1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,840 Speaker 1: I believe home ownership and real estate is important today's 2 00:00:02,880 --> 00:00:05,200 Speaker 1: day in time. Absolutely, I think that that is one 3 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:08,560 Speaker 1: of the key ingredients for really building wealth. Because we 4 00:00:08,600 --> 00:00:11,120 Speaker 1: all know this. McDonald's doesn't make their money because of burgers, 5 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:12,080 Speaker 1: is because of real estate. 6 00:00:12,200 --> 00:00:16,079 Speaker 2: Absolutely. Hello everybody, I'm PDJ Exent. I want to welcome 7 00:00:16,120 --> 00:00:19,040 Speaker 2: you the next chapter, and boy, have we got a 8 00:00:19,120 --> 00:00:22,320 Speaker 2: session for you today. Today's guests is one of the 9 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:27,440 Speaker 2: most trusted voices in the world of personal finance and empowerment. 10 00:00:27,480 --> 00:00:32,199 Speaker 2: He's a best selling author, renowned keynote speaker, CEO, and 11 00:00:32,280 --> 00:00:38,360 Speaker 2: a nationally recognized leader. Anthony O'Neill brings clarity, strategy, and 12 00:00:38,520 --> 00:00:43,159 Speaker 2: inspiration to anyone who's ready to take control of their money, 13 00:00:43,520 --> 00:00:47,960 Speaker 2: equipping everyday people to break free from debt by building 14 00:00:48,120 --> 00:00:52,280 Speaker 2: lasting wealth and living life on their own term. Get 15 00:00:52,360 --> 00:00:56,320 Speaker 2: ready for a conversation packed with tools and wisdom that 16 00:00:56,400 --> 00:01:05,720 Speaker 2: can change your financial life and your entire mind. Chapter 17 00:01:05,840 --> 00:01:11,120 Speaker 2: one Lack of Information. I'm excited to have you. I've 18 00:01:11,480 --> 00:01:14,000 Speaker 2: had a bit of a roller coaster ride in my 19 00:01:14,080 --> 00:01:17,840 Speaker 2: life as it relates to finances. I started out working 20 00:01:17,959 --> 00:01:22,000 Speaker 2: for a large company in West Virginia many many years 21 00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 2: ago that company went out of business, and I found 22 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:29,360 Speaker 2: myself without a job, ran out unemployment, ended up on 23 00:01:29,480 --> 00:01:35,280 Speaker 2: food stamps, raised my first my second daughter off a wick. 24 00:01:37,040 --> 00:01:39,640 Speaker 2: Know what it is not to have much of anything? 25 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:45,479 Speaker 2: Minister preached for church. Take me three hundred dollars a month. 26 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:48,200 Speaker 2: I had a wife and two kids. Three hundred dollars 27 00:01:48,200 --> 00:01:51,240 Speaker 2: a month to go very far. I found that out. 28 00:01:51,680 --> 00:01:53,760 Speaker 2: We rolled a lot of quarters, we sold a lot 29 00:01:53,800 --> 00:01:58,000 Speaker 2: of pop bottles, and we ate a lot of blogey. Yes, okay, 30 00:01:58,360 --> 00:02:02,480 Speaker 2: So I understand you have a similar story. Would you 31 00:02:02,520 --> 00:02:05,400 Speaker 2: mind sharing with us where you started, where you came 32 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:08,040 Speaker 2: from the time you spend in the car, Yes, sir, 33 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:10,120 Speaker 2: tell me about that, and how did you feel. 34 00:02:10,560 --> 00:02:13,359 Speaker 1: I think to start off the story, sir, it's important 35 00:02:13,360 --> 00:02:16,640 Speaker 1: to explain that I come from a unique situation. So 36 00:02:16,720 --> 00:02:20,000 Speaker 1: I have four loving parents. Right, So I have two 37 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:23,800 Speaker 1: biological parents, and the correct term is step parents, but 38 00:02:23,880 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 1: I don't like that term because God blessed me with 39 00:02:26,200 --> 00:02:29,880 Speaker 1: two other amazing parents. So my biological mom and other 40 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:33,520 Speaker 1: father lived in San Diego, California. My biological father and 41 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:36,720 Speaker 1: my other mother lived in Fever in North Carolina. My 42 00:02:36,880 --> 00:02:40,480 Speaker 1: fathers did army and the Marines, and so I'm still 43 00:02:40,480 --> 00:02:43,640 Speaker 1: in therapy for that today because that's just two different 44 00:02:44,080 --> 00:02:47,960 Speaker 1: you know, coaches Army and Marine Hurrah and hello. No, 45 00:02:49,080 --> 00:02:54,640 Speaker 1: it's just it's just a little interesting. But I moved 46 00:02:54,720 --> 00:02:58,120 Speaker 1: with my mom and my other father to San Diego, California. 47 00:02:58,480 --> 00:03:01,440 Speaker 1: My father was stationed at camping on in Oceanside, California, 48 00:03:02,120 --> 00:03:04,080 Speaker 1: and bishop one of the very first things that I 49 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:06,880 Speaker 1: remember growing up that I just realized at the age 50 00:03:06,880 --> 00:03:09,919 Speaker 1: of twenty five and now I'm forty one, it's that 51 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:13,680 Speaker 1: my mom used to cry around a table similar to this, 52 00:03:13,760 --> 00:03:16,840 Speaker 1: but much bigger. On that table were sheets of paper. 53 00:03:17,480 --> 00:03:19,480 Speaker 1: I didn't know what she was crying over when I 54 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:23,799 Speaker 1: was a baby, but she was crying over bills. And 55 00:03:24,040 --> 00:03:27,040 Speaker 1: my very first job at fourteen, I had to get 56 00:03:27,040 --> 00:03:29,760 Speaker 1: a job to help us provide for things that I 57 00:03:29,760 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 1: may have desired. And so growing up I didn't really 58 00:03:32,880 --> 00:03:35,920 Speaker 1: get the education about finances because my parents couldn't teach 59 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:38,960 Speaker 1: me what they didn't know. And so growing up I 60 00:03:39,000 --> 00:03:40,880 Speaker 1: knew how to tie, I knew how to get to 61 00:03:40,960 --> 00:03:42,560 Speaker 1: do that in the church, but they didn't teach me 62 00:03:42,560 --> 00:03:44,880 Speaker 1: what to do with the other ninety percent. So when 63 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:48,360 Speaker 1: I graduated high school, if I'm just being honest with you, Bishop, 64 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:51,040 Speaker 1: I said, Hey, I'm a grown man. I went out 65 00:03:51,080 --> 00:03:53,120 Speaker 1: there and got me a credit card. You give me 66 00:03:53,160 --> 00:03:55,680 Speaker 1: five hundred dollars back in the early two thousands, I'm 67 00:03:55,720 --> 00:03:58,560 Speaker 1: thinking I'm rich, right, And so I took that five 68 00:03:58,600 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 1: hundred dollars, maxed it out into a four hours on 69 00:04:00,960 --> 00:04:06,040 Speaker 1: a young lady, a red lobster, roses and the duty 70 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:10,000 Speaker 1: and Burke's purse. Okay, and man, just when I got that, 71 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:12,560 Speaker 1: And this is the thing that really is crucial for me, Bishop, 72 00:04:12,600 --> 00:04:16,679 Speaker 1: that thing is important for everyone to understand. I didn't 73 00:04:16,720 --> 00:04:19,320 Speaker 1: understand the vocabulary. No one ever taught me anything. So 74 00:04:19,400 --> 00:04:21,680 Speaker 1: when I spent five hundred dollars, my very first bill 75 00:04:21,720 --> 00:04:24,120 Speaker 1: was only fifty two dollars. So on my wait, I 76 00:04:24,160 --> 00:04:26,440 Speaker 1: could spend five hundred and only pay back fifty two. 77 00:04:27,160 --> 00:04:29,240 Speaker 1: So I just applied for so many more credit cards. 78 00:04:30,560 --> 00:04:32,640 Speaker 1: Ended up with about thirty thousand dollars in debt within 79 00:04:32,680 --> 00:04:36,279 Speaker 1: a matter of seven months. Wow, and I'm paying back 80 00:04:36,360 --> 00:04:39,520 Speaker 1: about two thousand dollars a month. Lost my job, could 81 00:04:39,520 --> 00:04:42,560 Speaker 1: not pay it back, got into an argument with my 82 00:04:42,600 --> 00:04:44,800 Speaker 1: other father, and I ended up being homeless off a 83 00:04:44,839 --> 00:04:48,600 Speaker 1: highway seventy six in Oceanside, California. My parents thought that 84 00:04:48,640 --> 00:04:50,479 Speaker 1: I was going to be living with a friend. But 85 00:04:50,560 --> 00:04:52,279 Speaker 1: the truth of the fact is that I was actually 86 00:04:52,320 --> 00:04:54,040 Speaker 1: sleeping in the back of my car in a Walmart 87 00:04:54,080 --> 00:04:59,240 Speaker 1: parking lot. Not because my parents were broke and couldn't 88 00:04:59,240 --> 00:05:01,760 Speaker 1: afford it, becau because of won, my ego, my pride, 89 00:05:02,160 --> 00:05:05,240 Speaker 1: and just a lack of information. And during that season 90 00:05:05,279 --> 00:05:07,120 Speaker 1: of me living in the back of my car, I 91 00:05:07,240 --> 00:05:09,159 Speaker 1: was a guy. I did it two times. I don't 92 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:11,000 Speaker 1: want to exaggerate it. Two times. I was a guy 93 00:05:11,040 --> 00:05:14,000 Speaker 1: holding a sign saying can I have some money just 94 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:16,080 Speaker 1: to get something to eat. I know what it feels 95 00:05:16,080 --> 00:05:18,360 Speaker 1: like to be racially profiled because they see an African 96 00:05:18,400 --> 00:05:21,599 Speaker 1: American young man asking for money. I heard people say 97 00:05:21,640 --> 00:05:23,560 Speaker 1: he's gonna get He's gonna use money to buy drugs. 98 00:05:23,600 --> 00:05:26,000 Speaker 1: Don't give them no money. And now was the time 99 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:29,880 Speaker 1: I thought about committing suicide, all because of the poor 100 00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:32,080 Speaker 1: decisions that I made. But the poor decisions that I 101 00:05:32,120 --> 00:05:35,640 Speaker 1: made were just because of the lack of information that 102 00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:39,240 Speaker 1: I did not receive. And I remember telling God to say, God, 103 00:05:39,560 --> 00:05:41,480 Speaker 1: if you get me out of the backseat of this car, 104 00:05:41,600 --> 00:05:43,520 Speaker 1: I know I'm not gonna be perfect, but I guarantee 105 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:46,600 Speaker 1: you I will not be here. And I remember going 106 00:05:46,640 --> 00:05:49,920 Speaker 1: home to my father my mother father in California, said hey, 107 00:05:50,800 --> 00:05:54,000 Speaker 1: I'm sorry for the poor decisions that I made, but 108 00:05:54,080 --> 00:05:56,919 Speaker 1: I want to get better. My dad looked at me 109 00:05:56,960 --> 00:05:59,880 Speaker 1: and said, I'm sorry for not giving you the proper education. 110 00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:03,000 Speaker 1: He came back home and he gave me a budget 111 00:06:03,000 --> 00:06:04,960 Speaker 1: for him and said, hey, we were horrible with money, 112 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:06,840 Speaker 1: but we're going to help you get better with money. 113 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:09,000 Speaker 2: You know. The thing that stands out to me is 114 00:06:09,040 --> 00:06:16,440 Speaker 2: that you drew a line between emotional intelligence and financial intelligence. Yes, sir, 115 00:06:17,880 --> 00:06:21,320 Speaker 2: one affects the other. That's not having money, not having 116 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:25,080 Speaker 2: resources does something to you emotionally, whether you're a man 117 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:28,800 Speaker 2: or woman, but particularly as a man, to not be 118 00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:32,480 Speaker 2: able to take care of yourself or your date. And 119 00:06:32,520 --> 00:06:35,560 Speaker 2: you've spent the money, You've spent the money. I had 120 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:42,479 Speaker 2: read Lobster. It's good commercial But at the end of 121 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:46,119 Speaker 2: all of that, there's a shame that had you stand 122 00:06:46,160 --> 00:06:49,040 Speaker 2: in the car. Yes, that has nothing to do with 123 00:06:49,080 --> 00:06:52,839 Speaker 2: the poverty of money, but the poverty of soul that 124 00:06:52,960 --> 00:06:57,120 Speaker 2: comes from making those bad choices even though you had nothing. 125 00:06:57,200 --> 00:07:00,279 Speaker 2: Really to be ashamed of because you couldn't know so 126 00:07:00,520 --> 00:07:04,479 Speaker 2: what no one taught you? How much do you think 127 00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:09,320 Speaker 2: our communities that we grow up in, reading's territories or 128 00:07:09,360 --> 00:07:13,080 Speaker 2: families have to do with what we think about money 129 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:14,960 Speaker 2: mindsets versus assets. 130 00:07:15,520 --> 00:07:18,160 Speaker 1: Absolutely? I think everything starts with the mindset. When I 131 00:07:18,200 --> 00:07:21,400 Speaker 1: look at how when I was raised up in school, 132 00:07:21,440 --> 00:07:24,760 Speaker 1: Bishop school teaches you how to read, write, process information, 133 00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:27,280 Speaker 1: and add but they do not teach you what to 134 00:07:27,320 --> 00:07:30,880 Speaker 1: do with the finances. And so they're depositing all this 135 00:07:30,880 --> 00:07:33,040 Speaker 1: stuff into our minds. And here's what gets me is 136 00:07:33,040 --> 00:07:35,120 Speaker 1: that they're giving me all this information to go get 137 00:07:35,120 --> 00:07:37,880 Speaker 1: a job, to contribute to society. But what's the key 138 00:07:37,880 --> 00:07:39,920 Speaker 1: point of a job to get money? What's keep point 139 00:07:39,920 --> 00:07:42,840 Speaker 1: of money? To pay bills? So I think everything starts 140 00:07:42,840 --> 00:07:45,960 Speaker 1: with mindset. If we have the mindset, then we can 141 00:07:45,960 --> 00:07:48,400 Speaker 1: have financial stability, we can build wealth. But if we're 142 00:07:48,440 --> 00:07:51,200 Speaker 1: not training our minds on what to do, how to 143 00:07:51,280 --> 00:07:55,119 Speaker 1: think about money, how to understand money, how to invest money, 144 00:07:55,160 --> 00:07:58,400 Speaker 1: how to process money, how to use capital and debt 145 00:07:58,640 --> 00:08:01,440 Speaker 1: in a good ray rather than a negative way. If 146 00:08:01,440 --> 00:08:04,600 Speaker 1: we don't have that knowledge and that information, one thing 147 00:08:04,640 --> 00:08:07,440 Speaker 1: I've learned, we can all make money, but if we 148 00:08:07,480 --> 00:08:10,280 Speaker 1: don't have the right mindset, we can't multiply that money, 149 00:08:10,360 --> 00:08:11,120 Speaker 1: right right. 150 00:08:11,560 --> 00:08:14,560 Speaker 2: I think another part of our educational system that is 151 00:08:14,600 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 2: flawed is that they are getting you ready to have 152 00:08:17,640 --> 00:08:20,360 Speaker 2: a job. Yes, sir, but you're never going to be 153 00:08:20,440 --> 00:08:23,400 Speaker 2: wealthy off of job. Nobody hires you to make you rich. 154 00:08:23,480 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 2: They hire you to make them rich. 155 00:08:24,960 --> 00:08:25,200 Speaker 1: Fact. 156 00:08:25,360 --> 00:08:29,120 Speaker 2: Okay, so let's be clear about that. Yes, yeah. And 157 00:08:29,520 --> 00:08:31,880 Speaker 2: the other thing, they don't open up the possibility of 158 00:08:31,920 --> 00:08:34,959 Speaker 2: you being an entrepreneur, of you being a business owner, 159 00:08:35,000 --> 00:08:37,320 Speaker 2: of you being an investor of you. They don't open 160 00:08:37,400 --> 00:08:40,120 Speaker 2: up all the possibilities of you owning and the air 161 00:08:40,160 --> 00:08:44,360 Speaker 2: conditioning repair store or anything like that, and putting you 162 00:08:44,400 --> 00:08:48,720 Speaker 2: in a place where you understand what a form a 163 00:08:48,760 --> 00:08:51,959 Speaker 2: business forum looks like, what a spreadsheet looks like, what 164 00:08:53,000 --> 00:08:55,440 Speaker 2: a balance sheet looks like. Those are not the kinds 165 00:08:55,480 --> 00:08:59,320 Speaker 2: of things that we normally hear talked about in school 166 00:08:59,559 --> 00:09:01,480 Speaker 2: and the world. The worst part about it is if 167 00:09:01,520 --> 00:09:05,040 Speaker 2: we go far enough in school, school itself becomes a debt. 168 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:08,120 Speaker 1: Oh, don't get me started, don't give me a side, 169 00:09:08,200 --> 00:09:10,640 Speaker 1: or that you know. I wrote the book around how 170 00:09:10,640 --> 00:09:13,960 Speaker 1: do we get our young people into a debt without 171 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:16,480 Speaker 1: I mean into school without racking up so much that 172 00:09:16,600 --> 00:09:18,800 Speaker 1: the average college student's going to graduate with about one 173 00:09:18,840 --> 00:09:21,480 Speaker 1: hundred to one hundred and twenty thousand dollars in student 174 00:09:21,559 --> 00:09:24,040 Speaker 1: loan debt. But then when they get a job, the 175 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:27,559 Speaker 1: average job is fifty five thousand. So they have all 176 00:09:27,600 --> 00:09:31,080 Speaker 1: this education, but they do not have one the income 177 00:09:31,280 --> 00:09:34,760 Speaker 1: nor the wisdom on how to use this degree the 178 00:09:34,800 --> 00:09:37,319 Speaker 1: correct way. I'm a current them a professor at a 179 00:09:37,320 --> 00:09:40,959 Speaker 1: school in Richmond, Virginia, and I teach consumer economics, and 180 00:09:41,040 --> 00:09:44,680 Speaker 1: one of my assignments for my students is that, Hey, 181 00:09:44,760 --> 00:09:47,720 Speaker 1: I want you to identify three major things. What's your career, 182 00:09:48,120 --> 00:09:51,400 Speaker 1: what state, and what is your margin? When I say 183 00:09:51,480 --> 00:09:53,439 Speaker 1: state and career, they get it. But when I use 184 00:09:53,480 --> 00:09:55,319 Speaker 1: the word margin, they're like, what what do you mean 185 00:09:55,360 --> 00:09:59,400 Speaker 1: by margin? I'm like, yeah, this has this conversation. They're 186 00:09:59,400 --> 00:10:01,400 Speaker 1: going to get a someone's going to offer you a job. 187 00:10:01,720 --> 00:10:03,840 Speaker 1: But if they offer you a job making let's say 188 00:10:03,920 --> 00:10:06,080 Speaker 1: ninety thousand dollars in New York, but the cost of 189 00:10:06,160 --> 00:10:09,360 Speaker 1: living in New York is ninety thousand, you have no margin. 190 00:10:09,960 --> 00:10:11,439 Speaker 1: So what I want you to do is I want 191 00:10:11,440 --> 00:10:14,080 Speaker 1: you to understand your biggest wealth building tool is going 192 00:10:14,160 --> 00:10:16,160 Speaker 1: to be margin. Because if you could take that margin 193 00:10:16,200 --> 00:10:17,920 Speaker 1: and then if you can invest it, if you can 194 00:10:17,960 --> 00:10:19,959 Speaker 1: start a business, if you can put in the stocks 195 00:10:19,960 --> 00:10:22,920 Speaker 1: and bonds, now you can grow wealth a little bit. 196 00:10:22,920 --> 00:10:25,280 Speaker 1: But if you don't understand the decision that you make 197 00:10:25,320 --> 00:10:27,680 Speaker 1: today to go to the right state to get the 198 00:10:27,760 --> 00:10:30,120 Speaker 1: right job, that's the foundation, but that's not the end. 199 00:10:30,440 --> 00:10:32,480 Speaker 1: That's the beginning for you, but that's not the end. 200 00:10:32,520 --> 00:10:33,360 Speaker 1: All See. 201 00:10:34,200 --> 00:10:37,280 Speaker 2: I'm so glad you said that because the problem with 202 00:10:37,440 --> 00:10:42,079 Speaker 2: national information it doesn't take into consideration and regional budgets 203 00:10:42,080 --> 00:10:46,120 Speaker 2: and overheads, and what works in New York doesn't necessarily 204 00:10:46,120 --> 00:10:48,600 Speaker 2: work in New Orleans, doesn't. That's what works in New 205 00:10:48,679 --> 00:10:51,480 Speaker 2: Orleans may not work in Jamaica, yes, sir. And so 206 00:10:51,520 --> 00:10:55,000 Speaker 2: you have to consider the region that you're in, the 207 00:10:55,040 --> 00:10:58,120 Speaker 2: cost of living for where you are, and what the 208 00:10:58,280 --> 00:11:02,080 Speaker 2: average medium income is in the area you are. So 209 00:11:02,120 --> 00:11:05,560 Speaker 2: if you don't know the AMI, you can't determine whether 210 00:11:05,600 --> 00:11:07,520 Speaker 2: you can live in this neighborhood. You might can live 211 00:11:07,559 --> 00:11:10,720 Speaker 2: in this city, but the AMI this neighborhood may not 212 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:14,720 Speaker 2: allow you to be as luxurious as you would be 213 00:11:14,760 --> 00:11:17,439 Speaker 2: in that neighborhood. There are a lot of decisions to 214 00:11:17,600 --> 00:11:20,120 Speaker 2: be made before you open up your wallet. Yes, sir, 215 00:11:20,400 --> 00:11:22,360 Speaker 2: you know where do I want to live? What kind 216 00:11:22,360 --> 00:11:25,559 Speaker 2: of schools are in that area? What are the property taxes? 217 00:11:25,600 --> 00:11:27,800 Speaker 2: If I own a house, what is the upkeep on 218 00:11:27,840 --> 00:11:30,040 Speaker 2: the house, What is the utility bills on the house. 219 00:11:30,080 --> 00:11:32,240 Speaker 2: We don't take that into consideration. We just say I 220 00:11:32,360 --> 00:11:35,720 Speaker 2: like the house, I buy it, and then you've got 221 00:11:35,720 --> 00:11:39,600 Speaker 2: to pay the homeowners Association of seven hundred dollars. You 222 00:11:39,600 --> 00:11:43,680 Speaker 2: didn't plan on pad and the house burns gas like 223 00:11:43,760 --> 00:11:46,320 Speaker 2: it's on fire, like you're living in hell somewhere, and 224 00:11:46,640 --> 00:11:49,240 Speaker 2: you got all of these other things to consider. We 225 00:11:49,800 --> 00:11:55,480 Speaker 2: have to think with our minds about money from a 226 00:11:55,480 --> 00:11:59,360 Speaker 2: holistic three hundred and sixty degree angle in order to 227 00:11:59,440 --> 00:12:02,400 Speaker 2: decide to make good decision. I always say, you cannot 228 00:12:02,520 --> 00:12:06,560 Speaker 2: make great decisions with for information camp camp. 229 00:12:07,280 --> 00:12:09,800 Speaker 1: You cannot do that. And I always say, bishop me, 230 00:12:09,880 --> 00:12:12,319 Speaker 1: you talked about this earlier. My dad taught me something 231 00:12:12,360 --> 00:12:14,800 Speaker 1: when I was five years old. Made zero sense to 232 00:12:14,840 --> 00:12:17,520 Speaker 1: me until I was maybe thirty years old, but he said, 233 00:12:17,559 --> 00:12:22,960 Speaker 1: proper prior planning prevents poor performances. Yes, yes, proper prior planning. 234 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:24,760 Speaker 1: I'm like Dad, proper prior planning, what do you mean 235 00:12:24,840 --> 00:12:28,319 Speaker 1: it prevents poorer performances. But when I got older, Bishop, 236 00:12:28,320 --> 00:12:30,920 Speaker 1: I look, I said, wait. I started making about i'll 237 00:12:30,960 --> 00:12:33,480 Speaker 1: say about six figures around that time, and I was 238 00:12:33,480 --> 00:12:37,800 Speaker 1: living in California. I said, wait a minute, if I properly, 239 00:12:37,800 --> 00:12:41,280 Speaker 1: priorly planned this six figures and if I leave California 240 00:12:41,320 --> 00:12:44,520 Speaker 1: and maybe go to North Carolina, right, I could do 241 00:12:44,559 --> 00:12:47,240 Speaker 1: more with my six figures and it will prevent me 242 00:12:47,280 --> 00:12:50,880 Speaker 1: from going broke. So I packed up everything in California. 243 00:12:50,960 --> 00:12:54,600 Speaker 1: I moved to Fedville, North Carolina. Now my six figures there. 