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Speaker 1: I said something about eating ass a few times years ago.

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Speaker 1: That was like that was like four niggas ago. Bro,

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Speaker 1: you retired, Oh my, I don't not that I've retired.

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Speaker 2: What I do it again? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: But I don't eat my my dude, I'm you know

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Speaker 1: like that, I'm not currently a part.

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Speaker 2: Of ass, bro, but they but you will if I

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Speaker 2: have to.

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Speaker 1: It's written.

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Speaker 3: I don't like a little a little ass intimidate but bro,

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Speaker 3: but I'm saying like, let me leave me alone.

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Speaker 1: Bro. They look at me like, oh next freaky she ass.

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Speaker 2: Bro before you would do it again?

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Speaker 1: But if I had, but just right, but I don't

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Speaker 1: really like is some choice?

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Speaker 2: You a choice?

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Speaker 1: I'm like, it's not nothing. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: There's a quote.

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Speaker 1: If I'm a vegan, right and I eat meat one time.

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Speaker 2: Just like trap, Yeah, are you not still vegan?

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Speaker 1: And I go back to eating my plant?

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Speaker 2: Back still.

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Speaker 1: Brown?

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Speaker 2: You got a good point.

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Speaker 4: I'm not.

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Speaker 1: Vegan?

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Speaker 2: Once removed you.

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Speaker 5: And me.

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Speaker 1: Last eating.

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Speaker 2: What's up? Y'all's your girl? Lex pe? And is your

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Speaker 2: girls trading? The call? And you are tuned in to

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Speaker 2: another episode of Poor Minds where drunk mind speaks sober thought.

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Speaker 1: We gotta guess today we gotta guess saday. Okay, y'all,

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Speaker 1: I'm super excited because, like we have been following this

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Speaker 1: queen for a long time. I know y'all have seen

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Speaker 1: her everywhere working out on your.

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Speaker 2: News feed, motivating him. You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: We got media personality journalists and influencer mice kayl in.

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Speaker 2: A building.

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Speaker 5: The yah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I think you know what I love? Like,

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Speaker 1: you know, Kayla Nicole dren Cole.

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Speaker 2: What.

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Speaker 1: The mamas thought they ate?

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Speaker 6: That?

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Speaker 2: Really named? When were you born? Ninety one? Me too?

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Speaker 1: They really thought they ate this, didn't.

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Speaker 2: Na?

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Speaker 1: Yes, that is so money and then y'all both born

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Speaker 1: in ninety one, so it's definitely some truth today.

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Speaker 2: It is what's your son? I'm not worried, Okay, scorpion sign?

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Speaker 2: What's your sign? I'm a leo? Okay, I love as well.

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Speaker 2: You know, I just feel along with Les, I.

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Speaker 1: Really don't know nothing about the zodiac. But I just

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Speaker 1: like to ask people because I feel like that's what

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Speaker 1: you're supposed to do, Like you're supposed to ask somebody

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Speaker 1: somewhere from what's I get it.

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Speaker 2: But then I feel like when the vibes start vibing

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Speaker 2: and you be like you be like beach. That's why

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Speaker 2: I feel you on that. So we're gonna get into it.

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Speaker 2: First of all, how are you? You know what I'm saying?

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Speaker 2: How you doing? I'm so good? Yeah, I feel like

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Speaker 2: I'm in a really good place in my life. Yeah.

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Speaker 7: I was just posting on my Instagram story yesterday I

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Speaker 7: did a little like Q and a Girl and someone elseduff.

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Speaker 2: They were like, how are you doing it?

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Speaker 7: I'm like sensational when I put that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I feel like I always have to ask

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Speaker 1: that because I feel like living in LA is like

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Speaker 2: It's like a different experience, you know what.

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Speaker 1: I'm Okay, Well, I'm from here, so I'm a little biased, okay,

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Speaker 1: because I feel like every time I'll come here, of

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Speaker 1: course I have a wonderful time. I do, but I

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Speaker 2: You know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: But I feel like for the average everyday person who's

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Speaker 1: I'm like, how do y'all maneuver around this shitty?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: I mean I think LA it's a bad rap because

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Speaker 7: we have a lot of transplants. Like a lot of

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Speaker 7: because I'm from here, La a Jason, I'm from Crona,

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Speaker 7: and I'm not from h right.

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Speaker 1: You are not from Houston.

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Speaker 2: Yes you know that because I told you exactly. That's

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Speaker 7: Most of my friends were from LA, so my perspective

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Speaker 7: is biased, but I get it though, like the Hollywood

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Speaker 2: It could be very weird. But you have to find

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Speaker 3: I feel like La is similar to New York in

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I lived.

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Speaker 7: I lived in New York for three years and it

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Speaker 7: was like the hardest three years of my life, but

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Speaker 7: and build my career out there. You really have to

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Speaker 3: That I always wish that I took a stab at

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Speaker 2: It's yeah, it's not.

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Speaker 1: But now I feel like staying in Atlanta with men.

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Speaker 2: Well together.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like six months.

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Speaker 2: You don't even have to do it long term, like

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Speaker 1: Don't know, get some episodes on Broadway period.

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Speaker 2: A little bit. But don't forget that. I never say that.

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Speaker 3: You feel like New York is just one of those

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Speaker 2: He went to Saint John's and.

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Speaker 3: I used to go visit him all the time and

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Speaker 2: But I don't know, girl, maybe one day I'll get

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Speaker 2: New York needs me.

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Speaker 1: If you always talking about New York, seriously, everyone needs

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Speaker 2: Yeah, do a little summer summer in New York and

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Speaker 2: that but I like here too. I wanted to play everywhere.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I like to walk slow, eat slow, fuck slow everything.

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Speaker 2: The LX don't like New York. Every time we go there,

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Speaker 7: So also, if you are to do New York, I

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Speaker 7: say live in like Edgewater in Jersey, because you.

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Speaker 2: Get the experience, get the view of the city. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you can go in and out of it.

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Speaker 7: Because I do agree it can be a little fast paced, overwhelming,

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Speaker 7: over stimulating to live in the city. Yeah, but Jersey

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Speaker 3: When I was thinking about moving there, I was thinking

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Speaker 2: Okay, my Crown Heights, Okay, little hipster bo Yeah, like I.

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Speaker 3: Was thinking about moving there. But now I feel like

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Speaker 3: Brooklyn is so gentrified. It's on the same level as Manhead. No,

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Speaker 2: I mean it is.

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Speaker 7: You are wealthy, so y'all maybe could afford it my

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Speaker 2: You are a woman that wealthy. I'm staying in the

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Speaker 7: I see you posting all the time. But I feel

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Speaker 7: like I have my own bones pit with Atlanta. I

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Speaker 7: don't me and Atlanta do not get along? Why not

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Speaker 7: gotten in the majority of the fights. Now, will you

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Speaker 5: This is?

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Speaker 7: This is the old just as she wasn't really saved

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Speaker 7: sactify now she don't done the work yet.

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Speaker 1: That was very reactive and yeah, okay, the majority of

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Speaker 2: That I have been in have been in Atlanta. I

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Speaker 7: Let me tell you. I'm in the club one night

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Speaker 7: We're out a section and there's a girl in the

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Speaker 7: I catch her with her hand in my homegirls perse

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Speaker 7: and my homegirl.

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Speaker 2: And I like her.

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Speaker 7: The person in my homegirl, just a little small, little

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Speaker 1: Like I'm immediately like what so I'm questioning the ground.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, yo, you're just like you're what's going on?

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Speaker 1: Like who are you here with?

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Speaker 7: Trying to get the answers to the questions. Everybody else

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Speaker 7: is having a great time. I'm trying to get security.

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Speaker 7: Securities not coming. But now I got a step in

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Speaker 7: an interview. I grabbed the purse from her. It turns

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Speaker 1: I have run ahead out of the party.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, a headlock is crazy, but you know what a cause?

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Speaker 2: What's the cause? That's because she.

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Speaker 1: Was stealing from your friends.

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Speaker 2: That's a hell of a cause. I just hate it.

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Speaker 2: I got into it with bottle girls. It's just I.

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Speaker 1: Will say, that does make sense. That's like Atlanta does

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Speaker 1: things like that, because I will say, when I moved

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Speaker 1: to Atlanta, I still have not I don't feel like

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Speaker 1: I've made friends in Atlanta because when I moved there,

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Speaker 1: I met like her friends at the time, and I

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Speaker 1: didn't like none of them.

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Speaker 2: None of them like me. So I'm just like, you

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Speaker 2: know what, and I'm not friends with any of them. Holes. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you're not friends with any of them.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, I agree with you on that I had

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Speaker 1: to move on. I live on the outskirts of Atlanta.

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Speaker 1: I'm not the outskirts outskirts, but I'm like a little

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a little quieter. I'm just take it no more.

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Speaker 2: Some of my favorite place.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Atlanta to me is what people think LA is,

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Speaker 3: because I think people.

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Speaker 2: Try even harder in Atlanta, like l A. I feel like,

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Speaker 3: La really got not Okay, not to say that Atlanta

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Speaker 3: don't have ship going on, right, but l A is

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Speaker 3: Hollywood for real, where the real movers and shakers are.

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Speaker 2: It is a few.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you need to go for a good weekend Sunday

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Speaker 2: Have a weekend Houston. We already to show you how

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Speaker 3: Because Houston has changed so much over the years. You know,

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I live in Texas. When I think about places

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Speaker 1: Okay, So I want to talk about your career, and

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Speaker 2: Lore, like theround. Have you ever had a job? First

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Speaker 1: Well, no, like I'm talking about like a nine like

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Speaker 2: Well, because I used to work at loads, she did.

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Speaker 7: And the other day I said, y'all, I've never worked

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Speaker 2: One of my first jobs was at tm Z.

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Speaker 7: Like I was, I was a PA production system, meaning

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Speaker 7: My first job was at a newspaper in Malibu about

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Speaker 7: I went to school with Malibu Pepperdine out here, which

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Speaker 7: I had an ocean view in my dorm, which is crazy, right,

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Speaker 2: And then I visited Yeah, girl, I visited Pepperdine, and

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Speaker 2: I was like, oh, this is this is wrong. Yes

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Speaker 2: But it seems just.

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Speaker 1: So much fun.

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. I was in the trenches

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Speaker 2: I could have swore, yes, you told me that roller blade.

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Speaker 2: That's fun. Shake over. Maybe I lie.

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Speaker 1: You're lying right now because you definitely told me.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes I'm about to get a good store why I'm

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Speaker 1: a liar, But sometimes I'm trying to get my ship

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Speaker 1: I never had a job that's crazy gave me, but

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Speaker 2: Fun jobs like you have always.

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Speaker 2: You were like on the football field with a mic

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Speaker 2: but just talk about sports. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so I think that's when I was introducing to you.

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Speaker 1: So I was like, I never knew like your background

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Speaker 2: I love that.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well maybe in college Okay, one time I did

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Speaker 1: you want you want jobs outside of the industry, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: because I have that is I'm something that I'm proud of,

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Speaker 2: For a very very long Yeah. Right. Coming conception is

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Speaker 7: Okay, Okay, it was in Malibu because it had to

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Speaker 2: I worked at Jama Juice. There we go. Come on,

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Speaker 2: I worked at Jama Juice on campus. She said, I see,

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Speaker 3: Some Jama Juice because we have Hella Jama Juices in Texas,

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Speaker 2: I also wouldn't advise anyone to continue to go to Johnice.

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Speaker 3: But no, you always have been a media girl, obviously

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Speaker 2: It takes really tough skin. It's a lot of nose,

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Speaker 7: More nose than Yes's for sure, And I do feel

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Speaker 1: I have my own shows where I finally feel like

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Speaker 7: To pat myself on the back and be like, you

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Speaker 7: I quit working at TMZ because I felt like this

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Speaker 1: I can't go into work every day trying to ruin

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Speaker 2: Doing drugs in the bathroom or like I couldn't. I

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Speaker 7: The one reporting, I don't want to be the one. Well,

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Speaker 7: And it's the people that are working there that are

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Speaker 2: And so for me, it was just it didn't feel good.

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Speaker 7: And that's when I kind of started to go more

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Speaker 2: Did you play sports? I was a gymnast growing up,

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Speaker 7: If I'd say you got that body memory is very real.

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Speaker 2: So flexible I am.

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Speaker 1: I actually am flexible, Like I really like, like I

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Speaker 1: Muscle memory is real. But I was just like very impressed.

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Speaker 2: I was too. I was like, whoa very little fall

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Speaker 2: the talent.

450
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Speaker 1: The talents are there, but I'm so glad that you're

451
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Speaker 1: like giving us your background because one thing I hate

452
00:20:18,840 --> 00:20:21,879
Speaker 1: is I hate when people discredit women. And I feel

453
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Speaker 1: like I was introduced to you when you know you

454
00:20:24,920 --> 00:20:26,119
Speaker 1: were doing your sports and I'm.

455
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Speaker 2: Like, Cale the cole Ben, that girl.

456
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Speaker 1: And I feel like I was introduced to you when

457
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Speaker 1: you know you were doing your sports and I'm like

458
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Speaker 1: Cale the.

459
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Speaker 2: Cole Ben, that girl be she been working.

460
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Speaker 1: So I think it's so important that people know that

461
00:20:38,880 --> 00:20:40,959
Speaker 1: about you, Like, you know, you have your degree, you've

462
00:20:41,000 --> 00:20:42,560
Speaker 1: been hustling, you've been you've.

463
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Speaker 2: Been that girl. You appreciate that we got to stand

464
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Speaker 2: on that period. You're ready to get into the topic.

465
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Speaker 2: Are we gonna? I don't know, No, I'm ready to

466
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Speaker 2: get into what I was just gonna say, but no

467
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Speaker 2: specifically though, especially beautiful women.

468
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Speaker 3: I feel like people are are trying to these crazy

469
00:21:01,080 --> 00:21:02,720
Speaker 3: beautiful women, like if you didn't look the way that

470
00:21:02,760 --> 00:21:05,040
Speaker 3: you look, leading people wouldn't be seeing the things that

471
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Speaker 3: they say. So there's it, but real quick, because y'all

472
00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:11,440
Speaker 3: were talking before before we started filming about like seventy

473
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Speaker 3: five hard and working out? Have you always been like

474
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Speaker 3: a workout girly, I have what motivates you to go

475
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Speaker 3: to the gym.

476
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Speaker 2: So it's a long list of things.

477
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Speaker 7: One at the top of the list mentally just makes

478
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Speaker 7: me feel like the same person. I don't like who

479
00:21:24,359 --> 00:21:25,960
Speaker 7: I am when I don't work out, I don't have

480
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Speaker 7: a routine. The clarity, the mental clarity that comes from

481
00:21:28,960 --> 00:21:32,080
Speaker 7: working out is just there's nothing like it. There's no

482
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Speaker 7: medicine in the world that will make you feel like it.

483
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Speaker 1: There's no drug, there's not even a part.

484
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Speaker 2: There's nothing in the world that will make.

485
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Speaker 7: You feel as good as prioritizing your physical health but

486
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Speaker 7: also your mental health too. So really working out for

487
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Speaker 7: me is like I have a brand called Tribe Therapy,

488
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Speaker 7: and the whole premise is basically to bridge the gap

489
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Speaker 7: between physical fitness and mental wellness because for me, working

490
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Speaker 7: out is truly therapy for me, Okay, And I've been

491
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Speaker 7: saying that for years.

492
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Speaker 1: I was a gymnast growing up. I started at the

493
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Speaker 1: age of five. I quit when I was probably.

494
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Speaker 7: Like sixteen, and I've had a workout routine ever since.

495
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Speaker 2: I've never straight away from it.

496
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Speaker 7: That's crazy, and because yeah, like you look good, you

497
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Speaker 7: feel good, but also like mentally, I absolutely I have

498
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Speaker 7: to work out.

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Speaker 1: I have to work Maybe if I watch y'all all

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Speaker 1: no be.

501
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Speaker 2: Asking me the same thing too, and I feel like

502
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Speaker 2: it's a mental thing.

503
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Speaker 3: I just don't feel good when I don't go to

504
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Speaker 3: the gym, especially if I know too that it's a

505
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Speaker 3: weekend where I'm really gonna be cutting up.

506
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Speaker 2: I have to get up early and this morning, I

507
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Speaker 2: is so for me.

508
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Speaker 1: I have about so I have Like me too, I'll

509
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Speaker 1: have like an eight nine month where I'm like in

510
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Speaker 1: the gym, like I'm kind of in that right now,

511
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Speaker 1: like I've been working out daily, doing all my things,

512
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Speaker 1: and then I'll just.

513
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Speaker 2: Be like one day I'll just like skip one. Then

514
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Speaker 2: we end up skipped to next thing, you.

515
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Speaker 7: Know, snowball fact, give yourself, grace, soul, that doesn't mean

516
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Speaker 7: that you don't prioritize your mental health or your physical health.

517
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Speaker 2: You just have to do what works for you.

518
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Speaker 7: Like I go to the gym, I work out probably

519
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Speaker 7: for like two hours and some change. I'm like in

520
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Speaker 7: the gym, but it's also like my it's like my

521
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Speaker 7: happy place.

522
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Speaker 2: It's so fucking quiet in the gym. To me, it

523
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Speaker 2: could be packed and meat heads and influencers recording.

524
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Speaker 7: I literally feel like I'm the only person in the

525
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Speaker 7: world when I'm in the.

526
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Speaker 1: Gym, And I think that's what intimidates me about the

527
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Speaker 1: gym too, because Dre like I always at the gym

528
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Speaker 1: today and somebody came up to me or she was

529
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Speaker 1: like and she just goes and goes around the gym.

530
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Speaker 1: I'm so intimidated by the gym because I feel like people.

531
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Speaker 1: First of all, I feel like people gonna like maybe

532
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Speaker 1: recognize me or something. And I don't want to be

533
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Speaker 1: in the background of somebody's video. Maybe my form might

534
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Speaker 1: be wrong with somebody look at her. You can tell,

535
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Speaker 1: because you know what a lot of people who are

536
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Speaker 1: gym heads, they make TikTok videos, is like you can

537
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Speaker 1: tell somebody hasn't don't go to the gym if they

538
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Speaker 1: do their exercise like this or.

539
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Speaker 2: People. Yeah, intimidation is very real.

540
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Speaker 7: Whoever is saying that it's a weirdo like the gym

541
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Speaker 7: is like it's like church, it is.

542
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Speaker 2: This is a space for everybody and anybody. You should

543
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Speaker 2: shut up.

544
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Speaker 7: Also, if you are filming in the gym, I think

545
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Speaker 7: that you should be cognizant of other people.

