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Speaker 1: My ex fiance cheated on me while getting her degree.

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Speaker 1: Now her family is begging me to marry her.

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Speaker 2: Oh how the turn tables.

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Speaker 1: English is not my first language. My apologies. My ex

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Speaker 1: fiance cheated on me when she went to USA for

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Speaker 1: her MD five years ago. We live in India. She stated

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Speaker 1: the reason that I wasn't earning it. She stated the

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Speaker 1: reason I wasn't earning enough. And the person she found

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Speaker 1: is much more compatible with her. We are engaged. We

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Speaker 1: were engaged at the moment. We both met through our

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Speaker 1: common family friend as to get married. Arranged marriages in

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Speaker 1: India is a lot more common than other countries, so

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Speaker 1: so we nearly dated and knew each other for a

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Speaker 1: year before she went to the USA for her MD.

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Speaker 1: As I mentioned earlier, I am a government employee IPS

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Speaker 1: in my state. I do earn a good amount of

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Speaker 1: money according to Indian standards. So, by the way this

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Speaker 1: comes from throw Away twenty two pp. Okk on the

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Speaker 1: RSAs Okay stories, I'm subredded. So when she broke up

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Speaker 1: the engagement and we knew the reason why, her family

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Speaker 1: was in a pretty bad position. As cheating is treated

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Speaker 1: really harsh here and a lot of rumors about me

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Speaker 1: and my family also started, but we made it through.

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Speaker 1: So for the first current situation, my ex fiance came

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Speaker 1: back to the US after completing her MD in twenty

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Speaker 1: twenty one. I don't know where exactly when. Wait, I

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Speaker 1: don't know exactly when. After that, again she went radio silent,

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Speaker 1: and in January of twenty twenty three, she out of

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Speaker 1: nowhere started to message me asking how I was in

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Speaker 1: all other small details.

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Speaker 2: M Oh, now that you've done cheating on me, you

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Speaker 2: would like to know how it's going with me.

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Speaker 1: She's probably trying to get a visa. She's probably trying

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Speaker 1: to get a visa to go back to the US.

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Speaker 1: And guess who has access to give those out?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Oh dude, what that is such a good conspiracy. Oh

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Speaker 2: she's like, I heard you still got that. She's gonna

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Speaker 2: be like, so you still got that job in the government. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: oh my god, I think you're right.

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Speaker 1: And he probably has like a computer that has remote

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Speaker 1: access and then she could like do stuff with it.

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Speaker 3: What.

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Speaker 4: I don't know how you're going to No, no, but

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Speaker 4: like he has a government.

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Speaker 2: That see how it feels, you see how it feels.

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Speaker 1: Maybe she has a government computer and he she could

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Speaker 1: do stuff with it, and she has dantis.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna smack you.

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Speaker 1: Uh ah, smack my doe.

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Speaker 2: I did.

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Speaker 1: I didn't want I didn't want any drama, so I

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Speaker 1: just talked with her in a civil manner and thought

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Speaker 1: nothing of it. When she started to call me, which

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Speaker 1: was weird, she told me that she was so sorry

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Speaker 1: for that she cheated, and ially thought she wanted forgiveness,

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Speaker 1: so be it. And also I didn't want to hold

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Speaker 1: a grudge to her. When she came to my bungalow.

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Speaker 2: Oh hell yeah, he was a bungalow. That's like the

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Speaker 2: best name for anywhere to live. I want to live

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Speaker 2: in a bungalow.

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Speaker 1: I still don't know how she got the address.

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Speaker 2: Ooh, this is like, this story's gonna have some twists

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Speaker 2: and turns. I bet.

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Speaker 1: Us government officials are allowed or oh us bungalow officials

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Speaker 1: are allotted bungalows by the government. That's so lit. She

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Speaker 1: came and started the talk by how her time in

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Speaker 1: the USA was the greatest, and since.

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Speaker 2: She starting to talk with me, like, yeah, so the

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Speaker 2: time I went to the US and she did and

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Speaker 2: he was amazing. I loved it. Yeah, I have no regrets.

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Speaker 2: Just try it. Sometimes it's gonna put that out there.

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Speaker 1: That's crazy, oh man. And she started talking about how

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Speaker 1: her time in the USA was the greatest, and then

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Speaker 1: she suddenly and then suddenly she proposed that we were

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Speaker 1: getting married again. I refused, as she had cheated already

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Speaker 1: and since then she has been pushing for it, so

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Speaker 1: she wants a marriage. She found his bungalow address, push

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Speaker 1: it for marriage, and is you knowing about the USA?

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Speaker 2: That makes zero sense. But part of me is wondering

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Speaker 2: if this is speaking to like earlier in this story,

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Speaker 2: he brought up like the cultural thing in India where

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Speaker 2: it's like like the cheated, like cheating is like really

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Speaker 2: frowned upon. I'm thinking maybe she's paying some sort of

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Speaker 2: like uh social price for what she has done and

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Speaker 2: now she's trying to undo it to fix it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's that's my guess.

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Speaker 2: I like you.

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Speaker 4: I like your conspiracy better than mine. Yours is cooler.

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Speaker 1: What do you think, young?

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Speaker 5: She needs to go back to the US and just

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Speaker 5: stay in the US because she sucks. But I know

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Speaker 5: she wants the visa and that's all she's just using

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Speaker 5: OPI yeah, oh yeah, yeah, But like, is there a

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Speaker 5: conspiracy theory here?

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Speaker 2: Straight up? Just hitting up Op, like, what's up? Just

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Speaker 2: wanted to check in if you're ready to get hurt again?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, she's like, no, how about we both move in

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Speaker 5: the US?

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Speaker 1: Okay, more context there. Her family as well as the

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Speaker 1: common family which introduced her and me, are forcing us

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Speaker 1: now and how that it was just a mistake. The

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Speaker 1: same thing is happening with my extended family. My parents

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Speaker 1: and sister understand that cheating is a big problem and

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Speaker 1: aren't forcing me so good. Her family's pushing it, the

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Speaker 1: extended family's pushing it. By his family is not.

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Speaker 2: Well, Yeah, what family would push someone to get married

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Speaker 2: to someone who cheated on them. That doesn't make any sense.

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Speaker 4: So I'm pretty sure I am not going back.

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Speaker 1: But why did she come back?

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Speaker 2: Let's okay, let's find out.

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Speaker 1: She will make like four times my money in maybe

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Speaker 1: four or more years. So yeah, that's my story and

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Speaker 1: we have an update. So we don't know why she's

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Speaker 1: trying to get back with Hmmm, put your conspiracies in

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Speaker 1: the freaking chat.

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Speaker 4: Maybe she's just like completely shameless.

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Speaker 1: Honeyb thanks for the two bucks her boyfriend, so she

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Speaker 1: wants Op.

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Speaker 2: Back yeah, I mean, can you can you be that

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Speaker 2: shameless where it's like, I mean, I mean that's absurd though, Like,

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Speaker 2: move on, you're a doctor, now go why why do

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Speaker 2: you want to torment this man?

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Speaker 5: By?

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Speaker 2: Well, to be clear, it doesn't even really sounds like

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Speaker 2: it doesn't sound like op he's being tormented. It more

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Speaker 2: sounds like he's like confused, which is exactly where I am.

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Speaker 4: Now I'm also concused. Why is she doing this?

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Speaker 1: He he already knows what's up, he knows what he's

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Speaker 1: gonna do. He just wants answers. Yeah, questions.

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Speaker 2: I really really hope. Oh, he's not gonna just get

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Speaker 2: back together with this person, especially after she was like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: my time in the US was great.

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Speaker 1: What yikes? All right til d r OPI had a fiance.

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Speaker 1: They broke off the engagement because she was cheating. Now

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Speaker 1: she's coming back to.

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Speaker 2: Oh and it was arranged someone. I forgot that it

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Speaker 2: was kind of an arranged it was like through mutual

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Speaker 2: Oh dude, it's full on.

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Speaker 4: It's got to be family pressure. That's why she's doing this.

