WEBVTT - Episode 10 Ft. Kaylin Garcia 0:00:08.280 --> 0:00:10.239 What's up is angela? Ye? And you know what time 0:00:10.240 --> 0:00:11.879 it is. It's time for lip service. I got my 0:00:11.920 --> 0:00:15.360 girl Gi McGuire with me, Stephanie santiago, and tonight we 0:00:15.440 --> 0:00:19.200 have Kaylin Garcia in the studio. Now. Kaylin is known 0:00:19.239 --> 0:00:22.920 for being Joe Button's girlfriend. She's also an expert worker, 0:00:22.960 --> 0:00:25.560 and she's also gonna be on couples therapy with Joe Button. 0:00:25.840 --> 0:00:28.520 So she's gonna give up some goods today. A lot 0:00:28.520 --> 0:00:31.159 of things about her that I don't know that we 0:00:31.200 --> 0:00:33.000 are going to find out, and she's gonna be very 0:00:33.080 --> 0:00:35.559 open and can you believe she's never had an orgasm 0:00:35.640 --> 0:00:38.519 through penetration? Alright, check it out, lip service? What's up 0:00:38.600 --> 0:00:41.960 is angela? Ye, I'm Stephanie santiago and I'm Gi McGuire 0:00:42.040 --> 0:00:44.520 and Kylen Garcia. That's right. In this slip service, Kaylyn 0:00:44.600 --> 0:00:49.240 jump right into it. Girl usually argues be a little timid. 0:00:49.680 --> 0:00:52.040 I'm like, oh wow, you guys do that really good. 0:00:53.880 --> 0:00:56.320 I'm like, dang, I didn't prepare for this. I didn't know. 0:00:56.400 --> 0:00:59.520 There's no preparation. Okay, but we don't even know what 0:00:59.560 --> 0:01:02.000 we about to ask you. You can never prepare for 0:01:02.040 --> 0:01:04.000 lip services, you know how we prepare, we get here 0:01:04.000 --> 0:01:06.320 a little early. We have a drink, and we talked 0:01:06.360 --> 0:01:09.080 about what's going on in our lives, like during this 0:01:09.160 --> 0:01:11.600 past week, because we see each other every week and 0:01:11.640 --> 0:01:13.680 so we talked about different things that are of interest. 0:01:13.760 --> 0:01:16.679 Like today was talking about one of her friends that 0:01:16.760 --> 0:01:20.280 caught her boyfriend cheating. Tell the story because this is 0:01:20.640 --> 0:01:25.520 she stole his car. Wait who she caught the She 0:01:25.600 --> 0:01:28.840 caught her boyfriend with another girl. Um, she went to 0:01:28.920 --> 0:01:32.120 the location where they were at. His friend was outside 0:01:32.319 --> 0:01:34.280 in the car. She took the car keys from him 0:01:34.280 --> 0:01:36.360 and said, tell them nigga to come outside, and when 0:01:36.400 --> 0:01:38.760 he came outside, she beat him up and then she left. 0:01:38.840 --> 0:01:40.240 And then when he went in the house, she came 0:01:40.280 --> 0:01:42.600 back and stole the car and left with the car. 0:01:42.840 --> 0:01:44.600 So he was looking for the car for like the 0:01:44.640 --> 0:01:47.520 whole day. So he wasn't gonna call the cops in 0:01:47.560 --> 0:01:50.320 her no no, no, no no. And then um, a 0:01:50.360 --> 0:01:52.480 week later, update, she put a track in device in 0:01:52.560 --> 0:01:55.480 his car. But now mind you she cat and she's 0:01:55.480 --> 0:01:58.360 still with him. Yeah, she's crazy. She's crazy over him. 0:01:58.400 --> 0:02:04.120 I think he has like platinum penish. That makes sense 0:02:05.640 --> 0:02:08.799 because he can do like any diamond, like he could 0:02:08.840 --> 0:02:11.160 do anything, and she'll like beat him up and go 0:02:11.240 --> 0:02:13.680 crazy and cut him off and her too, and then 0:02:13.680 --> 0:02:15.560 she'd be like, don't judge me, friend, I'm going back, 0:02:15.600 --> 0:02:18.360 and I'll be like, girl, no going back, don't judge me, friend, 0:02:18.400 --> 0:02:21.359 I'm going But the crazy thing is that she'll beat 0:02:21.400 --> 0:02:24.440 him up and he'll take her back. Yeah, yeah, yeah right. 0:02:24.480 --> 0:02:26.440 I don't think a woman should ever put hands on 0:02:26.480 --> 0:02:30.160 a man specific but I have a lot of times. 