244 00:12:54,640 --> 00:12:57,160 Speaker 1: When rent in California was twenty five hundred dollars from 245 00:12:57,160 --> 00:13:00,800 Speaker 1: one bedroom, I'm paying seven to fifty. Now I can 246 00:13:00,880 --> 00:13:04,320 Speaker 1: do more with my money. I was talking with some 247 00:13:04,360 --> 00:13:06,480 Speaker 1: friends and say, hey, man, Anthony, you're wealthy. Now, why 248 00:13:06,480 --> 00:13:08,240 Speaker 1: are you not going back to California. I said, because 249 00:13:08,240 --> 00:13:09,920 Speaker 1: I'm still single and I still got a lot of money. 250 00:13:09,920 --> 00:13:14,080 Speaker 1: I want to keep it. So the lifestyle that I 251 00:13:14,160 --> 00:13:18,680 Speaker 1: desire it's going to go in half in California. So 252 00:13:18,840 --> 00:13:21,000 Speaker 1: right now, at forty one, my goal is, let me 253 00:13:21,080 --> 00:13:23,480 Speaker 1: build my wealth, let me use all of my assets. 254 00:13:23,480 --> 00:13:26,040 Speaker 1: And skills correctly where I'm at here on the East Coast. 255 00:13:26,760 --> 00:13:29,000 Speaker 1: When I get married, I want to retire, then we 256 00:13:29,040 --> 00:13:31,400 Speaker 1: can go to California. But everything to me when it 257 00:13:31,400 --> 00:13:33,640 Speaker 1: comes to money, when it comes to building wealth, and 258 00:13:33,679 --> 00:13:36,439 Speaker 1: you know this is what bishop everything is. There is 259 00:13:36,480 --> 00:13:40,120 Speaker 1: a strategy to everything. You just can't just walk into it. 260 00:13:40,160 --> 00:13:42,800 Speaker 1: You just can't hope about it. There is a strategy. 261 00:13:42,840 --> 00:13:45,600 Speaker 1: There's a system to building wealth. And right now I'm 262 00:13:45,640 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 1: working my strategy to prevent poor performances in my retirement years. 263 00:13:51,040 --> 00:13:53,400 Speaker 1: That's my goal right now. West really what I teach everyone, 264 00:13:53,440 --> 00:13:57,800 Speaker 1: especially in school. I really want to teach my students. Hey, listen, 265 00:13:58,200 --> 00:14:02,559 Speaker 1: you're twenty one. If you can make seventy thousand dollars, 266 00:14:02,880 --> 00:14:04,600 Speaker 1: why do you want to go to California, New York. 267 00:14:05,840 --> 00:14:08,680 Speaker 1: Why not go to South Dakota. Oh it's boring over there, 268 00:14:08,679 --> 00:14:10,760 Speaker 1: ain't nothing to do over there. Yeah, but you're not 269 00:14:10,800 --> 00:14:12,680 Speaker 1: gonna do nothing in California. He because you're gonna be 270 00:14:12,679 --> 00:14:17,440 Speaker 1: bron So why not go somewhere In twenty twenty five, 271 00:14:17,520 --> 00:14:20,680 Speaker 1: when everything is virtual, you can be working from home. 272 00:14:20,840 --> 00:14:23,600 Speaker 1: The strategy is maybe work there for two to three years, 273 00:14:23,960 --> 00:14:27,000 Speaker 1: stack up your money, keep your expenses low, open up 274 00:14:27,000 --> 00:14:31,080 Speaker 1: a business, open a virtual assistant business, do something, build 275 00:14:31,120 --> 00:14:34,360 Speaker 1: your income, then maybe upgrade a little bit to the 276 00:14:34,400 --> 00:14:37,280 Speaker 1: lifestyle you want, and moment by moment you'll get there. 277 00:14:38,200 --> 00:14:45,000 Speaker 2: Chapter two. Yeah, how much do you think technology and 278 00:14:45,240 --> 00:14:51,080 Speaker 2: AI in particular has affected our ability to exceed what 279 00:14:51,160 --> 00:14:52,520 Speaker 2: our parents did financially? 280 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:59,160 Speaker 1: Tremendously, tre tremendously. I believe Bishop, if you are not 281 00:14:59,320 --> 00:15:02,880 Speaker 1: learning AI today, you're going to miss out on a 282 00:15:03,080 --> 00:15:06,640 Speaker 1: huge wealth opportunity within the next two to five years. 283 00:15:07,000 --> 00:15:10,080 Speaker 1: If you're not utilizing if you're not taking a boot 284 00:15:10,080 --> 00:15:13,480 Speaker 1: camp on AI, if you're not learning it and implementing 285 00:15:13,520 --> 00:15:16,360 Speaker 1: it inside of your current job, I think you're going 286 00:15:16,400 --> 00:15:18,320 Speaker 1: to be even outside of a job in the next 287 00:15:18,320 --> 00:15:19,000 Speaker 1: two to three years. 288 00:15:19,000 --> 00:15:19,640 Speaker 2: Absolutely. 289 00:15:20,320 --> 00:15:22,960 Speaker 1: I was reading this article five or CEO sent the 290 00:15:23,000 --> 00:15:25,440 Speaker 1: whole email out to everyone, and I read it to 291 00:15:25,520 --> 00:15:27,800 Speaker 1: my staff and he said, pretty much, y'all, Hey, eighty 292 00:15:27,840 --> 00:15:30,200 Speaker 1: five percent of you all will not be will you'll 293 00:15:30,200 --> 00:15:31,920 Speaker 1: be out of a job if you do not use 294 00:15:32,040 --> 00:15:35,280 Speaker 1: this to help you with your job, to produce more, 295 00:15:35,600 --> 00:15:38,040 Speaker 1: to be faster, and to be stronger. I told it 296 00:15:38,040 --> 00:15:39,880 Speaker 1: to my entire staff, say, hey, listen, y'all, if we 297 00:15:39,920 --> 00:15:43,560 Speaker 1: don't utilize AI correctly. If we don't use this tool 298 00:15:43,600 --> 00:15:46,280 Speaker 1: that our parents and that my generation didn't have ten 299 00:15:46,360 --> 00:15:48,360 Speaker 1: years ago, we all are going to be out of 300 00:15:48,400 --> 00:15:51,080 Speaker 1: a job. But at the same time, Bishop, if we 301 00:15:51,160 --> 00:15:55,240 Speaker 1: use it correctly, do you know how wealthy this generation 302 00:15:55,360 --> 00:15:57,960 Speaker 1: can be? Do you know how far it is going 303 00:15:58,040 --> 00:16:01,400 Speaker 1: to push them from generating in Here's a twenty two 304 00:16:01,480 --> 00:16:03,400 Speaker 1: year old I was sitting down and just talking with 305 00:16:03,760 --> 00:16:08,520 Speaker 1: He started using AI, started his own AI business. The 306 00:16:08,880 --> 00:16:11,640 Speaker 1: young kid twenty two is making fifty five thousand dollars 307 00:16:11,720 --> 00:16:16,480 Speaker 1: a month using AI. He's living off of twenty five 308 00:16:16,560 --> 00:16:19,880 Speaker 1: hundred dollars a month. He lives out in Charlotte, North Carolina. 309 00:16:20,080 --> 00:16:21,360 Speaker 1: I'm like, what are you doing with the other money? 310 00:16:21,440 --> 00:16:23,160 Speaker 1: Oh Man, Me and my dad are buying real estate. 311 00:16:23,200 --> 00:16:25,760 Speaker 1: We're buying some land, and we're buying like other small 312 00:16:25,840 --> 00:16:28,200 Speaker 1: virtual businesses, and we're just letting it just sit there 313 00:16:28,200 --> 00:16:31,160 Speaker 1: and just building it. I said, Wow, So for me, 314 00:16:31,240 --> 00:16:33,880 Speaker 1: I think AI, Bishop is really changing use If we're 315 00:16:33,920 --> 00:16:36,600 Speaker 1: not using AI, we're going to miss out. And I 316 00:16:36,640 --> 00:16:38,520 Speaker 1: think sometimes a lot of us who are scared of 317 00:16:38,560 --> 00:16:42,040 Speaker 1: new things. But what I've learned, Bishop, people in your 318 00:16:42,480 --> 00:16:45,720 Speaker 1: in your generation who are wealthy. They're the first first 319 00:16:45,760 --> 00:16:48,360 Speaker 1: people to get into it. Now I'm following right behind. 320 00:16:48,520 --> 00:16:50,240 Speaker 1: Let me get into it. Let me take a little 321 00:16:50,280 --> 00:16:52,240 Speaker 1: bit of a risk and learn it and invest into 322 00:16:52,320 --> 00:16:54,560 Speaker 1: it so that way my children's children can be well through. 323 00:16:54,680 --> 00:16:59,800 Speaker 2: Follow me. I'm moving kind of slowly, but I'm getting there. 324 00:17:00,240 --> 00:17:03,520 Speaker 2: I'm getting there. I'm involved in it. I use it. 325 00:17:02,800 --> 00:17:05,640 Speaker 2: I do a lot of research on it. I ask 326 00:17:05,720 --> 00:17:08,119 Speaker 2: you a lot of questions. I'm learning how to maneuver 327 00:17:08,160 --> 00:17:10,040 Speaker 2: it and operate and getting ready to take for Google 328 00:17:10,040 --> 00:17:14,119 Speaker 2: Google Course Google Course to Enhance my Ability, which you 329 00:17:14,200 --> 00:17:17,240 Speaker 2: can take online, free, free that helps you to keep 330 00:17:17,320 --> 00:17:19,439 Speaker 2: up with the times. I'm not going to be like 331 00:17:19,480 --> 00:17:22,080 Speaker 2: my parents, Yes, sir, who could afford the eight tract 332 00:17:22,119 --> 00:17:25,000 Speaker 2: but couldn't run it. Yes, sir, Okay, I don't want 333 00:17:25,040 --> 00:17:27,560 Speaker 2: to end up where I can afford AI, but I 334 00:17:27,600 --> 00:17:29,640 Speaker 2: can't use it. I don't know how to operate it. 335 00:17:29,760 --> 00:17:30,720 Speaker 1: Everybody has. 336 00:17:31,119 --> 00:17:34,560 Speaker 2: The prompts are important, super if you don't, if you 337 00:17:34,560 --> 00:17:36,840 Speaker 2: don't ask the right prompts of it, you won't get 338 00:17:36,880 --> 00:17:39,520 Speaker 2: the best out of the AI and the technology. And 339 00:17:39,520 --> 00:17:42,680 Speaker 2: then we have to verify the information that you get 340 00:17:42,720 --> 00:17:44,680 Speaker 2: from MAY because it's not always accurate. 341 00:17:44,760 --> 00:17:47,879 Speaker 1: Yes, sir. One thing I'm learning Bishop is the prompt 342 00:17:48,560 --> 00:17:52,560 Speaker 1: is what we've been learning is we've been teaching AI. First, 343 00:17:52,560 --> 00:17:55,880 Speaker 1: we tell AI what we wanted to do who it is. 344 00:17:56,600 --> 00:17:59,080 Speaker 1: Once we educated Hey, for an example, Hey you are 345 00:17:59,680 --> 00:18:04,120 Speaker 1: a writer for Anthony O'Neill. You are a financial advisor 346 00:18:04,200 --> 00:18:07,680 Speaker 1: for Anthony O'Neill. U strategize and look at the next 347 00:18:07,680 --> 00:18:09,320 Speaker 1: five to ten years of this and give me the 348 00:18:09,320 --> 00:18:13,040 Speaker 1: best investment opportunities. You just can't say, hey, what should 349 00:18:13,080 --> 00:18:13,840 Speaker 1: I be investing in? 350 00:18:14,200 --> 00:18:14,360 Speaker 2: Right? 351 00:18:14,680 --> 00:18:17,400 Speaker 1: You can't do that. You need to educate the tool, 352 00:18:17,640 --> 00:18:22,360 Speaker 1: educate AI and say, hey, you are this, give me this, 353 00:18:22,960 --> 00:18:25,480 Speaker 1: what should I do with this? It's not just and 354 00:18:25,480 --> 00:18:26,679 Speaker 1: I think what I'm seeing a lot of people do 355 00:18:26,720 --> 00:18:28,359 Speaker 1: is just get on there and say hey, what should 356 00:18:28,400 --> 00:18:31,400 Speaker 1: I do here? And you're not utilizing the tool correctly. 357 00:18:32,119 --> 00:18:35,760 Speaker 2: I didn't I started. We didn't have AI obviously, Yes, sir, 358 00:18:35,840 --> 00:18:39,720 Speaker 2: we had credit cards. My dream in life was to 359 00:18:39,840 --> 00:18:45,000 Speaker 2: have a serious robot uh revolving charge account. If I 360 00:18:45,000 --> 00:18:49,000 Speaker 2: could get a serious revolving charge account, I would be good. 361 00:18:49,280 --> 00:18:51,879 Speaker 2: Het my car fix. It's not getting some clothes for 362 00:18:51,920 --> 00:19:00,000 Speaker 2: the kids. I can get everything. Yeah, I did get it, 363 00:18:59,760 --> 00:19:03,280 Speaker 2: get credit card. But that was what I thought initially 364 00:19:03,359 --> 00:19:06,959 Speaker 2: at that time, because you're just trying to make it. 365 00:19:07,560 --> 00:19:13,160 Speaker 2: You're not strategizing to succeed. You're strategizing to survive. Yes, sir, 366 00:19:13,640 --> 00:19:15,800 Speaker 2: And while there might be a period in your life 367 00:19:15,800 --> 00:19:18,920 Speaker 2: that you really do need to survive so you can succeed, 368 00:19:19,520 --> 00:19:22,240 Speaker 2: you can't stay in survival mode the rest of your life. 369 00:19:22,560 --> 00:19:28,320 Speaker 2: And you're teaching your children survival as a status and 370 00:19:28,320 --> 00:19:32,320 Speaker 2: it becomes a way of life. If John O'Brien says 371 00:19:32,320 --> 00:19:35,080 Speaker 2: this whole time, if you hang around nine people that 372 00:19:35,119 --> 00:19:36,800 Speaker 2: are broke, you're going to be the tenth oneth You 373 00:19:36,840 --> 00:19:39,960 Speaker 2: will be You just being in the atmosphere with people 374 00:19:40,000 --> 00:19:43,840 Speaker 2: who are thinking about finances, particularly with the inflation that 375 00:19:43,920 --> 00:19:49,400 Speaker 2: we have now, the currency change, the crypto, the cybercurrency 376 00:19:49,480 --> 00:19:52,520 Speaker 2: that's out there now, there's a whole different conversation than 377 00:19:52,600 --> 00:19:55,439 Speaker 2: what we have even five years ago. Yes, sir, but 378 00:19:55,560 --> 00:19:58,720 Speaker 2: it has also leveled the playing floor because everybody's new 379 00:19:58,760 --> 00:20:01,960 Speaker 2: to it. Everybody you got an equal opportunity, a chance 380 00:20:02,040 --> 00:20:04,280 Speaker 2: to be successful. Yes, what do you think about it? No? 381 00:20:04,680 --> 00:20:08,480 Speaker 1: I think bishop, if you're not using AI, if you're 382 00:20:08,520 --> 00:20:12,400 Speaker 1: not using the AI tools, to do research because one 383 00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:14,840 Speaker 1: thing that your generation didn't have and I would say 384 00:20:14,880 --> 00:20:19,040 Speaker 1: my generation we had AOL and Yahoo, right yeah, and 385 00:20:19,119 --> 00:20:23,640 Speaker 1: so for us right now, information is at your fingertips. 386 00:20:24,400 --> 00:20:26,600 Speaker 1: If you hear something, you should be able to open 387 00:20:26,720 --> 00:20:29,159 Speaker 1: up an AI tool, not Google, an AI tool and 388 00:20:29,200 --> 00:20:32,040 Speaker 1: at least get some information and then also then take 389 00:20:32,080 --> 00:20:35,200 Speaker 1: that information and go verify it for sure. But when 390 00:20:35,240 --> 00:20:37,760 Speaker 1: it comes to learning something about crypto, or at least 391 00:20:37,840 --> 00:20:42,199 Speaker 1: learning the basic information about crypto, about the stock market, 392 00:20:42,280 --> 00:20:45,359 Speaker 1: about mutual funds, about four to one K, about investing, 393 00:20:45,680 --> 00:20:48,119 Speaker 1: you should be able to get the information very very quick. 394 00:20:48,160 --> 00:20:51,600 Speaker 1: I tell this younger generation, if you can learn the 395 00:20:51,760 --> 00:20:54,360 Speaker 1: latest song from a gospel artist or from a hip 396 00:20:54,359 --> 00:20:56,760 Speaker 1: hop artist, but you can't tell me what a four 397 00:20:56,880 --> 00:21:00,720 Speaker 1: one K is, the problem is not the world your 398 00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:02,919 Speaker 1: because you took the time to go in research and 399 00:21:03,040 --> 00:21:05,880 Speaker 1: learn that song. So let's figure out away how can 400 00:21:05,920 --> 00:21:08,960 Speaker 1: we research and learn some of the basic information about 401 00:21:09,280 --> 00:21:11,919 Speaker 1: by math. But I got to say this AI, you 402 00:21:12,000 --> 00:21:13,919 Speaker 1: do have to still be careful when it comes to 403 00:21:13,960 --> 00:21:17,119 Speaker 1: the finances of things with AI because all the information 404 00:21:17,240 --> 00:21:19,600 Speaker 1: is not correct exactly, and so you do need to 405 00:21:19,600 --> 00:21:22,840 Speaker 1: step back and seek with the financial coach or financial advisor, 406 00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:27,359 Speaker 1: a CPA attack strategist, someone who is proficient in that field, 407 00:21:27,400 --> 00:21:30,080 Speaker 1: who has a degree. But what I tell everyone is 408 00:21:30,080 --> 00:21:32,640 Speaker 1: before you even go talk to them, do research for yourself. 409 00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:36,120 Speaker 1: Use AI to have to ask them questions, and when 410 00:21:36,160 --> 00:21:39,320 Speaker 1: as they're talking. I do this with my financial advisor. 411 00:21:39,560 --> 00:21:42,040 Speaker 1: I'm chatting you said what again? If it's new to me, 412 00:21:42,359 --> 00:21:45,000 Speaker 1: I'll try to type it real quick because I want 413 00:21:45,000 --> 00:21:46,040 Speaker 1: to confirm it for myself. 414 00:21:46,760 --> 00:21:49,400 Speaker 2: I tell them even before you ask a question, get 415 00:21:49,400 --> 00:21:52,920 Speaker 2: a glosstory of the language, because you can get in 416 00:21:53,040 --> 00:21:55,320 Speaker 2: the room, you know, get in the room where it happens, 417 00:21:55,440 --> 00:21:56,920 Speaker 2: where it happened. I let it be in the room 418 00:21:56,920 --> 00:21:59,600 Speaker 2: where it happens. You're not going to understand anything in 419 00:21:59,680 --> 00:22:02,199 Speaker 2: the room if you don't understand the language. Yes, and 420 00:22:02,280 --> 00:22:05,840 Speaker 2: people who are into economics have a language that will 421 00:22:05,920 --> 00:22:08,439 Speaker 2: leave you sending in the room drinking coffee, but you 422 00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:11,760 Speaker 2: won't know what's going on if you don't learn the terminology. 423 00:22:11,840 --> 00:22:12,720 Speaker 2: Set are appropriate. 424 00:22:12,760 --> 00:22:15,080 Speaker 1: Man, the terminology bishop is very important. I was on 425 00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:20,240 Speaker 1: a cruise and I studied the money space every single day. 426 00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:24,200 Speaker 1: I have a master's degree in financing, church management, bachelor's 427 00:22:24,240 --> 00:22:28,600 Speaker 1: and financing banking, then completing my doctorate this year in 428 00:22:28,680 --> 00:22:31,280 Speaker 1: financing investing. And I was in this room. I was 429 00:22:31,280 --> 00:22:35,000 Speaker 1: on a cruise and there's the wealthy, wealthy, wealthy individuals talking. 430 00:22:35,040 --> 00:22:37,040 Speaker 1: I was in there just listening. But they said something, 431 00:22:37,640 --> 00:22:39,440 Speaker 1: and they said this term five to twenty nine. I 432 00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:42,320 Speaker 1: knew about the term five twenty nine, and I said, okay, 433 00:22:42,760 --> 00:22:44,919 Speaker 1: but that's for kids. The five to twenty nine college 434 00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:48,240 Speaker 1: plan is a college investment specifically for kids to go 435 00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:50,720 Speaker 1: to college. He said, yeah, man, I haven't paid for 436 00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:52,360 Speaker 1: any of my kids to go to school really out 437 00:22:52,400 --> 00:22:54,320 Speaker 1: of my pocket. But one thing I love about the 438 00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:56,280 Speaker 1: five to twenty nine is not really just for my kids. 439 00:22:56,280 --> 00:22:58,480 Speaker 1: It's for me too. And I said, wait a minute. 440 00:22:58,600 --> 00:23:01,960 Speaker 1: I know the term, I know the language. I even 441 00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:03,560 Speaker 1: know what the five twenty nine is four. But when 442 00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:06,400 Speaker 1: he said, but it benefits me just as much as 443 00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:10,119 Speaker 1: my kids, I was like, Okay, wait, talk more. I 444 00:23:10,200 --> 00:23:12,280 Speaker 1: understood the term. I wasn't nervous. I was ready to 445 00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:14,440 Speaker 1: have the conversation. When he said, well, hey, the five 446 00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:16,959 Speaker 1: to twenty nine. Because I live in Maryland, I'm allowed 447 00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:19,119 Speaker 1: to ride off up to a certain amount of that money. 448 00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:22,000 Speaker 1: So I'm sitting there wait a minute. I'm on the cruise. 449 00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:26,960 Speaker 1: The internet is slow, but I'm asking AI, waita wait, 450 00:23:27,040 --> 00:23:28,360 Speaker 1: is this true? 451 00:23:28,560 --> 00:23:28,840 Speaker 2: Wait? 452 00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:32,280 Speaker 1: Is this really? So when I get back Bishop, I 453 00:23:32,320 --> 00:23:34,240 Speaker 1: go to my financial advisor and I said, how come 454 00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:36,520 Speaker 1: you wait and tell me this? Because another part of 455 00:23:36,520 --> 00:23:39,760 Speaker 1: building wealth and really going from survival to thriving is 456 00:23:39,800 --> 00:23:41,760 Speaker 1: not really just about how much money you make, is 457 00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:43,840 Speaker 1: about how much can you keep it? What it's your strategy. 458 00:23:44,080 --> 00:23:46,800 Speaker 1: So if I can give my kids, let's say, twenty 459 00:23:46,800 --> 00:23:48,639 Speaker 1: five hundred dollars for the year to go towards the 460 00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:51,320 Speaker 1: five twenty nine, but I can also now write that off, 461 00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:54,399 Speaker 1: that puts more money back into my pocket. Now I'm 462 00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:57,280 Speaker 1: sowing into my kids rather than to the irs, and 463 00:23:57,320 --> 00:23:59,639 Speaker 1: it helps me out, but it also helps out my kids. 464 00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:05,320 Speaker 2: Chapter three, Decreasing value of dollars. Let's talk a little 465 00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:10,200 Speaker 2: bit about the decreasing value of the dollar. Yes, sir, yes, 466 00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:13,440 Speaker 2: because you can have a million dollars, but if their 467 00:24:13,960 --> 00:24:16,280 Speaker 2: valuation of the dollar is the same as den Hora 468 00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:21,160 Speaker 2: or Pace holds, you don't have anything. It's dropped about 469 00:24:21,200 --> 00:24:24,080 Speaker 2: I think of thirty percent at this point, Yes, sir, 470 00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:28,600 Speaker 2: so a million dollars is worth for seven hundred thousand, 471 00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:32,919 Speaker 2: so one hundred dollars or seventy thousand dollars seventy dollars 472 00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:36,399 Speaker 2: on down the line. Do the math. So the thirty 473 00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:39,920 Speaker 2: percent drop means do you have to increase your earnings 474 00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:43,280 Speaker 2: to keep up with what you had before? So what 475 00:24:43,359 --> 00:24:47,360 Speaker 2: was your goal before the valuation decrease has now changed 476 00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:49,639 Speaker 2: and has to be up thirty percent to be one 477 00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:52,000 Speaker 2: hundred dollars again. I got to make one hundred and 478 00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:55,800 Speaker 2: thirty to have one hundred dollars again. Okay, when you 479 00:24:55,840 --> 00:24:59,600 Speaker 2: look at that, when you look at bricks taking over globally, 480 00:24:59,640 --> 00:25:02,679 Speaker 2: and you can other currencies coming in and the flood 481 00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:05,280 Speaker 2: of dollars coming back. When you look at the FED 482 00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:10,440 Speaker 2: rates changing, what do you think the future holds for 483 00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:14,160 Speaker 2: young people who are trying to make it in this country? 484 00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:17,520 Speaker 2: Are we going to have the wordwithal financially to be 485 00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:21,920 Speaker 2: not even rich, just to have our heads above water. 