1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:01,360 Speaker 1: This is the Bread Show. 2 00:00:01,600 --> 00:00:03,600 Speaker 2: Let's get you hotel a trip for tun to see 3 00:00:03,640 --> 00:00:07,960 Speaker 2: Jennifer Lopez her brand new Las Vegas residency. Jennifer Lopez 4 00:00:08,039 --> 00:00:11,520 Speaker 2: off All Night Live in Las Vegas March thirteenth, twenty 5 00:00:11,520 --> 00:00:15,440 Speaker 2: twenty six at the Coliseum at Caesar's Palace. Text Diva 6 00:00:15,800 --> 00:00:18,279 Speaker 2: to three seven three three seven right now for a 7 00:00:18,360 --> 00:00:21,080 Speaker 2: chance to win two tickets to the March thirteenth show 8 00:00:21,160 --> 00:00:23,920 Speaker 2: at two Night Hotels day March twelfth through the fourteenth 9 00:00:23,960 --> 00:00:27,840 Speaker 2: at the Flamingo Hotel Casino, Las Vegas and Brown Taver Fair. 10 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:30,720 Speaker 2: A confirmation text to be sent Dannard Message and data 11 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:31,600 Speaker 2: rates may apply. 12 00:00:31,800 --> 00:00:32,800 Speaker 1: All thanks to Live Nation. 13 00:00:33,000 --> 00:00:35,320 Speaker 2: Tickets are on sale now at ticketmaster dot com for 14 00:00:35,440 --> 00:00:38,920 Speaker 2: all shows running December thirtieth through January third, and March 15 00:00:38,960 --> 00:00:40,000 Speaker 2: sixth through the twenty eighth. 16 00:00:40,520 --> 00:00:47,880 Speaker 3: Hey wake up, So I'm a big miss. 17 00:00:47,960 --> 00:00:49,839 Speaker 4: Rachel Standy is no bad. I hope she gets a 18 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:52,640 Speaker 4: Nobel Peace Prize one day. I'm at the Noble Peace Price. Yes, 19 00:00:52,800 --> 00:00:53,680 Speaker 4: Nobel Peace Prize. 20 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:58,400 Speaker 2: Okay, Pace, yeah, Noble Noble. She should get that one too. 21 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:01,400 Speaker 2: Spread show is I certainly hope she does. 22 00:01:02,880 --> 00:01:03,080 Speaker 5: I do. 23 00:01:03,840 --> 00:01:04,440 Speaker 3: It's my girl. 24 00:01:04,680 --> 00:01:08,280 Speaker 1: She deserves it. She raising children all over the world. 25 00:01:08,520 --> 00:01:10,840 Speaker 3: I owe her child support. That's where we're at. 26 00:01:11,959 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 2: She actually called me and said that, But she said 27 00:01:14,280 --> 00:01:16,360 Speaker 2: that you were a generous lover, so she's giving you 28 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:20,520 Speaker 2: a bit of a pass. Maybes Thursday, August twenty first, 29 00:01:20,560 --> 00:01:22,520 Speaker 2: Good morning, The French Show's on. Hi Kalin, Good morning, 30 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:25,800 Speaker 2: Hi Jason Brow, Hi Hikiki, Good morning show. 31 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 1: B Shelley is here. Four hundred bucks. 32 00:01:28,920 --> 00:01:32,000 Speaker 2: Four hundred bucks is the prize next hour if you 33 00:01:32,040 --> 00:01:34,080 Speaker 2: can beat our pop culture expert in five questions. 34 00:01:34,280 --> 00:01:35,600 Speaker 1: The Throwback throw Down named that. 35 00:01:35,640 --> 00:01:37,760 Speaker 2: Tune battle this morning, waiting at the phone, why did 36 00:01:37,840 --> 00:01:41,960 Speaker 2: somebody get ghosted? The Entertainment Report blogs headlines all this hour, 37 00:01:42,080 --> 00:01:45,120 Speaker 2: and apparently I have a new headlines intro. Yeah you did, 38 00:01:45,160 --> 00:01:48,200 Speaker 2: but I can't wait to hear me too. And I 39 00:01:48,240 --> 00:01:49,920 Speaker 2: asked for it yesterday, I have it today. I can 40 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:52,200 Speaker 2: only imagine what that must what it must sound like. 41 00:01:53,040 --> 00:01:55,080 Speaker 3: I got somethin spoll last night with this one. 42 00:01:55,400 --> 00:01:57,840 Speaker 1: It was it recorded from your bathroom studio. 43 00:01:58,160 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 4: Nope, they upgraded me. I got a whole closet now, 44 00:02:01,720 --> 00:02:04,920 Speaker 4: yeah cluse yeah, yeah, okay, yeah, all right. 45 00:02:05,360 --> 00:02:06,800 Speaker 1: The Entertainer Report, what are you working on? 46 00:02:07,120 --> 00:02:10,280 Speaker 6: We've long heard the rumors about Leonardo DiCaprio and the 47 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:12,520 Speaker 6: cheese its and what he's like, maybe to hang out 48 00:02:12,600 --> 00:02:15,600 Speaker 6: with if you know, you know A singer now says 49 00:02:15,639 --> 00:02:18,600 Speaker 6: that she had a very bizarre and strange encounter at 50 00:02:18,639 --> 00:02:20,040 Speaker 6: his home, so we got to talk about it. 51 00:02:20,120 --> 00:02:20,720 Speaker 1: I want to talk to. 52 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:23,320 Speaker 2: Single people because there's a tennis player. Yeah, how are 53 00:02:23,320 --> 00:02:25,520 Speaker 2: you doing what morning? I want to hear your comments 54 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:27,359 Speaker 2: on this. I wonder what your boyfriend of seven and 55 00:02:27,400 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 2: a half years thinks of this that you live with. 56 00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:33,920 Speaker 2: So there's a tennis player. She's a professional tennis player. 57 00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:36,120 Speaker 2: Her name is I'm sure I'm not saying this right, 58 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:39,720 Speaker 2: Sashi a Vickary. But she's coming under fire after revealing 59 00:02:40,240 --> 00:02:43,000 Speaker 2: that her side hustle involves her OnlyFans account. 60 00:02:43,200 --> 00:02:46,359 Speaker 1: Right, so she charges guys one thousand bucks to go 61 00:02:46,440 --> 00:02:47,080 Speaker 1: on a date with her. 62 00:02:47,760 --> 00:02:51,000 Speaker 2: She's the world's five hundred and fifty ninth ranked player 63 00:02:51,880 --> 00:02:53,880 Speaker 2: and did an Instagram Q and A this week, and 64 00:02:53,919 --> 00:02:56,239 Speaker 2: she defended her choice of side gigs. I'm very open 65 00:02:56,280 --> 00:02:58,040 Speaker 2: minded and I don't care what people think of me, 66 00:02:58,160 --> 00:03:00,839 Speaker 2: she said. It's also the easiest money I've ever made, 67 00:03:00,919 --> 00:03:03,600 Speaker 2: and I enjoy doing it. She also made it quite 68 00:03:03,680 --> 00:03:05,920 Speaker 2: clear what it would take to score a date with her. 69 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:08,560 Speaker 2: I no longer date for free due to the behavior 70 00:03:08,639 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 2: of men. I now require a pre date deposit, send 71 00:03:11,919 --> 00:03:15,120 Speaker 2: me a g and we can make it happen. She said, 72 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:17,800 Speaker 2: she'll have to get her mind back on tennis, however, 73 00:03:18,560 --> 00:03:21,359 Speaker 2: because she plays somebody who's twenty first ranked or or 74 00:03:21,440 --> 00:03:24,440 Speaker 2: did already. I'm that sure A thousand bucks though for 75 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:28,400 Speaker 2: a date. I like this a pre date deposit even so, 76 00:03:28,639 --> 00:03:32,160 Speaker 2: like like, and this is only fans, but let's say 77 00:03:32,200 --> 00:03:33,679 Speaker 2: that the next time I matched with somebody on a 78 00:03:33,720 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 2: dating I've i've ever get back on them, which I 79 00:03:35,320 --> 00:03:38,360 Speaker 2: plan to never do. And this person were like, yeah, 80 00:03:38,800 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 2: you gotta give me five hundred bucks. I'll go out 81 00:03:40,480 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 2: with you now I can. First of all, I don't 82 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:44,680 Speaker 2: think there's a big market for this, right, I don't 83 00:03:44,680 --> 00:03:46,080 Speaker 2: think a lot of people have that kind of money. 84 00:03:46,280 --> 00:03:48,040 Speaker 2: Maybe if you're trying to go out with a tennis player. 85 00:03:48,040 --> 00:03:49,120 Speaker 2: I don't know what she loant me to look up 86 00:03:49,120 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 2: what she looks like. Not that it should matter, but. 87 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:52,800 Speaker 7: But but. 88 00:03:54,320 --> 00:03:57,960 Speaker 2: What if men or women had to have a little 89 00:03:58,000 --> 00:03:59,640 Speaker 2: skin in the game, you know, like if I had 90 00:03:59,680 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 2: to pay if I had to give you a five 91 00:04:01,360 --> 00:04:03,440 Speaker 2: hundred dollars deposit before I went on a date with you, 92 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:05,520 Speaker 2: I think i'd be on my best behavior. 93 00:04:05,800 --> 00:04:09,160 Speaker 3: You'd stop wasting time, right right, right exactly, I. 94 00:04:09,160 --> 00:04:11,720 Speaker 8: Would agrees, only, yes, that's what it's giving me. What 95 00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:14,080 Speaker 8: I mean, let's see what this woman? Okay, if she's 96 00:04:14,080 --> 00:04:16,800 Speaker 8: a pretty woman, Yeah, yeah, she's a pretty lady. 97 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:19,800 Speaker 3: But sure I would not want you to react to 98 00:04:19,880 --> 00:04:20,640 Speaker 3: my photo that way. 99 00:04:22,360 --> 00:04:26,440 Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, she's a very pretty woman. No she is, 100 00:04:26,520 --> 00:04:30,280 Speaker 2: I guess, I guess. I don't know what I was imagining. 101 00:04:32,080 --> 00:04:34,800 Speaker 2: But it shouldn't matter. It doesn't matter at all. The 102 00:04:34,880 --> 00:04:37,040 Speaker 2: only the only female tennis player I can think of 103 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:40,120 Speaker 2: is Venus Williams and Serena Williams. And she doesn't look 104 00:04:40,160 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 2: like you did one of them, I don't know. But 105 00:04:43,160 --> 00:04:45,760 Speaker 2: a thousand bucks a pre date deposit? 106 00:04:46,240 --> 00:04:49,520 Speaker 9: Yes, more women need to do this, Yeah, because y'all 107 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:50,520 Speaker 9: waste a lot of people time. 108 00:04:51,080 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 2: We don't have to think that women ever waste men. 109 00:04:53,200 --> 00:04:54,880 Speaker 2: You don't think I've ever had my time wasted on 110 00:04:54,960 --> 00:04:55,559 Speaker 2: a date before? 