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Speaker 2: We're back and it's our third week of Money March

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Speaker 2: and we have a very special guest. But first I

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Speaker 2: want to tell you what we're going to talk about.

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Speaker 3: So today we're going to be talking about spending cash

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Speaker 3: versus credit.

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Speaker 2: Building a business from the ground up as a single mom,

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Speaker 2: having faith in yourself, and why it's important to have

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Speaker 2: a financial advisor even before you get.

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Speaker 3: Rich, and the advantage of not depending on a partner

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Speaker 3: for financial freedom. Anyway, I hope you guys enjoyed this episode. Bye,

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Speaker 3: Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices.

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Speaker 4: I'm Erica and.

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Speaker 1: I'm Meela and his Wednesday. Happy hump Day, y'all.

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Speaker 4: Happy hump Day.

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Speaker 3: Hope your bank accounts are getting filled. I hope that

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Speaker 3: you're manifesting your millions and walking on money.

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Speaker 2: I heard something recently and it says, we don't say

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Speaker 2: hope because we have thirty seven about thirty seven billion

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Speaker 2: cells in our body, and if we say hope, we're

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Speaker 2: telling thirty seven billion cells, it's a billion or million.

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Speaker 2: It's a lot of cells that we hope something is

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Speaker 2: going to happen. So we are filling our bank accounts

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Speaker 2: with money all month and all year in all lifetime

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Speaker 2: long and generations to come, because I'm telling all of

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Speaker 2: my millions and billions of cells to get that shit together. Okay,

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Speaker 2: it's together. It's happening. We're not hoping.

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Speaker 1: We have amen. That's what Instagram is good for. These gems.

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Speaker 1: I keep dropping. It's money.

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Speaker 2: March, and I would like to also say congratulations because

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Speaker 2: we launched our second baby.

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Speaker 3: This We have a new baby, which is so exciting.

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Speaker 3: We launched Innovate Her Now summit. So we have partnered

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Speaker 3: with Carla.

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Speaker 2: Our podcast manager, May and we are putting on a

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Speaker 2: all women's podcasting submit. There are some but there's none

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Speaker 2: that we feel like blend mindfulness with audio. You know,

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Speaker 2: a lot of our process getting here has been being

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Speaker 2: intentional and manifesting and having to take care of ourselves,

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Speaker 2: and that, paired with all the things that we've figured

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Speaker 2: out from trial and error and podcasting, has really gotten

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Speaker 1: So I'm so excited to be able to.

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Speaker 2: Launch this new baby and then meet all of the

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Speaker 2: other podcasters women podcasters in our industry and teach what

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Speaker 2: we've learned along the way. It's going to be here

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Speaker 2: in La on June fifth for those of you who

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Speaker 2: can't make it. It will also be virtual, so that's

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Speaker 2: pretty cool. It's like worldwide and in LA. So pull up,

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Speaker 2: go follow us that innovate her now on Instagram, and

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Speaker 2: sign up for the newsletters so you'd be the first

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Speaker 2: to sign up when when the tickets go on sale.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because the LA tickets are really limited, so we're

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Speaker 3: only holding a few select selective spots, not selective, but

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Speaker 3: definitely sign up for that newsletter. And I just want

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Speaker 3: to shout out May who you know She you might

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Speaker 3: hear us talk about May. She does all of our

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Speaker 3: audio production. She's basically like the brains of good Mom.

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Speaker 1: She's like our glup. She keeps shit together.

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Speaker 4: Like honestly, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: The only reason we have a show every week is

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Speaker 3: because of May and te Like I don't I don't know.

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Speaker 3: And so if you are interested in learning like the

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Speaker 3: Like May is an expert a and we're gonna also

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Speaker 3: idea to launch where she literally launch helps people launch podcasts.

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Speaker 4: It's what she does every single day.

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Speaker 3: So I don't know, it's just we're teaming up with

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Speaker 3: which is fucking awesome. Obviously, this Podcasting Summit is for

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Speaker 1: But it's for a reason.

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Speaker 2: Podcasting is one of the fastest growing industries and it's

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Speaker 2: podcasting because it's growing so so quickly. And for consumers,

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Speaker 3: When we've said, like everyone has a podcast, everyone is

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Speaker 4: Consistent because that's what it's all about, baby consistency.

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Speaker 3: Okay, relax, I'll give them all the joms. Okay, fine,

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Speaker 3: you gotta come to this summon anyway. Go follow innovate

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Speaker 3: the newsletter. Go follow Carlo, Go follow May and I

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Speaker 3: can't wait for you guys to see what we have

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Speaker 3: in store. But on that note, let's uh pull this

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Speaker 1: Do your shuffle there? How is your week this week?

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Speaker 1: While you shuffle?

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Speaker 4: Have you been practicing the shuffle? And I'm just gonna

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Speaker 1: You are the shuffler.

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Speaker 3: We had our three year anniversary, which was bomb and

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Speaker 3: and we were fucking and we were on fire.

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Speaker 4: Other than that, I'm great. I'm good.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, we're going out of town next week. I

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Speaker 3: I pulled the King of Swords.

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Speaker 1: The King Swords.

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Speaker 2: The King of Sword sits upon his throne, facing forward,

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Speaker 2: as if ready to confront whatever life throws at him.

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Speaker 2: He holds a sword in his right hand, the hand

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Speaker 2: to the left, the side of the subconscious intuitive mind.

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Speaker 2: This symbolizes the king's decisiveness, but also flexibility in all matters.

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Speaker 2: he stays open to his intuition. The King wears a

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, we are butterflies. We just said that

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Speaker 1: on our bonus episode. Yeah, we're witches.

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Speaker 2: Okay, our entity is on fire and we are transforming

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Speaker 2: crescent moons and an angel just near his left ear

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Speaker 2: positioned if to give him subtle guidance, subtle, subtle, subtle?

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Speaker 4: What if I'm subtle?

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Speaker 1: If I'm being subtle.

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Speaker 4: You're subtle. It's as U B T L.

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Speaker 2: I can't believe my publicly said I can't spell subtle okay.

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Speaker 2: The King of Swords is a symbol of intellectual intellectual

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Speaker 2: a tarot reading, you're in your power, ruling from a

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Speaker 3: I mean this obviously it does sound like guess, but

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Speaker 2: As a result, others pay attention to what you have

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Speaker 2: You can't be going to the Gucci store and fucking

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Speaker 3: I'm super excited because last week we had Linda Garcia,

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Speaker 1: My mom, Rihann Silva.