0:02:31.680 --> 0:02:34.919 I don't think I should, but I don't think he 0:02:35.000 --> 0:02:39.079 should because you're looking at to get him back. Listen. 0:02:39.160 --> 0:02:40.880 I always make that my room. I don't put my 0:02:40.960 --> 0:02:44.280 hands on nobody like. And this guy that I was 0:02:44.360 --> 0:02:46.320 dating told me he was like, listen, my mom always 0:02:46.360 --> 0:02:47.720 told me that if you ever have to put your 0:02:47.720 --> 0:02:48.960 hands on a woman, you don't need to be with 0:02:49.000 --> 0:02:52.440 her period. I put my hands on my X, my 0:02:52.480 --> 0:02:54.600 first X one time, but that was because he was 0:02:54.639 --> 0:02:56.600 bothering me, and I was like, right after he cheated, 0:02:56.720 --> 0:02:59.040 So I was like, you got some nerves to fucking 0:02:59.080 --> 0:03:02.320 earth my nerves Like, so I slash and what do 0:03:02.360 --> 0:03:04.920 he do? He started crying and then he was like 0:03:05.880 --> 0:03:08.959 hit me again, get you again. I feel bad that 0:03:09.080 --> 0:03:12.200 I just hit you. He's like, I'm sorry, he liked 0:03:12.280 --> 0:03:18.119 it kind of backfiredired. I don't know, but yeah, that's 0:03:18.200 --> 0:03:20.560 only hit that one time. But see now, what if 0:03:20.560 --> 0:03:22.480 it was the other way around and you cheated on 0:03:22.560 --> 0:03:24.720 him and he was not enough and he smacked you 0:03:27.240 --> 0:03:31.240 that I would have to fight, Like what you call 0:03:31.280 --> 0:03:34.920 the cops? I would fight him and then call the cups. 0:03:36.240 --> 0:03:39.760 Some taboo to call the cops on a guy fight 0:03:39.840 --> 0:03:42.640 him in the cops? Have you ever called the cops 0:03:42.680 --> 0:03:48.000 on somebody? No, not me, I haven't because I'm I'm 0:03:48.040 --> 0:03:50.400 I'm a little psycho. So if a guy hits me, 0:03:50.440 --> 0:03:52.400 I'm gonna like hit him back. I'm gonna chase him 0:03:52.400 --> 0:03:54.440 with a hammer. I'm gonna hit him and had with 0:03:54.480 --> 0:03:58.520 a bottle or something right back. Yeah, Like, if the 0:03:58.560 --> 0:04:00.800 cops come, they're probably gonna ask came if he wants 0:04:00.840 --> 0:04:04.920 the press charge and results in death. Yeah, that's why 0:04:04.920 --> 0:04:07.360 you just gotta stay away from the abuse, Stay away 0:04:07.360 --> 0:04:09.600 from the cops and the cops. J Have you ever 0:04:09.640 --> 0:04:14.040 called the cops on I don't know. The street is 0:04:14.080 --> 0:04:17.120 that you are not supposed to call it criminal history. 0:04:18.520 --> 0:04:20.160 Taking a toll on me and beating the shoot out 0:04:20.160 --> 0:04:21.919 of me. I'm going to continue to fight back and 0:04:21.960 --> 0:04:27.680 then call the cops straight up that ship. Because listen, 0:04:27.720 --> 0:04:29.400 I was thinking about this because the other day, right, 0:04:29.760 --> 0:04:33.240 people were arguing about Orlando Andrea and supposedly, you know, 0:04:33.600 --> 0:04:36.240 he had to get a restraining order against her because 0:04:36.279 --> 0:04:38.960 she pepper sprayed him. She was throwing things at him 0:04:38.960 --> 0:04:41.360 and throwing books at him through his clothes in the pool. 0:04:41.800 --> 0:04:44.240 And I kind of have to feel like I understand it, 0:04:44.360 --> 0:04:46.640 you know what I'm saying, because that's what I was 0:04:46.640 --> 0:04:50.400 about the X what he does now. But I think 0:04:50.440 --> 0:04:52.560 I think he just they were breaking up, and you know, 0:04:52.560 --> 0:04:56.120 they were living together, so it's kind of hard, you know, right, 0:04:56.160 --> 0:04:59.160 But I understand it because as a man and an 0:04:59.240 --> 0:05:01.120 NFL player, you don't want to put your hands in 0:05:01.160 --> 0:05:03.640 a women because your career is over after that. So 0:05:03.760 --> 0:05:06.680 what am I supposed to do? Call the cops, get 0:05:06.720 --> 0:05:08.159 