111 00:04:55,839 --> 00:04:59,280 Speaker 9: Not ever, I'm kidding, But yeah, now we waste each 112 00:04:59,320 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 9: other's time, and don't we don't have a lot of 113 00:05:01,600 --> 00:05:03,600 Speaker 9: time to waste, so this would avoid that. Like you 114 00:05:03,960 --> 00:05:06,600 Speaker 9: you put your money down. For instance, LUX had a 115 00:05:06,640 --> 00:05:08,640 Speaker 9: vet appointment yesterday. I tried to cancel, but I had 116 00:05:08,680 --> 00:05:10,960 Speaker 9: to put a deposit down. She said, if you cancel, 117 00:05:11,040 --> 00:05:13,360 Speaker 9: you lose your deposit. Guess who made it to that appointment. 118 00:05:13,640 --> 00:05:18,599 Speaker 2: Looks if I had to pay, you know, money, yes, 119 00:05:18,920 --> 00:05:21,920 Speaker 2: to go out with someone it it feels a little 120 00:05:21,920 --> 00:05:24,159 Speaker 2: bit like the world's oldest profession. 121 00:05:24,240 --> 00:05:25,800 Speaker 1: But I mean, I don't know. I feel like I'm 122 00:05:25,800 --> 00:05:28,400 Speaker 1: buying affection. I don't like that. I mean, I feel 123 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:29,400 Speaker 1: like people should be going. 124 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:31,119 Speaker 2: Out with each other because they have a genuine interest 125 00:05:31,160 --> 00:05:32,880 Speaker 2: in going out with each other. I think the problem 126 00:05:33,040 --> 00:05:35,680 Speaker 2: is everyone's used to this online game and it's a 127 00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:38,680 Speaker 2: dating it's a numbers game, and people are You've got 128 00:05:38,680 --> 00:05:40,200 Speaker 2: people who are going on a date every night. 129 00:05:40,279 --> 00:05:42,159 Speaker 1: You've got people who are going on very few dates. 130 00:05:42,160 --> 00:05:44,279 Speaker 2: You've got people who were matched with thirty people trying 131 00:05:44,320 --> 00:05:47,360 Speaker 2: to juggle all that, and that's just and people get 132 00:05:47,440 --> 00:05:49,720 Speaker 2: mad about it. And then they go on these you know, 133 00:05:49,839 --> 00:05:52,080 Speaker 2: websites and these apps in these forums and they complain 134 00:05:52,120 --> 00:05:54,000 Speaker 2: about men and women. I didn't get this attention to 135 00:05:54,040 --> 00:05:55,480 Speaker 2: that and the other thing. But you're you're on a 136 00:05:55,600 --> 00:05:58,920 Speaker 2: dating app, right like this people are If you've got 137 00:05:59,000 --> 00:06:01,840 Speaker 2: five matches in your thing, someone else probably has five 138 00:06:01,960 --> 00:06:03,520 Speaker 2: or ten or twenty matches in their thing. 139 00:06:03,760 --> 00:06:05,440 Speaker 1: And if you're juggling, they're juggling. 140 00:06:05,800 --> 00:06:08,160 Speaker 2: So I would acknowledge that, like part of this is 141 00:06:08,279 --> 00:06:11,080 Speaker 2: you have to accept the fact that you're not the 142 00:06:11,160 --> 00:06:14,360 Speaker 2: only one, right, and there's a very good likelihood that 143 00:06:14,400 --> 00:06:16,600 Speaker 2: it won't work out, because it's very simple just to 144 00:06:16,680 --> 00:06:19,400 Speaker 2: say I'll move on to the next one or what's 145 00:06:19,480 --> 00:06:21,080 Speaker 2: the next app? I mean, didn't they We did a 146 00:06:21,120 --> 00:06:23,200 Speaker 2: whole story about this years ago that the people who 147 00:06:23,279 --> 00:06:25,159 Speaker 2: designed these dating apps are the same people who designed 148 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:27,320 Speaker 2: like the carpet in Vegas, the casinos. 149 00:06:27,360 --> 00:06:28,320 Speaker 1: You know, they're like to trying it. 150 00:06:28,640 --> 00:06:31,600 Speaker 2: It's the same sort of it's the same part of 151 00:06:31,680 --> 00:06:35,000 Speaker 2: your brain that's addicted to gambling is addicted to checking 152 00:06:35,279 --> 00:06:37,279 Speaker 2: the dating app to see if you've got a new match. 153 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:42,320 Speaker 2: It's inherently designed for what's better, what's next, Which is 154 00:06:42,320 --> 00:06:43,880 Speaker 2: why I read another story this morning. They said that 155 00:06:43,880 --> 00:06:46,479 Speaker 2: the people who meet in the wild have much higher 156 00:06:46,640 --> 00:06:49,880 Speaker 2: success rates in dating, because I feel like, you know, 157 00:06:50,160 --> 00:06:52,320 Speaker 2: you know, there's a little more there right, Like I 158 00:06:52,400 --> 00:06:54,120 Speaker 2: met you. I say this all the time in waiting 159 00:06:54,160 --> 00:06:55,560 Speaker 2: by the phone, Like I met you, I saw you, 160 00:06:55,880 --> 00:07:00,919 Speaker 2: I smelled you, I smelled your breath. I have a vibe. 161 00:07:00,960 --> 00:07:03,200 Speaker 2: You know, there's a vibe. I know what I'm It's 162 00:07:03,240 --> 00:07:04,680 Speaker 2: not like the very first time I ever meet you 163 00:07:04,760 --> 00:07:07,240 Speaker 2: in person. We you know, we're sitting down trying to 164 00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:09,840 Speaker 2: have a conversation at a restaurant or whatever, and only 165 00:07:09,880 --> 00:07:11,920 Speaker 2: to find out five minutes in that we don't really 166 00:07:11,960 --> 00:07:12,760 Speaker 2: have any chemistry. 167 00:07:13,360 --> 00:07:14,520 Speaker 1: And then it's like I got to sit here for 168 00:07:14,520 --> 00:07:15,040 Speaker 1: another hour. 169 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:17,640 Speaker 9: Well, would you say that there's more quality on the 170 00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:20,360 Speaker 9: dating apps that you have to pay for that versus 171 00:07:20,440 --> 00:07:21,280 Speaker 9: the free ones. 172 00:07:22,520 --> 00:07:28,280 Speaker 2: I'm not sure before were paid. And then there's Raya 173 00:07:28,360 --> 00:07:29,800 Speaker 2: what you pay for. But I don't think that the 174 00:07:29,880 --> 00:07:31,640 Speaker 2: Riya I think is just all I think that's all 175 00:07:31,760 --> 00:07:34,680 Speaker 2: hype because when people have you been on it? Yeah, Camlin, 176 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:35,960 Speaker 2: because I feel like the people who have been on 177 00:07:36,080 --> 00:07:39,000 Speaker 2: Raya tell me that they won't let me on. But 178 00:07:39,080 --> 00:07:40,480 Speaker 2: I feel like the people I don't know I've ever been. 179 00:07:40,480 --> 00:07:42,200 Speaker 2: I've never been on it. I've been on Ryo. I 180 00:07:42,240 --> 00:07:45,520 Speaker 2: haven't checked to see if my waitlist was I was weightlisted, 181 00:07:47,240 --> 00:07:48,880 Speaker 2: but now you get paid for it. So I guess 182 00:07:48,920 --> 00:07:51,760 Speaker 2: what I wonder is But the people who've been on 183 00:07:51,840 --> 00:07:53,080 Speaker 2: it tell me it's the same people that are on 184 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:54,480 Speaker 2: everything else. And then a lot of the people on 185 00:07:54,560 --> 00:07:55,600 Speaker 2: why aren't even where you live. 186 00:07:55,680 --> 00:07:56,960 Speaker 3: There's a bigger issue. 187 00:07:57,000 --> 00:07:58,960 Speaker 6: They're like they could be in Italy, I mean, which 188 00:07:59,000 --> 00:08:00,720 Speaker 6: is nice to look at, but like, I'm not going 189 00:08:00,720 --> 00:08:01,119 Speaker 6: to Italy. 190 00:08:02,400 --> 00:08:05,080 Speaker 2: But I also would wonder if someone's charging me five 191 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:07,600 Speaker 2: hundred bucks for a date or in this case, a thousand, 192 00:08:08,400 --> 00:08:10,680 Speaker 2: are you I mean, she says it's a side hustle, 193 00:08:10,840 --> 00:08:13,680 Speaker 2: like so so she's this is a money making opportunity. 194 00:08:13,920 --> 00:08:16,160 Speaker 2: So I don't even I'm not guaranteed to have your 195 00:08:16,200 --> 00:08:18,400 Speaker 2: full attention for one thousand dollars. It's not even like 196 00:08:19,040 --> 00:08:22,000 Speaker 2: it's not actually like the world's oldest profession where I 197 00:08:22,120 --> 00:08:23,880 Speaker 2: pay you and I and I get something in return 198 00:08:24,080 --> 00:08:26,720 Speaker 2: for sure, Like I'm paying for the chance for you 199 00:08:26,880 --> 00:08:28,760 Speaker 2: to just go on another thousand, Like in fact, what 200 00:08:28,960 --> 00:08:33,160 Speaker 2: exactly is your incentive to stop doing that? Like how 201 00:08:33,280 --> 00:08:35,839 Speaker 2: is this any better than the other thing? You know, 202 00:08:35,960 --> 00:08:37,160 Speaker 2: Like if you were to say to me, like if 203 00:08:37,160 --> 00:08:38,560 Speaker 2: this woman were saying to me, oh, I'll go out 204 00:08:38,600 --> 00:08:41,720 Speaker 2: with you for a thousand bucks. Well, if you got 205 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:43,800 Speaker 2: you know, five more days plan that week, you're not 206 00:08:43,840 --> 00:08:45,840 Speaker 2: going to cancel that. That's five thousand dollars. Even if 207 00:08:45,880 --> 00:08:47,640 Speaker 2: you like me, that's that's real money. 208 00:08:47,760 --> 00:08:49,839 Speaker 3: As long as she makes rent, then she's probably good. 209 00:08:49,840 --> 00:08:50,959 Speaker 3: Then maybe she'll take a little break. 210 00:08:51,120 --> 00:08:51,599 Speaker 5: Is that what it is? 211 00:08:52,160 --> 00:08:53,760 Speaker 2: Like spenches are coming for the month that I can 212 00:08:53,800 --> 00:08:56,000 Speaker 2: go out with you again for free? Yes, Like I 213 00:08:56,559 --> 00:08:59,839 Speaker 2: wouldn't have any faith that you actually liked me versus 214 00:09:00,280 --> 00:09:03,719 Speaker 2: you know you're making your do I mean, you know 215 00:09:03,960 --> 00:09:05,559 Speaker 2: you go on fifty dates in a year, you go 216 00:09:05,760 --> 00:09:09,079 Speaker 2: what five dates a month? You know it's fifty thousand 217 00:09:09,120 --> 00:09:10,839 Speaker 2: dollars extra? So why would you stop? 218 00:09:11,080 --> 00:09:12,600 Speaker 3: In this economy, you can't stop. 219 00:09:13,720 --> 00:09:15,520 Speaker 1: This is a flawed ideal. I don't think. I don't 220 00:09:15,520 --> 00:09:15,880 Speaker 1: want to like it. 221 00:09:15,880 --> 00:09:16,760 Speaker 3: It's working for her. 222 00:09:17,840 --> 00:09:19,839 Speaker 2: What if there was some form of like refundable, I 223 00:09:19,840 --> 00:09:21,240 Speaker 2: don't know. I don't know how you would judge that. 224 00:09:21,559 --> 00:09:23,200 Speaker 2: But it's like, okay, fine, I'll give you two hundred 225 00:09:23,200 --> 00:09:26,080 Speaker 2: and fifty bucks and if you're incidental, right right right? 226 00:09:26,160 --> 00:09:31,080 Speaker 2: And I don't know, but how would we judge because look, 227 00:09:31,160 --> 00:09:33,880 Speaker 2: I mean we go on a date and if there's 228 00:09:33,880 --> 00:09:35,959 Speaker 2: no chemistry, doesn't work out, no harm, no foul, we 229 00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:37,760 Speaker 2: go our separate ways. But then how would I get 230 00:09:37,760 --> 00:09:39,960 Speaker 2: my money back? Like for you, you could say, well, 231 00:09:40,000 --> 00:09:42,160 Speaker 2: I just didn't like it. Oh, I'm gonna keep the money. 