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Speaker 1: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who

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Speaker 1: talk back. What's up, y'all? Thank you for tuning in

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Speaker 1: for a new episode that We Talk Back, a show

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Speaker 1: dedicated to you, niggas and thees hosl Hey girl, Hey girl,

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Speaker 1: how y'all doing this? Me official Tim Bam once again.

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Speaker 1: I love y'all. I love y'all so much. Thank y'all

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Speaker 1: for coming back. We love you. AJ don't tell y'all,

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Speaker 1: but she loves y'all too. I do be loving people. Listen,

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Speaker 1: I but people disappoint you, you know, so I'll be

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Speaker 1: like to tell people how I really feel about them.

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Speaker 1: And he started doing some ship you like, It's like,

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Speaker 1: now I gotta kill you. I never loved you anyway.

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Speaker 1: How's your weekend? It's cool, girl. I um, I did

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Speaker 1: like a little staycation with my friends and family at

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Speaker 1: Kiawa Islands. You know, you know Charleston got like nice

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Speaker 1: little elite islands around here with a white people be

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Speaker 1: dumped off at driving Bentley's and ship. Yeah, that's what

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Speaker 1: I was doing. Was very nice. And the wear a

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Speaker 1: part about it. Here's here's the wear part. They actually

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Speaker 1: import niggas from someplace else. To work on the island.

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Speaker 1: Everybody on people from everybody was from Jamaica. They come

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Speaker 1: on some type of work permit for seasonal hospitality work

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Speaker 1: and they impoured them all over the world. Essentially, I

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Speaker 1: bet you they I bet you they paid the cheaper

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Speaker 1: than somebody from it. So that's what I was asking

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Speaker 1: because Schaulston is expensive, especially the area I live in

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Speaker 1: West Ashley, Like a one bedroom was almost two thousand

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Speaker 1: dollars now a month. They are paying for their housing

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Speaker 1: in the West Ashley for them to work, and they

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Speaker 1: bust them to the island. Interesting, huh. I mean, if y'all,

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Speaker 1: I guess they want like the Caribbean field, but we

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Speaker 1: GEECHI I guess they don't want the ratchet that comes

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Speaker 1: along with I boxed you. So they just import these

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Speaker 1: people who you know, they grew up in hospitality because

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Speaker 1: that's all like the that's the major industry in most

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Speaker 1: of those Caribbean islands. But I feel like that is

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Speaker 1: so wicked and I'm not done with it. That is,

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Speaker 1: I'm not done with it at all. Do some research

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Speaker 1: on the like, I try to see how the funk

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Speaker 1: you can make money off them too. Sorry y'all, No no, no,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna talk about this. A j Hand posted a

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Speaker 1: bathing suit pick to her close friends, and you look

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Speaker 1: so good? Why are you doing posted for everybody to see?

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Speaker 1: Everybody need to see how good you look. I'm like

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Speaker 1: one hole not to hole. Okay, I don't be wanting

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Speaker 1: like that's not my image. Though I wanted like people

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Speaker 1: to give me like the ooze and the odds and like, girl,

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Speaker 1: you look good. I wanted that. Okay, That's obviously why

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Speaker 1: I postal type of pictures. But I don't need that

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Speaker 1: from everybody, just the people I funk with. That's it.

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Speaker 1: Girl post I don't know, maybe maybe not. We'll see

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Speaker 1: I screenshot. I'm gonna posted on your next birthday? What

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Speaker 1: the hell you did? Worry about it? I really didn't

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Speaker 1: do much of anything. Um. It was my cousin Aaron's birthday.

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Speaker 1: She had a little brunch on Sunday, so I went

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Speaker 1: to that. They all went out, but I did not

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Speaker 1: go out. I've just been spending my time. I've been

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Speaker 1: running every day. I've been running every day the past

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Speaker 1: ten days straight. I've been doing at least four or

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Speaker 1: sleeped back in the ponytail. And I ain't been trying

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Speaker 1: get physically. It's this bitch on Instagram and I don't

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Speaker 1: know her pictures, Like she has a body type like mine,

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Speaker 1: and she's been working out for a year and she

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Speaker 1: motivated me right there. That's fact same, I said. But

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Speaker 1: so she's that motivated me. I've been like in there

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Speaker 1: once I'm going to Jamaica next week. Uh so after

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Speaker 1: I get back, that's when I'm going to start incorporating

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Speaker 1: a weight training. Girl. I definitely she I don't know

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Speaker 1: how she came across my timeline. I definitely followed that

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Speaker 1: That's how I felt too. So it's been running every

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Speaker 1: two straight. Yeah, she was amazing. Let's get into the

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Speaker 1: stupid internet news. What happened this uh past weekendes. Did

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Speaker 1: y'all watch the VMAs? Okay, I did see some of this.

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Speaker 1: Solizza was addressing h airy spirits because you know, he

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Speaker 1: she looked like the ship emoji. Just terrible. Yeah, like

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Speaker 1: you're not even funny, Like I mean, he has been funny.

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Speaker 1: some random hate. Even um Mike Epps came for his

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Speaker 1: ass right quick. And the thing is that I wanted

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Speaker 1: to talk about this story in particular because when men,

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Speaker 1: men talk about women like were so shallow dog. When

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Speaker 1: it comes to aesthetics, men are way more visual. Men

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Speaker 1: like him, regardless of what. If Lizza is big, she's

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Speaker 1: a big, pretty ass girl, and I bet I bet

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Speaker 1: But imagine you look like Mike Gap says, he looks sick.

