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Speaker 1: Just Tiffan a Hey, Hey, hey, it's me Tiffany Bunch Denise.

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Speaker 1: I'm here on behalf of brown ambition because Man is

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Speaker 1: we're gonna do a little brown ambision. Question answer. You

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Speaker 1: take my advice with the smallest grain of salt, and

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Speaker 1: All right, So today's b a q A it's gonna

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Speaker 1: general question I've been getting about setting intention for the

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Speaker 1: So that way you get a little money baqa, you

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Speaker 1: We don't want it. So in order to have your

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Speaker 1: something differently. So I'd like to do something called dreamscaping. Okay,

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Speaker 1: is when you dream across the landscape of your mind. Right,

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Speaker 1: to add whatever you want into this beautiful, expansive space.

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Speaker 1: It is important that the space feels expansive. If you

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Speaker 1: a Google Montana, big sky country, or big open space.

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Speaker 1: It is important that sometimes we dreamscape and we say

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Speaker 1: We're talking about how and who do I want to

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Speaker 1: And if they would have said we don't want to

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Speaker 1: we could have done is take the lesson, you know.

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Speaker 1: We started off with neutral questioning, so thankfully we didn't

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Speaker 1: you know, a lot of people after getting kind of

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Speaker 1: like a tongue lashing, like I said, he didn't yell

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Speaker 1: and said what does it look like to make amends?

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Speaker 1: And you know, and then I didn't just say that.

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Speaker 1: I made some suggestions which they were like we like this,

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Speaker 1: wrapped and as a result, you know, we still have

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Speaker 1: to share that with you that, like, you know, as

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Speaker 1: you navigate into the new year. You know, it's not

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Speaker 1: You know. I aim always to if a mistake is made,

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Speaker 1: to learn from it, to grow from it, to show

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Speaker 1: a better That's it. That's all I can ask of

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Speaker 1: myself and all anyone can ask of me. Well, Happy

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Speaker 1: New Year to you and you and you again if

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Speaker 1: Budganessa gave to me on the fifth day of New year,

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Speaker 1: look at me on the fifth day of new year,

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Speaker 1: the BUDGETESA gave to me. I forget what I'm giving

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Speaker 1: you today, but go ahead on to my ig check

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Speaker 1: out all the tools, mostly free tools and resources that

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Speaker 1: I suggested for all five days. You get to a

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Speaker 1: day and start this year off dreamscaping and then and

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Speaker 1: then having actionable things that you're going to do to

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Speaker 1: fill that beautiful expansive space with the with the amazing

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Speaker 1: dreams that you come up with, and I'd love for

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Speaker 1: you to share them with me. All right, y'all until

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Speaker 1: next week, Bye bye,