546
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Speaker 2: This is not your grid. Know what they mean. I

547
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Speaker 2: know what they mean.

548
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Speaker 7: But if the gym intimidates you, I understand. There's so

549
00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:11,720
Speaker 7: many alternative ways to move your body. You don't have

550
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Speaker 7: to be in the gym an hour and a half

551
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Speaker 7: two hours like me. You can go for a walk

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Speaker 7: forty five. I have a friend Sheila, who's a makeup artist. Well,

553
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Speaker 7: she used to be a makeup artists make up shaey.

554
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Speaker 7: You might have seen it.

555
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Speaker 2: Very gorgeous girl girl.

556
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Speaker 7: She goes on like for mile walks, which sounds intimidating

557
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Speaker 7: and ridiculous, But you will be so surprised. Walking alone,

558
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Speaker 7: even not even on an incline, will change your body. Yeah,

559
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Speaker 7: well I also change your mind too. Like That's why

560
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Speaker 7: I really want people to understand, Like.

561
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Speaker 2: You're cool, your body will be great.

562
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Speaker 7: Your aesthetic will be great, But the clarity that comes

563
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Speaker 7: from prioritizing moving your body, it's just it's untouched, Like

564
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Speaker 7: there's nothing like it.

565
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Speaker 3: Discipline is just so important, and I think it's sexy.

566
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Speaker 5: It is.

567
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Speaker 2: It is.

568
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Speaker 3: It's like, I know, I gotta do these sheet every

569
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Speaker 3: day and I don't want to. I'm gonna get my

570
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Speaker 3: ass up. I'm gonna do it because it's for my

571
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Speaker 3: I always try to think it's for my future selves.

572
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Speaker 2: And I always tell.

573
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Speaker 3: LX who had experiences like that in the gym where

574
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Speaker 3: people have kind of like critiques me or told me

575
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Speaker 3: my forum was wrong, But it's always been from a

576
00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:09,000
Speaker 3: good place. Like it's never been from a place of

577
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Speaker 3: me feeling like they were judging me and not trying

578
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Speaker 3: to help.

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Speaker 2: It's always been from a helpful place. Yeah.

580
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Speaker 1: You know what, though I realized about myself recently. I

581
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Speaker 1: hate when I feel like people are laughing at.

582
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Speaker 2: Me, like if like in the gym specifically, just in

583
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Speaker 2: judge in general.

584
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Speaker 1: Because you know what I realized I was like watching

585
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Speaker 1: like podcasts that we've been on, or like other shows,

586
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Speaker 1: and like when somebody tries to crack a joke on me,

587
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Speaker 1: I don't want to get defensive because then you look

588
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Speaker 1: kind of corny. So I'll like add in and start

589
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Speaker 1: joking on myself. But I'm like, I'm looking at my face.

590
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Speaker 1: I'm like, but you didn't like that.

591
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Speaker 2: Yeah, So I think that's like a fear of.

592
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Speaker 1: Mine of like going to the gym and somebody being like,

593
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Speaker 1: look at her, you know what I mean.

594
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Speaker 3: But to be honest, more specifically, in the gym, I've noted,

595
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Speaker 3: people do not be.

596
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Speaker 7: Paying by the way, nobody knows what the fuck they're doing. Yeah,

597
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Speaker 7: someone you might look at me as a fitness expert,

598
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Speaker 7: bring it out to you. Half the times when you

599
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Speaker 7: let me just say this, well whatever I've been telling

600
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Speaker 7: me so. But when you post these workouts on Instagram

601
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Speaker 7: and you have to get like the descriptions and like

602
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Speaker 7: the fucking things, right, I just reverse lunch back, like

603
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Speaker 7: I saw what I said, you know what I mean, Like,

604
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Speaker 7: nobody knows what they're doing. Everybody is in there with

605
00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:22,280
Speaker 7: the same goal. We are all in here to do

606
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Speaker 7: the same thing, which is better ourselves.

607
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Speaker 2: Don't let them people deter you. That's what they do.

608
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Speaker 1: Crazy because I'm whenever I'm ready and I'm gonna I.

609
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Speaker 2: Wish you to be looking at you.

610
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Speaker 3: I be looking around sometimes nobody being in interest to me,

611
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Speaker 3: and I'll be doing hell wrong.

612
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Speaker 2: I'm gonna be looking, but I don't be looking at

613
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Speaker 2: like people's for working.

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Speaker 4: If anything, she got a nice body.

615
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Speaker 7: There's there's somebody in my gym that have an ankle

616
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Speaker 7: bracelon and that's the why I was looking at sometimes.

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Speaker 1: But like, ain'tle braceley.

618
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Speaker 7: But it's like she gotta get her work on it too.

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Speaker 2: A criminal and it's bad because.

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Speaker 1: All I said it is like the church, come one,

621
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Speaker 1: come on. I watched Pastor Mike uh pm J for

622
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Speaker 1: the first time, a rock city church for the first time.

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Speaker 1: It's crazy that you said that, because he made a

624
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Speaker 1: point about that. He was like, you know, if a

625
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Speaker 1: woman walked into church right now and she got some

626
00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:16,840
Speaker 1: tight shorts on, booty hanging out, y'all.

627
00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:18,119
Speaker 2: Can be like, oh, why are you here? Why are

628
00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:19,159
Speaker 2: you here? He's like, you know what I would do.

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Speaker 1: I would embrace her and say, come in, we appreciate you,

630
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Speaker 1: We're gonna get you together, We're gonna get you right.

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Speaker 2: He was like, because that's the kind of church I

632
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Speaker 2: want to have. And I was like, that's me.

633
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Speaker 1: I'm a walking church with my ass hanging out, and

634
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Speaker 1: I'm like, what happened?

635
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Speaker 2: Well, at least I can't now. Well, you know what

636
00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:36,640
Speaker 2: I'm saying, Wow, Wow, I'm here.

637
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Speaker 1: Well, and Pastor Fike said he would embrace me. So

638
00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:43,199
Speaker 1: I'm in the gym. I mean Johnson, embrace me. So

639
00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:44,960
Speaker 1: if you see me in the gym, just embrace me.

640
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Speaker 1: We will.

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Speaker 2: But everybody but I did get So I'm glad that

642
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Speaker 2: you said.

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Speaker 1: That about walking too, because I got a walking pad

644
00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:54,480
Speaker 1: a long time ago because a Drea.

645
00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:56,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I walk on my walking path.

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Speaker 1: I literally lost thirty pounds at the beginning of the

647
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Speaker 1: year because I was walking on my walking path.

648
00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:03,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then I stopped and it came back. Then

649
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Speaker 2: it happens today. There's ten thousand steps. I think it's

650
00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:11,520
Speaker 2: gonna get you, right. So okay, I know, my mad

651
00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:12,600
Speaker 2: we got a little off topic.

652
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:12,959
Speaker 4: It's ok.

653
00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:16,960
Speaker 2: Let's go wherever you want to take it, honey.

654
00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:19,760
Speaker 3: So now we're going to get into topic number one.

655
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Speaker 3: We want us to talk about the power of.

656
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Speaker 2: Rein being change.

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Speaker 3: Do you feel like you've ever allowed people's perceptions of

658
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Speaker 3: your ideas of you change your mind set or change

659
00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:34,280
Speaker 3: who you are as far as like making life decisions.

660
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Speaker 2: Absolutely, Yeah, I'm human for sure. I think I did

661
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Speaker 2: an interview the other day.

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Speaker 7: With a publication called The Cut, and she asked a

663
00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:49,080
Speaker 7: very similar question. There was a time in my life

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Speaker 7: where I think that the narrative online of me was

665
00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:56,880
Speaker 7: so loud and so repetitive that, just as a human being,

666
00:28:56,880 --> 00:28:59,000
Speaker 7: when you see something so much, you start to believe

667
00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:01,800
Speaker 7: it right, to think like, Okay, well maybe they're right,

668
00:29:01,840 --> 00:29:03,520
Speaker 7: Like maybe they've got it right and I've got it wrong.

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Speaker 7: I'm very thankful to not be in that place anymore.

670
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Speaker 7: I'm very thankful that I've done the work. But I

671
00:29:08,320 --> 00:29:11,800
Speaker 7: do think that, yeah, if you don't do the work,

672
00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:15,440
Speaker 7: you don't prioritize your mental health, the outside voices will

673
00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:17,640
Speaker 7: start to drown out your own inner voice, and you'll

674
00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:22,800
Speaker 7: start to question your purpose, and you'll start to question

675
00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:26,280
Speaker 7: your potential and your gifts and your talents. But it's

676
00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:30,640
Speaker 7: important to figure out what's triggering that, what's causing that,

677
00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:32,640
Speaker 7: get to the root of that so that you can

678
00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:33,360
Speaker 7: stay on your path.

679
00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:35,080
Speaker 2: Because I think that if I would have listened to it,

680
00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:37,080
Speaker 2: I would have quit a long time ago. Yeah, and

681
00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:38,000
Speaker 2: that certainly was an option.

682
00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:41,000
Speaker 7: Yeah, like going back to the which nothing against a

683
00:29:41,080 --> 00:29:42,360
Speaker 7: nine to five in the office job.

684
00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:43,840
Speaker 2: I've done that, but I was.

685
00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:45,800
Speaker 7: Ready to go back to that, Like let's put all

686
00:29:45,840 --> 00:29:49,240
Speaker 7: the cameras in the mics away and the likes and

687
00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:51,920
Speaker 7: the Yeah, put it away if it meant that I

688
00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:53,400
Speaker 7: could keep my sanity.

689
00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:54,560
Speaker 2: For sure, I question that.

690
00:29:54,600 --> 00:29:56,840
Speaker 7: But you know, you do the work, you go to therapy,

691
00:29:56,880 --> 00:29:58,640
Speaker 7: and you realize that, Okay, the problem is not so

692
00:29:58,720 --> 00:30:00,840
Speaker 7: much everybody else in their opinion, and sometimes it is

693
00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:03,400
Speaker 7: something internal with you that you have to work through.

694
00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:04,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure.

695
00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:07,320
Speaker 3: And I think that once you become more self aware

696
00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:09,760
Speaker 3: and you know exactly who you are who you are,

697
00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:12,080
Speaker 3: the opinions of other people don't really matter as much.

698
00:30:12,520 --> 00:30:14,600
Speaker 3: And once you realize too that a lot of it

699
00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:16,040
Speaker 3: is projection, Oh my gosh.

700
00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:18,560
Speaker 7: Absolutely, yeah, yeah, And everyone has an opinion, which people

701
00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:21,160
Speaker 7: are very entitled to that, Like everyone has a perspective.

702
00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:24,200
Speaker 7: I don't have to listen to it though, Yeah, like

703
00:30:24,240 --> 00:30:25,560
Speaker 7: it doesn't. I don't have to subscribe to it.

704
00:30:25,560 --> 00:30:26,920
Speaker 2: You don't have to. I don't have to give it

705
00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:29,240
Speaker 2: any more power than it deserves. Absolutely.

706
00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:32,120
Speaker 1: I think when people be crashing out online and they

707
00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:33,720
Speaker 1: do the things, and they just feel like I'm not

708
00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:35,920
Speaker 1: this person. They're trying to prove something because of what

709
00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:37,000
Speaker 1: the comments are saying.

710
00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:39,080
Speaker 2: It's because they don't really have good community.

711
00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:42,280
Speaker 1: Because when things are going on and I'm getting canceled,

712
00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:44,520
Speaker 1: our people are talking bad about me. Like I know

713
00:30:44,600 --> 00:30:46,480
Speaker 1: we've been talking about this on like every interview, but

714
00:30:46,560 --> 00:30:51,320
Speaker 1: like when we go viral over something, I'm like, am

715
00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:55,200
Speaker 1: I too much? Because They're like, let's is so masculine,

716
00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:57,280
Speaker 1: she's so loud, she's so fIF Oh my god, you

717
00:30:57,400 --> 00:30:58,600
Speaker 1: want to be a baddie's so bad?

718
00:30:58,640 --> 00:30:59,200
Speaker 2: You want to be it?

719
00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:00,800
Speaker 1: And I'm just like, oh my And I'll call Dre

720
00:31:00,920 --> 00:31:02,320
Speaker 1: or I'll call my friends, I'll call my sister.

721
00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:04,640
Speaker 2: I'm like, am I too loud? Am I too much?

722
00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:06,000
Speaker 2: And they're like girl, No.

723
00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:08,720
Speaker 1: And what I realized is I'll have these moments with

724
00:31:08,800 --> 00:31:11,479
Speaker 1: the people who really know me and are really my friends,

725
00:31:11,480 --> 00:31:12,760
Speaker 1: and then I show up at work the next day

726
00:31:12,760 --> 00:31:14,720
Speaker 1: and I'm still myself cause I'm like, I'm cool, I'm

727
00:31:14,720 --> 00:31:16,080
Speaker 1: that bitch, and people who get.

728
00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:18,000
Speaker 2: Me, they get me, they understand me, you know what

729
00:31:18,080 --> 00:31:18,400
Speaker 2: I mean.

730
00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:22,200
Speaker 1: So I think there's growth in just being a person

731
00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:23,120
Speaker 1: and living life.

732
00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:25,240
Speaker 2: But this is who I am, and I.

733
00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:28,640
Speaker 1: Have people in real life cameras off who really love

734
00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:31,640
Speaker 1: me and understand me. So I think sometimes when you

735
00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:34,280
Speaker 1: feed too much into the comments, that's when you're like,

736
00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:35,080
Speaker 1: am I like this?

737
00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:37,720
Speaker 2: Am I? And I noticed I was doing that. That's

738
00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 2: so long though.

739
00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:41,320
Speaker 7: I for sure there's been moments where I have wanted to,

740
00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:44,000
Speaker 7: of course, respond to the comments. Did you jump in

741
00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:48,920
Speaker 7: the shade room comments and save face clear my name?

742
00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:49,200
Speaker 1: Yeah?

743
00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:51,520
Speaker 7: But like you said, I will make a phone caller

744
00:31:51,520 --> 00:31:55,160
Speaker 7: to you, whether it's to my team, my pr my manager, yeah,

745
00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:57,000
Speaker 7: or maybe it's my mom, or maybe it's my best friend,

746
00:31:57,080 --> 00:31:58,880
Speaker 7: maybe it's my sister, because like you said, there's people

747
00:31:58,880 --> 00:32:01,840
Speaker 7: that know me in real life. And if I succumb

748
00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:04,440
Speaker 7: to the pressure of trying to appease the internet, yeah,

749
00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:07,040
Speaker 7: I'm going to be exhausted every single.

750
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:07,400
Speaker 2: Day of my life.

751
00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:10,160
Speaker 7: I'm gonna be constantly moving the goalpost of approval, trying

752
00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:12,640
Speaker 7: to win in the court of like public opinion. I

753
00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:13,960
Speaker 7: want people to like me and to know me, and

754
00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:16,160
Speaker 7: to understand me and to sympathize with.

755
00:32:16,040 --> 00:32:18,880
Speaker 2: Me and empathize I'm gonna be fucking exhausted during every

756
00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:21,360
Speaker 2: day of my life. I like it. Go ahead ahead.

757
00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:26,720
Speaker 2: I was gonna say, have you ever had that?

758
00:32:29,240 --> 00:32:29,600
Speaker 4: I love?

759
00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:33,719
Speaker 3: But now do you feel like you've ever had like

760
00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:35,880
Speaker 3: a crash out moment where you were just like fuck this?

761
00:32:35,920 --> 00:32:38,360
Speaker 3: If y'all got me fucked up, I'm going to say

762
00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:39,959
Speaker 3: how I feel.

763
00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:40,680
Speaker 2: I'm a lift.

764
00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:43,000
Speaker 3: Y'all know y'all have me reading me. This is not

765
00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:45,520
Speaker 3: who I am. You all had those.

766
00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:50,880
Speaker 7: Moments for yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, But I

767
00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:57,160
Speaker 7: will say this. I have it offline and ten times

768
00:32:57,160 --> 00:32:59,800
Speaker 7: out of ten, not nine, ten times out of ten.

769
00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:05,800
Speaker 7: Whatever the confusion might be on the Internet, understand that

770
00:33:05,840 --> 00:33:07,720
Speaker 7: in real life I'm addressing it.

771
00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:10,479
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm not doing it for the internet.

772
00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:13,640
Speaker 7: Got I love that about your real life because I

773
00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:16,160
Speaker 7: can only take so much. I'm human point as well,

774
00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:19,000
Speaker 7: and to prevent me from crashing out, I'm just gonna

775
00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:20,000
Speaker 7: bring it right to your front door.

776
00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:25,600
Speaker 2: I used to be cutting people out in the comments recently.

777
00:33:26,480 --> 00:33:29,520
Speaker 3: It's so funny because the letter used to do it,

778
00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:31,160
Speaker 3: and now she does it.

779
00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:34,000
Speaker 2: Like the bigger that we're becoming. She responds to people

780
00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:36,480
Speaker 2: all the time, the bigger that we're becoming. I just

781
00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:40,440
Speaker 2: be blocking hose good do what makes you go good?

782
00:33:40,480 --> 00:33:42,320
Speaker 2: There was there was a time where I did respond

783
00:33:42,360 --> 00:33:42,800
Speaker 2: to people.

784
00:33:43,480 --> 00:33:45,800
Speaker 1: We kept posted a video recently where we're talking about

785
00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:48,000
Speaker 1: AI and ship and it was all calm and dumb

786
00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:52,000
Speaker 1: in the comments. I thought, for my life twelve hours,

787
00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:58,040
Speaker 1: twelve hours, I was playing in my bed.

788
00:33:57,480 --> 00:33:58,400
Speaker 4: I love my.

789
00:33:58,560 --> 00:34:04,000
Speaker 1: Life twelve hours. I laid in the bed that night, And.

790
00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:08,600
Speaker 2: How did you feel? I'm great because you feel good?

791
00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:11,120
Speaker 7: Yeah, if you feel good, I started to feel I

792
00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:13,160
Speaker 7: started to be irritated because it's like, you gotta rise

793
00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:13,480
Speaker 7: out of me.

794
00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:14,800
Speaker 2: That's what you wanted, and I gave it to you

795
00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:16,799
Speaker 2: that now I'm not gonna lie.

796
00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:19,600
Speaker 1: I felt great after I finished my laid down, but

797
00:34:19,600 --> 00:34:20,479
Speaker 1: when I woke up.

798
00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:27,959
Speaker 2: I was like, what you wouldn't stop me, But you had.