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Speaker 1: I believe because the pictures how he looks on the

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Speaker 1: social media. So imagine you talking crazy about Liz. I

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Speaker 1: didn't like that ship based off apperience and men do

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Speaker 1: that just like me. Did you ever see that skit

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Speaker 1: that Drew Ski did that one time he would like

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Speaker 1: he had a dirty thing my girl, my girl, can't

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Speaker 1: that girl gotta always keep rnning that. Meanwhile, you got

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Speaker 1: dirty fingingails. Just all this nasty ship that men be

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Speaker 1: haven't going on. And y'all just think that women just

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Speaker 1: have to be like this perfect like even if you

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Speaker 1: like it. Yeah, I'm not here for that. You'll need

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Speaker 1: to low y'all standards a little bit. You'll need to

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Speaker 1: y'all need to recognize your hollow level. Men don't know

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Speaker 1: that hollow level. Right. Oh that New Jersey art teacher, Uh,

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Speaker 1: but she's super curvy and they were calling for her

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Speaker 1: we've always had this like perception of what teachers look like,

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Speaker 1: You know, so she doesn't have like the standard body type,

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Speaker 1: that big ass dunk. Maybe you shouldn't wear jackets to class,

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Speaker 1: you know, but it doesn't look like she's wearing that

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Speaker 1: stuff from the pictures I saw her. She wore like

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Speaker 1: can't not feel like Black women we've always gotten that

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Speaker 1: being critiqued on what you had? You can have the

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Speaker 1: it because your body looks different than it. It's a problem,

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Speaker 1: but it's not a problem with the child, because I'm

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Speaker 1: a child in high school. Right. You're a grown adult

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Speaker 1: a sexual way. That don't have nothing to do with me,

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Speaker 1: because why are you sexualizing my body in that way? So,

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Speaker 1: but it's weird to me to think that it's it's

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Speaker 1: remember that news host, she was the black girl as well,

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Speaker 1: very cute, and it was the white women that was

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Speaker 1: watching her ass on TV no more. She's very beautiful,

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Speaker 1: nice body. There was like Funk the Weather because I

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Speaker 1: think she was like the weather girl that you won't

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Speaker 1: All right, tam, So listen you with your man, right,

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Speaker 1: y'all religiously played a lottery together. You love him, at

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Speaker 1: least you think you love him until you finally hit

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Speaker 1: the lottery first, say, I don't know four point two

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Speaker 1: I'm getting. It appends. If I love him like that

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Speaker 1: just helping me. To my eye, it's up, bitch, I

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Speaker 1: might throw him a little pee, right. So, like the

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Speaker 1: story comes from Hollywood Unlocked. So apparently this woman. I

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Speaker 1: think they might be European um because it says she

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Speaker 1: She dumped her boyfriend at four years and cleaning winnings

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Speaker 1: for herself. So she's forty, he's thirty nine, and were

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Speaker 1: living together. Supposedly there was a thing where she's not

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Speaker 1: supposed she doesn't have to pay bills just to play

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Speaker 1: the lottery, and he would cover all the bills, and

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Speaker 1: then once she won the money, she like dipped out

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Speaker 1: Doesn't make sense to me. She should have got it

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Speaker 1: in right. He should have got it in right. You know.

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Speaker 1: Ain't that you can do now? Baby, If she was

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Speaker 1: a decent person, she would give him a definitely. You know.

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Speaker 1: It's just certain people I want to see happy in

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Speaker 1: ball out with. I don't want to just have all

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Speaker 1: somebody I love. Like Man, we're about to ask stupid

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Speaker 1: just dealing with him, and she probably didn't think she

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Speaker 1: would ever really win. Yep, and now she up. As

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Speaker 1: soon as I hit the lottery, I'm going to find

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Speaker 1: Jonathan Major's asks. I'm going to whatever city here, and

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Speaker 1: I'm girl, if you don't stop talking about my boyfriend,

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Speaker 1: what is your problem. You wanna fight, girl? You wanna

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Speaker 1: you wanna? I told you if I want to fight,

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Speaker 1: I tell you I've been running. I've got nothing to

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Speaker 1: has dude? I'm getting stronger, That's all I'm saying. That

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Speaker 1: girl the next listen, don't talk about my man on

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Speaker 1: that happen? Could you're a penis like a blood vessel

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00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:20,480
Speaker 1: because it's you know, erection a long period of time. Well, okay,

422
00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:23,440
Speaker 1: so there's two different things you are talking about. Uh,

423
00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:27,080
Speaker 1: you're talking about an erection that does not go down

424
00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:32,040
Speaker 1: from you've already orgasm. Well, so that rarely happens with

425
00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:35,120
Speaker 1: pills actually, unless you abuse the pills. I mean you're

426
00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:39,680
Speaker 1: taking two, three, four, you know, times the dose, then yeah, maybe,

427
00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:42,440
Speaker 1: but if you're taking the regular even the max dose,

428
00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:46,600
Speaker 1: it rarely happens with pills. Now, one of the other

429
00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:50,280
Speaker 1: ways we treat erectile dysfunction is penile injections, which is

430
00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:53,959
Speaker 1: actually like an injection in the penis of medicine that

431
00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:56,720
Speaker 1: increases blood flow to the penis. And this is for

432
00:25:56,880 --> 00:26:00,400
Speaker 1: patients who actually usually are not doing well with pills.

433
00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:03,919
Speaker 1: Pills aren't working. That has a much higher risk of

434
00:26:04,520 --> 00:26:06,199
Speaker 1: a direction that doesn't go down, which is what we

435
00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:11,000
Speaker 1: call priapism. So those patients, unfortunately sometimes so they'll come

436
00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:12,840
Speaker 1: to my office and I'll give them the first injection

437
00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:16,320
Speaker 1: and I give him a little small injection. I'm like, okay, yeah,

438
00:26:16,400 --> 00:26:19,280
Speaker 1: it worked, and a couple of times unfortunately, and I

439
00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:21,159
Speaker 1: prepped them for this, they've wounded up in the e

440
00:26:21,359 --> 00:26:23,760
Speaker 1: R because they were like Dr Millhouse, I left your office,

441
00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:27,320
Speaker 1: I went straight home, used it and it would not

442
00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:29,879
Speaker 1: go down and it's still up. So they had to

443
00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:31,959
Speaker 1: go to the e R. And when you have an

444
00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:35,680
Speaker 1: erection that's lasting three four hours and not going down,

445
00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:39,440
Speaker 1: it's number one painful. It is not a plus anymore.

