Speaker 1: Rooking Jewels. Second date update. The girl on the phone
Speaker 1: for a second date update. Today met the guy that
Speaker 1: she wants to call at a place where I've actually
Speaker 1: met a lot of women, the golf course. You have
Speaker 1: like you've hit on women at the golf course. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I just kind of hang out and hide behind the
Speaker 1: wind meal, the giant wind meal, and then when they
Speaker 1: come up to retrieve their ball, I just pop out
Speaker 1: from biden. I'm like, hey, what's your name? Coming to
Speaker 1: golf course often? Why are you running away? Where are
Speaker 1: you going? Where are you going? I just wanted to talk.
Speaker 1: You're not getting your ball back until we talk. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's a really scared eight year old you just chased out.
Speaker 1: Never never very successful for me, but apparently it was
Speaker 1: successful for the guy that she wants to call today. Hannah,
Speaker 1: how are you good? How are you doing good? So
Speaker 1: you met the dude you want to call today at
Speaker 1: the golf course? Huh Yeah. We were at the driving range,
Speaker 1: and you know, I hit grat the new clubs, so
Speaker 1: I wanted to try him out. But I thought that
Speaker 1: this guy herek is his name, and he was so cute.
Speaker 1: I was to playing it a little quite like I
Speaker 1: was having some issues. You know, wait, wait, wait wait,
Speaker 1: you played the dumb girl, I don't know what to
Speaker 1: do with my clubs. No, not necessarily dumb girl, but
Speaker 1: I was more so playing it off like these are
Speaker 1: new clubs, Like, maybe do you want to show me
Speaker 1: how to use them? Because I really really wanted him
Speaker 1: to help me. Yeah, excuse me, sir, would you mind
Speaker 1: helping lady out with her golf clubs? I can't possibly
Speaker 1: seem to swing these big, heavy things, but you got
Speaker 1: those big hands and those big arms. Maybe you could
Speaker 1: wrap them around me and show me how to work
Speaker 1: one of these golf clubs. Yeah, exactly, didn't. I mean
Speaker 1: it obviously worked well, not exactly. He came over and
Speaker 1: he helped me out because he worked at the golf course, right,
Speaker 1: so he was obviously busy. Yeah, he was busy doing
Speaker 1: other things, and he helped me for a little bit,
Speaker 1: but then he kind of left me alone and when
Speaker 1: he did his own thing. Okay, so he was an employee.
Speaker 1: I thought you were just hitting on a random guy
Speaker 1: then too, like he had he was paid to help you. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's frustrating. Then when you're like I'm gonna flirt with
Speaker 1: this dude, and he just comes up and he's like, yeah,
Speaker 1: those clubs are on sale. Those clubs, I would recommend
Speaker 1: those for you. I'll see you later, man, have a
Speaker 1: good day. You're like, wait, wait, I wanted to flirt.
Speaker 1: He's gone. So did you just end up being an
Speaker 1: annoying customer at the driving range following this poor guy
Speaker 1: around on his shift. Maybe a little bit, But it
Speaker 1: ended up like working out in my favor because he
Speaker 1: came back around, you know, after like forty five minutes
Speaker 1: or so, once he wrapped up whatever he was doing
Speaker 1: and he asked me out to dinner. Oh you waited
Speaker 1: forty five minutes just standing there, right, Yeah, that's persistent though.
Speaker 1: I like it. Yeah, it worked out so fast. Forward
Speaker 1: to our dinner date. We show up at dinner and
Speaker 1: he is so cute. He's all dressed up and being
Speaker 1: very gentleman like. Okay, so very very gentleman like. He's
Speaker 1: trying to impress you. This all sounds great. Yeah. So
Speaker 1: at the beginning of the date I was thinking going
Speaker 1: into it. And after I showed up and I saw
Speaker 1: him how nice he looked, I thought this was going
Speaker 1: to be a great date, Like this could possibly be
Speaker 1: a really great date. Yes, it sounds like it wasn't though,
Speaker 1: because you keep saying it could be. Yeah. I thought
Speaker 1: it was gonna be Yeah. Unfortunately it just did not
Speaker 1: go at all how I had hoped. What happened? What
Speaker 1: was so bad about it? Well, we sat down and
Speaker 1: we ordered drinks, and before like we even ordered dinner,
Speaker 1: he said I have to go grab something out of
Speaker 1: my car, and then he said he'd be right back.