every standing order to get her out of here, because 0:05:08.160 --> 0:05:09.520 I don't want a woman to make me want to 0:05:09.560 --> 0:05:11.599 feel like I have to defend myself and put my 0:05:11.640 --> 0:05:13.480 hands on you, and now I'm gonna end up in 0:05:13.640 --> 0:05:16.839 troubling You're not. Yeah, that's the smartest that's the smartest 0:05:16.839 --> 0:05:23.240 move for him to make yes. Yes, you know, I 0:05:23.279 --> 0:05:24.599 don't want to. I don't want to talk about my 0:05:24.640 --> 0:05:29.920 ex boyfriend anymore on lip servers. Two comments, girl, don't comments. 0:05:32.200 --> 0:05:36.640 It only takes steforty two minutes. All right, go ahead, 0:05:36.640 --> 0:05:40.240 like to So you call the cops on you? Yeah, 0:05:40.279 --> 0:05:42.440 a couple of times, man, but we're not gonna talk 0:05:42.440 --> 0:05:45.479 about that. You gotta tell us never had the cops 0:05:45.520 --> 0:05:47.800 called No, it's um and it's not only him that 0:05:47.880 --> 0:05:49.760 called the cops on me. The neighbors will call the 0:05:49.760 --> 0:05:51.560 cops and then the cops will come and be like, 0:05:51.839 --> 0:05:53.800 do you want to press charges on him? Because he'll 0:05:53.800 --> 0:05:55.919 be leaking and I look like an angel. I'm like, 0:05:55.960 --> 0:05:59.800 I didn't do anything, and you know you crazy. But 0:06:00.480 --> 0:06:03.000 he never pressed charges on me one time. One time 0:06:03.040 --> 0:06:04.880 they took me away because I was acting crazy, but 0:06:04.880 --> 0:06:06.640 they didn't arrest me. They put me in a mental 0:06:06.680 --> 0:06:12.200 hospital much worse. I would have rather got arrested, not 0:06:12.440 --> 0:06:15.160 because I was going crazy. I was going crazy on everybody, 0:06:15.160 --> 0:06:16.760 and you didn't want to press charges on me. So 0:06:16.839 --> 0:06:20.279 he was like, you know what if we were having 0:06:20.279 --> 0:06:22.760 a fight, Clearly I don't even think. I don't I 0:06:22.800 --> 0:06:25.640 can't even I can't remember what we were fighting about. 0:06:25.800 --> 0:06:28.800 What it was about. Yeah, I don't like. We had 0:06:28.839 --> 0:06:31.000 so many fights and we would turn like the little 0:06:31.000 --> 0:06:33.800 worst thing into something so huge. So I don't know. 0:06:33.839 --> 0:06:37.919 We could have been fighting about crayons. You not my 0:06:38.000 --> 0:06:46.920 last boyfriend and my baby daddy yet. Yeah, but you know, 0:06:47.680 --> 0:06:50.359 I mean, he and are good friends now. But you know, 0:06:50.360 --> 0:06:56.160 everybody thinks you have a crazy boyfriend. Huh, everybody thinks 0:06:56.200 --> 0:06:59.080 you have a crazy boyfriend. What boyfriend? You know, Joe? 0:06:59.120 --> 0:07:01.320 But because ya was therapy about to be on a 0:07:01.360 --> 0:07:05.680 couple OF's therapy, trying to work through issues, so you know, 0:07:06.200 --> 0:07:08.400 in our minds, as your boyfriend, like y'all broke up, 0:07:08.440 --> 0:07:11.080 got back together, broke up, got back together. He's at 0:07:11.080 --> 0:07:16.520 the birthday party, y'all hanging out. Damn you must like 0:07:17.760 --> 0:07:22.880 you must like crazy a little bit? Uh yeah, a 0:07:22.920 --> 0:07:25.840 little bit. Maybe it's just enough. I don't know. But 0:07:25.920 --> 0:07:29.000 he's not like my boyfriend. I'm single. I like you 0:07:29.040 --> 0:07:32.040 guys together. You guys are fun. Yeah, we have dope chemistry. 