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Speaker 1: no more?

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Speaker 2: Stop it, stop near this. I don't. I ain't gonna

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Speaker 2: lie man. I'm starting to get agentes bro. I don't

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Speaker 2: want to hear that pins of people younger than twenty five?

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Speaker 3: No moss again old yeah, oh Future Bro, shut up, Bro.

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Speaker 4: The people was Brandy.

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Speaker 2: Doing the run?

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Speaker 1: That national anthem was beautiful. It was Brandy Brandy, like,

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Speaker 1: let's stop it.

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Speaker 2: There's a lot of revisionist history that be happening with

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Speaker 2: niggas that we gotta stop.

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Speaker 4: We gotta stop, do we do?

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Speaker 1: I'll stop acting like Whitney Houston herself didn't say.

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Speaker 4: Brandy was the most like.

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Speaker 2: Stop like Christina aguilaric and saying, y'all don't do this.

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Speaker 3: I want to shoot baby.

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry, Mike.

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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all? It's your girl lexp and it's your

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Speaker 1: girls training a call and you are tuned in to

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Speaker 1: another episode of poor Mind.

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Speaker 6: Where drunk mind speaks, So birthday.

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Speaker 1: We gotta guess today, we gotta guess saday. Okay, when

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Speaker 1: y'all were first introduced to him, now mind you let

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Speaker 1: me say this, y'all did ask for this guest because

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Speaker 1: y'all say, I'd be lying, but y'all was asking for

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Speaker 1: him in the comment. They have been and y'all been

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Speaker 1: asking for it, and we delivered. Y'all first introduced to

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Speaker 1: him on tiptok Now he has a banging podcast. Y'all

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Speaker 1: seen him on Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 4: He's been everywhere.

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Speaker 1: If you get on social media, y'all have seen his

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Speaker 1: clips going viral. He's known for keeping it real, keeping

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Speaker 4: Y'all give it up. But did y'all take her? What's up? Okay?

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Speaker 4: This is how you starting to show today?

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Speaker 2: Is you know?

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Speaker 7: Off earth?

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Speaker 2: I'm because we've been.

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Speaker 4: Trying to get you for a while.

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Speaker 6: Schedules have been running into you everywhere.

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Speaker 2: Schedule.

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Speaker 3: Don't act like you meansy to having our schedule books out.

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Speaker 2: It's a blessing for real.

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Speaker 4: Yes, So I want to kind of talk.

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Speaker 1: First of all, I really want to give you your flowers,

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Speaker 1: like we're gonna get the serious stuff out the way.

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Speaker 4: Because I told this to Dre.

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Speaker 1: We were talking on the phone one day because we

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Speaker 4: So you was on the docket that day.

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Speaker 1: And I know it didn't I hate what people say. Oh,

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Speaker 1: he just came out of nowhere. But the fact that

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Speaker 1: you started your podcast in what twenty twenty three, twenty four,

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Speaker 1: twenty twenty four.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and are you right it was audio, Yes, it

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Speaker 2: was audio only.

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. We have been doing this for

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Speaker 1: a while.

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Speaker 4: I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 1: I have never seen somebody cover this much ground and

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Speaker 4: I've never seen it. I have never seen it.

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Speaker 1: So the fact that you have a platform and that

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Speaker 1: you've grown on and you always stand ten toes down

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Speaker 1: in your opinions and your things, and you've grown organically.

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Speaker 1: I have to give you your flowers for that, because especially now,

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Speaker 1: everybody has a podcast, right.

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Speaker 2: Take the mugs. Take the mugs.

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Speaker 1: So the fact that you are doing it in a

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Speaker 3: That's probably my favorite thing about you. I love that

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Speaker 3: you just you say what you mean, and you mean

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Speaker 3: what you say. It's never no retracting of statements. I

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I mean I ain't nothing to type that.

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Speaker 2: I started podcast, and then it was like, shit, if

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Speaker 2: It'll go because I already know if I post on TikTok,

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Speaker 2: I ain't had no Instagram to the end of twenty

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Speaker 6: That is so wild, that is that's crazy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I ain't like Instagram. I was like very entire

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Speaker 6: So yeah, and how it used.

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Speaker 1: To be out every time I seen you on a

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Speaker 1: I say, I know, it's like work and everybody puts

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Speaker 2: You used to drive trucks, right, Yeah, I just I

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I ain't even know you're in when I when

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Speaker 2: I stopped driving trucks and I could do this ship

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Speaker 4: Yes, because I will go ahead.

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Speaker 6: What made you decide okay?

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Speaker 3: Because I feel like that's just two different career pads.

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Speaker 6: I was.

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Speaker 2: I was actually okay with driving trucks. It was stable.

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Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, Like I'm driving for lists.

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Speaker 2: So y'all want to go stay with my granny for

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Speaker 2: like five years for real, Like granny would like, come

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Speaker 2: We'll post that I got through kids.

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Speaker 4: I did not know that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I keep my private like private. I got one,

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Speaker 4: You got correct me, audience, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Man, that's that thing. Look, I think for me, I've

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Speaker 2: like what's for them and what's not Because them folks

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Speaker 2: what I'm saying, Because ship, if me and her go

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Speaker 3: I'm telling you, I feel like it's cool to have

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Speaker 2: Niggas hide their drug habits while.

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Speaker 1: You ain't exactly But I think it's so crazy how

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Speaker 1: The if I was in a relationship, I would put

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Speaker 1: But if you have five hundred followers, you can post

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Speaker 2: That and you know, the way I speak, I'm always

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Speaker 2: So why we I think? I think niggas do that

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Speaker 1: How has y'all's relationship changed since you have nigga?

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Speaker 2: This shit crazy? It's it's a one eighty for real,

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Speaker 2: So our communication game was crazy because it's like that shit,

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Speaker 2: it's this comedian. I watched thing Tim Dlon he do

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Speaker 2: like being I'm cool with being a charge all. I

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Speaker 2: don't know if I want to do this twenty years right, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. My granddaddy did that ship

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Speaker 2: for like thirty years, so I already yeah.

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Speaker 1: Or ship, they give you back problems and the side

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Speaker 2: Really uh huh. Also, I think that people don't talk

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Speaker 2: about is how isolating it is. So you pick up

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Speaker 2: traits of being institutionalized.

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Speaker 6: Because you buy yourself by yourself.

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Speaker 2: A lot, so you eat by your so you spend

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I hate it because they'd be in the back

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Speaker 1: I always tell people there is no way because I

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Speaker 2: You gotta be mindful of like what your content is.

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Speaker 4: Care about you. Y'all are all bonding on. I hate this, Nita.

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Speaker 3: I mean yes, And I think a lot of people

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Speaker 6: I gotta have a rebuttal, right.

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Speaker 2: I think it's a thing too. It's like they see

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Speaker 6: I think it's confidence too.

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Speaker 2: I'm cool with that, but articulate the disagreement, right, And

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Speaker 6: People up girl, and they can't rarely ever do that.

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Speaker 2: times it's very it's easy to navigate the hate when

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Speaker 6: For me, you rooted in you, you know who you are.

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Speaker 2: You just don't like me. That's cool. I'm cool with that.

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Speaker 2: You ain't saying nothing about what I said me too, Yoh, I.

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Speaker 1: Do with you being Would you consider yourself pro black?

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Speaker 2: Biologically, I think that that's just way to discredit the person,

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Speaker 1: But okay, can I and I know y'all gonna be

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Speaker 4: You know, it's not giving like hmm, what is he?

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Speaker 2: I don't, I don't, but see, I think, you know,

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Speaker 6: I think it's probably because of your hair.

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Speaker 2: Because but I grew up.

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Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: You gotta confine me. I ain't gonna looking for you.

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Speaker 2: And this is also something I found out about upon

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Speaker 4: Bro.

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Speaker 2: But I think for me, it's just like, uh, I

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Speaker 4: But I think that's crazy.

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Speaker 2: Your mama black and you hate black people? So what

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Speaker 6: How many of them don't be wanting today? Black women

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Speaker 2: And all you're finna make me.

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Speaker 1: You your experience through life have been as a black man.

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Speaker 1: Like I said, you you're to me no offense, but

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Speaker 2: Because it ain't been my experience. I ain't growing a

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Speaker 2: Yeah I could, I could see it all niggas whant

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Speaker 2: I you know what I'm saying. That white mama ship,

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Speaker 2: that's a real thing.

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Speaker 4: Oh trust me.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, they move a little different.

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Speaker 4: White You can always tell.

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Speaker 6: Yeah got that. It's my keen drop the Nissan off.

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Speaker 4: spiked up.

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00:20:05,000 --> 00:20:06,920
Speaker 2: But I grow up the nigga. These nigga be bad

440
00:20:06,960 --> 00:20:11,159
Speaker 2: as fuck, man, But I think, but they rooted it

441
00:20:11,200 --> 00:20:12,879
Speaker 2: in who they is. They rooted in their black and

442
00:20:12,920 --> 00:20:16,120
Speaker 2: it's like they ain't never I ain't never seen these conversations.

443
00:20:16,119 --> 00:20:20,399
Speaker 2: So like a lot of times that like the whole

444
00:20:20,520 --> 00:20:22,800
Speaker 2: white mama thing, that ain't something I really knew until

445
00:20:22,800 --> 00:20:25,280
Speaker 2: the Internet was prevalent, and then it's like you start

446
00:20:25,280 --> 00:20:27,439
Speaker 2: seeing it more and more. But I think anytime you

447
00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:29,760
Speaker 2: in black spaces, are you in spaces where you're trying to,

448
00:20:30,359 --> 00:20:31,800
Speaker 2: you know, just show a lot of black people or

449
00:20:31,840 --> 00:20:35,600
Speaker 2: push community and push unity, it's always going to be

450
00:20:35,640 --> 00:20:38,840
Speaker 2: like a number of divisive types that's gonna come out,

451
00:20:39,040 --> 00:20:41,760
Speaker 2: And that could be two black parents, four black grandparents

452
00:20:41,800 --> 00:20:44,760
Speaker 2: like Nigga still be divisive shit. Nigga. Nigga have a

453
00:20:44,760 --> 00:20:47,959
Speaker 2: whole lineage of black folks and they date outside their

454
00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:50,520
Speaker 2: racing down top of their race. So it's like, I mean,

455
00:20:50,560 --> 00:20:53,400
Speaker 2: what we're really talking about here it is are we

456
00:20:53,800 --> 00:20:55,840
Speaker 2: are we trying to unify black people? And do we

457
00:20:55,920 --> 00:20:59,240
Speaker 2: have the understanding of like what the history of America is? Like,

458
00:20:59,280 --> 00:21:03,280
Speaker 2: what you're gonna tell Thomas difference in children named back? Hen'

459
00:21:03,359 --> 00:21:04,680
Speaker 2: telling them that.

460
00:21:04,240 --> 00:21:05,879
Speaker 6: That's true, that's true.

461
00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:09,639
Speaker 3: I need to touch on back on you being a

462
00:21:09,720 --> 00:21:12,080
Speaker 3: zoposied a little bit. So I know you said your

463
00:21:12,119 --> 00:21:14,320
Speaker 3: mom has passed away a biological mom.

464
00:21:14,400 --> 00:21:15,160
Speaker 6: Is your dad still little?

465
00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:15,359
Speaker 1: No?

466
00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:18,159
Speaker 2: No, no, it's my mother. I don't know these biological folks.

467
00:21:18,200 --> 00:21:20,640
Speaker 6: Oh, so you don't have any type of connection.

468
00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:23,480
Speaker 2: I was giving away that birth so and you're not.

469
00:21:23,440 --> 00:21:26,320
Speaker 3: Interested at all in like finding them having a conversation

470
00:21:26,400 --> 00:21:26,680
Speaker 3: with them.

471
00:21:26,680 --> 00:21:29,200
Speaker 2: I'm to be earnest, like I feel whole, you know

472
00:21:29,240 --> 00:21:31,760
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. I was love, I was raised a

473
00:21:31,800 --> 00:21:34,160
Speaker 2: certain way, like everything that I was raised on, Mamie,

474
00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:39,240
Speaker 2: who I am? I mean reaching back I had to.

475
00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:41,280
Speaker 2: I had to really get to a point where myself

476
00:21:41,280 --> 00:21:43,720
Speaker 2: where like I figured out what the fifty to fifty.

477
00:21:43,440 --> 00:21:43,919
Speaker 3: Of it was.

478
00:21:44,000 --> 00:21:46,120
Speaker 2: Right. Let's say I reached back and I get the rejection,

479
00:21:46,920 --> 00:21:48,480
Speaker 2: like they didn't want nothing to do with me for real,

480
00:21:48,840 --> 00:21:50,359
Speaker 2: that's going to open up a whole another can of

481
00:21:50,400 --> 00:21:53,120
Speaker 2: worms for me. Why I already feel whole within myself,

482
00:21:53,520 --> 00:21:56,960
Speaker 2: And it's like if I don't have of course, like

483
00:21:57,000 --> 00:21:59,840
Speaker 2: when you come with new information, you want to like

484
00:22:00,160 --> 00:22:02,840
Speaker 2: kind of close the loop. And I came to a

485
00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:05,040
Speaker 2: point where I kind of got all the information I

486
00:22:05,080 --> 00:22:07,800
Speaker 2: wanted and I had to make a decision like it's this.

487
00:22:08,720 --> 00:22:11,440
Speaker 2: I'm stable. I got my kids, I got my family.

488
00:22:12,080 --> 00:22:15,040
Speaker 2: I know I'm loved by people. I know I got

489
00:22:15,080 --> 00:22:18,679
Speaker 2: a support system, and I feel whole within myself. Like

490
00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:21,160
Speaker 2: if they ain't never tell me this, this ain't nothing

491
00:22:21,160 --> 00:22:24,600
Speaker 2: I would have never been thinking about. So I was like,

492
00:22:24,640 --> 00:22:26,600
Speaker 2: I'm cool, Like if they wanted something to do with me.

493
00:22:27,600 --> 00:22:29,439
Speaker 2: You made the decision, Like I said, you make decision,

494
00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:30,960
Speaker 2: give me away. You got to make a decision to

495
00:22:30,960 --> 00:22:33,600
Speaker 2: get back in my life. And it ain't for me

496
00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:37,560
Speaker 2: to go searching for that shit because I was raised

497
00:22:37,560 --> 00:22:40,200
Speaker 2: in all love, like I was raised by some stand

498
00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:43,080
Speaker 2: up women and men, So I don't really feel the

499
00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:46,640
Speaker 2: need to like undo that. And then I also understand too,

500
00:22:46,680 --> 00:22:50,120
Speaker 2: it's just like, shit, that was a decision that was made,

501
00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:53,080
Speaker 2: but that decision paved a way for me, and I'm

502
00:22:53,119 --> 00:22:55,840
Speaker 2: good while I'm at like, I'm also you know this

503
00:22:56,040 --> 00:22:58,399
Speaker 2: before my social media and anything too. So it's like

504
00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:03,720
Speaker 2: these decisions I make and isolation for you know what

505
00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:04,920
Speaker 2: I mean. So I had a lot of time to

506
00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:09,440
Speaker 2: think about this shit, and I'm very like, I'm very comfortable,

507
00:23:09,520 --> 00:23:13,080
Speaker 2: comfortable and confident in my decision, so I don't really

508
00:23:13,119 --> 00:23:16,280
Speaker 2: think about this. So like, yeah, when my mother passed,

509
00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:20,960
Speaker 2: my mother passed twenty nineteen, of course, like my father

510
00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:23,720
Speaker 2: was like, yeah, man, you know what I'm saying. I

511
00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:25,600
Speaker 2: kind of pressed them on it, like what's up? Because

512
00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:27,320
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. I know y'all was holding

513
00:23:27,359 --> 00:23:28,800
Speaker 2: to doubt for her because she don't playing no games.

514
00:23:29,240 --> 00:23:32,680
Speaker 2: So but my mother had like womb issues and stillborns

515
00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:34,760
Speaker 2: and miscarriacters and shit like that. So I was a

516
00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:38,520
Speaker 2: bit blessing for her. So like when I'm a yeah,

517
00:23:38,600 --> 00:23:41,000
Speaker 2: man once I once I get that part of the information,

518
00:23:41,560 --> 00:23:44,120
Speaker 2: it's like, man, I'm a blessing to this woman. Bro, Yeah,

519
00:23:44,119 --> 00:23:46,200
Speaker 2: I'm not feinna go fucking folks.

520
00:23:46,440 --> 00:23:50,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, I on that because I have like a similar

521
00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:55,520
Speaker 3: situation because I'm adopted as will and I always felt

522
00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:59,000
Speaker 3: like I was whole too, But it was always still

523
00:23:59,040 --> 00:24:00,000
Speaker 3: something in me that won.

524
00:24:00,200 --> 00:24:01,280
Speaker 6: To know, like very much.

525
00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:03,440
Speaker 2: I wanted to know who it was.

526
00:24:04,440 --> 00:24:05,760
Speaker 6: I wanted to know who they were.

527
00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:07,280
Speaker 3: I wanted to know what they It was just so

528
00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:09,320
Speaker 3: many different things, what they look like, maybe what they

529
00:24:09,359 --> 00:24:10,199
Speaker 3: personality is like.

530
00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:12,960
Speaker 6: But I still loved my parents, you know what I mean.

531
00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:15,320
Speaker 3: They raised me and they gave me a very great

532
00:24:15,359 --> 00:24:17,200
Speaker 3: life too, and I was raised on love as well.

533
00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:19,399
Speaker 3: But it was just always avoid that I feel like,

534
00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:21,000
Speaker 3: was me saying I get what you're saying as far

535
00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:23,720
Speaker 3: as like the rejection, because I feel like that's a

536
00:24:23,800 --> 00:24:26,199
Speaker 3: relationship that me and my biological mom have, like we

537
00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:29,720
Speaker 3: don't really I actually grew up around her my whole life,

538
00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:31,800
Speaker 3: but we don't really have much of a relationship, and

539
00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:36,680
Speaker 3: it's because of her. So it's interesting, Like being adopted

540
00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:38,920
Speaker 3: is just a very complex thing that I think most

541
00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:42,760
Speaker 3: people don't really understand unless they've been through it because

542
00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:45,600
Speaker 3: you have so many different emotions around it.

543
00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:49,719
Speaker 2: For me too, So you gotta think if my mom

544
00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:54,000
Speaker 2: and daddy dark skinned, brown skin, my grandparents like all right,

545
00:24:54,400 --> 00:24:58,280
Speaker 2: it's like all right, somebody, and you know, when you're

546
00:24:58,280 --> 00:25:00,479
Speaker 2: a kid, look kids, like you're around all your cousins

547
00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:02,320
Speaker 2: and ship, they're gonna say something like my little cousin

548
00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:03,040
Speaker 2: be like, why you're white?

549
00:25:03,080 --> 00:25:03,159
Speaker 7: Bro?

550
00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:11,760
Speaker 2: What right? Just gonna say the blood right now. I

551
00:25:11,760 --> 00:25:15,640
Speaker 2: think more than anything, it was a very like South

552
00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:18,200
Speaker 2: Spot from my mama. I ain't gonna say she was right.

553
00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:21,080
Speaker 2: I don't feel like she was right, but I didn't

554
00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:24,200
Speaker 2: processed my anger around it, but I didn't tell you. Yeah,

555
00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:28,560
Speaker 2: But I think for me, the the liberation of it

556
00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:31,119
Speaker 2: was like knowing that I wasn't crazy, nigga. I always

557
00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:33,240
Speaker 2: knew that y'all seen her line that I was different.

558
00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:36,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, And so like once you find out, uh, she

559
00:25:37,200 --> 00:25:39,880
Speaker 3: passed May twenty nineteen.

560
00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:42,280
Speaker 2: I found out in June twenty nineteen.

561
00:25:42,800 --> 00:25:45,360
Speaker 6: Oh wow, a few months after well a month.

562
00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:48,760
Speaker 2: But I'm telling you this something this, you know through observation,

563
00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:52,840
Speaker 2: I'm smart enough to realize, like fold, this ain't you know?

564
00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:58,840
Speaker 2: I only like y'all, So in the whole time, I ain't.

565
00:25:58,880 --> 00:26:00,240
Speaker 2: I didn't think I was a doctor. I just think

566
00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:01,440
Speaker 2: I thought I had a different daddy.

567
00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:04,080
Speaker 6: Tyke, shit, Oh you thought she was ying by your daddy?

568
00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:04,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure.

569
00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:07,440
Speaker 3: But I do feel like kids are intuitive that way too,

570
00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:09,800
Speaker 3: because my parents told me when I was like four

571
00:26:09,920 --> 00:26:12,000
Speaker 3: that I was adopteded so I knew my whole life,

572
00:26:12,560 --> 00:26:14,720
Speaker 3: but my mom and my dad would never tell me

573
00:26:14,760 --> 00:26:15,359
Speaker 3: who it was.

574
00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:17,760
Speaker 6: But as I got older, I knew.

575
00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:19,520
Speaker 3: It was somebody in my family because I started to

576
00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:20,520
Speaker 3: look like my cousin.

577
00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:23,640
Speaker 6: Ended up happening. It ended up happening to be heard.

578
00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:27,679
Speaker 1: Let me ask you all a question. Do y'all feel

579
00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:32,520
Speaker 1: like like you wanting a relationship with your father or

580
00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:35,439
Speaker 1: you're a biological father or mother, or even if you

581
00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:38,520
Speaker 1: wanted a relationship with your biological parents, do y'all feel

582
00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:40,920
Speaker 1: like that would be kind of like betraying the parents

583
00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:41,600
Speaker 1: who raised you.

