Speaker 1: You know, it's not the holidays without a little drama.
Speaker 1: Welcome to the Second Date podcast with Brooke and Jeffrey.
Speaker 2: And yesterday we had our.
Speaker 1: Awkward Thursday phone call where Hey, sister who's hosting her
Speaker 1: whole family, has decided to charge not just for the dinner,
Speaker 1: oh no, no, but for her grandparents to get VIP park.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeahge door, and.
Speaker 3: She's still got time to add more fees by Thanksgiving.
Speaker 1: She definitely was in charge of the situation. If you
Speaker 1: didn't hear it, you need to listen. There are a
Speaker 1: lot of comments.
Speaker 3: About your guys' comments were killing me. But t Cards said,
Speaker 3: I need to call my sister and tell her how
Speaker 3: much I appreciate her. After listening to that, em said,
Speaker 3: thank god I only listened from my family. If my
Speaker 3: sister or brother heard, I feel like they probably might
Speaker 3: give it a shot.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's definitely the one episode you don't want to
Speaker 1: share with any family members.
Speaker 2: I know that's a good point. Oops.
Speaker 1: Hey, keep those comments coming. We got a brand new
Speaker 1: Second Date for you and it's starting right now.
Speaker 4: Second Date update. You ever see those videos of marathon
Speaker 4: runners who were in the last stretch right before the
Speaker 4: finish line and they start celebrating a little bit too early.
Speaker 4: That's a very last second somebody else passes them, or
Speaker 4: they run right into a car.
Speaker 2: Oh gosh, did I miss that video.
Speaker 4: Well, it also can happen on a first date, because
Speaker 4: one of our listeners said in his email he got
Speaker 4: all the way back to his place and just couldn't
Speaker 4: cross the finish line. So he needs our help today.
Speaker 4: I don't know if I want to know what that means.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's okay.
Speaker 4: I know, Brook, you like to cross the finish line
Speaker 4: in the first five minutes, but Anthony does it a
Speaker 4: little bit differently. Anthony, Welcome to the show.
Speaker 1: Okay, can we like establish what your finish line is again?
Speaker 4: You're jumping right to the finish line at the very
Speaker 4: start of the call. Let's let's get to the finish
Speaker 4: line in a normal amount of time. We'll begin with
Speaker 4: the girl's name.
Speaker 5: Her name's Olivia, Olivia Olivia okay, And according to my notes,
Speaker 5: it says you met Olivia on a dating app.
Speaker 4: So what did you to bond over that brought you together?
Speaker 6: Well, she had something on her dating profile that made
Speaker 6: me laugh, and she said, I never know what to
Speaker 6: do with my hands during hugs.
Speaker 2: Don't you just put them on the person's back.
Speaker 4: But I guess the question is where on the back
Speaker 4: do you put them? Do you go high? Do you
Speaker 4: go low? Do you wonder?
Speaker 2: Answer? Yeah, I definitely I do not do that.
Speaker 6: Okay, it depends on the energy, I guess.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Okay, so you related to that. You thought it was funny.
Speaker 2: It's silly, Yeah, for sure.
Speaker 6: And I was like, I don't know either.
Speaker 4: Between you two is very good.
Speaker 1: Okay, So that was your funny response back to her
Speaker 1: and it sparks conversation.
Speaker 6: Yeah, and we said we should hug in person and
Speaker 6: test it out.
Speaker 2: So that's cute.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 6: I thought I was in you know, I thought I
Speaker 6: thought that was my green light.
Speaker 2: What do you mean?
Speaker 4: That's sure? Getting a hug to smooth line to start
Speaker 4: things off.
Speaker 2: So did you go to dinner? What did you guys
Speaker 2: do for your date?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 6: Well, well, we hugged when we see each other and
Speaker 6: oh when.
Speaker 1: You very first met Okay, hold on, don't tell me
Speaker 1: you were that guy that's like, where's my hug?
Speaker 6: I tried not to, but then she was kind of
Speaker 6: like put her arms out, so I I just went
Speaker 6: in and that.
Speaker 1: Is such a cute first interaction. But where did you
Speaker 1: put your hands?
Speaker 6: I don't even remember. I was like so caught up
Speaker 6: in the moment.
Speaker 4: All right, you dog, Anthony.
Speaker 6: I could tell there was an attraction because every time
Speaker 6: I talk, she would either touch or slap my hand.
Speaker 6: So slap I thought it was kind of flirty.
Speaker 4: I'm not sure if you're reading that right.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 1: You know people who like slapped the table when they're laughing,
Speaker 1: or they you know, like slap.