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Speaker 4: It's my mom.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, excuse me, it's my mom. You can tell

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Speaker 4: Hi?

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Speaker 1: You do work there, right?

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Speaker 5: Mom, Well, thanks for finally having me.

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Speaker 2: How do you feel? Did you want to come on here?

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Speaker 3: Not a ratchet don't Why did Mila, did you define

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm like, does your mom hate us? She

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Speaker 4: It's all my idea.

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Speaker 5: I mean, I'm so honored that you know, I'm like

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Speaker 4: We knew you needed it.

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Speaker 5: That I'm getting you right now that I can't do

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Speaker 4: I need to get my followers up before I could

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Speaker 1: Honestly, your mom is like not fucking with it. She's like,

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Speaker 2: But whatever that hobby is you're doing, maybe I'll come

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Speaker 4: Well, here I am, and here we are, and here

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Speaker 1: Yay what you know what I always I always thought,

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Speaker 1: But I just think it's so cool.

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Speaker 1: I messed by a beauty blender. Why are they so expensive?

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Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know, but you have to

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Speaker 2: I know that's why I'm here. There's nothing you could

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Speaker 5: Cannot and I just you know, clear something up, Jimi, La.

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Speaker 5: It is not expensive, No, it's nice. I'm just think

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Speaker 5: But somehow when it comes to sponges, because we think

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Speaker 5: But beauty blender is reusable. It's the first sustainable HD

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Speaker 1: I agree.

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Speaker 2: I mean, ever since Eric had taught me how to

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Speaker 1: I already know. If you're somewhere and you.

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Speaker 2: Haven't used one and you haven't wet it, who your

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Speaker 4: I know that's that's always the game changer.

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Speaker 3: But you know, when we were talking about money March,

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Speaker 5: And I got her fooled.

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Speaker 4: It's true.

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Speaker 3: And I mean you you're like, I'm like a stress monster,

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Speaker 3: How you balanced any sort of finances. I mean, I

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Speaker 3: You know, it wasn't easy being a single parent and

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Speaker 5: How did you.

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Speaker 4: Pawn things like what?

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Speaker 5: Sometimes? Yeah, sometimes bills didn't get paid, cars disappeared.

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Speaker 5: No, honestly, it is it is a it's a circus act.

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Speaker 5: Credit is not real money. It's like hopeful money that

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Speaker 5: Girls, it's around the corner. Twenty is two seconds away.

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Speaker 5: I realized I needed ruth after Eric has Dad and

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I went. I just I went to a local

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Speaker 5: You need snacks, so many, so many snacks every day.

443
00:21:10,640 --> 00:21:11,760
Speaker 5: They eat three times.

444
00:21:11,560 --> 00:21:13,679
Speaker 4: A day, like seven.

445
00:21:13,920 --> 00:21:16,919
Speaker 5: Yeah. So I was like, okay, how am I going

446
00:21:17,000 --> 00:21:19,800
Speaker 5: to do this? At the time, I was friends with

447
00:21:19,880 --> 00:21:23,359
Speaker 5: this other football player who was like a dad to me.

448
00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:25,159
Speaker 5: His name was Bubba Smith. He used to be in

449
00:21:25,200 --> 00:21:28,240
Speaker 5: the Police Academy movies and he's rest in peace. He's

450
00:21:28,280 --> 00:21:34,080
Speaker 5: gone now, my Bubba. But he worked with an accounting firm,

451
00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:37,520
Speaker 5: and this accounting firm always managed his money. And I

452
00:21:37,600 --> 00:21:39,240
Speaker 5: asked him about it and he said, Rann, you just

453
00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:40,879
Speaker 5: need someone to help you manage your money. So I

454
00:21:40,920 --> 00:21:42,280
Speaker 5: was like, can you help me because I don't know

455
00:21:42,280 --> 00:21:45,119
Speaker 5: who to ask, and so he connected me with Ruth.

456
00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:48,919
Speaker 5: Ruth worked for this firm and then she left the

457
00:21:48,920 --> 00:21:51,119
Speaker 5: firm and started her own business and I was her

458
00:21:51,240 --> 00:21:54,400
Speaker 5: very first customer. And so Ruth, that is why. Ruth,

459
00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:57,159
Speaker 5: who is the one that tells you very simple, if

460
00:21:57,200 --> 00:21:59,920
Speaker 5: you don't have a cash, you can't afford it, is

461
00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:03,240
Speaker 5: the person that has been with me for over thirty

462
00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:07,040
Speaker 5: years and still is with me. She's my comptroller at

463
00:22:07,040 --> 00:22:10,200
Speaker 5: Beauty Blender. She is like my watchdog, like I can

464
00:22:10,240 --> 00:22:13,399
Speaker 5: go to her and she understands numbers in such a

465
00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:16,679
Speaker 5: way that you know she'll she'll let me know of

466
00:22:16,880 --> 00:22:19,720
Speaker 5: any crazy inconsistencies or things I need to be watching

467
00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:23,080
Speaker 5: out for people trying to dip in my till all

468
00:22:23,119 --> 00:22:23,800
Speaker 5: that kind of stuff.

469
00:22:25,800 --> 00:22:31,400
Speaker 3: How like, did Papa or Tawny like ever educate you

470
00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:35,479
Speaker 3: on finances? I remember because I remember when I went

471
00:22:35,520 --> 00:22:37,000
Speaker 3: to college, we went to like it was like the

472
00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:39,119
Speaker 3: first bank account I opened up, which was you know,

473
00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:41,040
Speaker 3: we went to like City Bank and opened up my

474
00:22:41,080 --> 00:22:45,480
Speaker 3: first bank account, and I felt like and I like

475
00:22:45,520 --> 00:22:46,960
Speaker 3: I had a little money in there, but like, I

476
00:22:46,960 --> 00:22:50,520
Speaker 3: don't think I actually established credit until like I was

477
00:22:50,560 --> 00:22:52,800
Speaker 3: like in my twenties, like I got my first credit card.

478
00:22:52,840 --> 00:22:56,040
Speaker 3: So I'm wondering, like, did Tawny or Papa ever like show.