584
00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:43,480
Speaker 4: Is that kind of something that.

585
00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:46,520
Speaker 2: That decision to me. Yeah, you know, I'm I'm grown,

586
00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:48,840
Speaker 2: I'm autonomous. I can have a relationship with the folks

587
00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:50,719
Speaker 2: all want, Yeah, because at the end of the day,

588
00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:53,360
Speaker 2: they still are a part of my story. You could

589
00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:55,800
Speaker 2: see the anxiety or your parents face when you start

590
00:26:55,800 --> 00:26:58,359
Speaker 2: talking about it, though, they because they don't want you to.

591
00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:01,879
Speaker 2: You know, you got to think about how big a

592
00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:04,600
Speaker 2: sacrifice it is for somebody to take on somebody's life,

593
00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:06,840
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. So I think that a

594
00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:08,880
Speaker 2: little bit of it is a little selfish on their part,

595
00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:12,840
Speaker 2: but it's it's you know, rightfully, so like I raised you.

596
00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:14,960
Speaker 2: It's kind of like one of those ego things like man,

597
00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:17,000
Speaker 2: fuck they like they could have stupped up and vie.

598
00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:19,880
Speaker 2: But I think, you know the way my dad kind

599
00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:22,720
Speaker 2: of pushed it to me, he was like, he was like,

600
00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:24,679
Speaker 2: I want you to remember, like I'm your dad, Like

601
00:27:24,880 --> 00:27:26,280
Speaker 2: no matter what you find. I was like, nigga, I

602
00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:32,000
Speaker 2: know that. Yeah, like you know what you ain't my

603
00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:36,320
Speaker 2: dad like what you know what I'm saying. But I think, yeah,

604
00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:38,919
Speaker 2: I think it's very complex because it's it's very emotional, bro,

605
00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:40,639
Speaker 2: Like you know what I'm saying. They didn't see me

606
00:27:41,040 --> 00:27:43,800
Speaker 2: literally out the wound, you know what I'm saying. So

607
00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:47,280
Speaker 2: I think for my mom, I think as time passed on,

608
00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:49,480
Speaker 2: it was just harder and harder for her to wrap

609
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:52,840
Speaker 2: her mind around, like breaking that news to me, even

610
00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:55,000
Speaker 2: though I had been saying something. You know what I'm saying.

611
00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:58,159
Speaker 2: I've been saying something all of Little Boy. But I

612
00:27:58,200 --> 00:28:00,520
Speaker 2: think the most liberating part was like, damn, I know what, right,

613
00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:03,000
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, Like, Okay, cool, I'm good, No,

614
00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:06,040
Speaker 2: I ain't crazy. Yeah, I can overly trust myself now,

615
00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:08,800
Speaker 2: because that was the biggest complex they came from, that

616
00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:11,280
Speaker 2: is not really being able to trust my intuition or

617
00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:14,040
Speaker 2: like my thoughts or like like damn man, I'm like

618
00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:16,040
Speaker 2: illing fumed about this, Like it's the things I feel

619
00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:19,600
Speaker 2: inside real because I think this very strongly about this

620
00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:22,600
Speaker 2: situation and they keep telling me I'm wrong about it,

621
00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:25,360
Speaker 2: and so like, you know, my all my family got

622
00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:27,520
Speaker 2: smoked from that ship because I was like, yeah, niggas

623
00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:30,439
Speaker 2: are complexit, y'all gas let nigga for thirty years. Damn there.

624
00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:32,880
Speaker 4: You found out.

625
00:28:32,920 --> 00:28:36,200
Speaker 2: So yeah, yeah, But I mean, you know, my mom

626
00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:39,280
Speaker 2: like a matriarch of the family, She's very important. Nobody

627
00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:42,680
Speaker 2: wanted to go again. So and then I think it's

628
00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:45,120
Speaker 2: a complexe thing, Like you know, I can't make them

629
00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:47,800
Speaker 2: decisions for people, I can't undo them decision And I

630
00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:51,920
Speaker 2: think a lot of times with women, we don't address

631
00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:57,120
Speaker 2: like how you know, how like touchy and vulnerable that

632
00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:58,880
Speaker 2: could be around like having womb issues.

633
00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:01,880
Speaker 1: That's how they make us feel if you you are

634
00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:04,120
Speaker 1: a woman, because we can bear children, you know what

635
00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:07,280
Speaker 1: I'm saying, if you are bit to create life. So

636
00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:09,840
Speaker 1: it's like if you can't, they all if you are

637
00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:12,200
Speaker 1: a certain age and you don't have children.

638
00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:14,920
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I think the thing is is like that

639
00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:18,240
Speaker 2: caused a big fracture in my parents' relationship but eventually

640
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:23,280
Speaker 2: ended up being divorced. So I think, yeah, man, you know,

641
00:29:23,520 --> 00:29:26,440
Speaker 2: I'm I'm real like put myself in other people's shoes

642
00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:28,959
Speaker 2: type person. It took me a long time to get up,

643
00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:31,880
Speaker 2: but I think I was mature enough when I found

644
00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:34,760
Speaker 2: out that I could like really process the situation and

645
00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:38,440
Speaker 2: full like But I also then shy away from my

646
00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:40,600
Speaker 2: anger about the shit either and like you know, I

647
00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:43,720
Speaker 2: have family members I literally just started talking to same.

648
00:29:43,880 --> 00:29:46,160
Speaker 3: I stopped talking to a lot of people too when

649
00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:47,400
Speaker 3: I initially found.

650
00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:50,280
Speaker 2: Out y'all, y'all played with my life.

651
00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:52,280
Speaker 6: How can y'all keep this secret from me?

652
00:29:52,360 --> 00:29:54,760
Speaker 3: Like, and you just feel like damns, everybody conspired to

653
00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 3: speak to tire. Everybody else knew the street, and I'm

654
00:29:57,040 --> 00:30:00,800
Speaker 3: the only one in the darker body, you know, like you.

655
00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:02,040
Speaker 2: Know what I'm saying. I go in the other room,

656
00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:03,440
Speaker 2: it's like, hey, you stop talking about this.

657
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:06,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, be quiet when you're walking along. But I

658
00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:11,160
Speaker 3: definitely felt a certain level of in the beginning when

659
00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:14,280
Speaker 3: my dad first passed away, I actually got connected to

660
00:30:14,320 --> 00:30:17,400
Speaker 3: my biological dad, and I did a little bit feel

661
00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:19,640
Speaker 3: like it was me betraying my dad, even though he

662
00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:22,880
Speaker 3: had already passed away. But now I'm in a space

663
00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:25,280
Speaker 3: where I realized, like you said, this is my decision,

664
00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:27,760
Speaker 3: it's my life. I'm not doing anything wrong by wanting

665
00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:31,520
Speaker 3: to know more about that side of myself. And I

666
00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:34,000
Speaker 3: think that us is like people that are adopted, Like

667
00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:36,400
Speaker 3: you should remove that guilt. And then I felt guilty

668
00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:39,000
Speaker 3: as far as with my mom as well, because she

669
00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:41,960
Speaker 3: had warm issues too, so she couldn't bear children of

670
00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:44,480
Speaker 3: her own, and I always felt like I was like.

671
00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:45,400
Speaker 6: Her miracle baby.

672
00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:49,080
Speaker 3: And because of that, she's super overprotective of me, and

673
00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:51,560
Speaker 3: at times I felt like she didn't really want me

674
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:54,560
Speaker 3: to have the relationship with them because she felt like

675
00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:56,800
Speaker 3: it would be them taking me away from her.

676
00:30:57,520 --> 00:30:58,360
Speaker 6: It's a fear.

677
00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:02,840
Speaker 2: Around it because you know what I'm saying, Like my

678
00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:07,240
Speaker 2: mother had like she had a still born and mischaracters.

679
00:31:07,280 --> 00:31:10,120
Speaker 2: You gotta think, like I finally got I got a baby.

680
00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:12,880
Speaker 2: All you ever want a little baby. And then you know,

681
00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:15,000
Speaker 2: my ante was like she was determined to have a

682
00:31:15,080 --> 00:31:16,600
Speaker 2: child named Deontay in the world.

683
00:31:17,240 --> 00:31:21,200
Speaker 6: You know what I say, she already had your name already.

684
00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:24,320
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. But I think I think

685
00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:28,760
Speaker 2: I have to be mindful of you know, like what

686
00:31:28,760 --> 00:31:30,959
Speaker 2: what her state of mind was going through that, Like

687
00:31:31,000 --> 00:31:34,480
Speaker 2: even with your mom is like yeah, man, you know

688
00:31:34,520 --> 00:31:37,560
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. This is something that I like, again

689
00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:40,760
Speaker 2: to your point about the pressure to feel feminine and

690
00:31:41,360 --> 00:31:43,680
Speaker 2: that being reliant on you being able to bear children.

691
00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:46,840
Speaker 2: This is a very complex shit, and I think that

692
00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:49,960
Speaker 2: just dick to donating it to one thing or another.

693
00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:52,400
Speaker 2: It's just like it's it undermind the complexity of the

694
00:31:52,400 --> 00:31:55,640
Speaker 2: situation for all people involved. And I think for me,

695
00:31:55,840 --> 00:31:58,400
Speaker 2: another thing that I find Solace is is like, you know,

696
00:31:58,440 --> 00:32:00,560
Speaker 2: I could have been in the foster custles, you know

697
00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:08,840
Speaker 2: what I'm saying, and like, you know you did. They

698
00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:09,960
Speaker 2: couldn't get rid of me. Man.

699
00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:14,479
Speaker 1: But y'all, I have to tell y'all this story just

700
00:32:15,120 --> 00:32:18,000
Speaker 1: because I think it's so crazy that nobody in y'all's

701
00:32:18,000 --> 00:32:21,360
Speaker 1: family told y'all. I my older sister had a friend.

702
00:32:21,360 --> 00:32:25,840
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say who everything. My older sister had

703
00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:28,600
Speaker 1: a friend. She had a younger sister, so me and

704
00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:30,000
Speaker 1: a younger sister would hang out.

705
00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:31,600
Speaker 4: Her and the older sister were friends.

706
00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:33,680
Speaker 1: So they were kind of like the Brady bunch, you know,

707
00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:37,360
Speaker 1: they were a blended family. So the friend, the younger sister,

708
00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:40,560
Speaker 1: that was my friend. It was like the mom had

709
00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:43,120
Speaker 1: her kids, he had his kids, and when they got together,

710
00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:47,040
Speaker 1: they had my friend right right. But like one day,

711
00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:49,680
Speaker 1: like my sister and the older ones were talking and

712
00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:52,880
Speaker 1: it came out that the younger sister it wasn't her

713
00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:53,640
Speaker 1: dad for real.

714
00:32:54,160 --> 00:32:55,800
Speaker 4: So I was like, oh, you know, that's not your daddy.

715
00:32:56,560 --> 00:32:59,479
Speaker 6: I told, but I'm you know you always did.

716
00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:02,720
Speaker 3: I've been dascy for our last christ That's what I'm

717
00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:03,360
Speaker 3: so like.

718
00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:05,720
Speaker 6: The back to y'all that's kind of crazy.

719
00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:07,160
Speaker 4: No, but it was such a big deal.

720
00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:10,280
Speaker 3: But nobody in my fad, like none of my cousins

721
00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:12,600
Speaker 3: that were around the same age as me, and that

722
00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:13,600
Speaker 3: none of them knew.

723
00:33:15,560 --> 00:33:19,000
Speaker 2: Just keeping the secrets. But I think as black community

724
00:33:19,040 --> 00:33:22,440
Speaker 2: in general, like we got to stop out this secretive ship. Yeah,

725
00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:25,840
Speaker 2: I think you know, you don't know when this is

726
00:33:25,880 --> 00:33:28,680
Speaker 2: going to become a family problem, you know what I'm saying.

727
00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:32,160
Speaker 2: And I think the thing is it's like we we

728
00:33:32,280 --> 00:33:34,360
Speaker 2: owe people the truth, Like you don't get to control

729
00:33:34,480 --> 00:33:37,720
Speaker 2: or dictate the truth about somebody else's And I think

730
00:33:37,880 --> 00:33:41,640
Speaker 2: more than anything, it's it's a bunch of adults thinking

731
00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:45,200
Speaker 2: about themselves and not how it's affecting a child. And

732
00:33:45,280 --> 00:33:47,440
Speaker 2: this is also you know what I'm saying again them

733
00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:51,000
Speaker 2: I god damn Coofie back. But this is things that

734
00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:53,040
Speaker 2: we we've been dealing with in this country for a

735
00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:56,760
Speaker 2: very long time, is keeping secrets to protect and like

736
00:33:57,520 --> 00:33:59,600
Speaker 2: at some point they go beyond protection and they go

737
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:04,000
Speaker 2: into like just negligence, Like, yeah, you got to think

738
00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:06,960
Speaker 2: about how you are fitting to other people. And I

739
00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:09,920
Speaker 2: think you know, children are autonomous beings too, like they

740
00:34:09,960 --> 00:34:12,040
Speaker 2: deserve the truth. You know what I'm saying, because you

741
00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:13,919
Speaker 2: shaping their life in one way or the other, whether

742
00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:16,000
Speaker 2: you shape it with the truth or a lie, and

743
00:34:16,040 --> 00:34:17,960
Speaker 2: then when they act out, you're gonna blame them instead

744
00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:19,719
Speaker 2: of blaming yourself. That shit crazy to me.

745
00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:21,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I think a lot of parents be doing

746
00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:24,360
Speaker 3: their children to the service by not being honest with

747
00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:27,040
Speaker 3: them about certain things, because when they become adults and

748
00:34:27,080 --> 00:34:28,680
Speaker 3: then they do find out the truth, they might not

749
00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:29,960
Speaker 3: want to have a relationship with you.

750
00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:33,160
Speaker 2: That part, and they'll be and they'll be justified in

751
00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:36,319
Speaker 2: that right. But also too, you know, we got to

752
00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:38,799
Speaker 2: think about these children are gonna go into the world

753
00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:41,719
Speaker 2: and be adults. How is this shaping their relationship with

754
00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:43,800
Speaker 2: the world. You know what I'm saying, How is this

755
00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:48,160
Speaker 2: shaping their relationship with other relationships? They can't trust nobody,

756
00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:51,040
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, Everything a motherfucker. Like let's

757
00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:53,640
Speaker 2: say I find the women in my motherfucking dreams and

758
00:34:53,760 --> 00:34:57,759
Speaker 2: I can't trust them because of these motherfuckers. Can't trust

759
00:34:57,760 --> 00:34:59,840
Speaker 2: my motherfucker. You do see what I'm saying. It's like

760
00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:03,920
Speaker 2: people got to take themselves out of situations that's not

761
00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:06,640
Speaker 2: going to directly affect them. Even if you, as the parents,

762
00:35:06,719 --> 00:35:09,120
Speaker 2: you is directly affected, the impact that's going to happen

763
00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:11,160
Speaker 2: on a child is much greater because this is a

764
00:35:11,160 --> 00:35:14,440
Speaker 2: decision you made. You know, I wouldn't say to make

765
00:35:14,440 --> 00:35:17,000
Speaker 2: yourself whole. It could be benevolent. You couldn't see this

766
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:18,759
Speaker 2: child in a bad situation and want to get them

767
00:35:18,800 --> 00:35:21,440
Speaker 2: out at the end of the day. That's the extent

768
00:35:22,360 --> 00:35:24,840
Speaker 2: of your service, though you don't get to dictate the

769
00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:25,720
Speaker 2: truth of their life.

770
00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:28,960
Speaker 3: Usually people are making those decisions for their own selfish reasons.

771
00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:33,960
Speaker 3: So because more specifically, in my situation, my biological grandparents

772
00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:37,040
Speaker 3: made the decision for my mom because my mom was

773
00:35:37,080 --> 00:35:40,200
Speaker 3: a minor, so they made the decision that they made

774
00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:42,560
Speaker 3: to cover their own ass because.

775
00:35:42,400 --> 00:35:44,520
Speaker 6: They didn't want people to know that at the church

776
00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:45,200
Speaker 6: talking about.

777
00:35:45,080 --> 00:35:46,840
Speaker 3: Talking about because she was under asge my mom was

778
00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:48,120
Speaker 3: twelve when she got pregnant with me.

779
00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:51,919
Speaker 6: She had me at thirteen. So yeah, every time.

780
00:35:51,880 --> 00:35:54,680
Speaker 3: I hear it, Yeah, and they hid her for my

781
00:35:54,760 --> 00:35:57,279
Speaker 3: whole family. Nobody in my family knew except for like

782
00:35:57,320 --> 00:35:58,239
Speaker 3: the people involved.

783
00:35:58,600 --> 00:35:59,840
Speaker 6: So a lot of my.

784
00:36:01,640 --> 00:36:04,040
Speaker 2: Twenty four yeah, yeah, that's younger.

785
00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:07,120
Speaker 3: Here, Ye'll go out and have a time to get

786
00:36:07,280 --> 00:36:11,279
Speaker 3: right now I'm thirty four forty six. She just, yeah,

787
00:36:11,719 --> 00:36:15,320
Speaker 3: you got y'all cool though, y'all. I mean, but like

788
00:36:15,400 --> 00:36:18,000
Speaker 3: you said, y'alln't really got well. We grew up around

789
00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:21,719
Speaker 3: each other because her mom is my mom's sister, my

790
00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:22,640
Speaker 3: mom that raised me.

791
00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:24,520
Speaker 6: Her mom is my mom's sister.

792
00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:26,840
Speaker 2: Technically, aunty take right.

793
00:36:26,800 --> 00:36:30,760
Speaker 3: So my mom that raised me is technically my great grandma, right, Auntie, sorry?

794
00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:33,040
Speaker 3: And then her sister is my grandmother.

795
00:36:33,320 --> 00:36:34,359
Speaker 2: Heard you right?

796
00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:38,120
Speaker 3: So I grew up around my Get a little trick,

797
00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:39,680
Speaker 3: get a little stinky.

798
00:36:39,840 --> 00:36:41,560
Speaker 2: I don't want to know what the folks got going on.

799
00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:49,040
Speaker 2: Whatever nigga's doing. Enough Carolina, you know what I'm saying.

800
00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:51,320
Speaker 2: If you a nigga in Concord, North Carolina, little similar

801
00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:52,680
Speaker 2: to let me similar to me.

802
00:36:54,600 --> 00:36:56,680
Speaker 1: You said all your cousins and like everybody around you

803
00:36:56,800 --> 00:36:58,480
Speaker 1: was like brown skin or dark skin, right.

804
00:36:59,080 --> 00:37:01,760
Speaker 4: So I don't mean to be missy. I'm just really wondering.

805
00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:04,120
Speaker 1: I feel like that's why you be going so hard

806
00:37:04,200 --> 00:37:06,080
Speaker 1: to be like pro black, because you got to prove yourself.

807
00:37:06,080 --> 00:37:07,440
Speaker 2: I think a lot of people think that, but this

808
00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:09,719
Speaker 2: is like, this is my community, bro. You know what

809
00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:11,360
Speaker 2: I'm saying, Like I care about this shit just like

810
00:37:11,440 --> 00:37:14,400
Speaker 2: anybody else. It ain't never really been man bro. You know,

811
00:37:14,719 --> 00:37:18,560
Speaker 2: I went through it's dark skinned people that get roast

812
00:37:18,640 --> 00:37:20,320
Speaker 2: the same way I got roasted for being light skinned.

813
00:37:20,719 --> 00:37:22,640
Speaker 2: So like we all went through trial and error. It

814
00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:25,239
Speaker 2: was really about how you responded this shit. And like

815
00:37:25,360 --> 00:37:28,880
Speaker 2: in my neighborhood, I grew up in a black neighborhood,

816
00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:31,239
Speaker 2: it's like working class black folks, and shit, you got

817
00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:33,319
Speaker 2: a niggas that business arms, you got niggas that drug dealers,

818
00:37:33,360 --> 00:37:36,200
Speaker 2: you got jazz, and you got great people. You know

819
00:37:36,239 --> 00:37:39,560
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. Very it's very variety of blackness in

820
00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:42,640
Speaker 2: my neighborhood growing up. So like, I ain't never felt

821
00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:44,920
Speaker 2: left out of odd man, you know what I mean.

822
00:37:45,080 --> 00:37:49,879
Speaker 2: So yeah, I just always always cared about my people.

823
00:37:49,920 --> 00:37:51,919
Speaker 2: Eat my folks, you know what I'm saying. I don't

824
00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:55,840
Speaker 2: need a reason. I think. I think there is like

825
00:37:57,200 --> 00:37:59,879
Speaker 2: some privilege that I experienced that people dark that dark

826
00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:03,439
Speaker 2: skinned people want experience, especially men. They'll be a little

827
00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:06,840
Speaker 2: bit more criminalized before I am. But I always just

828
00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:09,320
Speaker 2: kind of like, shit, use that fin this. I'm finishing.

829
00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:12,239
Speaker 2: White folks too, be my folks because at the end

830
00:38:12,239 --> 00:38:13,279
Speaker 2: of the day. As soon as I say something you

831
00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:14,920
Speaker 2: don't like, you're gonna treat me like a nigga like them,

832
00:38:15,760 --> 00:38:17,240
Speaker 2: what we're gonna get down together.

833
00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:20,520
Speaker 3: See that's like, that's funny because that's actually our first topic.