446
00:26:39,840 --> 00:26:46,040
Speaker 1: It's painful. Number two. It actually will can damage the

447
00:26:46,080 --> 00:26:50,480
Speaker 1: penis um and ruin and decrease the ability to get

448
00:26:50,520 --> 00:26:54,280
Speaker 1: an erection in the future. Um, and so it is

449
00:26:54,359 --> 00:26:57,439
Speaker 1: something we need to treat. It's a it's a you know,

450
00:26:57,680 --> 00:27:01,000
Speaker 1: a bit of a urologic emergency or urgent. See and

451
00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:05,320
Speaker 1: somebody said it exploded. But what we do we do it.

452
00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:09,520
Speaker 1: What we do do to treat it is we put

453
00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:12,680
Speaker 1: needles in the penis and let the blood out, like

454
00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:15,960
Speaker 1: release all that blood that's not getting out like out

455
00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:20,520
Speaker 1: and it's a it's very bloody. Um. It's very satisfying

456
00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:27,560
Speaker 1: as and for the patient. To the patients like, oh,

457
00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:30,479
Speaker 1: it's almost like they came again, but just blood but blood.

458
00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:32,880
Speaker 1: We numbed them up, so it's not like we're not like,

459
00:27:33,400 --> 00:27:36,720
Speaker 1: you know, inhumane, so we know the lesson we put them. Yes,

460
00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:40,320
Speaker 1: so that's what But your dad, I think he just

461
00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:42,919
Speaker 1: popped a supervisual blood vessel. Like he was doing it

462
00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:47,320
Speaker 1: too hard, just too much information. I don't want to know.

463
00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:53,719
Speaker 1: Mr d like that put it up. I like my

464
00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:55,760
Speaker 1: other thought, man, I just liked the thought that it

465
00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:58,560
Speaker 1: just wouldn't go down and then like, yeah, he had

466
00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:05,480
Speaker 1: like a medical issue. Uh. Does testosterone play a part

467
00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:10,199
Speaker 1: in how your erection at all? That's an amazing that

468
00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:14,920
Speaker 1: is probably the best question of the hour. So everybody

469
00:28:14,960 --> 00:28:21,119
Speaker 1: always assumes I have erectile dysfunction, therefore I need testosterone.

470
00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:23,440
Speaker 1: They come in saying that, like, I think I need testosterone,

471
00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:27,639
Speaker 1: And the truth of the matter is testosterone is an

472
00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:33,320
Speaker 1: indirect player. It is not the main player here. You

473
00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:37,520
Speaker 1: can have a normal high testosterone and have issues with directions.

474
00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:42,040
Speaker 1: You can have low testosterone and be hard as a rock. Okay,

475
00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:47,800
Speaker 1: erections are about blood flow. It's about blood flow. Testosterone

476
00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:52,280
Speaker 1: is a male hormone that is important for lipido, important

477
00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:57,520
Speaker 1: for for you know, for fertility, for sperm um production.

478
00:28:57,680 --> 00:29:02,479
Speaker 1: So that's you know its role um and so we

479
00:29:02,560 --> 00:29:06,080
Speaker 1: may check it in the work up. But even if

480
00:29:06,080 --> 00:29:08,720
Speaker 1: you have low testosterone and you have a rectile dysfunction,

481
00:29:08,800 --> 00:29:11,560
Speaker 1: the treatment for your rectile dysfunction isn't just giving you

482
00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:15,120
Speaker 1: testosterone only. The treatment is I need to treat your

483
00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:17,960
Speaker 1: rectile dysfunction at the same time that I'm also helping

484
00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:23,400
Speaker 1: you with your test low testosterone. M interesting, what so

485
00:29:23,480 --> 00:29:27,080
Speaker 1: is there a difference between like, uh, erectile dysfunction and

486
00:29:27,520 --> 00:29:32,320
Speaker 1: just impotence. Is there a difference really, but the basically

487
00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:35,000
Speaker 1: the same thing. I mean. Rectile dysfunction is the medical

488
00:29:35,120 --> 00:29:37,400
Speaker 1: term that we use impotence is I guess more like

489
00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:41,040
Speaker 1: the public term of it, but it's basically referring to

490
00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:44,520
Speaker 1: the same thing. Can't either rectile dysfunction. So let's just

491
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:50,040
Speaker 1: clarify what the heck is the The definition is basically

492
00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:55,640
Speaker 1: you can't achieve because what is an erection. An erection

493
00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:59,880
Speaker 1: is blood filling up the penis and getting it ridge

494
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:04,440
Speaker 1: it enough for penetration. Right, we know what it means.

495
00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:07,600
Speaker 1: When the penis just isn't quite ready to penetrate and

496
00:30:07,640 --> 00:30:10,160
Speaker 1: it's like soft, and my mom calls it a wet

497
00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:16,400
Speaker 1: rag on. You're like, it's not quite right, Like you

498
00:30:16,440 --> 00:30:19,800
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, It ain't ready. So and if

499
00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:23,080
Speaker 1: you have, your correction has to get firm enough that

500
00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:26,320
Speaker 1: it penetrates. So if you can't do that, if it

501
00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:28,480
Speaker 1: can't get firm enough for penetration, that is the writ

502
00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:31,920
Speaker 1: down dysfunction. Or if you don't, if it lose if

503
00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:35,480
Speaker 1: you lose that pet firmness quickly, so you can get

504
00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:38,120
Speaker 1: it up, but you start and it gets to wet.

505
00:30:38,800 --> 00:30:41,680
Speaker 1: So so that's what's so having fast like like a

506
00:30:41,720 --> 00:30:44,840
Speaker 1: man coming too fast, that's not e d That's not

507
00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:48,800
Speaker 1: to do with being having erectile dysfunction. It's just a

508
00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:53,920
Speaker 1: quick pop. That is the second best question of the hour. Yeah,

509
00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:56,240
Speaker 1: so that's totally different, right because when a man comes

510
00:30:56,240 --> 00:30:59,480
Speaker 1: too fast, the dick is doing what it's supposed to do.

