1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:01,400 Speaker 1: This is the Fread Show. 2 00:00:01,600 --> 00:00:03,840 Speaker 2: Kelly Clark City is returning to Las Vegas in twenty 3 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:07,960 Speaker 2: twenty six for her studio sessions Las Vegas Residency. You 4 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:09,920 Speaker 2: can enter it now for a chance to win a 5 00:00:09,960 --> 00:00:12,680 Speaker 2: trip for two to the July twenty fourth show, a 6 00:00:12,800 --> 00:00:15,600 Speaker 2: two night hotels day at Flamingo Hotel and Casino in 7 00:00:15,640 --> 00:00:17,880 Speaker 2: Las Vegas July twenty third through the twenty fifth, and 8 00:00:18,280 --> 00:00:22,600 Speaker 2: round trip airfare. Text Stronger to five seven, seven, three 9 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:25,680 Speaker 2: nine right now for a chance to win. A confirmation 10 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:28,480 Speaker 2: tex will be sent. Standard message and data rates may apply. 11 00:00:28,720 --> 00:00:33,760 Speaker 2: All thanks to Live Nation. Ever been left waiting by 12 00:00:33,800 --> 00:00:35,040 Speaker 2: the phone? 13 00:00:35,800 --> 00:00:38,360 Speaker 1: It's the Fread Show. Hey Dylan, good morning, welcome to 14 00:00:38,400 --> 00:00:39,159 Speaker 1: the show. How are you. 15 00:00:39,600 --> 00:00:41,080 Speaker 3: I'm good, Thanks louch for having me. 16 00:00:41,840 --> 00:00:43,479 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's our pleasure so far. 17 00:00:43,560 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 2: I mean it's only been a few seconds, but we'll 18 00:00:45,440 --> 00:00:47,200 Speaker 2: see how we feel about it in the end. Dylan, 19 00:00:47,200 --> 00:00:49,920 Speaker 2: how can we help you? Because it's waiting by the phone. 20 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:52,400 Speaker 2: So you believe that you've been ghosted by this woman's serenity? 21 00:00:52,680 --> 00:00:54,880 Speaker 2: How did you meet her? Tell us about any dates 22 00:00:54,920 --> 00:00:57,320 Speaker 2: you've been on, and then why you think you're being ghosted? 23 00:00:57,600 --> 00:01:01,120 Speaker 3: All right, Well, see I met were at a bar 24 00:01:01,280 --> 00:01:05,160 Speaker 3: a couple of weeks ago. I said, she had a 25 00:01:05,200 --> 00:01:09,080 Speaker 3: really cute outfit on, and we talked for a little while, 26 00:01:09,920 --> 00:01:12,440 Speaker 3: got her a drink, and we were hanging for a 27 00:01:12,480 --> 00:01:17,240 Speaker 3: little bit. She gave me your number, and after texting 28 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:20,040 Speaker 3: for a few days, I asked her she wanted to 29 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:20,679 Speaker 3: go get drinks. 30 00:01:20,880 --> 00:01:21,600 Speaker 1: She said yes. 31 00:01:21,720 --> 00:01:26,280 Speaker 3: We had a great time, and uh yeah, Now she's 32 00:01:26,319 --> 00:01:27,880 Speaker 3: just not responding, so I don't know. 33 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:29,680 Speaker 2: Right, you met in the wild, so you kind of 34 00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:31,959 Speaker 2: got a vibe, you know, like a real in person vibe, 35 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:34,720 Speaker 2: which I think makes this first date a little bit 36 00:01:34,760 --> 00:01:36,319 Speaker 2: easier because you kind of know what you're getting on 37 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:38,520 Speaker 2: like a dating apphe you have no idea, and you 38 00:01:38,560 --> 00:01:39,760 Speaker 2: really felt like it went well. 39 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:41,440 Speaker 1: You felt like you really got along. 40 00:01:41,560 --> 00:01:45,280 Speaker 2: The topics were good, the conversation flowed, nothing weird. You're 41 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:48,680 Speaker 2: truly surprised that you can't get a hold of her 42 00:01:48,720 --> 00:01:49,360 Speaker 2: for another date. 43 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:51,919 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, all right, pretty simple. 44 00:01:52,280 --> 00:01:54,120 Speaker 4: All right, we have that one from the guy. 45 00:01:54,240 --> 00:01:56,280 Speaker 2: That's right, I said, everything needs to be said, I guess, 46 00:01:56,280 --> 00:01:58,800 Speaker 2: so all right, Well then let's play a song and 47 00:01:59,080 --> 00:02:01,360 Speaker 2: I'm very efficient, and then we'll come back in a 48 00:02:01,360 --> 00:02:03,480 Speaker 2: couple of minutes. Dylan you'll be on the phone. We'll 49 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:05,720 Speaker 2: call Serenity. We'll see if we can figure out what's 50 00:02:05,760 --> 00:02:07,600 Speaker 2: going on. And the hope is always is that we 51 00:02:07,600 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 2: can set you up on another date and pay for 52 00:02:09,840 --> 00:02:12,040 Speaker 2: it with our The only part of the show that 53 00:02:12,080 --> 00:02:14,160 Speaker 2: has an expansive budget is this part, because we almost 54 00:02:14,200 --> 00:02:16,480 Speaker 2: never do it. So Dylan, let's see what happens. Good luck, man. 55 00:02:16,880 --> 00:02:17,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, thanks you guys. 56 00:02:18,080 --> 00:02:21,120 Speaker 1: Hey, Dylan, welcome back. Let's call this woman, Serenity. 57 00:02:21,160 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 2: You met at a bar, got her number, asked her 58 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:25,640 Speaker 2: on a date, you went out for drinks. You felt 59 00:02:25,639 --> 00:02:28,160 Speaker 2: like everything went really well. The problem is you've called 60 00:02:28,160 --> 00:02:30,400 Speaker 2: her since the date to set up another date. She 61 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:33,040 Speaker 2: is not responding to you, not texting you back, nothing, 62 00:02:33,080 --> 00:02:35,840 Speaker 2: no communication. You think you're being ghosted. You have no 63 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:36,639 Speaker 2: idea why? 64 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:37,920 Speaker 1: Thank Yeah, exactly. 65 00:02:37,960 --> 00:02:40,120 Speaker 2: Man, all right, well let's call her now. Good luck, Dylan. 66 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:50,480 Speaker 2: Hi is this Serenity? Yeh, Hi Serenity. My name is Fred. 67 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:52,600 Speaker 2: I'm calling from the Fred Show, the Morning radio show. 68 00:02:52,639 --> 00:02:54,040 Speaker 2: The whole crew is here. I have to tell you 69 00:02:54,080 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 2: that we are on the radio right now and I 70 00:02:56,400 --> 00:02:58,320 Speaker 2: would need your permission to continue with the call. 71 00:02:58,360 --> 00:02:59,960 Speaker 1: Can which have for just a second on the show. 72 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:04,359 Speaker 1: You can hang up anytime. Okay. I know it's a 73 00:03:04,400 --> 00:03:04,760 Speaker 1: little bit. 74 00:03:04,720 --> 00:03:07,240 Speaker 2: Strange and and I'm sorry to surprise you like this, 75 00:03:07,320 --> 00:03:09,280 Speaker 2: but we're calling on behalf of a guy who reached 76 00:03:09,280 --> 00:03:11,320 Speaker 2: out to us. His name is Dylan. I guess you 77 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:13,400 Speaker 2: met recently and went out on a date. Do you 78 00:03:13,400 --> 00:03:14,000 Speaker 2: remember Dylan? 