479
00:22:56,280 --> 00:22:57,679
Speaker 5: I mean, I know I used to talk to you

480
00:22:57,680 --> 00:23:00,560
Speaker 5: about it when you were younger, because nobody really talk

481
00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:04,080
Speaker 5: to me about it. And no, I mean my dad

482
00:23:04,119 --> 00:23:08,560
Speaker 5: and my mom they worked really hard. I mean, you know,

483
00:23:08,640 --> 00:23:11,280
Speaker 5: kids don't come with instruction booklets, right, I mean, like

484
00:23:11,320 --> 00:23:14,280
Speaker 5: there wasn't like this thing saying okay, she's twelve, start

485
00:23:14,320 --> 00:23:17,280
Speaker 5: talking about balancing a check book. I mean they were

486
00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:19,600
Speaker 5: living their lives and trying to survive, and we just

487
00:23:19,640 --> 00:23:22,080
Speaker 5: never really had the conversation. And I realized that it

488
00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:25,280
Speaker 5: was such a disadvantage to me as I became an adult,

489
00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:28,040
Speaker 5: because I really didn't know how to manage money and

490
00:23:28,359 --> 00:23:30,679
Speaker 5: so that's why it was really important for me Erica to,

491
00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:33,640
Speaker 5: you know, for you to go get a bank account

492
00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:35,600
Speaker 5: really early. I made sure you were born with a

493
00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:38,840
Speaker 5: bank account. And you know, you didn't obviously know that

494
00:23:39,119 --> 00:23:41,160
Speaker 5: or know anything about it, but I wanted I didn't

495
00:23:41,160 --> 00:23:44,760
Speaker 5: want you to have to like learn it all at once.

496
00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:47,400
Speaker 5: I figured you learned little bits and pieces along the way,

497
00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:49,280
Speaker 5: and you did. I think, I think you're pretty frugal.

498
00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:52,000
Speaker 5: She's pretty cheap. Oh wow, I can tell you she's

499
00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:53,880
Speaker 5: she's she's economical.

500
00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:56,600
Speaker 1: It depends what day you ask. I think.

501
00:23:56,840 --> 00:23:59,720
Speaker 5: I think so too. I do think there's moments I don't.

502
00:24:00,200 --> 00:24:04,720
Speaker 3: I spend money on experiences, not like not like items

503
00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:05,480
Speaker 3: I had much.

504
00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:08,640
Speaker 2: Rather like go on your garage and pump out back

505
00:24:08,680 --> 00:24:09,760
Speaker 2: with like some name brand ship.

506
00:24:09,760 --> 00:24:10,960
Speaker 1: I'm like, where'd you get that? And you had that?

507
00:24:11,119 --> 00:24:13,639
Speaker 1: Someone probably gave it to my garage. I have a

508
00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:15,240
Speaker 1: stash of name brand ship.

509
00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:19,680
Speaker 4: Not girl.

510
00:24:20,920 --> 00:24:22,640
Speaker 3: No, very rarely do I buy a name brand ship,

511
00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:24,960
Speaker 3: like if I'm getting it because someone gave it to me.

512
00:24:25,240 --> 00:24:26,720
Speaker 4: Maybe I got at a vintage.

513
00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:29,240
Speaker 3: Store, maybe I bought it or my mom because my

514
00:24:29,280 --> 00:24:30,680
Speaker 3: mom loves luxury.

515
00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:33,960
Speaker 5: Oh my god, I've passed down everything to her. I

516
00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:36,800
Speaker 5: you know, let me tell you I had very fancy

517
00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:38,520
Speaker 5: boyfriends when I was young, like.

518
00:24:38,560 --> 00:24:40,679
Speaker 3: You, and I get that's a whole other episode that

519
00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:41,560
Speaker 3: I like.

520
00:24:41,600 --> 00:24:44,359
Speaker 5: Me shopping, and so I would say that.

521
00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:47,560
Speaker 3: Do you understand that we've had on like Passport Cuddy

522
00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:50,080
Speaker 3: and like these different people that tell you how to

523
00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:53,600
Speaker 3: like find men that will spoil you.

524
00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:55,359
Speaker 4: My mom is the o G. I don't know she

525
00:24:55,640 --> 00:24:56,800
Speaker 4: was dating princes, and.

526
00:24:57,080 --> 00:24:58,480
Speaker 1: I know you keep telling me about the prince that

527
00:24:58,560 --> 00:25:01,600
Speaker 1: she dated. Well, I wouldn't talk to your mom. I'm

528
00:25:01,680 --> 00:25:04,440
Speaker 1: in Giller, Princess.

529
00:25:04,480 --> 00:25:06,399
Speaker 4: I didn't get this g s right, harry On, I

530
00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:08,160
Speaker 4: didn't get this gene. I can barely ask a man

531
00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:09,439
Speaker 4: for like ten dollars, Okay.

532
00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:11,640
Speaker 1: So I know you're like, why I don't know how

533
00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:12,080
Speaker 1: to ask?

534
00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:15,200
Speaker 5: Well, hold on, I never asked for any Okay.

535
00:25:15,200 --> 00:25:17,400
Speaker 4: Well, I'm saying it's even more magical that you didn't

536
00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:17,880
Speaker 4: have to say.

537
00:25:17,920 --> 00:25:18,680
Speaker 5: I couldn't ask.

538
00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:19,920
Speaker 1: It just happened.

539
00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:21,480
Speaker 5: Let's be clear.

540
00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:25,200
Speaker 3: I remember when I was a kid. There was also

541
00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:27,760
Speaker 3: a time and I'll never forget. And we're actually talking

542
00:25:27,800 --> 00:25:29,920
Speaker 3: about this on our last episode, and I don't even

543
00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:32,760
Speaker 3: think I've ever shared this with you. But there was

544
00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:36,880
Speaker 3: a time I think I was going to Archer and

545
00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:40,399
Speaker 3: that was a really crazy expensive school.

546
00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:43,760
Speaker 4: Like, yes, it was very expensive school.

547
00:25:44,520 --> 00:25:47,560
Speaker 3: I'd been in public school all my life up until

548
00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:50,080
Speaker 3: middle school when I started going to private school, which

549
00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:53,320
Speaker 3: was like this very prestigious all girls school.

550
00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:56,159
Speaker 5: Because that was the exact right time to transition. That

551
00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:58,479
Speaker 5: was the fiscally responsible thing to do. You could get

552
00:25:58,520 --> 00:26:00,840
Speaker 5: away with going to elementary school at that time and

553
00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:05,280
Speaker 5: transition into private in junior high school or high school

554
00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:08,240
Speaker 5: and not have to pay all this private school dollars

555
00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:08,880
Speaker 5: in the beginning.

556
00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:10,320
Speaker 4: So why am I doing that right now?

