And that is where

448
00:21:11,440 --> 00:21:12,200
Speaker 1: that story ends.

449
00:21:13,359 --> 00:21:16,480
Speaker 2: I like how she said things could have gone It

450
00:21:16,520 --> 00:21:18,320
Speaker 2: went the best way possible.

451
00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:21,560
Speaker 1: But I mean, it seemed like it went pretty bad.

452
00:21:21,680 --> 00:21:23,720
Speaker 1: It went pretty bad. It went pretty bad.

453
00:21:23,800 --> 00:21:25,720
Speaker 2: If that's what you If you don't want to deal

454
00:21:25,720 --> 00:21:26,800
Speaker 2: with it, you don't have to deal with it.

455
00:21:26,840 --> 00:21:29,240
Speaker 1: I mean, oh, p at least has a very good outlook.

456
00:21:29,880 --> 00:21:31,080
Speaker 1: At the very least she.

457
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Speaker 2: Has a happy family again at the end of the days.

458
00:21:33,760 --> 00:21:35,600
Speaker 2: Long as you have a happy family and it's a

459
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Speaker 2: good environment for everyone.

460
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Speaker 3: Great.

461
00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:39,200
Speaker 2: Great, you don't need to deal with your mother in

462
00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:42,360
Speaker 2: law who's very toxic in talking crap behind your back.

463
00:21:42,760 --> 00:21:44,800
Speaker 1: Agreed, but we got another story.

464
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Speaker 4: I yes, but you must give me a moment.

465
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Speaker 2: Give her a moment. I also need a moment.

466
00:21:49,760 --> 00:21:53,120
Speaker 1: Donos? Should I read those donuts? Use the Little Samson

467
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Speaker 1: Little Sam's Room? Are you reading s two of nine?

468
00:21:58,119 --> 00:21:59,240
Speaker 1: Six years?

469
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Speaker 2: Read?

470
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Speaker 1: It's okay, I'm getting to that read link. Bang, Okay,

471
00:22:12,600 --> 00:22:15,600
Speaker 1: let's read these donos?

472
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Speaker 3: All right?

473
00:22:17,640 --> 00:22:18,920
Speaker 1: Which one she read first for?

474
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Speaker 4: I don't know? We relack man?

475
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Speaker 1: Wait, why did it just go up? Can you can you? Uh?

476
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Speaker 1: You might need to refresh them alrighty uh mcghera kaen

477
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Speaker 1: ninety one things for the five bucks. Love listening to

478
00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:38,480
Speaker 1: you guys at night when I'm at work. Y'all make

479
00:22:38,480 --> 00:22:41,359
Speaker 1: it a little bit more bearable flip switched. Thanks for

480
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Speaker 1: the one hundred dollars USD. Did we read that already? Yes?

481
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Speaker 1: Oh hi guys, Happy Halloween. So good. I had to

482
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Speaker 1: read it twice. Can you go to the uh YouTube chat?

483
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Speaker 1: But umm, can you make it big?

484
00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:02,600
Speaker 3: Make it big?

485
00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:09,760
Speaker 1: Please make it No no, no, no, I mean like not

486
00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:11,359
Speaker 1: not that. I mean like just long so I can

487
00:23:11,440 --> 00:23:15,320
Speaker 1: read all them. No, no, like long the other way

488
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Speaker 1: so I can see all of that. Yeah, thank you,

489
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Speaker 1: all right, Emma fourteen oh a, thanks for being a

490
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Speaker 1: member for three.

491
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Speaker 4: I'm just trying to set up the next story.

492
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Speaker 1: My nose Emma fourteen so via let me I will

493
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Speaker 1: read don't knows in a sec Sophia. Right as I'm

494
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Speaker 1: reading it, Sophia keeps switching it. My nose won't stay on.

495
00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:51,760
Speaker 1: There we go.

496
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Speaker 4: Okay, there we go.

497
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Speaker 1: My nose won't stay home. All right, here we go,

498
00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:03,840
Speaker 1: Here we go, Here we go. Also, if you haven't

499
00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:05,840
Speaker 1: liked the stream, what are you doing? We got hella

500
00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:09,320
Speaker 1: people in here. I know what's liking the stream. Well, actually,

501
00:24:09,320 --> 00:24:12,280
Speaker 1: three hundred ninety four people. I'd like the stream, all right,

502
00:24:13,240 --> 00:24:18,080
Speaker 1: Layla bint Mona. Thanks for the five okay story time

503
00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:22,360
Speaker 1: gifted memberships. We appreciate you making this little community grow

504
00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:25,920
Speaker 1: a little bit bigger. Sophia Collen, Welcome to the Nights.

505
00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:29,560
Speaker 1: It looks like you got your axe. Happy Acts day.

506
00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:32,400
Speaker 1: I'm at fourteen oh eight. Thanks for being a member

507
00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:36,879
Speaker 1: for three months. Plankton in SpongeBob. Plankton in SpongeBob is

508
00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:42,600
Speaker 1: a psychiclops copapod. Learn something new every day, learn something new.

509
00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:45,480
Speaker 1: And then I read all of the can you can

510
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Speaker 1: you scroll up on that? I think I read Audi

511
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Speaker 1: d I think we read auditor donos.

512
00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:53,040
Speaker 4: Yes, Hardy, we read our donoses.

513
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Speaker 1: Sam can't keep it up. It happens to everyone. This

514
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Speaker 1: is a good I.

515
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Speaker 4: Like our little t warning system. We just see your

516
00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:03,040
Speaker 4: game of bark.

517
00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:04,840
Speaker 1: Is there someone there?

518
00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:07,400
Speaker 4: I assume unless she's barking at a ghost.

519
00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:11,040
Speaker 1: I know it's a spooky season. And she's gonna give

520
00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:13,000
Speaker 1: these children a little little something.

521
00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:15,760
Speaker 3: Children, a little red forty red forty.

522
00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:18,520
Speaker 1: What's it? The whole red forty thing? What was that's about?

523
00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:20,920
Speaker 4: Like the red and candy is red forty. But it's

524
00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:21,439
Speaker 4: like bad for you?

525
00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:24,080
Speaker 1: Is it? Is it actually that bad?

526
00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:26,119
Speaker 4: I don't know everything's bad for you?

527
00:25:26,160 --> 00:25:28,960
Speaker 1: These yeah, candy anything.

528
00:25:29,040 --> 00:25:33,040
Speaker 4: Anything these days, you.

529
00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:36,720
Speaker 1: Don't need to be zipped up. Yes, freak, I want

530
00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:39,879
Speaker 1: to I want you unzipped and ripped. I want to

531
00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:45,480
Speaker 1: see that back. Oh yeah, alright.

532
00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:46,800
Speaker 4: Okay, we ready.

533
00:25:47,119 --> 00:25:47,520
Speaker 1: I'm ready.

534
00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:49,080
Speaker 4: I want to start the ready.

535
00:25:50,040 --> 00:25:55,000
Speaker 1: Look you look great? You look great? Great? All right?

536
00:25:55,480 --> 00:25:56,000
Speaker 1: We ready?

537
00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:57,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's wrong, I'm ready.

538
00:25:59,800 --> 00:26:06,840
Speaker 1: H here we go. The Thanksgiving the Thanksgiving dinner, my husband.

539
00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:11,280
Speaker 1: The Thanksgiving dinner, my husband's making me host is ruining

540
00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:18,080
Speaker 1: my life. But it's for his sick grandmother who's then Yeah,

541
00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:20,280
Speaker 1: I mean she's sick. She's on her way out. Why

542
00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:23,240
Speaker 1: are you allowed to ruin two lives? You know, don't

543
00:26:23,320 --> 00:26:27,520
Speaker 1: ruin your wife's life. Anyway, My forty three female and

544
00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:31,080
Speaker 1: my husband forty three male aren't seeing eyed eye on

545
00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:34,800
Speaker 1: Thanksgiving this year. It's coming up. Here is the long

546
00:26:34,880 --> 00:26:37,480
Speaker 1: and somewhat complicated backstory. By the way, this comes from

547
00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:40,600
Speaker 1: just two of us to travel on r slash. Okay,

548
00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:44,400
Speaker 1: storytime sober it so. My husband's grandmother eighty four female

549
00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:51,000
Speaker 1: is dying, as grandmothers often do. She raised him so

550
00:26:51,480 --> 00:26:54,880
Speaker 1: and is much and is more so his mother than

551
00:26:54,960 --> 00:27:00,240
Speaker 1: my just now mother in law will ever be in

552
00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:03,280
Speaker 1: if she makes it to the holidays. These will more

553
00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:06,640
Speaker 1: likely than not be her last. So she's on her

554
00:27:06,720 --> 00:27:08,880
Speaker 1: last legs, about to kick that bucket.

555
00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:13,840
Speaker 2: So this has be like the best Thanksgiving?

556
00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:16,199
Speaker 1: Yeah first, Yeah, go out with the bang.

557
00:27:16,400 --> 00:27:18,400
Speaker 3: Yeah you know literally.

558
00:27:18,119 --> 00:27:21,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe like maybe you gotta be like a little

559
00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:25,520
Speaker 1: surprise Thanksgiving. She's sees all her loves ones because a

560
00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:32,560
Speaker 1: little scared. Yeah. Yeah. Anyway she makes it to the alidays,

561
00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:35,080
Speaker 1: you will more than likely not be here more. It

562
00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:37,800
Speaker 1: will be there her last holidays. She recently was in

563
00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:44,240
Speaker 1: the hospital in severely bad condition. She has COPD and

564
00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:47,760
Speaker 1: is very frail. What is that Her oxygen levels wouldn't

565
00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:50,280
Speaker 1: stay up, hence she got a week long stay in

566
00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:53,879
Speaker 1: the hospital. That sucks. That sucks, Sorry granny. She's bedridden

567
00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:56,480
Speaker 1: and cannot care for herself or even sit up on assistant.

568
00:27:56,480 --> 00:27:57,840
Speaker 1: How's she going to go to the party?

569
00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:01,520
Speaker 2: If there's a will, there's a way. There's a way?

570
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:02,840
Speaker 4: Is there a will?

571
00:28:02,880 --> 00:28:03,160
Speaker 2: Though?

572
00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:04,960
Speaker 1: Maybe you can weaken at Bernie's It.

573
00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:10,000
Speaker 5: Chronic obstructive pulmonary disease OH, a group of lung diseases

574
00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:16,600
Speaker 5: that block airflow and make it difficult to breathe sound serious.

575
00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:20,359
Speaker 1: She was admitted on Monday, and we were not told

576
00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:23,280
Speaker 1: till Wednesday when his sister called us. My husband's mom

577
00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:26,560
Speaker 1: had told them that we already knew when we did it.

578
00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:31,760
Speaker 1: I immediately took time off work and stayed with her

579
00:28:31,800 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 1: twenty four hours a day. Gosh dang commitment for Grandma

580
00:28:36,920 --> 00:28:39,840
Speaker 1: from Wednesday to the following Monday, only leaving once for

581
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Speaker 1: a couple hours to get cleaned up and get her

582
00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:45,880
Speaker 1: a bag of freedom she wanted shout out, freidos are great,

583
00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:49,280
Speaker 1: no freefouseponsors. My husband was there from Thursday evening to

584
00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:53,960
Speaker 1: Sunday Sunday midday with us other than my Other than that,

585
00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:56,760
Speaker 1: my two sisters in law visited for a few hours total,

586
00:28:57,080 --> 00:28:59,280
Speaker 1: and my just now mother in law was there for

587
00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:01,360
Speaker 1: a total of one and a half to two hours

588
00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:04,720
Speaker 1: total during the time. So Ope is putting in the

589
00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:07,840
Speaker 1: most work for the bucket kicking Granny.

