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Speaker 2: Dame is taking over Las Vegas this January for his

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Speaker 3: Well go then the city.

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Speaker 1: I'll then do straight Jason. Let's hear how that sounds?

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Speaker 1: Hey girl, I like them jeans. Let me get up

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Speaker 1: in them.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I would feel fairly confident that you were not,

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Speaker 2: in facts hitting on a woman if you were to

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Speaker 2: deliver the message in that way. Well, Fred's show is

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Speaker 2: Have you ever had an issue with your phone such

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Speaker 2: that you had to carry your iPad with you because

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Speaker 2: that was all you had? They tried to suggest that

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Speaker 2: to me when I accidentally dropped my phone at a

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Speaker 2: very high intensity, I may have accidentally dropped it right right,

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Speaker 2: I dropped it. It was going very fast speed when I

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Speaker 2: dropped it into a wall, and I dropped it damage wall.

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Speaker 2: But anyway, so I may have done that once and

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Speaker 2: I went to the store and there may not have

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Speaker 2: been much phone left from the dropping that I dropped it.

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Speaker 2: I know, it's crazy. I was just what an accident,

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Speaker 2: and I may truly have only been able to provide

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Speaker 2: the SIM card kind of. So I may have walked

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Speaker 2: in with the SIM card and they were like, well,

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Speaker 2: why don't you bring us the phone and we can

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Speaker 2: I'm like, well we can trade that in.

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Speaker 1: I'm like you anymore. And then they understood.

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Speaker 2: They understood the assignment like they knew like immediately they

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Speaker 2: work in a phone store, Like okay, got it. Well,

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Speaker 2: you know, here's what we can do. We can get

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Speaker 2: you a warranty phone, I guess or something. You can

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Speaker 2: buy a new phone, but the one phone's gonna take

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Speaker 2: a while. So what you could do is just carry

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Speaker 2: your iPad around for a while and like that'll, you know,

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Speaker 2: until Monday, because I think this was a Saturday when

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Speaker 2: the dropping of the phone occurred, and then it was like, hey,

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Speaker 2: we'll get your phone by monday, but like you can

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Speaker 2: just carry your iPad around like you want me to

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Speaker 2: carry my iPad around like a phone, Like you want

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Speaker 2: me to go to a date with my iPad and

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Speaker 2: its case like, how you doing, what's going on?

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Speaker 1: Well?

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Speaker 2: What's that about? Well is in case it gets boring,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna watch it. I'm right in the middle of

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Speaker 2: something on Netflix, and I really didn't want to have

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Speaker 2: to interrupt it. So if you, you know, if you

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Speaker 2: see me look down at the iPad, that means you're

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Speaker 2: boring as hell. Y. I'm going to Phoenix, okay, whatever

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Speaker 2: you're going to here. Like like most cities, it's uh,

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Speaker 2: it's kind of like they all kind of blend together

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Speaker 2: yet Phoenix, Scottsdale, Masa, Glendale. I can go on and on,

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Speaker 2: but they just there. It's all kind of like one big,

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Speaker 2: like a lot of places, it's kind of all this

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Speaker 2: Like you could drive down one road, if you drove

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Speaker 2: down to Scottsdale Road, you could go from Fountain basically

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Speaker 2: from Fountain Hills Cave Creek all the way to like

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Speaker 2: I don't even know where Tasa Grande, and you wouldn't

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Speaker 4: Oh's and the spring training going on there too. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: it is my in laws, all the baseball players and

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Speaker 4: all the grow girls. Okay, not me, like, look at

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Speaker 4: my lists?

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Speaker 1: Can you me relax?

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I just did that to her. I took my tongue

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Speaker 3: and I lifted my lips.

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Speaker 1: Well, heyt's remember Kiki's going to Phoenix, so you know

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Speaker 1: she won't see them, right if it's in one of

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Speaker 2: She did no idea, So you do you know where

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Speaker 2: you're staying in Phoenie. I don't have to say exactly,

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Speaker 2: because we have psychos that listen. Some psychos that listen,

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Speaker 2: but we have a couple of psychos. I shouldn't say

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Speaker 2: that of the thirteen, we might have a psycho that listens.

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Speaker 2: So generally speaking, where are you staying, like in a

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Speaker 2: big hotel or any airbnb?

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Speaker 1: Or what are you doing?

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Speaker 3: We're doing an airbnb with a pool in the backyard.

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Speaker 2: Oh yes, okay? And what kind of activities you have planned?

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Speaker 2: Because you wrote today that you wanted me to tell

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Speaker 6: They at some like indoor adult water park, which is

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Speaker 6: like a They also have a spa there.

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Speaker 2: And an indoor is that like hedonism? Water park is

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Speaker 2: like every is everyone naked at this thing?

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Speaker 1: Like? What is it an indoor adult water bark? Ope?

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Speaker 6: So I don't know, but it's like they have cabana,

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Speaker 6: they have bar, you know, yeah, bring you drinks. It

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Speaker 6: sounds like a resort but inside of beach club. Yeah yeah,

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Speaker 6: So we'll do a day there because I think.

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Speaker 2: Water park, I think like a gigantic water slide and

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Speaker 2: just naked grown ups, which would be sort of a

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Speaker 3: Now why do you hang out?

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Speaker 2: Well, you said an adult water park. I mean if

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Speaker 2: it's an adult. If you have to put the word adult

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Speaker 2: in front of water parks, then I feel like we're

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Speaker 2: specifying that whatever's going on kids shouldn't see.

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Speaker 6: Because I'm trying to make I'm trying to get you

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Speaker 6: the like the picture a bunch of women by a

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Speaker 6: pool with drinks in a cabana with a water slide.

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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you're going to like, yeah, you're going to a

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Speaker 1: day club.

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Speaker 3: Yes, Sky Island Bungalow.

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Speaker 8: Oh wait, okay, because in my mind I had like

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Speaker 8: it's a lazy river thereat you will fledge for grown

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Speaker 8: ups like where you're like naked at the bottom of

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Speaker 8: the slide and the next guy that comes down like

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Speaker 8: you guys gotta make out of it.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, maybe this is just my fantasy, but

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Speaker 2: you're saying adult water park, and immediately I'm going to,

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Speaker 2: you know, to kind of place at our friendly on

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Speaker 2: Rodgers hangs out where everyone's just walking around naked all

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Speaker 9: No, we won't have on swimsuit just like kids aren't allowed.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because it's a barn.

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Speaker 3: Just braight the naked Like, I.

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Speaker 1: Don't forget you.

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Speaker 3: This looks nice.

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Speaker 1: I like my version of it.

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Speaker 2: Then I like the Kiki's going to an adult naked

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Speaker 2: porny water park this weekend.

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Speaker 1: That's what I like.

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Speaker 3: Are you on the slide, this huge slide? You know

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Speaker 3: I'm not I'm too small, all.

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Speaker 1: Right, So you're doing that? Are you hanging out with

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Speaker 1: my mom? Because nothing would surprised me more than if

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Speaker 1: you went to Arizona and then you wind up meeting

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Speaker 1: up with mom of Fred and and you know, moving

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Speaker 1: in on my inheritance.

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Speaker 6: I know, I can't tell you because you will try

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Speaker 6: to fly there. I can't tell you. Why would I

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Speaker 6: try to think I would try to intervene. She couldn't

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Speaker 6: hang out with my mom.

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Speaker 3: Yes, you would.

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Speaker 1: You talked at my mom probably more than I do.

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Speaker 3: You would try to get in the middle of our date,

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Speaker 3: and we can't have that.

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Speaker 1: Don't take my mom.

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Speaker 2: To the adult naked porny website, water slide wherever you're going.

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Speaker 3: Oh, she didn't want to set it up.

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Speaker 1: Set it up. Yeah, she's a regular. That's my name

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Speaker 1: at the door, she said, right, Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: Have you ever have you ever found out something like

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Speaker 2: that about your parents? Have any of you were I'm

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Speaker 2: just curious eight five five five three five have you

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Speaker 2: ever found out that, like your parents, who you believe

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Speaker 2: to be unassuming whatever, you're you're grown up now you're

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Speaker 2: not in the house anymore, and you find out that

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Speaker 2: like they go on vacation to one of those hedonism places,

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Speaker 2: or they go to like a swinger's place, or I'm

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Speaker 2: not even trying to be like, well, yeah, there's a place.

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Speaker 2: There's a place in Illinois called the Ciberis, which is

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Speaker 2: a hotel that is exactly what I'm imagining Kiki's going to,

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Speaker 2: except hers has water slides, And then again, I think

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Speaker 2: this one does too. Actually, but Essentially, it's a hotel

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Speaker 2: where the rooms are.

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Speaker 1: It's set up to go do that. It's set up

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Speaker 1: to go that. That's the persons like hot tub.

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Speaker 2: In the room and like your ears are the ceilings

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Speaker 2: and whatever, like the cibber. It's intended for you to

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Speaker 2: go just to grown up stuff that you don't go there,

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Speaker 2: like that's not the place you stay on a road

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Speaker 2: trip when you're on your way to you know, Tuscaloosa

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Speaker 2: or whatever. Like you you don't just pull over there,

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Speaker 2: you know, for a nice rest, like you're going there

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Speaker 2: to have an affair. You're going there to do something crazy.

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Speaker 2: It turns out Jason's parents used to hang out there

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Speaker 2: when he was growing up, and they had no idea.

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Speaker 9: Frequent fires or he had no idea he had the

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Speaker 2: I feel like your dad, Klein would be because your

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Speaker 2: parents should divorce, you have your stepdad and then you

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Speaker 2: have your dad. I feel like the way that you

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Speaker 2: describe your dad, he'd be the kind of guy that

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Speaker 2: you would find out, you know, goes to one of

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Speaker 2: these like I don't know, has some sort of riskue

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Speaker 3: Oh, I mean my dad.

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Speaker 10: I can remember my dad going to Raves, like, my

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Speaker 10: dad is a partier. He was rather so, Yeah, I

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Speaker 10: mean I definitely believe that, and he spares no detail,

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Speaker 10: so I do know about it. Unfortunately I didn't have

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Speaker 10: to find out from anyone else.

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Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure that this person, pretty sure this person

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Speaker 2: did not mean what they just texted. It surprises me

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Speaker 2: to hear that Fred says an adult porn naked water

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Speaker 2: park would be his fantasy, considering how homophobic he is. Oh,

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Speaker 2: but the next sentence is, imagine the nastiness I'm assuming

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Speaker 2: you met germophobic?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because I'm very much not homophobic. So again I

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Speaker 2: would have nothing nothing on the text line, which surprised

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Speaker 2: me these days, except the next line says, can you

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Speaker 2: imagine the nastiness?

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Speaker 1: I mean, I assume you mean. I assume you mean germophobic.

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Speaker 1: Let's go with that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because I am not the ladder or the former.

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Speaker 2: I am the ladder, so I assume. Yeah, And honestly,

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Speaker 2: it is not, in fact my fantasy. And no, I

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Speaker 2: would not go there because of the germs, because imagine

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Speaker 2: if you went to a place where that's all that

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Speaker 2: they that's what it's intended to be, and that's all

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Speaker 2: they do there, you know. Then I mean hotels are

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Speaker 2: like that anyway. But if you went to a hotel

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Speaker 2: that's specialized in just being nasty, then yeah, you can

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Speaker 2: assume there's DNA everywhere. So anyway, okay, So I was

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Speaker 2: just curious if anybody knew of any sort of like,

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Speaker 2: oh wait, we do Oh hold on a second, Lizzie, Hey, Lizzie,

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Speaker 1: I still don't know what that means.

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Speaker 2: But did you have and then Jason's parents went to like,

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Speaker 11: So my parents are the epitome of old people couples.

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Speaker 12: There's seventy four.

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Speaker 11: They met at the Playboy Club in Chicago.

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Speaker 1: I love that. Lizzie.

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Speaker 2: All right, well i'll meet you there, have a good day.

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Speaker 11: And then I slipped up because she was really into tattoos,

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Speaker 11: There's this guy here and he's literally got tattoos everywhere.

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Speaker 3: And she's like, wait a minute, what didn't.

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Speaker 11: He was a very well, yeah, my friend was a

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Speaker 14: You know, he was right, Wow, it's different.

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Speaker 2: Now, when you you use the term friend loosely, I

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Speaker 11: No, we were, you know, kind of friends with benefits.

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Speaker 14: You know, he's my fun friend.

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Speaker 2: Hey, everybody needs a fun friend. Yeah, but thus, of

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Speaker 2: thank you. I have a great day you too. One

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Speaker 2: It makes me wonder how much stuff our parents have

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Speaker 3: About that I'm good unknowing, Like.

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Speaker 2: Paulina, you know, I love Mama Marta deeply, but I

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Speaker 15: Still might be you guys, Like she tells me all

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Speaker 3: Divorce like doing my thing.

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Speaker 15: You know, I got my little granddaughter, Like she's really

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Speaker 3: And she goes missing on weekends. You guys know that. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Do you think she has a boyfriend she won't tell

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Speaker 15: One thing about Marta that I knew before children, so

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Speaker 3: Running circles around her. That's what my aunt literally told me.

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Speaker 15: They're like, yeah, she was that girl obviously, so and

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Speaker 3: So I feel like she's bringing that back. So I

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Speaker 15: Would have a serious relationship like a boyfriend, but she

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't be surprised. Yeah, she'll get married again.

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Speaker 15: She's a smart woman, like she's like I would.

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm gonna tell my mom not to hang out

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Speaker 1: It's really none of my business.

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Speaker 2: I want to know, and I think I know the answer,

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Speaker 2: This woman named Steph, is from New Jersey. She shared

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Speaker 9: Uplift some of my female counterparts in this world, because.

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Speaker 2: The problem is a lot of guys are gonna do

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Speaker 2: it couldn't have been me. I don't talk to strangers,

443
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Speaker 2: so it couldn't have been me. But I will be honest,

444
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Speaker 2: I'm I don't know what the proper etiquette is anymore

445
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Speaker 2: or what generation considers creepy and what another generation does it,

446
00:18:31,840 --> 00:18:34,520
Speaker 2: because I do think there's a whole generation of folks

447
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Speaker 2: that think they're just interacting with people that you don't

448
00:18:36,960 --> 00:18:39,400
Speaker 2: know is weird. But then again, how are you ever

449
00:18:39,440 --> 00:18:40,800
Speaker 2: going to get the guy to walk up to you

450
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Speaker 2: in the bar, you know, or whatever else if that's

451
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Speaker 2: what's being perpetuated. So I don't know, was this just

452
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Speaker 2: a really sweet move or is this guy a total

453
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Speaker 2: creep And would it work? But here's the thing, be honest,

454
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Speaker 2: would it work? Would it only work if you were

455
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Speaker 2: wildly attracted to the guy who did it to you?

456
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Speaker 2: Or would it be the kind of move where you

457
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Speaker 2: might see a guy to be more attractive because he

458
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Speaker 2: did it because it was bold.

459
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Speaker 10: I mean, there's nothing left to do with his situation,

460
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Speaker 10: Like he just said I was beautiful in this scenario,

461
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Speaker 10: and so I'd be like, okay, thanks and like keep

462
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Speaker 10: it moving. So I don't know about working quote unquote,

463
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Speaker 10: but I would think it was very nice.

464
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Speaker 2: Is there a world where you would have like stood

465
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Speaker 2: up and followed the guy and been like, hey, wait

466
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Speaker 2: a minute.

467
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Speaker 1: Probably not, because that's the thing. I think this was

468
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Speaker 1: a flawed taxtic.

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Speaker 3: He am creepy.

470
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Speaker 1: But no, but see I don't I think I don't.

471
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Speaker 2: I don't know that I would have thought that was

472
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Speaker 2: that was what I would have hoped you would have

473
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Speaker 2: done if I did something like that. So here you are,

474
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Speaker 2: like you're thinking that it would be creepy for me

475
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Speaker 2: to then follow up with the guy, but obvious, I mean,

476
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Speaker 2: I gotta think that's what he was hoping was going

477
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Speaker 2: to happen, that it would form some kind of dialogue.

478
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Speaker 10: But because there was no number and there was no

479
00:19:45,720 --> 00:19:47,960
Speaker 10: you know, other instructions, I would think he just.

480
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Speaker 3: Wanted me to know that he thought I was beautiful

481
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Speaker 3: and I.

482
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Speaker 1: Just move on, or you would have had to have

483
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Speaker 1: stood up and gone and talked to.

484
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Speaker 3: Him right, which I would not ever do.

485
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Speaker 2: So there was a flawed tactic to begin with, so

486
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Speaker 2: that maybe that was it then, I'm not sure.

487
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Speaker 3: Yeah, but i'd be like, oh, that's so nice.

488
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Speaker 2: I did someth like this once and it did work.

489
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Speaker 2: My sister was with me. Actually it was a long

490
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Speaker 2: time ago. I can't remember I have. I took a

491
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Speaker 2: picture of the note. I have it somewhere. I just

492
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Speaker 2: I was somewhere and I saw somebody and it was

493
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Speaker 2: in a restaurant. The person worked at the restaurant, and

494
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Speaker 2: then we, my sister and I went and had drinks.

495
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Speaker 1: She say that girl was cute. I'm like, she was cute,

496
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Speaker 1: and she's like, write her.

497
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Speaker 3: A note, and you said, I've been all around the world.

498
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Speaker 1: Yeah, actually it was this note.

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Speaker 14: This guy.

500
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Speaker 1: Yeah, this guy copied me, Like, what's it watching? Is

501
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Speaker 1: he know this person? Now?

502
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Speaker 2: I don't know IF's because my sister was there when

503
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Speaker 2: I went back and handed it to her. I don't

504
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Speaker 2: know if like that made me feel disarming, even though

505
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Speaker 2: for a long time people thought I was dating my

506
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Speaker 2: sister because I don't know why they the same. Apparently

507
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Speaker 2: every female and male that are together who might be

508
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Speaker 2: in this similar age demographic and there maybe you know,

509
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Speaker 2: attractive people, they must be getting it on.

510
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Speaker 1: There's no way that they're like.

511
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Speaker 2: Friends or coworkers or family, right, there's no way possible.

512
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Speaker 2: But I worked, I mean probably three minutes later my

513
00:21:00,880 --> 00:21:04,320
Speaker 2: phone went, but there was I put my number on it. Yeah, yeah,

514
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Speaker 2: So I don't know, would does ever work on anybody?

515
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Speaker 2: And would as as as womankind, would you encourage men

516
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Speaker 2: to be this bold?

517
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Speaker 3: I do.

518
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Speaker 15: I think it's kind of cool, like I'm here for

519
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Speaker 15: like the vintage of it, the vintage part of it

520
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Speaker 15: of just you know, sliding a note, leaving your number.

