1 00:00:00,920 --> 00:00:04,880 Speaker 1: All right, So this is from Cheris in Kalamazoo. Cheris says, 2 00:00:04,920 --> 00:00:08,119 Speaker 1: for two years, I dated a man without knowing he 3 00:00:08,200 --> 00:00:11,080 Speaker 1: was married. His wife is in the military and they 4 00:00:11,119 --> 00:00:14,640 Speaker 1: live in different states. She came home in September and 5 00:00:14,720 --> 00:00:19,320 Speaker 1: I was painting the kitchen, her kitchen. What I tried 6 00:00:19,320 --> 00:00:23,720 Speaker 1: to surprise, surprise her husband slash my boyfriend after he 7 00:00:23,760 --> 00:00:26,160 Speaker 1: had a small fire in the kitchen. I was the 8 00:00:26,160 --> 00:00:29,600 Speaker 1: one that got surprised though. His wife is crushed and 9 00:00:29,760 --> 00:00:34,080 Speaker 1: I feel terrible after we confronted her husband. He's divorcing her. 10 00:00:34,920 --> 00:00:38,440 Speaker 1: Is there anything I can do to help rebuild after 11 00:00:38,560 --> 00:00:41,400 Speaker 1: all of this mess? Help her rebuild after. 12 00:00:41,200 --> 00:00:43,640 Speaker 2: All the help her rebuilding? 13 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:47,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, because she didn't know he was married. 14 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:50,800 Speaker 4: That's so nice. You don't mess around and get killed 15 00:00:50,840 --> 00:00:54,640 Speaker 4: by a military person. She is training, you know, Ah, 16 00:00:55,560 --> 00:00:56,120 Speaker 4: listen to. 17 00:00:56,040 --> 00:01:01,720 Speaker 3: Me, thank you for your service. Yeah, out of there. 18 00:01:01,800 --> 00:01:03,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, you need to just get on out of there. 19 00:01:04,080 --> 00:01:07,839 Speaker 4: And he's filing for divorce and all this here, that's 20 00:01:07,880 --> 00:01:11,040 Speaker 4: a crazy But she was in here painting this woman's kitchen. 21 00:01:10,720 --> 00:01:13,760 Speaker 1: Though, Yeah, because he had a fire and she wanted 22 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:14,720 Speaker 1: to surprise him. 23 00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 3: But she was the one that got surprised. 24 00:01:19,240 --> 00:01:23,920 Speaker 2: She was crushed. Yeah, and you didn't know, she. 25 00:01:23,959 --> 00:01:25,440 Speaker 3: Says, she did not know. 26 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:29,080 Speaker 1: She's this woman house and she couldn't. 27 00:01:29,280 --> 00:01:30,920 Speaker 2: You just got a roller. You're just going up the 28 00:01:30,959 --> 00:01:31,920 Speaker 2: wall and she walked in. 29 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:40,039 Speaker 4: You said, hello, how are you where? Whoere is rayfer 30 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:44,199 Speaker 4: Rapel says at work? You know, we had a fire 31 00:01:44,200 --> 00:01:45,880 Speaker 4: the other day. I was cooking fries the other day 32 00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:47,640 Speaker 4: and the grease fire broke out and we had to 33 00:01:47,640 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 4: fire in the kitchen. So I'm just in here fixing. 34 00:01:50,440 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 4: What you mean y'all had a fire? Yes, me, and 35 00:01:53,000 --> 00:01:54,680 Speaker 4: you know we're in a relationship. 36 00:01:54,720 --> 00:01:55,760 Speaker 2: And who are you, ma'am? 37 00:01:56,480 --> 00:02:01,520 Speaker 4: I'm his wife. Raby don't have no wife. Yes, Rayford 38 00:02:01,520 --> 00:02:04,720 Speaker 4: does have a wife. I'm in the military and I 39 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:07,480 Speaker 4: just came home and you in here painting my kitchen. 40 00:02:08,280 --> 00:02:12,280 Speaker 4: Wait a minute, you married to Rayford? Why is his 41 00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:13,200 Speaker 4: name Rayford? 42 00:02:13,760 --> 00:02:15,119 Speaker 3: Why you can't call him ray? 43 00:02:15,240 --> 00:02:16,320 Speaker 2: Why you gotta say. 44 00:02:18,639 --> 00:02:20,640 Speaker 4: When when you get busted you got to call him 45 00:02:20,639 --> 00:02:21,680 Speaker 4: by his whole government name. 46 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:22,200 Speaker 3: You can't do that. 47 00:02:22,280 --> 00:02:27,320 Speaker 4: They're talking about who you ray rape baby daddy? You 48 00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:28,440 Speaker 4: can't know the nickname. 