557
00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:14,879
Speaker 1: I feel that's not true. But I'm struggling.

558
00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:22,919
Speaker 5: Because things have changed, Okay, Like before the level of

559
00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:27,720
Speaker 5: education wasn't so advanced, like little Iri, my glad baby,

560
00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:31,200
Speaker 5: your daughter now, I mean, I know with my son, Cruz,

561
00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:34,480
Speaker 5: your brother, Like that's when I realized, oh my god,

562
00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:37,880
Speaker 5: things have changed. In kindergarten. It's you can't go into

563
00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:40,439
Speaker 5: kindergarten not knowing anything, like you have to go into

564
00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:43,439
Speaker 5: kindergarten actually knowing shit. I know, it's crazy, no, So

565
00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:45,159
Speaker 5: I mean things that when you went to kindergarten, you

566
00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:47,160
Speaker 5: don't have to know anything. You just go to kindergarten.

567
00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:50,080
Speaker 5: You take your kids in kindergarten and that's where they learn. Now,

568
00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:52,119
Speaker 5: if you go to kindergarten and you don't know anything,

569
00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:54,160
Speaker 5: they put you in like you know, the need help

570
00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:57,080
Speaker 5: class books. Yeah, I know.

571
00:26:57,119 --> 00:26:59,520
Speaker 4: I've been watching Jamila home School. It's so intense.

572
00:26:59,560 --> 00:27:01,320
Speaker 2: It's She's like, I need the other book. I'm like

573
00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:03,200
Speaker 2: Social Studies, English Math, which maths?

574
00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:04,720
Speaker 5: So I'm with the crop on it.

575
00:27:04,880 --> 00:27:06,240
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, why do.

576
00:27:06,240 --> 00:27:11,400
Speaker 4: You have so many books? Yeah, but I remember that.

577
00:27:11,520 --> 00:27:13,320
Speaker 4: I remember. I don't know what was happening. I think

578
00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:14,119
Speaker 4: there was I do.

579
00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:16,560
Speaker 3: Actually I think I don't know. You you would you

580
00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:18,199
Speaker 3: probably can speak to this more. But I know there

581
00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:21,280
Speaker 3: was a shift in the industry. And like with nine

582
00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:23,879
Speaker 3: to eleven, when nine to eleven happened, like everything kind

583
00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:25,639
Speaker 3: of started to change in the industry. They weren't like

584
00:27:25,680 --> 00:27:28,320
Speaker 3: really flying art like you were going. You were traveling

585
00:27:28,359 --> 00:27:31,240
Speaker 3: a lot too as a as a makeup artist. Now,

586
00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:33,800
Speaker 3: artists like you find the artist in your city, Like

587
00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:36,119
Speaker 3: very rarely do you ever fly a makeup artist to

588
00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:38,320
Speaker 3: like New York or another country.

589
00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:40,720
Speaker 5: You have to be a certain caliber of celebrity now

590
00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:42,879
Speaker 5: to do it, but at the time when I was

591
00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:45,119
Speaker 5: doing it and just things.

592
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:47,840
Speaker 3: So I just let the people know, Mom, I want should

593
00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:49,920
Speaker 3: just run down a list of the of the the

594
00:27:50,440 --> 00:27:52,520
Speaker 3: clients that you've had in the past, because I just

595
00:27:52,560 --> 00:27:53,440
Speaker 3: it's a humble brag.

596
00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:55,520
Speaker 2: And I saw some pictures on the desk next door

597
00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:58,320
Speaker 2: the other day and I was like, is that tupac An.

598
00:27:58,520 --> 00:28:00,000
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, let me find out.

599
00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:00,800
Speaker 3: Yeah.

600
00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:03,000
Speaker 5: No, I worked with tons of celebrities. But what I

601
00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:04,639
Speaker 5: was going to say about, yes, nine to eleven changed

602
00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:07,920
Speaker 5: everything because suddenly, you know, we had this huge catastrophe

603
00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:13,200
Speaker 5: in America and you know New York Lower Manhattan was destroyed.

604
00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:15,879
Speaker 5: I mean so many places, right, and it was really

605
00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:19,160
Speaker 5: a horrible time in our American history, and we all

606
00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:21,920
Speaker 5: came together as a nation and tried to help each other.

607
00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:26,040
Speaker 5: So what that did in my industry is it changed

608
00:28:26,240 --> 00:28:30,520
Speaker 5: the way productions worked, and it changed the way that

609
00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:35,320
Speaker 5: makeup artists were utilized. And it really became an opportunity

610
00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:39,719
Speaker 5: for you know, management and pr and agents and different

611
00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:45,960
Speaker 5: different management people to regain kind of some control of

612
00:28:46,440 --> 00:28:50,239
Speaker 5: their clients. Because clients had gotten so much power, they

613
00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:52,320
Speaker 5: were like, I want my own hair I want my

614
00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:54,120
Speaker 5: own makeup, I want my own wardrobe. They have to

615
00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:57,080
Speaker 5: have their own rent car. You got to get the telephone.

616
00:28:57,120 --> 00:28:59,200
Speaker 5: They need three tickets for their kids to come, and

617
00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:01,040
Speaker 5: like I mean it, it was crazy. We were making

618
00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:03,000
Speaker 5: so much money and we were able to ask for

619
00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:05,280
Speaker 5: so much, and it really was kind of a little

620
00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:07,680
Speaker 5: bit out of control. And I think at around nine

621
00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:09,640
Speaker 5: to eleven, it was kind of like a leveling of

622
00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:12,320
Speaker 5: everything and it kind of changed the way everybody worked

623
00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:12,640
Speaker 5: for sure.

624
00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:14,680
Speaker 3: But I remember, I think like your career kind of

625
00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:16,480
Speaker 3: started to slow down a little bit. And I remember

626
00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:18,840
Speaker 3: you had a conversation with me about money, and it

627
00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:20,960
Speaker 3: was the first time you'd ever talk to me about money,

628
00:29:20,960 --> 00:29:23,720
Speaker 3: and it was basically like we need to like I

629
00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:26,120
Speaker 3: can't do that for you. You're not going to get that,

630
00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:28,959
Speaker 3: Like I can't do that. I'm not I can't afford that.

631
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:32,080
Speaker 3: And like I think I was young and obviously like

632
00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:34,640
Speaker 3: I had watched our transition, Like I remember as a

633
00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:37,000
Speaker 3: kid living in an apartment, like small apartments, and then

634
00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:39,880
Speaker 3: you renting the first house, and then renting another house,

635
00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:42,080
Speaker 3: and then eventually you buying your first home, and that

636
00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:44,200
Speaker 3: was in that home was the first home you bought,

637
00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:45,640
Speaker 3: which is you still own that home.