Speaker 1: And this is where it gets really bizarre. All right,
Speaker 1: the drinks came. I kind of said, thaw my cocktail,
Speaker 1: but I waited and I waited, and he never came back.
Speaker 1: He like, he ditched you in the middle of the date.
Speaker 1: It wasn't even end the middle of the date. It
Speaker 1: was right at the beginning of the date. He did drinks.
Speaker 1: I don't understand how people can do that to other people.
Speaker 1: Did you at least drink his cocktail too, to try
Speaker 1: to numb the pain? I wanted to, but no I didn't.
Speaker 1: I was actually just so bummed because I didn't even
Speaker 1: know why or what happened, because I thought the date
Speaker 1: was going to be so great and then he just
Speaker 1: literally left. How long did you wait? I waited about
Speaker 1: what I would say, twenty five minutes. Oh yeah. I
Speaker 1: mean once you get to fifty minute point, you're thinking
Speaker 1: they're gone, and then by about thirty minutes you know
Speaker 1: that they left you. Like, at first, I thought it
Speaker 1: was weird after even ten minutes of it, but I
Speaker 1: just continue to sit there. You know, I didn't really
Speaker 1: know what he's doing, but he just never came back.
Speaker 1: I mean, what was going through your head? A lot
Speaker 1: of things. Maybe he like was smoking a figarette or
Speaker 1: I don't know. But then after, like I said that
Speaker 1: ten minute point, I just started to get really bummed
Speaker 1: out because I kind of got that embarrassed healing, like
Speaker 1: is this really happening to me? So? Did you actually
Speaker 1: eat food at the restaurant or did you cash out
Speaker 1: and go? No? I cashed out and went, and I
Speaker 1: actually had to pay for the drinks too, which wasn't fair.
Speaker 1: Why do you think he would do that to you?
Speaker 1: I honestly don't know. I thought things were going so
Speaker 1: great and we had great conversation for the first couple
Speaker 1: of minutes we were there, but then he just ditched.
Speaker 1: So I have no idea. That's why I called you guys.
Speaker 1: Did you text him while you're waiting at the table, like, Hey,
Speaker 1: what happened? Where are you? I didn't text him within
Speaker 1: the first ten minutes, but then, you know, after that,
Speaker 1: I just shot him with text because I started thinking, gosh,
Speaker 1: what if he passed out or something? Right, So I
Speaker 1: cased him and I said, are you okay? And he
Speaker 1: never responded after that, but I pissed. I'm like, I'm
Speaker 1: pissed for you. I don't think people should disrespect each
Speaker 1: other in that way. I'm really pissed off about it,
Speaker 1: but I think it more so, I'm just like really
Speaker 1: plunged out that it still happened that way, because I
Speaker 1: thought he was a great guy, you know. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: he obviously liked you because he came and asked for
Speaker 1: your number, that's what you said, right, Yeah, and he
Speaker 1: asked me on the date. I didn't initiate that he did.
Speaker 1: All right, Well, we'll play a song, come back, call
Speaker 1: him and figure out why he dits to you. In
Speaker 1: your second day update, Okay, okay, thank you, Okay, looking
Speaker 1: jubil in the morning if you're just joining us for
Speaker 1: today's second date update. Hannah is on the phone and
Speaker 1: she wants to call a guy named Derek. Now, before
Speaker 1: we make the phone call and find out what went
Speaker 1: wrong on their date, I think it's time for a
Speaker 1: little bit of positivity training for Hannah. Hannah, I want
Speaker 1: to help you be more positive about something. Okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: So your date left you, like a couple minutes into
Speaker 1: the date. As soon as you guys sat down, ordered
Speaker 1: something to drink. He said he had to go to
Speaker 1: his car and then took off, and you haven't heard
Speaker 1: from him, right, right, exactly. Positivity is all about switching
Speaker 1: your focus. Okay. Instead of saying that you got ditched,
Speaker 1: we're gonna say you're just a master at speed dating
Speaker 1: and that was a very good speed date that you
Speaker 1: went on. So yeah, so that's what it was. You
Speaker 1: didn't get ditched, You're just good at speed dating. That's all.