521
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Speaker 15: I need next steps though, because again, if I see

522
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Speaker 15: a woman chasing a man down the whatever, the terminal,

523
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Speaker 15: because you know, the pilot's already down the terminal and

524
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Speaker 15: he didn't leave next steps, like no, mam, sit down,

525
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Speaker 15: because I feel like he just did it just surely

526
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Speaker 15: to be nice or just I don't know, to leave

527
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Speaker 15: a compliment, or maybe he does have three families. I

528
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Speaker 15: don't know, but it's not giving he wanted to pursue

529
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Speaker 15: this because he would have left, wouldn't you leave?

530
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Speaker 3: Next steps of like here's my even, here's my Instagram

531
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Speaker 3: even like anything, right my email.

532
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Speaker 1: It's weird that he signed it, though, because somebody's going, like,

533
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Speaker 1: somebody out there knows what that signature looks like. So

534
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Speaker 1: it does kind of say his name sort of only

535
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Speaker 1: if she posts it, you know what she did?

536
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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, which he did, so someone knows that we're

537
00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:05,639
Speaker 2: talking about this guy. Though, someone knows who this guy is,

538
00:22:06,119 --> 00:22:08,159
Speaker 2: and and there's probably somebody out there who looked at that.

539
00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:09,280
Speaker 1: But what if the guy is married?

540
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Speaker 2: So I guess I don't know why you'd sign it

541
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Speaker 2: if you were trying to be if you were trying

542
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Speaker 2: to be discreet, I don't know.

543
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Speaker 1: Maybe you just have to know.

544
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Speaker 15: Yeah, maybe I don't know. I need next steps if

545
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Speaker 15: this is like something you're trying to pursue. If you

546
00:22:22,080 --> 00:22:24,720
Speaker 15: want Dace, you need to come tell me and.

547
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Speaker 3: Leave me a phone.

548
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Speaker 1: I don't want to run after him.

549
00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:27,200
Speaker 3: I'm not running.

550
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Speaker 1: And then it turns around and you have this romantic embrace.

551
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Speaker 3: One's never chasing me. Yeah, I'll never chase a man that.

552
00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:41,960
Speaker 1: He doesn't want you to chase them. Someone's section.

553
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Speaker 2: I've had men compliment me just to say I'm beautiful

554
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Speaker 2: and nothing else. It's a nice feeling.

555
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Speaker 3: Okay, nice, that's nice. I don't know nice though.

556
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Speaker 9: I always try to give compliments to girls. I wonder

557
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Speaker 9: if they think I'm hitting on them. We want to

558
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Speaker 9: to you like you're like your new color. I think

559
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Speaker 9: that alone, just the way you said it right there

560
00:23:03,359 --> 00:23:07,880
Speaker 9: and gives it. Yeah, yeah, I would feel fairly confident

561
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Speaker 9: that you were not, in fact hitting on a woman

562
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Speaker 9: if you were to deliver the message in that way.

563
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Speaker 1: Just one more time, give me an example. Okay, Like, girl,

564
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Speaker 1: I love your nail color. It's so cute.

565
00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:23,360
Speaker 2: Right, yeah, so I'm confident that you are not right

566
00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:24,040
Speaker 2: right exactly.

567
00:23:24,880 --> 00:23:26,440
Speaker 1: There's nothing about that, right.

568
00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:30,720
Speaker 2: I feel good about that, not being threatening whatsoever?

569
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Speaker 1: Got it?

570
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Speaker 14: Yeah?

571
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Speaker 1: Good, I'm glad. But then do straight, Jason, let's hear

572
00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:37,600
Speaker 1: how that sounds. Hey, girl, I like them jeans. Let

573
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Speaker 1: me get up in them, you know.

574
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Speaker 2: Also confident that nobody would believe me, Also quite confident that, yeah, no,

575
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Speaker 2: I think you're fine all around. You can give all

576
00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:49,640
Speaker 2: the compliments you want in whichever character voice you want.

577
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Speaker 2: It is the frend show. Good morning. Thanks for having

578
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Speaker 2: us on the radio. On the iHeart app Live at anytime.

579
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Speaker 2: Search for the Fread Show on demand. I don't know

580
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Speaker 2: if I have a theme song for Gideon, but Body

581
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Speaker 2: by Gideon Person Trainer to the Stars and me, uh,

582
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Speaker 2: is your.

583
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Speaker 1: High, Gideon?

584
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Speaker 7: What's going on?

585
00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:08,960
Speaker 1: Look? Look at this guy? Look at this guy? Can

586
00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:09,159
Speaker 1: you do?

587
00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:13,440
Speaker 2: He just radiates happiness and positivity, And it's so annoying

588
00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:16,560
Speaker 2: because he's so good looking, and he has this great

589
00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:19,000
Speaker 2: smile and he sounds like that. Well I'm huffing and

590
00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:22,360
Speaker 2: puffing and having a heart attack and needing resuscitation. He's

591
00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:26,600
Speaker 2: still smiling and sounding like that. Like it's so frustrating.

592
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Speaker 7: Gideon, Fred is not frustrating.

593
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Speaker 16: We have a good time when never wear together.

594
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Speaker 7: It sometimes you just don't realize it until it's over.

595
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Speaker 1: You're right, you're right.

596
00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:38,399
Speaker 2: But we have a we have our intern here, Bellahamine,

597
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Speaker 2: who answers the phone and responds to many of the

598
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Speaker 2: text messages.

599
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Speaker 1: And you said to me the other day that you

600
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Speaker 1: want to go couch to Chicago marathon, right right.

601
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Speaker 3: Well, not Chicago. I'm doing a half marathon at the

602
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Speaker 3: end of September.

603
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Speaker 2: Okay, So you haven't from now May, June, July, August.

604
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Speaker 2: So you have five months. Yeah, I've been a while

605
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Speaker 2: to run a half marathon. And so now tell Gideon

606
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Speaker 2: where we're at, because you've run how many marathons?

607
00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:03,679
Speaker 3: Now?

608
00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:04,760
Speaker 1: Six? Seven?

609
00:25:05,960 --> 00:25:06,600
Speaker 7: I run seven?

610
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Speaker 16: But who's counting me?

611
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Speaker 1: I'm counting. This guy's been la this guy's done Chicago

612
00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:15,680
Speaker 1: many times, he's done Houston, he's done New York. Wow,

613
00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:18,320
Speaker 1: he ran around the world one time.

614
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I could see that.

615
00:25:19,720 --> 00:25:23,000
Speaker 1: He climbed out Everest six times. It's crazy and all

616
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Speaker 1: while I ran one mile, So it's crazy. So where

617
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Speaker 1: are we at in our journey so far? Two days in?

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Speaker 17: We're about two days in right now. My back is

619
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Speaker 17: hurting like no other. I didn't know your back hurts

620
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Speaker 17: when you run, you guys, I didn't know the spots, everything,

621
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Speaker 17: everything hurts.

622
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Speaker 1: So how much have we run? Cumulatively?

623
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Speaker 11: Like?

624
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Speaker 1: What kind of running? What have we accomplished in two days?

625
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Speaker 3: We've done?

626
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Speaker 17: Like a run walk walk walk run kind of a

627
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Speaker 17: situation where I start to get embarrassed. The people behind

628
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Speaker 17: me are looking at me, They're like, why is this

629
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Speaker 17: girl just running and walking? So I like motivate myself

630
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Speaker 17: to keep running. But then I stopped because we had

631
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Speaker 17: to learn.

632
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Speaker 2: Gideon and said to teach me this is no one's

633
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Speaker 2: actually looking at you. You should just know. And they

634
00:26:01,680 --> 00:26:04,119
Speaker 2: might be, but they're not really internalizing, so no one's

635
00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:05,120
Speaker 2: really judging you.

636
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Speaker 1: There's that that the right right indion, that's.

637
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Speaker 7: The one correct. Everybody has their own problems and struggles,

638
00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:13,560
Speaker 7: and no one's concerned about the other person.

639
00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:14,040
Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 17: That's my biggest thing is I feel like I look

641
00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:17,760
Speaker 17: like an idiot out there because I also run, like

642
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Speaker 17: my legs go like side to side, like they just

643
00:26:20,920 --> 00:26:21,800
Speaker 17: look a little silly.

644
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Speaker 1: They go side to side.

645
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Speaker 3: Yeah, that might be a something are.

646
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Speaker 17: And I just always ran like this and like people,

647
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Speaker 17: my friends always make fun of me, and it's like,

648
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Speaker 17: you know, I feel like people look at it when

649
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Speaker 17: they like I run, my legs go out.

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Speaker 7: See.

651
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Speaker 1: But here's the good news. The good news is that

652
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Speaker 1: you can blend in.

653
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Speaker 2: Imagine me six five and forty pounds, like trotting down

654
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Speaker 2: the Lakers, like, who is this NBA player who's out

655
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Speaker 2: of clearly out of shape and hasn't been in the

656
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Speaker 2: league in fifteen years, Like that's what they look when

657
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Speaker 2: they think of me. And then they see this very

658
00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:54,439
Speaker 2: good looking, fit guy, and they're like, he must be

659
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Speaker 2: paying him. You know what it looks like more on

660
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Speaker 2: the lakefront. It looks like I hired someone to go

661
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Speaker 2: on a date with me, you.

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Speaker 1: Know what I mean? Because like one is, no one

663
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Speaker 1: is saying like this guy, the tall like guy that

664
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Speaker 1: looks like a moron running that that man is not

665
00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:12,000
Speaker 1: electively training with him, Like no one thinks that I'm coming,

666
00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:14,040
Speaker 1: that he's coming to me for any.

667
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:16,400
Speaker 17: Form of inspiration. Yes, so don't worry about how you look.

668
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:19,000
Speaker 17: But I look like a sad child, you know. It's

669
00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:24,840
Speaker 17: like running away from home on the past, like.

670
00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:28,520
Speaker 3: Their parents ever taught how to run? Like it just

671
00:27:28,560 --> 00:27:29,800
Speaker 3: running away from her trouble.

672
00:27:30,240 --> 00:27:32,600
Speaker 1: So Gideon, what should she do? Like, what's the progression here?

673
00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:38,200
Speaker 18: Well, first and foremost, congratulations on making a decision and

674
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:40,680
Speaker 18: working towards that, because a lot of people don't give

675
00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:44,520
Speaker 18: themselves credit for the fact that it takes some courage.

676
00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:46,320
Speaker 7: To kind of put yourself out there, especially on the

677
00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:48,400
Speaker 7: radio on the Fread show, I know, and just tell

678
00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:51,359
Speaker 7: your friends and family that you have this audacious goal

679
00:27:51,560 --> 00:27:53,679
Speaker 7: and you're actually doing something to work towards it. So

680
00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:57,159
Speaker 7: make congratulations to you and then I would say that, like,

681
00:27:57,560 --> 00:28:00,000
Speaker 7: this is a journey and it's not going to be perfect.

682
00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:01,800
Speaker 7: I say this in print all the time. You're going

683
00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:04,119
Speaker 7: to stumble a little bit, you may feel awkward or

684
00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:06,800
Speaker 7: it's a cure at times, but you're doing something good

685
00:28:06,840 --> 00:28:09,119
Speaker 7: for yourself, and you're doing something that's going to challenge

686
00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:10,919
Speaker 7: you and change you positively.

687
00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:11,960
Speaker 3: So she's crying a lot.

688
00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:14,440
Speaker 7: That to be a reward, you know what I mean,

689
00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:17,120
Speaker 7: and its process and you'll learn so much about yourself

690
00:28:17,119 --> 00:28:18,960
Speaker 7: as you go through it. So it's not going to

691
00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:19,800
Speaker 7: be perfect, but.

692
00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:21,960
Speaker 16: You will grow and you will be glad that you.

693
00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:22,760
Speaker 7: Took that first step.

694
00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:23,679
Speaker 3: Thank you, Gideon.

695
00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:26,560
Speaker 17: I have one question for you that's really like keeps

696
00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:29,359
Speaker 17: me up at night about running. So I look close

697
00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:31,639
Speaker 17: to a path on the lake, but I would like

698
00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:34,760
Speaker 17: to run to the path, but there's lights, like traffic lights.

699
00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:38,320
Speaker 3: What do you do there as the stop light? Like

700
00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:39,360
Speaker 3: do I stop running?

701
00:28:39,400 --> 00:28:40,320
Speaker 1: You do what I do, and.

702
00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:43,320
Speaker 2: You pray that it goes longer. But the traffic light

703
00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:47,520
Speaker 2: lasts longer. You just pray. You pray that like not

704
00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:49,720
Speaker 2: that anyone gets hurt in the accident, but you pray

705
00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:51,440
Speaker 2: for an accident that blocks the road.

706
00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:53,600
Speaker 1: And then you have to go home. Now what do

707
00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:54,160
Speaker 1: you do? Get it?

708
00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:57,479
Speaker 7: So it depends on how you want to approach it.

709
00:28:57,520 --> 00:28:59,479
Speaker 7: So you can stand at the light and jog. I'm

710
00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:01,680
Speaker 7: sure you've seen it many times. But what I like

711
00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:04,479
Speaker 7: to do is I double back. You generally are going

712
00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:07,000
Speaker 7: to figure out how long these lights are, especially if

713
00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:09,280
Speaker 7: that's a normal path for you. So if I'm coming

714
00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:11,840
Speaker 7: up on the red light, out, circle around, run back

715
00:29:11,840 --> 00:29:13,840
Speaker 7: from where I just came from, I kind of time

716
00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:17,280
Speaker 7: it up so that that lights in his drain, I'm pretty.

717
00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:19,200
Speaker 16: Close to circle back again, and now just.

718
00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:21,160
Speaker 7: Make that cross. So this way, I didn't break stride

719
00:29:21,320 --> 00:29:22,840
Speaker 7: and I'm keeping my energy moving forward.

720
00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:24,840
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we don't want to break strid. We never

721
00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:27,400
Speaker 2: we never do that. Never do we break the stride

722
00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:29,720
Speaker 2: to stop at the hot dog standing. I have a

723
00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:33,480
Speaker 2: little something to eat. You know that, No man, because

724
00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:35,640
Speaker 2: somettimes he tricks me and he says we're running to

725
00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:38,200
Speaker 2: raising canes and I'm like, we are, and then we

726
00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:41,240
Speaker 2: never get there. We never we never go there. Exit

727
00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:44,200
Speaker 2: Yeah exactly. Okay, So then as far as getting like

728
00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:46,320
Speaker 2: for people who want to get off the couch and

729
00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:49,080
Speaker 2: then go to a like, let's say a five k

730
00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:52,280
Speaker 2: or me next month, there you go do it? So like, okay,

731
00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:55,320
Speaker 2: so maybe five k's like the first goal, So then

732
00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:57,760
Speaker 2: what would be like how would we, in simple terms,

733
00:29:57,840 --> 00:30:01,120
Speaker 2: get there from couch to with a stroller?

734
00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:01,680
Speaker 3: Because that's.

735
00:30:03,440 --> 00:30:03,760
Speaker 1: Okay.

736
00:30:04,360 --> 00:30:06,520
Speaker 16: By the way, I think you should share those details

737
00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:08,160
Speaker 16: on when this five k is going to be because

738
00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:09,840
Speaker 16: I may show up and we may have some of

739
00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:19,960
Speaker 16: the thirteen that want to join you in support too.

740
00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:22,160
Speaker 2: That's not the thing, very illegal now that the biggest

741
00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:23,560
Speaker 2: past it in the city council.

742
00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:25,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, how do you do that?

743
00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:27,520
Speaker 7: I'll say this, anybody, anybody who's looking to get off

744
00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:29,960
Speaker 7: the couch and get going needs to do just that. Bella,

745
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:33,320
Speaker 7: I love your approach of running and walking. People don't

746
00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:35,920
Speaker 7: give walking enough credit. Like that is a great way

747
00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:38,720
Speaker 7: to start, a great way to break up your run

748
00:30:38,800 --> 00:30:40,840
Speaker 7: so that you're not doing too much too soon. I

749
00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:42,760
Speaker 7: know you were saying that your back is hurting, and

750
00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:45,000
Speaker 7: I know you're pushing yourself at certain times because you

751
00:30:45,080 --> 00:30:48,000
Speaker 7: maybe feel insecure that other people are watching and judging.

752
00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:51,040
Speaker 7: But take those walks, take those breaks, and watch how

753
00:30:51,040 --> 00:30:52,600
Speaker 7: your endurance improves.

754
00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:54,080
Speaker 16: And then you can actually.

755
00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:57,400
Speaker 7: Make a note on how you're improving in the fact

756
00:30:57,400 --> 00:30:59,080
Speaker 7: that you don't have to walk as much or walk

757
00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:02,840
Speaker 7: along time. So just getting started and giving yourself a

758
00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:05,560
Speaker 7: lot of grace in this process, especially if it's something

759
00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:07,600
Speaker 7: that you haven't done in a while or ever have done,

760
00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:11,080
Speaker 7: because you just need that great that time that's going

761
00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:13,840
Speaker 7: to allow you to make those developments and changes later.

762
00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:15,040
Speaker 7: So just get going.

763
00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:15,760
Speaker 1: Just get going.

764
00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:18,680
Speaker 7: Grab a friend or two, a family member, some type

765
00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:22,600
Speaker 7: of support system, right, and like I said, do something

766
00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:25,480
Speaker 7: that's going to be fun, encouraging with your dog, with

767
00:31:25,520 --> 00:31:29,720
Speaker 7: your child, by yourself, with friends, and put it out there.

768
00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:33,320
Speaker 7: Like oftentimes, we hold ourselves accountable more when other people

769
00:31:33,440 --> 00:31:35,720
Speaker 7: know that we had this big goal and they're going

770
00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:36,640
Speaker 7: to be checking in on us.

771
00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:38,320
Speaker 2: See, I agree with what he said because you and

772
00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:40,280
Speaker 2: I have the same problem, Bill, and we're worried about

773
00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:41,000
Speaker 2: what other people think.

774
00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:43,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you should see me.

775
00:31:43,200 --> 00:31:45,560
Speaker 2: Like when a pretty girl's running like the opposite direction

776
00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:48,200
Speaker 2: like towards us. Oh my god, my form is on point.

777
00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:51,160
Speaker 2: I'm running like the wind. I'm running. I look like

778
00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:54,000
Speaker 2: Usain Bolt for the amount of time until the very

779
00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:56,920
Speaker 2: moment she crosses and her back is and then I collapse.

780
00:31:57,000 --> 00:32:00,000
Speaker 2: Ex I physically collapse and I need to be resuscitated.

781
00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:03,400
Speaker 2: Gideon knows CPR. I learned, so that's exciting. And he

782
00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:05,960
Speaker 2: carries a depibulator with him, which is wild. I didn't

783
00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:09,320
Speaker 2: know that until I needed so that's true. But Gideon

784
00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:12,320
Speaker 2: is the best, and we're holding you accountable.