799
00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:32,200
Speaker 3: Already because this is the thing you already done. And

800
00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:36,720
Speaker 3: sometimes I realized too, that's what's gonna make somebody feel

801
00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:38,840
Speaker 3: better in that moment, Like I feel like that's what

802
00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:41,880
Speaker 3: made you feel just about it. I was like, it's cool,

803
00:34:41,920 --> 00:34:43,680
Speaker 3: but I was thinking, I'm like, now, why the hell?

804
00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:46,080
Speaker 3: She reflected, because you responded to like twenty people.

805
00:34:46,239 --> 00:34:48,719
Speaker 2: No, it was more than I was fighting it, like

806
00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:51,120
Speaker 2: you're literally in the commentary you'r DM them. No, I'm

807
00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:53,839
Speaker 2: not the world to see me dueling you. I love.

808
00:34:54,480 --> 00:34:55,719
Speaker 2: We share posts a lot of.

809
00:34:55,640 --> 00:35:01,440
Speaker 1: The times, and I'm like, why no.

810
00:35:01,560 --> 00:35:05,359
Speaker 7: I'm more maniacal or just very like Calculus scorpio. Yeah,

811
00:35:05,440 --> 00:35:09,480
Speaker 7: quality like I'm gonna I've shared this before, or then

812
00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:11,120
Speaker 7: the interview that I did recently. But I will do

813
00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:14,520
Speaker 7: things like say, you leave a wild comment on my page.

814
00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:16,279
Speaker 2: I'll go to your page. I see it's not like

815
00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:17,759
Speaker 2: a spam account. This is like.

816
00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:21,680
Speaker 7: Jessica from Long Beach and her kids and her husband,

817
00:35:21,719 --> 00:35:23,600
Speaker 7: and she puts her church. She's the lover of Jesus

818
00:35:23,680 --> 00:35:27,200
Speaker 7: and all that. So I go I screenshot her comment.

819
00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:31,840
Speaker 7: I will find maybe her husband's profile, her child's profile,

820
00:35:31,920 --> 00:35:33,759
Speaker 7: and I will just send them a screenshot and say, Hey,

821
00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:37,120
Speaker 7: just wanted to let you know, Jessica, this is how

822
00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:39,279
Speaker 7: your mom talks to people. And I would hope that

823
00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:41,759
Speaker 7: you know that this is not how you communicate with

824
00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:46,480
Speaker 7: others and to do better. I was doing that for

825
00:35:46,520 --> 00:35:48,160
Speaker 7: a minute, and it would really make me feel very

826
00:35:48,239 --> 00:35:56,440
Speaker 7: like I like it lady.

827
00:35:56,239 --> 00:35:59,080
Speaker 2: Online and it would be like, oh my god, I'm

828
00:35:59,080 --> 00:36:01,399
Speaker 2: so sorry, this is so bad. Yeah, your mom.

829
00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:08,480
Speaker 1: She's anyway, what she does is when people leave nasty comments.

830
00:36:08,880 --> 00:36:11,600
Speaker 1: She does like costume makeup and look like them.

831
00:36:11,680 --> 00:36:14,399
Speaker 2: I saw that, I love, I love.

832
00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:19,120
Speaker 1: I have followed her, yes, because exactly be a to

833
00:36:19,160 --> 00:36:22,080
Speaker 1: be a mirror for you are human people, forget that?

834
00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:23,640
Speaker 2: Do you still read the comments? Like?

835
00:36:23,680 --> 00:36:25,480
Speaker 1: Are you like a comment reader? Are you just be like,

836
00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:26,400
Speaker 1: I'm not looking at this.

837
00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:29,240
Speaker 2: It depends on the time of the month. Yeah.

838
00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:31,279
Speaker 7: I learned the other day that women feel like a

839
00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:33,439
Speaker 7: normal human being for like three days out of the month.

840
00:36:33,480 --> 00:36:35,160
Speaker 7: So if it's like one of those three days, maybe

841
00:36:35,200 --> 00:36:37,040
Speaker 7: all read the comments. But other than that, probably not.

842
00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:39,719
Speaker 7: Probably not because people, Yeah, people really be having me

843
00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:40,680
Speaker 7: fucked up on the internet.

844
00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:43,919
Speaker 2: I don't want to ruin my day, my month's my energy.

845
00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:46,160
Speaker 7: I'm gona post my business and go. You can check

846
00:36:46,160 --> 00:36:47,640
Speaker 7: my dms with people that I know. But like, I'm

847
00:36:47,680 --> 00:36:48,719
Speaker 7: not really reading too much.

848
00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:52,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, there, go ahead, No one, there's certain things reading.

849
00:36:56,880 --> 00:36:59,400
Speaker 1: I'm always searching because now I feel like it used

850
00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:01,000
Speaker 1: to be Twitter, where I would sarch our names a

851
00:37:01,040 --> 00:37:02,600
Speaker 1: lot and see what people are saying. But I feel

852
00:37:02,640 --> 00:37:05,200
Speaker 1: like Twitter is like people don't really be checked. Now,

853
00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:07,799
Speaker 1: it's like TikTok. I'm always searching things on TikTok because

854
00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:10,480
Speaker 1: people are yes, because people like to make think pieces

855
00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:13,600
Speaker 1: and make something be a thing everybody. And what I've realized,

856
00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:17,040
Speaker 1: do y'all know who Mikayla is, the makeup girl from

857
00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:20,000
Speaker 1: Boston Nicolaeria.

858
00:37:19,640 --> 00:37:21,719
Speaker 2: Okay, something like that. She is like a she.

859
00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:26,040
Speaker 1: Has like seventeen million followers, huge makeup girl, right, and

860
00:37:26,400 --> 00:37:28,160
Speaker 1: there's this thing going on tick And I'm gonna be

861
00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:30,719
Speaker 1: very careful with this topic, y'all because there's a thing

862
00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:33,320
Speaker 1: right now where they're getting mad and influencers for showing

863
00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:35,440
Speaker 1: their wealth and the things that they built, like she

864
00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:35,680
Speaker 1: got it.

865
00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:37,080
Speaker 2: They did that to Jacqueline Hill.

866
00:37:37,160 --> 00:37:39,120
Speaker 1: She was like, why am I not yes, Yes, Why

867
00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:40,920
Speaker 1: am I not connecting with y'all? They're like, because you

868
00:37:40,960 --> 00:37:43,200
Speaker 1: keep showing us your chanel bags and people can't eat.

869
00:37:43,680 --> 00:37:48,720
Speaker 1: And Mikayla got this literally, that's what somebody said. Mickayla

870
00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:52,680
Speaker 1: got this closet built out chanel bags, air mess. I

871
00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:56,040
Speaker 1: mean it's closed for days. And somebody was like, well,

872
00:37:56,080 --> 00:37:57,920
Speaker 1: I could barely afford lunch today, but thank you for

873
00:37:57,960 --> 00:38:01,320
Speaker 1: showing me your closet. Now there's a will and swore

874
00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:04,640
Speaker 1: to that because I'm like, on one end McKayla.

875
00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:06,040
Speaker 2: Like you said, she came from.

876
00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:09,360
Speaker 1: Humble beginnings, worked for what she had. But at the

877
00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:12,160
Speaker 1: same time, it's like, yeah, camp people are dying, you know.

878
00:38:12,320 --> 00:38:13,279
Speaker 2: So it's like.

879
00:38:15,440 --> 00:38:17,880
Speaker 7: It's it's a delicate line that you have to balance.

880
00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:19,320
Speaker 7: But that's first of all, that's the industry that you

881
00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:21,520
Speaker 7: choose to be in. She's an influencer.

882
00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:25,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, girl, she'd be like Kim.

883
00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:32,120
Speaker 3: Definitely seen her, so I'm gonna copy.

884
00:38:32,160 --> 00:38:34,360
Speaker 7: But I did see the Jacqueline of it all, the

885
00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:37,520
Speaker 7: Redhead girl, the same thing. And I will say this though,

886
00:38:38,120 --> 00:38:40,680
Speaker 7: with my own brands and businesses, I have never been

887
00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:43,080
Speaker 7: in a position where I felt comfortable and I'm trying

888
00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:44,080
Speaker 7: to get more comfortable with this.

889
00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:48,640
Speaker 2: No, you never seen her. I don't really be on

890
00:38:48,680 --> 00:38:51,000
Speaker 2: TikTok like that. That's her platform, TikTok Yeah, and she

891
00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:52,120
Speaker 2: has like seventeen million.

892
00:38:52,200 --> 00:38:53,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've never been on I don't really be on

893
00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:55,560
Speaker 1: TikTok okay, But just a circle around point.

894
00:38:55,560 --> 00:38:56,359
Speaker 2: I'm gonna let you finish.

895
00:38:56,440 --> 00:38:58,280
Speaker 1: I was just saying a lot of times I searched

896
00:38:58,280 --> 00:39:00,719
Speaker 1: that because I realized a lot of people they don't

897
00:39:00,719 --> 00:39:02,480
Speaker 1: have any following, they don't have nothing, but when they

898
00:39:02,520 --> 00:39:06,360
Speaker 1: hashtag her name and talk crap about it gets attention,

899
00:39:06,600 --> 00:39:09,000
Speaker 1: So it's kind of like do you really care or

900
00:39:09,160 --> 00:39:11,360
Speaker 1: are you just trying to go viral? So that's just

901
00:39:11,400 --> 00:39:13,239
Speaker 1: like I get it when people protest for things, they

902
00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:15,040
Speaker 1: want to stand up for something. But I'm like, I'm

903
00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:17,120
Speaker 1: looking at your page because if you're trying to get

904
00:39:17,120 --> 00:39:20,120
Speaker 1: a message out, you're not finna hashtag nothing. You gonna

905
00:39:20,200 --> 00:39:21,640
Speaker 1: you want to connect to your audience of who is

906
00:39:21,640 --> 00:39:23,520
Speaker 1: gonna connect we why are you hashtagging her now?

907
00:39:23,560 --> 00:39:25,160
Speaker 2: Because they don't have an audience and they're trying to

908
00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:25,719
Speaker 2: establish it.

909
00:39:25,760 --> 00:39:27,960
Speaker 7: People think on TikTok, if you put the green screen

910
00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:29,799
Speaker 7: behind you, like and you talk in front of it, that.

911
00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:30,720
Speaker 2: Now you're a reporter.

912
00:39:30,960 --> 00:39:33,279
Speaker 7: Oh my god, you think that what you're saying is

913
00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:35,839
Speaker 7: fact when actually it's smoking mirrors. You actually don't even

914
00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:37,240
Speaker 7: know what you're talking about. You're trying to get engagement.

915
00:39:37,400 --> 00:39:39,400
Speaker 7: So I see right through that. It's unfortunate that the

916
00:39:39,440 --> 00:39:42,840
Speaker 7: mass majority probably doesn't though unfortunately people don't read anymore.

917
00:39:43,520 --> 00:39:47,920
Speaker 2: It's an epidemic. But people need to read more. You

918
00:39:47,960 --> 00:39:54,719
Speaker 2: don't read. I need you to read more. That's better.

919
00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:55,560
Speaker 1: That's better than nothing.

920
00:39:55,719 --> 00:39:58,560
Speaker 3: Okay, is cool, but I feel like you need to

921
00:39:58,600 --> 00:40:00,759
Speaker 3: really get in the field though. You need some such

922
00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:04,640
Speaker 3: grass like people need to start back reading. Please you

923
00:40:05,080 --> 00:40:08,760
Speaker 3: on in the news, like you to go to see articles.

924
00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:10,560
Speaker 1: You do watch the news still, you know I love

925
00:40:10,600 --> 00:40:11,880
Speaker 1: the news because news is missy.

926
00:40:11,960 --> 00:40:15,440
Speaker 2: You need to read the art, don't read the headlines.

927
00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:17,000
Speaker 1: Now. I do agree with that.

928
00:40:17,200 --> 00:40:19,160
Speaker 2: Please click the link and read.

929
00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:22,279
Speaker 1: This is me pleading to going in on j D

930
00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:26,040
Speaker 1: the other day, and I actually fact what you were saying.

931
00:40:26,360 --> 00:40:28,640
Speaker 2: People have too much over sharing.

932
00:40:29,200 --> 00:40:31,120
Speaker 7: I think that there is a delicate dance of being

933
00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:33,640
Speaker 7: an influencer content creator. I only want to see so

934
00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:36,040
Speaker 7: many unboxings and I got bags.

935
00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:37,160
Speaker 2: I don't want to watch.

936
00:40:39,239 --> 00:40:39,399
Speaker 1: Now.

937
00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:42,279
Speaker 7: I only want to see so many of that. Let's

938
00:40:42,280 --> 00:40:44,640
Speaker 7: get more. And also it's not even engaging or entertaining.

939
00:40:44,960 --> 00:40:48,120
Speaker 7: It does come off braggadocious. You do have to read

940
00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:51,080
Speaker 7: the room bang people. Budget cuts are happening. People can't

941
00:40:51,080 --> 00:40:53,520
Speaker 7: afford meals for their children. Yeah, like we need to

942
00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:55,680
Speaker 7: be aware, hyper aware of that, because if you're not

943
00:40:55,680 --> 00:40:58,200
Speaker 7: posting about that kind of stuff too. I really pissed

944
00:40:58,239 --> 00:41:00,640
Speaker 7: off at you for showing me your closet tour with

945
00:41:00,719 --> 00:41:01,920
Speaker 7: all your bags and your shoes all the time.

946
00:41:01,960 --> 00:41:04,759
Speaker 2: It's just not necessary. But it's full of she and

947
00:41:05,680 --> 00:41:09,920
Speaker 2: but you know, but I agree.

948
00:41:10,120 --> 00:41:13,480
Speaker 3: I agree with cayleab because same like I'll be getting

949
00:41:13,480 --> 00:41:16,879
Speaker 3: pieces and stuff and I.

950
00:41:16,440 --> 00:41:24,600
Speaker 2: Anyway correct seriously the same. I agree with you, like

951
00:41:24,640 --> 00:41:38,040
Speaker 2: I'll be having purses and shoes. It's cool, y'all. Sorry,

952
00:41:38,040 --> 00:41:40,480
Speaker 2: sorryce in a while, it's fine. It's cool.

953
00:41:40,560 --> 00:41:42,080
Speaker 3: Like every once in a while you get something you

954
00:41:42,120 --> 00:41:44,600
Speaker 3: want to unboxy, you're excited about it. But if that's

955
00:41:44,719 --> 00:41:47,360
Speaker 3: all that your page has, and especially for me it

956
00:41:47,480 --> 00:41:52,799
Speaker 3: more so me the people like you're not married, you don't.

957
00:41:52,920 --> 00:41:58,759
Speaker 2: Have a job, what do you do? I am I'm

958
00:41:58,760 --> 00:41:59,120
Speaker 2: not going to.

959
00:41:59,120 --> 00:42:01,239
Speaker 7: Say that, but she needs to normalized, by the way,

960
00:42:01,480 --> 00:42:03,320
Speaker 7: So I just think reading to normalize.

961
00:42:02,880 --> 00:42:08,759
Speaker 2: Whatever real perpect, we need to stop shaving people. But

962
00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:09,959
Speaker 2: my thing is, I would rather.

963
00:42:09,880 --> 00:42:13,400
Speaker 3: You box and be like, you know, this is my

964
00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:16,279
Speaker 3: airman's unboxing today. I saw a pussy for it, you.

965
00:42:16,320 --> 00:42:21,840
Speaker 1: Know today, I would be like, they're gonna.

966
00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:25,879
Speaker 2: Go heck girl, that's right for it.

967
00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:29,920
Speaker 3: I would prefer that the honesty O we like, because

968
00:42:30,160 --> 00:42:33,680
Speaker 3: I do feel like with a younger generation, our generation

969
00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:37,120
Speaker 3: be influencing them, like yeah to make them feel like, oh,

970
00:42:37,160 --> 00:42:38,360
Speaker 3: if I don't have these.

971
00:42:38,120 --> 00:42:41,400
Speaker 2: Things, I'm not living how I should be living. I'm behind.

972
00:42:41,840 --> 00:42:45,759
Speaker 3: But then in reality, you don't really know what they're doing.

973
00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:48,200
Speaker 1: I A would say, if you don't want a girl

974
00:42:48,360 --> 00:42:50,279
Speaker 1: or a guy's page they don't have, you don't you

975
00:42:50,280 --> 00:42:52,560
Speaker 1: can't tell what they do for a living, then they

976
00:42:52,640 --> 00:42:53,360
Speaker 1: probably doing.

977
00:42:53,200 --> 00:42:56,080
Speaker 2: Something illegal or something that's not. It ain't illegal, but.

978
00:42:58,480 --> 00:43:02,959
Speaker 1: What out you know what? But I do think though

979
00:43:03,080 --> 00:43:05,640
Speaker 1: I do, I'm like on the I'm on both ends

980
00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:08,320
Speaker 1: of it. Like, I get it, Kim, people are dying,

981
00:43:08,360 --> 00:43:10,799
Speaker 1: but I also feel like if somebody worked hard for

982
00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:15,560
Speaker 1: it or whatever, it's motivating for me, I'm like, is

983
00:43:15,560 --> 00:43:21,479
Speaker 1: that a ghosting here? So far's like what kind of show?

984
00:43:22,719 --> 00:43:23,279
Speaker 2: Trying to hate you?

985
00:43:23,920 --> 00:43:31,879
Speaker 1: For the man that bud God?

986
00:43:32,120 --> 00:43:33,920
Speaker 2: I hit her one time and I looked at.

987
00:43:35,680 --> 00:43:37,840
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh, she's like cut it.

988
00:43:42,000 --> 00:43:50,520
Speaker 2: We need to go.

989
00:43:48,760 --> 00:43:53,360
Speaker 1: Anyway. But anyways, I say that to say because I

990
00:43:53,400 --> 00:43:56,560
Speaker 1: think I'm on both ends of it, right. I've always

991
00:43:56,640 --> 00:43:59,360
Speaker 1: consumed I am a content consumer, right since I was

992
00:43:59,360 --> 00:44:02,360
Speaker 1: a tiny top. I always say this, I was not

993
00:44:02,440 --> 00:44:05,200
Speaker 1: the girl that was watching like Rugrats and things like that.

994
00:44:05,280 --> 00:44:08,880
Speaker 1: I was watching Jerry Springer. I was watching Sally Jesse Raphael.

