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Speaker 1: My ex wife wants me back after five years. Should

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Speaker 1: I let her hitd it? Yes, this is okay. We'll

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Speaker 1: be home with the craziest stories on earth. I'm Sam,

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Speaker 1: and let's jump into it. Yes, hello guys. My wife

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Speaker 1: and I divorced five years ago. It was an amicable

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Speaker 1: divorce with no resentment on either side. Simply we were

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Speaker 1: too young and she had to move away for her career.

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Speaker 1: They didn't end it because they didn't love each other.

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Speaker 1: They edit it for careers, working, working, working, Wama loved

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Speaker 1: her job more than him. Yes, we kept some contact

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Speaker 1: over the years, and last year I lost both my

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Speaker 1: parents in quick succession, two for one. I did my

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Speaker 1: best to tough it out, though, but it's not easy.

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Speaker 1: When my ex if I thought it was bad. When

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Speaker 1: my ex I've heard of it, she immediately reached out

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Speaker 1: and supported me. Thanks to her, I pulled myself back

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Speaker 1: up so the ex wife it helped out help them. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: good ex wife. Now we've obviously started to reconnect, and

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Speaker 1: she asked me if we can try again now that

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Speaker 1: we both are mature and are in better places. Not

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Speaker 1: to get married again right away, but to rekindle our relationship.

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Speaker 1: I feel conflicted. I did not completely lose my feelings

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Speaker 1: for her, but recently I have started dating a girl

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Speaker 1: and she knows this. She said she doesn't want to

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Speaker 1: put me in an uncomfortable position of choosing, but that's

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Speaker 1: what she's doing. It's like, hey, like, I don't I

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Speaker 1: don't want you to be uncomfortable, but I want to

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Speaker 1: get back together with you. Give me an answer in twenty.

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Speaker 2: Four years before you die.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how to proceed with the other girl.

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Speaker 1: We are just in the early start, like beginning bits

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Speaker 1: of dating, so my ex wife is not intruding on

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Speaker 1: an established relationship. And there is a flirty of updates

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Speaker 1: and some relevant comments. But I want to hear y'all's

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Speaker 1: relevant comments in the chat. And John, I don't know,

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Speaker 1: do you think Op should give his wife his ex

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Speaker 1: wife second chance? Why is everyone calling me pigeon boy?

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Speaker 1: I don't dan.

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Speaker 2: I was gonna make a joke that was ruined. I mean,

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Speaker 2: can you not just still say it was it you guys.

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Speaker 1: Or was that me? Pigeon boy? You you were the

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Speaker 1: one who you were the one who talked about the pigeons.

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Speaker 2: I did starting a pigeon. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I would I didn't have boy.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I have no idea.

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Speaker 2: They're looking pretty guilty over there, Sam, They're looking.

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Speaker 1: Are you telling people to call me pigeon boys? They're looking.

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Speaker 3: I don't even know where that came from.

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Speaker 2: So if we play back some recent streams, you know,

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Speaker 2: just for example, we wouldn't hear anything that would involve

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Speaker 2: pigeon boy aside.

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Speaker 1: Actually, actually the real question, uh, do you think Op

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Speaker 1: should let his ex wife hit it? No? Because as

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Speaker 1: in hit the relationship again.

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Speaker 2: Yes, Despite my enthusiastic answer in the begin I do

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Speaker 2: think that, like you know, she chose to leave the relationship.

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Speaker 2: How many years later is this thing?

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Speaker 1: Is it five years? Five years?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Five years later, like I think, But it was amicable,

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Speaker 2: it was more on.

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Speaker 1: I mean, she had to move away for her career,

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Speaker 1: but I feel like they both realized it wasn't the time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I guess in a way, you can't

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Speaker 2: blame her for reaching out, and I do think there's

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Speaker 2: a scenario they could get together, But I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I would say, my gut take is it's not the right.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what do you all think I am seeing pigeon

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Speaker 1: boys a dash to start that says are they still

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Speaker 1: in love? It sounds like OPI he still has feelings. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so I don't know still in love or what, but

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Speaker 1: definitely still has feelings. And the blood one twenty five

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Speaker 1: dollars tip chat has spoken every minute you're late. We

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Speaker 1: demand to be added to the stream. Here Ford also,

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Speaker 1: we need music if we must wait. That's a good idea.

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Speaker 2: Oh oh yeah, did we take it away from the

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Speaker 1: We we just don't have the title screen up but

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Speaker 1: the blobe one. Thanks for the twenty five dollars tip.

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Speaker 1: And we also have a little Silly's membership for a

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Speaker 1: two month membership. He wanted to watch the pigeon documentary

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Speaker 1: Sam Sarah Badoff. I saw it in the Sam Discord.

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Speaker 1: I have yet to watch it.

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Speaker 2: We've been pretty busy.

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Speaker 3: There's a pigeon boy documentary, not a pigeon boy documentary,

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Speaker 2: Anyway, I'm getting back.

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Speaker 1: To this story t LVR. Basically, Opie's ex wife helped

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Speaker 1: him through the death of his parents, and now she

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Speaker 1: wants to get back together. Some relevant comments. Every thought

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Speaker 1: five eight three four says people do grow and sometimes

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Speaker 1: come back together after divorce. You are now wiser, hotter. Now.

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Speaker 1: My personal opinion is if you're dating, relationship on hold

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Speaker 1: want collateral damage with this new girl that he's diding.

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Speaker 1: This is true, OPI responds, you are right. I'm not

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Speaker 1: of them. Ex wife had a funny way of putting it.

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Speaker 1: She said, it's like a job interview, and I have

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Speaker 1: to pick whom I think is the best candidate. Romantic,

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Speaker 1: what are your qualifications?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Today?

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Speaker 1: How long do you want to stay with this company?

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Speaker 1: As in the company of me? Of me? Do you

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Speaker 1: want to be in the company of me? Yes?

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Speaker 2: But we do have another uh tip from Daddy Jesse

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Speaker 2: on the tip.

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Speaker 1: Nicholas thanks for the twenty five bucks and Eric thanks

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Speaker 1: for the five dollar tip. Like the stream.

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Speaker 2: If you haven't already liked the stream, what the heck

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Speaker 2: are you doing?

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Speaker 1: Do you even like us? Do you even like us?

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Speaker 1: But you know what I like? I like this freaking

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Speaker 1: update from March seventh, twenty twenty four, which is two

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Speaker 1: days after which is this is so fairly recent? This

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Speaker 1: is recent recent history last month. Anyway, my ex wife

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Speaker 1: and I divorced five years ago. Divorce was clean, amicable,

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Speaker 1: no hard feelings. She reconnected with me last year after

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Speaker 1: my parents' death and recently asked if I can consider

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Speaker 1: giving her another shot. Today, she told me she has

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Speaker 1: the opera in classical music, and invited me o fancy fancy.

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Speaker 1: She also proposed to have dinner at the restaurant before

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Speaker 1: the show. She is going heart, Oh yeah she is.

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Speaker 1: She's coming up coming.

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Speaker 2: She's coming to box Yep, yeah, coming to come.

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Speaker 1: She's coming to come Wow riley Yeah, disgusting, so mature? Wow?

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Speaker 1: Does this mean she's serious about us? When she sprung

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Speaker 1: the idea on me, I had already started casually dating

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Speaker 1: this girl she likewise sees other people. If she's really

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Speaker 1: with the other girl, so OPI is considering it. What

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Speaker 1: other girl? Also, someone said my voice sounds muffled? Is

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Speaker 1: that true? Hello?

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Speaker 2: Hello?

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Speaker 1: Hello? Hello?

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Speaker 2: Do we sound muffled?

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Speaker 1: Do we sound muffled? Like gol? We have a light

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Speaker 1: goal for five hundred and then what we spin the wheel?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I spin the wheel so like that freaking

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Speaker 1: streams get a baby. Dash started says why now? So

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Speaker 2: I actually know because I pay attention to these stories. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you do. Basically Opie's parents died and.

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Speaker 3: Laughing just the way, dude, anytime you ever say something

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like okay, color laughing when someone's parents die.

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Speaker 3: Color okay, okay, story time, okay, story time real quick.

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Speaker 3: We were reading crime story.

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Speaker 1: I do not speak of that.

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Speaker 2: We did not really episode because we cannot be true.

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Speaker 3: Anyways, Sam said something pause and just says, damn that sucks.

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Speaker 3: And it was like.

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Speaker 1: The murder of five people. It was really bad.

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Speaker 3: It was like and I just started laughing. It was

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Speaker 1: Yeah this, Riley says, No, you said two for one

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Speaker 1: of the week. Yeah. See, this is why we can't

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Speaker 1: do true crime, and people say, release the true crime episode. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: I'm going back to this story. You have to talk.

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Speaker 3: Yell.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, can't handle hard mode.

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Speaker 5: You're not ready for the time.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we got, we got chewed out on TikTok.

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Speaker 1: We got we cut out the addition to hard mode,

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Speaker 1: and everyone on the TikTok is like, oh my god,

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Speaker 2: Wait, how many views dis you get? It was just

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Speaker 2: a bunch of people hating everyone's just like these guys

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Speaker 1: Do it maybe? So if he's considering it, should he

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Speaker 2: I think it kind of dip your toes in the water.

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Speaker 2: I'm reading very beginning stages. Yeah, where so I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't think you really need to say that you're

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Speaker 1: the implication is you're dating other people.

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Speaker 1: that to your new relationship. Hey, by the way, my

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Speaker 1: I feel like that red flags. You know. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: He doesn't even know, and I don't think like you,

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Speaker 1: all you can do is communicate.

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Speaker 2: Hey, this is where I am.

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Speaker 1: I don't really know how I'm feeling, but do with

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Speaker 1: the chat below. So we have some additional info from

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Speaker 1: Ope they say. Basically, she said she recognizes she didn't

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Speaker 1: That's cute. That's cute. You're like, you're a beehive. I'm

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Speaker 1: Heidi Browning says how he pays for me Dutch with

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Speaker 1: col Start twenty seven that said, if you go out

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Speaker 2: Uh would it be would it actually be better? I

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Speaker 1: The universal system is whoever ass out pays. That's a

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Speaker 1: And really I do that with Christian. Can I be honest?

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Speaker 2: I hate when when someone's like, oh, I got you

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Speaker 1: It's more it's I think it's more of a mental

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Speaker 1: load off for you, Yeah, to be like, don't worry

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Speaker 1: You don't want that, Yeah, John want to Tally.

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Speaker 3: Every time I like try to do something nice for John.

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Speaker 3: it's making me mad. Let me look a dude, people

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Speaker 3: to accuse me I want.

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Speaker 2: I won't go down this rabbit horrle.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we've heard about the steak dinner.

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Speaker 1: I owed you. One of my friends this morning bought

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Speaker 3: With dating, I like the daddy always pays.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so he said you rosal Impact says, let people

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Speaker 3: Okay with the daddy thing? Uh?

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Speaker 3: Daddy thing though the couple gets a pick who daddy

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Speaker 1: Whoa daddy is? Gender fluid? Dude? Wow?

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Speaker 2: Progressive? Can I give it up for progressive? Big progressive?

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Speaker 1: But you know what I want to progress on this

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Speaker 1: cricket stories. So let's get back into an additional info

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Speaker 1: I'm going to talk with her and end things. So

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Speaker 1: the back burner is not right. There is another update.

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Speaker 1: We got more to the saga. But what do you

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know me personally, I've never really.

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Speaker 1: He's always that girls on the back, me on the

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Speaker 2: No, why does someone say something I missed something, I'm

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Speaker 1: I just said, you had ten girls on the back

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. I think that. I think it's

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And it sounds like he wants to commit, like

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Speaker 2: Like yeah, like I don't. I just don't want to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like I I, oh, I love looking at Riley.

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Speaker 1: We have a mirror right here, and I love looking

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Speaker 1: at Riley through it. But yeah, no, I agree. I

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Speaker 1: matters a lot. Hey guys, it's me again. I some

439
00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:38,120
Speaker 1: of you said that after last Saturday is amazing date.

440
00:21:38,200 --> 00:21:40,760
Speaker 1: She took me out on the ball was in my courts,

441
00:21:41,160 --> 00:21:43,600
Speaker 1: So I made my move and invited her out and

442
00:21:43,680 --> 00:21:46,280
Speaker 1: this Saturday too, I was thinking of taking her to

443
00:21:46,440 --> 00:21:51,880
Speaker 1: a beautiful historic village in our area. Huh that sound.

444
00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:54,560
Speaker 1: If I was thinking of a beautiful historic village in

445
00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:59,280
Speaker 1: our area, what I would think of is Soulsburg, right right.

446
00:21:59,400 --> 00:22:00,879
Speaker 2: I was gonna say, what's the one that looks like

447
00:22:00,880 --> 00:22:02,840
Speaker 2: the little Danish town Salzburg?

448
00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:04,040
Speaker 3: Wait? Where is that?

449
00:22:04,960 --> 00:22:11,840
Speaker 1: What is it? Venvil? Is it? Not? So there we go? Alright,

450
00:22:12,440 --> 00:22:14,400
Speaker 1: all right, we all got there, We all got there.

451
00:22:14,440 --> 00:22:21,880
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah. Uh. Anyway, so going to a historical village

452
00:22:21,880 --> 00:22:24,080
Speaker 1: in area which is also holding a festival for the spring.

453
00:22:24,520 --> 00:22:27,080
Speaker 1: I was a bit nervous about asking her because it's

454
00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:30,639
Speaker 1: not as fancy or as exquisitive opera. It's what she

455
00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:33,040
Speaker 1: did for me. But she immediately said she would love

456
00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:35,880
Speaker 1: seeing the village. But wait, there's more.

457
00:22:35,960 --> 00:22:36,600
Speaker 2: Oh.

458
00:22:36,640 --> 00:22:40,040
Speaker 1: She mentioned she had a client schedule on Saturday morning,

459
00:22:40,280 --> 00:22:43,280
Speaker 1: but she assured me that she was rescheduling said client

460
00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:48,800
Speaker 1: so we could have the whole day together. I was dumbfounded.

461
00:22:49,160 --> 00:22:51,520
Speaker 1: Back when we were married, she was adamant that her

462
00:22:51,600 --> 00:22:56,359
Speaker 1: career was her priority, and now she's chosen me, little

463
00:22:56,359 --> 00:23:03,480
Speaker 1: old me over something related to her career. The behive

464
00:23:04,480 --> 00:23:12,360
Speaker 1: she chose the high I'm kind, I'm messing with him.

465
00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:16,359
Speaker 1: I don't have my parents anymore. But I got a mommy. No, okay,

466
00:23:16,440 --> 00:23:19,480
Speaker 1: but my sister and my aunt are still here for me,

467
00:23:19,880 --> 00:23:22,960
Speaker 1: and generally they always saw right through people. They agree

468
00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:26,919
Speaker 1: that she's not just serious about us having another go.

469
00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:30,960
Speaker 1: She's damn serious. Some of you commented or asked about

470
00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:33,720
Speaker 1: her financial situation. Like I said, I am comfortable financially

471
00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:37,560
Speaker 1: and I enjoy my own career. But she's become very,

472
00:23:38,359 --> 00:23:41,920
Speaker 1: very successful financially. She has two cars, which is more,

473
00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:44,960
Speaker 1: which are more than I make in a year, and

474
00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:49,119
Speaker 1: her place is one of those new ultra modern mini mansions.

475
00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:52,600
Speaker 1: I admit this intimidated me a bit at first, but

476
00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:55,080
Speaker 1: I told myself if she reconnected with me, it was

477
00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:57,840
Speaker 1: because of me as a person and not my status.

478
00:23:58,040 --> 00:24:01,840
Speaker 1: So I am doing the same. I genuinely admire what

479
00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:05,680
Speaker 1: she achieved. Also, to address some guys implying she had

480
00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:08,359
Speaker 1: just had fun and data around the last five years,

481
00:24:08,680 --> 00:24:10,960
Speaker 1: It's not like that I sat in a dark It's

482
00:24:10,960 --> 00:24:13,000
Speaker 1: not like I sat in a dark room alone. And

483
00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:15,720
Speaker 1: all that time I dated, I had my flings, even

484
00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:19,320
Speaker 1: a two year marriage, sorry, even a two year relationship.

485
00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:23,440
Speaker 1: About to say so, I too come with some extra mileage.

486
00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:26,560
Speaker 1: But what matters now is that we both want to

487
00:24:26,560 --> 00:24:28,840
Speaker 1: give us another try. Also, I don't think it like

488
00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:32,479
Speaker 1: if if they are apart from each other, like obviously

489
00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:35,000
Speaker 1: they're going to be dating other people. Yeah, it's yeah,

490
00:24:35,040 --> 00:24:38,119
Speaker 1: I think that's completely normal. Five years. Yeah, it's a

491
00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:40,880
Speaker 1: while I'm on. I wasn't sure about my feelings towards

492
00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:44,720
Speaker 1: her some days ago, but now I know that I

493
00:24:44,760 --> 00:24:51,160
Speaker 1: still love her and I've never stopped, and she most

494
00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:55,560
Speaker 1: likely feels same. Maybe I do have the head of

495
00:24:55,600 --> 00:24:58,800
Speaker 1: the clouds right now, but I am determined to show

496
00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:02,080
Speaker 1: her she made the choice in reconnecting with me and

497
00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:06,440
Speaker 1: we can overcome any obstacle we might find on our path.

498
00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:10,480
Speaker 1: I feel that this time it'll be different. Anyhow, For now,

499
00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:12,879
Speaker 1: I'll just focus on having fun together on the state

500
00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:18,320
Speaker 1: and many more to come. Wow, but guess what, John

501
00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:26,600
Speaker 1: what there's another update? So there's another update on some

502
00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:29,720
Speaker 1: relevant comments. So it feels like we're kind of locking down.

503
00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:34,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I see op is like basically be full,

504
00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:35,880
Speaker 2: being fully there.

505
00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:39,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, someone actually said I'm conflicted about this. I didn't

506
00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:43,360
Speaker 1: see the actually ghost scroll scrollscroll kat Em says, I'm

507
00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:46,440
Speaker 1: so conflicted about this story. Is anyone else conflicted? I

508
00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:49,680
Speaker 1: but actually don't feel that conflicted.

509
00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:52,520
Speaker 2: Should we Should we do a quick pull of uh, yeah,

510
00:25:52,600 --> 00:25:53,439
Speaker 2: get back together or not?

511
00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:55,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, get back to Yeah, get back together or not.

512
00:25:56,080 --> 00:26:00,520
Speaker 1: Let's maybe a curious poll because I feel I don't know.

513
00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:05,600
Speaker 1: I feel like I am kind of let's let's go,

514
00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:06,760
Speaker 1: let's let's let's try it.

515
00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:09,479
Speaker 2: I will say on the side of don't get back together,

516
00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:12,640
Speaker 2: just like, hey, you've kind of already been through this before,

517
00:26:13,119 --> 00:26:14,720
Speaker 2: you know, who knows?

518
00:26:14,760 --> 00:26:19,200
Speaker 1: Who knows what could happen? Because some people say, like, oh,

519
00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:22,040
Speaker 1: you got divorced once, there's a reason, don't read visit it.

520
00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:23,959
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, basically that kind of sentiment.

521
00:26:23,960 --> 00:26:24,440
Speaker 3: But I don't.

522
00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:26,520
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think first Last says he should

523
00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:29,720
Speaker 1: go to therapy. Maybe, I mean, maybe that's a good idea. Yeah,

524
00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:31,320
Speaker 1: like while getting back together.

525
00:26:31,240 --> 00:26:34,840
Speaker 2: Don't don't like fall head over here heels and like lose.

526
00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:38,879
Speaker 1: Your vote one for back together, two for nah. I

527
00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:40,800
Speaker 1: would love to know what y'all think. You just put

528
00:26:40,840 --> 00:26:44,040
Speaker 1: one or two in there. Sam Hyatt says, I am

529
00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:45,880
Speaker 1: pretty conflicted as well. It kind of feels like love

530
00:26:45,920 --> 00:26:52,560
Speaker 1: bombing slash Honeymoon Part two. On light on, light on,

531
00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:55,560
Speaker 1: light Yeah, on light like on light mode.

532
00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:57,879
Speaker 2: I feel like it's on like heavy mode. What is

533
00:26:57,960 --> 00:27:00,760
Speaker 2: what is love bombing on light Is that like love grating?

534
00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:01,560
Speaker 1: Yeah?

535
00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:05,920
Speaker 2: Like love love artillery? Yeah, love love machine gun, love

536
00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:06,480
Speaker 2: machine gun.

537
00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:13,600
Speaker 1: Yes. I I I feel like, at least on my end,

538
00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:19,359
Speaker 1: it feels like this seems really authentic and real. She's

539
00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:24,240
Speaker 1: definitely trying to win him over. But I don't think

540
00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:26,440
Speaker 1: in a love bomb. I mean it is love. I

541
00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:29,600
Speaker 1: mean she is putting, but like, is is love bombing?

542
00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:31,520
Speaker 1: Not just putting it all on the on the table?

543
00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:32,640
Speaker 1: You know? Yes?

544
00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:35,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like love bombing is is is bad

545
00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:40,080
Speaker 2: only when they use it as I like manipulation, manipulation thing.

546
00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:44,080
Speaker 2: It's just like get back together and generally speaking that

547
00:27:44,240 --> 00:27:46,760
Speaker 2: like love and adfirmration continues.

548
00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:52,480
Speaker 1: I would say like most of the time things are

549
00:27:52,680 --> 00:27:56,800
Speaker 1: most like like the most romantic gestures happen in the

550
00:27:56,920 --> 00:28:00,480
Speaker 1: courting space. Yeah, get romantic.

551
00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:03,720
Speaker 2: You're trying your heart. There is a natural like you're

552
00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:06,280
Speaker 2: trying hard to like impress the other person because you

553
00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:07,600
Speaker 2: want it to work out and.

554
00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:09,840
Speaker 1: You like them, which is why I anti love bomb.

555
00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:16,640
Speaker 1: Whoa whoa whoa, No you do that usually Usually I'm

556
00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:18,600
Speaker 1: a like a love bomber, like I'll like do like

557
00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:23,080
Speaker 1: I don't know, like I for a second date. I

558
00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:25,800
Speaker 1: flew a girl out to North Carolina, which was silly

559
00:28:25,840 --> 00:28:29,840
Speaker 1: of love, love, nuke, nuke. It was fun, no regrets,

560
00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:32,520
Speaker 1: but the last one I was just like, hear all

561
00:28:32,560 --> 00:28:36,080
Speaker 1: my reservations about dating the girl that I'm seeing right now,

562
00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:39,760
Speaker 1: and uh, and I think it was good. I think

563
00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:42,240
Speaker 1: it was good. Now now it's like we're starting from

564
00:28:42,240 --> 00:28:47,280
Speaker 1: a very low ground and like being just a normal

565
00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:49,440
Speaker 1: person is is good.

566
00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:51,640
Speaker 2: That expectation is low that way you can never let

567
00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:52,040
Speaker 2: them down.

568
00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:56,760
Speaker 1: Maybe anti love though, but I don't I feel like

569
00:28:56,920 --> 00:28:59,560
Speaker 1: if anything that's like a like there's no like manipulation

570
00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:01,880
Speaker 1: tactic there. It's like it's it's more it's not like

571
00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:04,440
Speaker 1: love bombing necessarily or anti love bombing. Is just like

572
00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:08,040
Speaker 1: here is authentically what I'm feeling right now, Yes, and

573
00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:10,080
Speaker 1: let me not try to masquerade. And there's and.

574
00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:12,600
Speaker 2: There's something to be said about like not like the

575
00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:14,880
Speaker 2: worst parts of me, but here's like parts of me

576
00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:18,480
Speaker 2: that like one would usually like not bring to the forefront.

577
00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:21,200
Speaker 2: And it's like here it is like if if we still,

578
00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:24,560
Speaker 2: if we still have a connection beyond that that means

579
00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:27,280
Speaker 2: that connection is probably much stronger.

580
00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:29,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, because of Because I also don't even know if

581
00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:33,440
Speaker 1: I actually know exactly what the definition of love bombing is, Sylvia.

582
00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:34,400
Speaker 1: Do you want how to define it?

583
00:29:35,480 --> 00:29:37,120
Speaker 3: Come here, Come here.

584
00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:47,280
Speaker 5: The full definition. Oh, we're taking this. We got we

585
00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:52,040
Speaker 5: have the action the action or practice of lavishing someone

586
00:29:52,080 --> 00:29:55,600
Speaker 5: with attention or affection, especially in order to influence or

587
00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 5: manipulate them.

588
00:29:57,640 --> 00:29:59,600
Speaker 1: And you're influencing them.

589
00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:03,440
Speaker 5: Ents. Colts often use tactics like love bombing to learn

590
00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:04,280
Speaker 5: new members.

591
00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:07,960
Speaker 3: I don't know, Like it's like, I think love bombing

592
00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:10,760
Speaker 3: is like I'm gonna give you a dollar's worth of

593
00:30:11,000 --> 00:30:12,920
Speaker 3: love and affection, and then the next time they see them,

594
00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:14,640
Speaker 3: they give him five cents, and then the next time

595
00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:16,560
Speaker 3: they give them fifty, and the next time they give

596
00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:18,520
Speaker 3: them like a dime, and then they give them back

597
00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:20,440
Speaker 3: like seventy five cents, and then it's right back down

598
00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:21,000
Speaker 3: to a penny.

599
00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:24,040
Speaker 1: So it's like it's like you're not interesting.

600
00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:27,120
Speaker 2: It's like it's like them coming back for the dollar. Yeah,

601
00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:28,200
Speaker 2: but they'll never get it.

602
00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:31,360
Speaker 3: You hook them, make a drug exactly.

603
00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:33,360
Speaker 1: Okay, it's pooky.

604
00:30:33,720 --> 00:30:34,160
Speaker 2: Anyway.

605
00:30:35,120 --> 00:30:37,840
Speaker 1: People voted to get back Together. Yeah, we got night

606
00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:41,440
Speaker 1: what how many people they get back together. So it

607
00:30:41,560 --> 00:30:44,520
Speaker 1: sounds like mostly the chat is in favor of Ope

608
00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:47,120
Speaker 1: getting back together. Seems like his ex wife. But let's

609
00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:50,360
Speaker 1: see if things deteriorate in this next update. I'm gonna

610
00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:53,880
Speaker 1: read some me rolling comments. But Kraken's a Red Dress says,

611
00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:56,440
Speaker 1: why not. You both are grown adults. My advice would

612
00:30:56,440 --> 00:30:58,400
Speaker 1: be to take things slow and enjoy the ride, see

613
00:30:58,400 --> 00:31:00,640
Speaker 1: where it takes you. If you both are then you're

614
00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:03,239
Speaker 1: meant to be. Just don't confuse lust with love. And

615
00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:06,320
Speaker 1: you both are in a unique situation here. You aren't strangers.

616
00:31:06,360 --> 00:31:08,640
Speaker 1: You both know what didn't work out and what did.

617
00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:10,960
Speaker 1: See how it goes? All the best and nope, he.

618
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:11,800
Speaker 2: Responds, thank you.

619
00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:14,720
Speaker 1: I agree with the advice of not getting confused into lust,

620
00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:16,720
Speaker 1: and I believe we have matured to the point where

621
00:31:16,760 --> 00:31:18,680
Speaker 1: we can sit down and find a solution for any

622
00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:21,760
Speaker 1: problem that might arise in the future. And then Tess

623
00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:25,440
Speaker 1: terser somebody eight says, just be sure y'all talk through

624
00:31:25,520 --> 00:31:28,840
Speaker 1: things that cause stress and eventually ruin the relationship, canceling

625
00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:32,000
Speaker 1: work plans. Now, when the relationship is in its infancy,

626
00:31:32,040 --> 00:31:36,000
Speaker 1: in the honeymoon phase exists, it's nice. It's nice, you know,

627
00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:38,520
Speaker 1: while the honeymoon phase exists. That's a nice thing to do.