232 00:09:42,440 --> 00:09:43,959 Speaker 2: You know what, if I didn't like it, I want 233 00:09:44,000 --> 00:09:45,360 Speaker 2: my money back, Like, I don't know, I don't know 234 00:09:45,400 --> 00:09:45,880 Speaker 2: how you would do. 235 00:09:45,960 --> 00:09:47,199 Speaker 3: This is not going to go well. 236 00:09:47,320 --> 00:09:49,959 Speaker 2: I understand the concept of not wasting people's time. I 237 00:09:50,080 --> 00:09:52,959 Speaker 2: understand the concept of being more thoughtful about who you 238 00:09:53,040 --> 00:09:55,480 Speaker 2: actually go out with. I understand the concept or the 239 00:09:55,520 --> 00:09:57,920 Speaker 2: frustration of the numbers game of the dating apps, but 240 00:09:58,040 --> 00:10:00,280 Speaker 2: I don't I feel like a lot of people who 241 00:10:00,280 --> 00:10:03,160 Speaker 2: complain about that are doing the same thing because that's 242 00:10:03,280 --> 00:10:03,760 Speaker 2: the game. 243 00:10:04,360 --> 00:10:06,439 Speaker 1: So anyway, I'm not doing no. 244 00:10:07,280 --> 00:10:08,599 Speaker 2: And if I put that out there, you got to 245 00:10:08,640 --> 00:10:10,080 Speaker 2: pay me two hundred fifty bucks deposit. 246 00:10:10,160 --> 00:10:10,719 Speaker 1: I'll let you know. 247 00:10:10,800 --> 00:10:13,800 Speaker 2: I'd be considered the biggest scumbag ever. Would be like, oh, 248 00:10:13,840 --> 00:10:16,480 Speaker 2: you're preying on women, Like you're just taking people's money. 249 00:10:16,400 --> 00:10:24,640 Speaker 3: For sure, So don't knock the hustle. Okay, only she 250 00:10:24,720 --> 00:10:25,120 Speaker 3: can get. 251 00:10:25,040 --> 00:10:28,520 Speaker 1: Away with this friend. The biggest stories of the day, Well, 252 00:10:28,559 --> 00:10:30,559 Speaker 1: that's the intro that you all know. 253 00:10:30,679 --> 00:10:30,760 Speaker 9: Now. 254 00:10:30,800 --> 00:10:33,800 Speaker 2: I have not heard this, but you know we joked 255 00:10:33,880 --> 00:10:35,959 Speaker 2: yesterday that Pauline needed to make me so well. I 256 00:10:36,000 --> 00:10:37,520 Speaker 2: said I need someone to make me. I said I 257 00:10:37,559 --> 00:10:40,120 Speaker 2: need a song intro. And I looked at Paulina and 258 00:10:40,240 --> 00:10:42,040 Speaker 2: she said, do you want me to make a song? 259 00:10:42,720 --> 00:10:44,400 Speaker 2: And I said no, I want Caitlen to do it, 260 00:10:45,240 --> 00:10:50,000 Speaker 2: because Calen makes all the songs around here. All right, 261 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:51,679 Speaker 2: I'm gonna I have not heard this, but let's see 262 00:10:51,679 --> 00:10:52,120 Speaker 2: how this goes. 263 00:10:52,160 --> 00:10:54,000 Speaker 1: Guys. This is maybe the only time you ever hear it. 264 00:10:54,080 --> 00:10:55,520 Speaker 3: I'm sure time for stories. 265 00:10:55,679 --> 00:10:58,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, and then over. 266 00:10:59,040 --> 00:11:03,120 Speaker 4: Over wow, because the story is now okay, I mean 267 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:07,280 Speaker 4: that's right, Just get right, Jason, Oh no, he looks mad. 268 00:11:07,960 --> 00:11:10,080 Speaker 8: Well, it's another piece that we can't put on the podcast. 269 00:11:10,200 --> 00:11:11,800 Speaker 8: Is we're gonna get flat forgotten. 270 00:11:13,080 --> 00:11:16,640 Speaker 1: That I'm a. 271 00:11:16,640 --> 00:11:18,719 Speaker 2: Disappointed father with all of us this morning. It's just 272 00:11:19,120 --> 00:11:20,400 Speaker 2: he's I think he's over all of us. 273 00:11:20,480 --> 00:11:22,120 Speaker 8: You might as well just shut down the on demand 274 00:11:22,200 --> 00:11:25,000 Speaker 8: podcast because we can't put anything. 275 00:11:25,960 --> 00:11:28,400 Speaker 1: We can't really, not even twenty seconds of me. 276 00:11:28,520 --> 00:11:30,800 Speaker 3: I don't know it at me because I broke every rule. 277 00:11:31,280 --> 00:11:31,720 Speaker 3: I don't care. 278 00:11:32,200 --> 00:11:34,760 Speaker 9: You gotta come serve me with papers before I stopped doing. 279 00:11:36,520 --> 00:11:39,720 Speaker 1: Oh, Jason, cool flag, let's come. 280 00:11:40,720 --> 00:11:42,880 Speaker 3: I love it you. You'll never hear that again. 281 00:11:43,000 --> 00:11:43,280 Speaker 4: Thank you. 282 00:11:44,360 --> 00:11:46,920 Speaker 1: I don't know you're live. I don't hear it at all, right, 283 00:11:47,160 --> 00:11:51,120 Speaker 1: but I don't know. I don't know, Jay. You know, 284 00:11:51,559 --> 00:11:54,000 Speaker 1: they just ignore those emails. We don't have to respond 285 00:11:54,000 --> 00:11:54,880 Speaker 1: to every email, do we? 286 00:11:55,080 --> 00:11:55,240 Speaker 5: Oh? 287 00:11:55,400 --> 00:11:59,880 Speaker 1: No, I don't, Yah. I know you're a rule for 288 00:12:00,280 --> 00:12:00,839 Speaker 1: I love you for it. 289 00:12:01,000 --> 00:12:05,840 Speaker 3: But it's not my money. No, we need Jason. 290 00:12:05,920 --> 00:12:09,040 Speaker 1: That's how I feel about it. It's not my money. 291 00:12:10,000 --> 00:12:10,040 Speaker 5: So. 292 00:12:10,320 --> 00:12:13,880 Speaker 2: The massive size of Hurricane Aarin in days of powerful 293 00:12:13,920 --> 00:12:16,480 Speaker 2: winds over the open ocean have caused water levels along 294 00:12:16,559 --> 00:12:20,040 Speaker 2: the East Coast to rise. Tidal gauges from South Florida 295 00:12:20,120 --> 00:12:22,520 Speaker 2: to New York are all running at about a foot 296 00:12:22,600 --> 00:12:25,360 Speaker 2: higher than normal, prompting authorities to close or restrict swimming 297 00:12:25,400 --> 00:12:28,240 Speaker 2: at many beaches. Despite not making landfall, the category two 298 00:12:28,280 --> 00:12:32,160 Speaker 2: storm is still producing heavy rains, strong winds, powerful rip currents, 299 00:12:32,160 --> 00:12:35,160 Speaker 2: and dangerous storm surge. According to the National Hurricane Center, 300 00:12:35,200 --> 00:12:37,640 Speaker 2: tropical storm force winds are now extended up to three 301 00:12:37,720 --> 00:12:39,600 Speaker 2: hundred and twenty miles from the hurricane's eye. 302 00:12:40,000 --> 00:12:41,760 Speaker 1: Up to two hundred and sixty five miles. 303 00:12:41,840 --> 00:12:44,959 Speaker 2: As of late Wednesday, North Carolina is under a state 304 00:12:44,960 --> 00:12:47,240 Speaker 2: of emergency and evacuations have been ordered in parts of 305 00:12:47,280 --> 00:12:50,080 Speaker 2: the outer Banks, which may see waves of twenty feet 306 00:12:50,280 --> 00:12:53,719 Speaker 2: or higher. The Menendez brothers, this was a story last year. 307 00:12:54,720 --> 00:12:56,800 Speaker 2: They were like moments away from getting out of jail. 308 00:12:57,000 --> 00:12:59,120 Speaker 2: It was like they packed their bags. It was amminent. 309 00:12:59,160 --> 00:12:59,400 Speaker 1: They were. 310 00:12:59,559 --> 00:13:02,319 Speaker 2: And then the then the governor lost the election and 311 00:13:02,400 --> 00:13:05,319 Speaker 2: they were like, not so fast, guys, not worth sending 312 00:13:05,360 --> 00:13:07,439 Speaker 2: your lease. You're staying a little longer. 313 00:13:07,600 --> 00:13:07,720 Speaker 5: Well. 314 00:13:07,760 --> 00:13:11,160 Speaker 2: Their parole hearing begins today. After decades behind Barsila, Menendez 315 00:13:11,200 --> 00:13:14,040 Speaker 2: brothers will make their cases for paroles starting later on today. 316 00:13:14,160 --> 00:13:16,240 Speaker 2: Eric and Lamaneddez were sentenced in nineteen ninety six to 317 00:13:16,320 --> 00:13:18,319 Speaker 2: life in prison for the murders of their parents in 318 00:13:18,440 --> 00:13:20,959 Speaker 2: nineteen eighty nine, and there were a series of documentaries 319 00:13:21,120 --> 00:13:23,840 Speaker 2: and there was you know, the whole TV show about 320 00:13:23,840 --> 00:13:26,760 Speaker 2: it on Netflix, and you know the drama series about it. 321 00:13:27,120 --> 00:13:30,520 Speaker 2: They became eligible for parole after a judge reduced their 322 00:13:30,559 --> 00:13:33,079 Speaker 2: sentences back in May from life in prison without the 323 00:13:33,160 --> 00:13:35,760 Speaker 2: possibility of parole to fifty years to life, making them 324 00:13:36,000 --> 00:13:39,160 Speaker 2: immediately eligible under California law because they were under the 325 00:13:39,200 --> 00:13:41,199 Speaker 2: ages of twenty six when they committed the crimes. A 326 00:13:41,280 --> 00:13:45,120 Speaker 2: panel of parole hearing officers will evaluate the brothers individually. 327 00:13:45,520 --> 00:13:48,720 Speaker 2: Eric's hearing taking place later today in Lyle's hearing being 328 00:13:48,800 --> 00:13:52,800 Speaker 2: held tomorrow. McDonald's is slashing prices Everything must Go yes 329 00:13:53,440 --> 00:13:55,400 Speaker 2: of its combo meals. Just a few weeks after the 330 00:13:55,480 --> 00:13:58,479 Speaker 2: CEO publicly admitted that its menu has gotten too expensive 331 00:13:58,920 --> 00:14:01,680 Speaker 2: and pledged to fix the problem. McDonald's and it's franchise 332 00:14:01,720 --> 00:14:06,480 Speaker 2: Ease agreed to a price reduction of eight popular combo 333 00:14:06,600 --> 00:14:09,160 Speaker 2: meals fifteen percent less than a total cost of buying 334 00:14:09,200 --> 00:14:12,400 Speaker 2: the items separately, with the chain offering financial support to 335 00:14:12,480 --> 00:14:15,400 Speaker 2: franchisees if they agree to lower the prices. According to 336 00:14:15,559 --> 00:14:18,680 Speaker 2: a source familiar with the company's plans, the lower prices 337 00:14:18,679 --> 00:14:24,280 Speaker 2: will go into effect next month. A survey says seventy 338 00:14:24,360 --> 00:14:28,840 Speaker 2: four thousand dollars is the perfect salary for the average American. Wow, 339 00:14:29,400 --> 00:14:35,080 Speaker 2: seventy four grand will do it. I've been to McDonald's lately, 340 00:14:35,120 --> 00:14:36,520 Speaker 2: so I don't think seventy four grand will do it. 341 00:14:37,640 --> 00:14:41,640 Speaker 2: But seventy four thousand dollars the ideal salary for achieving 342 00:14:41,760 --> 00:14:42,760 Speaker 2: financial comfort. 343 00:14:42,800 --> 00:14:44,440 Speaker 1: And happiness. Now, I'm sharing a lot of people listening. 344 00:14:44,480 --> 00:14:47,000 Speaker 2: We'd love to make seventy four grand, and it's a 345 00:14:47,040 --> 00:14:50,200 Speaker 2: lot of money, but I feel like everything's so expensive 346 00:14:50,280 --> 00:14:54,240 Speaker 2: right now. That's a significant gap between perception and reality. 347 00:14:54,280 --> 00:14:56,360 Speaker 2: Though about half of the respondents feel their current income 348 00:14:56,440 --> 00:14:59,920 Speaker 2: falls short of supporting their desired lifestyle. This highlights ongoing 349 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:03,360 Speaker 2: concerns about wage stagnation and the rising cost of living. 350 00:15:03,680 --> 00:15:04,720 Speaker 1: Side hustles are booming. 