834
00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:24,160
Speaker 3: Like why are light skinned people so pro black? Do

835
00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:26,759
Speaker 3: you think it's because of historical trauma or do you

836
00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:30,520
Speaker 3: feel like if sometimes of proximity to white men.

837
00:38:30,640 --> 00:38:32,520
Speaker 2: I think it's because of colorism. I think we're just

838
00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:34,640
Speaker 2: more prone to listen to light skinned folks.

839
00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:38,279
Speaker 1: Because everybody I see two sides of it, because I

840
00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:39,360
Speaker 1: sometimes see like.

841
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:44,719
Speaker 2: People being like, hold on, can I go ahead? This

842
00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:47,399
Speaker 2: big cat he probably want to say, hey, y'all because

843
00:38:47,440 --> 00:38:49,400
Speaker 2: he his ass a sleep.

844
00:38:49,960 --> 00:38:51,080
Speaker 4: Wake your ass up?

845
00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:55,200
Speaker 6: Hey, big cat? We got a cat too, eighty.

846
00:38:55,000 --> 00:39:04,680
Speaker 2: Five shout about we do say what's up now?

847
00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:08,719
Speaker 4: It's like, what's up, nigga? Where you at?

848
00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:10,160
Speaker 2: Hey?

849
00:39:11,680 --> 00:39:12,120
Speaker 6: What's up?

850
00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:18,359
Speaker 3: Hey?

851
00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:19,400
Speaker 6: How you doing.

852
00:39:20,719 --> 00:39:20,959
Speaker 4: Good?

853
00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:25,080
Speaker 2: We're sitting here with BEYONCEA hey, don't start that ship, bro?

854
00:39:25,480 --> 00:39:29,719
Speaker 4: You missed it? You missed it? How you doing.

855
00:39:31,360 --> 00:39:31,640
Speaker 2: Good?

856
00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:38,080
Speaker 4: You were in here turning up? That's all right, that's okay.

857
00:39:38,280 --> 00:39:38,960
Speaker 6: Next time.

858
00:39:40,760 --> 00:39:45,000
Speaker 2: I told you, nigga. Yeah, they stop, They ain't stop

859
00:39:45,120 --> 00:39:48,839
Speaker 2: burning the midnight or nigga all right.

860
00:39:50,600 --> 00:39:53,040
Speaker 1: So I was saying, like, I see two sides of it,

861
00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:56,759
Speaker 1: because sometimes I see, like life skinned people will be like, oh,

862
00:39:56,840 --> 00:39:59,520
Speaker 1: we were treated differently because I'm so beautiful and I'm

863
00:39:59,560 --> 00:40:02,040
Speaker 1: so light, Like y'all don't understand the struggle of being

864
00:40:02,120 --> 00:40:04,120
Speaker 1: light skin because y'all be treating me like this because

865
00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:06,600
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I can't help it. I have green

866
00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:11,239
Speaker 1: eyes and I have this soft three bed of the struggle,

867
00:40:11,960 --> 00:40:13,600
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So it's like Moons is

868
00:40:13,640 --> 00:40:15,080
Speaker 1: coming like it's a little disconnect.

869
00:40:15,200 --> 00:40:18,920
Speaker 2: I think it's I think there's an aspect of this

870
00:40:19,040 --> 00:40:20,759
Speaker 2: where we don't look at it from all sides. We

871
00:40:20,920 --> 00:40:23,799
Speaker 2: just look at it from the vantage point that maybe

872
00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:26,000
Speaker 2: make us the most comfortable or best suit the narrative

873
00:40:26,360 --> 00:40:30,600
Speaker 2: that racism and colorism affect everybody, all black people. So

874
00:40:30,880 --> 00:40:32,359
Speaker 2: just like you can have a dark skin black person

875
00:40:32,440 --> 00:40:34,080
Speaker 2: that hate black people, you have a dark skin black

876
00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:35,960
Speaker 2: person that love their blackness. You have a light skin

877
00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:38,239
Speaker 2: black person that hate black people, you have a light

878
00:40:38,280 --> 00:40:41,000
Speaker 2: skinned person that love blackness. Same thing. Go with mixed folks,

879
00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:43,719
Speaker 2: same thing with go with everybody. It's a very it

880
00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:46,479
Speaker 2: affects us all in different ways. You understand what I'm saying.

881
00:40:46,719 --> 00:40:48,799
Speaker 2: The way it makes some niggas militant is the same

882
00:40:48,840 --> 00:40:51,640
Speaker 2: way it makes some niggas timit and docile. So it's

883
00:40:51,680 --> 00:40:55,719
Speaker 2: gonna affect everybody in different ways. I think that of course,

884
00:40:55,840 --> 00:40:58,840
Speaker 2: if you look at if you're gonna look at the

885
00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:02,520
Speaker 2: Civil rights movement, if you're gonna look at Black panther movement,

886
00:41:02,960 --> 00:41:05,480
Speaker 2: black empowerment movements at all, it's always gonna be men

887
00:41:05,640 --> 00:41:08,040
Speaker 2: centered first. A lot of times you're gonna be lighter

888
00:41:08,080 --> 00:41:11,080
Speaker 2: skinned men. Your your Malcolm Mets is your huge pre Newton's,

889
00:41:11,120 --> 00:41:13,840
Speaker 2: but you also have your Stoker Carmichaels. You're gonna have

890
00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:16,239
Speaker 2: women that's listened to, but not your darker skin women.

891
00:41:16,239 --> 00:41:18,319
Speaker 2: You're gonna have your Angela Davis's and woo woo woo.

892
00:41:18,840 --> 00:41:21,920
Speaker 2: But it's gonna exist in like a spectrum of things.

893
00:41:22,560 --> 00:41:27,480
Speaker 2: And I mean that's what it was a dark woman,

894
00:41:28,440 --> 00:41:31,600
Speaker 2: but it was a darker skinned woman that actually took

895
00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:33,560
Speaker 2: that player, you know what I'm saying. So I think

896
00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:36,839
Speaker 2: that black people are always having pr in mind too.

897
00:41:37,560 --> 00:41:41,239
Speaker 2: We always want to like kind of dictate the way

898
00:41:41,280 --> 00:41:44,239
Speaker 2: we're perceived. And you know that ship come with your

899
00:41:44,280 --> 00:41:49,000
Speaker 2: own colorist bias or your own internalized racism and anti blackness.

900
00:41:50,040 --> 00:41:52,279
Speaker 2: I'm gonna speak like this even if niggas didn't know me.

901
00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:58,720
Speaker 2: So the thing is is like, yeah, ship, I mean, nigga,

902
00:41:58,760 --> 00:42:01,000
Speaker 2: I love our community, I love people, I love myself,

903
00:42:01,080 --> 00:42:04,040
Speaker 2: So you know I ain't I ain't shy by expressing that.

904
00:42:04,239 --> 00:42:06,920
Speaker 2: And then you know, if you want to cycle analyzing

905
00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:09,200
Speaker 2: and get to like whatever the deeper meanings is, then

906
00:42:09,760 --> 00:42:11,400
Speaker 2: we can go down that road too. But it's like

907
00:42:11,520 --> 00:42:13,000
Speaker 2: for me, I just don't know no different.

908
00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:16,240
Speaker 3: I just always felt like this conversation was so stupid

909
00:42:16,440 --> 00:42:19,520
Speaker 3: and low vibrational and redundant because again, we're all black

910
00:42:19,600 --> 00:42:21,680
Speaker 3: people and we're not gonna see, hear and act like

911
00:42:21,960 --> 00:42:24,400
Speaker 3: as African Americans here in the United States.

912
00:42:24,520 --> 00:42:27,440
Speaker 6: All of our blood is not pure everything.

913
00:42:27,560 --> 00:42:30,520
Speaker 2: A monracial black people. Right. Yes, it's nice. That's why

914
00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:33,640
Speaker 2: I mentioned Thomas Jefferson children earlier because we know that

915
00:42:33,840 --> 00:42:37,600
Speaker 2: like famously, this nigga loved black women. I loved Lucy,

916
00:42:38,640 --> 00:42:41,440
Speaker 2: fetishized and whatever the case may be. But see here

917
00:42:41,520 --> 00:42:46,440
Speaker 2: the thing right, Okay, it's like that's like, why is

918
00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:48,800
Speaker 2: it always the same? It'd be crazy if you ask like,

919
00:42:49,040 --> 00:42:50,879
Speaker 2: why is it always dark skinned people that love black

920
00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:52,919
Speaker 2: people so much or fight so hard for black people?

921
00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:56,160
Speaker 2: It's like that makes sense right as light skinned people.

922
00:42:56,200 --> 00:42:57,759
Speaker 2: But then if I if we buff in the room,

923
00:42:57,800 --> 00:42:58,840
Speaker 2: we both get called a nigga.

924
00:42:58,840 --> 00:43:01,839
Speaker 3: And what's the difference, right, It's not And I think

925
00:43:02,040 --> 00:43:05,040
Speaker 3: like people only take it as a bad thing coming

926
00:43:05,160 --> 00:43:08,120
Speaker 3: from lighter skinned people because with the darker skinned people

927
00:43:08,160 --> 00:43:10,480
Speaker 3: they feel like, oh, you're more black, but in reality

928
00:43:10,560 --> 00:43:15,480
Speaker 3: we all black Okay, more proximity to whiteness.

929
00:43:15,520 --> 00:43:17,640
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, But if I was going big and and

930
00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:21,440
Speaker 2: and Uncle Tom and this ship mm hmm, see this

931
00:43:21,480 --> 00:43:24,480
Speaker 2: is light skin ship, it's like right, it's like bron

932
00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:31,360
Speaker 2: So it's like, why fight it. I understand racism, colonialism, imperialism, colorism.

933
00:43:31,560 --> 00:43:33,799
Speaker 2: I know all the isms, nigga. So if we want

934
00:43:33,840 --> 00:43:36,879
Speaker 2: to get into that conversation, we can, but we also

935
00:43:37,000 --> 00:43:39,120
Speaker 2: got to be mindful of like how these things affect

936
00:43:39,200 --> 00:43:41,920
Speaker 2: us and how we project the way they affect us too,

937
00:43:42,360 --> 00:43:44,719
Speaker 2: So you know what I'm saying, Whatever the case may be,

938
00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:48,480
Speaker 2: I don't really get caught up in like the wh

939
00:43:48,600 --> 00:43:51,239
Speaker 2: I ain't never thought about this ship. I ain't like,

940
00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:53,160
Speaker 2: bro nigga really think that I was like, you know,

941
00:43:53,200 --> 00:43:53,799
Speaker 2: I'm dark skinned.

942
00:43:53,800 --> 00:43:56,960
Speaker 4: I gotta I gotta prove crazy because you know, this

943
00:43:57,080 --> 00:43:57,480
Speaker 4: is when the.

944
00:44:00,680 --> 00:44:06,200
Speaker 2: Somebody I love talking like this, this is this play ball.

945
00:44:08,080 --> 00:44:09,160
Speaker 6: I gotta start doing that.

946
00:44:12,719 --> 00:44:16,319
Speaker 2: Serious when I go here with business. Stop this one

947
00:44:16,400 --> 00:44:19,880
Speaker 2: right here. Let me stop doing that because you're already

948
00:44:19,880 --> 00:44:23,920
Speaker 2: saying I'm in illuminati. I think, I think really really

949
00:44:24,000 --> 00:44:26,080
Speaker 2: more than anything. It's like I never had this conversation

950
00:44:26,200 --> 00:44:29,120
Speaker 2: with myself. A lot of things that people project on me.

951
00:44:29,200 --> 00:44:31,080
Speaker 2: It's like, damn, I ain't never about this ship.

952
00:44:31,760 --> 00:44:33,399
Speaker 1: Let me let me ask you this because this kind

953
00:44:33,400 --> 00:44:34,760
Speaker 1: of goes back to what we were talking about earlier,

954
00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:36,680
Speaker 1: in the honesty with your children. Are you gonna tell

955
00:44:36,680 --> 00:44:39,560
Speaker 1: your children that biologically they have a white grandmother?

956
00:44:39,719 --> 00:44:42,040
Speaker 2: They know they already as soon as I found out,

957
00:44:42,040 --> 00:44:44,360
Speaker 2: I told them. I tell my kids everything, so like

958
00:44:44,760 --> 00:44:46,719
Speaker 2: that's the thing. It's like, I got to stand on

959
00:44:46,800 --> 00:44:50,560
Speaker 2: the same ship that I believe in. I'm so like

960
00:44:51,080 --> 00:44:54,120
Speaker 2: my oldest son. He he's been diagnosed artistic since he

961
00:44:54,239 --> 00:44:56,840
Speaker 2: was four. He ain't never tried to dance around that conversation.

962
00:44:56,880 --> 00:44:58,680
Speaker 2: When him, we taught them straight up, and we taught

963
00:44:58,760 --> 00:45:00,760
Speaker 2: him like, you're gonna showup differently in well, and that's okay,

964
00:45:01,280 --> 00:45:03,439
Speaker 2: and we're gonna work through these things that you show

965
00:45:03,520 --> 00:45:05,680
Speaker 2: up through differently if this is something you feel like

966
00:45:05,719 --> 00:45:09,360
Speaker 2: you want to work on. But if like, I'm always

967
00:45:09,480 --> 00:45:12,400
Speaker 2: encouraging my kids to just be completely themselves. So I

968
00:45:12,520 --> 00:45:15,279
Speaker 2: think a lot of times when you want, one thing

969
00:45:15,320 --> 00:45:17,080
Speaker 2: I ain't never want to be is a nigga that

970
00:45:17,200 --> 00:45:19,319
Speaker 2: rides so hard for the community. But I'm a bad dad.

971
00:45:20,560 --> 00:45:24,280
Speaker 1: I hate a bad daddy, bad dad my younger guys,

972
00:45:24,360 --> 00:45:26,239
Speaker 1: I love the bad daddy because that means you had

973
00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:29,080
Speaker 1: time for me and my good coochie very selfish.

974
00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:31,080
Speaker 4: I didn't get.

975
00:45:34,960 --> 00:45:35,160
Speaker 3: Like that.

976
00:45:35,360 --> 00:45:38,279
Speaker 4: I don't like I was like I was young. I'm like,

977
00:45:39,360 --> 00:45:40,840
Speaker 4: he want to take me out on a trip. He

978
00:45:40,880 --> 00:45:42,560
Speaker 4: wanted to do this thing. I don't. I didn't give

979
00:45:42,560 --> 00:45:44,080
Speaker 4: a damn. I didn't care. I didn't ask.

980
00:45:44,400 --> 00:45:47,040
Speaker 6: But now it's like they drive the kouchie yep.

981
00:45:47,080 --> 00:45:51,000
Speaker 4: But yeah, of course, now, But can I can show up?

982
00:45:52,320 --> 00:45:53,360
Speaker 6: That's how you're gonna show up for me?

983
00:45:53,960 --> 00:45:56,760
Speaker 2: I guess it's too. It's like the act that we're engaging,

984
00:45:56,840 --> 00:45:58,040
Speaker 2: and that is how I got these kids in the

985
00:45:58,080 --> 00:45:59,920
Speaker 2: first right, But can I ask you?

986
00:46:00,960 --> 00:46:04,160
Speaker 1: I got you my next I'm gonna ask all the question,

987
00:46:05,840 --> 00:46:07,400
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna ask you all a question about the

988
00:46:07,480 --> 00:46:09,279
Speaker 1: kids and the sick, because this is I want to

989
00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:13,040
Speaker 1: ask both of y'all something. But in the meantime, introduce yourself,

990
00:46:13,200 --> 00:46:15,759
Speaker 1: my girl, and tell us what we're drinking today, and

991
00:46:15,840 --> 00:46:16,800
Speaker 1: give us a little background.

992
00:46:16,840 --> 00:46:17,839
Speaker 2: And people want to know what you walk.

993
00:46:18,560 --> 00:46:22,520
Speaker 8: Okay, little background. Well, hey, everybody, my name is. But

994
00:46:22,640 --> 00:46:25,399
Speaker 8: I was referred by titles be cool people.

995
00:46:25,560 --> 00:46:27,000
Speaker 6: Okay, now we're good. We're good.

996
00:46:27,520 --> 00:46:29,120
Speaker 4: I'm a little bit of boy me. You know.

997
00:46:29,400 --> 00:46:30,759
Speaker 6: I'm a local cocktail dealer here.

998
00:46:31,400 --> 00:46:32,880
Speaker 8: I also go by the Agave Princess.

999
00:46:32,920 --> 00:46:33,640
Speaker 4: I'm all things to.

1000
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:37,600
Speaker 2: Why she made it drinks get.

1001
00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:43,240
Speaker 6: Yesterday that he was a repo guy. It upon myself.

1002
00:46:43,239 --> 00:46:44,840
Speaker 8: I made this a little It's called the Southern spark

1003
00:46:45,000 --> 00:46:46,120
Speaker 8: because y'all sparking shit up.

1004
00:46:47,080 --> 00:46:49,120
Speaker 4: That's you know. I like that. And we in the South.

1005
00:46:50,040 --> 00:46:53,080
Speaker 8: A little repo, a little ginger beer, some guava, some pineapple,

1006
00:46:53,400 --> 00:46:55,839
Speaker 8: cue keipit tropical and a good ship, but good vibe.

1007
00:46:55,960 --> 00:46:57,840
Speaker 6: I love what is the delicious?

1008
00:46:57,960 --> 00:47:02,400
Speaker 1: It is delicious. I'll take another. I got you you

1009
00:47:02,440 --> 00:47:03,040
Speaker 1: want another one?

1010
00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:05,560
Speaker 6: I got a little special potion in mind.

1011
00:47:07,719 --> 00:47:08,080
Speaker 4: On the web.

1012
00:47:08,280 --> 00:47:10,680
Speaker 1: So next topic, I do want to ask y'all this.

1013
00:47:11,280 --> 00:47:13,200
Speaker 1: I saw somebody talking about this and I thought it

1014
00:47:13,280 --> 00:47:17,560
Speaker 1: was interesting. They said, people don't realize that the reason

1015
00:47:17,640 --> 00:47:21,080
Speaker 1: why a lot of Black women are dissed and being

1016
00:47:21,280 --> 00:47:24,080
Speaker 1: we are talked bad about in other cultures and in

1017
00:47:24,160 --> 00:47:27,840
Speaker 1: our own culture why because we're not married, we're single

1018
00:47:28,520 --> 00:47:30,560
Speaker 1: when we're baby mothers. But they're like, this is all

1019
00:47:30,680 --> 00:47:34,560
Speaker 1: has to do with our proximity with black men. So

1020
00:47:34,719 --> 00:47:37,000
Speaker 1: how do y'all feel about that conversation of like people

1021
00:47:37,239 --> 00:47:39,439
Speaker 1: every time they diss a black woman, it has something

1022
00:47:39,480 --> 00:47:42,239
Speaker 1: to do with a black black men not marrying us,

1023
00:47:42,520 --> 00:47:44,719
Speaker 1: black men not stepping up and me and good fathers

1024
00:47:45,120 --> 00:47:46,239
Speaker 1: and things that have to do with that.

1025
00:47:47,560 --> 00:47:54,000
Speaker 2: I'm gonna say this right, So the world sees the

1026
00:47:54,040 --> 00:47:57,080
Speaker 2: world through the lens of white people because of colonialism.

1027
00:47:57,640 --> 00:48:01,960
Speaker 2: So who created this like puritanical monogamous culture. Now I'm

1028
00:48:01,960 --> 00:48:03,640
Speaker 2: not finna see here in cake like niggas need all

1029
00:48:03,680 --> 00:48:05,759
Speaker 2: these wives. That ain't what I'm saying. What I'm saying

1030
00:48:05,880 --> 00:48:09,160
Speaker 2: is like the standard of marriage in our relationship to

1031
00:48:09,320 --> 00:48:13,000
Speaker 2: women is the it was given example to us from

1032
00:48:13,080 --> 00:48:15,400
Speaker 2: white people and how they related to their women. So

1033
00:48:15,520 --> 00:48:17,920
Speaker 2: we know white niggas hate they women. Low key, you

1034
00:48:17,960 --> 00:48:21,120
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, Like the only thing that I mean,

1035
00:48:21,560 --> 00:48:23,759
Speaker 2: black men had the right to vote before white women.

1036
00:48:24,600 --> 00:48:26,799
Speaker 2: They'll tell you a lot about this country. I'll tell

1037
00:48:26,840 --> 00:48:30,239
Speaker 2: you a lot about white men in general. I think,

1038
00:48:30,440 --> 00:48:33,840
Speaker 2: for me, we do need to be more mindful of

1039
00:48:34,000 --> 00:48:37,920
Speaker 2: like family structure, family breakdown, and how we do those things.

1040
00:48:37,960 --> 00:48:39,440
Speaker 2: But we also got to be mindful that we was

1041
00:48:39,480 --> 00:48:41,120
Speaker 2: doing all that shit before crack.

1042
00:48:41,760 --> 00:48:45,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, crack. I always say this is the issue.

1043
00:48:45,239 --> 00:48:48,279
Speaker 2: Nigga, that shit broke everything down. I keep the reason.

1044
00:48:48,600 --> 00:48:50,520
Speaker 2: I'm gonna sound like a broken record, but I'm telling

1045
00:48:50,560 --> 00:48:54,280
Speaker 2: you that ron drugs destroyed literally every facet of our community.