785
00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:13,440
Speaker 1: You can do this, you're doing.

786
00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:15,440
Speaker 17: That's why I'm telling people, because I want to be

787
00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:16,600
Speaker 17: held accountable.

788
00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:17,840
Speaker 2: What I did do I want the radio and said,

789
00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:19,920
Speaker 2: I'm gonna lose thirty pounds because I want to guess it.

790
00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:21,360
Speaker 1: I had to because then he looks stupid. If you

791
00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:24,800
Speaker 1: don't in your shirt right now, Fred, I'm swimming in

792
00:32:24,840 --> 00:32:28,720
Speaker 1: my you can barely see me. I disappeared.

793
00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:33,080
Speaker 2: Well, this guy, this guy, you know, I pay him

794
00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:34,640
Speaker 2: to be my friend and he shows up and I

795
00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:36,880
Speaker 2: had no choice and he doesn't let me make excuses.

796
00:32:36,920 --> 00:32:38,280
Speaker 2: I'll be like, I don't know. He's like, all right,

797
00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:40,960
Speaker 2: we're going, and then before long I'm dead. How do

798
00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:45,120
Speaker 2: people so get fit with giddy right on the socials?

799
00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:48,600
Speaker 16: Yes, sir, that's right, that's me all right.

800
00:32:48,600 --> 00:32:49,720
Speaker 2: Any other way they get a hold of you, don't

801
00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:51,520
Speaker 2: give out your phone number. You won't like the closer again.

802
00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:54,960
Speaker 7: Now hit me up on the ground. That's the best way.

803
00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:58,600
Speaker 7: You can also check out my website Gideon dot com

804
00:32:58,840 --> 00:33:01,120
Speaker 7: g I D E went the a k A n

805
00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:05,000
Speaker 7: d e dot com for all types of workouts fitness advice.

806
00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:06,000
Speaker 18: I'm here for you.

807
00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:08,440
Speaker 1: Ye, Kiki's on there looking at you right now.

808
00:33:08,560 --> 00:33:10,520
Speaker 3: I've never felt more motivated in my life.

809
00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:11,760
Speaker 1: So see this is what I mean.

810
00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:13,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm about to get you run.

811
00:33:13,120 --> 00:33:14,640
Speaker 1: It is this man radiates it.

812
00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:17,080
Speaker 2: It's impossible, Like right now, you want to run a marathon,

813
00:33:17,080 --> 00:33:17,640
Speaker 2: don't you.

814
00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:20,520
Speaker 3: Well, I was thinking run down the hallway, but you.

815
00:33:20,480 --> 00:33:24,560
Speaker 1: Know, we got to start somewhere. We got to start somewhere.

816
00:33:25,080 --> 00:33:27,480
Speaker 7: K I am so glad you're motivated right now.

817
00:33:27,560 --> 00:33:28,920
Speaker 16: Let me know when we have our first session.

818
00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:29,640
Speaker 7: I've been waiting for that.

819
00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:31,000
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm waited soon.

820
00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:36,120
Speaker 1: I'll see you later.

821
00:33:39,360 --> 00:33:42,920
Speaker 2: This is what I mean like it's it's it's irritatingly positive.

822
00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:46,560
Speaker 4: Oh yes, yes, he's very positive, very mean you.

823
00:33:46,800 --> 00:33:51,120
Speaker 3: Well, it's just like I'm positive what you are. I

824
00:33:51,240 --> 00:33:55,760
Speaker 3: feel like I am you are like in certain things.

825
00:33:56,320 --> 00:33:58,800
Speaker 2: All right, Well, there you go, marks mark the tape.

826
00:33:58,840 --> 00:34:01,120
Speaker 2: Mark today. It happened. You committed. Now it's how you're

827
00:34:01,160 --> 00:34:01,479
Speaker 2: doing it.

828
00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:02,080
Speaker 3: I'm doing it.

829
00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:08,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're doing it. More fread show next, well up

830
00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:09,600
Speaker 1: in the city.

831
00:34:10,680 --> 00:34:12,960
Speaker 2: Why are people taking anything they don't know what they're taking,

832
00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:17,040
Speaker 2: asked questions before you put things in your mouth?

833
00:34:17,320 --> 00:34:21,719
Speaker 6: Now Fread's show, is your partners us?

834
00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:25,759
Speaker 3: Your tooth brush almost broke up? Yeah, I'm some of

835
00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:26,120
Speaker 3: you does.

836
00:34:27,000 --> 00:34:28,680
Speaker 1: I had. I had a girl to do that one time.

837
00:34:29,080 --> 00:34:31,200
Speaker 2: We were in a hotel and she wasn't expected to

838
00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:33,200
Speaker 2: be there and she just I see her brushing her

839
00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:36,400
Speaker 2: teeth and I was like, did you bring a toothbrush

840
00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:38,560
Speaker 2: for you? And she's like, no, I'd the one that

841
00:34:38,640 --> 00:34:40,960
Speaker 2: was in your thing. And I was like, I realized

842
00:34:41,000 --> 00:34:43,279
Speaker 2: that we were just very close to one another. But

843
00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:44,960
Speaker 2: I wasn't between your teeth.

844
00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:45,839
Speaker 3: Right, you know what I mean?

845
00:34:45,880 --> 00:34:51,759
Speaker 1: Like the activities that took place were unspeakable moments ago.

846
00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:55,279
Speaker 1: But I mean, I mean that's different than my plaque.

847
00:34:55,440 --> 00:34:58,560
Speaker 1: It really can we just examine we have.

848
00:34:58,560 --> 00:35:01,359
Speaker 9: The same, like power to brush and I have them

849
00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:03,960
Speaker 9: labeled like one has an M, one has a J,

850
00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:06,920
Speaker 9: so there is no room for error.

851
00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:11,480
Speaker 6: He almost broke up in Mexico over this over international border.

852
00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:13,920
Speaker 1: You know, I threw that thing. I threw that toothbrush

853
00:35:13,960 --> 00:35:15,160
Speaker 1: away went and got another one.

854
00:35:15,239 --> 00:35:18,319
Speaker 3: Yep, but he had to go find me another toth brush.

855
00:35:18,480 --> 00:35:21,319
Speaker 6: He had to go downstairs and bye at the little bar, and.

856
00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:23,719
Speaker 1: He went to the bar.

857
00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:26,200
Speaker 3: Right we were about to break up over that.

858
00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:28,919
Speaker 6: He went to the bar and got you another toothbrush. Yes,

859
00:35:29,040 --> 00:35:32,319
Speaker 6: but you guys do like other and that's what he's saying.

860
00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:34,080
Speaker 6: He's like, come on, but there.

861
00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:38,000
Speaker 1: Is a difference between what is between my teeth and

862
00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:39,360
Speaker 1: in my mouth almost.

863
00:35:39,400 --> 00:35:42,640
Speaker 3: Well, I'm not at all detailed, but I know.

864
00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:43,839
Speaker 1: And I'm not a German phoe.

865
00:35:43,840 --> 00:35:46,600
Speaker 9: But that even drove that is gross because it's literally

866
00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:48,880
Speaker 9: like a device that removes dirt.

867
00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:56,319
Speaker 2: Ever been left waiting by the phone.

868
00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:57,560
Speaker 1: It's the Fredshell and good morning, welcome to the show.

869
00:35:57,600 --> 00:35:59,919
Speaker 14: How are you hey, I'm good good, how are.

870
00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:02,399
Speaker 1: You doing great? Welcome to waiting by the phone.

871
00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:04,279
Speaker 2: So the objective here is we're trying to figure out

872
00:36:04,680 --> 00:36:07,359
Speaker 2: what happened with this woman Sabrina, who you haven't heard

873
00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:09,839
Speaker 2: from since you went out on a date. So can

874
00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:11,480
Speaker 2: you start to give us the backstory here? How did

875
00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:13,759
Speaker 2: you meet Sabrina? Tell us about any dates you've been on,

876
00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:15,760
Speaker 2: and then kind of why you think you're being ghosted.

877
00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:21,600
Speaker 14: Okay, So we met unhinged and we went out twice,

878
00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:25,520
Speaker 14: and you know, we we just cut to the chase.

879
00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:27,840
Speaker 14: Right after we met on the apps, we were really

880
00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:30,360
Speaker 14: really just like, hey, let's hang out, like, you know.

881
00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:33,640
Speaker 14: So we had some drinks at a bar. We had

882
00:36:33,840 --> 00:36:38,240
Speaker 14: so much fun, We got along so well, and I asked,

883
00:36:38,400 --> 00:36:39,800
Speaker 14: I asked Sabrina, I'm like, hey, do you want to

884
00:36:39,840 --> 00:36:41,640
Speaker 14: come back to my house and hang out on the patio,

885
00:36:41,880 --> 00:36:44,800
Speaker 14: have some wine, you know, just chill. And it was

886
00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:49,479
Speaker 14: a beautiful fall night, you know, And so we talked

887
00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:52,360
Speaker 14: for a while. And then the second time that we

888
00:36:52,520 --> 00:36:57,400
Speaker 14: hung out, I invited her over for a movie and dinner,

889
00:36:58,200 --> 00:37:02,960
Speaker 14: and she there's just something off with her that night

890
00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:06,759
Speaker 14: and I couldn't quite tendpoint it. And ever since she

891
00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:11,360
Speaker 14: left from our second day to dinner movie, she's not

892
00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:15,400
Speaker 14: called me back, she's not texted, she's not reaching out

893
00:37:15,520 --> 00:37:18,840
Speaker 14: or answering, and I just like left here wondering what

894
00:37:19,000 --> 00:37:19,880
Speaker 14: the heck happened?

895
00:37:20,760 --> 00:37:23,480
Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, I mean it does happen sometimes that we

896
00:37:23,520 --> 00:37:26,359
Speaker 2: hear about people who have gone on two dates. I mean,

897
00:37:26,520 --> 00:37:28,279
Speaker 2: the first one was good enough for a second one,

898
00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:31,480
Speaker 2: and then things seem to go wrong after the second one,

899
00:37:31,719 --> 00:37:33,680
Speaker 2: and so you've reached out to her. I assume you've

900
00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:35,279
Speaker 2: tried to get a hold of her to schedule another

901
00:37:35,360 --> 00:37:36,680
Speaker 2: date and she's not responding.

902
00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:37,160
Speaker 1: Yeah.

903
00:37:37,200 --> 00:37:39,879
Speaker 14: I mean I haven't been like harassing her hounding her,

904
00:37:39,920 --> 00:37:44,440
Speaker 14: but like, it's definitely a different change. Its shifted. It

905
00:37:44,520 --> 00:37:46,960
Speaker 14: used to be like quick communication, and now I'm getting nothing.

906
00:37:47,120 --> 00:37:50,000
Speaker 2: Okay, So something happened. Well, let's play a song and

907
00:37:50,040 --> 00:37:52,120
Speaker 2: we'll come back and we'll call Sabrina. You'll be on

908
00:37:52,160 --> 00:37:54,160
Speaker 2: the phone. We'll ask all these questions and we'll try

909
00:37:54,160 --> 00:37:55,879
Speaker 2: and see if we can figure out what's up. And

910
00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:58,040
Speaker 2: you know, the hope is always is that we could

911
00:37:58,040 --> 00:38:00,360
Speaker 2: set you guys up on a third date in this case,

912
00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:01,280
Speaker 2: and we'll pay.

913
00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:02,640
Speaker 14: For it, all right, I hope no?

914
00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:03,160
Speaker 18: Thank you?

915
00:38:03,520 --> 00:38:06,040
Speaker 1: Hey Anne? Yeah, I always called Sabrina.

916
00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:07,840
Speaker 2: You guys, you met at one of the dating apps,

917
00:38:07,840 --> 00:38:10,160
Speaker 2: you went out a couple times, you thought everything was

918
00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:12,120
Speaker 2: going well, I mean, two dates, that's usually a good sign,

919
00:38:12,200 --> 00:38:15,160
Speaker 2: except you tried to schedule a third date and you

920
00:38:15,239 --> 00:38:17,759
Speaker 2: haven't gotten any response from Sabrina and you want to

921
00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:18,240
Speaker 2: know why.

922
00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:21,360
Speaker 14: Yeah, yeah, I don't know what happened, right, Okay.

923
00:38:21,080 --> 00:38:22,319
Speaker 1: Well, let's call her now. Good luck.

924
00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:28,880
Speaker 14: Thanks.

925
00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:36,120
Speaker 1: Hello. Hi is this Sabrina?

926
00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:38,840
Speaker 3: Yes, this is Who's this?

927
00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:40,520
Speaker 1: Hi Sabrina, Good morning. My name is Fred.

928
00:38:40,520 --> 00:38:42,680
Speaker 2: I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the morning radio show,

929
00:38:42,719 --> 00:38:43,920
Speaker 2: and I have to tell you that we are on

930
00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:46,880
Speaker 2: the radio right now and I would need your permission

931
00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:48,520
Speaker 2: to continue with the call. Can which chat for just

932
00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:50,080
Speaker 2: a second? You can hang up at any time?

933
00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:51,400
Speaker 14: Uh?

934
00:38:52,080 --> 00:38:53,359
Speaker 19: Yeah, yeah, I can.

935
00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:54,399
Speaker 1: Well, thank you very much.

936
00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:55,839
Speaker 2: I know it's a little bit weird to get called

937
00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:58,240
Speaker 2: by a radio show, but we are calling on behalf

938
00:38:58,280 --> 00:38:58,720
Speaker 2: of someone.

939
00:38:58,719 --> 00:39:01,200
Speaker 1: I guess you went out with race. Her name is Anne.

940
00:39:01,560 --> 00:39:02,960
Speaker 2: You met on one of the apps and went on

941
00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:04,520
Speaker 2: a couple of times. You remember meeting her?

942
00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:05,600
Speaker 19: Yeah?

943
00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:06,200
Speaker 18: Yes?

944
00:39:06,520 --> 00:39:06,719
Speaker 3: Two?

945
00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:08,399
Speaker 1: Okay, good, good? Good?

946
00:39:08,440 --> 00:39:11,319
Speaker 2: Well, So what happened because we talked to Anne for

947
00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:13,200
Speaker 2: a little while and she was telling us that she

948
00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:16,280
Speaker 2: was excited about you, liked you, thought there was a connection,

949
00:39:16,360 --> 00:39:17,759
Speaker 2: and I guess you went back to her place at

950
00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:19,400
Speaker 2: one point on the second date I think it was,

951
00:39:19,480 --> 00:39:22,319
Speaker 2: and she says she's reached out to get a hold

952
00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:24,440
Speaker 2: of you for a third date and that you've gone silent,

953
00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:25,960
Speaker 2: and you know it's bother.

954
00:39:26,200 --> 00:39:27,560
Speaker 1: She wants to know why.

955
00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:32,680
Speaker 19: Yeah, okay, you guys, there's just something I could not

956
00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:39,680
Speaker 19: get over, which is okay. So, uh, I don't I

957
00:39:39,719 --> 00:39:41,960
Speaker 19: don't know. I mean, I'm assuming she's told y'aul.

958
00:39:42,040 --> 00:39:43,239
Speaker 20: I don't know how much she told, y'all.

959
00:39:43,320 --> 00:39:46,160
Speaker 19: But so we met on the app on an app

960
00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:49,240
Speaker 19: and we went out twice and it was really great,

961
00:39:50,280 --> 00:39:52,839
Speaker 19: and we went to a bar once and then back

962
00:39:52,880 --> 00:39:55,520
Speaker 19: to her house. And then the second time she invited

963
00:39:55,560 --> 00:39:57,360
Speaker 19: me back over to her house again for a movie.

964
00:39:57,400 --> 00:39:59,399
Speaker 19: So now I mean I've gone to her house now

965
00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:04,080
Speaker 19: t on the seat. And both dates were a couple

966
00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:06,759
Speaker 19: weeks apart. They weren't like back to back, you know,

967
00:40:06,800 --> 00:40:10,160
Speaker 19: on the same weekend or anything. And so while I

968
00:40:10,200 --> 00:40:13,279
Speaker 19: was at her house and like, I go to the bathroom,

969
00:40:13,719 --> 00:40:19,600
Speaker 19: there is absolutely no soap anywhere, like no handsup, she

970
00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:22,440
Speaker 19: has zero handsop in the bathroom, on the sink. In

971
00:40:22,520 --> 00:40:25,600
Speaker 19: the kitchen, I looked like under the sink. I was

972
00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:27,120
Speaker 19: in the trash thinking like.

973
00:40:27,160 --> 00:40:30,120
Speaker 20: Oh, maybe she just went through the soap already.

974
00:40:30,040 --> 00:40:32,920
Speaker 19: And there is zero signs of soap even in the

975
00:40:33,000 --> 00:40:37,000
Speaker 19: shower and there was nothing. And I was like so

976
00:40:37,239 --> 00:40:40,279
Speaker 19: creeped out because I mean, like I said, there was

977
00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:43,200
Speaker 19: time in between so it's not like, oh, okay, she

978
00:40:43,360 --> 00:40:45,719
Speaker 19: just like ran out of soap yesterday and it's like

979
00:40:45,840 --> 00:40:46,360
Speaker 19: you've got to.

980
00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:46,839
Speaker 14: Go get it.

981
00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:50,360
Speaker 19: No, this was like a couple weeks in between, and

982
00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:53,439
Speaker 19: I was just so grossed out. And then Anna of course,

983
00:40:53,520 --> 00:40:56,240
Speaker 19: is like reaching from my face and wanting to touch

984
00:40:56,360 --> 00:40:58,680
Speaker 19: me and things that I'm like, ew, you're.

985
00:41:00,320 --> 00:41:02,399
Speaker 2: You know you soap, so get your nasty hands off,

986
00:41:03,040 --> 00:41:04,600
Speaker 2: no soap having hands off me?

987
00:41:04,760 --> 00:41:07,520
Speaker 20: Yeah, yeah, yeah, it was super good.

988
00:41:08,760 --> 00:41:10,239
Speaker 1: Let me tell you, well, let me see I there's

989
00:41:10,239 --> 00:41:12,960
Speaker 1: an explanation here, because you know, and I'm very forgetful.

990
00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:14,600
Speaker 2: I get caught up in the story. I forgot to

991
00:41:14,920 --> 00:41:18,480
Speaker 2: tell you that. And what's up with no soap? What

992
00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:21,000
Speaker 2: I mean did you did you run out and for

993
00:41:21,120 --> 00:41:24,359
Speaker 2: weeks didn't get anymore in the shower? I mean maybe

994
00:41:24,520 --> 00:41:26,319
Speaker 2: maybe hands will be ran out, but like I would think,

995
00:41:26,320 --> 00:41:29,400
Speaker 2: you know, when you're bathing, if you do that, I hope.