Speaker 4: Their name, yeah, or just like slapped the waiter as
Speaker 4: he walks by exactly. Okay, so what did you talk
Speaker 4: about during your date, because according to your email, it
Speaker 4: sounds like you bonded over both having bad roommates.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I used to have a roommate who would always
Speaker 6: leave loads of wet laundry in the washer for a
Speaker 6: day you just forget about. Yeah, until my entire apartment
Speaker 6: smelled like mold.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I mean that's a good, like relatable, totally totally. What
Speaker 2: was her horror story about her roommate?
Speaker 6: She had, like this old roommate who used to keep
Speaker 6: like forty packs of hotdogs in her fridge or something,
Speaker 6: come on, or she ate them Rob this is the
Speaker 6: weird thing.
Speaker 5: She ate them rawd well queens gross.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so YouTube bonded over awkward hugs and midnight hot dogs.
Speaker 4: Yeah okay, Yeah, let's go to the finish line part.
Speaker 4: Because in your email you said you were back at
Speaker 4: your apartment and what happened?
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, like our whole conversation, like maybe the
Speaker 6: easiest flowing conversations I've ever had on a first date.
Speaker 6: That's why I suggested we get more, maybe more drinks
Speaker 6: back in my place. No bad roommates waiting there.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's funny.
Speaker 4: How did she react when you asked her?
Speaker 7: Oh?
Speaker 6: She was down. Let's go. So we get to my
Speaker 6: apartment and I gave her the full tour. I hit
Speaker 6: the bathroom real quick, and I tell her to help
Speaker 6: herself to whatever drake drinks. She wants to get in
Speaker 6: the fridge, and when I came out, she already got
Speaker 6: her coat back on. She tells me it later, and
Speaker 6: she thought, and you just had to go.
Speaker 2: Did you have your fridge axis stinks in there?
Speaker 4: Or there was ten packs of hot dogs in there?
Speaker 4: And she was like, oh no, not again.
Speaker 2: Yeah, She's like only ten.
Speaker 4: I'm hungry to that.
Speaker 1: I mean, we have heard a lot of stories of
Speaker 1: people who have things in their apartment that they didn't
Speaker 1: realize was strange and somebody else found it like off
Speaker 1: putting possible.
Speaker 4: I mean, other than the pole and the swing in
Speaker 4: your living room, is there anything else weird that could
Speaker 4: have like driven her away? She's on the swing when
Speaker 4: he comes out, I gotta go.
Speaker 6: It sucks because she hasn't answered my text since that night. Oh,
Speaker 6: I know it's something.
Speaker 2: And you've reached out.
Speaker 6: Yeah, but I'm not trying to like stalk her and stuff,
Speaker 6: So I just quit.
Speaker 4: We're just saying I'm not trying to stalk her, but
Speaker 4: now we're going to stalk her. Alright, her call her sorry. Yeah,
Speaker 4: slap her with questions. Slapping is their love language, slapping hands.
Speaker 2: She's the only one allowed to do that relationship.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we'll leave the slapping to you two, and we'll
Speaker 4: just add some normal questions when we come back and
Speaker 4: call Olivia to get your second date update with awkward
Speaker 4: hugs and hot dogs.
Speaker 2: Man, sounds it sounds kind of nice.
Speaker 4: We'll do it right after this second date update. Some
Speaker 4: couples bond over similar TV shows, similar coffee orders, similar
Speaker 4: unpaid parking tickets. I'll call your husband. Let's have a
Speaker 4: bonding moment. But our listener Anthony Today says he bonded
Speaker 4: with a woman named Olivia over awkward hugs and roommates
Speaker 4: eating hot dogs straight out of the bag. Hot dogs
Speaker 4: and hugs. It's a true love story packed with delicious preservatives. Yea,
Speaker 4: we're trying to make it come to life today. The
Speaker 4: weird part, though, happened at the end of the night
Speaker 4: back at Anthony's place, when he told her to go
Speaker 4: make herself and by the time he got back to
Speaker 4: the kitchen, she had her coat on, saying it was
Speaker 4: actually late and she had to go. Yeah. So either
Speaker 4: Olivia truly lost track of time, or there's something Anthony
Speaker 4: isn't telling us.
Speaker 2: Yeah, about what's in his house in the fridge maybe, Uh, guys, Like, honestly.
Speaker 1: How many guys had that is a good point, Like
Speaker 1: it could be really helpful Anthony, Like, maybe you'll learn
Speaker 1: something that women don't like about your house and you
Speaker 1: can change it.
Speaker 6: Hey, guys, I'm not a weird guy, that's what you're thinking.
Speaker 6: I mean, I'll have some weird stuff hanging around, but
Speaker 6: I'm not a weird guy.
Speaker 1: Okay, no, no weird guys ever know they're weird guys, Anthony.
Speaker 2: That might be the self realization we come to.
Speaker 4: And then fast forward he's like it was the ten
Speaker 4: thousand Ninja.
Speaker 2: Stars on this wall exactly, No way, what not?