638
00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:48,520
Speaker 5: How's the Brandy built? That's what I call.

639
00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:50,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, because you worked because Mosha.

640
00:29:50,200 --> 00:29:51,400
Speaker 1: Like you were, Brandy built that house.

641
00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:53,800
Speaker 5: She was an artist, you know when we talk about

642
00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:55,480
Speaker 5: the way we used to work that, you know, and

643
00:29:55,520 --> 00:29:57,600
Speaker 5: I love her today. She's like my other daughter, and

644
00:29:57,760 --> 00:29:59,880
Speaker 5: her family and I are still close. But you know,

645
00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:02,520
Speaker 5: she would take me everywhere with her and make sure,

646
00:30:02,760 --> 00:30:06,880
Speaker 5: you know, I got paid paid well, but in return

647
00:30:07,040 --> 00:30:10,000
Speaker 5: I took care of her. You know, there was confidentiality.

648
00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 5: There's all these things when you work with celebrities that

649
00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:14,440
Speaker 5: you have to, you know, keep in mind. But I

650
00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:16,520
Speaker 5: just always it was my first house I bought, and

651
00:30:16,520 --> 00:30:19,720
Speaker 5: I always call it the house that brandybilt because I

652
00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:22,680
Speaker 5: worked so much with her for a couple of years

653
00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:24,560
Speaker 5: and then got that house. So it was great.

654
00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:27,760
Speaker 3: But I remember in the I remember specifically being in

655
00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:29,600
Speaker 3: the kitchen and you telling me that.

656
00:30:29,560 --> 00:30:32,200
Speaker 4: And I got scared, like and you did.

657
00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:34,120
Speaker 3: I did, yeah, because it was the first time you

658
00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:36,320
Speaker 3: ever really talked to me about money and or the

659
00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:38,280
Speaker 3: lack of not having any, And I never really had

660
00:30:38,360 --> 00:30:40,480
Speaker 3: any concept of it. It wasn't like it was like a

661
00:30:40,480 --> 00:30:42,120
Speaker 3: free frawl and we were just these wealthy people.

662
00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:43,160
Speaker 4: We were like we were.

663
00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:46,240
Speaker 3: She was spoiled, I was, but I didn't know that.

664
00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:49,920
Speaker 3: I just had no concept of money, like zero. I

665
00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:52,040
Speaker 3: just was like, I get fed, I go to school.

666
00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:54,560
Speaker 4: Sometimes I get what I want, Sometimes I don't.

667
00:30:54,800 --> 00:30:58,280
Speaker 5: Sometimes. Well, well, if it was you, it was Tawny

668
00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:00,800
Speaker 5: and my step son is over there raiding the camera

669
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:02,960
Speaker 5: and laughing his ass while yeah, because he thought you

670
00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:05,480
Speaker 5: were the most spoiled girl in the world.

671
00:31:06,120 --> 00:31:07,200
Speaker 4: Well I was your first.

672
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:13,320
Speaker 3: So but I do remember that moment, and I was like,

673
00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:15,600
Speaker 3: oh my god, are we broke?

674
00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:18,240
Speaker 4: I was like, who we was like, we're going to

675
00:31:18,320 --> 00:31:20,760
Speaker 4: lose our house. We were hearing were like, don't ask

676
00:31:20,840 --> 00:31:22,800
Speaker 4: a mom for anything, and I'm hungry. Shut the fuck up.

677
00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:26,120
Speaker 5: Like, No, that wasn't the way you took it. You

678
00:31:26,120 --> 00:31:27,760
Speaker 5: did not understand. You did not take that.

679
00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:29,800
Speaker 4: No, but I did get scared though. I got scared,

680
00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:30,120
Speaker 4: and like.

681
00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:31,800
Speaker 5: When I told you we couldn't do anything, you would

682
00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:37,160
Speaker 5: say why, why why can't I do this? No, I

683
00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:40,000
Speaker 5: don't understand why, and you would do it in front

684
00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:41,480
Speaker 5: of your friends and I'd just be sitting there like

685
00:31:41,520 --> 00:31:44,280
Speaker 5: wanting to beat your ass, and your friends were there like.

686
00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:47,280
Speaker 1: Oh, such a valley kid's story.

687
00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:50,680
Speaker 2: I had questions, I needs gallery.

688
00:31:52,120 --> 00:31:53,200
Speaker 1: Everything was twenty dollars.

689
00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:55,200
Speaker 5: You did have questions, you did.

690
00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:59,480
Speaker 3: But like when you when in those moments, like because

691
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:02,920
Speaker 3: around that time too, you were starting beauty blender, so

692
00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:04,920
Speaker 3: there was a lot of pressure because you're starting a

693
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:06,280
Speaker 3: new business, you owned this home.

694
00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:07,440
Speaker 4: The industry was changing.

695
00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:09,720
Speaker 2: Wait, I have a question before you go there? What

696
00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:12,520
Speaker 2: motivated you to start beauty blender? Was it that money?

697
00:32:12,600 --> 00:32:14,520
Speaker 2: That the industry was slowing down and you realize you

698
00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:17,320
Speaker 2: were like hitting a cap, Like because I feel like

699
00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:21,080
Speaker 2: a lot of moms, single moms and parents, like you're

700
00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:22,600
Speaker 2: trying to take care of a kid, You're trying to

701
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:26,120
Speaker 2: pay bills, and then the entrepreneurial side always is like

702
00:32:26,360 --> 00:32:29,320
Speaker 2: last to get tended to, and sometimes it only it

703
00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:31,240
Speaker 2: takes you for being like a really tight situation to

704
00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:34,120
Speaker 2: actually invest in yourself and do something like that. Like

705
00:32:34,160 --> 00:32:36,520
Speaker 2: what was your driving force? Because I think a lot

706
00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:38,720
Speaker 2: of moms, like a lot of people have a lot

707
00:32:38,760 --> 00:32:42,040
Speaker 2: of great ideas, but do you take is what are

708
00:32:42,040 --> 00:32:44,400
Speaker 2: the next steps after that? What was your driving force

709
00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:47,040
Speaker 2: to actually say, fuck this shit, I'm not going to

710
00:32:47,120 --> 00:32:48,680
Speaker 2: be like I'm going to start my own business, and

711
00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:49,440
Speaker 2: this is what I'm going to do.