628
00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:42,240
Speaker 1: But will she still feel the same way and prioritize

629
00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:45,320
Speaker 1: you when y'all have settled into the relationship. Is it

630
00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:48,680
Speaker 1: just a love bomb? I think it's really important y'all

631
00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:51,960
Speaker 1: discuss what didn't work for each other the last rodeo

632
00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:55,240
Speaker 1: and be sure those same relationship patterns don't exist, which

633
00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:59,560
Speaker 1: is why someone before was like, do therapy if you're

634
00:31:59,560 --> 00:32:01,960
Speaker 1: going to get if you're actually going to take this seriously, yeah,

635
00:32:01,960 --> 00:32:02,600
Speaker 1: they should. Definitely.

636
00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:04,480
Speaker 2: I love the idea of like walking through, like, Okay,

637
00:32:04,520 --> 00:32:06,440
Speaker 2: what's all the reasons why it didn't work last time?

638
00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:08,440
Speaker 1: If you're mature and level headed, that would be very helpful.

639
00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:11,719
Speaker 1: I think also definitely, like if you were to get remarried,

640
00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:19,320
Speaker 1: therapy before that point for sure. Yep. Yeah. But if

641
00:32:19,600 --> 00:32:23,560
Speaker 1: she really is married to her work, so to speak,

642
00:32:23,640 --> 00:32:26,040
Speaker 1: then it may explain why she struggled to find a partner.

643
00:32:26,320 --> 00:32:29,440
Speaker 1: Maybe you were the only one who tolerated the longest

644
00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:31,760
Speaker 1: as compared to others, And would you be okay if

645
00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:38,040
Speaker 1: it's still a similar priority now, That is a good

646
00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:41,720
Speaker 1: conspiracy theory. That is a good conspiracy theory. That is

647
00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:42,640
Speaker 1: a good conspiracy theory.

648
00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:44,960
Speaker 2: But you know who's prioritizing us right now?

649
00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:51,480
Speaker 1: Who? Sleepless Nights? Oh with the one hundred dollars.

650
00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:55,880
Speaker 2: Tip on the donation is back in place? Is the

651
00:32:55,920 --> 00:32:58,080
Speaker 2: reign of Sleepless about to resume?

652
00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:00,840
Speaker 1: And also cloth on the condo.

653
00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:04,400
Speaker 3: She also gifted twenty memberships. It didn't show up, but

654
00:33:04,520 --> 00:33:06,160
Speaker 3: she also that many memberships.

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Speaker 2: Oh again, back to back, sleepless nice, ten bucks. I

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Speaker 2: meant to say, good morning everyone, Also, welcome back Riley.

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Speaker 2: Hope you had a good time on his old trip

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Speaker 1: We don't have a great trip. I do wish he

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Speaker 3: Guys got a little taste to what camping's like without me.

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Speaker 1: If you're in the discord, I sent some videos of

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Speaker 1: Scrolling up Sleepless Nights. Two month membership to our own Sillies.

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Speaker 2: Discord Discord is where you get it. We'll just chat

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Speaker 2: with you. Andy and Sam Bowden, thanks for the one

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Speaker 1: Okayafa death of that. We got it. We got it.

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Speaker 2: We're done.

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Speaker 1: But we're done for now.

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Speaker 2: All right, but you know what we're gonna do right now?

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Speaker 1: What are we gonna do? You gotta get back and

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Speaker 1: to this story because this story is on over so

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Speaker 1: TLDR for everyone who's new to the stream.

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Speaker 2: Basically, oh pe dating this girl.

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Speaker 1: It's in the beginning of the relationships and then out

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Speaker 1: of the blue, his ex wife is like, hey, watching

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Speaker 1: out of the blue, his parents die and then his

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Speaker 1: ex wife Riley always laughs at that. His ex wife

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Speaker 1: wanted to help him through the death of both his parents,

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Speaker 1: and so they start getting close, get a little, get

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Speaker 1: Ope and wants to take Ope out. Opis like, maybe

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Speaker 1: I should break up with the girl that I'm seeing

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Speaker 1: is moving towards it and the ex wife and OP,

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Speaker 1: you're gonna get back together. But it was after five years,

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Speaker 1: so let's see if it actually pans out. Well.

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Speaker 3: Also, twenty or twelve more likes until we spill that

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Speaker 3: will well my.

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Speaker 1: Likes, then that wheel go. So I'm going to read

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Speaker 1: a response from Ope because someone brought out that basically,

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Speaker 1: OP and the ex wife broke up because the ex

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Speaker 1: wife wanted to prioritize her career over the relationship. And

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Speaker 1: the success. Is it gonna happen? An OPI response, you

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Speaker 1: make some very good points. Our marriage basically broke down

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Speaker 1: so she went off alone. We talked about this. I

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Speaker 1: asked if this situation were to happen again. She said

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Speaker 1: she might have to take business trips, but nothing longer

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Speaker 1: We got two more, so hey, guys, I'm back. Many

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Speaker 1: wanted to know how it went. We had a very

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Speaker 1: the afternoon, but got so caught up in the festival's activities.

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Speaker 1: Then I wanted to show her a popular landmark in

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Speaker 1: the evening. It was almost midnight when we got back,

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Speaker 1: and long story short, I ended up spending the night

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Speaker 2: Oh snap, maybe it's.

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Speaker 1: The after glow speaking the afterglow of what might you ask?

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Speaker 1: Who knows? But I think we could really have something

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Speaker 1: good going. We agreed that we have both matured from

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Speaker 1: other they never went away, but we have also chatted

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Speaker 1: and changed as people, so of course it's different now,

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Speaker 1: and in a good way. I guess that the only

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Speaker 1: thing to do is go forward and see where leads.

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Speaker 1: I'm quite optimistic, but I also understand we have to

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Speaker 1: communicate and be careful to not fall back into the

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Speaker 1: same issues that ended our first relationship. Of course, we

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Speaker 1: aren't talking or of remarrying anytime soon, and we very

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Speaker 1: well could not remarry at all. We'll take our sweet

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Speaker 1: time and see where this relationship leads. Wish us good luck. Wow,

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Speaker 1: but there is another you're joking.

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Speaker 2: OPTI I am not joking.

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Speaker 1: I can't handle it. Well, you're gonna have to. We're going.

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Speaker 1: Let's go, We're moving. We're moving, and we're groving. Lily

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Speaker 1: ex Pilly says, friends that love each other. Belle Cockling says,

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Speaker 2: Pigeon boy, I don't know if I like this.

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Speaker 1: I got but you can do Victorias av says, you

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869
00:43:55,400 --> 00:44:00,520
Speaker 1: too much drama for adults. Well, do you guys want

870
00:44:00,520 --> 00:44:02,560
Speaker 1: a wheelspin now or do you want me to read

871
00:44:02,600 --> 00:44:06,120
Speaker 1: the story? We're so close right where we had We

872
00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:09,400
Speaker 1: had two more updates. Wow, everything hurt, says strap in.

873
00:44:09,880 --> 00:44:13,360
Speaker 1: We're strapping in. We're going so ex wife says, I

874
00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:18,200
Speaker 1: haven't changed at all. Really, wait, haven't changed it all.

875
00:44:18,200 --> 00:44:22,000
Speaker 1: I've ruin matured right. So for context, this is a

876
00:44:22,040 --> 00:44:24,200
Speaker 1: month later. This is April second, well not quite a

877
00:44:24,239 --> 00:44:26,799
Speaker 1: month later. This is okay, no like a week later,

878
00:44:27,480 --> 00:44:31,560
Speaker 1: but the month the month after March April. For context,

879
00:44:31,880 --> 00:44:35,120
Speaker 1: we have been divorced for five years. She reconnected with

880
00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:39,400
Speaker 1: me last year and we started dating last month. Things

881
00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:42,600
Speaker 1: are quite good for now, but like many people said,

882
00:44:42,880 --> 00:44:46,879
Speaker 1: we're still in the honeymoon phase, so it's wait too

883
00:44:46,880 --> 00:44:49,480
Speaker 1: soon to We mostly go out on fun dates, and

884
00:44:49,480 --> 00:44:53,480
Speaker 1: we celebrated ether Easter with my sister and aunt, who

885
00:44:53,600 --> 00:44:56,479
Speaker 1: welcomed her back with open arms. We ended up again

886
00:44:56,880 --> 00:44:59,200
Speaker 1: talking in her car as she drove me home. I

887
00:44:59,239 --> 00:45:02,040
Speaker 1: swear guys have my own car and license, but she

888
00:45:02,120 --> 00:45:06,480
Speaker 1: always insists on driving herself. Maybe I was a bit

889
00:45:06,520 --> 00:45:10,560
Speaker 1: tipsy and I told her how much she's changed in

890
00:45:10,680 --> 00:45:15,200
Speaker 1: personality and appearance and standing. She said, I changed little,

891
00:45:15,800 --> 00:45:19,040
Speaker 1: if not at all, and that's why she wanted to

892
00:45:19,040 --> 00:45:22,120
Speaker 1: get back with me, she said. I think. She said,

893
00:45:22,360 --> 00:45:24,640
Speaker 1: I think I have changed, but she saw I am

894
00:45:24,840 --> 00:45:28,799
Speaker 1: still the same optimistic, kind hearted, fun guy she knew,

895
00:45:29,400 --> 00:45:32,439
Speaker 1: especially after she saw how I'm dealing with losing both

896
00:45:32,480 --> 00:45:35,240
Speaker 1: my parents and how I dealt with another deep loss

897
00:45:35,280 --> 00:45:37,360
Speaker 1: two years ago. That's really sweet.

898
00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:39,040
Speaker 2: I thought I was gonna be bad.

899
00:45:39,239 --> 00:45:41,840
Speaker 1: Oh, it's like You're the same good guy I know,

900
00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:43,040
Speaker 1: and I've always loved you.

901
00:45:43,239 --> 00:45:44,520
Speaker 2: Yeah.

902
00:45:44,600 --> 00:45:47,200
Speaker 1: I thought I had grown a bit jaded and maybe

903
00:45:47,239 --> 00:45:50,880
Speaker 1: pessimistic those years, but she said it's not the case.

904
00:45:51,200 --> 00:45:54,560
Speaker 1: She says, I have matured, but deep down I am

905
00:45:54,640 --> 00:45:58,000
Speaker 1: the same. I think she has matured in those years,

906
00:45:58,239 --> 00:46:01,319
Speaker 1: way more than me. Just sharing some thoughts. This is.

907
00:46:03,640 --> 00:46:04,560
Speaker 3: So cute.

908
00:46:06,239 --> 00:46:13,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna cry. Oh crap.

909
00:46:20,760 --> 00:46:23,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, you do make the noise really well.

910
00:46:23,280 --> 00:46:30,200
Speaker 1: So anyway, there is one final update. One final update.

911
00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:33,600
Speaker 1: Daniel Firefer says, just read Sam. Blue Alkie says, Sam

912
00:46:33,680 --> 00:46:37,520
Speaker 1: is such a lover. I am a lover boy. That's

913
00:46:37,520 --> 00:46:39,920
Speaker 1: why I've been in relate, back to back relationships. And

914
00:46:40,080 --> 00:46:43,880
Speaker 1: you guys have seen me for my my hoe phase

915
00:46:44,160 --> 00:46:45,120
Speaker 1: of being a year single.

916
00:46:45,160 --> 00:46:45,680
Speaker 2: What a span?

917
00:46:45,960 --> 00:46:48,960
Speaker 1: What a span, but it is the shortest time or

918
00:46:49,080 --> 00:46:52,399
Speaker 1: longest time I've been single, and the only period really

919
00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:56,359
Speaker 1: since sixteen. So love her boy I am. But let's

920
00:46:56,360 --> 00:47:01,840
Speaker 1: get to this juicy up day. Hello guys, I hope

921
00:47:02,400 --> 00:47:06,200
Speaker 1: you are doing well. My ex wife of five years

922
00:47:06,200 --> 00:47:08,560
Speaker 1: reached out to me last year after my parents passing,

923
00:47:08,880 --> 00:47:12,040
Speaker 1: and she's been a support for me ever since. Last February.

924
00:47:12,360 --> 00:47:17,359
Speaker 1: We resumed our relationship and things are going pretty well good.

925
00:47:17,520 --> 00:47:19,640
Speaker 1: We did talk about our new relationship the long term,

926
00:47:19,680 --> 00:47:22,239
Speaker 1: and we have agreed we are in no haste to

927
00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:25,880
Speaker 1: get remarried anytime soon. However, she would like us to

928
00:47:26,000 --> 00:47:32,239
Speaker 1: explore the theme of children. The theme what does that even?

929
00:47:32,560 --> 00:47:34,919
Speaker 1: What does that mean? Just like going raw dog?

930
00:47:36,719 --> 00:47:38,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, what is the theme of children?

931
00:47:38,680 --> 00:47:42,400
Speaker 1: I have no idea. I explored the metaphor, Yeah, the

932
00:47:42,440 --> 00:47:45,520
Speaker 1: metaphor of children at some point in the future, as

933
00:47:45,560 --> 00:47:47,759
Speaker 1: in a couple of years. The topic of children is

934
00:47:47,800 --> 00:47:50,560
Speaker 1: a bit sensitive for me because I lost a child

935
00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:54,399
Speaker 1: in a previous relationship with another woman while we were

936
00:47:54,400 --> 00:47:58,319
Speaker 1: divorced miscarriage. Oh my god, and it was heavy. Oh

937
00:47:58,440 --> 00:48:01,680
Speaker 1: that was the the other loss he was talking about.

938
00:48:02,239 --> 00:48:05,640
Speaker 2: Oh was this in the five year spanner? Before they even.

939
00:48:05,800 --> 00:48:09,800
Speaker 1: This was in the five year span. Oh okay, However,

940
00:48:09,960 --> 00:48:11,960
Speaker 1: I would be open to get on the topic if

941
00:48:12,000 --> 00:48:14,160
Speaker 1: things keep going well in the next couple of years.

942
00:48:14,600 --> 00:48:16,920
Speaker 1: Ex wife knows about this and has been very respectful

943
00:48:16,920 --> 00:48:20,240
Speaker 1: about it and agrees that now is definitely too soon. However,

944
00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:22,320
Speaker 1: she wanted to put all her cards on the table,

945
00:48:22,680 --> 00:48:25,880
Speaker 1: and I appreciate her being straightforward. She asked me to

946
00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:29,239
Speaker 1: consider moving in with her full time at some point

947
00:48:29,280 --> 00:48:32,000
Speaker 1: this year. Her house is very spacious, and she says

948
00:48:32,040 --> 00:48:34,880
Speaker 1: it's too big for her all alone. Too big for

949
00:48:34,960 --> 00:48:38,879
Speaker 1: this little girl, all alone alone come keeping company. As

950
00:48:38,880 --> 00:48:40,560
Speaker 1: of now, I sleep at her place a couple of

951
00:48:40,600 --> 00:48:42,840
Speaker 1: days a week, and she sleeps a mine on the weekends.

952
00:48:43,000 --> 00:48:46,240
Speaker 1: We're also planning a long romantic weekend at my parents'

953
00:48:46,280 --> 00:48:50,640
Speaker 1: house for the next week. So things are good. We

954
00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:53,680
Speaker 1: got the serious talk, but for now we will keep

955
00:48:53,880 --> 00:48:58,759
Speaker 1: taking things slowly, enjoying each other's company and exploring our

956
00:48:58,800 --> 00:49:02,080
Speaker 1: new relationship. At this point, I'm not even sure I

957
00:49:02,080 --> 00:49:05,920
Speaker 1: should call her my ex wife anymore, she says. She

958
00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:15,160
Speaker 1: says that girlfriend is just fine, and that ladies and

959
00:49:15,280 --> 00:49:19,480
Speaker 1: gentlemen is where it ends. The rapid little do to

960
00:49:19,680 --> 00:49:24,240
Speaker 1: wrap it up, wow, wow, wow wow. Very cute, very cute,

961
00:49:24,360 --> 00:49:26,600
Speaker 1: very cute. I love this. I love this.

962
00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:31,759
Speaker 2: I think this is the best ending one could hope

963
00:49:31,760 --> 00:49:33,680
Speaker 2: for at this point. At this point, obviously, the full

964
00:49:33,719 --> 00:49:35,080
Speaker 2: thing is like, do they end up seeing each other

965
00:49:35,080 --> 00:49:35,520
Speaker 2: for a long time?

966
00:49:35,560 --> 00:49:39,600
Speaker 1: Get married? Monique Bavin says, ulterior motives, I don't agree.

967
00:49:40,320 --> 00:49:43,359
Speaker 1: Let let a thing be cute. Gosh darn no, let

968
00:49:43,400 --> 00:49:46,640
Speaker 1: it start cute. Morrey says, for real, how do I

969
00:49:46,680 --> 00:49:48,279
Speaker 1: know when you all gonna be live where we're live

970
00:49:48,360 --> 00:49:52,960
Speaker 1: at the same time? Three pm on Tuesdays, which we're

971
00:49:53,000 --> 00:49:53,520
Speaker 1: never late.

972
00:49:53,440 --> 00:49:56,640
Speaker 2: For, no and twelve pm the other days.

973
00:49:56,800 --> 00:49:58,920
Speaker 3: Dude, they are like you know, you know how I

974
00:49:58,960 --> 00:50:00,600
Speaker 3: had to get them into the stream. Today.

975
00:50:01,040 --> 00:50:02,200
Speaker 1: Riley was paddling me.

976
00:50:02,640 --> 00:50:04,799
Speaker 2: Look literally he was.

977
00:50:04,960 --> 00:50:08,440
Speaker 1: He was slapping my sweet booty to get up.

978
00:50:08,520 --> 00:50:10,560
Speaker 2: Look at that thing, dude. John got up here, the

979
00:50:10,600 --> 00:50:14,880
Speaker 2: quicker dude, he was stolen. He was like, I am crippled.

980
00:50:16,760 --> 00:50:17,839
Speaker 3: I forgot about that.

981
00:50:21,239 --> 00:50:28,200
Speaker 1: Whacking my butt and I rolled my ankle yesterday. Oh man, it.

982
00:50:28,200 --> 00:50:29,960
Speaker 3: Was so fun. I didn't get it. I didn't chance

983
00:50:30,040 --> 00:50:31,240
Speaker 3: to get John's, but I got Sam's.

984
00:50:31,239 --> 00:50:35,360
Speaker 2: A question quite like ten dives, you might get me

985
00:50:35,400 --> 00:50:36,560
Speaker 2: in the future quick.

986
00:50:36,640 --> 00:50:43,000
Speaker 1: It did not stop. But it seems as though we

987
00:50:43,120 --> 00:50:45,399
Speaker 1: got a wheel spin on our hands. Oh yeah, does

988
00:50:45,440 --> 00:50:51,839
Speaker 1: you know what that means? Spin that wheel? There?

989
00:50:51,840 --> 00:50:52,200
Speaker 2: It is?

990
00:50:52,320 --> 00:50:59,759
Speaker 1: There we go? We go the best impression?

991
00:51:01,239 --> 00:51:04,000
Speaker 3: What you mean by best Sophia produced? And we still

992
00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:04,600
Speaker 3: have leftover?

993
00:51:04,760 --> 00:51:05,239
Speaker 1: What have we got?

994
00:51:05,239 --> 00:51:06,840
Speaker 3: Sophia tell us.

995
00:51:06,960 --> 00:51:10,360
Speaker 5: You have to do your your best impression and then.

996
00:51:10,239 --> 00:51:14,280
Speaker 1: I judge them of something? Okay, best impression? Yeah sweet?

997
00:51:14,440 --> 00:51:18,000
Speaker 1: How many seconds do we have to respond right now?

998
00:51:18,400 --> 00:51:20,640
Speaker 5: Now? Whoever wants to go first?

999
00:51:21,440 --> 00:51:25,439
Speaker 1: Charm? I don't want to do an impression all fake mouth,

1000
00:51:26,600 --> 00:51:37,520
Speaker 1: all right? Like Reggie, where's my scoopy snake? John is

1001
00:51:37,560 --> 00:51:40,120
Speaker 1: so much better at impressions than I have, though I

1002
00:51:40,160 --> 00:51:42,360
Speaker 1: do have certain you know, what's all the impressions that

1003
00:51:42,440 --> 00:51:43,279
Speaker 1: Sophie is good at?

1004
00:51:43,320 --> 00:51:46,640
Speaker 2: I'm in bad at. I'm bad at or accents specifically too,

1005
00:51:46,960 --> 00:51:47,319
Speaker 2: I'm not going.

1006
00:51:47,960 --> 00:51:49,880
Speaker 1: I like that. That was a fun little wheelspet is

1007
00:51:49,920 --> 00:51:52,880
Speaker 1: a fun little little wheels for you? I like that?

1008
00:51:54,600 --> 00:51:55,239
Speaker 1: What else? I like?

1009
00:51:55,320 --> 00:51:56,040
Speaker 3: What's the next goal?

1010
00:51:56,080 --> 00:51:56,239
Speaker 1: Real?

1011
00:51:56,280 --> 00:51:56,560
Speaker 3: Quick?

1012
00:51:57,120 --> 00:51:57,520
Speaker 1: Uh?

1013
00:51:58,560 --> 00:52:01,040
Speaker 2: Seven fifty seven fifty guys seven?

1014
00:52:01,320 --> 00:52:03,200
Speaker 1: We can do it and we have eight hundred and

1015
00:52:03,320 --> 00:52:06,480
Speaker 1: ninety one people in that stream. Oh that's how blue

1016
00:52:06,520 --> 00:52:09,000
Speaker 1: ALKI said. There should have been a bout a vote.

1017
00:52:09,239 --> 00:52:11,719
Speaker 1: Why why would I want to hurt my feelings more?

1018
00:52:12,400 --> 00:52:14,799
Speaker 1: A vote for what? For? Who did the better impression? Oh?

1019
00:52:15,920 --> 00:52:18,000
Speaker 2: That is kind of a good idea. It is a

1020
00:52:18,000 --> 00:52:19,880
Speaker 2: good idea, although he is a judges also.

1021
00:52:19,760 --> 00:52:22,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, we can do it. We can do next time. Yeah,

1022
00:52:22,800 --> 00:52:25,480
Speaker 1: but I vote to do more stories.

1023
00:52:25,840 --> 00:52:28,719
Speaker 2: I vote to do that too. Maybe we can hit

1024
00:52:29,440 --> 00:52:32,080
Speaker 2: this next one. Uh, let's freaking do it? Where am

1025
00:52:32,120 --> 00:52:33,440
Speaker 2: I at for?

1026
00:52:35,960 --> 00:52:38,920
Speaker 1: But I would also like to say a moonnight eighteen

1027
00:52:38,920 --> 00:52:40,600
Speaker 1: thanks for the one dollar tip. I think she had

1028
00:52:40,600 --> 00:52:42,960
Speaker 1: a mid life crisis or some eye opening moment when

1029
00:52:43,000 --> 00:52:47,000
Speaker 1: she realized what she did was wrong. Mmm.

1030
00:52:47,200 --> 00:52:48,160
Speaker 2: And that's part of the growth.

1031
00:52:48,200 --> 00:52:49,360
Speaker 1: Yea, that's part of the growth. I can see that

1032
00:52:49,440 --> 00:52:51,160
Speaker 1: you can have a mid life crisis and change. I

1033
00:52:51,200 --> 00:52:53,560
Speaker 1: can I can totally see that everything hurt says spank

1034
00:52:53,640 --> 00:52:56,120
Speaker 1: that story. Ooh, spank it.

1035
00:52:56,239 --> 00:52:58,200
Speaker 2: You know what I'm gonna do that right now?

1036
00:52:58,440 --> 00:52:58,759
Speaker 1: Hit it.

1037
00:52:59,080 --> 00:53:01,200
Speaker 2: I think my wife she just cheated on me. Should

1038
00:53:01,200 --> 00:53:05,120
Speaker 2: I divorce her? Maybe this comes from devastated husband all

1039
00:53:05,239 --> 00:53:07,359
Speaker 2: who says that is heartbreaking?

1040
00:53:08,239 --> 00:53:08,919
Speaker 1: Heartbreaking?

1041
00:53:09,200 --> 00:53:12,920
Speaker 2: I mail forty think that last night my wife, female

1042
00:53:12,920 --> 00:53:15,319
Speaker 2: forty three, cheated on me. We have been married for

1043
00:53:15,400 --> 00:53:18,480
Speaker 2: ten years, together for thirteen and she went out to

1044
00:53:18,760 --> 00:53:22,000
Speaker 2: buy some stuff for the home, which is weird. She

1045
00:53:22,120 --> 00:53:24,800
Speaker 2: hates doing that, and she went with a male friend

1046
00:53:24,920 --> 00:53:27,600
Speaker 2: that I don't know, okay, but at least I guess

1047
00:53:27,640 --> 00:53:30,319
Speaker 2: he knows that she is going deserve what I mean,

1048
00:53:30,400 --> 00:53:30,759
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1049
00:53:30,920 --> 00:53:37,160
Speaker 6: Maybe oh whoo oh oh, drip drop drip jippardy drop

1050
00:53:37,320 --> 00:53:41,200
Speaker 6: for the one hundred dollar freaking tip on the donation, Like,

1051
00:53:41,480 --> 00:53:42,680
Speaker 6: hopefully this is.

1052
00:53:42,640 --> 00:53:45,120
Speaker 2: Still going when I get back home from my drive,

1053
00:53:45,200 --> 00:53:46,400
Speaker 2: Drip drop, you know, thanks.

1054
00:53:46,239 --> 00:53:49,600
Speaker 1: To you, probably will be probably will be dang dang dang,

1055
00:53:49,640 --> 00:53:50,520
Speaker 1: certain dang shirt.

1056
00:53:50,600 --> 00:53:54,200
Speaker 2: I would say, darn totin wow, thank you, drip drop drip.

1057
00:53:54,200 --> 00:53:58,960
Speaker 2: Appreciate drop dropping some bands dropping bands. But back to

1058
00:53:59,040 --> 00:54:03,600
Speaker 2: the story. So my wife stayed out for several hours.

1059
00:54:03,800 --> 00:54:06,000
Speaker 2: It was weird because she spent the day getting ready

1060
00:54:06,120 --> 00:54:08,440
Speaker 2: like it was a date. And when she got home,

1061
00:54:08,560 --> 00:54:11,799
Speaker 2: I grew suspicious and checked around the room and she

1062
00:54:11,840 --> 00:54:16,839
Speaker 2: had put on her sexy underwear meant for just our bedroom. Well,

1063
00:54:17,280 --> 00:54:19,319
Speaker 2: there's one more bedroom being added to the equation. My friend,

1064
00:54:19,440 --> 00:54:22,759
Speaker 2: Oh no, I do all the childcare, so I put

1065
00:54:22,760 --> 00:54:25,440
Speaker 2: the kids to bed. Oh keeps getting saddered.

1066
00:54:25,480 --> 00:54:30,560
Speaker 1: Oh no, he war than sexy underwear to shop it

1067
00:54:30,640 --> 00:54:31,520
Speaker 1: with her mail Fri.

1068
00:54:31,760 --> 00:54:34,040
Speaker 2: Put the kids to bed, Babe, I've got business to

1069
00:54:34,080 --> 00:54:34,520
Speaker 2: attend to.

1070
00:54:34,680 --> 00:54:37,879
Speaker 1: Oh that's even more, even more heartbreaking.

1071
00:54:38,280 --> 00:54:40,799
Speaker 2: She showed up after and refused to tell me most

1072
00:54:40,840 --> 00:54:42,560
Speaker 2: of the details of the man that she was with,

1073
00:54:42,960 --> 00:54:46,000
Speaker 2: and told me that in order to stay in our marriage,

1074
00:54:46,080 --> 00:54:50,359
Speaker 2: she needed some time that was just for her, some

1075
00:54:50,400 --> 00:54:51,360
Speaker 2: special time.

1076
00:54:51,480 --> 00:54:54,120
Speaker 1: Some time that's just for her, like to cheat on you.

1077
00:54:54,600 --> 00:54:58,239
Speaker 2: Yes, of course, babe, it's not cheating. It's just my

1078
00:54:58,280 --> 00:55:02,200
Speaker 2: special it's my special time. Baby needs some space, babe,

1079
00:55:02,480 --> 00:55:02,960
Speaker 2: give it to me.