79 00:03:15,600 --> 00:03:16,000 Speaker 5: Yeah? 80 00:03:16,200 --> 00:03:17,400 Speaker 4: I do, Okay. 81 00:03:17,600 --> 00:03:20,280 Speaker 2: So he called us and said that you guys had 82 00:03:20,280 --> 00:03:22,480 Speaker 2: met at a bar, I guess, and then exchanged numbers 83 00:03:22,480 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 2: and went on a date and he felt like the 84 00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:26,160 Speaker 2: date went really well. He says, he's reached out to 85 00:03:26,200 --> 00:03:28,919 Speaker 2: you since then and you're not responding and he doesn't 86 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:30,760 Speaker 2: know why, so he wants us to find out. 87 00:03:31,800 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 6: So yeah, you know, I met him when I was 88 00:03:34,200 --> 00:03:34,760 Speaker 6: out one night. 89 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:36,160 Speaker 7: I thought he was cute and all. 90 00:03:36,920 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 6: But then, you know, once we decided to actually go 91 00:03:40,160 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 6: on a date. The guy who came in was not 92 00:03:43,160 --> 00:03:45,080 Speaker 6: the guy I met at the bar. I mean it 93 00:03:45,160 --> 00:03:46,080 Speaker 6: was him, but. 94 00:03:46,560 --> 00:03:49,280 Speaker 8: When he walked in, my jaw hit the floor. 95 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:54,920 Speaker 6: He had clearly just gotten into some sort of like fights. 96 00:03:56,920 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 4: In between you know. 97 00:03:58,400 --> 00:04:00,560 Speaker 8: Us meeting and us going on on the date. He 98 00:04:00,640 --> 00:04:01,680 Speaker 8: had a black eye. 99 00:04:02,600 --> 00:04:07,160 Speaker 6: He was limping, yeah, limping. He was covered in like scratches, 100 00:04:08,480 --> 00:04:12,600 Speaker 6: missing part of his tooth, and he asked the waitress 101 00:04:12,640 --> 00:04:15,280 Speaker 6: for a bag of ice to put on his hands. 102 00:04:15,280 --> 00:04:18,960 Speaker 1: Like did coming into this date, like did it just 103 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:20,520 Speaker 1: happen that it. 104 00:04:20,720 --> 00:04:24,920 Speaker 8: Truly seemed like it? Like I was, I was absolutely shocked. 105 00:04:24,920 --> 00:04:29,919 Speaker 8: But like the craziest part was he didn't acknowledge any 106 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:34,679 Speaker 8: of it. I obviously brought it up like right away, 107 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:35,800 Speaker 8: you know, I was like. 108 00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:36,800 Speaker 1: Are you are you good? 109 00:04:36,960 --> 00:04:38,039 Speaker 8: Like what what? 110 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:42,760 Speaker 2: Like nothing was happening, like the dude limps and it 111 00:04:42,839 --> 00:04:44,560 Speaker 2: was like I don't know, I just you know. 112 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 8: Literally that is exactly what happened. So when I did finally, 113 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:53,560 Speaker 8: I was like, what the hell happened here? 114 00:04:54,240 --> 00:04:55,839 Speaker 6: He just kind of nothing. 115 00:04:56,120 --> 00:04:58,560 Speaker 8: I mean, I'm good, Like he just he bushed it 116 00:04:58,600 --> 00:05:02,599 Speaker 8: off and he told me he was fine, but you know, 117 00:05:02,640 --> 00:05:05,159 Speaker 8: it was clearly really bad. 118 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:09,280 Speaker 2: Well, Serenity, I forgot to mention that, Dylan, this here 119 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:12,200 Speaker 2: I get caught up in a story. I'm so forgetful, Dylan, 120 00:05:12,240 --> 00:05:13,720 Speaker 2: did you get beaten up on the way end of 121 00:05:13,760 --> 00:05:15,359 Speaker 2: the day, Like does someone attack you? 122 00:05:15,680 --> 00:05:16,360 Speaker 1: What happened? 123 00:05:16,680 --> 00:05:19,919 Speaker 3: Oh? Well no, not No, I wouldn't say attack me. 124 00:05:20,000 --> 00:05:22,240 Speaker 3: I mean, it's really was just like I said, like 125 00:05:22,279 --> 00:05:23,720 Speaker 3: a small misunderstanding. 126 00:05:24,160 --> 00:05:26,720 Speaker 1: Uh alla understanding you're limping? 127 00:05:27,400 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 3: Well yeah, I mean, you know, uh, not really a 128 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:34,119 Speaker 3: big deal, just uh, sometimes things happen. 129 00:05:34,560 --> 00:05:39,800 Speaker 4: Did you try to swing back? Did you did you 130 00:05:39,839 --> 00:05:40,320 Speaker 4: paint hick? 131 00:05:41,720 --> 00:05:43,440 Speaker 1: I mean, can we get any more information? 132 00:05:43,560 --> 00:05:45,240 Speaker 9: You're like, I don't see why. 133 00:05:45,400 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 1: I don't see why it should matter. 134 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:49,600 Speaker 3: I mean, uh, it's it's got nothing to do with her. 135 00:05:49,880 --> 00:05:52,440 Speaker 1: It's just, you know, things happen. Sometimes you show up 136 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:53,680 Speaker 1: to a date with half of too. 137 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:56,640 Speaker 2: I mean, I feel like people bleeding, they might have 138 00:05:56,839 --> 00:05:57,839 Speaker 2: questions about that. 139 00:05:58,080 --> 00:05:59,520 Speaker 4: Medical like I'm right. 140 00:05:59,600 --> 00:06:02,280 Speaker 2: I mean, I mean I give you, hey, I give 141 00:06:02,320 --> 00:06:04,719 Speaker 2: you credit for showing up. I guess to the day. 142 00:06:04,839 --> 00:06:06,480 Speaker 2: I mean I might have canceled if I just got 143 00:06:06,480 --> 00:06:10,080 Speaker 2: my butt whooped before walking in. But I think, you know, 144 00:06:10,080 --> 00:06:12,160 Speaker 2: it's fair to sort of ask why did you get 145 00:06:12,200 --> 00:06:14,440 Speaker 2: beaten up? And why is it not like that big 146 00:06:14,480 --> 00:06:15,960 Speaker 2: of a deal to you? Like, what are you in? 147 00:06:16,040 --> 00:06:18,480 Speaker 2: What are you doing? What sort of it's like the 148 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:19,880 Speaker 2: mafia have for you? Like you. 149 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:24,880 Speaker 4: Like, what happens your hand? 150 00:06:25,080 --> 00:06:26,520 Speaker 1: Right? What was the misunderstanding? 151 00:06:27,279 --> 00:06:30,040 Speaker 3: You know, I'd rather not say on on the you know, 152 00:06:30,320 --> 00:06:35,039 Speaker 3: on the radio, but what things happen sometimes when it's over. 153 00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:39,159 Speaker 1: It's not like it's it's not like this is like 154 00:06:39,200 --> 00:06:40,360 Speaker 1: a regular thing for me. 155 00:06:40,400 --> 00:06:42,880 Speaker 2: It's you don't regularly get beaten up. That's I mean, 156 00:06:42,920 --> 00:06:45,600 Speaker 2: that's good. I'm happy about that for you. But can 157 00:06:45,600 --> 00:06:47,800 Speaker 2: you see why Serenity might have had some questions like 158 00:06:48,040 --> 00:06:49,599 Speaker 2: about what what sort of phrase? 