351 00:15:04,840 --> 00:15:07,160 Speaker 2: Thirty two percent of non business owners are considering one, 352 00:15:07,400 --> 00:15:10,280 Speaker 2: twenty nine percent already run one. I'm charging one thousand 353 00:15:10,280 --> 00:15:12,880 Speaker 2: dollars for a date now, which is exciting, and fifty 354 00:15:12,920 --> 00:15:18,080 Speaker 2: two percent of entrepreneurship say entrepreneurship is as viable as 355 00:15:18,200 --> 00:15:21,080 Speaker 2: a traditional job, so everyone's having to do more. You 356 00:15:21,200 --> 00:15:23,360 Speaker 2: got your job, you got your side hustle. What's it 357 00:15:23,440 --> 00:15:25,520 Speaker 2: gonna be, Kiki? What's the side hustle going to be? 358 00:15:26,280 --> 00:15:29,200 Speaker 2: You're on eighteen radio stations, and you're on the Fred Show, 359 00:15:29,280 --> 00:15:31,160 Speaker 2: and you're on a podcast, and you're on a little 360 00:15:31,560 --> 00:15:33,400 Speaker 2: the Shade Room TV thing on YouTube? 361 00:15:33,520 --> 00:15:35,960 Speaker 1: Yes, anything else? I know you went back to KFC. 362 00:15:36,160 --> 00:15:37,960 Speaker 9: Well, you gave me my next one this morning with 363 00:15:38,040 --> 00:15:40,320 Speaker 9: a thousand dollar dates. Yeah, if you would like to 364 00:15:40,360 --> 00:15:42,040 Speaker 9: go on a day with me, please apply now. One 365 00:15:42,080 --> 00:15:42,960 Speaker 9: thousand dollars please. 366 00:15:43,120 --> 00:15:45,240 Speaker 2: I feel like Big Tim would probably, you know, things 367 00:15:45,280 --> 00:15:47,200 Speaker 2: would move a little faster if you were going one 368 00:15:47,240 --> 00:15:48,160 Speaker 2: thousand dollars dates. 369 00:15:48,480 --> 00:15:48,960 Speaker 5: I don't know. 370 00:15:49,120 --> 00:15:51,040 Speaker 3: I think Big Tim would go even slower like that. 371 00:15:51,160 --> 00:15:52,200 Speaker 3: You don't make that money. 372 00:15:53,800 --> 00:15:56,360 Speaker 2: Money, which goes back to my point from before, which 373 00:15:56,480 --> 00:15:58,560 Speaker 2: is like, what is this woman's incentive to stop right? 374 00:15:58,840 --> 00:15:59,280 Speaker 1: She's right? 375 00:15:59,400 --> 00:16:01,440 Speaker 2: Why invest in me if there's anything wrong with me? 376 00:16:01,920 --> 00:16:03,640 Speaker 2: You got a little nose hair sticking out? Thanks for 377 00:16:03,680 --> 00:16:06,240 Speaker 2: the thousand, I'll see you next time. Yep Ah, this 378 00:16:06,440 --> 00:16:08,320 Speaker 2: is very sad. Do you guys know who Judge Frank 379 00:16:08,400 --> 00:16:12,000 Speaker 2: Caaprio is. He's the beloved Caught in Providence TV judge 380 00:16:12,400 --> 00:16:15,640 Speaker 2: known for his kindness, old guy. People would come into 381 00:16:15,680 --> 00:16:18,080 Speaker 2: his courtroom and they'd tell their story and he'd usually 382 00:16:18,120 --> 00:16:20,520 Speaker 2: try and find a way. If they owed money for 383 00:16:20,560 --> 00:16:23,200 Speaker 2: a parking ticket or something, people would donate and he 384 00:16:23,240 --> 00:16:25,440 Speaker 2: would to work with people. He passed away at the 385 00:16:25,480 --> 00:16:27,640 Speaker 2: age of eighty eight from pancreatic cancer. He served as 386 00:16:27,680 --> 00:16:29,920 Speaker 2: the Chief judge in Providence from nineteen eighty five to 387 00:16:30,000 --> 00:16:33,000 Speaker 2: twenty twenty three. And became famous online for showing empathy 388 00:16:33,400 --> 00:16:37,440 Speaker 2: while handling minor offenses. He also supported education through scholarships 389 00:16:37,480 --> 00:16:40,080 Speaker 2: and community work. He survived by his wife, Joyce, and 390 00:16:40,160 --> 00:16:42,120 Speaker 2: five children. The guys videos are all over the place. 391 00:16:42,480 --> 00:16:44,960 Speaker 2: He was a pretty great guy and a wisconsinant woman 392 00:16:45,440 --> 00:16:48,240 Speaker 2: cost ten thousand dollars in damage to a DoorDash driver's 393 00:16:48,320 --> 00:16:52,000 Speaker 2: vehicle because her order of ten chicken wings wasn't delivered. 394 00:16:52,360 --> 00:16:53,520 Speaker 1: I understand this, lady. 395 00:16:55,200 --> 00:16:57,640 Speaker 2: There was nothing more for us as Doordasher's number one 396 00:16:57,680 --> 00:16:59,360 Speaker 2: customer in the world. I believe that I might be 397 00:17:00,000 --> 00:17:01,920 Speaker 2: It is possible they should have like a. 398 00:17:01,960 --> 00:17:04,600 Speaker 6: Top ten percent where you guys get like merch, like 399 00:17:04,680 --> 00:17:05,720 Speaker 6: a tracksuit or something. 400 00:17:05,920 --> 00:17:07,320 Speaker 2: If you go to Chipotle enough and you get that 401 00:17:07,359 --> 00:17:10,480 Speaker 2: golden Chipotle card, I feel like the tracksuit would be 402 00:17:10,480 --> 00:17:12,359 Speaker 2: an order. Yeah, because that would be the kind of 403 00:17:12,359 --> 00:17:14,320 Speaker 2: thing I wear. When I ordered door Nest four times 404 00:17:14,359 --> 00:17:16,639 Speaker 2: a day, I wonder what my record. I think my 405 00:17:16,760 --> 00:17:22,040 Speaker 2: record is probably five in a five. Well what are 406 00:17:22,080 --> 00:17:25,639 Speaker 2: you doing with like, okay to. 407 00:17:27,400 --> 00:17:27,840 Speaker 3: Over there? 408 00:17:28,080 --> 00:17:29,640 Speaker 1: Well, okay, maybe I ordered breakfast. 409 00:17:29,680 --> 00:17:31,440 Speaker 3: Well, let's not shame him. Let's not shame maybe I 410 00:17:31,560 --> 00:17:33,680 Speaker 3: ordered breakfast. That sound I don't have to cook. 411 00:17:33,880 --> 00:17:36,240 Speaker 1: Maybe I ordered lunch. Okay, this is not all the time, 412 00:17:36,320 --> 00:17:37,040 Speaker 1: this is my record. 413 00:17:37,119 --> 00:17:41,120 Speaker 2: This is like this happened one maybe one day, maybe 414 00:17:41,119 --> 00:17:44,600 Speaker 2: I got some lunch, and then I think maybe I 415 00:17:44,760 --> 00:17:47,440 Speaker 2: ordered dinner, and and then I wanted a beverage, but 416 00:17:47,560 --> 00:17:49,639 Speaker 2: the beverage wasn't available at the dinner place, so I 417 00:17:49,760 --> 00:17:52,560 Speaker 2: combined the order, which I guess is technically one order, 418 00:17:53,119 --> 00:17:56,440 Speaker 2: but sometimes they send two people to do that. They 419 00:17:56,480 --> 00:17:59,000 Speaker 2: should be more efficient. They should figure out a way 420 00:17:59,119 --> 00:18:01,080 Speaker 2: that like if you order more than one thing on 421 00:18:01,160 --> 00:18:04,080 Speaker 2: your order that but whatever, right, And then it's possible 422 00:18:04,800 --> 00:18:07,119 Speaker 2: that later in the day, I thought maybe dessert was 423 00:18:07,160 --> 00:18:11,159 Speaker 2: an order. Yeah, somebody slipped me a THHG gummy. It's 424 00:18:11,480 --> 00:18:13,160 Speaker 2: or maybe they d slipped me the THHCHD gummy from 425 00:18:13,160 --> 00:18:17,200 Speaker 2: the beginning, it's possible. It's not probable, but it's possible. 426 00:18:17,880 --> 00:18:19,480 Speaker 2: This is a hypothetical that I'm charing with. 427 00:18:19,560 --> 00:18:22,320 Speaker 8: You get nervous, like does ice cream like make it 428 00:18:22,400 --> 00:18:25,040 Speaker 8: to you pretty good still in the winter, especially it's 429 00:18:25,080 --> 00:18:25,960 Speaker 8: fine this summer. 430 00:18:26,040 --> 00:18:27,240 Speaker 1: It can get a little then. 431 00:18:27,160 --> 00:18:28,720 Speaker 2: You just throw it in the freezer to maybe but 432 00:18:28,800 --> 00:18:31,359 Speaker 2: that's a that is a that's a desperation move. Like 433 00:18:31,480 --> 00:18:33,600 Speaker 2: that is a I gotta have it. You know that 434 00:18:33,920 --> 00:18:36,520 Speaker 2: very rarely happens, but I've probably had a day. I've 435 00:18:36,560 --> 00:18:41,840 Speaker 2: had a three day for sure. What's your record, too, one. 436 00:18:42,800 --> 00:18:44,520 Speaker 3: I try to think of everything I need in at 437 00:18:44,560 --> 00:18:45,000 Speaker 3: one trip. 438 00:18:46,040 --> 00:18:47,680 Speaker 2: I had this conversation with people all the time, and 439 00:18:47,720 --> 00:18:50,320 Speaker 2: they don't agree with me completely. But as a single guy, 440 00:18:51,520 --> 00:18:53,080 Speaker 2: I go buy gros. Let's say I buy one hundred 441 00:18:53,080 --> 00:18:55,320 Speaker 2: bucks worth the groceries I buy, you know, lunch meat, 442 00:18:55,359 --> 00:18:58,000 Speaker 2: and I buy fruit and you know whatever you buy 443 00:18:58,040 --> 00:18:58,760 Speaker 2: a grocery store. 444 00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:01,720 Speaker 1: All right, Well, what I mean is like I buy. 445 00:19:01,920 --> 00:19:04,920 Speaker 2: If I buy perishable stuff from the store, I find 446 00:19:04,960 --> 00:19:06,639 Speaker 2: that I throw a lot of it away because I 447 00:19:06,680 --> 00:19:08,240 Speaker 2: don't eat as much as I thought I was going 448 00:19:08,280 --> 00:19:10,680 Speaker 2: to eat, or I don't want to eat the same 449 00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:12,840 Speaker 2: meal three times in a row, or the vegetables go 450 00:19:12,960 --> 00:19:16,240 Speaker 2: bad quickly or whatever. So I'm not suggesting that DoorDash 451 00:19:16,320 --> 00:19:19,120 Speaker 2: is saving money, but for one person, I don't think 452 00:19:19,160 --> 00:19:21,760 Speaker 2: I spend as much more as you might think. It 453 00:19:21,920 --> 00:19:25,320 Speaker 2: might be thirty percent more, but that way nothing goes 454 00:19:25,359 --> 00:19:28,280 Speaker 2: to waste, and it's portion control because the only food 455 00:19:28,320 --> 00:19:31,000 Speaker 2: in my house really is whatever I order on DoorDash. 456 00:19:31,080 --> 00:19:33,000 Speaker 2: Whatever shows up, that's what I got. And when the food, 457 00:19:33,160 --> 00:19:35,320 Speaker 2: when it's gone, it's gone. There's no bag of chips, 458 00:19:35,359 --> 00:19:38,000 Speaker 2: there's no you know, there's no I'm not grabbing candy 459 00:19:38,080 --> 00:19:40,720 Speaker 2: and ice cream or whatever else. But for two people, 460 00:19:40,880 --> 00:19:44,320 Speaker 2: it seems to go up exponentially. Like when I was 461 00:19:44,400 --> 00:19:46,520 Speaker 2: dating someone and I was paying for two peoples. Now 462 00:19:46,640 --> 00:19:49,040 Speaker 2: that is crazy. Yeah, now you're talking like one hundred 463 00:19:49,080 --> 00:19:49,720 Speaker 2: bucks in order. 464 00:19:49,880 --> 00:19:51,960 Speaker 4: You know, is I modifying too? Like oh, can I 465 00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:53,879 Speaker 4: get the shrimp instead of the chicken? And then I'm like, 466 00:19:53,920 --> 00:19:56,639 Speaker 4: oh no, it's another two dollars. Like even feeding a 467 00:19:56,720 --> 00:20:00,199 Speaker 4: family honestly so expensive either if DoorDash or groceries, good 468 00:20:00,240 --> 00:20:02,000 Speaker 4: thing about it. Even just to cook a meal, I 469 00:20:02,119 --> 00:20:04,200 Speaker 4: need like this, right, I need this spice, and you 470 00:20:04,280 --> 00:20:04,720 Speaker 4: gotta add that. 471 00:20:04,800 --> 00:20:05,919 Speaker 3: I'm like, all this adds up. 472 00:20:06,080 --> 00:20:08,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, and it will be impossible if you had a 473 00:20:08,280 --> 00:20:10,280 Speaker 2: big family, but that way you got to be cooking 474 00:20:10,359 --> 00:20:11,880 Speaker 2: like big pots of stuff in that case. 475 00:20:12,200 --> 00:20:14,600 Speaker 8: But for just me, no, it makes way more sense 476 00:20:14,640 --> 00:20:17,120 Speaker 8: for you, and people think I'm crazy, And it's definitely more. 477 00:20:17,200 --> 00:20:18,840 Speaker 1: It's definitely more, and it's not as healthy. 