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Speaker 1: A social pressure update one. Hello everyone, it has been

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Speaker 1: quite a week for me. And I'll start from where

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Speaker 1: I left. I followed a few advices from here and

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Speaker 1: talked about this with her parents as well as her,

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Speaker 1: and they seemed to unlock it. Or I thought everything

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Speaker 1: was fine for a month or so. Then one day

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Speaker 1: I was invited to a party from her side. It

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Speaker 1: was an invitation for her engagement, and my parents as

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Speaker 1: well as a few of my relatives persuaded me to

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Speaker 1: go in that was it was outside my state, so

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Speaker 1: I took an official leave. It was not easy to

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Speaker 1: get as IPS handles a lot of stuff, and went

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Speaker 1: with my family and relatives.

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Speaker 2: She's getting now she's engaged with someone else. Yep, he's

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Speaker 2: engaged or like. But but who who she engaged to?

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Speaker 2: Is it gonna be like a relative or something?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 5: No, no, no, no, no.

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Speaker 2: You mean we I already know who she's engaged to.

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Speaker 2: All I wasn't read, let's go it's op. No oh yeah,

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Speaker 2: no oh no, you don't get into you don't get

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Speaker 2: invited to your engagement? Well he did?

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Speaker 1: Why are the Why is his family and relatives persuading him?

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Speaker 1: Billy knows where I'm at? Thank you, I see you.

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Speaker 1: Billy knows what's up? I need proof show me I

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Speaker 1: was still I was happy that she moved on. But

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Speaker 1: it was pretty quickly, I thought. And when we arrived there,

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Speaker 1: I made small talk with her and I asked who

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Speaker 1: the lucky guy was. She just said I wasn't allowed

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Speaker 1: to know, and I thought it was just a tease.

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Speaker 1: Two days past and the day of her engagement, when

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Speaker 1: I arrived at the venue, behold, I was the one.

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Speaker 1: It was quite the shock for me. Whah, I called

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Speaker 2: You did? I called that? But people are saying was

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Speaker 2: that in the title and I missed it.

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Speaker 1: No, it wasn't a title.

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Speaker 2: Someone said title Dakota.

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Speaker 1: But we're gonna have to reread this.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I got invited to my own engagement.

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Speaker 2: What is going on? I would I would be I

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Speaker 2: would leave as soon as I found out the truth.

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Speaker 2: I'd be like, oh, so that's whack. I'm out of here.

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Speaker 2: You made me take off time from work for this

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Speaker 2: get married to you, to get married to you when

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Speaker 2: I told you straight up, it's not gonna happen, because

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Speaker 2: remember how you cheated on me with your cool, hot

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Speaker 2: American hit with the surprise.

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Speaker 1: And the worst thing of all, my parents were involved

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Speaker 1: this time. I thought they supported me, but sadly I

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Speaker 1: was incorrect, and it seems I was in awe. What

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Speaker 1: could I do? And her parents literally not gonna lie,

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Speaker 1: literally just wanted to bribe me into marrying her and said,

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Speaker 1: that's that's not a language we can read, can't. I

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Speaker 4: That's where English just already looks to you, so I can't.

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Speaker 2: This is what English looks to me. Feeding that on

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Speaker 2: the screen is just like a black It's just a

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Speaker 2: swirl of like eldritch characters. You have no idea language?

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Speaker 1: Okay, translation, we bought an apartment for the both of you,

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Speaker 1: and if you want, we will put this in your

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Speaker 1: name and in the wedding we will be giving you

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Speaker 1: an suv and cash as in an in an Indian

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Speaker 1: wedding dowry is just to e f in common and

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Speaker 1: I am against it.

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Speaker 2: Whoa dark they're trying to be like, you want the whipski,

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Speaker 2: you want the I mean they're already getting the.

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Speaker 1: House though, right he's getting the he's getting cash, and

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Speaker 1: he's getting suv out of this. No more bungalow, tom

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Speaker 1: suv and an apartment.

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Speaker 2: What are you not know? That was the joke?

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Speaker 4: Is there nothing to ponder this woman cheated on him.

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Speaker 2: I was like, if he's not gonna get in caged

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Speaker 2: with this woman, he's not gonna do it. Why is

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Speaker 2: his family? I think like this is like a pull

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Speaker 2: pull pull pull. They're acting like the Zial or no deal.

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Speaker 2: If you take the deal, you can divorce her after

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Speaker 2: a year. Deal or no deal. I don't think you

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Speaker 2: got to say it right though, Deal or no Do

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not like the US where you can like

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Speaker 2: It's honestly, it's it's unfortunate, dude. Okay, new dream of mine.

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Speaker 5: Like a public marriage therapist.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's what I want to do.

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Speaker 4: I'd stay tuned for Riley's next chapter as the traveling

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Speaker 1: Yep, that's my new thing. I was gonna be a

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Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, yeah, but and actually help people.

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Speaker 2: It's hard when you have literally all these people, like

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Speaker 4: Just they seem to be really glossing over that part.

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Speaker 2: Dude, it's just once and you get an SUV. But

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Speaker 2: if it's not, no, it'sh don't it's not. Just stand

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Speaker 4: Stand you a doctor, stand your ground.

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Speaker 1: Work in the government.

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Speaker 2: Unless you work it out. The only person who matters

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Speaker 1: Now?

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Speaker 4: If you feel like you were betrayed and cheeted on,

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Speaker 2: Simple as that. Simple.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, I just got really excited. So one's that I

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Speaker 1: I would love that. Come on, fellows, come on, you

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Speaker 4: Maybe let's we can do. We can run some experiments.

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Speaker 5: I'm good.

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Speaker 1: No, we know you're already pimped out. All right? Updates two.

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Speaker 1: Hello Reddit, it's been a while since I last posted here,

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Speaker 1: and I have a nearly edge. I'm at the nearly

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Speaker 1: So for the real update, after the stunt pulled. Previously,

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Speaker 2: Older now and they wanted grandchildren. Now, everyone in this

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Speaker 2: This which is not how human autonomy works.

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Speaker 5: It seems like everyone's like coursing, like they're like there's

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Speaker 5: a coersion right here, like everyone's good, but Opie, like OPI,

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Speaker 5: you suck, Like your opinion doesn't matter we're all in

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Speaker 2: I this is hard. This is I'm just trying to

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Speaker 2: figure out, like why, like, is this the only chance

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Speaker 2: oh he's gonna have at a marriage? Is that what

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Speaker 2: the family's thinking? Like why are they pressing him so

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Speaker 5: She's a doctor, she's got a lot of high she's

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Speaker 2: I mean, hot doctor is definitely you check off a

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Speaker 4: But hot doctor who cheated on me? I think I unchecked.

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Speaker 1: Just joke.

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Speaker 2: It's just so it's.

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Speaker 1: Pretty sad after listening that they just told me marriages

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Speaker 2: I would go, I would say.

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Speaker 1: I got ahead of myself and received a tiny slap

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Speaker 1: rest of the day. But please do not ignore us

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Speaker 1: every weekday at three pm PST, because we did a.

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Speaker 2: Live war to go to on YouTube, on Facebook, on twitch,

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Speaker 2: on TikTok. We're live on all those platforms and if

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Speaker 1: It might be live right now.

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Speaker 2: That's right.

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Speaker 1: Low contact with parents, yes or not.

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Speaker 4: I don't I want grand babies, give them now.

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Speaker 1: That's what happened.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I I got guess the fact I'm I'm looking

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Speaker 2: But again, like I think I've seen some comments emphasizing

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Speaker 4: It was, something about how because she went back.

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Speaker 2: But I don't understand his family leaning into the desperation

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Speaker 1: They've realized, oh, we weren't grandchildren now and we're at

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Speaker 1: we don't have any. Get to work, get the pumping,

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Speaker 1: get the pipe and dog.

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Speaker 4: They're not respecting your like autonomy is a human being.

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Speaker 1: They're not respecting your timeline of having children?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, what is that called? Can we and like you

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Speaker 4: know how you have sexuality?

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Speaker 2: What do we call that for kids?

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Speaker 1: Like your your?

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 1: Your your timeline of like we both.

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Speaker 5: Had the same look. We want what do you what

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Speaker 5: do you.

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Speaker 1: Call like your timeline of having kids? Like we have sexuality?

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Speaker 1: What you're into your really? I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I just want to eternal you're paternal timeline or maternal time?

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Speaker 2: I want into one word and I wanted in an

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Speaker 2: it like lee, uh maturity. You're parentally parentally your parentiality

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Speaker 2: make him spicy, your parentiality, your I love that parentiality, parentiality.