159 00:06:50,240 --> 00:06:50,440 Speaker 1: Right? 160 00:06:50,680 --> 00:06:52,000 Speaker 3: I don't see what it has to do with her 161 00:06:52,080 --> 00:06:52,800 Speaker 3: really well. 162 00:06:52,839 --> 00:06:54,720 Speaker 2: I mean, if you're doing some stuff you're not supposed 163 00:06:54,760 --> 00:06:56,360 Speaker 2: to be doing enough that people are beating you up, 164 00:06:56,360 --> 00:06:57,840 Speaker 2: and she's going to hang out with you, then mean 165 00:06:57,920 --> 00:06:59,880 Speaker 2: you know that's a little dangerous. 166 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:01,760 Speaker 6: Exactly, I don't know. 167 00:07:01,960 --> 00:07:04,839 Speaker 3: I mean it's like I said, it's this isn't my normal. 168 00:07:04,960 --> 00:07:07,120 Speaker 1: Uh okay, yeah, it was a little out of the ordinary. 169 00:07:07,160 --> 00:07:10,239 Speaker 3: I guess, but I what things happen? 170 00:07:10,920 --> 00:07:14,320 Speaker 2: So shoved you a date bleeding in need of ice, 171 00:07:14,360 --> 00:07:17,200 Speaker 2: with a black eye and half a tooth, and you're 172 00:07:17,200 --> 00:07:20,680 Speaker 2: wondering why she didn't call you again. Okay, Well, look, Serenity, 173 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:23,040 Speaker 2: it's not a normal thing for him, he says. So 174 00:07:23,760 --> 00:07:26,560 Speaker 2: you know, I guess it doesn't happen regularly, which means 175 00:07:26,960 --> 00:07:28,320 Speaker 2: you know, you want to give another shot. 176 00:07:28,360 --> 00:07:30,920 Speaker 1: We'll pay for it another date. Absolutely not. 177 00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:32,880 Speaker 4: I'm so uncomfortable. 178 00:07:34,640 --> 00:07:39,280 Speaker 8: Yeah no, because like so obviously yes, the whole thing, 179 00:07:39,400 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 8: like why are you getting in like fights? Why are 180 00:07:41,840 --> 00:07:45,360 Speaker 8: we getting beaten up? But like also, you know that 181 00:07:45,600 --> 00:07:49,520 Speaker 8: is a red flag, but like also like the fact 182 00:07:49,520 --> 00:07:51,480 Speaker 8: that you're like lying about it and brushing it under 183 00:07:51,520 --> 00:07:55,800 Speaker 8: the rug is like I would say, an equally significant 184 00:07:56,000 --> 00:07:56,800 Speaker 8: red flag. 185 00:07:56,720 --> 00:07:58,480 Speaker 2: Right, And if it were some sort of like simple 186 00:07:58,520 --> 00:08:01,080 Speaker 2: misunderstanding or view were attacked and you were innocent, I 187 00:08:01,160 --> 00:08:03,720 Speaker 2: feel like you just say that, but you're obviously into 188 00:08:03,760 --> 00:08:06,320 Speaker 2: something because you don't want to reveal what it was, 189 00:08:06,680 --> 00:08:09,320 Speaker 2: and you're acting like it doesn't happen. So all right, 190 00:08:09,360 --> 00:08:13,000 Speaker 2: look Dylan, she's not interested. I hope you work out 191 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:16,360 Speaker 2: whatever issue you got going on, and I wish you 192 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:17,360 Speaker 2: both the best of luck. 193 00:08:17,680 --> 00:08:21,000 Speaker 8: Thank you, all right, Dylan, you're okay? 194 00:08:22,000 --> 00:08:24,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, man, thanks showing your help. 195 00:08:24,040 --> 00:08:24,320 Speaker 3: Guys. 196 00:08:24,640 --> 00:08:28,880 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, good good luck out there. This is 197 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:29,680 Speaker 1: the Fread Show. 198 00:08:29,840 --> 00:08:32,080 Speaker 2: Kelly Clark City is returning to Las Vegas in twenty 199 00:08:32,120 --> 00:08:36,200 Speaker 2: twenty six for her studio sessions Las Vegas Residency. 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It's Kiki's Court, all right, the honorable 210 00:09:03,040 --> 00:09:06,040 Speaker 1: judge Kiki is all. 211 00:09:06,000 --> 00:09:07,280 Speaker 4: Right, Let's get in the courtroom. 212 00:09:07,840 --> 00:09:11,080 Speaker 10: The gavel has been hit, It says, Hey, Kiki, am 213 00:09:11,080 --> 00:09:13,960 Speaker 10: I wrong for needing a little help with my kids? 214 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:15,600 Speaker 4: Even though I don't work. 215 00:09:16,040 --> 00:09:18,440 Speaker 10: My name is Kim, I may stay at home mom 216 00:09:18,600 --> 00:09:21,559 Speaker 10: with three kids, two in school and a toddler who's 217 00:09:21,559 --> 00:09:24,520 Speaker 10: glued to me twenty four to seven. I love my kids, 218 00:09:24,559 --> 00:09:27,640 Speaker 10: but I'm beyond burnt out. So in a moment of frustration, 219 00:09:27,840 --> 00:09:31,000 Speaker 10: I wrote a post on Facebook about being tired, and 220 00:09:31,080 --> 00:09:34,360 Speaker 10: I mentioned maybe hiring a part time sitter to come 221 00:09:34,400 --> 00:09:36,680 Speaker 10: over a few times a week just so I can breathe. 222 00:09:37,200 --> 00:09:40,840 Speaker 10: That's when my mother in law went insane on my post. 223 00:09:41,200 --> 00:09:43,880 Speaker 10: She wrote a long comment about how her son worked 224 00:09:43,920 --> 00:09:46,440 Speaker 10: so hard and how she was a single mom and 225 00:09:46,480 --> 00:09:49,160 Speaker 10: did it on her own. She went off then she 226 00:09:49,280 --> 00:09:52,120 Speaker 10: called my husband, who came home mad and said, if 227 00:09:52,160 --> 00:09:55,160 Speaker 10: I'm so stressed with one kid at home, his mom 228 00:09:55,240 --> 00:09:57,760 Speaker 10: will help, or I can just go get a job. 229 00:09:58,440 --> 00:09:58,600 Speaker 4: Hum. 230 00:09:59,240 --> 00:10:02,040 Speaker 10: Since the post, my mother in law is now at 231 00:10:02,040 --> 00:10:05,800 Speaker 10: my house daily, being condescending and trying to teach me 232 00:10:05,960 --> 00:10:06,840 Speaker 10: how to be a mother. 233 00:10:07,320 --> 00:10:08,200 Speaker 4: It is torture. 234 00:10:08,640 --> 00:10:11,480 Speaker 10: Am I wrong for wanting a little paid help, because 235 00:10:11,520 --> 00:10:13,760 Speaker 10: clearly now I'm being punished. 236 00:10:15,840 --> 00:10:17,480 Speaker 4: So much to say I can't wait for all? 237 00:10:17,880 --> 00:10:22,360 Speaker 10: I cannot wait because, first of all, girl, you better 238 00:10:22,400 --> 00:10:23,840 Speaker 10: than me, because let me tell you something, the moment 239 00:10:23,880 --> 00:10:25,319 Speaker 10: your mama would have pulled up, I would have booked 240 00:10:25,320 --> 00:10:27,160 Speaker 10: me a vacation on your credit card. 241 00:10:27,320 --> 00:10:28,880 Speaker 4: I would have left you know what, you want to 242 00:10:28,920 --> 00:10:30,160 Speaker 4: come teach me how to be a mother. 243 00:10:30,240 --> 00:10:32,640 Speaker 10: After I've raised two of your other grandchildren and I 244 00:10:32,679 --> 00:10:33,560 Speaker 10: just need a little break. 245 00:10:33,559 --> 00:10:34,800 Speaker 4: I got mad on Facebook. 