511
00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:04,640
Speaker 1: When dick comes or ejaculates, then the body goes into Okay,

512
00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:07,080
Speaker 1: now the blood can release. We're good, we've done, We've

513
00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:10,360
Speaker 1: you know, achieve the goal. So the body is when

514
00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:14,040
Speaker 1: the erection goes down after ejaculation, that's the normal response,

515
00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:16,880
Speaker 1: all right. Blood is not supposed to stay in the

516
00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:20,080
Speaker 1: penis after ejaculation. The problem is he's ejaculating to damn fact.

517
00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:28,000
Speaker 1: So that's a separate issue. Yeah, there's a lot of that.

518
00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:32,080
Speaker 1: Or he's just selfish? Is he just selfish? Because? Oh

519
00:31:32,280 --> 00:31:36,520
Speaker 1: do men like how to me? I'm glad I'm a woman, okay,

520
00:31:36,560 --> 00:31:38,200
Speaker 1: because I feel like it's a lot of pressure to

521
00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:39,880
Speaker 1: be a man. As far as like when it comes

522
00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:42,920
Speaker 1: to sex, okay, and finances. You gotta have money. You

523
00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:44,400
Speaker 1: have the big dick. You gott have the big dick

524
00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:46,920
Speaker 1: that works. Hey, I know how to work it. All

525
00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:48,760
Speaker 1: these different things we do put a lot put a

526
00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:51,440
Speaker 1: lot of pressure on them in um, you know, as

527
00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:56,640
Speaker 1: far as sex. But so wait to say, Well, let

528
00:31:56,640 --> 00:32:00,920
Speaker 1: me just say something here. Uh, big dick is not

529
00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:10,160
Speaker 1: everything in and and of us orgasm with clitteral attention

530
00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:14,840
Speaker 1: and stimulation. So a big old dick that's just you know,

531
00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:18,800
Speaker 1: that's when you have pec pelvic floor pec pelvic floor

532
00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:26,080
Speaker 1: problems up life. It doesn't feel doesn't it doesn't necessarily

533
00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:29,760
Speaker 1: feel good. Well, if you have somebody who knows how

534
00:32:29,880 --> 00:32:36,240
Speaker 1: to uh incorporate the clitterest to stroke that anterior vagina,

535
00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:38,760
Speaker 1: the upper part of the vagina that's close to the

536
00:32:38,800 --> 00:32:41,360
Speaker 1: outside actually, so you don't even need to go that

537
00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:46,680
Speaker 1: deep to really get a woman of women too orgasm.

538
00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:49,400
Speaker 1: You don't even need to go that deep. Mm hmm.

539
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:57,800
Speaker 1: What is a what is a by penis? Great buried

540
00:32:57,880 --> 00:33:02,360
Speaker 1: penis is a penis at is? Okay, So the penis,

541
00:33:03,680 --> 00:33:07,040
Speaker 1: it's not just what we see, Um, there's actually an

542
00:33:07,040 --> 00:33:12,440
Speaker 1: internal part probably you know, Um, it's probably double the size.

543
00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:15,080
Speaker 1: The whole penis is double the size. Half of it

544
00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:18,800
Speaker 1: is inside. And so in a buried penis, what has

545
00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:22,360
Speaker 1: happened is either that where it's attached, that inner part

546
00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:26,520
Speaker 1: where it's attached is abnormal. So it's hiding what's supposed

547
00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:32,000
Speaker 1: to be out, or that there's a lot of um

548
00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:36,000
Speaker 1: fat over the area of the penis, Like there's a

549
00:33:36,200 --> 00:33:42,720
Speaker 1: huge there's a sound of umm abdominal or what we

550
00:33:42,720 --> 00:33:47,120
Speaker 1: can call man's pubis fat that is creating this buried penis.

551
00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:49,880
Speaker 1: You know, you've got this fat in there, and then

552
00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:53,320
Speaker 1: the penis is kind of just covered. Um. Yeah, so

553
00:33:53,400 --> 00:33:56,840
Speaker 1: this is girl, my dick really ten inches half of

554
00:33:56,840 --> 00:34:00,959
Speaker 1: it berries inside. Correct. It is when guys go get

555
00:34:01,120 --> 00:34:05,280
Speaker 1: the penis uh surgeries to make their dick, so they

556
00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:09,680
Speaker 1: like dig some of that dick out you put it.

557
00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:16,000
Speaker 1: That's awesome. Excavate the dick. Yes, in a way, that's

558
00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:19,759
Speaker 1: kind of what takes place. It's actually a really complex procedure.

559
00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:23,359
Speaker 1: It is not a procedure that the average gurology, like

560
00:34:23,440 --> 00:34:28,239
Speaker 1: a specialized gurologists do. Um. But basically, you know, we

561
00:34:28,320 --> 00:34:30,480
Speaker 1: might have to separate some of the attachments of the

562
00:34:30,480 --> 00:34:34,880
Speaker 1: inner part of that penis to get it to come out. Um.

563
00:34:34,960 --> 00:34:37,840
Speaker 1: And so you're right, in a way, that's excavating the

564
00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:41,400
Speaker 1: inner releasing that inner dick that just is waiting to

565
00:34:41,920 --> 00:34:48,319
Speaker 1: you know, show with stuff. Um. Yes orright. So I

566
00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:52,040
Speaker 1: was seeing that there's like various forms of e D

567
00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:59,880
Speaker 1: tests like, uh, nocturnal penal stamp tests, what what is it? So?

568
00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:09,240
Speaker 1: I think it's nocturnal penile too messence and penal to messens.