49 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:33,200 Speaker 3: Wow, that's a mess right there. 50 00:02:34,440 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 4: I feel bad for the lady that came home. But 51 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:40,119 Speaker 4: I feel bad for this lady because she honestly didn't know. Yeah, 52 00:02:40,280 --> 00:02:43,440 Speaker 4: she wants to help rebuild. You ain't finna do that? 53 00:02:45,120 --> 00:02:48,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, well she's getting her husband is divorcing her. 54 00:02:48,320 --> 00:02:52,720 Speaker 4: Though your husband is divorcing her, that's the He told 55 00:02:52,760 --> 00:02:53,320 Speaker 4: you that too. 56 00:02:53,440 --> 00:02:54,520 Speaker 3: Huh. 57 00:02:54,639 --> 00:02:58,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, you need to talk have one more conversation with 58 00:02:58,480 --> 00:02:58,919 Speaker 4: the wife. 59 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:00,800 Speaker 2: But making a phone call. Don't go over there. 60 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:01,440 Speaker 3: They're training. 61 00:03:04,040 --> 00:03:06,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, we have time for another one. This 62 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:10,080 Speaker 1: is from Flow and Newcastle. Flow says, I'm a stickler 63 00:03:10,120 --> 00:03:14,160 Speaker 1: for clean nails and a nice smile. So I'm struggling 64 00:03:14,240 --> 00:03:17,400 Speaker 1: with the man I met online. We met in person 65 00:03:17,520 --> 00:03:20,919 Speaker 1: and his nails were clean, but they were all different lengths. 66 00:03:21,320 --> 00:03:23,040 Speaker 3: The front four. 67 00:03:22,919 --> 00:03:25,760 Speaker 1: Teeth of his mouth were white and the other ones 68 00:03:25,800 --> 00:03:29,919 Speaker 1: were Yellowy. I know I'm being overly critical. He's tall 69 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:33,200 Speaker 1: and he has a great personality, so those are both great. 70 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:36,680 Speaker 1: Can I suggest she wants to know? Can she suggest 71 00:03:37,480 --> 00:03:40,760 Speaker 1: that on their next date they get manicures and pedicures 72 00:03:40,760 --> 00:03:43,240 Speaker 1: because she wants to see his feet too, And will 73 00:03:43,280 --> 00:03:46,080 Speaker 1: he know if she does that what she's up to? 74 00:03:47,920 --> 00:03:48,520 Speaker 2: Of course? 75 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:53,080 Speaker 4: But baby, listen to me. If a man having nice 76 00:03:53,160 --> 00:03:56,840 Speaker 4: feet is a pre requresit of yours. You're gonna be 77 00:03:56,840 --> 00:04:00,360 Speaker 4: looking for a man for a long time. You can 78 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:02,400 Speaker 4: get them nails even out that ain't nothing. 79 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:04,280 Speaker 3: What about those teeth. 80 00:04:05,080 --> 00:04:08,680 Speaker 4: He's really nice hands, you know what make your nails 81 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:09,680 Speaker 4: all the same link. 82 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 2: He just need to know. 83 00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:13,200 Speaker 3: Yeah he does the teeth. 84 00:04:13,600 --> 00:04:17,960 Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, let them teeth now, four teeth in the front. 85 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:20,000 Speaker 2: That's white. He just brushed the front. 86 00:04:21,440 --> 00:04:25,799 Speaker 4: And he don't he don't go around that corner, the corner, 87 00:04:26,600 --> 00:04:29,480 Speaker 4: but you know he no, they got teeth white and 88 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:31,960 Speaker 4: it now it really really works work. 89 00:04:32,440 --> 00:04:33,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, you. 90 00:04:33,920 --> 00:04:36,440 Speaker 2: Could, don't. You know, he just needs a little help. 91 00:04:36,480 --> 00:04:39,400 Speaker 3: Maybe you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.