712
00:32:49,840 --> 00:32:52,480
Speaker 5: Your business partner was driving.

713
00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:54,720
Speaker 1: Right, all right, Oh you have to be fed.

714
00:32:54,960 --> 00:32:58,560
Speaker 5: Erica was my reason for everything, to be honest with you,

715
00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:02,280
Speaker 5: and I think it's a combination of things, Jamilla. It's

716
00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:05,240
Speaker 5: not ever just one thing that makes you say, oh,

717
00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:07,480
Speaker 5: I'm going to be an entrepreneur. For me, it really

718
00:33:07,640 --> 00:33:12,760
Speaker 5: was Erica and me wanting to give her, uh a

719
00:33:12,800 --> 00:33:15,240
Speaker 5: good life, a better life. Not that my life was bad,

720
00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:19,080
Speaker 5: but you got a little preview of my life before.

721
00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:22,200
Speaker 5: I had a very kind of wild and very interesting

722
00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:28,440
Speaker 5: young adulthood, and I realized that there were things. There

723
00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:31,160
Speaker 5: was a lifestyle that I was introduced to that I

724
00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:34,720
Speaker 5: really enjoyed, and I wanted to live that lifestyle, but

725
00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:38,760
Speaker 5: I didn't necessarily want to depend on a man to

726
00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:43,040
Speaker 5: give it to me, because I had also experienced the

727
00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:46,400
Speaker 5: controls that go on when you're with a powerful man

728
00:33:46,560 --> 00:33:50,400
Speaker 5: or a man that has more than you, and sometimes

729
00:33:50,400 --> 00:33:55,479
Speaker 5: you feel beholden to that, and I felt that and

730
00:33:55,520 --> 00:33:57,880
Speaker 5: I never wanted to feel that again, and I definitely

731
00:33:57,920 --> 00:34:00,719
Speaker 5: didn't want her to feel that. So the only way

732
00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:04,320
Speaker 5: to not feel that is to have financial freedom. And

733
00:34:04,440 --> 00:34:07,760
Speaker 5: so for me, It was a combination of knowing that

734
00:34:07,840 --> 00:34:12,880
Speaker 5: I wanted that, having Ruth read Ruthie in my life

735
00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:14,960
Speaker 5: telling me if you don't have the money, you can't

736
00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:17,759
Speaker 5: afford it. I mean, when you hear that enough and

737
00:34:17,800 --> 00:34:21,600
Speaker 5: you want things and someone is telling you, well, I

738
00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:24,759
Speaker 5: don't think it's smart for you to take a loan

739
00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:27,920
Speaker 5: out because if you can't afford it, you shouldn't buy it.

740
00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:30,880
Speaker 5: You know, it makes so much sense, right, I mean,

741
00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:33,680
Speaker 5: if you can't afford something, don't get it. But we

742
00:34:33,760 --> 00:34:36,680
Speaker 5: don't live in that kind of and then me understanding

743
00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:40,920
Speaker 5: that I had kind of reached a ceiling with the

744
00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:43,720
Speaker 5: amount of money that I could make as a makeup artist.

745
00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:45,960
Speaker 5: I was hustling. Erica can tell you I was on

746
00:34:46,000 --> 00:34:49,399
Speaker 5: a plane every week. I was doing three TV shows

747
00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:52,360
Speaker 5: at one time, having cruise here, cruise there, leaving to

748
00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:54,600
Speaker 5: go do a celebrity for Red Carpet, coming back, sneaking

749
00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:57,319
Speaker 5: back on set, you know, trying to finish the day out,

750
00:34:57,320 --> 00:34:59,880
Speaker 5: trying to just cash as many checks as I could.

751
00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:03,320
Speaker 5: And I still was not able to have the financial

752
00:35:03,320 --> 00:35:05,520
Speaker 5: freedom that I wanted, Like we didn't get to go

753
00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:09,120
Speaker 5: take vacations for a week or two somewhere or you

754
00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:12,759
Speaker 5: know it just and and by the way, living as

755
00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:15,560
Speaker 5: an independent contractor is very difficult because you're always afraid

756
00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:18,520
Speaker 5: to say no to a job because you don't want

757
00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:21,200
Speaker 5: to miss out on creating a relationship with a producer,

758
00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:24,879
Speaker 5: a director, or you know, the celebrity, whatever it is

759
00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:27,360
Speaker 5: that will prevent you from making more money in the future.

760
00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:30,959
Speaker 5: Because I always tell my friends that live and work

761
00:35:30,960 --> 00:35:33,960
Speaker 5: in corporate America that get all freaked out when you

762
00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:36,200
Speaker 5: know they get laid off and I'm They're like, oh

763
00:35:36,280 --> 00:35:38,160
Speaker 5: my god, that's the end of the world. I lost

764
00:35:38,200 --> 00:35:39,719
Speaker 5: my job. What am I going to do? I'm like, dude,

765
00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:43,040
Speaker 5: I'm unemployed every time I finish a job, literally unemployed.

766
00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:45,120
Speaker 5: Every time. You have to have faith and you just

767
00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:46,759
Speaker 5: have to hustle. You just get up and you do

768
00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:50,719
Speaker 5: it again. But those to your answer your question, that

769
00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:55,040
Speaker 5: is really the motivation was if I can't make more

770
00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:57,480
Speaker 5: than I'm making right now doing what I'm doing, then

771
00:35:57,520 --> 00:36:00,400
Speaker 5: I need to do something else. I need to add

772
00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:04,440
Speaker 5: to what I'm doing. And originally beauty Blender was not,

773
00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:08,600
Speaker 5: you know, in my mind, or at least as much

774
00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:11,839
Speaker 5: as I was dreaming about it. My dream wasn't as

775
00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:14,399
Speaker 5: big as Oh, it's going to be a global brand,

776
00:36:14,480 --> 00:36:16,560
Speaker 5: it's going to be a category creator. One day, you're

777
00:36:16,600 --> 00:36:18,640
Speaker 5: going to be in the Smithsonian. You're going to win

778
00:36:18,960 --> 00:36:22,360
Speaker 5: twelve Best of Beauty Awards. You're gonna be CW Entrepreneur

779
00:36:22,360 --> 00:36:24,200
Speaker 5: over the year. I like, none of that shit was

780
00:36:24,239 --> 00:36:27,359
Speaker 5: a part of my reality. None of it. It was like, Oh,

781
00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:29,520
Speaker 5: let me make a couple sponges for some other makeup

782
00:36:29,600 --> 00:36:32,520
Speaker 5: artists because they're going to have the same challenges I have.