1080
00:55:03,600 --> 00:55:08,240
Speaker 1: Not even looking into his eyes. It's only dog. Someone're

1081
00:55:08,239 --> 00:55:10,040
Speaker 1: wearing a condom, so it's like we're not even touching,

1082
00:55:10,160 --> 00:55:11,320
Speaker 1: Bell Conkling.

1083
00:55:11,680 --> 00:55:13,200
Speaker 3: It's like we're not even having sex.

1084
00:55:13,440 --> 00:55:17,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, Bell Conkling said, raw Dog should be counted as

1085
00:55:17,160 --> 00:55:17,520
Speaker 2: a minute.

1086
00:55:18,040 --> 00:55:25,320
Speaker 1: No too much, that's not a swear to raw and Dog.

1087
00:55:25,480 --> 00:55:27,880
Speaker 1: Everyone just wants another mass. Yeah, everyone just wanted.

1088
00:55:29,400 --> 00:55:31,960
Speaker 3: I say, raging on all the time, Like I'll be like.

1089
00:55:31,960 --> 00:55:35,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, just like raw Dog in life, Yeah yeah.

1090
00:55:35,200 --> 00:55:38,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, just raw dogging the stream right now. I don't

1091
00:55:38,600 --> 00:55:39,480
Speaker 3: even have caffeine.

1092
00:55:39,560 --> 00:55:45,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, dude, he is rot. Did you not have caffeine?

1093
00:55:46,320 --> 00:55:50,760
Speaker 2: Ad minute for a lying Yeah, one more minute. Okay. Anyways,

1094
00:55:51,000 --> 00:55:54,320
Speaker 2: let's get back to the Storylas gentlemen. She oldly told

1095
00:55:54,360 --> 00:55:57,200
Speaker 2: me this guy's first name, and when I thought back,

1096
00:55:57,239 --> 00:55:59,240
Speaker 2: I had seen a name pop up in her text

1097
00:55:59,280 --> 00:56:00,120
Speaker 2: for the last steve.

1098
00:56:00,200 --> 00:56:02,480
Speaker 1: Months, oh several months, several months.

1099
00:56:02,560 --> 00:56:04,640
Speaker 2: I didn't think anything of it at the time because

1100
00:56:04,800 --> 00:56:06,799
Speaker 2: it was the name of a work friend that she

1101
00:56:06,960 --> 00:56:09,359
Speaker 2: has and they often need to reach out to each

1102
00:56:09,360 --> 00:56:14,520
Speaker 2: other after hours for big projects.

1103
00:56:14,560 --> 00:56:17,680
Speaker 1: What it weener? Oh, I think.

1104
00:56:19,280 --> 00:56:21,400
Speaker 2: I think that she has been slowly building up the

1105
00:56:21,640 --> 00:56:25,320
Speaker 2: courage to cheat on me, and over the last two months,

1106
00:56:25,520 --> 00:56:29,319
Speaker 2: our sex life has collapsed to zero and she has

1107
00:56:29,320 --> 00:56:33,760
Speaker 2: grown extremely hostile without any reason, giving seemingly out of nowhere.

1108
00:56:34,000 --> 00:56:38,719
Speaker 1: Usually that is an indicator of something when the sexy

1109
00:56:38,800 --> 00:56:43,200
Speaker 1: life changes. At the very least, it deserves a conversation.

1110
00:56:43,239 --> 00:56:44,920
Speaker 1: It deserves a conversations, deserves a conversation.

1111
00:56:45,040 --> 00:56:47,960
Speaker 3: Sometimes they cheat like a couple, like someone in a

1112
00:56:48,040 --> 00:56:51,600
Speaker 3: relationship will cheat, and this sex life goes up. Really,

1113
00:56:52,080 --> 00:56:53,680
Speaker 3: I think I've like read one story.

1114
00:56:53,760 --> 00:56:57,200
Speaker 1: I've never read a story like that. Oh, have you

1115
00:56:57,280 --> 00:56:59,359
Speaker 1: read a story like that, I feel like usually it's

1116
00:56:59,400 --> 00:57:03,600
Speaker 1: like you have. Maybe it's just a Riley Sophia stream.

1117
00:57:03,920 --> 00:57:04,960
Speaker 1: I don't remember that happening.

1118
00:57:06,239 --> 00:57:15,759
Speaker 7: Ooo anyway, pigeon an orange treem w Anyways, last week

1119
00:57:15,960 --> 00:57:18,120
Speaker 7: she told me that she doesn't want to be married.

1120
00:57:18,720 --> 00:57:21,520
Speaker 1: Oh whoa, whoa, whoa.

1121
00:57:22,200 --> 00:57:25,680
Speaker 2: That's not a clear signal. Now at least we're getting

1122
00:57:25,680 --> 00:57:28,720
Speaker 2: some clarity. And it has nothing to do with me

1123
00:57:29,560 --> 00:57:30,640
Speaker 2: an outrageous assertion.

1124
00:57:30,960 --> 00:57:35,720
Speaker 1: It has everything to do with her a coworker's big project.

1125
00:57:35,760 --> 00:57:36,320
Speaker 1: Oh god.

1126
00:57:37,120 --> 00:57:40,280
Speaker 2: Before everyone says I don't do enough as a husband,

1127
00:57:40,360 --> 00:57:43,760
Speaker 2: I do one hundred percent of the childcare, shopping, housework,

1128
00:57:43,960 --> 00:57:47,760
Speaker 2: and I work from home, though she is the primary breadwinner.

1129
00:57:48,440 --> 00:57:52,800
Speaker 2: I am emotionally available, amateur, and I don't have a temper. Well, now,

1130
00:57:52,800 --> 00:57:55,440
Speaker 2: it just sounds like you're trying to show all right,

1131
00:57:56,120 --> 00:57:59,760
Speaker 2: all right, alert advertising for some new ladies over your god.

1132
00:58:00,320 --> 00:58:03,400
Speaker 1: And I've read it has any eligible bachelor heads call me,

1133
00:58:04,280 --> 00:58:06,600
Speaker 1: Oh my god. But I do feel this is heartbreaking,

1134
00:58:06,920 --> 00:58:08,680
Speaker 1: Like this sucks. It sucks. I'm sorry, Op.

1135
00:58:08,920 --> 00:58:11,760
Speaker 2: I stay relatively fit and am attractive enough. I am

1136
00:58:11,760 --> 00:58:14,720
Speaker 2: not controlling. I don't object at all to her having

1137
00:58:14,720 --> 00:58:19,000
Speaker 2: male friends. But this screams affair. I am utterly tattered,

1138
00:58:19,040 --> 00:58:20,960
Speaker 2: and I feel like I am dying.

1139
00:58:21,520 --> 00:58:24,440
Speaker 1: I would love to see this in like a hinge bio.

1140
00:58:25,320 --> 00:58:26,200
Speaker 1: I get a little bit.

1141
00:58:26,120 --> 00:58:31,880
Speaker 2: About me, a little bit about me, fairly attractive, I'm

1142
00:58:32,040 --> 00:58:35,400
Speaker 2: and I'm utterly shattered to feel like I'm dying. Do

1143
00:58:35,440 --> 00:58:37,000
Speaker 2: you want to pick up the pieces?

1144
00:58:37,760 --> 00:58:38,320
Speaker 1: Come on in?

1145
00:58:38,880 --> 00:58:41,240
Speaker 2: Oh my god, she has been so angry lately that

1146
00:58:41,280 --> 00:58:44,480
Speaker 2: communicating with her is a nightmare. This is a throwaway account.

1147
00:58:44,480 --> 00:58:47,320
Speaker 2: I am too ashamed to post it to my fame,

1148
00:58:48,000 --> 00:58:54,000
Speaker 2: too ashamed to shame the shame, Oh shame. I've won

1149
00:58:54,120 --> 00:58:57,640
Speaker 2: a divorce her, But that would break apart my children's home.

1150
00:58:58,040 --> 00:59:02,200
Speaker 1: If I file for the divorce? Would does that make me? Oh,

1151
00:59:02,440 --> 00:59:05,560
Speaker 1: that's the most heartbreaking finish the sudden. Sorry. If I

1152
00:59:05,640 --> 00:59:06,080
Speaker 1: vow for.

1153
00:59:06,080 --> 00:59:07,880
Speaker 2: Divorce, would that make me the ahole? And that is

1154
00:59:07,920 --> 00:59:10,280
Speaker 2: the end of the story. But that is heartbreaking.

1155
00:59:10,360 --> 00:59:13,600
Speaker 1: Man is questioning if he's the ale for divorcing his

1156
00:59:13,640 --> 00:59:17,040
Speaker 1: wife after saying that she wants to divorce him.

1157
00:59:17,120 --> 00:59:20,920
Speaker 2: Dude, she he's been so gasolin. He's just like I

1158
00:59:20,960 --> 00:59:25,480
Speaker 2: am just I am just a living problem. And also

1159
00:59:25,520 --> 00:59:26,600
Speaker 2: he's fairly attractive.

1160
00:59:26,640 --> 00:59:27,640
Speaker 1: He didn't deserve this.

1161
00:59:29,480 --> 00:59:30,000
Speaker 3: Whatsoever.

1162
00:59:30,520 --> 00:59:36,520
Speaker 2: Controlling, yeah, and emotionally available. Oh I'm available for you

1163
00:59:36,560 --> 00:59:37,240
Speaker 2: at this point.

1164
00:59:37,640 --> 00:59:37,880
Speaker 4: Right know.

1165
00:59:38,400 --> 00:59:41,040
Speaker 1: Honestly it's the most like I feel like it's a

1166
00:59:41,160 --> 00:59:46,200
Speaker 1: very modest proposal of his assets, but I think he

1167
00:59:46,320 --> 00:59:48,360
Speaker 1: might supersede them under promise.

1168
00:59:49,880 --> 00:59:51,680
Speaker 2: That's what my man is doing right now. That's why

1169
00:59:51,720 --> 00:59:53,959
Speaker 2: I always say my wiener's three inches.

1170
00:59:55,520 --> 00:59:59,840
Speaker 3: But his footsorece is like twelve, right, both of them

1171
01:00:00,960 --> 01:00:03,919
Speaker 3: always on the foot side, put on John's He's put

1172
01:00:03,960 --> 01:00:06,640
Speaker 3: on Sam's foot or shoes earlier.

1173
01:00:06,680 --> 01:00:11,120
Speaker 1: And it fit like glove, big feet Gang, Big Feet Gang,

1174
01:00:11,240 --> 01:00:12,480
Speaker 1: Big Feet Gang.

1175
01:00:12,920 --> 01:00:14,840
Speaker 2: I can't even remember one point I was gonna make.

1176
01:00:16,240 --> 01:00:16,520
Speaker 3: Pigeon.

1177
01:00:17,200 --> 01:00:19,439
Speaker 1: I want to go back to the story really quick,

1178
01:00:19,480 --> 01:00:23,200
Speaker 1: but I would like to put a motion to watch

1179
01:00:23,240 --> 01:00:25,120
Speaker 1: The Lion King together as a family.

1180
01:00:25,480 --> 01:00:28,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, of course, bro, great Disney movie.

1181
01:00:28,640 --> 01:00:30,240
Speaker 1: I know you've been mentioning it and you said you

1182
01:00:30,280 --> 01:00:32,360
Speaker 1: really like it. And then we made the Lion King reference,

1183
01:00:32,360 --> 01:00:38,040
Speaker 1: and I'm like, I need to go shame, oh, shame,

1184
01:00:39,160 --> 01:00:41,320
Speaker 1: slay in my name name.

1185
01:00:44,880 --> 01:00:49,560
Speaker 2: It was like when you farted, but when I don't

1186
01:00:49,600 --> 01:00:50,520
Speaker 2: forget the kids or something.

1187
01:00:50,560 --> 01:00:55,120
Speaker 1: Oh rightta praise.

1188
01:00:55,640 --> 01:00:58,800
Speaker 3: In the eighth grade. I did a solo of that

1189
01:00:58,960 --> 01:01:03,080
Speaker 3: song no way, ye who in front of like.

1190
01:01:03,120 --> 01:01:06,600
Speaker 1: Put the put on the wheel? Riley sings that.

1191
01:01:07,440 --> 01:01:10,000
Speaker 2: Oh you know would be a really good wheel. Thing

1192
01:01:10,560 --> 01:01:13,320
Speaker 2: is Riley has gets a vault of like funny. Well

1193
01:01:13,440 --> 01:01:15,840
Speaker 2: you have something of embarrassing photos, right, But if you

1194
01:01:15,880 --> 01:01:17,040
Speaker 2: collect a vault.

1195
01:01:18,600 --> 01:01:22,800
Speaker 1: Videos and stuff, we give Riley unfettered access to our

1196
01:01:22,920 --> 01:01:23,720
Speaker 1: photo gallery.

1197
01:01:23,800 --> 01:01:25,840
Speaker 2: Yes, we just create a drive a folder for each

1198
01:01:25,880 --> 01:01:28,960
Speaker 2: of us and it just you spin the wheel and

1199
01:01:28,960 --> 01:01:31,120
Speaker 2: it gets lands on one of us and you share again.

1200
01:01:31,240 --> 01:01:34,240
Speaker 1: Random that were pretty good. But going back to the story, Yes,

1201
01:01:34,520 --> 01:01:37,440
Speaker 1: is op the a hole for for getting a divorced

1202
01:01:37,440 --> 01:01:40,880
Speaker 1: from his wife? Let me, let me, let me, I

1203
01:01:40,920 --> 01:01:42,800
Speaker 1: want to know in the chat, what do you all think?

1204
01:01:42,880 --> 01:01:46,560
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, karaoke spin that's a great idea. Karaoke chin,

1205
01:01:47,000 --> 01:01:50,760
Speaker 1: put it in, put it in. It's so good. Anyway,

1206
01:01:51,040 --> 01:01:55,640
Speaker 1: getting back to this story, So, am I getting this right?

1207
01:01:56,360 --> 01:01:59,400
Speaker 1: Opie's wife? Sorry?

1208
01:01:59,680 --> 01:02:02,040
Speaker 3: Sorry, you said, am I getting this right? And John

1209
01:02:02,120 --> 01:02:08,200
Speaker 3: immediately goes, am.

1210
01:02:06,440 --> 01:02:09,720
Speaker 1: I getting this right? Opie's wife is most likely cheating

1211
01:02:09,960 --> 01:02:17,280
Speaker 1: on Opie wearing the super smexy underwear out to shop

1212
01:02:17,400 --> 01:02:18,680
Speaker 1: with his male friend.

1213
01:02:18,520 --> 01:02:19,240
Speaker 2: That she hates doing.

1214
01:02:19,240 --> 01:02:22,000
Speaker 1: So much that she hates doing so much. Then she

1215
01:02:22,200 --> 01:02:24,640
Speaker 1: says to him, I no longer want to be married.

1216
01:02:25,880 --> 01:02:27,600
Speaker 1: Is she not prompting the divorce?

1217
01:02:28,600 --> 01:02:28,920
Speaker 2: Yes?

1218
01:02:29,800 --> 01:02:33,480
Speaker 1: So is he the a hole for just it sounds

1219
01:02:33,520 --> 01:02:36,960
Speaker 1: like what it sounds like is he's like, you can't

1220
01:02:36,960 --> 01:02:40,200
Speaker 1: divorce me, I'm gonna divorce you. Yeah.

1221
01:02:40,280 --> 01:02:43,240
Speaker 2: I think bro is so down, bad and beaten down

1222
01:02:43,880 --> 01:02:46,720
Speaker 2: that like, I'm bad and beaten dude, it's a tough

1223
01:02:46,760 --> 01:02:47,240
Speaker 2: place to be.

1224
01:02:47,480 --> 01:02:52,480
Speaker 1: Low key kind of fire album name true, I'm bad

1225
01:02:52,520 --> 01:02:54,520
Speaker 1: and beaten down. It would be very sad.

1226
01:02:54,560 --> 01:02:59,120
Speaker 2: Album would be very sad. But yeah, I think he's

1227
01:02:59,160 --> 01:03:01,840
Speaker 2: just like, you know, isn't even reality distortion field.

1228
01:03:01,920 --> 01:03:03,040
Speaker 1: That is what he's in right now.

1229
01:03:03,120 --> 01:03:04,680
Speaker 2: He's out here taking care of his kids, and you

1230
01:03:04,680 --> 01:03:06,919
Speaker 2: know what, he seems like a very caring, loving father.

1231
01:03:07,000 --> 01:03:10,600
Speaker 2: He's literally saying like he's like emotionally available. Someone could

1232
01:03:10,600 --> 01:03:10,960
Speaker 2: look at.

1233
01:03:11,600 --> 01:03:14,800
Speaker 1: Mild like he.

1234
01:03:14,800 --> 01:03:19,600
Speaker 2: He is torturing himself through this relationship in part I

1235
01:03:19,640 --> 01:03:22,640
Speaker 2: think for or in large part for the children, because

1236
01:03:22,640 --> 01:03:24,400
Speaker 2: he doesn't want to have a broke, broken home for

1237
01:03:24,440 --> 01:03:28,959
Speaker 2: his kids. Sir, leave and go live your best life

1238
01:03:29,000 --> 01:03:30,920
Speaker 2: and then be the best person in dad you can for.

1239
01:03:30,920 --> 01:03:34,760
Speaker 1: Your home was broken when she wore that sexy underwear. Dude,

1240
01:03:35,520 --> 01:03:39,640
Speaker 1: the minute she put those on the minute. So you

1241
01:03:39,640 --> 01:03:44,000
Speaker 1: know what, be free, young burry fly away like a

1242
01:03:44,040 --> 01:03:48,200
Speaker 1: picture man do. Yeah, you know what, She's not your hive?

1243
01:03:48,800 --> 01:03:59,000
Speaker 1: Whoa whoa that top Riley making the beehive metaphor? Catchops right?

1244
01:04:00,200 --> 01:04:02,200
Speaker 2: Thunk it is that? Tell me that's not the end.

1245
01:04:02,960 --> 01:04:03,720
Speaker 2: It's over.

1246
01:04:04,040 --> 01:04:04,840
Speaker 1: It's over.

1247
01:04:05,000 --> 01:04:09,000
Speaker 2: It's over. Complete cliffhanger, complete cliff.

1248
01:04:09,120 --> 01:04:11,560
Speaker 1: You may never know what happens. Well you know what

1249
01:04:11,640 --> 01:04:18,479
Speaker 1: I know happened? What Uh some donation? Hey, Riley pulled

1250
01:04:18,480 --> 01:04:21,760
Speaker 1: that shit? Uh? I mean, dang tuting pull that thing

1251
01:04:21,840 --> 01:04:25,640
Speaker 1: up and that husband do thank you for the three

1252
01:04:25,680 --> 01:04:30,120
Speaker 1: dollars zip Hey okay o b live and working on cosplay?

1253
01:04:30,160 --> 01:04:34,040
Speaker 1: What more can I ask for? Uh? Yeah, let us

1254
01:04:34,040 --> 01:04:37,720
Speaker 1: know what you're cosplaying at Katie p three. Thanks for

1255
01:04:37,800 --> 01:04:40,840
Speaker 1: the one sip yay, I made it to another live

1256
01:04:42,360 --> 01:04:44,400
Speaker 1: Bloody Pixie. Thanks for the one buck. Thank you guys

1257
01:04:44,400 --> 01:04:47,880
Speaker 1: for existing. And also why were we talking about raw

1258
01:04:47,960 --> 01:04:48,720
Speaker 1: dogging earlier?

1259
01:04:49,480 --> 01:04:52,080
Speaker 2: Well, you see, Bloody Pixie.

1260
01:04:51,680 --> 01:04:54,920
Speaker 1: When a man and a woman love each other very much.

1261
01:04:54,840 --> 01:04:59,280
Speaker 2: When a Riley does things without things, yeah, he's raw

1262
01:04:59,280 --> 01:04:59,800
Speaker 2: dogging them.

1263
01:05:00,200 --> 01:05:04,640
Speaker 1: Dogging. Yes, yeah, he's rod dogging the stream right now exactly. No.

1264
01:05:04,360 --> 01:05:07,600
Speaker 1: No caffeine no yeah, no protection, no caf no safety uh.

1265
01:05:07,680 --> 01:05:11,240
Speaker 1: And finally, Pinky Rocks Locks, thanks for the twenty five

1266
01:05:11,640 --> 01:05:15,840
Speaker 1: dollar tip. Thanks for the continuous laughs, continuous laughs.

1267
01:05:15,920 --> 01:05:17,800
Speaker 2: Welcome, you're a Pinky rock.

1268
01:05:19,400 --> 01:05:21,400
Speaker 1: Wow. I like that laught You's so cute when you laugh.

1269
01:05:21,440 --> 01:05:31,880
Speaker 1: Think that. I don't either, I do, I yeah, I

1270
01:05:32,200 --> 01:05:36,600
Speaker 1: do know. It's it's when he's being interviewed. Yeah, I know,

1271
01:05:36,720 --> 01:05:37,360
Speaker 1: I know, I know.

1272
01:05:37,520 --> 01:05:41,000
Speaker 2: Justin what do you got beber fever or something? Sure,

1273
01:05:44,080 --> 01:05:46,439
Speaker 2: jess what one night night tip?

1274
01:05:46,920 --> 01:05:50,160
Speaker 1: Oh? What a same? It's not I'm changing my name?

1275
01:05:51,560 --> 01:05:55,280
Speaker 2: Oh what's his name? And I got down hearted?

1276
01:05:55,680 --> 01:05:56,600
Speaker 1: Wait wait, how does it go?

1277
01:05:57,280 --> 01:05:59,640
Speaker 2: Okay, here you do the main thing and I'll respond, yeah,

1278
01:05:59,680 --> 01:06:02,720
Speaker 2: so oh what a shame thought of changing my name?

1279
01:06:03,280 --> 01:06:04,640
Speaker 1: Oh what's in a name?

1280
01:06:05,840 --> 01:06:07,520
Speaker 2: And I got down hearted?

1281
01:06:07,560 --> 01:06:10,880
Speaker 1: And how did you feel? Oh? And I got down

1282
01:06:11,000 --> 01:06:14,760
Speaker 1: hearted every time that I pumpa not in front of

1283
01:06:14,760 --> 01:06:17,520
Speaker 1: the kids. Yeah, I think we butchered that a little bit.

1284
01:06:17,880 --> 01:06:20,000
Speaker 1: I mostly do to me, which is why I need

1285
01:06:20,040 --> 01:06:22,760
Speaker 1: to That's how I need it.

1286
01:06:23,360 --> 01:06:23,720
Speaker 5: Hear me?

1287
01:06:24,720 --> 01:06:27,520
Speaker 2: Hello, can you hear me? Now?

1288
01:06:27,880 --> 01:06:29,640
Speaker 5: Can be able to hear me in twenty seconds.

1289
01:06:29,680 --> 01:06:33,480
Speaker 1: Hello, all right, well Jesse, thanks for the one ninety

1290
01:06:33,520 --> 01:06:37,960
Speaker 1: nine tip. M John do you want to read the

1291
01:06:37,960 --> 01:06:42,920
Speaker 1: rest of them while I pull up this? Let's go right?

1292
01:06:43,080 --> 01:06:45,560
Speaker 2: Can you scroll up a tweet bit fun of me, Laddie?

1293
01:06:45,880 --> 01:06:51,440
Speaker 2: All right from MJ Grow. Why don't roosters wear underwear

1294
01:06:52,280 --> 01:06:53,760
Speaker 2: because they cross the street.

1295
01:06:54,560 --> 01:07:01,360
Speaker 1: Because their cocks are too big? That's a good guess.

1296
01:07:01,480 --> 01:07:04,760
Speaker 2: Okay, tell me the comments what it was Boxy got?

1297
01:07:04,800 --> 01:07:07,320
Speaker 2: Thanks for the two buck tip. I'm here again, Yes

1298
01:07:07,360 --> 01:07:09,600
Speaker 2: you are nocturnal Slytherin. Thank you for the five hour

1299
01:07:09,600 --> 01:07:12,040
Speaker 2: tip on the dono link. So happy to have you.

1300
01:07:12,120 --> 01:07:12,440
Speaker 1: Guys.

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Speaker 2: MG Grow because their peckers are on their face.

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Speaker 1: Smart nice, I was close. Nice.

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Speaker 2: KTP three thanks for the three sixty four dono. Today

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Speaker 2: I learned that two dollars twenty six cents Canadian is

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Speaker 2: one dollar forty six cents USD. Sorry, guys, here's a

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Speaker 2: droplet more loll KTP three. We appreciate you, Okay, we do,

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Speaker 2: that's right.

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Speaker 1: We do. Well, you know what else we appreciate? What

1310
01:07:44,960 --> 01:07:49,920
Speaker 1: do we appreciate this? Next story, which is am I

1311
01:07:50,120 --> 01:07:52,280
Speaker 1: the a hole for telling my sister in law maybe

1312
01:07:52,280 --> 01:07:54,720
Speaker 1: she shouldn't sleep with a married man next time?

1313
01:07:55,680 --> 01:07:57,440
Speaker 5: No burn, that's okay, that's a.

1314
01:07:59,040 --> 01:08:02,560
Speaker 1: Go ahead. This comes from New Cartoonist ninety nine. My

1315
01:08:02,640 --> 01:08:06,040
Speaker 1: brother male forty and his ex wife, female forty got

1316
01:08:06,080 --> 01:08:10,640
Speaker 1: divorced out of the blue. According to his ex she

1317
01:08:10,760 --> 01:08:14,000
Speaker 1: was always clear that she didn't want kids. I don't

1318
01:08:14,040 --> 01:08:17,479
Speaker 1: know the old truth because my brother honestly avoids this question. Anyway,

1319
01:08:17,600 --> 01:08:19,839
Speaker 1: we were still all shocked when they got divorced because

1320
01:08:19,920 --> 01:08:24,400
Speaker 1: these two loved each other and were inseparable. Well, very

1321
01:08:24,439 --> 01:08:28,080
Speaker 1: soon after, my brother introduced his girlfriend to us, his

1322
01:08:28,439 --> 01:08:36,880
Speaker 1: very pregnant girl, So that potentially means that something spooky

1323
01:08:37,040 --> 01:08:41,280
Speaker 1: smexy was going on. Raw Dog Corner, some raw dogging

1324
01:08:41,560 --> 01:08:46,120
Speaker 1: foreshore Matthew Mathon. Mom confronted my brother, but he said

1325
01:08:46,200 --> 01:08:48,960
Speaker 1: it just happened. So we contacted the ex wife and

1326
01:08:49,000 --> 01:08:53,679
Speaker 1: after some prodding, she confessed that he has been saying

1327
01:08:54,000 --> 01:08:56,640
Speaker 1: that he wanted children and was having anxiety because they

1328
01:08:56,640 --> 01:08:59,800
Speaker 1: didn't have much time left. This was three to three

1329
01:09:00,000 --> 01:09:03,200
Speaker 1: half years ago. He cheated on her, she found out

1330
01:09:03,680 --> 01:09:10,160
Speaker 1: and asked for divorce. Anyway, anyways, One day after divorce

1331
01:09:10,240 --> 01:09:12,479
Speaker 1: was finalized, he got married to his a fair partner,

1332
01:09:12,600 --> 01:09:17,920
Speaker 1: female twenty nine. Now they have two children. My brother

1333
01:09:18,040 --> 01:09:21,240
Speaker 1: changed a lot, and he wasn't himself anymore, always brooding

1334
01:09:21,320 --> 01:09:23,880
Speaker 1: and looking miserable. Of course, with two children you have

1335
01:09:23,920 --> 01:09:27,880
Speaker 1: other priorities. But he became very antisocial and didn't do

1336
01:09:28,040 --> 01:09:31,320
Speaker 1: anything outside of work. According to his new wife, he

1337
01:09:31,400 --> 01:09:34,120
Speaker 1: was not like this when she first met him, probably

1338
01:09:34,160 --> 01:09:37,880
Speaker 1: because he imploded his whole life. Yeah, by cheating, by

1339
01:09:37,960 --> 01:09:43,120
Speaker 1: cheating anyway, he was happy and laid back. Now they

1340
01:09:43,240 --> 01:09:46,639
Speaker 1: fought a lot, or mostly she would cry and yell

1341
01:09:46,680 --> 01:09:48,559
Speaker 1: at him and try to get a reaction out of him,

1342
01:09:48,680 --> 01:09:51,320
Speaker 1: but he wouldn't give her anything back. Then one day

1343
01:09:51,360 --> 01:09:54,479
Speaker 1: he moved out and filed for divorce and shared custody.

