WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Restrained From Love

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking Jewels. Second date update. The girl on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>for a second date update. Today met the guy that

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<v Speaker 1>she wants to call at a place where I've actually

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<v Speaker 1>met a lot of women, the golf course. You have

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<v Speaker 1>like you've hit on women at the golf course. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I just kind of hang out and hide behind the

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<v Speaker 1>wind meal, the giant wind meal, and then when they

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<v Speaker 1>come up to retrieve their ball, I just pop out

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<v Speaker 1>from biden. I'm like, hey, what's your name? Coming to

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<v Speaker 1>golf course often? Why are you running away? Where are

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<v Speaker 1>you going? Where are you going? I just wanted to talk.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not getting your ball back until we talk. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a really scared eight year old you just chased out.

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<v Speaker 1>Never never very successful for me, but apparently it was

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<v Speaker 1>successful for the guy that she wants to call today. Hannah,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you good? How are you doing good? So

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<v Speaker 1>you met the dude you want to call today at

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<v Speaker 1>the golf course? Huh Yeah. We were at the driving range,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, I hit grat the new clubs, so

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to try him out. But I thought that

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<v Speaker 1>this guy herek is his name, and he was so cute.

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<v Speaker 1>I was to playing it a little quite like I

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<v Speaker 1>was having some issues. You know, wait, wait, wait wait,

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<v Speaker 1>you played the dumb girl, I don't know what to

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<v Speaker 1>do with my clubs. No, not necessarily dumb girl, but

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<v Speaker 1>I was more so playing it off like these are

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<v Speaker 1>new clubs, Like, maybe do you want to show me

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<v Speaker 1>how to use them? Because I really really wanted him

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<v Speaker 1>to help me. Yeah, excuse me, sir, would you mind

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<v Speaker 1>helping lady out with her golf clubs? I can't possibly

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<v Speaker 1>seem to swing these big, heavy things, but you got

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<v Speaker 1>those big hands and those big arms. Maybe you could

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<v Speaker 1>wrap them around me and show me how to work

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<v Speaker 1>one of these golf clubs. Yeah, exactly, didn't. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it obviously worked well, not exactly. He came over and

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<v Speaker 1>he helped me out because he worked at the golf course, right,

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<v Speaker 1>so he was obviously busy. Yeah, he was busy doing

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<v Speaker 1>other things, and he helped me for a little bit,

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<v Speaker 1>but then he kind of left me alone and when

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<v Speaker 1>he did his own thing. Okay, so he was an employee.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought you were just hitting on a random guy

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<v Speaker 1>then too, like he had he was paid to help you. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's frustrating. Then when you're like I'm gonna flirt with

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<v Speaker 1>this dude, and he just comes up and he's like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>those clubs are on sale. Those clubs, I would recommend

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<v Speaker 1>those for you. I'll see you later, man, have a

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<v Speaker 1>good day. You're like, wait, wait, I wanted to flirt.

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<v Speaker 1>He's gone. So did you just end up being an

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<v Speaker 1>annoying customer at the driving range following this poor guy

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<v Speaker 1>around on his shift. Maybe a little bit, But it

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<v Speaker 1>ended up like working out in my favor because he

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<v Speaker 1>came back around, you know, after like forty five minutes

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<v Speaker 1>or so, once he wrapped up whatever he was doing

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<v Speaker 1>and he asked me out to dinner. Oh you waited

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<v Speaker 1>forty five minutes just standing there, right, Yeah, that's persistent though.