995
00:44:09,360 --> 00:44:11,600
Speaker 1: I love to hear people talk and see how I'm

996
00:44:11,600 --> 00:44:15,960
Speaker 1: so interested because everybody's lives are so different. So even

997
00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:18,759
Speaker 1: in the beginning of Real Housewives franchises, it was like,

998
00:44:18,800 --> 00:44:22,560
Speaker 1: You're watching these rich women be extravagant. So for me,

999
00:44:23,160 --> 00:44:26,760
Speaker 1: I find it motivating. I find it interesting. Like you said,

1000
00:44:26,760 --> 00:44:28,560
Speaker 1: I wonder like I'm always like, oh, how did you

1001
00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:32,880
Speaker 1: get this lifestyle? Or but I get it on the

1002
00:44:32,960 --> 00:44:35,399
Speaker 1: other end. But at the same time, it's like, why

1003
00:44:35,440 --> 00:44:37,360
Speaker 1: can't people just live their lives, Like if this is

1004
00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:39,520
Speaker 1: her life on the daily and this is what she's done, umningan,

1005
00:44:39,600 --> 00:44:42,160
Speaker 1: why can't she show her life or things like that?

1006
00:44:42,200 --> 00:44:44,120
Speaker 2: You know, So I get it on both sides, you

1007
00:44:44,120 --> 00:44:44,520
Speaker 2: know what I.

1008
00:44:44,400 --> 00:44:47,880
Speaker 1: Mean, Like, I just I think everybody is like scrutinizing

1009
00:44:48,840 --> 00:44:52,760
Speaker 1: the Mikayla's or the the well I'm not gonna.

1010
00:44:52,520 --> 00:44:54,440
Speaker 2: Say Jackie, Jackie.

1011
00:44:54,520 --> 00:44:55,920
Speaker 1: Oh and I hate that.

1012
00:44:56,360 --> 00:44:59,000
Speaker 7: But this is the key to you, like being an influence.

1013
00:44:59,000 --> 00:45:00,359
Speaker 7: It's a business at the end of the day. Yeah,

1014
00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:02,880
Speaker 7: so you can't take things too personal, right. I do

1015
00:45:02,960 --> 00:45:06,000
Speaker 7: think that it's aspirational. It's very aspirational to watch somebody

1016
00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:09,120
Speaker 7: go from point A to point D in their life

1017
00:45:09,160 --> 00:45:11,680
Speaker 7: and see this amazing trajectory and see them be able

1018
00:45:11,680 --> 00:45:13,799
Speaker 7: to get really nice bags and closet tours and all

1019
00:45:13,840 --> 00:45:15,680
Speaker 7: of the things. But I also think that it's important

1020
00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:18,919
Speaker 7: for people in this position to remember what got you here.

1021
00:45:19,000 --> 00:45:20,920
Speaker 7: So like the Jackline girl, the Redhead girl, I saw

1022
00:45:20,960 --> 00:45:23,399
Speaker 7: a video recently where she was like, let me get

1023
00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:25,440
Speaker 7: back to like the root of what even brought her

1024
00:45:25,600 --> 00:45:27,520
Speaker 7: in the first place, and people were going raving about

1025
00:45:27,520 --> 00:45:28,880
Speaker 7: it in the comments because it was a simple like

1026
00:45:28,920 --> 00:45:32,440
Speaker 7: get ready with me, because it's like, girl, don't forget this,

1027
00:45:33,719 --> 00:45:35,759
Speaker 7: Like we of course want to see you succeed because

1028
00:45:35,800 --> 00:45:37,239
Speaker 7: it makes me feel like, okay, if you can do

1029
00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:39,160
Speaker 7: what I can do, I for sure want to support that.

1030
00:45:39,200 --> 00:45:40,360
Speaker 2: I'm not no hater bitch.

1031
00:45:41,120 --> 00:45:44,560
Speaker 7: But every day and every day a refrigerator tour and

1032
00:45:44,600 --> 00:45:48,200
Speaker 7: it's like some opulent fridge full of just yeah, And

1033
00:45:48,239 --> 00:45:51,160
Speaker 7: it's like, girl, for real, people people are.

1034
00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:54,080
Speaker 4: People I can't eat right now, so you have to

1035
00:45:54,080 --> 00:45:54,680
Speaker 4: be aware of that.

1036
00:45:54,760 --> 00:45:57,600
Speaker 7: I feel a little weird sometimes my managers always like

1037
00:45:57,600 --> 00:45:59,520
Speaker 7: like LTK, and you need to get on your tag

1038
00:45:59,560 --> 00:46:02,239
Speaker 7: game and your office, Like I'm gonna feel bad when

1039
00:46:02,280 --> 00:46:02,760
Speaker 7: I tag.

1040
00:46:02,600 --> 00:46:09,279
Speaker 2: Everything in this fit and it's just you know, I

1041
00:46:09,280 --> 00:46:10,200
Speaker 2: don't feel like it's in there.

1042
00:46:10,400 --> 00:46:12,480
Speaker 7: So then the caveat to that is like, Okay, let

1043
00:46:12,560 --> 00:46:14,960
Speaker 7: me tag all my designer things, but also let.

1044
00:46:14,800 --> 00:46:17,239
Speaker 2: Me tag some dupes for y'all. Okay, I like that,

1045
00:46:18,520 --> 00:46:19,640
Speaker 2: let me hook you up, you know what I mean.

1046
00:46:19,760 --> 00:46:20,680
Speaker 2: Just be congressant of that.

1047
00:46:21,280 --> 00:46:23,520
Speaker 1: I agree, like I said, for me, I guess it's

1048
00:46:23,520 --> 00:46:26,600
Speaker 1: always been motivating. But like like I said, I can

1049
00:46:26,640 --> 00:46:29,160
Speaker 1: see the other side of it.

1050
00:46:29,200 --> 00:46:29,839
Speaker 2: But I don't know.

1051
00:46:29,920 --> 00:46:33,160
Speaker 1: I just feel like we can't attack these people for

1052
00:46:33,280 --> 00:46:37,320
Speaker 1: everybody's circumstances, and a lot of times when people give back,

1053
00:46:37,640 --> 00:46:39,480
Speaker 1: they don't want to be performative about it, and they

1054
00:46:39,520 --> 00:46:42,360
Speaker 1: maybe don't want to post this. I had a situation

1055
00:46:42,520 --> 00:46:45,600
Speaker 1: recently where I was posting something about like me decorating

1056
00:46:45,640 --> 00:46:49,160
Speaker 1: my house or something. And mind you, I a lot

1057
00:46:49,160 --> 00:46:51,000
Speaker 1: of people will DM me ask me for things, and

1058
00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:52,479
Speaker 1: I do it for them, but I don't. I don't

1059
00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:54,960
Speaker 1: blast because what if you're in a moment of need.

1060
00:46:55,160 --> 00:46:57,279
Speaker 1: There's been plenty of times where I had to ask her,

1061
00:46:57,680 --> 00:47:00,000
Speaker 1: ask my sister asked that they never like, oh yeah,

1062
00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:03,120
Speaker 1: I gave lex some money. I gave Lex this, and so.

1063
00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:04,040
Speaker 2: I'm the same way.

1064
00:47:04,120 --> 00:47:06,440
Speaker 1: But this girl, she was like, hey, Lex, you probably

1065
00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:08,239
Speaker 1: don't remember me, but a long time ago, I asked

1066
00:47:08,239 --> 00:47:10,480
Speaker 1: you for some money for some groceries. And it literally

1067
00:47:10,560 --> 00:47:12,120
Speaker 1: changed my life because I was able to do this

1068
00:47:12,200 --> 00:47:14,120
Speaker 1: and do that. Went to a job interview and I've

1069
00:47:14,120 --> 00:47:16,280
Speaker 1: been working for two years, and she was just like saying,

1070
00:47:16,320 --> 00:47:18,000
Speaker 1: the snowball effect.

1071
00:47:18,280 --> 00:47:20,719
Speaker 2: Okay, Paul, telling this is someone that DMG, like you

1072
00:47:20,760 --> 00:47:23,640
Speaker 2: didn't know, Yeah, she did me. That is beautiful.

1073
00:47:23,680 --> 00:47:25,879
Speaker 1: And she was like, hey Lex, can I just need

1074
00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:27,839
Speaker 1: some money. I need to eat. And I was just like, girl,

1075
00:47:27,880 --> 00:47:29,800
Speaker 1: go get some groceries, like I get it, you know,

1076
00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:31,120
Speaker 1: And I sent her some.

1077
00:47:31,320 --> 00:47:32,319
Speaker 2: This is like two years ago.

1078
00:47:32,600 --> 00:47:35,240
Speaker 1: And she left a comment under one of my house pictures.

1079
00:47:35,239 --> 00:47:36,640
Speaker 1: She was like, girl, I just want to tell you

1080
00:47:36,880 --> 00:47:39,480
Speaker 1: I've been working at this apartment complex for like two years.

1081
00:47:39,520 --> 00:47:40,399
Speaker 2: I'm back on top.

1082
00:47:40,840 --> 00:47:43,239
Speaker 1: I'm living like she was like selling me, like thank you,

1083
00:47:43,280 --> 00:47:45,800
Speaker 1: because sometimes things have a snowball effect.

1084
00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:48,759
Speaker 2: I'm telling you. When I was in Houston, remember.

1085
00:47:48,520 --> 00:47:50,560
Speaker 1: We worked at that club and it just shut down

1086
00:47:51,480 --> 00:47:54,080
Speaker 1: prime time and it just shut down. They didn't pay

1087
00:47:54,120 --> 00:47:57,000
Speaker 1: me for two weeks of work. And that snowballed me

1088
00:47:57,280 --> 00:47:59,680
Speaker 1: into I know it sounds crazy, it literally snowballed me

1089
00:47:59,719 --> 00:48:01,960
Speaker 1: to be broke for like two or three years because

1090
00:48:01,960 --> 00:48:04,719
Speaker 1: I got so off track that quickly you are one

1091
00:48:04,760 --> 00:48:07,200
Speaker 1: pay check away from your life sucking up you are.

1092
00:48:07,520 --> 00:48:09,200
Speaker 1: So when she DM me and she was like you

1093
00:48:09,239 --> 00:48:11,319
Speaker 1: help me and this and that. You know, so it's

1094
00:48:11,360 --> 00:48:13,319
Speaker 1: like that's why I say, It's like sometimes a lot

1095
00:48:13,360 --> 00:48:15,879
Speaker 1: of these people they are helping people, you just don't

1096
00:48:15,960 --> 00:48:16,439
Speaker 1: see it.

1097
00:48:16,440 --> 00:48:20,759
Speaker 3: It's weird because people definitely will make you feel bad

1098
00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:23,640
Speaker 3: if you post about it, but then if you're not posting,

1099
00:48:23,800 --> 00:48:26,040
Speaker 3: then they'll they're like, oh, well, what are you doing.

1100
00:48:25,880 --> 00:48:27,000
Speaker 2: For other people? Right?

1101
00:48:27,280 --> 00:48:29,919
Speaker 3: And that happened to me recently too. I actually this

1102
00:48:30,160 --> 00:48:33,200
Speaker 3: girl who is my old best friend from middle school,

1103
00:48:33,480 --> 00:48:36,239
Speaker 3: her little sister, she just graduated from SFA. It was

1104
00:48:36,360 --> 00:48:39,960
Speaker 3: my alma water and she's a teacher now, and she

1105
00:48:40,040 --> 00:48:41,799
Speaker 3: had a registry on Amazon and she was like, I

1106
00:48:41,840 --> 00:48:43,680
Speaker 3: have all of this stuff. I'm a big fan of

1107
00:48:43,719 --> 00:48:47,120
Speaker 3: poor minds. Can you buy me some stuff for my classroom?

1108
00:48:47,400 --> 00:48:49,239
Speaker 3: So I bought her maybe like three hundred dollars worth

1109
00:48:49,280 --> 00:48:51,160
Speaker 3: of stuff, never posted about it, never said anything. I

1110
00:48:51,160 --> 00:48:53,240
Speaker 3: was actually telling shee about this like two weeks ago,

1111
00:48:53,719 --> 00:48:56,680
Speaker 3: and she was just so thankful. So it's like a

1112
00:48:56,719 --> 00:48:58,919
Speaker 3: lot of the time, behind the scenes, people are doing

1113
00:48:58,960 --> 00:49:01,440
Speaker 3: things right never know and we don't.

1114
00:49:02,000 --> 00:49:03,640
Speaker 2: But I also feel like we don't have.

1115
00:49:03,520 --> 00:49:05,600
Speaker 1: To say anything.

1116
00:49:05,680 --> 00:49:08,200
Speaker 3: People like, hey, I post not burking, or if I

1117
00:49:08,280 --> 00:49:09,600
Speaker 3: post my new chanel.

1118
00:49:09,360 --> 00:49:13,280
Speaker 2: Bag, why do I got approve these people some money today?

1119
00:49:13,880 --> 00:49:14,960
Speaker 1: Everybody we are.

1120
00:49:14,840 --> 00:49:16,839
Speaker 7: Living in I don't even know what. We didn't call

1121
00:49:16,840 --> 00:49:19,319
Speaker 7: this anymore assimilation people. You think you are the judge

1122
00:49:19,360 --> 00:49:21,400
Speaker 7: and the jury. Yeah, I got to prove ship to

1123
00:49:21,480 --> 00:49:23,720
Speaker 7: none of these people. And more people need to adopt

1124
00:49:23,719 --> 00:49:26,000
Speaker 7: that mindset. If more people operated like that, because at

1125
00:49:26,000 --> 00:49:28,880
Speaker 7: the end of the day, sure we're the talent or

1126
00:49:28,880 --> 00:49:30,560
Speaker 7: we're the the person that they're looking to.

1127
00:49:30,640 --> 00:49:31,600
Speaker 2: But also, as someone.

1128
00:49:31,400 --> 00:49:34,279
Speaker 7: Who consumes content, I don't ever open my phone and

1129
00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:36,000
Speaker 7: get to judging in the mother fucker left and right.

1130
00:49:36,040 --> 00:49:38,839
Speaker 2: I'm not scrolling to judge you in your lifestyle. Take

1131
00:49:38,840 --> 00:49:42,040
Speaker 2: a fucking break, go to work, touch grass, live your life.

1132
00:49:42,320 --> 00:49:44,560
Speaker 2: You are not the judge, the jury. You are not God,

1133
00:49:44,680 --> 00:49:46,799
Speaker 2: my mama, my sister, or my friend.

1134
00:49:46,840 --> 00:49:49,759
Speaker 7: For real, right, how about you live your life?

1135
00:49:50,239 --> 00:49:51,640
Speaker 4: Are you donating because it's not.

1136
00:49:53,160 --> 00:49:55,800
Speaker 2: You know, why are we doing like, let's focus on you, babe.

1137
00:49:55,920 --> 00:49:57,600
Speaker 2: Why do we have to prove these things?

1138
00:49:58,360 --> 00:50:02,200
Speaker 3: Definitely feel that way like you, because you should be

1139
00:50:02,280 --> 00:50:03,279
Speaker 3: able to post.

1140
00:50:03,960 --> 00:50:06,640
Speaker 2: And that really you do stand on them.

1141
00:50:06,680 --> 00:50:08,399
Speaker 7: I would never if she if that is her thing,

1142
00:50:08,440 --> 00:50:14,600
Speaker 7: that's her niche like Jackie, she has lavishly Jackie because exactly.

1143
00:50:13,360 --> 00:50:14,760
Speaker 2: Because the lifetime listening.

1144
00:50:16,760 --> 00:50:18,759
Speaker 1: That I have earned, that I've worked and fought tooth

1145
00:50:18,760 --> 00:50:20,319
Speaker 1: and nail for, I'm going to post what I want

1146
00:50:20,320 --> 00:50:22,040
Speaker 1: to post. As matter of fact, I'm going to make

1147
00:50:22,080 --> 00:50:25,920
Speaker 1: a whole other, separate brand with hundreds and thousands of

1148
00:50:25,960 --> 00:50:27,440
Speaker 1: followers to show y'all that not only.

1149
00:50:27,320 --> 00:50:29,279
Speaker 2: Am I posting this, but people want to see this

1150
00:50:29,360 --> 00:50:31,120
Speaker 2: content too. So yeah, do what you want to do.

1151
00:50:31,520 --> 00:50:41,680
Speaker 7: Forget Jackie was black, because you are so mean, try

1152
00:50:41,719 --> 00:50:42,600
Speaker 7: to make us feel bad.

1153
00:50:42,600 --> 00:50:44,400
Speaker 3: But I mean, if anything, I feel like it should,

1154
00:50:44,600 --> 00:50:47,040
Speaker 3: especially with us being minorities, like with us being black

1155
00:50:47,080 --> 00:50:50,520
Speaker 3: women in America, if anything, it should be inspirational, celebrated,

1156
00:50:50,560 --> 00:50:53,080
Speaker 3: show people, Okay, this is what we can do is

1157
00:50:53,560 --> 00:50:57,120
Speaker 3: put your head down and you focus and you work hard, hustle, grind.

1158
00:50:57,480 --> 00:51:00,239
Speaker 3: You can accomplish this as well. But that's why isn't

1159
00:51:00,280 --> 00:51:01,320
Speaker 3: it intimidates people?

1160
00:51:01,560 --> 00:51:04,000
Speaker 7: But I think it has to be a balance of Fine,

1161
00:51:04,120 --> 00:51:07,360
Speaker 7: you can share the monetary things that you are also achieving,

1162
00:51:07,400 --> 00:51:09,520
Speaker 7: but you need to also show something else that has

1163
00:51:09,560 --> 00:51:12,160
Speaker 7: more value than a bag or a person. Right, whatever

1164
00:51:12,200 --> 00:51:14,000
Speaker 7: that is, whatever is in your walk, whatever is in

1165
00:51:14,000 --> 00:51:14,600
Speaker 7: your journey.

1166
00:51:14,719 --> 00:51:16,399
Speaker 2: But it can't just be bags and shoes all the time.

1167
00:51:16,440 --> 00:51:19,160
Speaker 2: I agree, I is real.

1168
00:51:19,320 --> 00:51:21,160
Speaker 1: So it's like you necessarily don't have to show you

1169
00:51:21,280 --> 00:51:22,439
Speaker 1: giving money, but you could.

1170
00:51:22,719 --> 00:51:23,040
Speaker 2: You know.

1171
00:51:25,360 --> 00:51:29,279
Speaker 1: That people, right, there's things that you can do to show, like, hey, y'all,

1172
00:51:29,280 --> 00:51:31,879
Speaker 1: go donate here. Hey, this is a company I've worked

1173
00:51:31,880 --> 00:51:34,160
Speaker 1: with before. It's like things like that. But I think

1174
00:51:34,239 --> 00:51:36,920
Speaker 1: like it's a good balance. I don't mind seeing a little,

1175
00:51:37,120 --> 00:51:43,879
Speaker 1: you know, closet that motivates a little right, y'all, y'all

1176
00:51:43,880 --> 00:51:45,759
Speaker 1: know we got off topic, but we don't go to

1177
00:51:45,800 --> 00:51:48,200
Speaker 1: topic to read. Yeah, I'm ready, Okay, go ahead.