478 00:20:18,920 --> 00:20:21,160 Speaker 2: So I start buying like fruit and stuff to eat 479 00:20:21,440 --> 00:20:24,120 Speaker 2: and to supplement because you know, I know this restaurant 480 00:20:24,119 --> 00:20:25,359 Speaker 2: food is not going to be the healthy I'm not 481 00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:28,240 Speaker 2: arguing it's the healthiest food, but from a money standpoint, 482 00:20:28,320 --> 00:20:29,320 Speaker 2: I throw a lot of food away. 483 00:20:29,359 --> 00:20:32,399 Speaker 9: Yeah, girl, she's our scam, the whole the whole industry. 484 00:20:32,520 --> 00:20:33,399 Speaker 9: My hot take today it is. 485 00:20:33,600 --> 00:20:33,800 Speaker 1: Yeah. 486 00:20:33,880 --> 00:20:36,000 Speaker 2: So this woman costs one hundred excuse me, ten thousand 487 00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:38,439 Speaker 2: dollars in damage to a DoorDash driver's vehicle because her 488 00:20:38,520 --> 00:20:41,200 Speaker 2: order of ten chicken wings wasn't delivered. So frustrating when 489 00:20:41,320 --> 00:20:42,719 Speaker 2: you know, when you were too lazy to go get 490 00:20:42,720 --> 00:20:44,880 Speaker 2: the food yourself, but damn it, the thing I really 491 00:20:44,960 --> 00:20:48,040 Speaker 2: really wanted wasn't in the bag. The woman used the 492 00:20:48,080 --> 00:20:50,840 Speaker 2: door Dash app to find the driver, whose service was 493 00:20:50,880 --> 00:20:53,560 Speaker 2: interrupted during a delivery. The driver suffered a Wi Fi issue, 494 00:20:53,760 --> 00:20:55,480 Speaker 2: so she wasn't able to find a woman's house. But 495 00:20:55,560 --> 00:20:58,879 Speaker 2: somehows you found the driver and then he hit the 496 00:20:59,040 --> 00:21:02,680 Speaker 2: vehicle with a tire iron, which smashed several windows and 497 00:21:02,760 --> 00:21:05,359 Speaker 2: also threw a brick at it. The woman was arrested 498 00:21:05,400 --> 00:21:07,120 Speaker 2: after the incident and faces three and a half years 499 00:21:07,119 --> 00:21:10,920 Speaker 2: in prison for a felony criminal damage to property. Wow, 500 00:21:11,000 --> 00:21:13,959 Speaker 2: I got to hear both sides, though, I'm with Kaylin, 501 00:21:14,119 --> 00:21:16,800 Speaker 2: you know, I mean, how hard did this person try 502 00:21:16,840 --> 00:21:18,600 Speaker 2: and deliver it? The other thing I've noticed lately is 503 00:21:18,640 --> 00:21:20,960 Speaker 2: that I'll just sometimes they'll just drop the food wherever 504 00:21:21,320 --> 00:21:22,879 Speaker 2: I get. A day, they dropped the food across the 505 00:21:22,920 --> 00:21:25,719 Speaker 2: street from my house. I took a picture of it delivered. Oh, 506 00:21:25,880 --> 00:21:27,320 Speaker 2: and I had to look at the picture and like 507 00:21:27,400 --> 00:21:30,159 Speaker 2: be like that looks like the inside of another building 508 00:21:30,760 --> 00:21:32,840 Speaker 2: somewhere complete. Or they'll just put the food in front 509 00:21:32,840 --> 00:21:34,639 Speaker 2: of someone else's door and just leave, and I'm like, 510 00:21:35,240 --> 00:21:36,640 Speaker 2: my food, we're in and I have to go search. 511 00:21:36,680 --> 00:21:39,159 Speaker 2: It's it's like a like a hunt. It's like, where's 512 00:21:39,160 --> 00:21:43,040 Speaker 2: Waldo for my you know, for my five guys. You know, 513 00:21:43,400 --> 00:21:45,000 Speaker 2: if you're gonna pay that much for food, can we 514 00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:47,639 Speaker 2: at least please make sure that it arrives, please, Like Jason, 515 00:21:47,640 --> 00:21:50,760 Speaker 2: I'm sure. Oh I know, Jason, you you you probably 516 00:21:50,920 --> 00:21:52,119 Speaker 2: made sure you handed it to him. 517 00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:52,440 Speaker 5: Yeah. 518 00:21:52,480 --> 00:21:55,160 Speaker 8: Oh, I always found the directions, but we also want 519 00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:58,520 Speaker 8: to see what that customer like left in the directions, 520 00:21:58,520 --> 00:22:02,200 Speaker 8: because sometimes people don't be makeing sense, or they put 521 00:22:02,240 --> 00:22:04,280 Speaker 8: the wrong number, or they don't put a unit number 522 00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:05,040 Speaker 8: or something like that. 523 00:22:05,359 --> 00:22:06,480 Speaker 1: Like it's a two way street. 524 00:22:06,520 --> 00:22:09,119 Speaker 2: You guys, let me ask you this as a former 525 00:22:09,160 --> 00:22:12,560 Speaker 2: door desk driver, you're an executive now you've elevated. Yes, 526 00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:17,040 Speaker 2: if someone's staying in a hotel and you have access 527 00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:19,320 Speaker 2: to the floor, or if they live in a building 528 00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:22,280 Speaker 2: a high rise and someone can let you in, do 529 00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:26,359 Speaker 2: you believe that the DoorDash service includes delivery to the 530 00:22:26,520 --> 00:22:29,200 Speaker 2: door or do you believe that it's good enough to 531 00:22:29,359 --> 00:22:31,399 Speaker 2: just leave it in the lobby and off you go. 532 00:22:32,240 --> 00:22:34,639 Speaker 8: This is going to be an unpopular opinion, especially for you, 533 00:22:35,119 --> 00:22:38,760 Speaker 8: but I don't want to bring it into your building. 534 00:22:39,200 --> 00:22:42,360 Speaker 8: And it's purely not from a lazy standpoint, it's from 535 00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:45,200 Speaker 8: like a safety standpoint, Like I don't like going into 536 00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:48,280 Speaker 8: a hotel or into a building and going to someone's door, 537 00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:50,239 Speaker 8: like it just it like freaks me out. I'd rather 538 00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:52,440 Speaker 8: try to keep it as public as possible, Like I'll 539 00:22:52,480 --> 00:22:55,760 Speaker 8: go into the hotel and leave it on the desk, right, 540 00:22:55,880 --> 00:22:57,640 Speaker 8: and then you have to come down and get it. Yeah, 541 00:22:57,840 --> 00:23:00,600 Speaker 8: but it just freaks It's like two personal for me 542 00:23:00,680 --> 00:23:03,679 Speaker 8: to go into someone's building, walk down your dark hallway 543 00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:04,919 Speaker 8: to your door, like. 544 00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:08,000 Speaker 3: It just scares me. Okay, dark holl what buildings are 545 00:23:08,080 --> 00:23:12,120 Speaker 3: you going into the buildings are sketchy? Okay? And it's 546 00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:13,040 Speaker 3: Harry Okay. 547 00:23:13,200 --> 00:23:15,399 Speaker 2: I'm curious from your perspective what you thought that the 548 00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:16,280 Speaker 2: service included. 549 00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:18,000 Speaker 1: I think it's fair for to leave it in the 550 00:23:18,080 --> 00:23:19,520 Speaker 1: lobby and for you to go down and get it. 551 00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:23,520 Speaker 2: Okay, fair enough, I's senior citizens say today guys and 552 00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:26,280 Speaker 2: the Entertainer report blogs waiting by the phone all next 553 00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:27,240 Speaker 2: bright Ane's. 554 00:23:27,080 --> 00:23:29,240 Speaker 1: Entertainer Report, He's on the bread show. 555 00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:33,000 Speaker 6: Tory Lane's legal team and families say they're optimistic about 556 00:23:33,040 --> 00:23:37,440 Speaker 6: his appeal, alleging that the prosecution misled the jury during 557 00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:40,600 Speaker 6: his trial for shooting Meg the Stallion. At a recent hearing, 558 00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:44,480 Speaker 6: Tory's lawyer, Crystal Morgan and his uncle expressed a lot 559 00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:47,520 Speaker 6: of confidence in the cases outcome. They alleged that Meg 560 00:23:47,720 --> 00:23:51,159 Speaker 6: and her former friend Kelsey Harris gave false testimonies regarding 561 00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:54,680 Speaker 6: the twenty twenty two shooting incident, leading to Tory's ten 562 00:23:54,760 --> 00:23:58,359 Speaker 6: year sentence. He emphasized that a conviction doesn't necessarily equate 563 00:23:58,440 --> 00:24:01,280 Speaker 6: to justice, suggesting that Toy is a victim of a 564 00:24:01,400 --> 00:24:02,720 Speaker 6: flawed legal process. 565 00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:07,560 Speaker 3: I'm moving right along. A singer named. 566 00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:10,359 Speaker 6: Diana Vickers shared a really strange encounter that she had 567 00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:14,040 Speaker 6: with Leonardo DiCaprio on her podcast Just Between Us. She 568 00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:17,000 Speaker 6: was invited apparently to what she thought was a party 569 00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:18,920 Speaker 6: at his house, but she ended up just sitting with 570 00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:22,000 Speaker 6: him watching him watch TV, and he wasn't like really 571 00:24:22,040 --> 00:24:24,800 Speaker 6: talking to her. She said, the whole thing was super bizarre. 572 00:24:24,920 --> 00:24:26,960 Speaker 6: She described Leo as a man in Hollywood with so 573 00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:29,480 Speaker 6: much fame and power that he doesn't want to grow up, 574 00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:31,400 Speaker 6: which like, tell me something that we don't know about Leo. 575 00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:34,040 Speaker 6: She brought up the story while giving a caller advice 576 00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:37,440 Speaker 6: about dating older men and age gap relationships, saying she 577 00:24:37,600 --> 00:24:40,560 Speaker 6: struggles more with younger men due to their immaturity. But 578 00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:44,879 Speaker 6: remember we heard that rumor at one point that he 579 00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:47,760 Speaker 6: had like an igloo in his yard, that he took 580 00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:49,760 Speaker 6: a woman too, that he was like cooking up with 581 00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:52,879 Speaker 6: instead of taking her inside, and that they may have, 582 00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:54,920 Speaker 6: you know, done what they do when a man loves 583 00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:57,280 Speaker 6: a woman. And he had headphones in the whole time, 584 00:24:57,320 --> 00:24:58,520 Speaker 6: and he was eating cheese ites. 585 00:24:58,920 --> 00:24:59,960 Speaker 1: Oh that was in the igloo. 