783
00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:35,600
Speaker 5: And so I can supplement and make sure I can

784
00:36:35,680 --> 00:36:38,120
Speaker 5: keep my kid in school. Maybe I can put together

785
00:36:38,160 --> 00:36:40,920
Speaker 5: a college account for her so she can go to school.

786
00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:43,440
Speaker 5: You know I did. My parents didn't have money. You know,

787
00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:45,880
Speaker 5: I really was on my own, and really I knew

788
00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:50,239
Speaker 5: in very very short time I was going to be

789
00:36:50,239 --> 00:36:52,840
Speaker 5: taking care of my parents too, because they never never

790
00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:55,960
Speaker 5: planned for their retirement. My dad's excuse was like, I

791
00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:58,560
Speaker 5: don't think i'd live this long. Like really that was

792
00:36:58,600 --> 00:37:03,719
Speaker 5: your now was your plan? Okay? My mom just kind

793
00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:05,400
Speaker 5: of looked at me, like what are you talking about?

794
00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:07,759
Speaker 5: You know, like she my mom, my mom. I have

795
00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:10,920
Speaker 5: to say, you know, she she was the one that

796
00:37:11,080 --> 00:37:13,439
Speaker 5: got me in school. She was the one that helped

797
00:37:13,480 --> 00:37:15,440
Speaker 5: me with money. She was the one that was a

798
00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:19,439
Speaker 5: little more business minded. She was she was my mom

799
00:37:19,520 --> 00:37:22,759
Speaker 5: is actually very entrepreneurial. She is still with us. I'm

800
00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:23,800
Speaker 5: talking to her like she's gone.

801
00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:25,560
Speaker 4: She's here, very much alive.

802
00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:26,520
Speaker 1: I just hung up the phone.

803
00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:27,960
Speaker 2: Oh, I want to tell a story, but I don't

804
00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:29,680
Speaker 2: know if I'm supposed to tell this story. But you

805
00:37:29,719 --> 00:37:31,480
Speaker 2: told me so. If it's not right, then you can

806
00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:33,719
Speaker 2: cut it out. But this story really made me love you.

807
00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:34,600
Speaker 1: Rhan Oh.

808
00:37:35,920 --> 00:37:39,080
Speaker 2: In the beginning of our podcast, obviously I didn't know you,

809
00:37:39,520 --> 00:37:42,760
Speaker 2: but you know we had obviously I was just getting

810
00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:44,960
Speaker 2: to know Erica more and more as a podcast went on.

811
00:37:45,040 --> 00:37:47,680
Speaker 2: And you know, we obviously know about like your relationship

812
00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:50,279
Speaker 2: with Erica's dad, how it was like a little bit

813
00:37:50,320 --> 00:37:52,040
Speaker 2: crazy in the beginning, and there was a lot of

814
00:37:52,200 --> 00:37:55,200
Speaker 2: issues and finances and paternity and all these things.

815
00:37:55,320 --> 00:37:58,160
Speaker 1: And she was fun time check out that episode of

816
00:37:58,280 --> 00:37:58,680
Speaker 1: my Dad.

817
00:37:59,800 --> 00:38:02,560
Speaker 2: So she was telling me that she was in the

818
00:38:02,640 --> 00:38:04,759
Speaker 2: car and you guys were all on three way because

819
00:38:04,800 --> 00:38:06,920
Speaker 2: this is like earlier on when like Erica, you guys

820
00:38:06,920 --> 00:38:09,279
Speaker 2: are gonna help her maybe buy a house, and you

821
00:38:09,320 --> 00:38:10,399
Speaker 2: guys were on the phone with.

822
00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:12,800
Speaker 1: Like maybe the realtor, and the realtor.

823
00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:15,040
Speaker 2: Was asking you, like, well, how much debt do you have?

824
00:38:15,080 --> 00:38:17,560
Speaker 2: What properties do you own? And then she turned around

825
00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:20,719
Speaker 2: and asked Erica's dad the same thing. She was like,

826
00:38:21,000 --> 00:38:22,879
Speaker 2: I know, it made my mom feel so fucking good

827
00:38:22,880 --> 00:38:25,239
Speaker 2: because she was like, I have none my houses are

828
00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:26,879
Speaker 2: paid off, and my dad was like blah blah blah

829
00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:27,520
Speaker 2: blah blah blah.

830
00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:28,680
Speaker 1: She was like, I know, I don't know.

831
00:38:28,800 --> 00:38:30,359
Speaker 2: She didn't say it, but I know on her mind

832
00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:32,680
Speaker 2: she was like yeah. And I was like, I can't

833
00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:34,600
Speaker 2: wait till the shit blows up because I can't wait

834
00:38:34,640 --> 00:38:35,919
Speaker 2: to be on that phone call with my baby.

835
00:38:35,960 --> 00:38:38,960
Speaker 1: Daddy'd be like yeah, ah huh, I got everything paid off.

836
00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:41,680
Speaker 1: I have the money. And that was after that. I

837
00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:43,759
Speaker 1: was like, yep, mm hmm, yep, she's doing it right.

838
00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:47,760
Speaker 1: What to do? That's that was my motive, my driving force.

839
00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:50,239
Speaker 5: I remember that. It was like he was like, well,

840
00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:52,440
Speaker 5: you know, Rihann, when you when you have a mortgage,

841
00:38:52,640 --> 00:38:55,560
Speaker 5: which she's trying to say, because when you have a mortgage,

842
00:38:55,960 --> 00:38:57,600
Speaker 5: this is what happens. I was like, Eric, I don't

843
00:38:57,600 --> 00:39:00,880
Speaker 5: have a mortgage. I've never had a mortgage. He's like,

844
00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:05,600
Speaker 5: I was like yeah, I don't worry. It was do

845
00:39:05,640 --> 00:39:08,000
Speaker 5: you pay for your house? I was like, if you

846
00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:12,040
Speaker 5: can't pay cash, you can't afford it. I paid cash.

847
00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:14,719
Speaker 3: You can't pay cash, you can't afford it, right, And

848
00:39:14,719 --> 00:39:16,279
Speaker 3: he was like all of them and I was.

849
00:39:16,239 --> 00:39:17,839
Speaker 5: Like, yes, all of them.

850
00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:20,400
Speaker 1: Hell yeah, and he was just like, oh okay.