1178
00:51:49,120 --> 00:51:49,400
Speaker 2: Not me.

1179
00:51:49,560 --> 00:51:53,359
Speaker 1: I'm a little drum man.

1180
00:51:53,640 --> 00:51:55,600
Speaker 2: So it's like I'm not the bottom of my ticket.

1181
00:51:55,640 --> 00:51:58,800
Speaker 2: I look good. Yeah, lets need to get the bottle.

1182
00:51:58,960 --> 00:52:02,319
Speaker 1: Okay, you introduced game. Okay, I'm gonna get the bottle

1183
00:52:02,360 --> 00:52:04,279
Speaker 1: while you introduce the game.

1184
00:52:04,920 --> 00:52:09,040
Speaker 2: I mean, you have to shot to tell me the difference,

1185
00:52:09,040 --> 00:52:12,640
Speaker 2: because I will take the shot. Shoot your shot.

1186
00:52:12,680 --> 00:52:14,800
Speaker 3: Have you ever boldly made a pass to the men

1187
00:52:14,920 --> 00:52:16,799
Speaker 3: and he totally missed what she was trying to do.

1188
00:52:18,000 --> 00:52:20,160
Speaker 2: I wouldn't even think on this, but I will just

1189
00:52:20,160 --> 00:52:22,640
Speaker 2: to shoot your shot energy. I am a shot shooter.

1190
00:52:23,800 --> 00:52:26,000
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh all the time. That's my bo drink.

1191
00:52:26,080 --> 00:52:28,360
Speaker 2: Before I was just listening.

1192
00:52:28,440 --> 00:52:29,920
Speaker 1: Oh, I was researching, y'all, that's what it was. And

1193
00:52:29,960 --> 00:52:32,200
Speaker 1: I saw the interview that y'all did with Kadeen.

1194
00:52:32,000 --> 00:52:34,359
Speaker 7: Yes, yes, and they gave the advice of like, send

1195
00:52:34,360 --> 00:52:36,200
Speaker 7: a drink, and I was like, oh, I'm gonna put

1196
00:52:36,280 --> 00:52:38,000
Speaker 7: that in my pocket because I've never sent a drink

1197
00:52:38,000 --> 00:52:40,680
Speaker 7: to a man. But I'm I am a You walk

1198
00:52:40,719 --> 00:52:42,560
Speaker 7: in the room and I'm interested in you. I'm going

1199
00:52:42,640 --> 00:52:48,000
Speaker 7: to stare at you until you feel I'm gonna stare

1200
00:52:48,040 --> 00:52:50,839
Speaker 7: at you until you notice.

1201
00:52:53,520 --> 00:52:55,520
Speaker 2: I like that because I'm like that too. I will

1202
00:52:55,560 --> 00:52:57,600
Speaker 2: look because I feel like if you see me looking,

1203
00:52:57,760 --> 00:53:00,760
Speaker 2: you love, You're gonna figure it out. But I'm not gonna.

1204
00:53:00,800 --> 00:53:02,320
Speaker 2: I don't go over across the room.

1205
00:53:02,680 --> 00:53:05,240
Speaker 7: But so y'all got that getting older, Yeah, I'm gonna

1206
00:53:05,239 --> 00:53:06,120
Speaker 7: go cool with you.

1207
00:53:06,320 --> 00:53:08,600
Speaker 2: I have the ego is gone then at this point

1208
00:53:08,600 --> 00:53:09,120
Speaker 2: the same.

1209
00:53:09,520 --> 00:53:13,520
Speaker 1: But I think it's because y'all got that like sexy sultry.

1210
00:53:13,560 --> 00:53:14,680
Speaker 2: Look what do you think you got?

1211
00:53:14,760 --> 00:53:22,359
Speaker 1: I'd be like this, that's what I'm doing.

1212
00:53:23,800 --> 00:53:29,640
Speaker 2: She's yeah, advise not to do that. Keep your hands.

1213
00:53:29,680 --> 00:53:33,320
Speaker 2: This is a beautiful girl. But she is like, you

1214
00:53:33,360 --> 00:53:34,480
Speaker 2: know if you even if you.

1215
00:53:35,400 --> 00:53:37,360
Speaker 7: Also this is they made this know to you, like

1216
00:53:37,400 --> 00:53:39,719
Speaker 7: the whole like, walk to the bathroom, think you know,

1217
00:53:39,760 --> 00:53:43,480
Speaker 7: make your presence, do do a lap lap, girly, that's

1218
00:53:43,520 --> 00:53:46,239
Speaker 7: a little intimidated. That's a good starter point, like do

1219
00:53:46,280 --> 00:53:49,399
Speaker 7: a lap go to the restroom, come back and see

1220
00:53:49,440 --> 00:53:51,399
Speaker 7: if they speak. Also, I think it's a good test

1221
00:53:51,440 --> 00:53:53,520
Speaker 7: because if I walk past you and I make eye

1222
00:53:53,520 --> 00:53:55,440
Speaker 7: contact with you, I make it clear that I'm interested.

1223
00:53:55,760 --> 00:53:58,800
Speaker 2: You don't say nothing to me. You're probably not my type. Baby.

1224
00:53:59,239 --> 00:54:02,399
Speaker 7: It's scary, but sometimes I feel like that I need

1225
00:54:02,400 --> 00:54:04,880
Speaker 7: a man that's going to press me out because my personality,

1226
00:54:04,960 --> 00:54:08,799
Speaker 7: yeah is a little whatever, intimidating as loser.

1227
00:54:08,520 --> 00:54:11,120
Speaker 2: Man like that, But I like a man that will

1228
00:54:11,200 --> 00:54:12,440
Speaker 2: will take it. You know what I mean? Are you

1229
00:54:12,520 --> 00:54:15,520
Speaker 2: like aggressive? Very You think you're aggressive for sure, but

1230
00:54:15,520 --> 00:54:19,800
Speaker 2: I'm also very submissive as well. Though. Yeah, you know

1231
00:54:19,880 --> 00:54:20,440
Speaker 2: what's crazy.

1232
00:54:20,480 --> 00:54:23,719
Speaker 1: I think people would expect me to be like so aggressive,

1233
00:54:23,719 --> 00:54:24,560
Speaker 1: but I'm really not.

1234
00:54:25,000 --> 00:54:26,960
Speaker 2: I think that you lead. You probably lead with the

1235
00:54:27,040 --> 00:54:29,160
Speaker 2: quirky qutie goofy vines.

1236
00:54:29,600 --> 00:54:32,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's like if if a man gets past that,

1237
00:54:32,040 --> 00:54:37,920
Speaker 1: I'm very just like, okay, yes.

1238
00:54:37,800 --> 00:54:41,160
Speaker 2: I'm very, I'm not. I am not that girl. That's

1239
00:54:41,239 --> 00:54:45,200
Speaker 2: like how people perceive me online. I think so not

1240
00:54:45,280 --> 00:54:48,879
Speaker 2: like that in a relationship. Bro with me, Yeah, me too, same. Yeah,

1241
00:54:49,160 --> 00:54:53,200
Speaker 2: I'll be like I ain't making nobody no food. I'm like,

1242
00:54:57,920 --> 00:54:58,600
Speaker 2: you want a sandwich?

1243
00:54:58,760 --> 00:55:05,040
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm gonna go figure out.

1244
00:55:08,040 --> 00:55:11,399
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I think we all have that people.

1245
00:55:12,560 --> 00:55:14,719
Speaker 3: And don't get me wrong, we are strong with me

1246
00:55:14,840 --> 00:55:17,279
Speaker 3: and I love strong personalities. But like for my me

1247
00:55:17,360 --> 00:55:20,760
Speaker 3: and my me and my men, what I'm doing whatever,

1248
00:55:23,320 --> 00:55:24,479
Speaker 3: I'm going, all.

1249
00:55:24,440 --> 00:55:27,600
Speaker 1: Right, okay, tell me what y'all think about this shot

1250
00:55:27,680 --> 00:55:28,919
Speaker 1: Like say, you cooking.

1251
00:55:28,800 --> 00:55:31,239
Speaker 2: Okay, which is also let's just turn you know.

1252
00:55:31,760 --> 00:55:34,520
Speaker 1: You just at home cooking and you like, oh, I

1253
00:55:34,520 --> 00:55:37,120
Speaker 1: think I made too much food, Like I don't know

1254
00:55:37,120 --> 00:55:38,759
Speaker 1: what I'm gonna do with all this food. He's like, oh,

1255
00:55:38,800 --> 00:55:41,600
Speaker 1: you're probably the bill prepp it. You feel like he

1256
00:55:41,680 --> 00:55:44,080
Speaker 1: missed this shot. Like if if you're telling him like,

1257
00:55:44,120 --> 00:55:45,560
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I make too much dinner.

1258
00:55:45,640 --> 00:55:47,000
Speaker 2: What am I gonna do with all this food? He's

1259
00:55:47,000 --> 00:55:48,120
Speaker 2: not like, let me.

1260
00:55:48,120 --> 00:55:51,000
Speaker 7: Slapped and get a plate, then babe, I actually hate him.

1261
00:55:51,040 --> 00:55:53,000
Speaker 7: Who is Yeah you know what I'm saying. I don't

1262
00:55:53,000 --> 00:55:55,440
Speaker 7: cook to begaining, but I don't. I heartily cook for myself.

1263
00:55:55,680 --> 00:55:57,479
Speaker 7: If I'm making a milk and I'm trying to flirt

1264
00:55:57,520 --> 00:56:00,319
Speaker 7: with you, but also like I get it, but the

1265
00:56:00,360 --> 00:56:03,840
Speaker 7: whole like let me drop what do they call it?

1266
00:56:03,880 --> 00:56:06,319
Speaker 7: Easter eggs or like little hens. We'll just say with you,

1267
00:56:06,360 --> 00:56:08,000
Speaker 7: I made too much food. What youre trying to pull up?

1268
00:56:08,160 --> 00:56:10,520
Speaker 2: Eat? M you just strike wait for you?

1269
00:56:10,600 --> 00:56:13,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, we don't gotta let's stop tiptoeing. You're making your

1270
00:56:13,040 --> 00:56:15,200
Speaker 1: blessings by doing the whole song and dance you.

1271
00:56:17,120 --> 00:56:20,120
Speaker 2: Yeah that's me. Yeah, I'm an Easter egg dropper.

1272
00:56:20,760 --> 00:56:23,120
Speaker 7: And this is not the Eastern money. Like these niggers

1273
00:56:23,120 --> 00:56:24,440
Speaker 7: are very remedial.

1274
00:56:24,680 --> 00:56:29,040
Speaker 1: You got you you want some food, I have some

1275
00:56:29,680 --> 00:56:31,719
Speaker 1: Like that's how you got if I have the man.

1276
00:56:31,719 --> 00:56:33,200
Speaker 2: If you want to eat, I'm talking much of something,

1277
00:56:33,640 --> 00:56:35,640
Speaker 2: well a little both. You know, come get the meal,

1278
00:56:36,200 --> 00:56:41,319
Speaker 2: come get your dessert by you know what I'm saying, Wait,

1279
00:56:41,480 --> 00:56:43,359
Speaker 2: what about this one? Which one?

1280
00:56:43,800 --> 00:56:47,200
Speaker 1: It says she invited me over for dinner at nine

1281
00:56:47,280 --> 00:56:47,920
Speaker 1: thirty pm?

1282
00:56:48,000 --> 00:56:51,440
Speaker 2: I replied, who eats that late? That's what I'm saying that.

1283
00:56:52,800 --> 00:57:00,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's time to put two things for you to eat, baby, baby.

1284
00:57:00,920 --> 00:57:03,359
Speaker 1: I just feel like I am a hint dropper though,

1285
00:57:03,440 --> 00:57:06,960
Speaker 1: So I've had situations where I'm like kind of throwing

1286
00:57:07,040 --> 00:57:08,960
Speaker 1: it out there and it's like, how did you.

1287
00:57:09,000 --> 00:57:11,640
Speaker 2: Not catch that? Because I think a lot of.

1288
00:57:11,560 --> 00:57:14,560
Speaker 1: Times though, with this day and time, and obviously like

1289
00:57:14,960 --> 00:57:17,760
Speaker 1: with the type of man we've dated or in the city,

1290
00:57:17,840 --> 00:57:20,560
Speaker 1: like they be trying to be like, oh, they be

1291
00:57:20,560 --> 00:57:22,760
Speaker 1: trying to be too cool, you know what I mean.

1292
00:57:22,920 --> 00:57:24,960
Speaker 1: So it's like sometimes I'll throw it out there and

1293
00:57:25,000 --> 00:57:26,240
Speaker 1: they just they don't catch it.

1294
00:57:26,280 --> 00:57:27,920
Speaker 2: Not to be like, Okay, this is not gonna happen.

1295
00:57:28,000 --> 00:57:29,520
Speaker 2: I need you to catch that, motherfucker.

1296
00:57:29,720 --> 00:57:31,720
Speaker 7: It's unfortunate too, because I feel like I cut them

1297
00:57:31,800 --> 00:57:34,000
Speaker 7: off so quickly these days. Yeah, so I drop a

1298
00:57:34,080 --> 00:57:36,040
Speaker 7: hint and you don't catch the hint, that's your last

1299
00:57:36,400 --> 00:57:37,160
Speaker 7: that's your last drop.

1300
00:57:37,200 --> 00:57:39,680
Speaker 2: There will be no more hints. I'm being like that.

1301
00:57:39,760 --> 00:57:42,320
Speaker 2: I feel like that's why I'm single, because I'll be

1302
00:57:42,320 --> 00:57:45,920
Speaker 2: cutting niggas off. Yeah, goodbye, go away. It's a very

1303
00:57:45,920 --> 00:57:47,760
Speaker 2: strict program around here, and I'm okay with that. Are

1304
00:57:47,760 --> 00:57:51,040
Speaker 2: you dating? I'm dating? Are you having like? Are you

1305
00:57:51,120 --> 00:57:58,160
Speaker 2: like that? You like there's some top contenders? Okay? Right?

1306
00:57:58,960 --> 00:58:01,560
Speaker 3: Because people always it seemed like dating in LA is

1307
00:58:01,640 --> 00:58:02,200
Speaker 3: really hard.

1308
00:58:02,720 --> 00:58:04,960
Speaker 2: One is, but I don't think it's just an LA thing.

1309
00:58:05,000 --> 00:58:09,200
Speaker 7: I think dating men at this time it's hard for

1310
00:58:09,200 --> 00:58:10,280
Speaker 7: anybody where you are.

1311
00:58:10,480 --> 00:58:12,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I wouldn't recommend it, you know what I mean.

1312
00:58:13,160 --> 00:58:16,880
Speaker 7: You're in a relationship, yeah, Like it's hard out here

1313
00:58:16,880 --> 00:58:19,080
Speaker 7: in these streets, and I'm a relationship girl. I would

1314
00:58:19,120 --> 00:58:21,640
Speaker 7: prefer to be in a relationship. I don't enjoy the

1315
00:58:21,680 --> 00:58:23,840
Speaker 7: process of dating, but you know, you do what you

1316
00:58:23,840 --> 00:58:24,160
Speaker 7: gotta do.

1317
00:58:24,360 --> 00:58:28,080
Speaker 2: So what do you want to get married? And that's yes, yes,

1318
00:58:29,800 --> 00:58:33,040
Speaker 2: yeah I do. No, it was hesitation, I do.

1319
00:58:33,840 --> 00:58:35,800
Speaker 7: I don't know the marriage rates, like the numbers aren't

1320
00:58:35,840 --> 00:58:37,760
Speaker 7: so good these days, you know what I mean. It's

1321
00:58:37,840 --> 00:58:41,280
Speaker 7: tough being married, but the goal is yeah, one day

1322
00:58:41,400 --> 00:58:43,280
Speaker 7: to be married. I think I do want kids as well,

1323
00:58:43,360 --> 00:58:46,160
Speaker 7: so I would prefer to be married before I have kids.

1324
00:58:46,400 --> 00:58:47,960
Speaker 2: Okay, so we're the same age.

1325
00:58:48,520 --> 00:58:52,160
Speaker 3: Do you ever feel pressure because I'm like, Oho, I'm

1326
00:58:52,160 --> 00:58:53,520
Speaker 3: turning at thirty five next year.

1327
00:58:53,800 --> 00:58:55,720
Speaker 2: Should I freeze my eggs? I don't know?

1328
00:58:55,800 --> 00:58:58,440
Speaker 3: Or should I just let nature take its course? How

1329
00:58:58,440 --> 00:58:59,160
Speaker 3: do you feel about that?

1330
00:58:59,520 --> 00:59:01,920
Speaker 7: I have this conversations so many times on my podcast.

1331
00:59:02,520 --> 00:59:05,920
Speaker 7: Something that's not talked about enough is the financial commitment

1332
00:59:05,960 --> 00:59:08,000
Speaker 7: that you have to make when you're freezing your eggs.

1333
00:59:08,360 --> 00:59:09,959
Speaker 7: I love the idea of it. I love the idea

1334
00:59:09,960 --> 00:59:11,360
Speaker 7: that you can freeze your eggs and I'll have the pressure.

1335
00:59:11,400 --> 00:59:12,800
Speaker 2: You can live your life. And when you choose to

1336
00:59:12,800 --> 00:59:13,120
Speaker 2: have kids.

1337
00:59:13,120 --> 00:59:16,040
Speaker 7: You choose to have kids, you have to pay for

1338
00:59:16,080 --> 00:59:17,200
Speaker 7: them eggs to stay frozen.

1339
00:59:17,600 --> 00:59:17,760
Speaker 2: You do.

1340
00:59:18,680 --> 00:59:21,560
Speaker 1: You got to pay rent for eggs. They send them

1341
00:59:21,640 --> 00:59:22,760
Speaker 1: upstairs with the other ones.

1342
00:59:24,240 --> 00:59:26,160
Speaker 2: But I'm with you because it's like that was the

1343
00:59:26,280 --> 00:59:32,440
Speaker 2: egg was embryos. Those is more price than cost some more.