246 00:10:34,960 --> 00:10:37,120 Speaker 10: Hey, come come on over here, mama and take these 247 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:38,839 Speaker 10: kids and let me go live my best life. 248 00:10:38,880 --> 00:10:40,760 Speaker 4: SnSe that's what y'all. Y'all would to act like That's 249 00:10:40,760 --> 00:10:41,679 Speaker 4: what I'm doing every day? 250 00:10:41,880 --> 00:10:44,560 Speaker 10: You know, I feel like, you know, everyone makes the 251 00:10:44,600 --> 00:10:47,760 Speaker 10: mistake of getting frustrated and taking things to social media sometimes, 252 00:10:48,080 --> 00:10:50,040 Speaker 10: but that doesn't mean that just because you're a stay 253 00:10:50,080 --> 00:10:51,880 Speaker 10: at home mom, you don't deserve a break or you 254 00:10:51,920 --> 00:10:53,240 Speaker 10: don't deserve a little. 255 00:10:52,960 --> 00:10:55,640 Speaker 2: Help sometime, right, because it's twenty four to seven, yes, 256 00:10:56,480 --> 00:10:59,440 Speaker 2: And it's no one's saying here that one person's working 257 00:10:59,440 --> 00:11:01,120 Speaker 2: harder than the That's not what this post was. This 258 00:11:01,200 --> 00:11:03,079 Speaker 2: post was simply like, man, every now and again, I 259 00:11:03,160 --> 00:11:05,560 Speaker 2: just like a break, because you know, you can go 260 00:11:05,600 --> 00:11:08,439 Speaker 2: to your job and work hard for eight hours and 261 00:11:08,720 --> 00:11:12,240 Speaker 2: and you know, compartmentalize and be around adults and do 262 00:11:12,320 --> 00:11:14,160 Speaker 2: all that, and then you can come home and then 263 00:11:14,200 --> 00:11:14,880 Speaker 2: that goes away. 264 00:11:14,920 --> 00:11:16,360 Speaker 1: This never goes somewhat. 265 00:11:16,360 --> 00:11:18,600 Speaker 2: I'm not saying that dad's or moms who work and 266 00:11:18,600 --> 00:11:20,760 Speaker 2: then come home don't contribute once they get home, because 267 00:11:20,760 --> 00:11:22,400 Speaker 2: they do. But it's like, I don't know, it's two 268 00:11:22,400 --> 00:11:23,200 Speaker 2: different things. 269 00:11:23,040 --> 00:11:24,319 Speaker 4: Right, and we shouldn't compare it. 270 00:11:24,360 --> 00:11:26,520 Speaker 10: But it gets messy when your mother gets in the 271 00:11:26,559 --> 00:11:28,599 Speaker 10: comments and she's telling me about her life as a 272 00:11:28,640 --> 00:11:30,240 Speaker 10: single mother, Like, girl, you should have picked a different baby. 273 00:11:30,280 --> 00:11:31,240 Speaker 4: Daddy ain't got none to doing me. 274 00:11:31,280 --> 00:11:34,720 Speaker 10: I don't know, you know, so I just feel like, 275 00:11:34,800 --> 00:11:37,000 Speaker 10: you know, you he should stick up for his wife 276 00:11:37,040 --> 00:11:39,440 Speaker 10: in this sense, and like, hey, mom, I understand that 277 00:11:39,520 --> 00:11:41,840 Speaker 10: triggered you, but you know we're going to handle it 278 00:11:41,920 --> 00:11:44,000 Speaker 10: at home. And if your wife is crying out saying 279 00:11:44,040 --> 00:11:46,400 Speaker 10: she needs a little help, a little assistant, a break 280 00:11:46,440 --> 00:11:48,760 Speaker 10: every now and then, see how you guys can work 281 00:11:48,760 --> 00:11:49,000 Speaker 10: that out. 282 00:11:49,000 --> 00:11:50,280 Speaker 1: Well, I'm not sure have you mentioned this, but how 283 00:11:50,280 --> 00:11:51,720 Speaker 1: many kids did mom have? 284 00:11:52,200 --> 00:11:52,360 Speaker 2: Oh? 285 00:11:52,400 --> 00:11:53,000 Speaker 4: She didn't say? 286 00:11:53,120 --> 00:11:56,280 Speaker 2: And then did mom never hire a babysitter ever to 287 00:11:56,360 --> 00:12:00,120 Speaker 2: go do anything? She never did one thing for herself ever, No, 288 00:12:00,240 --> 00:12:02,880 Speaker 2: she took her and if she didn't about her back. 289 00:12:03,240 --> 00:12:05,280 Speaker 1: I would argue that she needed to that she did. 290 00:12:05,480 --> 00:12:07,720 Speaker 2: You know, you should prioritize yourself just a little bit 291 00:12:07,720 --> 00:12:09,719 Speaker 2: from time to time. You guys are the jerry though, 292 00:12:09,720 --> 00:12:12,160 Speaker 2: eight five five five nine three five. What would you 293 00:12:12,240 --> 00:12:15,920 Speaker 2: do if mom in law came around with an opinion 294 00:12:15,960 --> 00:12:18,720 Speaker 2: about you wanting a little bit of relief from what 295 00:12:18,800 --> 00:12:19,319 Speaker 2: three kids? 296 00:12:19,400 --> 00:12:19,559 Speaker 3: Was it? 297 00:12:19,720 --> 00:12:19,960 Speaker 4: Yes? 298 00:12:21,400 --> 00:12:23,400 Speaker 1: M Paulia the mom in the room. 299 00:12:24,559 --> 00:12:27,319 Speaker 11: Yeah, So thank you, first of all, yes for acknowledging 300 00:12:27,360 --> 00:12:29,320 Speaker 11: that being a say at home mom is work, and 301 00:12:29,360 --> 00:12:30,200 Speaker 11: it is a lot of work. 302 00:12:30,559 --> 00:12:30,640 Speaker 3: Me. 303 00:12:30,920 --> 00:12:31,839 Speaker 4: I am Paulina Row. 304 00:12:31,880 --> 00:12:33,680 Speaker 11: I am on this radio every morning, but when I 305 00:12:33,720 --> 00:12:35,880 Speaker 11: go home at ten o one am, whatever time, I'm 306 00:12:36,120 --> 00:12:36,840 Speaker 11: off the radio. 307 00:12:37,120 --> 00:12:39,360 Speaker 4: I am mom until bedtime. 308 00:12:39,520 --> 00:12:41,720 Speaker 11: So I understand that being at home with a kid 309 00:12:41,720 --> 00:12:44,199 Speaker 11: all day, every day, with my one child who is 310 00:12:44,200 --> 00:12:46,600 Speaker 11: two years old, it is a lot. And you guys 311 00:12:46,679 --> 00:12:48,839 Speaker 11: know that I'm an outsourcing queen. I will outsource and 312 00:12:48,880 --> 00:12:50,960 Speaker 11: get me a babysitter. And I've got a couple in rotation, 313 00:12:51,040 --> 00:12:52,640 Speaker 11: so if my mother in law is not available or 314 00:12:52,640 --> 00:12:54,480 Speaker 11: my sister whatever at my sister in law, then I 315 00:12:54,520 --> 00:12:56,200 Speaker 11: will have somebody calm watch my baby for a couple 316 00:12:56,280 --> 00:12:58,280 Speaker 11: hours while I get things done around the house, do 317 00:12:58,400 --> 00:13:00,160 Speaker 11: some work or whatever it is. I got a where 318 00:13:00,160 --> 00:13:02,640 Speaker 11: I go to an event whatever. Now my mother in law, 319 00:13:02,880 --> 00:13:04,440 Speaker 11: I know I say this. I am blessed that she 320 00:13:04,559 --> 00:13:07,120 Speaker 11: if she saw me put that on Facebook, she would 321 00:13:07,200 --> 00:13:09,920 Speaker 11: probably call me and do the right thing and say, hey, honey, 322 00:13:10,000 --> 00:13:12,040 Speaker 11: can I come help you. I saw your post, like, 323 00:13:12,080 --> 00:13:14,240 Speaker 11: there's no need for that. I'll come help you now. 324 00:13:14,360 --> 00:13:17,280 Speaker 11: And everybody has that relationship, and you know, I hope 325 00:13:17,280 --> 00:13:20,240 Speaker 11: that I can be amazing mother, you know, a grandmom, 326 00:13:20,280 --> 00:13:21,560 Speaker 11: mother in law whatever in the future. 