Speaker 1: Everybody has twenty pet iguanas.
Speaker 4: Let's find out how not weird you really are, Anthony.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna dial Olivia's number and she hopefully will validate
Speaker 4: everything you just said. You ready to do that?
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, you got this a little weirdo.
Speaker 4: Bron your side for now, but here we go. Hello, Hi,
Speaker 4: we're looking to speak with Olivia.
Speaker 7: Uh, yes, this is she.
Speaker 4: Hey Olivia. We are a radio show. A bunch of
Speaker 4: people in the room here we called Brook and Jeffrey
Speaker 4: in the morning.
Speaker 2: Welcome to the show.
Speaker 6: Hi.
Speaker 7: What is this?
Speaker 4: Yeah, this is it's a segment that we do called
Speaker 4: the second Date Update. Not sure if you're familiar with that,
Speaker 4: but we're trying to help out one of our listeners
Speaker 4: that you went on a date with recently and afterwards
Speaker 4: he's feeling like you're trying to distance yourself a little bit.
Speaker 1: No, jeff, you haven't responded to any of us texts.
Speaker 7: Is this Anthony?
Speaker 4: No, this is Brook and Jeff Free Morning. Yeah, the
Speaker 4: guy that we're talking about, his name is Anthony. That's true.
Speaker 7: Oh my god?
Speaker 2: Wait is that? Oh my god? Like, oh my god,
Speaker 2: so cool?
Speaker 7: Their manners just so disappointing.
Speaker 4: No, okay, yeah, I told him not to come through
Speaker 4: our show. We thought it was weird too.
Speaker 2: Wait, why are you lumping him in with disappointing men?
Speaker 4: What happened?
Speaker 2: Because it sounds like you guys had a nice date.
Speaker 7: It's just that every single time that you have like
Speaker 7: you feel like you start to have a connection with
Speaker 7: the guy, he just immediately ruins this.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's kind of our thing. I mean, yeah, but
Speaker 4: what did he do?
Speaker 7: Oh? We had a great time on our date, but
Speaker 7: then we ended up going back to his place.
Speaker 4: You were asking Anthony about this when we spoke to
Speaker 4: him if there is anything weird inside of his place
Speaker 4: that may have come across weird or been turn off.
Speaker 4: He said, no, it's a perfect, perfect room.
Speaker 1: But you have for some reason, it sounds like you're
Speaker 1: only there for like five or ten minutes before you bailed.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 7: Well that wasn't originally my plan. I was thinking that
Speaker 7: we might have like maybe some like romantic time because
Speaker 7: I haven't really felt close to a guy like in
Speaker 7: probably years.
Speaker 1: Whoa wowfortble Okay, yeah you liked it.
Speaker 4: It must have been a pretty big thing that happened
Speaker 4: to change from romantic time to darting away from his apartment.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean we were having a great time. But
Speaker 7: then at one point in the night he excused himself
Speaker 7: to go to the bathroom. And I mean, I'm just
Speaker 7: assuming he's changing.
Speaker 4: Okay, what happened.
Speaker 7: Well, when he's in the other room, he decides, like
Speaker 7: from down the hall, he just tells me something that
Speaker 7: I was not prepared to hear.
Speaker 6: What.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like he's going down to the bathroom and he said.
Speaker 7: What, Well, she tells me she has hep C.
Speaker 4: Oh, he says he has hepatitis C.
Speaker 2: That's that's serious.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 7: I don't know if I can't even say that on
Speaker 7: the radio.
Speaker 2: That's okay. People have it and they should be open
Speaker 2: about it. I mean, it's interesting to casually mention it.
Speaker 1: As you're walking away, you know, it seems like a
Speaker 1: bigger conversation.
Speaker 7: He seems like very confident about it, like, oh, it's
Speaker 7: no big deal. Hey, And by the way, I have hepsi.
Speaker 4: Okay, change your mind.
Speaker 3: But the yelling down the hall is yeah, oh.
Speaker 6: God, what what? I never said that?
Speaker 4: Yeah, hold on, hold on there, Anthony, because we need
Speaker 4: to inform Olivia that that is your date on the
Speaker 4: other line listening to this. He's been there the one time. Yeah,
Speaker 4: that's how the segment works, as we have them quietly
Speaker 4: listened so that they could hear what they did wrong.
Speaker 6: And Anthony apparently never I never said I had hept
Speaker 6: what you.
Speaker 7: Definitely one hundred percent did.
Speaker 6: No, No, I didn't. There's no way. The only time
Speaker 6: we were talking loud is when I was in the bathroom.
Speaker 1: I know.
Speaker 7: I asked you, hey, is there anything that I should know?
Speaker 7: And you said you had pepsi?
Speaker 2: Oh, straightforward.
Speaker 1: That's a very honest response, which is good, Oh my god.
