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Speaker 1: Rooking Jewels. Second date update. The girl on the phone

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Speaker 1: for a second date update. Today met the guy that

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Speaker 1: she wants to call at a place where I've actually

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Speaker 1: met a lot of women, the golf course. You have

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Speaker 1: like you've hit on women at the golf course. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I just kind of hang out and hide behind the

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Speaker 1: wind meal, the giant wind meal, and then when they

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Speaker 1: come up to retrieve their ball, I just pop out

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Speaker 1: from biden. I'm like, hey, what's your name? Coming to

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Speaker 1: golf course often? Why are you running away? Where are

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Speaker 1: you going? Where are you going? I just wanted to talk.

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Speaker 1: You're not getting your ball back until we talk. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's a really scared eight year old you just chased out.

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Speaker 1: Never never very successful for me, but apparently it was

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Speaker 1: successful for the guy that she wants to call today. Hannah,

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Speaker 1: how are you good? How are you doing good? So

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Speaker 1: you met the dude you want to call today at

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Speaker 1: the golf course? Huh Yeah. We were at the driving range,

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Speaker 1: and you know, I hit grat the new clubs, so

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Speaker 1: I wanted to try him out. But I thought that

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Speaker 1: this guy herek is his name, and he was so cute.

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Speaker 1: I was to playing it a little quite like I

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Speaker 1: was having some issues. You know, wait, wait, wait wait,

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Speaker 1: you played the dumb girl, I don't know what to

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Speaker 1: do with my clubs. No, not necessarily dumb girl, but

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Speaker 1: I was more so playing it off like these are

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Speaker 1: new clubs, Like, maybe do you want to show me

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Speaker 1: how to use them? Because I really really wanted him

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Speaker 1: to help me. Yeah, excuse me, sir, would you mind

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Speaker 1: helping lady out with her golf clubs? I can't possibly

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Speaker 1: seem to swing these big, heavy things, but you got

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Speaker 1: those big hands and those big arms. Maybe you could

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Speaker 1: wrap them around me and show me how to work

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Speaker 1: one of these golf clubs. Yeah, exactly, didn't. I mean

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Speaker 1: it obviously worked well, not exactly. He came over and

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Speaker 1: he helped me out because he worked at the golf course, right,

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Speaker 1: so he was obviously busy. Yeah, he was busy doing

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Speaker 1: other things, and he helped me for a little bit,

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Speaker 1: but then he kind of left me alone and when

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Speaker 1: he did his own thing. Okay, so he was an employee.

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Speaker 1: I thought you were just hitting on a random guy

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Speaker 1: then too, like he had he was paid to help you. Yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's frustrating. Then when you're like I'm gonna flirt with

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Speaker 1: this dude, and he just comes up and he's like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: those clubs are on sale. Those clubs, I would recommend

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Speaker 1: those for you. I'll see you later, man, have a

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Speaker 1: good day. You're like, wait, wait, I wanted to flirt.

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Speaker 1: He's gone. So did you just end up being an

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Speaker 1: annoying customer at the driving range following this poor guy

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Speaker 1: around on his shift. Maybe a little bit, But it

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Speaker 1: ended up like working out in my favor because he

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Speaker 1: came back around, you know, after like forty five minutes

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Speaker 1: or so, once he wrapped up whatever he was doing

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Speaker 1: and he asked me out to dinner. Oh you waited

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Speaker 1: forty five minutes just standing there, right, Yeah, that's persistent though.

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Speaker 1: I like it. Yeah, it worked out so fast. Forward

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Speaker 1: to our dinner date. We show up at dinner and

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Speaker 1: he is so cute. He's all dressed up and being

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Speaker 1: very gentleman like. Okay, so very very gentleman like. He's

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Speaker 1: trying to impress you. This all sounds great. Yeah. So

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Speaker 1: at the beginning of the date I was thinking going

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Speaker 1: to be a great date, Like this could possibly be

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Speaker 1: because you keep saying it could be. Yeah. I thought

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Speaker 1: go at all how I had hoped. What happened? What

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Speaker 1: was so bad about it? Well, we sat down and

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Speaker 1: we ordered drinks, and before like we even ordered dinner,

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Speaker 1: he said I have to go grab something out of

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Speaker 1: my car, and then he said he'd be right back.

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Speaker 1: And this is where it gets really bizarre. All right,

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Speaker 1: the drinks came. I kind of said, thaw my cocktail,

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Speaker 1: but I waited and I waited, and he never came back.

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Speaker 1: He like, he ditched you in the middle of the date.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't even end the middle of the date. It

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Speaker 1: was right at the beginning of the date. He did drinks.

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Speaker 1: I don't understand how people can do that to other people.

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Speaker 1: Did you at least drink his cocktail too, to try

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Speaker 1: to numb the pain? I wanted to, but no I didn't.

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Speaker 1: I was actually just so bummed because I didn't even

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Speaker 1: I mean, what was going through your head? A lot

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Speaker 1: of things. Maybe he like was smoking a figarette or

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Speaker 1: is this really happening to me? So? Did you actually

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Speaker 1: actually had to pay for the drinks too, which wasn't fair.

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Speaker 1: Why do you think he would do that to you?

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Speaker 1: I honestly don't know. I thought things were going so

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Speaker 1: great and we had great conversation for the first couple

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Speaker 1: So I have no idea. That's why I called you guys.