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Speaker 1: They're not respecting your parentiality. Some people's perentiality or no

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Speaker 1: kids smer.

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Speaker 5: For fertility FI fertility fertility?

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Speaker 2: Wait what did you say? Parent reality? Parentiality, pereniality, parent reality.

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Speaker 5: Here we go, Well, bab fertility biological clock, but like

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Speaker 2: That was a really bad impression of we're moving on, dog,

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Speaker 2: I love you, you know who I love after And that's

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Speaker 5: As well.

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Speaker 2: But I do love Marissa to.

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Speaker 1: Read read read read After nearly two weeks, and my

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Speaker 1: shouldn't judge her on her past actions and people change.

444
00:22:19,200 --> 00:22:21,639
Speaker 1: It just went back and forth for a long time

445
00:22:21,960 --> 00:22:26,360
Speaker 1: and nothing productive was said. He just left after that.

446
00:22:26,480 --> 00:22:30,719
Speaker 1: During this time, I was in contact with my sister

447
00:22:30,880 --> 00:22:35,000
Speaker 1: and nothing much happened. But four months ago I received

448
00:22:35,560 --> 00:22:38,560
Speaker 1: kind of an ultimatum that either I get married to

449
00:22:38,600 --> 00:22:40,320
Speaker 1: her or find someone else.

450
00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:40,760
Speaker 2: Quickly.

451
00:22:41,320 --> 00:22:42,880
Speaker 1: I knew that that was gonna be the second option,

452
00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:46,600
Speaker 1: but they would still prefer her. And the only person

453
00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:50,280
Speaker 1: who was with me my sister, who was on my side.

454
00:22:50,320 --> 00:22:53,960
Speaker 1: My sister was now kind of on her side too.

455
00:22:54,440 --> 00:22:59,480
Speaker 1: Why you ask? Why you ask? Because she was gifted

456
00:22:59,560 --> 00:23:03,639
Speaker 1: a whole car by her and she now was a

457
00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:07,120
Speaker 1: great person and now literally everyone has told me either

458
00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:09,560
Speaker 1: I go marry her or go on my way and

459
00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:11,679
Speaker 1: not talk to them ever. Again, I don't want to

460
00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:14,520
Speaker 1: be alone. Please help get married to someone or give

461
00:23:14,520 --> 00:23:15,560
Speaker 1: it some married to someone like.

462
00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:18,639
Speaker 2: Her, get married to someone else. Don't get married to

463
00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:25,240
Speaker 2: this person. Like where the potential wife fiance didn't even

464
00:23:25,240 --> 00:23:27,720
Speaker 2: make an appearance at the end of that story. It

465
00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:30,320
Speaker 2: was just about how now your sister likes her because

466
00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:31,520
Speaker 2: someone got her a car.

467
00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:34,400
Speaker 4: It feels like your entire family is in this.

468
00:23:34,440 --> 00:23:37,399
Speaker 2: For them and not you. Yeah, so I don't think

469
00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:39,679
Speaker 2: you should be worried about not wanting to be alone.

470
00:23:39,800 --> 00:23:42,080
Speaker 2: I think it's totally fine to not be around these

471
00:23:42,080 --> 00:23:46,639
Speaker 2: people who don't respect you as an individual. Agreed, Agreed,

472
00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:48,760
Speaker 2: And there's plenty of people out here. You're not gonna

473
00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:51,560
Speaker 2: be alone. I have faith you could find to find

474
00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:54,399
Speaker 2: a hobby, find a group, find some friends, find people

475
00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:57,040
Speaker 2: to lean on outside of this group, and get some

476
00:23:57,280 --> 00:24:01,160
Speaker 2: distance from this situation. And I think, you know, over time,

477
00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:04,000
Speaker 2: it'll just become a you know, it'll be a memory.

478
00:24:04,280 --> 00:24:06,919
Speaker 2: It's not gonna be something that's following you around unless

479
00:24:06,960 --> 00:24:10,600
Speaker 2: you marry this woman, then it's gonna follow you around forever.

480
00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:13,760
Speaker 1: So don't do that. And then whenever you guys are

481
00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:16,119
Speaker 1: chilling out, she's gonna be like, I want to go

482
00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:19,240
Speaker 1: back to the US Party.

483
00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:24,439
Speaker 2: Getta loudly reminisce I remember the glory days back in

484
00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:31,920
Speaker 2: the United States with American Jake. You never met American Jake,

485
00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:33,040
Speaker 2: but he met.

486
00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:36,000
Speaker 1: Me multiple times, every single night.

487
00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:38,200
Speaker 4: Multiple times, and it was good every time.

488
00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:40,000
Speaker 1: Yep, never bad once.

489
00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:46,280
Speaker 2: What we were just meeting. But that's the end of that, said,

490
00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:48,520
Speaker 2: the end of that. I'm gonna read some story, all right,

491
00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:52,360
Speaker 2: give me the donos, give me the donos. Silly thank

492
00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:54,359
Speaker 2: you for five bucks in the silly butt.

493
00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:55,160
Speaker 5: That's it.

494
00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:56,919
Speaker 1: Uh, And then go to YouTube.

495
00:24:56,920 --> 00:24:59,760
Speaker 2: Go to YouTube, silly, but you're gonna drop silly but

496
00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:00,760
Speaker 2: one hundred like that.

497
00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:03,120
Speaker 4: Wait wait, go ahead, go ahead, don't read the aaron.

498
00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:06,560
Speaker 2: One uh ri Ninui thank you for the five dollars.

499
00:25:06,760 --> 00:25:12,359
Speaker 2: Oh oh oh, Ninue is said Ninue. So it's not Ninui,

500
00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:16,240
Speaker 2: it's ninue. Uh. It's a token Sindar in Elvish for

501
00:25:16,480 --> 00:25:24,520
Speaker 2: water or February ninueh as. I am an aquarius, I

502
00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:27,600
Speaker 2: am an emergency response healthcare worker and from all of

503
00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:30,480
Speaker 2: us here on the Australian team, Thanks for making our

504
00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:35,880
Speaker 2: morning so fun. Thank you a ninue. Oh what, dude,

505
00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:38,240
Speaker 2: that's so much in Australia.

506
00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:41,000
Speaker 5: That's that's so huge, dude.

507
00:25:41,200 --> 00:25:45,520
Speaker 2: We're literally responsible for the well the the well well

508
00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:51,880
Speaker 2: being of an entire healthcare workers in Australia. Josephine, that's

509
00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:54,959
Speaker 2: so much responsibility. So money is more valuable than your family?

510
00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:55,560
Speaker 1: Gross?

511
00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:58,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you for the twenty seven croners. That is

512
00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:00,359
Speaker 2: gross port it.

513
00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:03,720
Speaker 1: Uh, says Riley. I have a special mission for you tonight.

514
00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:06,680
Speaker 1: Work with Sophia and John to find Sam a girlfriend.

515
00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:09,480
Speaker 1: This message will self destruct in three seconds.

516
00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:11,960
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, we wait wait wait no.

517
00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:15,640
Speaker 1: No, I think I could probably work it out.

518
00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:19,840
Speaker 2: No, I'm first, I'm first, Sam's been first. No, I'm

519
00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:24,679
Speaker 2: just you just were like, what the matchmaker? You've have?

520
00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:25,800
Speaker 2: You already met your match.

521
00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:27,440
Speaker 1: We already know your match.

522
00:26:27,560 --> 00:26:29,280
Speaker 4: You've met your match, we already know you.

523
00:26:30,920 --> 00:26:31,879
Speaker 5: I'm your match.

524
00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:35,720
Speaker 4: Oh you're taking the key on, I mean, bros. Bro's

525
00:26:35,720 --> 00:26:36,160
Speaker 4: for life.

526
00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:39,720
Speaker 1: J Grove thanks to the five Bucker Bruno's. I just

527
00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:42,560
Speaker 1: realized I was several minutes behind on the stream. That's

528
00:26:42,600 --> 00:26:43,520
Speaker 1: so embarrassing.

529
00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:44,720
Speaker 2: I can't imagine.

530
00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:49,639
Speaker 3: I can't stop being so don't be rude several minutes

531
00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:53,119
Speaker 3: the stream and not even knowing and like you're the

532
00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:55,000
Speaker 3: chat saying something different than you're watching.