486 00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:27,159 Speaker 1: I think we will be. Honestly, I am concerned, but 487 00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:30,520 Speaker 1: not concerned, if that makes sense. I'm concerned to make 488 00:25:30,560 --> 00:25:33,680 Speaker 1: sure that we give and teach the right information. I'm 489 00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:37,040 Speaker 1: not concerned because I believe that this generation has the 490 00:25:37,080 --> 00:25:41,640 Speaker 1: better earning potential than any of our other generations. We're 491 00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:46,800 Speaker 1: seeing a rise of this social media influencer world, you know, 492 00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:50,240 Speaker 1: where they're making millions just for doing something. We're seeing 493 00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:53,720 Speaker 1: a rise of young people starting businesses. We're even seeing 494 00:25:54,160 --> 00:25:57,000 Speaker 1: this younger generation moving out of the country, going to 495 00:25:57,119 --> 00:26:01,040 Speaker 1: other countries, working internationally, but still earning the US dollar. 496 00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:05,359 Speaker 1: And so I'm not really concerned about young people surviving. 497 00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:08,639 Speaker 1: Here's what I am concerned about, is they're going to 498 00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:11,600 Speaker 1: make this money or do they have the right, the 499 00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:14,840 Speaker 1: information and the education to keep this money in to 500 00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:18,160 Speaker 1: multiply it. Prime example, if the dollar is going down, 501 00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:20,720 Speaker 1: like you said, it's bout thirty percent, there's two things 502 00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:22,400 Speaker 1: you gotta do. We need to earn more. But then 503 00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:24,879 Speaker 1: also with what we're earning, how we're investing it to 504 00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:28,000 Speaker 1: keep that money grown with the inflation. And so for me, 505 00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:31,000 Speaker 1: it's like, Okay, if I'm going to earn less, then 506 00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:35,040 Speaker 1: what how do I place this money into vehicles and 507 00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:39,600 Speaker 1: avenues that can keep up with inflation, that can keep 508 00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:42,960 Speaker 1: up with the dollar going down. So instead of me 509 00:26:43,040 --> 00:26:45,240 Speaker 1: keeping my money into a regular save for an example, 510 00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:48,040 Speaker 1: regular savings account for an emergency fund and getting the 511 00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:50,240 Speaker 1: sayo point four percent well, I'm gonna put that into 512 00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:54,040 Speaker 1: a HI savings that's given me forty five percent set 513 00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:56,400 Speaker 1: for me keeping it inside of a regular savings account 514 00:26:56,640 --> 00:26:58,719 Speaker 1: or keeping a large amount of money because we are 515 00:26:58,760 --> 00:27:01,160 Speaker 1: starting to see this now what, well, I'm gonna put 516 00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:03,600 Speaker 1: that money into a good mutual fund into a good 517 00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:07,760 Speaker 1: state to where now earning about ten percent twelve percent. 518 00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:11,000 Speaker 1: So we have to be strategic on Okay, yes, let's 519 00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:15,119 Speaker 1: earn more, but whatever's outside of our expenses, how do 520 00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:18,120 Speaker 1: we put that into a vehicle that can now keep 521 00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:20,080 Speaker 1: up with inflation? To where are now our money is 522 00:27:20,119 --> 00:27:21,000 Speaker 1: making more money. 523 00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:23,399 Speaker 2: That's something we got to think about. We still have 524 00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:27,159 Speaker 2: one of the strongest GDPs in the world. Yes, okay, 525 00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:30,800 Speaker 2: so at this point we're not in real bad trouble, 526 00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:34,800 Speaker 2: but we gotta be watching it right because the fastest 527 00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:37,719 Speaker 2: growing GDP is coming out of Africa. It sure is, okay, 528 00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:41,560 Speaker 2: So their youth is there, the money is there, the 529 00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:45,359 Speaker 2: resources are there, and instead of going to another country 530 00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:47,879 Speaker 2: and putting your money back into dollars in America, we 531 00:27:48,080 --> 00:27:50,400 Speaker 2: might not have been thinking about putting some of our 532 00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:53,360 Speaker 2: money into Africa and into Chin in different places like that, 533 00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:58,080 Speaker 2: and investing internationally because currency means it. How to be 534 00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:02,200 Speaker 2: flowing is global. Global. You gotta think global. You can't 535 00:28:02,240 --> 00:28:05,000 Speaker 2: just think communal. You gotta think global. Do you agree 536 00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:05,280 Speaker 2: with that? 537 00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:08,679 Speaker 1: Absolutely? I'm actually buying property in Ghana at this present 538 00:28:08,720 --> 00:28:12,600 Speaker 1: moment because what I learned was, and I take a 539 00:28:12,600 --> 00:28:14,719 Speaker 1: group of people over there every single year just to 540 00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:17,919 Speaker 1: learn from your perspective, Like, wait a minute, if I 541 00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:20,280 Speaker 1: could buy a home here in America for this amount, 542 00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:22,000 Speaker 1: do you know how much I could buy a home 543 00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:26,720 Speaker 1: in Ghana. So we're purchasing land in Ghana, and man, 544 00:28:26,760 --> 00:28:28,960 Speaker 1: I'm excited because just for an example, one of the 545 00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:30,920 Speaker 1: homes will we purchased was for one hundred and fifty 546 00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:34,840 Speaker 1: thousand dollars. I'm not finding that here in America. And 547 00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:36,760 Speaker 1: so what we're gonna do is take that property, rent 548 00:28:36,760 --> 00:28:39,760 Speaker 1: it out, Airbnb it out, however we're going to do it. 549 00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:43,800 Speaker 1: But it's the fact is I'm looking out at every aspect, 550 00:28:43,920 --> 00:28:46,520 Speaker 1: not just here in America, but where else out of 551 00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:51,160 Speaker 1: the country can I sow into one because Africa's is 552 00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:53,520 Speaker 1: dear to my heart. So I'm giving back to that area. 553 00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:56,080 Speaker 1: But at the same time, it produces more wealth and 554 00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:59,160 Speaker 1: it's a different machine from me there, So I think, Bishop, 555 00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:04,000 Speaker 1: we have to be strategic in all aspects. But again, 556 00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:08,000 Speaker 1: people won't know that unless you're listening to podcasts like yours, 557 00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:12,560 Speaker 1: since they're in the room learning. Hey, y'all, there's different strategies, 558 00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:15,440 Speaker 1: not just in America, but you can make money over 559 00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:19,280 Speaker 1: here in Africa. Some people are even going to Puerto Rico. Bishop, Oh, 560 00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:21,320 Speaker 1: absolutely because as they understand it that way, if I 561 00:29:21,320 --> 00:29:23,280 Speaker 1: go to Puerto Rico lived there, half of the time 562 00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:26,160 Speaker 1: was going to save me in my tax Yes. Absolutely, 563 00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:29,280 Speaker 1: So everything everything goes back to the word for me strategy. 564 00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:31,960 Speaker 1: What is the right strategy to keep as much as 565 00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:35,080 Speaker 1: my money to keep me growing and moving flowing. But 566 00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:36,840 Speaker 1: we got to be in a room Justison. 567 00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:40,680 Speaker 2: Wow, in Texas there is no state Texas, Okay, so 568 00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:42,800 Speaker 2: you can put that into it. That makes a big difference. 569 00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:45,719 Speaker 2: There's a lot of things to consider about where you 570 00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:47,200 Speaker 2: live and where you want to go and where you 571 00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:50,760 Speaker 2: want to invest in order to be able to be 572 00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:55,280 Speaker 2: affluent and successful. And the ultimate goal is for your 573 00:29:55,320 --> 00:29:56,560 Speaker 2: money to be making money. 574 00:29:56,600 --> 00:29:58,680 Speaker 1: That's it, Bishop. We got to get to a point, 575 00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:03,040 Speaker 1: I believe, and I have this written around in every 576 00:30:03,080 --> 00:30:06,920 Speaker 1: single room that I frequent in my home that I 577 00:30:07,040 --> 00:30:10,560 Speaker 1: want to stop exchanging my time for money and start 578 00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:14,600 Speaker 1: exchanging my money for more of my time back. Absolutely, 579 00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:17,200 Speaker 1: we're so good at working two three jobs. We can 580 00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:19,760 Speaker 1: go out there and work like a Hebrew slave. But 581 00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:22,360 Speaker 1: I'm tired of working like a Hebrew slave. I want 582 00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:25,040 Speaker 1: my money to work like a Hebrew slave. I want 583 00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:27,040 Speaker 1: to be a better father. I want to be a 584 00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:30,920 Speaker 1: present father, a present husband, a present grandfather if I'm 585 00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:34,080 Speaker 1: blessed to be there. But I have to figure out, Wait, 586 00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:36,560 Speaker 1: how can my money start making more money to where 587 00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:38,160 Speaker 1: I have more time to do the things that I 588 00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:40,440 Speaker 1: desire to do, to spend the time that I want 589 00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:42,520 Speaker 1: to spend with the people that I want. But we 590 00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:45,560 Speaker 1: were trained. I was trained growing up, go to school, 591 00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:49,479 Speaker 1: work forty years to only get forty percent of your paycheck, 592 00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:53,960 Speaker 1: get your goal watch, get a goal watch, and retire well, 593 00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:57,560 Speaker 1: And I'm like, I don't want to retire. What I 594 00:30:57,600 --> 00:30:59,520 Speaker 1: want to do is just continue doing what I would 595 00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:01,600 Speaker 1: love to do. But I want to get to the 596 00:31:01,640 --> 00:31:05,920 Speaker 1: point to where my money I don't feel like I retired, 597 00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:08,480 Speaker 1: I feel like I actually elevated. 598 00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:13,720 Speaker 2: The state of Texas represents ten percent of the National GDP. Yes, sir, 599 00:31:14,600 --> 00:31:19,000 Speaker 2: it's all money, it's oil, it's gas, gas, it's all 600 00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:22,680 Speaker 2: kinds of resources like that. Yes, But it's also companies 601 00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:25,480 Speaker 2: that have spread their wings into other parts of the world. 602 00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:31,240 Speaker 2: So you look at companies like Google, like McDonald's, they're 603 00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:35,640 Speaker 2: popping up all over the world. KFC is everywhere, yes sir, Okay, 604 00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:39,720 Speaker 2: you get you a greed piece anywhere in the world, okay. 605 00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:44,280 Speaker 2: Because the people who are really really serious about business 606 00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:50,760 Speaker 2: don't have any prejudice about capital. They might have prejudice 607 00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:54,240 Speaker 2: about anything else, but they don't have any prejudice about capital. 608 00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:57,560 Speaker 2: They will get capital from anywhere anywhere. So you will 609 00:31:57,680 --> 00:32:02,320 Speaker 2: have Asian people selling black people we okay, because they 610 00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:05,720 Speaker 2: understand that green is the ultimate purpose of getting up 611 00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:06,560 Speaker 2: in the morning, going. 612 00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:08,720 Speaker 1: Yes sir, yes, yes. 613 00:32:09,040 --> 00:32:13,320 Speaker 2: You don't hear people in church talking about that, and 614 00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:16,560 Speaker 2: maybe they shouldn't, but there ought to be some place 615 00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:19,640 Speaker 2: where you can go and get some information that helps 616 00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:23,080 Speaker 2: you to be stable. Because there is a correlation between 617 00:32:23,640 --> 00:32:29,280 Speaker 2: poverty and crime. Whenever poverty escalates, crime goes up, hate 618 00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:32,760 Speaker 2: goes up, racism goes up. When people aren't doing well, 619 00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:35,760 Speaker 2: they need somebody to blame. They need somebody to hate. 620 00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:40,920 Speaker 2: And so the societal health is earmarked by how well 621 00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:44,160 Speaker 2: we are doing financially, the love that I wish above 622 00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:46,760 Speaker 2: all things, that you prosper, and being good health as 623 00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:51,000 Speaker 2: your soul does prosper. So there is some correlation between 624 00:32:51,240 --> 00:32:55,120 Speaker 2: how you are spiritually how you are financially disciplined. If 625 00:32:55,120 --> 00:32:57,080 Speaker 2: you don't have discipline about one thing, you're not gonna 626 00:32:57,080 --> 00:33:00,880 Speaker 2: have discipline about anything. It affects everything. Where do you 627 00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:04,040 Speaker 2: think can you name some places where people can readily 628 00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:06,840 Speaker 2: get this kind of information. By the way, I'm not 629 00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:10,040 Speaker 2: an expert. We're just having a conversation. Do your own research. 630 00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:12,800 Speaker 2: Please enter in at your own risk. Number One, it's 631 00:33:12,880 --> 00:33:15,480 Speaker 2: changing every day, yes, sir, Yes, the stock market is 632 00:33:15,560 --> 00:33:17,600 Speaker 2: changing every day. I don't know whether it went up 633 00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:22,200 Speaker 2: today or down today. Yesterday it went down, it did 634 00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:24,240 Speaker 2: it went down today. 635 00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:25,360 Speaker 1: The market was even. 636 00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:27,040 Speaker 2: Okay yesterday I got baptist. 637 00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:30,200 Speaker 3: Yes, sir, I didn't even look at it. I didn't 638 00:33:30,200 --> 00:33:32,480 Speaker 3: want to see it. I didn't want to know anything 639 00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:34,240 Speaker 3: about it. And if we come up from some of 640 00:33:34,280 --> 00:33:37,080 Speaker 3: these political shows and started looking at some of these 641 00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:41,000 Speaker 3: financial shows, because we really begin to understand that the 642 00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:44,080 Speaker 3: financial show is driving the political administry. 643 00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:47,479 Speaker 1: Absolutely, absolutely, But I would say this too, Bischof. I'm 644 00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:50,040 Speaker 1: gonna answer your question. When the market just goes down, 645 00:33:50,160 --> 00:33:53,200 Speaker 1: I honestly get a little excited. I don't look at 646 00:33:53,240 --> 00:33:55,960 Speaker 1: my portfolio. I just called my financial advisor, as a 647 00:33:55,960 --> 00:33:58,200 Speaker 1: money guy, say hey, listen, what stocks should we be 648 00:33:58,200 --> 00:33:58,840 Speaker 1: buying right now? 649 00:33:59,040 --> 00:33:59,200 Speaker 2: Right? 650 00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:02,120 Speaker 1: What stock is going to sell? And I think, oftentimes 651 00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:04,080 Speaker 1: what what I'm seeing is because of the lack of 652 00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:08,040 Speaker 1: information is people will tend to pull out. And I'm like, don't, 653 00:34:08,080 --> 00:34:09,680 Speaker 1: don't do it. That's the worst to do it. The 654 00:34:09,680 --> 00:34:12,120 Speaker 1: worst time you need to be asking how can you 655 00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:17,000 Speaker 1: buy into it? And man, five years ago one of 656 00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:24,560 Speaker 1: my friends, yes, sir, that's why I call it financial advisor, Like, hey, 657 00:34:25,360 --> 00:34:28,440 Speaker 1: what do you see working now? You know what's going 658 00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:31,920 Speaker 1: to bounce back? Right, But there's a lot of resources 659 00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:37,200 Speaker 1: out there. You have invest dot com, money dot com. 660 00:34:37,239 --> 00:34:41,920 Speaker 1: That I say, from an educational perspective, I say, never 661 00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:46,000 Speaker 1: take financial advice from online. Take it from a licensed 662 00:34:46,000 --> 00:34:50,160 Speaker 1: financial advice right because everything online is going to come 663 00:34:50,160 --> 00:34:54,040 Speaker 1: from someone's perspective. But you need actual facts and data 664 00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:56,439 Speaker 1: when it comes to investing your money in your time. 665 00:34:56,960 --> 00:35:00,880 Speaker 1: But I love money dot com from an educationtional perspective. 666 00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:03,719 Speaker 1: I love invest dot com from an educational perspective. I 667 00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:07,600 Speaker 1: love my podcast from an educational perspective. Right, But I 668 00:35:07,640 --> 00:35:11,600 Speaker 1: tell you, I tell everyone like, hey, go seek a 669 00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:15,000 Speaker 1: financial advisor who is studying this eight hours a day 670 00:35:15,560 --> 00:35:17,600 Speaker 1: because the stock market is changing all the time. And 671 00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:22,359 Speaker 1: you know that Bishop and so I love those two 672 00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:26,160 Speaker 1: particular resources in my website. But I think one of 673 00:35:26,160 --> 00:35:28,839 Speaker 1: the generals who I love, who's a good friend of yours, 674 00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:32,000 Speaker 1: is John O'Brien his podcast. I listen to his information 675 00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:36,360 Speaker 1: every single podcast he comes out. He's brilliant, He's super brilliant. 676 00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:39,160 Speaker 1: He is a general to me in the financial space. 677 00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:44,320 Speaker 1: We talk almost every day. I love John hopeern amazing. 678 00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:48,200 Speaker 1: I pray that in the financial space that I get 679 00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:48,759 Speaker 1: to his level. 680 00:35:48,760 --> 00:35:55,279 Speaker 2: One Beast, Chapter four, Live within Your Maids. It's important 681 00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:58,759 Speaker 2: because we need to be thinking about being able to 682 00:35:58,800 --> 00:36:02,640 Speaker 2: send our children to school, being able to make better choices, 683 00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:07,200 Speaker 2: being able to take care of ourselves if we get incapacitated. 684 00:36:07,640 --> 00:36:09,279 Speaker 2: Used to be when we were growing up, you know, 685 00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:13,000 Speaker 2: Grandpa sat on the front porch and we brought him 686 00:36:13,040 --> 00:36:15,120 Speaker 2: some collared greens and some sweet potato pie, and he 687 00:36:15,200 --> 00:36:17,400 Speaker 2: sat out there and fell asleep until one day we 688 00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:20,160 Speaker 2: came out there he was dead. That's not working anymore 689 00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:24,560 Speaker 2: because everybody's at work. So people have to put people 690 00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:27,480 Speaker 2: in homes, not because they don't care, but because they 691 00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:30,160 Speaker 2: can't lift him anymore, or they've got to work every day, 692 00:36:30,440 --> 00:36:32,120 Speaker 2: or they don't have enough help to be able to do. 693 00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:35,920 Speaker 2: And that is very, very very expensive. My mother had Alzheimer's, 694 00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:39,320 Speaker 2: that is very expensive. I kept her in my house, 695 00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:43,080 Speaker 2: but not everybody can do that facts and it's very 696 00:36:43,160 --> 00:36:46,200 Speaker 2: very taxing on you emotionally, mentally, and you have to 697 00:36:46,239 --> 00:36:49,160 Speaker 2: have a strategy, and it cannot be built on your 698 00:36:49,280 --> 00:36:54,080 Speaker 2: children because you cannot be sure that your children are 699 00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:56,920 Speaker 2: going to take care of you, like your grandma took 700 00:36:57,000 --> 00:36:58,520 Speaker 2: care of her great grandma. 