1344
01:09:54,520 --> 01:09:57,439
Speaker 1: So filed for divorce with his affair partner. So he

1345
01:09:58,320 --> 01:10:00,960
Speaker 1: got divorced by his first wife, then for divorce for.

1346
01:10:01,520 --> 01:10:04,479
Speaker 2: Oh can't wait, so we cheated?

1347
01:10:04,880 --> 01:10:09,280
Speaker 1: Wait what so op cheated on his first wife with

1348
01:10:09,320 --> 01:10:10,760
Speaker 1: a twenty nine year old. Yeah they were, but the

1349
01:10:10,800 --> 01:10:14,520
Speaker 1: first wife was forty Yeah, because he wanted kids. Then

1350
01:10:14,520 --> 01:10:18,040
Speaker 1: ex wife found out divorced him. Then him and a

1351
01:10:18,040 --> 01:10:20,640
Speaker 1: fair partner got married, had two kids. Then he was like,

1352
01:10:20,680 --> 01:10:23,439
Speaker 1: this sucks. I hate my life. And then he divorced her.

1353
01:10:23,640 --> 01:10:24,560
Speaker 5: Damn.

1354
01:10:24,880 --> 01:10:28,240
Speaker 1: So this was two months ago when he told us

1355
01:10:28,240 --> 01:10:30,160
Speaker 1: about that, when he told us that he was getting

1356
01:10:30,160 --> 01:10:32,479
Speaker 1: a divorce. Now he spends his weeks without the children

1357
01:10:32,520 --> 01:10:35,240
Speaker 1: and his ex wife at her apartment. I think they

1358
01:10:35,240 --> 01:10:37,639
Speaker 1: have wreck a Wait, now he spends his weeks without

1359
01:10:37,680 --> 01:10:41,599
Speaker 1: the children with his ex wife at her apartment. How

1360
01:10:41,640 --> 01:10:42,240
Speaker 1: does that work?

1361
01:10:42,320 --> 01:10:43,439
Speaker 2: He went back to his ex wife?

1362
01:10:43,479 --> 01:10:45,559
Speaker 1: Wait? Which X wife? Oh? The first one? I think

1363
01:10:45,560 --> 01:10:48,080
Speaker 1: the first ex wife, not the affair barn oho, this

1364
01:10:48,280 --> 01:10:54,719
Speaker 1: scot Okay, this guy, he's got something going on. YI. Sorry,

1365
01:10:54,720 --> 01:10:58,479
Speaker 1: OPI's brother, to be clear, not my brother male forty

1366
01:10:58,640 --> 01:11:04,760
Speaker 1: My bad, My bad, it's Opie's brother. HM. Anyway, so

1367
01:11:06,240 --> 01:11:09,240
Speaker 1: I don't have I think they have reconciled, or at

1368
01:11:09,320 --> 01:11:12,120
Speaker 1: least they are hooking up. So Opie's brother is hooking

1369
01:11:12,240 --> 01:11:15,479
Speaker 1: up with the original wife.

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Speaker 5: Og wife wife numero.

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01:11:17,640 --> 01:11:19,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, Worby says, why did she take him back? I

1372
01:11:19,720 --> 01:11:20,080
Speaker 1: don't know.

1373
01:11:20,640 --> 01:11:21,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a great question.

1374
01:11:21,720 --> 01:11:23,960
Speaker 1: I think we'll find out. Yeah, potentially, maybe not. I

1375
01:11:23,960 --> 01:11:26,320
Speaker 1: don't know, we'll see. Anyway. I don't have that much

1376
01:11:26,320 --> 01:11:28,760
Speaker 1: contact with him anymore. Because I am disgusted, but he

1377
01:11:28,840 --> 01:11:32,240
Speaker 1: was his old self, happy, open, full of life. His

1378
01:11:32,360 --> 01:11:36,679
Speaker 1: current wife, penditing divorce, sometimes spends time at my mother's

1379
01:11:36,760 --> 01:11:39,040
Speaker 1: with the children, and it is great and all, but

1380
01:11:39,120 --> 01:11:42,599
Speaker 1: she would not stop talking about the ex wife. This morning,

1381
01:11:42,640 --> 01:11:45,080
Speaker 1: I was there as usual, and she started talking about

1382
01:11:45,120 --> 01:11:49,400
Speaker 1: her driving by the ex wife and seeing my brother's

1383
01:11:49,520 --> 01:11:52,679
Speaker 1: car again. Opie's brother is the one with the ex

1384
01:11:52,720 --> 01:11:54,439
Speaker 1: wife and the affair partner that he married and the

1385
01:11:54,439 --> 01:11:58,040
Speaker 1: two kids. I mean, my brother is a total sea word.

1386
01:12:00,040 --> 01:12:01,840
Speaker 1: She was angry, and I get that, but I was

1387
01:12:01,880 --> 01:12:04,400
Speaker 1: starting to feel sick. But honestly, for me, she his

1388
01:12:04,479 --> 01:12:08,800
Speaker 1: current wife, is a close second on the sea word scale. Dang.

1389
01:12:10,040 --> 01:12:12,840
Speaker 1: I was thinking this to myself absently until I was

1390
01:12:13,120 --> 01:12:16,800
Speaker 1: brought back to the conversation when she was yelling that

1391
01:12:16,880 --> 01:12:19,960
Speaker 1: she felt used to produce children. Oh, that she felt

1392
01:12:20,160 --> 01:12:23,960
Speaker 1: used to produce children, so his ex didn't have to Also,

1393
01:12:24,439 --> 01:12:31,160
Speaker 1: we should definitely sensor sea words the true future. But yeah,

1394
01:12:31,200 --> 01:12:34,160
Speaker 1: so basically like this, a fair partner felt just used

1395
01:12:34,160 --> 01:12:36,320
Speaker 1: and I think that might be true. Yeah, I mean,

1396
01:12:36,560 --> 01:12:42,879
Speaker 1: it sounds like the accident partner was down to have children.

1397
01:12:42,920 --> 01:12:47,479
Speaker 1: But I think the Opie's brother basically was like, I

1398
01:12:47,479 --> 01:12:50,960
Speaker 1: want children. Let's pump and dump and then go back

1399
01:12:50,960 --> 01:12:54,840
Speaker 1: to the X Y super quick conspiracy theory. Oh where's

1400
01:12:56,120 --> 01:12:57,240
Speaker 1: where's where's the hat?

1401
01:12:57,360 --> 01:13:02,920
Speaker 2: You got a hat? What if the og wife was

1402
01:13:02,960 --> 01:13:06,160
Speaker 2: in on it? And they were like, oh, we'll do

1403
01:13:06,200 --> 01:13:11,920
Speaker 2: this old play. I got you the reason why she

1404
01:13:12,080 --> 01:13:14,280
Speaker 2: they divorced and everything was she was like, we need

1405
01:13:14,280 --> 01:13:17,639
Speaker 2: to make this believable. So in order to convince this

1406
01:13:17,680 --> 01:13:21,439
Speaker 2: new twenty nine year old, in order to divorce the

1407
01:13:21,439 --> 01:13:24,000
Speaker 2: twenty nine year old, or have the twenty nine year

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01:13:24,000 --> 01:13:24,400
Speaker 2: old have.

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01:13:24,400 --> 01:13:26,880
Speaker 1: Kids with you or your fruit, you need.

1410
01:13:26,600 --> 01:13:28,640
Speaker 2: To convince your like, listen, I will literally leave my

1411
01:13:28,680 --> 01:13:31,120
Speaker 2: wife for you. I promise I'll leave it all behind

1412
01:13:31,200 --> 01:13:31,679
Speaker 2: just for you.

1413
01:13:32,600 --> 01:13:36,519
Speaker 1: And then once the fruit had been picked, he left.

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01:13:36,680 --> 01:13:38,400
Speaker 5: I certainly hope that's not the case.

1415
01:13:38,840 --> 01:13:41,679
Speaker 1: I also hope that would be diabol is not the case,

1416
01:13:41,760 --> 01:13:45,400
Speaker 1: but let's get back to reality and finish this story.

1417
01:13:45,439 --> 01:13:48,840
Speaker 1: So I got agitated because while I don't understand why

1418
01:13:48,880 --> 01:13:51,800
Speaker 1: his ex is seeing him again, she did not use

1419
01:13:51,840 --> 01:13:54,760
Speaker 1: his current wife. So I very sternly and loudly said, well,

1420
01:13:54,800 --> 01:14:01,559
Speaker 1: maybe next time, don't uf married men. She was shocked.

1421
01:14:01,960 --> 01:14:03,800
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, it's a good rebuttle.

1422
01:14:05,960 --> 01:14:06,639
Speaker 2: She is right.

1423
01:14:06,920 --> 01:14:09,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, she was shocked and then started yelling at me,

1424
01:14:09,520 --> 01:14:12,040
Speaker 1: and I told her that she cannot possibly, that she

1425
01:14:12,120 --> 01:14:16,559
Speaker 1: can not possibly not have seen that he always loved

1426
01:14:16,560 --> 01:14:19,400
Speaker 1: his ex wife and to stop lying to herself. She

1427
01:14:19,520 --> 01:14:22,599
Speaker 1: started crying, and when she left, my mom started crying too.

1428
01:14:22,920 --> 01:14:25,320
Speaker 1: Then I started crying because I think I am the

1429
01:14:25,360 --> 01:14:27,800
Speaker 1: a hole too. But the problem is, none of what

1430
01:14:27,880 --> 01:14:30,880
Speaker 1: I said wasn't the truth of what happened. I called

1431
01:14:30,880 --> 01:14:32,800
Speaker 1: my brother to yell at him and told him that

1432
01:14:32,840 --> 01:14:35,759
Speaker 1: he should have thought about his children instead of breaking

1433
01:14:36,240 --> 01:14:41,680
Speaker 1: their home, and then he hung up. Wow, so it

1434
01:14:41,760 --> 01:14:44,600
Speaker 1: won is op the a hole? But where are the

1435
01:14:44,680 --> 01:14:48,280
Speaker 1: other a holes lying around in the in the muck

1436
01:14:48,320 --> 01:14:49,360
Speaker 1: and the mud and the fog.

1437
01:14:49,720 --> 01:14:52,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, because you know, there's a question, how long do

1438
01:14:52,840 --> 01:14:56,559
Speaker 2: you let somebody else get away with a holery if

1439
01:14:56,600 --> 01:14:58,599
Speaker 2: you have to be the a hole to stop them?

1440
01:14:58,800 --> 01:15:03,080
Speaker 1: Mmmm? Like times it takes another villain to stop a villain.

1441
01:15:03,160 --> 01:15:07,320
Speaker 1: Exactly anti hero justify the means, Yeah.

1442
01:15:07,200 --> 01:15:09,400
Speaker 3: It takes fire to get rid of another fire.

1443
01:15:10,120 --> 01:15:13,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, they California begs to do that. No, no, they

1444
01:15:13,200 --> 01:15:14,160
Speaker 1: do that in California.

1445
01:15:14,280 --> 01:15:17,000
Speaker 2: They fight fire with fire. Yeah, what the control burns

1446
01:15:17,000 --> 01:15:18,559
Speaker 2: are but then.

1447
01:15:18,400 --> 01:15:21,800
Speaker 1: They start a fire intentionally, right, Yeah, yeah, that's fighting

1448
01:15:21,840 --> 01:15:24,560
Speaker 1: fire with fire because I don't want to. You're not fighting.

1449
01:15:24,280 --> 01:15:25,760
Speaker 2: Fire that already exists with fire.

1450
01:15:25,800 --> 01:15:30,639
Speaker 1: Actually, also, fire can light fires, so like a fire

1451
01:15:30,720 --> 01:15:32,960
Speaker 1: can burn this way, and then another fire burns this way,

1452
01:15:33,000 --> 01:15:35,080
Speaker 1: and then this fire won't burn that way because the

1453
01:15:35,080 --> 01:15:36,280
Speaker 1: fire cancels.

1454
01:15:35,880 --> 01:15:36,920
Speaker 5: Each other and they'll lose.

1455
01:15:37,080 --> 01:15:40,439
Speaker 1: The two fires colliding with each other become no fire.

1456
01:15:40,560 --> 01:15:41,960
Speaker 3: So you need the same resources.

1457
01:15:42,040 --> 01:15:43,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, so you.

1458
01:15:42,920 --> 01:15:45,439
Speaker 2: Can fight fire with fire, can fight fire with fire?

1459
01:15:45,520 --> 01:15:46,720
Speaker 1: Why does freaking go?

1460
01:15:47,240 --> 01:15:48,960
Speaker 5: Where did you think they're saying.

1461
01:15:49,479 --> 01:15:52,960
Speaker 2: It's okay, you can't fight fire with fire, saying don't

1462
01:15:53,439 --> 01:15:54,559
Speaker 2: fight fire with fire.

1463
01:15:54,960 --> 01:15:56,559
Speaker 1: But that's what people are doing.

1464
01:15:56,720 --> 01:15:58,440
Speaker 2: They are in the place.

1465
01:15:59,080 --> 01:16:02,080
Speaker 3: People can fight fire with f I legitimately didn't know that,

1466
01:16:02,120 --> 01:16:03,760
Speaker 3: but you were there when you figured out how to

1467
01:16:03,800 --> 01:16:04,200
Speaker 3: make fire.

1468
01:16:07,280 --> 01:16:12,479
Speaker 1: This boy, Adam, give me that battle, that battle? Oh

1469
01:16:12,479 --> 01:16:12,760
Speaker 1: my god.

1470
01:16:12,800 --> 01:16:14,559
Speaker 2: Anyway, but anyway, do we think?

1471
01:16:14,840 --> 01:16:18,519
Speaker 1: All right? First, let's go first, count is Op the

1472
01:16:18,600 --> 01:16:24,280
Speaker 1: a hole by basically telling Op's brothers a fair partner

1473
01:16:24,960 --> 01:16:28,160
Speaker 1: A you should have seen this coming, you ft a

1474
01:16:28,280 --> 01:16:28,920
Speaker 1: married man?

1475
01:16:29,760 --> 01:16:35,000
Speaker 2: Yes, only because of the The core message is true

1476
01:16:35,840 --> 01:16:41,200
Speaker 2: because of the timing, location, and delivery I think makes

1477
01:16:41,200 --> 01:16:41,760
Speaker 2: op ahole.

1478
01:16:41,840 --> 01:16:46,919
Speaker 1: And also, as we've discussed many times before, just because

1479
01:16:46,960 --> 01:16:50,840
Speaker 1: you are the bearer of cold, hard facts does not

1480
01:16:50,960 --> 01:16:54,120
Speaker 1: excuse you from being an a hole. Yes, being right

1481
01:16:54,760 --> 01:16:56,280
Speaker 1: still can you can still be an a hole and

1482
01:16:56,320 --> 01:16:58,200
Speaker 1: be right. This is true, you know, and someone can

1483
01:16:58,240 --> 01:17:01,160
Speaker 1: be a bigger able as well. Like let me say

1484
01:17:01,560 --> 01:17:06,320
Speaker 1: a child's parents died in a car accident and the

1485
01:17:06,400 --> 01:17:09,439
Speaker 1: doctor goes to the kid and says, hey, your parents

1486
01:17:09,479 --> 01:17:10,719
Speaker 1: just died and then leaves.

1487
01:17:10,880 --> 01:17:13,760
Speaker 5: That's what happens in a series of unfortunate events.

1488
01:17:13,960 --> 01:17:15,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's an a whole doctor.

1489
01:17:15,600 --> 01:17:18,479
Speaker 5: Yeah, they're like little orphans. Well they weren't orphans. And

1490
01:17:18,520 --> 01:17:21,320
Speaker 5: then the bankman comes and he says, your parents died

1491
01:17:21,360 --> 01:17:22,439
Speaker 5: and you've lost everything.

1492
01:17:22,920 --> 01:17:27,320
Speaker 1: Yes, and they're like the Sophia's fictional example. It's also

1493
01:17:27,680 --> 01:17:28,080
Speaker 1: it was a.

1494
01:17:28,040 --> 01:17:29,599
Speaker 5: Great example and a completed thought.

1495
01:17:29,640 --> 01:17:37,599
Speaker 1: It's a completed thought. But but going back to the story,

1496
01:17:38,000 --> 01:17:39,320
Speaker 1: I do feel.

1497
01:17:39,280 --> 01:17:41,720
Speaker 5: That I think she's a full a hole though I

1498
01:17:41,760 --> 01:17:44,360
Speaker 5: think she Yeah, yeahs is honest day hole. I think

1499
01:17:44,400 --> 01:17:45,400
Speaker 5: she's an honest day hole.

1500
01:17:45,920 --> 01:17:48,919
Speaker 1: Okay, there are they're like, all right, there are times

1501
01:17:49,000 --> 01:17:53,799
Speaker 1: where you say truth and basically, there's a fair partner

1502
01:17:53,920 --> 01:17:59,360
Speaker 1: is like my husband left is going back with ex wife.

1503
01:17:59,439 --> 01:18:03,639
Speaker 1: I have two children that are like in this broken home,

1504
01:18:03,760 --> 01:18:07,200
Speaker 1: Like I feel all this hurt. And then Opie comes

1505
01:18:07,200 --> 01:18:09,280
Speaker 1: in and says, well, you should the thought of that

1506
01:18:09,560 --> 01:18:13,679
Speaker 1: about that before you a married man, Like, yes, it's true,

1507
01:18:13,760 --> 01:18:14,679
Speaker 1: but is it the time?

1508
01:18:15,640 --> 01:18:18,640
Speaker 5: I feel like maybe op also needs to give a

1509
01:18:18,640 --> 01:18:22,840
Speaker 5: little clap back at her brother, you know, a little

1510
01:18:23,040 --> 01:18:25,080
Speaker 5: little if she's going to do it to the sister

1511
01:18:25,080 --> 01:18:28,040
Speaker 5: in law, Oh, he also needs to like whack him.

1512
01:18:28,200 --> 01:18:33,000
Speaker 1: Ye what she did? She called the sister that's true?

1513
01:18:33,360 --> 01:18:36,920
Speaker 1: Or sure the op called the brother. I'm gonna say,

1514
01:18:36,920 --> 01:18:38,519
Speaker 1: OPI's the a hole. What do you all think?

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01:18:38,640 --> 01:18:38,800
Speaker 3: Yeah?

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01:18:38,840 --> 01:18:40,000
Speaker 1: I think a little bit of the a hole, A

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01:18:40,000 --> 01:18:43,600
Speaker 1: little bit of a hole? Yeah, the ahole? Or is

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01:18:43,640 --> 01:18:45,280
Speaker 1: op not the a whole or not a lot of.

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01:18:45,240 --> 01:18:48,479
Speaker 5: Pore saying justified a hole? I think?

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01:18:48,560 --> 01:18:51,719
Speaker 1: Yeah? I think I think honest a whole but a hole? Stell?

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01:18:53,720 --> 01:18:56,960
Speaker 1: How about? I mean? I think the fair partner is

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01:18:56,960 --> 01:19:00,160
Speaker 1: the a hole for sleeping with a million brothers a whole.

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01:19:00,120 --> 01:19:02,640
Speaker 2: And they got together a day after the divorcetion?

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01:19:03,160 --> 01:19:05,599
Speaker 1: Or is the ex wife an a hole?

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01:19:07,720 --> 01:19:12,560
Speaker 5: Well for cheating. Yeah, oh sorry the ex wife. I

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01:19:14,560 --> 01:19:17,639
Speaker 5: thought we were talking about the new two wives.

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01:19:18,160 --> 01:19:23,040
Speaker 2: I didn't, didn't Op and the O g X wife,

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01:19:23,120 --> 01:19:24,320
Speaker 2: aren't they like getting together?

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01:19:24,520 --> 01:19:27,519
Speaker 1: Kind of like Opie's brother and O g X wife

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01:19:27,520 --> 01:19:31,200
Speaker 1: are getting together and are are bumping bump butts.

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01:19:31,040 --> 01:19:34,479
Speaker 2: During but this is after he's divorced.

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01:19:34,400 --> 01:19:37,720
Speaker 1: He divorced, His is a fair partner now yeah, and

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01:19:37,720 --> 01:19:40,800
Speaker 1: now like almost instantly his bumping butts with his X.

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01:19:40,880 --> 01:19:42,200
Speaker 2: And this guy turns around quick.

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01:19:42,240 --> 01:19:46,240
Speaker 1: So is is the X the A hole? So first

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01:19:46,240 --> 01:19:53,120
Speaker 1: we're asking is OP the A hole? First asking OP?

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01:19:53,520 --> 01:19:55,559
Speaker 1: Is is O P the A hole for yelling at

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01:19:55,600 --> 01:19:58,880
Speaker 1: the last for a partner? While everyone's discussing that, actually,

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01:19:58,920 --> 01:20:05,640
Speaker 1: well maybe wait for a finish, old OLDLD hold the

1540
01:20:05,640 --> 01:20:10,679
Speaker 1: line all right, shut it down? Boom wait actually yeah.

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01:20:11,040 --> 01:20:13,200
Speaker 3: A register, Okay, it's going to be a minute.

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01:20:13,560 --> 01:20:16,680
Speaker 1: Okay. It seems like more people are saying not the

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01:20:16,720 --> 01:20:22,439
Speaker 1: A hole for OP, but it's fairly even or seventy

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01:20:22,439 --> 01:20:23,599
Speaker 1: three percent not the A hole.

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01:20:23,760 --> 01:20:27,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's definitely there's definitely a camp of of ahole.

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01:20:27,920 --> 01:20:29,200
Speaker 2: There's definitely an a whole camp.

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01:20:29,320 --> 01:20:32,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I would fall squarely in that a whole camp.

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01:20:32,080 --> 01:20:34,439
Speaker 1: I fall I I I think it's like, yes, she's

1549
01:20:34,479 --> 01:20:37,160
Speaker 1: saying truth, but I say I think, I think.

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01:20:37,439 --> 01:20:39,639
Speaker 2: I think, I mean I'm in a whole camp.

1551
01:20:39,880 --> 01:20:40,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm in ahl camp.

1552
01:20:41,200 --> 01:20:43,800
Speaker 5: I'm with I'm set firmly in between them.

1553
01:20:43,800 --> 01:20:45,600
Speaker 1: Why does that say sixty six and one hundred and

1554
01:20:45,600 --> 01:20:47,800
Speaker 1: twenty three percent? What does that even mean?

1555
01:20:47,880 --> 01:20:49,519
Speaker 3: Because they broke the pull.

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01:20:49,520 --> 01:20:51,200
Speaker 1: I went to the twenty nine of you that's ay

1557
01:20:51,240 --> 01:20:54,519
Speaker 1: a hole. But now second count of a holary, yes,

1558
01:20:55,400 --> 01:20:58,799
Speaker 1: is extrage the ex ex wife, the og X wife,

1559
01:20:59,080 --> 01:21:02,559
Speaker 1: the A hole. Kamsas says, truth doesn't make you not

1560
01:21:02,640 --> 01:21:04,240
Speaker 1: an a whole, which I agree with.

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01:21:04,520 --> 01:21:08,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, So while the while the new poles getting

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01:21:08,120 --> 01:21:10,519
Speaker 2: up for the O g X wife a hole or a.

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01:21:11,200 --> 01:21:14,960
Speaker 1: I think no, because.

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01:21:15,960 --> 01:21:20,800
Speaker 2: Uh, let's say, let's let's assume that the whole time

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01:21:20,960 --> 01:21:23,240
Speaker 2: they did actually have feelings for each other whatever, And

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01:21:23,880 --> 01:21:26,840
Speaker 2: you know, really the guy is the biggest day hole

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01:21:26,880 --> 01:21:27,200
Speaker 2: for sure.

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01:21:28,320 --> 01:21:30,800
Speaker 1: The brother right in the scenario, yepes brother. But what

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01:21:30,840 --> 01:21:34,559
Speaker 1: we are currently voting for is the ex ex wife.

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01:21:34,760 --> 01:21:37,800
Speaker 1: Is the ex ex wife, the OGX wife, the the

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01:21:37,840 --> 01:21:38,240
Speaker 1: A hole.

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01:21:38,360 --> 01:21:43,599
Speaker 2: Yes, I think she's not because it's like, Okay, finally

1573
01:21:43,600 --> 01:21:46,040
Speaker 2: you've come to your senses. You divorced this other person.

1574
01:21:46,360 --> 01:21:48,479
Speaker 2: Now you finally come back. You can come back on

1575
01:21:48,720 --> 01:21:52,000
Speaker 2: my terms or just like whatever. Yeah, and like coming back,

1576
01:21:52,040 --> 01:21:55,639
Speaker 2: you're not taking you are reclaiming what's right for yours.

1577
01:21:55,920 --> 01:21:58,680
Speaker 2: I think so. Yeah, yeah, because you know you're a

1578
01:21:58,720 --> 01:22:00,000
Speaker 2: fair and even.

1579
01:21:59,800 --> 01:22:03,160
Speaker 1: Though OPI has kids or Opie's brother has kids with

1580
01:22:03,200 --> 01:22:08,160
Speaker 1: the affair partner, I still feel like first dibbs. No, No,

1581
01:22:08,240 --> 01:22:08,920
Speaker 1: here's why, here's why.

1582
01:22:08,960 --> 01:22:09,479
Speaker 2: Here's why.

1583
01:22:09,640 --> 01:22:11,280
Speaker 1: Because it was cheating.

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01:22:11,720 --> 01:22:15,080
Speaker 2: If he had divorced, they had divorced, they had a

1585
01:22:15,120 --> 01:22:16,880
Speaker 2: you know, good healthy amount of time, they had started

1586
01:22:16,880 --> 01:22:18,120
Speaker 2: seeing a new person that.

1587
01:22:18,200 --> 01:22:19,799
Speaker 1: Is a whole different universe.

1588
01:22:19,880 --> 01:22:22,800
Speaker 2: This person cheated with him, and then they they officially

1589
01:22:22,800 --> 01:22:24,599
Speaker 2: got together a day after they separated.

1590
01:22:24,760 --> 01:22:26,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, so now you're taking that reason. I think X

1591
01:22:26,920 --> 01:22:28,040
Speaker 1: ex wife, not the A hole.

1592
01:22:28,120 --> 01:22:30,440
Speaker 5: I still think it's it's a bad idea.

1593
01:22:30,120 --> 01:22:35,799
Speaker 1: Though probably a bad idea, but no, is she making

1594
01:22:35,840 --> 01:22:40,120
Speaker 1: bad decisions that will potentially for her emotional well being

1595
01:22:40,160 --> 01:22:44,800
Speaker 1: and her life? Yes, but a whole. No, everyone agrees

1596
01:22:44,840 --> 01:22:46,679
Speaker 1: with us, not the A whole.

1597
01:22:45,800 --> 01:22:47,720
Speaker 5: This one's tricky for me.

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01:22:47,960 --> 01:22:51,960
Speaker 1: You're with five people, you're alone, you know, I don't think.

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01:22:52,000 --> 01:22:53,680
Speaker 5: I don't think that she's the a hole. But I

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01:22:53,680 --> 01:22:57,320
Speaker 5: think everyone's like making really bad decisions in this story.

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01:22:57,439 --> 01:23:00,640
Speaker 1: Yes, correct, agreed, everyone's making a friend a whole, not

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01:23:00,680 --> 01:23:01,120
Speaker 1: the A hole.

1603
01:23:01,840 --> 01:23:03,960
Speaker 2: I don't think so, not the a hole.

1604
01:23:04,360 --> 01:23:04,880
Speaker 3: Get off the.

1605
01:23:04,840 --> 01:23:08,320
Speaker 2: Fence, get off the bet get out the bete side,

1606
01:23:08,479 --> 01:23:09,519
Speaker 2: lay down the hammer of.