0:07:32.040 --> 0:07:36.560 But I don't think like right now, it's just come on, 0:07:37.160 --> 0:07:42.800 I'm trying to I don't right now it's gonna work. No, 0:07:43.080 --> 0:07:45.160 right now I'm just like just working out. Did you 0:07:45.160 --> 0:07:48.880 ever think he was the one? You know what, at first, 0:07:48.920 --> 0:07:51.239 I didn't believe in like having kids or being married 0:07:51.320 --> 0:07:53.320 or anything like that. And he was probably the first 0:07:53.360 --> 0:07:56.280 one to actually change my mind. And like when that 0:07:56.480 --> 0:07:59.160 kid and for me to even just go there, that's 0:07:59.160 --> 0:08:01.440 a big step. But you were super young, though, when 0:08:01.440 --> 0:08:04.440 you guys are super super young. But you know, I'm young, 0:08:04.520 --> 0:08:07.080 you're doing making mistakes, Like I'm just figuring out myself, 0:08:07.120 --> 0:08:09.880 Like I'm only twenty three years old, Like I'm just baby, 0:08:10.600 --> 0:08:15.240 Like I'm going through I'm still growing in you know, life, 0:08:15.720 --> 0:08:18.360 in life, just like everybody else, just like in the 0:08:18.400 --> 0:08:21.520 public eye kind and Joe, how old is Joey? Well, 0:08:21.560 --> 0:08:24.760 you're like thirty five. Yeah, so he got a little 0:08:24.760 --> 0:08:27.960 more a little more experience, you know what he's doing, 0:08:29.360 --> 0:08:34.200 you know. But I'm sure I listened after that exposure, 0:08:34.200 --> 0:08:36.440 a lot of guys try to higlight at you. Clearly, 0:08:36.800 --> 0:08:38.520 I've heard some stories about guys trying to how that 0:08:38.640 --> 0:08:40.920 you showing up at the club, you know, giving you 0:08:41.000 --> 0:08:43.720 presents walking out. Now, we were talking about this earlier. 0:08:43.840 --> 0:08:46.079 Should you accept a present from somebody that you don't 0:08:46.760 --> 0:08:48.440 like at all, Like what if they have at tracking 0:08:48.480 --> 0:08:51.800 device in it or something like? What if everybody comes 0:08:51.880 --> 0:08:53.960 up to you and like somebody you've met before, but 0:08:54.040 --> 0:08:56.760 he's completely inattractive, but he walks up to you in 0:08:56.800 --> 0:08:59.560 the club and he gives you a diamond bracelet. Well, 0:08:59.559 --> 0:09:01.680 I don't want to be like rude and disrespectful and 0:09:01.679 --> 0:09:04.400 just throw it away, so you would accept it? Because 0:09:04.440 --> 0:09:07.000 sometimes I feel like it's hard to accept a present 0:09:07.040 --> 0:09:08.839 from somebody if you know you don't like them, because 0:09:08.880 --> 0:09:10.600 then that kind of leaves the door. So what are 0:09:10.640 --> 0:09:12.800 you gonna say, like, I don't want to accept this gift? 0:09:13.240 --> 0:09:14.840 You say that, you can say, I mean you could 0:09:14.880 --> 0:09:16.960 be like no things I don't want. You can say 0:09:17.240 --> 0:09:21.040 you don't want to say no to any gift. I 0:09:21.120 --> 0:09:23.760 like gifts. So you're saying no matter what, if somebody 0:09:23.800 --> 0:09:25.400 gives you a gift, I'll take it, even if he's 0:09:25.400 --> 0:09:27.240 gonna harass you and annoy the ship out of you. 0:09:27.360 --> 0:09:29.240 There's a such thing on the iPhone called block this 0:09:29.360 --> 0:09:34.199 color right social media to block. But then does you 0:09:34.280 --> 0:09:36.440 feel bad taking something from somebody that you know you 0:09:36.480 --> 0:09:39.280 don't like? But if he says, okay, this is a gift, 0:09:39.320 --> 0:09:43.360 a gift is a gift. But listen, all those gifts 0:09:43.360 --> 0:09:45.960 come with strings attached. Like if a guy gives you 0:09:46.000 --> 0:09:49.920 something he couldn't think it's gonna get Like, I think 0:09:49.960 --> 0:09:52.960 it depends on how the gift is received, you know, 0:09:53.080 --> 0:09:55.160 like if if a guy who doesn't like you gives 0:09:55.160 --> 0:09:56.839 you a call and says, hey, what's your size on 0:09:56.920 --> 0:10:00.760 my sacks? I'm about to buy you a pair of shoes. 