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Speaker 1: It's awkward. It's it's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 2: Where we've been doing a segment on our show recently

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Speaker 2: called the mass Speaker, where if someone has a big

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Speaker 2: confession that they want to make while staying anonymous, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: we can change their voice.

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Speaker 1: So we can do that right here on the show.

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Speaker 3: Mask the voice.

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Speaker 2: But what if it's more than just wanting to get

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Speaker 2: something off your chest? What if they actually need to

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Speaker 2: tell someone and they want help on how to say

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Speaker 2: it to them. Wait, that's where the awkward Tuesday phone

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Speaker 2: call can come in, and it's the right fit for

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Speaker 2: today's caller.

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Speaker 1: Seth.

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Speaker 2: Seth, we are not altering your voice, and what did

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Speaker 2: you do?

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Speaker 4: It sounds so much worse. It's not great.

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Speaker 3: It's not great. But it's not that bad, is what

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Speaker 3: you're saying.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I don't know. I guess I'll let you

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Speaker 4: have to. Let you guys decide. It's it's sticky, for sure.

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Speaker 1: You do not okay, Sticky, you came to the right place, Seth.

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Speaker 3: Jeffrey was going to jump all let's.

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Speaker 2: Start by finding out who you need to confess to.

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Speaker 2: Who are we going to be talking to today?

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Speaker 4: Well, it's actually my fiance yes, that just escalated.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so there's a lot on the line. How long

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Speaker 5: have you kept whatever this is from.

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Speaker 3: Her or him?

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Speaker 4: Three years and three months?

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Speaker 3: Whoa?

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Speaker 5: So you you know, like this is an incident because

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Speaker 5: if you know the exact.

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Speaker 4: Date, I mean, I can't stop thinking about it and

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Speaker 4: it's kind of screwing me up.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, tell us about your fiance. What's their name?

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Speaker 4: Her name is Tany, and we have been engaged for

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Speaker 4: three months. We started dating about three years before that,

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Speaker 4: so we got engaged on our three year anniversary.

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Speaker 5: And so you've been holding this from her literally your

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Speaker 5: entire relationship.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and it came up for a reason. So back

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Speaker 4: in the day, we started as co workers and became

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Speaker 4: friends first. Okay, it's like always had a crush on her,

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Speaker 4: but she was always dating other guys, and it's just

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Speaker 4: I never really had a chance. It's crazy some girls,

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Speaker 4: Like I literally was talking to a girl a couple

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Speaker 4: of weeks ago, just got out of a relationship.

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Speaker 3: She's like, I need sick some time for me.

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Speaker 2: Two weeks later, are another relationship.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, yes, totally. And especially if you're interested

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Speaker 4: in someone, you don't want to just be a rebound.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't want to.

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Speaker 4: But then if you wait too much time, then you

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Speaker 4: totally miss your window.

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Speaker 1: I feel you, bro, It's like it's such a timing thing.

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Speaker 4: It is.

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Speaker 5: That is a predicament for sure, But if you wait

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Speaker 5: too long, be gone. The good news is you timed

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Speaker 5: it right because you guys started dating.

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Speaker 4: Well yeah, but that's okay, so I might have timed

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Speaker 4: it right and also taken some action. Whoa what? So

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Speaker 4: before we even got together, just friends, she was going

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Speaker 4: out with this guy, just dating, but she'd really excited

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Speaker 4: about him, and she'd tell me about him after their

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Speaker 4: first initial dates. Super good looking dentist like volunteer work

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Speaker 4: for his came from a pretty rich family. Apparently like

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Speaker 4: brutal dude.

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Speaker 3: She was dating Prince Harry exactly what it.

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Speaker 2: Sounds like, and you had to hear all about it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and of course I got jealous.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: So one night when we're hanging out at her place,

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Speaker 4: we sort of stopped off in between a happy hour

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Speaker 4: and then going back out with another group of friends.

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Speaker 5: Okay, so it's just YouTube back at her place when

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Speaker 5: you were still friends.

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Speaker 4: Right, exactly for like a beer bathroom re up and

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Speaker 4: then we'll go. And so she left her phone out

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Speaker 4: and I look over and I see that it vibrates,

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Speaker 4: and it's a text from the other guy and he's

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Speaker 4: asking her out on like a probably like a third date.