851
00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:25,799
Speaker 2: I think as women sometimes we put so much. I

852
00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:28,640
Speaker 2: think society kind of teaches us to depend on men

853
00:39:28,719 --> 00:39:31,040
Speaker 2: and that they're the provider. I mean, for a long time,

854
00:39:31,160 --> 00:39:34,239
Speaker 2: probably until cool three years ago, I really thought I

855
00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:36,799
Speaker 2: was going to marry rich and be a housewife.

856
00:39:36,719 --> 00:39:39,799
Speaker 1: And like me too, and I'm pissed. I mean, it's

857
00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:42,080
Speaker 1: better now that it's not that, But I just think

858
00:39:42,239 --> 00:39:45,920
Speaker 1: it's it's so much better because guys are so stupid.

859
00:39:46,560 --> 00:39:50,960
Speaker 5: No, they're not. They're wonderful. Guy are amazing. Men are wonderful.

860
00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:58,880
Speaker 5: It's just when you feel less empowered that it becomes

861
00:39:58,880 --> 00:40:01,320
Speaker 5: a challenge and and money is freedom.

862
00:40:01,760 --> 00:40:04,080
Speaker 2: And like what Kat and Nat said, it's better to

863
00:40:04,120 --> 00:40:06,040
Speaker 2: know you chose your husband because you like him and

864
00:40:06,080 --> 00:40:07,080
Speaker 2: not because you need him.

865
00:40:07,280 --> 00:40:08,799
Speaker 5: That's a forever relationship.

866
00:40:09,160 --> 00:40:13,279
Speaker 2: I'm always inspired by your story and motivated, and even

867
00:40:13,280 --> 00:40:15,080
Speaker 2: when I know you were concerned about what we're doing

868
00:40:15,080 --> 00:40:16,759
Speaker 2: over here. I'm like, she's gonna get it. It's fine,

869
00:40:16,840 --> 00:40:18,480
Speaker 2: just keep going. When we get when we blow up,

870
00:40:18,520 --> 00:40:19,480
Speaker 2: she's going to be on board.

871
00:40:20,000 --> 00:40:23,120
Speaker 5: You know, the porn stars and there was a couple.

872
00:40:23,160 --> 00:40:24,600
Speaker 5: I was just like, what the hell are you?

873
00:40:25,320 --> 00:40:26,680
Speaker 1: Is your boyfriend by here?

874
00:40:26,719 --> 00:40:30,160
Speaker 5: I was like, you know, you're the face of my brand, right,

875
00:40:30,320 --> 00:40:31,960
Speaker 5: like it's like Middle America.

876
00:40:32,080 --> 00:40:34,239
Speaker 2: Like how she also took call me many times like

877
00:40:34,239 --> 00:40:35,640
Speaker 2: I'm gonna have to quit. I'm gonna have to find

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Speaker 2: somebody else. I'm like, no, no, you're not. She's like

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Speaker 2: my mom said.

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Speaker 1: I was like, you're I.

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Speaker 5: Just said you have to maybe think about what you're doing.

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Speaker 5: Did I say you had to quit?

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Speaker 3: You might have told me to quit my hobby.

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Speaker 5: Well, it was a hobby.

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Speaker 3: Of the moral of the story is when you have

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Speaker 3: an idea, keep going with it. Whether it's a sex

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Speaker 3: positive podcast about motherhood and an egg a pink a

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Speaker 3: pink egg shaped sponge that you will confuse with an

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Speaker 3: anal plug, do what you gotta do. We've actually speaking

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Speaker 3: of porn stars. You might be hating on porn stars,

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Speaker 3: but porn stars use beauty blunders.

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Speaker 4: Okay, my mom has gotten messages stars.

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Speaker 5: Listen.

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Speaker 3: I remember my mom was like, Erica, just you'll never

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Speaker 3: get how the porn industry is using beauty blends.

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Speaker 5: I was a makeup artist and say in a couple

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Speaker 5: of porn things, which was crazy, but I just didn't

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Speaker 5: make not that the face of my brand around all

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Speaker 5: over the world.

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Speaker 2: How do you feel about it now because we're still

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Speaker 2: what we're in neveeering porn stars.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, you know whatever, It's all good.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, well you heard it here. She's fine

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Speaker 1: with it. She can't fire you, Erica, You're safe. She

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Speaker 1: said it, she said it recorded.

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Speaker 5: Well.

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Speaker 3: I have a lot of more questions, but my mom

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Speaker 3: is a busy woman and she must leave me now.

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Speaker 3: But I want to have you back on because I

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Speaker 3: think there's so much more to talk about as far

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Speaker 3: as motherhood. Maybe we'll have you on in for Mother's

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Speaker 3: Day or something.

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Speaker 4: Maybe we'll interview Jamila's mom too.

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Speaker 3: So fun. But I just want to say, Mom, you

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Speaker 3: inspire me. I've watched you make something out of nothing, really,

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Speaker 3: and I talk to you about it all the time

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Speaker 3: when we do our beauty you know stuff. But I

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Speaker 3: really am like I'm so I'm I feel like I

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Speaker 3: have incredible shoes, large shoes to fill and watching you

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Speaker 3: build beauty bleunder from nothing and watch you as a

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Speaker 3: single mom be able to multitask and build an empire

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Speaker 3: and you know, have a staff and support and still

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Speaker 3: be able to be a present mother. To me, it

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Speaker 3: has been crazy because you have been so present, like

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Speaker 3: as much as you have been doing. And I look

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Speaker 3: up to you because I'm like, I look at ire

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Speaker 3: sometimes and I'm like, am I doing a good job?

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Speaker 3: Like I haven't topically, I haven't talked to you in

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Speaker 3: like three day, Like I've just been like head and

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Speaker 3: like trying to like And the moral, the moral of.

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Speaker 5: This episode is you can't pay cash.

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Speaker 4: I think that's today's affirmation. All Right, Well, thank you, Mom,

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Speaker 4: I love you.

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Speaker 4: I'm proud of you.

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Speaker 1: Here's a little sneak peek.

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Speaker 6: This time we're gonna incorporate some different sex toys. Okay,

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Speaker 6: so this is a bondage bar. Okay, you can lay out,

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Speaker 6: and I just want to show you, guys, the mobility

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Speaker 6: of this piece. Everything is connected so she can be here.

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Speaker 6: She can also lay that. One of the toys that

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Speaker 6: I wanted to talk about was this

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Speaker 3: Is this is