Speaker 1: Feel better already. I'm glad I could help it. I
Speaker 1: do want to know why are you even giving this
Speaker 1: guy any more energy? I mean, he's obviously a jerk
Speaker 1: to leave someone that soon into a date. I really
Speaker 1: just want to know what happened, like why he left,
Speaker 1: what his reason is. Not that I want to give
Speaker 1: him another chance, I just want to know why the
Speaker 1: hell he walked out on me. If he has a
Speaker 1: really good explanation, will you give him a second chance?
Speaker 1: Or is it just strictly that you want to find
Speaker 1: out now? Right now, I'm leaning more towards no, because
Speaker 1: he could have reached out to me this past week,
Speaker 1: texted me if something serious happened. So it's going to
Speaker 1: have to be a really really good excuse for me
Speaker 1: to give him another chance. Maybe he was kidnapped and
Speaker 1: we're actually going to talk to the people holding him
Speaker 1: hostage right now. That would be something. Yeah, not even
Speaker 1: that would be a good excuse, So that'd be something.
Speaker 1: All Right, I'm gonna dial his phone of her right now.
Speaker 1: Here we go, Thank you. Hello, Hi, I was looking
Speaker 1: for Derek. Yeah, Hey, what's up, Derek? How are you?
Speaker 1: This is Jewel from Brooke and Jewil in the Morning.
Speaker 1: What this is Jewel from Brooke and Jewil in the Morning.
Speaker 1: That hell's Jewel. That's me. That's my name. I host
Speaker 1: a radio show. It's called Brooke and Jewil in the Morning.
Speaker 1: I'm assuming you've never heard of it. No, okay, Well,
Speaker 1: the reason I'm calling you today is one of our
Speaker 1: listeners actually asked us to get a hold of you. Okay,
Speaker 1: why because you recently went on a date with her
Speaker 1: and actually ended up ditching her without an explanation. So
Speaker 1: she was hoping maybe we could get you on the
Speaker 1: phone and find out why you left. You obviously know
Speaker 1: who we're talking about. We're talking about Hannah Yep. Okay.
Speaker 1: She told us that she met you at a driving
Speaker 1: range and then she said that you guys went out
Speaker 1: to dinner and once you sat down, you said that
Speaker 1: you had to run to the car to get something,
Speaker 1: and that's the last she ever heard of you. Is
Speaker 1: that accurate? Yeah, it is, it is. I just can
Speaker 1: you can you just tell us why she's curious? I mean,
Speaker 1: imagine how you would Phil, if you were on a
Speaker 1: date and someone just ghost right away after you sat down,
Speaker 1: wouldn't you at least wonder why? Look? I didn't, I
Speaker 1: didn't mean to ditch her. I just panicked. Why would
Speaker 1: you panic? What would you panic about? I saw my
Speaker 1: ex at a table like right next to us, Okay,
Speaker 1: and that was after we already ordered drinks and everything.
Speaker 1: We had already gotten there and we sat down. Okay,
Speaker 1: But just seeing your ex, I mean, that doesn't give
Speaker 1: you any grounds to just ditch somebody, does it I
Speaker 1: had to leave. Are you obviously not over your ex?
Speaker 1: Is that the issue? Oh, you don't get it. You
Speaker 1: don't get it. That's why you're right. I don't get
Speaker 1: it at all. Listen. I didn't want to tell her
Speaker 1: my ex has a restraining order against me? What what? Oh?