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01:23:09,640 --> 01:23:11,360
Speaker 5: I gotta, I gotta, I gotta. I got a mole.

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01:23:11,880 --> 01:23:12,519
Speaker 2: You got a mole?

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01:23:12,800 --> 01:23:14,240
Speaker 1: I got a mole? What do you mean did you

1610
01:23:14,280 --> 01:23:15,000
Speaker 1: get that checked out?

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01:23:15,320 --> 01:23:17,519
Speaker 3: More information? Do you need? I need?

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01:23:17,720 --> 01:23:19,439
Speaker 5: I needed? I need the whole story.

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01:23:19,520 --> 01:23:24,360
Speaker 1: That is the whole story. Yeah, you gotta drink more

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01:23:24,400 --> 01:23:29,080
Speaker 1: tea Joe je Well, it seems like chat has chosen

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01:23:29,120 --> 01:23:33,080
Speaker 1: for us, not the a hole. With fifty nine votes,

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01:23:33,120 --> 01:23:34,639
Speaker 1: thanks for voting.

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01:23:34,760 --> 01:23:37,639
Speaker 5: But you know what else I like Silver Cloak. Y'all

1618
01:23:37,680 --> 01:23:40,439
Speaker 5: voted for everyone sucks but not everyone is an a whole.

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01:23:40,600 --> 01:23:41,480
Speaker 5: I like that.

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01:23:41,479 --> 01:23:44,439
Speaker 1: That's good. Yeah everyone, I agree? Yeah, but you know

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01:23:44,479 --> 01:23:46,439
Speaker 1: what I also agree with? You know who doesn't suck?

1622
01:23:46,560 --> 01:23:52,880
Speaker 1: Who the people that voted for us? Going one more hour? Yeah?

1623
01:23:52,880 --> 01:23:56,120
Speaker 1: I have donations to read, y'all. Let's do it.

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01:23:56,720 --> 01:24:01,519
Speaker 2: Uh, thank you for the five tip on the DNA link.

1625
01:24:01,560 --> 01:24:03,160
Speaker 2: By the way, we save thirty percent. So we looked

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01:24:03,160 --> 01:24:04,639
Speaker 2: when you guys hit that, and you've been doing it great,

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01:24:04,680 --> 01:24:05,120
Speaker 2: So thank you.

1628
01:24:05,600 --> 01:24:06,120
Speaker 1: Just done.

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01:24:06,520 --> 01:24:08,880
Speaker 2: When a girl just done with a girl Scout meeting,

1630
01:24:09,120 --> 01:24:11,719
Speaker 2: they painted on flower pots for Earth today.

1631
01:24:12,280 --> 01:24:13,519
Speaker 1: I was Earth Day Earth.

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01:24:13,600 --> 01:24:13,760
Speaker 3: Yep.

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01:24:14,240 --> 01:24:15,680
Speaker 5: I thought Earth there was yesterday.

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01:24:15,880 --> 01:24:19,320
Speaker 3: Yep. I don't know every day's Earth Day. If you're

1635
01:24:19,360 --> 01:24:21,920
Speaker 3: able to walk on it or not. If you can't

1636
01:24:21,920 --> 01:24:22,479
Speaker 3: walk on it.

1637
01:24:22,880 --> 01:24:26,240
Speaker 2: If you heard your ankle while surfing, then you're still.

1638
01:24:26,120 --> 01:24:26,759
Speaker 5: It was yesterday.

1639
01:24:26,800 --> 01:24:27,400
Speaker 1: You're still on Earth.

1640
01:24:27,520 --> 01:24:28,959
Speaker 5: But maybe they're still in yesterday.

1641
01:24:29,040 --> 01:24:29,559
Speaker 1: That's true.

1642
01:24:29,760 --> 01:24:32,080
Speaker 2: Shout out to Coco ninety if the five forty four

1643
01:24:32,439 --> 01:24:35,639
Speaker 2: sending my thanks for the entertainment during work, You're welcome.

1644
01:24:35,960 --> 01:24:36,679
Speaker 1: Who got next?

1645
01:24:36,680 --> 01:24:39,720
Speaker 2: Forget for Sophie five bucks? I love being the a

1646
01:24:39,800 --> 01:24:42,400
Speaker 2: hole to an a hole. Softies deserved to be stood

1647
01:24:42,479 --> 01:24:45,880
Speaker 2: up for reasons why I was always in attention, dude,

1648
01:24:46,280 --> 01:24:47,600
Speaker 2: the people who bully.

1649
01:24:47,320 --> 01:24:51,240
Speaker 1: Bullies fire fire. I love a bully bully. I might

1650
01:24:51,520 --> 01:24:55,080
Speaker 1: fire with fire, which we learned. How is it working

1651
01:24:55,120 --> 01:24:55,639
Speaker 1: so well?

1652
01:24:56,000 --> 01:24:57,599
Speaker 5: It works in fight fire with fire?

1653
01:24:57,720 --> 01:25:00,360
Speaker 2: I always thought this was a mistake, but apparently I'm wrong.

1654
01:25:00,400 --> 01:25:03,519
Speaker 5: If people didn't fight fire with fire, the we would

1655
01:25:03,520 --> 01:25:06,240
Speaker 5: have more fires, Zuko wouldn't be a character.

1656
01:25:07,000 --> 01:25:10,599
Speaker 1: Wow, why are you thinking of too many guys? That's true,

1657
01:25:10,920 --> 01:25:16,160
Speaker 1: but Sophia and her fictional example. But that one, I

1658
01:25:16,200 --> 01:25:18,320
Speaker 1: actually you get it? You get yeah? I like that one.

1659
01:25:18,560 --> 01:25:24,360
Speaker 2: Signal imagination sixteen, Thanks for the seventy six fifty tip.

1660
01:25:24,600 --> 01:25:26,760
Speaker 2: My god, thank you on the donor link at that

1661
01:25:26,960 --> 01:25:34,960
Speaker 2: signal says one more hour guys playing the waiting game

1662
01:25:35,040 --> 01:25:39,160
Speaker 2: after my interview. Hopefully I get good news soon. A

1663
01:25:39,360 --> 01:25:41,960
Speaker 2: single imagination. Let's freaking go Oh, I think I remember

1664
01:25:42,479 --> 01:25:46,360
Speaker 2: cheering about that. Yes, fingers crossed, Princess Apasta, thanks for

1665
01:25:46,400 --> 01:25:49,200
Speaker 2: the five bucks. Cheaters come from the big eternal stench.

1666
01:25:49,280 --> 01:25:50,880
Speaker 1: If you know, you know?

1667
01:25:52,160 --> 01:25:53,800
Speaker 2: I don't know, but I do, Brittany.

1668
01:25:53,479 --> 01:25:54,639
Speaker 1: I see you win. Thanks you for a five bucks

1669
01:25:54,680 --> 01:25:55,559
Speaker 1: tip on the donal link.

1670
01:25:55,600 --> 01:25:58,919
Speaker 2: A quick pasta stay like the stream or watch it

1671
01:25:58,640 --> 01:26:01,519
Speaker 2: guys for so you could literally do it. You could

1672
01:26:01,520 --> 01:26:05,960
Speaker 2: literally do it so quick and then uh Saraus seriously

1673
01:26:06,560 --> 01:26:09,800
Speaker 2: celebrates one month of membership. Let's freakin yeah.

1674
01:26:10,080 --> 01:26:12,080
Speaker 1: And also some people were asking if I get a

1675
01:26:12,080 --> 01:26:14,360
Speaker 1: gifted membership, how long does it last? I believe it

1676
01:26:14,439 --> 01:26:17,639
Speaker 1: lasts one more month. But if you want to rejoin.

1677
01:26:17,800 --> 01:26:19,760
Speaker 1: You can go join on our.

1678
01:26:19,720 --> 01:26:22,360
Speaker 2: You too, that's right right, little join button right down here,

1679
01:26:22,640 --> 01:26:25,200
Speaker 2: button right down there? Yeah all right?

1680
01:26:25,240 --> 01:26:25,760
Speaker 1: So what else?

1681
01:26:25,800 --> 01:26:26,559
Speaker 2: What else can we join?

1682
01:26:26,640 --> 01:26:28,919
Speaker 1: Soon? I think we can join this next story, oh

1683
01:26:28,960 --> 01:26:35,000
Speaker 1: my god, please may be read by Sophia or John whoa,

1684
01:26:35,720 --> 01:26:39,559
Speaker 1: let's do it? And uh Riley, do you know what

1685
01:26:39,640 --> 01:26:41,439
Speaker 1: Sophia should be reading next? Yes?

1686
01:26:45,280 --> 01:26:51,880
Speaker 4: All fifty four s one four And also CORENSA is

1687
01:26:51,920 --> 01:26:55,320
Speaker 4: celebrating two months of membership new badge today.

1688
01:26:55,439 --> 01:26:58,360
Speaker 1: Oh I watch you every day, love the channel and

1689
01:26:58,400 --> 01:26:59,160
Speaker 1: this community.

1690
01:26:59,400 --> 01:26:59,639
Speaker 5: Fuck.

1691
01:27:00,280 --> 01:27:02,040
Speaker 1: Also, we redesigned the badges.

1692
01:27:02,200 --> 01:27:06,479
Speaker 2: We do need to redesign the badges with freaking sick y'all.

1693
01:27:06,520 --> 01:27:08,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, we were taking We did a photo shoot yesterday.

1694
01:27:08,840 --> 01:27:10,040
Speaker 5: I think they turned out really well.

1695
01:27:10,080 --> 01:27:11,640
Speaker 2: Do we posted a discord at all about it?

1696
01:27:12,160 --> 01:27:14,040
Speaker 1: I don't know. I took a little, it took a

1697
01:27:14,080 --> 01:27:16,200
Speaker 1: little video. I don't know. I think it's a secret.

1698
01:27:16,280 --> 01:27:18,760
Speaker 1: I think it's a secret. It's a big they'll they'll

1699
01:27:18,760 --> 01:27:21,280
Speaker 1: see it very soon. And I'm going to write down

1700
01:27:21,640 --> 01:27:27,160
Speaker 1: to talk to our guy about us doing they.

1701
01:27:26,680 --> 01:27:28,400
Speaker 5: I know what I'm going to talk to you about?

1702
01:27:28,600 --> 01:27:30,839
Speaker 1: What this my story? Oh my god?

1703
01:27:31,520 --> 01:27:34,639
Speaker 5: Am I the a hole for poisoning my son against

1704
01:27:34,720 --> 01:27:36,240
Speaker 5: my cheating ex wife.

1705
01:27:36,760 --> 01:27:38,600
Speaker 1: Oh, poisoning poisoning?

1706
01:27:39,120 --> 01:27:43,360
Speaker 5: Okay, so independent duties, says. My ex wife thirty four

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01:27:43,400 --> 01:27:47,160
Speaker 5: female and I thirty six male, officially split up a

1708
01:27:47,160 --> 01:27:50,240
Speaker 5: couple of years ago after she confessed to her affair.

1709
01:27:51,120 --> 01:27:53,920
Speaker 5: The divorce was a long and lengthy process, and it

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01:27:53,960 --> 01:27:57,360
Speaker 5: took almost a year to complete. We entered into a

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01:27:57,400 --> 01:28:01,080
Speaker 5: co parenting arrangement with our son fourteen MA and I

1712
01:28:01,120 --> 01:28:04,280
Speaker 5: got primary custody. My son was close with her, so

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01:28:04,320 --> 01:28:07,120
Speaker 5: I decided not to tell him about the actual reason

1714
01:28:07,200 --> 01:28:10,200
Speaker 5: for our divorce, and my ex wife was very grateful

1715
01:28:10,200 --> 01:28:12,320
Speaker 5: for that. I only told him that we divorced because

1716
01:28:12,360 --> 01:28:13,479
Speaker 5: we had fallen out of love.

1717
01:28:14,320 --> 01:28:19,360
Speaker 1: Conspiracy theory, Oh, half dealer, We've seen this so much.

1718
01:28:19,360 --> 01:28:22,200
Speaker 1: We've seen this so much. Uh, ex wife is going

1719
01:28:22,280 --> 01:28:26,000
Speaker 1: to tell the kid that Opie cheated. We see it

1720
01:28:26,040 --> 01:28:27,760
Speaker 1: every time we see it, every time we've seen it.

1721
01:28:27,800 --> 01:28:31,720
Speaker 1: So call it. I'm calling it right down, and she's

1722
01:28:31,720 --> 01:28:33,680
Speaker 1: gonna stamp on it. She's gonna stamp on it. But

1723
01:28:33,840 --> 01:28:35,479
Speaker 1: I see you in the chat. If you see that too,

1724
01:28:35,600 --> 01:28:38,400
Speaker 1: I see you that I see you, and I see you.

1725
01:28:38,479 --> 01:28:46,480
Speaker 1: If you don't see it, Oh.

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01:28:43,160 --> 01:28:49,760
Speaker 8: My son was close with her. Factory reality, my son

1727
01:28:49,880 --> 01:28:53,559
Speaker 8: was close, oh, I said that. However, a couple of

1728
01:28:53,560 --> 01:28:56,320
Speaker 8: months ago, I decided that there was really no point

1729
01:28:56,439 --> 01:29:01,040
Speaker 8: in lying to my son anymore, okay eh, and that

1730
01:29:01,120 --> 01:29:02,479
Speaker 8: he deserved to know the truth.

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01:29:02,720 --> 01:29:03,640
Speaker 1: Mmmmmmmm.

1732
01:29:04,360 --> 01:29:06,600
Speaker 5: When I told him the truth, he was shocked, but

1733
01:29:06,720 --> 01:29:10,719
Speaker 5: also extremely saddened. He started to resent his bio mom,

1734
01:29:10,800 --> 01:29:12,920
Speaker 5: and he no longer wanted to spend time with her.

1735
01:29:13,240 --> 01:29:17,120
Speaker 5: He's even started referring to my current girlfriend as my mom, oh,

1736
01:29:17,200 --> 01:29:20,040
Speaker 5: as momm My girlfriend told me what I did was

1737
01:29:20,080 --> 01:29:22,040
Speaker 5: the right thing, and my son was at the age

1738
01:29:22,040 --> 01:29:24,479
Speaker 5: where he deserved to know the truth. A couple of

1739
01:29:24,520 --> 01:29:27,559
Speaker 5: days ago, however, my ex wife called me in tears

1740
01:29:27,600 --> 01:29:31,000
Speaker 5: and accused me of poisoning our son against her. I

1741
01:29:31,080 --> 01:29:33,000
Speaker 5: told her that the only thing I told our son

1742
01:29:33,160 --> 01:29:35,920
Speaker 5: was the reason we actually divorced. I did not tell

1743
01:29:35,960 --> 01:29:38,240
Speaker 5: him anything else or any negative thing about her. I

1744
01:29:38,320 --> 01:29:40,840
Speaker 5: just told him the truth. She asked me why I

1745
01:29:40,880 --> 01:29:43,559
Speaker 5: did it, because it had now ruined her relationship with

1746
01:29:43,640 --> 01:29:46,960
Speaker 5: a person she loved most the world. I just told

1747
01:29:47,000 --> 01:29:49,120
Speaker 5: her that I felt guilty hiding the truth from our

1748
01:29:49,120 --> 01:29:51,439
Speaker 5: son for so long, and that he was going to

1749
01:29:51,439 --> 01:29:54,240
Speaker 5: find out sooner rather than later. That was the end

1750
01:29:54,360 --> 01:29:57,400
Speaker 5: of our conversation. Am I the ahole?

1751
01:29:57,560 --> 01:29:57,920
Speaker 1: WHOA?

1752
01:29:58,800 --> 01:30:02,920
Speaker 5: I I think yes? I think yes the ahole.

1753
01:30:03,520 --> 01:30:08,439
Speaker 2: So basically opp and his wife, uh separated because she

1754
01:30:08,520 --> 01:30:10,360
Speaker 2: cheated on him, right, yes, and then they had a

1755
01:30:10,400 --> 01:30:13,320
Speaker 2: fourteen year old son, who ope got full custody of yes,

1756
01:30:13,640 --> 01:30:16,439
Speaker 2: and then what was the impetus for Ope sharing?

1757
01:30:17,200 --> 01:30:18,000
Speaker 1: He shouldn't want to.

1758
01:30:18,200 --> 01:30:21,040
Speaker 5: He says that after a couple he couldn't live with it.

1759
01:30:21,600 --> 01:30:25,400
Speaker 5: He just felt that he should tell his son. I

1760
01:30:25,439 --> 01:30:28,639
Speaker 5: think he is the a hole because one this son,

1761
01:30:28,720 --> 01:30:29,799
Speaker 5: the son is like fourteen.

1762
01:30:30,680 --> 01:30:30,920
Speaker 3: Uh.

1763
01:30:31,240 --> 01:30:33,479
Speaker 5: This it seems like from his wording, it seems like

1764
01:30:33,800 --> 01:30:36,280
Speaker 5: the cheating and the divorce happened a couple of months ago.

1765
01:30:36,840 --> 01:30:39,639
Speaker 5: It's not like there's a long time and he should

1766
01:30:39,640 --> 01:30:42,280
Speaker 5: have talked to the mom and had her tell her son.

1767
01:30:42,439 --> 01:30:43,839
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1768
01:30:43,920 --> 01:30:47,800
Speaker 5: I mean he says, oh, well, oh she's not Oh

1769
01:30:47,920 --> 01:30:50,800
Speaker 5: he's old enough to understand. And I felt guilty but

1770
01:30:50,920 --> 01:30:54,720
Speaker 5: like or sorry that he didn't say anything bad about her,

1771
01:30:54,720 --> 01:30:57,320
Speaker 5: But like that is she did do it, but that

1772
01:30:57,439 --> 01:30:59,800
Speaker 5: is something bad that she's done, and so I feel

1773
01:30:59,800 --> 01:31:02,880
Speaker 5: like it was kind of her right to tell the kid.

1774
01:31:03,400 --> 01:31:05,080
Speaker 5: I think he could have been like, Hey, you need

1775
01:31:05,120 --> 01:31:06,040
Speaker 5: to tell the kid or I will.

1776
01:31:06,280 --> 01:31:09,920
Speaker 1: Yeah. I think if you didn't that. I think if

1777
01:31:09,920 --> 01:31:13,800
Speaker 1: you did that, it would have been like not as

1778
01:31:13,880 --> 01:31:16,400
Speaker 1: much have an a hole move, because I think you

1779
01:31:16,439 --> 01:31:18,920
Speaker 1: could have framed it's like, hey, I think this is

1780
01:31:18,960 --> 01:31:20,519
Speaker 1: going to come up. It's really hard for me to

1781
01:31:20,520 --> 01:31:24,280
Speaker 1: bear this kind of burden and not be able to

1782
01:31:24,280 --> 01:31:27,640
Speaker 1: explain the real reason for why we broke up. I

1783
01:31:27,680 --> 01:31:31,639
Speaker 1: think I want to give you the chance to say

1784
01:31:32,240 --> 01:31:36,720
Speaker 1: what actually happened in your own words, But does that

1785
01:31:37,320 --> 01:31:40,040
Speaker 1: give the opportunity to do the ICU that I was

1786
01:31:40,080 --> 01:31:40,800
Speaker 1: totally wrong about.

1787
01:31:41,360 --> 01:31:42,519
Speaker 5: You didn't do that.

1788
01:31:43,200 --> 01:31:50,000
Speaker 2: I think you do that ideally, maybe together, like maybe

1789
01:31:50,040 --> 01:31:52,639
Speaker 2: mea you say like in the very beginning, because we've

1790
01:31:52,680 --> 01:31:58,080
Speaker 2: seen so many stories where somebody doesn't like tell the

1791
01:31:58,120 --> 01:32:00,120
Speaker 2: truth of why they just like, oh we would, we

1792
01:32:00,160 --> 01:32:02,160
Speaker 2: just weren't feeling anywhere. That's what we got separated, and

1793
01:32:02,160 --> 01:32:05,000
Speaker 2: then the other person eventually like flips it back on

1794
01:32:05,040 --> 01:32:06,360
Speaker 2: them and they're like, oh, you cheated, and what It's

1795
01:32:06,400 --> 01:32:08,880
Speaker 2: like I was over here being the angel and not

1796
01:32:08,920 --> 01:32:12,200
Speaker 2: exposing you. So I think for that reason it's good

1797
01:32:12,240 --> 01:32:13,439
Speaker 2: to tell. But yeah, maybe tell me.

1798
01:32:14,000 --> 01:32:15,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm actually kind of flip flopping. I don't know

1799
01:32:15,800 --> 01:32:18,040
Speaker 1: if it's a good idea to say it at all,

1800
01:32:19,360 --> 01:32:24,320
Speaker 1: the idea say it, Yeah, I don't, and especially like,

1801
01:32:24,840 --> 01:32:26,360
Speaker 1: I mean, you can say whatever you want to say

1802
01:32:26,520 --> 01:32:29,679
Speaker 1: to your kid really about this stuff. But I think

1803
01:32:29,760 --> 01:32:32,360
Speaker 1: like if you want, if you're thinking about what's best

1804
01:32:32,360 --> 01:32:35,400
Speaker 1: for your child, you want to unite in front under

1805
01:32:35,400 --> 01:32:36,320
Speaker 1: both parents, you know.

1806
01:32:36,600 --> 01:32:40,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think honestly, my propensity and my my feelings

1807
01:32:40,320 --> 01:32:43,400
Speaker 2: towards this before we started the show was definitely that,

1808
01:32:43,479 --> 01:32:45,280
Speaker 2: like I'm like, okay, like it is what it is.

1809
01:32:45,320 --> 01:32:47,040
Speaker 2: I'm not going to like try to drag their name

1810
01:32:47,080 --> 01:32:52,920
Speaker 2: through the mud. However, now knowing just like all these stories,

1811
01:32:53,160 --> 01:32:56,080
Speaker 2: I don't know if I can blame someone who's like, hey,

1812
01:32:56,160 --> 01:32:58,080
Speaker 2: let's like sit down and find an age appropriate way

1813
01:32:58,120 --> 01:32:59,840
Speaker 2: too for you to share with the kid.

1814
01:33:00,360 --> 01:33:03,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, what happened, But see that, I think that wouldn't

1815
01:33:03,000 --> 01:33:05,800
Speaker 1: have been the able move to to share an age

1816
01:33:05,800 --> 01:33:09,080
Speaker 1: appropriate Yeah, the age appropriate truth.

1817
01:33:09,320 --> 01:33:11,200
Speaker 5: I think this was a conversation that needed to be

1818
01:33:11,240 --> 01:33:13,400
Speaker 5: had before he just went and did it for no reason,

1819
01:33:13,560 --> 01:33:16,519
Speaker 5: Like it wasn't she started lying about him. He literally

1820
01:33:16,600 --> 01:33:19,040
Speaker 5: just the way that he says it, He's like I

1821
01:33:19,200 --> 01:33:21,320
Speaker 5: just felt like I should do it now.

1822
01:33:21,479 --> 01:33:24,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, Tory Bird, wait, can you scroll up? Riley? So,

1823
01:33:25,080 --> 01:33:28,120
Speaker 1: Tory Bird, my dear says, bro tell the truth and

1824
01:33:28,160 --> 01:33:30,000
Speaker 1: the kid is old enough to understand, because I know

1825
01:33:30,080 --> 01:33:33,160
Speaker 1: the things my parents kept from me now confuse and

1826
01:33:33,280 --> 01:33:34,760
Speaker 1: taint any memories I have.

1827
01:33:35,280 --> 01:33:37,040
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1828
01:33:37,080 --> 01:33:39,360
Speaker 1: And then Lily x Play says this will probably change

1829
01:33:39,360 --> 01:33:43,080
Speaker 1: his view completely of what a healthy relationship should be.

1830
01:33:43,760 --> 01:33:46,639
Speaker 1: A Dashed Starter says it shouldn't be brought up unless

1831
01:33:46,640 --> 01:33:50,080
Speaker 1: the kid asks, and it should be age appropriate. Yeah.

1832
01:33:50,520 --> 01:33:52,720
Speaker 1: And then Beth Anne Blotcher says, and especially if she's

1833
01:33:52,720 --> 01:33:55,840
Speaker 1: a good mother. He did poison his son's opinion of her, yes,

1834
01:33:55,880 --> 01:33:59,200
Speaker 1: by telling the truth. But again, keep children out of

1835
01:33:59,200 --> 01:34:03,160
Speaker 1: adult problem. I like that, keep children, children out of problems. Yeah.

1836
01:34:03,960 --> 01:34:06,360
Speaker 2: I guess you just have to trust that the other

1837
01:34:06,400 --> 01:34:08,439
Speaker 2: person won't use it against you.

1838
01:34:08,600 --> 01:34:09,560
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1839
01:34:09,080 --> 01:34:12,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't think it's a fair thing to be like, well,

1840
01:34:12,160 --> 01:34:14,639
Speaker 5: I've got to do it first because she might do it.

1841
01:34:14,800 --> 01:34:18,760
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, that's like plashing the nuclear arms button and

1842
01:34:18,800 --> 01:34:22,519
Speaker 1: then true, then it implodes everything exactly. This is a

1843
01:34:22,560 --> 01:34:27,040
Speaker 1: cold strike fast and Susan Martin says, please remember to

1844
01:34:27,080 --> 01:34:28,880
Speaker 1: like the stream. So, wait, are we all in agreement here.

1845
01:34:29,040 --> 01:34:35,200
Speaker 1: I think we're all in agreement here. No, Sophia and

1846
01:34:35,280 --> 01:34:38,080
Speaker 1: I think are on the same page. We think, Oh,

1847
01:34:38,160 --> 01:34:40,880
Speaker 1: P is the a hole? Yes, a hole.

1848
01:34:41,000 --> 01:34:43,720
Speaker 2: Sorry, I was going to say. Where I might might

1849
01:34:43,800 --> 01:34:49,760
Speaker 2: differ is like, uh, the idea of having the wife

1850
01:34:49,800 --> 01:34:52,519
Speaker 2: sit down with the kid right as the divorce is

1851
01:34:52,520 --> 01:34:58,320
Speaker 2: happening and sharing age appropriate way to like the job.

1852
01:34:58,560 --> 01:35:01,000
Speaker 2: I don't know if I have a request, request request me.

1853
01:35:01,120 --> 01:35:03,639
Speaker 2: All right, you were staring into the eyes of your

1854
01:35:03,680 --> 01:35:08,800
Speaker 2: thirteen year old son. You are the mom who just

1855
01:35:09,080 --> 01:35:15,560
Speaker 2: had wild, passionate sex with the office hattie, and because

1856
01:35:15,920 --> 01:35:18,679
Speaker 2: she risked it all, she is now getting a divorce

1857
01:35:18,720 --> 01:35:21,760
Speaker 2: because her husband found out in the act. What do

1858
01:35:21,800 --> 01:35:25,080
Speaker 2: you tell that thirteen year old about you're.

1859
01:35:25,000 --> 01:35:27,600
Speaker 1: You're the mom, I'm the mom. You're the mom. You

1860
01:35:27,640 --> 01:35:32,639
Speaker 1: are now sharing an age appropriate explanation of your cheating.

1861
01:35:32,720 --> 01:35:35,400
Speaker 2: I feel like if I was the one, which I'm

1862
01:35:35,560 --> 01:35:37,519
Speaker 2: also not me in the scenario, but I would never

1863
01:35:37,600 --> 01:35:42,200
Speaker 2: do this, obviously, But if I was the person who cheated,

1864
01:35:42,360 --> 01:35:44,599
Speaker 2: I would want to share. I would want to come

1865
01:35:44,640 --> 01:35:46,920
Speaker 2: clean with the kid and an age appropriate all.

1866
01:35:46,880 --> 01:35:51,200
Speaker 1: Right, do it? Oh? Oh, I see prove it. Listen

1867
01:35:51,280 --> 01:35:55,240
Speaker 1: up me or mommy, I love you very much. But

1868
01:35:55,600 --> 01:35:56,240
Speaker 1: here's the thing.

1869
01:35:57,200 --> 01:36:02,479
Speaker 2: I did end up having feelings for someone else and

1870
01:36:03,720 --> 01:36:05,880
Speaker 2: we we did get together, but.