327 00:13:21,920 --> 00:13:23,559 Speaker 4: My only issue with that is like, yeah, mother in 328 00:13:23,640 --> 00:13:24,760 Speaker 4: law is wrong for that. 329 00:13:24,840 --> 00:13:27,160 Speaker 11: Just because she struggled as a single mom does not 330 00:13:27,360 --> 00:13:29,960 Speaker 11: mean that I have to do the same, and I 331 00:13:29,960 --> 00:13:32,080 Speaker 11: mean that respectfully. Like my mom was a single mom, 332 00:13:32,480 --> 00:13:35,400 Speaker 11: but I will not endure the same struggles that she 333 00:13:35,520 --> 00:13:37,560 Speaker 11: did because I how. 334 00:13:37,400 --> 00:13:37,960 Speaker 4: Do I say this? 335 00:13:38,120 --> 00:13:41,240 Speaker 11: I believe in in a asking for help, but I 336 00:13:41,280 --> 00:13:44,079 Speaker 11: also I also set up my life a certain way 337 00:13:44,080 --> 00:13:46,160 Speaker 11: where it's like, no, I want the help, you know 338 00:13:46,200 --> 00:13:48,280 Speaker 11: what I mean, Like if I'm not there, somebody else 339 00:13:48,320 --> 00:13:49,360 Speaker 11: will be there to watch my baby. 340 00:13:50,280 --> 00:13:52,400 Speaker 4: I feel like that's so wrong, so wrong, so wrong. 341 00:13:52,520 --> 00:13:54,800 Speaker 11: That mother is struggling three kids all day, every day 342 00:13:54,880 --> 00:13:56,160 Speaker 11: twenty four to seven is a lie. 343 00:13:56,480 --> 00:14:00,240 Speaker 1: Well, it's projection, obviously, it is projection. Thank you, yes, who, 344 00:14:00,240 --> 00:14:00,640 Speaker 1: I don't know. 345 00:14:00,800 --> 00:14:03,920 Speaker 2: She had a difficult time I guess raising her kids, 346 00:14:03,920 --> 00:14:06,440 Speaker 2: and that's respectable, and you did the best job she could. 347 00:14:06,520 --> 00:14:09,360 Speaker 2: But now, but this mom, this younger mom, wants to 348 00:14:09,360 --> 00:14:11,840 Speaker 2: go about it differently, right, And I think she has 349 00:14:11,880 --> 00:14:14,480 Speaker 2: every right to do that. And I don't know any 350 00:14:14,520 --> 00:14:18,559 Speaker 2: anytime that the in laws get involved in the parental direction, 351 00:14:19,040 --> 00:14:22,000 Speaker 2: especially if it's not about safety or well being, which 352 00:14:22,080 --> 00:14:24,560 Speaker 2: this isn't. This is this has more to do with 353 00:14:24,960 --> 00:14:26,720 Speaker 2: the adults than it does with the kids. 354 00:14:26,800 --> 00:14:28,400 Speaker 11: But moms could judge all the time though, even if 355 00:14:28,400 --> 00:14:30,280 Speaker 11: it's not by mother in law, if I was to 356 00:14:30,320 --> 00:14:32,400 Speaker 11: post on social media or whatever, just even vent to 357 00:14:32,440 --> 00:14:35,240 Speaker 11: a friend, like, people can be so judgy because they'll say, like, 358 00:14:35,320 --> 00:14:37,160 Speaker 11: you know, oh, you stay home all day, you don't 359 00:14:37,160 --> 00:14:38,560 Speaker 11: need a break or whatever. You know what I mean, 360 00:14:38,720 --> 00:14:40,920 Speaker 11: a lot of projection from moms to it, and it's sad. 361 00:14:41,000 --> 00:14:41,640 Speaker 4: I don't like that. 362 00:14:41,880 --> 00:14:44,239 Speaker 2: I also, I don't love the cry for help on Facebook. 363 00:14:44,560 --> 00:14:47,200 Speaker 2: I don't I don't don't know that. I mean, it's 364 00:14:47,200 --> 00:14:49,000 Speaker 2: like you handle it, like if you want this, if 365 00:14:49,000 --> 00:14:50,920 Speaker 2: this is something you want to do, then I would 366 00:14:51,160 --> 00:14:53,720 Speaker 2: maybe not don't put it out there. Someone texted that 367 00:14:53,760 --> 00:14:55,720 Speaker 2: and I kind of agree. It's like, okay, well, then 368 00:14:56,040 --> 00:14:58,480 Speaker 2: let's do what you want to do. If you want 369 00:14:58,520 --> 00:15:00,400 Speaker 2: to hire a babysitter, if you want some if you 370 00:15:00,400 --> 00:15:02,040 Speaker 2: want some relief, then you have every right to that. 371 00:15:02,120 --> 00:15:05,040 Speaker 2: But I don't like it when people go to Facebook first, 372 00:15:05,080 --> 00:15:07,600 Speaker 2: because you are kind of opening yourself. 373 00:15:07,320 --> 00:15:10,240 Speaker 1: Up to everyone's opinion, right, yeah. 374 00:15:10,120 --> 00:15:12,360 Speaker 2: And everyone is going to come at it from the 375 00:15:12,360 --> 00:15:14,920 Speaker 2: perspective of what they have available to them. True, and 376 00:15:14,960 --> 00:15:17,160 Speaker 2: if they can't afford a babysitter or they don't have one, 377 00:15:17,200 --> 00:15:19,240 Speaker 2: or they're in a relationship or a dynamic where that 378 00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:21,720 Speaker 2: person doesn't think that, you know whatever, So then they're 379 00:15:21,720 --> 00:15:23,720 Speaker 2: gonna get upset because of what they can have. 380 00:15:23,920 --> 00:15:25,400 Speaker 4: Right, I'm guilty of that. You guys know. 381 00:15:25,440 --> 00:15:27,600 Speaker 11: I love going to social media or love calling my 382 00:15:27,680 --> 00:15:30,880 Speaker 11: husband's mom. Okay, I had to stop, But in this case, 383 00:15:30,880 --> 00:15:32,680 Speaker 11: you're right, Like, if you open yourself up to that 384 00:15:32,760 --> 00:15:35,480 Speaker 11: criticism or feedback on social media, you're going. 385 00:15:35,440 --> 00:15:37,200 Speaker 4: To get everyone's perspective and opinions, and. 386 00:15:37,160 --> 00:15:39,480 Speaker 10: They're not a mixed feeling. Somebody on a tech said, 387 00:15:39,480 --> 00:15:42,040 Speaker 10: the mom is spoiled. You only have one kid at home. 388 00:15:43,440 --> 00:15:45,000 Speaker 4: That doesn't change anything. 389 00:15:45,680 --> 00:15:48,040 Speaker 1: It's so hard, Mandy, how you doing. 390 00:15:49,880 --> 00:15:50,160 Speaker 4: Good? 391 00:15:50,200 --> 00:15:50,600 Speaker 7: How are you? 392 00:15:50,840 --> 00:15:51,560 Speaker 1: Hi, Mandy? Good morning. 393 00:15:51,600 --> 00:15:53,040 Speaker 2: So you're stay at home mom and you hear this 394 00:15:53,120 --> 00:15:54,440 Speaker 2: Kiky's cord and you think what. 395 00:15:56,520 --> 00:16:00,440 Speaker 12: I think she's absolutely entitled to some paid help. I 396 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:02,800 Speaker 12: think the mother in law is completely in the wrong. 397 00:16:03,000 --> 00:16:04,120 Speaker 4: She should not have. 398 00:16:04,240 --> 00:16:07,560 Speaker 12: Gone and commented went on a tie raid on her post. 399 00:16:08,360 --> 00:16:10,880 Speaker 9: Every mom, every dad, whatever you do. 400 00:16:10,920 --> 00:16:13,280 Speaker 12: Inside or outside of the house, you deserve that break. 401 00:16:13,800 --> 00:16:16,880 Speaker 2: What how about mom in law? To Paulina's point being like, wow, 402 00:16:16,920 --> 00:16:19,200 Speaker 2: she's going through it right now, Like, let me let 403 00:16:19,200 --> 00:16:20,240 Speaker 2: me call and let me help her. 404 00:16:20,480 --> 00:16:21,280 Speaker 4: It's a cry for help. 405 00:16:21,320 --> 00:16:23,320 Speaker 2: I'll be the one. Let me come in and take 406 00:16:23,320 --> 00:16:24,520 Speaker 2: it over for a few hours. 407 00:16:25,880 --> 00:16:28,480 Speaker 12: Yeah, I mean, I guess it depends on their relationship. 408 00:16:28,600 --> 00:16:30,400 Speaker 12: I have a good relationship with my mother in law, 409 00:16:30,440 --> 00:16:33,080 Speaker 12: so I would love that. But it sounds like they 410 00:16:33,160 --> 00:16:35,880 Speaker 12: may not have the same type of relationship. But now 411 00:16:35,920 --> 00:16:39,440 Speaker 12: she feels like she's being tortured, so I don't know. 412 00:16:39,480 --> 00:16:40,280 Speaker 7: I guess it depends. 413 00:16:40,600 --> 00:16:43,400 Speaker 11: Yeah, well, you better off going to care dot com 414 00:16:43,520 --> 00:16:45,200 Speaker 11: in my opinion, if your mother in law's going to 415 00:16:45,240 --> 00:16:47,320 Speaker 11: treat you like that and say comments like that and 416 00:16:47,360 --> 00:16:48,200 Speaker 11: from your children. 