590
00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:10,520
Speaker 2: Let's go buget kicking Granny.

591
00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:14,160
Speaker 1: Well, I feel like she's not. Yeah, I would stay

592
00:29:14,160 --> 00:29:17,280
Speaker 1: with us us we're rooting for we're rooting for you.

593
00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:21,200
Speaker 1: She's staying in. But Ope is really the one like

594
00:29:21,320 --> 00:29:24,400
Speaker 1: taking care of Granny. Everyone directly related to Granny is

595
00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:25,200
Speaker 1: not doing crap.

596
00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:27,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, what the heck is everyone else doing? They're like,

597
00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:31,400
Speaker 2: you take care of her, She's she's your problem.

598
00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:34,800
Speaker 1: Which is crazy, Which is crazy. Grandma begged her daughter

599
00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:37,960
Speaker 1: to stay that's it and visit a while with her

600
00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:41,080
Speaker 1: and my just now mother in law refuse, saying she

601
00:29:41,240 --> 00:29:44,520
Speaker 1: had to get home and do housework repeatedly. Yet she

602
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:50,240
Speaker 1: would go into historyonics. Oh like hysteria. If Grandma took

603
00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:53,000
Speaker 1: a dip in a negative direction. Grandma was dis charged

604
00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:57,440
Speaker 1: home to die and refuse hospice, which honestly I would

605
00:29:57,480 --> 00:30:02,600
Speaker 1: I would rather be home dying then in like a hospice,

606
00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:05,240
Speaker 1: or I'd rather be pushed out of a plane maybe

607
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:07,480
Speaker 1: m guy dive.

608
00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:10,680
Speaker 2: At least we know how Graam wants to go out.

609
00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:13,760
Speaker 1: With that bang without bag he needs.

610
00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:15,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, he's trying to tie keon.

611
00:30:15,840 --> 00:30:17,840
Speaker 2: It could be like a heart attack or something.

612
00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:20,520
Speaker 4: Oh in the air, who pulls his shoot?

613
00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:23,640
Speaker 1: Well, hopefully if I jump out of the plane, I

614
00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:25,320
Speaker 1: would have a heart attack before I land.

615
00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:29,840
Speaker 2: This is getting real dark. I know it's Halloween.

616
00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:34,000
Speaker 4: This isn't spooky, It's just sad.

617
00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:37,000
Speaker 1: Anyway. Grandma lives with just now mother in law and

618
00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:40,000
Speaker 1: stepfather in law. Grandma's an oxygen and both in laws

619
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Speaker 1: are not in good health either. Just now, mother in

620
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Speaker 1: law will smoke in the house with Grandma there, Dude,

621
00:30:47,920 --> 00:30:51,920
Speaker 1: Granny's got to get her hit bugs smoking to the oxygen.

622
00:30:52,120 --> 00:30:54,520
Speaker 2: Grandma, you're in the rotation, Yeah, dude.

623
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Speaker 1: That's the blunt does not mother? I swear she's the

624
00:30:57,640 --> 00:31:00,640
Speaker 1: only caretaker Grandma needs to add to the chaos. The

625
00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:06,760
Speaker 1: hospital Grandma was in the one my father uh on

626
00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:09,800
Speaker 1: alive den. The staying in the hospital is what I

627
00:31:09,880 --> 00:31:11,760
Speaker 1: did with him for a large part of my early

628
00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:15,000
Speaker 1: thirties as his caregiver. Her room at one point was

629
00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:20,280
Speaker 1: two doors down from the exact room my dad unlived.

630
00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:24,600
Speaker 1: I was alone in caring for my dad, and when

631
00:31:25,000 --> 00:31:32,880
Speaker 1: he was unalived, I was by myself. I developed GTSD.

632
00:31:40,800 --> 00:31:43,360
Speaker 1: One of our friends, John, Wait, does everyone want to

633
00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:45,200
Speaker 1: come in? Come on, come in, come in right, get

634
00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:53,320
Speaker 1: in here. I know, I know, yeah, yeah, don't say

635
00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:54,200
Speaker 1: they're being messed up?

636
00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:58,160
Speaker 3: All right? Wait, John, join on the couch, joining the couch. Yeah,

637
00:31:58,600 --> 00:31:59,080
Speaker 3: all right.

638
00:31:59,680 --> 00:32:03,680
Speaker 1: I was alone in caring for my dad and when

639
00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:07,080
Speaker 1: he passed away, and when he passed away, I was

640
00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:10,520
Speaker 1: by myself. I developed PTSD from it. So this whole

641
00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:12,880
Speaker 1: experience has been a massive trigger for me, and in

642
00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:16,400
Speaker 1: laws have zero appreciation for what I did for their

643
00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:20,040
Speaker 1: grand la slash mother. So for everyone who's just joining us,

644
00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:23,480
Speaker 1: grandmother is dying.

645
00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:27,040
Speaker 2: Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.

646
00:32:27,120 --> 00:32:30,920
Speaker 2: I don't like this angle hold on. Let me just

647
00:32:30,960 --> 00:32:32,800
Speaker 2: cover that up. I don't have.

648
00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:37,480
Speaker 1: You, Riley. Maybe maybe you get on producer, because it

649
00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:40,640
Speaker 1: seems like a seems I can't.

650
00:32:40,520 --> 00:32:42,160
Speaker 2: Have square I don't have square pants.

651
00:32:42,240 --> 00:32:42,640
Speaker 1: All right?

652
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:52,920
Speaker 3: Are you sure? All right?

653
00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:55,440
Speaker 1: Bikini bottom is assembling?

654
00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:57,440
Speaker 2: Okay, that's much better, Thank you.

655
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Speaker 1: Nice.

656
00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:02,800
Speaker 3: I look way more crazy at the sickle. This is.

657
00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:08,479
Speaker 1: Get any air? Get any here? We got a minute left,

658
00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:13,600
Speaker 1: all right, here we go. So he is retiring, all right,

659
00:33:13,840 --> 00:33:14,800
Speaker 1: get any here, Riley.

660
00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:17,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, don't get out of that yet. We need a picture.

661
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Speaker 2: Just get just start doing.

662
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Speaker 1: All right, We're good, let's go, let's go. So my

663
00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:28,760
Speaker 1: husband first asked if we could do Thanksgiving dinner with

664
00:33:28,760 --> 00:33:31,160
Speaker 1: his grandma just now, mother in law and father in

665
00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:33,920
Speaker 1: law at their house, since his grandma's time is short

666
00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:48,440
Speaker 1: and for everyone just joining us, to put your ball on.

667
00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:54,280
Speaker 2: I gave it to John.

668
00:33:55,680 --> 00:33:57,680
Speaker 1: Where's the ball man?

669
00:33:58,320 --> 00:34:00,760
Speaker 3: This is so bad? I can't take any anything serious

670
00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:01,440
Speaker 3: at all?

671
00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:09,480
Speaker 2: Which are you looking at.

672
00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:23,080
Speaker 1: Anyway? So, uh, basically, this person's grandma's dying in au Bro.

673
00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:24,080
Speaker 2: It's just terrible.

674
00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:30,200
Speaker 1: And O P is the UH is the in law.

675
00:34:30,480 --> 00:34:32,760
Speaker 1: So she's taking care of that. This is not her grandma,

676
00:34:32,760 --> 00:34:35,799
Speaker 1: it's her husband's grandma. But she's been taking care of

677
00:34:35,800 --> 00:34:38,359
Speaker 1: the grandma the most out of anyone. She's been there

678
00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:40,680
Speaker 1: for like multiple days as his grandma's dying, about to

679
00:34:40,719 --> 00:34:42,880
Speaker 1: kick the bucket, and like no one else is going

680
00:34:42,920 --> 00:34:46,799
Speaker 1: to be there, and so OP feels like all of

681
00:34:46,800 --> 00:34:49,360
Speaker 1: this is on her and it totally shouldn't be.

682
00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:53,600
Speaker 2: And so every time I look at Sama, just like

683
00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:56,040
Speaker 2: whatever's coming out of your mouth, I just it's I

684
00:34:56,080 --> 00:34:56,880
Speaker 2: don't understand.

685
00:34:58,000 --> 00:35:02,840
Speaker 3: Take this seriously, really, what is I'm trying to so hard?

686
00:35:02,920 --> 00:35:04,640
Speaker 1: Right now? Someone is dying right now, Kean.

687
00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:12,520
Speaker 3: Look, she said, I've showed this bowl on my head forever.

688
00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:16,520
Speaker 2: All right, all right, get back to get back at reality.

689
00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:20,320
Speaker 1: Come on at their house since the grandma's time is short.

690
00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:23,160
Speaker 1: I was reluctant, but agreed. Somehow his sisters found out

691
00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:27,000
Speaker 1: and invited themselves to this Thanksgiving thing that's going to

692
00:35:27,040 --> 00:35:30,600
Speaker 1: be the grandma's last Thanksgiving. That Opie is having to

693
00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:33,600
Speaker 1: put together. Somehow, his sisters found out invited themselves to

694
00:35:33,640 --> 00:35:36,160
Speaker 1: it as well. We got informed of this and by

695
00:35:36,239 --> 00:35:38,600
Speaker 1: just now mother in law went together. It was a

696
00:35:38,640 --> 00:35:42,239
Speaker 1: total of fifteen people. They get loud, we'll even argue

697
00:35:42,239 --> 00:35:44,720
Speaker 1: with each other. Just now. Mother in law also smokes

698
00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:46,319
Speaker 1: in the house, which I cannot stand the smell of.

699
00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:49,520
Speaker 1: My husband and I work retail and make the least

700
00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:52,719
Speaker 1: out of his siblings. I lost pay taking time to

701
00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:54,960
Speaker 1: sit in the hospital, which none of them did. We

702
00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:58,080
Speaker 1: are now expected to feed up to fifteen people, including

703
00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:00,200
Speaker 1: this mother in law that's on life support or this

704
00:36:00,239 --> 00:36:03,239
Speaker 1: grandmother in law that's on life support, with no help

705
00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:06,919
Speaker 1: from anyone else. If Grandma dies before Thanksgiving, then they're

706
00:36:06,920 --> 00:36:09,200
Speaker 1: going to cancel the entire dinner. So OPI has to

707
00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:11,400
Speaker 1: plan a dinner for someone who might die, and then

708
00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:13,880
Speaker 1: they're going to cancel the whole dinner. My husband doesn't

709
00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:16,680
Speaker 1: think it's going to be that expensive, but they're expecting

710
00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:20,879
Speaker 1: the turkey, eight to ten sides, dessert and rolls. They're

711
00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:25,040
Speaker 1: expecting all of this Thanksgiving crop for a granny that's

712
00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:26,120
Speaker 1: about to die.

713
00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:30,840
Speaker 2: Riley, you making you look so bad right now, I'm crying.

714
00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:33,000
Speaker 1: Guys, this is serious.

715
00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:34,120
Speaker 3: Yeah my eyes.