1871
01:36:07,400 --> 01:36:08,960
Speaker 1: Together. Uh.

1872
01:36:09,040 --> 01:36:12,800
Speaker 2: Well, kids, okay, listen, kids, all right, you have two kids.

1873
01:36:13,000 --> 01:36:15,679
Speaker 2: Mommys needs. Okay, what are your needs?

1874
01:36:15,760 --> 01:36:16,200
Speaker 5: Mom?

1875
01:36:16,240 --> 01:36:26,200
Speaker 2: Like, Hi, I need I grafts exactly raw. So so kids,

1876
01:36:27,120 --> 01:36:29,639
Speaker 2: Mommy had to go out and guess what. Guess what, kids,

1877
01:36:29,920 --> 01:36:32,240
Speaker 2: Mommy did something wrong. Mommy did something very wrong. And

1878
01:36:32,280 --> 01:36:34,799
Speaker 2: Mommy needs to be upfront with you and be honest

1879
01:36:34,840 --> 01:36:39,599
Speaker 2: because when you do something wrong. I I saw this

1880
01:36:39,600 --> 01:36:42,920
Speaker 2: this other guy who's not your daddy. Okay, I know

1881
01:36:43,120 --> 01:36:45,280
Speaker 2: it's it's terrible. It's terrible. I saw someone who's not

1882
01:36:45,320 --> 01:36:48,800
Speaker 2: your daddy, and I was like, oh, this guy's is

1883
01:36:48,840 --> 01:36:55,080
Speaker 2: so nice, and I kissed him. I know I deserve

1884
01:36:55,160 --> 01:36:55,719
Speaker 2: to be hated.

1885
01:36:55,920 --> 01:36:57,160
Speaker 1: That's all.

1886
01:36:57,720 --> 01:36:58,160
Speaker 3: Everybody.

1887
01:36:58,240 --> 01:36:59,560
Speaker 1: See you again, Mommy.

1888
01:36:59,439 --> 01:37:02,519
Speaker 2: You know it's secual adult kissing. Okay, and uh I

1889
01:37:02,520 --> 01:37:06,599
Speaker 2: did these special adult kisses and it was terrible.

1890
01:37:06,640 --> 01:37:09,200
Speaker 1: And you know what, your father doesn't deserve that.

1891
01:37:11,240 --> 01:37:14,559
Speaker 2: Heck, yeah, little Timmy, I freaking loved it all right

1892
01:37:15,960 --> 01:37:20,759
Speaker 2: to live with dad. Good, good kid out. I'm just kidding,

1893
01:37:21,560 --> 01:37:23,479
Speaker 2: but yeah, you know. I wait, I'm not telling you.

1894
01:37:24,160 --> 01:37:30,720
Speaker 2: Please hold your applause character. Uh yeah, mommy, you know

1895
01:37:30,840 --> 01:37:32,680
Speaker 2: and you know what, Mommy is really sorry and I

1896
01:37:32,880 --> 01:37:35,479
Speaker 2: shouldn't have done it. And you know what, you kids

1897
01:37:35,520 --> 01:37:38,479
Speaker 2: deserve better and your father deserves better. But you know

1898
01:37:38,520 --> 01:37:40,280
Speaker 2: what I can promise to you, I am going to

1899
01:37:40,320 --> 01:37:43,480
Speaker 2: be the best dang mom this side of the Mississippi.

1900
01:37:43,600 --> 01:37:45,240
Speaker 2: And I'm here with your father and we're a team

1901
01:37:45,240 --> 01:37:46,680
Speaker 2: and we're allsto a family and I love you.

1902
01:37:48,040 --> 01:37:51,120
Speaker 1: Honestly, that was pretty good. I'm telling you.

1903
01:37:51,120 --> 01:37:54,200
Speaker 2: You can pretty good. You can tell special adult kissing

1904
01:37:54,360 --> 01:38:00,960
Speaker 2: is honestly special adult. Yeah, but like you were the

1905
01:38:01,080 --> 01:38:05,000
Speaker 2: five year olds, but like I think you could say, get.

1906
01:38:04,840 --> 01:38:07,679
Speaker 1: To get on adult kissing maybe for like little tiny kids.

1907
01:38:07,760 --> 01:38:08,599
Speaker 1: That's my favorite.

1908
01:38:08,880 --> 01:38:13,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, now you can clap Riley, there you go, good boy.

1909
01:38:15,800 --> 01:38:16,760
Speaker 2: There we have it and scene.

1910
01:38:16,760 --> 01:38:17,960
Speaker 1: But so that is that the end?

1911
01:38:18,960 --> 01:38:20,479
Speaker 2: Well that was the end of that part of the story,

1912
01:38:20,560 --> 01:38:23,479
Speaker 2: right but there No, that's the end of the story completely.

1913
01:38:24,600 --> 01:38:25,559
Speaker 3: What way more?

1914
01:38:26,479 --> 01:38:29,519
Speaker 1: Hold on? There's more?

1915
01:38:27,840 --> 01:38:28,080
Speaker 9: But you.

1916
01:38:29,840 --> 01:38:30,280
Speaker 1: Know what else?

1917
01:38:30,320 --> 01:38:35,519
Speaker 2: There is more of them? Some incredible donations to this

1918
01:38:35,680 --> 01:38:38,360
Speaker 2: stream to the Riley Can you pull it up for us?

1919
01:38:38,360 --> 01:38:43,439
Speaker 2: Who's the first one. Uh, yes, I think we didn't

1920
01:38:43,439 --> 01:38:45,000
Speaker 2: read that. We didn't read that, but this is apasta

1921
01:38:45,040 --> 01:38:47,120
Speaker 2: thanks to a five bucks tip. The bag of eternal

1922
01:38:47,160 --> 01:38:50,120
Speaker 2: stench comes from a movie called Labyrinth. My parents have

1923
01:38:50,160 --> 01:38:50,800
Speaker 2: told me about that.

1924
01:38:50,880 --> 01:38:53,800
Speaker 1: The bog of internal stench. I've heard about Labyrinth, guy

1925
01:38:53,840 --> 01:38:56,000
Speaker 1: with a I've never seen it.

1926
01:38:56,360 --> 01:38:58,880
Speaker 2: Have I? I don't watch movies. Thank you Samantha for

1927
01:38:58,920 --> 01:38:59,599
Speaker 2: the five buck tip.

1928
01:39:01,760 --> 01:39:02,720
Speaker 1: David Bowie is in that.

1929
01:39:02,800 --> 01:39:06,840
Speaker 2: David Bowie. Oh nice. I also had a day off

1930
01:39:07,439 --> 01:39:10,760
Speaker 2: today and joined it. Heck, yeah, I know Earth Day was,

1931
01:39:11,680 --> 01:39:13,920
Speaker 2: I know birthday was the other day, but her troop

1932
01:39:14,000 --> 01:39:17,200
Speaker 2: meetings are on Tuesdays, so we celebrate today. That explains

1933
01:39:17,240 --> 01:39:20,479
Speaker 2: the uh, the mugs or the special flower pots rather

1934
01:39:20,960 --> 01:39:26,920
Speaker 2: One done, mother freaking Millennial with the forty our favorite

1935
01:39:26,960 --> 01:39:31,080
Speaker 2: criminal with the forty seven seventy five donation on the

1936
01:39:31,120 --> 01:39:34,360
Speaker 2: tip link. Why haven't I heard more about Sam teaching

1937
01:39:34,400 --> 01:39:35,120
Speaker 2: English and China?

1938
01:39:35,240 --> 01:39:35,639
Speaker 1: Sam?

1939
01:39:36,080 --> 01:39:38,719
Speaker 2: I talked about it the other day. We'll talk about

1940
01:39:38,760 --> 01:39:44,080
Speaker 2: it more because one done Millennial, guys. One done millennial

1941
01:39:44,560 --> 01:39:48,160
Speaker 2: breaks the law to like the stream, like the stream

1942
01:39:48,280 --> 01:39:52,040
Speaker 2: to be here in the chat. One done millennial, guys,

1943
01:39:52,120 --> 01:39:53,840
Speaker 2: is it illegal for you guys? To like the stream

1944
01:39:53,880 --> 01:39:57,160
Speaker 2: right now. I don't think so. I really don't think so. Anyway,

1945
01:39:57,160 --> 01:39:58,840
Speaker 2: shout out to you want to millennial drift drop thanks

1946
01:39:58,880 --> 01:40:00,840
Speaker 2: at one hundred bucks. Hey, I made it from my

1947
01:40:00,960 --> 01:40:03,639
Speaker 2: lunch and the stream is still going. Drip drop your cut.

1948
01:40:03,720 --> 01:40:06,320
Speaker 2: It's it's pouring right now. Can we be honest it's

1949
01:40:06,360 --> 01:40:09,559
Speaker 2: dripping and drop it. It is a hurricane. Yeah, catch

1950
01:40:09,600 --> 01:40:13,519
Speaker 2: you dogs, thank you, And then Curvy Golall Flame celebrating

1951
01:40:13,560 --> 01:40:16,479
Speaker 2: her one month of membership. You're the a hole. You

1952
01:40:16,479 --> 01:40:19,000
Speaker 2: didn't do it right. My daughter is sixteen and doesn't

1953
01:40:19,040 --> 01:40:22,480
Speaker 2: know what her dad did to me to preserve their relationship.

1954
01:40:22,680 --> 01:40:29,640
Speaker 1: Ho, so Kurby Girl is basically saying that what was it?

1955
01:40:29,840 --> 01:40:30,479
Speaker 1: Let me read again.

1956
01:40:31,200 --> 01:40:33,439
Speaker 2: You're the a hole. Uh, you didn't do it right.

1957
01:40:33,560 --> 01:40:36,000
Speaker 2: My daughter is sixteen and doesn't know what her dad did.

1958
01:40:36,520 --> 01:40:39,760
Speaker 2: So yeah, don't yeah, don't reveal basically because op revealed it.

1959
01:40:40,040 --> 01:40:41,599
Speaker 2: I hear you, Curvy girl and who else?

1960
01:40:41,640 --> 01:40:41,960
Speaker 1: Who else?

1961
01:40:42,000 --> 01:40:49,080
Speaker 2: We got the lall fifty dollars tip with a heart emoji?

1962
01:40:49,720 --> 01:40:52,320
Speaker 2: That is it? Fifty dollars tip with a heart emoji?

1963
01:40:52,520 --> 01:40:55,000
Speaker 2: My god, Brooke Aklall.

1964
01:40:54,560 --> 01:40:57,120
Speaker 1: Is just showing some love.

1965
01:40:57,400 --> 01:41:01,280
Speaker 2: Big bombs of Love, Nuclear Love and Brooke aka Cosmic

1966
01:41:01,320 --> 01:41:04,120
Speaker 2: ten Buck Tip. John says he doesn't watch any movies,

1967
01:41:04,120 --> 01:41:07,920
Speaker 2: but watches Done Too without Riley, and we will never forget.

1968
01:41:08,080 --> 01:41:11,880
Speaker 3: Actually I know John John will watch a movie but

1969
01:41:11,880 --> 01:41:13,960
Speaker 3: doesn't even watch it because, like I referenced something from

1970
01:41:13,960 --> 01:41:15,439
Speaker 3: that movie and he had no idea.

1971
01:41:15,520 --> 01:41:20,040
Speaker 1: We watched Monkey Man together, Yeah, and Riley referenced something

1972
01:41:20,080 --> 01:41:24,160
Speaker 1: from it and John reference what reference? Tell me?

1973
01:41:24,280 --> 01:41:28,519
Speaker 3: I don't remember, but it was referenced something from Dune

1974
01:41:28,520 --> 01:41:30,479
Speaker 3: two and you had no idea what that was and

1975
01:41:30,560 --> 01:41:33,120
Speaker 3: what was that? It was? Like, I was like, oh,

1976
01:41:33,200 --> 01:41:40,920
Speaker 3: Sam looks like lauslim Uh what was I a gaya?

1977
01:41:43,320 --> 01:41:47,679
Speaker 2: I think it's because you said it the wrong way. Aha,

1978
01:41:47,760 --> 01:41:50,240
Speaker 2: I'm innocent. All right, ladies and gentlemen. That's all the

1979
01:41:50,240 --> 01:41:52,759
Speaker 2: test we got, But we do have more of this story.

1980
01:41:53,080 --> 01:41:55,599
Speaker 2: Let's go never ending story.

1981
01:41:56,000 --> 01:41:56,160
Speaker 4: Never.

1982
01:41:56,320 --> 01:41:58,400
Speaker 5: I was just telling a friend about that. That is

1983
01:41:58,439 --> 01:42:02,600
Speaker 5: a fever dream of a movie. The vast majority of

1984
01:42:02,680 --> 01:42:05,400
Speaker 5: commons say I was the ahle and I.

1985
01:42:05,280 --> 01:42:09,559
Speaker 1: Agree, oh, which we said.

1986
01:42:09,880 --> 01:42:12,800
Speaker 5: Yeah. I want to clarify why I decided to tell

1987
01:42:12,840 --> 01:42:16,240
Speaker 5: my son about why my marriage with my ex wife ended.

1988
01:42:16,680 --> 01:42:18,559
Speaker 5: I just didn't feel it was right to lie to him,

1989
01:42:18,600 --> 01:42:20,120
Speaker 5: and that he had the right to know why our

1990
01:42:20,160 --> 01:42:23,040
Speaker 5: marriage ended. I still think I made the right decision

1991
01:42:23,080 --> 01:42:25,720
Speaker 5: to tell him, but I also think I am an

1992
01:42:25,760 --> 01:42:29,120
Speaker 5: ahle and my girlfriend thinks I made the right decision too.

1993
01:42:29,680 --> 01:42:32,719
Speaker 5: For reference, I plan to propose to my girlfriend next month,

1994
01:42:32,800 --> 01:42:35,200
Speaker 5: and we're probably going to get married in a few months.

1995
01:42:35,600 --> 01:42:37,760
Speaker 5: I spoke to my son this morning and explained to

1996
01:42:37,840 --> 01:42:39,680
Speaker 5: him that what my ex wife did to our end

1997
01:42:39,720 --> 01:42:43,320
Speaker 5: of to end our marriage, had nothing to do about

1998
01:42:43,320 --> 01:42:45,439
Speaker 5: her role as a mother, and that she was a

1999
01:42:45,479 --> 01:42:47,519
Speaker 5: really great mother to him all these years and she

2000
01:42:47,640 --> 01:42:48,280
Speaker 5: loved him a lot.

2001
01:42:48,439 --> 01:42:49,519
Speaker 1: Cats out of the bag though.

2002
01:42:49,680 --> 01:42:51,280
Speaker 5: Yea, you can't put that back.

2003
01:42:51,400 --> 01:42:54,240
Speaker 1: You can't depend there.

2004
01:42:56,320 --> 01:42:59,519
Speaker 5: But he said he doesn't want anything to do with

2005
01:42:59,560 --> 01:43:01,519
Speaker 5: it or any more, and he doesn't even want to

2006
01:43:01,520 --> 01:43:04,400
Speaker 5: call her mom. I'm going to let him go through

2007
01:43:04,400 --> 01:43:07,320
Speaker 5: this phase without interfering too much. A little too late.

2008
01:43:07,760 --> 01:43:10,040
Speaker 5: I've explained to him that his mom loves him, and

2009
01:43:10,080 --> 01:43:13,040
Speaker 5: I have tried my best to repair the relationship, but

2010
01:43:13,360 --> 01:43:15,880
Speaker 5: it's out of my hands now. He's at an age

2011
01:43:15,880 --> 01:43:17,519
Speaker 5: where he is free to do what he wants and

2012
01:43:17,520 --> 01:43:18,120
Speaker 5: what he is motion.

2013
01:43:18,439 --> 01:43:20,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's like you empowered him to do that.

2014
01:43:20,439 --> 01:43:23,760
Speaker 1: I don't know. It's still still still an ale. You're

2015
01:43:23,760 --> 01:43:24,400
Speaker 1: still a nahle.

2016
01:43:25,640 --> 01:43:27,599
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree, Sorry, I'm just looking at Riley.

2017
01:43:27,800 --> 01:43:29,120
Speaker 1: Why all right?

2018
01:43:29,160 --> 01:43:30,200
Speaker 5: Go, I will be right back.

2019
01:43:30,439 --> 01:43:32,600
Speaker 1: Get get get.

2020
01:43:33,760 --> 01:43:35,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think still an ahole.

2021
01:43:37,240 --> 01:43:40,680
Speaker 1: What do we agree? We agree? We agree? But you

2022
01:43:40,720 --> 01:43:44,519
Speaker 1: know what else I agree with? Well? I agree with

2023
01:43:44,640 --> 01:43:48,240
Speaker 1: your eng listeners story, Riley? Why are you flipping me

2024
01:43:48,280 --> 01:43:48,719
Speaker 1: off right.

2025
01:43:48,640 --> 01:43:52,520
Speaker 3: Now because you won't let me do it?

2026
01:43:52,520 --> 01:43:57,240
Speaker 1: It's hot outside, it's illegal. No, it's not, it's illegal

2027
01:43:57,800 --> 01:44:03,799
Speaker 1: where you can't you're allowed. We've we've never been done before.

2028
01:44:05,160 --> 01:44:06,519
Speaker 3: But hey, how about we change that?

2029
01:44:06,640 --> 01:44:09,080
Speaker 1: Also? Can we try two windows? Yeah, let's open up

2030
01:44:09,080 --> 01:44:11,439
Speaker 1: a window, hot outside, that on air, but it was

2031
01:44:11,520 --> 01:44:16,639
Speaker 1: the air was cool. And then push push that, push

2032
01:44:16,640 --> 01:44:22,360
Speaker 1: that open. Oh it's so bright. Oh, let's just see

2033
01:44:22,360 --> 01:44:25,080
Speaker 1: how that, let's see, let's see, let's how we let's see.

2034
01:44:24,880 --> 01:44:26,240
Speaker 2: That and the other one's open too. Right, we can

2035
01:44:26,320 --> 01:44:29,559
Speaker 2: do that, but but what do you mean it's illegal?

2036
01:44:29,960 --> 01:44:36,639
Speaker 1: It's illegal? How it's illegal? We've never done it before.

2037
01:44:37,200 --> 01:44:40,599
Speaker 3: It doesn't mean can't do it. We never livestream before.

2038
01:44:41,200 --> 01:44:43,520
Speaker 1: Look what if it's noisy.

2039
01:44:44,439 --> 01:44:48,120
Speaker 3: What if it's Hey, guys, can you hear this.

2040
01:44:48,240 --> 01:44:58,360
Speaker 10: Wait, dad, can your final say me? Yeah, no, let's

2041
01:44:58,360 --> 01:44:59,280
Speaker 10: open a second window.

2042
01:44:59,600 --> 01:45:01,519
Speaker 3: I do layers on, fine, I will take.

2043
01:45:01,520 --> 01:45:04,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, see, come on, take a layer, but it just

2044
01:45:04,280 --> 01:45:05,160
Speaker 2: helps with the fit.

2045
01:45:06,080 --> 01:45:08,840
Speaker 1: Take a layer off. There we go.

2046
01:45:09,120 --> 01:45:12,160
Speaker 2: Oh goodness, gracious, all right? Are we still in the

2047
01:45:12,200 --> 01:45:16,040
Speaker 2: same No?

2048
01:45:16,880 --> 01:45:19,080
Speaker 1: Do you guys like that? A whole little conversation we had? Yeah?

2049
01:45:19,080 --> 01:45:20,680
Speaker 1: Do I like a little yeah? See n D and

2050
01:45:20,840 --> 01:45:22,599
Speaker 1: Love says, take it off.

2051
01:45:23,240 --> 01:45:24,400
Speaker 3: See we're done.

2052
01:45:24,400 --> 01:45:29,200
Speaker 1: There, see it's all gone. You're welcome, chat, You're welcome.

2053
01:45:29,280 --> 01:45:29,760
Speaker 1: That's right.

2054
01:45:30,840 --> 01:45:32,080
Speaker 3: She even had to go change.

2055
01:45:34,560 --> 01:45:37,160
Speaker 1: I'm wearing a sweater right now. Yeah I am hot.

2056
01:45:37,520 --> 01:45:40,679
Speaker 1: I will admit I'm okay, I'm not hot. I'm pro.

2057
01:45:40,800 --> 01:45:43,120
Speaker 3: Why can't we just go for it? Is it legal?

2058
01:45:43,439 --> 01:45:46,040
Speaker 1: It's illegal to.

2059
01:45:45,880 --> 01:45:46,400
Speaker 3: Turn it on?

2060
01:45:46,840 --> 01:45:47,280
Speaker 5: What on?

2061
01:45:48,560 --> 01:45:51,080
Speaker 1: Who is that a secret? One?

2062
01:45:51,200 --> 01:45:52,400
Speaker 2: That's secret? I think they're all.

2063
01:45:52,439 --> 01:45:54,639
Speaker 1: I think they're all secret. I think everything secret.

2064
01:45:55,000 --> 01:45:55,720
Speaker 5: You secret?

2065
01:45:56,680 --> 01:46:03,559
Speaker 1: There is a secret anonymous chipper that just got us

2066
01:46:03,680 --> 01:46:11,280
Speaker 1: one more hour, that's right on. Don't say don't saying oh.

2067
01:46:11,240 --> 01:46:14,000
Speaker 3: Wow, that's another hour. That's another hour. Oh my gosh, wow,

2068
01:46:14,160 --> 01:46:14,960
Speaker 3: two hours.

2069
01:46:15,240 --> 01:46:15,759
Speaker 1: That's great.

2070
01:46:16,479 --> 01:46:20,519
Speaker 2: Uh yes, yes, fifty six?

2071
01:46:21,560 --> 01:46:25,120
Speaker 1: Do do do do doo? And loving it and the law.

2072
01:46:25,160 --> 01:46:29,400
Speaker 1: Thanks for the ten gifted membership. Oh, let's freaking go.

2073
01:46:30,120 --> 01:46:33,280
Speaker 2: Out those things like a dang a lang, let's go.

2074
01:46:33,320 --> 01:46:34,280
Speaker 2: We're going crazy today.

2075
01:46:34,280 --> 01:46:34,680
Speaker 3: All right, you.

2076
01:46:36,439 --> 01:46:37,599
Speaker 1: Ready for this next one?

2077
01:46:38,360 --> 01:46:40,120
Speaker 2: I'm ready, I'm ready, I'm ready.

2078
01:46:40,160 --> 01:46:41,679
Speaker 5: All right, I'm ready.

2079
01:46:41,720 --> 01:46:45,360
Speaker 2: Now, well Riley needs a second, but now we're ready.

2080
01:46:45,640 --> 01:46:49,840
Speaker 2: Am I wrong for avoiding intimacy with my husband? This

2081
01:46:49,920 --> 01:46:53,320
Speaker 2: comes from Misthrowaway account one on one who says, I

2082
01:46:53,600 --> 01:46:57,000
Speaker 2: twenty three female have been married to my husband eighty

2083
01:46:57,040 --> 01:47:00,920
Speaker 2: four male? Just kidding, uh, twenty five twenty five male

2084
01:47:00,960 --> 01:47:04,280
Speaker 2: for nearly eighty.

2085
01:47:04,000 --> 01:47:05,760
Speaker 1: Stop making fun of me.

2086
01:47:07,400 --> 01:47:09,599
Speaker 2: Is that one woman that got married to like an

2087
01:47:09,800 --> 01:47:12,240
Speaker 2: ninety three year old and then he died the next

2088
01:47:12,400 --> 01:47:14,479
Speaker 2: year and she inherited his oil fortune?

2089
01:47:14,680 --> 01:47:15,040
Speaker 1: Legend?

2090
01:47:15,360 --> 01:47:17,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, legend, you know, like.

2091
01:47:17,439 --> 01:47:19,920
Speaker 5: Al Pacino has like a thirty year old wife and

2092
01:47:19,960 --> 01:47:20,519
Speaker 5: a baby.

2093
01:47:21,120 --> 01:47:23,160
Speaker 1: He's out here byron bullets baby.

2094
01:47:24,360 --> 01:47:26,880
Speaker 3: Finished that so good. I'm so proud of you.

2095
01:47:27,400 --> 01:47:33,160
Speaker 2: Actually, that was relevant and good and right to the fleet. Complete, incredible.

2096
01:47:33,479 --> 01:47:34,479
Speaker 2: We love to see it.

2097
01:47:34,560 --> 01:47:37,479
Speaker 5: Yeah, when you complimented me like that, it doesn't sound

2098
01:47:37,520 --> 01:47:38,160
Speaker 5: like a cop.

2099
01:47:40,160 --> 01:47:42,479
Speaker 2: Were coherent and together. It made sense.

2100
01:47:42,600 --> 01:47:45,040
Speaker 5: You were so coherent they're not usually that.

2101
01:47:48,120 --> 01:47:50,120
Speaker 1: Wow, We're very proud of you, but let's run it back.

2102
01:47:50,400 --> 01:47:51,120
Speaker 1: I twenty three, femle.

2103
01:47:51,160 --> 01:47:52,840
Speaker 2: I've been married to my husband, twenty five male for

2104
01:47:52,880 --> 01:47:55,760
Speaker 2: nearly five years, together for almost eight wow. At the

2105
01:47:55,760 --> 01:47:59,559
Speaker 2: beginning of our relationship, we never did anything physical as

2106
01:47:59,600 --> 01:48:01,760
Speaker 2: he was in the Church of Latter day Saints, a

2107
01:48:01,840 --> 01:48:05,240
Speaker 2: Mormon man, and I waited for him to get home

2108
01:48:05,280 --> 01:48:08,000
Speaker 2: from his mission. When he got home, we both left

2109
01:48:08,000 --> 01:48:10,440
Speaker 2: the church and started doing physical intimacy.

2110
01:48:10,560 --> 01:48:10,800
Speaker 1: Dang.

2111
01:48:10,880 --> 01:48:12,720
Speaker 2: So he came back from his mission and he's like,

2112
01:48:13,040 --> 01:48:13,720
Speaker 2: I'm out the church.

2113
01:48:13,800 --> 01:48:17,200
Speaker 1: I'm coming back twice, just like the Lord. Oh boy,

2114
01:48:20,040 --> 01:48:22,599
Speaker 1: oh whoa.

2115
01:48:26,640 --> 01:48:29,080
Speaker 3: Joke joke.

2116
01:48:31,240 --> 01:48:33,959
Speaker 1: Resurrection erection.

2117
01:48:34,840 --> 01:48:36,799
Speaker 5: I said, resurrection exactly.

2118
01:48:37,200 --> 01:48:38,680
Speaker 1: Come on, that's a double on top.

2119
01:48:38,800 --> 01:48:41,760
Speaker 3: That is like one of the greatest jokes were doing.

2120
01:48:41,960 --> 01:48:43,840
Speaker 1: I didn't you know what you would do it?

2121
01:48:44,000 --> 01:48:50,800
Speaker 5: He said, coming back twice resurrection. No, I know what

2122
01:48:50,840 --> 01:48:52,360
Speaker 5: you're implying, but that's not what I was.

2123
01:48:52,560 --> 01:48:53,200
Speaker 1: And it was great.

2124
01:48:53,960 --> 01:48:54,439
Speaker 2: I'll take it.

2125
01:48:54,360 --> 01:48:55,880
Speaker 1: It was great.