Speaker 1: So you legally had to leave, not just you wanted
Speaker 1: to leave? Oh day? Yeah, like if I had been
Speaker 1: there another five minutes, you know, if she would have
Speaker 1: called the cops, that would have had to do with that. Wow,
Speaker 1: what did you do to get a restraining order? I
Speaker 1: didn't do anything. Of course you didn't. We had a
Speaker 1: messy breakup. You know, she cheated, but then she said
Speaker 1: that I cheated, which was not true. I did not cheat.
Speaker 1: Then the week after she went outside her house her
Speaker 1: car was on fire, and of course she thought it
Speaker 1: was me. Her friends thought it was me. What so
Speaker 1: was it you? I don't know, it wasn't me. So
Speaker 1: she said that you set her car on fire. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she claims that that sounds crazy. The only reason that
Speaker 1: she ended up getting a restraining order against me was
Speaker 1: because the police placed me in the general vicinity. I'm
Speaker 1: doing air quotes. You can't even see it. But you
Speaker 1: were in the general vicinity when her car caught fire. Yeah, yees,
Speaker 1: so it sounds really coincidental to me, Like, oh, I'm
Speaker 1: her crazy X and we had a messy breakup and
Speaker 1: now my car's on fire and you were around whatever
Speaker 1: you want to judge me, I know what actually happened, Okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 1: But even with that, Like, why wouldn't you just tell
Speaker 1: her your date, Hannah, Like, hey, let's go somewhere else.
Speaker 1: I just freaked out and left. But why not tell
Speaker 1: her after the fact though? Shooter attacks to me like, hey,
Speaker 1: retraining order. Sorry, I mean, I don't know how you
Speaker 1: would say it, but I want to tell her. I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna lie to her, but but I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: tell her like during our first day, Hey I got
Speaker 1: this restraining order. Yeah. I mean, you still could have
Speaker 1: explained something later on though, so she's not sitting there
Speaker 1: wondering what's wrong with her and why you would leave. Actually, yeah,
Speaker 1: I tried. I mean I paid the valley twenty bucks
Speaker 1: to tell her. Okay, well I don't think the valet
Speaker 1: told her. Yeah, you might want to go back and
Speaker 1: get your twenty dollars. Yeah, because he never told her
Speaker 1: at least I tried, that's true. Yes, but you didn't
Speaker 1: try that, Like you must not feel that bad about ditching,
Speaker 1: or you didn't call her, You didn't apologize, like at
Speaker 1: least a sorry text. You didn't even have to explain yourself.
Speaker 1: All right, fine, I'll text her later today. All right,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say I'm sorry, and I don't know we'll
Speaker 1: go from there. I guess, well why not? You know,
Speaker 1: don't worry about texting her later. You can just tell
Speaker 1: her right now because she's actually on the other line
Speaker 1: listening and wants to talk to you. What. Yeah, Hannah, there,
Speaker 1: I don't even know what to say. I don't blame you.
Speaker 1: Why the hell is she here because she wanted us
Speaker 1: to get a hold of you so she could talk
Speaker 1: to you, because she's wondering why you weren't calling her back.
Speaker 1: You answered this phone call, but you couldn't bother texting
Speaker 1: me at all. I mean, you heard what I said, Like,
Speaker 1: you know that the situation's messy. What would you have done?
Speaker 1: I would have at least taken you with me when
Speaker 1: we went out of the restaurant, not just completely ditched
Speaker 1: me and then leave me with no explanation whatsoever for
Speaker 1: a week. I mean, don't you think that's kind of
Speaker 1: a jerk thing to do. It's not my fault that
Speaker 1: there's a restraining order against me. You heard that. I
Speaker 1: don't really know if it is your fault. I mean,
Speaker 1: you were in the area where the car was on
Speaker 1: by herself. Were you there? No, you weren't there. You
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know for sure, because I mean,
Speaker 1: you're the one that walked out on our dates. So
Speaker 1: that doesn't make you a really truthful guy as is. Look,
Speaker 1: you're thinking about this all wrong. Look from my perspective,
Speaker 1: I didn't ditch you. I ditched my ex. Okay, we
Speaker 1: used to. Didn't explain anything to the girl you're on
Speaker 1: a date with, and you didn't take me with you.