533
00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:57,560
Speaker 1: Embarrassing, honey, be thanks for.

534
00:26:57,560 --> 00:26:58,800
Speaker 2: The two dollars.

535
00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:04,159
Speaker 3: Man, everybody's man, everybody both this man, It's.

536
00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:05,520
Speaker 2: All right, m J gross touch. She can take it.

537
00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:08,680
Speaker 1: Her boyfriend left her, so she wants Opie back, That's

538
00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:10,679
Speaker 1: what I said. Yeah, and I think that he's.

539
00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:13,879
Speaker 2: Still really got nothing about her perspective for that story, Sammy.

540
00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:14,520
Speaker 2: I think my mothers.

541
00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:15,840
Speaker 5: No, we didn't read this one, Sammy.

542
00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:18,240
Speaker 1: Thanks for being a member for two buck aruno months

543
00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:21,320
Speaker 1: heading your work. Looking forward to rewatching the stream on

544
00:27:21,400 --> 00:27:23,800
Speaker 1: my lunch. Have a good evening, guys or and a

545
00:27:23,800 --> 00:27:24,280
Speaker 1: great event.

546
00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:25,119
Speaker 5: Thank you.

547
00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:28,280
Speaker 4: If the grove basically the five bucks.

548
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:30,840
Speaker 5: Well, what were you saying? She was seven minutes late,

549
00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:33,359
Speaker 5: don't make fun of her. Everyone booth this man.

550
00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:37,639
Speaker 1: Now, you should have shouted swallow, you could say gobble

551
00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:41,960
Speaker 1: it with a wink. You were so behind the stream.

552
00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:43,280
Speaker 1: I don't even know what you're talking about.

553
00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:43,879
Speaker 5: I think.

554
00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:50,320
Speaker 1: I think it was uh canceling your plans. We're having

555
00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:52,159
Speaker 1: a fourteen hour stream. Oh no we're not.

556
00:27:52,359 --> 00:27:54,399
Speaker 2: No, we're not not today. I can't, but if you

557
00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:56,400
Speaker 2: donate enough, we'll have one on Tuesday.

558
00:27:56,960 --> 00:27:57,119
Speaker 3: M J.

559
00:27:57,280 --> 00:28:00,399
Speaker 1: Grove, Hey, Riley, too close to the mic ASMR for Riley.

560
00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:07,240
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no, no, oh my gosh, oh

561
00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:13,280
Speaker 2: you I sit in that chair, Riley for for the listeners.

562
00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:18,000
Speaker 2: Riley's burritos leaking all over the chair because he's a dude.

563
00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:21,320
Speaker 4: He's a he's a he's reverting back to a rhyme.

564
00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:25,639
Speaker 1: Anymore.

565
00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:28,560
Speaker 5: There's probably more, but I'm kind of like sick to

566
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:29,440
Speaker 5: my stomach.

567
00:28:29,160 --> 00:28:31,520
Speaker 2: Now feet burritos.

568
00:28:33,080 --> 00:28:37,920
Speaker 5: I kind of want a burrito coda. I don't have lunch.

569
00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:38,719
Speaker 5: I'm hungry.

570
00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:42,920
Speaker 2: That all, guys, I'm sorry? Is that all? Yeah? I'm

571
00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:49,760
Speaker 2: hunger finally decided to eat my head.

572
00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:52,360
Speaker 1: You want to read? You want me to read? Uh,

573
00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:54,560
Speaker 1: I'll read. Uh.

574
00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:57,400
Speaker 5: This is my mother's you have my mother's Mama.

575
00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:01,720
Speaker 2: Look at all of the people who hate you for eating.

576
00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:03,400
Speaker 1: You know they love it.

577
00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:05,200
Speaker 4: The chaos. I love the chaos.

578
00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:08,360
Speaker 2: I apologize that everybody outside right, I did not want

579
00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:11,640
Speaker 2: to hear that. I know you hated it, but it

580
00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:12,480
Speaker 2: had to be done.

581
00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:15,520
Speaker 1: No, it did not really, J Grbsite, please put more

582
00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:17,280
Speaker 1: more on the freaking camera.

583
00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:19,560
Speaker 5: There's so many things that this chat asked for and

584
00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:20,440
Speaker 5: you could have just done.

585
00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:25,040
Speaker 1: I am a selective wish grants her. I've selective him.

586
00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:29,000
Speaker 1: I have selective hearing and selective wish granting. All right,

587
00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:34,200
Speaker 1: hater nine am for me And I can't stress how

588
00:29:34,280 --> 00:29:36,280
Speaker 1: much I love waking up to the lives. Why wake

589
00:29:36,320 --> 00:29:37,680
Speaker 1: it up at it Orne? I can't say anything. I

590
00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:39,680
Speaker 1: wake up at it Orne every day sometimes.

591
00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:47,280
Speaker 5: Tin uh, Cody, you have again my mother rights? Yes?

592
00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:47,720
Speaker 2: I do?

593
00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:50,880
Speaker 4: Oh, I mean right, it's ready now. I thought we

594
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:51,520
Speaker 4: were getting set.

595
00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:53,920
Speaker 1: Casey, where are you at in western North Carolina? I

596
00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:55,480
Speaker 1: am from Taylor's my whole bag up?

597
00:29:55,520 --> 00:29:56,240
Speaker 2: Oh my god?

598
00:29:57,280 --> 00:29:58,120
Speaker 5: Wait what do you.

599
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:00,320
Speaker 2: Anyway?

600
00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:03,040
Speaker 4: Sorry, I'm that big thing and mumbling that big thing,

601
00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:04,120
Speaker 4: what big thing?

602
00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:07,120
Speaker 1: That big thing, that big empty thing?

603
00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:07,880
Speaker 2: Not that?

604
00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:12,560
Speaker 1: Oh well then I'm literally the boys person when it

605
00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:13,480
Speaker 1: comes to finding things.

606
00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:16,600
Speaker 4: You can ask my mom. I'm the worst. I will

607
00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:17,160
Speaker 4: ask your.

608
00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:19,200
Speaker 5: Mom what does that mean?

609
00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:20,520
Speaker 1: Damn it?

610
00:30:21,240 --> 00:30:24,720
Speaker 2: Your dude, you walked.

611
00:30:26,760 --> 00:30:28,960
Speaker 1: I know where Bravard is. I almost went to college there. Okay,

612
00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:31,080
Speaker 1: go on, sorry, Okay.

613
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:35,400
Speaker 2: My mother's tragically sudden passing has been hard on all

614
00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:38,840
Speaker 2: of us, and my sister is only making things worse.

615
00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:43,080
Speaker 2: That's not good. Yeah, put your put your arms down.

616
00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:45,000
Speaker 2: There's nothing to cheer about, right there?

617
00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:47,040
Speaker 5: What do you mean hard on?

618
00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:53,640
Speaker 2: Alright? Alright boys boys stream uh. We just celebrated her

619
00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:57,400
Speaker 2: fifty six birthday mid September. I stayed overnight and surprised

620
00:30:57,400 --> 00:30:59,520
Speaker 2: her at midnight. I had to leave early for a

621
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Speaker 2: flight book at noon. My first time missing my mom's birthday,

622
00:31:02,800 --> 00:31:06,400
Speaker 2: so to speak. So I figured no harm. There would

623
00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:07,360
Speaker 2: be many more to come.

624
00:31:07,440 --> 00:31:07,600
Speaker 5: Right.

625
00:31:08,040 --> 00:31:10,320
Speaker 2: That was a Thursday. By the way, this comes from

626
00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:13,400
Speaker 2: user sorry I am new two thousand and two on

627
00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:17,200
Speaker 2: the r slash okay storytime soebreddit. So my flight back

628
00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:19,840
Speaker 2: home a week later was severely delayed, so much that

629
00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:22,640
Speaker 2: I would miss any train connection back home. When I

630
00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:24,560
Speaker 2: asked my dad to pick me up, he confessed to

631
00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:27,520
Speaker 2: me that my mom was hospitalized. She didn't want to

632
00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:30,440
Speaker 2: worry me on my vacation. But it's nothing serious, just

633
00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:35,400
Speaker 2: gastritis with some nasty nausea, Just another Thursday. After staying

634
00:31:35,480 --> 00:31:37,960
Speaker 2: up all night at the airport train station, I made

635
00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:40,440
Speaker 2: my way to visit my mom. She looked exhausted, but

636
00:31:40,560 --> 00:31:43,880
Speaker 2: not too bad. Cheerful to hear about my vacation. She too,

637
00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:46,680
Speaker 2: always had wanted to see Dublin. I brought her a

638
00:31:46,760 --> 00:31:50,120
Speaker 2: cheesy magnet and a card of the docks. She talked

639
00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:54,760
Speaker 2: about our next flight there together. She loved historical cities. Saturday,

640
00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:57,200
Speaker 2: I was at brunch with my friends, and I was happy.