569
00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:14,359
Speaker 1: So what that basically means is nocturnal erections or what

570
00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:17,239
Speaker 1: we've simplified it to morning would. So we simplied to

571
00:35:17,280 --> 00:35:22,439
Speaker 1: morning would because that's what men like they remember, right

572
00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:25,680
Speaker 1: they wake up, Oh, an erection. But actually what I

573
00:35:25,680 --> 00:35:28,360
Speaker 1: was alluding to, actually what's happening in a healthy penis

574
00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:32,399
Speaker 1: is you're actually having multiple erections while you're sleeping, while

575
00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:35,640
Speaker 1: you're dreaming. Okay, it's actually normal to have like I think,

576
00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:40,240
Speaker 1: up to five a night, and so there are tests

577
00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:42,960
Speaker 1: that we can do to see if a man is

578
00:35:42,960 --> 00:35:46,240
Speaker 1: getting those erections while they sleep, almost like a sleep study.

579
00:35:46,280 --> 00:35:52,880
Speaker 1: But for your dick, tell us the healthy you know,

580
00:35:53,040 --> 00:35:55,440
Speaker 1: how wealthy a penis is, because if they're getting normal

581
00:35:55,800 --> 00:36:00,000
Speaker 1: nocturnal penal to messens or nocturnal erections, I eat morning wood.

582
00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:04,560
Speaker 1: It's great, the blood is flowing. Okay, you got you know,

583
00:36:04,719 --> 00:36:09,359
Speaker 1: So that's um. That's a great test to separate. Does

584
00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:12,960
Speaker 1: that firm tech cock Ring kind of help with that?

585
00:36:14,640 --> 00:36:17,080
Speaker 1: It does? So are you a son with that company?

586
00:36:17,200 --> 00:36:19,560
Speaker 1: Are you associated? Like, I just want to make sure

587
00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:23,680
Speaker 1: before we talk about well, I you know, did some

588
00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:26,640
Speaker 1: I did some work for them, they like. I love

589
00:36:26,760 --> 00:36:31,640
Speaker 1: their Um. I love what they've designed. It's basically like

590
00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:36,600
Speaker 1: an at home MPT test that anybody can can get.

591
00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:40,000
Speaker 1: And I love that men can start to see and

592
00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:43,960
Speaker 1: evaluate their own reptile fitness if you will. So you

593
00:36:44,040 --> 00:36:46,399
Speaker 1: put this thing and actually they sent me one right

594
00:36:46,920 --> 00:36:49,920
Speaker 1: and um, you know, I'm I. My husband is like

595
00:36:49,960 --> 00:36:52,759
Speaker 1: my guinea pig for everything, so you know, I put

596
00:36:52,800 --> 00:36:54,960
Speaker 1: this thing on him him and I was like, is

597
00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:58,080
Speaker 1: it comfortable? Was if he's like yestually he's quite comfortable. Um.

598
00:36:58,360 --> 00:37:02,120
Speaker 1: So the ring can stay on for hours, hours and hours.

599
00:37:03,080 --> 00:37:07,760
Speaker 1: Let me just caution. Normal cock rings and sex toy

600
00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:11,920
Speaker 1: cock rings and vibratory cock rings you cannot leave on

601
00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:16,000
Speaker 1: there for hours. Okay. It can cause like a constriction

602
00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:18,719
Speaker 1: on your penis and it's almost like that ring that

603
00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:21,000
Speaker 1: you can't get off your finger and it's an emergency.

604
00:37:21,080 --> 00:37:24,880
Speaker 1: So this is you know, caution advice, but this is

605
00:37:24,920 --> 00:37:27,839
Speaker 1: designed the way they designed. It's easily you can take

606
00:37:27,880 --> 00:37:30,400
Speaker 1: off and on and it's safe to put keep on

607
00:37:30,440 --> 00:37:32,160
Speaker 1: there for up to twelve hours and so you can

608
00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:35,440
Speaker 1: go to sleep and you um have your smartphone if

609
00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:38,879
Speaker 1: you have the tech one, and it can measure how

610
00:37:38,880 --> 00:37:41,560
Speaker 1: many erections you get overnight, and so you you can

611
00:37:41,560 --> 00:37:45,520
Speaker 1: see that with that firm tech um ring. I know

612
00:37:46,080 --> 00:37:48,120
Speaker 1: the cock rings. So though I've been with a guy,

613
00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:50,759
Speaker 1: one guy, and I was surprised when I saw the thing,

614
00:37:51,040 --> 00:37:52,799
Speaker 1: like he took his clothes off and then he had

615
00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:56,520
Speaker 1: the cock ring on. I'm like, okay, but no warning nothing.

616
00:37:57,000 --> 00:37:59,080
Speaker 1: What exactly is a cock ring for those of us

617
00:37:59,160 --> 00:38:02,680
Speaker 1: who don't you know, Oh, okay, I'll take it. So,

618
00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:04,239
Speaker 1: I mean, it's basically what you think of it. It's

619
00:38:04,280 --> 00:38:07,759
Speaker 1: like a ring that goes over the penis. These it

620
00:38:07,800 --> 00:38:12,480
Speaker 1: goes of the shaft or like, so there depends. Cock

621
00:38:12,600 --> 00:38:15,520
Speaker 1: Rings can have different functions. Some cock rings are basically

622
00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:19,560
Speaker 1: designed to help maintain the erection. Right. Erection is about

623
00:38:19,600 --> 00:38:23,200
Speaker 1: blood flow and blood stain in the penis during sex.

624
00:38:23,560 --> 00:38:27,240
Speaker 1: So sometimes cock rings are used almost like like elastic

625
00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:31,400
Speaker 1: veins that are placed base to keep that blood in there. Okay,

626
00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:34,360
Speaker 1: But some cock rings are just for pleasure, Like they vibrate,

627
00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:37,080
Speaker 1: you know, and so they allow the penis holder to

628
00:38:37,080 --> 00:38:39,719
Speaker 1: have the pleasure and then also the pen the valve

629
00:38:39,760 --> 00:38:41,640
Speaker 1: of the vagina or whoever the pen whatever the penetra

630
00:38:41,760 --> 00:38:45,760
Speaker 1: should say. It's just volve. It can be any any

631
00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:49,879
Speaker 1: orifice um to have um pleasure too. So some are

632
00:38:49,920 --> 00:38:52,440
Speaker 1: just for play and some are for function. Yeah, his

633
00:38:52,640 --> 00:38:56,040
Speaker 1: is like really soft, like it, I can see how

634
00:38:56,120 --> 00:38:59,400
Speaker 1: it could be comfortable. But listen, try that before you

635
00:38:59,400 --> 00:39:04,280
Speaker 1: all didn't, right, you just kept that thing super hard

636
00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:08,440
Speaker 1: for a long time. Okay, was the older was there

637
00:39:08,560 --> 00:39:12,359
Speaker 1: something that a young man with me? Or but I

638
00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:15,600
Speaker 1: think that Okay, that's another question I had for dr

639
00:39:15,680 --> 00:39:17,880
Speaker 1: millhouses that you know, like we mentioned that these guys

640
00:39:17,960 --> 00:39:21,160
Speaker 1: using the pills from the gas station and stuff like that.

