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Speaker 2: Second date Updates.
Speaker 5: We have a listener who sent us an email asking
Speaker 5: for a second date. And these are her words. She said,
Speaker 5: it's tough being on the dating apps as a single mom.
Speaker 5: I bet trying to find time to go out and
Speaker 5: also meet a guy who's open to the idea. But
Speaker 5: recently I think I finally found someone who's actually worth it.
Speaker 2: Oh, let's fix it for what's wrong?
Speaker 5: Wouldn't you know he's not calling me back.
Speaker 2: That's all right, that's why we got your bag.
Speaker 5: It's not good, but that's what we're here for. We'll
Speaker 5: talk to Eve about it.
Speaker 1: Eve.
Speaker 5: Welcome to the show.
Speaker 4: Hi, thanks for having me.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I can't wait to hear about this guy.
Speaker 1: What makes you think that he's finally worth it?
Speaker 4: Okay, So, like you said, I'm a single mom. It's
Speaker 4: been hard to date. So when I do find somebody
Speaker 4: that I connect with. It's really nice because you know,
Speaker 4: it's worth it's worth a night out, it's worth a
Speaker 4: night sinner, it's worth getting dressed up, and that kind
Speaker 4: of thing.
Speaker 2: I know.
Speaker 1: I mean, there's so much that goes into like just
Speaker 1: even my husband and I going on a date, you know,
Speaker 1: the planning and the babysitters and then the canceling. Like
Speaker 1: I can't imagine doing.
Speaker 5: Cancel on your own husband.
Speaker 1: Okay, so the babysitters always kids.
Speaker 5: Oh, I see, well that makes a little bit more sense.
Speaker 5: So you met him on the dating apps. Tell us
Speaker 5: how the date went.
Speaker 4: I thought the date went great. Reggie picked me up
Speaker 4: and to a salsa bar, like a dancing salsa bar.
Speaker 1: Oh, that's a like a little sexy date, fun.
Speaker 5: Like salsa or like dancing like the culture.
Speaker 1: Okay, no one eats just salsa.
Speaker 5: That's just saying that there's a business opportunity there for
Speaker 5: somebody who wants to jump in and take it.
Speaker 2: Actually there just about recently I would drive.
Speaker 5: Right, Yeah, okay, So a dancing date.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so you know, we we danced and we had
Speaker 4: a drink and it was really loud, but like it
Speaker 4: was really fun.
Speaker 2: Was he really good?
Speaker 1: At dancing, Like my roommate got into salsa for a
Speaker 1: while and I would go to bars with her and
Speaker 1: the people who were into it were unbelievable dances.
Speaker 2: Would go to Latin dance night and that was the
Speaker 2: funnest time. But there's people on the floor so good
Speaker 2: that are throwing each other.
Speaker 5: So what level were you at?
Speaker 6: Oh?
Speaker 4: Uh, you know, we were the level where we were
Speaker 4: doing our best and having.
Speaker 2: Bad that's perfect.
Speaker 1: I wondered, if you're on the same.
Speaker 5: Page, how far did he toss you across the room?
Speaker 5: How many people?
Speaker 4: Thankfully not very far to go to the bathroom here?
Speaker 5: All right, so fun?
Speaker 1: That sounds like a great night.
Speaker 5: It sounds like you're connecting.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we had such a great time. But you know
Speaker 4: those kinds of places, like they're really loud and it's
Speaker 4: hard to talk. So we went another place after that
Speaker 4: where we could just talk and like get to know
Speaker 4: each other. What.
Speaker 1: Well, it sounds like this guy put a lot of
Speaker 1: thought into the day, you know, like he knew you're
Speaker 1: a busy single mom, that you needed to be treated.
Speaker 2: And you just need to have fun, even if even
Speaker 2: if you don't like him at least.