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<v Speaker 1>I like it. Yeah, it worked out so fast. Forward

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<v Speaker 1>to our dinner date. We show up at dinner and

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<v Speaker 1>he is so cute. He's all dressed up and being

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<v Speaker 1>very gentleman like. Okay, so very very gentleman like. He's

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<v Speaker 1>trying to impress you. This all sounds great. Yeah. So

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<v Speaker 1>at the beginning of the date I was thinking going

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<v Speaker 1>into it. And after I showed up and I saw

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<v Speaker 1>him how nice he looked, I thought this was going

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<v Speaker 1>to be a great date, Like this could possibly be

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<v Speaker 1>a really great date. Yes, it sounds like it wasn't though,

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<v Speaker 1>because you keep saying it could be. Yeah. I thought

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<v Speaker 1>it was gonna be Yeah. Unfortunately it just did not

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<v Speaker 1>go at all how I had hoped. What happened? What

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<v Speaker 1>was so bad about it? Well, we sat down and

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<v Speaker 1>we ordered drinks, and before like we even ordered dinner,

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<v Speaker 1>he said I have to go grab something out of

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<v Speaker 1>my car, and then he said he'd be right back.

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<v Speaker 1>And this is where it gets really bizarre. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>the drinks came. I kind of said, thaw my cocktail,

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<v Speaker 1>but I waited and I waited, and he never came back.

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<v Speaker 1>He like, he ditched you in the middle of the date.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't even end the middle of the date. It

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<v Speaker 1>was right at the beginning of the date. He did drinks.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand how people can do that to other people.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you at least drink his cocktail too, to try

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<v Speaker 1>to numb the pain? I wanted to, but no I didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I was actually just so bummed because I didn't even

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<v Speaker 1>know why or what happened, because I thought the date

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<v Speaker 1>was going to be so great and then he just

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<v Speaker 1>literally left. How long did you wait? I waited about

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<v Speaker 1>what I would say, twenty five minutes. Oh yeah. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean once you get to fifty minute point, you're thinking

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<v Speaker 1>they're gone, and then by about thirty minutes you know

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<v Speaker 1>that they left you. Like, at first, I thought it

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<v Speaker 1>was weird after even ten minutes of it, but I

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<v Speaker 1>just continue to sit there. You know, I didn't really

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<v Speaker 1>know what he's doing, but he just never came back.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, what was going through your head? A lot

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<v Speaker 1>of things. Maybe he like was smoking a figarette or

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. But then after, like I said that

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<v Speaker 1>ten minute point, I just started to get really bummed

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<v Speaker 1>out because I kind of got that embarrassed healing, like

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<v Speaker 1>is this really happening to me? So? Did you actually

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<v Speaker 1>eat food at the restaurant or did you cash out

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<v Speaker 1>and go? No? I cashed out and went, and I

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<v Speaker 1>actually had to pay for the drinks too, which wasn't fair.

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<v Speaker 1>Why do you think he would do that to you?

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<v Speaker 1>I honestly don't know. I thought things were going so

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<v Speaker 1>great and we had great conversation for the first couple

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<v Speaker 1>of minutes we were there, but then he just ditched.

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<v Speaker 1>So I have no idea. That's why I called you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you text him while you're waiting at the table, like, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>what happened? Where are you? I didn't text him within

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<v Speaker 1>the first ten minutes, but then, you know, after that,

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<v Speaker 1>I just shot him with text because I started thinking, gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>what if he passed out or something? Right, So I

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<v Speaker 1>cased him and I said, are you okay? And he

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<v Speaker 1>never responded after that, but I pissed. I'm like, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>pissed for you. I don't think people should disrespect each

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<v Speaker 1>other in that way. I'm really pissed off about it,

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<v Speaker 1>but I think it more so, I'm just like really

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<v Speaker 1>plunged out that it still happened that way, because I

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<v Speaker 1>thought he was a great guy, you know. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>he obviously liked you because he came and asked for

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<v Speaker 1>your number, that's what you said, right, Yeah, and he

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<v Speaker 1>asked me on the date. I didn't initiate that he did.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Well, we'll play a song, come back, call

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<v Speaker 1>him and figure out why he dits to you. In

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<v Speaker 1>your second day update, Okay, okay, thank you, Okay, looking

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<v Speaker 1>jubil in the morning if you're just joining us for

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<v Speaker 1>today's second date update. Hannah is on the phone and

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<v Speaker 1>she wants to call a guy named Derek. Now, before

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<v Speaker 1>we make the phone call and find out what went