701 00:36:58,239 --> 00:37:02,359 Speaker 1: No sir, no sir, And I relate to that. My 702 00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:09,120 Speaker 1: mother took in my grandmother. And when my mom took 703 00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:12,200 Speaker 1: in my grandma, do you know how much that impacted 704 00:37:12,239 --> 00:37:19,720 Speaker 1: that house. It took finances from the family to protect 705 00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:25,080 Speaker 1: Grandma because Grandma was depending on her daughter. But Grandma, 706 00:37:25,120 --> 00:37:28,600 Speaker 1: I believe God rest her soul, that she forgot that 707 00:37:28,719 --> 00:37:32,480 Speaker 1: her daughter had a family right and the children had 708 00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:34,920 Speaker 1: to pay for that. And so one of the things 709 00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:37,719 Speaker 1: that I believe is that we have to have the 710 00:37:37,920 --> 00:37:42,360 Speaker 1: right and the proper investments in place. The proper insurance 711 00:37:42,440 --> 00:37:44,919 Speaker 1: is in place when it comes from long term care, 712 00:37:45,040 --> 00:37:50,279 Speaker 1: short term care, life insurance, whether that's term or life policies. 713 00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:55,600 Speaker 1: We have to start having that conversation now so that way, 714 00:37:56,120 --> 00:38:00,279 Speaker 1: when life happens, you are in a position to where 715 00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:04,480 Speaker 1: now the only thing that is going to impact the 716 00:38:04,560 --> 00:38:07,759 Speaker 1: family is just a little bit of time to help 717 00:38:07,800 --> 00:38:10,600 Speaker 1: you get situated, but it should not impact the family 718 00:38:10,680 --> 00:38:14,920 Speaker 1: financially or even emotionally. And so that's one thing I 719 00:38:14,960 --> 00:38:17,399 Speaker 1: do believe. We got to start having a conversation, which 720 00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:20,359 Speaker 1: do we have the right insurance polities in place? Do 721 00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:23,799 Speaker 1: we have the right situation strategy in place to make 722 00:38:23,800 --> 00:38:27,560 Speaker 1: sure that when I get older that my children are impacted. 723 00:38:27,640 --> 00:38:30,239 Speaker 1: Here's my goal. Bitshop Well, it would happen now if 724 00:38:30,280 --> 00:38:32,480 Speaker 1: I had kids. Now I'm at a point to where 725 00:38:33,080 --> 00:38:38,839 Speaker 1: they would just have to move me in. But if 726 00:38:38,880 --> 00:38:42,759 Speaker 1: I move in, so does my money. Yeah, so does resources. 727 00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:46,439 Speaker 1: So I'm not coming in and taking I'm coming in 728 00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:50,279 Speaker 1: and providing more resources. And I think and it's not 729 00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:55,960 Speaker 1: expensive if we start early in putting into proper procedures and. 730 00:38:55,560 --> 00:38:59,280 Speaker 2: And if we provide them with information, because the reason 731 00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:02,160 Speaker 2: that most people hit the lottery and broke in three 732 00:39:02,239 --> 00:39:04,040 Speaker 2: years is that they get the money, but they don't 733 00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:04,600 Speaker 2: get the mind. 734 00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:06,960 Speaker 1: Yes, sir, So if you're gonna leave. 735 00:39:06,840 --> 00:39:09,360 Speaker 2: Them money, you gotta leave more mind than you leave money, 736 00:39:09,400 --> 00:39:11,880 Speaker 2: or they're gonna blow through your money like like like 737 00:39:11,960 --> 00:39:15,840 Speaker 2: it's a hurricane. And it's a real problem. It's something 738 00:39:15,920 --> 00:39:19,520 Speaker 2: really to be thinking about because we are seeing one 739 00:39:19,520 --> 00:39:22,680 Speaker 2: of the largest wealth transfers in the history of America. 740 00:39:22,840 --> 00:39:26,080 Speaker 2: And the big problem amongst wealthy people is nobody leave 741 00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:27,320 Speaker 2: their money to Bishop. 742 00:39:27,719 --> 00:39:30,560 Speaker 1: One of the things that I've done. Bishop is not 743 00:39:30,680 --> 00:39:34,959 Speaker 1: married yet, don't have any kids. But God can. 744 00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:42,400 Speaker 2: Don't do commercials on minds. 745 00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:48,080 Speaker 1: That's okay. But six years ago God he convicted me 746 00:39:48,120 --> 00:39:50,800 Speaker 1: and said, I need you to start writing down every 747 00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:54,799 Speaker 1: single money lessons you've learned and put it inside your 748 00:39:54,880 --> 00:39:58,120 Speaker 1: estate plan, so that way when you pass and you 749 00:39:58,200 --> 00:40:01,440 Speaker 1: leave all this wealth of information and to your children, 750 00:40:01,520 --> 00:40:04,320 Speaker 1: to my nieces and nephews, that you're not just leaving 751 00:40:04,320 --> 00:40:07,239 Speaker 1: them a check, but you're also leaving them what you 752 00:40:07,360 --> 00:40:09,279 Speaker 1: The mistake that you made and what you learned from 753 00:40:09,280 --> 00:40:12,080 Speaker 1: that mistake. And I think that is important because now 754 00:40:12,120 --> 00:40:14,600 Speaker 1: I'm not just giving them that And inside of my state, 755 00:40:14,640 --> 00:40:16,960 Speaker 1: if I was a past today, before they can get 756 00:40:17,000 --> 00:40:19,040 Speaker 1: any of that money, it is written inside of my 757 00:40:19,160 --> 00:40:22,480 Speaker 1: trust that they have to read this and provide it 758 00:40:22,520 --> 00:40:24,879 Speaker 1: to my brother who is my estate holder, who would 759 00:40:24,920 --> 00:40:27,640 Speaker 1: execute the estate. And they got to provide answers before 760 00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:29,480 Speaker 1: they can get any of the check. So they got 761 00:40:29,520 --> 00:40:31,799 Speaker 1: to provide me. They got to show me that they 762 00:40:31,920 --> 00:40:34,839 Speaker 1: learned before they can benefit from my estate. 763 00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:39,400 Speaker 2: I think we have two different philosophies, not about that, 764 00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:42,319 Speaker 2: but about what I'm about to say, and I might 765 00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:45,880 Speaker 2: be wrong. I was told that you don't believe that 766 00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:48,000 Speaker 2: we should finance automobiles. 767 00:40:48,400 --> 00:40:50,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, we disagree with that. Bishop, Yeah, 768 00:40:53,239 --> 00:40:56,360 Speaker 1: cash for it. I believe, yes, sir. I believe that 769 00:40:56,440 --> 00:41:01,839 Speaker 1: when it comes to liabilities, I believe that until you 770 00:41:01,920 --> 00:41:04,719 Speaker 1: have a certain amount of network, you should keep your 771 00:41:04,719 --> 00:41:09,319 Speaker 1: expenses and your consumer det down extremely low, because it's 772 00:41:09,320 --> 00:41:11,160 Speaker 1: like if you buy a car. And I would love 773 00:41:11,200 --> 00:41:12,719 Speaker 1: to have this conversation with you because you are a 774 00:41:12,800 --> 00:41:18,560 Speaker 1: general I respect your words. I believe that my generation 775 00:41:19,600 --> 00:41:23,880 Speaker 1: will go finance an eighty thousand dollar car just because 776 00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:26,160 Speaker 1: we light the car and we look at it. I 777 00:41:26,200 --> 00:41:28,560 Speaker 1: would not have a problem if someone came to me 778 00:41:28,600 --> 00:41:31,160 Speaker 1: and said, I financed a ten thousand dollar car because 779 00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:34,760 Speaker 1: I didn't have the funds. My problem is we financed 780 00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:37,160 Speaker 1: close to three times more than what we can afford 781 00:41:37,280 --> 00:41:38,320 Speaker 1: because we got approved. 782 00:41:39,200 --> 00:41:41,960 Speaker 2: See that's a whole different mistake. Okay, that's a whole 783 00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:45,479 Speaker 2: different mistake. I look at it differently because I think 784 00:41:45,719 --> 00:41:48,520 Speaker 2: capitaloid is king. Yes, once you give up the cast, 785 00:41:48,560 --> 00:41:51,239 Speaker 2: you can never get it back again. If you finance 786 00:41:51,360 --> 00:41:54,279 Speaker 2: it and you're reasonable about getting something that you can 787 00:41:54,360 --> 00:41:57,440 Speaker 2: afford when you get ready to trade it in in 788 00:41:57,480 --> 00:41:59,680 Speaker 2: a few years, that you pass that debt onto somebody 789 00:41:59,760 --> 00:42:02,279 Speaker 2: else and you still got the cash. If you pay 790 00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:06,240 Speaker 2: all the cash out, you're now carless and cash less. 791 00:42:06,719 --> 00:42:09,840 Speaker 2: So you want to keep enough cash reserves that should 792 00:42:09,840 --> 00:42:11,879 Speaker 2: something come up that you need to pay it off, 793 00:42:12,160 --> 00:42:15,440 Speaker 2: you always can. But you can borrow and invest the 794 00:42:15,520 --> 00:42:18,359 Speaker 2: money and make more money off of the interest off 795 00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:20,880 Speaker 2: of the investment. Then you are paying the interest on 796 00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:21,360 Speaker 2: the loan. 797 00:42:21,800 --> 00:42:24,719 Speaker 1: Now I like that. Bishop. If they were doing that 798 00:42:25,760 --> 00:42:28,440 Speaker 1: on something that they can honestly afford. 799 00:42:28,200 --> 00:42:31,320 Speaker 2: Right, well, that goes back to the mindset. Now, I 800 00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:35,719 Speaker 2: see we got to stop blinging, buying what we want 801 00:42:35,840 --> 00:42:38,560 Speaker 2: and begging what we need. There, you go, see that's 802 00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:41,919 Speaker 2: a big problem. I'm not talking about that kind of stuff, sir, 803 00:42:42,040 --> 00:42:44,719 Speaker 2: because the person who has the sense enough to take 804 00:42:44,760 --> 00:42:48,279 Speaker 2: their money and invest it is I'm assuming that they're 805 00:42:48,320 --> 00:42:51,960 Speaker 2: smart enough that they're not blinging trying to impress somebody, 806 00:42:52,239 --> 00:42:56,440 Speaker 2: because they wouldn't have the delayed gratification to be an investor. 807 00:42:57,520 --> 00:43:00,800 Speaker 2: I'm assuming that I'm assuming that this market's going to 808 00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:03,600 Speaker 2: continue to make ten of the twelve percent an interest, 809 00:43:03,680 --> 00:43:06,120 Speaker 2: and I'm assuming that the interest on the loan is 810 00:43:06,160 --> 00:43:09,320 Speaker 2: going to be less than the capital gains off the money, 811 00:43:09,320 --> 00:43:11,359 Speaker 2: and I'm gonna pay less off of it. And I'm 812 00:43:11,400 --> 00:43:13,319 Speaker 2: assuming that I'm gonna pass some of that debt on 813 00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:15,839 Speaker 2: when I traded in, and somebody else is gonna pay 814 00:43:15,840 --> 00:43:16,120 Speaker 2: it off. 815 00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:20,640 Speaker 1: Now, you're assuming, at your at your season of life, 816 00:43:20,960 --> 00:43:24,839 Speaker 1: what I'm seeing when I'm coaching this generation, I would say, 817 00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:27,920 Speaker 1: at the time of its recording this in between twenty 818 00:43:27,960 --> 00:43:32,200 Speaker 1: five and about forty five to master fifty. They are 819 00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:35,560 Speaker 1: not assuming anything. They're just buying what their eyes says 820 00:43:35,600 --> 00:43:38,799 Speaker 1: they like. And not really what their budget says. For 821 00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:42,080 Speaker 1: an example, I had a young family come to me 822 00:43:42,440 --> 00:43:45,879 Speaker 1: and they purchased a home, and their house poor because 823 00:43:45,880 --> 00:43:49,239 Speaker 1: they got approved for half a million dollar home, but 824 00:43:49,280 --> 00:43:52,560 Speaker 1: they their bills, their check, their income said they can 825 00:43:52,640 --> 00:43:55,960 Speaker 1: only afford three hundred and ten thousand dollars. So I 826 00:43:56,000 --> 00:43:59,040 Speaker 1: think oftentimes I'm when I'm trying to show people, is 827 00:43:59,719 --> 00:44:02,080 Speaker 1: get what you can afford, not get what you can 828 00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:02,879 Speaker 1: get approved for. 829 00:44:04,920 --> 00:44:06,960 Speaker 2: I think that's important. The other thing that I think 830 00:44:07,000 --> 00:44:10,840 Speaker 2: is important. If you're going to spend three hundred thousand 831 00:44:10,880 --> 00:44:16,120 Speaker 2: dollars on a house and it's worth five hundred thousand dollars, 832 00:44:16,800 --> 00:44:18,960 Speaker 2: I think you're in a pretty good spot. 833 00:44:19,080 --> 00:44:19,600 Speaker 1: Absolutely. 834 00:44:19,600 --> 00:44:21,759 Speaker 2: But if you're going to spend eighty thousand dollars on 835 00:44:21,840 --> 00:44:24,040 Speaker 2: a car, by the time you drive it off the lot, 836 00:44:24,040 --> 00:44:27,359 Speaker 2: it's only worth forty exactly, okay, So you might as 837 00:44:27,360 --> 00:44:29,480 Speaker 2: well take forty thousand and just blow it right out 838 00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:33,799 Speaker 2: the window. To begin with, depreciating assets, where we put 839 00:44:33,840 --> 00:44:38,000 Speaker 2: our capital in clothes, in cars and stuff like that 840 00:44:38,520 --> 00:44:40,680 Speaker 2: is not the way to go. We need to be 841 00:44:40,719 --> 00:44:44,960 Speaker 2: putting our money into appreciating assets because you can really 842 00:44:45,360 --> 00:44:49,359 Speaker 2: set up your own investment by buying appreciating assets and 843 00:44:49,400 --> 00:44:52,799 Speaker 2: control how much they grow about what you sew it 844 00:44:52,840 --> 00:44:56,080 Speaker 2: into and it still becomes a part of your portfolio. 845 00:44:56,600 --> 00:45:00,480 Speaker 1: No, that's exactly what I did. So I bought some 846 00:45:00,480 --> 00:45:04,000 Speaker 1: some appreciating assets. I don't believe in buying new cars. 847 00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:08,600 Speaker 1: I believe that that is a complete waste of money, right, 848 00:45:08,640 --> 00:45:11,279 Speaker 1: and so my thing is it has to be at 849 00:45:11,360 --> 00:45:13,960 Speaker 1: least two to three years old for me. And so 850 00:45:14,920 --> 00:45:17,879 Speaker 1: what I did is I made an investment, and all 851 00:45:17,920 --> 00:45:20,080 Speaker 1: of the earnings to that investment, I went and bought 852 00:45:20,120 --> 00:45:22,279 Speaker 1: my dream car. And my dream car is a big boy. 853 00:45:22,320 --> 00:45:24,520 Speaker 1: It was about three hundred thousand dollars. But I didn't 854 00:45:24,560 --> 00:45:27,719 Speaker 1: spend it. My assets bought it for me. So I 855 00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:31,919 Speaker 1: allowed my assets to buy a liability and I bought 856 00:45:31,920 --> 00:45:34,200 Speaker 1: it at a good rate. But you're absolutely right. Still, 857 00:45:34,200 --> 00:45:37,359 Speaker 1: when I drove that off the car, it's still depreciated, right, 858 00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:41,919 Speaker 1: But it wasn't from my harder me exchanging time for it, 859 00:45:42,239 --> 00:45:44,920 Speaker 1: and I didn't borrow for it. But at the same time, though, 860 00:45:45,120 --> 00:45:48,719 Speaker 1: I think that if people are getting strategic, and if 861 00:45:48,760 --> 00:45:51,480 Speaker 1: we're really sitting down and saying, okay, but this is 862 00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:56,000 Speaker 1: what I can afford, I would the debt is not 863 00:45:56,280 --> 00:45:59,160 Speaker 1: really the problem for me. Here's the problem for me, Bishop, 864 00:45:59,320 --> 00:46:02,799 Speaker 1: is the interest that we pay on the debt. That's 865 00:46:02,920 --> 00:46:06,840 Speaker 1: where I'm I'm like, I don't. I just feel weird 866 00:46:07,400 --> 00:46:09,759 Speaker 1: because when we really study it, people are paying the 867 00:46:09,800 --> 00:46:12,400 Speaker 1: bare minimum. They're not going into it with a strategy 868 00:46:12,440 --> 00:46:14,480 Speaker 1: or okay, wait, am I going to get out of 869 00:46:14,520 --> 00:46:16,440 Speaker 1: this quicker? Or am I just going to sit here 870 00:46:16,440 --> 00:46:18,600 Speaker 1: and just pay the minimum? If you look at it, 871 00:46:18,680 --> 00:46:20,759 Speaker 1: eighty eight percent of the people who carry a credit 872 00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:23,399 Speaker 1: card balance pays the bare minimum every single month. Yeah, 873 00:46:23,560 --> 00:46:27,080 Speaker 1: right right? So no, But at the same time, no, Bishop, 874 00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:28,759 Speaker 1: I mean, have I said this publicly before? I'm gonna 875 00:46:28,760 --> 00:46:31,520 Speaker 1: say on your show. I have a business credit card, 876 00:46:32,400 --> 00:46:35,120 Speaker 1: but I pay it off every single week because I 877 00:46:35,200 --> 00:46:39,000 Speaker 1: do not want to pay interest on that money. That's 878 00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:39,840 Speaker 1: just real my strategy. 879 00:46:40,080 --> 00:46:41,600 Speaker 2: I get it, I get it. I get it. 880 00:46:41,840 --> 00:46:43,640 Speaker 1: So were I think we're like eighty percent there? 881 00:46:43,680 --> 00:46:51,799 Speaker 2: But you can write about it later. Chapter five, Inflation 882 00:46:52,120 --> 00:46:56,440 Speaker 2: and interest rates. Where do you think about the increase 883 00:46:56,600 --> 00:47:00,520 Speaker 2: in inflation and the lowering of the interest rates And 884 00:47:00,560 --> 00:47:04,200 Speaker 2: do you think it's going to help to right size 885 00:47:04,560 --> 00:47:06,240 Speaker 2: the economy of the country. 886 00:47:06,760 --> 00:47:08,520 Speaker 1: Bitch? Right now, I want to see it a little 887 00:47:08,560 --> 00:47:11,319 Speaker 1: bit more because when we see the lowering of the 888 00:47:11,360 --> 00:47:13,360 Speaker 1: interest rates from the fees, and what we're also seeing 889 00:47:13,440 --> 00:47:15,440 Speaker 1: is that we're seeing a lot of people without jobs 890 00:47:16,280 --> 00:47:19,840 Speaker 1: right right, And so for me it is a little 891 00:47:19,840 --> 00:47:23,319 Speaker 1: concerning because if we don't get those jobs back, then 892 00:47:23,320 --> 00:47:27,160 Speaker 1: we're going to have even bigger issue. And so when 893 00:47:27,160 --> 00:47:29,439 Speaker 1: people are getting excited, okay, interust rates are coming down, Yeah, 894 00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:32,120 Speaker 1: it's coming down because we're seeing that. We just we're 895 00:47:32,120 --> 00:47:35,840 Speaker 1: seeing a massive amount of jobs being laid off. I 896 00:47:35,840 --> 00:47:38,360 Speaker 1: think a lot that is coming into place because of AI, 897 00:47:38,680 --> 00:47:41,440 Speaker 1: because of some other things that surrounding that. And so 898 00:47:41,680 --> 00:47:43,680 Speaker 1: for me, I'm studying it a little bit more because 899 00:47:43,719 --> 00:47:45,560 Speaker 1: I want to figure out how we're going to balance this. 900 00:47:45,719 --> 00:47:47,839 Speaker 1: I want the interest rates to come down, but I 901 00:47:47,920 --> 00:47:50,840 Speaker 1: do not want to see jobs coming down as well. 902 00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:53,240 Speaker 2: I don't want to see jobs coming down, and I 903 00:47:53,280 --> 00:47:55,080 Speaker 2: don't want to see it. I love to see the 904 00:47:55,120 --> 00:47:58,319 Speaker 2: interest rates come down, but not at the expense of 905 00:47:58,360 --> 00:47:59,399 Speaker 2: the property going up. 906 00:47:59,520 --> 00:48:01,000 Speaker 1: There it is bishop because. 907 00:48:00,760 --> 00:48:03,320 Speaker 2: Generally when the interest rates go down, the property value 908 00:48:03,360 --> 00:48:06,560 Speaker 2: that go up, yes, and so it washes out and 909 00:48:06,600 --> 00:48:08,200 Speaker 2: at the end of the day, and so you have 910 00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:09,600 Speaker 2: to be very careful about that. 911 00:48:09,960 --> 00:48:12,480 Speaker 1: And I believe home ownership and real estate is important 912 00:48:12,480 --> 00:48:15,080 Speaker 1: in today's day time. Absolutely, I think that that is 913 00:48:15,080 --> 00:48:18,200 Speaker 1: one of the key ingredients to really building wealth because 914 00:48:18,280 --> 00:48:20,160 Speaker 1: you know, we all know this. McDonald's doesn't make their 915 00:48:20,200 --> 00:48:22,879 Speaker 1: money because of burgers, is because of real estate. Absolutely. 916 00:48:23,040 --> 00:48:25,720 Speaker 1: So it's like I think for us, if the prices 917 00:48:25,760 --> 00:48:28,640 Speaker 1: go up, like you said, but the interest rates come down, 918 00:48:28,760 --> 00:48:31,320 Speaker 1: now we're spending more money for the house, it washes 919 00:48:31,360 --> 00:48:33,760 Speaker 1: out because we're just paying lower interests on a higher house. 920 00:48:34,480 --> 00:48:37,120 Speaker 1: And then watch it though, if the prices come down 921 00:48:37,560 --> 00:48:42,040 Speaker 1: that houses go up, but I don't have a job now, 922 00:48:42,160 --> 00:48:48,239 Speaker 1: I'm struggling to maintain that house. And so and it's 923 00:48:48,239 --> 00:48:53,280 Speaker 1: not even just jobs coming down, Bishop, entrepreneurs are coming 924 00:48:53,320 --> 00:48:57,520 Speaker 1: down because the market is just shifting and we're not producing. 925 00:48:57,560 --> 00:49:02,000 Speaker 1: It's enough entrepreneurs. So I I'm really studying it because 926 00:49:02,040 --> 00:49:04,600 Speaker 1: I want to figure out what where are we going 927 00:49:04,640 --> 00:49:06,960 Speaker 1: to go? How are we going to even out, and 928 00:49:07,040 --> 00:49:09,280 Speaker 1: how do I educate from here moving forward? 929 00:49:09,320 --> 00:49:11,799 Speaker 2: You know, we have good so a form for entrepreneurs 930 00:49:11,840 --> 00:49:15,280 Speaker 2: where we train them and entrepreneurs that's such a big, 931 00:49:15,880 --> 00:49:20,160 Speaker 2: big phrase, Yes, sir, it covers everything from the barbershop 932 00:49:20,239 --> 00:49:23,520 Speaker 2: to the beauty shop to the tech person. It can 933 00:49:23,560 --> 00:49:26,440 Speaker 2: go anywhere to the plumbing business. It can go anywhere 934 00:49:26,560 --> 00:49:29,880 Speaker 2: depending on what type of entrepreneur and what type of 935 00:49:29,920 --> 00:49:34,040 Speaker 2: capital you have, and what you invest in and how 936 00:49:34,120 --> 00:49:37,279 Speaker 2: much your payroll is. Because a lot of times your 937 00:49:37,320 --> 00:49:40,959 Speaker 2: business philosophy that you work at home is the same 938 00:49:41,000 --> 00:49:43,800 Speaker 2: philosophy that you work in your business, yes, sir, because 939 00:49:43,840 --> 00:49:45,600 Speaker 2: all of it is coming out of the same brain. 