Speaker 4: Yeah, totally and like I really liked Reggie because he
Speaker 4: was a really good listener. You know, like a lot
Speaker 4: of guys these days, they only talk about themselves, like
Speaker 4: they don't ask any questions. So like talking with Reggie
Speaker 4: was great, and like I learned about him and his
Speaker 4: family and it was just really nice to sit down
Speaker 4: and connect with someone. Is he a single dad too, No,
Speaker 4: he's not a single dad.
Speaker 5: He's a married dad.
Speaker 6: Works. No.
Speaker 4: No, no, he's he's not married, of course, and he
Speaker 4: doesn't have any kids, but he does know that I
Speaker 4: have a daughter, obviously, I'm very upfront with that.
Speaker 5: Well that all sounds great, at least on the surface.
Speaker 5: How did it end?
Speaker 4: I think it ended great. Like he drove me back
Speaker 4: to my place, and I didn't invite him up, of course,
Speaker 4: but I did give him a kiss tonight and then
Speaker 4: I went inside and I haven't heard from him since.
Speaker 1: So can you think of any reason why that would be?
Speaker 4: I've been going over in my head, and like the
Speaker 4: only thing that I can think of is, like he's
Speaker 4: a decent looking guy. He's personable, Like I had a
Speaker 4: lot of fun with him, and like he probably has
Speaker 4: a lot of options, you know, like when you're on
Speaker 4: dating app, you're looking at so many people, and you
Speaker 4: have a bunch of options in front of you, but.
Speaker 1: You're the best options, and so what's wrong with him?
Speaker 2: Everybody does?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I know, I do know how that feels to
Speaker 5: get that. So uh, what to get the you know,
Speaker 5: great guy? You know, lots of options available to you. Yeah,
Speaker 5: he's perfect. Yeah, like being like the guy in that
Speaker 5: position with all these great options, doing all these great things,
Speaker 5: oppressing all of these women.
Speaker 3: Thought you were getting turned out the other guy.
Speaker 2: It's just more believable. The ways.
Speaker 5: Are like it's okay, yeah, yeah, okay, Well now I
Speaker 5: don't even want to have just drop it forget it
Speaker 5: all right, Bro, if you say the nice thing to
Speaker 5: end this call, then go ahead.
Speaker 1: I'm actually really excited to call this guy.
Speaker 2: I think we can fix it.
Speaker 5: Well, she's a jerk who's not calling you back, so
Speaker 5: I don't think he's quite that decent. We're gonna find out.
Speaker 5: I would have called you back as like a good gentleman.
Speaker 5: But we'll see what his excuse is. That's okay, don't
Speaker 5: make excuses for him. We'll see what he has to
Speaker 5: say when we come back and do your second date
Speaker 5: update right after this hold.
Speaker 2: On Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning second date updates.
Speaker 5: On this show, We love single Moms, Yeah we do.
Speaker 5: Our number one single mom is a Lexus's mother, Barb.
Speaker 5: She is our personal fave. But number two, at least
Speaker 5: for today, is our listener Eve, who's been struggling to
Speaker 5: meet a good guy that's even open to the idea
Speaker 5: of you should hang out with Barbeve met a guy
Speaker 5: named Reggie online recently. They went salsa dancing and they
Speaker 5: talked and connected, but after the date, Reggie's gone kind
Speaker 5: of a wall, which is not cool. Alexis. What would
Speaker 5: Barb do if this happened to her, She'd.
Speaker 3: Probably be out on another night out with her friends again,
Speaker 3: you know, just moving on.
Speaker 5: I told her that she would feel comfortable calling us
Speaker 5: for help, Like, Eve, did.
Speaker 1: You want to do an update with Alexis if.
Speaker 5: She ever needs it? But today we're stepping in to
Speaker 5: help our listener Eve, and if nothing else, maybe get
Speaker 5: some answers from this Reggie guy because I am single
Speaker 5: moms deserve better, and Alexis, I hope your mother knows
Speaker 5: that I feel that way.
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm not unching my mom on the day.
Speaker 5: I'm just saying, we're always there for Barb. Yeah, Barb,
Speaker 5: if you're listening, we're here for you.