417 00:16:48,360 --> 00:16:50,800 Speaker 4: No, we're going to Urban Center dot We're going somewhere else. 418 00:16:50,920 --> 00:16:52,840 Speaker 1: Well that's what I'm saying. 419 00:16:52,000 --> 00:16:52,080 Speaker 5: Right. 420 00:16:54,560 --> 00:16:56,680 Speaker 2: Well, she worn't coming at it from a judg's mental standpoints, 421 00:16:56,720 --> 00:16:59,640 Speaker 2: like this isn't about I don't need teaching someone how 422 00:16:59,680 --> 00:17:03,600 Speaker 2: to pair. She wants some help. Okay, Well i'm your 423 00:17:03,720 --> 00:17:07,800 Speaker 2: mother in law, but I'm a mother figure here. Let 424 00:17:07,840 --> 00:17:09,480 Speaker 2: me come and do that, and then I get more 425 00:17:09,600 --> 00:17:12,359 Speaker 2: time with my grandkids anyway, so everybody wins it. 426 00:17:12,359 --> 00:17:13,200 Speaker 1: Thank you, Mandy. 427 00:17:14,240 --> 00:17:15,080 Speaker 9: Yeah, I do see. 428 00:17:15,119 --> 00:17:16,439 Speaker 8: I do see where you're coming aut with that. 429 00:17:16,760 --> 00:17:19,560 Speaker 2: But I wouldn't want her there either the way she's acting. 430 00:17:19,680 --> 00:17:22,439 Speaker 2: I'm saying, don't act that way, and just offered to 431 00:17:22,440 --> 00:17:24,560 Speaker 2: bring to be an asset. 432 00:17:24,640 --> 00:17:28,760 Speaker 1: Thank you, Mandy. Have a good day, true, Thank you too, Taylor. 433 00:17:28,840 --> 00:17:30,040 Speaker 1: Good morning, Taylor. How are you? 434 00:17:31,359 --> 00:17:31,879 Speaker 4: I'm great? 435 00:17:31,880 --> 00:17:34,359 Speaker 1: How are you doing great? Kiki's Court. 436 00:17:34,440 --> 00:17:37,160 Speaker 2: This is a battle between a mom and a mother 437 00:17:37,240 --> 00:17:41,000 Speaker 2: in law because mom wants some help, went to Facebook 438 00:17:41,040 --> 00:17:43,879 Speaker 2: said Hey, I want a babysitter or something for these 439 00:17:43,960 --> 00:17:46,439 Speaker 2: kids because I'm driving me crazy. Mother in law is like, 440 00:17:46,480 --> 00:17:48,639 Speaker 2: I never had that, and it's being very judgmental. 441 00:17:48,680 --> 00:17:49,240 Speaker 1: What do you think. 442 00:17:50,880 --> 00:17:52,200 Speaker 9: Yeah, I can totally relate. 443 00:17:52,320 --> 00:17:53,440 Speaker 7: I am a single mom. 444 00:17:53,560 --> 00:17:58,160 Speaker 9: I have three kids and you absolutely need a break. 445 00:17:58,680 --> 00:18:00,439 Speaker 9: I don't know about the mother in laws, but I 446 00:18:00,440 --> 00:18:03,320 Speaker 9: do have my mom who helps and it's great. But 447 00:18:03,400 --> 00:18:06,000 Speaker 9: at the same time, it's also nice if I can 448 00:18:06,040 --> 00:18:08,520 Speaker 9: afford a babysitter, I would get one more often, but 449 00:18:08,640 --> 00:18:11,199 Speaker 9: just to have a babysitter where you know they're not 450 00:18:11,240 --> 00:18:12,919 Speaker 9: going to be nagging at you like Okay, well when 451 00:18:12,960 --> 00:18:14,760 Speaker 9: are you coming home? What do you need for? 452 00:18:14,880 --> 00:18:14,960 Speaker 7: Like? 453 00:18:15,000 --> 00:18:15,959 Speaker 5: What do they need for this? 454 00:18:16,119 --> 00:18:17,720 Speaker 9: What do you need to do with this? Where it's 455 00:18:17,720 --> 00:18:20,720 Speaker 9: like the babysitter. It's like, here, I'm paying you, I'm 456 00:18:20,720 --> 00:18:23,480 Speaker 9: going out. I will be unavailable unless it's an emergency 457 00:18:23,600 --> 00:18:26,840 Speaker 9: for a couple of hours. So totally get it. 458 00:18:27,160 --> 00:18:28,439 Speaker 1: I see. So like, if you're going to have to 459 00:18:28,440 --> 00:18:31,719 Speaker 1: manage the babysitter, then what's the point I may as 460 00:18:31,720 --> 00:18:34,160 Speaker 1: well just do it myself exactly. 461 00:18:34,280 --> 00:18:37,359 Speaker 9: Yeah, And I don't need somebody nagging at me. Like 462 00:18:37,400 --> 00:18:39,359 Speaker 9: I said, I appreciate my mom and she helps me. 463 00:18:39,440 --> 00:18:42,400 Speaker 9: But the same thing, I'm sure it's nice to just know, like, hey, 464 00:18:42,440 --> 00:18:44,560 Speaker 9: I could call a babysitter and be like can you 465 00:18:44,600 --> 00:18:47,400 Speaker 9: come over, versus maybe you have to arrange things more 466 00:18:47,440 --> 00:18:50,280 Speaker 9: with the mother in law or mother in law gives 467 00:18:50,320 --> 00:18:53,119 Speaker 9: her opinion, like she was saying, and maybe you just 468 00:18:53,200 --> 00:18:54,400 Speaker 9: don't want to hear it all the time. 469 00:18:54,560 --> 00:18:56,399 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I get it. Thank you, Taylor. 470 00:18:57,440 --> 00:18:58,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, thanks ever going too. 471 00:18:59,680 --> 00:19:00,199 Speaker 1: I use this. 472 00:19:00,280 --> 00:19:03,920 Speaker 2: Example all the time. But I have a friend. He works, 473 00:19:03,960 --> 00:19:07,280 Speaker 2: He's high paying job, is very successful. His wife put 474 00:19:07,320 --> 00:19:10,640 Speaker 2: her career on the back burner to stay at home 475 00:19:10,680 --> 00:19:13,399 Speaker 2: and take care of their kids, but once a month 476 00:19:13,560 --> 00:19:16,879 Speaker 2: she goes out and does her job. I'm trying to 477 00:19:16,960 --> 00:19:18,960 Speaker 2: keep this vague because I don't know that they want 478 00:19:18,960 --> 00:19:19,680 Speaker 2: me to share their story. 479 00:19:19,720 --> 00:19:21,760 Speaker 1: But and they lose money on that. 480 00:19:21,880 --> 00:19:23,840 Speaker 2: Like he could be out working and making more, but 481 00:19:23,880 --> 00:19:26,160 Speaker 2: he stays home and watches the kids so she can 482 00:19:26,200 --> 00:19:29,280 Speaker 2: go off and do her gig. And it's because she 483 00:19:29,320 --> 00:19:31,200 Speaker 2: now gets to go out, and because she wants to, 484 00:19:31,520 --> 00:19:34,960 Speaker 2: like she wants the separation, loves her kids, but now 485 00:19:35,000 --> 00:19:37,800 Speaker 2: she gets to go out and be around adults and 486 00:19:37,880 --> 00:19:40,240 Speaker 2: have another purpose other than being a mom and whatever. 487 00:19:40,359 --> 00:19:42,200 Speaker 2: And it would be very easy to say, why don't 488 00:19:42,240 --> 00:19:44,399 Speaker 2: you just quit your job entirely because I make a 489 00:19:44,400 --> 00:19:46,080 Speaker 2: lot more money when i'm working than you do. 490 00:19:46,280 --> 00:19:47,200 Speaker 1: But that's not the point. 491 00:19:47,240 --> 00:19:49,680 Speaker 2: The point is we can lose money on this because 492 00:19:49,680 --> 00:19:52,040 Speaker 2: it gives you a sense and identity other than being 493 00:19:52,040 --> 00:19:54,640 Speaker 2: a mom, and that works for them, And it makes 494 00:19:54,640 --> 00:19:56,720 Speaker 2: a lot of sense. Now, Jay, you bring up a 495 00:19:56,760 --> 00:19:57,160 Speaker 2: good point. 496 00:19:57,280 --> 00:20:00,760 Speaker 1: Hi Jay, Hey, how you doing it? Hey? Man? Say 497 00:20:01,240 --> 00:20:02,879 Speaker 1: you say it? Say your piece? 