940 00:49:46,400 --> 00:49:49,200 Speaker 2: So if you don't get your home straight and your 941 00:49:49,200 --> 00:49:52,000 Speaker 2: finances straight at home, what you learn at home, you 942 00:49:52,040 --> 00:49:54,839 Speaker 2: can transfer that over to your business, or don't learn 943 00:49:55,160 --> 00:49:58,480 Speaker 2: you transferred over to your It's almost like COVID, Yes sir, 944 00:49:59,200 --> 00:50:01,120 Speaker 2: you can catch it, yes sir, Yes sir. 945 00:50:01,200 --> 00:50:06,080 Speaker 1: Okay, yes sir, poverty, get your home right, whatever, like 946 00:50:06,120 --> 00:50:08,480 Speaker 1: you said, it transfer them to the business. So if 947 00:50:08,520 --> 00:50:10,480 Speaker 1: you're not budgeting at home, you're not gonna know how 948 00:50:10,480 --> 00:50:15,000 Speaker 1: to budget in your business. If you're not investing personally, 949 00:50:15,120 --> 00:50:17,040 Speaker 1: you're not gonna know how to strategically invest in your 950 00:50:17,080 --> 00:50:19,640 Speaker 1: business to expand it and to take it to the 951 00:50:19,680 --> 00:50:25,120 Speaker 1: next level. So I'm very big on practicing both, which 952 00:50:25,160 --> 00:50:27,120 Speaker 1: I'm also seeing a lot of people care more about 953 00:50:27,120 --> 00:50:29,160 Speaker 1: their prison's life than they care about their personal life. 954 00:50:29,160 --> 00:50:30,840 Speaker 1: And am not both of them are just as equal. 955 00:50:30,960 --> 00:50:33,600 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, one of them affects the other one. 956 00:50:33,719 --> 00:50:34,080 Speaker 1: Yes, sir. 957 00:50:34,320 --> 00:50:37,239 Speaker 2: When you start talking about jobs, what's going to be 958 00:50:37,360 --> 00:50:41,200 Speaker 2: left in five years? Okay? When they say eighty million 959 00:50:41,280 --> 00:50:43,880 Speaker 2: jobs are going to be taken away by eight, AI, 960 00:50:44,000 --> 00:50:46,920 Speaker 2: I think seventy million and eighty million new jobs are 961 00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:48,560 Speaker 2: going to be added on. But you have to be 962 00:50:48,640 --> 00:50:51,520 Speaker 2: qualified to get that eighty million new jobs. A lot 963 00:50:51,560 --> 00:50:56,000 Speaker 2: of our people because one of the reasons we got COVID, 964 00:50:56,040 --> 00:50:59,239 Speaker 2: in my opinion, for first ahead of other people is 965 00:50:59,320 --> 00:51:02,919 Speaker 2: because we have a lot of public facing positions. Yes, sir, 966 00:51:03,040 --> 00:51:07,080 Speaker 2: public facing positions are going first. Yes, okay, they're going 967 00:51:07,200 --> 00:51:11,279 Speaker 2: fast and they're going first. So those people who lose 968 00:51:11,360 --> 00:51:16,440 Speaker 2: their jobs, how do they transfer that situation into some 969 00:51:16,600 --> 00:51:18,640 Speaker 2: sort of capital that sustains them. 970 00:51:19,080 --> 00:51:23,319 Speaker 1: I'm telling everyone right now, if you're not AI is 971 00:51:23,360 --> 00:51:26,360 Speaker 1: not going to take your job. AI is going to 972 00:51:26,400 --> 00:51:27,759 Speaker 1: take your job if you don't know how to use 973 00:51:27,800 --> 00:51:31,799 Speaker 1: it right. So it's eight we're going to lose eighty 974 00:51:31,800 --> 00:51:33,759 Speaker 1: million for we're going to gain eighty million. That eighty 975 00:51:33,800 --> 00:51:36,160 Speaker 1: million is going to be the people who've learned AI 976 00:51:36,560 --> 00:51:38,799 Speaker 1: right and so I think, for me, how do you 977 00:51:38,920 --> 00:51:41,080 Speaker 1: use it right now? Jump into boot camps? And I 978 00:51:41,120 --> 00:51:46,640 Speaker 1: say this as a professor. I even think now, probably 979 00:51:46,719 --> 00:51:49,479 Speaker 1: about sixty percent of the people who are thinking about 980 00:51:49,520 --> 00:51:52,560 Speaker 1: going to a traditional four year university probably doesn't need 981 00:51:52,600 --> 00:51:54,120 Speaker 1: to go to it. Go to a boot camp, go 982 00:51:54,160 --> 00:51:56,640 Speaker 1: to a trade school, go to an AI school, learn 983 00:51:56,680 --> 00:52:01,040 Speaker 1: a specific skill, get a certificate. Now, of course, there 984 00:52:01,040 --> 00:52:07,160 Speaker 1: are still I think a huge importance for a traditional school, doctor, lawyer, attorney, 985 00:52:07,400 --> 00:52:10,760 Speaker 1: I even sometimes from a seminary perspective, to get the education. 986 00:52:11,160 --> 00:52:12,920 Speaker 1: But if you're saying I want to go to a 987 00:52:12,920 --> 00:52:15,960 Speaker 1: four year universe, just get the best job, I need 988 00:52:16,000 --> 00:52:18,360 Speaker 1: you to step back and be strategic with that, because 989 00:52:18,440 --> 00:52:21,040 Speaker 1: there are boot camps out right now Bishop that I 990 00:52:21,120 --> 00:52:24,680 Speaker 1: know of one right now that's five hundred dollars. You're 991 00:52:24,719 --> 00:52:28,560 Speaker 1: there for maybe sixteen weeks. They're teaching you AI. Automation 992 00:52:29,640 --> 00:52:33,160 Speaker 1: companies right now, like a Google, like an Apple, they're 993 00:52:33,200 --> 00:52:36,960 Speaker 1: paying people to come into to make their systems better 994 00:52:37,120 --> 00:52:40,040 Speaker 1: and make it automatic. And they're paying these individuals one 995 00:52:40,080 --> 00:52:44,440 Speaker 1: hundred thousand dollars from a sixteen week boot camp that 996 00:52:44,520 --> 00:52:47,200 Speaker 1: costs five hundred dollars. So I spent five hundred dollars 997 00:52:47,239 --> 00:52:49,600 Speaker 1: I got a six figure job. That's a great ROI 998 00:52:49,719 --> 00:52:52,719 Speaker 1: on my time, money and investment. And so I think 999 00:52:52,760 --> 00:52:54,719 Speaker 1: in the next two to five years, if we're not 1000 00:52:54,960 --> 00:52:59,399 Speaker 1: utilizing and learning everything that's coming in the near future, yes, 1001 00:52:59,480 --> 00:53:01,520 Speaker 1: we will be of a job. Which is why I'm 1002 00:53:01,520 --> 00:53:04,799 Speaker 1: telling everyone go learn even while you're only a nine 1003 00:53:04,800 --> 00:53:07,920 Speaker 1: to five job. Now, go get a certificate, go to 1004 00:53:08,000 --> 00:53:11,120 Speaker 1: a boot camp, get to learn the trade, and I 1005 00:53:11,200 --> 00:53:12,319 Speaker 1: promise you your job will be oka. 1006 00:53:12,480 --> 00:53:14,560 Speaker 2: There was an article came out about a year ago 1007 00:53:14,600 --> 00:53:17,440 Speaker 2: where Tyler Perry decided that he wasn't going to build 1008 00:53:17,800 --> 00:53:21,520 Speaker 2: any more studios because technology had changed the game so 1009 00:53:21,560 --> 00:53:25,120 Speaker 2: that making movies no longer required the amount of staff 1010 00:53:25,160 --> 00:53:27,600 Speaker 2: that you needed to have in order to maintain business. 1011 00:53:28,040 --> 00:53:32,480 Speaker 2: As technology increases, now not only does it affect entertainment, 1012 00:53:32,880 --> 00:53:36,040 Speaker 2: it also affects medicine. Yes, sir, you know, I just 1013 00:53:36,120 --> 00:53:39,399 Speaker 2: had a massive heart attack a year ago, and they 1014 00:53:39,400 --> 00:53:41,560 Speaker 2: did the whole surgery through my risk. 1015 00:53:41,760 --> 00:53:42,880 Speaker 1: That's just crazy. 1016 00:53:43,000 --> 00:53:46,240 Speaker 2: The entire surgery through my risk. While I was awake, 1017 00:53:46,680 --> 00:53:51,080 Speaker 2: You were awake. I was awake the whole time. So 1018 00:53:51,120 --> 00:53:53,680 Speaker 2: there I am listening at them talking about what they're 1019 00:53:53,719 --> 00:53:57,839 Speaker 2: doing and how they're piercing the ventricle between my right 1020 00:53:58,640 --> 00:54:00,839 Speaker 2: my right side of my heart to my left side 1021 00:54:00,840 --> 00:54:03,640 Speaker 2: of the heart, and I'm wide away and they're running 1022 00:54:03,640 --> 00:54:10,120 Speaker 2: it up and my surgeon is operating a computer, and 1023 00:54:10,200 --> 00:54:11,080 Speaker 2: I'm glad about it. 1024 00:54:12,719 --> 00:54:16,280 Speaker 1: I'm glad about it. I'm glad you have to open 1025 00:54:16,320 --> 00:54:16,640 Speaker 1: you up. 1026 00:54:16,640 --> 00:54:19,000 Speaker 2: But I'm like, man, I'm glad about it because I'm 1027 00:54:19,040 --> 00:54:21,760 Speaker 2: still sitting here today. Yes, sir, I left the hospital 1028 00:54:21,760 --> 00:54:24,880 Speaker 2: in three days with the mandate over my over my wrist. 1029 00:54:25,320 --> 00:54:27,800 Speaker 2: You can't even see where it was. Well, sir, it's gone. 1030 00:54:27,880 --> 00:54:31,520 Speaker 2: It's completely gone. So technology can be a blessing. On 1031 00:54:31,560 --> 00:54:35,480 Speaker 2: the other hand, technology can can blow up our grids, 1032 00:54:36,680 --> 00:54:40,279 Speaker 2: shut down our airports, cause our planes to fall. 1033 00:54:40,520 --> 00:54:43,160 Speaker 1: We've seen it, and I'm concerned. 1034 00:54:43,560 --> 00:54:47,360 Speaker 2: Are our laws going to catch up with the technology 1035 00:54:47,640 --> 00:54:50,080 Speaker 2: and are there going to be any restrictions or are 1036 00:54:50,080 --> 00:54:52,920 Speaker 2: we so busy being in a race with other countries 1037 00:54:52,960 --> 00:54:58,520 Speaker 2: to be first that we outgrow our guard rails and 1038 00:54:58,600 --> 00:54:59,560 Speaker 2: go over the cliff. 1039 00:55:00,400 --> 00:55:03,200 Speaker 1: That is something that I have been thinking about, Bishop, 1040 00:55:03,200 --> 00:55:05,080 Speaker 1: and I have not done a lot of research in 1041 00:55:05,120 --> 00:55:07,960 Speaker 1: that because I see us trying to be first. But 1042 00:55:08,080 --> 00:55:10,759 Speaker 1: I'm seeing I was in the airport I think it 1043 00:55:10,840 --> 00:55:14,840 Speaker 1: was about three months ago and something happened to where 1044 00:55:15,000 --> 00:55:18,279 Speaker 1: this particular airline everything shut down and we was in 1045 00:55:18,280 --> 00:55:24,120 Speaker 1: the airport for sixteen hours, sixteen hours because of computer 1046 00:55:24,239 --> 00:55:29,040 Speaker 1: software that just went out, And I'm like, okay, wait, 1047 00:55:29,880 --> 00:55:34,279 Speaker 1: this is about to be our future, and are we 1048 00:55:34,320 --> 00:55:37,320 Speaker 1: going to have anything to protect us from this happening again? 1049 00:55:37,400 --> 00:55:39,920 Speaker 1: Because if I'm not mistaken, the article came out that 1050 00:55:40,000 --> 00:55:44,320 Speaker 1: someone kind of hacked the machine and I'm like, wait, wait, wait, 1051 00:55:44,480 --> 00:55:47,800 Speaker 1: so are we building up guardrails for this amazing software 1052 00:55:47,800 --> 00:55:49,520 Speaker 1: that we have. It's amazing tool that we have, but 1053 00:55:49,560 --> 00:55:51,400 Speaker 1: are we building up something that's going to protect us 1054 00:55:51,400 --> 00:55:53,839 Speaker 1: from this future? And I would love to see us 1055 00:55:53,840 --> 00:55:55,600 Speaker 1: do that, But I also still want us to be first. 1056 00:55:55,640 --> 00:55:58,000 Speaker 2: Bishop, you want us to be pres Oh yeah, I 1057 00:55:58,000 --> 00:56:00,200 Speaker 2: do want us to be first. I think I think 1058 00:56:00,200 --> 00:56:03,800 Speaker 2: I want us to be first in a particular area. 1059 00:56:03,880 --> 00:56:05,680 Speaker 1: What area is that, I don't know. 1060 00:56:05,960 --> 00:56:08,439 Speaker 2: Because there are so many different areas that you can 1061 00:56:08,480 --> 00:56:12,680 Speaker 2: take that you can't be first in all of them. Okay, 1062 00:56:12,719 --> 00:56:15,040 Speaker 2: So you have to decide if it's going to be medical, 1063 00:56:15,120 --> 00:56:17,080 Speaker 2: if it's going to be engineering, if it's going to 1064 00:56:17,120 --> 00:56:20,920 Speaker 2: be automobiles, if it's going to be self propelled cars. 1065 00:56:21,360 --> 00:56:24,919 Speaker 2: You can't be first at everything, yes, like you can't 1066 00:56:24,960 --> 00:56:28,120 Speaker 2: be good at everything. We need to be specialized in 1067 00:56:28,160 --> 00:56:32,440 Speaker 2: a particular area. Build some guardrails around what you can 1068 00:56:32,480 --> 00:56:35,040 Speaker 2: and cannot do in our country in that area. That's 1069 00:56:35,120 --> 00:56:37,160 Speaker 2: just my opinion. Nobody cares about it, so I might 1070 00:56:37,200 --> 00:56:40,640 Speaker 2: as well put it out there. But you're not going 1071 00:56:40,719 --> 00:56:44,480 Speaker 2: to be first in everything because if I'm if I'm 1072 00:56:44,600 --> 00:56:48,120 Speaker 2: racing you and all I'm doing is watching your feet, 1073 00:56:48,440 --> 00:56:49,480 Speaker 2: You're gonna outrun me. 1074 00:56:49,719 --> 00:56:50,160 Speaker 1: For sure. 1075 00:56:50,560 --> 00:56:53,040 Speaker 2: Yes, I've got to be sure that I am in 1076 00:56:53,160 --> 00:56:56,560 Speaker 2: my lane doing what I'm good at doing for a 1077 00:56:56,600 --> 00:57:01,640 Speaker 2: particular purpose, to accelerate the economy and the well being 1078 00:57:01,680 --> 00:57:05,799 Speaker 2: and the job creation for our people, irrespective of race, creed, 1079 00:57:05,880 --> 00:57:06,280 Speaker 2: or color. 1080 00:57:07,160 --> 00:57:11,319 Speaker 1: If I was to comment on that, Bishop, I would say, 1081 00:57:11,400 --> 00:57:15,840 Speaker 1: then if we're going to be first and anything, I 1082 00:57:15,880 --> 00:57:17,960 Speaker 1: will go back to I wanted to be first in 1083 00:57:18,080 --> 00:57:22,480 Speaker 1: health because if we're healthier, then I believe we can 1084 00:57:22,520 --> 00:57:25,640 Speaker 1: build more wealth, and it gives us more time to 1085 00:57:25,840 --> 00:57:29,080 Speaker 1: build more income to leave behind for our kids. I 1086 00:57:29,120 --> 00:57:33,320 Speaker 1: don't care about automobiles. I don't care about even technical. Well, 1087 00:57:33,360 --> 00:57:35,800 Speaker 1: we need technology to save us. But the technology you 1088 00:57:35,960 --> 00:57:38,040 Speaker 1: just had. But I would love for us to see 1089 00:57:38,120 --> 00:57:39,600 Speaker 1: that when it comes to AI. 1090 00:57:39,600 --> 00:57:43,919 Speaker 2: That's telling that's still healthful. Yes, that's still help Six 1091 00:57:44,920 --> 00:57:49,720 Speaker 2: Top five money mistakes. When you think about it, what 1092 00:57:49,800 --> 00:57:53,640 Speaker 2: are the top five money mistakes that you think we 1093 00:57:53,640 --> 00:57:58,640 Speaker 2: should avoid in order to be salient? Because not everybody's 1094 00:57:58,680 --> 00:58:02,000 Speaker 2: following our conversation? Yes, you know we left them alone. 1095 00:58:02,080 --> 00:58:02,560 Speaker 1: Now you know. 1096 00:58:04,440 --> 00:58:08,160 Speaker 2: Not everybody is there. Yes, if I'm a ground level 1097 00:58:08,320 --> 00:58:11,720 Speaker 2: everage person making seventy thousand dollars a year, sixty thousand 1098 00:58:11,720 --> 00:58:15,200 Speaker 2: dollars a year, what are the top five money mistakes 1099 00:58:15,200 --> 00:58:16,960 Speaker 2: that I should be working. 1100 00:58:16,720 --> 00:58:18,600 Speaker 1: On right now? I think the very first moment say that. 1101 00:58:18,600 --> 00:58:21,200 Speaker 1: I think a lot of people have, well do not do? 1102 00:58:21,360 --> 00:58:21,520 Speaker 2: Is they? 1103 00:58:21,680 --> 00:58:24,240 Speaker 1: Number one? They don't have a money vision? You know, 1104 00:58:24,320 --> 00:58:26,520 Speaker 1: as far as in Okay, where do I want to go? 1105 00:58:27,000 --> 00:58:28,920 Speaker 1: Where do I want to aim? And how am I 1106 00:58:28,960 --> 00:58:32,040 Speaker 1: going to get there? I have a lot of couples 1107 00:58:32,080 --> 00:58:34,320 Speaker 1: come to me with money arguments, and what I find 1108 00:58:34,360 --> 00:58:36,680 Speaker 1: bishop is that you're arguing over money because you all 1109 00:58:36,760 --> 00:58:39,720 Speaker 1: never sat down and had an agreed upon a vision 1110 00:58:40,120 --> 00:58:41,960 Speaker 1: and a goal. So I think that's one of the 1111 00:58:41,960 --> 00:58:44,840 Speaker 1: first mistakes, whether you're married or single, you got to 1112 00:58:44,960 --> 00:58:47,960 Speaker 1: have a clear vision. Number two followed by the vision 1113 00:58:48,040 --> 00:58:49,800 Speaker 1: is you got to have a budget. You need to 1114 00:58:49,840 --> 00:58:53,520 Speaker 1: know exactly every single thing that's going on with your money. 1115 00:58:55,080 --> 00:58:57,439 Speaker 1: I was sitting down in the room with a very 1116 00:58:57,560 --> 00:59:00,800 Speaker 1: very very wealthy guy and he askally, Anthony, what was 1117 00:59:00,800 --> 00:59:02,440 Speaker 1: the last thing you spent your money on? And I 1118 00:59:02,440 --> 00:59:05,160 Speaker 1: had to guess at at Bishop, Well, this guy makes 1119 00:59:05,560 --> 00:59:07,600 Speaker 1: crazy money. He said, yeah, I spent a dollar and 1120 00:59:07,600 --> 00:59:11,120 Speaker 1: fifty two cents here, spent three dollars there. He knew 1121 00:59:11,160 --> 00:59:15,240 Speaker 1: exactly where he spent his money. Here, I am, I'm 1122 00:59:15,320 --> 00:59:17,360 Speaker 1: worth what I make in the year he makes in 1123 00:59:17,400 --> 00:59:20,600 Speaker 1: the week. And I couldn't tell him where my money 1124 00:59:20,640 --> 00:59:22,320 Speaker 1: was going. He could. He could tell me where his 1125 00:59:22,360 --> 00:59:24,960 Speaker 1: money was going. And I felt so convicted by that, 1126 00:59:25,080 --> 00:59:27,400 Speaker 1: And that's when I started budgeting in my late twenties 1127 00:59:27,440 --> 00:59:31,720 Speaker 1: early thirties. So that's number two. Number three, started investing 1128 00:59:32,400 --> 00:59:35,440 Speaker 1: as early as you can. The studies are showing that 1129 00:59:35,600 --> 00:59:38,160 Speaker 1: averagely on average, This is one of reasons why Bishop, 1130 00:59:38,320 --> 00:59:41,880 Speaker 1: I'm a huge fan of not having consumer debt, because 1131 00:59:41,920 --> 00:59:45,120 Speaker 1: study shows that when you are in consumer debt, the 1132 00:59:45,200 --> 00:59:47,880 Speaker 1: average person's only investing in between two to four percent 1133 00:59:47,920 --> 00:59:51,360 Speaker 1: of their income. And so my philosophy is like, hey, 1134 00:59:51,560 --> 00:59:54,480 Speaker 1: one of the biggest mistakes you're making is not investing 1135 00:59:54,880 --> 00:59:57,880 Speaker 1: as early as you possibly can, because now you're missing out. 1136 00:59:57,880 --> 00:59:59,480 Speaker 1: To say, for an example, if you have a job, 1137 01:00:00,080 --> 01:00:02,800 Speaker 1: offer you a raw four one K with a match, 1138 01:00:02,880 --> 01:00:05,120 Speaker 1: now you're missing out of free money, right, And so 1139 01:00:05,320 --> 01:00:07,360 Speaker 1: I don't want you to miss out on free money. 1140 01:00:07,680 --> 01:00:09,840 Speaker 1: And so I think that's when you said five, how 1141 01:00:09,880 --> 01:00:12,120 Speaker 1: many was that? Four? That was four? Three? 1142 01:00:12,160 --> 01:00:12,360 Speaker 3: Four? 1143 01:00:13,280 --> 01:00:17,800 Speaker 1: There was three? Okay, then number four is not teaching 1144 01:00:17,880 --> 01:00:21,840 Speaker 1: your kids about money early on? And when I say 1145 01:00:21,880 --> 01:00:24,720 Speaker 1: early on, I'm talking about when they're four or five 1146 01:00:24,800 --> 01:00:26,640 Speaker 1: years old. One of my good friends, she is a 1147 01:00:26,640 --> 01:00:31,960 Speaker 1: school teacher and she's in the elementary school, bishop and first, second, 1148 01:00:31,960 --> 01:00:34,800 Speaker 1: and third grade. She takes them on a college tour 1149 01:00:35,160 --> 01:00:38,560 Speaker 1: in the third grade. Well, the parents are why are 1150 01:00:38,560 --> 01:00:40,360 Speaker 1: you doing that? They don't know what it is, she said, No, 1151 01:00:40,400 --> 01:00:43,280 Speaker 1: I'm exposing them because more is caught than what it's 1152 01:00:43,280 --> 01:00:46,200 Speaker 1: actually taught. So now they'll understand. Wait a minute, I 1153 01:00:46,240 --> 01:00:47,880 Speaker 1: want to go to that big school. How do I 1154 01:00:47,960 --> 01:00:50,000 Speaker 1: go to that big school? Because the image is there, 1155 01:00:50,440 --> 01:00:53,080 Speaker 1: So now as they're going older and getting to the 1156 01:00:53,120 --> 01:00:56,520 Speaker 1: next grade. Now they're mental is I have to get 1157 01:00:56,520 --> 01:00:59,200 Speaker 1: good grades because I want to go to that big school. 1158 01:00:59,600 --> 01:01:01,920 Speaker 1: So my philosophy is one of the biggest mistake is 1159 01:01:01,960 --> 01:01:05,480 Speaker 1: we don't have a conversation with our young generation early. 1160 01:01:05,720 --> 01:01:08,400 Speaker 1: It may go over their head, but it starts a question. 1161 01:01:08,480 --> 01:01:11,880 Speaker 1: It starts a conversation. Then the fifth one is really 1162 01:01:11,920 --> 01:01:15,680 Speaker 1: just sitting down and just asking yourself, Bishop, what am 1163 01:01:15,680 --> 01:01:18,800 Speaker 1: I doing? Where am I going? And when I say 1164 01:01:18,840 --> 01:01:22,600 Speaker 1: that question, it is literally what is the strategy. One 1165 01:01:22,640 --> 01:01:25,080 Speaker 1: of the biggest mistakes I see people make is we 1166 01:01:25,200 --> 01:01:28,040 Speaker 1: do not sit down with someone and say this is 1167 01:01:28,040 --> 01:01:30,840 Speaker 1: how much I'm making, this is where I want to go, 1168 01:01:31,520 --> 01:01:33,919 Speaker 1: what do I need to put in place to get there? 1169 01:01:34,480 --> 01:01:37,800 Speaker 1: We guess we'll get on TikTok, we'll get on YouTube, 1170 01:01:38,000 --> 01:01:40,240 Speaker 1: but we won't sit down and get the actual wisdom 1171 01:01:40,320 --> 01:01:43,200 Speaker 1: from a professional to give us a plan to follow. 1172 01:01:43,600 --> 01:01:45,920 Speaker 1: And what I've learned is that if you can just 1173 01:01:46,000 --> 01:01:49,680 Speaker 1: honestly get a solid plan that is tailored for you 1174 01:01:49,920 --> 01:01:53,680 Speaker 1: and for your home, it is easier to build something 1175 01:01:53,720 --> 01:01:55,640 Speaker 1: successful rather than just going on with TikTok. 1176 01:01:56,880 --> 01:02:00,400 Speaker 2: Let me say this, for example, in my own life. 1177 01:02:00,080 --> 01:02:05,200 Speaker 2: If I can scarcely remember when I wasn't working. I've 1178 01:02:05,240 --> 01:02:08,040 Speaker 2: been working almost all my life, whether it was cutting 1179 01:02:08,080 --> 01:02:11,600 Speaker 2: grass or passing papers or helping my father sell fish, 1180 01:02:12,560 --> 01:02:14,920 Speaker 2: I've been working all my life. So when I was 1181 01:02:14,920 --> 01:02:18,960 Speaker 2: about eight years old, my mother who we walked to 1182 01:02:19,000 --> 01:02:20,520 Speaker 2: the top of the street and caught the bus and 1183 01:02:20,640 --> 01:02:25,240 Speaker 2: went downtown to Canall Valley Bank. And I can't remember 1184 01:02:25,280 --> 01:02:27,920 Speaker 2: for sure whether it was my birthday or Christmas, she 1185 01:02:28,040 --> 01:02:31,600 Speaker 2: got me a past book savings account for my birthday. 1186 01:02:31,760 --> 01:02:33,480 Speaker 1: Wow, okay, yes, sir. 1187 01:02:33,920 --> 01:02:38,160 Speaker 2: It wasn't a very sexy toy, and I couldn't take 1188 01:02:38,160 --> 01:02:40,000 Speaker 2: it to school and brag about it, and it didn't 1189 01:02:40,000 --> 01:02:43,680 Speaker 2: make any sense, but it did start a mindset in 1190 01:02:43,800 --> 01:02:46,840 Speaker 2: my head, sir, that if you're going to work and 1191 01:02:46,920 --> 01:02:50,520 Speaker 2: make money, you ought to be putting something away. So 1192 01:02:50,560 --> 01:02:53,120 Speaker 2: by the time I was sixteen, I had built up 1193 01:02:53,120 --> 01:02:56,640 Speaker 2: a substantial amount of money back at that time because 1194 01:02:57,080 --> 01:03:01,120 Speaker 2: she made saving important and she awarded me based on 1195 01:03:01,560 --> 01:03:04,520 Speaker 2: how much. I say, I think that kind of thing, 1196 01:03:05,200 --> 01:03:09,200 Speaker 2: as small as it is, it's important. It's important that 1197 01:03:09,240 --> 01:03:13,480 Speaker 2: we do that. And I would also say that even 1198 01:03:13,520 --> 01:03:16,600 Speaker 2: though you don't know the stock market and you don't 1199 01:03:16,640 --> 01:03:18,840 Speaker 2: know what all those letters mean at the bottom. And 1200 01:03:19,120 --> 01:03:21,880 Speaker 2: you watch some of these financial shows and you can't 1201 01:03:21,960 --> 01:03:25,560 Speaker 2: keep up with what they're doing. Watch them anyway, Watch them, Yeah, 1202 01:03:25,680 --> 01:03:28,880 Speaker 2: watch them anyway. You pick up a phraser two, and 1203 01:03:28,920 --> 01:03:32,160 Speaker 2: then later on you learn what capital gains means. And 1204 01:03:32,200 --> 01:03:35,920 Speaker 2: then you were talking about his state planning. You start 1205 01:03:35,920 --> 01:03:38,720 Speaker 2: thinking about a state planning. You start thinking about a trust. 