Speaker 2: But your last Instagram.
Speaker 1: PI bar I would love a new segment Barb's problem.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but sorry, this brings us back to Eve. Eve,
Speaker 5: We're here for you today. Okay, one hundred percent, thank you.
Speaker 1: I think this is going to turn out great. I
Speaker 1: think that there's either some sort of scheduling thing and
Speaker 1: maybe he's intimidated that you're like a strong independent woman,
Speaker 1: you know, something they could be fixed.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm sure it's gonna be something super fun like that.
Speaker 2: Positive.
Speaker 5: Yeah, he's intimidated by what a great woman you are.
Speaker 2: It happened, Yeah, Brook. Maybe we call him and he's like,
Speaker 2: there's no other day can get better than that.
Speaker 5: I sure hope. So let's call him right now and
Speaker 5: see what he has to say.
Speaker 7: If he takes up here we go Hello, Hey, is
Speaker 7: this Reggie. Yes, Hello, Reggie.
Speaker 5: Quiet talker, Hi, Reggie.
Speaker 2: Hello, Sorry, there's more than one of us.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you're on a radio show right now called Brook
Speaker 5: and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we are not too
Speaker 5: happy with you right now.
Speaker 2: You're reg Reggie.
Speaker 1: You sound like a pretty stand up guy, Jeffrey, you
Speaker 1: don't need to come in so hard.
Speaker 5: He said hello, and you got stand up guy from Hello.
Speaker 5: He took a woman out on a beautiful date.
Speaker 1: Put some energy into it.
Speaker 5: The reason why some of us are not happy with
Speaker 5: you is because you went out with one of our
Speaker 5: listeners named Eve, a wonderful single mother, and afterwards you
Speaker 5: have the audacity to not call her. I don't know
Speaker 5: why my co hosts are laughing at that idea. It's
Speaker 5: kind of rude if you ask me.
Speaker 6: Wait, you why are so mad?
Speaker 5: Yes, emailed for help because this might be shocking to you.
Speaker 5: But she had a nice time the other night.
Speaker 6: I mean something's weird with her. I think she's like
Speaker 6: a scammer or a liar.
Speaker 5: Okay, I'll tell you you. Normally, if someone's I told something,
Speaker 5: they wouldn't call a radio show to reach out to
Speaker 5: that person for.
Speaker 6: The Yeah, I'm kind of surprised.
Speaker 1: Okay, it sounds like you planned a great night with her.
Speaker 6: She told me it's hard for her because she's a
Speaker 6: single mom.
Speaker 5: Yeah right.
Speaker 6: Babysitters are expensive, she can't afford it. So trying to
Speaker 6: be a gentleman here, I offer you know what if
Speaker 6: I pay for the shitter and then you can come.
Speaker 2: Oh, I brought that up. I didn't want to put
Speaker 2: that in the air, but that's a really.
Speaker 1: I think my husband would be okay if I was
Speaker 1: in a dating app, if we could get.
Speaker 2: You're even more of a gentleman brother.
Speaker 5: Okay, I'm kind of apologizing now for coming on so
Speaker 5: hard to chew at the beginning. That's a that's a
Speaker 5: good move. I would admit it for kids. Okay.
Speaker 6: Yeah. So the night of the date, I show up,
Speaker 6: she comes down. I have them own her a hundred bucks.
Speaker 6: Everything's okay, you know. Afterwards, I drop her back off
Speaker 6: at her apartment. She goes inside. Yeah, i'm driving down.
Speaker 6: I realized she left her doggy bag or left over
Speaker 6: food in my car. Okay, come back, go to the
Speaker 6: door apartment, knock on the door. There was another resident there,
Speaker 6: so I told the person there. Hey, So I went
Speaker 6: out with a woman, a mom who lives here in
Speaker 6: the building. Her name is Eve. I don't know which
Speaker 6: apartment she lives in, but this is hers. Can you
Speaker 6: give it to her?
Speaker 1: Okay?