716
00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:39,520
Speaker 1: I wanted to cry thinking of all the work. My

717
00:36:39,680 --> 00:36:42,120
Speaker 1: husband thinks it's not not much work. I told him

718
00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:44,000
Speaker 1: we need to start buying and prepping for all that.

719
00:36:44,040 --> 00:36:46,520
Speaker 1: He disagrees and said we can buy a few days before,

720
00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:48,520
Speaker 1: but it shouldn't take more than a few hours the

721
00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:50,640
Speaker 1: day of to make everything. I am stressed to my limit.

722
00:36:50,960 --> 00:36:53,960
Speaker 1: I'm getting migraines now almost daily and can't get to

723
00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:56,600
Speaker 1: my therapist until December. I have tried to talk to

724
00:36:56,719 --> 00:36:59,279
Speaker 1: him into canceling or even getting them to chip in,

725
00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:01,839
Speaker 1: and he is. I get what he wants to do,

726
00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:04,279
Speaker 1: but it just feels like it's being dumped on my

727
00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:07,759
Speaker 1: shoulders to deal with, just like the granny. The dying

728
00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:10,239
Speaker 1: granny is getting dumped on Opie's shoulders, and it's not

729
00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:11,879
Speaker 1: eving her granny, it's her granny in law.

730
00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:15,120
Speaker 2: No one's helping. No one's helping, which is so I'm

731
00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:15,800
Speaker 2: so confused.

732
00:37:16,800 --> 00:37:18,640
Speaker 1: I don't want to tell him no, but I seriously

733
00:37:18,640 --> 00:37:20,480
Speaker 1: just want to break from other people all together on

734
00:37:20,520 --> 00:37:24,320
Speaker 1: the holidays, after spending unending hours at work with literal

735
00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:28,280
Speaker 1: streaming children, horribly entitled customers, and all the stress of everything.

736
00:37:28,520 --> 00:37:30,280
Speaker 1: Would I be the a hole if I just didn't

737
00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:32,399
Speaker 1: go to the dinner even if it upsets him? So

738
00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:36,240
Speaker 1: the basically, it's Granny's last Thanksgiving dinner because she's gonna

739
00:37:36,239 --> 00:37:39,520
Speaker 1: die imminently and Op doesn't want to go. Guys, you

740
00:37:39,520 --> 00:37:42,200
Speaker 1: guys can take this seriously. I feel like I'm the

741
00:37:42,200 --> 00:37:46,840
Speaker 1: only one taking this seriously. People are dying here, people

742
00:37:46,840 --> 00:37:50,400
Speaker 1: are people are on the line, and I feel like

743
00:37:50,520 --> 00:37:56,560
Speaker 1: no one is really hearing this. I've had it up

744
00:37:56,600 --> 00:38:01,880
Speaker 1: to hear. I'm crying, cry, I'm underwater.

745
00:38:02,520 --> 00:38:04,520
Speaker 2: I'm crying because it's a sad story.

746
00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:07,320
Speaker 3: Stop zuming it on me randomly.

747
00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:11,960
Speaker 1: It's not funny, all right, But we're gonna keep going,

748
00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:14,680
Speaker 1: so I don't think. I hope he needs a break.

749
00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:16,359
Speaker 1: You gotta take care of yourself before you take care

750
00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:20,279
Speaker 1: of everyone else. Update Thank you everyone who commented. I

751
00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:23,239
Speaker 1: was feeling so guilty for feeling like I was, but

752
00:38:23,360 --> 00:38:25,120
Speaker 1: you all helped me feel so much better about it.

753
00:38:25,239 --> 00:38:27,360
Speaker 1: So some things have happened since my original posts, But

754
00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:29,960
Speaker 1: first I would like to answer some questions. One grandma

755
00:38:30,080 --> 00:38:32,560
Speaker 1: is bedridden and lives with my just now father in

756
00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:35,400
Speaker 1: law and mother in law. There is zero way to

757
00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:37,959
Speaker 1: bring her out of our place to have Thanksgiving here,

758
00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:40,920
Speaker 1: hence why we have to go there. Two those that

759
00:38:41,000 --> 00:38:44,120
Speaker 1: commented about smoking and oxygen, yep, totally agree. Just now,

760
00:38:44,160 --> 00:38:46,680
Speaker 1: mother in law is not that bright obviously and doesn't

761
00:38:46,680 --> 00:38:49,960
Speaker 1: see that she is creating a worse situation. It's also

762
00:38:50,080 --> 00:38:52,759
Speaker 1: why I worry about the care Grandma is getting and

763
00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:55,640
Speaker 1: just now mother in law as her sole caregiver. Three

764
00:38:55,840 --> 00:38:59,280
Speaker 1: the cooking. While dear husband has cooked Thanksgiving dinner before,

765
00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:01,799
Speaker 1: it's only for a max of three people and it

766
00:39:01,880 --> 00:39:05,600
Speaker 1: was a very limited menu of potatoes, stuffing, rolls and turkey. However,

767
00:39:05,640 --> 00:39:08,560
Speaker 1: he offered to cook a full meal homemade to make

768
00:39:08,600 --> 00:39:12,560
Speaker 1: this last holiday with Grandma extra meaningful for the in laws. Yes,

769
00:39:12,600 --> 00:39:15,160
Speaker 1: they invited themselves. While I don't hate them, I am

770
00:39:15,200 --> 00:39:18,840
Speaker 1: given a headache at the idea that inviting oneself is

771
00:39:18,880 --> 00:39:21,880
Speaker 1: an okay to do, okay thing to do. But now

772
00:39:22,280 --> 00:39:23,320
Speaker 1: onto the updates.

773
00:39:23,400 --> 00:39:24,320
Speaker 3: Let's hear the updates.

774
00:39:24,400 --> 00:39:30,000
Speaker 1: Go I actually have I yes, Oh no, that's terrible.

775
00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:37,960
Speaker 6: Seriously, people are affected every year.

776
00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:43,520
Speaker 1: Stop laughing. All the stress has actually caused a very

777
00:39:43,520 --> 00:39:50,520
Speaker 1: severe flare up laughing and it's the worst thing I've

778
00:39:50,560 --> 00:39:57,200
Speaker 1: ever experienced. I was passing blood. This is a serious, dude.

779
00:39:57,640 --> 00:40:07,280
Speaker 1: Toilet looked like Riley's face. I had digestive stress, cramping,

780
00:40:07,640 --> 00:40:10,560
Speaker 1: to seest et cetera. I contact my husband, who asked

781
00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:12,919
Speaker 1: if I couldn't leave because it was so bad. That's

782
00:40:12,920 --> 00:40:15,480
Speaker 1: when I told him I had used up all my

783
00:40:15,680 --> 00:40:18,040
Speaker 1: leave on his grandma's hospital stay and we could not

784
00:40:18,120 --> 00:40:21,200
Speaker 1: afford for me to miss any more time. Anyway. He

785
00:40:21,239 --> 00:40:23,439
Speaker 1: didn't reply for a full three minutes. I think that's

786
00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:26,080
Speaker 1: when it hit him. The stress of everything was going

787
00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:27,080
Speaker 1: to put me to.

788
00:40:30,160 --> 00:40:32,000
Speaker 2: Stop assuming on our faces.

789
00:40:32,040 --> 00:40:37,560
Speaker 1: Please, everything that's going to put me in the hospital.

790
00:40:37,719 --> 00:40:40,600
Speaker 1: And I literally physically mentally could not take it anymore.

791
00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:42,680
Speaker 1: My boss was great about letting me sit in the

792
00:40:42,719 --> 00:40:45,480
Speaker 1: breakroom and recover a bit on the clock while checking

793
00:40:45,480 --> 00:40:48,160
Speaker 1: it out with a telehealth doctor on what to do

794
00:40:48,280 --> 00:40:50,680
Speaker 1: with my flare up. After an hour or so, I

795
00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:53,040
Speaker 1: was able to work again, but slower paced. I powered

796
00:40:53,080 --> 00:40:56,040
Speaker 1: through how I don't know, and got home later. When

797
00:40:56,080 --> 00:40:58,200
Speaker 1: I came to the door, my husband got up from

798
00:40:58,239 --> 00:41:00,800
Speaker 1: my bed and panicked when he saw me. He said,

799
00:41:01,000 --> 00:41:03,320
Speaker 1: my face was pale and I had almost no color

800
00:41:03,400 --> 00:41:10,520
Speaker 1: in my lips. Same, you probably looked like keon an

801
00:41:10,520 --> 00:41:16,000
Speaker 1: eyeball face, his face pale. He said, my face was

802
00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:18,600
Speaker 1: pale and almost no color in my lips. He got

803
00:41:18,640 --> 00:41:21,560
Speaker 1: me to bed, made me some hot tea some stomach beds,

804
00:41:21,560 --> 00:41:23,759
Speaker 1: and asked what he could do to help. That's when

805
00:41:23,800 --> 00:41:28,239
Speaker 1: the floodgates opened. I began to cry. I told him

806
00:41:28,239 --> 00:41:31,799
Speaker 1: my stress has to come down that after everything, plus work,

807
00:41:31,840 --> 00:41:36,239
Speaker 1: adding on a Thanksgiving dinner that was big, a bit much,

808
00:41:37,280 --> 00:41:39,440
Speaker 1: and it was from scratch for that many people. That

809
00:41:39,560 --> 00:41:43,239
Speaker 1: was way too much. I couldn't do it. I told him.

810
00:41:43,400 --> 00:41:46,000
Speaker 1: While I get it, I get what he wants to do.

811
00:41:46,800 --> 00:41:50,320
Speaker 1: I get it may be Grandma's last, but the stress

812
00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:52,600
Speaker 1: of it was just way too much that my body

813
00:41:52,600 --> 00:41:56,160
Speaker 1: could handle. I immediately looked so guilty. He wrapped his

814
00:41:56,280 --> 00:41:59,400
Speaker 1: arms around me and apologized profusely. He said he was

815
00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:01,200
Speaker 1: so focused on the time he had left with his

816
00:42:01,280 --> 00:42:05,040
Speaker 1: grandma and making her happy before she passed away, he

817
00:42:05,120 --> 00:42:08,680
Speaker 1: hadn't realized how much he was putting on me. He

818
00:42:08,719 --> 00:42:12,279
Speaker 1: said my health was more important and that his siblings

819
00:42:12,800 --> 00:42:15,400
Speaker 1: than his siblings getting a free meal. Yeah, literally, OPI

820
00:42:15,560 --> 00:42:18,200
Speaker 1: is bleeding out of their butt for his grandma.

821
00:42:18,640 --> 00:42:20,720
Speaker 3: Like literally literally sucks.

822
00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:27,799
Speaker 1: Literally that that asked if I would be okay just

823
00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:34,720
Speaker 1: cooking for us his grandma, mom and stepdad? What what about?

824
00:42:35,160 --> 00:42:37,480
Speaker 1: What part of bleeding out of your butt? Do you

825
00:42:37,560 --> 00:42:38,360
Speaker 1: not understand?

826
00:42:38,480 --> 00:42:38,719
Speaker 2: Dude?

827
00:42:38,719 --> 00:42:41,880
Speaker 1: But you're still like, yeah, can you just cook for us?

828
00:42:41,880 --> 00:42:44,359
Speaker 3: Harder to make me another meal? Go ahead and do it?

829
00:42:44,520 --> 00:42:50,200
Speaker 2: You know what I'm you say that, I'm legit crying guys.