1206 01:03:39,000 --> 01:03:42,560 Speaker 2: You start to decide whether it's revocable or irrevocable trust, 1207 01:03:42,760 --> 01:03:47,320 Speaker 2: and your knowledge begins to expand by exposure. If you're 1208 01:03:47,360 --> 01:03:50,160 Speaker 2: not exposed to it, you're not going to grow into it. 1209 01:03:50,560 --> 01:03:54,200 Speaker 2: And instead of being exposed to it, we start scrolling 1210 01:03:54,480 --> 01:03:58,040 Speaker 2: on our social media listening at people who don't really 1211 01:03:58,080 --> 01:04:00,479 Speaker 2: know what they're talking about. One person's telling you, don't 1212 01:04:00,520 --> 01:04:06,120 Speaker 2: drink any more carrot juicy, don't drink no water. There's 1213 01:04:06,240 --> 01:04:08,120 Speaker 2: lid in the water. If you drink the water, you're 1214 01:04:08,120 --> 01:04:11,000 Speaker 2: gonna die. Said water. I can't drink water. I can't 1215 01:04:11,040 --> 01:04:14,560 Speaker 2: eat nothing. I can't drink water. And the parasites are 1216 01:04:14,560 --> 01:04:17,160 Speaker 2: coming out of your baking. You know, sometimes they're right, 1217 01:04:17,240 --> 01:04:26,080 Speaker 2: sometimes they're wrong. Finding trusted sources, proven sources. When when 1218 01:04:26,120 --> 01:04:28,720 Speaker 2: you get on the internet, and you start teaching something, 1219 01:04:29,160 --> 01:04:31,440 Speaker 2: you have to ask yourself, what does this person have 1220 01:04:31,560 --> 01:04:35,000 Speaker 2: to show for their for their wisdom? Yes, sir, you 1221 01:04:35,080 --> 01:04:38,400 Speaker 2: know proven wisdom. David. What I love about David when 1222 01:04:38,440 --> 01:04:41,000 Speaker 2: he fought Golive, he would not fight with the weapon 1223 01:04:41,040 --> 01:04:43,880 Speaker 2: that he hadn't used. Yes, sir, Yes, sir, he used 1224 01:04:43,920 --> 01:04:48,160 Speaker 2: proven weapons to bring down giants. If the if you're 1225 01:04:48,200 --> 01:04:52,240 Speaker 2: a giant, your goliath is debt. Yes sir. Okay, you 1226 01:04:52,280 --> 01:04:54,080 Speaker 2: can't kill him with the rag and the rock, but 1227 01:04:54,120 --> 01:04:56,520 Speaker 2: you've got to have a proven weapon if you're going 1228 01:04:56,600 --> 01:04:57,400 Speaker 2: to be successful. 1229 01:04:57,400 --> 01:05:00,520 Speaker 1: Adoring ambition, I'll say this to you, said something earlier. 1230 01:05:00,800 --> 01:05:03,880 Speaker 1: You tell them to watch it. While they're watching it, 1231 01:05:04,320 --> 01:05:06,160 Speaker 1: I want to encourage you to pause and take a 1232 01:05:06,160 --> 01:05:09,920 Speaker 1: screen shot, because you're right, all those words and numbers 1233 01:05:09,960 --> 01:05:13,080 Speaker 1: and graphs and everything's going to seem so confusing. Take 1234 01:05:13,120 --> 01:05:16,480 Speaker 1: a screenshot here he goes. Go back to AI, upload 1235 01:05:16,520 --> 01:05:20,360 Speaker 1: it to AI excellent, and say, hey, look at this 1236 01:05:20,560 --> 01:05:24,000 Speaker 1: and give me the meaning of every small three digit word, 1237 01:05:24,200 --> 01:05:26,640 Speaker 1: every this What does this graph mean? And AI will 1238 01:05:26,680 --> 01:05:30,240 Speaker 1: give it the basic understanding. So now you start growing 1239 01:05:30,320 --> 01:05:34,360 Speaker 1: your knowledge every single day. When you see that information. 1240 01:05:34,400 --> 01:05:37,040 Speaker 2: You know something else. I think is important. If you're 1241 01:05:37,120 --> 01:05:39,800 Speaker 2: focusing a lot of your attention on training young people, 1242 01:05:40,360 --> 01:05:44,520 Speaker 2: please tell them this old age does not mug you. 1243 01:05:45,840 --> 01:05:49,200 Speaker 2: It does not sneak up on you and mug you. Yes, sir, 1244 01:05:49,400 --> 01:05:54,120 Speaker 2: it warns you while it's coming. Okay, so you know 1245 01:05:54,440 --> 01:05:58,320 Speaker 2: inevitably you are not going to be young long, Yes, sir. 1246 01:05:58,720 --> 01:06:02,960 Speaker 2: So they said Benjamin, she'll raving as a wolf in 1247 01:06:03,000 --> 01:06:05,920 Speaker 2: the morning. He should have our the prey. In the evening, 1248 01:06:06,000 --> 01:06:09,840 Speaker 2: he should divide the spoils. So while you're young, divre 1249 01:06:09,920 --> 01:06:12,680 Speaker 2: the prey so that in the evening you can divide 1250 01:06:12,680 --> 01:06:15,480 Speaker 2: the spoils. So you're not walking around on a walker 1251 01:06:16,240 --> 01:06:19,160 Speaker 2: in a grocery store talking about may I help you? 1252 01:06:19,160 --> 01:06:22,080 Speaker 2: You understand what I'm saying. So you've got to plan 1253 01:06:22,320 --> 01:06:25,120 Speaker 2: on a day that you don't feel as well as 1254 01:06:25,160 --> 01:06:27,000 Speaker 2: you do right now. You've got a plan on a 1255 01:06:27,120 --> 01:06:29,320 Speaker 2: day that you can't get on your knees and get 1256 01:06:29,360 --> 01:06:31,440 Speaker 2: up like you used to plan on that day. And 1257 01:06:31,520 --> 01:06:35,120 Speaker 2: if you don't use your youth for something that protects 1258 01:06:35,120 --> 01:06:40,120 Speaker 2: your old age. So frustrating the amount of people that 1259 01:06:40,160 --> 01:06:43,920 Speaker 2: we bury, even in this church, that have no life 1260 01:06:43,960 --> 01:06:48,960 Speaker 2: insurance that we have to end up either paying for 1261 01:06:49,200 --> 01:06:52,080 Speaker 2: or raising an offering in the funeral or have a 1262 01:06:52,080 --> 01:06:54,480 Speaker 2: go funding. But they had all kinds of clothes and 1263 01:06:54,600 --> 01:07:00,520 Speaker 2: hats and gator shoes and whatever else they wanted. We've 1264 01:07:00,560 --> 01:07:03,880 Speaker 2: got to get a strategy when we are young, yes, sir. 1265 01:07:04,680 --> 01:07:06,520 Speaker 2: And it doesn't have to be a whole lot of 1266 01:07:06,560 --> 01:07:10,240 Speaker 2: money for it to grow exponentially, because it's going to 1267 01:07:10,360 --> 01:07:14,000 Speaker 2: compound interest over from year to year. And then look 1268 01:07:14,040 --> 01:07:16,800 Speaker 2: at yourself every year, and this is what I do. 1269 01:07:16,880 --> 01:07:19,480 Speaker 2: It's very very important to me. I look at myself 1270 01:07:19,560 --> 01:07:21,880 Speaker 2: year to year to see how much I have grown 1271 01:07:22,000 --> 01:07:24,920 Speaker 2: from year to year. Am I going forward or am 1272 01:07:24,920 --> 01:07:27,920 Speaker 2: I going backwards? Yes, sir, because you can fall backwards 1273 01:07:27,920 --> 01:07:32,640 Speaker 2: and I notice it. Sure you can fall backwards and 1274 01:07:32,840 --> 01:07:38,080 Speaker 2: end up with expendable goods imperishable items if you don't 1275 01:07:38,120 --> 01:07:42,200 Speaker 2: look at spreadsheets and see where you are in the 1276 01:07:42,320 --> 01:07:46,560 Speaker 2: course of things. Because sooner or I declare yesterday I 1277 01:07:46,600 --> 01:07:53,400 Speaker 2: was thirty eight. Yesterday yesterday morning, I was thirty eight. 1278 01:07:53,520 --> 01:07:57,280 Speaker 2: You were thirty eight, and by today's evening I am 1279 01:07:57,360 --> 01:08:03,160 Speaker 2: sixty eight. Don't know that thirty years flew by so 1280 01:08:03,360 --> 01:08:06,880 Speaker 2: quick it seemed like a lie, yes, sir. So so 1281 01:08:07,880 --> 01:08:11,560 Speaker 2: planning on getting old. It's bigger than planning on a 1282 01:08:11,560 --> 01:08:15,600 Speaker 2: big house because you're going to downside the house anyway. Yes, sir, 1283 01:08:15,800 --> 01:08:18,400 Speaker 2: it's better than planning on a big car because you're 1284 01:08:18,439 --> 01:08:22,920 Speaker 2: gonna outgrow that. You're going to outgrow your need to blame, Yes, sir, 1285 01:08:23,080 --> 01:08:26,280 Speaker 2: because the more you mature, the less important it is 1286 01:08:26,280 --> 01:08:29,160 Speaker 2: to you what people think about you. Yeah, but it's 1287 01:08:29,400 --> 01:08:31,400 Speaker 2: never going to go out of style to be able 1288 01:08:31,439 --> 01:08:32,519 Speaker 2: to take care of yourself. 1289 01:08:32,680 --> 01:08:36,320 Speaker 1: You know what, Bishop, you are absolutely right. I am. 1290 01:08:38,280 --> 01:08:41,360 Speaker 1: At thirty two, thirty three years old, I was just 1291 01:08:41,439 --> 01:08:45,240 Speaker 1: chasing money and I wanted to chase success. And then 1292 01:08:45,280 --> 01:08:47,920 Speaker 1: when I sat down with my doctor right around forty 1293 01:08:48,040 --> 01:08:53,280 Speaker 1: she said, and then if you keep this up, it's 1294 01:08:53,320 --> 01:08:57,559 Speaker 1: gonna hurt you long term. And now at forty one, Bishop, 1295 01:08:57,600 --> 01:09:01,960 Speaker 1: of things that I was chasing back then, I no 1296 01:09:02,040 --> 01:09:06,120 Speaker 1: longer desire it. Today. I desire to be healthy. I 1297 01:09:06,200 --> 01:09:09,479 Speaker 1: desire to be mentally healthy. The things that I was 1298 01:09:09,560 --> 01:09:11,720 Speaker 1: chasing them, I'm like, man, I wish I had this 1299 01:09:11,840 --> 01:09:16,679 Speaker 1: information when I was younger, And you're right, I knew 1300 01:09:16,720 --> 01:09:21,960 Speaker 1: it was coming just yesterday. I was thirty, just yesterday. 1301 01:09:22,320 --> 01:09:24,880 Speaker 1: I just graduated high school in two thousand and two, 1302 01:09:25,560 --> 01:09:29,479 Speaker 1: you just wait. And so it's like, now, just seeing 1303 01:09:29,520 --> 01:09:33,120 Speaker 1: my mind saying I don't care about that anymore. See 1304 01:09:33,160 --> 01:09:35,559 Speaker 1: my mind saying, man, I would rather drink a cup 1305 01:09:35,600 --> 01:09:38,479 Speaker 1: of water than some sweet tea, but I still want 1306 01:09:38,520 --> 01:09:41,840 Speaker 1: some sweet tea every now and then. It's like, now 1307 01:09:42,800 --> 01:09:48,200 Speaker 1: a disclaimer, but it's like I desire, My desire is 1308 01:09:48,240 --> 01:09:51,639 Speaker 1: different in this season of my life, and I'm loving 1309 01:09:51,680 --> 01:09:54,080 Speaker 1: this season. And it's just so funny because you know 1310 01:09:54,080 --> 01:09:55,640 Speaker 1: what it is. Bishop, I'm pretty sure you said this. 1311 01:09:55,640 --> 01:09:57,680 Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure your children say it now, like just 1312 01:09:57,720 --> 01:09:59,840 Speaker 1: wait till you get older. I would never do it. 1313 01:10:00,360 --> 01:10:02,599 Speaker 1: I sound like my mom and my dad just wait 1314 01:10:02,640 --> 01:10:04,479 Speaker 1: till you get older. Same, yeah, you know, and it's 1315 01:10:04,479 --> 01:10:07,799 Speaker 1: like wow. So I want to say to your generation, Bishop, 1316 01:10:07,840 --> 01:10:12,519 Speaker 1: thank you. Thank you for teaching us what you could. 1317 01:10:12,640 --> 01:10:16,120 Speaker 1: Thank you for being the examples that we need, and 1318 01:10:16,160 --> 01:10:18,840 Speaker 1: that we're going to take what you all did and 1319 01:10:18,920 --> 01:10:20,880 Speaker 1: we're going to just stack on it and make it better, 1320 01:10:21,240 --> 01:10:24,040 Speaker 1: and hopefully my generation will make it better, and then 1321 01:10:24,080 --> 01:10:27,360 Speaker 1: the generation behind me can make that even better because 1322 01:10:27,400 --> 01:10:28,599 Speaker 1: we're just standing on some struggle. 1323 01:10:28,840 --> 01:10:30,720 Speaker 2: One of the things you have to understand about our 1324 01:10:30,760 --> 01:10:33,519 Speaker 2: generation is that we were the children of the civil 1325 01:10:33,640 --> 01:10:34,240 Speaker 2: rights movement. 1326 01:10:34,320 --> 01:10:36,240 Speaker 1: Yes, sir, yes, sir. 1327 01:10:36,320 --> 01:10:38,880 Speaker 2: You have for black people. Now this is not true 1328 01:10:38,920 --> 01:10:41,920 Speaker 2: for my white listeners. For black people, we were the 1329 01:10:42,000 --> 01:10:44,479 Speaker 2: children of the civil rights movement, so it was a 1330 01:10:44,600 --> 01:10:47,720 Speaker 2: big deal that we could buy houses and buy them 1331 01:10:47,760 --> 01:10:49,200 Speaker 2: in other neighborhoods. 1332 01:10:49,320 --> 01:10:49,760 Speaker 1: Yes, sir. 1333 01:10:49,960 --> 01:10:53,800 Speaker 2: So you had movies like plays like Raising in the Sun. 1334 01:10:54,520 --> 01:10:58,240 Speaker 2: It were the reflection of the attitude. Now, we might 1335 01:10:58,280 --> 01:11:01,439 Speaker 2: not have been the parents that are that our parents 1336 01:11:01,479 --> 01:11:04,479 Speaker 2: were because we were just getting jobs and places we 1337 01:11:04,479 --> 01:11:08,080 Speaker 2: couldn't get jobs before affirmative Action was going. We were 1338 01:11:08,080 --> 01:11:11,000 Speaker 2: able to build houses and buy houses and do that 1339 01:11:11,040 --> 01:11:14,280 Speaker 2: sort of thing and have a car. This next generation 1340 01:11:14,840 --> 01:11:17,840 Speaker 2: grew up with their own bedroom. My brother, my sister, 1341 01:11:17,880 --> 01:11:20,160 Speaker 2: and I stayed in the same room for a long time. 1342 01:11:20,800 --> 01:11:24,040 Speaker 2: My kids would just go bananas if they stayed in 1343 01:11:24,080 --> 01:11:26,400 Speaker 2: the same room. You know that they're grown now, but 1344 01:11:26,600 --> 01:11:30,559 Speaker 2: when they were kids, they were gone bananas. Be sure 1345 01:11:32,280 --> 01:11:41,360 Speaker 2: that you don't give them everything too soon, except you 1346 01:11:41,479 --> 01:11:45,240 Speaker 2: give them everything except what made you great. And that's 1347 01:11:45,280 --> 01:11:51,160 Speaker 2: the struggle. If there is no struggle, there is no strength. 1348 01:11:53,040 --> 01:11:57,040 Speaker 2: And sometimes we're so happy to give them what we 1349 01:11:57,200 --> 01:12:00,840 Speaker 2: didn't have that they are not prepared, And I think 1350 01:12:00,840 --> 01:12:03,880 Speaker 2: that we're coming into a time now that those that 1351 01:12:04,040 --> 01:12:08,599 Speaker 2: don't go up technologically and intellectually and go take those 1352 01:12:08,640 --> 01:12:12,200 Speaker 2: courses and expand their wealth, they're going to fall down. 1353 01:12:12,800 --> 01:12:15,439 Speaker 2: And you know what, they don't know how to plow. 1354 01:12:15,600 --> 01:12:18,000 Speaker 2: They don't know how to plan, they don't know how 1355 01:12:18,000 --> 01:12:19,960 Speaker 2: to grow, they don't know how to can, They don't 1356 01:12:19,960 --> 01:12:22,880 Speaker 2: know how to survive in a tough situation because we 1357 01:12:23,000 --> 01:12:26,400 Speaker 2: took all of that away. Yes, my mother taught me 1358 01:12:26,439 --> 01:12:27,160 Speaker 2: all that stuff. 1359 01:12:27,280 --> 01:12:28,240 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1360 01:12:28,520 --> 01:12:32,960 Speaker 2: So the crisis is not just that we're losing our 1361 01:12:33,000 --> 01:12:37,080 Speaker 2: middle class, which is a huge crisis. Okay, yes, But 1362 01:12:37,200 --> 01:12:39,760 Speaker 2: the crisis that makes it even worse than that is 1363 01:12:39,800 --> 01:12:42,080 Speaker 2: that we're raising a generation that doesn't know how to 1364 01:12:42,120 --> 01:12:46,640 Speaker 2: be broke. They don't know how to be broke. So 1365 01:12:47,240 --> 01:12:49,960 Speaker 2: there is there is no such thing as a garden. 1366 01:12:49,960 --> 01:12:55,120 Speaker 2: In your back card, there is chapter seven Advice for 1367 01:12:55,280 --> 01:12:56,200 Speaker 2: Next Generation. 1368 01:12:57,240 --> 01:12:58,120 Speaker 1: Can I ask you a question? 1369 01:12:58,240 --> 01:12:58,599 Speaker 2: Sure? 1370 01:12:59,439 --> 01:13:05,120 Speaker 1: In thisen with social media being so loud, in this generation, 1371 01:13:06,200 --> 01:13:12,920 Speaker 1: we're having this conversation of I don't want to work. 1372 01:13:13,160 --> 01:13:15,479 Speaker 1: One thing I'm seeing in this generation is they want 1373 01:13:15,520 --> 01:13:17,519 Speaker 1: to work from home, but they don't want a boss. 1374 01:13:18,800 --> 01:13:20,919 Speaker 1: They want to make all this money, but they barely 1375 01:13:21,000 --> 01:13:24,080 Speaker 1: want to work. What would you say to this generation 1376 01:13:24,200 --> 01:13:27,439 Speaker 1: that is seen the work from home. Be an entrepreneur, 1377 01:13:27,560 --> 01:13:30,360 Speaker 1: Be your own boss, you know, be a boss woman, 1378 01:13:30,439 --> 01:13:33,479 Speaker 1: be a boss man. Don't work for no man. What 1379 01:13:33,520 --> 01:13:36,040 Speaker 1: would you say to that generation who's watching this, because 1380 01:13:36,080 --> 01:13:38,800 Speaker 1: for entrepreneurs like me, I'm competing with that. 1381 01:13:39,120 --> 01:13:44,760 Speaker 2: I would say, I'm sorry that we raised you in 1382 01:13:44,840 --> 01:13:48,920 Speaker 2: such a way that your pipe dreams will only fit 1383 01:13:49,320 --> 01:13:54,599 Speaker 2: less than ten percent of the masses of you. I'm 1384 01:13:54,680 --> 01:13:56,920 Speaker 2: sorry that we made you think that you could be 1385 01:13:56,960 --> 01:13:59,960 Speaker 2: a hip hop artist and you're thirty eight years old 1386 01:14:00,160 --> 01:14:04,200 Speaker 2: and you're still in your back room making music. I'm sorry. 1387 01:14:04,680 --> 01:14:06,439 Speaker 2: I'm sorry that you thought you were going to be 1388 01:14:06,479 --> 01:14:10,519 Speaker 2: the next Michael Jordan and you're on the court when 1389 01:14:10,560 --> 01:14:13,439 Speaker 2: you should have been doing something that made you some money. 1390 01:14:13,640 --> 01:14:18,080 Speaker 2: The stats are against you. Only the few become the 1391 01:14:18,160 --> 01:14:21,639 Speaker 2: Tiger Woods of the world. Only the few enter into 1392 01:14:21,680 --> 01:14:25,559 Speaker 2: technology and become extremely successful. And so we have to 1393 01:14:25,640 --> 01:14:28,639 Speaker 2: have We're going to have something that do that. And 1394 01:14:28,880 --> 01:14:33,320 Speaker 2: your generation, in the younger generation after you're smarter than 1395 01:14:33,360 --> 01:14:37,879 Speaker 2: we ever thought about being. Okay, but smart doesn't ensure 1396 01:14:37,920 --> 01:14:39,960 Speaker 2: that you're going to have a job. If you're not 1397 01:14:40,040 --> 01:14:46,360 Speaker 2: willing to work, and you can't work for yourself and 1398 01:14:46,560 --> 01:14:52,160 Speaker 2: learn by yourself, even if you get the money off 1399 01:14:52,160 --> 01:14:56,599 Speaker 2: of social media, you need somebody to mentor you how 1400 01:14:56,600 --> 01:14:58,680 Speaker 2: to go into the room where the people with the 1401 01:14:58,720 --> 01:15:02,240 Speaker 2: money are, to talk to the bank president what to 1402 01:15:02,400 --> 01:15:05,680 Speaker 2: invest in, how to set up your finances so that 1403 01:15:05,760 --> 01:15:10,479 Speaker 2: you have structured if you if you resent anybody telling 1404 01:15:10,520 --> 01:15:13,840 Speaker 2: you what to do, you resent your teachers, you resent 1405 01:15:13,920 --> 01:15:18,080 Speaker 2: your police officers, you resent your your captains, you release 1406 01:15:18,120 --> 01:15:23,880 Speaker 2: your you resent your doctor, you resent you was in authority. Yes, 1407 01:15:24,240 --> 01:15:27,960 Speaker 2: so then you're gonna treat yourself. You know you're gonna 1408 01:15:28,040 --> 01:15:30,800 Speaker 2: You're gonna treat your own diseases. You're not gonna get 1409 01:15:30,840 --> 01:15:33,599 Speaker 2: financial advice that you need. You cannot get through this 1410 01:15:33,680 --> 01:15:39,599 Speaker 2: world without listening at somebody teach you something, and and 1411 01:15:39,600 --> 01:15:43,479 Speaker 2: and and and I think it's our fault. I think 1412 01:15:43,520 --> 01:15:46,800 Speaker 2: it's our fault because we left them home with computers 1413 01:15:47,080 --> 01:15:50,879 Speaker 2: to raise and they came up with their own devices 1414 01:15:50,880 --> 01:15:53,840 Speaker 2: and they became really really smart and technology and that's 1415 01:15:53,960 --> 01:15:58,639 Speaker 2: really cool. But having the grit to go along with 1416 01:15:58,680 --> 01:16:02,920 Speaker 2: the gadgets a whole whole other thing. The gadget is amazing, 1417 01:16:03,640 --> 01:16:05,639 Speaker 2: but you still got to go knock on the door 1418 01:16:05,640 --> 01:16:08,800 Speaker 2: of Netflix to get the deal. And if you do 1419 01:16:08,880 --> 01:16:11,400 Speaker 2: the deal with Netflix, they're gonna tell you what to do. 1420 01:16:12,560 --> 01:16:14,760 Speaker 2: Even though you made the movie without them, They're gonna 1421 01:16:14,800 --> 01:16:17,439 Speaker 2: tell you what to do because if they're gonna invest 1422 01:16:17,479 --> 01:16:20,479 Speaker 2: in it, he who makes the goal makes the rules. Yes, sir, 1423 01:16:21,000 --> 01:16:22,880 Speaker 2: if you go to the doctor's no need in going 1424 01:16:22,960 --> 01:16:24,880 Speaker 2: if you're not gonna listen at what the doctor says. 1425 01:16:24,960 --> 01:16:27,479 Speaker 2: Do So this is bigger than money. This is about health. 1426 01:16:27,520 --> 01:16:30,839 Speaker 2: This is about authority. This is about serving your country 1427 01:16:31,040 --> 01:16:34,440 Speaker 2: and the army and the armed forces, This is about everything. 1428 01:16:35,360 --> 01:16:40,679 Speaker 2: There is a hierarchy to everything. And I apologize because 1429 01:16:40,720 --> 01:16:46,479 Speaker 2: we were so busy benefiting from what our parents marched 1430 01:16:46,600 --> 01:16:52,280 Speaker 2: for that you have authority issues. We didn't have authority 1431 01:16:52,320 --> 01:17:03,120 Speaker 2: issues because our parents made sure they did all of that. Yeah, 1432 01:17:03,120 --> 01:17:05,760 Speaker 2: they took that out, So that's out of the way. 1433 01:17:05,880 --> 01:17:13,280 Speaker 2: Today we're counseling the child rather than correcting the child. 1434 01:17:14,000 --> 01:17:18,800 Speaker 2: And so when authority comes along, sometimes the policeman is wrong. 1435 01:17:18,920 --> 01:17:22,639 Speaker 2: Sometimes the policeman pulled the trigger because Johnny slapped him 1436 01:17:22,640 --> 01:17:25,960 Speaker 2: in the head, you know. And I think that we 1437 01:17:26,080 --> 01:17:29,639 Speaker 2: have to do we have to take on some responsibility 1438 01:17:30,240 --> 01:17:35,800 Speaker 2: of training our children not to resent authority. All authority 1439 01:17:36,080 --> 01:17:40,240 Speaker 2: is not evil. All authority is not wicked. Some authority 1440 01:17:40,320 --> 01:17:44,080 Speaker 2: will save your life. I'll tell you this story, quick story. 