641
00:39:21,200 --> 00:39:23,799
Speaker 1: Like those cock rings are not like, you know, no

642
00:39:23,920 --> 00:39:29,560
Speaker 1: type of medicine and they work as far as I'm concerned. Um, yeah,

643
00:39:29,640 --> 00:39:32,120
Speaker 1: so they can be used for anybody. I mean, any

644
00:39:32,160 --> 00:39:36,360
Speaker 1: penis that has some slightly constrictive band at the base

645
00:39:36,680 --> 00:39:41,160
Speaker 1: might help keep that blood in there. So some again,

646
00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:44,279
Speaker 1: some healthy penises and young men will use it just

647
00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:46,080
Speaker 1: because they're like I want, you know, I don't want

648
00:39:46,120 --> 00:39:49,320
Speaker 1: I want to go all night, you know what I'm saying. Um,

649
00:39:49,640 --> 00:39:53,759
Speaker 1: And so it's not just for you know, old you

650
00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:57,560
Speaker 1: know men who have issues, not by any means. So

651
00:39:57,719 --> 00:39:59,879
Speaker 1: have you ever had somebody come in and you're looking

652
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:03,319
Speaker 1: it is digging you, like, I'm sorry, baby, what do

653
00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:05,480
Speaker 1: you do? What do you do? Like? What what advice

654
00:40:05,520 --> 00:40:07,680
Speaker 1: would you give somebody who is like it's just like

655
00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:15,480
Speaker 1: nothing nothing. Yes, Well, the good news is at the

656
00:40:15,600 --> 00:40:17,799
Speaker 1: end of the day, we can get a firm dick

657
00:40:18,520 --> 00:40:22,840
Speaker 1: because we can do what's called an UH penal implant

658
00:40:22,880 --> 00:40:27,520
Speaker 1: and inflatable penal implant or i p P. And what

659
00:40:27,719 --> 00:40:30,279
Speaker 1: this is. It's a device that we surgically. This is

660
00:40:30,280 --> 00:40:34,000
Speaker 1: a surgery that we do that we put inside the penis.

661
00:40:34,040 --> 00:40:38,160
Speaker 1: It's like these inflatable rods that go on the top

662
00:40:38,200 --> 00:40:42,040
Speaker 1: side on the inside of the penis too and um

663
00:40:42,080 --> 00:40:45,279
Speaker 1: in the you know, there's different versions, but in the

664
00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:47,360
Speaker 1: most commonly used version, which is called the three piece,

665
00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:50,439
Speaker 1: the patient has a pump that we put in their

666
00:40:50,440 --> 00:40:52,560
Speaker 1: scrolled them. All right, So this is a pump that

667
00:40:52,640 --> 00:40:55,640
Speaker 1: you can't tell it's inside them, but they can easily

668
00:40:55,840 --> 00:40:58,720
Speaker 1: press their scrolled them when they're ready to go pump

669
00:40:58,719 --> 00:41:04,520
Speaker 1: it up like they really feels like that. It feels

670
00:41:04,560 --> 00:41:08,920
Speaker 1: like the rebox, Yeah, And it inflates those rods and

671
00:41:08,960 --> 00:41:11,799
Speaker 1: it gets them firm, and so now you have this

672
00:41:11,960 --> 00:41:15,560
Speaker 1: firm dick that you can penetrate and you can go

673
00:41:15,640 --> 00:41:23,279
Speaker 1: all night if you want to agreeing with that at all, Yep, exactly,

674
00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:25,920
Speaker 1: it penetrates you and then when you're ready to stop,

675
00:41:26,040 --> 00:41:30,680
Speaker 1: you just press a button and deeply. This is like

676
00:41:30,760 --> 00:41:35,520
Speaker 1: a sneaker and it actually sounds like that when you

677
00:41:35,520 --> 00:41:38,319
Speaker 1: press it. You kind of hear that sound. You're like, oh,

678
00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:47,200
Speaker 1: that's been around for a long time. Actually a long time.

679
00:41:47,239 --> 00:41:48,960
Speaker 1: So at the end of the day, we can now

680
00:41:49,080 --> 00:41:51,960
Speaker 1: this is a surgery that isn't for everybody because some people,

681
00:41:52,600 --> 00:41:55,160
Speaker 1: you know, have too many medical problems that you know,

682
00:41:55,400 --> 00:41:58,239
Speaker 1: make it high risk and this and that, and it's

683
00:41:58,239 --> 00:42:03,520
Speaker 1: certainly not like you can't go backwards. So if you

684
00:42:03,560 --> 00:42:06,640
Speaker 1: get this implant and then you decide, oh, take it out,

685
00:42:06,680 --> 00:42:08,759
Speaker 1: I want to see if pills will work. Don't work.

686
00:42:08,800 --> 00:42:11,080
Speaker 1: Like that, it's done. You know, you can take the

687
00:42:11,120 --> 00:42:13,399
Speaker 1: implant out, but you're not going to ever be able

688
00:42:13,440 --> 00:42:17,359
Speaker 1: to get an erection with anything without that. So it's

689
00:42:17,480 --> 00:42:20,960
Speaker 1: meant for men who really truly tried this, don't work,

690
00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:23,759
Speaker 1: Try that don't work, Try this don't work. Yeah, and

691
00:42:23,880 --> 00:42:28,520
Speaker 1: exhausted all the opects exactly correct. But it's a great option.