Speaker 1: You just getched the both of us technically, But Hannah,
Speaker 1: I mean be honest, Like if he would have told you, Hey,
Speaker 1: my ex is sitting there, I have a restraining order,
Speaker 1: let's go to another bar. You're not gonna say okay
Speaker 1: to that. Yeah, I mean you're right in that sense,
Speaker 1: but at the same time, being truthful about it up
Speaker 1: finn I would have appreciated more than just being completely
Speaker 1: blown off and looked like an idiot at the restaurant
Speaker 1: by myself. That was a high pressure situation, and I
Speaker 1: think that I handled it better than most guys. You're right,
Speaker 1: just running away from everything. That's how I handle problems too, Man,
Speaker 1: don't worry about it. I'm just shocked. I really would
Speaker 1: have appreciated a taxed your phone call afterwards. But Hannah,
Speaker 1: it's a legit excuse for leaving. You gotta give him
Speaker 1: Matt And for the first couple of minutes we had
Speaker 1: a great time. We ordered drinks and everything. It was awesome. Yeah,
Speaker 1: if you forget about the ex girlfriend and the arts
Speaker 1: and stuff, the date was awesome. Hey, Derek, would you
Speaker 1: like to go out with Hannah again on a second date?
Speaker 1: We'll pay for it now that she knows like everything
Speaker 1: about me, and you know, if she's still willing to
Speaker 1: go on a date, And yeah, I would. All right,
Speaker 1: what do you think, Hannah, I'm a guy that has
Speaker 1: a restraining order out for arson and ditched me on
Speaker 1: a date and then never texted me or called me back.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to say no. Yeah, shocking. You have
Speaker 1: no idea what you're missing out on. I think she
Speaker 1: does know what she's missing out on. Derek, Thank you
Speaker 1: for being honest with us, Sorry about your situation. Whatever. Okay,
Speaker 1: he's gone, he's gone, Hannah. So the restraining order for
Speaker 1: arson wasn't a good enough excuse to woo you back
Speaker 1: into another date? Huh, definitely not. Okay, Well, I want
Speaker 1: to let you know I do have a friend who
Speaker 1: is arrested for grand larceny. If you're interested, I can
Speaker 1: hook it up. If that sounds even more exciting yet. Morning.
Speaker 1: So weird that a guy could ditch a girl on
Speaker 1: a first date and then tell her that the reason
Speaker 1: he ditched her was because his ex girlfriend was there,
Speaker 1: and she has a restraining order because somehow her car
Speaker 1: got lit on fire after they broke up, and she
Speaker 1: wouldn't go out with him again. I thought for sure
Speaker 1: that was a love connection. In case you missed the
Speaker 1: second date update, that's exactly what happened. Hannah wanted to
Speaker 1: call a guy named Derek, mostly to get an explanation
Speaker 1: on why he left, like right when they sat down
Speaker 1: for dinner. We got him on the phone. He said
Speaker 1: he left because his ex girlfriend was there. He has
Speaker 1: a restraining order because after they broke up, somebody set
Speaker 1: her car on fire. He says it wasn't him. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but he happened to be in the general vicinity. So
Speaker 1: and he never said that it wasn't anyone he didn't know. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, like, and I can't property. People are texting
Speaker 1: in saying I believe him. Yeah, I know a lot
Speaker 1: of people were on the side. I don't know. If
Speaker 1: I were going out with someone they ditched me, and
Speaker 1: then I found out the reason they ditched me was
Speaker 1: her straining order. For whatever reason, I probably wouldn't go off.
Speaker 1: There's no benefit of the doubt on that one. Remember,
Speaker 1: if you want to do a second day up, they
Speaker 1: don't have to do his email the show, and we
Speaker 1: will call the person who didn't call you back.