Speaker 2: What they say?
Speaker 6: She says, I know Eve, but she's not a mom.
Speaker 6: What and I'm like, well, what do you mean She
Speaker 6: told me she had a three year old daughter, and
Speaker 6: I thought she had a babysitter. I paid for the babysitter.
Speaker 6: She's like, no, she has a roommate with no kids.
Speaker 2: What wait, I.
Speaker 1: Mean as an apartment complex, there could be two Eves.
Speaker 1: It's not like it's a super common name.
Speaker 6: I mean it had to be the same Eve because
Speaker 6: she said that she just saw her come back.
Speaker 2: My neighbors don't know.
Speaker 3: I have pets lie about a kid.
Speaker 5: Clearly we need to get to the bottom of what's
Speaker 5: going out. Some sort of confusion is going on, and
Speaker 5: I need to tell you, Reggie. Eve is actually on
Speaker 5: the phone already listening to this conversation.
Speaker 6: What are you talking about?
Speaker 7: Yeah, that's how this works.
Speaker 2: Come in so pleasant. That was a pretty big accusation.
Speaker 2: What's going on?
Speaker 6: Okay?
Speaker 4: I am so sorry.
Speaker 5: A second, are you not a single mom?
Speaker 4: I mean that's why I didn't bring my daughter's name.
Speaker 4: I don't have a.
Speaker 5: Second empathy for you.
Speaker 1: Like we had a whole discussion about how hard it
Speaker 1: was for single mom.
Speaker 5: Seriously, I came at him so hard at the beginning
Speaker 5: of this.
Speaker 7: Why would you lie about that?
Speaker 2: Who wants to be a single mom on a dating map.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it doesn't help you, does Eve?
Speaker 4: I guess for the money, like I have a roommate.
Speaker 4: We will just like we will just say it sometimes
Speaker 4: on dates, you know, like it's a game we play.
Speaker 2: Just slips out one hundred dollars.
Speaker 5: Sorry, charge more, get.
Speaker 7: Out of here.
Speaker 2: But that's why I think actually a hundred bucks is
Speaker 2: perfect because I would totally fall for this. You're not
Speaker 2: going to ask for pictures of.
Speaker 5: The kids, Okay? Can we stop trying to make her
Speaker 5: scam better to get even more money? I just mean,
Speaker 5: it's baby, don't be that for a second, terrible.
Speaker 1: Why would you call us if the whole thing was
Speaker 1: a lie?
Speaker 2: Because she actually liked him?
Speaker 5: Watch?
Speaker 4: Oh yeah I did like him.
Speaker 5: Oh what's your plan to like go out with Reggie
Speaker 5: like five ten more times until you eventually reveal Oh,
Speaker 5: by the way, I'm not actually a mother of any children.
Speaker 5: And by the way, thank you for the thousand dollars
Speaker 5: in babysitting that's pay for all of our dates.
Speaker 2: Stop messed up.
Speaker 6: Yeah that's so messed up.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like you're ruined it for actual single moms who
Speaker 1: want to date these good guys like now, they're going
Speaker 1: to be like all skeptical and jaded, And.
Speaker 5: I'm skeptical if Alexis's mom is really a mom at
Speaker 5: this how do you even know?
Speaker 2: We don't.
Speaker 5: I don't know.
Speaker 1: She's been asking for babysity money for someone to watch Alexis.
Speaker 4: Scared.
Speaker 5: Oh my god, that sucks.
Speaker 4: I mean, there are some girls who just take the
Speaker 4: money before a date and don't actually go out with
Speaker 4: the guys like I do.
Speaker 5: Okay, Well, yeah, you're right, you're totally a good person.
Speaker 5: Then you at least wait until after the dates.
Speaker 3: Take going longer.
Speaker 1: A real mom would say, if other girls jumped off
Speaker 1: a bridge, would you jump off one?
Speaker 4: Too?
Speaker 6: Fair?