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<v Speaker 1>wrong on their date, I think it's time for a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit of positivity training for Hannah. Hannah, I want

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<v Speaker 1>to help you be more positive about something. Okay, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So your date left you, like a couple minutes into

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<v Speaker 1>the date. As soon as you guys sat down, ordered

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<v Speaker 1>something to drink. He said he had to go to

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<v Speaker 1>his car and then took off, and you haven't heard

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<v Speaker 1>from him, right, right, exactly. Positivity is all about switching

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<v Speaker 1>your focus. Okay. Instead of saying that you got ditched,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna say you're just a master at speed dating

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<v Speaker 1>and that was a very good speed date that you

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<v Speaker 1>went on. So yeah, so that's what it was. You

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<v Speaker 1>didn't get ditched, You're just good at speed dating. That's all.

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<v Speaker 1>Feel better already. I'm glad I could help it. I

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<v Speaker 1>do want to know why are you even giving this

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<v Speaker 1>guy any more energy? I mean, he's obviously a jerk

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<v Speaker 1>to leave someone that soon into a date. I really

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<v Speaker 1>just want to know what happened, like why he left,

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<v Speaker 1>what his reason is. Not that I want to give

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<v Speaker 1>him another chance, I just want to know why the

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<v Speaker 1>hell he walked out on me. If he has a

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<v Speaker 1>really good explanation, will you give him a second chance?

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<v Speaker 1>Or is it just strictly that you want to find

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<v Speaker 1>out now? Right now, I'm leaning more towards no, because

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<v Speaker 1>he could have reached out to me this past week,

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<v Speaker 1>texted me if something serious happened. So it's going to

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<v Speaker 1>have to be a really really good excuse for me

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<v Speaker 1>to give him another chance. Maybe he was kidnapped and

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<v Speaker 1>we're actually going to talk to the people holding him

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<v Speaker 1>hostage right now. That would be something. Yeah, not even

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<v Speaker 1>that would be a good excuse, So that'd be something.

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<v Speaker 1>All Right, I'm gonna dial his phone of her right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go, Thank you. Hello, Hi, I was looking

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<v Speaker 1>for Derek. Yeah, Hey, what's up, Derek? How are you?

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<v Speaker 1>This is Jewel from Brooke and Jewil in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>What this is Jewel from Brooke and Jewil in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>That hell's Jewel. That's me. That's my name. I host

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<v Speaker 1>a radio show. It's called Brooke and Jewil in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm assuming you've never heard of it. No, okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>the reason I'm calling you today is one of our

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<v Speaker 1>listeners actually asked us to get a hold of you. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>why because you recently went on a date with her

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<v Speaker 1>and actually ended up ditching her without an explanation. So

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<v Speaker 1>she was hoping maybe we could get you on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and find out why you left. You obviously know

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<v Speaker 1>who we're talking about. We're talking about Hannah Yep. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>She told us that she met you at a driving

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<v Speaker 1>range and then she said that you guys went out

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<v Speaker 1>to dinner and once you sat down, you said that

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<v Speaker 1>you had to run to the car to get something,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's the last she ever heard of you. Is

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<v Speaker 1>that accurate? Yeah, it is, it is. I just can

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<v Speaker 1>you can you just tell us why she's curious? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>imagine how you would Phil, if you were on a

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<v Speaker 1>date and someone just ghost right away after you sat down,

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't you at least wonder why? Look? I didn't, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't mean to ditch her. I just panicked. Why would

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<v Speaker 1>you panic? What would you panic about? I saw my

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<v Speaker 1>ex at a table like right next to us, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and that was after we already ordered drinks and everything.