641
00:31:57,320 --> 00:32:00,120
Speaker 2: I just turned twenty two, and then my mom had

642
00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:02,880
Speaker 2: a nice birthday. I just came back from a great vacation,

643
00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:05,560
Speaker 2: and now I was having brunch with my dearest friends

644
00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:10,160
Speaker 2: during a newly established brunch tradition. Growing into an adult

645
00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:13,840
Speaker 2: felt great until my dad called. He says, are you

646
00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:17,000
Speaker 2: sitting down? Mom's and my ride results came back, and

647
00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:21,160
Speaker 2: her head is full of metastases. She's going to pass.

648
00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:24,320
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, what a phone call.

649
00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:29,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I that is. That is one of the probably

650
00:32:29,120 --> 00:32:30,720
Speaker 2: worst phone calls you can ever have.

651
00:32:30,840 --> 00:32:33,680
Speaker 1: I don't know if it ever she's gonna pass. It

652
00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:37,120
Speaker 1: would be like she has a week or two left.

653
00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:39,760
Speaker 1: That's what I would have say, at least some little

654
00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:42,240
Speaker 1: little little hoop. You know what the heck?

655
00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:45,080
Speaker 4: Well, he's human too, he's he's probably just has no

656
00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:45,880
Speaker 4: idea what to say.

657
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:48,440
Speaker 2: Be hard for him to say, too, you're right, op,

658
00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:52,360
Speaker 2: He continues and says, I won't forget his cries. Yeah,

659
00:32:52,440 --> 00:32:56,840
Speaker 2: he was definitely very extremely distraught. We had hope the

660
00:32:56,880 --> 00:33:00,640
Speaker 2: neurosurgeon of the hospital would not arrive until Thursday. The

661
00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:03,960
Speaker 2: other doctor said that they might just be obsesses, but

662
00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:07,520
Speaker 2: no one told us how many until another day and Thursday,

663
00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:11,600
Speaker 2: over sixty were in her head. They've spread all over

664
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Speaker 2: her body. He said. Nobody knows how she's still doing

665
00:33:14,320 --> 00:33:17,040
Speaker 2: so well. She was in good condition except for the nausea,

666
00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:21,120
Speaker 2: but no surgery would be able to fix this. That's terrible.

667
00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:27,200
Speaker 2: I'm it's very that's tragic. But I mean silver lining

668
00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:30,680
Speaker 2: is that she's doing so well that the doctors are like,

669
00:33:30,720 --> 00:33:32,680
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't even know how she's still in

670
00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:35,760
Speaker 2: this good condition. So I guess silver lining is you

671
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:38,000
Speaker 2: were still able to sort of bond over that the

672
00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:40,920
Speaker 2: vacation you had. She was still doing you know, she

673
00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:43,320
Speaker 2: was doing better than she should have been at the

674
00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:47,760
Speaker 2: very least. I was the one to break it to

675
00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:51,040
Speaker 2: my sixteen year old brother. I was there overnight just

676
00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:54,880
Speaker 2: before she passed, when she was starting to cough blood

677
00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:59,720
Speaker 2: and choke on it. She passed on, of course, another

678
00:33:59,760 --> 00:34:01,920
Speaker 2: face Thursday in the morning.

679
00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:05,400
Speaker 1: Oh, Thursday mornings are not for you, op, yeah, op.

680
00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:10,759
Speaker 2: And Thursdays are our joy, not anymore, not after the

681
00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:15,120
Speaker 2: story that day, family was all I had and all

682
00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:17,799
Speaker 2: I wanted. We held each other and we cried with

683
00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:20,480
Speaker 2: each other. My older sister, thirty one, had been in

684
00:34:20,560 --> 00:34:23,560
Speaker 2: denial about our mom's passing up until then, but she

685
00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:27,000
Speaker 2: was very visibly upset, shouting and crying out for help

686
00:34:27,440 --> 00:34:30,200
Speaker 2: up until her death. My sister wouldn't stop talking about

687
00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:32,920
Speaker 2: how our mom was the epicenter of her life, how

688
00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:36,360
Speaker 2: she only talked to her, or you get where this goes?

689
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:40,719
Speaker 2: Are you getting where this goes? M. She was jealous

690
00:34:40,840 --> 00:34:44,040
Speaker 2: of anyone who had belongings of our mom, like our

691
00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:47,319
Speaker 2: little brother, her half brother, and demanded that she get

692
00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:51,560
Speaker 2: the same stuff he got, namely a bracelet. She said

693
00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:53,840
Speaker 2: she was the one who chose the grave spot, while

694
00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:56,759
Speaker 2: in real life it was a communal decision. She held

695
00:34:56,760 --> 00:35:01,160
Speaker 2: a spontaneous concert at her funeral without telling us, her

696
00:35:01,160 --> 00:35:05,000
Speaker 2: siblings telling me how horrible it is to lose a

697
00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:08,239
Speaker 2: on her telling me how horrible it is to lose

698
00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:13,320
Speaker 2: a mother at thirty one. Ironically, the day after her death,

699
00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:17,200
Speaker 2: she borrowed a sweater of mom's I even gave it

700
00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:19,359
Speaker 2: to her, But when she walked into the room later

701
00:35:19,400 --> 00:35:22,000
Speaker 2: that day, she looked like a ghost, with my mom's

702
00:35:22,040 --> 00:35:24,400
Speaker 2: clothes on, her jewelry, her hair put up like that,

703
00:35:24,560 --> 00:35:28,080
Speaker 2: and even smelling like her perfume. And I cried so

704
00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:30,279
Speaker 2: much that my boyfriend asked her not to come into

705
00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:33,000
Speaker 2: the living room for a moment as the picture upset me.

706
00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:36,400
Speaker 2: Her takeaway of this was to ignore me for the

707
00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:43,239
Speaker 2: whole following week. A lot of a lot of emotional

708
00:35:43,280 --> 00:35:49,279
Speaker 2: immaturity showing itself here. Yeah, that's not which you know.

709
00:35:49,840 --> 00:35:54,440
Speaker 2: They're all going through something the extremely traumatic, and sometimes

710
00:35:54,480 --> 00:35:56,840
Speaker 2: something like this will rear its head. I mean, it

711
00:35:56,840 --> 00:36:01,400
Speaker 2: will become very obvious. And it seemed like she was

712
00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:04,040
Speaker 2: also in denial about it the whole time until it

713
00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:06,640
Speaker 2: literally happened and then it all came crashing down her.

714
00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:07,480
Speaker 2: That's gotta be a lot.

715
00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:11,040
Speaker 1: Death brings the worst in families. That is so true.

716
00:36:11,239 --> 00:36:20,400
Speaker 6: A curious out yeahs, anyway, what was that? I'm just

717
00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:21,720
Speaker 6: nothing anyway, keep reading.

718
00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:25,799
Speaker 2: My older sister just went mute on me at the

719
00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:28,279
Speaker 2: moment or at the memorial. She didn't talk to me

720
00:36:28,400 --> 00:36:30,520
Speaker 2: at the funeral. She didn't talk to me. Only our

721
00:36:30,600 --> 00:36:33,040
Speaker 2: older brother. I had to be there alone for our

722
00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:36,560
Speaker 2: younger brother after the funeral. Back home, she got mad

723
00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:38,920
Speaker 2: when she overheard my dad talking to me about his

724
00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:42,160
Speaker 2: wish to remove my mom's decorations in about a year

725
00:36:42,200 --> 00:36:44,600
Speaker 2: after her passing. He wanted to leave it for now

726
00:36:44,640 --> 00:36:47,840
Speaker 2: to honor her. But it is, but it's excruciating for

727
00:36:47,960 --> 00:36:51,320
Speaker 2: him to see the best mom ever, pillows and picture

728
00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:54,319
Speaker 2: frames from Mother's Day. I told him I don't like

729
00:36:54,360 --> 00:36:58,640
Speaker 2: the idea, but I understand it. My sister went ballistic

730
00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:02,319
Speaker 2: about him trying to forget her and me supporting this.