498 00:20:04,240 --> 00:20:06,920 Speaker 7: So my piece is this? 499 00:20:07,240 --> 00:20:09,280 Speaker 13: First off, finally got on the phone for the first time. 500 00:20:09,280 --> 00:20:12,000 Speaker 1: They see you guys forever. Thank you guys. 501 00:20:12,280 --> 00:20:14,240 Speaker 13: Uh here's the thing, Like everyone's talking about mom. I 502 00:20:14,280 --> 00:20:16,160 Speaker 13: get I grew up with a single mother with three kids. 503 00:20:16,840 --> 00:20:19,680 Speaker 13: My mom was a single mom. Uh, I gave the 504 00:20:19,760 --> 00:20:22,520 Speaker 13: mom needs a break, but no one's talking about dad. 505 00:20:22,600 --> 00:20:25,080 Speaker 13: You know, how about dad happiness? Dad needs a break? 506 00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:27,200 Speaker 13: H You know, the mother in law said that he's 507 00:20:27,240 --> 00:20:29,800 Speaker 13: working a lot, he's working hard. You know, he comes home. 508 00:20:29,880 --> 00:20:31,760 Speaker 13: I mean, I'm appreciate he spend time with his you know, 509 00:20:31,800 --> 00:20:34,680 Speaker 13: with family and his kids. You know, man with sacrifice 510 00:20:34,720 --> 00:20:36,879 Speaker 13: happiness to make a family happy. 511 00:20:37,040 --> 00:20:38,920 Speaker 1: So when when when does his dad get to break? 512 00:20:39,359 --> 00:20:39,720 Speaker 4: Mm hmm. 513 00:20:40,400 --> 00:20:43,879 Speaker 2: Interesting, Well we didn't we haven't really covered that. I 514 00:20:43,880 --> 00:20:46,040 Speaker 2: guess what we've covered is the fact that he's mad 515 00:20:46,240 --> 00:20:48,840 Speaker 2: that she's asking for help publicly, right, I mean, it's 516 00:20:48,880 --> 00:20:51,480 Speaker 2: almost like this, this mom is getting ganged up on 517 00:20:51,640 --> 00:20:55,320 Speaker 2: by both her husband and her husband's mom. So no, 518 00:20:55,400 --> 00:20:57,480 Speaker 2: I don't sure for sure, because I don't know what 519 00:20:57,520 --> 00:20:58,360 Speaker 2: this guy doesn't. 520 00:20:58,680 --> 00:21:01,720 Speaker 10: His stance was, if you want more childcare, then you 521 00:21:01,800 --> 00:21:02,960 Speaker 10: can work, go to work. 522 00:21:02,960 --> 00:21:04,160 Speaker 4: He told his wife go to work. 523 00:21:04,280 --> 00:21:07,480 Speaker 1: So you know, yeah, right right right. 524 00:21:07,840 --> 00:21:11,000 Speaker 13: I agree with mom, mom. They need the time alone, 525 00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:13,399 Speaker 13: you know, for to enjoy your life whatever. I mean, 526 00:21:13,480 --> 00:21:15,879 Speaker 13: me and a mom, for sure, it's tough. I mean, uh, 527 00:21:16,359 --> 00:21:19,120 Speaker 13: but maybe the husband and wife need to hire mom 528 00:21:19,160 --> 00:21:21,080 Speaker 13: as a sitter so they go spend time together. 529 00:21:21,720 --> 00:21:24,119 Speaker 2: I mean to hire somebody else because I don't That 530 00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:27,000 Speaker 2: sounds like a lot of negativity, A lot of negativity. 531 00:21:27,320 --> 00:21:29,680 Speaker 3: I don't know my mother in law anymore, a. 532 00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:33,520 Speaker 2: Lot of judgmental activities. Yeah, Jay, thank you, have a 533 00:21:33,520 --> 00:21:36,720 Speaker 2: good day. And I mean dad does deserve a break? 534 00:21:36,720 --> 00:21:37,359 Speaker 1: We don't. I don't know. 535 00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:40,040 Speaker 4: I don't see on Facebook. Also, I don't understand is 536 00:21:40,080 --> 00:21:41,080 Speaker 4: he break. 537 00:21:41,160 --> 00:21:42,679 Speaker 2: I don't know that he does and doesn't get one. 538 00:21:42,880 --> 00:21:44,480 Speaker 2: I guess they don't have any information. 539 00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:48,359 Speaker 4: About he didn't call DA call us. 540 00:21:49,440 --> 00:21:52,760 Speaker 1: Hey, Michelle, you have the same mother in law? Huh? 541 00:21:52,840 --> 00:21:53,320 Speaker 4: I do? 542 00:21:54,520 --> 00:21:57,080 Speaker 1: Okay, guy, good morning, tell me your story. 543 00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:02,119 Speaker 7: Yeah, so anytime if I hosts anything on Facebook, my 544 00:22:02,200 --> 00:22:06,879 Speaker 7: mother in law always has an opinion about everything, especially 545 00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:12,760 Speaker 7: my kids, and it drives me nuts. She is, she's 546 00:22:12,880 --> 00:22:14,840 Speaker 7: very helpful with everything else, but when it comes to 547 00:22:14,880 --> 00:22:17,639 Speaker 7: my kids, she drives me nuts. And I was a 548 00:22:17,680 --> 00:22:20,960 Speaker 7: stay at home mom with my son, and then I 549 00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:23,200 Speaker 7: have my daughter, and now I work at a daycare. 550 00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:26,800 Speaker 7: So but yeah, I have a job now and I 551 00:22:26,800 --> 00:22:28,360 Speaker 7: wasn't say at home mom, so I feel her. 552 00:22:30,400 --> 00:22:31,199 Speaker 4: She's not wrong. 553 00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:33,520 Speaker 1: But why is Facebook the venue? 554 00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:33,880 Speaker 4: Do you think? 555 00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:35,720 Speaker 1: Because it just I guess you kind of open yourself 556 00:22:35,800 --> 00:22:36,440 Speaker 1: up for that a. 557 00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:40,560 Speaker 7: Little bit, and I've learned no, and I've learned not 558 00:22:40,600 --> 00:22:44,040 Speaker 7: to do that anymore, just because I don't want everyone's opinion. 559 00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:46,480 Speaker 7: But I think it's just like a like a like 560 00:22:46,560 --> 00:22:47,480 Speaker 7: a venting kind. 561 00:22:47,359 --> 00:22:48,080 Speaker 4: Of thing that you do. 562 00:22:48,840 --> 00:22:51,600 Speaker 7: So that's pretty much I guess why I would do it, 563 00:22:51,640 --> 00:22:53,800 Speaker 7: but I don't do it anymore for that exact reason. 564 00:22:54,000 --> 00:22:55,719 Speaker 1: Just man, just a block her. 565 00:22:56,840 --> 00:22:57,280 Speaker 4: Did you get? 566 00:22:58,840 --> 00:23:02,240 Speaker 10: I was asking did you because of all the judgmentalness 567 00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:03,080 Speaker 10: from the mother in law? 568 00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:03,240 Speaker 2: Like? 569 00:23:03,359 --> 00:23:04,440 Speaker 4: Is that what made you go to work? 570 00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:09,000 Speaker 7: I wanted my own money. I'm tired of asking my 571 00:23:09,080 --> 00:23:11,000 Speaker 7: I was tired of asking my husband for money. But 572 00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:14,119 Speaker 7: I also got a job because I was tired of 573 00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:15,919 Speaker 7: being at home all the time and only talking to 574 00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:16,480 Speaker 7: a toddler. 575 00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:19,800 Speaker 1: Yeah that's really yeah, yeah it makes sense. So yeah, 576 00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:20,800 Speaker 1: thank you Michelle. 577 00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:22,840 Speaker 7: Thanks guys, have a good day. 578 00:23:23,680 --> 00:23:25,479 Speaker 4: Your mother in law, by the way, is it Taysia. 