Speaker 4: Not something that seems like you would forget.
Speaker 6: No. You you asked me what drinks I have to
Speaker 6: mix with? And I told you I have pepsi.
Speaker 4: Pei pep good, pepsi pepily. You said pepsi? Anthony, are
Speaker 4: you making that up because you're feeling a little bit embarrassed?
Speaker 6: I swear to god, she asked me, what do you
Speaker 6: have to drink and I said pepsi and he could have.
Speaker 4: Misheard you through the door or too.
Speaker 2: If she's like hey, he's like, oh yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah, drink. Anthony did tell us that he encouraged you
Speaker 4: to go make yourself a drink while he was using
Speaker 4: the bathroom. It makes sense that he'd be talking about
Speaker 4: what sodaes to mix with.
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, he definitely, he definitely did that.
Speaker 4: That could have been my mistake, Alexis You've been with
Speaker 4: a lot of guys who've had hepsi. Does this seem
Speaker 4: like something that would check out.
Speaker 2: I wouldn't even talk to him through the bathroom door.
Speaker 3: Don't get that close to a guy in the bathroom ever,
Speaker 3: sting from down there.
Speaker 4: I mean, maybe this is all just one really horrible miscommunication, Olivia.
Speaker 4: Do you believe him that he was shouting pepsi at you?
Speaker 4: You were there?
Speaker 7: I mean, we did have a great time like all
Speaker 7: before this happened, So I guess Anthony, I can I
Speaker 7: can believe you on this one.
Speaker 1: Okay, maybe you can get together and discuss all the
Speaker 1: diseases you have and don't have.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Okay, I'm just happy that we finally sorted this
Speaker 4: out because that was quite a misinterpretation.
Speaker 6: Yes, I mean I have had pepsi before, but that
Speaker 6: was like earlier this year. It's gone now.
Speaker 2: I don't think that's how he works, my man.
Speaker 6: I'm joking, guys, not really.
Speaker 2: Okay, that is a fairly time joke. I'm starting to
Speaker 2: think that maybe we should like it felt real.
Speaker 4: Is it possible that you have pepsi and hepsi both?
Speaker 6: I can make them together.
Speaker 4: Okay, I don't know if that sounds appealing.
Speaker 1: I just have tomato tomato, sure, tomato, tomato, tomato, kume quatting.
Speaker 4: A lot of questions are going through my head right now,
Speaker 4: but the main one is, Olivia, would you like to
Speaker 4: go out on one more date with Anthony, who is,
Speaker 4: according to him, totally hepsi free. It's really up to you. Yes,
Speaker 4: lots of pepsi yeh.
Speaker 2: Don't even drink high Sea.
Speaker 4: That's a whole lot of If you're willing to give
Speaker 4: him another chance, we'd pay for it.
Speaker 7: I mean, I do I do believe him that he
Speaker 7: said he had pepsi?
Speaker 4: Right?
Speaker 2: Very sweet?
Speaker 7: Yeah, maybe before we go out he should go get
Speaker 7: tested to make sure that that he's telling the truth.
Speaker 4: Okay, that's something Anthony, you would agree to that, right.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean I'm pretty busy, but I could set
Speaker 6: up a date I guess to go and get tested.
Speaker 4: It feels pretty important, Anthony, he has now.
Speaker 6: Yeah, No, I'm just I'm just super busy. Guys, I
Speaker 6: don't know what's going on.
Speaker 4: Did he say busy or did he shout HEPSI? Again?
Speaker 2: Just protection, it's important.
Speaker 4: Just be cautious out there, Jeffrey in the morning. Isn't
Speaker 4: it weird to think that this entire thing could have
Speaker 4: been avoided if he just had sprite in his fridge?
Speaker 4: My god, shut that one choice led to this entire thing.
Speaker 4: He wouldn't have had to reach out to us. She
Speaker 4: wouldn't have been running away from his apartment. Yeah, they
Speaker 4: might have been engaged by now, for all we know.
Speaker 2: That is quite the commercial for sprite.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I see it now. I bet PEPSI goes down
Speaker 4: after this second day Sprite or seven up. Look, I
Speaker 4: don't want to get into cola wars started here, but
Speaker 4: it sounds like the good news is they're back onto
Speaker 4: the right track and they're not gonna yell mixer options
Speaker 4: across the apartment through closed doors anything.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Thank goodness, let's just not talk to each other
Speaker 1: while we're in the bathroom.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, it's just a good rule of thumb. Nothing
Speaker 2: good happens that way, Joe.
Speaker 4: I don't know if I go the door that extreme
Speaker 4: with it, but yes. So if you need help with
Speaker 4: your dating life, though, unless you're talking to closed bathroom doors,
Speaker 4: you can always reach out to the show. We'll call
Speaker 4: that person who's not calling you back. You can go
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