731
00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:06,480
Speaker 2: Apparently she overheard another conversation where I assured my dad

732
00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:09,840
Speaker 2: but even if he wished to remarry one day, the

733
00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:13,520
Speaker 2: last part, that last part made me the ultimate trader,

734
00:37:13,560 --> 00:37:17,080
Speaker 2: I guess. She went on about how I was disrespectful

735
00:37:17,239 --> 00:37:20,319
Speaker 2: and how she wanted to punch me, how she hated that,

736
00:37:21,120 --> 00:37:24,719
Speaker 2: how she hated that. In the inheritance, my dad, which

737
00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:28,919
Speaker 2: is her stepdad, I was adopted by him, gave her

738
00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:34,520
Speaker 2: and the older brother a disadvantage because I get gold

739
00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:37,799
Speaker 2: and she wouldn't. But that's because I'm not married yet

740
00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:39,680
Speaker 2: and she had hers already.

741
00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:41,359
Speaker 1: Oh, it's a cultural thing.

742
00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:48,400
Speaker 2: The bracelets people have as the Bengals. Maybe maybe this

743
00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:50,080
Speaker 2: I'm wrong or not, but they like get those one

744
00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:52,160
Speaker 2: of their married and I guess she sounds like she

745
00:37:52,200 --> 00:37:55,000
Speaker 2: wants her mothers but she already has Bengals.

746
00:37:55,800 --> 00:37:57,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's if that's the case. If that's what it

747
00:37:58,360 --> 00:38:01,560
Speaker 1: might be it And they also said so, I don't know, Yeah,

748
00:38:01,560 --> 00:38:02,200
Speaker 1: who knows this.

749
00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:04,920
Speaker 2: It could be I'm not seeing American now. I don't

750
00:38:04,960 --> 00:38:08,360
Speaker 2: think it's the States because they're doing the mum spelling.

751
00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:14,640
Speaker 2: So even if that's not the case, I can't grasp

752
00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:17,520
Speaker 2: how that can be so dang important. I don't even

753
00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:21,600
Speaker 2: want that stupid stuff. She held a tirade about me

754
00:38:22,280 --> 00:38:25,200
Speaker 2: in front of other relatives while my dad asked me

755
00:38:25,239 --> 00:38:28,000
Speaker 2: to stay inside, but I heard it. I told her

756
00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:30,000
Speaker 2: not to talk to me until she gets a grip.

757
00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:33,840
Speaker 2: Not my finest moment, well, I mean, and honestly not

758
00:38:33,920 --> 00:38:36,480
Speaker 2: her finest moment either. Nobody seems to be having their

759
00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:37,239
Speaker 2: finest moment here.

760
00:38:37,320 --> 00:38:37,560
Speaker 1: Nope.

761
00:38:38,200 --> 00:38:43,440
Speaker 2: Last Thursday, ironically, I met her at the cemetery. My

762
00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:45,959
Speaker 2: brother showed up with his girlfriend and my sisters joined

763
00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:49,120
Speaker 2: us too. While the other two were talking, she came

764
00:38:49,160 --> 00:38:51,719
Speaker 2: to me in a bantering tone and told me we

765
00:38:51,760 --> 00:38:56,279
Speaker 2: should both stop acting like babies and talk again. No apologies,

766
00:38:56,320 --> 00:39:00,400
Speaker 2: no hugs, no asking how you are. I said, no, oh,

767
00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:03,520
Speaker 2: not yet, because if I just say it's okay without

768
00:39:03,560 --> 00:39:06,680
Speaker 2: processing everything, I know it will come up again. I

769
00:39:06,760 --> 00:39:09,920
Speaker 2: told her this, and she got mad again. How it

770
00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:12,279
Speaker 2: wasn't my boyfriend's place to talk to her like that?

771
00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:16,839
Speaker 2: Your boy okay? How I was the one to give

772
00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:19,279
Speaker 2: her the jumper. Why am I making a big deal

773
00:39:19,320 --> 00:39:21,719
Speaker 2: of it? She makes it feel like I have to

774
00:39:21,760 --> 00:39:24,200
Speaker 2: be the big sister for everyone, the one who puts

775
00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:27,440
Speaker 2: her grief to the side and only considers others feelings.

776
00:39:27,840 --> 00:39:30,880
Speaker 2: But for God's sakes, I'm twenty two and I just

777
00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:33,920
Speaker 2: lost my mom. She won't be at my wedding, my graduation,

778
00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:37,520
Speaker 2: or when I give birth. I'm chronically ill and a

779
00:39:37,680 --> 00:39:40,719
Speaker 2: not well off student, and yet she blames me for

780
00:39:40,800 --> 00:39:44,880
Speaker 2: not showing up enough. Where does that come from. I

781
00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:47,319
Speaker 2: don't have a car or a rich husband like her

782
00:39:47,719 --> 00:39:50,120
Speaker 2: that can free me of my responsibilities and let me

783
00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:53,200
Speaker 2: stay at the hospital. Twenty four to seven. UNI doesn't stop.

784
00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:56,360
Speaker 2: Because Mom passed, I have to drive two hours to

785
00:39:56,400 --> 00:39:59,239
Speaker 2: my parents' house with public transport. Three when I come

786
00:39:59,280 --> 00:40:04,720
Speaker 2: from university. Man, that is just a lot, a lot.

787
00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:10,520
Speaker 1: A lot to do with Wow, do the CTR do it?

788
00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:11,080
Speaker 1: Do the CT.

789
00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:14,120
Speaker 2: By the way, you can Joice live on YouTube, Facebook, TikTok,

790
00:40:14,200 --> 00:40:17,920
Speaker 2: and Twitch every weekday at three PMPST. Just tap our

791
00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:20,760
Speaker 2: profile and you're in. If you're watching this in the future,

792
00:40:20,760 --> 00:40:24,000
Speaker 2: we may even be live right now, but don't check

793
00:40:24,360 --> 00:40:26,080
Speaker 2: on that yet because we still have a little bit

794
00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:26,719
Speaker 2: of story left.

795
00:40:26,920 --> 00:40:27,200
Speaker 5: Yeah.

796
00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:29,080
Speaker 1: I saw a comment earlier, I think it was from

797
00:40:29,120 --> 00:40:34,440
Speaker 1: Prince ex or Sophia Kaylan. They said she lost her

798
00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:37,879
Speaker 1: mom at sixteen, while the sister lost her at thirty one. Yeah,

799
00:40:37,960 --> 00:40:41,920
Speaker 1: so it's kind of hard that Sophia Kaylong. Yeah, it's

800
00:40:42,000 --> 00:40:44,759
Speaker 1: kind of hard that, uh, she's taking it this way

801
00:40:44,960 --> 00:40:46,640
Speaker 1: and not really being there for a sister.

802
00:40:46,719 --> 00:40:47,879
Speaker 4: Yeah, the older sister is.

803
00:40:49,760 --> 00:40:52,680
Speaker 2: Going mia emotionally for her, for her younger siblings, and

804
00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:54,319
Speaker 2: it sounds like for all of them. It sounds like

805
00:40:54,760 --> 00:40:56,360
Speaker 2: her for op and the brothers.

806
00:40:56,480 --> 00:40:59,239
Speaker 1: Well, it sounds that the older sister does have more

807
00:40:59,239 --> 00:41:01,680
Speaker 1: support in her live to do with this because Opie

808
00:41:01,719 --> 00:41:04,759
Speaker 1: still has to go through you know, school, still has

809
00:41:04,760 --> 00:41:06,960
Speaker 1: to do with that kind of stuff, and it's just

810
00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:08,680
Speaker 1: weird to see where the headspace is.

811
00:41:08,719 --> 00:41:10,200
Speaker 2: I don't know if Opie was sixteen or if they

812
00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:15,160
Speaker 2: were twenty two, but she's younger. I think the brother

813
00:41:15,280 --> 00:41:17,960
Speaker 2: might be younger like that, I think the brother might

814
00:41:17,960 --> 00:41:20,200
Speaker 2: be like sixteen, God, one of the younger brothers of sixteen.