692
00:42:28,560 --> 00:42:34,120
Speaker 1: It has like over patient and couple satisfaction you know, uh,

693
00:42:34,680 --> 00:42:40,959
Speaker 1: when that usually get that procedure done. Usually, Yes, that's true.

694
00:42:41,040 --> 00:42:44,440
Speaker 1: I mean we don't love putting it in younger patients

695
00:42:44,480 --> 00:42:49,520
Speaker 1: because again it's it's kind of irreversible and that once

696
00:42:49,560 --> 00:42:54,400
Speaker 1: we put those rods into that penis, then the blood

697
00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:58,000
Speaker 1: getting into the penis naturally is done. It's not gonna

698
00:42:58,000 --> 00:43:02,600
Speaker 1: happen because we have disrupted that process. Um, there is

699
00:43:03,239 --> 00:43:06,239
Speaker 1: you know. I actually uh spoke to one of the

700
00:43:06,280 --> 00:43:11,160
Speaker 1: gurus in Chicago who does a ton of these surgeries. UM.

701
00:43:11,200 --> 00:43:14,360
Speaker 1: His name is Dr Larry Levine, and I asked him, um,

702
00:43:14,400 --> 00:43:16,880
Speaker 1: what is the youngest patient he's done a penal implant on?

703
00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:20,000
Speaker 1: And he told me a sixteen year old. And I

704
00:43:20,000 --> 00:43:22,919
Speaker 1: asked him what the you know what circumstances and he said, um,

705
00:43:22,920 --> 00:43:27,080
Speaker 1: sickle cell anemia. So sickle cell anemia, which is uh

706
00:43:27,239 --> 00:43:32,320
Speaker 1: common in UH in our community, affects the penis um.

707
00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:36,480
Speaker 1: The abnormal sickling blood causes these erections that don't go

708
00:43:36,560 --> 00:43:41,920
Speaker 1: down and these are painful and these come back frequent,

709
00:43:42,080 --> 00:43:44,279
Speaker 1: can come back frequently in some of these patients. And

710
00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:48,480
Speaker 1: this poor um you know, young man had these crippling

711
00:43:49,600 --> 00:43:53,919
Speaker 1: erections priapisms that would not come down, that kept coming

712
00:43:53,960 --> 00:43:57,040
Speaker 1: to the e R all the time, and essentially over time,

713
00:43:57,160 --> 00:43:59,400
Speaker 1: what that ruins, like I said, it ruins the erect

714
00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:02,880
Speaker 1: the normal right tell fitness anyway. But by putting in

715
00:44:02,920 --> 00:44:05,919
Speaker 1: that implant, it's stopped that process from happening for one,

716
00:44:06,320 --> 00:44:09,279
Speaker 1: which is better for the patient. And then too, it

717
00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:11,880
Speaker 1: just helped him get an erection when when he wanted

718
00:44:11,960 --> 00:44:13,520
Speaker 1: like I want it now, I don't want it now.

719
00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:16,920
Speaker 1: So that's that's not a usual circumstance, but that is

720
00:44:16,960 --> 00:44:19,680
Speaker 1: a potential where it would be a young patient that

721
00:44:19,760 --> 00:44:23,160
Speaker 1: we do. So the dick is separate from men's brains then,

722
00:44:23,239 --> 00:44:27,200
Speaker 1: because what I'm trying to calculate is like what I'm

723
00:44:27,239 --> 00:44:32,040
Speaker 1: trying to calculate exactly. So for women, for me, I

724
00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:34,480
Speaker 1: have to be happy to have sex, right, I have

725
00:44:34,640 --> 00:44:37,200
Speaker 1: to be like have this like it starts in the mind,

726
00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:42,160
Speaker 1: I believe for most women before pussy starts working. So

727
00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:44,080
Speaker 1: but from then you can just pump this ship up

728
00:44:44,080 --> 00:44:46,680
Speaker 1: while you mentally don't want to have sex, Like how

729
00:44:46,680 --> 00:44:48,840
Speaker 1: are you gonna, you know, have a how are you

730
00:44:48,880 --> 00:44:52,319
Speaker 1: going to exact with that. Well, so yeah, I mean

731
00:44:54,520 --> 00:44:57,040
Speaker 1: just because a man can get hard, so this is

732
00:44:57,080 --> 00:45:00,319
Speaker 1: the game. You have to separate erection from orgasm or right,

733
00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:03,319
Speaker 1: just because a man dick is hard doesn't necesarily mean

734
00:45:03,320 --> 00:45:05,560
Speaker 1: he always wants to have sex. You can. Again, we've

735
00:45:05,600 --> 00:45:10,319
Speaker 1: see nocturnal erections that's uncontrolled. We actually see patients get

736
00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:13,640
Speaker 1: erections when they're under anesthesia. You can get an erection

737
00:45:13,719 --> 00:45:15,960
Speaker 1: just from like a touch, but you're not really trying

738
00:45:16,000 --> 00:45:18,759
Speaker 1: to have sex, okay. And so these things you may

739
00:45:18,800 --> 00:45:23,800
Speaker 1: not be aroused enough to ejaculate, all right, um um.

740
00:45:23,840 --> 00:45:28,160
Speaker 1: And for us, you're right for us, For us valva owners,

741
00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:34,279
Speaker 1: for us women are arousal and certainly our orgasm is

742
00:45:34,560 --> 00:45:39,480
Speaker 1: very much um connected to our brain. It's not all

743
00:45:39,520 --> 00:45:43,640
Speaker 1: our brain, okay. Um. So there's a lot of us

744
00:45:43,680 --> 00:45:47,959
Speaker 1: that aren't getting orgasms just because our partners don't know

745
00:45:48,360 --> 00:45:52,280
Speaker 1: where to go. Um and and some of us don't

746
00:45:52,320 --> 00:45:56,200
Speaker 1: know where to tell them where to go. We don't.

