WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Bingeing All Day & Night

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<v Speaker 1>Frooking jubil in the morning. Now, not that this has

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<v Speaker 1>ever happened to me, but I would imagine it'd be

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<v Speaker 1>very frustrating at the end of a date when you

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<v Speaker 1>think everything goes well and someone says we have to

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<v Speaker 1>hang out again soon, makes a point to say that

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<v Speaker 1>to you, and then doesn't call you back and ignores you.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I said, never happened to me before, So I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know how that feels at all. But that did

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<v Speaker 1>happen to Nicole at the end of her date, right, Nicole? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? Thank you for calling in, thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for emailing us, And can we say, Nicole that it's

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<v Speaker 1>happened to everyone. Yeah, all right, thanks, you're welcome. You

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<v Speaker 1>emailed us about a guy named Matt. How did you

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<v Speaker 1>meet Matt? First of all, work party? Work party? So

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<v Speaker 1>does he work with you? Id he known him before?

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<v Speaker 1>Same company, different offices, so we don't actually work at

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<v Speaker 1>the same location. Okay, Oh nice. So it couldn't end

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<v Speaker 1>too poorly, is what you're saying. Yeah, yeah, at least

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have to see him every day, yea. So

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<v Speaker 1>tell us about your date with Matt. Well, it was

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<v Speaker 1>amazing and super fun and we went to the super

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<v Speaker 1>cute little bar and tried all sorts of different types

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<v Speaker 1>of beer. And he's hilarious and witty and has beautiful teeth,

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<v Speaker 1>and I thought it was like the cutest date ever.

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<v Speaker 1>Hygiene is important to see that you have standards. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it had a full set of TAE addiction all I

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<v Speaker 1>really needed. I will say that is one thing that

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<v Speaker 1>initially attracted to my husband, who has gorgeous teeth, and

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<v Speaker 1>this guy seemed into you, Matt. Yeah. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I've never met your husband. No, I'm just wondering if

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<v Speaker 1>he was reciprocating the good vibes absolutely, Like at one

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<v Speaker 1>point he brushed the hair off my shoulder and he

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<v Speaker 1>let me try all of his beer that he like,

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<v Speaker 1>the different beers he was drinking, which I always think

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<v Speaker 1>is a good sign if they're willing to share a

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<v Speaker 1>drink with you. And you know when he walked out

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<v Speaker 1>to my car and he's like, I totally want to

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<v Speaker 1>hang out again. Yeah, your email said that that's what

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<v Speaker 1>you were confused about so much is because the way

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<v Speaker 1>that he was like, we have to hang out again, right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean he was really emphatic. I feel like, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't say that to someone unless you're legitimately wanting to

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<v Speaker 1>hang out. Yeah. I mean anytime I've been on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with a girl and I haven't wanted to see

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<v Speaker 1>her again, she might go, oh, we should tell the

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<v Speaker 1>guard again. I'm like yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of busy whatever. I'll shut your text, like I've

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<v Speaker 1>never been like, yeah, we have to do it soon, though,

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<v Speaker 1>we need to see you. If I usually say that,

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<v Speaker 1>that means I want to see them again. So how

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<v Speaker 1>did your date end? Well, he literally just walked me

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<v Speaker 1>into the car, gave me a kiss, like like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like the side lip she kissed thing. Sure, super sexy.

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<v Speaker 1>I really want to hang out soon. It would be awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that's literally what he said. Maybe it's just

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<v Speaker 1>like a bad time for him. I mean it's busy

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<v Speaker 1>right now. I mean yeah, but how busy can you be? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>if you like somebody and you want to hang out,

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<v Speaker 1>you text or you call. Yeah, that's a good point

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<v Speaker 1>you make time. I get what you're saying. Trying to

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<v Speaker 1>throw your phone trying to help. Yeah, don't be so

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<v Speaker 1>quick to be like yeah, you're right, never mind, he's

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<v Speaker 1>not busy at all. Maybe maybe he really is that busy.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe maybe he is. He was so important he had

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<v Speaker 1>to leave the country or to do something. You know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean. Yeah, maybe he's dead. I feel better. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>at least you'd have a reason. This might be the

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<v Speaker 1>most tragic second date update we ever do, but at