1046
00:48:54,520 --> 00:48:57,200
Speaker 2: I'm not saying baby mamas didn't exist before then, but

1047
00:48:57,320 --> 00:48:59,400
Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure they exist at the same right they

1048
00:48:59,440 --> 00:49:04,360
Speaker 2: do for everybody else. I think we talk about our businesses,

1049
00:49:04,400 --> 00:49:06,920
Speaker 2: we talk about everything. Every aspect of our neighborhood in

1050
00:49:06,960 --> 00:49:12,520
Speaker 2: our community were thriving. Construction niggas was thriving, yes, thriving

1051
00:49:12,680 --> 00:49:15,319
Speaker 2: under the threat of Jim Crow and constant violence from

1052
00:49:15,320 --> 00:49:17,680
Speaker 2: white people, thriving under the threat of being thrown in

1053
00:49:17,800 --> 00:49:19,200
Speaker 2: prison for the rest of our life. To work on

1054
00:49:19,280 --> 00:49:22,160
Speaker 2: a chain or be hung for having too much thriving

1055
00:49:22,239 --> 00:49:24,080
Speaker 2: under the threat of I own all this land and

1056
00:49:24,120 --> 00:49:25,600
Speaker 2: a white man could just come over here and kill

1057
00:49:25,680 --> 00:49:30,040
Speaker 2: me and take my shit. Still thriving, Okay, free market

1058
00:49:30,239 --> 00:49:33,399
Speaker 2: capitalism is white people, always the free market, free market

1059
00:49:33,640 --> 00:49:36,239
Speaker 2: until black people build a wall Street. Now we're gonna

1060
00:49:36,280 --> 00:49:39,160
Speaker 2: drop bombs in America because black people doing too good.

1061
00:49:39,239 --> 00:49:39,960
Speaker 6: It's always when.

1062
00:49:41,760 --> 00:49:43,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, But what I think the thing is is that

1063
00:49:43,760 --> 00:49:46,120
Speaker 2: when we left alone, they don't know how to leave

1064
00:49:46,160 --> 00:49:48,960
Speaker 2: us alone. Because when we left alone, we build, and

1065
00:49:49,040 --> 00:49:50,560
Speaker 2: we do our thing, and we do for each other.

1066
00:49:51,040 --> 00:49:55,360
Speaker 2: And I think the biggest thing about colonialism is that

1067
00:49:55,480 --> 00:49:58,160
Speaker 2: it needs to be in your business. And the only

1068
00:49:58,200 --> 00:50:00,480
Speaker 2: way to be in your business is to constantly disrupt

1069
00:50:00,520 --> 00:50:03,359
Speaker 2: your business. So I think, for me, I don't really

1070
00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:06,719
Speaker 2: if you're only gonna talk about the effects of things

1071
00:50:06,760 --> 00:50:08,200
Speaker 2: and not the causes, I don't really want to have

1072
00:50:08,280 --> 00:50:11,000
Speaker 2: no conversation with you because everything you know what I'm saying, like,

1073
00:50:11,200 --> 00:50:13,520
Speaker 2: you go to therapy today at for if you start

1074
00:50:13,600 --> 00:50:16,759
Speaker 2: therapy right now, what's the first thing they're gonna want

1075
00:50:16,760 --> 00:50:19,400
Speaker 2: to address your childhood? Because they're going to want to

1076
00:50:19,440 --> 00:50:22,360
Speaker 2: get into the root causes of disbehavior. So if we

1077
00:50:22,440 --> 00:50:23,880
Speaker 2: want to get into the cot like, if we want

1078
00:50:23,920 --> 00:50:25,960
Speaker 2: to look at the black behavior of black people, what

1079
00:50:26,080 --> 00:50:28,320
Speaker 2: are the causes and what are and these are the

1080
00:50:28,400 --> 00:50:31,680
Speaker 2: effects of these behaviors? You can't tell a community that

1081
00:50:31,920 --> 00:50:34,680
Speaker 2: was ravished by a drug that took mothers out the home,

1082
00:50:34,800 --> 00:50:38,160
Speaker 2: fathers out the home, incarcerated and make moms like black moms.

1083
00:50:38,719 --> 00:50:42,040
Speaker 2: The standard of mothers in America raising white people babies

1084
00:50:42,080 --> 00:50:45,080
Speaker 2: now are bad mothers. Y'all tripping, bro. I don't want

1085
00:50:45,080 --> 00:50:46,600
Speaker 2: to I don't be wanting to hear that shit. But

1086
00:50:46,680 --> 00:50:48,200
Speaker 2: I think a lot of times too, it's just like

1087
00:50:48,920 --> 00:50:52,280
Speaker 2: we also need to be that's not an excuse, Okay,

1088
00:50:52,640 --> 00:50:55,120
Speaker 2: if we don't talk about the causes of the behavior,

1089
00:50:55,480 --> 00:50:57,399
Speaker 2: then we want to fix the behavior because then we'll

1090
00:50:57,560 --> 00:51:00,200
Speaker 2: just make excuses. But I think for me, if we

1091
00:51:00,280 --> 00:51:03,360
Speaker 2: know the root causes, then we have to fix the behaviors,

1092
00:51:03,400 --> 00:51:05,520
Speaker 2: even if we're living in there fixed like, oh my

1093
00:51:05,600 --> 00:51:07,720
Speaker 2: daddy wasn't there, so what be there for your children?

1094
00:51:08,040 --> 00:51:10,719
Speaker 2: Or don't have children that we were.

1095
00:51:10,800 --> 00:51:13,160
Speaker 3: That's what we talk about, we do, and we were

1096
00:51:13,239 --> 00:51:16,320
Speaker 3: definitely just set up to feil here in America.

1097
00:51:16,400 --> 00:51:18,200
Speaker 6: It's just so many instances.

1098
00:51:17,800 --> 00:51:22,040
Speaker 3: Where not only were people doing the drugs in our community,

1099
00:51:22,280 --> 00:51:24,879
Speaker 3: but also in the early nineties, you had so many

1100
00:51:24,960 --> 00:51:27,840
Speaker 3: young black men going to jail for having small amounts

1101
00:51:27,880 --> 00:51:30,200
Speaker 3: of weed on them and they were giving them life sentences.

1102
00:51:30,239 --> 00:51:31,040
Speaker 6: That happened to my dad.

1103
00:51:32,600 --> 00:51:35,799
Speaker 1: And now they owner, they own a dispensary.

1104
00:51:35,920 --> 00:51:38,000
Speaker 6: Yeah, now it's legal.

1105
00:51:39,280 --> 00:51:45,200
Speaker 2: This is the thing, man, I don't I don't be

1106
00:51:45,320 --> 00:51:46,879
Speaker 2: giving a fuck about what folks got.

1107
00:51:46,800 --> 00:51:49,920
Speaker 3: To say about us, because, like obviously a lot of

1108
00:51:49,960 --> 00:51:52,920
Speaker 3: the criticism is not rooted in love, and it's rooted

1109
00:51:53,000 --> 00:51:56,759
Speaker 3: in this better than black people mentality, right, And you

1110
00:51:56,840 --> 00:51:58,719
Speaker 3: know what I'm saying, If that's if that's gonna be

1111
00:51:58,880 --> 00:52:01,560
Speaker 3: like the way you approach you, I don't really got

1112
00:52:01,640 --> 00:52:02,560
Speaker 3: no talk for you like that.

1113
00:52:02,960 --> 00:52:06,880
Speaker 2: I'm more so I want to build with people who

1114
00:52:06,920 --> 00:52:08,560
Speaker 2: want to build. I want to build with builders. I

1115
00:52:08,560 --> 00:52:09,960
Speaker 2: don't want to build with niggas who look at the

1116
00:52:09,960 --> 00:52:11,440
Speaker 2: structure and be like, you know what, we should tear

1117
00:52:11,440 --> 00:52:13,319
Speaker 2: that down and do it different. The niggas shut up.

1118
00:52:13,320 --> 00:52:15,000
Speaker 2: You won't even hear when we build this shit, you

1119
00:52:15,040 --> 00:52:17,760
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. But I think more than anything,

1120
00:52:18,560 --> 00:52:21,720
Speaker 2: we have to always be mindful of the historical aspect

1121
00:52:21,800 --> 00:52:25,160
Speaker 2: of who we are. All these great culture, all these

1122
00:52:25,200 --> 00:52:28,800
Speaker 2: great characteristics that come from our community is also rooting

1123
00:52:28,880 --> 00:52:31,840
Speaker 2: a lot of trauma and like our responses to trauma,

1124
00:52:32,200 --> 00:52:34,360
Speaker 2: but also like a lot of times our response to

1125
00:52:34,400 --> 00:52:37,320
Speaker 2: trauma be community. And we don't live in that aspect

1126
00:52:37,360 --> 00:52:40,320
Speaker 2: now because we live in a simulation of community because

1127
00:52:40,320 --> 00:52:41,120
Speaker 2: we got these phones.

1128
00:52:41,520 --> 00:52:45,880
Speaker 6: Yeah it's the I'm telling you. And speaking of trauma,

1129
00:52:46,840 --> 00:52:49,640
Speaker 6: let's talk about it. But the second topic, let's.

1130
00:52:49,440 --> 00:52:53,560
Speaker 3: Talk about all black men's preferences in dating younger women

1131
00:52:54,160 --> 00:52:56,960
Speaker 3: and how it is affecting the black community in a

1132
00:52:57,040 --> 00:52:57,880
Speaker 3: black household.

1133
00:52:58,000 --> 00:52:58,560
Speaker 4: Look about it.

1134
00:52:59,400 --> 00:53:03,839
Speaker 1: I feel like, and I'm gonna use myself as an example, right,

1135
00:53:06,200 --> 00:53:08,600
Speaker 1: I in my head, not in my head, how I

1136
00:53:08,719 --> 00:53:11,120
Speaker 1: move in the world. I'm creaming the crop. Right, I'm

1137
00:53:11,160 --> 00:53:14,800
Speaker 1: a great catch, and I know that. But that's because

1138
00:53:14,800 --> 00:53:17,239
Speaker 1: I'm sure within myself and.

1139
00:53:18,200 --> 00:53:20,839
Speaker 4: My community and how I feel. You know what I'm saying.

1140
00:53:20,840 --> 00:53:22,200
Speaker 4: I know the value in myself.

1141
00:53:22,760 --> 00:53:26,919
Speaker 1: But when I get online and I'm popping my shit

1142
00:53:26,960 --> 00:53:29,080
Speaker 1: and I'm talking, I'm having fun with my homegirl and

1143
00:53:29,160 --> 00:53:31,759
Speaker 1: we're successful women, there's men in the comments.

1144
00:53:31,600 --> 00:53:34,520
Speaker 4: Like, oh, but she's single, she's not married. She don't

1145
00:53:34,520 --> 00:53:36,839
Speaker 4: have no kids. This is why you gotta get.

1146
00:53:36,760 --> 00:53:39,160
Speaker 1: Them when they twenty two to twenty three, and it'll

1147
00:53:39,160 --> 00:53:41,520
Speaker 1: be a forty year old man saying this, a forty

1148
00:53:41,560 --> 00:53:44,200
Speaker 1: year old man who should I should be the type

1149
00:53:44,200 --> 00:53:45,680
Speaker 1: of woman that he's trying to court.

1150
00:53:45,960 --> 00:53:49,879
Speaker 4: But instead you're like, this is u's baggage, she's used,

1151
00:53:49,920 --> 00:53:52,359
Speaker 4: she's dirt. Let me go get a twenty two year old.

1152
00:53:52,719 --> 00:53:57,560
Speaker 2: Okay, well, here's the thing. You want, somebody young and dumb,

1153
00:53:58,280 --> 00:53:59,920
Speaker 2: because then you come out with them and to being

1154
00:54:00,400 --> 00:54:05,120
Speaker 2: like the type of woman like that, perfect whatever that.

1155
00:54:05,320 --> 00:54:08,800
Speaker 2: Don't question me, don't challenge me, don't hold me accountable.

1156
00:54:08,880 --> 00:54:11,680
Speaker 2: A grown woman and I took care of herself, went

1157
00:54:11,719 --> 00:54:13,840
Speaker 2: through her own trials and triple A. It's a different standard,

1158
00:54:14,280 --> 00:54:15,759
Speaker 2: and I may expect you to be on the same

1159
00:54:15,840 --> 00:54:19,640
Speaker 2: growing up standard as me. And our culture infantializes black men.

1160
00:54:19,760 --> 00:54:23,319
Speaker 2: So when we're talking about a mass incarceration of black man,

1161
00:54:23,400 --> 00:54:26,200
Speaker 2: these men is going into prison from anywhere from fifteen

1162
00:54:26,239 --> 00:54:29,239
Speaker 2: to twenty four. And when you go in, you're not

1163
00:54:29,760 --> 00:54:32,880
Speaker 2: acclimated to society, so you also are not becoming an

1164
00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:35,400
Speaker 2: adult the same way niggas on the street is becoming adult.

1165
00:54:35,960 --> 00:54:38,279
Speaker 2: Street culture is very infantalized. What they tell you about

1166
00:54:38,360 --> 00:54:42,000
Speaker 2: hip hop, All this shit is geared towards the attention

1167
00:54:42,120 --> 00:54:44,759
Speaker 2: of young people. So you got niggas that's forty years old.

1168
00:54:44,760 --> 00:54:48,279
Speaker 2: They still dressed like a twenty yeard mirror. But you

1169
00:54:48,400 --> 00:54:52,680
Speaker 2: understand why you got a Maria. Let me let me

1170
00:54:52,719 --> 00:54:55,520
Speaker 2: shout it up with litz to break it off. Can

1171
00:54:55,600 --> 00:54:56,479
Speaker 2: I shout it up with lits?

1172
00:54:56,760 --> 00:54:59,320
Speaker 4: You in a fucking kind You are a walker with

1173
00:54:59,480 --> 00:55:01,000
Speaker 4: tennis ball. At the end of it.

1174
00:55:01,280 --> 00:55:06,000
Speaker 2: The thing gives is that it's not necessarily like I'm

1175
00:55:06,040 --> 00:55:08,239
Speaker 2: not putting niggas down. I just need to understand what

1176
00:55:08,360 --> 00:55:11,319
Speaker 2: the situation is. Like you've been infantalized, so you haven't

1177
00:55:11,400 --> 00:55:14,439
Speaker 2: been held to an expectation to grow at the same

1178
00:55:14,560 --> 00:55:17,719
Speaker 2: rate as other men in this society. Most men at

1179
00:55:17,800 --> 00:55:20,560
Speaker 2: thirty five is thinking about families, thinking about business. It's

1180
00:55:20,600 --> 00:55:23,640
Speaker 2: thinking about structural things towards the future, and not thinking

1181
00:55:23,680 --> 00:55:26,440
Speaker 2: about like what their relationship to young women is. I

1182
00:55:26,520 --> 00:55:28,239
Speaker 2: don't even want to talk to a woman that don't

1183
00:55:28,239 --> 00:55:31,840
Speaker 2: got a three in her age. Come on now, bro, like,

1184
00:55:31,920 --> 00:55:34,120
Speaker 2: get away from me. You know what I'm saying. And

1185
00:55:34,520 --> 00:55:38,000
Speaker 2: the thing is is like I understand, like the maturity

1186
00:55:38,040 --> 00:55:40,760
Speaker 2: of things twenty seven, twenty nine, Like, yeah, we probably

1187
00:55:40,840 --> 00:55:43,840
Speaker 2: could hold each other attention and have a certain conversation,

1188
00:55:44,239 --> 00:55:45,840
Speaker 2: but then think about this, you don't got if you

1189
00:55:45,840 --> 00:55:47,560
Speaker 2: don't got no kids, you ain't never married before, then

1190
00:55:47,600 --> 00:55:49,680
Speaker 2: we definitely don't got nothing to talk about because my

1191
00:55:49,760 --> 00:55:52,480
Speaker 2: experience in life is just completely different for yours. You

1192
00:55:52,520 --> 00:55:54,080
Speaker 2: don't got no kids, you ain't trying to be no

1193
00:55:54,120 --> 00:55:54,480
Speaker 2: step on.

1194
00:55:54,840 --> 00:55:56,840
Speaker 3: And one of the main things that a lot of

1195
00:55:57,440 --> 00:56:01,239
Speaker 3: I mean, unless I can say, but but if you're

1196
00:56:01,239 --> 00:56:03,320
Speaker 3: talking to a woman that's my same age, if she

1197
00:56:03,360 --> 00:56:05,600
Speaker 3: don't got kids, she might have already had this conversation

1198
00:56:05,840 --> 00:56:07,680
Speaker 3: like okay, any man, I'm me from here for he

1199
00:56:07,760 --> 00:56:08,399
Speaker 3: gonna have kids.

1200
00:56:08,680 --> 00:56:10,560
Speaker 2: If I want to be with a nigga that's a

1201
00:56:10,560 --> 00:56:12,160
Speaker 2: good dad, I have to take on a step up.

1202
00:56:12,800 --> 00:56:15,439
Speaker 2: This is the thing that comes with maturity, Like I think,

1203
00:56:16,600 --> 00:56:19,560
Speaker 2: what the fuck? Like I got little cousins, that's twenty

1204
00:56:19,719 --> 00:56:22,239
Speaker 2: twenty one, twenty two. I don't like talking to these

1205
00:56:22,320 --> 00:56:24,880
Speaker 2: niggas like right, yeah, because it's like it's not that

1206
00:56:24,960 --> 00:56:27,000
Speaker 2: I don't love them, it's just our conversation it's so

1207
00:56:27,120 --> 00:56:31,520
Speaker 2: different different, So it's like, what the fuck these predatory

1208
00:56:31,600 --> 00:56:38,719
Speaker 2: behavior is so normalized. Pedophiles are protected niggas that you

1209
00:56:38,840 --> 00:56:42,520
Speaker 2: did what I'm saying. This is a protected class. It's

1210
00:56:42,560 --> 00:56:44,239
Speaker 2: a protected class of people. We don't talk about the

1211
00:56:44,239 --> 00:56:46,920
Speaker 2: amount of little boys and little girls that are molested

1212
00:56:46,960 --> 00:56:49,040
Speaker 2: when they growing up and protected and got to be

1213
00:56:49,120 --> 00:56:51,680
Speaker 2: around these niggas that did this shit to them or

1214
00:56:51,760 --> 00:56:54,239
Speaker 2: women that did this shit to them, and everybody acting

1215
00:56:54,280 --> 00:56:56,920
Speaker 2: like happen. So when you see a nigga talking like that,

1216
00:56:57,080 --> 00:57:01,320
Speaker 2: he understands how normalized predatory behavior is. Of course, like

1217
00:57:01,400 --> 00:57:04,880
Speaker 2: he it's legal. You did what I'm saying. So a

1218
00:57:04,960 --> 00:57:06,879
Speaker 2: nigga look at that like, well, I ain't saying that wrong.

1219
00:57:06,960 --> 00:57:09,719
Speaker 2: She's twenty two, she's grown nigga. You know better than that.

1220
00:57:09,840 --> 00:57:13,000
Speaker 6: And that's what I was, right, and that's what I

1221
00:57:13,120 --> 00:57:13,840
Speaker 6: was gonna say to me.

1222
00:57:14,000 --> 00:57:18,080
Speaker 3: It's like borderline a predatory fetish because at the end

1223
00:57:18,200 --> 00:57:19,400
Speaker 3: of the day, what.

1224
00:57:19,560 --> 00:57:20,760
Speaker 6: Do you want with a woman?

1225
00:57:21,680 --> 00:57:24,080
Speaker 2: He was gonna take that, nigga.

1226
00:57:31,000 --> 00:57:33,600
Speaker 3: What if do you want with a woman that's significantly

1227
00:57:33,680 --> 00:57:35,120
Speaker 3: younger than you? And I feel like a lot of

1228
00:57:35,200 --> 00:57:37,680
Speaker 3: those men, they typically love to say, oh, it's a

1229
00:57:37,760 --> 00:57:42,120
Speaker 3: fertility things right, because the men has been dispelled that

1230
00:57:42,480 --> 00:57:45,480
Speaker 3: after thirty five you can't still have children. It's so

1231
00:57:45,680 --> 00:57:49,160
Speaker 3: many women who are having healthy children, healthy pregnancies thirty

1232
00:57:49,200 --> 00:57:50,880
Speaker 3: five plus well in today forty.

1233
00:57:50,960 --> 00:57:52,000
Speaker 6: So we can't use it as.

1234
00:57:53,000 --> 00:57:55,760
Speaker 4: They're saying, Oh, but she's not furtily more. You got

1235
00:57:55,840 --> 00:57:57,720
Speaker 4: four kids already that you don't even take care of.

1236
00:57:57,840 --> 00:57:59,880
Speaker 6: And let's also chat about the fact that it's women.

1237
00:58:00,520 --> 00:58:05,160
Speaker 2: It's not it's not about it's an excuse, okay. So,

1238
00:58:05,320 --> 00:58:07,920
Speaker 2: like here's the thing, right, we got to understand that

1239
00:58:08,080 --> 00:58:09,920
Speaker 2: like a lot of the standard of beauty in America

1240
00:58:10,080 --> 00:58:13,000
Speaker 2: and throughout the world is centered around whiteness, and the

1241
00:58:13,040 --> 00:58:16,640
Speaker 2: white standard of beauty is centered around preprebescent women. They're

1242
00:58:16,720 --> 00:58:21,040
Speaker 2: like a skinny, frail, hairless, hairless for whatever reason.

1243
00:58:21,160 --> 00:58:23,760
Speaker 6: Like, man, that's why Brazilian waxes became a thing.