0:10:01.320 --> 0:10:03.160 I mean, if you don't like him, you say no, 0:10:03.920 --> 0:10:07.319 you know what I mean. That's but if someone comes 0:10:07.520 --> 0:10:09.800 you know, if someone has a gift, exactly, if someone 0:10:09.840 --> 0:10:12.240 says a gift to your job or to your home, 0:10:12.360 --> 0:10:14.360 or if someone shows up out an appearance that you're 0:10:14.400 --> 0:10:16.400 at and gives you a gift, Yeah, I take it. 0:10:17.240 --> 0:10:22.400 I don't think and flowers and ship the flowers. That's 0:10:22.520 --> 0:10:25.839 nothing I'm talking about. To see, the problem is guy's 0:10:25.840 --> 0:10:28.000 gifts gifts and then they expect stuff and return. Let 0:10:28.040 --> 0:10:30.640 me tell y'all had a guy recently. It was actually 0:10:30.679 --> 0:10:33.800 his birthday and he was in the mall and I'm like, oh, 0:10:34.000 --> 0:10:36.240 you're shopping for your birthday fit and he like, Nah, 0:10:36.320 --> 0:10:37.959 it just happen to be my birthday and I'm in 0:10:38.000 --> 0:10:40.000 the mall I'm like, all right, well that's cool. If 0:10:40.000 --> 0:10:41.520 that's the case, then buy me something if it's not 0:10:41.559 --> 0:10:43.400 about your birthday, Like I need some jeans that were 0:10:43.480 --> 0:10:50.000 twenty nine, right. He buys the jeans, and then it 0:10:50.040 --> 0:10:51.400 wasn't his birthday when he gave me the jeans. It 0:10:51.400 --> 0:10:52.839 was like a couple of days later. So he gave 0:10:52.880 --> 0:10:56.160 me the jeans. He was out whatever. Cool, and then 0:10:56.160 --> 0:10:58.200 at night I get a text like can I stay 0:10:58.240 --> 0:11:04.040 with you tonight? Come on, man, guess what he's blocked. 0:11:04.840 --> 0:11:10.800 He's blocked some page then on like some hundred and 0:11:10.840 --> 0:11:13.199 sixty dollars And it could be. But now, what if 0:11:13.200 --> 0:11:15.720 he brought you something to say that was ten thousand 0:11:15.800 --> 0:11:18.560 dollars and sent you that text? Would you accept that? 0:11:19.160 --> 0:11:22.440 And would you say I wouldn't. Yeah, I'm not saying 0:11:22.440 --> 0:11:24.319 that you're sucking for it, but you might like I 0:11:24.360 --> 0:11:28.680 feel like sometimes you having sex, you spell very exchange. 0:11:28.760 --> 0:11:31.559 Is no robbery, ladies, that's not forget. But I also 0:11:31.600 --> 0:11:34.160 feel like, if you accept the gift this ten thousand dollars, 0:11:34.280 --> 0:11:37.200 that must mean you must really like that's a huge deal. 0:11:37.760 --> 0:11:42.600 I think I've ever accepted I haven't even you know, 0:11:42.640 --> 0:11:44.320 But what if somebody came to you like here like 0:11:44.760 --> 0:11:48.000 five thousand. Still didn't him right, Well, not that you're 0:11:48.000 --> 0:11:50.480 obligated to, but you can't block somebody that just brought 0:11:50.480 --> 0:11:54.400 you something for five thousand dollars. I mean you can't. 0:11:55.200 --> 0:11:57.200 You can't, but it's kind of sucked up. Like then 0:11:57.240 --> 0:12:00.079 you meant blocked because the ext to stay with me 0:12:00.240 --> 0:12:04.080 at night, like and it wasn't no, and it was 0:12:05.920 --> 0:12:08.679 what happened. I didn't want to date him. And then 0:12:08.679 --> 0:12:09.959 he's like, but wait, let me take your shopping. I 0:12:10.000 --> 0:12:12.760 was like, okay, I told you I don't want to date. 0:12:12.800 --> 0:12:14.560 You still want to take me shop? Let's go? Still 0:12:14.600 --> 0:12:19.120 took me shopping, and then I still said no, I'm sorry. No, 0:12:19.160 --> 0:12:20.959 I'm said I'm sorry. I said no. He goes, but no, 0:12:21.040 --> 0:12:23.360 let me just take your shop. I'm like, I'm a girl. 0:12:23.360 --> 0:12:25.280 I'm not gonna freaking. But and that's his fun. Now 0:12:25.320 --> 0:12:28.440 if you already told him no ahead of time and 0:12:28.480 --> 0:12:33.240 you still and know you offer that I didn't ask 0:12:33.280 --> 0:12:35.880 you to take me shopping. My my favorite designer bag 0:12:35.920 --> 0:12:38.800 that I own, Um, it's about a ten thousand dollar bag. 0:12:38.840 --> 0:12:41.360 It's a Channel Jumbo. And the guy who gave me 0:12:41.400 --> 0:12:43.839 that bag. I've never even met him. I've never had 0:12:43.880 --> 0:12:48.320 sex with him. I swear on my kids, you meeting 0:12:48.360 --> 0:12:53.720 these men had So how did this happen? My friend, 0:12:54.120 --> 0:12:56.360 I was in Numbers, I was in Paris. Um I 0:12:56.400 --> 0:12:58.480 went on my own dime. I went to hang out 0:12:58.600 --> 0:13:00.920 with my boys. At the time, I was a personal assistant. 