830
00:42:52,640 --> 00:42:54,560
Speaker 1: I said yes, but I asked if I could not

831
00:42:54,640 --> 00:42:57,040
Speaker 1: make anything from scratch or if I could not make

832
00:42:57,040 --> 00:42:59,759
Speaker 1: everything from scratch, and he instantly agreed. So we're going

833
00:42:59,800 --> 00:43:01,840
Speaker 1: to just side tonight what is going to be store

834
00:43:01,840 --> 00:43:03,920
Speaker 1: bought and what can be just taken off the menu.

835
00:43:04,200 --> 00:43:06,279
Speaker 1: He's also calling his sisters and telling them it's not

836
00:43:06,320 --> 00:43:09,000
Speaker 1: possible for them to come and to make other arrangements.

837
00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:11,560
Speaker 1: He has also agreed to help prep things ahead as well.

838
00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:14,560
Speaker 1: We're going to use disposable pans slash plates for most

839
00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:17,480
Speaker 1: things to make clean up easier as well. And if

840
00:43:17,480 --> 00:43:21,080
Speaker 1: you want to clean up your life by listening to

841
00:43:21,160 --> 00:43:23,960
Speaker 1: stories that could maybe help you clean up your life,

842
00:43:24,040 --> 00:43:26,600
Speaker 1: you usually join us live every weekday at three PMPST.

843
00:43:26,840 --> 00:43:29,160
Speaker 1: Just tap a profile. But there's some more to this story.

844
00:43:29,880 --> 00:43:32,279
Speaker 1: So today's my day off and I am bed resting now,

845
00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:35,880
Speaker 1: on anti inflammatory diet for the bleeding butt, and trying

846
00:43:35,880 --> 00:43:38,120
Speaker 1: to destress as much as I can. My husband said

847
00:43:38,160 --> 00:43:40,160
Speaker 1: he will be cooking dinner for tonight and tomorrow and

848
00:43:40,200 --> 00:43:42,120
Speaker 1: for me to just take it easy. He has called

849
00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:45,080
Speaker 1: from work to check on me several times. He said that,

850
00:43:45,120 --> 00:43:47,959
Speaker 1: regardless of the cost, if my flare doesn't calm down,

851
00:43:48,040 --> 00:43:50,040
Speaker 1: to just go to the hospital and get it taken

852
00:43:50,080 --> 00:43:52,600
Speaker 1: care of. But after I cook the meal, What the

853
00:43:52,640 --> 00:43:54,520
Speaker 1: hell I'm kidding even say that, But that's what it

854
00:43:54,560 --> 00:43:57,640
Speaker 1: feels like. That's the energy. This is probably the best

855
00:43:57,680 --> 00:43:59,760
Speaker 1: I could hope for at the moment. When we talk tonight,

856
00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:02,479
Speaker 1: I'm going to ask for a no smoking ban while

857
00:44:02,520 --> 00:44:04,960
Speaker 1: I am at their house and plan to take some

858
00:44:05,080 --> 00:44:07,799
Speaker 1: kind of odor neutralizer with me to help with the

859
00:44:07,800 --> 00:44:09,919
Speaker 1: smell of it. If they don't agree, then we will

860
00:44:09,920 --> 00:44:12,480
Speaker 1: cook at our home and he can deliver them plates

861
00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:15,399
Speaker 1: of food instead of us cooking here. And that's where

862
00:44:15,400 --> 00:44:18,400
Speaker 1: that story ends, But not where there's stream ends, because

863
00:44:18,440 --> 00:44:20,080
Speaker 1: we have durning.

864
00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:20,920
Speaker 4: More out.

865
00:44:23,760 --> 00:44:27,960
Speaker 6: Go go, Yes, let's freaking go.

866
00:44:28,080 --> 00:44:29,799
Speaker 1: We got some donuts to read, and I'm gonna give

867
00:44:29,840 --> 00:44:31,919
Speaker 1: this over to Johnny Boy. To read this next one.

868
00:44:32,440 --> 00:44:33,400
Speaker 3: Toss it to me, baby.

869
00:44:34,440 --> 00:44:36,200
Speaker 1: Do you and Keo want to do a switcher roo?

870
00:44:36,400 --> 00:44:39,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, we'll probably take a picture too, true.

871
00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:43,200
Speaker 1: Let me read these donuts. I'm a fourteen oh eight

872
00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:46,399
Speaker 1: remember for three months. Plankton in SpongeBob is a coma pod.

873
00:44:46,400 --> 00:44:49,839
Speaker 1: Read that s Via Callan read that Lailah Bitmona read

874
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Speaker 1: that Slivy Toes. Thanks for the twenty bucks second in

875
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Speaker 1: Cursed Stream, love you all, kisses, Keon, Happy Halloween, Crystal Sullivan,

876
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Speaker 1: welcome to the night Mix Mix. Thanks for the twenty

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Speaker 1: bucks A little bit more time. We're giving it to you,

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00:45:04,320 --> 00:45:10,600
Speaker 1: flip Switch, thanks for the fifty bucks time. We appreciate you.

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00:45:10,719 --> 00:45:15,920
Speaker 1: Carla Wentz gifted five Okay Storytime memberships, making the stream

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00:45:16,719 --> 00:45:20,080
Speaker 1: community a bit bigger. Then we got Brittany I see

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Speaker 1: you Lean with ten bucks me HOYI hoy, flip Switch

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Speaker 1: with the seventy five bucks more Spooky Stream. We're giving

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Speaker 1: it to you because we love giving it to you.

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Speaker 3: We sure do.

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Speaker 1: And per Panda, thanks for the ten bucks. Happy Halloween.

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Speaker 7: Sweet Let's let's all sit on the blue couch and

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Speaker 7: take a on the blue.

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Speaker 1: Oh yes, that's awesome.

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00:45:44,600 --> 00:45:57,000
Speaker 3: Here we go. All right, here we go, let's go. Shit, yeah,

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Speaker 3: sit on the floor.

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00:45:59,320 --> 00:46:02,600
Speaker 2: With your box chashd.

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Speaker 1: Wait wait wait send our laps or something.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, okay, you can leave backay, let's go.

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Speaker 6: We did that all Halloween one small step for man.

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Speaker 2: Bye Chat. I love you all, Happy Halloween. Gea like,

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Speaker 2: let's not look at that.

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Speaker 3: I'm leaving.

898
00:46:42,520 --> 00:46:47,000
Speaker 2: I got help, I gotta sit downstairs, brood Bye.

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Speaker 3: I love you all.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you.

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Speaker 1: This is a great to see what they wanted to see.

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Speaker 2: Got you Okay, okay, bye chat, Happy Halloween, Bye bye.

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Speaker 3: Except for me because I'm not leaving the story.

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Speaker 1: Riley. We we should take off for the rest of

905
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Speaker 1: the time because we probably are gonna have to leave it.

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Speaker 3: So what what time is it?

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00:47:15,120 --> 00:47:17,759
Speaker 7: We got twenty four minutes left and it's six forty.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well I know about I'm saying, maybe take off

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Speaker 1: the dono bar Oh yeah yeah, Because guys, we do

910
00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:27,360
Speaker 1: have a party to get to. So we can't do

911
00:47:27,440 --> 00:47:30,920
Speaker 1: a class, we can't do a crazy crazy stream.

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00:47:31,000 --> 00:47:32,120
Speaker 3: We can't do ten hours.

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Speaker 1: You can't do take away.

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Speaker 3: Also, what episode I ran?

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Speaker 7: I don't know one second.

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00:47:40,400 --> 00:47:44,399
Speaker 3: Oh, I'll look it up, all look it up. Looks

917
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Speaker 3: like we just didn't sixty eight.

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Speaker 1: And you crushed it.

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Speaker 9: Dude, Right, So this is exactly it's like exactly the

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00:47:53,920 --> 00:48:00,279
Speaker 9: vibe that we're going for, like slightly crazy, slightly disturbing, yeah,

921
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Speaker 9: but like still done up is yeah, like this is

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Speaker 9: Legiti moon.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah. We literally we have thirty minutes to set

924
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Speaker 1: up for our party. We have like sixty people can

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Speaker 1: get it.

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Speaker 3: I believe in us.

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Speaker 7: One second, this chat box has been pissing me off.

928
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Speaker 1: No ten hour stream, secret wallorus. I'm sorry, Sai. Yeah,

929
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Speaker 1: we will allow it for today. Take us with you,

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Speaker 1: Take us with you to the party. We just, you know,

931
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Speaker 1: be funny if we just kept the stream on while

932
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Speaker 1: the party happened, but we just sad people come in.

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Speaker 3: Everyone's's that's funny.

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Speaker 6: That's like a funny members only, Like it's like a

935
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Speaker 6: it's like a confessional stream.

936
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Speaker 3: You just come in and you're just like, I mean,

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Speaker 3: what is crazy?

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Speaker 1: I mean would that be Should we do that? Members only?

939
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Speaker 1: I don't know, that's a good question, guys. Should we

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Speaker 1: do that? Should we keep it?

941
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Speaker 3: We could set it up downstairs, just like have it

942
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Speaker 3: run in the well.

943
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Speaker 1: What if we just keep it up? We keep it

944
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Speaker 1: running upstairs and it's just members only.

945
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Speaker 7: No one could see it though, what do you mean

946
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Speaker 7: no one could If we just kept it upstairs, no

947
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Speaker 7: one would know.

948
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Speaker 3: But like people could come up just like say hi

949
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Speaker 3: to chat.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, we could keep keep them entertained, you know, we

951
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Speaker 7: could say hi to chat, or we could just like

952
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Speaker 7: put one downstairs.

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Speaker 1: We'll think about a chat, We'll think about discuss, we'll discuss, discuss,

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Speaker 1: We'll discuss. But it's kind of a fun idea.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I like it. I think it's gonna.

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Speaker 1: Because then everyone could like, yeah, I guess if someone

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Speaker 1: says something crazy or something.

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Speaker 7: We could have put them on mute, like my three

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Speaker 7: D print thing, so people just come on it like, yeah,

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Speaker 7: they could say like a really bad word.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I wouldn't want. I wouldn't want.

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Speaker 6: But either either way, chat, We're gonna make these last

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Speaker 6: twenty minutes the greatest twenty minutes.

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Speaker 1: Yeah you ever twenty minutes of your life? That's right

965
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Speaker 1: about to get your rocks blown off?

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Speaker 3: Oh god, all right, are we ready? I have my

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Speaker 3: mother not scared? Is that right? Yep? Let's do it.

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Speaker 6: My mother laws scared my children, and now they refuse

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Speaker 6: to eat meat, eat meat, meat meat.

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Speaker 3: Well, they'll eat you. This is your not meat. Oh

971
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Speaker 3: you're a sponge.

972
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Speaker 1: So oh god.

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Speaker 6: When my wife was a teenager, her stepmother had health

974
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Speaker 6: issues that eventually led to a hysterectomy.

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Speaker 1: Being a lot about hysterectomies real lately, I.

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Speaker 7: Double hyst direct me. This correct me the history of hystectomies.

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Speaker 7: She and my father in law had been trying to

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Speaker 7: conceive prior, and she's very open about how painful it

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Speaker 7: was when she was unable to have kids.

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Speaker 3: She's been in.