996
00:41:29,560 --> 00:41:33,840
Speaker 14: I just can't believe that is being sewing nitpicky about.

997
00:41:33,600 --> 00:41:38,080
Speaker 2: My hat picky. I mean, I mean, hygiene is an

998
00:41:38,120 --> 00:41:40,319
Speaker 2: important thing. Do you not have soap? Do you not

999
00:41:40,400 --> 00:41:41,160
Speaker 2: ever have soap?

1000
00:41:41,440 --> 00:41:44,719
Speaker 14: Okay, look, so it's on my list and and it's

1001
00:41:44,719 --> 00:41:47,839
Speaker 14: been a little bit of an off time. But like,

1002
00:41:47,960 --> 00:41:51,480
Speaker 14: soaps are pretty awful for you in general. There's chemicals,

1003
00:41:52,040 --> 00:41:55,560
Speaker 14: you know, I think Americans overwashed anyways, And you know,

1004
00:41:56,440 --> 00:41:57,760
Speaker 14: how do you think we got COVID?

1005
00:41:58,120 --> 00:42:01,799
Speaker 1: I don't you need like covid? Not enough soap? Maybe

1006
00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:02,040
Speaker 1: I don't.

1007
00:42:02,280 --> 00:42:04,280
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm not a scientist and not doctor Fauci,

1008
00:42:04,320 --> 00:42:07,359
Speaker 2: but I don't. I know a lot of people think

1009
00:42:07,360 --> 00:42:09,960
Speaker 2: I am. But so wait, so for look, maybe you're

1010
00:42:10,000 --> 00:42:13,000
Speaker 2: right about Americans overwatching, but for two weeks or something,

1011
00:42:13,040 --> 00:42:14,840
Speaker 2: you didn't have soap, and you just it's just not

1012
00:42:14,880 --> 00:42:15,520
Speaker 2: a priority.

1013
00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:22,040
Speaker 14: That's that's not necessarily the case. I don't just not soap.

1014
00:42:22,120 --> 00:42:25,120
Speaker 14: I think there's just like a need for germs, and

1015
00:42:25,280 --> 00:42:28,240
Speaker 14: I think our immune systems are boosted by having more germs,

1016
00:42:28,560 --> 00:42:32,520
Speaker 14: and I just don't have. I'm sorry, I don't satisfy

1017
00:42:32,560 --> 00:42:33,680
Speaker 14: your soap requirements.

1018
00:42:34,120 --> 00:42:35,640
Speaker 1: I don't know if they're mine. I think they're kind

1019
00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:38,239
Speaker 1: of everybody's. Uh huh.

1020
00:42:38,280 --> 00:42:41,600
Speaker 2: What about do you orderate another sort of uh products

1021
00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:42,320
Speaker 2: for sanitation?

1022
00:42:42,400 --> 00:42:43,880
Speaker 1: Are we are we into that or are we not

1023
00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:44,680
Speaker 1: really into that either?

1024
00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:48,719
Speaker 14: I mean, less chemicals the better, really, Okay, So.

1025
00:42:48,640 --> 00:42:50,880
Speaker 2: We don't know but here's the thing, Sabrina, did he

1026
00:42:50,960 --> 00:42:53,480
Speaker 2: smell bad? I mean you didn't notice that. I guess

1027
00:42:53,480 --> 00:42:55,200
Speaker 2: you noticed there was no soap, But I mean you

1028
00:42:55,200 --> 00:42:56,719
Speaker 2: did hang out with her twice.

1029
00:42:56,400 --> 00:42:58,960
Speaker 19: And no, I know I did go out with her

1030
00:42:58,960 --> 00:43:02,719
Speaker 19: twice and like, yeah, no, there was smell bad.

1031
00:43:02,840 --> 00:43:05,560
Speaker 11: No, But like I'm like, no.

1032
00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:08,480
Speaker 20: If you're not going to be washing your hands, like,

1033
00:43:09,080 --> 00:43:14,200
Speaker 20: I don't know now her response. Honestly, I'm sorry. It's

1034
00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:16,279
Speaker 20: kind of the nail in the coffin, like definitely not.

1035
00:43:16,719 --> 00:43:19,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, we need soap, think, I mean, like, you know,

1036
00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:21,640
Speaker 1: sometimes are.

1037
00:43:21,600 --> 00:43:25,680
Speaker 3: You washing your hands? Ain't watching a cat out here, Dayton.

1038
00:43:25,680 --> 00:43:28,720
Speaker 3: People don't put soap in there.

1039
00:43:31,440 --> 00:43:33,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know if cat, I don't know if

1040
00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:36,080
Speaker 1: water just alone. I don't know if you can just

1041
00:43:36,080 --> 00:43:38,279
Speaker 1: sort of I don't know. Well, I don't know about

1042
00:43:38,320 --> 00:43:42,920
Speaker 1: that at all. But I okay, yeah, I really am.

1043
00:43:43,040 --> 00:43:44,759
Speaker 1: I just I would agree with you.

1044
00:43:44,840 --> 00:43:46,359
Speaker 2: I mean, I've heard you know you should wash your

1045
00:43:46,360 --> 00:43:48,680
Speaker 2: hair every day and that we probably take too many

1046
00:43:48,719 --> 00:43:50,799
Speaker 2: showers our skin gets dry. I get all that, but like,

1047
00:43:50,840 --> 00:43:53,200
Speaker 2: as far as most people, I know, you soap that

1048
00:43:53,239 --> 00:43:57,840
Speaker 2: I'm aware of at least sometimes, so I'll ask the

1049
00:43:57,920 --> 00:44:01,120
Speaker 2: question Sabrina, she was getting around to it. So if

1050
00:44:01,120 --> 00:44:03,480
Speaker 2: she gets around to the soap, would you this is

1051
00:44:03,520 --> 00:44:05,560
Speaker 2: such a weird thing to say, if she gets around

1052
00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:07,279
Speaker 2: to buying soap, would you go out with her?

1053
00:44:07,280 --> 00:44:07,560
Speaker 1: Again?

1054
00:44:08,360 --> 00:44:12,520
Speaker 19: No, because it sounds like she has a moral dilemma

1055
00:44:12,600 --> 00:44:15,600
Speaker 19: with soap, and I have a moral dilemma with that

1056
00:44:15,719 --> 00:44:16,480
Speaker 19: moral dilemma.

1057
00:44:16,560 --> 00:44:18,120
Speaker 14: So unfortunately this will.

1058
00:44:17,960 --> 00:44:20,799
Speaker 2: Be enough for It's quite a dilemma indeed. All right,

1059
00:44:20,840 --> 00:44:22,920
Speaker 2: So she's not interested. Look, Anne, I don't know. I'm

1060
00:44:22,960 --> 00:44:25,680
Speaker 2: not here to judge. She has a smell bad somehow,

1061
00:44:25,760 --> 00:44:29,360
Speaker 2: which is interesting. So and I mean, she's not interested

1062
00:44:29,680 --> 00:44:30,600
Speaker 2: soap in the kitchen.

1063
00:44:30,760 --> 00:44:32,719
Speaker 14: There's soap in the kitchen, Like you could have worked

1064
00:44:32,760 --> 00:44:33,600
Speaker 14: your hands in the kitchen.

1065
00:44:33,680 --> 00:44:36,360
Speaker 3: She said, there wasn't She said, she checked your kitchen.

1066
00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:39,200
Speaker 19: No, I checkt the kitchen for sure, and there was

1067
00:44:39,280 --> 00:44:41,640
Speaker 19: absolutely nothing that I would qualify it.

1068
00:44:41,760 --> 00:44:43,800
Speaker 1: So what do you want to use, dawn or something?

1069
00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:44,000
Speaker 5: Like?

1070
00:44:44,040 --> 00:44:46,560
Speaker 2: When are we using like those little those little things

1071
00:44:46,600 --> 00:44:49,000
Speaker 2: that little things that explode, you know what I'm talking

1072
00:44:49,000 --> 00:44:49,640
Speaker 2: about a little what.

1073
00:44:49,640 --> 00:44:50,320
Speaker 3: Are those pots?

1074
00:44:50,360 --> 00:44:51,520
Speaker 1: Yeah? What are we using spots?

1075
00:44:51,640 --> 00:44:51,719
Speaker 15: Like?

1076
00:44:52,280 --> 00:44:53,440
Speaker 1: What is she supposed to do? Like?

1077
00:44:54,200 --> 00:44:56,399
Speaker 2: I don't use windecks or something. I mean, I want

1078
00:44:56,440 --> 00:44:57,640
Speaker 2: to imagine you probably don't have that.

1079
00:44:57,640 --> 00:45:06,319
Speaker 1: That's chemical cat certainly windows that hard way, certainly not windows. Man,

1080
00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:07,479
Speaker 1: what do you use on this point?

1081
00:45:07,600 --> 00:45:14,040
Speaker 3: Soft us list soap?

1082
00:45:14,200 --> 00:45:16,759
Speaker 14: I think that you just have like you'd have a

1083
00:45:16,800 --> 00:45:18,319
Speaker 14: stronger immune system. I don't know.

1084
00:45:18,400 --> 00:45:22,960
Speaker 1: I don't believe immune system. And that's saying you can Yeah, right, guys,

1085
00:45:23,160 --> 00:45:24,799
Speaker 1: I don't know what to tell you. It's not going

1086
00:45:24,840 --> 00:45:26,359
Speaker 1: to work out. And I wish you both the best

1087
00:45:26,360 --> 00:45:27,480
Speaker 1: of block, thank you for your time.

1088
00:45:30,520 --> 00:45:34,839
Speaker 10: On the Fresh show, Golden Bachelor, Jerry Turner is being

1089
00:45:34,880 --> 00:45:37,560
Speaker 10: accused by his ex Teresa Niss And this is the

1090
00:45:37,560 --> 00:45:40,439
Speaker 10: one that he chose on the show of or met

1091
00:45:40,440 --> 00:45:41,319
Speaker 10: on the show, rather of.

1092
00:45:41,360 --> 00:45:43,960
Speaker 3: Threatening to chop her up and hide her body in

1093
00:45:43,960 --> 00:45:44,320
Speaker 3: a shed.

1094
00:45:45,040 --> 00:45:47,960
Speaker 1: So that's the very boy go bachelor.

1095
00:45:48,480 --> 00:45:49,440
Speaker 3: Is this is true?

1096
00:45:49,480 --> 00:45:51,440
Speaker 1: That is just someone's grandfather.

1097
00:45:51,200 --> 00:45:53,680
Speaker 21: No idea, right, And the fact that I'm saying Golden

1098
00:45:53,719 --> 00:45:56,400
Speaker 21: Bachelor is wild. So she was on a podcast called

1099
00:45:56,440 --> 00:46:00,399
Speaker 21: Deer Shandy I think it's called and recalled visiting at

1100
00:46:00,400 --> 00:46:01,160
Speaker 21: his lake house.

1101
00:46:01,480 --> 00:46:03,240
Speaker 3: This sounds like that waiting by the phone recently.

1102
00:46:03,280 --> 00:46:05,919
Speaker 10: But she said, we took a walk around this lake

1103
00:46:06,040 --> 00:46:09,000
Speaker 10: called Pretty Lake and we were coming to the end

1104
00:46:09,040 --> 00:46:11,319
Speaker 10: of it, and he said, this is really bizarre. He said,

1105
00:46:11,800 --> 00:46:14,720
Speaker 10: you see that shut up there, and she said, yeah, well,

1106
00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:17,520
Speaker 10: I'm going to hide your body after I kill you

1107
00:46:17,600 --> 00:46:20,880
Speaker 10: and chop you up there. She said, he was not

1108
00:46:21,040 --> 00:46:25,120
Speaker 10: laughing when he shared this scary sentiment, and she said, well,

1109
00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:27,080
Speaker 10: if this was his idea of a joke, that was

1110
00:46:27,120 --> 00:46:30,480
Speaker 10: pretty dark humor. She thinks that no, he was never

1111
00:46:30,520 --> 00:46:32,279
Speaker 10: going to actually do that, but he was trying to

1112
00:46:32,640 --> 00:46:36,120
Speaker 10: express some sort of like dark kid in hostility towards her.

1113
00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:40,160
Speaker 10: She's not worried for her life, which is good, but

1114
00:46:40,360 --> 00:46:42,960
Speaker 10: that's that's insane if true. Sounds like the waiting by

1115
00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:45,920
Speaker 10: the phone they met, Like I said, while competing on

1116
00:46:46,280 --> 00:46:49,920
Speaker 10: The Golden Bachelor in twenty twenty three, he got down

1117
00:46:49,960 --> 00:46:54,120
Speaker 10: on one knee and they did end up getting divorced,

1118
00:46:54,120 --> 00:46:57,799
Speaker 10: But that's not great. Kanye West is reportedly behind on

1119
00:46:57,880 --> 00:47:01,319
Speaker 10: property taxes for his childhood home in Chicago, the same

1120
00:47:01,360 --> 00:47:05,040
Speaker 10: house he once restored as part of a community project

1121
00:47:05,080 --> 00:47:08,120
Speaker 10: honoring his late mother, Donda West. Now records show that

1122
00:47:08,239 --> 00:47:11,719
Speaker 10: more than like eight thousand dollars in unpaid taxes on

1123
00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:15,480
Speaker 10: the Southside property now owned by his Donda House Charity.

1124
00:47:15,520 --> 00:47:18,320
Speaker 10: The home purchased by that foundation in twenty eighteen was

1125
00:47:18,360 --> 00:47:21,880
Speaker 10: meant to become a community arts hub, but neighbors say.

1126
00:47:21,719 --> 00:47:24,040
Speaker 3: It's been sitting empty, boarded up for months.

1127
00:47:24,360 --> 00:47:28,960
Speaker 10: The nonprofit, I guess, has been inactive recently after internal debates,

1128
00:47:28,960 --> 00:47:31,200
Speaker 10: which is why the home is vacant. The city is

1129
00:47:31,239 --> 00:47:35,960
Speaker 10: now issuing some warnings, saying that continued non payment could

1130
00:47:36,040 --> 00:47:40,680
Speaker 10: lead to a lean or even foreclosure Atlanta's public transit

1131
00:47:40,800 --> 00:47:45,120
Speaker 10: I Think their Buses specifically unveiled a custom Outcast theme

1132
00:47:45,200 --> 00:47:48,719
Speaker 10: bus celebrating the twenty fifth anniversary of one of their albums,

1133
00:47:48,719 --> 00:47:49,400
Speaker 10: This is Amazing.

1134
00:47:49,400 --> 00:47:49,920
Speaker 3: The black and.

1135
00:47:49,840 --> 00:47:54,040
Speaker 10: White wrapped bus honors Andre three thousand and Big Boys

1136
00:47:54,200 --> 00:47:58,000
Speaker 10: cultural legacy and coincides with their upcoming Rock and Roll

1137
00:47:58,000 --> 00:48:00,960
Speaker 10: Hall of Fame induction. Big Boy actually made a surprise

1138
00:48:01,000 --> 00:48:05,200
Speaker 10: appearance at the unveiling, where they said the tribute recognizes

1139
00:48:05,440 --> 00:48:10,040
Speaker 10: the group's deep ties to Atlanta and even referencing public

1140
00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:14,440
Speaker 10: transit in their lyrics. The bust will cruise through Southwest

1141
00:48:14,480 --> 00:48:18,040
Speaker 10: Atlanta routes for the next year, keeping their legacy kind

1142
00:48:18,040 --> 00:48:19,040
Speaker 10: of rolling through the streets.

1143
00:48:19,040 --> 00:48:22,359
Speaker 3: And in similar news, I did hear that Cardi B's voice.

1144
00:48:22,239 --> 00:48:25,560
Speaker 10: Is officially now out on the subway system in New York,

1145
00:48:25,640 --> 00:48:28,279
Speaker 10: which is pretty crazy. I mean, if she told me

1146
00:48:28,320 --> 00:48:30,560
Speaker 10: to keep it moving or the doors are close closing,

1147
00:48:30,600 --> 00:48:33,120
Speaker 10: like that would be that. I mean, can you imagine

1148
00:48:33,120 --> 00:48:35,560
Speaker 10: like be on public transit in the city you're from.

1149
00:48:35,600 --> 00:48:36,080
Speaker 7: I don't know.

1150
00:48:36,120 --> 00:48:37,839
Speaker 3: I just think that's that's very cool.

1151
00:48:37,960 --> 00:48:40,799
Speaker 15: I know, CTA call me, Yeah, I mean, I am

1152
00:48:40,840 --> 00:48:41,640
Speaker 15: a recording artist.

1153
00:48:41,800 --> 00:48:44,560
Speaker 1: No, it should be you. It really should be on

1154
00:48:44,600 --> 00:48:47,280
Speaker 1: the Orange line, the red line, every line.

1155
00:48:47,800 --> 00:48:50,160
Speaker 10: Some of them give us one quick announcement of how

1156
00:48:50,160 --> 00:48:50,719
Speaker 10: you would do it.

1157
00:48:51,719 --> 00:48:53,960
Speaker 3: We are here, we have made it to our destination.

1158
00:48:54,040 --> 00:48:56,239
Speaker 3: Now get the hell off. Oh. I kind of like it,

1159
00:48:56,280 --> 00:48:57,560
Speaker 3: like close to the point.

1160
00:48:57,600 --> 00:49:01,120
Speaker 1: I think any city could use that. Yeah, right, pick

1161
00:49:01,160 --> 00:49:01,680
Speaker 1: up your garbage.

1162
00:49:01,719 --> 00:49:03,640
Speaker 3: Oh my god, that's a big one. I would say

1163
00:49:03,680 --> 00:49:04,919
Speaker 3: that to you the Frend Show.

1164
00:49:05,520 --> 00:49:06,600
Speaker 1: Yeah great.

1165
00:49:06,880 --> 00:49:09,239
Speaker 10: This is like when you did traffic after coming here

1166
00:49:09,280 --> 00:49:11,239
Speaker 10: from the club and you said, if you haven't left yet,

1167
00:49:11,320 --> 00:49:12,040
Speaker 10: just turn around.

1168
00:49:12,080 --> 00:49:14,239
Speaker 3: Just stay no, really, don't go, don't go stay home.

1169
00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:14,520
Speaker 7: Right.

1170
00:49:15,000 --> 00:49:17,320
Speaker 1: Good advice. I mean, hey, that's relatable advice.

1171
00:49:17,560 --> 00:49:17,759
Speaker 19: There.

1172
00:49:17,800 --> 00:49:20,359
Speaker 3: You go, call her, call her right now. Call me

1173
00:49:20,960 --> 00:49:22,120
Speaker 3: if you want to catch up on anything.

1174
00:49:22,120 --> 00:49:23,600
Speaker 10: You missed, by the way, from our show type the

1175
00:49:23,600 --> 00:49:25,839
Speaker 10: Fred Show on a Man on the Free I heard radio.