579 00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:28,480 Speaker 1: Is that how you say your name? Yes, it's Tasia 580 00:23:28,640 --> 00:23:30,320 Speaker 1: Hi Tayja Kiki's court. 581 00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:33,400 Speaker 2: So basically to battle between daughter and mother in law 582 00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:36,680 Speaker 2: because daughter posted on Facebook that she wants a little 583 00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:38,439 Speaker 2: bit of free time away from being a stay at 584 00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:40,600 Speaker 2: home mom, and mother in law's got a problem with 585 00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:44,119 Speaker 2: that because mother in law apparently never got a moment alone. 586 00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:46,760 Speaker 5: Yeah, I feel like it's a sign of the times 587 00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:50,480 Speaker 5: and if everything has to be a convenience these days, 588 00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:53,720 Speaker 5: and it's not all about that. People have them much 589 00:23:53,840 --> 00:23:57,480 Speaker 5: much harder than she does, including myself. So to have 590 00:23:57,960 --> 00:24:00,720 Speaker 5: like to be at home with Wankie, that'd be like 591 00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:01,480 Speaker 5: a breath of fresher. 592 00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:05,480 Speaker 4: I have four children, and I'll put that well, they. 593 00:24:05,359 --> 00:24:08,000 Speaker 5: Were in four different schools, but it was actually at 594 00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:11,120 Speaker 5: one point six different schools were not remmuting them too, 595 00:24:11,760 --> 00:24:13,960 Speaker 5: because they're all four years aparts. I had one in 596 00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:17,239 Speaker 5: high school to in grammar school, one in daycare, and 597 00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:20,720 Speaker 5: then one of my kids that was in high school 598 00:24:20,800 --> 00:24:23,520 Speaker 5: also be at the dual enrollment where they went college 599 00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:27,000 Speaker 5: as well. And so it was just five and a 600 00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:30,400 Speaker 5: half hours of commuting every day on top of work 601 00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:33,200 Speaker 5: in eighty hours a week. And this is me myself 602 00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:34,920 Speaker 5: doing all day now. 603 00:24:35,040 --> 00:24:37,119 Speaker 2: But let me ask you this, does that mean that 604 00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:41,080 Speaker 2: this mom or that you don't deserve a little bit 605 00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:44,159 Speaker 2: of a break just because just because you have a 606 00:24:44,160 --> 00:24:45,879 Speaker 2: little bit of a struggle to find it. You know what, 607 00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:48,399 Speaker 2: I mean, like, I hear what you're saying, but and 608 00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:50,320 Speaker 2: you're coming at it from your perspective, and it sounds 609 00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:51,840 Speaker 2: like your hands are full and you're doing the very 610 00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:54,400 Speaker 2: best you can, which is admirable. But like, I don't 611 00:24:54,440 --> 00:24:56,560 Speaker 2: think this mother is saying she doesn't want to be 612 00:24:56,600 --> 00:24:58,640 Speaker 2: a mom or doesn't want to do this the same 613 00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:00,719 Speaker 2: way you're not saying that, and that you're making all 614 00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:03,560 Speaker 2: these sacrifices. I think what she's saying is she wants 615 00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:05,639 Speaker 2: to break. And Tajia, if you could have one, wouldn't 616 00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:06,200 Speaker 2: you take it? 617 00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:06,800 Speaker 8: Oh? 618 00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:07,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, for sure? 619 00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:10,159 Speaker 5: And you know everybody deserves to break. But sometimes the 620 00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:12,320 Speaker 5: only breaks come when you're sleep, if you get a 621 00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:14,600 Speaker 5: chance to sleep. Even when I go to the bathroom, 622 00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:16,639 Speaker 5: I don't get a moment from myself. I tell them 623 00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:18,119 Speaker 5: all the time, myself, why does it turn into a 624 00:25:18,119 --> 00:25:19,679 Speaker 5: family redunion? Every time I want. 625 00:25:19,520 --> 00:25:19,760 Speaker 1: To go to. 626 00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:23,960 Speaker 5: Everybody wants to talk about this or ask you. I'm like, 627 00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:25,320 Speaker 5: can I get two seconds? 628 00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:25,720 Speaker 1: Let me. 629 00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:29,120 Speaker 4: Right? 630 00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:31,320 Speaker 2: No, I get it to me though it sounds and 631 00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:33,439 Speaker 2: I wish that you did have that opportunity, But it 632 00:25:33,480 --> 00:25:37,199 Speaker 2: does sound like mom is it's like it's it's oh, 633 00:25:37,240 --> 00:25:39,600 Speaker 2: I had to walk to school in the snow uphill 634 00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:43,480 Speaker 2: both ways associated you and it's like, but maybe you 635 00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:46,520 Speaker 2: don't want that for your kids because you had to 636 00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:47,680 Speaker 2: do it kind of thing. 637 00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:50,439 Speaker 5: Right, and it's kind of like you have to, you know, 638 00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:53,639 Speaker 5: just appreciate what you have and understand that there's so 639 00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:55,359 Speaker 5: many people that wish they could be in your shoes. 640 00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:58,840 Speaker 5: And then my children, they have no grandparents, your grandparents 641 00:25:58,880 --> 00:26:01,600 Speaker 5: all four have passed, so I have nobody to say, hey, 642 00:26:01,680 --> 00:26:04,000 Speaker 5: Grandma's house this weekend, or I can't. 643 00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:08,080 Speaker 2: I really are Yeah you supermum hanging there, Thank you, 644 00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:11,919 Speaker 2: thank you, glad you called. 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