0:13:01.320 --> 0:13:03.400 He was married to my sister. So we us three. 0:13:03.400 --> 0:13:07.840 We went to Paris and there will yeah, but check 0:13:07.840 --> 0:13:09.679 it out. I got my own hotel room. I ended 0:13:09.720 --> 0:13:13.640 up being like a ranky dink wack hotel in Paris 0:13:13.640 --> 0:13:16.920 on the corner of some street corner. It was crazy that, 0:13:17.000 --> 0:13:19.360 as romantic as it might have sounded. So my friend 0:13:19.440 --> 0:13:22.760 exactly as my picture of Paris. So my friend is like, 0:13:22.800 --> 0:13:25.600 oh no, I know this guy. He's um. He's like 0:13:25.640 --> 0:13:28.559 a soccer player. I'll hook you up with him and 0:13:28.559 --> 0:13:30.240 he'll take care of you the whole time. He's in 0:13:30.280 --> 0:13:33.320 the South of France to worry about it. So I'm like, okay. 0:13:33.400 --> 0:13:35.000 So I just started texting the guy. He's like, where 0:13:35.000 --> 0:13:37.000 are you staying. I'm like, oh, I'm here. He was like, 0:13:37.040 --> 0:13:39.960 oh no, I'm gonna put you um in. He put 0:13:40.000 --> 0:13:42.960 me like in a five star hotel for my whole stay. 0:13:43.040 --> 0:13:44.680 I never met the guy. Still to this day, I 0:13:44.679 --> 0:13:46.800 still haven't met him. To this day, he put he 0:13:46.880 --> 0:13:49.240 paid for my like for my hotel for ten days. 0:13:49.320 --> 0:13:51.839 I was in Paris for ten days and we were 0:13:52.000 --> 0:13:54.040 just like talking, like kicking it, like oh, how's your 0:13:54.040 --> 0:13:56.200 trip and he was like what's your Like what do you? 0:13:56.200 --> 0:13:57.719 What do you I was like, oh, I can't. I 0:13:57.760 --> 0:13:59.720 can't to Paris to buy a Chanel bag from it 0:13:59.760 --> 0:14:02.880 comes Liman shop because I wanted it straight from Paris. 0:14:02.960 --> 0:14:04.760 I just said that to him and he was like 0:14:04.800 --> 0:14:06.559 what bag. He was like which one? He sent me 0:14:06.600 --> 0:14:09.080 a picture of the bag. It's the Chanelle Jumbo. He 0:14:09.160 --> 0:14:10.760 was like this bag and I was like, yeah, this 0:14:10.840 --> 0:14:13.520 is the That's exactly the bag that I want. And 0:14:13.600 --> 0:14:15.880 I swear on everything I love. He sent it to 0:14:15.920 --> 0:14:20.320 my hotel. The concierge came with the bag. I almost 0:14:20.480 --> 0:14:23.040 passed out. I would have passed that. I almost passed out. 0:14:23.160 --> 0:14:26.520 And to this day I have not met the guy. 0:14:26.520 --> 0:14:31.480 What am I doing wrong? Okay? I speak to him sometimes, 0:14:31.520 --> 0:14:37.520 I well, I haven't. I haven't been in this a 0:14:37.560 --> 0:14:40.080 true story. This is a true story, but I mean 0:14:40.200 --> 0:14:42.640 and I've been in a relationship for the past years. 0:14:42.640 --> 0:14:44.760 So I haven't spoken to him really and I changed 0:14:44.800 --> 0:14:47.800 my number. But before that, like we would just talk regular, 0:14:47.920 --> 0:14:50.120 like he didn't even care. Like the guy is so rich, 0:14:50.160 --> 0:14:52.240 he didn't even care. What does he look like though? 