1176
00:49:26,000 --> 00:49:28,040
Speaker 2: If you're driving to work right now and maybe your

1177
00:49:28,120 --> 00:49:29,920
Speaker 2: kids around, you can't do this. I want to talk

1178
00:49:29,960 --> 00:49:31,840
Speaker 2: to the people who are like, my kid's kind of

1179
00:49:31,840 --> 00:49:35,720
Speaker 2: a dumb ass.

1180
00:49:32,800 --> 00:49:37,600
Speaker 1: Oh my god, you say it like that, but you

1181
00:49:37,640 --> 00:49:40,279
Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like, yeah, everybody love this. I

1182
00:49:40,400 --> 00:49:43,759
Speaker 1: love everybody knows.

1183
00:49:46,200 --> 00:49:49,520
Speaker 2: Everybody knows the parent, and it's more than not that

1184
00:49:49,600 --> 00:49:52,560
Speaker 2: it's like my kid is exceptional. The teachers just saying

1185
00:49:53,040 --> 00:49:55,839
Speaker 2: or like it's it's sports. Because I have friends now

1186
00:49:55,880 --> 00:49:58,840
Speaker 2: who have kids that are four or five, six, seven,

1187
00:49:58,920 --> 00:50:01,680
Speaker 2: like they're getting into this state where they're we're beginning

1188
00:50:01,719 --> 00:50:03,719
Speaker 2: to see what they're made of. And I don't have

1189
00:50:03,880 --> 00:50:06,239
Speaker 2: very many people in my life who are like everybody's

1190
00:50:06,239 --> 00:50:09,000
Speaker 2: oh my god. The t ball coaches are saying this.

1191
00:50:09,480 --> 00:50:12,320
Speaker 2: The scouts are watching him over, but we're scouts. I

1192
00:50:12,960 --> 00:50:14,480
Speaker 2: don't know that he's even going to I think he

1193
00:50:14,560 --> 00:50:16,360
Speaker 2: might go t ball right to the majors, like, and

1194
00:50:16,400 --> 00:50:19,040
Speaker 2: we're having these conversations and I'm like, really, dude, you

1195
00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:22,319
Speaker 2: know or it's like this. The teachers are saying that

1196
00:50:23,000 --> 00:50:26,560
Speaker 2: this kid is exceptional. Like, honestly, like the teachers are saying,

1197
00:50:26,560 --> 00:50:29,480
Speaker 2: they've never seen intelligence like this before. You know, but

1198
00:50:30,000 --> 00:50:32,640
Speaker 2: very rarely do you hear somebody say a parent, go, honestly,

1199
00:50:32,719 --> 00:50:38,160
Speaker 2: we're we're truly hoping to get through the day.

1200
00:50:39,360 --> 00:50:40,799
Speaker 1: We very rarely hear that.

1201
00:50:41,360 --> 00:50:43,600
Speaker 2: I'd love to hear it, if anyone's willing to be like,

1202
00:50:43,680 --> 00:50:47,759
Speaker 2: I love my child deeply, but I have serious concerns.

1203
00:50:50,120 --> 00:50:53,680
Speaker 1: I would love to hear him. I wrapped this up.

1204
00:50:53,680 --> 00:50:56,120
Speaker 2: The nine hundred and eighteen people they played monopoly to

1205
00:50:56,120 --> 00:50:58,120
Speaker 2: break the world record. How much time did they have?

1206
00:50:58,560 --> 00:51:00,400
Speaker 2: It's for a good cause, though, I mean, is anyone

1207
00:51:00,400 --> 00:51:02,720
Speaker 2: ever finished a Monopoly? That's maybe a topic in itself.

1208
00:51:02,760 --> 00:51:05,600
Speaker 2: Has anyone finished a Monopoly game in the history of

1209
00:51:05,640 --> 00:51:08,040
Speaker 2: the world? Is there ever an end? Where is the

1210
00:51:08,120 --> 00:51:08,880
Speaker 2: end to Monopoly?

1211
00:51:08,960 --> 00:51:09,520
Speaker 1: I've never play.

1212
00:51:09,560 --> 00:51:11,759
Speaker 2: You win well because you can keep buying stuff, you

1213
00:51:11,760 --> 00:51:13,600
Speaker 2: can keep building stuff. What is it if you run out?

1214
00:51:13,600 --> 00:51:14,720
Speaker 2: If everyone runs out of money.

1215
00:51:14,600 --> 00:51:16,480
Speaker 1: Except for you, you're the only one left with money.

1216
00:51:16,560 --> 00:51:19,480
Speaker 2: I guess I've never ever been close to that. A

1217
00:51:19,520 --> 00:51:21,600
Speaker 2: total of nine hundred and eighteen people sat down at

1218
00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:23,880
Speaker 2: one hundred and fifty tables to play simultaneous games of

1219
00:51:23,920 --> 00:51:26,360
Speaker 2: monopoly to break a Guinness World Record in Australia. The

1220
00:51:26,360 --> 00:51:29,600
Speaker 2: record attempt was organized by the Little Legs Foundation, a

1221
00:51:29,680 --> 00:51:32,680
Speaker 2: charity that raises funds and awareness for children with brain cancer,

1222
00:51:32,760 --> 00:51:33,760
Speaker 2: which is a great cause.

1223
00:51:33,760 --> 00:51:35,839
Speaker 1: So why by all means it's good to know your

1224
00:51:35,840 --> 00:51:36,440
Speaker 1: customer's day.

1225
00:51:36,440 --> 00:51:40,800
Speaker 2: It's National Haiku Poetry Day and National Ellis Island Family

1226
00:51:40,960 --> 00:51:44,120
Speaker 2: History Day. He's able talking to someone who's actually willing

1227
00:51:44,160 --> 00:51:44,520
Speaker 2: to admit.

1228
00:51:44,719 --> 00:51:48,440
Speaker 22: No, but Marta and Linda Brown get off off the line,

1229
00:51:49,600 --> 00:51:54,719
Speaker 22: Martha and lean never Hey, Lisa, y your kids a

1230
00:51:54,760 --> 00:51:56,880
Speaker 22: dummy kna kinda.

1231
00:51:57,600 --> 00:52:01,480
Speaker 19: He's looking at me funny right now.

1232
00:52:00,680 --> 00:52:02,520
Speaker 1: Oh, he's there for this.

1233
00:52:03,440 --> 00:52:04,440
Speaker 7: I did a way to school.

1234
00:52:04,600 --> 00:52:06,680
Speaker 2: I did say don't do it in front of your kid.

1235
00:52:07,360 --> 00:52:08,680
Speaker 2: I did suggest.

1236
00:52:08,320 --> 00:52:10,120
Speaker 7: That I told him I should call him.

1237
00:52:10,160 --> 00:52:13,640
Speaker 1: He said, yeah, you should. Now explain to me how

1238
00:52:13,640 --> 00:52:15,360
Speaker 1: old is is this child, Lisa.

1239
00:52:16,000 --> 00:52:16,800
Speaker 11: He's thirteen.

1240
00:52:17,080 --> 00:52:21,400
Speaker 1: He's thirteen, and he's dumb, sort of sort of.

1241
00:52:21,640 --> 00:52:24,560
Speaker 13: He's one of those smart dummy What does that.

1242
00:52:24,680 --> 00:52:31,120
Speaker 20: Mean, like like the kids like he's got honor roll right, dumb.

1243
00:52:32,080 --> 00:52:35,279
Speaker 14: No, but listen, this is the same kid who thought

1244
00:52:35,320 --> 00:52:37,000
Speaker 14: that the slave days were the eighties.

1245
00:52:37,480 --> 00:52:41,080
Speaker 6: Oh okay, so history is not little mixed that his sick. Okay,

1246
00:52:41,120 --> 00:52:43,840
Speaker 6: and I understand, yes, I you know the confusion.

1247
00:52:43,960 --> 00:52:47,000
Speaker 9: My my knowledge of geography, history, common sense has ever

1248
00:52:47,000 --> 00:52:47,319
Speaker 9: been there.

1249
00:52:47,320 --> 00:52:49,760
Speaker 1: However, I was on honor roll, so I'm not wow

1250
00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:52,240
Speaker 1: wow wow.

1251
00:52:52,640 --> 00:52:56,200
Speaker 2: Okay, So maybe not doesn't have all the facts straight.

1252
00:52:56,640 --> 00:53:02,280
Speaker 11: He's up my freshman yearbook picture and thought that everything.

1253
00:53:01,920 --> 00:53:03,880
Speaker 23: Was in black and white then because it just so

1254
00:53:04,000 --> 00:53:05,480
Speaker 23: happened to have been in black and white.

1255
00:53:06,080 --> 00:53:09,560
Speaker 2: Oh this year books are oftentimes in black and white. Yeah, okay,

1256
00:53:09,680 --> 00:53:12,120
Speaker 2: all right, Well I wish him the best with supportive

1257
00:53:12,160 --> 00:53:12,799
Speaker 2: parents like you.

1258
00:53:12,880 --> 00:53:15,080
Speaker 3: I don't know, I mean, the only child.

1259
00:53:15,640 --> 00:53:17,960
Speaker 1: Do you have a mother home? He has a sister,

1260
00:53:18,360 --> 00:53:28,480
Speaker 1: and do we have more hope for her? Lisa, your

1261
00:53:28,560 --> 00:53:31,640
Speaker 1: fault because there's only one you and two of them.

1262
00:53:31,800 --> 00:53:38,760
Speaker 1: So okay, thank you, Lisa, have a good day. Glad

1263
00:53:38,800 --> 00:53:41,680
Speaker 1: you called right there.

1264
00:53:42,800 --> 00:53:46,960
Speaker 2: Hey Ricky, oh my god, Hey Ricky, So just real

1265
00:53:47,040 --> 00:53:49,960
Speaker 2: talk here. You say, you know how many kids you have?

1266
00:53:51,360 --> 00:53:52,400
Speaker 12: I got four all together.

1267
00:53:52,480 --> 00:53:53,440
Speaker 1: Now you have four.

1268
00:53:53,320 --> 00:53:55,080
Speaker 2: Kids, and you can look at these kids, and I

1269
00:53:55,120 --> 00:53:57,160
Speaker 2: think it's just very honest. And you can look at

1270
00:53:57,200 --> 00:53:59,120
Speaker 2: the kids and you can tell which ones are going

1271
00:53:59,120 --> 00:54:01,200
Speaker 2: to succeed in which one and you have questions about?

1272
00:54:02,080 --> 00:54:05,120
Speaker 12: Correct. I got my oldest one. Now, she's really smart,

1273
00:54:05,280 --> 00:54:09,360
Speaker 12: really book smart, not just not not super street smart. Okay,

1274
00:54:09,480 --> 00:54:13,359
Speaker 12: you got my firstborn son, he's uh, well it's such,

1275
00:54:13,440 --> 00:54:14,400
Speaker 12: say he's probably gonna go.

1276
00:54:14,400 --> 00:54:22,120
Speaker 24: To trade school. School's not for everybody, wrong with make money.

1277
00:54:22,360 --> 00:54:25,360
Speaker 24: And then I got his younger brother, he's, uh, that's

1278
00:54:25,400 --> 00:54:25,960
Speaker 24: the lazy one.

1279
00:54:26,000 --> 00:54:27,560
Speaker 12: He's a smart one, but he's the lazy one.

1280
00:54:27,719 --> 00:54:29,040
Speaker 1: Okay, if he.

1281
00:54:29,000 --> 00:54:30,800
Speaker 12: Applied himself, he'd be pretty special.

1282
00:54:31,000 --> 00:54:34,200
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, so waste youngest potential.

1283
00:54:34,000 --> 00:54:36,759
Speaker 12: My youngest Yeah, my youngest one is only three months.

1284
00:54:37,560 --> 00:54:38,880
Speaker 7: Oh so we don't know.

1285
00:54:39,000 --> 00:54:42,560
Speaker 1: So we don't know yet. It's as up that one

1286
00:54:42,719 --> 00:54:46,799
Speaker 1: could go either way. But school's not.

1287
00:54:47,080 --> 00:54:49,200
Speaker 24: School's not for everybody. I mean I was in the

1288
00:54:49,200 --> 00:54:51,160
Speaker 24: same bowl with my siblings. I'm the youngest one, and

1289
00:54:52,160 --> 00:54:53,239
Speaker 24: I was lazy, but I.

1290
00:54:53,239 --> 00:54:53,680
Speaker 3: Was all right.

1291
00:54:53,760 --> 00:54:55,200
Speaker 24: And then you had my middle brother.

1292
00:54:55,280 --> 00:54:56,319
Speaker 21: Well, same thing.

1293
00:54:56,400 --> 00:54:59,160
Speaker 24: It's not. School's not for everybody.

1294
00:55:00,120 --> 00:55:00,480
Speaker 3: Parents.

1295
00:55:01,000 --> 00:55:06,080
Speaker 2: Rick's honest, it's honest, Ricky, Thank you, have a good day.

1296
00:55:06,280 --> 00:55:06,520
Speaker 14: Thank you.

1297
00:55:07,080 --> 00:55:08,520
Speaker 2: I thought he was gonna tell me my three my

1298
00:55:08,560 --> 00:55:10,319
Speaker 2: three month old is and mensa or something like.

1299
00:55:10,320 --> 00:55:13,520
Speaker 1: Okay, now, come on, how do you know it's not

1300
00:55:13,719 --> 00:55:14,240
Speaker 1: very honest.

1301
00:55:14,280 --> 00:55:15,759
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm sure as a parent, you can look

1302
00:55:15,760 --> 00:55:17,760
Speaker 2: at your kid you love them more all equally, hopefully

1303
00:55:17,800 --> 00:55:21,719
Speaker 2: except for Lisa she doesn't. But and you can be like, look,

1304
00:55:21,880 --> 00:55:23,799
Speaker 2: I think this one is you know, this one has

1305
00:55:23,800 --> 00:55:25,759
Speaker 2: the potential to be an accountant or a scientist or

1306
00:55:25,800 --> 00:55:27,560
Speaker 2: a doctor, and this one doesn't.

1307
00:55:28,080 --> 00:55:29,680
Speaker 1: Now, I gotta be honest as a parent.

1308
00:55:30,080 --> 00:55:32,200
Speaker 2: If I were a parent, I think I would want

1309
00:55:32,560 --> 00:55:34,880
Speaker 2: I mean, you of course want street smart, and you

1310
00:55:34,920 --> 00:55:36,920
Speaker 2: want it all right, yeah, but I would be happy

1311
00:55:36,960 --> 00:55:41,040
Speaker 2: with enough enough intelligence to get you through school, you know,

1312
00:55:41,680 --> 00:55:42,960
Speaker 2: such a we don't have issues.

1313
00:55:43,080 --> 00:55:43,839
Speaker 1: But I think I.

1314
00:55:43,800 --> 00:55:47,440
Speaker 2: Would want a heavy emphasis on the street smarts. I

1315
00:55:47,480 --> 00:55:50,080
Speaker 2: think that's what that would be. I could trade every

1316
00:55:50,160 --> 00:55:52,560
Speaker 2: day because if I had a genius kid that like

1317
00:55:53,239 --> 00:55:56,000
Speaker 2: couldn't put his or her own shirt on or something,

1318
00:55:56,040 --> 00:55:57,440
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Like we have a like

1319
00:55:57,480 --> 00:55:59,920
Speaker 2: that's going to be challenging. I want my kid to

1320
00:56:00,120 --> 00:56:04,720
Speaker 2: have both, yeah, commonsense ideally smart enough to not be stupid,

1321
00:56:05,320 --> 00:56:08,640
Speaker 2: but also enough that I can I can push you

1322
00:56:08,680 --> 00:56:10,200
Speaker 2: out of the door and I don't have to worry

1323
00:56:10,200 --> 00:56:12,040
Speaker 2: that you know that you're not going to get taken

1324
00:56:12,080 --> 00:56:13,640
Speaker 2: advantage of or scammed or whatever.

1325
00:56:14,520 --> 00:56:17,320
Speaker 1: Hey Kayley, good morning.

1326
00:56:17,840 --> 00:56:20,600
Speaker 2: So this is what the this is what bellotype in

1327
00:56:20,680 --> 00:56:23,680
Speaker 2: and you tell me this is right, says Kaylee. Adopted

1328
00:56:23,719 --> 00:56:25,799
Speaker 2: her sister and realized she's kind of dumb.

1329
00:56:27,120 --> 00:56:28,120
Speaker 3: Yea, Lena, is that you?

1330
00:56:30,760 --> 00:56:30,880
Speaker 1: Now?

1331
00:56:30,920 --> 00:56:31,200
Speaker 7: Tell me?

1332
00:56:31,400 --> 00:56:33,400
Speaker 2: Tell me more, a little bit more for me, just

1333
00:56:33,440 --> 00:56:35,040
Speaker 2: if you could expound on that a little bit.

1334
00:56:36,080 --> 00:56:38,080
Speaker 14: So I told her it was about a chapter book.

1335
00:56:38,120 --> 00:56:40,359
Speaker 19: But I'm sitting here thinking, I'm like, those are other

1336
00:56:40,400 --> 00:56:41,960
Speaker 19: things that added up to cheese.

1337
00:56:42,040 --> 00:56:43,400
Speaker 3: I should have recognized the sign.

1338
00:56:46,360 --> 00:56:48,680
Speaker 13: One was one day we were going to Chick fil

1339
00:56:48,760 --> 00:56:49,359
Speaker 13: A and she.

1340
00:56:49,520 --> 00:56:51,719
Speaker 14: Was like, how come Chick fil A is an Indian food?

1341
00:56:51,760 --> 00:56:54,040
Speaker 3: And I was like, what are you talking about right now?

1342
00:56:54,560 --> 00:56:56,840
Speaker 14: And she was like, you know the three dots that

1343
00:56:56,880 --> 00:56:58,440
Speaker 14: they put on letters.

1344
00:56:58,000 --> 00:56:59,920
Speaker 1: In India, Why isn't it Indians?

1345
00:57:00,040 --> 00:57:00,920
Speaker 14: Due it's chicken.

1346
00:57:00,960 --> 00:57:05,000
Speaker 13: And I was like, oh my god, not an.

1347
00:57:05,120 --> 00:57:06,920
Speaker 14: Indian dot and the letters?

1348
00:57:07,280 --> 00:57:12,600
Speaker 1: Oh boy. So we have a number of issues. And

1349
00:57:13,080 --> 00:57:17,720
Speaker 1: another one I'm feeling stupid right now actually, so yeah, huh.

1350
00:57:17,960 --> 00:57:19,640
Speaker 19: She came to me while I was at work and

1351
00:57:19,680 --> 00:57:21,680
Speaker 19: brought me a gift and I was like, oh my gosh,

1352
00:57:21,680 --> 00:57:22,000
Speaker 19: thank you.