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<v Speaker 1>We had already gotten there and we sat down. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>But just seeing your ex, I mean, that doesn't give

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<v Speaker 1>you any grounds to just ditch somebody, does it I

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<v Speaker 1>had to leave. Are you obviously not over your ex?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that the issue? Oh, you don't get it. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't get it. That's why you're right. I don't get

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<v Speaker 1>it at all. Listen. I didn't want to tell her

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<v Speaker 1>my ex has a restraining order against me? What what? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>So you legally had to leave, not just you wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to leave? Oh day? Yeah, like if I had been

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<v Speaker 1>there another five minutes, you know, if she would have

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<v Speaker 1>called the cops, that would have had to do with that. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>what did you do to get a restraining order? I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't do anything. Of course you didn't. We had a

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<v Speaker 1>messy breakup. You know, she cheated, but then she said

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<v Speaker 1>that I cheated, which was not true. I did not cheat.

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<v Speaker 1>Then the week after she went outside her house her

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<v Speaker 1>car was on fire, and of course she thought it

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<v Speaker 1>was me. Her friends thought it was me. What so

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<v Speaker 1>was it you? I don't know, it wasn't me. So

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<v Speaker 1>she said that you set her car on fire. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she claims that that sounds crazy. The only reason that

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<v Speaker 1>she ended up getting a restraining order against me was

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<v Speaker 1>because the police placed me in the general vicinity. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>doing air quotes. You can't even see it. But you

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<v Speaker 1>were in the general vicinity when her car caught fire. Yeah, yees,

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<v Speaker 1>so it sounds really coincidental to me, Like, oh, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>her crazy X and we had a messy breakup and

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<v Speaker 1>now my car's on fire and you were around whatever

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<v Speaker 1>you want to judge me, I know what actually happened, Okay, okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>But even with that, Like, why wouldn't you just tell

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<v Speaker 1>her your date, Hannah, Like, hey, let's go somewhere else.

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<v Speaker 1>I just freaked out and left. But why not tell

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<v Speaker 1>her after the fact though? Shooter attacks to me like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>retraining order. Sorry, I mean, I don't know how you

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<v Speaker 1>would say it, but I want to tell her. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna lie to her, but but I'm not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>tell her like during our first day, Hey I got

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<v Speaker 1>this restraining order. Yeah. I mean, you still could have

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<v Speaker 1>explained something later on though, so she's not sitting there

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<v Speaker 1>wondering what's wrong with her and why you would leave. Actually, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I tried. I mean I paid the valley twenty bucks

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<v Speaker 1>to tell her. Okay, well I don't think the valet

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<v Speaker 1>told her. Yeah, you might want to go back and

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<v Speaker 1>get your twenty dollars. Yeah, because he never told her

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<v Speaker 1>at least I tried, that's true. Yes, but you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>try that, Like you must not feel that bad about ditching,

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<v Speaker 1>or you didn't call her, You didn't apologize, like at

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<v Speaker 1>least a sorry text. You didn't even have to explain yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, fine, I'll text her later today. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna say I'm sorry, and I don't know we'll

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<v Speaker 1>go from there. I guess, well why not? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>don't worry about texting her later. You can just tell

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<v Speaker 1>her right now because she's actually on the other line

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<v Speaker 1>listening and wants to talk to you. What. Yeah, Hannah, there,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know what to say. I don't blame you.

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<v Speaker 1>Why the hell is she here because she wanted us

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<v Speaker 1>to get a hold of you so she could talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you, because she's wondering why you weren't calling her back.

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<v Speaker 1>You answered this phone call, but you couldn't bother texting

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<v Speaker 1>me at all. I mean, you heard what I said, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know that the situation's messy. What would you have done?

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<v Speaker 1>I would have at least taken you with me when

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<v Speaker 1>we went out of the restaurant, not just completely ditched

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<v Speaker 1>me and then leave me with no explanation whatsoever for

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<v Speaker 1>a week. I mean, don't you think that's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>a jerk thing to do. It's not my fault that

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<v Speaker 1>there's a restraining order against me. You heard that. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't really know if it is your fault. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you were in the area where the car was on

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<v Speaker 1>by herself. Were you there? No, you weren't there. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I don't know for sure, because I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you're the one that walked out on our dates. So

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<v Speaker 1>that doesn't make you a really truthful guy as is. Look,

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<v Speaker 1>you're thinking about this all wrong. Look from my perspective,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't ditch you. I ditched my ex. Okay, we

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<v Speaker 1>used to. Didn't explain anything to the girl you're on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with, and you didn't take me with you.