1344
00:59:33,520 --> 00:59:35,400
Speaker 2: It's expensive to buy eggs as is. You know what

1345
00:59:35,400 --> 00:59:37,960
Speaker 2: I'm saying. I know that, So for me, that's what

1346
00:59:37,960 --> 00:59:40,040
Speaker 2: I'm saying. Everybody's just free eggs. It's like, bit, what

1347
00:59:40,120 --> 00:59:41,880
Speaker 2: you mean, I gotta pay rent? I have a car now,

1348
00:59:41,920 --> 00:59:44,080
Speaker 2: I have health insurance, I have dental insurance. Put them

1349
00:59:44,120 --> 00:59:45,200
Speaker 2: in my fridge, give them to me.

1350
00:59:45,640 --> 00:59:48,000
Speaker 7: So sometimes my conversations with God is like, I need

1351
00:59:48,000 --> 00:59:49,360
Speaker 7: you to give me a sign that you want me

1352
00:59:49,400 --> 00:59:51,560
Speaker 7: to feize these eggs right now, because if not, I'm

1353
00:59:51,560 --> 00:59:52,760
Speaker 7: going to get to the age where I can no

1354
00:59:52,800 --> 00:59:54,240
Speaker 7: longer have kids, and I'm just gonna be okay with it.

1355
00:59:54,240 --> 00:59:56,800
Speaker 7: Maybe I'll adopt, maybe I'll be with someone who has

1356
00:59:56,840 --> 00:59:59,680
Speaker 7: children already. Maybe it's just not my ministry to freeze

1357
00:59:59,680 --> 01:00:01,480
Speaker 7: my eggs, but I love the idea of it.

1358
01:00:01,480 --> 01:00:03,160
Speaker 2: It sounds sexy, and so.

1359
01:00:08,040 --> 01:00:10,440
Speaker 7: I let my cards run out one time, like I'm

1360
01:00:10,440 --> 01:00:11,920
Speaker 7: told my mom. I'm like, okay, well this is what

1361
01:00:11,960 --> 01:00:14,360
Speaker 7: it is. Certain health insurance.

1362
01:00:15,400 --> 01:00:17,840
Speaker 4: It's crazy. Give me my.

1363
01:00:19,400 --> 01:00:23,920
Speaker 2: Time, get to water. It's like, can I donate them?

1364
01:00:23,960 --> 01:00:25,720
Speaker 2: Can I take them and get you can sell your

1365
01:00:25,720 --> 01:00:26,120
Speaker 2: eggs to you?

1366
01:00:26,320 --> 01:00:32,080
Speaker 1: You can't whatever I have to don Okay, see that's

1367
01:00:32,120 --> 01:00:32,560
Speaker 1: too much.

1368
01:00:32,600 --> 01:00:34,520
Speaker 2: I did not know about egg rents. But you have

1369
01:00:34,640 --> 01:00:35,240
Speaker 2: to pay the rent.

1370
01:00:35,280 --> 01:00:38,840
Speaker 3: But for me, it's more so it's how much it costs.

1371
01:00:38,880 --> 01:00:42,200
Speaker 3: But then also what it does to your body, Like

1372
01:00:42,240 --> 01:00:44,880
Speaker 3: you're putting your body, Yeah, you're putting your body through

1373
01:00:44,920 --> 01:00:47,400
Speaker 3: a light, like you're having to inject yourself with hormones

1374
01:00:47,480 --> 01:00:49,840
Speaker 3: every day. Your eggs have to get to a certain

1375
01:00:49,880 --> 01:00:52,160
Speaker 3: size so that they can retrieve them.

1376
01:00:52,480 --> 01:00:54,760
Speaker 2: It's just a lie. The perces is a lie and

1377
01:00:55,960 --> 01:00:57,960
Speaker 2: mentally ready for it. And I don't think you can.

1378
01:00:58,120 --> 01:01:01,560
Speaker 3: Do anything while you're doing it, Like what I can't

1379
01:01:01,960 --> 01:01:02,680
Speaker 3: park like drink?

1380
01:01:02,840 --> 01:01:06,640
Speaker 2: Okay, well you don't pop parks either. Why are you saying?

1381
01:01:06,680 --> 01:01:08,880
Speaker 1: Because I want to see them start rumors about me

1382
01:01:08,920 --> 01:01:09,920
Speaker 1: so I can argue with them.

1383
01:01:10,000 --> 01:01:11,760
Speaker 2: You cannot pop the park. If you're gonna freeze your

1384
01:01:12,520 --> 01:01:17,360
Speaker 2: you can parks. Yeah, you have to really be on

1385
01:01:17,400 --> 01:01:22,040
Speaker 2: the seventy five hard for however minimum. I think it's

1386
01:01:22,040 --> 01:01:25,080
Speaker 2: like a two to three months. Yeah, my eggs is

1387
01:01:25,120 --> 01:01:27,880
Speaker 2: bored already. I don't know what I'm gonna give them, motherfuckers.

1388
01:01:28,080 --> 01:01:29,520
Speaker 7: I think at the end of the day too, I think, like,

1389
01:01:29,600 --> 01:01:31,720
Speaker 7: you know, it's great that we have this new technology,

1390
01:01:31,760 --> 01:01:34,280
Speaker 7: but also maybe it's just I'm not meant to have

1391
01:01:34,320 --> 01:01:35,720
Speaker 7: a child, like you know what I mean, Like maybe

1392
01:01:35,920 --> 01:01:37,680
Speaker 7: you're not. I'm okay with that, Like if that ends

1393
01:01:37,720 --> 01:01:39,320
Speaker 7: up being my story. I have so many sisters. I

1394
01:01:39,360 --> 01:01:42,720
Speaker 7: feel like I've raised enough daughters at this point, it's

1395
01:01:42,720 --> 01:01:45,320
Speaker 7: okay if I don't have kids. I don't necessarily like.

1396
01:01:45,240 --> 01:01:47,800
Speaker 1: That too, though, I'm like, if I have kids, right, yeah,

1397
01:01:47,880 --> 01:01:50,919
Speaker 1: if I don't, it's okay, okay.

1398
01:01:50,800 --> 01:01:52,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, No, I be feeling like I want to have

1399
01:01:52,680 --> 01:01:53,840
Speaker 2: a kid so bad.

1400
01:01:54,040 --> 01:01:56,560
Speaker 3: You can do it, though, But that's where I be

1401
01:01:56,600 --> 01:01:58,240
Speaker 3: kind of feeling the pressure because I'm like, okay, you're

1402
01:01:58,280 --> 01:01:59,960
Speaker 3: thirty four. Like if you do want to freeze your

1403
01:02:00,320 --> 01:02:02,040
Speaker 3: you know, they're like, oh, once you turn thirty five,

1404
01:02:02,080 --> 01:02:05,720
Speaker 3: it's a geriatric pregnancy. You need to use your thirty

1405
01:02:05,720 --> 01:02:07,680
Speaker 3: four year old eggs. So I'm like, do I want to?

1406
01:02:08,160 --> 01:02:09,880
Speaker 2: But my mom, I I have a sister who is

1407
01:02:10,120 --> 01:02:12,360
Speaker 2: sixteen right now, So you can do it. It's possible.

1408
01:02:12,680 --> 01:02:14,280
Speaker 2: It is a higher risk pregnancy.

1409
01:02:14,920 --> 01:02:17,840
Speaker 7: But again, like, if that is what you're destinying your

1410
01:02:17,840 --> 01:02:20,240
Speaker 7: faces to have a baby at forty four, then that's

1411
01:02:20,320 --> 01:02:22,960
Speaker 7: that's your story, that's your dream. I know I've said

1412
01:02:22,960 --> 01:02:25,480
Speaker 7: my cut off is forty but also who knows same,

1413
01:02:25,560 --> 01:02:27,000
Speaker 7: But nos, what if you meet someone at forty one

1414
01:02:27,080 --> 01:02:28,520
Speaker 7: you're like, well, I want to have your baby.

1415
01:02:28,320 --> 01:02:31,760
Speaker 2: Well, hopefully he have some you gonna do it? Forty

1416
01:02:31,800 --> 01:02:35,440
Speaker 2: one you're running behind a kid. I don't know. I

1417
01:02:35,440 --> 01:02:37,000
Speaker 2: don't know, but I'm with.

1418
01:02:36,960 --> 01:02:41,680
Speaker 3: You because my biological mom she had me at twelve,

1419
01:02:42,040 --> 01:02:45,200
Speaker 3: and then she had my little sister agg thirty nine.

1420
01:02:46,400 --> 01:02:49,240
Speaker 2: So I feel like, if it's you could do it happen.

1421
01:02:49,560 --> 01:02:53,840
Speaker 2: But oh child forty one with a new I just.

1422
01:02:53,720 --> 01:02:55,480
Speaker 1: Feel like, but where you'll be at in life, It's

1423
01:02:55,600 --> 01:02:57,840
Speaker 1: like you work out every day, you'll be fine.

1424
01:02:57,880 --> 01:03:01,200
Speaker 2: The means work, you'll be all right. It's really the

1425
01:03:01,240 --> 01:03:02,240
Speaker 2: man like, who am I having it?

1426
01:03:02,320 --> 01:03:07,560
Speaker 1: That's the kid never scared me. The little child has

1427
01:03:07,600 --> 01:03:09,000
Speaker 1: never scared me.

1428
01:03:09,000 --> 01:03:12,760
Speaker 2: Me the life that I have to another. I got

1429
01:03:12,800 --> 01:03:17,360
Speaker 2: mad to you. Oh good, don't make me do it.

1430
01:03:17,480 --> 01:03:19,960
Speaker 2: Don't make me do it? So okay with your mom.

1431
01:03:20,080 --> 01:03:22,960
Speaker 2: So she had a little help because she had you already. Yeah,

1432
01:03:23,000 --> 01:03:28,800
Speaker 2: built nanny my kids. Yeah, my sister raised me. Yeah,

1433
01:03:28,960 --> 01:03:30,320
Speaker 2: it was like very easy.

1434
01:03:31,000 --> 01:03:31,200
Speaker 5: You know.

1435
01:03:31,280 --> 01:03:33,760
Speaker 1: I was just like, okay, I got to mamas all

1436
01:03:33,800 --> 01:03:34,120
Speaker 1: the time.

1437
01:03:34,200 --> 01:03:36,720
Speaker 2: My mom couldn't be there. My sister and sister I

1438
01:03:37,080 --> 01:03:40,120
Speaker 2: lunch money. She's like, did you call mom? You're my mom?

1439
01:03:41,320 --> 01:03:42,080
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

1440
01:03:43,160 --> 01:03:45,960
Speaker 1: Okay, So how do y'all feel? Are we in twenty

1441
01:03:46,000 --> 01:03:48,400
Speaker 1: twenty six? The you know, this is the new year.

1442
01:03:48,680 --> 01:03:51,360
Speaker 1: Are we shooting our shot and being straightforward? Are we

1443
01:03:51,440 --> 01:03:53,000
Speaker 1: still kind of dropping Easter eggs?

1444
01:03:53,080 --> 01:03:55,080
Speaker 2: Yes? Or no? I want you to absolutely stop dropping

1445
01:03:55,120 --> 01:03:57,040
Speaker 2: Easter eggs and speak with your chest. You are a

1446
01:03:57,080 --> 01:03:59,360
Speaker 2: grown woman. Shoot a shoot, you.

1447
01:03:59,280 --> 01:04:05,560
Speaker 7: Are accessible, you are beautiful, you're intelligent. You can do that,

1448
01:04:05,600 --> 01:04:07,240
Speaker 7: though somebody gonna be into that.

1449
01:04:08,360 --> 01:04:12,000
Speaker 2: You should leave with that. But the East egg.

1450
01:04:11,840 --> 01:04:14,520
Speaker 7: Thing, like, yeah, no, because I don't like when a

1451
01:04:14,520 --> 01:04:16,520
Speaker 7: man does that to me. I don't don't Easter egg me.

1452
01:04:16,640 --> 01:04:18,920
Speaker 7: Please just say what you mean me what you say.

1453
01:04:19,080 --> 01:04:21,280
Speaker 2: You're right, because I don't like Easter when it's done

1454
01:04:21,320 --> 01:04:24,240
Speaker 2: to me. Okay, let me see how I'm working. If it,

1455
01:04:24,280 --> 01:04:28,320
Speaker 2: don't worry. I'm gonna take you like work girl.

1456
01:04:29,160 --> 01:04:32,400
Speaker 3: I was listening to you and and turn to me.

1457
01:04:32,440 --> 01:04:38,080
Speaker 3: There he is about to turn you down. I don't

1458
01:04:38,640 --> 01:04:39,040
Speaker 3: is a.

1459
01:04:38,960 --> 01:04:42,480
Speaker 2: Lot of face, a lot. It's a whole lot, all right.

1460
01:04:42,720 --> 01:04:46,120
Speaker 2: So now it's time to get into the.

1461
01:04:46,000 --> 01:04:51,280
Speaker 1: Big bow about about about.

1462
01:04:55,120 --> 01:04:55,200
Speaker 2: You.

1463
01:04:55,360 --> 01:05:00,520
Speaker 1: It's flexible and y'all know this episode it's brought to

1464
01:05:00,520 --> 01:05:01,640
Speaker 1: you by Salt Eggs.

1465
01:05:01,640 --> 01:05:04,320
Speaker 2: So shout out to everybody at the Salt ex So team.

1466
01:05:04,600 --> 01:05:08,080
Speaker 1: Are you like a wellness girl and like you like

1467
01:05:08,160 --> 01:05:10,120
Speaker 1: body washing and all that stuff. We're gonna sit you

1468
01:05:10,160 --> 01:05:13,000
Speaker 1: home with one of these because honestly, this is like

1469
01:05:13,200 --> 01:05:16,040
Speaker 1: I always say this every episode. Salt Egg so it

1470
01:05:16,160 --> 01:05:19,880
Speaker 1: makes you your puss. You're like, it's like a mist.

1471
01:05:20,080 --> 01:05:22,920
Speaker 1: It's real tingly, it's tingling. It cleanses it out, you

1472
01:05:22,920 --> 01:05:25,360
Speaker 1: know how you like you've been drinking all night and

1473
01:05:25,400 --> 01:05:27,880
Speaker 1: you and you finally get home to brush your teeth

1474
01:05:27,920 --> 01:05:30,439
Speaker 1: and wash your mouth out, and you're like, I got

1475
01:05:30,480 --> 01:05:35,520
Speaker 1: that tequila off my breath. It's like it's like listeneringe

1476
01:05:35,560 --> 01:05:46,080
Speaker 1: for your PUSSA don't it's And they have different variations

1477
01:05:46,080 --> 01:05:48,520
Speaker 1: like yeah, one for sensitive vaginas.

1478
01:05:48,560 --> 01:05:49,920
Speaker 2: They have a regular.

1479
01:05:49,560 --> 01:05:51,320
Speaker 3: One, they don't have the one with the seas, and

1480
01:05:51,560 --> 01:05:53,960
Speaker 3: personally I like the one with the seas, like them.

1481
01:05:56,520 --> 01:05:59,320
Speaker 1: Cleanefliates.

1482
01:05:59,560 --> 01:06:07,080
Speaker 2: This is what we're gonna stand. I love Salt Egg,

1483
01:06:07,160 --> 01:06:08,440
Speaker 2: so y'all know we love them.

1484
01:06:08,440 --> 01:06:10,080
Speaker 3: And they also have a lot of other products too,

1485
01:06:10,120 --> 01:06:14,520
Speaker 3: like they have white. They have a vaginal rejuvenation oil

1486
01:06:15,640 --> 01:06:16,200
Speaker 3: is good too.

1487
01:06:16,280 --> 01:06:17,480
Speaker 2: Let's love this, you know what.

1488
01:06:17,920 --> 01:06:19,840
Speaker 1: I love the oil, but you know what, like when

1489
01:06:19,960 --> 01:06:23,480
Speaker 1: I am a skincare girl, but sometimes I do but

1490
01:06:23,640 --> 01:06:26,240
Speaker 1: very lightly used the cut on your face. Yes, but

1491
01:06:26,440 --> 01:06:27,920
Speaker 1: it's because it's natural ingredients.

1492
01:06:27,960 --> 01:06:30,080
Speaker 2: It's like oils in there. It's like natural oil.

1493
01:06:30,200 --> 01:06:32,760
Speaker 1: So if it's good enough for the good enough for

1494
01:06:32,800 --> 01:06:38,080
Speaker 1: the past, it helps make it strength.

1495
01:06:38,160 --> 01:06:40,080
Speaker 2: Is your skin barrier. I'm so serious.

1496
01:06:40,120 --> 01:06:43,320
Speaker 1: And I never said this online because I'm not an esthetician.

1497
01:06:43,360 --> 01:06:45,960
Speaker 1: I don't know, but key, I have ran out of

1498
01:06:46,000 --> 01:06:48,919
Speaker 1: my moisturizer one time and I use that rejuvenation oil

1499
01:06:48,960 --> 01:06:51,000
Speaker 1: on my skin and I woke up the next morning

1500
01:06:51,000 --> 01:06:53,160
Speaker 1: and my skin felt so much better. I was like,

1501
01:06:53,160 --> 01:06:54,680
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, you can use it on your face

1502
01:06:55,000 --> 01:06:56,880
Speaker 1: so now. And I can tell I'm using too many

1503
01:06:56,920 --> 01:06:59,360
Speaker 1: products and I break my skin barrier. I use that

1504
01:06:59,400 --> 01:07:01,680
Speaker 1: rejuvenation oil just a little bit on my face.

1505
01:07:02,000 --> 01:07:06,640
Speaker 2: Healed done, Moving on. Tell you it's so good more

1506
01:07:06,680 --> 01:07:09,600
Speaker 2: than that pom pom m hm hmm.

1507
01:07:09,640 --> 01:07:13,400
Speaker 1: Okay, So the bad topic today. Do y'all feel like

1508
01:07:13,440 --> 01:07:16,160
Speaker 1: y'all can go backwards in the bedroom, like say you

1509
01:07:16,160 --> 01:07:18,080
Speaker 1: did something in the bedroom and you're like.

1510
01:07:18,040 --> 01:07:21,680
Speaker 2: I don't want to do this no more, Like I'm no,

1511
01:07:21,760 --> 01:07:22,840
Speaker 2: I'm not that girl.

1512
01:07:23,240 --> 01:07:25,880
Speaker 1: I think it's certain things, even me, that I have

1513
01:07:26,120 --> 01:07:27,680
Speaker 1: spoken about and talked about.

1514
01:07:27,560 --> 01:07:29,720
Speaker 2: And people be like that, go that girl that do that.

1515
01:07:29,760 --> 01:07:31,280
Speaker 2: I don't do that no more. That's not me.

1516
01:07:31,400 --> 01:07:34,320
Speaker 1: That's not who I am. That is not a representative.