586 00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:02,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, And I just hope that's true, because. 587 00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:04,120 Speaker 2: Do you just spray that down at the end, does 588 00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:06,600 Speaker 2: that like hose it down? Maybe that is that what 589 00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:08,440 Speaker 2: that is, like, is it better for cleanup or I 590 00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:08,720 Speaker 2: don't know. 591 00:25:08,920 --> 00:25:11,920 Speaker 6: I have no idea, but I just really yeah, like 592 00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:14,399 Speaker 6: or some sort of like you know, like during COVID 593 00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:16,159 Speaker 6: they had those things you could do. 594 00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:17,000 Speaker 3: I don't know. 595 00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:19,400 Speaker 6: I just that was a rumor. That's all alleged. Don't 596 00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:22,240 Speaker 6: come from me. Leo Morgan Wallen has decided not to 597 00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:24,720 Speaker 6: submit his twenty twenty five album I'm the Problem for 598 00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:28,400 Speaker 6: consideration at the twenty twenty six Grammys. Morgan will also 599 00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:32,400 Speaker 6: refrain from submitting individual songs for award categories, including Best 600 00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:36,159 Speaker 6: Country Solo Performance. His collaborators, however, will be allowed to 601 00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:38,800 Speaker 6: submit their songs that they co wrote with him. The 602 00:25:38,880 --> 00:25:41,520 Speaker 6: thirty seven song album features and I Just want to 603 00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:45,400 Speaker 6: say that again. The thirty seven song album features collaborations 604 00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:49,200 Speaker 6: with Post Malone, Eric Church, Ernest Hardy, Tate McCrae, and 605 00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:52,320 Speaker 6: it's gotten really big chart success, like multiple number one hits, 606 00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:56,560 Speaker 6: So it's interesting. His decision places him among other artists 607 00:25:56,600 --> 00:25:59,560 Speaker 6: like Frank Ocean Drake and The Weekend who have previously 608 00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:03,639 Speaker 6: boycotted or criticize the Grammys and decided not to submit 609 00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:05,840 Speaker 6: their works, which is an interesting. 610 00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:07,280 Speaker 2: Would you rather, as a fan of an artist, have 611 00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:11,239 Speaker 2: thirty seven songs and some will be mid I mean 612 00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:13,920 Speaker 2: thirty seven songs in an album that's a lot, yes, 613 00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:16,639 Speaker 2: Or and I think I know the answer. In the 614 00:26:16,680 --> 00:26:19,760 Speaker 2: case of Taylor, She's going to deliver twelve and in 615 00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:21,760 Speaker 2: her opinion, they're all going to be top notch. They're 616 00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:23,960 Speaker 2: all going to be bangers, Like would you rather have 617 00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:25,920 Speaker 2: it more of an experience? And do you feel like 618 00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:28,600 Speaker 2: artists And this is a very cerebral question, do you 619 00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:30,560 Speaker 2: feel like you feel like Morgan Wallen was taking us 620 00:26:30,560 --> 00:26:32,560 Speaker 2: on a journey with thirty seven songs? Or do you 621 00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:34,520 Speaker 2: think he just had thirty seven songs to just put 622 00:26:34,560 --> 00:26:36,359 Speaker 2: him on there? Like kids, it used to be listening 623 00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:38,320 Speaker 2: to a CD from start to finish, or an album 624 00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:41,919 Speaker 2: or whatever have you consumed it was like an experience, right, 625 00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:44,639 Speaker 2: you know? It was all designed that way, like the 626 00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:47,560 Speaker 2: order of the songs, the tempo of the songs, whatever. 627 00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:48,240 Speaker 1: I don't know. 628 00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:50,840 Speaker 2: As a music fan, would you rather have fewer songs 629 00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:55,000 Speaker 2: that the artist hands selected and narrowed down so they're 630 00:26:55,040 --> 00:26:57,200 Speaker 2: giving you what they think is their best or would 631 00:26:57,200 --> 00:26:59,080 Speaker 2: you rather just have all the stuff they were working 632 00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:00,359 Speaker 2: on and then you shoes. 633 00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:02,760 Speaker 6: I did hear a lot of people complain about the 634 00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:05,880 Speaker 6: longer albums, but for me personally, I'd rather have more 635 00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:08,600 Speaker 6: songs and like for Taylor's thirty two song album, thirty two, 636 00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:13,560 Speaker 6: Jason was thirty one. It didn't end up to thirteen right, 637 00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:17,000 Speaker 6: thirty one put it around, but that was all cohesive. 638 00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:21,400 Speaker 3: So I did like that album. The Torture Poets Society, 639 00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:22,439 Speaker 3: Torture Poets Department. 640 00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:23,960 Speaker 1: People don't think I'm a true Swifty. 641 00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:25,920 Speaker 2: I've said this before because you know, they'll say, what's 642 00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:27,080 Speaker 2: your favorite Taylor Swift song? 643 00:27:27,119 --> 00:27:28,840 Speaker 1: And most of mine are the commercial hits. I don't know. 644 00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:30,520 Speaker 1: I just and I've listened to the albums. I just 645 00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:31,239 Speaker 1: I like some of them. 646 00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:33,119 Speaker 2: I like some of the early commercial hits too, and 647 00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:38,040 Speaker 2: it'll be, oh, you're one of those. I prefer track 648 00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:42,680 Speaker 2: nineteen on this way, it's like like the interlude to 649 00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:44,800 Speaker 2: the melody to the to the you know what. 650 00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:48,320 Speaker 1: I have no idea what that was. I didn't even 651 00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:48,800 Speaker 1: notice it. 652 00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:51,200 Speaker 7: That's stupid. You can have whatever song be your. But 653 00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:53,920 Speaker 7: I feel like the true Swifties, like the Deep Cut. 654 00:27:54,680 --> 00:27:56,160 Speaker 7: We all know those people, we all know the people 655 00:27:56,160 --> 00:27:58,639 Speaker 7: who are a fan of a musician and they're like, oh, 656 00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:00,639 Speaker 7: I prefer that you know the east Side or what 657 00:28:00,760 --> 00:28:01,000 Speaker 7: it's like. 658 00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:01,760 Speaker 5: I I like it. 659 00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:04,600 Speaker 2: Oh you didn't listen to track eleven. Oh that one 660 00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:07,440 Speaker 2: really resonated with me. It's like, no, no, I like 661 00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:07,920 Speaker 2: what I like. 662 00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:09,840 Speaker 1: Sorry, it's ard, It's okay. 663 00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:11,400 Speaker 3: Objective. Yeah, that's really weird. 664 00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:13,760 Speaker 6: As long as you support her and you don't yell 665 00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:14,280 Speaker 6: at her, I like. 666 00:28:14,600 --> 00:28:15,000 Speaker 5: I like that. 667 00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:17,919 Speaker 3: If you want to catch up on anything human, you. 668 00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:18,679 Speaker 1: Don't yell at her. 669 00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:19,159 Speaker 4: I like that. 670 00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:21,760 Speaker 6: I just love Taylor and I'm really sad and like 671 00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:23,760 Speaker 6: we went through a hard time. We're like the Lover era. 672 00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:25,439 Speaker 6: She was hard to be a fan of a little bit. 673 00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:27,800 Speaker 1: I've never yelled at Taylor. I will say I've never 674 00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:28,359 Speaker 1: yelled at her. 675 00:28:28,480 --> 00:28:29,399 Speaker 3: Don't don't yell it. 676 00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:31,919 Speaker 2: We've always had a cordial relationship. It's always been it's 677 00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:32,879 Speaker 2: always been on the up and up. 678 00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:35,960 Speaker 3: Take the Friend Show on demand on the Free iHeartRadio. 679 00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:37,640 Speaker 3: If you want to catch up on anything you miss. 680 00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:41,240 Speaker 1: I want to hear about your negotiations with children. Yes, 681 00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:43,000 Speaker 1: they talk better than they excited. 