1244
00:58:24,000 --> 00:58:26,160
Speaker 2: Hold on, but I like my wax, you know what

1245
00:58:26,200 --> 00:58:29,720
Speaker 2: I'm saying. But the thing is is that a lot

1246
00:58:29,800 --> 00:58:33,840
Speaker 2: of a lot of like rape culture, pedophilia, all that

1247
00:58:33,920 --> 00:58:37,000
Speaker 2: ship is normalized to the point where it's like, niggas,

1248
00:58:37,000 --> 00:58:39,760
Speaker 2: don't think they're saying nothing wrong. They something wrong with

1249
00:58:39,880 --> 00:58:43,080
Speaker 2: you for not agreeing with them. But I think for me,

1250
00:58:43,280 --> 00:58:46,920
Speaker 2: it's just like it'll take other men too. See, you

1251
00:58:47,040 --> 00:58:49,240
Speaker 2: got a bunch of weird niggas over here congregating and

1252
00:58:49,320 --> 00:58:51,520
Speaker 2: talking to each other, and they in the echo chamber

1253
00:58:51,560 --> 00:58:53,680
Speaker 2: of weird niggas, and they think the weird shit is cool.

1254
00:58:53,800 --> 00:58:57,200
Speaker 2: Then when they say it in public, they're like, yeah,

1255
00:58:57,760 --> 00:58:59,880
Speaker 2: not a weird shit be normalized. We see it at

1256
00:58:59,880 --> 00:59:03,560
Speaker 2: the highest levels in the country, these niggas. Is weird. Yeah,

1257
00:59:03,760 --> 00:59:07,080
Speaker 2: And I think that, Yeah, man, if you don't if

1258
00:59:07,080 --> 00:59:08,360
Speaker 2: you're a growl man and you don't want to deal

1259
00:59:08,400 --> 00:59:09,840
Speaker 2: with another grown woman and you want to start talking

1260
00:59:09,840 --> 00:59:12,680
Speaker 2: about fertility, nigga, Like, what are you talking about, nigga?

1261
00:59:12,720 --> 00:59:16,320
Speaker 2: You got on you on high blood pressure medication, That's.

1262
00:59:16,240 --> 00:59:17,120
Speaker 4: All I'm saying.

1263
00:59:17,280 --> 00:59:19,840
Speaker 2: Though, Yeah, you got you got you you. You're working

1264
00:59:19,880 --> 00:59:21,920
Speaker 2: too many pills, my nigga to be worried about fertility.

1265
00:59:22,680 --> 00:59:25,280
Speaker 2: Let's start working about fertility and worry about retirement. Hello,

1266
00:59:25,640 --> 00:59:29,480
Speaker 2: that's one k my nigga, Stocks and bonds, nigga.

1267
00:59:29,640 --> 00:59:32,720
Speaker 4: But I also think, like I said, the society has

1268
00:59:32,880 --> 00:59:33,200
Speaker 4: done that.

1269
00:59:33,600 --> 00:59:35,720
Speaker 2: I don't want to be around forty O on niggas

1270
00:59:35,720 --> 00:59:37,440
Speaker 2: still chasing bitches, bro, Like that's.

1271
00:59:37,560 --> 00:59:41,880
Speaker 1: Come on, now, you're weird, because what they what do

1272
00:59:41,960 --> 00:59:44,920
Speaker 1: they say as men age, oh, men, they get fine

1273
00:59:44,960 --> 00:59:46,680
Speaker 1: with time, that men age like wine.

1274
00:59:46,760 --> 00:59:49,880
Speaker 4: And they try to make us feel like we exactly.

1275
00:59:49,640 --> 00:59:53,880
Speaker 2: Nigga, women be bad as fuck. Man woman out right

1276
00:59:53,920 --> 00:59:56,560
Speaker 2: now a woman from twenty to twenty five and then

1277
00:59:56,640 --> 00:59:58,760
Speaker 2: thirty to thirty five, that thirty to thirty five year

1278
00:59:58,760 --> 00:59:59,840
Speaker 2: old that different.

1279
01:00:00,640 --> 01:00:04,240
Speaker 6: That's what I'm saying. I literally said that when I actually.

1280
01:00:04,080 --> 01:00:10,440
Speaker 2: Like grown up women, that the day people loophole her,

1281
01:00:10,480 --> 01:00:13,960
Speaker 2: pedophilia is there, bro, it's there. Nigga, Oh she's grown,

1282
01:00:14,040 --> 01:00:17,520
Speaker 2: she's she's the eight. If a nigga mentioned an Asian consent,

1283
01:00:17,680 --> 01:00:20,240
Speaker 2: lock them up, yup, lock them up. Just let them

1284
01:00:20,280 --> 01:00:23,040
Speaker 2: do ninety days and solid with a bunch of books.

1285
01:00:25,520 --> 01:00:27,840
Speaker 6: No, I was no, you're good, you good. I was

1286
01:00:27,920 --> 01:00:28,240
Speaker 6: just saying.

1287
01:00:28,280 --> 01:00:29,960
Speaker 3: I was on TikTok Live the other day and I

1288
01:00:30,080 --> 01:00:32,680
Speaker 3: actually has said that because I feel like, especially like

1289
01:00:32,760 --> 01:00:34,760
Speaker 3: with me and you, because we're so open about our

1290
01:00:34,840 --> 01:00:35,959
Speaker 3: age and stuff on the show.

1291
01:00:36,360 --> 01:00:38,480
Speaker 6: Whenever we be on social media, I'm sure it happened

1292
01:00:38,480 --> 01:00:38,600
Speaker 6: to you.

1293
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Speaker 3: So people are always try to leave comments and call

1294
01:00:40,880 --> 01:00:43,600
Speaker 3: us old when like, my thing is since win A

1295
01:00:43,720 --> 01:00:45,760
Speaker 3: thirty four and thirty six become.

1296
01:00:45,640 --> 01:00:49,680
Speaker 2: Old even fantilized culture. I want to be young forever

1297
01:00:50,320 --> 01:00:51,480
Speaker 2: and Nigga is coming.

1298
01:00:51,640 --> 01:00:53,720
Speaker 3: And the funniest part about it is, majority of the time,

1299
01:00:53,760 --> 01:00:55,960
Speaker 3: when Lex and I tell people our age, they're always

1300
01:00:56,000 --> 01:00:58,320
Speaker 3: shocked and think that we're significantly younger than what we

1301
01:00:58,440 --> 01:01:01,120
Speaker 3: say we are. So the point that I'm making is

1302
01:01:01,280 --> 01:01:03,600
Speaker 3: I was literally on Live talking about how when I

1303
01:01:03,680 --> 01:01:05,680
Speaker 3: was in my early twenties, like I definitely used to

1304
01:01:05,720 --> 01:01:07,760
Speaker 3: think I was cute, and I was cute in my twenties,

1305
01:01:08,040 --> 01:01:10,560
Speaker 3: but like, it's something about when I turned the thirty

1306
01:01:10,720 --> 01:01:13,520
Speaker 3: that grown woman find out. It just hits you different.

1307
01:01:13,600 --> 01:01:15,480
Speaker 3: And I truly feel like I look the best that

1308
01:01:15,520 --> 01:01:18,800
Speaker 3: I've ever looked right now. So that apps now period,

1309
01:01:19,360 --> 01:01:22,280
Speaker 3: I'm more focused on health and well needs, like just

1310
01:01:22,360 --> 01:01:24,200
Speaker 3: a lot of different things an adult.

1311
01:01:24,360 --> 01:01:25,439
Speaker 6: I'm an adult. I'm grown.

1312
01:01:25,520 --> 01:01:25,840
Speaker 2: It's fun.

1313
01:01:26,520 --> 01:01:27,120
Speaker 6: I'm grown.

1314
01:01:27,200 --> 01:01:29,439
Speaker 3: I have my own bread, I got my own sense

1315
01:01:29,480 --> 01:01:32,680
Speaker 3: of style. I got wisdom because I have life experience.

1316
01:01:33,040 --> 01:01:35,320
Speaker 3: Nigga don't care about like twenty year olds is doing

1317
01:01:35,400 --> 01:01:36,640
Speaker 3: everything that twenty year olds is.

1318
01:01:36,680 --> 01:01:37,240
Speaker 4: Doing, that's right.

1319
01:01:37,400 --> 01:01:40,120
Speaker 2: So a thirty five worried about what twenty year olds

1320
01:01:40,160 --> 01:01:40,600
Speaker 2: is doing.

1321
01:01:40,720 --> 01:01:44,040
Speaker 6: That's wisd I'm like y'all don't have nothing in common.

1322
01:01:44,320 --> 01:01:46,360
Speaker 2: Well, you living backwards. You supposed to be focused on

1323
01:01:46,440 --> 01:01:51,000
Speaker 2: some different shit, And for me, it's like we need

1324
01:01:51,080 --> 01:01:52,880
Speaker 2: to find like we really need to find like the

1325
01:01:52,920 --> 01:01:55,760
Speaker 2: beauty and blessing and aging. Like everybody don't get to

1326
01:01:55,840 --> 01:01:56,320
Speaker 2: do this shit.

1327
01:01:56,520 --> 01:01:58,520
Speaker 4: Come on, you are you doing?

1328
01:01:58,680 --> 01:02:02,720
Speaker 2: Niggas will talk about like, oh, they died too young, Like, bro,

1329
01:02:02,840 --> 01:02:05,040
Speaker 2: this is what y'all like, that's what you'll.

1330
01:02:06,840 --> 01:02:07,320
Speaker 6: Too young.

1331
01:02:11,840 --> 01:02:13,360
Speaker 2: I'm thirty five. You're telling me I'm old.

1332
01:02:14,360 --> 01:02:16,560
Speaker 1: And I feel like to like you said, going back

1333
01:02:16,600 --> 01:02:18,240
Speaker 1: to like the things that are interested, and I feel

1334
01:02:18,280 --> 01:02:20,439
Speaker 1: like when me Andred talk on the phone, we're talking

1335
01:02:20,480 --> 01:02:22,800
Speaker 1: about like how to invest our money, our next moves.

1336
01:02:23,640 --> 01:02:25,920
Speaker 1: She gives me tips on in the gym, like we

1337
01:02:26,040 --> 01:02:26,800
Speaker 1: talk about things that.

1338
01:02:26,840 --> 01:02:29,520
Speaker 3: Are actually important that be talking about people too sometimes.

1339
01:02:29,640 --> 01:02:31,400
Speaker 4: Oh sometimes.

1340
01:02:32,720 --> 01:02:35,360
Speaker 2: Listen, man, I'm gonna keep it real, Bros. There's not

1341
01:02:35,520 --> 01:02:39,000
Speaker 2: no I want everybody to stop this idea that you're

1342
01:02:39,080 --> 01:02:40,080
Speaker 2: not talking about other people.

1343
01:02:40,120 --> 01:02:41,640
Speaker 6: Bro, I hate that hate.

1344
01:02:43,200 --> 01:02:45,720
Speaker 1: Oh if you're gossip thing, you ain't getting no money.

1345
01:02:46,480 --> 01:02:49,080
Speaker 1: I'm at we're doing bold and I'm talking about you'all

1346
01:02:49,080 --> 01:02:49,439
Speaker 1: in the comment.

1347
01:02:49,880 --> 01:02:51,360
Speaker 2: Nigga's rich all duality.

1348
01:02:51,840 --> 01:02:54,400
Speaker 1: Come on now, I hate I'm not gonna lie. I

1349
01:02:54,520 --> 01:02:55,320
Speaker 1: hate that narrative.

1350
01:02:55,320 --> 01:02:58,000
Speaker 2: I think that everybody trying to like everybody's trying to

1351
01:02:58,040 --> 01:03:00,760
Speaker 2: make themselves seem like peak humans, like shut up.

1352
01:03:00,960 --> 01:03:02,880
Speaker 4: All I do is wake up in the one wake up.

1353
01:03:03,840 --> 01:03:04,640
Speaker 4: I drink my tea.

1354
01:03:04,760 --> 01:03:05,440
Speaker 2: I do yo.

1355
01:03:06,400 --> 01:03:09,640
Speaker 6: I don't even meditate, but after that gym drink.

1356
01:03:09,480 --> 01:03:11,960
Speaker 2: My much from I don't even drink the coffee. I

1357
01:03:12,040 --> 01:03:17,600
Speaker 2: eat it way protein. I'm at the gym at three

1358
01:03:17,680 --> 01:03:19,840
Speaker 2: forty five in the morning. I didn't even sleep, but

1359
01:03:20,560 --> 01:03:21,720
Speaker 2: I'm on my third book this.

1360
01:03:23,320 --> 01:03:25,800
Speaker 1: I do think that there's people like that. I feel

1361
01:03:25,840 --> 01:03:27,800
Speaker 1: like the closest person I know that's like that is

1362
01:03:27,840 --> 01:03:30,600
Speaker 1: probably Drea. But best believe my girl. When the tea

1363
01:03:30,680 --> 01:03:33,880
Speaker 1: is going down, I think you love.

1364
01:03:33,760 --> 01:03:36,160
Speaker 6: Some missy sheet. Oh, I love somessy.

1365
01:03:37,280 --> 01:03:40,480
Speaker 3: We are human people, We're humans, We're social, we are

1366
01:03:40,680 --> 01:03:44,600
Speaker 3: social creatures, nigga. A part of being social is talking

1367
01:03:44,640 --> 01:03:47,400
Speaker 3: about society. People is in society.

1368
01:03:47,440 --> 01:03:49,440
Speaker 2: Nigga. I'm talking about people. It may not be my

1369
01:03:49,560 --> 01:03:52,280
Speaker 2: central focus. Yeah, and also too, it's like we just

1370
01:03:52,440 --> 01:03:54,640
Speaker 2: exchanging a little information that you know what I'm saying.

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01:03:54,680 --> 01:03:58,720
Speaker 2: I'm hey, man, let me but That's a good point though.

1372
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Speaker 3: I think that's when it becomes a problem that's a

1373
01:04:01,200 --> 01:04:02,240
Speaker 3: central focus.

1374
01:04:03,640 --> 01:04:03,880
Speaker 4: About.

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01:04:04,440 --> 01:04:07,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I'm not a lot I feel like we gossip,

1376
01:04:07,640 --> 01:04:09,520
Speaker 1: but I feel like, honestly, a lot of times we're

1377
01:04:09,560 --> 01:04:11,959
Speaker 1: talking about us and ourselves, like we do talk about

1378
01:04:11,960 --> 01:04:13,080
Speaker 1: ourselves a lot in our.

1379
01:04:13,360 --> 01:04:15,120
Speaker 2: And the people that you got some about is connected

1380
01:04:15,160 --> 01:04:16,960
Speaker 2: to you, right, it's.

1381
01:04:16,840 --> 01:04:18,920
Speaker 3: Not well for for me A lot of the time,

1382
01:04:19,000 --> 01:04:21,760
Speaker 3: it do be people that's connected to me that much

1383
01:04:21,760 --> 01:04:23,040
Speaker 3: about what strangers.

1384
01:04:23,440 --> 01:04:25,280
Speaker 2: Like brou Me and my partners will go out, like

1385
01:04:25,560 --> 01:04:27,320
Speaker 2: if we go out niggas go out with me, especially

1386
01:04:27,440 --> 01:04:29,520
Speaker 2: in Big Cat, like we go out places and we

1387
01:04:29,640 --> 01:04:32,880
Speaker 2: meet a new experiences. Nigga got a debrief like that.

1388
01:04:33,000 --> 01:04:33,800
Speaker 2: Nigga was actingly weird.

1389
01:04:34,760 --> 01:04:37,919
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not gonna lie though, just speaking of mess,

1390
01:04:38,080 --> 01:04:41,280
Speaker 1: you was like involved in a mess you are on

1391
01:04:41,800 --> 01:04:45,480
Speaker 1: TikTok like it was something that happened with Jamila and

1392
01:04:45,560 --> 01:04:47,000
Speaker 1: the girl approached.

1393
01:04:46,720 --> 01:04:48,880
Speaker 2: Oh man, bruh. You know what I'm saying.

1394
01:04:49,160 --> 01:04:51,479
Speaker 3: I see Lex knowing these times that I be having

1395
01:04:51,520 --> 01:04:51,960
Speaker 3: no clues.

1396
01:04:52,720 --> 01:04:56,200
Speaker 2: I know, I know if I was, I involved myself

1397
01:04:56,320 --> 01:04:58,439
Speaker 2: and I shouldn't have did that. But at the same time,

1398
01:04:58,480 --> 01:05:00,920
Speaker 2: it's like it was a women business. Nah, they put

1399
01:05:01,000 --> 01:05:03,560
Speaker 2: me in that shit, Why you approaching me about my friend?

1400
01:05:03,640 --> 01:05:06,760
Speaker 2: That's my partner. You know, like me and Jamila, we like,

1401
01:05:07,440 --> 01:05:09,720
Speaker 2: I'm always gonna fuck Jamila. She put me on my

1402
01:05:09,880 --> 01:05:12,200
Speaker 2: first panel. She the first person to reach out to

1403
01:05:12,280 --> 01:05:14,800
Speaker 2: me outside of social media and put me in a

1404
01:05:14,840 --> 01:05:16,600
Speaker 2: room where I could actually express who I was. That

1405
01:05:16,640 --> 01:05:18,760
Speaker 2: shit was a big mama for me. That shit actually

1406
01:05:18,920 --> 01:05:21,000
Speaker 2: like turned me up, you know what I'm saying. She

1407
01:05:21,040 --> 01:05:23,080
Speaker 2: ain't have to do that so like for me, and

1408
01:05:23,160 --> 01:05:26,840
Speaker 2: then anytime there's opportunities present, she always tried to include

1409
01:05:26,840 --> 01:05:29,520
Speaker 2: me like that been our whole shit. We exchange on

1410
01:05:29,640 --> 01:05:33,440
Speaker 2: a business level. And I think also, like you know,

1411
01:05:33,720 --> 01:05:36,360
Speaker 2: I don't think niggas know how to be I ain't

1412
01:05:36,400 --> 01:05:38,840
Speaker 2: gonna say that that's very generalized, but I think we

1413
01:05:39,000 --> 01:05:41,640
Speaker 2: just need to normalize platonic relationships.

1414
01:05:42,800 --> 01:05:44,080
Speaker 4: Not talk about platonic.

1415
01:05:44,280 --> 01:05:44,320
Speaker 5: No.

1416
01:05:45,360 --> 01:05:48,360
Speaker 2: I wasn't even thinking about No. I won't even think

1417
01:05:48,360 --> 01:05:49,920
Speaker 2: about Cam when I said that. I'm just saying, like,

1418
01:05:50,000 --> 01:05:53,720
Speaker 2: that's how a relationship. And I think, you know, you know,

1419
01:05:53,880 --> 01:05:56,440
Speaker 2: anytime I'm sitting down with women and I start talking sensible,

1420
01:05:56,560 --> 01:05:58,720
Speaker 2: niggas is the red pill niggas are gearing up. So

1421
01:05:58,800 --> 01:06:02,080
Speaker 2: after this drop, I'm going to get great marketing. You

1422
01:06:02,160 --> 01:06:04,320
Speaker 2: know what I mean, Shout out to you niggas. That's losers.

1423
01:06:04,640 --> 01:06:05,960
Speaker 2: That's going to talk about me and calling me a

1424
01:06:06,040 --> 01:06:07,800
Speaker 2: Pandora for the next two weeks. So I'm gonna lean in.

1425
01:06:08,920 --> 01:06:12,160
Speaker 2: But the thing is is that yeah shot it. You know,

1426
01:06:12,360 --> 01:06:14,600
Speaker 2: she approached me in a weird way. I didn't know

1427
01:06:14,720 --> 01:06:18,960
Speaker 2: what was going on. So it was like, why the

1428
01:06:19,000 --> 01:06:22,320
Speaker 2: fuck you telling me? She's a lying.

1429
01:06:24,720 --> 01:06:25,280
Speaker 3: I just for me.

1430
01:06:25,360 --> 01:06:26,720
Speaker 2: It was just like, why are you telling me that

1431
01:06:26,840 --> 01:06:29,360
Speaker 2: you got beef with my friend? And so it was

1432
01:06:29,440 --> 01:06:31,600
Speaker 2: just like when I I didn't know what it was about.

1433
01:06:31,640 --> 01:06:33,360
Speaker 2: I was working, I was booked to host the show.

1434
01:06:33,560 --> 01:06:37,160
Speaker 4: I know I'm saying, but you was being messy though low.

1435
01:06:37,080 --> 01:06:38,320
Speaker 2: Key, being a little missy.

1436
01:06:38,400 --> 01:06:40,360
Speaker 4: It was a little messy. But I think that's okay

1437
01:06:40,400 --> 01:06:42,920
Speaker 4: because it was in you were taking up for your friend.

1438
01:06:43,280 --> 01:06:44,880
Speaker 2: Well, I just wanted to be a little a lot.

1439
01:06:44,960 --> 01:06:47,320
Speaker 2: Let's clarify, Let's get the facts out there, and then

1440
01:06:47,360 --> 01:06:51,200
Speaker 2: everybody can really make their decisions. I'm a I'm a

1441
01:06:51,400 --> 01:06:55,040
Speaker 2: very like, let's get all the information. You know what

1442
01:06:55,040 --> 01:06:57,320
Speaker 2: I'm saying, I like to be well read and research.