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<v Speaker 1>You just getched the both of us technically, But Hannah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean be honest, Like if he would have told you, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>my ex is sitting there, I have a restraining order,

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<v Speaker 1>let's go to another bar. You're not gonna say okay

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<v Speaker 1>to that. Yeah, I mean you're right in that sense,

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<v Speaker 1>but at the same time, being truthful about it up

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<v Speaker 1>finn I would have appreciated more than just being completely

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<v Speaker 1>blown off and looked like an idiot at the restaurant

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<v Speaker 1>by myself. That was a high pressure situation, and I

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<v Speaker 1>think that I handled it better than most guys. You're right,

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<v Speaker 1>just running away from everything. That's how I handle problems too, Man,

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<v Speaker 1>don't worry about it. I'm just shocked. I really would

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<v Speaker 1>have appreciated a taxed your phone call afterwards. But Hannah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a legit excuse for leaving. You gotta give him

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<v Speaker 1>Matt And for the first couple of minutes we had

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<v Speaker 1>a great time. We ordered drinks and everything. It was awesome. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>if you forget about the ex girlfriend and the arts

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff, the date was awesome. Hey, Derek, would you

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<v Speaker 1>like to go out with Hannah again on a second date?

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<v Speaker 1>We'll pay for it now that she knows like everything

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<v Speaker 1>about me, and you know, if she's still willing to

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<v Speaker 1>go on a date, And yeah, I would. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you think, Hannah, I'm a guy that has

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<v Speaker 1>a restraining order out for arson and ditched me on

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<v Speaker 1>a date and then never texted me or called me back.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna have to say no. Yeah, shocking. You have

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<v Speaker 1>no idea what you're missing out on. I think she

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<v Speaker 1>does know what she's missing out on. Derek, Thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for being honest with us, Sorry about your situation. Whatever. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>he's gone, he's gone, Hannah. So the restraining order for

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<v Speaker 1>arson wasn't a good enough excuse to woo you back

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<v Speaker 1>into another date? Huh, definitely not. Okay, Well, I want

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<v Speaker 1>to let you know I do have a friend who

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<v Speaker 1>is arrested for grand larceny. If you're interested, I can

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<v Speaker 1>hook it up. If that sounds even more exciting yet. Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>So weird that a guy could ditch a girl on

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<v Speaker 1>a first date and then tell her that the reason

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<v Speaker 1>he ditched her was because his ex girlfriend was there,

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<v Speaker 1>and she has a restraining order because somehow her car

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<v Speaker 1>got lit on fire after they broke up, and she

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't go out with him again. I thought for sure

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<v Speaker 1>that was a love connection. In case you missed the

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<v Speaker 1>second date update, that's exactly what happened. Hannah wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>call a guy named Derek, mostly to get an explanation

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<v Speaker 1>on why he left, like right when they sat down

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<v Speaker 1>for dinner. We got him on the phone. He said

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<v Speaker 1>he left because his ex girlfriend was there. He has

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<v Speaker 1>a restraining order because after they broke up, somebody set

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<v Speaker 1>her car on fire. He says it wasn't him. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but he happened to be in the general vicinity. So

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<v Speaker 1>and he never said that it wasn't anyone he didn't know. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like, and I can't property. People are texting

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<v Speaker 1>in saying I believe him. Yeah, I know a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people were on the side. I don't know. If

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<v Speaker 1>I were going out with someone they ditched me, and

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<v Speaker 1>then I found out the reason they ditched me was

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<v Speaker 1>her straining order. For whatever reason, I probably wouldn't go off.

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<v Speaker 1>There's no benefit of the doubt on that one. Remember,

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to do a second day up, they

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<v Speaker 1>don't have to do his email the show, and we

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<v Speaker 1>will call the person who didn't call you back.