1353
00:57:22,080 --> 00:57:22,520
Speaker 1: So much.

1354
00:57:22,680 --> 00:57:25,080
Speaker 20: She was like, yeah, happy Veterinarians Day.

1355
00:57:25,080 --> 00:57:25,960
Speaker 3: And I'm like, what.

1356
00:57:28,720 --> 00:57:32,680
Speaker 1: Veterans Day? Wow? So we have some history to learn

1357
00:57:32,720 --> 00:57:33,480
Speaker 1: and we have some.

1358
00:57:33,520 --> 00:57:34,840
Speaker 3: Okay yeah the signs.

1359
00:57:37,280 --> 00:57:40,160
Speaker 2: Oh boy, all right, Chayley. We got a lot of

1360
00:57:40,200 --> 00:57:45,400
Speaker 2: issues here, Kaylee, I wish I wish you well with that. Okay,

1361
00:57:45,560 --> 00:57:50,880
Speaker 2: thank you. Wow, Okay, we needed a little social studies class.

1362
00:57:50,920 --> 00:57:56,480
Speaker 1: Maybe I have no room. Maybe okay, one more.

1363
00:57:56,520 --> 00:57:59,680
Speaker 2: Hey, I mean I just love hearing parents talk about

1364
00:57:59,680 --> 00:58:01,440
Speaker 2: how dumb there's kids have bridge it.

1365
00:58:03,360 --> 00:58:07,280
Speaker 1: Hello, bridge it high. You have a thirteen year old yes,

1366
00:58:07,640 --> 00:58:08,480
Speaker 1: no common.

1367
00:58:08,200 --> 00:58:11,480
Speaker 14: Sense, no common sense whatsoever.

1368
00:58:11,680 --> 00:58:12,880
Speaker 1: Give me an example.

1369
00:58:14,960 --> 00:58:17,640
Speaker 14: In school. It's like one of the hardest things for

1370
00:58:17,760 --> 00:58:20,800
Speaker 14: him to do is like read and like just just.

1371
00:58:20,840 --> 00:58:23,000
Speaker 1: Normal common sense, right, like.

1372
00:58:24,480 --> 00:58:25,760
Speaker 3: As a thirteen year old boy.

1373
00:58:26,520 --> 00:58:29,760
Speaker 19: But the kid could lay like a hardware floor, like

1374
00:58:29,880 --> 00:58:30,840
Speaker 19: he's like the rain man.

1375
00:58:31,880 --> 00:58:35,560
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, skills really.

1376
00:58:35,440 --> 00:58:39,040
Speaker 14: Makes us like he needs like military.

1377
00:58:39,600 --> 00:58:44,160
Speaker 13: But I told them, like do military like colleges and

1378
00:58:44,240 --> 00:58:47,120
Speaker 13: take whatever comes to you more than like who You'll

1379
00:58:47,120 --> 00:58:49,560
Speaker 13: probably be the army instead of the Marines.

1380
00:58:49,760 --> 00:58:53,480
Speaker 2: Oh oh wow, wow, so we just did. We're going

1381
00:58:53,560 --> 00:58:58,520
Speaker 2: to insult branches of the military now coming you get

1382
00:58:58,560 --> 00:58:59,200
Speaker 2: me in trouble here.

1383
00:59:00,200 --> 00:59:01,600
Speaker 14: I love military.

1384
00:59:01,960 --> 00:59:03,800
Speaker 1: You're just saying that, Okay, family does it.

1385
00:59:04,320 --> 00:59:07,840
Speaker 14: My family doesn't. But I mean when it comes to him,

1386
00:59:08,440 --> 00:59:10,200
Speaker 14: I'm hoping for the army at least.

1387
00:59:11,800 --> 00:59:15,480
Speaker 1: Oh no, oh no, all right, Bridget thank you.

1388
00:59:15,720 --> 00:59:17,520
Speaker 2: Have a good day. I'm scared of the stopping now.

1389
00:59:18,360 --> 00:59:20,560
Speaker 2: I mean, how many people can can our callers insult

1390
00:59:20,640 --> 00:59:21,400
Speaker 2: so far this morning?

1391
00:59:23,000 --> 00:59:23,840
Speaker 1: I don't either. I don't.

1392
00:59:24,920 --> 00:59:28,960
Speaker 3: I'm on the front line.

1393
00:59:30,880 --> 00:59:34,880
Speaker 11: I'm on a front line that is cold, hard.

1394
00:59:38,440 --> 00:59:41,000
Speaker 1: Someone to say, so, my kid needs some merry rich

1395
00:59:43,120 --> 00:59:47,640
Speaker 1: more fresh shell next, Hey, wake up?

1396
00:59:51,760 --> 00:59:53,840
Speaker 2: Why would I Why would I do seventy five to

1397
00:59:53,840 --> 00:59:58,280
Speaker 2: get soft? I would do seventy five to get hard,

1398
00:59:58,320 --> 01:00:01,400
Speaker 2: I guess, But I wouldn't do seventy five to get Yes. Same,

1399
01:00:01,520 --> 01:00:03,360
Speaker 2: I am soft to medium, so I'm not trying to

1400
01:00:03,360 --> 01:00:05,680
Speaker 2: get soft. I mean the seventy five soft. He's going

1401
01:00:05,680 --> 01:00:07,520
Speaker 2: to Colvert's every day or something like her. You know

1402
01:00:07,880 --> 01:00:10,520
Speaker 2: Fred Show? Are you watching the rehearsal on HBO?

1403
01:00:11,000 --> 01:00:11,200
Speaker 7: Yes?

1404
01:00:12,240 --> 01:00:12,760
Speaker 1: Are you really?

1405
01:00:12,920 --> 01:00:13,000
Speaker 20: No?

1406
01:00:13,400 --> 01:00:15,960
Speaker 1: What's wrong with you today?

1407
01:00:17,120 --> 01:00:19,560
Speaker 2: You're paying attention to the stuff that you're not doing,

1408
01:00:19,640 --> 01:00:21,880
Speaker 2: and then you don't remember the stuff that you did do.

1409
01:00:22,520 --> 01:00:24,160
Speaker 1: So excited I'm sorry.

1410
01:00:24,160 --> 01:00:25,760
Speaker 2: And the truth of the matter is I knew the

1411
01:00:25,840 --> 01:00:28,040
Speaker 2: I knew the answer before I even asked the question.

1412
01:00:28,160 --> 01:00:29,880
Speaker 1: But you were not watching it, are you. Okay?

1413
01:00:30,200 --> 01:00:33,800
Speaker 3: I'm right, you're gonna laugh, and that just that tickled me.

1414
01:00:33,880 --> 01:00:34,360
Speaker 3: Your face.

1415
01:00:35,200 --> 01:00:37,200
Speaker 1: Order, it's a Fred show.

1416
01:00:37,960 --> 01:00:42,000
Speaker 2: It's Kiki's Court, Judge, Kiky all rise for the honorable

1417
01:00:42,920 --> 01:00:44,600
Speaker 2: judge Kiki your honor.

1418
01:00:44,600 --> 01:00:47,240
Speaker 3: Yes, take it away? All right, let's step into the courtroom.

1419
01:00:47,280 --> 01:00:50,680
Speaker 6: The gavel has been hit, it says, hey, kikey am

1420
01:00:50,720 --> 01:00:54,840
Speaker 6: I wrong for making my husband miss his interview. Okay,

1421
01:00:55,120 --> 01:00:57,400
Speaker 6: My thirty five year old husband has been out of

1422
01:00:57,400 --> 01:01:00,240
Speaker 6: work for six months. I've been carrying the bills on

1423
01:01:00,360 --> 01:01:02,800
Speaker 6: my salary and working overtime.

1424
01:01:02,320 --> 01:01:03,600
Speaker 3: To keep us afloat.

1425
01:01:03,920 --> 01:01:06,479
Speaker 6: Last week, he finally got an interview for a job

1426
01:01:06,480 --> 01:01:09,640
Speaker 6: he's been chasing for years, which has truly been a

1427
01:01:09,800 --> 01:01:13,600
Speaker 6: dream opportunity for him. I was excited and relieved, and

1428
01:01:13,680 --> 01:01:16,880
Speaker 6: the interview was scheduled at nine am. He said he'd

1429
01:01:16,880 --> 01:01:20,360
Speaker 6: wake up by seven point thirty to prepare. However, the

1430
01:01:20,480 --> 01:01:24,760
Speaker 6: night before he stayed up until two am playing video games.

1431
01:01:24,920 --> 01:01:27,880
Speaker 6: I was reminding him twice that he needed to get up,

1432
01:01:27,920 --> 01:01:31,280
Speaker 6: and he waved me off and got snappy. So the

1433
01:01:31,360 --> 01:01:33,640
Speaker 6: next morning I got up at six forty five to

1434
01:01:33,680 --> 01:01:34,200
Speaker 6: go to work.

1435
01:01:34,560 --> 01:01:36,080
Speaker 3: He was still dead asleep.

1436
01:01:36,480 --> 01:01:38,840
Speaker 6: His alarm started blaring at seven point thirty and I

1437
01:01:38,920 --> 01:01:42,680
Speaker 6: watched him snooze it three times. At this point, to

1438
01:01:42,800 --> 01:01:45,960
Speaker 6: avoid an argument, I decided I'm not waking him up

1439
01:01:46,200 --> 01:01:48,800
Speaker 6: and I left for work. He finally woke up at

1440
01:01:48,880 --> 01:01:52,840
Speaker 6: nine point fifteen, missed the interview, completely freaked out and

1441
01:01:52,920 --> 01:01:55,360
Speaker 6: called me at work, asking me why didn't I wake him?

1442
01:01:55,480 --> 01:01:57,520
Speaker 6: And I told him you're not a child. He was

1443
01:01:57,640 --> 01:02:01,240
Speaker 6: livid and said that I was passive, a great unsupportive,

1444
01:02:01,440 --> 01:02:05,280
Speaker 6: and that I sabotaged him. Now he's not talking to me,

1445
01:02:05,760 --> 01:02:08,520
Speaker 6: and even his mother called me to say I should

1446
01:02:08,520 --> 01:02:11,080
Speaker 6: have had his back. I think he needed this wake

1447
01:02:11,160 --> 01:02:13,880
Speaker 6: up call. But now I'm wondering if I crossed the line.

1448
01:02:14,040 --> 01:02:14,640
Speaker 3: Am I wrong?

1449
01:02:16,720 --> 01:02:20,080
Speaker 6: Judge Kiki Girt, You're not wrong, girl, You are not wrong.

1450
01:02:20,160 --> 01:02:22,200
Speaker 6: If his mother want to get involved, she should have

1451
01:02:22,240 --> 01:02:23,439
Speaker 6: called these people.

1452
01:02:23,960 --> 01:02:25,600
Speaker 3: I don't know your mother's always.

1453
01:02:27,920 --> 01:02:33,080
Speaker 6: Yeay, I backed off right, Yes, but no, you're not wrong.

1454
01:02:33,560 --> 01:02:35,880
Speaker 6: This is a grown man who has been unemployed for

1455
01:02:35,920 --> 01:02:38,360
Speaker 6: six months. You don't have anything else to do, but

1456
01:02:38,440 --> 01:02:41,600
Speaker 6: prepare for this interview. Okay, you have no other obligations

1457
01:02:41,680 --> 01:02:41,920
Speaker 6: right now.

1458
01:02:42,040 --> 01:02:44,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, a lazy person with no job is that's a

1459
01:02:44,160 --> 01:02:44,880
Speaker 1: bad combination.

1460
01:02:45,000 --> 01:02:45,880
Speaker 3: I mean, and things happen.

1461
01:02:46,000 --> 01:02:48,480
Speaker 6: People lose their jobs every day, so it's I don't

1462
01:02:48,480 --> 01:02:50,240
Speaker 6: want to even say it's just a lazy person.

1463
01:02:50,320 --> 01:02:52,240
Speaker 3: But this story over.

1464
01:02:52,120 --> 01:02:56,520
Speaker 2: Here, you're right, no, yeah, I'm talking about this. I mean,

1465
01:02:56,640 --> 01:02:58,320
Speaker 2: six months no job, and then when you have the

1466
01:02:58,400 --> 01:03:01,680
Speaker 2: job interview, you don't take it seriously right, That to

1467
01:03:01,800 --> 01:03:03,320
Speaker 2: me is not responsible.

1468
01:03:03,400 --> 01:03:06,360
Speaker 6: And then your wife is warning you, like women tend

1469
01:03:06,400 --> 01:03:09,080
Speaker 6: to do, you know, give you a little reminder and

1470
01:03:09,120 --> 01:03:10,480
Speaker 6: you get snapped me.

1471
01:03:10,840 --> 01:03:12,640
Speaker 2: She did, and she did look out for him. She

1472
01:03:12,800 --> 01:03:14,920
Speaker 2: was like, hey, let's get some rest before this interview.

1473
01:03:15,200 --> 01:03:15,439
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1474
01:03:15,480 --> 01:03:17,800
Speaker 3: And then you're like nah, and you keep playing your

1475
01:03:17,840 --> 01:03:18,440
Speaker 3: video games.

1476
01:03:18,480 --> 01:03:20,920
Speaker 6: And then now now, since you were a little petty

1477
01:03:20,960 --> 01:03:23,000
Speaker 6: because you were there as the alarm was going off,

1478
01:03:23,040 --> 01:03:25,120
Speaker 6: that was a little petty, you know. She watched the

1479
01:03:25,520 --> 01:03:28,080
Speaker 6: she watched some snooz of the alarm. But she was like,

1480
01:03:28,360 --> 01:03:30,360
Speaker 6: I'm not arguing with you, and she left.

1481
01:03:30,840 --> 01:03:31,800
Speaker 3: It's not up to her.

1482
01:03:32,160 --> 01:03:33,840
Speaker 2: The her argument that I would make, though, is a

1483
01:03:33,920 --> 01:03:36,040
Speaker 2: about this sleeping through the alarm and her being aware

1484
01:03:36,040 --> 01:03:38,760
Speaker 2: of that is this affects her negatively too, So you know,

1485
01:03:38,840 --> 01:03:40,360
Speaker 2: she may have taught him a lesson, but it doesn't

1486
01:03:40,360 --> 01:03:44,040
Speaker 2: sound like he's someone who's going to interpret that lesson

1487
01:03:44,120 --> 01:03:47,360
Speaker 2: very well. And ultimately, now this is another job he

1488
01:03:47,400 --> 01:03:51,120
Speaker 2: won't get. So how does that affect her negatively? How

1489
01:03:51,160 --> 01:03:55,160
Speaker 2: did that behavior really? Did it really penalize him or

1490
01:03:55,160 --> 01:03:56,400
Speaker 2: did it really penalize her?

1491
01:03:56,840 --> 01:03:57,040
Speaker 7: Well?

1492
01:03:57,120 --> 01:03:59,440
Speaker 6: I think at this point she I would be considering

1493
01:03:59,440 --> 01:04:02,440
Speaker 6: some other things because if this is maybe this may

1494
01:04:02,480 --> 01:04:05,160
Speaker 6: not be a first time offender where you're sleeping through alarms.

1495
01:04:05,280 --> 01:04:07,040
Speaker 6: You might sleep through alarms all the time, and maybe

1496
01:04:07,040 --> 01:04:08,080
Speaker 6: that's why you don't have a job.

1497
01:04:08,920 --> 01:04:11,040
Speaker 2: Oh you guys at the jury eight five, five, five, nine,

1498
01:04:11,160 --> 01:04:13,440
Speaker 2: one one three five she could have woken him up.

1499
01:04:14,080 --> 01:04:15,080
Speaker 1: I wouldn't have either.

1500
01:04:15,800 --> 01:04:17,400
Speaker 2: But then I guess if I don't wake him up

1501
01:04:17,400 --> 01:04:18,840
Speaker 2: and he doesn't have a job and I want to

1502
01:04:18,840 --> 01:04:21,040
Speaker 2: stay with him, then that's on me at some point,

1503
01:04:21,080 --> 01:04:23,960
Speaker 2: like I've chosen this life, did you though?

1504
01:04:24,840 --> 01:04:24,960
Speaker 1: Well?

1505
01:04:25,040 --> 01:04:27,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, because again no job for six months. I know

1506
01:04:27,920 --> 01:04:29,640
Speaker 2: that it's hard to get a job. Yeah, it's very

1507
01:04:29,640 --> 01:04:33,120
Speaker 2: difficult to get a job right now, But the behavior

1508
01:04:33,200 --> 01:04:35,520
Speaker 2: like this is not going to your point, might be

1509
01:04:35,520 --> 01:04:38,240
Speaker 2: the reason why he doesn't have a job exactly. And

1510
01:04:38,280 --> 01:04:41,480
Speaker 2: so then the question is, is she gonna motivate him, she's

1511
01:04:41,480 --> 01:04:43,520
Speaker 2: gonna wake him up, Is she gonna you know, push

1512
01:04:43,600 --> 01:04:46,160
Speaker 2: him out the door, try and help him? And she

1513
01:04:46,240 --> 01:04:48,880
Speaker 2: doesn't have to do that, but if she doesn't do that,

1514
01:04:49,360 --> 01:04:51,400
Speaker 2: then he's probably never going to get one. And then

1515
01:04:51,440 --> 01:04:53,840
Speaker 2: if she stays with him, then she's choosing that life.

1516
01:04:55,440 --> 01:04:58,120
Speaker 6: So you say leave him all together, divorce, Yeah, but

1517
01:04:58,160 --> 01:04:59,800
Speaker 6: you just said that too, So no, you'll talk about

1518
01:04:59,840 --> 01:05:02,760
Speaker 6: like I'm the only one that said that.

1519
01:05:02,960 --> 01:05:03,520
Speaker 3: You're not wrong.

1520
01:05:03,560 --> 01:05:04,439
Speaker 1: You said the same thing.

1521
01:05:04,800 --> 01:05:08,439
Speaker 2: I think, honestly, at some point you got to ask

1522
01:05:08,480 --> 01:05:10,640
Speaker 2: you And if this is a one time deal, maybe

1523
01:05:10,680 --> 01:05:12,480
Speaker 2: he didn't want this to I don't know, there could

1524
01:05:12,520 --> 01:05:15,560
Speaker 2: be other parameters here, but I wonder, I wonder if

1525
01:05:15,560 --> 01:05:17,680
Speaker 2: this is just kind of not his mentality. And if

1526
01:05:17,720 --> 01:05:20,240
Speaker 2: that's the case, then maybe this is what you're up

1527
01:05:20,280 --> 01:05:24,400
Speaker 2: against for, you know, as a mentality, and maybe this

1528
01:05:24,440 --> 01:05:27,040
Speaker 2: is you know, if you choose to continue to be

1529
01:05:27,120 --> 01:05:29,480
Speaker 2: with this person, they choose to make those kind of choices,

1530
01:05:29,520 --> 01:05:31,960
Speaker 2: and you can't really complain too much to other people.