0:14:52.280 --> 0:14:56.320 Is he attractive? He's good looking, he's good looking. He's 0:14:56.400 --> 0:14:58.440 dark skinned, but I like that. I really like dark 0:14:58.480 --> 0:15:01.840 skin and U I like light skin, like dark skin, anything, 0:15:02.320 --> 0:15:06.640 not anything, as long as you're good looking, because dark 0:15:06.640 --> 0:15:08.880 skin and light skinned people can't be good looking. And 0:15:08.960 --> 0:15:11.040 you can get an ugly motherfucker that's light skinned and 0:15:11.080 --> 0:15:14.400 an ugly motherfucker that's dark skain. So but you're saying 0:15:14.400 --> 0:15:19.080 he is good one to ten, I give him a seven. Okay, 0:15:19.120 --> 0:15:23.880 that's not is that including personality with personalities six and 0:15:23.880 --> 0:15:26.680 a half. He has a bad personality. He doesn't have 0:15:26.720 --> 0:15:32.000 a bad personality, but he acts like he's rich. No, 0:15:32.160 --> 0:15:37.320 he acts like it he is rich. He's extremely like 0:15:37.760 --> 0:15:41.800 Aaron mas Baman or whatever. All of that. I don't care. 0:15:42.160 --> 0:15:44.280 Like that's the type of guy he's he's a flashy guy, 0:15:44.280 --> 0:15:46.800 and I don't like that. I like my girl to 0:15:46.840 --> 0:15:52.880 be key. Yeah, yeah, you're like. I like guys who 0:15:52.880 --> 0:15:55.440 get their money on the street. I like guys who 0:15:55.440 --> 0:16:00.880 are going to jail soon. True story, real talk. I 0:16:00.880 --> 0:16:06.120 didn't want to guy, But Cayle, you are still only 0:16:06.720 --> 0:16:10.200 three years Is it very intimidating for guys when they 0:16:10.200 --> 0:16:13.640 meet you to try to talk to you? Yeah? What 0:16:13.840 --> 0:16:19.640 works if you've made me laugh and holds a great conversation, 0:16:20.000 --> 0:16:22.280 Like that's dope, Like that's cool to kick it with. Like, 0:16:22.600 --> 0:16:25.080 but right now, I'm just not really looking for anybody, 0:16:25.320 --> 0:16:30.680 like or trying to entertain and entertain friendships when you're 0:16:30.720 --> 0:16:34.320 not looking, that's when they fall into your left. Yeah, 0:16:34.600 --> 0:16:37.360 but what about sex? You don't need sex often, girl 0:16:37.480 --> 0:16:44.400 porn health dot Com. Through the conversation earlier, I was happy. 0:16:45.040 --> 0:16:48.160 I was trying to date somebody, right while I was 0:16:48.280 --> 0:16:50.320 dating somebody, and then I had to drop it because 0:16:50.320 --> 0:16:54.280 he couldn't make me come right. Oh my god, that's unfortunate. 0:16:55.560 --> 0:17:00.160 Then it was just like after that, I was it's 0:17:00.200 --> 0:17:02.200 like done, Like I was just like, man that ship, 0:17:02.280 --> 0:17:04.240 Like I why am I having sex? Like what's the 0:17:04.280 --> 0:17:07.280 point of having sex if if one person is only benefiting? 0:17:07.320 --> 0:17:10.080 And it's like, I'm not flying five hours in twenty 0:17:10.080 --> 0:17:12.600 four minutes to see you for no fucking reason, las 0:17:12.640 --> 0:17:20.000 across country get yours and not get mine. But I'm 0:17:20.000 --> 0:17:23.719 cooking for you in your home with stop it. You 0:17:23.760 --> 0:17:27.000 can't teach a guy how to make you come. I 0:17:27.119 --> 0:17:29.639 just feel like, why I gotta teach somebody to do? 0:17:29.840 --> 0:17:33.520 I feel like, I feel like if you're um twenty eight, 0:17:34.280 --> 0:17:37.680 like an under I'll teach you no problem. But once 0:17:37.720 --> 0:17:40.560 you're hitting that thirty thirty five mark from there, like 0:17:40.600 --> 0:17:43.440 you should know what to do. It's a little frustrating 0:17:43.520 --> 0:17:45.800 to teach a guy. And I'm I'm not gonna lie. 0:17:45.840 --> 0:17:49.120 I've I've taught almost every single guy i've had backs 0:17:49.160 --> 0:17:55.800 to how to eat pussy. But but it's if I 0:17:55.840 --> 0:17:58.000 go down the line right here, right now, right, I'm 0:17:58.000 --> 0:18:01.879 sure all of us like a pussy in differently, Like 0:18:02.000 --> 0:18:07.119 I'm sure like something that I don't like it, and 0:18:07.280 --> 0:18:09.840 I like some things that you don't like. Let's run, 0:18:09.960 --> 0:18:11.560 let's do it. Let's run down the line. And gee, 0:18:12.200 --> 0:18:15.600 I like how you I like a sloppy I like 0:18:15.680 --> 0:18:17.720 to use the whole mouth and the lips and the 0:18:17.800 --> 0:18:21.160 tongue and suck on it and all of that. Put 0:18:21.160 --> 0:18:23.159 your whole face in it. Don't be scared and just 0:18:23.240 --> 0:18:27.480 use the tip of your tongue's terrible. And guess what 0:18:27.520 --> 0:18:29.399 you can keep You can keep them fingers to yourself. 