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Speaker 1: Did you text him while you're waiting at the table, like, Hey,

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Speaker 1: what happened? Where are you? I didn't text him within

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Speaker 1: I just shot him with text because I started thinking, gosh,

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Speaker 1: cased him and I said, are you okay? And he

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Speaker 1: pissed for you. I don't think people should disrespect each

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Speaker 1: but I think it more so, I'm just like really

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Speaker 1: your number, that's what you said, right, Yeah, and he

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, we'll play a song, come back, call

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Speaker 1: him and figure out why he dits to you. In

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Speaker 1: your second day update, Okay, okay, thank you, Okay, looking

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Speaker 1: jubil in the morning if you're just joining us for

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Speaker 1: today's second date update. Hannah is on the phone and

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Speaker 1: she wants to call a guy named Derek. Now, before

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Speaker 1: wrong on their date, I think it's time for a

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Speaker 1: little bit of positivity training for Hannah. Hannah, I want

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Speaker 1: to help you be more positive about something. Okay, Okay,

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Speaker 1: So your date left you, like a couple minutes into

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Speaker 1: the date. As soon as you guys sat down, ordered

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Speaker 1: something to drink. He said he had to go to

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Speaker 1: his car and then took off, and you haven't heard

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Speaker 1: from him, right, right, exactly. Positivity is all about switching

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Speaker 1: your focus. Okay. Instead of saying that you got ditched,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna say you're just a master at speed dating

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Speaker 1: and that was a very good speed date that you

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Speaker 1: went on. So yeah, so that's what it was. You

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Speaker 1: didn't get ditched, You're just good at speed dating. That's all.

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Speaker 1: Feel better already. I'm glad I could help it. I

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Speaker 1: do want to know why are you even giving this

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Speaker 1: to leave someone that soon into a date. I really

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Speaker 1: just want to know what happened, like why he left,

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Speaker 1: what his reason is. Not that I want to give

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Speaker 1: hell he walked out on me. If he has a

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Speaker 1: really good explanation, will you give him a second chance?

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Speaker 1: Or is it just strictly that you want to find

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Speaker 1: out now? Right now, I'm leaning more towards no, because

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Speaker 1: he could have reached out to me this past week,

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Speaker 1: texted me if something serious happened. So it's going to

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Speaker 1: have to be a really really good excuse for me

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Speaker 1: to give him another chance. Maybe he was kidnapped and

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Speaker 1: we're actually going to talk to the people holding him

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Speaker 1: hostage right now. That would be something. Yeah, not even

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Speaker 1: that would be a good excuse, So that'd be something.

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Speaker 1: All Right, I'm gonna dial his phone of her right now.

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Speaker 1: Here we go, Thank you. Hello, Hi, I was looking

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Speaker 1: for Derek. Yeah, Hey, what's up, Derek? How are you?

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Speaker 1: This is Jewel from Brooke and Jewil in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: What this is Jewel from Brooke and Jewil in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: That hell's Jewel. That's me. That's my name. I host

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Speaker 1: a radio show. It's called Brooke and Jewil in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: I'm assuming you've never heard of it. No, okay, Well,

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Speaker 1: the reason I'm calling you today is one of our

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Speaker 1: listeners actually asked us to get a hold of you. Okay,

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Speaker 1: why because you recently went on a date with her

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Speaker 1: and actually ended up ditching her without an explanation. So

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Speaker 1: she was hoping maybe we could get you on the

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Speaker 1: who we're talking about. We're talking about Hannah Yep. Okay.

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Speaker 1: She told us that she met you at a driving

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Speaker 1: that accurate? Yeah, it is, it is. I just can

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Speaker 1: imagine how you would Phil, if you were on a

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Speaker 1: wouldn't you at least wonder why? Look? I didn't, I

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Speaker 1: didn't mean to ditch her. I just panicked. Why would

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Speaker 1: you panic? What would you panic about? I saw my

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Speaker 1: and that was after we already ordered drinks and everything.

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Speaker 1: We had already gotten there and we sat down. Okay,

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Speaker 1: But just seeing your ex, I mean, that doesn't give

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Speaker 1: had to leave. Are you obviously not over your ex?

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Speaker 1: Is that the issue? Oh, you don't get it. You

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Speaker 1: don't get it. That's why you're right. I don't get

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Speaker 1: it at all. Listen. I didn't want to tell her

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Speaker 1: my ex has a restraining order against me? What what? Oh?

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Speaker 1: So you legally had to leave, not just you wanted

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Speaker 1: to leave? Oh day? Yeah, like if I had been

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Speaker 1: called the cops, that would have had to do with that. Wow,

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Speaker 1: what did you do to get a restraining order? I

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Speaker 1: didn't do anything. Of course you didn't. We had a

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Speaker 1: Then the week after she went outside her house her

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Speaker 1: was it you? I don't know, it wasn't me. So

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Speaker 1: she claims that that sounds crazy. The only reason that

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Speaker 1: you want to judge me, I know what actually happened, Okay, okay, okay.

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Speaker 1: But even with that, Like, why wouldn't you just tell

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Speaker 1: I tried. I mean I paid the valley twenty bucks

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Speaker 1: I don't even know what to say. I don't blame you.

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Speaker 1: there's a restraining order against me. You heard that. I

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Speaker 1: don't really know if it is your fault. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I didn't ditch you. I ditched my ex. Okay, we

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Speaker 1: You just getched the both of us technically, But Hannah,

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Speaker 1: We'll pay for it now that she knows like everything

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