1531
01:05:32,240 --> 01:05:35,760
Speaker 15: Right, but tough priorities though, like instead of maybe playing

1532
01:05:35,800 --> 01:05:37,960
Speaker 15: video games at night. And maybe this is a little different,

1533
01:05:38,000 --> 01:05:40,840
Speaker 15: but why don't you do some side hustle like go,

1534
01:05:41,040 --> 01:05:43,080
Speaker 15: you know, drive for uber, or do door dash or

1535
01:05:43,120 --> 01:05:45,480
Speaker 15: do something and bring an income. Again, Yes, getting a

1536
01:05:45,840 --> 01:05:47,479
Speaker 15: job is very hard, it's not like they're just handing

1537
01:05:47,520 --> 01:05:48,160
Speaker 15: them out these days.

1538
01:05:48,200 --> 01:05:50,080
Speaker 3: But I think you can still bring in some income.

1539
01:05:50,120 --> 01:05:51,920
Speaker 3: I think you can still have that drive to do it.

1540
01:05:51,920 --> 01:05:53,960
Speaker 15: He seems like he doesn't want to do it, right,

1541
01:05:54,000 --> 01:05:54,760
Speaker 15: That's what I'm getting.

1542
01:05:54,800 --> 01:05:55,440
Speaker 3: I don't know this man.

1543
01:05:55,480 --> 01:05:56,840
Speaker 15: I don't want to know this man, but it just

1544
01:05:56,880 --> 01:05:58,920
Speaker 15: seems like he doesn't want that.

1545
01:05:59,040 --> 01:06:01,080
Speaker 2: Because if jobs are hard to get and you want

1546
01:06:01,080 --> 01:06:02,760
Speaker 2: a job and you're well intentioned, and you have a

1547
01:06:02,840 --> 01:06:04,680
Speaker 2: job interview, that might be the one night that you

1548
01:06:04,680 --> 01:06:06,920
Speaker 2: take it seriously, yes, and that you don't stay up,

1549
01:06:07,040 --> 01:06:08,800
Speaker 2: and that you make sure that you're awake and that

1550
01:06:08,880 --> 01:06:10,760
Speaker 2: you're at the job interview and you and you do

1551
01:06:10,800 --> 01:06:13,439
Speaker 2: your best to get the job. But again, I gotta

1552
01:06:13,480 --> 01:06:14,720
Speaker 2: wonder does this guy even care?

1553
01:06:15,200 --> 01:06:15,360
Speaker 3: Right?

1554
01:06:15,400 --> 01:06:18,120
Speaker 6: And then I remind you about it and I'm up

1555
01:06:18,200 --> 01:06:20,000
Speaker 6: late telling you to go to bed, and you get

1556
01:06:20,040 --> 01:06:23,040
Speaker 6: snappy with me, and I've been paying these.

1557
01:06:22,880 --> 01:06:25,480
Speaker 3: Bills for six months alone working over.

1558
01:06:25,360 --> 01:06:29,160
Speaker 2: Time, sir, Yeah, yeah, and then for him to turn

1559
01:06:29,200 --> 01:06:31,000
Speaker 2: around and gaslight her and be like, somehow this is

1560
01:06:31,040 --> 01:06:31,880
Speaker 2: your fault.

1561
01:06:31,640 --> 01:06:34,680
Speaker 3: Right, No, you sabotage. He was waiting for an opportunity.

1562
01:06:34,200 --> 01:06:35,240
Speaker 1: Abatag no.

1563
01:06:36,760 --> 01:06:39,240
Speaker 2: But I will say, and this is that this is

1564
01:06:39,280 --> 01:06:41,080
Speaker 2: not her fault. But how long does this go? And

1565
01:06:41,120 --> 01:06:42,760
Speaker 2: we don't have all the context, but how long does

1566
01:06:42,800 --> 01:06:44,920
Speaker 2: this go on before you need to start making choices

1567
01:06:44,960 --> 01:06:47,520
Speaker 2: for you that may not involve this person anymore?

1568
01:06:47,600 --> 01:06:51,520
Speaker 1: That's real, you know? Hey, Brian, Yes, how you doing? Brian?

1569
01:06:51,560 --> 01:06:53,720
Speaker 1: Good morning? Kei Key's Court. You're the jury? What say you?

1570
01:06:55,280 --> 01:06:58,000
Speaker 5: I wanted to know would it be the same if

1571
01:06:58,240 --> 01:06:59,800
Speaker 5: the show was on all the footnet with the woman

1572
01:06:59,840 --> 01:07:02,000
Speaker 5: out at work? Because me and get a bad rep

1573
01:07:02,040 --> 01:07:04,080
Speaker 5: sometimes and my wife has been out of work for

1574
01:07:04,120 --> 01:07:06,640
Speaker 5: over two years, and I'll still pay the bills and

1575
01:07:06,680 --> 01:07:08,640
Speaker 5: do what I got to do for my family, and

1576
01:07:08,640 --> 01:07:12,200
Speaker 5: that's considered being a man. But when it's when it's

1577
01:07:12,240 --> 01:07:14,720
Speaker 5: turned around, you know, why don't we put as much

1578
01:07:14,720 --> 01:07:16,800
Speaker 5: heat on a woman not being able to find a job. Well,

1579
01:07:17,200 --> 01:07:18,360
Speaker 5: sart out here for everybody.

1580
01:07:18,480 --> 01:07:19,760
Speaker 1: I hear what you're saying. But doesn't.

1581
01:07:19,800 --> 01:07:22,400
Speaker 2: But doesn't that depend on sort of the parameter within

1582
01:07:22,440 --> 01:07:25,360
Speaker 2: your relationship and what you guys have decided. For example,

1583
01:07:26,320 --> 01:07:30,760
Speaker 2: if you two have decided together collectively that you both

1584
01:07:30,880 --> 01:07:33,520
Speaker 2: need to work to maintain your lifestyle, and there's no

1585
01:07:33,560 --> 01:07:35,960
Speaker 2: intensity for her to live up to her end of

1586
01:07:35,960 --> 01:07:38,560
Speaker 2: the deal, I don't I don't necessarily know that this

1587
01:07:38,640 --> 01:07:41,160
Speaker 2: has to be gender based. Right If you have agreed

1588
01:07:41,200 --> 01:07:43,400
Speaker 2: to take care of the family and she's taking care

1589
01:07:43,400 --> 01:07:45,640
Speaker 2: of the house and the kids, well that's a job,

1590
01:07:46,040 --> 01:07:46,800
Speaker 2: so that you know what I mean.

1591
01:07:46,800 --> 01:07:47,920
Speaker 1: So I guess I guess.

1592
01:07:47,760 --> 01:07:50,680
Speaker 2: What I said is is, yeah, he sounds like a deadbeat,

1593
01:07:51,400 --> 01:07:55,360
Speaker 2: But I don't know. You know, your wife, is your

1594
01:07:55,400 --> 01:07:58,200
Speaker 2: life predicated on her working too? Are you having to

1595
01:07:58,280 --> 01:07:59,520
Speaker 2: do twice as much now?

1596
01:07:59,880 --> 01:08:01,240
Speaker 20: Or or or?

1597
01:08:01,480 --> 01:08:02,800
Speaker 1: Or is that not the deal that you have?

1598
01:08:03,840 --> 01:08:06,840
Speaker 5: We we we downgraded our lifestyle, so it's a lot

1599
01:08:06,880 --> 01:08:09,360
Speaker 5: of things that we don't do in order to in

1600
01:08:09,480 --> 01:08:12,160
Speaker 5: order for us to stay financially safe. But it's a

1601
01:08:12,200 --> 01:08:14,560
Speaker 5: lot of things that I would like to like for

1602
01:08:14,920 --> 01:08:17,120
Speaker 5: my family to go back to doing. My wife would

1603
01:08:17,560 --> 01:08:19,880
Speaker 5: see it back to work, But for right now, we're

1604
01:08:20,000 --> 01:08:23,160
Speaker 5: maintaining everything. We have a home through cars and we're

1605
01:08:23,200 --> 01:08:24,160
Speaker 5: doing okay.

1606
01:08:24,520 --> 01:08:26,840
Speaker 1: Because I get the whole men her work.

1607
01:08:26,960 --> 01:08:28,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, I hear, I hear you, right, I hear the

1608
01:08:28,320 --> 01:08:30,960
Speaker 2: men providing, the man providing thing and whatever. But I

1609
01:08:30,960 --> 01:08:34,320
Speaker 2: guess what I would be thinking about is, regardless of

1610
01:08:34,360 --> 01:08:36,600
Speaker 2: your gender, what what are our roles? What have we

1611
01:08:36,680 --> 01:08:39,080
Speaker 2: decided we're going together? Who's going to pay what bills?

1612
01:08:39,080 --> 01:08:40,920
Speaker 2: What have we decided? And are you living up to

1613
01:08:40,960 --> 01:08:43,479
Speaker 2: what you agreed to do? And if the answer is no,

1614
01:08:44,160 --> 01:08:47,519
Speaker 2: then that would be my problem. I wouldn't necessarily be well,

1615
01:08:47,520 --> 01:08:49,840
Speaker 2: you're the man, so you should or whatever, only if

1616
01:08:49,880 --> 01:08:50,759
Speaker 2: that's what we decided.

1617
01:08:50,760 --> 01:08:53,240
Speaker 1: But thank you, Brian. Having the day, no problem.

1618
01:08:53,320 --> 01:08:56,320
Speaker 6: Brian had some job links Bryan, Bryan will how to

1619
01:08:56,320 --> 01:08:56,920
Speaker 6: get back to work.

1620
01:08:57,320 --> 01:09:01,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, he do. Kids, though it sounds like she's holding

1621
01:09:01,360 --> 01:09:01,880
Speaker 3: it down at home.

1622
01:09:01,920 --> 01:09:03,640
Speaker 15: He didn't seem to upset that when Fred was kind of,

1623
01:09:03,680 --> 01:09:04,839
Speaker 15: you know, explaining that situation.

1624
01:09:05,160 --> 01:09:07,120
Speaker 1: But yeah, again, it's what did they agree to?

1625
01:09:07,400 --> 01:09:09,160
Speaker 3: She's playing video games that night, That's what I really

1626
01:09:09,160 --> 01:09:11,200
Speaker 3: wanted to know. I'm very triggered.

1627
01:09:10,800 --> 01:09:15,360
Speaker 2: By this, Yeah, right, because and is she's still expecting

1628
01:09:15,360 --> 01:09:17,400
Speaker 2: the same life that they had before, but yet she

1629
01:09:17,439 --> 01:09:19,200
Speaker 2: doesn't have a job. I mean, there's so many different

1630
01:09:19,240 --> 01:09:21,599
Speaker 2: aspects of this, but I guess I would say, whatever

1631
01:09:21,640 --> 01:09:23,519
Speaker 2: relationship you're in, if you live with someone else and

1632
01:09:23,800 --> 01:09:25,760
Speaker 2: you're expected to do this, and you're expected to do that,

1633
01:09:25,840 --> 01:09:27,719
Speaker 2: and then you stop doing the part that we agree

1634
01:09:27,720 --> 01:09:29,720
Speaker 2: to together that you're going to do, that would be

1635
01:09:29,760 --> 01:09:30,320
Speaker 2: my problem.

1636
01:09:30,400 --> 01:09:32,760
Speaker 3: I agree with that. As a wife, I agree with them.

1637
01:09:32,800 --> 01:09:35,320
Speaker 2: If I if we say, hey, I'm going to stay

1638
01:09:35,320 --> 01:09:36,519
Speaker 2: home and I'm going to take care of the kids,

1639
01:09:36,560 --> 01:09:37,479
Speaker 2: and I'm going to take care of the house, and

1640
01:09:37,520 --> 01:09:39,160
Speaker 2: I'm gonna take care of all these other things, and

1641
01:09:39,200 --> 01:09:40,639
Speaker 2: I'm not going to bring in an income. I need

1642
01:09:40,680 --> 01:09:42,680
Speaker 2: you to go make up make the income, well, then

1643
01:09:42,920 --> 01:09:45,000
Speaker 2: I don't. I wouldn't pressure her to make money because

1644
01:09:45,000 --> 01:09:47,760
Speaker 2: we agreed that she can do the other things that

1645
01:09:47,800 --> 01:09:50,240
Speaker 2: we'd have to pay someone to do exactly.

1646
01:09:49,840 --> 01:09:52,200
Speaker 3: And all parties need to be clear on the agreement.

1647
01:09:52,640 --> 01:09:54,840
Speaker 6: Yes, you know, sometimes people just wake up and decide

1648
01:09:54,840 --> 01:09:55,719
Speaker 6: that they're done working.

1649
01:09:56,160 --> 01:09:58,400
Speaker 3: Like, excuse me, excuse.

1650
01:09:58,080 --> 01:09:58,840
Speaker 1: Me, crue.

1651
01:10:01,200 --> 01:10:04,519
Speaker 2: Somebody said she could have woke him up. It could

1652
01:10:04,560 --> 01:10:06,840
Speaker 2: have relieved the press, it could have relieved the pressure

1653
01:10:06,880 --> 01:10:09,679
Speaker 2: off of her. Again, I mean, what she did didn't

1654
01:10:09,760 --> 01:10:12,800
Speaker 2: exactly help her, cause but she didn't have to do

1655
01:10:12,840 --> 01:10:13,519
Speaker 2: it right.

1656
01:10:13,560 --> 01:10:16,800
Speaker 6: She shouldn't be obligated to wake a grown man up

1657
01:10:16,800 --> 01:10:18,799
Speaker 6: who has been off for six months.

1658
01:10:18,840 --> 01:10:20,599
Speaker 3: What else are you doing, my boy?

1659
01:10:20,840 --> 01:10:21,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would have been.

1660
01:10:21,800 --> 01:10:24,760
Speaker 6: I would have been sitting on a computer waiting at

1661
01:10:24,760 --> 01:10:25,519
Speaker 6: four in the morning.

1662
01:10:25,840 --> 01:10:26,040
Speaker 5: You know.

1663
01:10:26,439 --> 01:10:29,280
Speaker 10: My touch and the alarm thing triggers me to like,

1664
01:10:29,320 --> 01:10:30,799
Speaker 10: who can't wake up to an alarm?

1665
01:10:31,040 --> 01:10:33,880
Speaker 3: Yes, Like, even when I had roommates, it's going off,

1666
01:10:33,880 --> 01:10:34,920
Speaker 3: it's going on, Get up.

1667
01:10:36,720 --> 01:10:39,760
Speaker 2: I would have woken him up and left for work.

1668
01:10:39,800 --> 01:10:42,800
Speaker 2: This way, it's on him. She's also married to a

1669
01:10:42,840 --> 01:10:46,800
Speaker 2: man child. Yeah, I mean, Mike, Mike, Mike, Mike, you're saying,

1670
01:10:47,400 --> 01:10:52,320
Speaker 2: leave this man. Yeah, yeah, I mean, just.

1671
01:10:52,000 --> 01:10:53,360
Speaker 5: He didn't sleep through the alarm.

1672
01:10:53,760 --> 01:10:55,240
Speaker 16: He snoozed it three times.

1673
01:10:55,720 --> 01:10:56,400
Speaker 1: That's a good point.

1674
01:10:56,439 --> 01:10:58,760
Speaker 2: He did wake up, so this is not he's just

1675
01:10:58,760 --> 01:11:01,160
Speaker 2: not motivated. You're saying a good likelihood that this isn't

1676
01:11:01,200 --> 01:11:01,920
Speaker 2: going to change.

1677
01:11:03,400 --> 01:11:05,240
Speaker 5: I'm like you, guys, I got a four m alarm

1678
01:11:05,280 --> 01:11:05,920
Speaker 5: every day.

1679
01:11:06,439 --> 01:11:07,160
Speaker 1: That's right, Go.

1680
01:11:07,120 --> 01:11:09,720
Speaker 3: Off, king, put your boots on the ground, go to work.

1681
01:11:09,920 --> 01:11:13,400
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, and that turns killing on junk mail delivery

1682
01:11:13,479 --> 01:11:14,479
Speaker 1: chunk man. Why I don't know.

1683
01:11:14,479 --> 01:11:15,960
Speaker 3: Hey, Hey, we need you.

1684
01:11:16,120 --> 01:11:23,639
Speaker 1: Yes, no, thank you, thank you, yes, thank you so much.

1685
01:11:23,920 --> 01:11:27,040
Speaker 1: Have a good day, Mike. That's right, thank you, hard

1686
01:11:27,040 --> 01:11:30,120
Speaker 1: working man. Right there, he said, enough of us, Mike.

1687
01:11:30,320 --> 01:11:33,000
Speaker 1: He said what he said.

1688
01:11:32,520 --> 01:11:37,880
Speaker 3: On his own. That's right. Yeah, Mike was triggered too.

1689
01:11:39,080 --> 01:11:43,520
Speaker 1: He was lost for words almost day period.

1690
01:11:43,240 --> 01:11:46,920
Speaker 3: Right, good man, Samannah, he's a little bit speechless.

1691
01:11:47,640 --> 01:11:51,920
Speaker 1: Hey, Sarah, Sarah, how you doing.

1692
01:11:52,920 --> 01:11:54,479
Speaker 3: I'm doing well? Are you guys?

1693
01:11:54,520 --> 01:11:54,760
Speaker 1: Great?

1694
01:11:54,760 --> 01:11:57,280
Speaker 2: Thank you for calling him for listening. So Keky's basically

1695
01:11:57,280 --> 01:11:58,760
Speaker 2: this woman is with a guy. He's been out of

1696
01:11:58,760 --> 01:12:01,880
Speaker 2: work for six months, job interviews, chose to stay up

1697
01:12:01,880 --> 01:12:04,360
Speaker 2: all night playing video games. Long went off, He didn't

1698
01:12:04,360 --> 01:12:06,519
Speaker 2: get up of the interview. She watched it all go down,

1699
01:12:06,600 --> 01:12:09,120
Speaker 2: didn't do anything about it. Now he's mad at her.

1700
01:12:09,720 --> 01:12:10,360
Speaker 1: What say you?

1701
01:12:10,640 --> 01:12:10,960
Speaker 19: Yeah?

1702
01:12:11,640 --> 01:12:12,280
Speaker 20: Not okay.

1703
01:12:13,320 --> 01:12:16,360
Speaker 13: My husband had the same issue when we first had

1704
01:12:16,360 --> 01:12:19,360
Speaker 13: our twins. He lost his shop during COVID. We had

1705
01:12:19,360 --> 01:12:22,439
Speaker 13: our twins in twenty twenty, and he would stay up

1706
01:12:22,520 --> 01:12:25,080
Speaker 13: late playing video games because we thought he could handle it.