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<v Speaker 1>least we'll know we call the phone. It's just as

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<v Speaker 1>his mom answers. The last thing he said was he

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<v Speaker 1>was really looking forward to a date with Nicole. That

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<v Speaker 1>would make me feel better. All Right, we're gonna call

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<v Speaker 1>him right after this. Okay, okay, cool breaking Jebels second

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<v Speaker 1>d D. There is a lot of speculation on what

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<v Speaker 1>happened to Matt, the guy that Nicole wants us to

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<v Speaker 1>call for a second date update. When we ended the

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<v Speaker 1>first segment, we were talking about maybe he's dead, and

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<v Speaker 1>she said, she said, if that's the answer, at least

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<v Speaker 1>I would know that happened. She actually said it would

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<v Speaker 1>make her feel better, Nicole. I think that maybe he

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<v Speaker 1>went to Africa on a safari. Throw it out there.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why he's not calling. He's helping the children. They

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<v Speaker 1>got malled by a lion and is dead, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>why he's not calling your back, Nicole. As long as

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<v Speaker 1>it's him, not me. You're about ready to give him

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<v Speaker 1>a call? Yes, okay, Nicole. Has it ever been you

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<v Speaker 1>on a date when a guy hasn't called you back? No?

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<v Speaker 1>This I feel really weird doing this, but I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, honestly, have nothing to lose. He's super cute

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<v Speaker 1>and maybe this way he'll see that. I think he's awesome. Okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna call him right now. See we get him

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone and get your second date up there. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. Hello, how can I speak to Matt please? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>This is Matt. Oh, thank god you're alive. This is

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<v Speaker 1>Jewil calling from brook and Jewil in the morning. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>moving ninety two point five. How are you. I'm good,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good. Okay. Well, I'm calling you because you recently

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<v Speaker 1>went out on a date with a friend of mine

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<v Speaker 1>and at the end of your date you were like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>we should go out again soon, and then you haven't

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<v Speaker 1>called her back, and she's wondering why, especially when at

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<v Speaker 1>the end of your date you were emphatic that she

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<v Speaker 1>go out with you again. Yeah. Just stuff came up. Okay, stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>you just get busy. Uh yeah, everything's got kind of

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<v Speaker 1>crazy and uh, yeah, all right, you are a liar?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you just not into her? I'm just I've been

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<v Speaker 1>super preoccupied with stuff. It's stuff another girl. No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>stuff is not another girl. Just I've been really busy

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<v Speaker 1>with something and super busy and super into it. And

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<v Speaker 1>I that sounds a drug business into it. That's what

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<v Speaker 1>really throws met. And you can't tell us what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I can. It's just kind of embarrassing, actually

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<v Speaker 1>embarrassing for you. I don't know. I guess it's embarrassing

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<v Speaker 1>just the way it's been kind of all shaken up

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff. I have no idea what. Honestly, what we're

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<v Speaker 1>imagining is probably worse than what it is. Yeah, in

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<v Speaker 1>my mind, you've murdered somebody on the run, so I

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<v Speaker 1>can't get any worse than what I'm thinking about you, Matt,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, all right, So I've been pretty much am

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<v Speaker 1>I a with everything, you know, with like work and

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<v Speaker 1>dates and everything. Um, because you guys, ever see the

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<v Speaker 1>show Breaking Bad? You're making meths. It's not very novel that. Yes, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not making meths. I had never ever seen it.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, and my roommate was like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>he just got Netflix and he's like, you gotta watch

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<v Speaker 1>Breaking Bad. It's like leave that show ever, And so

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, all right, all right, I'm fine. So man,

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<v Speaker 1>let me stop you right there for a second. Are

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<v Speaker 1>you telling me that you haven't called anybody back and

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<v Speaker 1>you haven't gone into work because you've been watching Breaking Bad?