682 00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:44,000 Speaker 5: Tell me. 683 00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:47,760 Speaker 2: These are the radio blogs on the frend Show, like 684 00:28:47,800 --> 00:28:49,840 Speaker 2: for running in our diaries, except we say them aloud. 685 00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:50,680 Speaker 1: We call them blogs. 686 00:28:51,080 --> 00:28:53,680 Speaker 3: Ki ki yo, go all right, dear blog. 687 00:28:54,920 --> 00:28:58,840 Speaker 9: You know, parents, I just want to extend my gratitude, 688 00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:03,400 Speaker 9: appreciate and sympathy for you, because what I've learned is 689 00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:09,120 Speaker 9: having children is a constant life of negotiation with a child. 690 00:29:09,640 --> 00:29:13,400 Speaker 9: Like my nephew is this He is a negotiator, And 691 00:29:13,520 --> 00:29:15,640 Speaker 9: I'm like, how does this work as a parent, because 692 00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:17,360 Speaker 9: for me, there's no I'm. 693 00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:19,360 Speaker 3: Not negotiating with you. It is like either you're gonna 694 00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:19,920 Speaker 3: do it or you're not. 695 00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:21,280 Speaker 1: And so I get this. 696 00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:24,720 Speaker 9: Text yesterday and he does this often. Whenever he wants something. 697 00:29:24,760 --> 00:29:30,800 Speaker 9: He goes, hey, Auntie, if my grades are good, can 698 00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:33,800 Speaker 9: I have X, Y, and Z. And I get stuck 699 00:29:33,880 --> 00:29:35,640 Speaker 9: on the part of if my grades are like, that 700 00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:37,360 Speaker 9: is your responsibility in life? 701 00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:39,200 Speaker 2: Like that's not really a choice, Like you don't have 702 00:29:39,320 --> 00:29:40,800 Speaker 2: a choice to get bad grades. 703 00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:46,080 Speaker 9: Right, And I'm like, what has made you think that 704 00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:49,960 Speaker 9: you can negotiate doing your responsibility in life? 705 00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:50,120 Speaker 5: Like? 706 00:29:50,240 --> 00:29:51,320 Speaker 3: This is not how this works. 707 00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:53,840 Speaker 9: No, you deliver good grades and then I decide if 708 00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:55,680 Speaker 9: I want to reward you for that. It's not a 709 00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:59,120 Speaker 9: if you do, then I do. And he loves to negotiate. 710 00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:01,600 Speaker 9: And I've seen other parents do this, even with toddlers. 711 00:30:01,640 --> 00:30:04,560 Speaker 9: They're like, if you be good in this store, I'll 712 00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:08,040 Speaker 9: get you a toy. If you behave that, this doctor's 713 00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:10,520 Speaker 9: appointment will go And my parents did it too. We'll 714 00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:11,640 Speaker 9: go get McDonald's. 715 00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:13,680 Speaker 2: We'll go get Like what I want to know, by 716 00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:15,920 Speaker 2: the way, how how do you find yourself negotiating with 717 00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:19,480 Speaker 2: your kid? If this resonates with you five five three five, 718 00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:21,880 Speaker 2: because we have some time, I'd love to hear this. Yeah, no, 719 00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:23,000 Speaker 2: I think you're right. 720 00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:24,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I don't why aren't we doing this? 721 00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:26,360 Speaker 9: And probably I don't know if you've come to this 722 00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:28,320 Speaker 9: point with Gigi it, but like do you have to 723 00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:30,080 Speaker 9: negotiate with her or make a promise? 724 00:30:30,320 --> 00:30:33,840 Speaker 4: Like so she's what one and a half almost like 725 00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:36,040 Speaker 4: we're not really very yet because she can't really respond 726 00:30:36,080 --> 00:30:38,000 Speaker 4: to me or give me her demands. 727 00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:38,840 Speaker 3: Although she kind of does. 728 00:30:39,040 --> 00:30:40,760 Speaker 1: Well, she can tell you no, right, Oh. 729 00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:42,880 Speaker 4: She loves the word no, like it's her favorite ord 730 00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:45,120 Speaker 4: in the world. But I have to either redirect with 731 00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:48,600 Speaker 4: her or like negotiate something different. If it's like bedtime, 732 00:30:48,840 --> 00:30:51,160 Speaker 4: we're gonna take away the toy or turn the TV off. 733 00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:53,160 Speaker 4: If there's a meltdown that comes with it, I gotta 734 00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:55,240 Speaker 4: be like, Okay, I'm gonna give you your pacifier, you know. 735 00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:57,960 Speaker 4: So it's like I'm negotiating to I guess, and it's 736 00:30:58,000 --> 00:31:00,480 Speaker 4: not the greatest thing because I feel like she should 737 00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:02,000 Speaker 4: just do as I say because I'm her mother and 738 00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:04,680 Speaker 4: her parents. But I'm scared and she gets older, it's 739 00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:06,240 Speaker 4: gonna be a lot of like, you know, if I. 740 00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:07,080 Speaker 3: Do this, can I do that? 741 00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:09,840 Speaker 9: It's like, no, right, no, If I clean my room, 742 00:31:09,920 --> 00:31:11,680 Speaker 9: my mother did this to me. She was I wanted 743 00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:14,560 Speaker 9: a fingernail extensions at like, you know, eight. 744 00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:15,600 Speaker 5: She was. 745 00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:19,720 Speaker 1: Shocking. I know, she already had a wig, right, So 746 00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:21,320 Speaker 1: it was when. 747 00:31:21,320 --> 00:31:22,440 Speaker 3: I lashes and makeup. 748 00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:24,880 Speaker 9: But no, she goes, if you clean out your room 749 00:31:25,000 --> 00:31:26,960 Speaker 9: and clean your closet top to bottom, you can go 750 00:31:27,040 --> 00:31:29,560 Speaker 9: get your nails done. She promised me that when I 751 00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:32,000 Speaker 9: tell you guys, I clean that that room from top 752 00:31:32,040 --> 00:31:34,360 Speaker 9: to bottom. And she thought, because she this is all 753 00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:37,200 Speaker 9: happening on a Sunday that the nail salon was closed. 754 00:31:37,800 --> 00:31:39,600 Speaker 9: So that was her plan, and she's like, Okay, I'm 755 00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:40,880 Speaker 9: letting cleaning up and then I'm gonna tell you the 756 00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:44,920 Speaker 9: nail salon was open, and so yeah, she did not 757 00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:47,640 Speaker 9: keep her part of the negotiation, and I had a 758 00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:50,640 Speaker 9: complete meltdown. So it's like we got to stop this 759 00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:53,120 Speaker 9: negotiation thing, like just do what you're supposed to do. 760 00:31:53,320 --> 00:31:55,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, the text one thousand per parenting is all about 761 00:31:55,920 --> 00:31:57,760 Speaker 2: bribing your kids, and then someone else text it that's 762 00:31:57,800 --> 00:31:59,120 Speaker 2: what doctors tell us to do. 763 00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:01,240 Speaker 1: If then stayed, it's yeah, kalin Oh, I. 764 00:32:01,320 --> 00:32:03,720 Speaker 6: Was just gonna ask Paulina, don't you ask gg sometimes 765 00:32:03,800 --> 00:32:05,520 Speaker 6: like do you want to go with me here? 766 00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:07,760 Speaker 3: Even though like there's no option? 767 00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:08,640 Speaker 5: Yeah? 768 00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:10,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm like you want to want to target? 769 00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:11,360 Speaker 5: Yeah? 770 00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:14,040 Speaker 3: Surely know where the hell target is? She'll say no, 771 00:32:14,480 --> 00:32:16,240 Speaker 3: You're like, well you're still going right, like we're rowing 772 00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:18,560 Speaker 3: anyone to bop, just like, yeah, do you want to 773 00:32:18,560 --> 00:32:18,840 Speaker 3: go here? 774 00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:19,040 Speaker 5: No? 775 00:32:19,320 --> 00:32:20,959 Speaker 4: But the thing is I'm trying to also test her 776 00:32:20,960 --> 00:32:22,680 Speaker 4: to see do you even know what I'm saying? Like 777 00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:25,240 Speaker 4: do you know what target is? Because I'm curious. So 778 00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:28,720 Speaker 4: I'm curious if she's like getting what I'm putting down here, 779 00:32:28,840 --> 00:32:30,160 Speaker 4: like do you know where we're going? 780 00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:31,200 Speaker 1: Yeah? 781 00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:31,480 Speaker 5: I know. 782 00:32:31,960 --> 00:32:34,800 Speaker 2: My parents were always super generous, but but there were 783 00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:37,000 Speaker 2: there were times when they would negotiate with me. I 784 00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:39,080 Speaker 2: mean the school. I was expect that was my job. 785 00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:41,160 Speaker 2: They always just say that growing up, like that's you. 786 00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:43,960 Speaker 2: My job is to go to work and make money 787 00:32:44,000 --> 00:32:45,800 Speaker 2: to pay for the food and the house and stuff. 