1707
01:12:25,520 --> 01:12:28,400
Speaker 13: He was so sleep deprived that he ended up sleepwalking.

1708
01:12:28,880 --> 01:12:31,200
Speaker 13: And he wasn't helping me at all with the twins,

1709
01:12:31,200 --> 01:12:34,320
Speaker 13: and they were newborns, and it got so bad that

1710
01:12:34,400 --> 01:12:37,439
Speaker 13: we were fighting every day, and I finally told him

1711
01:12:37,439 --> 01:12:40,200
Speaker 13: I'm not your mother, and if you want to go

1712
01:12:40,560 --> 01:12:42,760
Speaker 13: have someone be a mother to, you can move back in.

1713
01:12:42,680 --> 01:12:43,280
Speaker 18: With your mother.

1714
01:12:43,880 --> 01:12:46,479
Speaker 13: And I think he realized that I was serious, and

1715
01:12:46,640 --> 01:12:50,160
Speaker 13: he shaped up and never even touched a video game

1716
01:12:50,240 --> 01:12:51,000
Speaker 13: at all after that.

1717
01:12:51,760 --> 01:12:54,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, and that sucks that you kind of had to

1718
01:12:54,040 --> 01:12:56,439
Speaker 2: put the fire under his butt, but sometimes people need that.

1719
01:12:56,720 --> 01:12:58,200
Speaker 1: I mean, at least you gave him a chance to

1720
01:12:58,240 --> 01:13:02,599
Speaker 1: clean it up. Yeah, not acceptable, because you know.

1721
01:13:02,520 --> 01:13:04,759
Speaker 2: People go through stuff in life and they get depressed

1722
01:13:04,840 --> 01:13:07,360
Speaker 2: or whatever, and your job as a partner, I'm sure

1723
01:13:07,360 --> 01:13:09,479
Speaker 2: would be to lift him up, but for how long?

1724
01:13:09,760 --> 01:13:09,960
Speaker 13: Right?

1725
01:13:10,960 --> 01:13:11,160
Speaker 3: Right?

1726
01:13:11,479 --> 01:13:14,360
Speaker 13: And shame on the mother in law for even stepping in. Honestly,

1727
01:13:14,400 --> 01:13:15,880
Speaker 13: if that was one of my boys, I would have

1728
01:13:15,880 --> 01:13:18,120
Speaker 13: been like, you're not moving back in here. Fixed it

1729
01:13:18,120 --> 01:13:19,439
Speaker 13: with your wife to better.

1730
01:13:19,479 --> 01:13:20,040
Speaker 3: I raised you.

1731
01:13:20,000 --> 01:13:20,439
Speaker 18: Better than that.

1732
01:13:20,840 --> 01:13:24,120
Speaker 2: Well, yes, I'll go ahead and say it. Maybe we

1733
01:13:24,160 --> 01:13:27,920
Speaker 2: know where the problem lies. Hello, you know, Yeah, thank you, Sarah,

1734
01:13:27,920 --> 01:13:28,639
Speaker 2: I have a good day.

1735
01:13:28,760 --> 01:13:31,479
Speaker 1: Thank you, because we all I think.

1736
01:13:31,320 --> 01:13:34,760
Speaker 2: Sometimes people think they're doing kids a favor when they

1737
01:13:34,800 --> 01:13:38,160
Speaker 2: always have their back, But I think sometimes people are

1738
01:13:38,160 --> 01:13:40,639
Speaker 2: they're going to be a product of what of what

1739
01:13:40,880 --> 01:13:44,639
Speaker 2: they were raised as and what their parents continue to enable. Right,

1740
01:13:44,720 --> 01:13:47,519
Speaker 2: So if every time he screws up he calls mom,

1741
01:13:47,560 --> 01:13:49,840
Speaker 2: and mom calls and yells at the wife, well then

1742
01:13:49,880 --> 01:13:51,600
Speaker 2: what is why would he where is he getting the

1743
01:13:51,640 --> 01:13:53,439
Speaker 2: idea that he needs to do better?

1744
01:13:53,760 --> 01:13:54,280
Speaker 3: Exactly?

1745
01:13:54,360 --> 01:13:57,639
Speaker 2: Because it's like, no, no, that's my baby boy. He's perfect. Well,

1746
01:13:57,920 --> 01:14:01,280
Speaker 2: he's not taking care of his obligations, so he's not perfect.

1747
01:14:01,360 --> 01:14:03,799
Speaker 2: He's hurting her, yes he is, but maybe he feels

1748
01:14:03,880 --> 01:14:06,400
Speaker 2: enabled by it because Mom's going to solve his problems

1749
01:14:06,439 --> 01:14:06,880
Speaker 2: every time.

1750
01:14:07,760 --> 01:14:09,120
Speaker 1: Hey, do you wanna?

1751
01:14:09,520 --> 01:14:09,880
Speaker 16: Yes?

1752
01:14:09,960 --> 01:14:10,120
Speaker 5: Hi?

1753
01:14:10,360 --> 01:14:11,519
Speaker 1: Hi, what do you think?

1754
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Speaker 14: Good morning?

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Speaker 23: I love you guys. I want to say that he

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Speaker 23: totally is gaslighting her. Yeah, he is just fifting the blame.

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Speaker 23: He hits snooze three times, like it's not her responsibility.

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Speaker 23: I agree with you, guys. Yeah, he's totally guess lit her.

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Speaker 23: It's not her responsibility to make sure that he gets

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Speaker 23: up and goes to the interview.

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Speaker 1: Like Ki said, Mommy solving your problems. Come on, I'd

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Speaker 1: be so embarrassed.

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Speaker 3: I didn't raise him like that. Oh yes you did.

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Speaker 3: And I feel.

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Speaker 10: Sometimes as women, we feel like we're the moms of

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Speaker 10: our partners sometimes in certain situations.

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Speaker 3: And we shouldn't. Yeah, that's true. You know what I mean,

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Speaker 3: I'm not your memory.

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Speaker 2: Do you want to thank you so much for listening

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Speaker 2: for Colin, have a good day.

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Speaker 1: Thank you you guys.

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Speaker 15: Do love you.

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Speaker 1: I love you too. It is the frend Show.

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Speaker 2: Good morning, thanks for having us on the radio, on

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Speaker 2: the iHeart app live and anytime search for the Fred

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Speaker 2: Show on demand.

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Speaker 1: This comes from our friends. It read it.

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Speaker 2: And he says, I bought a house a couple of

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Speaker 2: years ago. I go through hundreds of these. I mean,

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Speaker 2: I truly curate these. Okay, I want you to know, really,

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Speaker 2: I don't just take the first you mean, really business,

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Speaker 2: there's thousands of them. I don't keep them in business.

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Speaker 2: I'm saying, I don't just pick the first one I see.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to read a bunch of them to find

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Speaker 2: the one that I think is appropriate.

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Speaker 3: I got you.

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Speaker 1: That's good, you know. I mean it's like Kiki, she

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Speaker 1: goes through thousands of cases.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, man, it's hard.

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Speaker 2: It is to pick the ones worthy of your courtroom.

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Speaker 2: I bought a house a couple of years ago, and

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Speaker 2: I've been working on making it look nicer. I spent

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Speaker 2: a lot of time redoing the front gardens, trying to

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Speaker 2: make it look neat and nice. A few weeks ago, rather,

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Speaker 2: I was at a greenhouse buying some plants for the

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Speaker 2: garden and I saw two yard flamingos marked down on clearance.

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Speaker 2: I knew that they belonged in my garden. They're not

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Speaker 2: everyone cup of tea, but I think they are a

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Speaker 2: lot of fun, so I set them up when I

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Speaker 2: got home, and a couple days later, my neighbor was

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Speaker 2: knocking on my doorm and she was demanding I take

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Speaker 2: down my flamingos because they're ugly and lowering the property

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Speaker 2: value of the neighborhood. The neighbor said, I told her

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Speaker 2: I am not taking them down because I like them

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Speaker 2: and the property value isn't going to be hurt by

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Speaker 2: two yard flamingos. I also live in Hoa, and as

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Speaker 2: far as I'm aware, there are no town ordinances about

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Speaker 2: yard flamingos. She's posted pictures of my house, the street

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Speaker 2: that I live on, in a closeup of my flamingos

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Speaker 2: in our town's Facebook page to complain about them. Some

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Speaker 2: people agreed I should take them down. After that, another

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Speaker 2: neighbor came over to tell me to get rid of them.

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Speaker 2: My mom also agreed that I should take them down

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Speaker 2: to keep the peace with my neighbor. I like them.

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Speaker 2: I smile when I see them when I pull my driveway.

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Speaker 2: I have no plans to take them down. Should I

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Speaker 2: take down the yard flamingos? Well, okay, so we have

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Speaker 2: a case here. We have an issue of a person

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Speaker 2: who apparently can put whatever they want in their front yard.

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Speaker 2: And I'm sure there are people listening who it's the

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Speaker 2: same way now. I'm also sure there are people listening

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Speaker 2: who live in an Ahoa, which means, you know, some

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Speaker 2: people get elected and they decide that they're like you know,

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Speaker 2: the police, and they come around and they get to

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Speaker 2: tell you what to do. You can't do this, you

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Speaker 2: can't do that.

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Speaker 3: I'm on you are Yeah, I'm the treasurer.

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Speaker 1: Stop it.

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Speaker 3: I like when you look at me, stop it. Hey,

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Speaker 3: I don't play about my bag or my hoa.

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Speaker 1: Stop. They put you in charge of the money.

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Speaker 3: I think nobody wanted to do it.

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Speaker 1: Like I think nobody wanted to do it either as well.

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Speaker 1: I'm on it though.

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Speaker 15: I stepped up and I said I'll be your girl,

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Speaker 15: I don't even live there anymore.

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Speaker 2: And I'll be your girl, and you're in charge of

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Speaker 2: the money for the Aha you are, I am. Now,

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Speaker 2: you're a smart lady. But like, we can't get you

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Speaker 2: to tell us what number the showdown is every day? Right,

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Speaker 2: and some money be missing, money be up and down?

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Speaker 2: How much money we have? It depends on the day.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: See money moves around for a reason.

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Speaker 15: And if you guys might see a new fence that

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Speaker 15: they away at the new property, mind your business.

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Speaker 3: If you do, mind your business. If you don't.

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Speaker 2: That's actually not allowed to use Venmo because she was

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Speaker 2: trying to money launder using it.

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Speaker 3: Or her credit card. I'll love her husband. Yeah it'sband's

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Speaker 3: credit card.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, that's okay. All right. So you like yard flamingos.

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Speaker 1: You put yard flamingos up, you want them in your yard.

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Speaker 1: There is no one that can tell you that you

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Speaker 1: cannot have them. However, your neighbors all apparently think they're ugly,

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Speaker 1: and even your mom is like, it's not worth it

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Speaker 1: to make all the neighbors mad. What do you do?

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Speaker 1: What do you do? Do you keep them up?

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Speaker 2: I might suggest maybe the backyard or something where everyone

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Speaker 2: doesn't have to look at them, because is it really worth?

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Speaker 2: I mean, you bought these things on clearance. It wasn't

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Speaker 2: like it was your life ambition to have a yard

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Speaker 2: with garden or with flamingos in them, or garden homes

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Speaker 2: or whatever your thing is. So why not put them

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Speaker 2: somewhere where everyone doesn't have to look at them? An

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Speaker 2: ire and then your neighbors don't hate you.

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Speaker 25: No, you're not gonna tell me what color to paint

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Speaker 25: my house, how to have my lawn. If I want

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Speaker 25: my flamingos, I own this heer yard, I'm gonna have

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Speaker 25: my flamingos. I do also feel envious of the woman

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Speaker 25: whose biggest problem is her neighbor's lawn flamingos, Right, Like,

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Speaker 25: go out and find a real problem in your life.

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Speaker 25: That's ridiculous, right, that's my that's my experience.

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Speaker 15: Yeah, you work really hard to save up for this

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Speaker 15: house or whatever it is, like, and you're gonna tell

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Speaker 15: me I can put my clear and flamingos up.

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Speaker 3: But that makes me so angry.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like, but it's that ugly that everybody

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Speaker 2: seems to agree. Then I might say, is it really worth?

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Speaker 1: It? Is it really worth it. Is this the hill

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Speaker 1: you want to die on with your neighbors?

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Speaker 3: Is this the hill they want to die on?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? But I mean whether it's fair or not. If

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Speaker 1: the entire neighborhood turns on you, you have a problem,

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Speaker 1: whether it's right or not.

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Speaker 3: I'd be like, are you guys okay?

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Speaker 19: Right?

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Speaker 13: I don't know.

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Speaker 6: You can't control everybody, and everybody doesn't have to be

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Speaker 6: the same.

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Speaker 3: Mm this is my house.

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Speaker 2: Is this any different than a person who doesn't take

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Speaker 2: very good care of their lawn? Is this any different

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Speaker 2: than a person who doesn't take very good care of

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Speaker 2: their house and you do? Is this any different than that?

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Speaker 2: I mean it's creating an eye sore, right, So if

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Speaker 2: people don't like.

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Speaker 3: It, even then I don't care. Like it's your lawn.

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Speaker 3: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Okay, wonderful, right,

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Speaker 3: So thank you.

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Speaker 1: I want to see your front lawn. What was in

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Speaker 1: your front yard that.

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Speaker 6: A couple of bushes? And I keep my lawn trimmed,

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Speaker 6: and that's it. I don't I'm not getting jazzy with it.

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Speaker 6: But if I wanted to get jazzy with it, I

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Speaker 6: would I pay these property sexes that's right girl.

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Speaker 1: Do you have an chi a no? H a man,

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Speaker 1: they won't let you get away with anything.

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Speaker 7: No, we won't.

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Speaker 1: No, she won't. Hey, Jessica, you say, go buy more?

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Speaker 14: I absolutely do you know what?

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Speaker 1: It's my yard.

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Speaker 12: I pay for this stuff.

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Speaker 1: I'm buying more.

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Speaker 3: Go off.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I guess, I guess. You know me.

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Speaker 2: I'm not much of a rule follower, but I also

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Speaker 2: would be like, okay, is this really worth it? Because

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Speaker 2: if everyone's ganging up on me and it's an untenable situation,

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Speaker 2: you do not want the whole neighborhood against you.

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Speaker 1: You simply don't bad.

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Speaker 23: It's you know, it's more worth it to do it then,

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Speaker 23: because you know what.

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Speaker 7: I didn't do nothing put up with you?

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Speaker 16: All right?

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Speaker 1: All right, fair enough, thank you, Jessica.

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Speaker 7: You're good.

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Speaker 20: Now.

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Speaker 2: If you remember, Jason's having an issue in his backyard

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Speaker 2: with his coy pond, which just sounds so boogie to

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Speaker 2: say it. And you've got pterodactyl birds flying down trying

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Speaker 2: to eat the koi fish, right, so you put up.

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Speaker 2: You've tried many different things, and what you what you've

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Speaker 2: landed on is one of those. If you like drive

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Speaker 2: by like an auto part store, the place where they

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Speaker 2: still tires or whatever, like the big tall looking thing with.

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Speaker 1: The than on the bottom of it. Yeah, and it's

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Speaker 1: sort of like it looks like it's having convulsions or whatever.

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Speaker 1: Is it working? It seems to be working.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that being said, all your neighbors get to see

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Speaker 2: the sky dancer.

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Speaker 1: Yeah if you look at it.

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Speaker 9: Luckily it's in our backyard and not in front of

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Speaker 9: our house, which would be wild. But yeah, I'm sure

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Speaker 9: everyone that has a backyard near ours is like, what

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Speaker 9: the helly?

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Speaker 2: You know, And if someone has a problem with it,

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Speaker 2: I know you. If someone has a problem with that,

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Speaker 2: you're going to consider their.

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Speaker 1: Problem, you know what. I don't know.

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Speaker 9: I feel like there's I am a people pleaser, but

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Speaker 9: like you don't own a lot of things in life, right,

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Speaker 9: like and if you can get to a point where

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Speaker 9: you own your own property, like I feel like within

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Speaker 9: the law, like.

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Speaker 1: You you should be able to do what you want.

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Speaker 9: Like if you're talking about like your house being like

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Speaker 9: run down or busted, or your.

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Speaker 2: Law running a meth operation or something, you shouldn't do that, like.

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Speaker 9: Your lawn being unkept or something like that, Like those

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Speaker 9: are ordinances against that like the village, but like just

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Speaker 9: some decorations like that's not against any rules, or.

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Speaker 1: Have flamingos in front of my my meth RV cooking.

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Speaker 9: The flamingos are not the problem at that point, it's

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Speaker 9: the myth. Yeah, like the f show is on Friends,

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Speaker 9: fun fact, Fred.

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Speaker 2: Learn so much. Guys, did you know that hippopotamuses can't swim?

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Speaker 2: Hippot which there's a fun fact right there, there's hippopot

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Speaker 2: Hippopotamuses doesn't even something.

1970
01:23:20,080 --> 01:23:23,519
Speaker 1: Of a real word. Oh, it's not hippopotami, it is

1971
01:23:23,560 --> 01:23:27,280
Speaker 1: not Hippopotamuses cannot swim.

1972
01:23:27,520 --> 01:23:29,479
Speaker 2: You see them in the water, but they can't really swim.

1973
01:23:29,479 --> 01:23:31,559
Speaker 2: Their bones are large and dense, making it hard for

1974
01:23:31,600 --> 01:23:33,840
Speaker 2: them to float. Instead, they do kind of a slow

1975
01:23:33,880 --> 01:23:38,160
Speaker 2: motion gallop on the riverbed or the seafloor. I'll say

1976
01:23:38,240 --> 01:23:40,760
Speaker 2: something else I didn't know is there are people that

1977
01:23:40,920 --> 01:23:44,479
Speaker 2: can't float like humans that are like very dense and muscle.

1978
01:23:44,520 --> 01:23:46,880
Speaker 2: I guess they can't float and they have a hard

1979
01:23:46,880 --> 01:23:50,080
Speaker 2: sound learning how to swim, which yeah, I've heard about

1980
01:23:50,120 --> 01:23:52,160
Speaker 2: like a few like my friend Gideon, I don't have

1981
01:23:52,200 --> 01:23:54,200
Speaker 2: that either, who have like no fat in their body,

1982
01:23:54,280 --> 01:23:58,240
Speaker 2: like zero fat you know percentage. He doesn't float very well,

1983
01:23:58,479 --> 01:24:00,880
Speaker 2: so he doesn't swim. He doesn't really swim. I never

1984
01:24:00,960 --> 01:24:05,680
Speaker 2: knew that Gideon couldn't flow. I know, it's fascinating.

1985
01:24:05,760 --> 01:24:08,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, more Fred Show next