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Speaker 6: Therapy for years, but this is still a sore subject,

982
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Speaker 6: so we don't bring it up. By the way, this

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Speaker 6: comes from veggie smile throw away on the Arsasha Okay,

984
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Speaker 6: story time sober it. So during the pandemic, uh, my

985
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Speaker 6: stepmother in law, my mother in law became my mother

986
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Speaker 6: in law became a vegetarian.

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Speaker 3: Well, I obviously have no problem with that.

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Speaker 6: No one else in the family is, and she tends

989
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Speaker 6: to be very preachy about it. There's one specific video

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Speaker 6: of cattle being slaughtered and processed, but there's always those

991
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Speaker 6: videos on Facebook where it's like, you know how chicken

992
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Speaker 6: nuggets are made, and it just shows you the cutest

993
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Speaker 6: little chick ever.

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Speaker 1: And that it's just like end of the meat grinder.

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Speaker 7: Okay, quick, okay, story time. I went to a cattle farm.

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Speaker 7: It was actually my cousin now cousin. It was this

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Speaker 7: family's cattle farm. And they got us there and they

998
00:51:25,719 --> 00:51:29,280
Speaker 7: were they handed everyone out suckers, and they started talking

999
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Speaker 7: about like the different cuts of meat and where they

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Speaker 7: come from. And he said, but you guys know what

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Speaker 7: we do with the fat and the parts we don't use.

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Speaker 7: We put them in suckers. I didn't take a sucker

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Speaker 7: because at that time in my life I didn't like suckers,

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00:51:42,760 --> 00:51:45,680
Speaker 7: and everyone else was like a sucker, like a popsicle

1005
00:51:45,719 --> 00:51:46,360
Speaker 7: sucker thing.

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Speaker 1: Like lollipop, yeah, lollipop, yeah, sucker.

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Speaker 3: Isn't that crazy?

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00:51:51,320 --> 00:51:52,920
Speaker 7: They handed us out that, and then totally it came

1009
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Speaker 7: from like basically like the guts.

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Speaker 3: Lying, No, that's what they do. They use the fat

1011
00:51:58,360 --> 00:52:02,480
Speaker 3: of oh jelatine. Yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah right.

1012
00:52:02,520 --> 00:52:04,360
Speaker 1: Well I want to suck on this next part of

1013
00:52:04,360 --> 00:52:04,719
Speaker 1: the story.

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00:52:04,800 --> 00:52:06,960
Speaker 3: Oh, I just thought.

1015
00:52:07,480 --> 00:52:09,920
Speaker 6: They sent that video to multiple family members and because

1016
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Speaker 6: of that preachiness, my wife and I try to avoid.

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Speaker 3: Having meals with her.

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Speaker 6: I've also been told that she and father in law

1019
00:52:17,520 --> 00:52:19,080
Speaker 6: often eat in separate rooms.

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Speaker 1: My god, that's so weird.

1021
00:52:20,960 --> 00:52:23,560
Speaker 6: Anyway, my wife and I attend a wedding about two

1022
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Speaker 6: weeks ago.

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00:52:24,320 --> 00:52:26,040
Speaker 3: And our regular babysitter canceled on.

1024
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Speaker 6: Us at the last minute. So father in law and

1025
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Speaker 6: oh stepmother in law volunteered to watch our kids, eight

1026
00:52:31,200 --> 00:52:33,960
Speaker 6: male and five female. They baby sat our children once

1027
00:52:34,000 --> 00:52:36,080
Speaker 6: a few months ago and things went fine, so my

1028
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Speaker 6: wife and I agreed the kids were asleep. When we

1029
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Speaker 6: returned home the next day, my daughter was very upset.

1030
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Speaker 6: She barely spoke all morning. I see you in the comments.

1031
00:52:47,800 --> 00:52:50,600
Speaker 6: When we sat down for lunch, she started crying and

1032
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Speaker 6: refused to eat. We talked to her, but she refused

1033
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Speaker 6: to tell us what was wrong. Eventually, my son told

1034
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Speaker 6: us what happened. We have promised the kids that they

1035
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Speaker 6: could have burgers for dinner.

1036
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Speaker 1: Not on not on my lad not on her cow

1037
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Speaker 1: shall be served in these premises.

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Speaker 6: Now, my father in law was aware of that, but

1039
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Speaker 6: he apparently fell asleep less than an hour after we left,

1040
00:53:18,400 --> 00:53:21,520
Speaker 6: classic grandpa move. When it was time for dinner, the

1041
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Speaker 6: kids went to ask a step mother in law to

1042
00:53:23,719 --> 00:53:28,320
Speaker 6: make the burgers, and she refused. My son offered to

1043
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Speaker 6: wake father in law up, but she said no to

1044
00:53:30,320 --> 00:53:33,399
Speaker 6: that too. She said that she would make the kids

1045
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Speaker 6: something else for dinner. Can you guess what that is?

1046
00:53:39,320 --> 00:53:43,279
Speaker 6: When my children started begging for the burgers, stepmother in

1047
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Speaker 6: law showed.

1048
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Speaker 1: Them the cattle ball, not the cattle my yes, dude,

1049
00:53:51,000 --> 00:53:54,600
Speaker 1: those kids are going to be traumatized. Eight years old. Bro,

1050
00:53:55,080 --> 00:53:59,080
Speaker 1: they'll never eat a piece of beat again. Son.

1051
00:53:59,480 --> 00:54:00,439
Speaker 3: Oh oh, my god.

1052
00:54:00,520 --> 00:54:01,759
Speaker 1: Vegetarians for life.

1053
00:54:02,440 --> 00:54:05,719
Speaker 6: She also apparently told them that my wife was secretly

1054
00:54:05,840 --> 00:54:09,600
Speaker 6: against them eating meat, which is why they hesitated to

1055
00:54:09,640 --> 00:54:10,280
Speaker 6: tell us.

1056
00:54:10,160 --> 00:54:12,400
Speaker 3: What she'd done. Dude.

1057
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Speaker 6: My wife and I had to talk with our kids

1058
00:54:14,440 --> 00:54:16,520
Speaker 6: and they and managed to get them to feel better.

1059
00:54:16,920 --> 00:54:19,359
Speaker 6: After they went to bed, we called stepmother in law.

1060
00:54:19,800 --> 00:54:22,600
Speaker 6: She confirmed that she'd shown them the video to say.

1061
00:54:22,680 --> 00:54:26,439
Speaker 6: We're both outraged. We'd be putting it lightly. My wife

1062
00:54:26,480 --> 00:54:28,839
Speaker 6: and I immediately told her we were cutting them off

1063
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Speaker 6: from our kids, and we'll probably do the same for

1064
00:54:30,800 --> 00:54:32,880
Speaker 6: father in law for falling asleep when he was supposed

1065
00:54:32,880 --> 00:54:38,239
Speaker 6: to be babysitting. True, stepmother in law was trying to

1066
00:54:38,239 --> 00:54:40,799
Speaker 6: defend herself. She told us she was only trying to

1067
00:54:40,880 --> 00:54:43,360
Speaker 6: help and that we should be making more efforts to

1068
00:54:43,360 --> 00:54:46,960
Speaker 6: get our kids to eat healthy. It only made me angrier.

1069
00:54:47,080 --> 00:54:49,480
Speaker 6: I told her she has no idea how glad I

1070
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Speaker 6: am that she can't have children.

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Speaker 1: Oh what go down?

1072
00:54:55,480 --> 00:54:58,120
Speaker 3: That's wild, that's a little crazy.

1073
00:54:58,120 --> 00:55:00,560
Speaker 1: That's I mean, that is that is a little rough.

1074
00:55:01,480 --> 00:55:04,319
Speaker 1: But but you when you when you start showing my

1075
00:55:04,480 --> 00:55:07,600
Speaker 1: kids dead cows, clubs.

1076
00:55:07,280 --> 00:55:09,799
Speaker 3: Come off, dude, Apparently.

1077
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Speaker 1: I'm ready to freaking throw hands squeak squeaks, because I'd

1078
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Speaker 1: pity the child that would have her.

1079
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Speaker 3: As a mother. After that, she hung up on us.

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Speaker 3: Father in law has been calling and texting us.

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Speaker 6: He is apologetic for falling asleep, but insists that cutting

1082
00:55:26,640 --> 00:55:29,759
Speaker 6: him off and his wife is an overreaction. He's also

1083
00:55:29,840 --> 00:55:35,239
Speaker 6: angry that I mocked stepmother in law's in fertility. Apparently

1084
00:55:35,280 --> 00:55:37,360
Speaker 6: she is distraught at what I said, and father in

1085
00:55:37,440 --> 00:55:40,600
Speaker 6: law is demanding I apologize to her. Honestly, I don't

1086
00:55:40,600 --> 00:55:43,240
Speaker 6: think i'm the a hole here, but I am wondering

1087
00:55:43,280 --> 00:55:44,600
Speaker 6: whether I went too far.

1088
00:55:45,120 --> 00:55:46,319
Speaker 3: My wife agrees it.

1089
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Speaker 6: Was a low blow that sister in law deserved to hear,

1090
00:55:49,840 --> 00:55:50,640
Speaker 6: But a low blow.

1091
00:55:50,760 --> 00:55:52,480
Speaker 3: Nonetheless, I don't I don't know.

1092
00:55:53,000 --> 00:55:54,520
Speaker 1: I think it's like maybe a little I don't know

1093
00:55:54,560 --> 00:55:57,120
Speaker 1: if it's justified because you didn't need to say it.

1094
00:55:57,719 --> 00:55:59,400
Speaker 1: But it's like you're like a little bit of an

1095
00:55:59,440 --> 00:56:02,360
Speaker 1: A hole move, like understandable, like you shouldn't have said that.

1096
00:56:02,400 --> 00:56:03,240
Speaker 1: It's like a low blow.

1097
00:56:03,520 --> 00:56:06,200
Speaker 6: I think, uh, I think I'm even further on the

1098
00:56:06,800 --> 00:56:08,560
Speaker 6: on the on the line on this one. I think

1099
00:56:08,560 --> 00:56:10,719
Speaker 6: that that was a I think you can be like

1100
00:56:11,400 --> 00:56:14,799
Speaker 6: how there's a lot of things I can cut them,

1101
00:56:14,880 --> 00:56:18,800
Speaker 6: cut them off, like you'll you'll never see my grandchildren again.

1102
00:56:18,840 --> 00:56:22,759
Speaker 6: But just like the the unnecessary stab, Yeah, that.

1103
00:56:22,840 --> 00:56:26,280
Speaker 1: Is is I feel like it's a it's a sharp

1104
00:56:26,320 --> 00:56:28,160
Speaker 1: as it's a it's an a whole it's an a

1105
00:56:28,160 --> 00:56:28,520
Speaker 1: whole move.

1106
00:56:28,600 --> 00:56:29,239
Speaker 3: It's an a whole move.

1107
00:56:29,320 --> 00:56:31,799
Speaker 1: I understand. Like it's not that the other person is

1108
00:56:31,800 --> 00:56:36,960
Speaker 1: not the a hole either, A thousand A huge I think, uh,

1109
00:56:37,320 --> 00:56:39,680
Speaker 1: I don't even know would we even say justified. I

1110
00:56:39,680 --> 00:56:40,680
Speaker 1: don't know if it's justified.