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Speaker 5: Oh okay, mister mister perfect.

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Speaker 4: And I panicked. I definitely didn't want them to keep

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Speaker 4: going out. So I went into her phone and deleted

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Speaker 4: the tech. Oh and then I went into the contacts

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Speaker 4: and I changed the guy's phone number, and then I

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Speaker 4: went and I blocked his real number. So she thought

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Speaker 4: that he just ghosted her, and she was obviously upset

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Speaker 4: for a while, but I was there for her. And

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Speaker 4: because I was there for that led us being together

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Speaker 4: for the last three years.

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Speaker 5: Wow, you are an evil genius.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: No, I never would have thought of taking the next

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Speaker 2: step to make sure they can never reach each other again.

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Speaker 1: It's so smart.

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Speaker 3: Blocking was a good movie.

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Speaker 4: I was kind of taking a risk, like maybe they

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Speaker 4: were already connected on like Snapchatter, Instagram.

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Speaker 5: Yeah. Yeah, but it's one of those things like when

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Speaker 5: you're dating somebody and you're only a couple dates in,

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Speaker 5: you're not gonna look so thirsty that then you're gonna

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Speaker 5: DM them on a bunch of different social media platforms.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so what happened?

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Speaker 4: Well, I mean ever since our relationship has been so amazing,

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Speaker 4: Like I basically have forgotten about it. It's been so long,

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Speaker 4: but now we're trying to do it right and like

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Speaker 4: a really good solid foundation for relationships that we've been

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Speaker 4: doing like this pre marriage counseling, and the counselor said

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Speaker 4: how important it is for us to be completely open

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Speaker 4: and honest about everything from a base level that we had,

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Speaker 4: like start with a really clean slate.

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Speaker 5: Do you think so you're feeling guilty because you're sitting

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Speaker 5: in counseling and being like, yes, honesty very important.

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Speaker 3: Holding this from her?

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Speaker 4: I have told her everything except for this one thing.

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Speaker 3: Do you think she'll be upset?

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Speaker 4: Wouldn't you?

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I mean it's been three years, like.

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Speaker 4: And you're in love now.

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Speaker 3: I mean, it wouldn't have been for your move.

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Speaker 2: It was sketchy, right you guys wouldn't be where you

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Speaker 2: are today.

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Speaker 5: Rights unless she's still secretly thinking about this one.

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Speaker 3: Guy who got away. I mean that is the that's

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Speaker 3: the worst case scenario.

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Speaker 4: That's true. I didn't think of that.

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Speaker 1: Does that happen?

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Speaker 2: Do girls say yes to proposals while thinking about another guy.

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Speaker 5: Oh, why do you think there's so many divorces in

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Speaker 5: the world, Jeffrey, Are.

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Speaker 2: You speaking from personal experience?

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Speaker 1: What's going on you?

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Speaker 5: I love my husband and I am so glad that

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Speaker 5: I'm with him, But I definitely could.

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Speaker 2: See yourself with a dentist that was much richer and

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Speaker 2: more handsome.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: It's an option.

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Speaker 2: Okay, she's still thinking about that homeless guy she used

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Speaker 2: to that got away. So Seth, what do you want

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Speaker 2: to do with your awkward Tuesday phone call right now?

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Speaker 4: I don't know. I needed a sounding board, like I

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Speaker 4: haven't told the counselor. I haven't told my friends, So

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Speaker 4: we're going to call her. Yeah, I think that we

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Speaker 4: we need to. I need to do this, like I

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Speaker 4: trust this counselor and I can't just have this holding over,

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Speaker 4: Like what am I going to do another five years?

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Speaker 1: Sounds like you need this.

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Speaker 5: And why do it in a counseling session when that

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Speaker 5: costs money and you can do it here for Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Absolutely, Man.

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Speaker 2: I feel really bad because Brooke, you have a lot

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Speaker 2: of pressure on you right now to give some really

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Speaker 2: good advice to set Yeah. You're the only one that

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Speaker 2: knows anything about this, So.

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Speaker 1: I'm bowing. Yeah, I'm bowing out this. Let's play a song.