1517
01:07:34,800 --> 01:07:38,920
Speaker 1: I said something about eating ass a few times years ago.

1518
01:07:40,360 --> 01:07:43,520
Speaker 1: That was like that was like four niggas ago, Bro,

1519
01:07:44,640 --> 01:07:47,720
Speaker 1: But you retired. Oh my, I don't not that I've retired.

1520
01:07:47,760 --> 01:07:48,640
Speaker 1: What I do it again?

1521
01:07:48,840 --> 01:07:49,360
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1522
01:07:49,600 --> 01:07:52,560
Speaker 1: But I don't eat my my, dude, I'm you don't

1523
01:07:52,640 --> 01:07:55,800
Speaker 1: like that. I'm not currently a part of a bro

1524
01:07:56,680 --> 01:07:59,280
Speaker 1: but they but you will if I have to.

1525
01:07:59,680 --> 01:08:04,240
Speaker 3: It's I don't like a little a little ass intimidate,

1526
01:08:04,360 --> 01:08:08,000
Speaker 3: but bro, But I'm saying like, let mean leave me alone.

1527
01:08:08,120 --> 01:08:08,280
Speaker 5: Bro.

1528
01:08:08,480 --> 01:08:11,760
Speaker 1: They look at me like, oh legs freaky she ass bro.

1529
01:08:15,160 --> 01:08:17,439
Speaker 2: Before you do it again?

1530
01:08:17,720 --> 01:08:21,479
Speaker 1: But if I had but just right, But I don't

1531
01:08:21,600 --> 01:08:23,360
Speaker 1: really like, is some choice?

1532
01:08:23,400 --> 01:08:24,519
Speaker 2: You a choice?

1533
01:08:24,560 --> 01:08:30,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, it's not nothing eating. Yeah, there's a quota

1534
01:08:32,240 --> 01:08:36,160
Speaker 1: if I'm a vegan and I eat meat one time, just.

1535
01:08:36,080 --> 01:08:40,479
Speaker 2: Like try yeah, are you not still vegan?

1536
01:08:40,640 --> 01:08:43,919
Speaker 1: And I go back to eating my plant based Still.

1537
01:08:45,880 --> 01:08:47,960
Speaker 2: You got a good point. I'm not.

1538
01:08:49,439 --> 01:08:49,839
Speaker 1: Vegan.

1539
01:08:50,840 --> 01:08:54,439
Speaker 2: Once removed you.

1540
01:08:57,920 --> 01:08:58,799
Speaker 1: And me eating.

1541
01:09:00,120 --> 01:09:00,719
Speaker 2: As eating.

1542
01:09:06,040 --> 01:09:09,160
Speaker 4: I'm just saying, bro, I cannot tell y'all.

1543
01:09:09,200 --> 01:09:11,280
Speaker 2: It has been many many moons.

1544
01:09:11,439 --> 01:09:14,200
Speaker 1: Since I tasted that chocolate starffish.

1545
01:09:14,400 --> 01:09:17,000
Speaker 3: But that's meat though, so you definitely ain't vegan eating egg.

1546
01:09:17,240 --> 01:09:20,120
Speaker 1: But like everybody still do that to me? Dr who's

1547
01:09:20,680 --> 01:09:23,080
Speaker 1: the people in the comment? I told you'll read the comments?

1548
01:09:23,520 --> 01:09:25,519
Speaker 7: What is it actually the men that you're really dating?

1549
01:09:25,560 --> 01:09:28,320
Speaker 7: Really okay, not damn, but.

1550
01:09:29,040 --> 01:09:29,360
Speaker 5: Like she.

1551
01:09:32,479 --> 01:09:38,720
Speaker 1: And it does exactly saying that that want that literally.

1552
01:09:38,479 --> 01:09:41,040
Speaker 2: That's what that is. That's what But I think that

1553
01:09:41,040 --> 01:09:47,120
Speaker 2: that you introduce yourself like this, You're.

1554
01:09:47,200 --> 01:09:49,479
Speaker 1: Right, okay, so I'm gonna stop doing that, But I

1555
01:09:49,520 --> 01:09:51,280
Speaker 1: don't feel like you can try things sexually.

1556
01:09:51,360 --> 01:09:52,880
Speaker 2: You shouldn't be defined by that.

1557
01:09:53,320 --> 01:09:55,800
Speaker 7: I also think a good rule of thumb as well

1558
01:09:55,960 --> 01:09:58,920
Speaker 7: is whatever happens in the bedroom during the time that

1559
01:09:59,000 --> 01:10:01,640
Speaker 7: you're in that bedroom, please don't bring that outside of

1560
01:10:01,640 --> 01:10:02,080
Speaker 7: the bedroom.

1561
01:10:02,120 --> 01:10:05,240
Speaker 2: Like, don't get to repeating what I said when I

1562
01:10:05,280 --> 01:10:06,840
Speaker 2: was in the four walls in there.

1563
01:10:06,840 --> 01:10:09,240
Speaker 7: Don't try to talk. It's twelve pm on a Thursday.

1564
01:10:09,280 --> 01:10:10,960
Speaker 7: Why are you texting me what I said to you?

1565
01:10:11,760 --> 01:10:15,160
Speaker 2: My man? I don't feel that way anymore.

1566
01:10:15,200 --> 01:10:15,679
Speaker 4: I'm clear.

1567
01:10:16,000 --> 01:10:18,840
Speaker 2: The clarity is here. Don't bring that up, y'all. Leave

1568
01:10:18,880 --> 01:10:23,760
Speaker 2: it in the bedroom. That's cut. Like so you was.

1569
01:10:23,720 --> 01:10:26,760
Speaker 1: Dead Like I never said that.

1570
01:10:26,760 --> 01:10:28,160
Speaker 2: That makes me so mad.

1571
01:10:28,600 --> 01:10:29,080
Speaker 4: That wasn't me.

1572
01:10:29,720 --> 01:10:32,479
Speaker 1: Like. I had a situation a few months ago where

1573
01:10:32,520 --> 01:10:34,599
Speaker 1: like a guy send us like a video and mind

1574
01:10:34,640 --> 01:10:36,679
Speaker 1: you having talked to him in a long time, why

1575
01:10:36,680 --> 01:10:37,479
Speaker 1: do you still have this?

1576
01:10:37,680 --> 01:10:40,240
Speaker 2: Wait? Wait, we set you a video of y'all. Yes,

1577
01:10:40,360 --> 01:10:42,000
Speaker 2: he was like good times.

1578
01:10:42,680 --> 01:10:48,720
Speaker 1: No like that, I would be contacting my authorities out

1579
01:10:48,760 --> 01:10:49,320
Speaker 1: of boxes.

1580
01:10:49,479 --> 01:10:52,680
Speaker 2: I was so mad. I was so mad. I know

1581
01:10:52,840 --> 01:10:55,680
Speaker 2: we had that. Yeah, I don't know it was a

1582
01:10:55,680 --> 01:10:57,280
Speaker 2: good video, but we knew the camera.

1583
01:10:57,800 --> 01:11:00,400
Speaker 1: Yes, I have.

1584
01:11:05,040 --> 01:11:05,639
Speaker 2: I look at.

1585
01:11:07,760 --> 01:11:07,800
Speaker 5: It.

1586
01:11:07,920 --> 01:11:28,560
Speaker 2: Gots to be both getting for that. We're getting.

1587
01:11:22,680 --> 01:11:32,439
Speaker 5: Move But no, I feel like you're tighten up, you

1588
01:11:32,520 --> 01:11:33,120
Speaker 5: playing with me.

1589
01:11:33,120 --> 01:11:34,920
Speaker 2: But I think it's because I'm so fraid. I'm so

1590
01:11:35,160 --> 01:11:37,000
Speaker 2: nice in her long this is tequila.

1591
01:11:37,280 --> 01:11:39,639
Speaker 7: What are you feeling on your no filming on your phone?

1592
01:11:39,680 --> 01:11:43,840
Speaker 7: Why are you letting him feel anything? My baby, my baby,

1593
01:11:43,960 --> 01:11:48,120
Speaker 7: my baby baby. No, it's on your phone.

1594
01:11:48,200 --> 01:11:50,240
Speaker 2: I agree with that. Draon has always been an advocate

1595
01:11:50,240 --> 01:11:51,280
Speaker 2: for that on your phone.

1596
01:11:51,920 --> 01:11:54,960
Speaker 7: You you know that's your little KEI Ky put that

1597
01:11:55,040 --> 01:11:55,599
Speaker 7: on your phone.

1598
01:11:55,800 --> 01:11:58,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I guess I just feel like I don't know,

1599
01:11:59,280 --> 01:12:01,439
Speaker 1: but I just feel like we're sharing an intimate moment

1600
01:12:01,479 --> 01:12:03,880
Speaker 1: because it's like that should state between us. And once

1601
01:12:03,920 --> 01:12:05,479
Speaker 1: we moved on, why do you want to hold it

1602
01:12:05,520 --> 01:12:09,040
Speaker 1: on to his That's weird right now you have moved on,

1603
01:12:09,640 --> 01:12:11,360
Speaker 1: but needa to be weird even he said, or another

1604
01:12:11,520 --> 01:12:13,720
Speaker 1: something now and he's still doubling back to send you

1605
01:12:13,760 --> 01:12:14,160
Speaker 1: the video.

1606
01:12:14,280 --> 01:12:15,560
Speaker 2: You said, what he's moved on to it?

1607
01:12:15,960 --> 01:12:18,000
Speaker 1: I mean he's I think I would hope it was

1608
01:12:18,120 --> 01:12:18,679
Speaker 1: years ago.

1609
01:12:18,840 --> 01:12:21,640
Speaker 2: So yeah, obviously he's moved on. You have anxiety from

1610
01:12:21,640 --> 01:12:22,599
Speaker 2: about drive me crazy?

1611
01:12:22,760 --> 01:12:24,479
Speaker 1: No, I'm just like, if you post it, that's gonna

1612
01:12:24,520 --> 01:12:27,679
Speaker 1: give me my followers. Maybe people don tune in because work.

1613
01:12:28,560 --> 01:12:31,120
Speaker 1: It was one of my best performances. It's my mistake,

1614
01:12:31,240 --> 01:12:37,080
Speaker 1: so myself it was given ye performance.

1615
01:12:37,760 --> 01:12:39,559
Speaker 2: I was so mad that I watched it. I said

1616
01:12:39,560 --> 01:12:42,880
Speaker 2: that matter of fact. But that's not who I am,

1617
01:12:42,920 --> 01:12:45,280
Speaker 2: and I do think it speaks who you are, a vision,

1618
01:12:47,720 --> 01:12:49,559
Speaker 2: real floor at the end of the day.

1619
01:12:49,600 --> 01:12:51,479
Speaker 1: I like to say that I don't like when people

1620
01:12:51,720 --> 01:12:55,680
Speaker 1: categorize me, like about things that you've done sexually in

1621
01:12:55,680 --> 01:12:56,360
Speaker 1: the bedroom.

1622
01:12:56,400 --> 01:12:58,559
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. So I do see this

1623
01:12:58,600 --> 01:13:01,360
Speaker 2: is why, Oh that's crazy. This is what I clipped

1624
01:13:01,360 --> 01:13:06,800
Speaker 2: the whole card. That is why however passed me that

1625
01:13:06,920 --> 01:13:07,559
Speaker 2: glory is.

1626
01:13:12,000 --> 01:13:15,280
Speaker 1: Okay, we're gonna we all move on, y'all, We're gonna

1627
01:13:15,280 --> 01:13:17,840
Speaker 1: move on. So the bed we say you can move

1628
01:13:17,840 --> 01:13:19,000
Speaker 1: on from past experiences.

1629
01:13:19,280 --> 01:13:19,639
Speaker 5: For sure.

1630
01:13:19,680 --> 01:13:23,000
Speaker 2: I don't look at me like an ass eater I personally,

1631
01:13:23,680 --> 01:13:25,040
Speaker 2: but I'm trying to think. I'm trying to think. I'm

1632
01:13:25,040 --> 01:13:28,080
Speaker 2: trying to think. But I know you. I feel like

1633
01:13:29,040 --> 01:13:32,280
Speaker 2: ass is a crazy thing to get into. I feel

1634
01:13:32,320 --> 01:13:37,599
Speaker 2: like once you get in there, you yeah.

1635
01:13:37,760 --> 01:13:40,679
Speaker 1: But I don't think you like it's not your person

1636
01:13:41,160 --> 01:13:43,680
Speaker 1: thank you it was.

1637
01:13:43,760 --> 01:13:45,639
Speaker 2: Even if it was, I don't feel like I would

1638
01:13:45,720 --> 01:13:48,599
Speaker 2: judge you for it. I ain't at it. I mean,

1639
01:13:48,600 --> 01:13:51,639
Speaker 2: I feel like one day I will join the ranks

1640
01:13:52,960 --> 01:13:57,000
Speaker 2: for the right man. With my husband, I always say, maybe.

1641
01:13:57,080 --> 01:13:58,439
Speaker 1: You got to kiss it from I don't think so.

1642
01:13:59,240 --> 01:14:02,639
Speaker 2: Not for you. This has to be my husband. I think.

1643
01:14:02,640 --> 01:14:05,679
Speaker 2: I think for me, it has to be my husband.

1644
01:14:07,280 --> 01:14:08,680
Speaker 2: You gotta put a like.

1645
01:14:11,960 --> 01:14:14,040
Speaker 3: Trying to trying to eat their booth.

1646
01:14:23,920 --> 01:14:32,559
Speaker 2: I should not say that. I didn't say that. Okay, Okay,

1647
01:14:32,600 --> 01:14:34,280
Speaker 2: we go move on.

1648
01:14:34,720 --> 01:14:39,599
Speaker 1: So we say your sexual past does not define you,

1649
01:14:39,680 --> 01:14:46,240
Speaker 1: but now it's time to get into the bowl Bow.

1650
01:14:48,680 --> 01:14:51,200
Speaker 1: So the back of the week is like whatever song

1651
01:14:51,680 --> 01:14:53,200
Speaker 1: music anything that we've been.

1652
01:14:53,479 --> 01:14:57,559
Speaker 2: This week, y'all, we haven't cutting up so bad. So

1653
01:14:57,760 --> 01:14:58,959
Speaker 2: my bop of the week.

1654
01:14:58,840 --> 01:15:02,040
Speaker 1: Is actually a girl from Charleston and she has been

1655
01:15:02,040 --> 01:15:04,200
Speaker 1: going crazy on TikTok. You know, Auntie keep her ears

1656
01:15:04,240 --> 01:15:07,160
Speaker 1: to the streets, Trim, and she kind.

1657
01:15:06,960 --> 01:15:07,920
Speaker 2: Of like people are.

1658
01:15:08,080 --> 01:15:10,200
Speaker 1: It's a big debate going on about her right now

1659
01:15:10,200 --> 01:15:12,720
Speaker 1: because that like she sounds like like old Nikki and

1660
01:15:12,800 --> 01:15:13,479
Speaker 1: she really does.

1661
01:15:13,600 --> 01:15:16,639
Speaker 2: So she has a song called work on the Boat.

1662
01:15:16,160 --> 01:15:18,280
Speaker 1: And it's such a cute, like fun song, and I

1663
01:15:18,320 --> 01:15:20,160
Speaker 1: feel like it's the perfect time because y'all know, Spring

1664
01:15:20,200 --> 01:15:21,040
Speaker 1: ain't that far away.

1665
01:15:21,240 --> 01:15:24,200
Speaker 2: It's nice and I want to talk on come on.

1666
01:15:24,240 --> 01:15:26,280
Speaker 1: I when I was talking about about it's such a

1667
01:15:26,320 --> 01:15:28,280
Speaker 1: cute Bob, I'm gonna play it for y'all after. So

1668
01:15:28,479 --> 01:15:30,880
Speaker 1: that's my bop of the week. Trim to work on

1669
01:15:30,880 --> 01:15:33,800
Speaker 1: the Boat, shout out to you girl. I want her

1670
01:15:33,800 --> 01:15:38,880
Speaker 1: to perform at one of our shows. Yeah, yeah, all right,

1671
01:15:38,920 --> 01:15:40,080
Speaker 1: what you been listening to, Drew?

1672
01:15:40,439 --> 01:15:41,920
Speaker 4: You know, I have.

1673
01:15:42,120 --> 01:15:44,600
Speaker 2: We talked about Summer Walker album? I can't remember we

1674
01:15:44,600 --> 01:15:47,439
Speaker 2: did we did? I Hate a Little Baby.

1675
01:15:47,439 --> 01:15:51,400
Speaker 1: I got a new album The Leaks, okay.

1676
01:15:51,120 --> 01:15:53,439
Speaker 3: And he got this song called Missus Trean Sitter. I

1677
01:15:53,520 --> 01:15:56,920
Speaker 3: love this song, but I was also a big little baby.

1678
01:15:56,720 --> 01:15:58,720
Speaker 2: Stand back in the day. So I'm just so glad

1679
01:15:58,760 --> 01:16:01,120
Speaker 2: that he's putting music out again. But yeah, I love

1680
01:16:01,160 --> 01:16:01,519
Speaker 2: this song.

1681
01:16:02,360 --> 01:16:09,599
Speaker 7: That's cute, cute, cute you already I have Okay, I've

1682
01:16:09,600 --> 01:16:12,040
Speaker 7: been listening to some real emo stuff with this. I

1683
01:16:12,080 --> 01:16:17,920
Speaker 7: love emo wait hold on, I love emo songs.

1684
01:16:18,920 --> 01:16:26,320
Speaker 2: What's will fall? Not got that emo? Hold on? Wait?

1685
01:16:26,640 --> 01:16:30,160
Speaker 2: Olivia Dean, I wanted to make sure her name Combride,

1686
01:16:30,280 --> 01:16:37,559
Speaker 2: I'm brown. She's exactly. It's a it's a bot. I

1687
01:16:37,680 --> 01:16:39,040
Speaker 2: like her. I like her a lot.

1688
01:16:39,200 --> 01:16:41,920
Speaker 1: I love when the British girls singing that accident goes

1689
01:16:41,960 --> 01:16:42,559
Speaker 1: out the window.

1690
01:16:42,720 --> 01:16:43,519
Speaker 2: It's weird.

1691
01:16:44,680 --> 01:16:47,200
Speaker 1: It's get this bed.

1692
01:16:48,680 --> 01:16:49,240
Speaker 4: Its chaps.