1111
00:56:40,760 --> 00:56:44,200
Speaker 6: I am gonna not say justified. I'm gonna say I'm

1112
00:56:44,239 --> 00:56:46,759
Speaker 6: just gonna say that was an a whole move. But

1113
00:56:47,120 --> 00:56:51,319
Speaker 6: obviously stepmother in law is like also insanity.

1114
00:56:50,840 --> 00:56:52,440
Speaker 3: And absolutely an ahole.

1115
00:56:52,760 --> 00:56:58,280
Speaker 6: Absolutely, So there's an edit, okay to clarify some things

1116
00:56:58,600 --> 00:57:02,120
Speaker 6: that I I haven't already said in the comments. Father

1117
00:57:02,200 --> 00:57:04,479
Speaker 6: in law and stepmother in law babysat at our place,

1118
00:57:04,560 --> 00:57:06,600
Speaker 6: not theirs. I can't believe I have to say this,

1119
00:57:06,680 --> 00:57:09,319
Speaker 6: but I have no problem with vegetarianism. I actually tried

1120
00:57:09,360 --> 00:57:12,080
Speaker 6: to become vegetarian a few years ago, but couldn't for

1121
00:57:12,160 --> 00:57:15,600
Speaker 6: medical reasons. In stepmother in law's case, what I have

1122
00:57:15,640 --> 00:57:17,160
Speaker 6: a problem with is her preachiness.

1123
00:57:18,280 --> 00:57:18,840
Speaker 3: In general.

1124
00:57:19,000 --> 00:57:22,120
Speaker 6: My wife and I have always had a man relationship

1125
00:57:22,120 --> 00:57:24,080
Speaker 6: with stepmother in law, but we never disliked her or

1126
00:57:24,120 --> 00:57:26,920
Speaker 6: treated her poorly. She has made a few comments about

1127
00:57:26,920 --> 00:57:30,400
Speaker 6: introducing vegetarianism to our kids in the past, but never

1128
00:57:30,520 --> 00:57:34,640
Speaker 6: anything to this extreme. I'll admit I don't know much

1129
00:57:34,640 --> 00:57:37,520
Speaker 6: about stepmother in law's medical history. I only know about

1130
00:57:37,520 --> 00:57:40,440
Speaker 6: the hysterectomy because she didn't react well to either of

1131
00:57:40,480 --> 00:57:43,120
Speaker 6: my wife's pregnancies and they had to tell me.

1132
00:57:43,360 --> 00:57:44,280
Speaker 3: What was going on.

1133
00:57:45,320 --> 00:57:47,880
Speaker 6: We promised the kids the Burger's back when they were

1134
00:57:47,920 --> 00:57:51,479
Speaker 6: going to be watched by their usual babysitter. Father, father

1135
00:57:51,520 --> 00:57:53,520
Speaker 6: in law and stepmother in law replaced her at the

1136
00:57:53,600 --> 00:57:55,960
Speaker 6: very last minute, and the kids ate chicken the last

1137
00:57:55,960 --> 00:57:56,840
Speaker 6: time they babysat.

1138
00:57:57,240 --> 00:57:58,080
Speaker 3: We didn't plan it.

1139
00:57:58,200 --> 00:58:00,600
Speaker 6: Father in law found it in the cridge found father

1140
00:58:00,640 --> 00:58:01,480
Speaker 6: in law found it, and the.

1141
00:58:01,400 --> 00:58:02,240
Speaker 3: Fridging cooked it.

1142
00:58:02,680 --> 00:58:05,720
Speaker 6: So we maintained the burgers because well, I guess one

1143
00:58:05,720 --> 00:58:07,920
Speaker 6: could technically argue like, oh, why did you have her

1144
00:58:08,160 --> 00:58:10,360
Speaker 6: like cook the burgers? And it's like it was last minute,

1145
00:58:10,360 --> 00:58:14,720
Speaker 6: they'd already fed a meet before. There's a precedent. And

1146
00:58:14,840 --> 00:58:17,520
Speaker 6: also Opie says, I saw the video a few years ago.

1147
00:58:17,880 --> 00:58:21,200
Speaker 6: It's a little under five minutes long and very graphic.

1148
00:58:21,760 --> 00:58:25,720
Speaker 1: Not the worst one of those videos five minutes five minutes.

1149
00:58:26,040 --> 00:58:29,200
Speaker 1: That was like a little TikTok video. No five minutes

1150
00:58:30,360 --> 00:58:33,320
Speaker 1: slaughter feature length YouTube videos.

1151
00:58:33,400 --> 00:58:35,120
Speaker 3: I would kind of be interested to see if I

1152
00:58:35,120 --> 00:58:35,920
Speaker 3: could handle.

1153
00:58:35,640 --> 00:58:38,080
Speaker 1: It or not. You could handle it, you're a big boy.

1154
00:58:38,200 --> 00:58:39,600
Speaker 3: But I can't watch gory movies.

1155
00:58:41,680 --> 00:58:43,680
Speaker 1: Well that's a whole movie, that's ninety minutes of that

1156
00:58:43,840 --> 00:58:44,560
Speaker 1: is a well, it's.

1157
00:58:44,400 --> 00:58:46,240
Speaker 7: Like I can't watch like pieces of it, Like I

1158
00:58:46,280 --> 00:58:49,960
Speaker 7: look away, I skip past it. Yeah, but like it's cattle,

1159
00:58:50,000 --> 00:58:51,360
Speaker 7: I'm like, what do we find out right now?

1160
00:58:51,440 --> 00:58:55,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, you watch it. I'll watch our two Girls one cut.

1161
00:58:55,600 --> 00:58:58,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that definitely won't get our our live stream

1162
00:58:58,240 --> 00:58:58,680
Speaker 3: shut down?

1163
00:58:58,960 --> 00:59:02,200
Speaker 1: Did you did you watch that? Uh? No, I never did.

1164
00:59:02,240 --> 00:59:06,200
Speaker 1: Actually I heard a lot about it about it that

1165
00:59:06,360 --> 00:59:07,560
Speaker 1: and like one man one.

1166
00:59:07,520 --> 00:59:10,200
Speaker 3: Jar on the classics, he.

1167
00:59:10,240 --> 00:59:14,600
Speaker 1: Had the classics pain Olympics. That was a classic. What

1168
00:59:14,680 --> 00:59:15,360
Speaker 1: was another one?

1169
00:59:15,520 --> 00:59:17,840
Speaker 7: Anyways, back to the story, the guy in the fan

1170
00:59:18,040 --> 00:59:19,320
Speaker 7: is thinking in the fan.

1171
00:59:19,400 --> 00:59:21,000
Speaker 1: I don't I don't know about that one.

1172
00:59:21,680 --> 00:59:23,040
Speaker 7: He put this thing in the fan?

1173
00:59:23,280 --> 00:59:23,880
Speaker 1: Oh God.

1174
00:59:24,280 --> 00:59:29,880
Speaker 6: So, from my son's description is I think they watched

1175
00:59:29,920 --> 00:59:34,560
Speaker 6: most of the video, the cow video. So I'm more

1176
00:59:34,600 --> 00:59:37,520
Speaker 6: angry about my stepmother in law lying to my children

1177
00:59:37,960 --> 00:59:40,680
Speaker 6: about their mother than the fact that they showed them

1178
00:59:40,680 --> 00:59:41,120
Speaker 6: the video.

1179
00:59:41,440 --> 00:59:43,760
Speaker 3: But the whole situation infuriates me.

1180
00:59:44,360 --> 00:59:47,760
Speaker 6: My wife is angry that her father fell asleep for

1181
00:59:47,800 --> 00:59:50,760
Speaker 6: personal reasons, but we're not certain about cutting him off.

1182
00:59:51,000 --> 00:59:53,800
Speaker 6: We won't budge on stepmother in law. Having read most

1183
00:59:53,800 --> 00:59:55,920
Speaker 6: of your comments, I think I'll apologize for what I

1184
00:59:55,960 --> 00:59:59,840
Speaker 6: said about her fertility w but I will maintain everything

1185
00:59:59,840 --> 01:00:02,760
Speaker 6: else else I want. I don't want her ever. I

1186
01:00:02,800 --> 01:00:04,720
Speaker 6: don't want her near my children ever again.

1187
01:00:05,040 --> 01:00:07,280
Speaker 3: And I will update you when I can, and we

1188
01:00:07,320 --> 01:00:09,040
Speaker 3: do have set updates understandable.

1189
01:00:09,240 --> 01:00:13,360
Speaker 1: Honestly, Yeah, I mean you really you really did something

1190
01:00:13,400 --> 01:00:14,360
Speaker 1: pretty messed up.

1191
01:00:14,800 --> 01:00:17,520
Speaker 6: So it's like, yeah, I can't. I can't trust you

1192
01:00:17,600 --> 01:00:19,120
Speaker 6: around my kids anymore.

1193
01:00:19,440 --> 01:00:22,040
Speaker 1: And why would I, I mean, you show them something traumatic? Yeah,

1194
01:00:22,200 --> 01:00:26,040
Speaker 1: Like I think my parents would be mad if someone showed,

1195
01:00:26,880 --> 01:00:33,520
Speaker 1: like me a rated R movie when I was sixteen

1196
01:00:33,840 --> 01:00:40,240
Speaker 1: that happened. Uh kind of what'd you watch? We're the worlds?

1197
01:00:40,480 --> 01:00:42,680
Speaker 3: Oh that's such a good that's not ready to horror.

1198
01:00:42,720 --> 01:00:46,840
Speaker 1: That's rated R. Whoa with Tom Cruise, Tom Cruise, WHOA?

1199
01:00:47,160 --> 01:00:48,240
Speaker 3: I would be okay with dad.

1200
01:00:48,680 --> 01:00:51,960
Speaker 7: I watched that with my grandfather on cable TV when

1201
01:00:52,000 --> 01:00:56,160
Speaker 7: I was fifteen. He had night fear, he had nightmares.

1202
01:00:55,720 --> 01:00:56,720
Speaker 1: She had diamares about it.

1203
01:00:56,760 --> 01:01:00,880
Speaker 3: He did not me. It's like it's a censored version anyway,

1204
01:01:01,040 --> 01:01:03,240
Speaker 3: that's true. But guys, we have an update.

1205
01:01:03,360 --> 01:01:05,240
Speaker 6: Let's hit that up rate, not over, Let's hit it.

1206
01:01:05,440 --> 01:01:07,920
Speaker 6: Hey everyone, thank you for your input on my first post.

1207
01:01:08,440 --> 01:01:10,880
Speaker 6: Through my though my wife and I have no intention

1208
01:01:11,160 --> 01:01:13,440
Speaker 6: to let her in back in our child's lives, I

1209
01:01:13,520 --> 01:01:16,000
Speaker 6: decided to apologize to stepmother in law for what I said.

1210
01:01:16,360 --> 01:01:18,320
Speaker 6: My wife and I talked a lot about the subject.

1211
01:01:18,440 --> 01:01:20,760
Speaker 6: She said that, based on her history with her stepmother,

1212
01:01:21,160 --> 01:01:22,520
Speaker 6: it was a really good thing.

1213
01:01:22,640 --> 01:01:24,240
Speaker 3: She didn't have children.

1214
01:01:24,320 --> 01:01:25,360
Speaker 1: Before we had ours.

1215
01:01:25,560 --> 01:01:27,600
Speaker 6: My wife had always wanted to be a mother and

1216
01:01:27,760 --> 01:01:31,360
Speaker 6: was terrified about the possibility of not being able to That.