Speaker 5: I mean, yeah, the whole point of this call was
Speaker 5: to reach out to Reggie to see if you wanted
Speaker 5: to go out with you one more time. But first
Speaker 5: I think Reggie probably needs an apology from you, Eve,
Speaker 5: and probably his his money back. Yeah, do you want
Speaker 5: to say anything to Reggie?
Speaker 4: I do, Reggie, I'm really sorry. I don't have the
Speaker 4: money right now, but I will repay you eventually.
Speaker 5: After she goes on a date with another guy who
Speaker 5: pays one hundred dollars gift.
Speaker 4: Card which is guys gonna be so harsh on me,
Speaker 4: like I really am trying here.
Speaker 7: Like why did you scan thus too?
Speaker 2: Man?
Speaker 4: I mean I didn't know it was gonna be busted
Speaker 4: on the radio.
Speaker 1: So you're only sad and upset when you get caught.
Speaker 2: It's like such a cheater, and it's like, well I
Speaker 2: was gonna tell you.
Speaker 5: Yeah, Reggie, I mean she's apologized and offered to at
Speaker 5: least pay the money back when she gets it. Do
Speaker 5: you have anything you want to say to her?
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm putting her on blast. I'm putting this all
Speaker 6: over my Instagram. I got strenge, got of your phone
Speaker 6: going off. I allow the people to know not to
Speaker 6: get scared by you.
Speaker 5: So are you saying, Reggie that you are open to
Speaker 5: dating her or are you done? Because remember we will
Speaker 5: pay for that next date and the babysitter fee too
Speaker 5: if it costs.
Speaker 1: A zero dollars if you don't actually have a kid.
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's exactly what we'll do. So we always offer
Speaker 5: to send you guys out.
Speaker 1: I'll watch your pretend baby.
Speaker 6: Yeah, Reggie, No, thanks.
Speaker 2: Darn god, you could have made a lot of money
Speaker 2: as a couple.
Speaker 1: You know, you never knew how the scam would.
Speaker 5: Work out with the Yeah, yeah, you could have had
Speaker 5: like three more pretend kids got four. Eve. I mean,
Speaker 5: has this taught you a lesson? You're going to change
Speaker 5: your ways going forward?
Speaker 1: Maybe?
Speaker 4: I don't know. I have to talk to my roommate.
Speaker 5: I don't know.
Speaker 2: The scam isn't as tight as we thought.
Speaker 5: It's brooking Jeffrey in the Morning, Brook and Jeffrey in
Speaker 5: the Morning. This is a good lesson for any guy
Speaker 5: out there who's going out with a single mom. You
Speaker 5: need to say, show me the baby. Oh really, you're
Speaker 5: a mom just supposed to believe.
Speaker 1: You tell you there's not a mom out there that
Speaker 1: wouldn't immediately show a picture.
Speaker 2: Of that's normally naturally honestly, or.
Speaker 1: Just even see their lock screen. Their lock screen is
Speaker 1: going to be a picture of their children.
Speaker 5: I mean, I've heard of cat fishing on the dating
Speaker 5: apps before, but baby fishing is definitely a new one.
Speaker 1: Man still can't believe she was so confident that her
Speaker 1: like scam work that she called us.
Speaker 5: I mean, how many dating scams do we not even
Speaker 5: know about? That happened on this show right under our nose.
Speaker 5: People lying about something that we never uncover.
Speaker 6: I don't know.
Speaker 5: Thankfully, this guy randomly figured it out by trying to
Speaker 5: bring his date her leftovers and was outed for that,
Speaker 5: and that was just the universe.
Speaker 1: That's maybe that's why all those other radio shows asked
Speaker 1: the little kids to come on and talk for their mommy.
Speaker 5: Yeah, she'sn't care to the background because you got to
Speaker 5: prove it.
Speaker 2: You got prove it.
Speaker 5: But you don't have to prove anything to us. We'll
Speaker 5: take you at your word for the most parts. We
Speaker 5: really are just email the sho you know. We'll call
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