815
00:41:20,239 --> 00:41:26,959
Speaker 2: But also fair. Yeah, all of her younger siblings also

816
00:41:28,600 --> 00:41:32,719
Speaker 2: are going through loss and are grieving, and she's not

817
00:41:33,600 --> 00:41:36,840
Speaker 2: able to do anything except make it about her. It

818
00:41:36,920 --> 00:41:41,640
Speaker 2: sounds like which we do not support. But I think

819
00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:45,480
Speaker 2: probably a good move here would be counseling for the

820
00:41:45,520 --> 00:41:48,920
Speaker 2: whole family. Family counseling session. Everybody sits in grief counseling,

821
00:41:50,680 --> 00:41:53,680
Speaker 2: you know. I think it's absurd for her to be

822
00:41:53,760 --> 00:41:57,920
Speaker 2: upset that that the father wanted to, you know, a

823
00:41:58,000 --> 00:42:01,400
Speaker 2: year down the line, take some of the you know,

824
00:42:01,520 --> 00:42:05,560
Speaker 2: the the memories, the picture frames, this stuff away, because it, dude,

825
00:42:05,560 --> 00:42:10,440
Speaker 2: it's like it's like just constantly we reopening a wound.

826
00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:14,399
Speaker 2: It's like it's never gonna heal, and yeah, it's gonna

827
00:42:14,440 --> 00:42:16,120
Speaker 2: take time, which is why he's like, I'm not doing

828
00:42:16,120 --> 00:42:20,399
Speaker 2: this today, I'm doing it in a year. But I digress. Well,

829
00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:24,160
Speaker 2: grief and loss is never easy. Nope, man, my tone

830
00:42:24,160 --> 00:42:26,240
Speaker 2: has been so different. This is like the the lowest

831
00:42:26,239 --> 00:42:28,319
Speaker 2: my tone has ever been in a story. It's been.

832
00:42:29,120 --> 00:42:31,839
Speaker 5: That's over it. It was just sad. Yeah, it's sad.

833
00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:34,799
Speaker 2: And yeah, so let's let's try to get to the

834
00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:39,040
Speaker 2: advice section. Let's see where where this ends up. So,

835
00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:42,399
Speaker 2: my sister's tearing the family apart. She's mad at dad,

836
00:42:42,400 --> 00:42:44,719
Speaker 2: who's grieving just as much. She's mad at my little

837
00:42:44,719 --> 00:42:47,480
Speaker 2: brother because he stressed her so much and she believes

838
00:42:47,520 --> 00:42:50,520
Speaker 2: he's the cause of mom's cancer.

839
00:42:51,120 --> 00:42:57,280
Speaker 1: Oh wow, I M that's tough.

840
00:42:57,920 --> 00:43:00,359
Speaker 2: She's mad at me because I don't grieve like her

841
00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:03,480
Speaker 2: because I'm not mad like her. She's mad because I'm

842
00:43:03,520 --> 00:43:07,279
Speaker 2: adopted and she's not. I don't know how to deal

843
00:43:07,320 --> 00:43:10,479
Speaker 2: with it. My family was perfect until September. My mom

844
00:43:10,600 --> 00:43:12,640
Speaker 2: was my best friend. And there's no instructions on how

845
00:43:12,680 --> 00:43:15,279
Speaker 2: to do this right. But apparently I'm doing it all wrong.

846
00:43:15,960 --> 00:43:17,719
Speaker 2: I hate Thursdays.

847
00:43:18,320 --> 00:43:19,080
Speaker 1: Dang.

848
00:43:19,480 --> 00:43:23,440
Speaker 2: Well, at least she it's not that funny, but I

849
00:43:23,520 --> 00:43:25,600
Speaker 2: feel like I hate Thursdays. That was kind of a

850
00:43:26,280 --> 00:43:31,760
Speaker 2: nice little comedic relief. It a sliver of relief. Family

851
00:43:32,080 --> 00:43:34,120
Speaker 2: group counseling and if your sister doesn't want to be

852
00:43:34,160 --> 00:43:34,640
Speaker 2: a part of it.

853
00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:37,640
Speaker 4: I don't think you should be in contact.

854
00:43:38,280 --> 00:43:41,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think you should be entertaining her communications.

855
00:43:41,719 --> 00:43:43,920
Speaker 2: I don't think you should be. You need to be like, look,

856
00:43:44,040 --> 00:43:45,759
Speaker 2: I need time away from you. If we're If you're

857
00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:47,480
Speaker 2: gonna grieve like that, you're welcome to do it, but

858
00:43:47,520 --> 00:43:49,319
Speaker 2: I don't want to be around it. For you to

859
00:43:49,360 --> 00:43:53,040
Speaker 2: even imply that your your younger brother was the cause

860
00:43:53,040 --> 00:43:56,359
Speaker 2: of your mother's cancer, that's like, that's a sentence that

861
00:43:56,719 --> 00:43:59,360
Speaker 2: once it escapes your mouth, that never goes back in.

862
00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:01,960
Speaker 2: I can't get the genie back in the bottle after

863
00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:04,719
Speaker 2: that comes out. And that's something that if I was

864
00:44:04,760 --> 00:44:08,560
Speaker 2: the younger brother, I would You'd be functionally dead to

865
00:44:08,600 --> 00:44:10,200
Speaker 2: me for the rest of my life if you say

866
00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:10,600
Speaker 2: that to me.

867
00:44:11,200 --> 00:44:14,640
Speaker 1: Nerdy impath says, when the family glue passes, the family

868
00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:15,720
Speaker 1: falls apart.

869
00:44:16,520 --> 00:44:21,600
Speaker 2: Ain't that the truth? Oh yeah, it's hard, But the

870
00:44:21,680 --> 00:44:24,759
Speaker 2: advice I would give is just try to get through

871
00:44:24,760 --> 00:44:27,840
Speaker 2: it together as much as you can be there for

872
00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:31,120
Speaker 2: each other. The sister is throwing a wrench fully into

873
00:44:31,160 --> 00:44:37,040
Speaker 2: that by being so self absorbed, but you know she's

874
00:44:37,120 --> 00:44:41,759
Speaker 2: also probably extremely distraught and hurt. She's not going about

875
00:44:41,760 --> 00:44:44,080
Speaker 2: it and always productive for anyone else in the family

876
00:44:44,080 --> 00:44:49,920
Speaker 2: but her. But she is also hurt. Guys, that's the

877
00:44:49,960 --> 00:44:52,239
Speaker 2: end of the stream. It is.

878
00:44:52,880 --> 00:44:53,919
Speaker 5: I don't want to end it on that.

879
00:44:54,680 --> 00:44:56,960
Speaker 2: No, we can't end it on that. No no, no, no, no, no, no, no,

880
00:44:57,160 --> 00:44:59,560
Speaker 2: we can't. And it's the end of the That is

881
00:44:59,560 --> 00:45:03,239
Speaker 2: the the end of the episode. Let's have breathing room here,

882
00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:10,279
Speaker 2: say something. Dang ke yeah, no, we gotta oh you

883
00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:15,840
Speaker 2: know what, let's we still don't, guys, we still read No, no, no, no,

884
00:45:15,440 --> 00:45:17,400
Speaker 2: We're gonna read what We're gonna read, donos, and then

885
00:45:17,400 --> 00:45:20,480
Speaker 2: we're gonna read some stuff out of the Alaska Activity Guide.

886
00:45:20,560 --> 00:45:23,120
Speaker 2: We're gonna read one page of the Alaskan Activity Guide

887
00:45:23,280 --> 00:45:27,359
Speaker 2: to cleanse the palette. I need to cleanse my palate.

888
00:45:29,080 --> 00:45:29,880
Speaker 5: And fill my stomach.

889
00:45:30,160 --> 00:45:33,759
Speaker 1: To stream deserves to little bird five dollars is so

890
00:45:33,840 --> 00:45:36,440
Speaker 1: over the stream? Yeah he is? And then go to the.

891
00:45:37,239 --> 00:45:38,920
Speaker 4: You're the one who's over the stream.

892
00:45:39,080 --> 00:45:43,440
Speaker 5: Yeah, over it. I'm over the the craziness.