1217
01:01:31,240 --> 01:01:34,080
Speaker 3: Fear got worse around the time stepmother in law had

1218
01:01:34,120 --> 01:01:37,000
Speaker 3: the hysterectomy. My wife told her stepmother.

1219
01:01:38,240 --> 01:01:41,280
Speaker 6: My wife told me, your stepmother was agonized when it happened,

1220
01:01:41,760 --> 01:01:44,520
Speaker 6: and even though she agreed with me, she felt it

1221
01:01:44,640 --> 01:01:48,080
Speaker 6: might be best to apologize. Another thing that led me to

1222
01:01:48,080 --> 01:01:50,920
Speaker 6: make the decision was my mother. Before my mother was

1223
01:01:51,320 --> 01:01:54,040
Speaker 6: before my brother and I were born. My parents had

1224
01:01:54,040 --> 01:01:56,720
Speaker 6: a stillborn daughter. They didn't talk about it that much,

1225
01:01:56,760 --> 01:01:58,400
Speaker 6: so I didn't even think about it at the time,

1226
01:01:58,680 --> 01:02:00,560
Speaker 6: but my brother brought it up a few days ago.

1227
01:02:00,840 --> 01:02:03,200
Speaker 6: I couldn't stop thinking about her as a parent. I

1228
01:02:03,240 --> 01:02:06,600
Speaker 6: can't even imagine how my mother felt. I would never

1229
01:02:06,760 --> 01:02:09,640
Speaker 6: mention anything related to that out of anger, no matter

1230
01:02:09,720 --> 01:02:12,480
Speaker 6: how wrong my mother was. In the end, my wife

1231
01:02:12,520 --> 01:02:16,440
Speaker 6: and I agreed, while I should apologize, we absolutely can't

1232
01:02:16,520 --> 01:02:18,479
Speaker 6: budge on cutting my stepmother off.

1233
01:02:19,200 --> 01:02:20,600
Speaker 3: We can't forgive her for what she did.

1234
01:02:20,720 --> 01:02:24,160
Speaker 6: It took us hours to convince our daughter to anything anything,

1235
01:02:24,280 --> 01:02:27,200
Speaker 6: not just meat. Even after that, she refused to eat

1236
01:02:27,240 --> 01:02:29,440
Speaker 6: meat for a few days because she didn't want.

1237
01:02:29,280 --> 01:02:31,720
Speaker 1: To be evil. That's heartbreaking, dude.

1238
01:02:31,880 --> 01:02:32,720
Speaker 3: Come on, now, the.

1239
01:02:32,720 --> 01:02:37,840
Speaker 1: Vegans are winning, are changing your childrends doing that evil ways?

1240
01:02:38,840 --> 01:02:41,600
Speaker 6: Dude, you could be an evil like a scary mascot

1241
01:02:41,680 --> 01:02:42,680
Speaker 6: for something I feel.

1242
01:02:42,480 --> 01:02:47,680
Speaker 1: Like for Nickelodeon. Yeah, honestly looked like I remember like

1243
01:02:47,680 --> 01:02:51,000
Speaker 1: there there was like a Japanese like live action SpongeBob

1244
01:02:51,080 --> 01:02:52,200
Speaker 1: and it kind of looked like me.

1245
01:02:52,320 --> 01:02:56,240
Speaker 3: Right now, that's that sounds extremely accurate.

1246
01:02:56,320 --> 01:02:59,160
Speaker 1: Yeah it was. It's spooky. Uh.

1247
01:02:59,480 --> 01:03:01,960
Speaker 6: Our son wasn't a shaken, but he still had trouble

1248
01:03:02,000 --> 01:03:03,040
Speaker 6: sleeping for a few nights.

1249
01:03:03,160 --> 01:03:04,240
Speaker 3: My goodness, My.

1250
01:03:04,240 --> 01:03:05,840
Speaker 6: Wife and I sat them down and had a long

1251
01:03:05,880 --> 01:03:09,960
Speaker 6: conversation about it. We answered every question they had as

1252
01:03:10,040 --> 01:03:12,880
Speaker 6: well as we could. Thankfully, we were able to reassure

1253
01:03:12,920 --> 01:03:15,840
Speaker 6: both our kids that eating meat wouldn't make them bad people.

1254
01:03:17,120 --> 01:03:18,000
Speaker 1: I guess you were.

1255
01:03:17,840 --> 01:03:21,720
Speaker 3: Wrong, Just kidding. They are still a little distraught, but they.

1256
01:03:21,560 --> 01:03:24,400
Speaker 6: Are doing much better and eating normally again. Our main

1257
01:03:24,440 --> 01:03:27,320
Speaker 6: concern will always be their health and happiness. Stepmother in

1258
01:03:27,400 --> 01:03:31,120
Speaker 6: law compromised both, so we had no doubts about cutting

1259
01:03:31,120 --> 01:03:33,560
Speaker 6: her off from our lives. We called father in law

1260
01:03:33,560 --> 01:03:36,440
Speaker 6: and stepmother in law this weekend I apologized for what

1261
01:03:36,480 --> 01:03:38,480
Speaker 6: I said to stepmother in law, but told her we

1262
01:03:38,480 --> 01:03:41,960
Speaker 6: were still cutting her off as expected. She didn't take

1263
01:03:41,960 --> 01:03:44,680
Speaker 6: it well. She started going off about how she was

1264
01:03:44,680 --> 01:03:47,280
Speaker 6: trying to help our children and we're terrible parents for

1265
01:03:47,320 --> 01:03:50,520
Speaker 6: the depriving them of that care. I'm pretty sure she

1266
01:03:50,680 --> 01:03:53,800
Speaker 6: was crying. She said that it was awful that such cruel,

1267
01:03:53,960 --> 01:03:57,120
Speaker 6: ungrateful people could raise kids and not her, and we

1268
01:03:57,160 --> 01:03:59,720
Speaker 6: shouldn't be and we shouldn't allow our children to take

1269
01:03:59,760 --> 01:04:03,440
Speaker 6: part in something that caused so much unnecessary suffering.

1270
01:04:03,760 --> 01:04:06,760
Speaker 1: After causing my children unnecessary suffering.

1271
01:04:07,160 --> 01:04:10,160
Speaker 3: That is literally factual information.

1272
01:04:10,480 --> 01:04:14,280
Speaker 1: You're treating cows better than my living children.

1273
01:04:14,160 --> 01:04:15,320
Speaker 3: Dude, exactly.

1274
01:04:15,560 --> 01:04:20,520
Speaker 1: They don't show those cows cows being turned into little,

1275
01:04:20,600 --> 01:04:26,400
Speaker 1: little tiny pieces. They just do it, you know. Actually,

1276
01:04:26,440 --> 01:04:28,840
Speaker 1: I guess at least there's no trauma beforehand. They can

1277
01:04:28,880 --> 01:04:31,160
Speaker 1: probably all see it, right or no, I don't want

1278
01:04:31,160 --> 01:04:35,280
Speaker 1: to think about it, like we're beaking.

1279
01:04:35,080 --> 01:04:36,480
Speaker 3: Now, just kidding.

1280
01:04:36,880 --> 01:04:39,480
Speaker 6: After about a minute of that, father in law managed

1281
01:04:39,520 --> 01:04:41,840
Speaker 6: to get stepmother in law to stop and hang up

1282
01:04:41,880 --> 01:04:42,280
Speaker 6: the phone.

1283
01:04:43,080 --> 01:04:45,440
Speaker 3: My wife later apologized to her father separately.

1284
01:04:46,080 --> 01:04:49,160
Speaker 6: Father in law apologized again for falling asleep, and he

1285
01:04:49,200 --> 01:04:51,760
Speaker 6: said he understood why we were upset, but promised that

1286
01:04:51,840 --> 01:04:55,120
Speaker 6: he would never do anything like that again. We decided

1287
01:04:55,120 --> 01:04:58,280
Speaker 6: to forgive him, but we won't leave the kids in

1288
01:04:58,320 --> 01:05:00,400
Speaker 6: his care again, and he will only be allowed to

1289
01:05:00,440 --> 01:05:04,640
Speaker 6: see them without his wife. We have we have options

1290
01:05:04,640 --> 01:05:07,680
Speaker 6: besides our usual babysitter. We have options outside of our

1291
01:05:07,760 --> 01:05:11,400
Speaker 6: usual babysitter. So father in law agreed. He invited us

1292
01:05:11,440 --> 01:05:14,000
Speaker 6: for a family dinner at a steakhouse my wife loved

1293
01:05:14,000 --> 01:05:14,840
Speaker 6: as a kid.

1294
01:05:15,160 --> 01:05:15,680
Speaker 3: He wasn't.

1295
01:05:16,120 --> 01:05:19,800
Speaker 6: He hasn't been there since stepmother in law became vegetarian. Hmm,

1296
01:05:20,240 --> 01:05:23,240
Speaker 6: I something's fishy here are smelling?

1297
01:05:23,320 --> 01:05:26,840
Speaker 1: I see you smell fish. You better stop smelling that?

1298
01:05:26,880 --> 01:05:31,680
Speaker 1: Sit should I say? Yeah? Because that's that's much better.

1299
01:05:32,280 --> 01:05:34,960
Speaker 1: That's much better. So my boy's vegan.

1300
01:05:36,200 --> 01:05:37,200
Speaker 3: We're going this Friday.

1301
01:05:37,320 --> 01:05:39,680
Speaker 1: Dude, I can't Also, I can't believe you would say

1302
01:05:39,680 --> 01:05:43,840
Speaker 1: you smell fish to me and to mister crabs over there.

1303
01:05:44,880 --> 01:05:47,200
Speaker 3: I mean, yo, I'm I'm a fish too, bro.

1304
01:05:47,400 --> 01:05:48,200
Speaker 1: Freaking cannibal.

1305
01:05:48,360 --> 01:05:49,880
Speaker 6: Bro, I'm more of a fish than you. You're a

1306
01:05:49,920 --> 01:05:51,760
Speaker 6: freaking sponge.

1307
01:05:51,880 --> 01:05:53,439
Speaker 1: Honestly, I just want to be part of the fish.

1308
01:05:54,960 --> 01:05:56,160
Speaker 1: I identify as a fish.

1309
01:05:56,640 --> 01:05:58,760
Speaker 7: That's probably why so many people hate you because you're

1310
01:05:58,760 --> 01:06:04,000
Speaker 7: not a fish dude. I just realized, yeah, and and

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01:06:04,120 --> 01:06:07,360
Speaker 7: the way that mister Grabs pays you, you probably don't

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Speaker 7: need to get paid that much. WHOA, I just unlocked

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Speaker 7: a whole other thing about this whole bikini Bonham.

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Speaker 3: That's a that's a big layer. Don't do it.

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Speaker 6: It's a scene where he cries into the mug, pours

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01:06:24,560 --> 01:06:28,160
Speaker 6: it back into his body, and cries it again. By

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01:06:28,200 --> 01:06:30,480
Speaker 6: the way, if you ever cry into a mug, you

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01:06:30,480 --> 01:06:33,320
Speaker 6: can always tap our profile and join us Weekday's Live

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01:06:33,360 --> 01:06:38,800
Speaker 6: at three pm PSD and cry with us. So I

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Speaker 6: definitely have my regrets, but I'm satisfied with how much

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Speaker 6: with how things turned out. More than anything, I'm glad

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Speaker 6: my children are all right all right. Watching my daughter

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Speaker 6: refuse to eat with terrifying, and I will never forgive

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Speaker 6: stepmother in law for scaring her and her.