1443
01:06:57,400 --> 01:06:59,280
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, get all the information. I

1444
01:06:59,360 --> 01:07:01,560
Speaker 2: think that this is I think my perspective was an

1445
01:07:01,600 --> 01:07:02,920
Speaker 2: aspect that would be your leftop.

1446
01:07:03,280 --> 01:07:05,800
Speaker 3: Okay, that's fair, and it was lacking. There's a lot

1447
01:07:05,840 --> 01:07:08,880
Speaker 3: of perspective being that. Let me, let's just put some

1448
01:07:09,040 --> 01:07:11,200
Speaker 3: texture on the story. I think you're lying a little

1449
01:07:11,200 --> 01:07:11,480
Speaker 3: bit bit.

1450
01:07:12,040 --> 01:07:14,400
Speaker 2: You're lying a little bit a little bit.

1451
01:07:14,840 --> 01:07:15,960
Speaker 4: I think that's fair.

1452
01:07:16,840 --> 01:07:18,760
Speaker 1: I'll give you a quick rundown. It was a girl

1453
01:07:18,840 --> 01:07:21,040
Speaker 1: that was talking ship about Jamila on the internet. They

1454
01:07:21,120 --> 01:07:23,960
Speaker 1: seen each other in person at a party and shit

1455
01:07:24,080 --> 01:07:24,560
Speaker 1: got weird.

1456
01:07:24,880 --> 01:07:26,160
Speaker 4: That's that's the basic.

1457
01:07:26,040 --> 01:07:30,000
Speaker 2: Basically what it was. I think she she came up,

1458
01:07:31,600 --> 01:07:34,800
Speaker 2: she got a lot of followers talking about yeah, which

1459
01:07:34,920 --> 01:07:39,120
Speaker 2: is no going you know what I'm saying, And I

1460
01:07:39,200 --> 01:07:42,360
Speaker 2: guess the whole situation where she approached her to try to,

1461
01:07:42,800 --> 01:07:45,479
Speaker 2: as she said, extending olive branch, like how you gonna

1462
01:07:45,520 --> 01:07:49,240
Speaker 2: stand me? Oli branch and you about me? So Jamila

1463
01:07:49,400 --> 01:07:52,680
Speaker 2: was like, I'm good, cool on that, and then she

1464
01:07:52,760 --> 01:07:55,280
Speaker 2: went to the next day and was like, y'all she

1465
01:07:55,400 --> 01:07:56,000
Speaker 2: got back on the.

1466
01:07:56,520 --> 01:07:58,080
Speaker 4: Yes, that's the thing, her thing.

1467
01:07:58,360 --> 01:08:00,920
Speaker 2: So what she do White you gotta be mindful of

1468
01:08:00,960 --> 01:08:03,520
Speaker 2: the content you create, because what if you what if?

1469
01:08:03,600 --> 01:08:04,600
Speaker 2: What if? What if you?

1470
01:08:04,920 --> 01:08:05,280
Speaker 4: What if you?

1471
01:08:06,200 --> 01:08:07,920
Speaker 2: What if you? What if you get? What if you

1472
01:08:08,040 --> 01:08:10,640
Speaker 2: blow up on the weird ship on just that random

1473
01:08:10,760 --> 01:08:11,760
Speaker 2: video you wanted to make.

1474
01:08:11,920 --> 01:08:14,040
Speaker 3: Have you ever had a vis be helping but they

1475
01:08:14,080 --> 01:08:16,679
Speaker 3: don't blow it off the weirds majority of the time.

1476
01:08:17,479 --> 01:08:17,679
Speaker 7: Drag.

1477
01:08:17,720 --> 01:08:20,040
Speaker 1: Can you imagine somebody who is giving you hell talking

1478
01:08:20,320 --> 01:08:21,760
Speaker 1: about you, then you see them at.

1479
01:08:21,640 --> 01:08:23,640
Speaker 4: An event They're like, hey, j I just wanted to

1480
01:08:23,680 --> 01:08:26,479
Speaker 4: say I there's nothing.

1481
01:08:26,280 --> 01:08:29,640
Speaker 3: To say, respectfully, I think she's a little bit to me.

1482
01:08:31,200 --> 01:08:33,160
Speaker 3: Ain't not about to walk up to me after they

1483
01:08:33,240 --> 01:08:35,000
Speaker 3: was talking walk.

1484
01:08:34,920 --> 01:08:36,680
Speaker 2: Up to me like, look, I want to give you

1485
01:08:36,760 --> 01:08:37,480
Speaker 2: an opportunity.

1486
01:08:37,560 --> 01:08:42,840
Speaker 1: This course, give you the opportunity, Like, give you the opportunity.

1487
01:08:43,840 --> 01:08:45,759
Speaker 2: Was not linger too long because she's gonna get content

1488
01:08:45,840 --> 01:08:47,160
Speaker 2: for Yeah, but.

1489
01:08:50,240 --> 01:08:52,400
Speaker 3: Putting their head and then they be having a background.

1490
01:08:52,600 --> 01:08:55,040
Speaker 3: Let's discuss this poor mind's episode with.

1491
01:08:59,320 --> 01:09:03,360
Speaker 2: And this is what I talking about this business. This

1492
01:09:03,800 --> 01:09:04,759
Speaker 2: is a nigga.

1493
01:09:05,320 --> 01:09:08,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, we're gonna move on what we got now.

1494
01:09:08,560 --> 01:09:12,720
Speaker 3: It's time to get into the b bow dub a

1495
01:09:12,840 --> 01:09:16,559
Speaker 3: bow bow bell, bell, bell bell.

1496
01:09:17,479 --> 01:09:19,840
Speaker 4: How are you feeling? Are you having a good time this.

1497
01:09:23,280 --> 01:09:27,600
Speaker 2: Drinks flow a little about the little year. What I mean, like, bro,

1498
01:09:27,720 --> 01:09:28,160
Speaker 2: we can't go.

1499
01:09:32,800 --> 01:09:33,200
Speaker 6: I'm weak.

1500
01:09:33,600 --> 01:09:33,880
Speaker 4: Okay.

1501
01:09:34,200 --> 01:09:38,519
Speaker 1: Uh For the bed topic today, First of all, let

1502
01:09:38,600 --> 01:09:41,320
Speaker 1: me say this is sponsored by Salt x Oh.

1503
01:09:42,240 --> 01:09:43,799
Speaker 4: Let me tell y'all something I'm gonna give.

1504
01:09:43,680 --> 01:09:47,800
Speaker 1: Y'all updated like bathroom routine that I got going on.

1505
01:09:48,120 --> 01:09:53,439
Speaker 1: Because I'm gonna be honest, saltx SO has has changed

1506
01:09:53,479 --> 01:09:54,000
Speaker 1: the game for me.

1507
01:09:54,800 --> 01:09:57,400
Speaker 4: My cushis been good. Now it's great.

1508
01:09:58,280 --> 01:10:02,160
Speaker 6: Okay, shout to the type and shout out to Julia.

1509
01:10:02,240 --> 01:10:05,000
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, I don't know what it is about salt,

1510
01:10:05,000 --> 01:10:08,400
Speaker 1: eggs salt, but I my favorite. It just it's like

1511
01:10:08,479 --> 01:10:10,760
Speaker 1: I said, it's like a meant for the kuchi. Yeah,

1512
01:10:10,760 --> 01:10:13,280
Speaker 1: I always be ready and prepared, you know.

1513
01:10:13,600 --> 01:10:16,240
Speaker 3: I mean, I love me some so so and again y'all,

1514
01:10:16,640 --> 01:10:18,640
Speaker 3: not only do they have the full size bottles, but

1515
01:10:18,720 --> 01:10:21,200
Speaker 3: they also have the travel sized bottles as well. Now,

1516
01:10:21,320 --> 01:10:22,960
Speaker 3: so you can take it on the go. Good KOUCHI

1517
01:10:23,400 --> 01:10:27,439
Speaker 3: to go good good need to go by. They need

1518
01:10:27,479 --> 01:10:32,960
Speaker 3: to start using that as a slogan. But also outside

1519
01:10:33,000 --> 01:10:36,880
Speaker 3: of just the wash, they have so many other good

1520
01:10:37,000 --> 01:10:38,680
Speaker 3: Yes you need something for the good, well you know

1521
01:10:38,800 --> 01:10:40,439
Speaker 3: this isn't really so much for the good, but it's

1522
01:10:40,560 --> 01:10:41,080
Speaker 3: good for the.

1523
01:10:42,560 --> 01:10:42,720
Speaker 7: Right.

1524
01:10:43,720 --> 01:10:46,559
Speaker 3: So I love these slippery Elm pills, y'all. Like if

1525
01:10:46,600 --> 01:10:48,760
Speaker 3: you know, you know about slippery elm, but you have

1526
01:10:48,960 --> 01:10:51,599
Speaker 3: to take it consistently. But if you take these pills

1527
01:10:51,720 --> 01:10:52,960
Speaker 3: consistently every day.

1528
01:10:53,320 --> 01:10:55,000
Speaker 1: Juice by we're gonna send you. You can use these

1529
01:10:55,040 --> 01:10:57,200
Speaker 1: on your balls too. Yeah, you and your wife can share.

1530
01:10:57,240 --> 01:10:58,559
Speaker 1: She can use it on the kochie. You can use

1531
01:10:58,560 --> 01:10:59,960
Speaker 1: it on the bass. Y'all can have a good cause.

1532
01:11:00,120 --> 01:11:02,400
Speaker 1: This is what happens at the beginning of the night

1533
01:11:02,560 --> 01:11:05,040
Speaker 1: before you go out and you use the couchie wash

1534
01:11:05,400 --> 01:11:06,040
Speaker 1: by the time.

1535
01:11:05,920 --> 01:11:07,599
Speaker 4: You get home, put it still fresh.

1536
01:11:07,720 --> 01:11:09,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, fakes, you don't even got to go run to

1537
01:11:09,720 --> 01:11:11,639
Speaker 1: the bathroom. I told you about using that down soap

1538
01:11:11,680 --> 01:11:13,040
Speaker 1: on your cochi. You don't even got to do that.

1539
01:11:13,439 --> 01:11:14,479
Speaker 4: Xel got you for the night.

1540
01:11:14,920 --> 01:11:17,040
Speaker 3: But we're gonna sit and they have wipes as well.

1541
01:11:17,840 --> 01:11:19,880
Speaker 3: Wipe it up, wipe it up. I love to wipe

1542
01:11:19,880 --> 01:11:21,560
Speaker 3: that kouchi and he put a little oil on it,

1543
01:11:21,640 --> 01:11:22,360
Speaker 3: so it ain't ashy.

1544
01:11:22,680 --> 01:11:25,639
Speaker 4: I know that's right. Okay, let's get to the topic.

1545
01:11:32,560 --> 01:11:35,880
Speaker 1: So for the bad topic today, we want to talk

1546
01:11:35,920 --> 01:11:36,879
Speaker 1: about the difference.

1547
01:11:37,120 --> 01:11:39,799
Speaker 4: You know, we're being woke this episode, so we're gonna.

1548
01:11:39,640 --> 01:11:40,639
Speaker 2: Keep them going.

1549
01:11:41,160 --> 01:11:44,559
Speaker 1: We want to talk about white porn versus black porn.

1550
01:11:45,120 --> 01:11:46,240
Speaker 4: It's crazy to think, but.

1551
01:11:46,360 --> 01:11:51,640
Speaker 1: Everything is segregated, the club, the grocery stores, every.

1552
01:11:51,439 --> 01:11:55,280
Speaker 6: Porn and porn. Well, I know we come together in porn.

1553
01:11:56,280 --> 01:11:59,320
Speaker 3: I don't know that should be like that should be

1554
01:11:59,439 --> 01:12:02,559
Speaker 3: like white angel gets destroyed by big black.

1555
01:12:02,960 --> 01:12:09,639
Speaker 4: Yeah that's how said. I mean, Queen gets destroyed white.

1556
01:12:10,040 --> 01:12:10,880
Speaker 2: Like ghetto black.

1557
01:12:13,880 --> 01:12:21,440
Speaker 3: You're watching, that's all.

1558
01:12:21,040 --> 01:12:24,479
Speaker 4: You gotta say, Avenue, you gotta start.

1559
01:12:26,240 --> 01:12:28,800
Speaker 1: Oh my god, So white and black porn can be

1560
01:12:28,920 --> 01:12:30,120
Speaker 1: totally different.

1561
01:12:30,600 --> 01:12:32,679
Speaker 2: Usually like bitch takes white cars.

1562
01:12:34,120 --> 01:12:38,200
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, I just dude, Okay.

1563
01:12:38,000 --> 01:12:39,920
Speaker 2: It's getting the attention that I mean.

1564
01:12:40,080 --> 01:12:40,320
Speaker 7: I'm not.

1565
01:12:42,040 --> 01:12:43,840
Speaker 2: We know what the type being for what we do

1566
01:12:44,880 --> 01:12:46,920
Speaker 2: programmed us to this degrading ship.

1567
01:12:48,000 --> 01:12:51,679
Speaker 4: But I'm not gonna lie. I do not like to see.

1568
01:12:51,840 --> 01:12:54,519
Speaker 1: First of all, I don't like men in my porn period.

1569
01:12:54,720 --> 01:12:55,120
Speaker 4: I don't.

1570
01:12:56,000 --> 01:12:56,360
Speaker 2: I don't.

1571
01:12:56,479 --> 01:13:00,400
Speaker 4: I don't like to see dick and balls. They're not cute, They're.

1572
01:13:00,200 --> 01:13:02,280
Speaker 2: Not a little solo VI.

1573
01:13:02,720 --> 01:13:03,479
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.

1574
01:13:03,760 --> 01:13:05,960
Speaker 6: I like a Laurel doing their thing.

1575
01:13:06,120 --> 01:13:08,719
Speaker 1: I like to see women, women on women, but honestly,

1576
01:13:08,840 --> 01:13:10,799
Speaker 1: I would rather see a black woman.

1577
01:13:11,040 --> 01:13:14,320
Speaker 4: I do give me my segregated porn. This is what

1578
01:13:14,960 --> 01:13:16,080
Speaker 4: this is what we fought for.

1579
01:13:16,479 --> 01:13:18,080
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean people segregate.

1580
01:13:18,240 --> 01:13:19,759
Speaker 4: Some things need to say segregated.

1581
01:13:19,800 --> 01:13:21,519
Speaker 2: Everybody feel that way, you know what I'm saying. You

1582
01:13:21,600 --> 01:13:23,240
Speaker 2: know they do this.

1583
01:13:23,520 --> 01:13:25,360
Speaker 6: I don't know if this was quite all.

1584
01:13:25,320 --> 01:13:30,920
Speaker 2: For I got this specifically, but you know what I'm saying.

1585
01:13:32,280 --> 01:13:37,000
Speaker 6: It wasn't like the seventies. Yeah, yeah, but like.

1586
01:13:37,120 --> 01:13:39,760
Speaker 2: Something about you know what niggas is freaked out as

1587
01:13:39,800 --> 01:13:41,719
Speaker 2: soon as the motion picture came, was like we should

1588
01:13:41,720 --> 01:13:48,200
Speaker 2: fun on and then do y'all they have porn, you know,

1589
01:13:48,320 --> 01:13:48,839
Speaker 2: to beat.

1590
01:13:52,680 --> 01:13:53,519
Speaker 4: I know that right.

1591
01:13:55,600 --> 01:13:56,840
Speaker 6: Where you be on a different beat.

1592
01:14:00,360 --> 01:14:03,160
Speaker 2: But no, listen, I missed music and porn because, like

1593
01:14:03,479 --> 01:14:08,559
Speaker 2: you say, what porn. I'm telling you, niggas's freaky. Man,

1594
01:14:08,640 --> 01:14:10,519
Speaker 2: niggas like, man, I ain't even picture some titties. Man,

1595
01:14:10,560 --> 01:14:10,880
Speaker 2: what's up?

1596
01:14:11,120 --> 01:14:11,280
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1597
01:14:11,360 --> 01:14:13,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're trying to shut the titties. It's one of

1598
01:14:13,640 --> 01:14:14,280
Speaker 2: these harlots.

1599
01:14:15,360 --> 01:14:16,000
Speaker 4: The harlets.

1600
01:14:16,160 --> 01:14:17,479
Speaker 2: Give us some shillings. Man.

1601
01:14:18,320 --> 01:14:22,240
Speaker 3: Man, I know that eighteen ninety six porn was funky.

1602
01:14:22,320 --> 01:14:23,840
Speaker 3: I know that room was funky.

1603
01:14:24,240 --> 01:14:24,840
Speaker 4: Game was wrong.

1604
01:14:27,200 --> 01:14:29,839
Speaker 2: At some point in human history has traded a goat.

1605
01:14:29,640 --> 01:14:32,280
Speaker 4: For ooh, and I like a little goat.

1606
01:14:32,320 --> 01:14:32,920
Speaker 2: That would have been me.

1607
01:14:33,280 --> 01:14:35,479
Speaker 4: I was giving it up for that goat. You can

1608
01:14:35,520 --> 01:14:40,040
Speaker 4: do a lot with some goat. Ste Curry, you.

1609
01:14:40,080 --> 01:14:41,639
Speaker 2: Know what I'm saying. I mean, it's only one goat.

1610
01:14:41,640 --> 01:14:43,240
Speaker 2: You gotta get what you can, so you have to

1611
01:14:43,400 --> 01:14:44,000
Speaker 2: kill that more.

1612
01:14:44,760 --> 01:14:47,280
Speaker 4: But it's something about white even good though.

1613
01:14:47,680 --> 01:14:49,960
Speaker 1: It's something about white porn that just doesn't give it

1614
01:14:50,080 --> 01:14:52,160
Speaker 1: up for me. I don't like the word cock.

1615
01:14:53,360 --> 01:14:54,400
Speaker 6: I kind of like that word.

1616
01:14:54,479 --> 01:14:58,120
Speaker 2: It's very like it's just funny.

1617
01:14:59,240 --> 01:15:05,680
Speaker 1: Cock gives close to e R for me, it sounds yes,

1618
01:15:06,520 --> 01:15:07,600
Speaker 1: I do not like it.

1619
01:15:08,680 --> 01:15:10,280
Speaker 2: Nigga. He was like, you like the call?

1620
01:15:12,080 --> 01:15:16,960
Speaker 4: I don't want to jail. You're going you know it's

1621
01:15:18,240 --> 01:15:23,760
Speaker 4: you know, you have to say like it's something like that.

1622
01:15:23,960 --> 01:15:26,960
Speaker 4: Did you like that? D I'm like your you know

1623
01:15:26,960 --> 01:15:29,280
Speaker 4: what I'm saying. I feel like black.

1624
01:15:29,479 --> 01:15:32,800
Speaker 3: It's just a swag and I don't like like, I

1625
01:15:32,800 --> 01:15:35,600
Speaker 3: don't like white, the white cadence of like fucking.

1626
01:15:36,240 --> 01:15:40,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, why so we get off.

1627
01:15:43,560 --> 01:15:45,320
Speaker 4: It's given like rabbit humpy.

1628
01:15:45,439 --> 01:15:46,479
Speaker 2: They wouldn't be talking.

1629
01:15:46,400 --> 01:15:50,479
Speaker 1: Ship yes, like it's very sexy, like we're very sultry

1630
01:15:50,479 --> 01:15:52,040
Speaker 1: in the it's a rhythm.

1631
01:15:52,479 --> 01:15:54,920
Speaker 2: Like why it's like white people be sucking in a rush.

1632
01:15:55,520 --> 01:15:56,519
Speaker 2: They ain't supposed to be doing it.

1633
01:15:57,080 --> 01:15:57,800
Speaker 4: I don't like that.

1634
01:15:58,120 --> 01:16:00,240
Speaker 6: I can't gout somewhere to be that do.

1635
01:16:02,760 --> 01:16:03,160
Speaker 7: Just like that?

1636
01:16:03,400 --> 01:16:05,519
Speaker 2: God damn what you thought you wouldn't gona get? So

1637
01:16:07,680 --> 01:16:09,960
Speaker 2: that pass you the run?

1638
01:16:10,400 --> 01:16:10,519
Speaker 1: Right?

1639
01:16:10,960 --> 01:16:11,400
Speaker 4: Can I ask?

1640
01:16:12,760 --> 01:16:14,880
Speaker 2: Bringing on films? They run out of film?

1641
01:16:18,479 --> 01:16:18,680
Speaker 4: Do you?

1642
01:16:22,000 --> 01:16:24,200
Speaker 2: I'm glad we're paying ship.

1643
01:16:26,600 --> 01:16:28,000
Speaker 4: Do you have a favorite porn star?

1644
01:16:28,920 --> 01:16:31,880
Speaker 2: No, that's weird to have a favorite. Hell yeah, I'm

1645
01:16:31,920 --> 01:16:32,439
Speaker 2: thirty five.

1646
01:16:33,400 --> 01:16:34,920
Speaker 4: I mean, but you have somebody like favorite?

1647
01:16:34,920 --> 01:16:38,120
Speaker 2: When I was younger, man, I'm telling who it was, Pinky,

1648
01:16:38,240 --> 01:16:41,120
Speaker 2: I knew that little bit was dag.

1649
01:16:41,560 --> 01:16:41,920
Speaker 4: She got that.

1650
01:16:42,160 --> 01:16:43,920
Speaker 2: I had like a cople like a little top fire,

1651
01:16:43,960 --> 01:16:49,400
Speaker 2: a little misking. Sophia Castello had a white girl. Alexis Texas.