893
00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:44,879
Speaker 1: God, I feel you.

894
00:45:44,920 --> 00:45:46,439
Speaker 5: I gotta keep them, I gotta keep them in line.

895
00:45:46,480 --> 00:45:48,880
Speaker 5: I want to be crazy. You guys don't understand this.

896
00:45:49,280 --> 00:45:51,960
Speaker 5: I also want to be crazy. But someone has to

897
00:45:52,080 --> 00:45:54,200
Speaker 5: round them up. And make sure they're in line and

898
00:45:54,239 --> 00:45:56,239
Speaker 5: follow the rails. You know how hard it is.

899
00:45:56,760 --> 00:45:57,880
Speaker 2: Keon is also crazy.

900
00:45:57,920 --> 00:46:01,000
Speaker 5: I can Oh, yeah, I've the code for ten years.

901
00:46:01,000 --> 00:46:01,719
Speaker 2: He's a crazy man.

902
00:46:01,840 --> 00:46:06,000
Speaker 5: I'm crazy. The fact that I'm continuing myself is crazy itself.

903
00:46:06,160 --> 00:46:06,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, it is.

904
00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:08,799
Speaker 4: Pretty wild that you're the adult in the room right now.

905
00:46:08,840 --> 00:46:09,319
Speaker 2: I hate it.

906
00:46:09,719 --> 00:46:11,080
Speaker 1: What's look at the other donuts.

907
00:46:11,360 --> 00:46:12,640
Speaker 5: Let me just refresh it just in case.

908
00:46:12,880 --> 00:46:18,320
Speaker 1: Okay, uh, just fiend riley the definition of the term

909
00:46:18,520 --> 00:46:21,480
Speaker 1: this is your brain on drugs, and also the reason

910
00:46:21,600 --> 00:46:24,360
Speaker 1: I suspect you all must have a gas leak. Kudos

911
00:46:24,400 --> 00:46:25,640
Speaker 1: to Keon for handling them.

912
00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:29,200
Speaker 2: Oh, it's not the gash, the mold, not the gas.

913
00:46:29,360 --> 00:46:30,040
Speaker 2: It's the mold.

914
00:46:30,080 --> 00:46:31,480
Speaker 5: Now I can go crazy.

915
00:46:31,640 --> 00:46:33,759
Speaker 2: You've got to shut out back and it's full of mole.

916
00:46:33,920 --> 00:46:35,640
Speaker 1: And that's that's the end of that.

917
00:46:35,960 --> 00:46:37,640
Speaker 2: Wait, we're gonna read moose facts.

918
00:46:37,680 --> 00:46:39,080
Speaker 5: We just have a Yeah, I have a bad o

919
00:46:39,400 --> 00:46:42,040
Speaker 5: my mouth of that story. It's not like it's going straight.

920
00:46:42,160 --> 00:46:45,440
Speaker 2: So we've got goose safety and we've got bear safety.

921
00:46:45,520 --> 00:46:49,160
Speaker 2: So this or two. Make sure you give them mhm.

922
00:46:49,239 --> 00:46:50,640
Speaker 1: But it's a froze.

923
00:46:51,239 --> 00:46:51,399
Speaker 5: No.

924
00:46:53,400 --> 00:46:58,480
Speaker 2: Uh oh, everyone's saying they stopped no, no, no, no.

925
00:46:57,840 --> 00:46:59,800
Speaker 5: No, you had to read about moose.

926
00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:05,560
Speaker 2: Wow, that didn't do anything. Wait, it's back. Everyone refreshed.

927
00:47:06,040 --> 00:47:11,520
Speaker 2: It's back. We're back. Everything's back, frozen again, We're back. Okay,

928
00:47:11,800 --> 00:47:12,080
Speaker 2: is it me?

929
00:47:13,480 --> 00:47:15,000
Speaker 5: Was it a good Was it a good image of me?

930
00:47:15,040 --> 00:47:16,200
Speaker 5: I hope?

931
00:47:16,840 --> 00:47:20,200
Speaker 2: Okay. Number three, If a moose charges or chases you,

932
00:47:20,600 --> 00:47:23,320
Speaker 2: it's okay to run away if you have a head start.

933
00:47:23,560 --> 00:47:25,680
Speaker 4: So if you don't have a head start, I guess you're.

934
00:47:25,520 --> 00:47:27,400
Speaker 5: Just you're screwed.

935
00:47:28,800 --> 00:47:31,960
Speaker 2: Hide behind something solid, such as a tree. If a

936
00:47:32,000 --> 00:47:34,960
Speaker 2: moose knocks you down, curl into a ball, protect your head,

937
00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:38,719
Speaker 2: and lie still until the moose retreats. UH Number five.

938
00:47:38,840 --> 00:47:41,160
Speaker 2: Keep your dogs under control at all times. When a

939
00:47:41,200 --> 00:47:44,520
Speaker 2: dog chases or aggravates a moose, it creates a dangerous

940
00:47:44,560 --> 00:47:48,480
Speaker 2: situation for both of you. UH number six, Do not

941
00:47:48,560 --> 00:47:52,520
Speaker 2: feed the moose. It is both dangerous and illegal.

942
00:47:52,800 --> 00:47:57,240
Speaker 1: Give a moose. It's Riley's horrible energy.

943
00:47:57,400 --> 00:47:59,440
Speaker 5: Where does all that cat ude?

944
00:47:59,440 --> 00:48:02,120
Speaker 2: Are you crashed? Now? You're on the another ship? No?

945
00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:04,879
Speaker 2: I have other work to do. Okay, well, I can

946
00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:07,239
Speaker 2: read this, you can go. No, I have to make

947
00:48:07,239 --> 00:48:08,319
Speaker 2: sure this closes off.

948
00:48:08,360 --> 00:48:08,920
Speaker 1: I have to be here.

949
00:48:09,600 --> 00:48:13,880
Speaker 2: Can rotate and no, who's gonna turn o? We'll no,

950
00:48:13,880 --> 00:48:16,360
Speaker 2: I'm not, I'm not number seven. Enjoy watching from a

951
00:48:16,400 --> 00:48:20,600
Speaker 2: safe distance. Nice, and now we have bear safety. No, okay,

952
00:48:20,760 --> 00:48:23,799
Speaker 2: that's basically if he's going to come next time. Thank

953
00:48:23,840 --> 00:48:25,160
Speaker 2: you so much for joining us.

954
00:48:26,560 --> 00:48:28,279
Speaker 5: Sorry, sorry, we have one more, Donna. We had one

955
00:48:28,320 --> 00:48:29,560
Speaker 5: more Donna? Where is it?

956
00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:30,799
Speaker 1: Are you lying?

957
00:48:30,800 --> 00:48:33,000
Speaker 2: We were totally spies. You're asking why we were talking

958
00:48:33,000 --> 00:48:36,680
Speaker 2: about Moose. It's because we're doing the cleanser? Was was Neil?

959
00:48:36,840 --> 00:48:39,680
Speaker 2: After previous? Thank you for the five bucks? Hi everyone,

960
00:48:40,719 --> 00:48:45,920
Speaker 2: wes Lean, west Lean, wes Lean, got talk. Now are

961
00:48:45,960 --> 00:48:46,840
Speaker 2: you going to say your name right?

962
00:48:46,960 --> 00:48:47,200
Speaker 1: No?

963
00:48:47,520 --> 00:48:48,600
Speaker 2: Say your name right and you can talk.

964
00:48:48,640 --> 00:48:52,240
Speaker 1: Seleen. Hey everyone, I hope you're all having a beautiful

965
00:48:52,239 --> 00:48:53,080
Speaker 1: December so far.

966
00:48:53,320 --> 00:48:56,719
Speaker 2: Also to go to that is your color, the blue?

967
00:48:57,040 --> 00:48:57,600
Speaker 2: Thank you?

968
00:48:57,920 --> 00:48:59,480
Speaker 1: He goes nowhere without the blue. Thank you.

969
00:48:59,480 --> 00:49:01,319
Speaker 2: Weslean. I and blewed up pretty much all the time.

970
00:49:01,560 --> 00:49:04,360
Speaker 1: And that is it everyone. We love you guys, all right,

971
00:49:04,440 --> 00:49:06,640
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972
00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:10,040
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