1441 01:17:45,960 --> 01:17:49,120 Speaker 2: I was coming down off the steps little Reggedy house 1442 01:17:50,080 --> 01:17:52,439 Speaker 2: my mother and father Bill, And at that time we 1443 01:17:53,000 --> 01:17:55,800 Speaker 2: turned the attic into an extra bedroom, so now my 1444 01:17:55,880 --> 01:17:58,160 Speaker 2: brother and I had one room, my sister had another room. 1445 01:17:58,160 --> 01:18:02,000 Speaker 2: We were moving on up till he said, finally got 1446 01:18:02,000 --> 01:18:04,600 Speaker 2: a piece of the pipe. I'm outside playing, which is 1447 01:18:04,600 --> 01:18:07,960 Speaker 2: something they don't do anymore either, which is not good 1448 01:18:08,000 --> 01:18:10,920 Speaker 2: for us health, by facts. And I was about to 1449 01:18:10,960 --> 01:18:15,559 Speaker 2: step off the step, and my mother said stop without 1450 01:18:15,600 --> 01:18:21,680 Speaker 2: a question. I froze like a mannequin. There was a 1451 01:18:21,800 --> 01:18:26,400 Speaker 2: rattlesnake under my foot. Oh man, if I wouldn't negotiate 1452 01:18:26,439 --> 01:18:28,679 Speaker 2: it with her, what do you mean stop? This doesn't 1453 01:18:28,720 --> 01:18:32,960 Speaker 2: make no sense. I might not be here today. All 1454 01:18:33,120 --> 01:18:37,040 Speaker 2: rules are not bad. On all correction is not bad. 1455 01:18:37,320 --> 01:18:39,240 Speaker 2: There are certain things that God says for us not 1456 01:18:39,320 --> 01:18:42,439 Speaker 2: to do for a reason. Yes, sir, you know there's 1457 01:18:42,479 --> 01:18:45,200 Speaker 2: a reason He tells us not to love money. Yes, sir, 1458 01:18:45,320 --> 01:18:48,439 Speaker 2: he's not against us making money. Facts, But he's flat 1459 01:18:48,520 --> 01:18:51,960 Speaker 2: set against us loving money, yes, sir, because that becomes 1460 01:18:51,960 --> 01:18:56,000 Speaker 2: the root of all evil, and listening at rules are 1461 01:18:56,160 --> 01:18:59,679 Speaker 2: for your benefit, yes, sir. No correction for the present 1462 01:18:59,720 --> 01:19:02,439 Speaker 2: time seem as joy, but it brings forth a peaceable 1463 01:19:02,439 --> 01:19:07,000 Speaker 2: fruit of righteousness. Correction. If my mother taught me how 1464 01:19:07,040 --> 01:19:12,120 Speaker 2: to drive a car, correction, sir. I need direction, I 1465 01:19:12,200 --> 01:19:16,040 Speaker 2: need correction, and then I can have independence, yes, sir, 1466 01:19:16,400 --> 01:19:19,639 Speaker 2: And I can want everyone teach one, yes, sir. So 1467 01:19:20,040 --> 01:19:24,840 Speaker 2: I think the problem there started with we missed our 1468 01:19:24,920 --> 01:19:29,800 Speaker 2: window that when they were children, we were working like 1469 01:19:29,960 --> 01:19:33,559 Speaker 2: dogs to get into the house, and we left them 1470 01:19:33,600 --> 01:19:37,120 Speaker 2: home either in front of the TV or on the computer, 1471 01:19:37,960 --> 01:19:40,240 Speaker 2: and they don't even know how to play outside. They 1472 01:19:40,280 --> 01:19:42,040 Speaker 2: don't know how to take a stick in a rock 1473 01:19:42,120 --> 01:19:44,439 Speaker 2: and go down in the creek bed and have fun 1474 01:19:44,479 --> 01:19:49,040 Speaker 2: all day in the hot sun. If air conditioning goes out, 1475 01:19:49,080 --> 01:19:50,240 Speaker 2: it is a major crisis. 1476 01:19:50,360 --> 01:19:50,760 Speaker 1: Yes, sir. 1477 01:19:51,800 --> 01:19:54,880 Speaker 2: I spent had my life in the house that didn't 1478 01:19:54,880 --> 01:19:55,719 Speaker 2: have air conditioning. 1479 01:19:55,920 --> 01:20:00,559 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, yeah, I'm great. Fighting grew up in timeses. 1480 01:20:00,720 --> 01:20:03,360 Speaker 2: Oh, it didn't have air conditioning. We didn't even think 1481 01:20:03,360 --> 01:20:06,280 Speaker 2: anything about it. Air Conditioning was for rich people. Doorbells 1482 01:20:06,520 --> 01:20:10,599 Speaker 2: were for rich people. But my father's house they had 1483 01:20:10,680 --> 01:20:13,800 Speaker 2: newspaper stuck over in the cracks in the walls of 1484 01:20:13,880 --> 01:20:18,160 Speaker 2: the house. Oh my god. Okay. And his father's mother 1485 01:20:18,320 --> 01:20:25,120 Speaker 2: was a slave. So every generation we get weaker and wiser. 1486 01:20:25,120 --> 01:20:26,719 Speaker 1: Oh, weaker and wiser. 1487 01:20:26,960 --> 01:20:30,519 Speaker 2: Yeah, we become wiser in one way, yes, sir, and 1488 01:20:30,560 --> 01:20:33,640 Speaker 2: weaker in another way. Yes, God bless the child that 1489 01:20:33,880 --> 01:20:39,719 Speaker 2: gets both wisdom okay, and strength, yes, sir. And that's 1490 01:20:39,760 --> 01:20:42,920 Speaker 2: the goal. And if you don't have strength, you can 1491 01:20:42,920 --> 01:20:45,320 Speaker 2: build it up, yes, sir, you can build it up. 1492 01:20:46,280 --> 01:20:48,400 Speaker 2: You can build it up. And that's the message that 1493 01:20:48,520 --> 01:20:51,280 Speaker 2: needs to go out. But I love the young people. 1494 01:20:51,360 --> 01:20:54,519 Speaker 2: I'm crazy about them. Yes, there are children. If they're 1495 01:20:54,560 --> 01:20:58,160 Speaker 2: making mistakes, we have to take some responsibility for that 1496 01:20:58,240 --> 01:21:01,519 Speaker 2: because we did not create an atmosphere that's conducive for 1497 01:21:01,640 --> 01:21:03,639 Speaker 2: them to value some of the things that they need 1498 01:21:03,680 --> 01:21:05,760 Speaker 2: to value, like correction. 1499 01:21:05,600 --> 01:21:07,760 Speaker 1: Right, lack direction, yes, sir. 1500 01:21:08,040 --> 01:21:12,000 Speaker 2: Like instruction doesn't mean I hate you, doesn't mean that 1501 01:21:12,080 --> 01:21:13,960 Speaker 2: I don't respect that you know how to do things 1502 01:21:14,000 --> 01:21:16,599 Speaker 2: that I don't know how to do. But it does 1503 01:21:16,760 --> 01:21:19,920 Speaker 2: mean that there is a hierarchy, even if you do 1504 01:21:20,040 --> 01:21:24,320 Speaker 2: start your own business, Yes, sir, you're gonna you don't 1505 01:21:24,360 --> 01:21:26,799 Speaker 2: want to be bossed, but you're gonna be somebody's boss. 1506 01:21:27,840 --> 01:21:29,360 Speaker 1: How can I be a boss or a bishop if 1507 01:21:29,360 --> 01:21:30,519 Speaker 1: I've never learned how to served. 1508 01:21:31,760 --> 01:21:32,599 Speaker 2: That's the problem. 1509 01:21:33,479 --> 01:21:35,080 Speaker 1: And I think that's one of the reasons why I 1510 01:21:35,120 --> 01:21:39,000 Speaker 1: have such a successful businesses because for I served for 1511 01:21:39,600 --> 01:21:42,720 Speaker 1: sixteen years before I launched out, so now I know 1512 01:21:43,800 --> 01:21:46,320 Speaker 1: the kind of people I need to find because I 1513 01:21:46,479 --> 01:21:47,080 Speaker 1: was that person. 1514 01:21:47,200 --> 01:21:48,920 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yes, And. 1515 01:21:49,560 --> 01:21:52,519 Speaker 1: It's just hard in this generation because everybody wants to 1516 01:21:52,520 --> 01:21:56,439 Speaker 1: be Bishop Jakes and this person or that person. I'm like, yo, 1517 01:21:56,960 --> 01:22:01,320 Speaker 1: but Bishop served, but Jordan had to serve up beneath 1518 01:22:01,360 --> 01:22:06,839 Speaker 1: the coach. He, like everyone has. Everyone successful, I believe 1519 01:22:07,280 --> 01:22:10,160 Speaker 1: really had to. But in today's saying time, if you 1520 01:22:10,240 --> 01:22:12,280 Speaker 1: got a phone, you just get in front of it 1521 01:22:12,320 --> 01:22:14,599 Speaker 1: and go viral and be popular. But it it doesn't 1522 01:22:14,640 --> 01:22:16,519 Speaker 1: mean that you're a servant and doesn't mean you can 1523 01:22:16,520 --> 01:22:17,360 Speaker 1: really build something. 1524 01:22:18,200 --> 01:22:22,840 Speaker 2: And in very few if you check the percentages, they're 1525 01:22:22,960 --> 01:22:27,000 Speaker 2: very low of people who succeed that way, yes, sir, 1526 01:22:27,280 --> 01:22:29,840 Speaker 2: And even if they do succeed that way, that they 1527 01:22:29,840 --> 01:22:32,599 Speaker 2: don't stay that way because there's no talent behind it 1528 01:22:32,760 --> 01:22:38,800 Speaker 2: driving it. Sir, it's just just pop luck. It's just 1529 01:22:38,960 --> 01:22:42,960 Speaker 2: pop It is knowing what pot luck is, but you 1530 01:22:43,000 --> 01:22:45,280 Speaker 2: didn't know what you got. You went to a pot 1531 01:22:45,360 --> 01:22:47,120 Speaker 2: luck dinner, you didn't you don't know what was going 1532 01:22:47,200 --> 01:22:49,360 Speaker 2: to be to tell you. So the question was always 1533 01:22:49,360 --> 01:22:52,599 Speaker 2: who made the potato silence? Okay, because you can get 1534 01:22:52,640 --> 01:22:55,400 Speaker 2: anything out of pot luck dinner. And and so I 1535 01:22:55,439 --> 01:22:58,599 Speaker 2: think there are certain systems, yes, sir. And it's not 1536 01:22:58,720 --> 01:23:04,439 Speaker 2: just the young people. The whole world is losing all 1537 01:23:04,479 --> 01:23:10,280 Speaker 2: of its systems. And when you lose systems, you know, 1538 01:23:10,560 --> 01:23:13,800 Speaker 2: I was involved in Katrina. I'll say this, and I'll 1539 01:23:13,800 --> 01:23:16,639 Speaker 2: bring this because you and I could unkle, but I 1540 01:23:16,680 --> 01:23:20,320 Speaker 2: was involved in the rescue efforts in Katrina, and and 1541 01:23:20,640 --> 01:23:23,760 Speaker 2: and pulling the bodies out and praying over the people 1542 01:23:23,800 --> 01:23:27,280 Speaker 2: and all that kind of stuff. It wasn't the wind 1543 01:23:27,760 --> 01:23:31,920 Speaker 2: or the rain that did the most damage. It was 1544 01:23:32,000 --> 01:23:37,960 Speaker 2: the breaking of the levee. The levee represents systems, Yeah, 1545 01:23:39,120 --> 01:23:44,080 Speaker 2: the giving away of our systems, yes, sir, it's going 1546 01:23:44,160 --> 01:23:48,439 Speaker 2: to leave us on the roof. The systems are there 1547 01:23:48,479 --> 01:23:52,800 Speaker 2: for your safety. The reason that there's a handrail on 1548 01:23:52,840 --> 01:23:56,160 Speaker 2: them steps is just in case you need to get it. 1549 01:23:56,280 --> 01:23:59,120 Speaker 2: You need to grab it. It'll keeps you from falling. 1550 01:23:59,280 --> 01:24:00,640 Speaker 1: Yes, sir, those. 1551 01:24:00,439 --> 01:24:03,559 Speaker 2: Systems are there for a reason, and unless you replace 1552 01:24:03,640 --> 01:24:08,800 Speaker 2: them with something that's more efficient, right, let's keep something there, Yes, sir, 1553 01:24:09,000 --> 01:24:11,639 Speaker 2: I'm not saying that what we built has got to last. 1554 01:24:11,960 --> 01:24:14,200 Speaker 2: You might come up and build something better. You know, 1555 01:24:14,240 --> 01:24:18,679 Speaker 2: it might be an electronic handrail that comes that's made 1556 01:24:18,720 --> 01:24:20,519 Speaker 2: out of light beams. I don't know. 1557 01:24:20,720 --> 01:24:22,360 Speaker 1: Yes, sir, that's fine. 1558 01:24:22,080 --> 01:24:26,240 Speaker 2: But something has to be in place to keep you straight. 1559 01:24:28,840 --> 01:24:31,680 Speaker 1: You got to close this bishop, because I mean, you 1560 01:24:31,800 --> 01:24:34,439 Speaker 1: just started something. Because I'm like, I think this generation 1561 01:24:34,560 --> 01:24:37,280 Speaker 1: is looking for new systems, but the new systems that 1562 01:24:37,280 --> 01:24:40,519 Speaker 1: they're going to are not really proven systems yet, right, right, 1563 01:24:40,600 --> 01:24:43,760 Speaker 1: and so there will skip over the proven systems to 1564 01:24:43,840 --> 01:24:47,400 Speaker 1: go to the more attractive new system when when yes, 1565 01:24:47,880 --> 01:24:49,840 Speaker 1: let's let's let's play with a little bit, but don't 1566 01:24:49,840 --> 01:24:53,360 Speaker 1: skip over the system that we know that has been working. Yeah, 1567 01:24:53,640 --> 01:24:57,679 Speaker 1: And I'm gonna be quiet because it's Crypto is being 1568 01:24:57,720 --> 01:25:02,080 Speaker 1: talked about. I mean it, but I'm not gonna invest 1569 01:25:02,080 --> 01:25:04,479 Speaker 1: into Crypto before I invest into my four one came out. 1570 01:25:05,760 --> 01:25:08,439 Speaker 1: That's a new system, but this is a proven system. 1571 01:25:09,040 --> 01:25:12,759 Speaker 2: So let's let's use both of us exactly. 1572 01:25:16,479 --> 01:25:18,680 Speaker 1: But I mean, I'm gonna take five hundred put it 1573 01:25:18,760 --> 01:25:20,840 Speaker 1: over here because my boss don't give me two fifty. 1574 01:25:21,720 --> 01:25:23,479 Speaker 1: But then I'm gonna put eighty dollars over there. I'm 1575 01:25:23,479 --> 01:25:25,080 Speaker 1: gonna play with it. I'm gonna watch it. I'm gonna 1576 01:25:25,080 --> 01:25:27,840 Speaker 1: see what's going on with it. Okay, hey day trading 1577 01:25:27,880 --> 01:25:29,799 Speaker 1: is becoming. Oh okay, I'm gonna. 1578 01:25:29,600 --> 01:25:30,200 Speaker 2: Play a little bit. 1579 01:25:30,200 --> 01:25:33,280 Speaker 1: But but I'm not gonna take my entire portfolio and put 1580 01:25:33,280 --> 01:25:35,559 Speaker 1: it over here into this new system because it hasn't 1581 01:25:35,600 --> 01:25:38,800 Speaker 1: been proven yet. But let's just keep it. Let's let's 1582 01:25:38,800 --> 01:25:41,519 Speaker 1: play with it, let's watch it, and then as time 1583 01:25:41,600 --> 01:25:43,559 Speaker 1: goes and we see the system is proven and we're 1584 01:25:43,560 --> 01:25:45,720 Speaker 1: seeing what's going on, then let's then we can make 1585 01:25:45,760 --> 01:25:51,360 Speaker 1: some adjustments. But I think Bishop's systems and strategy, it's 1586 01:25:51,479 --> 01:25:53,400 Speaker 1: just so so so important. It just goes back to 1587 01:25:53,479 --> 01:25:55,519 Speaker 1: what I said in the very beginning, that we just 1588 01:25:55,520 --> 01:25:59,240 Speaker 1: got a properly priorly plan so that we can prevent 1589 01:25:59,360 --> 01:26:03,000 Speaker 1: poor performercis when it comes to our finances, when it 1590 01:26:03,080 --> 01:26:06,360 Speaker 1: comes to leaving an inheritance to our children's children. My 1591 01:26:06,560 --> 01:26:10,240 Speaker 1: prayer is that people will hear what you said, we 1592 01:26:10,479 --> 01:26:13,440 Speaker 1: got to have systems. If we do not have systems, 1593 01:26:13,680 --> 01:26:16,000 Speaker 1: our children will not be able to live the life 1594 01:26:16,040 --> 01:26:19,719 Speaker 1: that we truly desire. And one thing my father's always 1595 01:26:19,800 --> 01:26:22,280 Speaker 1: told me, I want you to have a better life 1596 01:26:22,320 --> 01:26:26,320 Speaker 1: than me. And I'm like, and when I look at it, Bishop, 1597 01:26:26,439 --> 01:26:29,280 Speaker 1: everything goes down to what system are you passing down? 1598 01:26:29,320 --> 01:26:31,920 Speaker 2: Given so six peas again, and I want you to 1599 01:26:32,040 --> 01:26:34,559 Speaker 2: jump this down. And if you were, you can write 1600 01:26:34,720 --> 01:26:37,080 Speaker 2: something down in your phone or somewhere. I want you 1601 01:26:37,160 --> 01:26:42,599 Speaker 2: to jump this down and make it your mantra for marriage, 1602 01:26:43,200 --> 01:26:48,160 Speaker 2: for life, for business, for home ownership, for development. I 1603 01:26:48,200 --> 01:26:50,799 Speaker 2: want you to get this down. Give it to yes, sirs. 1604 01:26:50,840 --> 01:26:56,160 Speaker 1: Called proper prior planning prevents poor performances. 1605 01:26:56,920 --> 01:27:01,720 Speaker 2: Proper prior planning prevents poor performance. 1606 01:27:01,800 --> 01:27:04,360 Speaker 1: Yes, And you can take that in any aspect of 1607 01:27:04,400 --> 01:27:08,240 Speaker 1: your life anything. And I literally do it in every 1608 01:27:08,360 --> 01:27:11,160 Speaker 1: aspect of my life. If I want to prevent major 1609 01:27:11,200 --> 01:27:13,679 Speaker 1: health issues, then what am I doing in my thirties? 1610 01:27:14,240 --> 01:27:17,000 Speaker 1: My daughter said, Hey, your health issues in your sixties 1611 01:27:17,040 --> 01:27:19,960 Speaker 1: started in your thirties. Oh absolutely, So you need to 1612 01:27:20,040 --> 01:27:23,960 Speaker 1: properly priorly plan now to prevent that. If you're broken 1613 01:27:24,040 --> 01:27:26,960 Speaker 1: your sixties and seventies and I say this and shut 1614 01:27:27,040 --> 01:27:30,960 Speaker 1: up a bishop. But I went to McDonald's at about 1615 01:27:31,000 --> 01:27:35,360 Speaker 1: twelve thirty and I just got me some a small 1616 01:27:35,400 --> 01:27:37,960 Speaker 1: fry and a high seat. Orange paid for it. The 1617 01:27:37,960 --> 01:27:41,080 Speaker 1: first window, kid was maybe about twenty one twenty two 1618 01:27:41,160 --> 01:27:45,960 Speaker 1: years old. Went to the second window and I almost cried, 1619 01:27:48,560 --> 01:27:51,120 Speaker 1: I'm a caller, a young lady, but she was of age. 1620 01:27:51,640 --> 01:27:53,960 Speaker 1: She was handing me my food and her hands were shaking, 1621 01:27:54,760 --> 01:27:56,400 Speaker 1: and I asked the bishop. I said, man, I'm so 1622 01:27:56,439 --> 01:27:57,920 Speaker 1: sorry I got to ask how much? How to be rude, 1623 01:27:57,960 --> 01:28:03,880 Speaker 1: but how old are you? Eight years old? Working at McDonald's. 1624 01:28:04,560 --> 01:28:06,400 Speaker 1: And when she handed my food after she told me 1625 01:28:06,439 --> 01:28:08,840 Speaker 1: her age, and she said, baby, i'm here because when 1626 01:28:08,840 --> 01:28:11,840 Speaker 1: I was your age, I didn't have the right information right. 1627 01:28:13,320 --> 01:28:17,280 Speaker 1: And I was like, scares me to death. That can't 1628 01:28:17,280 --> 01:28:20,439 Speaker 1: be my mom, my wife. It just can't be nowhere 1629 01:28:20,439 --> 01:28:23,040 Speaker 1: who I love. And she looked at me, she said, 1630 01:28:23,160 --> 01:28:25,480 Speaker 1: do not make the wrong decisions. 1631 01:28:25,479 --> 01:28:32,040 Speaker 2: On chapter eight Recipe for Success, explain this to me 1632 01:28:32,120 --> 01:28:39,280 Speaker 2: before you go. You're not normal. You're not the normal 1633 01:28:40,160 --> 01:28:46,320 Speaker 2: everyday person your age with that much accomplishments. So let's 1634 01:28:46,320 --> 01:28:53,639 Speaker 2: talk about those accomplishments. Okay, uh college degree, yes, sir, 1635 01:28:54,479 --> 01:29:02,360 Speaker 2: master's degree, yes, sir. Teaching at a university author, okay, 1636 01:29:02,840 --> 01:29:09,720 Speaker 2: financial advisor. Did I leave out something? We leave it 1637 01:29:09,840 --> 01:29:17,760 Speaker 2: right there. Okay, it's so tell me give me the 1638 01:29:17,760 --> 01:29:25,000 Speaker 2: recipe that made you take life seriously so young. 1639 01:29:27,080 --> 01:29:30,520 Speaker 1: I think for me, if I'm being honest and truthful, 1640 01:29:31,439 --> 01:29:36,760 Speaker 1: the very first thing is I saw my parents struggle 1641 01:29:36,840 --> 01:29:41,840 Speaker 1: and work hard, and I didn't want that from my 1642 01:29:41,960 --> 01:29:49,320 Speaker 1: life moving forward too. I'm just being honest, Bishop. I 1643 01:29:49,360 --> 01:29:56,640 Speaker 1: saw other people have things that I wanted, and I 1644 01:29:56,640 --> 01:30:03,120 Speaker 1: said I want that. Three, I'm being completely transparent. I 1645 01:30:03,160 --> 01:30:05,960 Speaker 1: got into the rooms. You know how many rooms I've 1646 01:30:06,000 --> 01:30:08,600 Speaker 1: been in with you, Bishop, and you probably didn't recognize me. 1647 01:30:10,080 --> 01:30:12,200 Speaker 1: How many times I was just sneaking to the back 1648 01:30:12,360 --> 01:30:16,960 Speaker 1: of your conferences, your meetings, and I would just listen. 1649 01:30:17,360 --> 01:30:19,040 Speaker 1: And I used to tell myself, and I think we 1650 01:30:19,080 --> 01:30:22,040 Speaker 1: hear this often, but it's so so so important that 1651 01:30:22,160 --> 01:30:25,320 Speaker 1: it's I wanted to get into the room to see 1652 01:30:25,320 --> 01:30:28,680 Speaker 1: how you were moving, to see how these other millionaires 1653 01:30:28,680 --> 01:30:31,479 Speaker 1: are moving. And I would take notes and I will 1654 01:30:31,520 --> 01:30:35,280 Speaker 1: go home and I wouldn't try to be you. I was, okay, wait, 1655 01:30:35,360 --> 01:30:37,519 Speaker 1: what can I take from this? Room that I learned 1656 01:30:37,560 --> 01:30:39,880 Speaker 1: in today, and how can I apply that to my life. 1657 01:30:41,040 --> 01:30:43,479 Speaker 1: I wouldn't go back and look at in my days 1658 01:30:43,520 --> 01:30:48,200 Speaker 1: and time TV and the celebrities on TV, because that 1659 01:30:48,360 --> 01:30:50,920 Speaker 1: wasn't the life that I wanted. I wanted to get 1660 01:30:50,920 --> 01:30:53,000 Speaker 1: into rooms with the people who were living the lifestyle 1661 01:30:53,040 --> 01:30:55,280 Speaker 1: that I wanted to live, who was making an impact 1662 01:30:55,560 --> 01:30:57,840 Speaker 1: and booming. And then I started building the relationships and 1663 01:30:57,880 --> 01:31:00,600 Speaker 1: they started getting into your rooms and having conversations with you. 1664 01:31:00,920 --> 01:31:05,519 Speaker 1: But I shifted because I got into the rooms. I say, 1665 01:31:05,600 --> 01:31:07,080 Speaker 1: you know what, I do not want to be like 1666 01:31:07,200 --> 01:31:09,639 Speaker 1: my mom and dad. I do not want that. I 1667 01:31:09,720 --> 01:31:12,439 Speaker 1: love them, I'm grateful for them. They gave me the 1668 01:31:12,479 --> 01:31:15,559 Speaker 1: best life that they could have given me. But they 1669 01:31:15,600 --> 01:31:17,880 Speaker 1: worked three jobs. My mama would get off from her 1670 01:31:17,920 --> 01:31:20,960 Speaker 1: eight to five job, go work at Kmart back then 1671 01:31:21,160 --> 01:31:24,160 Speaker 1: after k Mart should go work for the Christian Brien bookstore, 1672 01:31:24,360 --> 01:31:26,600 Speaker 1: and then on Christmas she'll get another job just to 1673 01:31:26,640 --> 01:31:28,920 Speaker 1: make sure we had a decent Christmas. And I'm like, 1674 01:31:29,200 --> 01:31:31,200 Speaker 1: I saw my mom work hard. I'm like, I want 1675 01:31:31,200 --> 01:31:34,960 Speaker 1: to work smart with a little bit of hard, So 1676 01:31:35,000 --> 01:31:37,679 Speaker 1: how do I do this? And business? I'm seeing you 1677 01:31:37,800 --> 01:31:42,240 Speaker 1: just you're Pastory you're creating movies, You're creating this. I'm like, wait, wait, wait, 1678 01:31:42,439 --> 01:31:45,040 Speaker 1: how's he doing all this? And he doesn't look like 1679 01:31:45,320 --> 01:31:48,599 Speaker 1: he's working too too hard. But then I started noticing, Okay, 1680 01:31:48,600 --> 01:31:51,400 Speaker 1: he got this relationship, he has that relationship, he has 1681 01:31:51,479 --> 01:31:55,160 Speaker 1: this person. He was like, man, Beschal, there's so many 1682 01:31:55,200 --> 01:31:57,720 Speaker 1: things that you said that I don't know if you 1683 01:31:57,760 --> 01:32:01,040 Speaker 1: remember what you said. But one time he was like, man, 1684 01:32:01,080 --> 01:32:03,640 Speaker 1: I was driving this car and I didn't buy it. 1685 01:32:03,680 --> 01:32:06,639 Speaker 1: I knew the owner. He let me drive it. I said, wait, wait, 1686 01:32:06,720 --> 01:32:08,880 Speaker 1: I need to know the owner. Then I need to 1687 01:32:08,920 --> 01:32:11,360 Speaker 1: know the people who can open up the doors and 1688 01:32:11,439 --> 01:32:13,200 Speaker 1: put me in the room and give me the right education. 1689 01:32:13,640 --> 01:32:15,880 Speaker 1: So that's how I got where I'm at today, and 1690 01:32:15,920 --> 01:32:20,639 Speaker 1: that's why I'm so passionate about being a professor, because 1691 01:32:20,880 --> 01:32:23,960 Speaker 1: I'm when I'm in a classroom, Bishop, I'm not just teaching. 1692 01:32:24,520 --> 01:32:28,639 Speaker 1: I'm taking them to banks. I'm taking I'm bringing investors in. 1693 01:32:29,040 --> 01:32:33,040 Speaker 1: I'm bringing entrepreneurs in. I'm having them write out business 1694 01:32:33,160 --> 01:32:37,360 Speaker 1: plans and business ideas, and we're giving them scholarships. We're 1695 01:32:37,360 --> 01:32:40,960 Speaker 1: giving them access to capital to go start their business. 1696 01:32:41,080 --> 01:32:45,400 Speaker 1: At twenty. Because I understand the importance of being inside 1697 01:32:45,439 --> 01:32:49,240 Speaker 1: the room and exposing them earlier. So I'm only here 1698 01:32:49,640 --> 01:32:53,000 Speaker 1: because I was exposed to people like yourself and other 1699 01:32:53,040 --> 01:32:55,839 Speaker 1: people in the world that I'm on name, but it's 1700 01:32:56,280 --> 01:32:59,800 Speaker 1: I'm here, and I had this passion because of that 1701 01:33:00,000 --> 01:33:02,160 Speaker 1: atmosphere that I've been in, and I just I want 1702 01:33:02,200 --> 01:33:04,800 Speaker 1: to do better, but at the same time, I want 1703 01:33:04,840 --> 01:33:07,639 Speaker 1: to do better so that the generation following me can 1704 01:33:07,680 --> 01:33:08,360 Speaker 1: do much better. 