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Speaker 3: Brother like that. I have okay story zom ooh.

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Speaker 6: But they're getting better every day, and I think things

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Speaker 6: are going to be okay. Once again, thank you all

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Speaker 6: for your advice and support. I'll try to reply more

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Speaker 6: comments this time. I'll try to reply to more comments

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Speaker 6: this time.

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Speaker 3: And that is it. I did something like this.

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Speaker 1: Well wait, but I want to hear your okay story

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Speaker 1: time really quick. But have any of you guys ever

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01:07:21,520 --> 01:07:23,120
Speaker 1: tried to be like vegetarian vegan?

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01:07:23,560 --> 01:07:25,040
Speaker 3: I went gluten free for a month.

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Speaker 6: That's well, that's that's vegan where I come from, no gluten.

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01:07:34,720 --> 01:07:37,720
Speaker 3: I've no never gone full. No, no, I've never gone full.

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Speaker 1: My sister went vegetarian, so I joined her for like

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01:07:39,800 --> 01:07:40,720
Speaker 1: two days.

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Speaker 3: Oh what recently?

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01:07:43,480 --> 01:07:46,240
Speaker 1: I mean year? Like no, like when she first started

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01:07:46,320 --> 01:07:48,800
Speaker 1: was just likes ago. She's been vegeting or pescatarian for

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01:07:48,840 --> 01:07:52,520
Speaker 1: like eight like a while. Now she's been on that grind.

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01:07:52,680 --> 01:07:55,439
Speaker 1: Dude's been fish. Yeah, she's been on that fish grind.

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01:07:55,440 --> 01:08:00,439
Speaker 1: Wait a second, you've been grinding fish? What she's eating

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01:08:00,440 --> 01:08:04,840
Speaker 1: our people? Bro, dude, she's eating our people, freaking sandy gosh.

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01:08:05,760 --> 01:08:07,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, she's a squirrel. Dude, She's not one of us.

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01:08:07,720 --> 01:08:09,160
Speaker 1: But I want to hear riley story. Now.

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01:08:09,960 --> 01:08:12,680
Speaker 7: When I was in high school, I had a party

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01:08:12,760 --> 01:08:15,280
Speaker 7: and I had two cows, and what I would do

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01:08:15,440 --> 01:08:16,880
Speaker 7: is like I'd have a lot of girls come over

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01:08:16,920 --> 01:08:17,280
Speaker 7: and stuff.

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01:08:17,280 --> 01:08:18,599
Speaker 3: We'd hang out, all.

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Speaker 1: Right, big man, Riley Okay, eats clouds out?

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Speaker 7: No girls so I brought them over to see the

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Speaker 7: goats and the cows. I was like, oh, there's Bunnie

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01:08:30,800 --> 01:08:32,559
Speaker 7: and Clyde the cows. And then we're like seeing the

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Speaker 7: goats and all that. Well the next year, wait, what

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01:08:40,000 --> 01:08:46,760
Speaker 7: what'd you say? Say it to my face? What did

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01:08:46,800 --> 01:08:47,280
Speaker 7: you say?

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01:08:47,880 --> 01:08:48,120
Speaker 1: Chat?

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Speaker 3: Tell me what he said?

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01:08:48,840 --> 01:08:54,160
Speaker 7: Okay, anyways, so we go back to see the cows

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01:08:54,240 --> 01:08:55,880
Speaker 7: and the goats, but the cows aren't there, and everyone's like,

1365
01:08:55,880 --> 01:08:57,400
Speaker 7: we're the cows, we're the cows. And I was like,

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01:08:58,000 --> 01:09:01,599
Speaker 7: we don't have anymore. And so we had we had

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01:09:01,720 --> 01:09:04,160
Speaker 7: Mexican food that day, and so we brought it back

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01:09:04,240 --> 01:09:07,439
Speaker 7: and all the girls had were putting ground beef into

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01:09:07,479 --> 01:09:10,799
Speaker 7: their uh tacos and stuff. And I started a smile

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01:09:11,800 --> 01:09:13,519
Speaker 7: and while they were eating it, I was like, oh,

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01:09:13,560 --> 01:09:17,160
Speaker 7: by the way, that's Bonnie and that's Clyde. And they

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Speaker 7: were like the look on their face it was great. Yeah,

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01:09:23,000 --> 01:09:23,800
Speaker 7: that was Bonnie and Clyde.

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Speaker 1: We had Bonnie and Clyde. Yeah, that's what we did.

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Speaker 3: What what else would you do? It was a year later.

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01:09:29,520 --> 01:09:30,920
Speaker 3: It was a year later like boom, and then a

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01:09:30,960 --> 01:09:32,640
Speaker 3: year later they we made them up.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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01:09:35,160 --> 01:09:38,000
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, those poor city gowns. Well, they aren't really

1380
01:09:38,000 --> 01:09:40,160
Speaker 7: for the city. They're just from Hickory, which is a

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01:09:40,200 --> 01:09:40,680
Speaker 7: city to me.

1382
01:09:40,800 --> 01:09:43,719
Speaker 3: So big city, old city.

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01:09:44,240 --> 01:09:47,759
Speaker 1: But we got a wheel spin. Let's with our final

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01:09:47,920 --> 01:09:48,719
Speaker 1: minute thirty.

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01:09:48,920 --> 01:09:49,160
Speaker 2: Yeah.

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01:09:49,880 --> 01:09:52,120
Speaker 7: I have a suggestion about the wheel spin. But if

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01:09:52,120 --> 01:09:57,400
Speaker 7: we just streamed the party from downstairs.

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01:09:58,520 --> 01:10:01,160
Speaker 1: I think we need to talk about if that's a

1389
01:10:01,160 --> 01:10:03,120
Speaker 1: good idea. I don't know if is that a good idea.

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01:10:03,760 --> 01:10:07,080
Speaker 7: I think it's not a good idea because I know

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01:10:07,160 --> 01:10:09,439
Speaker 7: some nefarious things that could happen at this party.

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01:10:10,080 --> 01:10:10,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's true.

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01:10:13,320 --> 01:10:15,960
Speaker 7: I'm not I'm not looking at anyone. I'm just saying

1394
01:10:15,960 --> 01:10:18,000
Speaker 7: some of the various things could be happening at this party.

1395
01:10:18,640 --> 01:10:22,760
Speaker 3: Someone gets cheeky, you know. Yeah, yeah, someone.

1396
01:10:22,600 --> 01:10:25,160
Speaker 7: Be walking around double cheeked up on a Thursday night.

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01:10:25,520 --> 01:10:28,320
Speaker 1: I will be double cheeked up, It's true.

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01:10:28,439 --> 01:10:31,360
Speaker 7: All right, we'll spin the wh's.

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01:10:30,200 --> 01:10:33,679
Speaker 1: Spin that wheel. Spin that wheel, spin that wheel.

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Speaker 3: Here we go, save someone.

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01:10:45,040 --> 01:10:53,040
Speaker 1: God five more members. Le's gone.

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01:10:57,160 --> 01:10:59,720
Speaker 6: Remembers well gone the.

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01:11:01,439 --> 01:11:01,960
Speaker 1: Members.

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01:11:05,160 --> 01:11:06,240
Speaker 3: I am dead.

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01:11:07,680 --> 01:11:14,080
Speaker 1: Absolutely by my members into our little membership squads. We

1406
01:11:14,080 --> 01:11:16,559
Speaker 1: have a donation from Baby Godzilla likes the five bucks.

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01:11:16,800 --> 01:11:19,519
Speaker 1: Sam looks like a mosquito who gave himself yellow fever,

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01:11:20,760 --> 01:11:24,719
Speaker 1: Oh my god and ugly bad. Thanks for the five bucks.

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01:11:24,760 --> 01:11:27,200
Speaker 1: Do we get to see your costumes from later? Should

1410
01:11:27,200 --> 01:11:28,280
Speaker 1: we tell them what they are? Oh?

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01:11:28,360 --> 01:11:28,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, don't.

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01:11:29,080 --> 01:11:33,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna be an astronaut but emphasis on the ass,

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01:11:34,200 --> 01:11:36,720
Speaker 1: so I have like, I'm gonna be triple cheeked up.

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01:11:37,520 --> 01:11:38,439
Speaker 3: I'm gonna be uh.

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01:11:38,600 --> 01:11:41,080
Speaker 6: My girlfriend is gonna be Serena Williams, and I'm gonna

1416
01:11:41,080 --> 01:11:43,360
Speaker 6: be her husband who is the founder of Reddit.

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01:11:43,600 --> 01:11:44,400
Speaker 3: I wanted you.

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01:11:44,479 --> 01:11:46,320
Speaker 7: That's really good, but I really wanted you to be

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01:11:46,360 --> 01:11:47,080
Speaker 7: Princess in the front.

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Speaker 3: I know.

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01:11:49,160 --> 01:11:52,519
Speaker 7: I'm gonna be Anakin and Angi's gonna be Padme nice.

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01:11:53,080 --> 01:11:55,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, are you gonna be Anakin after he gets his

1423
01:11:55,680 --> 01:11:58,759
Speaker 1: face burned off and make up on? Shit?

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01:12:00,920 --> 01:12:01,759
Speaker 3: That would be funny.

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01:12:01,840 --> 01:12:05,520
Speaker 1: Carla Waits, thanks for the five gifted. Okay, storytime memberships,

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01:12:05,840 --> 01:12:09,680
Speaker 1: Baby Godzilla eight months of membership. Why are all my

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01:12:09,720 --> 01:12:12,680
Speaker 1: sleep house demons doing? And what or what are all

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01:12:12,680 --> 01:12:21,880
Speaker 1: my sleep houses demons doing in one room? Y'all? This

1429
01:12:22,120 --> 01:12:26,639
Speaker 1: was fun. I hope you enjoyed our our little stream

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01:12:26,840 --> 01:12:30,280
Speaker 1: here again. Yeah, well, I we may if you liked

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01:12:30,320 --> 01:12:32,240
Speaker 1: the costumes. I had fun putting it on.

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01:12:32,560 --> 01:12:33,360
Speaker 3: It was great.

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01:12:33,439 --> 01:12:34,040
Speaker 1: It was great.

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01:12:34,120 --> 01:12:37,559
Speaker 6: Well we'll look into uh doing some something else.

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01:12:37,880 --> 01:12:39,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe stay tuned.

1436
01:12:40,720 --> 01:12:43,160
Speaker 1: But we got a Halloween party to go to. But

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01:12:43,240 --> 01:12:46,360
Speaker 1: you gotta change. God knows, I'm not wearing this. I

1438
01:12:46,560 --> 01:12:50,360
Speaker 1: showed this girl that I'm seeing this costume and she said,

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01:12:50,400 --> 01:12:51,439
Speaker 1: I'm not coming anymore.

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01:12:53,439 --> 01:13:02,479
Speaker 3: But about it, this ride me. Just shut up and

1441
01:13:02,520 --> 01:13:02,840
Speaker 3: ride me.

1442
01:13:04,800 --> 01:13:07,960
Speaker 1: But with that, if you love us, make sure to subscribe.

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