0:18:29.440 --> 0:18:33.159 I don't need your fingering me while you're I can't wait. 0:18:34.440 --> 0:18:36.399 But what about fingers in your butt while they do it? 0:18:36.720 --> 0:18:41.600 You can put your fingers, but a day day. The 0:18:44.320 --> 0:18:53.119 ante it's the kissing on the side, first, the inner thighs. 0:18:53.720 --> 0:18:58.600 I love that anticipation. Then you go right between the 0:18:58.640 --> 0:19:07.040 booty the tink damn, that's for guys, hang or whatever 0:19:07.119 --> 0:19:09.200 that is. Then you just you know, you take your tongue. 0:19:09.240 --> 0:19:12.560 You're working slowly, do your tongue first, and then you 0:19:12.600 --> 0:19:15.840 do the full tongue. You know how they do this 0:19:15.920 --> 0:19:19.520 first and then do the You guys have to see 0:19:19.520 --> 0:19:24.160 the hand. Yeah, you have to describe it for people listening. Yeah, 0:19:24.240 --> 0:19:26.239 I don't even know how to describe. It's more like, 0:19:26.880 --> 0:19:29.040 let me see the flicking the tongue. Maybe look at 0:19:29.080 --> 0:19:37.359 that flock at the tongue. Yeah, gradually just like that 0:19:37.440 --> 0:19:40.160 and then it vibrates and all that nice. What about 0:19:40.200 --> 0:19:43.080 you know what I do like? You don't like the 0:19:43.119 --> 0:19:45.760 fingers in your vagina? I don't know. It just it 0:19:45.880 --> 0:19:49.399 distracts me from I know, I agree with you. I 0:19:49.400 --> 0:19:52.320 don't really like fingers in my vagina while he's eating you. 0:19:52.480 --> 0:19:55.320 I don't. That just makes it that enhances it, like 0:19:55.720 --> 0:19:57.560 what do you like that? And what do you like this? 0:19:57.680 --> 0:20:02.520 It feels like a kind ofcological exam and so what 0:20:02.600 --> 0:20:05.800 do you want to go? But first of all, I 0:20:05.840 --> 0:20:07.480 would say this, I like getting nice and gentle, and 0:20:07.560 --> 0:20:10.640 I like consistency. Like sometimes a guy will be doing 0:20:10.720 --> 0:20:12.159 something and then you'll be like, okay, I'm about to 0:20:12.160 --> 0:20:15.200 come and infect and then you're like, why did the 0:20:15.280 --> 0:20:20.359 switch that has happened? Right? They're like doing and then 0:20:20.359 --> 0:20:22.000 all of a sudden they do something else and you're like, okay, 0:20:22.040 --> 0:20:24.520 it was going great a minute ago. Now we gotta 0:20:24.560 --> 0:20:28.200 start back over. And it takes like it's like super 0:20:28.280 --> 0:20:33.000 super super like it's mental. It is very got to 0:20:33.080 --> 0:20:35.199 concentrate to come. Yeah, that's what I was gonna say. 0:20:35.200 --> 0:20:37.400 You know how sometimes the guys they concentrate not to come. 0:20:37.960 --> 0:20:40.280 I feel like sometimes we have to concentrate to come, 0:20:40.520 --> 0:20:42.280 all right, Like guys would be like, let me think 0:20:42.280 --> 0:20:43.680 about something else. I don't want to come. I don't 0:20:43.680 --> 0:20:47.239 want to come. For us, we have to Okay, let 0:20:47.280 --> 0:20:52.199 me think about everything because when I got to think 0:20:52.240 --> 0:20:56.719 about that and I was like, only one time, Well, 0:20:56.760 --> 0:21:00.080 I've never came through penetration really only came through like 0:21:00.440 --> 0:21:06.159 or else. Yeah. Well, I like to get my pussy eating. 0:21:06.520 --> 0:21:09.280 I like for I like a lot of clotoral simulation. 0:21:09.840 --> 0:21:13.440 I like I like teeth. I like hard. Yeah, I 0:21:13.560 --> 0:21:19.320 like you have to make this something on my clip. Yeah, 0:21:19.960 --> 0:21:22.160 and like like G said, you got to use your home. 0:21:23.119 --> 0:21:27.040