788 00:32:46,040 --> 00:32:48,600 Speaker 2: Your job just go to school and I and then 789 00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:50,320 Speaker 2: I remember my dad used to say, I wish that 790 00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:51,640 Speaker 2: were my I wish my job. 791 00:32:51,680 --> 00:32:53,600 Speaker 1: We're going to school every day. I feel and I'm like, 792 00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:54,720 Speaker 1: you're you're a moron. 793 00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:55,000 Speaker 4: Dad. 794 00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:57,480 Speaker 1: I never said that to a face, but I thought that. 795 00:32:57,880 --> 00:33:00,000 Speaker 1: But now I wish my job were to go to school. 796 00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:02,160 Speaker 2: If somebody would pay me what I make to do this, 797 00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:03,880 Speaker 2: to go to school every day and just learn and 798 00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:05,960 Speaker 2: just get all these degrees, I would do it if 799 00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:07,960 Speaker 2: that were my job. And he used to say that 800 00:33:08,160 --> 00:33:10,480 Speaker 2: someday you're gonna wish and I'm like, you're an idiot 801 00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:13,040 Speaker 2: in my head, never do his face because he'd slap 802 00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:13,720 Speaker 2: me across face. 803 00:33:13,840 --> 00:33:16,960 Speaker 1: But uh, but they but but I was afraid of 804 00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:17,360 Speaker 1: the doctor. 805 00:33:17,400 --> 00:33:17,480 Speaker 3: Right. 806 00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:19,160 Speaker 2: I had meningitis when I was a little kid, and 807 00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:21,440 Speaker 2: I was in the hospital for three or four weeks 808 00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:23,840 Speaker 2: and I hated it. Of you know three, I'm conditioned. 809 00:33:23,880 --> 00:33:26,480 Speaker 2: I hate the doctor. So they would bribe me to 810 00:33:26,520 --> 00:33:27,960 Speaker 2: go to the doctor. Like, if you go to the 811 00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:29,760 Speaker 2: doctor and get your shot, we'll go to the toy 812 00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:32,520 Speaker 2: store or something like the traumatic things or like really 813 00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:35,520 Speaker 2: high level things that were complicated. You know, my parents 814 00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:38,160 Speaker 2: got divorced. Here here's a hamster. You know, here's here's 815 00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:40,000 Speaker 2: guilt gifts, you know what I mean, Like, oh, you 816 00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:41,560 Speaker 2: wanted the new video game, Fine, you can have it 817 00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:43,840 Speaker 2: because you're you know, your father's a jackass. 818 00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:43,960 Speaker 1: Or whatever it is. 819 00:33:44,800 --> 00:33:46,800 Speaker 2: But but no, and then and then there was an 820 00:33:46,800 --> 00:33:48,960 Speaker 2: allowing situation where it was like, you know, you have 821 00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:51,400 Speaker 2: to the famous mowing the lawn thing that apparently never 822 00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:53,840 Speaker 2: happened in my house, but it did. It was hey, 823 00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:57,080 Speaker 2: But but that was more of like a spending responsibility thing. 824 00:33:57,200 --> 00:33:59,640 Speaker 2: That was more like, here's a couple easy things that 825 00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:02,000 Speaker 2: you have to do. We'll give you the money for it, 826 00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:04,200 Speaker 2: and then you can spend the money now, or you 827 00:34:04,240 --> 00:34:05,600 Speaker 2: can save it up and spend it on something. 828 00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:07,520 Speaker 1: But that was I think more about budgeting. 829 00:34:08,080 --> 00:34:09,880 Speaker 2: I think that was less about bribing me to do 830 00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:12,520 Speaker 2: stuff because they were overpaying me for the crappy work 831 00:34:12,520 --> 00:34:13,400 Speaker 2: I was doing and. 832 00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:15,720 Speaker 9: I'm a sucker. So every time we negotiate, he actually 833 00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:17,800 Speaker 9: gets it, but it's just like why are we doing this? 834 00:34:18,160 --> 00:34:20,840 Speaker 2: Well, that's the problem is it's learned behavior, right, so 835 00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:23,399 Speaker 2: like you do it, you do it for him once 836 00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:26,280 Speaker 2: and then every semester it's going to be good grades 837 00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:28,880 Speaker 2: in this. But then you have to ask yourself like, okay, 838 00:34:29,200 --> 00:34:32,000 Speaker 2: you shouldn't have to do that, but is the investment 839 00:34:32,080 --> 00:34:32,840 Speaker 2: worth the result? 840 00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:34,279 Speaker 1: Like what is he asking for? 841 00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:37,080 Speaker 2: Now? You're you've got some bougie as these nephews rather 842 00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:40,600 Speaker 2: so they're asking for Gucci and Prada. But you know, 843 00:34:40,640 --> 00:34:42,600 Speaker 2: if the guy wants a video game for a semester 844 00:34:42,760 --> 00:34:45,160 Speaker 2: worth of a's like that sounds like a pretty good deal. 845 00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:46,640 Speaker 1: That's the motivator. 846 00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:49,400 Speaker 2: But if he wants you know, Gucci slides because he 847 00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:51,600 Speaker 2: went to pe class, then it's like I don't think 848 00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:55,600 Speaker 2: so hey Britney, Hi, So you think this is a 849 00:34:55,640 --> 00:34:57,640 Speaker 2: good idea or a bad idea. You're a teacher and 850 00:34:58,120 --> 00:35:01,520 Speaker 2: this negotiating stuff with kids, right, I. 851 00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:05,239 Speaker 5: Wouldn't call it so much negotiating, but it's more of like, 852 00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:09,600 Speaker 5: if you do this, then this will happen. So I 853 00:35:09,719 --> 00:35:13,120 Speaker 5: teach it in my classroom as like executive functioning skills, 854 00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:16,600 Speaker 5: and some kids, you know, especially as. 855 00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:18,479 Speaker 3: A really young age. I'm fifth grade. 856 00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:22,200 Speaker 5: They they don't know what's going to happen next, so 857 00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:25,680 Speaker 5: like if I don't know at home, like if you 858 00:35:25,840 --> 00:35:29,560 Speaker 5: do your homework, then you can stay up for five 859 00:35:29,600 --> 00:35:33,200 Speaker 5: more minutes, but not every day, or then you get 860 00:35:33,280 --> 00:35:34,040 Speaker 5: your TV time. 861 00:35:34,680 --> 00:35:39,080 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, So so it is it is kind of negotiating, 862 00:35:39,200 --> 00:35:42,279 Speaker 2: but it doesn't have necessarily be material material related, Like 863 00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:44,200 Speaker 2: you don't have to buy them things, pay them. 864 00:35:44,239 --> 00:35:48,680 Speaker 3: Money, right right, Like how you guys are saying, like, so. 865 00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:50,920 Speaker 2: It's about choice. It's a choice because my sister's big 866 00:35:50,960 --> 00:35:55,120 Speaker 2: on a therapist. God God saved my nieces. You know, 867 00:35:55,480 --> 00:35:57,440 Speaker 2: everything is a and you know this because you're the 868 00:35:57,560 --> 00:35:58,640 Speaker 2: you're the daughter of a therapist. 869 00:35:58,719 --> 00:36:03,000 Speaker 1: Came but it's like everything is you can choose to 870 00:36:03,120 --> 00:36:05,320 Speaker 1: do this or you can choose to do that. 871 00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:07,560 Speaker 2: And she says it like that too, and then Paul 872 00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:09,600 Speaker 2: you look at her and be Okay, you know, but 873 00:36:09,760 --> 00:36:13,560 Speaker 2: like you're choosing this, you're choosing this path, Polly. 874 00:36:13,600 --> 00:36:16,360 Speaker 3: That's valuable information. Though I know something. 875 00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:17,120 Speaker 1: I'm on the couch. 876 00:36:17,360 --> 00:36:18,600 Speaker 3: We make choices every day. 877 00:36:18,800 --> 00:36:21,000 Speaker 2: But Brittany's kind of the same thing, right, You're you're 878 00:36:21,080 --> 00:36:23,960 Speaker 2: sort of laying out like here's here's one path and 879 00:36:24,000 --> 00:36:24,560 Speaker 2: here's the other. 880 00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:25,840 Speaker 1: What are you gonna do? 881 00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:27,319 Speaker 5: Right? 882 00:36:27,480 --> 00:36:29,080 Speaker 3: Because kids like that choice too. 883 00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:31,560 Speaker 5: They like like, quote unquote being in charge, although you're 884 00:36:31,640 --> 00:36:32,840 Speaker 5: kind of like limiting act. 885 00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:35,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, I got it. Thank you, Brittany, have a good day. Thanks. 886 00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:38,680 Speaker 2: I was negotiating with my trainer yesterday on the lakefront. 887 00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:41,360 Speaker 2: If I run a little faster, do I not have 888 00:36:41,440 --> 00:36:44,400 Speaker 2: to run as far? And he said, shut the hell up. 889 00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:46,880 Speaker 2: More breadshell next,