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Speaker 3: You're awful.

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Speaker 1: Come back. We'll have Brook give you some read it

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Speaker 1: probably will be yeah, and then we'll let you make

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Speaker 1: your awkward Tuesday phone call, right, Seth, All right, all right,

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Speaker 1: hold on, it's awkward.

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Speaker 3: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 4: It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 1: Contrary to what a lot of people think about.

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Speaker 2: Us, our show wants every single marriage to start off

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Speaker 2: on a good note. Yeahul, that means trust, love, of course,

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Speaker 2: a little healthy experimentation.

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Speaker 1: Sprinkled in there.

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Speaker 3: I mean if both parties are willing.

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Speaker 2: Both parties are willing, even if they don't say they are.

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Speaker 3: Now we're getting to do it.

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Speaker 1: It's healthy.

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Speaker 5: Now.

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Speaker 1: That's why this call is good.

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Speaker 2: It's a good experiment for us because we've never had

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Speaker 2: such a big secret that we've needed to help a

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Speaker 2: on Brook to take us through the forest of lives

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Speaker 2: because she's the expert and we need an adult better.

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Speaker 1: What do you got for Seth?

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Speaker 5: Here, Seth, I know you feel guilty because right now

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Speaker 5: your vibe is kind of dark, right, Okay, so we

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Speaker 5: don't want her to feel that way, so we're going

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Speaker 5: to deliver the same news. What do you think about this?

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Speaker 5: You have a radio station behind you which has music,

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Speaker 5: So I'm thinking when you're ready to tell the story,

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Speaker 3: What do you think, Seth? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Do you know what the term gaslighting means?

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Speaker 5: It's just like, you know, I love story of how

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Speaker 3: A deep, dark secret for three years from her.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to jump in here, Seth and just say

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Speaker 2: I think you're better off on your own.

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Speaker 1: Let's just do this.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm deleting that permanently from our system.

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Speaker 3: That No, no, I can't.

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Speaker 1: I love you expecting it to pop up.

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Speaker 2: Now, Okay, okay, where's the keeping our back pocket?

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Speaker 1: Just we'll jump in when we feel like you need

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Speaker 1: a little bit of help.

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Speaker 4: Okay, here we go. Hello, Hey, it's me.

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Speaker 6: Hey, what is up, babe? I did not sorry, just

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Speaker 6: didn't didn't recognize.

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Speaker 4: Oh no, no, yeah, I think my phone number is

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Speaker 4: doing something weird.

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Speaker 6: It's it's there must be something because here in the office,

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Speaker 6: like we've had internet connection troubles all day and I

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Speaker 6: don't get it.

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Speaker 4: That must be it anyway, that's a good Yeah.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, what's up?

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Speaker 4: Butten before I get into it, I just I want

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Speaker 4: to say how how much I love you and you

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Speaker 4: are the most amazing person I've ever met in my life.

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Speaker 6: Thank you.

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Speaker 4: I would do anything for you and to be with you.

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Speaker 4: And you know about our pre marriage counseling and it's

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Speaker 4: been going pretty great so far. Like I'm I'm glad

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Speaker 4: you talked me into it.

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Speaker 6: Me too. I think it's doing really good stuff for us.

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Speaker 6: So I mean, sorry, but where's this going?

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Speaker 4: Okay? Well, there's just there. I have told you everything

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Speaker 6: Oh okay this and now I'm a little scared, but

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Speaker 4: You remember, like right before we started dating, you're seeing

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Speaker 6: Oh you mean John.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. I think anyway, when you're seeing him, you seem

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Speaker 6: I mean I could I get that because he was

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Speaker 4: I know you thought that he ghosted you, and that's

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Speaker 4: not totally true. Yeah he did. Do you know, listen,

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Speaker 4: I did something stupid. Okay, he actually he texted you

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Speaker 4: I panicked and I knew I was super into you,

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you know what.

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Speaker 4: It's cool. What are you talking about?

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Speaker 1: Wait, it's cool, it's cool.

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Speaker 3: Wait, Lily, just hang up. I think we leave it

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Speaker 6: Jeffrey, who are all these people?

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Speaker 3: Hello? Hey, hey, TONI, Hi, TONI, it's cool.