2126
01:48:56,439 --> 01:49:02,879
Speaker 2: This episode also the it's another double on Todd anyways

2127
01:49:03,040 --> 01:49:06,519
Speaker 2: so much so. I remember a particular day we did

2128
01:49:06,520 --> 01:49:12,920
Speaker 2: it four times in one day. Rookie numbers. Oh the

2129
01:49:13,000 --> 01:49:18,680
Speaker 2: big man. The outcome, my god, the outcome was my

2130
01:49:18,880 --> 01:49:23,880
Speaker 2: first of five pregnancies and miscarriages. Oh my goodness. For

2131
01:49:23,920 --> 01:49:27,120
Speaker 2: some reason, around three years ago, every time he asked

2132
01:49:27,160 --> 01:49:34,400
Speaker 2: for intimacy, not even penetration, just other stuff, I got disinterested. Uh,

2133
01:49:34,439 --> 01:49:36,639
Speaker 2: I'll be fine, and in the mood, and the second

2134
01:49:36,640 --> 01:49:40,000
Speaker 2: that he asks or initiates, I get filled with dread

2135
01:49:40,520 --> 01:49:42,720
Speaker 2: and I think this is I don't know if this

2136
01:49:42,760 --> 01:49:44,720
Speaker 2: is before or after the pregnancy. Is miscarriages. I think

2137
01:49:44,880 --> 01:49:47,559
Speaker 2: I think it's a miscarriage. I would guess, so I

2138
01:49:47,560 --> 01:49:50,479
Speaker 2: think we have more here. It feels like that same

2139
01:49:50,520 --> 01:49:53,400
Speaker 2: feeling I get when I have to do chores or

2140
01:49:53,479 --> 01:49:56,840
Speaker 2: go to work. But I genuinely don't know why I

2141
01:49:56,880 --> 01:49:59,679
Speaker 2: love my husband. I think he's the hottest guy alive.

2142
01:50:00,280 --> 01:50:02,960
Speaker 2: I don't know what's wrong with me other than some

2143
01:50:03,000 --> 01:50:06,639
Speaker 2: good old bjs. We haven't gone all the way almost

2144
01:50:06,640 --> 01:50:07,000
Speaker 2: a year.

2145
01:50:08,840 --> 01:50:13,200
Speaker 1: That's right. I gave my sister a hugstreme at like

2146
01:50:13,280 --> 01:50:14,320
Speaker 1: the wrong moment.

2147
01:50:15,640 --> 01:50:19,360
Speaker 2: That's true. That is true. He's expressed so many times

2148
01:50:19,400 --> 01:50:22,240
Speaker 2: how sad he is and how much it's affecting him.

2149
01:50:22,840 --> 01:50:25,120
Speaker 2: While I know he isn't going to cheat, and I

2150
01:50:25,160 --> 01:50:27,120
Speaker 2: don't like the thought of him being with another woman.

2151
01:50:28,640 --> 01:50:31,240
Speaker 2: I don't know what to do. I'm sure he thinks

2152
01:50:31,479 --> 01:50:34,559
Speaker 2: I think he's ugly, but that's so far from the truth.

2153
01:50:35,080 --> 01:50:37,599
Speaker 2: I know we've gone through some rough patches. I've changed

2154
01:50:37,640 --> 01:50:39,400
Speaker 2: and put on a lot of weight and I hate it.

2155
01:50:39,439 --> 01:50:42,360
Speaker 2: But he loves me just the same. So why can't

2156
01:50:42,400 --> 01:50:44,960
Speaker 2: I just like him? And so why can't I just

2157
01:50:45,160 --> 01:50:48,000
Speaker 2: like doing it with him again? I'm scared that my

2158
01:50:48,120 --> 01:50:52,000
Speaker 2: marriage is falling apart. And we do have a edit

2159
01:50:52,360 --> 01:50:54,879
Speaker 2: slash update and relevant comments.

2160
01:50:55,520 --> 01:50:57,760
Speaker 1: There's a lot of great comments in the chat, but

2161
01:50:57,840 --> 01:50:59,960
Speaker 1: as Heidi Browning says, they made you feel like sex

2162
01:51:00,280 --> 01:51:03,880
Speaker 1: sin and it's so hard to get over that after

2163
01:51:03,920 --> 01:51:04,519
Speaker 1: you get married.

2164
01:51:04,600 --> 01:51:05,880
Speaker 5: I don't think it's that.

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Speaker 1: I think I think it's the miscarriages. Yeah, it could be.

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01:51:09,920 --> 01:51:12,439
Speaker 1: It was kind of confusing. I think it could be both.

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01:51:12,520 --> 01:51:14,519
Speaker 2: I mean, okay, three okay, Yeah, so.

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Speaker 1: The miscarriage is definitely could be a factor.

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01:51:18,040 --> 01:51:24,040
Speaker 2: Three years ago, every time he asked for intimacy she started,

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01:51:24,160 --> 01:51:29,040
Speaker 2: the outcome was first Okay, I'm I'm pretty confident that yeah.

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01:51:29,040 --> 01:51:32,639
Speaker 2: This was this was when he got back from his mission.

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01:51:32,800 --> 01:51:35,920
Speaker 2: They they got busy and then there was a slew

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01:51:35,960 --> 01:51:39,160
Speaker 2: of five pregnancies or miscarriages. Yeah, pregnancies, and I think

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Speaker 2: all of.

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Speaker 1: The five.

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Speaker 5: We says it's PTSD. I think it could be that. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 5: five back to back miscarriage.

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Speaker 1: Totally hard.

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Speaker 5: It's just it's because it seems like the way that

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01:51:49,680 --> 01:51:54,240
Speaker 5: she's writing it, it did like this desire developed later.

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01:51:54,160 --> 01:51:56,559
Speaker 1: Well, and I feel like if you were to unwind

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01:51:56,600 --> 01:52:00,200
Speaker 1: the psychology, it's like, if I get pregnant again, I

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01:52:00,280 --> 01:52:04,639
Speaker 1: will have a miscarriage and it will be heartbreaking again.

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01:52:04,760 --> 01:52:06,519
Speaker 1: I don't want my body to even get close to

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01:52:06,560 --> 01:52:09,840
Speaker 1: that point, which is why you should do.

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01:52:10,560 --> 01:52:11,200
Speaker 5: Yeah. I think the.

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01:52:12,800 --> 01:52:15,920
Speaker 2: Conversation and like getting out of the church and like,

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01:52:15,960 --> 01:52:18,120
Speaker 2: I think there's no there's so many there could be

2189
01:52:18,200 --> 01:52:24,160
Speaker 2: many things, uh, kind of contributing to OPS overall, like.

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01:52:24,800 --> 01:52:29,000
Speaker 1: Possible depression and in love says she has developed an

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01:52:29,160 --> 01:52:34,880
Speaker 1: unconscious association of sex to loss. Yeah, that's crazy. That

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01:52:35,040 --> 01:52:36,439
Speaker 1: is Yeah, that's that's.

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01:52:36,240 --> 01:52:38,840
Speaker 2: Tragic, but it does it does make sense. It doesn't

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01:52:38,840 --> 01:52:42,519
Speaker 2: make sense. But ladies and gentlemen, it's not overseen. That

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01:52:42,600 --> 01:52:44,639
Speaker 2: name in years, that's crazy.

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01:52:44,840 --> 01:52:48,800
Speaker 1: What name in years? Nothing, that's crazy.

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01:52:49,200 --> 01:52:50,879
Speaker 2: I'm so out of loop these days, guys.

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01:52:53,160 --> 01:53:00,400
Speaker 11: This is very you know, sure, I know I told

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01:53:00,439 --> 01:53:02,240
Speaker 11: you about the dominate Trix yesterday.

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01:53:02,479 --> 01:53:05,439
Speaker 3: Oh I do a little bit today.

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01:53:05,280 --> 01:53:09,200
Speaker 1: Too, That's true. Riley swarmed me up. There we go, Okay,

2202
01:53:09,240 --> 01:53:13,280
Speaker 1: story time. Yep, later we'll tell it. But now we're

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01:53:13,280 --> 01:53:14,599
Speaker 1: telling this next editing update.

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01:53:15,120 --> 01:53:17,080
Speaker 2: I just want to say thank you to everyone who

2205
01:53:17,080 --> 01:53:20,120
Speaker 2: has offered such wonderful advice and thoughts behind this and

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01:53:20,160 --> 01:53:22,960
Speaker 2: reached out personally and said they went through the same thing.

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01:53:23,360 --> 01:53:25,120
Speaker 2: I feel like I was the only one out there

2208
01:53:25,160 --> 01:53:29,800
Speaker 2: who was broken. Oh, to answer some questions, I did

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01:53:29,880 --> 01:53:33,400
Speaker 2: phrase it weird, but yes, it was five miscarriages, one

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01:53:33,520 --> 01:53:38,120
Speaker 2: with twins. The LDS part I kind of threw in

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01:53:38,160 --> 01:53:41,160
Speaker 2: there as to show why we didn't see each other

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01:53:41,280 --> 01:53:44,880
Speaker 2: for eighteen months. He didn't go the whole two years,

2213
01:53:44,920 --> 01:53:47,280
Speaker 2: as he never wanted to go to begin with. I

2214
01:53:47,280 --> 01:53:49,760
Speaker 2: didn't grow up in the faith like him. I grew

2215
01:53:49,800 --> 01:53:53,400
Speaker 2: up pretty agnostic. I only joined to please my future

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01:53:53,760 --> 01:53:58,759
Speaker 2: now in laws. Oh yeah, and then they left together.

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01:53:58,840 --> 01:53:59,080
Speaker 1: Wow.

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01:53:59,720 --> 01:54:03,200
Speaker 2: A lot of you guys did suggest checking hormones and therapy.

2219
01:54:03,520 --> 01:54:05,200
Speaker 2: I don't have insurance, but I did talk to my

2220
01:54:05,280 --> 01:54:07,599
Speaker 2: husband a few weeks ago, and he suggested buying a

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01:54:07,640 --> 01:54:12,200
Speaker 2: send in kit to check estrogen and poor project why

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01:54:13,160 --> 01:54:21,640
Speaker 2: estrogen progestrogen progestrogen gotta be progesterone, gesterine, prorogesturin progestriate. Thank you,

2223
01:54:22,160 --> 01:54:26,080
Speaker 2: and bought one for me. He's very, very, very supportive.

2224
01:54:26,479 --> 01:54:28,120
Speaker 2: So that's good.

2225
01:54:28,160 --> 01:54:28,519
Speaker 3: That's good.

2226
01:54:28,560 --> 01:54:30,360
Speaker 1: We love it. So I'm waiting on the results.

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01:54:30,400 --> 01:54:32,560
Speaker 2: I think I'm going to talk to him about the therapy,

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01:54:32,600 --> 01:54:34,840
Speaker 2: like you guys suggested. I think you guys are onto

2229
01:54:34,840 --> 01:54:38,040
Speaker 2: something with the miscarriages, maybe affecting me more than I thought,

2230
01:54:38,280 --> 01:54:42,360
Speaker 2: which is most like totally yeah, absolutely, thank you guys

2231
01:54:42,400 --> 01:54:44,880
Speaker 2: so much. Again, all come back with an update when

2232
01:54:44,920 --> 01:54:47,320
Speaker 2: I speak to him, maybe even show him the post

2233
01:54:47,880 --> 01:54:50,080
Speaker 2: we have another edit. But yeah, I didn't even consider

2234
01:54:50,720 --> 01:54:53,720
Speaker 2: maybe because like when you go through pregnancy, obviously.

2235
01:54:53,480 --> 01:54:55,080
Speaker 1: Your home hormones change.

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01:54:55,520 --> 01:54:58,320
Speaker 2: Could there be a potential like long term and balance

2237
01:54:58,360 --> 01:55:02,280
Speaker 2: after five miscarriages or something of that nature, which is

2238
01:55:02,280 --> 01:55:05,120
Speaker 2: why she's ordering the test to my.

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01:55:05,200 --> 01:55:09,240
Speaker 1: Knowledge, Yeah, I mean I can't imagine that having five

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01:55:09,320 --> 01:55:12,920
Speaker 1: miscarriages does nothing to your body. Yeah, you know, like

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01:55:13,080 --> 01:55:16,960
Speaker 1: like we talk about how like pregnancy always has like

2242
01:55:17,000 --> 01:55:21,120
Speaker 1: it puts your hormones out of whack and stuff. So yeah, five.

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01:55:21,480 --> 01:55:23,680
Speaker 1: I have a questions if you have a miscarriage, can

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01:55:23,720 --> 01:55:25,920
Speaker 1: you immediately get pregnant after that?

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01:55:28,440 --> 01:55:29,920
Speaker 2: I don't know.

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01:55:32,040 --> 01:55:35,760
Speaker 1: How long Riley, can you get pregnant? Just as a

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01:55:35,840 --> 01:55:39,520
Speaker 1: chat GPT question, can you get pregnant after? How quickly

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01:55:39,600 --> 01:55:45,320
Speaker 1: after your miscarriage? Can you get pregnant? Says not immediately?

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01:55:45,400 --> 01:55:51,200
Speaker 1: That's what it depends on the body you're cycle, So

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01:55:51,240 --> 01:55:54,040
Speaker 1: it's like one month what you have to wait for obulations,

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01:55:54,040 --> 01:55:57,440
Speaker 1: So one month okay, yeah, so it's not advised from you.

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01:55:57,560 --> 01:56:00,360
Speaker 1: But like the reason I asked, because five act to

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01:56:00,400 --> 01:56:04,240
Speaker 1: back miscarriages, like over how long you.

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01:56:04,200 --> 01:56:09,160
Speaker 2: Know, probably over the course of about five they were together.

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Speaker 2: They've been together for eight years. Three years ago is

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Speaker 2: when she stopped.

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01:56:14,520 --> 01:56:17,800
Speaker 1: Being as intimate, right, so maybe it was, but it

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01:56:17,840 --> 01:56:19,760
Speaker 1: was five miscarriages in five years.

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01:56:20,080 --> 01:56:23,080
Speaker 2: But but she said it was after he got back

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01:56:23,080 --> 01:56:26,680
Speaker 2: from his mission, so at least, so five miscarriages in

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01:56:26,720 --> 01:56:29,880
Speaker 2: three years between year one and a half and five

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01:56:30,280 --> 01:56:31,040
Speaker 2: when these happened.

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01:56:31,160 --> 01:56:35,000
Speaker 1: Wow, Heidie Browning is his Heidie Browning says she left

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01:56:35,040 --> 01:56:38,440
Speaker 1: the church. I believe that's that's true. And she said

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01:56:38,480 --> 01:56:42,720
Speaker 1: she got pregnant two weeks after a miscarriage oh so yeah,

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01:56:42,720 --> 01:56:44,680
Speaker 1: I think I think it. Yeah yeah, Luna Shadow says

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01:56:44,720 --> 01:56:47,160
Speaker 1: as soon as two weeks. Wow wow.

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Speaker 3: It says they'd recommend like one to three months.

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01:56:50,560 --> 01:56:53,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can imagine. I mean, think about all the hormones.

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01:56:53,600 --> 01:56:57,560
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, traumatic, that is super traumatic. And shout out

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01:56:57,600 --> 01:57:03,000
Speaker 1: to the husband for seemingly being fairly understanding. Yeah throughout

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01:57:03,040 --> 01:57:07,280
Speaker 1: all this, but it seems like what the issue is

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01:57:07,360 --> 01:57:10,480
Speaker 1: the five miscarriages, Like, yeah, that needs to be worked out,

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01:57:10,480 --> 01:57:13,440
Speaker 1: and then it probably a mix of hormones and therapy.

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01:57:13,760 --> 01:57:17,320
Speaker 2: Yes, but but ladies and gentlemen, but.

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01:57:19,360 --> 01:57:20,520
Speaker 1: Booty, they were smart.

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Speaker 2: Edit number two to answer a few more questions. Many

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01:57:26,480 --> 01:57:29,320
Speaker 2: keeps stating I have religious trauma because I didn't say

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01:57:29,880 --> 01:57:32,440
Speaker 2: sex in the post. That is not the case. I

2280
01:57:32,480 --> 01:57:35,080
Speaker 2: was not raised in the church. I don't believe in God.

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01:57:35,200 --> 01:57:37,280
Speaker 2: He was raised in it. I only went to please

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01:57:37,320 --> 01:57:40,320
Speaker 2: his parents for a while. We're not getting pregnant and

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01:57:40,360 --> 01:57:43,440
Speaker 2: having lots of babies to follow cult teachings, as some

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01:57:43,480 --> 01:57:46,720
Speaker 2: of you have said. I've miscarried each of them after

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01:57:46,760 --> 01:57:49,320
Speaker 2: we were married. We did try because we do want

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01:57:49,440 --> 01:57:52,120
Speaker 2: one kid and that's it. He's not forcing me to

2287
01:57:52,120 --> 01:57:54,160
Speaker 2: be a baby machine like some of you said he

2288
01:57:54,240 --> 01:57:58,800
Speaker 2: only wants one kid too. Some keep saying I'm a lesbian,

2289
01:58:00,800 --> 01:58:01,360
Speaker 2: You're close.

2290
01:58:01,920 --> 01:58:02,440
Speaker 1: Oh what?

2291
01:58:02,760 --> 01:58:07,640
Speaker 2: I am bisexual, but I have been unapologetically out for

2292
01:58:07,760 --> 01:58:11,320
Speaker 2: years now. I definitely enjoy Wiener and for jj Alike,

2293
01:58:12,240 --> 01:58:15,560
Speaker 2: I am truly unsure what is going on now. I

2294
01:58:15,680 --> 01:58:18,160
Speaker 2: will go into more depth tomorrow since it's four am

2295
01:58:18,280 --> 01:58:20,000
Speaker 2: right now, but to sum it up, we are going

2296
01:58:20,040 --> 01:58:23,560
Speaker 2: to work through the steps of both therapy and medical

2297
01:58:23,600 --> 01:58:26,360
Speaker 2: issues as I do have PCOS.

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01:58:27,280 --> 01:58:28,600
Speaker 1: I don't know. Is that.

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01:58:30,000 --> 01:58:36,160
Speaker 2: Like post natal depression. It's not the key, but what

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01:58:36,280 --> 01:58:37,320
Speaker 2: is that? Tell us?

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01:58:37,400 --> 01:58:42,120
Speaker 5: What is what is it like? Like you're I don't know,

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01:58:42,160 --> 01:58:44,160
Speaker 5: it's something to do with your I think it has

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01:58:44,160 --> 01:58:46,520
Speaker 5: something to do with your periods. I could be totally wrong.

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01:58:46,600 --> 01:58:48,880
Speaker 2: I think it.

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01:58:47,920 --> 01:58:49,240
Speaker 5: Affects your periods.

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01:58:49,680 --> 01:58:52,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like racistic ovary syndrome.

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01:58:53,560 --> 01:58:54,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, I know someone who has.

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01:58:54,840 --> 01:58:58,320
Speaker 1: I believe it, and it makes your periods much uh

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01:58:59,600 --> 01:59:02,880
Speaker 1: more painful, right because you have so you can make.

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01:59:02,760 --> 01:59:06,320
Speaker 5: It so like you don't have it for lengths of time.

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01:59:06,600 --> 01:59:12,640
Speaker 1: And also I believe it affects your fertility. Yeah.

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01:59:12,680 --> 01:59:16,040
Speaker 2: PCOS experts over here, my goodness.

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01:59:16,200 --> 01:59:18,920
Speaker 1: Yeah. Daniel Peiper says it's extremely hard to conceive, hard

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01:59:18,920 --> 01:59:20,320
Speaker 1: to get pregnant.

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01:59:20,680 --> 01:59:25,080
Speaker 2: Ah yeah, this is hopefully this might be a like

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01:59:25,440 --> 01:59:29,160
Speaker 2: is this and this is a ovarian cyst?

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01:59:29,440 --> 01:59:29,600
Speaker 1: Yes?

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01:59:29,880 --> 01:59:34,880
Speaker 2: Right, yeah so possibly Is that actually one of the

2319
01:59:34,880 --> 01:59:37,360
Speaker 2: core reasons of the issues with the pregnancy.

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01:59:37,440 --> 01:59:39,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, most likely. Yeah, that's why there was

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01:59:39,640 --> 01:59:41,120
Speaker 1: all a miscarriage.

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01:59:41,280 --> 01:59:43,720
Speaker 2: I also have seen some comments about his age.

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01:59:43,800 --> 01:59:48,040
Speaker 1: He's one year and nine months older older than me. Unacceptable.

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01:59:48,760 --> 01:59:50,880
Speaker 2: When I turned twenty four, he will still be twenty

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01:59:50,920 --> 01:59:52,600
Speaker 2: five for a few more months. We were in high

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01:59:52,600 --> 01:59:55,120
Speaker 2: school together. He's not some creep who groomed to me.

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01:59:55,160 --> 01:59:59,160
Speaker 2: Haha ha. When he was and I was sixteen or seventeen,

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01:59:59,680 --> 02:00:01,960
Speaker 2: he would eighteen. You have to keep in mind that

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02:00:02,000 --> 02:00:03,800
Speaker 2: he was a thousand miles away from me, where the

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02:00:03,880 --> 02:00:07,360
Speaker 2: church at the time only allowed letters. The content was basic.

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02:00:07,480 --> 02:00:09,960
Speaker 2: I love you, can't wait until the two years are up.

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02:00:10,240 --> 02:00:12,560
Speaker 2: I would understand if he was graduated, et cetera, et

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02:00:12,600 --> 02:00:15,120
Speaker 2: cetera when we got together, but that was not the case.

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02:00:15,840 --> 02:00:18,160
Speaker 2: We were both just two teens in love that are

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02:00:18,200 --> 02:00:20,760
Speaker 2: now going through sex issues that we are going to

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Speaker 2: work on.

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02:00:21,280 --> 02:00:25,680
Speaker 1: Together to figure out clarification for you.

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02:00:26,200 --> 02:00:27,720
Speaker 2: I love that, guys and gals out there.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I feel like I feel like we're What is

2340
02:00:30,360 --> 02:00:35,440
Speaker 1: great about a story like this is op identified something

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02:00:35,520 --> 02:00:38,280
Speaker 1: that was wrong. Yeah, went to the internet to say

2342
02:00:38,520 --> 02:00:40,840
Speaker 1: what is wrong, and then the internet it's like this

2343
02:00:41,000 --> 02:00:43,880
Speaker 1: is wrong. And then she's like, oh this is wrong, yes,

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02:00:44,360 --> 02:00:47,120
Speaker 1: and thank you. And then it makes the life better

2345
02:00:47,600 --> 02:00:48,040
Speaker 1: because on.

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Speaker 5: Other stories like these relationships like they lose intimacy and

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02:00:53,120 --> 02:00:57,720
Speaker 5: then they become like annoyed with each other and there's resentment.

2348
02:00:57,840 --> 02:01:00,480
Speaker 5: But this one, this part she was just like, some up,

2349
02:01:01,440 --> 02:01:02,200
Speaker 5: how do I fix it?

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02:01:02,520 --> 02:01:02,960
Speaker 1: I fix it?

2351
02:01:03,000 --> 02:01:08,440
Speaker 2: And the people and then.

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02:01:06,400 --> 02:01:09,160
Speaker 1: The husband was like, hey, let me help you fix it.

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02:01:09,480 --> 02:01:12,560
Speaker 1: Everyone's not the a hole in this story. Everyone is amazing.

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02:01:12,600 --> 02:01:18,160
Speaker 1: Everyone's amazing, included.

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02:01:17,120 --> 02:01:21,320
Speaker 2: Everyone you meet walking down the street is amazing.

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02:01:21,760 --> 02:01:25,760
Speaker 1: What is that from Arthur? Yep? Oh great remix in that.

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02:01:27,400 --> 02:01:30,400
Speaker 2: But guys, this is not over. It could get it

2358
02:01:30,400 --> 02:01:34,560
Speaker 2: could get more amazing, juicy better than it was.

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Speaker 1: Juicy juice juicy.

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Speaker 2: Top comments from rugby lock Info. I don't mean to

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02:01:39,560 --> 02:01:41,840
Speaker 2: bring up a sensitive topic, but could be relevant. You

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02:01:41,880 --> 02:01:45,520
Speaker 2: note five pregnancies and miscarriages were all five miscarriages. Could

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Speaker 2: you be subconsciously relating sexual intimacy with your husband and

2364
02:01:49,160 --> 02:01:51,520
Speaker 2: that pain and grief from your pregnancies, therefore putting you

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02:01:51,560 --> 02:01:54,320
Speaker 2: out of the mood. As others have noted, look into

2366
02:01:54,400 --> 02:01:57,200
Speaker 2: outside sources of help, such as therapy and your doctor.

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02:01:57,560 --> 02:02:01,520
Speaker 2: A deleted commenter says, uh sounds like like trauma response

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02:02:01,800 --> 02:02:07,840
Speaker 2: possibly associated with sex with pregnancy slash miscarriage, to which

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02:02:08,120 --> 02:02:09,200
Speaker 2: OPI didn't respond to that.

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02:02:10,160 --> 02:02:15,280
Speaker 1: However, there is an update. There is an update. Get

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02:02:15,320 --> 02:02:18,640
Speaker 1: into the up. Then, can we have a too long

2372
02:02:18,720 --> 02:02:20,480
Speaker 1: didn't read or a TLD?

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Speaker 2: Absolutely so. OPI and her husband met when they were

2374
02:02:25,000 --> 02:02:27,200
Speaker 2: like very young, like late late stage of high school.

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02:02:28,520 --> 02:02:32,040
Speaker 2: The husband was Mormon, but then they ended up leaving

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02:02:32,080 --> 02:02:34,680
Speaker 2: the church and you know, being being together all that

2377
02:02:34,680 --> 02:02:38,520
Speaker 2: good stuff. OPI ended up having five miscarriages, and then

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Speaker 2: every time they wanted to be intimate or her husband

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Speaker 2: want to initiate intimacy, she would just feel terrible and

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02:02:45,720 --> 02:02:48,440
Speaker 2: not want to. And she opened up to the internet,

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02:02:49,080 --> 02:02:52,720
Speaker 2: and the internet gave very helpful advice and perspectives, and

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02:02:52,920 --> 02:02:56,800
Speaker 2: now we are seemingly barreling towards a good solution.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I do want to before we go into the update,

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02:03:00,440 --> 02:03:02,120
Speaker 1: I want to read some of the chat because it

2385
02:03:02,120 --> 02:03:03,920
Speaker 1: feels like a lot of people are identifying with us.

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Speaker 2: Let's talk about it.

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02:03:05,640 --> 02:03:09,720
Speaker 1: So, Jovita Dosch says, I had three miscarriages after my

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02:03:09,800 --> 02:03:13,400
Speaker 1: daughter is born. It's referred to as secondary infertility. I

2389
02:03:13,440 --> 02:03:15,880
Speaker 1: know it's really hard to work through, but I'm glad

2390
02:03:16,360 --> 02:03:19,680
Speaker 1: they seem to want to get through it together. And Riley,

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02:03:19,720 --> 02:03:23,920
Speaker 1: if you scroll down a little bit, keep scrolling. Yeah.

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02:03:24,000 --> 02:03:27,320
Speaker 1: So a pixie Cake says, PCOS is why I didn't

2393
02:03:27,360 --> 02:03:30,480
Speaker 1: have my first kid until I was thirty four. Wow,

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02:03:30,520 --> 02:03:33,320
Speaker 1: because I have acted the infertility. Joey O de Kirk

2395
02:03:33,320 --> 02:03:35,400
Speaker 1: says I had the same issue as op. I have

2396
02:03:35,520 --> 02:03:39,400
Speaker 1: PTSD from multiple losses. It's hard to get back to

2397
02:03:39,840 --> 02:03:42,920
Speaker 1: the love life. And then Mama twenty two says PCOS

2398
02:03:43,160 --> 02:03:46,280
Speaker 1: makes it difficult to conceive. You're not regular quote unquote

2399
02:03:46,280 --> 02:03:48,480
Speaker 1: and your hormones are off. My mother has it, and

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02:03:48,520 --> 02:03:51,520
Speaker 1: she had a miscarriage and had a terrible time conceiving me.

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02:03:51,880 --> 02:03:55,800
Speaker 1: She also can't lose weight easily the hormones. Yeah. And

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02:03:55,840 --> 02:04:00,240
Speaker 1: then finally, Jennifer Tar says PCOS can also cause pain

2403
02:04:00,400 --> 02:04:03,640
Speaker 1: during intercourse, no wonder, it felt like a chore. And

2404
02:04:03,680 --> 02:04:06,440
Speaker 1: then finally, Kimberly Cox and I. Weeks after that, we

2405
02:04:06,520 --> 02:04:09,360
Speaker 1: found out we were expecting are now three year old,

2406
02:04:09,560 --> 02:04:13,000
Speaker 1: but had a partial misc miscarriage. Three year old, should

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02:04:13,000 --> 02:04:15,800
Speaker 1: not have been a twin, but we had should have

2408
02:04:15,880 --> 02:04:19,760
Speaker 1: been a twin, but we had just one alive. It's hard,

2409
02:04:19,840 --> 02:04:23,920
Speaker 1: but we remember them all. It's uh, it's really amazing

2410
02:04:23,960 --> 02:04:26,080
Speaker 1: that it seems like a lot of people have dealt

2411
02:04:26,080 --> 02:04:27,920
Speaker 1: with this and and gone through it and come out

2412
02:04:27,960 --> 02:04:28,480
Speaker 1: on the other end.