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<v Speaker 1>Or is there something else to this story, because that's

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<v Speaker 1>where it sounds like you're going with it. That's where

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<v Speaker 1>I'm landing work. Have you taken just a couple It's

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<v Speaker 1>not that big of a deal. Amazing show. I like

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<v Speaker 1>Breaking Bad. I've been binge watching Weeds lately, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>the way most people watch TV now, as they sit

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<v Speaker 1>down and they just watch it all at one time,

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<v Speaker 1>because you can. But you should still try to live

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<v Speaker 1>your life. Have you been eating? I can't. I can't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what is saying about this show that

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<v Speaker 1>I love. I don't know what's wrong with me, but

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<v Speaker 1>I cannot stop watching. I'm with you, man, I know

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<v Speaker 1>what it's like. It's like they put math into the show. Hey, Matt,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, Nicole is actually on the phone and

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<v Speaker 1>has been listening this whole time. Go ahead and say

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<v Speaker 1>hi to Matt. Nicole, Hi, Matt, I was gonna call you,

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<v Speaker 1>like the two days after we hung out, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was totally looking forward to going in. I

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<v Speaker 1>still am, I still totally am. I just got really

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<v Speaker 1>into this show, so like pretty much, I come home

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<v Speaker 1>from work and I just watched that until I fall

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<v Speaker 1>asleep and I wake up and I watched the stuff

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<v Speaker 1>that I think I missed right before I felt and

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<v Speaker 1>then that's been it. That's been it, And as soon

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<v Speaker 1>as it's done, I will give you a call. He's

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<v Speaker 1>still he's still not conceding to going out. He's like,

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<v Speaker 1>as soon as i'm I'll give you a call. What

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<v Speaker 1>do you think about that, Nicole? Honestly, this is like

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<v Speaker 1>the most unattractive thing I've ever heard a man say.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Nicole. You know it has nothing to do with you.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not about you. He just got hooked on the show.

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<v Speaker 1>He likes breaking bad more than he likes going on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with Nicole. That has everything to do with

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<v Speaker 1>Nicole's good. It's a really good I think it sucked

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<v Speaker 1>and I think that it was totally brown out of proportion.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not that good you And on top of that

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<v Speaker 1>fast forward in my girl brain. So this guy's addicted

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<v Speaker 1>to a TV show, which means Wenday is going to

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<v Speaker 1>be addicted to porn, which means we're gonna be there

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<v Speaker 1>four kids, and he's going to be addicted to spending

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<v Speaker 1>money on online gambling, and I'm gonna have to divorce

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<v Speaker 1>them and be a single mom. You know what that

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like, Nicole. That sounds like a TV series that

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<v Speaker 1>I could totally get into. Put that on DVD so

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<v Speaker 1>I could sit down and watch it. Sometimes you just

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<v Speaker 1>went from zero a single under ten seconds. It does

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<v Speaker 1>sound like Matt has a little bit of an addictive personality. Matt,

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<v Speaker 1>do you dude, forget all that She said she hated

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<v Speaker 1>the show? Yeah, that's honestly a deal breaker for you.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you not appreciate that show? I didn't love

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<v Speaker 1>that show. I really thought you were a different person.

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<v Speaker 1>If you would have been like running a marathon or

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<v Speaker 1>dead or something else, then I would have respected you.

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<v Speaker 1>But I cannot respect a man who watches TV six

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<v Speaker 1>hours plus a day. You guys sound like you're hitting

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<v Speaker 1>it off. I will pay for a second date if

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<v Speaker 1>you guys are given another chance. Matt, can you take

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<v Speaker 1>a break from watching the show Breaking Bad from one

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<v Speaker 1>night to go out with Nicole again. No, you won't

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<v Speaker 1>do it one night, Matt. I just gotta finish this first.

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<v Speaker 1>Holy yeah, Breaking Bad is gonna make you a lonely

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, man, it's so good. Good night you guys. Nicole,

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<v Speaker 1>you got your answer. It was definitely not you. It

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<v Speaker 1>was just quality television program that you lost out to

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<v Speaker 1>and the award winning dude. You escaped this one, Nicole,

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<v Speaker 1>I did. I dodged a huge meth bullet. Yeah, and Matt,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for your time. Man, I appreciate it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>no problem. And I don't want to ruin your life here,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm gonna give you a tip after you're done

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<v Speaker 1>with Breaking Bad. Sons of Anarchy, enjoy. I just wanted

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<v Speaker 1>you to tell him how it ended, So don't don't

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<v Speaker 1>don't in the morning,