1652
01:16:49,479 --> 01:16:53,920
Speaker 2: Not a variety had Texas. You know what I mean?

1653
01:16:54,920 --> 01:16:58,640
Speaker 2: Let me tell you something problem. No, no, sir, just

1654
01:16:58,720 --> 01:16:59,920
Speaker 2: before I knew who dactor umar?

1655
01:17:00,160 --> 01:17:03,080
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, do you have a favorite boar star?

1656
01:17:05,000 --> 01:17:10,400
Speaker 3: I don't not currently, No, but like today with this

1657
01:17:10,560 --> 01:17:13,600
Speaker 3: lady I think her name was was her name Lacey.

1658
01:17:16,680 --> 01:17:20,760
Speaker 2: Was a young gunnery. Of course she's as how to

1659
01:17:20,800 --> 01:17:24,240
Speaker 2: make sure she hasn't big titties. Boy, she hasn't big fake.

1660
01:17:25,439 --> 01:17:26,080
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna lie.

1661
01:17:26,120 --> 01:17:28,679
Speaker 3: You know that was back then when girls, when black

1662
01:17:28,720 --> 01:17:29,760
Speaker 3: girls ain't really had a fake.

1663
01:17:30,200 --> 01:17:32,640
Speaker 4: Like I realized, I like, I.

1664
01:17:32,840 --> 01:17:36,519
Speaker 1: Like black women that have the fake a little like

1665
01:17:37,439 --> 01:17:40,240
Speaker 1: I like a little bimbo look sometimes because it gives

1666
01:17:40,360 --> 01:17:41,040
Speaker 1: like you are a.

1667
01:17:41,200 --> 01:17:43,120
Speaker 6: Whore, you are a slut.

1668
01:17:43,479 --> 01:17:45,720
Speaker 4: And that's what I want to Yes, that's what I

1669
01:17:45,800 --> 01:17:46,240
Speaker 4: want to say.

1670
01:17:46,479 --> 01:17:49,840
Speaker 2: Look, this is your profession. Do this well.

1671
01:17:49,960 --> 01:17:50,640
Speaker 4: You need to go in.

1672
01:17:51,000 --> 01:17:52,559
Speaker 2: I need you to be a real whore.

1673
01:17:52,720 --> 01:17:53,120
Speaker 4: I need you.

1674
01:17:54,720 --> 01:17:58,120
Speaker 3: I'm not here for amateur work. I want to and

1675
01:17:58,200 --> 01:17:59,160
Speaker 3: I need a professional.

1676
01:18:00,160 --> 01:18:03,320
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. I like that y'all star

1677
01:18:04,920 --> 01:18:11,200
Speaker 2: a point star nigga. No yeah doing it.

1678
01:18:12,080 --> 01:18:14,200
Speaker 1: I feel like I couldn't do that. Start women, they

1679
01:18:14,320 --> 01:18:16,639
Speaker 1: be kind of like t like that could be ta

1680
01:18:16,920 --> 01:18:17,599
Speaker 1: the niggas.

1681
01:18:17,720 --> 01:18:18,280
Speaker 4: The niggas.

1682
01:18:19,560 --> 01:18:22,439
Speaker 6: Yeah, I remember, please don't.

1683
01:18:23,560 --> 01:18:25,559
Speaker 2: I remember the one time watching the point nigga fing

1684
01:18:25,600 --> 01:18:26,320
Speaker 2: and some loves.

1685
01:18:28,560 --> 01:18:31,960
Speaker 6: That's compointly, they'll probably be wearing them with the.

1686
01:18:32,000 --> 01:18:44,080
Speaker 2: S they nigga got a little fan and nigga. The

1687
01:18:44,200 --> 01:18:50,519
Speaker 2: niggas starting a nigga credible winds, turned by.

1688
01:18:59,040 --> 01:19:02,960
Speaker 4: And dollars.

1689
01:19:05,400 --> 01:19:09,439
Speaker 6: But I'm not gonna lie, like get you to be

1690
01:19:09,520 --> 01:19:10,959
Speaker 6: a real nigga to know about.

1691
01:19:12,640 --> 01:19:16,000
Speaker 1: Magazine's an East Bay magazine. I never got into like

1692
01:19:16,080 --> 01:19:18,719
Speaker 1: the brin pumper hype like back in the day.

1693
01:19:18,640 --> 01:19:23,599
Speaker 2: Like rapping in fucking like what you do well nobody

1694
01:19:23,600 --> 01:19:27,599
Speaker 2: he's getting the buda in the bed because like one

1695
01:19:27,720 --> 01:19:29,719
Speaker 2: b you divide the audience because it's like the niggat

1696
01:19:29,760 --> 01:19:30,439
Speaker 2: bars and it's.

1697
01:19:30,280 --> 01:19:37,599
Speaker 4: Like, imagine you would have called a nigga Brian Pump hard.

1698
01:19:39,640 --> 01:19:45,880
Speaker 2: This nigga is a gooner freaked out man, what's nigga?

1699
01:19:45,920 --> 01:19:46,080
Speaker 1: Man?

1700
01:19:46,439 --> 01:19:50,200
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's a little you know, is not fire man.

1701
01:19:51,600 --> 01:19:54,360
Speaker 2: It's like it's like you get a lot of pussy contractually.

1702
01:19:54,520 --> 01:19:56,840
Speaker 3: I feel like being a poor nigga, it gives I

1703
01:19:57,040 --> 01:19:59,959
Speaker 3: need this money like you giveing t t off of City.

1704
01:20:01,280 --> 01:20:03,599
Speaker 2: Away man for shelter man.

1705
01:20:03,760 --> 01:20:12,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, hold on, you're crazy for shelters. Its definitely.

1706
01:20:13,400 --> 01:20:16,679
Speaker 2: Two hours of mid and a bitch that was ready,

1707
01:20:17,280 --> 01:20:19,160
Speaker 2: you know what I mean? She needed somebody.

1708
01:20:19,000 --> 01:20:22,400
Speaker 4: Hobo sexuals like baby out here season two.

1709
01:20:22,560 --> 01:20:25,559
Speaker 2: She let me draw her car. No license, I'm going

1710
01:20:25,600 --> 01:20:28,920
Speaker 2: to see other women. I'm like, look, I got the

1711
01:20:29,000 --> 01:20:31,160
Speaker 2: Dickey's on, I got this mid you want to smoke,

1712
01:20:31,880 --> 01:20:34,360
Speaker 2: I got a wheel, I got these.

1713
01:20:34,400 --> 01:20:35,240
Speaker 6: These dickies and.

1714
01:20:37,800 --> 01:20:42,640
Speaker 2: Little let's talk about it. Let's talk about it awful.

1715
01:20:43,280 --> 01:20:43,960
Speaker 4: Let me just say that.

1716
01:20:46,080 --> 01:20:46,519
Speaker 2: Go ahead.

1717
01:20:46,920 --> 01:20:47,920
Speaker 6: I just want to ask Sean.

1718
01:20:48,120 --> 01:20:50,559
Speaker 3: Do y'all have any scenarios like when y'all are watching

1719
01:20:50,600 --> 01:20:52,920
Speaker 3: porn all off, all of them.

1720
01:20:53,160 --> 01:20:55,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just all that we stop talking.

1721
01:20:56,400 --> 01:21:00,759
Speaker 4: Oh my god, so much mail? Who deliver the smell?

1722
01:21:01,560 --> 01:21:03,200
Speaker 4: And then in a box?

1723
01:21:08,240 --> 01:21:10,960
Speaker 2: You know what, I ain't gonna lie. The finest porn

1724
01:21:11,040 --> 01:21:13,200
Speaker 2: hubs be doing the property ship, like where they act

1725
01:21:13,280 --> 01:21:19,320
Speaker 2: like their real estate. It's like how you gonna pay? Okay, bitch,

1726
01:21:19,439 --> 01:21:19,760
Speaker 2: all right?

1727
01:21:19,800 --> 01:21:24,240
Speaker 1: But sometimes in this prop house, but sometimes it's very rare.

1728
01:21:24,280 --> 01:21:26,679
Speaker 1: But sometimes you'll get a storyline that's kind of good juicy.

1729
01:21:27,120 --> 01:21:28,920
Speaker 1: I'll be like, let me beat this mean finished, because

1730
01:21:28,920 --> 01:21:29,800
Speaker 1: I need to know what happened.

1731
01:21:29,800 --> 01:21:32,640
Speaker 2: I need people to be naked out is talking. I

1732
01:21:32,680 --> 01:21:38,000
Speaker 2: don't need look if i'm if I'm f I'm so horny. Yeah,

1733
01:21:38,080 --> 01:21:39,160
Speaker 2: I don't need cut up.

1734
01:21:40,240 --> 01:21:44,720
Speaker 4: But watching the dialogue of a porn you might be

1735
01:21:44,840 --> 01:21:45,640
Speaker 4: too horny for me.

1736
01:21:45,760 --> 01:21:47,559
Speaker 2: Now you will listen. I'm gonna tell you something.

1737
01:21:47,840 --> 01:21:49,000
Speaker 6: Are you like a good story?

1738
01:21:49,240 --> 01:21:51,519
Speaker 1: I do like a good story every now, every now

1739
01:21:51,560 --> 01:21:52,760
Speaker 1: and then, but sometimes people are.

1740
01:21:52,720 --> 01:21:54,640
Speaker 2: Really to the story. I ain't gonna lot, man, the

1741
01:21:54,640 --> 01:21:59,160
Speaker 2: whole story is like, I know it's a good but.

1742
01:21:59,560 --> 01:22:01,280
Speaker 6: Gonna have what's the plot?

1743
01:22:02,920 --> 01:22:05,200
Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you something else too. I'm tell you, niggas,

1744
01:22:05,240 --> 01:22:09,000
Speaker 2: is you gotta go get a psychological evaluation if you

1745
01:22:09,120 --> 01:22:10,720
Speaker 2: leave in comments under the porn bro.

1746
01:22:10,760 --> 01:22:12,960
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah that's a little too far. But sometimes I'll

1747
01:22:12,960 --> 01:22:15,720
Speaker 1: read the comment you do. I'll be like, oh they

1748
01:22:15,760 --> 01:22:17,240
Speaker 1: went in, let me see what they talking about.

1749
01:22:17,280 --> 01:22:18,840
Speaker 2: Oh you read the comments before you watch it?

1750
01:22:18,840 --> 01:22:24,960
Speaker 4: Now your reviews review I don't even know what's going on.

1751
01:22:25,840 --> 01:22:27,479
Speaker 2: Commonsation with being delusional, Like.

1752
01:22:27,560 --> 01:22:32,599
Speaker 1: Yeah me next, what is anybody in South Carolina right

1753
01:22:32,640 --> 01:22:38,559
Speaker 1: now looking for hold on, wait, you need to slow down, niggas.

1754
01:22:40,960 --> 01:22:44,759
Speaker 3: Okay, but I know I'm a little hood because sometimes

1755
01:22:44,880 --> 01:22:48,320
Speaker 3: I like the amateur porn over like the professional.

1756
01:22:49,240 --> 01:22:49,920
Speaker 6: The iPhone.

1757
01:22:50,080 --> 01:22:53,360
Speaker 2: Yes, I'm trying to see what real humans doing. I

1758
01:22:53,400 --> 01:22:55,360
Speaker 2: have read this book. It fucked me up about porn

1759
01:22:55,439 --> 01:22:58,240
Speaker 2: like it fucked me up. So now that's like I

1760
01:22:58,360 --> 01:23:00,640
Speaker 2: really need to be real people. Like that's all the

1761
01:23:00,680 --> 01:23:02,800
Speaker 2: way I can really get into it. Because they was

1762
01:23:02,920 --> 01:23:06,559
Speaker 2: like talking about how like the performance of like how

1763
01:23:06,720 --> 01:23:09,960
Speaker 2: porn is not six not six, nigga, So it's a

1764
01:23:10,040 --> 01:23:14,880
Speaker 2: performance of sex. So like, yeah, man, that's why. That's

1765
01:23:14,880 --> 01:23:17,880
Speaker 2: why I'm just like, let me find a woman that's

1766
01:23:18,040 --> 01:23:19,840
Speaker 2: just doing her thut this. You know what I'm saying.

1767
01:23:20,560 --> 01:23:22,760
Speaker 4: They recorded for fun, well, but they.

1768
01:23:22,720 --> 01:23:26,000
Speaker 2: Actually are enjoying. It's not like it's not like I'm fake,

1769
01:23:26,360 --> 01:23:30,040
Speaker 2: it's not performing. And then yeah, like real people, it's yeah,

1770
01:23:30,080 --> 01:23:32,000
Speaker 2: we're getting real raw emotions out there more for me.

1771
01:23:32,120 --> 01:23:33,920
Speaker 1: And you know what's crazy, I think because we've had

1772
01:23:33,920 --> 01:23:36,040
Speaker 1: a few porn stars on the couch and not like anybody,

1773
01:23:36,120 --> 01:23:38,680
Speaker 1: like we've had the top tier. We had Janie and

1774
01:23:38,760 --> 01:23:40,519
Speaker 1: then we had be Nasty and what is.

1775
01:23:40,520 --> 01:23:43,000
Speaker 6: That other girl Nam knew we had a long time.

1776
01:23:42,880 --> 01:23:46,560
Speaker 4: Ago that I can't remember her name, Cookie Cookie.

1777
01:23:49,000 --> 01:23:49,439
Speaker 7: Nasty.

1778
01:23:50,760 --> 01:23:53,160
Speaker 2: But okay, I saund that.

1779
01:23:53,200 --> 01:23:55,000
Speaker 1: To say, it's like, well, you actually talk to them,

1780
01:23:55,680 --> 01:23:57,720
Speaker 1: and I know this sounds so bad, but they be

1781
01:23:57,880 --> 01:23:59,840
Speaker 1: so cool and chill late back.

1782
01:24:00,160 --> 01:24:03,559
Speaker 2: I mean, they people, we all fucking yeah. I think

1783
01:24:03,720 --> 01:24:05,960
Speaker 2: that they get some people fucking getting a little money

1784
01:24:05,960 --> 01:24:10,760
Speaker 2: off this ship. But she I mean that, you know

1785
01:24:10,760 --> 01:24:13,320
Speaker 2: what I'm saying, It ain't not really the judge. I

1786
01:24:13,360 --> 01:24:16,559
Speaker 2: mean they freelancing that ship. They ain't. They ain't got

1787
01:24:16,640 --> 01:24:19,560
Speaker 2: no pimp, they ain't got them, they ain't signed the

1788
01:24:19,640 --> 01:24:22,360
Speaker 2: West Coast Productions and like that. You know they get

1789
01:24:22,439 --> 01:24:23,920
Speaker 2: they getting their bad You know what I'm saying. I

1790
01:24:24,000 --> 01:24:26,200
Speaker 2: think they found a way to heck. You know what

1791
01:24:26,200 --> 01:24:27,760
Speaker 2: I'm saying. If I could get if I could sell

1792
01:24:27,840 --> 01:24:30,439
Speaker 2: drugs without a plug, I would you did?

1793
01:24:32,240 --> 01:24:33,880
Speaker 4: I ain't bad at it going to jail.

1794
01:24:35,479 --> 01:24:39,920
Speaker 2: Well, nigga, I could go trafficked drugs right now, all

1795
01:24:39,960 --> 01:24:43,240
Speaker 2: the country, all this country, all this podcast should be

1796
01:24:43,280 --> 01:24:48,639
Speaker 2: over with niggas. This part is supponsible fitting a niggas. Okay,

1797
01:24:51,160 --> 01:24:52,439
Speaker 2: you know why not?

1798
01:24:52,800 --> 01:25:01,000
Speaker 1: How to move on, nigga, get into the bo bow

1799
01:25:01,439 --> 01:25:05,760
Speaker 1: bow so Bop of the week is the music that

1800
01:25:05,840 --> 01:25:08,160
Speaker 1: we've been jamming this week. You know, it's a lot

1801
01:25:08,200 --> 01:25:11,960
Speaker 1: of good new music out and you know, the old

1802
01:25:12,040 --> 01:25:13,439
Speaker 1: niggas is back, and I don't want to take the

1803
01:25:13,479 --> 01:25:15,240
Speaker 1: old niggas in a derogatory.

1804
01:25:15,960 --> 01:25:18,320
Speaker 4: Niggas that's really was rapping there.

1805
01:25:18,439 --> 01:25:21,160
Speaker 1: They gotta show you why in's how to get on

1806
01:25:21,439 --> 01:25:24,120
Speaker 1: a track. Juvenile got a new record out.

1807
01:25:24,439 --> 01:25:27,599
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, yeah, I like this new song because yeah,

1808
01:25:27,680 --> 01:25:29,040
Speaker 6: he's like when I heard that.

1809
01:25:29,320 --> 01:25:30,960
Speaker 1: He's talking about you gotta you want to fuck you

1810
01:25:31,040 --> 01:25:32,240
Speaker 1: gotta fuck with the old niggas.

1811
01:25:32,240 --> 01:25:33,280
Speaker 4: What you doing with the young nigga.

1812
01:25:33,680 --> 01:25:37,800
Speaker 3: I like it because it's like twerking music. Let's give

1813
01:25:37,800 --> 01:25:39,719
Speaker 3: it thousands again.

1814
01:25:40,240 --> 01:25:43,439
Speaker 1: I dropped the song produced Arparel. Let him know he

1815
01:25:43,560 --> 01:25:46,639
Speaker 1: did fire like, don't get it twisted.

1816
01:25:46,680 --> 01:25:48,600
Speaker 4: This is t I P. Coming live from the v

1817
01:25:48,680 --> 01:25:52,280
Speaker 4: I P. Not playing with Stop playing with legends.

1818
01:25:53,880 --> 01:25:57,960
Speaker 2: I don't. Yeah, that's not that's my ship.

1819
01:25:58,080 --> 01:25:58,360
Speaker 5: That's what.

1820
01:26:00,320 --> 01:26:01,080
Speaker 2: My thing is.

1821
01:26:03,479 --> 01:26:03,679
Speaker 6: Young.

1822
01:26:03,880 --> 01:26:07,760
Speaker 1: I think the young people, young people too much be

1823
01:26:07,880 --> 01:26:09,839
Speaker 1: playing with our legends and they feel.

1824
01:26:09,720 --> 01:26:14,920
Speaker 2: Like, oh, y'all don't know niggas out rapping all city blues.

1825
01:26:15,000 --> 01:26:20,240
Speaker 2: That's all I've been running. That's crazy that you took

1826
01:26:20,280 --> 01:26:24,600
Speaker 2: my by that nigga Jaga Pump started some times. You

1827
01:26:24,640 --> 01:26:26,800
Speaker 2: got to mean to call nigga a punk b Yeah,

1828
01:26:27,120 --> 01:26:28,599
Speaker 2: I mean you mean that you're a punk.

1829
01:26:28,439 --> 01:26:30,920
Speaker 3: Ass bit That's what I'm saying this as nigga really

1830
01:26:31,120 --> 01:26:34,080
Speaker 3: ate whoever came I've seen, I mean, but whoever.

1831
01:26:33,880 --> 01:26:34,320
Speaker 4: Came up with.

1832
01:26:35,200 --> 01:26:40,400
Speaker 2: You know, that's a real that's like literary expertise nigga.

1833
01:26:40,560 --> 01:26:42,479
Speaker 1: That's what I just felt like a lot of times

1834
01:26:42,520 --> 01:26:45,599
Speaker 1: people get disrespectful about our legends. They'd be like, oh, y'all,

1835
01:26:45,600 --> 01:26:48,320
Speaker 1: ain't okay. Let Farrell hop on that track. Who at

1836
01:26:48,400 --> 01:26:50,639
Speaker 1: nigga show you what the fun he can do. Don't

1837
01:26:50,680 --> 01:26:52,160
Speaker 1: make that Louis Baton don.

1838
01:26:52,000 --> 01:26:54,320
Speaker 2: Ship for you, nigga, that little come on.

1839
01:27:04,040 --> 01:27:08,599
Speaker 4: Like come on like with the hair, like that motherfucker clean.

1840
01:27:10,640 --> 01:27:13,599
Speaker 2: Like two days after he cut his I was like, they.

1841
01:27:13,520 --> 01:27:15,680
Speaker 4: Said he got a face lift. They said he cut

1842
01:27:15,760 --> 01:27:17,439
Speaker 4: their hair and it looked like a brand new nigga.

1843
01:27:18,400 --> 01:27:20,479
Speaker 4: Maybe he's born with it. Maybe it's maybe le whole

1844
01:27:20,520 --> 01:27:24,479
Speaker 4: ass nigga. Ice him out.

1845
01:27:25,160 --> 01:27:32,439
Speaker 6: What's all box Well? I feel like Neil's tasted. Maybe he's.

1846
01:27:34,320 --> 01:27:44,519
Speaker 7: Crazy Brolloyd.

1847
01:27:46,040 --> 01:27:49,519
Speaker 6: I'm glad we bout up what he looks good?

1848
01:27:52,520 --> 01:27:52,960
Speaker 5: Let him.

1849
01:27:54,640 --> 01:27:57,160
Speaker 2: Anything ass nigga is just it's funny.

1850
01:27:57,600 --> 01:27:58,720
Speaker 6: It's funny they ate with that.

1851
01:27:58,920 --> 01:28:01,120
Speaker 2: My bad. I ain't mean still yeah ship. I got another.

1852
01:28:01,160 --> 01:28:01,680
Speaker 2: I got a little bit.