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02:04:28,520 --> 02:04:31,160
Speaker 2: And what is cool, Like what's happening in this story

2414
02:04:31,280 --> 02:04:34,000
Speaker 2: is like now the community everyone here, It's like, Okay,

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02:04:34,040 --> 02:04:35,760
Speaker 2: we have a discord of people who have been through

2416
02:04:35,760 --> 02:04:40,280
Speaker 2: similar experiences and can be like, hopefully some like lifelong

2417
02:04:40,920 --> 02:04:44,680
Speaker 2: friendships are being made right here right now of people

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02:04:44,680 --> 02:04:47,840
Speaker 2: who have gone through similar situations and can be that

2419
02:04:47,880 --> 02:04:49,600
Speaker 2: support system for each other.

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02:04:49,880 --> 02:04:53,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think that's what's so wonderful about these

2421
02:04:53,760 --> 02:04:56,400
Speaker 1: like the you know, it's it's obviously terrible to go

2422
02:04:56,520 --> 02:04:59,720
Speaker 1: through these kinds of things, but it's interesting that sometimes

2423
02:04:59,720 --> 02:05:02,760
Speaker 1: when you you reach out just to strangers like you can,

2424
02:05:03,320 --> 02:05:05,160
Speaker 1: a lot of people actually have gone through the same

2425
02:05:05,200 --> 02:05:07,520
Speaker 1: things that you have gone through and want to support

2426
02:05:07,600 --> 02:05:10,280
Speaker 1: and want to support because they know how hard it is.

2427
02:05:10,320 --> 02:05:13,600
Speaker 1: To go through it alone and it's it's really cool

2428
02:05:13,600 --> 02:05:16,760
Speaker 1: to see, uh, you know, everything that y'all have been through.

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02:05:16,560 --> 02:05:19,440
Speaker 5: And able to share people.

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02:05:20,280 --> 02:05:23,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, very brave, very gratfully. Yeah, we love you guys.

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02:05:24,000 --> 02:05:25,520
Speaker 2: Thank you for sharing very much.

2432
02:05:26,000 --> 02:05:27,120
Speaker 1: But shall we get into this update?

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02:05:27,200 --> 02:05:31,280
Speaker 2: Let's do it? So hello everyone. About two hundred days ago,

2434
02:05:31,720 --> 02:05:34,560
Speaker 2: very precise, I female twenty four posted about the many

2435
02:05:34,640 --> 02:05:37,160
Speaker 2: issues going on regarding my intimate life with my husband,

2436
02:05:37,160 --> 02:05:39,640
Speaker 2: male twenty five. I just want to thank everyone for

2437
02:05:39,680 --> 02:05:43,000
Speaker 2: the suggestions of medical testing, therapy, meds, as well as

2438
02:05:43,000 --> 02:05:46,000
Speaker 2: their own personal stories going through the same thing. After

2439
02:05:46,080 --> 02:05:48,320
Speaker 2: all the comments I'd received, I decided to go to

2440
02:05:48,360 --> 02:05:51,760
Speaker 2: the doctor and from there she tested my hormones and

2441
02:05:51,760 --> 02:05:54,800
Speaker 2: put me on depression medication as well as therapy. Turns

2442
02:05:54,840 --> 02:05:56,960
Speaker 2: out my hormones were out of whack and I have

2443
02:05:57,080 --> 02:06:01,120
Speaker 2: severe anxiety and depression as well as unresolved grief from

2444
02:06:01,160 --> 02:06:05,160
Speaker 2: my miscarriages. Basically, to sum it up, we are more

2445
02:06:05,200 --> 02:06:09,600
Speaker 2: than okay now. After really, after all of the help

2446
02:06:09,640 --> 02:06:12,160
Speaker 2: I have been getting as well as his own, I

2447
02:06:12,240 --> 02:06:20,000
Speaker 2: feel sexier than ever and it's fantastic. Thank you, Thank

2448
02:06:20,040 --> 02:06:23,080
Speaker 2: you again, and uh to close this out, a top

2449
02:06:23,120 --> 02:06:24,920
Speaker 2: comment from slum slug.

2450
02:06:25,440 --> 02:06:26,640
Speaker 1: I love the reddit.

2451
02:06:26,480 --> 02:06:30,640
Speaker 5: Username, so it's about to drop some like just top

2452
02:06:30,720 --> 02:06:32,000
Speaker 5: to your knowledge exactly.

2453
02:06:32,440 --> 02:06:35,280
Speaker 2: I am so effing happy for you and your husband.

2454
02:06:35,360 --> 02:06:38,080
Speaker 2: It's nice to see a positive update on here, even

2455
02:06:38,160 --> 02:06:41,920
Speaker 2: after a long time. I wish nothing but the best

2456
02:06:41,960 --> 02:06:43,800
Speaker 2: for you going forward.

2457
02:06:44,040 --> 02:06:45,400
Speaker 5: Great words from.

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02:06:45,560 --> 02:06:48,080
Speaker 1: Jennifer Tar mirrors what I have to say. I love

2459
02:06:48,120 --> 02:06:50,120
Speaker 1: a happy ending. Nothing better than a happy ending.

2460
02:06:50,280 --> 02:06:51,040
Speaker 2: We love to see it.

2461
02:06:51,080 --> 02:06:55,120
Speaker 1: Which is that's like a couple happy endings on this

2462
02:06:55,160 --> 02:06:57,800
Speaker 1: stream so far. You what the heck is going on?

2463
02:06:59,080 --> 02:07:01,720
Speaker 2: Is there is someone plaint is happy?

2464
02:07:02,280 --> 02:07:06,960
Speaker 1: The people happy stories in Ringworm says adult kissing for

2465
02:07:07,000 --> 02:07:12,200
Speaker 1: the wind. We all kissing for the wind special adult

2466
02:07:12,280 --> 02:07:15,080
Speaker 1: KISSI adult kitchen from Ringworm.

2467
02:07:16,160 --> 02:07:17,280
Speaker 5: You know what I want?

2468
02:07:17,560 --> 02:07:25,200
Speaker 1: What to spend that? Do it? Do it? Do it?

2469
02:07:25,640 --> 02:07:26,760
Speaker 1: Were I want it?

2470
02:07:26,800 --> 02:07:27,040
Speaker 3: Now?

2471
02:07:27,800 --> 02:07:32,480
Speaker 1: Then we also right, John Sophia, I have to go

2472
02:07:32,560 --> 02:07:35,360
Speaker 1: to the bathroom and make some coffee right away.

2473
02:07:35,440 --> 02:07:39,640
Speaker 2: Let's spin that wheel first, been it for me?

2474
02:07:39,720 --> 02:07:44,560
Speaker 1: Daddy? Boom?

2475
02:07:44,680 --> 02:07:48,600
Speaker 2: Oh barely barely on the green? Oh yeah, that's the green.

2476
02:07:49,480 --> 02:07:52,080
Speaker 2: What do you want? We'll tell us what it is first,

2477
02:07:53,800 --> 02:07:56,360
Speaker 2: tell us what it is. No, No, that's green, that's green.

2478
02:07:57,320 --> 02:08:04,080
Speaker 2: It's green, It says, yeah, you turn it around. Weirdest pie.

2479
02:08:05,320 --> 02:08:08,440
Speaker 5: Oh, we did that one already. What like a picture,

2480
02:08:08,480 --> 02:08:09,440
Speaker 5: but we already did that one.

2481
02:08:09,920 --> 02:08:16,760
Speaker 1: Weirdest picture in your photo a dance. Let's go all right,

2482
02:08:16,840 --> 02:08:20,360
Speaker 1: John first, John, Oh, I know exactly what I'm gonna do.

2483
02:08:21,400 --> 02:08:23,440
Speaker 1: That's gonna maybe do you too much for the stream though,

2484
02:08:25,640 --> 02:08:45,040
Speaker 1: Dad's monkey dads. Oh yeah, oh yeah, alright, bound.

2485
02:08:47,840 --> 02:08:55,440
Speaker 9: Bounce bout wow, bounce bom ba wow boom boom bom

2486
02:08:55,600 --> 02:09:01,120
Speaker 9: bom boom boom bout wow bom boom bom boom boom

2487
02:09:01,200 --> 02:09:02,280
Speaker 9: bone chickam.

2488
02:09:04,440 --> 02:09:07,280
Speaker 3: All right there we go, go take a break, all right.

2489
02:09:07,960 --> 02:09:11,520
Speaker 2: Get out of here, get out of my face. Come

2490
02:09:12,320 --> 02:09:14,440
Speaker 2: my pigeon boy, come in.

2491
02:09:16,400 --> 02:09:19,200
Speaker 3: What's the next goal, guys, Oh.

2492
02:09:22,120 --> 02:09:25,040
Speaker 2: H yeah, let's do it, guys, we can do it.

2493
02:09:25,360 --> 02:09:27,640
Speaker 2: How many people are here right now, Sophia.

2494
02:09:27,960 --> 02:09:33,960
Speaker 5: There's one thousand and thirty three. Oh my god, that's insane.

2495
02:09:34,480 --> 02:09:35,480
Speaker 2: We could hit it instantly.

2496
02:09:35,560 --> 02:09:39,080
Speaker 5: We could hit it instantly, instantly. Everyone liked the stream

2497
02:09:39,200 --> 02:09:41,800
Speaker 5: right now, we'd be at another wheel spend.

2498
02:09:41,840 --> 02:09:42,280
Speaker 1: We could do it.

2499
02:09:42,320 --> 02:09:45,720
Speaker 5: And I've got some good ones in there. She put

2500
02:09:45,800 --> 02:09:48,440
Speaker 5: them there, at least two good ones, at least two

2501
02:09:49,160 --> 02:09:49,720
Speaker 5: A bare.

2502
02:09:49,640 --> 02:09:52,440
Speaker 2: Minimum, guys, minimum to have to redo it?

2503
02:09:53,320 --> 02:09:53,600
Speaker 1: Redo?

2504
02:09:53,720 --> 02:09:56,920
Speaker 3: What the wheels joke?

2505
02:09:57,160 --> 02:09:58,120
Speaker 5: I forgot to change one?

2506
02:09:58,200 --> 02:09:59,880
Speaker 1: You freaking hate her? My goodness?

2507
02:10:01,320 --> 02:10:05,640
Speaker 2: But what we have more stories?

2508
02:10:06,720 --> 02:10:06,920
Speaker 1: We do?

2509
02:10:07,360 --> 02:10:12,440
Speaker 2: And I think it's Sophia who's up to bat?

2510
02:10:12,800 --> 02:10:15,720
Speaker 5: But the question of okay, then that is the answer.

2511
02:10:15,880 --> 02:10:16,520
Speaker 1: That is the question.

2512
02:10:16,560 --> 02:10:19,040
Speaker 2: But what is the chat? What's the real question. I'm

2513
02:10:19,120 --> 02:10:22,720
Speaker 2: gonna see your questions right now? Oh Sam hyatt?

2514
02:10:22,920 --> 02:10:23,040
Speaker 9: Uh?

2515
02:10:23,840 --> 02:10:26,760
Speaker 2: Can you tell more about guys? I love all you guys'

2516
02:10:26,840 --> 02:10:28,920
Speaker 2: side conversations. Can you can tell me more about the

2517
02:10:28,960 --> 02:10:31,760
Speaker 2: experimental cannabis? Like a link or something sounds fascinating?

2518
02:10:31,880 --> 02:10:33,200
Speaker 1: I got a lot. I'm like, what is it like?

2519
02:10:33,320 --> 02:10:38,440
Speaker 5: I'm like, like, you know, spying, Like it's like like okop.

2520
02:10:38,160 --> 02:10:40,040
Speaker 2: Chat is a little coffee shop. Yeah, and you're like

2521
02:10:40,120 --> 02:10:41,720
Speaker 2: just walking by, like, oh, what's going on here? What's

2522
02:10:41,720 --> 02:10:42,200
Speaker 2: going on here?

2523
02:10:43,080 --> 02:10:43,200
Speaker 1: Oh?

2524
02:10:43,240 --> 02:10:44,720
Speaker 2: Well, you know what's going on right here? Actually we

2525
02:10:44,800 --> 02:10:48,640
Speaker 2: do have some gifted donations. Why don't you read it

2526
02:10:48,680 --> 02:10:49,040
Speaker 2: out for us?

2527
02:10:49,040 --> 02:10:51,840
Speaker 5: Sofia Heidi Brown and thank for the one book tip.

2528
02:10:52,000 --> 02:10:54,920
Speaker 5: Have you read the fourth update to this airline stewardest

2529
02:10:54,960 --> 02:10:55,400
Speaker 5: story yet?

2530
02:10:55,760 --> 02:10:56,560
Speaker 1: I did see it.

2531
02:10:57,000 --> 02:10:58,920
Speaker 5: I did see a thing that said airline steward a

2532
02:10:58,960 --> 02:11:04,280
Speaker 5: story update, but sometimes sometimes like I don't know if

2533
02:11:04,320 --> 02:11:05,920
Speaker 5: I should do an update because y'all are like, you've

2534
02:11:05,920 --> 02:11:06,680
Speaker 5: read that story before.

2535
02:11:06,840 --> 02:11:07,360
Speaker 1: It's true.

2536
02:11:07,720 --> 02:11:11,920
Speaker 2: Uh yeah, we generally don't because we we generally don't

2537
02:11:11,920 --> 02:11:14,160
Speaker 2: because I don't know if you guys want the updates

2538
02:11:14,360 --> 02:11:16,960
Speaker 2: or the most people don't like the rehash stories which

2539
02:11:17,000 --> 02:11:18,480
Speaker 2: you kind of have to rehash to e context. But

2540
02:11:18,840 --> 02:11:23,400
Speaker 2: maybe we could throw it in streaming and.

2541
02:11:23,480 --> 02:11:26,200
Speaker 5: We'll say right before we'll say we have read this story.

2542
02:11:26,480 --> 02:11:27,200
Speaker 2: Yes we have.

2543
02:11:31,640 --> 02:11:33,640
Speaker 5: And thank you Susan Martin for the one twenty five

2544
02:11:33,760 --> 02:11:35,320
Speaker 5: buck tip. We appreciate you.

2545
02:11:35,560 --> 02:11:37,680
Speaker 2: Hey, do we read tars I don't think we did.

2546
02:11:38,000 --> 02:11:41,680
Speaker 5: Thank you, Tara No for the ten bucks. Listening while

2547
02:11:41,760 --> 02:11:44,880
Speaker 5: watching the full Pink moon rise, that's a vibe. Where

2548
02:11:45,040 --> 02:11:45,800
Speaker 5: where is the moon?

2549
02:11:45,880 --> 02:11:47,160
Speaker 2: Pink? Tells Tarah.

2550
02:11:47,400 --> 02:11:47,800
Speaker 1: I want to know.

2551
02:11:48,040 --> 02:11:50,320
Speaker 2: I want to know what Riley, why are you laughing?

2552
02:11:52,640 --> 02:11:54,320
Speaker 2: Why are you laughing about Pink Moon's Riley?

2553
02:11:56,160 --> 02:11:59,680
Speaker 12: Oh my god, oh my god. But you know what,

2554
02:12:00,360 --> 02:12:05,880
Speaker 12: I'm not sorry about shouting out de lul Sophia because

2555
02:12:05,920 --> 02:12:11,200
Speaker 12: they gifted us ten donations, ten membership. I mean, can you, Sophia,

2556
02:12:11,280 --> 02:12:12,320
Speaker 12: can you believe this, I can.

2557
02:12:12,480 --> 02:12:13,120
Speaker 3: Can you believe?

2558
02:12:14,920 --> 02:12:15,200
Speaker 1: You know what?

2559
02:12:15,320 --> 02:12:17,560
Speaker 2: I'm telling the truth, And you're gonna have to accept

2560
02:12:17,600 --> 02:12:20,920
Speaker 2: that that's right because our community is so awesome that

2561
02:12:21,160 --> 02:12:25,080
Speaker 2: they gift memberships to each other. Sofia just caid, guess what,

2562
02:12:25,560 --> 02:12:28,320
Speaker 2: You're gonna have to get over yourself. Okay, get over

2563
02:12:28,400 --> 02:12:31,640
Speaker 2: yourself right now? That's right. Oh my gosh, I can't

2564
02:12:31,680 --> 02:12:34,600
Speaker 2: get over what this next story. I can't get over

2565
02:12:34,640 --> 02:12:36,400
Speaker 2: if we have any more donations than I haven't read.

2566
02:12:36,480 --> 02:12:37,080
Speaker 1: Is that right, Riley?

2567
02:12:37,160 --> 02:12:37,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're good dog.

2568
02:12:37,960 --> 02:12:38,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's it.

2569
02:12:38,560 --> 02:12:39,960
Speaker 1: Boom, that's right over.

2570
02:12:40,440 --> 02:12:45,720
Speaker 5: Over exposing my mom's alcoholism to my dad. Hm, this

2571
02:12:45,920 --> 02:12:48,080
Speaker 5: might be more sad than I read that story.

2572
02:12:48,240 --> 02:12:49,920
Speaker 2: That is true, but you know what, let's get into it.

2573
02:12:50,000 --> 02:12:50,800
Speaker 2: Let's see what right.

2574
02:12:51,760 --> 02:12:59,240
Speaker 5: So a non IUKSU says, for context, my seventeen female

2575
02:12:59,400 --> 02:13:02,440
Speaker 5: mother for twenty seven female is and has been a

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02:13:02,520 --> 02:13:05,960
Speaker 5: functioning alcoholic since I was young. While it may not

2577
02:13:06,040 --> 02:13:08,200
Speaker 5: seem apparent to most who know us, she has a

2578
02:13:08,280 --> 02:13:12,640
Speaker 5: severe problem with alcohol and controlling herself whilst under the influence.

2579
02:13:13,200 --> 02:13:16,280
Speaker 5: This has caused a series of traumatizing events to occur,

2580
02:13:16,400 --> 02:13:22,120
Speaker 5: including embarrassing and insulting people it's ruined my parents' relationship.

2581
02:13:22,920 --> 02:13:25,040
Speaker 5: In twenty twenty, the same day she was caught having

2582
02:13:25,080 --> 02:13:28,800
Speaker 5: an affair online, she completely abandoned my two little brothers

2583
02:13:28,880 --> 02:13:34,720
Speaker 5: and I to get completely blind drunk, maybe just completely

2584
02:13:34,760 --> 02:13:38,120
Speaker 5: blind two hours away, not including nine year old me

2585
02:13:38,320 --> 02:13:41,240
Speaker 5: walking in on her drunkenly making out with my dad's

2586
02:13:41,320 --> 02:13:41,920
Speaker 5: best friend.

2587
02:13:42,040 --> 02:13:42,200
Speaker 4: Oh.

2588
02:13:43,520 --> 02:13:46,840
Speaker 5: She's continually hid her addiction from my dad, and every

2589
02:13:46,920 --> 02:13:50,520
Speaker 5: time she's caught there's always a massive fight. My dad

2590
02:13:50,760 --> 02:13:54,320
Speaker 5: says he leave her and says she's pathetic, et cetera.

2591
02:13:54,760 --> 02:13:56,600
Speaker 5: And I stay out of it. But my dad pulled

2592
02:13:56,640 --> 02:13:59,760
Speaker 5: me aside recently after she drank two whole bottles of

2593
02:13:59,800 --> 02:14:02,880
Speaker 5: wine on a Wednesday afternoon. He told me that next

2594
02:14:02,920 --> 02:14:06,320
Speaker 5: time she drinks, tell him and they're done. I hate

2595
02:14:06,360 --> 02:14:09,360
Speaker 5: my mom's drinking, but I don't want them to divorce.

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Speaker 5: My dad went away on a business trip last Friday,

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Speaker 5: and I came home to my mom completely drunk. Only

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Speaker 5: one effing day it took. I got pissed and walked off.

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Speaker 5: When my dad came back home, I told him she

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Speaker 5: got or she drank and got smashed. He's leaving her.

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Speaker 5: Mom won't talk to me, she says I've ruined everything.

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Speaker 5: I feel like I've destroyed my relationship with her. Any

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Speaker 5: and all advice is heavily appreciated and disclaimer, my mom

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Speaker 5: is never admitted to having a problem or thinking there's

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Speaker 5: a problem with her drinking. She sees it as a

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Speaker 5: way of relaxing. Is an edit and an update.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so basically, do we also know how old op

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Speaker 2: is today?

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Speaker 5: Seventeen?

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Speaker 1: This is a lot of weight on a seventeen years yeah, shoulders.

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Speaker 5: I don't love that the dad kind of made her

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Speaker 5: get involved.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a good point.

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Speaker 5: It's like a really.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, because because it's because to me it's like

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Speaker 2: he said, yeah, oh, like tell me the next time

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Speaker 2: you see her. But I think for oh, for the husband,

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Speaker 2: it's like for the dad, like okay, it's next time

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Speaker 2: you see her. Maybe maybe you won't catch the next time,

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Speaker 2: but you'll catch it eventually if it continues to be

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Speaker 2: a problem, and at that point then you end it there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I totally agree. I think.

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Speaker 5: I don't think OPI did anything wrong though, No, no, no,

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Speaker 5: not in.

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Speaker 2: The slightest and poor OPI. I mean, you're a seventeen

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Speaker 2: year old kid. You're just old enough to kind of

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Speaker 2: like to understand what is happening. However, the like you're

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Speaker 2: not used to navigating very emotionally complex situations like this,

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Speaker 2: and to have your father kind of like put it

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Speaker 2: on your back essentially to also.

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Speaker 5: Like knowing that it would probably affect the relationship between

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Speaker 5: Opie and her mom to put that on her shoulders

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Speaker 5: and then like effectively kind of destroy that relationship.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because I bet you what.

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Speaker 2: The what the dad probably said to the mom was like, op,

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Speaker 2: saw you drinking, And I told op the next time

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Speaker 2: you see your mom drinking, tell me, And I'm leaving.

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Speaker 1: So this is why I'm leaving.

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Speaker 5: It's like, hey, this is the rat.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's making his own seventeen year old daughter the

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Speaker 2: scapegoat most Yeah yeah, which is crazy.

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Speaker 5: Yeah no, yeah, someone said two a whole parents.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah.

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Speaker 2: So I think that op one thousand percent the right thing.

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Speaker 2: And I feel so much for her being in this

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Speaker 2: situation where she, you know, like I think my brain

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Speaker 2: would be fried trying to like rationalize. Like there's the

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Speaker 2: classic thing of like kids thinking that they were the

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Speaker 2: ones that caused the divorce, and this is literally this

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Speaker 2: is something that would very much make a child or

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Speaker 2: young adult think that they were the reasons why. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but it was because the dad put it on her.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, these parents are putting it on op.

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Speaker 1: On their child, which is just crazy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely crazy, But there is enough to Okay, fingers

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Speaker 2: crossed for better fingers cross?

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Speaker 5: Do you want to read any of the comments get into.

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Speaker 1: Was there any that caught your eye? I read?

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Speaker 5: Cassie Rene says, mom just doesn't want to admit that

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Speaker 5: her actions are the cause of her marriage ending. It's

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Speaker 5: easier to blame somebody else than take responsibility for her

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Speaker 5: own actions.

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Speaker 1: Ironically her being more childish than.

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Speaker 5: Her own child, who's having to step up and take

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Speaker 5: responsibility for both parents exactly. Quizzer Queen says parents are

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Speaker 5: robbing Opee of their childhood and setting them up for

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Speaker 5: a very confusing trauma.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, absolutely, Jennifer Jones. But it's still mom's fault

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Speaker 2: for making her child deal with it to begin with.

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Speaker 5: Absolutely. I think I didn't even mention the mom because

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Speaker 5: it's so obvious to me that the mom is male

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Speaker 5: like that. That's yeah, that's an issue, like britissue that

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Speaker 5: she needs to like go to, you know, rehab or

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Speaker 5: a like AA meetings. For But I think I'm just saying,

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Speaker 5: like specifically, the dad's the.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like he's he's not like like he he made

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Speaker 2: a move that was very bad for the dogs.

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Speaker 1: Yes, this case.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but let's get into this update. Let's get into it.

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Speaker 5: Actually this edit.

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Speaker 1: This edit, Yeah, this edit, let's edit.

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Speaker 5: We're getting into the edit.

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Speaker 1: Here we go.

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Speaker 5: Thank you all for the overwhelming amount of kind comments.

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Speaker 5: Having received a few questions, I would like to say One,

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Speaker 5: I'm currently staying with my grandparents and plan to stay

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Speaker 5: for a while longer. Two, I have been seeing a

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Speaker 5: therapist for the last three years who I trust well

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Speaker 5: to confide in.

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Speaker 1: Good.

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Speaker 5: It breaks my heart to see how many people can

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Speaker 5: relate to my situation, and my heart goes out to

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Speaker 5: all of you. Stay safe and there is as I said,

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Speaker 5: an update one year and four months later.

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Speaker 2: Also like, I can sense a lot of maturity in ops.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and it's just handling it with such grace,

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Speaker 2: completely the opposite of her very adult parents.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so say parents, All right, what have we got next?

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Speaker 5: So it's been about two years since I vented my

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Speaker 5: frustrations to this page. Wow, I doubt anyone will remember

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Speaker 5: my story, but I thought I provide an update as

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Speaker 5: a nineteen year old in a very different situation, okay

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Speaker 5: for context, and then the original post. Long story short.

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Speaker 5: My parents finalized their divorce and my mom's been attending

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Speaker 5: AA for the last year.

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Speaker 2: Good.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, good.

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Speaker 5: My brother lives with her dad and visits mom regularly.

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Speaker 5: I moved into my grandparents' house as a full time career,

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Speaker 5: and I'm slowly rebuilding my relationship with my mom. It's

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Speaker 5: been hard, but immensely rewarding. Mom hasn't touched alcohol since

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Speaker 5: attending AA and is somewhat recognized where ohen has somewhat

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Speaker 5: recognized where she went wrong. Many of you made me

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Speaker 5: realize my dad's problematic behavior, and I've addressed this in

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Speaker 5: therapy with him. Him and I are also working on

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Speaker 5: building a more healthy relationship. Thank you so much to

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Speaker 5: everyone who provided support and advice during the roughest part

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Speaker 5: of my teenage life. I'm happy, healthy, and thriving. I

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Speaker 5: plan on attending law school next semester and have never

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Speaker 5: been happier. Have a wonderful day everyone.

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Speaker 2: Wow, are you kidding me?

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Speaker 1: This is a job? Are you kidding me?

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Speaker 2: Literally, the most emotionally mature seventeen to nineteen year old

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Speaker 2: I've ever heard about to become a lawyer.

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Speaker 5: Why she's going to become a lawyer?

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Speaker 2: Can someone give Op the Nobel Peace Prize? I think

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Speaker 2: I think she deserves it, all of it, all of them,

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Speaker 2: Mark Twain, He's got one of those, right, give it.

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Speaker 2: Give her the awards, Pulitzer, the Pulitzer, the Pulitzer.

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Speaker 1: Give it to Op.

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Speaker 2: I want Op to have it, I think, I think,

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Speaker 2: I think give Op the awards. Wow, handle that so

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Speaker 2: well with your childish parents, who I will say at

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Speaker 2: least of their credit now seem to be getting that

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Speaker 2: working on it, which is great. We love to see progress.

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Speaker 2: We love to see people actually like putting the work

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Speaker 2: in and committing to it and executing it and having

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Speaker 2: a great daughter to hold them accountable slash support them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, a pretty good.

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Speaker 2: Place to be, all things considered.

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Speaker 5: I would say so.

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Speaker 2: I would say so too, Sophia.

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Speaker 5: I'm glad we would both say so.