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Speaker 2: Hi who we're friends of John the Dentist.

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Speaker 4: No, No, they're not, No, they're not. Hanni know they're not.

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Speaker 4: Let me get ahead of that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, sorry, I'm sorry, sorry, Seth.

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Speaker 1: I'm just kidding, TONI.

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Speaker 2: We're a morning radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, okay, I just I needed a little bit

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Speaker 4: this is a joke, right, this is like, it's not

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Speaker 4: a joke. I don't understand why. It's just cool?

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Speaker 3: Why are you questioning about set? Like take it?

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Speaker 4: Man, if you have ever met my lovely fiance, you

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Speaker 5: You think she's lying, you think it's one of those

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Speaker 4: Something, definitely, And I'm fine, Tony what, there's nothing, there's

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Speaker 6: I mean, I actually I'm pretty kind of it's fine.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I think everybody's allowed to keep some secrets

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Speaker 4: I mean I do if that's normal. Interesting, that's totally

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Speaker 4: not what our counselor said. I'm doing this because our counselor,

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Speaker 1: This is why he called us. He was all stressed

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Speaker 6: Well, I mean things that I think that are like

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Speaker 5: Could see Tony where that would be fine if it

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Speaker 5: like didn't involve your fiance maybe at all.

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Speaker 3: But like this was I mean, why would you want

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Speaker 6: I mean I don't love it, that's for sure, But

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Speaker 4: You are not like specifically not sharing with me, even

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Speaker 6: Really, I mean there's something like two really big things

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Speaker 5: Fine, tell us, Tony, Tony, why aren't you telling him

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Speaker 5: the two really big things?

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Speaker 6: Because I'm allowed to keep spirits. I mean, just because

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Speaker 6: I'm gonna get married to you doesn't mean that now

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Speaker 2: The counselor said, no, she wants to keep a little

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Speaker 1: I get it.

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Speaker 6: How about some privacy about personal stuff, Tony?

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Speaker 5: Can I ask what these things change sess opinion about you?

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Speaker 4: I don't WHOA. That was way too long of a silence.

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Speaker 4: You know all of my secrets now, and you're telling

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Speaker 4: me that you have two, which means you've thought about it, right,

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Speaker 4: and I don't know two of yours. Maybe we need

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Speaker 4: to bring yourself back with a counselor again, maybe we

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Speaker 1: Playing, Jim, I'm doing like this has to jump in good.

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Speaker 4: I'm agreeing at this point.

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Speaker 3: See, it doesn't sound like a couple arguing anymore. It's

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, this is a right.

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Speaker 4: That was not my idea.

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Speaker 6: Done talking, you're right, Okay.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you guys missed it. They're not done talking.

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Speaker 3: A lot of trouble.

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Speaker 5: So I feel like Tawny feels fine and Seth, you're

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, make some more secrets, Yeah, makes the more secrets.

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Speaker 2: He just he just told you a pretty big secret there, Tony.

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Speaker 2: Maybe you want to tell him maybe not one of

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Speaker 2: your big secrets. How about a little secret. Let's just

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Speaker 6: I mean, seriously, if I'm going to see it's not

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Speaker 5: We have the music that we could play behind it.

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Speaker 5: That would make it more fun.

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Speaker 1: You might lighten the blow.

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Speaker 3: Oh no, okay, I tried. I got two no's on

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Speaker 3: that music the record.

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Speaker 4: I never for the record. I never thought that part

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Speaker 4: was a good idea. I just want to voice that.

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Speaker 2: But in all seriousness, I think maybe you guys should

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Speaker 2: finish the rest of this conversation off the air, all right.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, no, if we need to talk about it off

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Speaker 4: and maybe with the counselor or maybe each other, then yeah,

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Speaker 4: let's let's do that.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I don't even know if we need to

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Speaker 6: go back to the counselor, because I mean I already

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Speaker 6: know of your secret.

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Speaker 4: So this is a two way street.

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Speaker 2: First, I bet you'd tell John the dentist you're two

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Speaker 4: No comment, Oh y, bring the music back.

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Speaker 1: Bring the music back.

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Speaker 4: Nobody wants

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Speaker 3: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.