1705 01:33:08,920 --> 01:33:11,720 Speaker 2: Thank you for that. I hope you take heed to that. 1706 01:33:12,560 --> 01:33:16,559 Speaker 2: Maybe you're encouraged by it, maybe you're discouraged by it. 1707 01:33:16,600 --> 01:33:18,760 Speaker 2: Maybe you think it's too late. It's never too late. 1708 01:33:19,800 --> 01:33:22,799 Speaker 2: Colonel Sanders was in his sixties when they started KFC. 1709 01:33:24,080 --> 01:33:26,200 Speaker 2: Kathy Hughes was in the middle of her life when 1710 01:33:26,200 --> 01:33:29,040 Speaker 2: she started Radio one. There's all kinds of people who 1711 01:33:29,080 --> 01:33:32,639 Speaker 2: did things late in life and still succeeded. Don't use 1712 01:33:32,680 --> 01:33:37,080 Speaker 2: it as a point of discouragement. I'm a believer. I'm 1713 01:33:37,120 --> 01:33:40,200 Speaker 2: a Christian. I don't care what your faith might be, 1714 01:33:40,320 --> 01:33:47,200 Speaker 2: but mine is christ. God, give me the plan that 1715 01:33:47,280 --> 01:33:50,400 Speaker 2: you have designed for my life, yes, sir, and let 1716 01:33:50,479 --> 01:33:55,680 Speaker 2: me live it to the fullest capacity possible, so that 1717 01:33:55,720 --> 01:33:58,600 Speaker 2: when I get to the end of my life, you 1718 01:33:58,640 --> 01:34:01,799 Speaker 2: will say, well, done waste on the amount of talent 1719 01:34:01,960 --> 01:34:05,599 Speaker 2: you've given me, Yes, sir, I did not waste, yes sir, 1720 01:34:05,680 --> 01:34:08,479 Speaker 2: what you gave me, Yes sir. And then go to work. 1721 01:34:08,520 --> 01:34:11,920 Speaker 2: Don't stay on your kneeds. Get up and go to 1722 01:34:11,960 --> 01:34:16,679 Speaker 2: work to find that plan and work that plan until 1723 01:34:16,760 --> 01:34:22,280 Speaker 2: you see the end result that he promised. Chapter nine. 1724 01:34:23,080 --> 01:34:28,599 Speaker 2: Dating budget. You say a person saying makes a guy 1725 01:34:28,640 --> 01:34:32,960 Speaker 2: makes one hundred thousand dollars a year and he wants 1726 01:34:33,000 --> 01:34:35,759 Speaker 2: to take a woman on a date. One hundred thousand 1727 01:34:35,800 --> 01:34:40,280 Speaker 2: dollars a year is not what it used to be, no, sir, okay, 1728 01:34:40,040 --> 01:34:44,160 Speaker 2: but it's a blessing. It is. It is what do 1729 01:34:44,240 --> 01:34:48,760 Speaker 2: you think he ought to spend plan to spend on 1730 01:34:48,760 --> 01:34:49,559 Speaker 2: the evening out? 1731 01:34:49,640 --> 01:34:53,360 Speaker 1: Ooh, Bishop, you're gonna get me in trouble. You know, 1732 01:34:53,400 --> 01:34:57,160 Speaker 1: here's my philosophy, and that bishop is I would definitely say, 1733 01:34:57,160 --> 01:34:59,080 Speaker 1: if we look at it, eight one hundred thousand dollars 1734 01:34:59,080 --> 01:35:01,719 Speaker 1: a day, it's three hundred and thirty three dollars a month, 1735 01:35:01,960 --> 01:35:04,479 Speaker 1: with the average rent being right around fifteen hundred and 1736 01:35:04,560 --> 01:35:06,880 Speaker 1: twenty five hundred dollars a month, depending on the city 1737 01:35:06,920 --> 01:35:09,840 Speaker 1: that you're in and looking at your expenses, it's going 1738 01:35:09,920 --> 01:35:12,360 Speaker 1: to leave you, possibly depending how much that you have 1739 01:35:12,439 --> 01:35:15,920 Speaker 1: with about three thousand dollars in margin. Right, I do 1740 01:35:16,000 --> 01:35:19,280 Speaker 1: not want in today's day in time, I don't want 1741 01:35:19,439 --> 01:35:22,639 Speaker 1: men to invest so much into tryouts that they cannot 1742 01:35:22,640 --> 01:35:26,479 Speaker 1: show up for the finals. Meaning we spent all this 1743 01:35:26,640 --> 01:35:29,960 Speaker 1: money on this young lady, that young lady, this young lady. 1744 01:35:29,960 --> 01:35:32,680 Speaker 1: Then when we get our wife, we can't provide the 1745 01:35:32,800 --> 01:35:35,320 Speaker 1: lifestyle that we want to provide for her because we 1746 01:35:35,360 --> 01:35:38,000 Speaker 1: spent it all in tryouts. We didn't say we didn't invest, 1747 01:35:38,000 --> 01:35:40,519 Speaker 1: wouldn't properly do it. So my philosophy when it comes 1748 01:35:40,520 --> 01:35:42,680 Speaker 1: to dating is in the first couple of days and 1749 01:35:42,720 --> 01:35:46,120 Speaker 1: again you're married, Bishop. This is not relationship advice because 1750 01:35:46,120 --> 01:35:50,280 Speaker 1: I'm single, right, But my philosophy is no more than 1751 01:35:50,320 --> 01:35:52,639 Speaker 1: one hundred, one hundred fifty dollars in the first few days. 1752 01:35:53,040 --> 01:35:55,040 Speaker 1: Spend that time to get to know where. So that 1753 01:35:55,120 --> 01:35:57,880 Speaker 1: way when you fai philazip okay, she is the one 1754 01:35:58,080 --> 01:35:59,960 Speaker 1: did okay, Bishop, we can step up and start having 1755 01:36:00,080 --> 01:36:02,519 Speaker 1: been a good time right, and start spending little bit 1756 01:36:02,520 --> 01:36:04,280 Speaker 1: more money. But I really want us to be good 1757 01:36:04,479 --> 01:36:07,880 Speaker 1: stewards of our season, whether you're in the single season, 1758 01:36:07,960 --> 01:36:11,040 Speaker 1: engaged season, marriage season, when it comes to money, because 1759 01:36:11,160 --> 01:36:14,360 Speaker 1: my biggest thing what I'm seeing when it comes to divorce, 1760 01:36:14,640 --> 01:36:18,360 Speaker 1: and you've counseled so many people, Bishop, way more than me, 1761 01:36:18,800 --> 01:36:20,880 Speaker 1: But when they come to me, they're coming to me 1762 01:36:21,200 --> 01:36:24,600 Speaker 1: arguing about money, and I'm like, well, wait, what were 1763 01:36:24,640 --> 01:36:26,000 Speaker 1: you doing when you were single? What were you doing 1764 01:36:26,000 --> 01:36:27,640 Speaker 1: when you're singing with your money? So we can just 1765 01:36:27,680 --> 01:36:31,839 Speaker 1: be better stewards with our money when we're single than Bishop. 1766 01:36:31,880 --> 01:36:33,559 Speaker 1: I think it will help the marriage. It's not going 1767 01:36:33,600 --> 01:36:35,799 Speaker 1: to fix it, but it definitely will help the marriage. 1768 01:36:36,000 --> 01:36:40,719 Speaker 2: You know, I basically agree with that. I also think 1769 01:36:41,280 --> 01:36:43,439 Speaker 2: that one of the things that's gone out of style 1770 01:36:43,680 --> 01:36:48,439 Speaker 2: is innovation. Come on, vision, it isn't about how much 1771 01:36:48,520 --> 01:36:50,800 Speaker 2: money you spend, It's about how much fun you have. 1772 01:36:52,240 --> 01:36:56,880 Speaker 2: So let's go horseback riding, don't say that, Let's go 1773 01:36:57,320 --> 01:37:00,760 Speaker 2: let's go camping in the woods, camping, Yeah, let's with 1774 01:37:01,920 --> 01:37:05,879 Speaker 2: flies around, yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah yeah. Let's let's 1775 01:37:06,000 --> 01:37:09,800 Speaker 2: let's go someplace that neither one of us would never 1776 01:37:10,200 --> 01:37:15,000 Speaker 2: ever go to experience something we would never ever experience, 1777 01:37:15,800 --> 01:37:18,160 Speaker 2: to learn something about each other that we would never 1778 01:37:18,240 --> 01:37:22,839 Speaker 2: ever learn. Because yes, sir, because if all I learned 1779 01:37:23,520 --> 01:37:26,559 Speaker 2: is how much money you got. Yeah, I'm not marrying 1780 01:37:26,560 --> 01:37:30,520 Speaker 2: your checkbooks, Bishop, I'm marrying your creativity. 1781 01:37:31,640 --> 01:37:33,080 Speaker 1: Bishop. You know I got in trouble. 1782 01:37:33,080 --> 01:37:33,200 Speaker 2: One. 1783 01:37:33,280 --> 01:37:35,080 Speaker 1: I can't say it in trouble. One of the best 1784 01:37:35,720 --> 01:37:39,720 Speaker 1: days that I did was groupon thirty five dollars and 1785 01:37:39,800 --> 01:37:41,600 Speaker 1: she never knew. But then when I told her how 1786 01:37:41,680 --> 01:37:46,120 Speaker 1: much she was, I didn't see her again. We'll leave it. 1787 01:37:46,120 --> 01:37:51,760 Speaker 2: There, okay, which is a good thing. It could be, 1788 01:37:51,880 --> 01:37:55,559 Speaker 2: which is is a good thing. If if, if, if 1789 01:37:56,640 --> 01:38:03,000 Speaker 2: finances deter you that if we ever have a struggle, 1790 01:38:03,120 --> 01:38:05,880 Speaker 2: you will leave me. Then, So if you're going to 1791 01:38:06,000 --> 01:38:07,040 Speaker 2: leave me, leave me now. 1792 01:38:08,000 --> 01:38:10,639 Speaker 1: I think my biggest thing, Bishop, is I just want 1793 01:38:10,640 --> 01:38:12,519 Speaker 1: God to see that I could be a good story 1794 01:38:12,520 --> 01:38:15,519 Speaker 1: of my finances here and if I practice it during 1795 01:38:15,520 --> 01:38:18,280 Speaker 1: the season, it's going to flow over into my marriage. 1796 01:38:18,360 --> 01:38:21,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not see understand this. I'm not talking about 1797 01:38:21,880 --> 01:38:25,000 Speaker 2: being cheaper, Cindya, I've never been neither breed. I'm talking 1798 01:38:25,040 --> 01:38:28,880 Speaker 2: about being creative. I'm talking about being original. I'm talking 1799 01:38:28,920 --> 01:38:32,840 Speaker 2: about train rides. I'm talking about doing things that other 1800 01:38:32,880 --> 01:38:35,920 Speaker 2: people don't do, that are cool, that are smart. I'm 1801 01:38:35,920 --> 01:38:39,440 Speaker 2: talking about going out to the lake with a basket 1802 01:38:39,720 --> 01:38:42,959 Speaker 2: and some music. And listening at some music and having 1803 01:38:43,000 --> 01:38:46,200 Speaker 2: a nice stning. It doesn't always have to be a 1804 01:38:46,520 --> 01:38:48,880 Speaker 2: seven star hotel restaurant. 1805 01:38:48,960 --> 01:38:52,599 Speaker 1: Yes, it doesn't have to be that all the time, yes, sir. 1806 01:38:52,640 --> 01:38:57,439 Speaker 2: And I think sometimes what makes marriages, helps marriages to 1807 01:38:57,600 --> 01:39:00,640 Speaker 2: last is innovation and antipathy. 1808 01:39:00,840 --> 01:39:04,120 Speaker 1: Yes, sir, would you agree Bishop that if you start 1809 01:39:04,120 --> 01:39:06,880 Speaker 1: off strong in the very beginning, now you have to 1810 01:39:07,080 --> 01:39:09,280 Speaker 1: you got to beat that moving forward, and then that 1811 01:39:09,360 --> 01:39:10,640 Speaker 1: it hurts you financially. 1812 01:39:10,960 --> 01:39:15,240 Speaker 2: You know, it's so funny because the emphasis on capital 1813 01:39:15,439 --> 01:39:21,479 Speaker 2: is new. We didn't have that in our day. In 1814 01:39:21,560 --> 01:39:25,320 Speaker 2: our day, most and generally the man was the provider. Yes, okay. 1815 01:39:25,720 --> 01:39:31,040 Speaker 2: So we weren't in a gender war to see who 1816 01:39:31,080 --> 01:39:36,880 Speaker 2: made the most money. We were in a partnership and 1817 01:39:37,040 --> 01:39:40,599 Speaker 2: we're still in a partnership today. Fact. Okay. So there 1818 01:39:40,600 --> 01:39:42,920 Speaker 2: are certain things my wife does better than me, sir, 1819 01:39:43,560 --> 01:39:47,559 Speaker 2: I want her to do them, Okay, please do them? 1820 01:39:47,600 --> 01:39:47,960 Speaker 1: Please. 1821 01:39:48,160 --> 01:39:50,160 Speaker 2: There are other things that I do better than her. 1822 01:39:50,880 --> 01:39:53,280 Speaker 2: She wants me to do them, and we make a 1823 01:39:53,400 --> 01:39:57,120 Speaker 2: rule of not treading on each other's territory. So if 1824 01:39:57,160 --> 01:40:01,960 Speaker 2: she's in charge of this event, don't bring the questions 1825 01:40:02,000 --> 01:40:05,240 Speaker 2: to me. I direct them to her. Because that's not 1826 01:40:05,280 --> 01:40:12,280 Speaker 2: going to work out well. Respecting the partnership creates a 1827 01:40:12,360 --> 01:40:17,400 Speaker 2: teamwork from which a family is born, from which a 1828 01:40:17,479 --> 01:40:22,160 Speaker 2: community is born, from which a country is developed. But 1829 01:40:22,280 --> 01:40:24,920 Speaker 2: if you don't get down there on that ground level 1830 01:40:25,120 --> 01:40:31,879 Speaker 2: zero of everything not being transactional, and we become marriage 1831 01:40:31,960 --> 01:40:36,840 Speaker 2: becomes about capital alone, and whoever makes the most money 1832 01:40:36,920 --> 01:40:43,240 Speaker 2: is the boss. What happens if you get sick, What 1833 01:40:44,080 --> 01:40:48,000 Speaker 2: happens if you develop a disease? What happens if an affliction? 1834 01:40:48,160 --> 01:40:50,400 Speaker 2: So let's not have the vowels. Let's get rid of 1835 01:40:50,439 --> 01:40:52,880 Speaker 2: all the vowels, because none of the vowels are going 1836 01:40:52,960 --> 01:40:54,919 Speaker 2: to fit if the paycheck stops. 1837 01:40:55,400 --> 01:40:56,920 Speaker 1: This should be talking good. 1838 01:40:57,720 --> 01:41:02,000 Speaker 2: Three hundred and fifty thousand women lost their job their 1839 01:41:02,320 --> 01:41:05,280 Speaker 2: job in the last couple of months. Yes, sir, And 1840 01:41:05,400 --> 01:41:09,360 Speaker 2: so if it's about money, the kids and the man 1841 01:41:09,360 --> 01:41:09,519 Speaker 2: are go. 1842 01:41:11,000 --> 01:41:13,800 Speaker 1: You know a b and please quip if I'm wrong, 1843 01:41:14,840 --> 01:41:17,559 Speaker 1: But would you say that in today's day and time, 1844 01:41:18,000 --> 01:41:22,559 Speaker 1: if we could really partner together, understand her strength, understand 1845 01:41:22,600 --> 01:41:24,760 Speaker 1: my strength, we come together and we put all of 1846 01:41:24,760 --> 01:41:28,600 Speaker 1: our resources into one bucket. This generation we have the 1847 01:41:28,640 --> 01:41:32,960 Speaker 1: capability of building wealth faster than your generation. Oh, absolutely, 1848 01:41:33,040 --> 01:41:37,080 Speaker 1: because your generation, you were the provider. Yeah, this generation 1849 01:41:37,400 --> 01:41:40,439 Speaker 1: we're seeing ladies are educated. They were once the fastest 1850 01:41:40,439 --> 01:41:44,240 Speaker 1: growing entrepreneur. So it's like, wait a minute, Okay, I'm 1851 01:41:44,240 --> 01:41:45,920 Speaker 1: gonna step up and do my part as a man. 1852 01:41:46,479 --> 01:41:48,760 Speaker 1: But the gifts and the talents that God gave you, 1853 01:41:48,800 --> 01:41:51,480 Speaker 1: if it's generating income, let's bring all of our resources 1854 01:41:51,479 --> 01:41:54,640 Speaker 1: together and let's strategize. I do believe that, you know, 1855 01:41:55,439 --> 01:41:58,600 Speaker 1: the living, the living should be based based off of 1856 01:41:58,680 --> 01:42:02,240 Speaker 1: one set of income, right, But how do we strategize 1857 01:42:02,240 --> 01:42:05,600 Speaker 1: again and we build wealth together because we could do 1858 01:42:05,640 --> 01:42:08,120 Speaker 1: it so much faster and get so much more quicker 1859 01:42:08,120 --> 01:42:10,880 Speaker 1: than our parents and grandparents, so we can set up 1860 01:42:10,880 --> 01:42:14,280 Speaker 1: our children. But I just think in this generation is 1861 01:42:14,280 --> 01:42:16,120 Speaker 1: to gender wars. I don't want to do this. I 1862 01:42:16,160 --> 01:42:18,240 Speaker 1: don't want to do that. Or guys, we just want 1863 01:42:18,240 --> 01:42:21,040 Speaker 1: to spend a whole lot of money on days. But Bishop, 1864 01:42:21,160 --> 01:42:24,479 Speaker 1: and I'll say this, I'm guilty of it. I bought 1865 01:42:24,479 --> 01:42:27,479 Speaker 1: a whole car because I wanted to impress a woman. 1866 01:42:28,800 --> 01:42:33,360 Speaker 1: I bought a whole car, and she gone gone, she 1867 01:42:33,479 --> 01:42:36,720 Speaker 1: got in my car. It was paid for, Bishop, I 1868 01:42:36,760 --> 01:42:41,960 Speaker 1: financed that one, paid it off. I paid it off 1869 01:42:42,000 --> 01:42:46,960 Speaker 1: over four years had no AC and she said, how 1870 01:42:46,960 --> 01:42:48,560 Speaker 1: are you Anthony nil? You ain't got no a C. 1871 01:42:51,640 --> 01:42:53,599 Speaker 1: And I was like in my head, I was like, 1872 01:42:54,880 --> 01:42:57,400 Speaker 1: how am i Anthony on nil with no AC? Then 1873 01:42:57,560 --> 01:43:00,880 Speaker 1: next day went and bought a car the very next 1874 01:43:00,960 --> 01:43:04,479 Speaker 1: day and it wasn't in my budget, and I said, 1875 01:43:04,520 --> 01:43:08,600 Speaker 1: what am I doing? And the very next week she 1876 01:43:08,720 --> 01:43:11,920 Speaker 1: went back to her her son's father, and I done 1877 01:43:11,960 --> 01:43:14,720 Speaker 1: bought the car. And I just think at the end 1878 01:43:14,720 --> 01:43:16,840 Speaker 1: of the day, when we have a vision, when we 1879 01:43:16,880 --> 01:43:20,559 Speaker 1: have a budget, when we have a strategy, we have 1880 01:43:20,640 --> 01:43:23,360 Speaker 1: to learn to stick to that strategy no matter who 1881 01:43:23,400 --> 01:43:25,559 Speaker 1: comes into it. Whoever comes into it should help it, 1882 01:43:25,600 --> 01:43:30,479 Speaker 1: whether that's relationship, business, partner, job, careers, whatever that is, 1883 01:43:30,880 --> 01:43:33,320 Speaker 1: it should help you catapult forward. And when I ended 1884 01:43:33,400 --> 01:43:35,760 Speaker 1: up doing Bishop, I ended up selling that car and 1885 01:43:35,840 --> 01:43:38,200 Speaker 1: I went back down to just a regular cheap cash 1886 01:43:38,240 --> 01:43:40,519 Speaker 1: car because I didn't have any assets at the times. 1887 01:43:40,560 --> 01:43:44,000 Speaker 1: I didn't I wasn't a homeowner, I wasn't investing properly. 1888 01:43:44,439 --> 01:43:47,560 Speaker 1: So I sold that and started building things correctly. 1889 01:43:48,080 --> 01:43:52,680 Speaker 2: You know, what what we're talking about is values. Mm mm, 1890 01:43:52,800 --> 01:43:57,840 Speaker 2: what do you value? And uh I if if it's 1891 01:43:57,960 --> 01:44:03,479 Speaker 2: not me, yes, sir, if it's not me. Okay, We're 1892 01:44:03,479 --> 01:44:07,320 Speaker 2: not building off of anything that's gonna last because the 1893 01:44:07,360 --> 01:44:12,640 Speaker 2: car's not gonna last that long. Okay, okay, it's got 1894 01:44:12,800 --> 01:44:16,920 Speaker 2: to be about her. Yes, So when we had the 1895 01:44:16,960 --> 01:44:19,920 Speaker 2: car wreck and her her ankle was broken, they said 1896 01:44:19,920 --> 01:44:26,960 Speaker 2: she'd never walk again. I didn't walk away. When I 1897 01:44:27,000 --> 01:44:31,120 Speaker 2: had a massive heart attack. She sat beside me for 1898 01:44:31,240 --> 01:44:35,960 Speaker 2: three days and nights and never left my side. Every 1899 01:44:36,000 --> 01:44:38,200 Speaker 2: time I looked up, she was looking down at me. 1900 01:44:38,360 --> 01:44:43,240 Speaker 2: Come on, you're gonna run into so many hardships, Burying children, 1901 01:44:43,920 --> 01:44:48,000 Speaker 2: burying your parents, Choosing somebody whose hand you want to 1902 01:44:48,040 --> 01:44:51,519 Speaker 2: hold when you lower your mama's body into the ground, 1903 01:44:52,040 --> 01:44:58,559 Speaker 2: that's what we're talking about. Who whose hand you want 1904 01:44:58,600 --> 01:45:03,599 Speaker 2: to hold when you got a breach, birth or still born. 1905 01:45:06,200 --> 01:45:08,920 Speaker 2: Who do you want to be with you when they 1906 01:45:09,280 --> 01:45:12,200 Speaker 2: accuse you of something on your job and you end 1907 01:45:12,320 --> 01:45:16,599 Speaker 2: up going to court and you can't sleep for three 1908 01:45:16,680 --> 01:45:20,639 Speaker 2: days from four days. Who's going to be the person 1909 01:45:21,280 --> 01:45:25,719 Speaker 2: who sticks with you when you get laid off, when 1910 01:45:25,720 --> 01:45:30,680 Speaker 2: you get fired, when you're on dialysis. You're not going 1911 01:45:30,760 --> 01:45:37,320 Speaker 2: to stay thirty and fine and all of that stuff 1912 01:45:37,439 --> 01:45:41,280 Speaker 2: is going to change, Yes, sir, and I think we 1913 01:45:41,360 --> 01:45:45,439 Speaker 2: don't have the right values. Now, you know, we have 1914 01:45:45,520 --> 01:45:48,640 Speaker 2: our preferences. We all do. And you want somebody that 1915 01:45:48,640 --> 01:45:52,000 Speaker 2: you're attracted to, But that's not the only thing to consider, 1916 01:45:52,360 --> 01:45:57,920 Speaker 2: because you can be an attractive food. Okay, you can 1917 01:45:57,960 --> 01:46:01,400 Speaker 2: be an attractive food and end up drowning all the 1918 01:46:01,520 --> 01:46:07,320 Speaker 2: kids in the bathdab okay, yes, crazy, it's not prejudice necessary. 1919 01:46:07,360 --> 01:46:09,040 Speaker 1: It will go anywhere, yes, sir. 1920 01:46:09,560 --> 01:46:11,639 Speaker 2: So there's a whole lot that we have to think 1921 01:46:11,680 --> 01:46:14,559 Speaker 2: about when we start talking about values, Yes, sir, And 1922 01:46:14,640 --> 01:46:16,600 Speaker 2: I think a lot of those values start with the 1923 01:46:16,600 --> 01:46:19,280 Speaker 2: inside and flow out to the outside and not the 1924 01:46:19,360 --> 01:46:27,599 Speaker 2: other way around. Good Chapter ten, Best Investment. Thinking back 1925 01:46:27,600 --> 01:46:31,599 Speaker 2: over your life and all your experiences and the risk 1926 01:46:31,680 --> 01:46:34,680 Speaker 2: and the fear and the stand up all night and 1927 01:46:34,760 --> 01:46:39,240 Speaker 2: checking numbers and reading and doing the research. What was 1928 01:46:39,280 --> 01:46:42,000 Speaker 2: the best investment you ever made in your life? And 1929 01:46:42,120 --> 01:46:44,400 Speaker 2: why do you pick that investment? Now? 1930 01:46:44,439 --> 01:46:46,720 Speaker 1: Are you going to ask me from a financial perspective 1931 01:46:46,800 --> 01:46:49,559 Speaker 1: or you just period which one you want? 1932 01:46:49,680 --> 01:46:52,800 Speaker 2: Let's go financial. We've been talking financial. 1933 01:46:52,479 --> 01:46:58,080 Speaker 1: Land, land land the best investment. Reason why I say 1934 01:46:58,120 --> 01:47:01,880 Speaker 1: that is because when I think of investing, it's not 1935 01:47:01,920 --> 01:47:09,120 Speaker 1: an immediate return for me. It is longevity. When God left, 1936 01:47:09,120 --> 01:47:11,000 Speaker 1: he couldn't make any more land. We can't make any 1937 01:47:11,000 --> 01:47:14,760 Speaker 1: more land. And I've been around again. I've been in 1938 01:47:14,840 --> 01:47:20,200 Speaker 1: rooms with people who paid ten million dollars for land 1939 01:47:20,640 --> 01:47:24,679 Speaker 1: that a great ground for the bought thirty years ago, 1940 01:47:24,840 --> 01:47:28,840 Speaker 1: and he made has spent two hundred thousand. And I'm like, 1941 01:47:29,720 --> 01:47:33,920 Speaker 1: when I leave, I have land, and inside my state 1942 01:47:34,080 --> 01:47:38,160 Speaker 1: Bishop my children can't touch that. Their children can touch 1943 01:47:38,200 --> 01:47:41,840 Speaker 1: the land, And it feels so good to me that 1944 01:47:42,200 --> 01:47:45,000 Speaker 1: here it is. Net Worth is not just about you know, 1945 01:47:45,400 --> 01:47:47,960 Speaker 1: the funds you can touch, It is about what all 1946 01:47:48,040 --> 01:47:51,240 Speaker 1: assets do you have, So that land still goes towards 1947 01:47:51,280 --> 01:47:53,960 Speaker 1: my net worth. But it feels so good to me 1948 01:47:54,680 --> 01:47:58,080 Speaker 1: that I got the education, that my children's children children 1949 01:47:58,080 --> 01:48:01,160 Speaker 1: would know my name because I left them something. And 1950 01:48:01,200 --> 01:48:03,679 Speaker 1: to me, that is one of the best investments ever made, 1951 01:48:03,680 --> 01:48:06,639 Speaker 1: because I smile on the inside knowing that when I leave, 1952 01:48:07,880 --> 01:48:11,200 Speaker 1: young people who I've never met will know my name. 1953 01:48:11,960 --> 01:48:16,320 Speaker 2: So if land and or real estate, it's the best 1954 01:48:16,360 --> 01:48:19,160 Speaker 2: investment you ever made. And if you're going to take 1955 01:48:19,200 --> 01:48:24,719 Speaker 2: that seriously listening at our podcast today, investigate the land 1956 01:48:24,800 --> 01:48:28,160 Speaker 2: to make sure that the long range plans of the 1957 01:48:28,160 --> 01:48:31,080 Speaker 2: city or the town that you live in makes that 1958 01:48:31,160 --> 01:48:35,080 Speaker 2: a desirable spot to own, Yes, sir, unless you end 1959 01:48:35,160 --> 01:48:38,599 Speaker 2: up owning land that's in a floodplain. Yes, sir, And 1960 01:48:38,680 --> 01:48:42,400 Speaker 2: you've got one hundred acres of land you cannot use. Yes, 1961 01:48:42,520 --> 01:48:46,080 Speaker 2: that comes from not doing your research. But at your core, 1962 01:48:46,680 --> 01:48:49,000 Speaker 2: I agree with you. Yes, sir, I agree with you. 1963 01:48:49,439 --> 01:48:55,040 Speaker 2: Dirt over cash all day long, all day, all day long, 1964 01:48:55,240 --> 01:48:57,960 Speaker 2: all day. There is no end to the value, Yes, sir, 1965 01:48:58,040 --> 01:49:02,240 Speaker 2: that you can get and by by when it's cheap, Yes, sir, 1966 01:49:02,720 --> 01:49:10,640 Speaker 2: and sell it when it's hot. Oh my gosh, you 1967 01:49:10,680 --> 01:49:11,599 Speaker 2: got real pleasure. 1968 01:49:11,880 --> 01:49:13,760 Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you you. 1969 01:49:15,200 --> 01:49:17,679 Speaker 2: Hey, everybody, I want to take this time to thank 1970 01:49:17,760 --> 01:49:22,480 Speaker 2: you for watching the Next Chapter podcast. If this conversation 1971 01:49:22,680 --> 01:49:27,160 Speaker 2: inspired you, helped you reflect on an idea, or spark 1972 01:49:27,240 --> 01:49:31,439 Speaker 2: something new inside of you, make sure to like, comment, 1973 01:49:31,880 --> 01:49:38,679 Speaker 2: and subscribe so you don't miss future episodes. Remember, life 1974 01:49:38,840 --> 01:49:42,960 Speaker 2: isn't about how you begin, it's about how you finished strong, 1975 01:49:43,680 --> 01:49:49,639 Speaker 2: So start your next chapter with us right here. Every 1976 01:49:49,680 --> 01:49:50,120 Speaker 2: week