1853
01:28:05,479 --> 01:28:07,960
Speaker 3: It could be both of hours. What was it his

1854
01:28:08,080 --> 01:28:10,680
Speaker 3: song that he said? Bounce roll Blues by Jason.

1855
01:28:11,800 --> 01:28:16,120
Speaker 2: Bounce roll how you all but my bed but roll blues.

1856
01:28:16,560 --> 01:28:18,400
Speaker 6: Not buns, I mean, not bounce.

1857
01:28:19,680 --> 01:28:23,040
Speaker 2: A little stop line. Bro, ain't got nothing.

1858
01:28:24,520 --> 01:28:27,360
Speaker 4: We got a little little sleep in there.

1859
01:28:29,320 --> 01:28:29,719
Speaker 2: CBD.

1860
01:28:30,960 --> 01:28:33,960
Speaker 1: But Future because somebody had made the thing like, oh

1861
01:28:34,000 --> 01:28:35,120
Speaker 1: Future can't rap no more?

1862
01:28:35,200 --> 01:28:39,559
Speaker 2: Stop it stopped near this. I ain't gonna lie man.

1863
01:28:39,600 --> 01:28:43,000
Speaker 2: I'm starting to get ages, Bro, I don't want to

1864
01:28:43,040 --> 01:28:46,880
Speaker 2: hear the pinions of people younger than twenty five again

1865
01:28:47,000 --> 01:28:50,160
Speaker 2: old yeah, oh Future, shut up?

1866
01:28:50,240 --> 01:28:50,320
Speaker 7: Bro.

1867
01:28:50,800 --> 01:28:55,679
Speaker 1: The people was Brandy doing the run That national anthem

1868
01:28:55,880 --> 01:28:56,520
Speaker 1: was beautiful.

1869
01:28:56,640 --> 01:28:59,560
Speaker 4: It was Brandy Brandy, like, let's stop it.

1870
01:29:00,160 --> 01:29:02,280
Speaker 2: There's a lot of revisionist history that be happening with

1871
01:29:02,400 --> 01:29:03,360
Speaker 2: niggas that we gotta stop.

1872
01:29:03,520 --> 01:29:04,479
Speaker 4: We gotta stop, do we do?

1873
01:29:04,560 --> 01:29:07,559
Speaker 1: I'll stop acting like Whitney Houston herself didn't say Brandy

1874
01:29:07,640 --> 01:29:07,800
Speaker 1: was the.

1875
01:29:07,800 --> 01:29:11,519
Speaker 2: Most niggas like. It's like Christina Aguilar can saying, y'a

1876
01:29:11,520 --> 01:29:11,840
Speaker 2: don't do this.

1877
01:29:16,120 --> 01:29:17,719
Speaker 6: I want to shoot baby.

1878
01:29:34,520 --> 01:29:38,599
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, Mike, I'm bad Mike.

1879
01:29:41,560 --> 01:29:42,000
Speaker 5: Exactly.

1880
01:29:42,200 --> 01:29:49,719
Speaker 3: It's roll bos but also just the whole JA call

1881
01:29:50,040 --> 01:29:51,040
Speaker 3: the fall Off album.

1882
01:29:51,160 --> 01:29:53,120
Speaker 6: I've been fucking with the album, but I like that.

1883
01:29:54,640 --> 01:29:54,880
Speaker 2: Show.

1884
01:29:55,240 --> 01:29:55,760
Speaker 7: Bro, what the.

1885
01:29:57,400 --> 01:30:01,920
Speaker 4: But I'm not doing it.

1886
01:30:05,760 --> 01:30:07,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, fat.

1887
01:30:16,320 --> 01:30:17,920
Speaker 5: Shot. Okay, shut.

1888
01:30:25,840 --> 01:30:27,599
Speaker 4: Y'all. We gotta figure we gotta wrap.

1889
01:30:27,520 --> 01:30:31,360
Speaker 3: This up, the whole Jake Holl the Phone Off album,

1890
01:30:32,800 --> 01:30:36,040
Speaker 3: it's t expired. But I've also been like a huge

1891
01:30:36,120 --> 01:30:38,120
Speaker 3: Jake Coll fan for a long time. TI I'm glad

1892
01:30:38,200 --> 01:30:40,920
Speaker 3: that he just came out with the new album and

1893
01:30:41,640 --> 01:30:44,280
Speaker 3: shout out to Jake Holl because he been following Poor

1894
01:30:44,400 --> 01:30:46,479
Speaker 3: Minds for like five six.

1895
01:30:46,400 --> 01:30:47,759
Speaker 6: Years with the girl.

1896
01:30:49,640 --> 01:30:50,240
Speaker 2: He knew I was.

1897
01:30:50,320 --> 01:30:54,839
Speaker 4: He was like, oh, I was like, yeah, walk King's

1898
01:30:54,880 --> 01:30:58,080
Speaker 4: the linked up right. You know what I'm saying. That

1899
01:30:58,120 --> 01:30:59,680
Speaker 4: would be a good episode.

1900
01:30:59,360 --> 01:31:04,840
Speaker 2: The whole nigg I know, that's collection collective, whole nigga.

1901
01:31:06,080 --> 01:31:09,160
Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying, that's a group name, collect collective.

1902
01:31:11,200 --> 01:31:12,599
Speaker 2: That's gonna be called a whole nigga.

1903
01:31:14,280 --> 01:31:15,640
Speaker 6: I'm like, I like it.

1904
01:31:15,920 --> 01:31:18,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna fish that team. Let's call eb after this.

1905
01:31:20,640 --> 01:31:23,400
Speaker 3: Okay, So y'all know, it's time to get into our

1906
01:31:23,479 --> 01:31:25,599
Speaker 3: favorite segment of the show, which is for your Heart Out.

1907
01:31:25,640 --> 01:31:27,800
Speaker 3: If you have any questions, you can always send them

1908
01:31:27,840 --> 01:31:30,840
Speaker 3: to ask Poor Minds at gmail dot com. That's ask

1909
01:31:30,960 --> 01:31:35,400
Speaker 3: kp O. You are in my das at gmail dot com. Yep,

1910
01:31:35,720 --> 01:31:39,679
Speaker 3: so let's get into it. Hey, y'all, I need advice.

1911
01:31:39,880 --> 01:31:41,960
Speaker 3: When I was about twenty one years old, I dated

1912
01:31:42,000 --> 01:31:44,680
Speaker 3: a guy. He was about thirty two at the time. Wait,

1913
01:31:44,760 --> 01:31:46,559
Speaker 3: he was about thirty two thirty three at the time.

1914
01:31:47,080 --> 01:31:49,840
Speaker 3: Handsome guy, drama free, and very private. I ended up

1915
01:31:49,840 --> 01:31:52,040
Speaker 3: cutting things off due to the lack of connection. We

1916
01:31:52,200 --> 01:31:55,400
Speaker 3: remain friends though throughout the years. We lost contact for

1917
01:31:55,479 --> 01:31:58,280
Speaker 3: a while, and recently, within the past year, reconnected on

1918
01:31:58,360 --> 01:32:01,439
Speaker 3: social media. I'm thirty four, and as I've matured over

1919
01:32:01,479 --> 01:32:03,960
Speaker 3: the years, I've came to the conclusion that I wasn't

1920
01:32:04,000 --> 01:32:07,800
Speaker 3: mature enough during to our during our time together, and

1921
01:32:07,960 --> 01:32:10,000
Speaker 3: wasn't quite ready for what he brought to the table.

1922
01:32:10,240 --> 01:32:12,680
Speaker 3: I've always dated older, so the age gap isn't an

1923
01:32:12,720 --> 01:32:14,719
Speaker 3: issue for me any longer, and I want to spend

1924
01:32:14,760 --> 01:32:17,320
Speaker 3: the block. My only issue is a few years after

1925
01:32:17,360 --> 01:32:21,560
Speaker 3: we dated, I physically transitioned from male to female. I

1926
01:32:21,640 --> 01:32:23,759
Speaker 3: don't know how he feels about it, and I'm scared

1927
01:32:23,840 --> 01:32:26,640
Speaker 3: to even ask. I recently spoke to a friend about it,

1928
01:32:26,960 --> 01:32:28,800
Speaker 3: and the next day they told me to put the

1929
01:32:28,840 --> 01:32:31,280
Speaker 3: plan in motion. So I'm assuming they may have already

1930
01:32:31,320 --> 01:32:33,479
Speaker 3: put a bug in his ear can y'all help me.

1931
01:32:35,240 --> 01:32:36,000
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna lie.

1932
01:32:36,080 --> 01:32:38,320
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm not educated enough to give proper

1933
01:32:38,400 --> 01:32:40,960
Speaker 1: advice because you said you dated a guy and you

1934
01:32:41,040 --> 01:32:44,759
Speaker 1: said you transition from male to female. So I'm assuming

1935
01:32:44,800 --> 01:32:48,320
Speaker 1: that y'all were in a gay relationship mm hmm, and

1936
01:32:48,400 --> 01:32:51,439
Speaker 1: now you've transition into a female.

1937
01:32:52,040 --> 01:32:53,680
Speaker 4: But I mean, I don't know.

1938
01:32:54,080 --> 01:32:55,840
Speaker 1: You didn't give us enough information though. Is this god

1939
01:32:55,920 --> 01:33:00,080
Speaker 1: by sexual where he's attracted to women and men? I

1940
01:33:00,120 --> 01:33:02,519
Speaker 1: don't think there's enough information for me to give you

1941
01:33:02,600 --> 01:33:05,120
Speaker 1: a proper answer, but I will say I feel like

1942
01:33:05,960 --> 01:33:08,160
Speaker 1: nothing is wrong with the conversation now. I'm not an

1943
01:33:08,160 --> 01:33:10,040
Speaker 1: advocate of spending the block. I don't care what you

1944
01:33:10,120 --> 01:33:11,080
Speaker 1: are l G B t Q.

1945
01:33:11,880 --> 01:33:12,640
Speaker 4: I don't give it.

1946
01:33:12,720 --> 01:33:12,880
Speaker 2: Damn.

1947
01:33:13,400 --> 01:33:14,880
Speaker 4: I'm not an advocate of spending.

1948
01:33:14,600 --> 01:33:16,360
Speaker 1: The block just because I've spun the block and it

1949
01:33:16,439 --> 01:33:18,640
Speaker 1: has never worked out in my favorite Yeah, so I

1950
01:33:18,720 --> 01:33:20,960
Speaker 1: think you do need to be aware of spending the block.

1951
01:33:21,000 --> 01:33:24,040
Speaker 4: It don't matter what you got. I don't know. I'm

1952
01:33:24,040 --> 01:33:24,439
Speaker 4: not for it.

1953
01:33:24,600 --> 01:33:26,920
Speaker 2: Let us spending the block for six That's what I'm saying.

1954
01:33:27,360 --> 01:33:28,719
Speaker 4: I feel like, what is your reason?

1955
01:33:29,920 --> 01:33:32,280
Speaker 2: Like, bro, I'm trying to confluct with you one time.

1956
01:33:33,080 --> 01:33:35,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, if they still got access, let's get.

1957
01:33:35,840 --> 01:33:37,840
Speaker 2: These flashbacks oide of my mind real quick. They're gonna

1958
01:33:37,960 --> 01:33:39,479
Speaker 2: make this a real thing and then we're gonna keep

1959
01:33:39,560 --> 01:33:40,320
Speaker 2: going with our life.

1960
01:33:41,000 --> 01:33:43,639
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, I feel like it's been a long time.

1961
01:33:44,360 --> 01:33:44,920
Speaker 2: I don't.

1962
01:33:47,720 --> 01:33:49,840
Speaker 3: I mean, and I feel like it ain't no harm.

1963
01:33:50,000 --> 01:33:51,960
Speaker 3: I mean, for real, it ain't no harm in seeing.

1964
01:33:52,040 --> 01:33:53,679
Speaker 3: But I used to watch that show pos.

1965
01:33:53,760 --> 01:33:54,200
Speaker 2: I don't know if.

1966
01:33:55,760 --> 01:34:02,240
Speaker 3: I used to watch Team for You. It's different, brand new, Yeah,

1967
01:34:02,320 --> 01:34:06,800
Speaker 3: it's brand new, no mouse on it, but smelling.

1968
01:34:09,080 --> 01:34:09,759
Speaker 6: How Thala.

1969
01:34:09,800 --> 01:34:10,719
Speaker 2: I used to watch.

1970
01:34:10,600 --> 01:34:13,160
Speaker 6: Polls and it was a character on Poles.

1971
01:34:13,160 --> 01:34:16,320
Speaker 3: I can't remember her name, but she had went and

1972
01:34:16,400 --> 01:34:18,360
Speaker 3: got the surgery, and like when she had went back

1973
01:34:18,400 --> 01:34:20,439
Speaker 3: to miss with like one of her old dudes, he

1974
01:34:20,640 --> 01:34:21,040
Speaker 3: was mad.

1975
01:34:22,200 --> 01:34:23,639
Speaker 6: He wanted her to keep the pennies.

1976
01:34:23,800 --> 01:34:27,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, so that's he didn't give us because we don't know.

1977
01:34:27,800 --> 01:34:30,560
Speaker 3: Yeah right, But I mean he said he transitions, so

1978
01:34:30,680 --> 01:34:34,360
Speaker 3: I soon know because some people and they'll have their Yeah,

1979
01:34:34,360 --> 01:34:36,240
Speaker 3: you're right, So I don't know.

1980
01:34:36,520 --> 01:34:39,960
Speaker 1: I feel like you just have a conversation. Yeah, it

1981
01:34:40,040 --> 01:34:42,000
Speaker 1: doesn't hurt. But I think spending the block is not

1982
01:34:42,040 --> 01:34:42,559
Speaker 1: a good idea.

1983
01:34:42,640 --> 01:34:46,080
Speaker 2: I think anytime that you engage in the situation honesty,

1984
01:34:46,520 --> 01:34:50,040
Speaker 2: honestly and lovingly, then you got to live whatever the

1985
01:34:50,120 --> 01:34:54,639
Speaker 2: results is. If Bro not fucking with him? Yeah ship,

1986
01:34:55,120 --> 01:34:58,519
Speaker 2: I mean it's still the same nigga you left exactly.

1987
01:34:58,840 --> 01:35:03,240
Speaker 2: So the people really down times, you know, right, Sure

1988
01:35:03,280 --> 01:35:05,360
Speaker 2: you might getin a new perspective on a few things,

1989
01:35:05,400 --> 01:35:08,439
Speaker 2: but who you is at your core? Who you who

1990
01:35:08,479 --> 01:35:08,720
Speaker 2: you are?

1991
01:35:08,880 --> 01:35:11,120
Speaker 1: And I used to spend the block all the time,

1992
01:35:11,479 --> 01:35:14,040
Speaker 1: but now I'm no longer. I'm never spend the block

1993
01:35:14,080 --> 01:35:15,559
Speaker 1: in like, if we're done, we're done.

1994
01:35:15,800 --> 01:35:18,680
Speaker 6: I agree. You know that this has been such a

1995
01:35:18,920 --> 01:35:19,960
Speaker 6: fun episode.

1996
01:35:20,840 --> 01:35:23,800
Speaker 3: Deontai, tell everybody where they can find you, and I

1997
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Speaker 3: also talk a little bit about your tour because you

1998
01:35:25,560 --> 01:35:26,840
Speaker 3: want your tour first cousins.

1999
01:35:27,840 --> 01:35:31,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, me and Big can on first cousin tour. Let

2000
01:35:31,439 --> 01:35:33,519
Speaker 2: me get these dates. Yeah what I mean? But you

2001
01:35:33,600 --> 01:35:37,360
Speaker 2: can follow me on our social media at Deontay dot cale,

2002
01:35:38,160 --> 01:35:44,160
Speaker 2: or you follow the podcast Christine's podcast on YouTube. Oh shit, man,

2003
01:35:44,200 --> 01:35:46,080
Speaker 2: shout out to the managers. You know what I'm saying.

2004
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Speaker 2: Just air drop that right. We're going to Raleigh, North Carolina,

2005
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Speaker 2: March twenty second, Birmingham, Alabama, April first, Jacksonville, Florida, April seventh, Charlotte,

2006
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Speaker 2: North Carolina, April fourteenth, and then Nashville, Tennessee on April

2007
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Speaker 2: twenty eighth. All tickets are available on Deontay Kyle dot com.

2008
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Speaker 4: Congratulation.

2009
01:36:07,240 --> 01:36:10,679
Speaker 2: That's hell yere man that she's gonna be a little

2010
01:36:11,400 --> 01:36:13,160
Speaker 2: our live show hit a little different, so we'll be

2011
01:36:14,200 --> 01:36:16,120
Speaker 2: having a good time. Heck yeah, we've been turned up.

2012
01:36:16,160 --> 01:36:18,000
Speaker 2: We're gonna do the knowledge always, but we're gonna have

2013
01:36:18,040 --> 01:36:18,519
Speaker 2: a good time.

2014
01:36:18,640 --> 01:36:20,559
Speaker 4: Good well, thank you so much.

2015
01:36:20,760 --> 01:36:22,680
Speaker 6: That's an amazing episode.

2016
01:36:22,880 --> 01:36:23,080
Speaker 4: Y'all.

2017
01:36:23,120 --> 01:36:24,839
Speaker 1: Make sure y'all gonna follow him on everything.

2018
01:36:25,280 --> 01:36:26,599
Speaker 4: Y'all, get y'all lips together.

2019
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2020
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2021
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Speaker 1: Make sure y'all tune into lovelexp every Monday at ten am.

2022
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Speaker 4: Anything else were missing?

2023
01:36:39,479 --> 01:36:44,639
Speaker 2: By Hey, Hey, Hey, you niggas better?

2024
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Speaker 4: Is it a A.

2025
01:36:48,200 --> 01:36:50,880
Speaker 2: A A t.

2026
01:36:52,760 --> 01:36:54,320
Speaker 6: Hey intro.

2027
01:37:00,040 --> 01:37:01,679
Speaker 2: This bad one of the songs had to be five minutes.

2028
01:37:03,200 --> 01:37:05,840
Speaker 2: I'm on the grind, grand hustle, got the mine and.

2029
01:37:05,880 --> 01:37:07,840
Speaker 6: The muscle cars in the crown.

2030
01:37:08,040 --> 01:37:10,920
Speaker 2: Just to shine on you still tell the glout failed

2031
01:37:11,000 --> 01:37:13,920
Speaker 2: for the Hey, this for obation, it for the nigga.

2032
01:37:14,040 --> 01:37:19,160
Speaker 2: Try to play me security reaching for my junery. Get

2033
01:37:19,200 --> 01:37:22,280
Speaker 2: your nigga, pop quick still full of hot ship Fritz

2034
01:37:22,320 --> 01:37:24,040
Speaker 2: shot the butt tip hop in.

2035
01:37:24,120 --> 01:37:27,920
Speaker 5: The drop seat in the pin Can it stop till

2036
01:37:28,800 --> 01:37:31,240
Speaker 5: start till not till.

2037
01:37:32,200 --> 01:37:35,240
Speaker 2: So your baby mama jock tail. You don't want no problem.

2038
01:37:36,080 --> 01:37:39,240
Speaker 2: I do not slip cron fold field and wheel at

2039
01:37:39,320 --> 01:37:42,800
Speaker 2: the cor trup with the car right up under it

2040
01:37:42,920 --> 01:37:48,680
Speaker 2: and start with that. I ain't gonna participate in that.

2041
01:37:50,080 --> 01:37:55,160
Speaker 3: Finn want an assap a sap, a sap, a sap.

2042
01:37:55,400 --> 01:37:59,880
Speaker 2: Blowing up the mountain as a pig. That's anybody who

2043
01:38:00,040 --> 01:38:03,240
Speaker 2: running a g that they're gonna save me a s

2044
01:38:03,479 --> 01:38:09,600
Speaker 2: A P niggas hating on p C straight as a

2045
01:38:09,840 --> 01:38:12,920
Speaker 2: p niggas try to play me.

2046
01:38:13,280 --> 01:38:15,320
Speaker 6: I'm gonna blow them off the map a s.

2047
01:38:15,800 --> 01:38:18,240
Speaker 2: I know a lot of rappers don't like me, but

2048
01:38:18,400 --> 01:38:21,559
Speaker 2: they won't fight me. Fist said, don't know why they

2049
01:38:21,680 --> 01:38:22,479
Speaker 2: want to dykee me?

2050
01:38:23,960 --> 01:38:30,000
Speaker 3: He count.

2051
01:38:35,880 --> 01:38:38,480
Speaker 6: Do I take dot com period.

2052
01:38:40,200 --> 01:38:43,920
Speaker 2: Dot com? And now you really got video vix and

2053
01:38:44,120 --> 01:38:47,479
Speaker 2: he was like, yeah, I know, I.

2054
01:38:49,680 --> 01:38:51,760
Speaker 4: IRP still come alive and the b I P. I'll

2055
01:38:51,760 --> 01:38:53,040
Speaker 4: say it twenty times.

2056
01:38:53,560 --> 01:38:57,240
Speaker 2: So rocky and my red so icy might be thrown

2057
01:38:57,360 --> 01:39:01,479
Speaker 2: off my rockers. Slightly feisty, flaming hot tip of Donna

2058
01:39:01,560 --> 01:39:04,160
Speaker 2: Knight me, I'm only gone. I should find it isn't

2059
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Speaker 2: one politely, That's all. That's that's what I have to say.

2060
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Speaker 2: good ship,