1693
01:16:49,960 --> 01:16:52,200
Speaker 2: You know I'm going to give you I've been in

1694
01:16:52,240 --> 01:16:55,519
Speaker 2: America my home life. It's kind of crazy. That sounded

1695
01:16:55,560 --> 01:17:03,840
Speaker 2: like a Southern grandmother. Combrade, I'm brown. That's not you'd

1696
01:17:03,840 --> 01:17:08,080
Speaker 2: be saying so much like so much, so shout out

1697
01:17:08,120 --> 01:17:10,120
Speaker 2: to Olivia. Yeah, that's what I love about that. What

1698
01:17:10,160 --> 01:17:11,559
Speaker 2: we got next? Dray my phone did?

1699
01:17:11,960 --> 01:17:14,800
Speaker 3: Okay, So now it's time for us to get in

1700
01:17:14,840 --> 01:17:18,760
Speaker 3: to pour your heart out. So make sure if y'all

1701
01:17:18,760 --> 01:17:20,679
Speaker 3: have any questions, y'all send them to ask Poor Minds

1702
01:17:20,720 --> 01:17:21,759
Speaker 3: at gmail dot com.

1703
01:17:21,760 --> 01:17:23,240
Speaker 2: That's ask p O.

1704
01:17:23,360 --> 01:17:25,840
Speaker 3: You are in my das at gmail dot com. Send

1705
01:17:25,880 --> 01:17:28,880
Speaker 3: a short testimonial, send a show question.

1706
01:17:29,200 --> 01:17:31,160
Speaker 1: We gonna do it for the shot line this week,

1707
01:17:31,320 --> 01:17:33,840
Speaker 1: and shout out to Taylor Poort. All right, what we

1708
01:17:33,880 --> 01:17:34,360
Speaker 1: got to show?

1709
01:17:35,479 --> 01:17:40,040
Speaker 6: So I'm currently twenty years old. I'm gonna be twenty

1710
01:17:40,080 --> 01:17:42,120
Speaker 6: one and like three months or whatever, and I just

1711
01:17:42,120 --> 01:17:45,320
Speaker 6: started college after taking a two year gap, and I

1712
01:17:45,360 --> 01:17:48,559
Speaker 6: always wanted to know, like for other people, not just

1713
01:17:48,640 --> 01:17:51,120
Speaker 6: like as far as like college or trying to educate yourself,

1714
01:17:51,120 --> 01:17:53,360
Speaker 6: but just trying to be a better adult in general,

1715
01:17:53,840 --> 01:17:57,519
Speaker 6: how do you keep yourselves from like feeling like you're

1716
01:17:57,520 --> 01:17:58,439
Speaker 6: not doing enough?

1717
01:17:58,640 --> 01:17:59,600
Speaker 2: Or when you.

1718
01:17:59,600 --> 01:18:01,840
Speaker 6: Guys were younger, like, how did you keep yourself from

1719
01:18:01,880 --> 01:18:04,880
Speaker 6: feeling discouraged or feeling like a failure or feeling like

1720
01:18:05,680 --> 01:18:07,599
Speaker 6: you weren't as ahead of the game as you were

1721
01:18:07,640 --> 01:18:09,800
Speaker 6: supposed to be? And how do you keep yourself from

1722
01:18:09,960 --> 01:18:11,559
Speaker 6: comparing yourself to other people?

1723
01:18:14,040 --> 01:18:16,800
Speaker 1: Well, I honestly my heart goes out to her because

1724
01:18:16,840 --> 01:18:20,479
Speaker 1: times were different when I was in my twenties. None

1725
01:18:20,520 --> 01:18:23,000
Speaker 1: of us was doing shit, and the internet wasn't like

1726
01:18:23,040 --> 01:18:25,880
Speaker 1: a thing. So even the people who were doing a lot,

1727
01:18:26,320 --> 01:18:29,320
Speaker 1: it wasn't shown a lot. It wasn't We didn't know

1728
01:18:29,360 --> 01:18:30,920
Speaker 1: what the other girls that were doing that were like

1729
01:18:30,960 --> 01:18:32,479
Speaker 1: making money being business owners.

1730
01:18:32,520 --> 01:18:33,559
Speaker 2: It was just a different time.

1731
01:18:33,680 --> 01:18:35,920
Speaker 3: We just wearing Tomes and Sperry's and we thought we

1732
01:18:36,000 --> 01:18:37,120
Speaker 3: had that sheet own.

1733
01:18:37,320 --> 01:18:39,640
Speaker 1: Yes, it was just a different times.

1734
01:18:39,720 --> 01:18:43,479
Speaker 7: It's very ya, you know for sure, remember the times

1735
01:18:43,479 --> 01:18:48,160
Speaker 7: for Felicia first day, you.

1736
01:18:48,240 --> 01:18:51,000
Speaker 2: Know at all. So I think the best thing that

1737
01:18:51,040 --> 01:18:53,120
Speaker 2: you can do is just focus.

1738
01:18:52,800 --> 01:18:55,479
Speaker 1: On your own journey and understand. I always say this,

1739
01:18:55,600 --> 01:18:59,280
Speaker 1: your journey is for you. God has some people their

1740
01:18:59,320 --> 01:19:00,360
Speaker 1: journey is suppose to be.

1741
01:19:00,400 --> 01:19:01,200
Speaker 2: They pop off at.

1742
01:19:01,080 --> 01:19:03,959
Speaker 1: Twenty twenty one and they have ten years of like greatness,

1743
01:19:04,000 --> 01:19:06,800
Speaker 1: five years, two years, whatever, and maybe your time might

1744
01:19:06,840 --> 01:19:07,360
Speaker 1: not come.

1745
01:19:07,200 --> 01:19:08,160
Speaker 2: To your forty five.

1746
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Speaker 1: Yeah, but you have to understand that your path is

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01:19:11,080 --> 01:19:13,720
Speaker 1: for you, because comparison is a thief of joy. I

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01:19:13,760 --> 01:19:16,040
Speaker 1: spent a lot of time in my late twenties. It

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01:19:16,040 --> 01:19:18,240
Speaker 1: didn't happen to me my earlies in my late twenties

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01:19:18,479 --> 01:19:21,200
Speaker 1: when I moved to Atlanta specifically and I was like,

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Speaker 1: look at this girl. She got this, she got that,

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01:19:23,520 --> 01:19:25,240
Speaker 1: she got Why don't I have none of that?

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01:19:25,479 --> 01:19:26,160
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

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01:19:26,200 --> 01:19:28,519
Speaker 1: And then it was just like, you know what, take

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01:19:28,560 --> 01:19:31,800
Speaker 1: a step back and lean into your faith, you know

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01:19:31,840 --> 01:19:33,879
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like your faith has to be stronger

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01:19:33,920 --> 01:19:36,720
Speaker 1: than your doubt and focus on your path and who

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01:19:36,800 --> 01:19:39,479
Speaker 1: you are and go on your route. And then I'm like,

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01:19:39,520 --> 01:19:41,479
Speaker 1: I looked up and I'm like, I'm having my way.

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Speaker 2: God is blessing me.

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01:19:43,240 --> 01:19:46,040
Speaker 1: So when I stopped comparing myself to a lot of

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01:19:46,040 --> 01:19:48,160
Speaker 1: these other people.

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01:19:48,320 --> 01:19:50,800
Speaker 2: That was selling that thing. Or you don't know what

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01:19:50,840 --> 01:19:52,080
Speaker 2: people are doing for their money.

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01:19:52,280 --> 01:19:55,080
Speaker 1: You don't know what people are doing behind closed doors.

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01:19:55,520 --> 01:19:57,719
Speaker 1: So and even if they are putting on front street

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01:19:57,760 --> 01:19:59,519
Speaker 1: what they do, you don't know what they had to

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01:19:59,520 --> 01:20:03,720
Speaker 1: do to get exactly. This was a long hard road

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01:20:04,040 --> 01:20:06,920
Speaker 1: to I mean, you can attest for you've been working

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01:20:06,960 --> 01:20:07,719
Speaker 1: for a long time.

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01:20:07,760 --> 01:20:09,840
Speaker 2: We all have. It's a long hard road.

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01:20:09,920 --> 01:20:12,599
Speaker 1: So a lot of times y'all just seeing the successful part,

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01:20:12,640 --> 01:20:16,519
Speaker 1: the fun part, y'all to see me Andrea going through

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01:20:16,479 --> 01:20:20,840
Speaker 1: the doing, you know what I'm saying. So you have

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01:20:20,960 --> 01:20:23,120
Speaker 1: to stop looking at other people. First of all, like,

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01:20:23,160 --> 01:20:24,040
Speaker 1: that's what you have to do.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, social media is legitimately a highlight reel, and it's unfortunate.

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01:20:27,600 --> 01:20:30,799
Speaker 7: It's a major tool that you can use to your benefit,

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01:20:30,840 --> 01:20:33,000
Speaker 7: but also it can really hinder you. It can make

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01:20:33,000 --> 01:20:35,400
Speaker 7: you feel like you're not doing enough, You're not successful enough.

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01:20:35,520 --> 01:20:37,439
Speaker 7: I'm not where I should be because I've done X,

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01:20:37,560 --> 01:20:40,120
Speaker 7: Y and Z. Why she there in that position and

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01:20:40,200 --> 01:20:43,080
Speaker 7: not me? Like you said, comparison thief would I completely agree.

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01:20:43,280 --> 01:20:45,360
Speaker 7: I also think to you, at that age, at twenty,

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01:20:45,400 --> 01:20:47,479
Speaker 7: I thought that there was a blueprint.

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01:20:46,960 --> 01:20:47,800
Speaker 2: To be successful.

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01:20:47,880 --> 01:20:48,200
Speaker 1: Yep.

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01:20:48,479 --> 01:20:52,360
Speaker 7: I looked to people in positions like Oprah, people who

1789
01:20:52,400 --> 01:20:54,040
Speaker 7: had the job that I wanted to get, and I

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01:20:54,080 --> 01:20:56,720
Speaker 7: thought that, Okay, if I do what they did, I'll

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01:20:56,760 --> 01:20:58,680
Speaker 7: get to where they're at, and which is just not

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01:20:58,720 --> 01:21:01,599
Speaker 7: true anymore. A gift and a curse in a lot

1793
01:21:01,640 --> 01:21:03,960
Speaker 7: of ways. I think you have to create your blueprint,

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01:21:04,000 --> 01:21:07,320
Speaker 7: and it's okay to have people that you respect. I

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01:21:07,320 --> 01:21:09,160
Speaker 7: think it's an issue when you start to idolize people

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01:21:09,240 --> 01:21:12,639
Speaker 7: in their journey. I think it's important to say, like, Okay,

1797
01:21:12,760 --> 01:21:14,519
Speaker 7: this is someone who's doing what I like that they're doing.

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01:21:14,560 --> 01:21:16,559
Speaker 7: Let me see how they got there and take what

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01:21:16,640 --> 01:21:19,080
Speaker 7: applies to you in your life. I don't think that

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01:21:19,120 --> 01:21:21,240
Speaker 7: you have to stick to a blueprint. I really really thought,

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01:21:21,720 --> 01:21:23,559
Speaker 7: if I do all of the things, and I intern

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01:21:23,640 --> 01:21:27,000
Speaker 7: at the right places, I work the right job, one

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01:21:27,000 --> 01:21:28,679
Speaker 7: plus one is two, I'm going to get to where

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01:21:28,680 --> 01:21:29,439
Speaker 7: I'm supposed to be.

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01:21:29,479 --> 01:21:30,559
Speaker 2: But that's just not how life works.

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01:21:30,800 --> 01:21:35,320
Speaker 7: So you have to release that expectation on yourself, keep

1807
01:21:35,360 --> 01:21:38,000
Speaker 7: your head down and not also feel like you have

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01:21:38,080 --> 01:21:40,200
Speaker 7: to share every move that you're making on social media too.

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01:21:40,400 --> 01:21:42,640
Speaker 7: I think at twenty probably for this person is like

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01:21:43,160 --> 01:21:45,280
Speaker 7: they think that, Okay, well if I don't post this

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01:21:45,320 --> 01:21:47,360
Speaker 7: week that I had this job or I had this

1812
01:21:47,479 --> 01:21:50,800
Speaker 7: success or it's not happening in real life. Keep your

1813
01:21:50,840 --> 01:21:53,320
Speaker 7: head down, keep grinding, and keep working, and that's what

1814
01:21:53,400 --> 01:21:55,559
Speaker 7: matters more than anything. Not the Internet.

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01:21:56,280 --> 01:21:59,080
Speaker 2: I agree with that. I think thief, I mean comparison

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01:21:59,200 --> 01:22:02,599
Speaker 2: is the thief of jewels. And then also figure out, y'all,

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01:22:02,680 --> 01:22:05,680
Speaker 2: why come on now?

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01:22:06,160 --> 01:22:11,160
Speaker 3: No, seriously though, figure out why you want to do

1819
01:22:11,200 --> 01:22:13,320
Speaker 3: what you claim you want to do. What is your

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01:22:13,360 --> 01:22:16,040
Speaker 3: passion for, Like, what's the real reason behind it? Is

1821
01:22:16,080 --> 01:22:18,559
Speaker 3: it because you see other people online living a life

1822
01:22:18,600 --> 01:22:21,760
Speaker 3: that you feel like living, or what you want or

1823
01:22:21,880 --> 01:22:23,479
Speaker 3: is this really what you want for yourself?

1824
01:22:23,520 --> 01:22:25,160
Speaker 2: Like you need to find yourself and figure out what

1825
01:22:25,240 --> 01:22:25,880
Speaker 2: you're why is.

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01:22:26,560 --> 01:22:29,080
Speaker 3: And I think it'll be easier for you to stop

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01:22:29,120 --> 01:22:31,960
Speaker 3: comparing your journey to other people's journey once you know

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01:22:32,600 --> 01:22:34,879
Speaker 3: why you're doing what you want to do essentially.

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01:22:35,160 --> 01:22:39,040
Speaker 2: So yeah, that's like, oh that was a word not

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01:22:39,160 --> 01:22:39,679
Speaker 2: be preaching.

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01:22:40,360 --> 01:22:43,240
Speaker 1: Okay, y'all, y'all know we gotta do the carry out? Wait,

1832
01:22:43,400 --> 01:22:46,000
Speaker 1: do we want to let people don't what they can find? You?

1833
01:22:46,120 --> 01:22:47,880
Speaker 2: What you got coming up and all that good stuff?

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01:22:47,880 --> 01:22:50,760
Speaker 7: Okay, yeah, please support my podcast the pregame you guys

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1841
01:23:07,680 --> 01:23:11,240
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Speaker 2: my cosmetics brand, please please.

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01:23:23,920 --> 01:23:25,639
Speaker 2: I am kaylen to call is my personal page.

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01:23:26,000 --> 01:23:32,240
Speaker 7: Yes, things love that, I have fun today, I'm excited

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Speaker 7: about tonight.

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01:23:32,680 --> 01:23:37,679
Speaker 1: We're okay.

1850
01:23:37,880 --> 01:23:39,320
Speaker 2: So we end the song with a do you know

1851
01:23:39,360 --> 01:23:40,720
Speaker 2: what song you want to do? You said you knew

1852
01:23:40,720 --> 01:23:43,880
Speaker 2: what we should do? Tell me practicton? Uh, what's the

1853
01:23:43,920 --> 01:23:51,160
Speaker 2: song called? Which one? Like? He was the song that's

1854
01:23:51,160 --> 01:23:51,800
Speaker 2: my favorite?

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01:23:51,960 --> 01:23:57,559
Speaker 1: Ask you question you what spotifyed wrap every year? What

1856
01:23:57,640 --> 01:24:00,240
Speaker 1: was your motivation for your Halloween costume? Because every year

1857
01:24:00,280 --> 01:24:03,240
Speaker 1: you do a grand constant. What was the last year

1858
01:24:03,240 --> 01:24:05,439
Speaker 1: I did Seerr? This year we did Tony. It was

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01:24:05,479 --> 01:24:06,639
Speaker 1: just it was a banger. It was a bop.

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01:24:06,680 --> 01:24:08,719
Speaker 7: I feel like it just spoke to me. And also

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01:24:08,760 --> 01:24:11,679
Speaker 7: like I had the wardrobe. It was between Tony and Beyonce,

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01:24:11,720 --> 01:24:13,280
Speaker 7: and the Beyonce look that I was going to do

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01:24:13,479 --> 01:24:15,599
Speaker 7: was going to require way more effort and time.

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Speaker 2: So it's kind of like everything lined up. I love

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01:24:18,360 --> 01:24:21,680
Speaker 2: that you want to start it off. Oh no, I

1866
01:24:21,720 --> 01:24:24,360
Speaker 2: think we let our gifts do the honors acapella.

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01:24:24,720 --> 01:24:25,280
Speaker 4: Yeah we do it.

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01:24:26,960 --> 01:24:29,320
Speaker 2: Yeah you read.

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01:24:35,760 --> 01:24:43,640
Speaker 7: Wait doc, yeah, yeah, don't you know?

1870
01:24:45,640 --> 01:24:56,439
Speaker 2: But choose about when you said I didn't want its

1871
01:24:56,720 --> 01:25:04,840
Speaker 2: work ahead. But dang si playing me. You wasn't man me.

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01:25:06,439 --> 01:25:12,240
Speaker 2: Now here's a chance already. Man you want to swell?

1873
01:25:12,360 --> 01:25:14,519
Speaker 1: He's here and I mean married.

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01:25:17,800 --> 01:25:20,720
Speaker 2: You know the truth. I think it's just the man

1875
01:25:20,840 --> 01:25:22,799
Speaker 2: for you. What are you thinking?

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01:25:23,880 --> 01:25:24,160
Speaker 5: You know?

1877
01:25:26,400 --> 01:25:28,320
Speaker 2: Do you know hus man?

1878
01:25:29,080 --> 01:25:33,720
Speaker 7: Girlfriend, I'm not thinking about him, but you married him?

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01:25:34,479 --> 01:25:37,439
Speaker 2: Do you know how I made him leave? Because you

1880
01:25:37,560 --> 01:25:41,800
Speaker 2: know he mad a stay with me. He wasn't mad

1881
01:25:42,000 --> 01:25:42,560
Speaker 2: enough for me.

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01:25:49,000 --> 01:25:51,640
Speaker 1: Shouting out to my glatory, coming to a lady by

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01:25:51,680 --> 01:25:54,360
Speaker 1: the way talking you hit us something that we're ready,

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01:25:54,479 --> 01:25:58,760
Speaker 1: were ready waiting him, So y'all make sure she's gonna

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01:25:58,800 --> 01:25:59,160
Speaker 1: teach her.

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01:25:59,640 --> 01:26:06,840
Speaker 2: When you hello, maybe you're gonna follow. My girl came

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Speaker 2: to the call and looking up and