747
00:45:56,360 --> 00:46:01,040
Speaker 1: We are not as familiar with our bodies. The guys

748
00:46:01,080 --> 00:46:03,680
Speaker 1: are very familiar with their bodies, with their penis. We

749
00:46:03,760 --> 00:46:06,319
Speaker 1: are like it's our evolve us. Our vaginas are like

750
00:46:06,840 --> 00:46:09,560
Speaker 1: foreign land to a lot of us, which is a shame.

751
00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:14,320
Speaker 1: Um and and changing think, I think slowly but thankfully.

752
00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:16,640
Speaker 1: And so we need to know what feels good and

753
00:46:16,680 --> 00:46:19,799
Speaker 1: what arouses us. But you're right, four place starts in

754
00:46:19,840 --> 00:46:26,160
Speaker 1: the morning, yes, four place starts all day? Good movie sexy? Yes? Yes?

755
00:46:26,320 --> 00:46:28,880
Speaker 1: What can I do for you? Yes? That's how you

756
00:46:28,880 --> 00:46:32,120
Speaker 1: get it moist, not just right before you want to

757
00:46:32,120 --> 00:46:34,600
Speaker 1: have sex with me? We don't arguing all day. Now

758
00:46:35,120 --> 00:46:41,840
Speaker 1: you're tapping out. And now you think, come come on,

759
00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:47,320
Speaker 1: come on, come on. I don't think we should. So

760
00:46:48,440 --> 00:46:51,279
Speaker 1: it seems like they have all types of things to

761
00:46:51,480 --> 00:46:55,320
Speaker 1: help with the rectile dysfunction. What about women who have

762
00:46:55,600 --> 00:47:04,000
Speaker 1: lost like vaginal witness tightness? Yeah, we all right? This

763
00:47:04,200 --> 00:47:10,560
Speaker 1: is like where are products? No one? So what answer

764
00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:14,719
Speaker 1: is women? Who? Medicine has not cared about women? Why

765
00:47:15,320 --> 00:47:18,400
Speaker 1: what is the Oh they need to be aroused, they

766
00:47:18,440 --> 00:47:21,319
Speaker 1: need to have what is the benefit. So medicine has

767
00:47:21,360 --> 00:47:27,160
Speaker 1: completely neglected us. And there's so many reasons. The patriarchy,

768
00:47:27,400 --> 00:47:31,279
Speaker 1: the you know, male toxicity, the fact that we can

769
00:47:32,360 --> 00:47:36,399
Speaker 1: procreation does not rely on us orgasming, right, A man

770
00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:39,600
Speaker 1: has to orgasm to procreate, but women we don't. And

771
00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:43,080
Speaker 1: so if the functionality of our reproduction. Does you can

772
00:47:43,160 --> 00:47:45,360
Speaker 1: have a billion kids and not have one single orgasm,

773
00:47:45,440 --> 00:47:47,719
Speaker 1: not have have painful sex, and have a billion kids.

774
00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:50,879
Speaker 1: You see what I'm saying. So, UM, this is not right.

775
00:47:51,040 --> 00:47:55,200
Speaker 1: This is kind of where I UM have created a

776
00:47:55,280 --> 00:47:58,200
Speaker 1: passion and a niche for in my patients. I see

777
00:47:58,680 --> 00:48:01,239
Speaker 1: all my men patients who have all these options to

778
00:48:01,360 --> 00:48:04,920
Speaker 1: help them in their sexual dysfunctions, and my women patients

779
00:48:04,960 --> 00:48:07,400
Speaker 1: are like help. No one knows what to do. I

780
00:48:07,520 --> 00:48:09,800
Speaker 1: talked to that doctor, I talked to my guy in college.

781
00:48:09,840 --> 00:48:12,200
Speaker 1: Is I talked, No one knows. They say, drink some wine.

782
00:48:12,560 --> 00:48:14,759
Speaker 1: They say, oh, well, it's just normal. You know what

783
00:48:14,800 --> 00:48:18,160
Speaker 1: I'm saying. No, it's not normal. It's not normal. Painful,

784
00:48:18,200 --> 00:48:22,399
Speaker 1: it's not You deserve to feel good when you're having sex.

785
00:48:22,480 --> 00:48:24,880
Speaker 1: It should not just not be something that you're like. Uh,

786
00:48:25,280 --> 00:48:29,640
Speaker 1: you see what I'm saying. So things are again slowly changing.

787
00:48:29,760 --> 00:48:33,399
Speaker 1: There are more of us in the specialty that are

788
00:48:34,200 --> 00:48:38,440
Speaker 1: UM taking the reins on this. UM. I have to

789
00:48:38,520 --> 00:48:43,640
Speaker 1: shout out my uh sister in urology, and UM, she's white,

790
00:48:43,680 --> 00:48:46,080
Speaker 1: but she's still my sister because she's super smart and

791
00:48:46,280 --> 00:48:51,680
Speaker 1: awesome and expert in this. Dr Rachel Ruben, Um, she

792
00:48:52,080 --> 00:48:55,600
Speaker 1: tackles a lot of this, but you mainly for lubrication.

793
00:48:56,080 --> 00:48:59,520
Speaker 1: We talk about estrogen vaginally if you have been through menopause,

794
00:48:59,680 --> 00:49:04,319
Speaker 1: estrogen vaginally is like bay, if your post menopausal. I mean,

795
00:49:04,400 --> 00:49:06,239
Speaker 1: as soon as I hit menopause, I'm going to start

796
00:49:06,320 --> 00:49:09,920
Speaker 1: using vaginal est all right, keep keep that, keep that

797
00:49:10,080 --> 00:49:13,800
Speaker 1: tissue young and supple. You know what I'm saying. And

798
00:49:13,920 --> 00:49:16,719
Speaker 1: not just for that, but also it also has other

799
00:49:16,760 --> 00:49:22,160
Speaker 1: benefits like reducing UT's vaginal estrogen vaginal estrogen, baby, yes,

800
00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:24,120
Speaker 1: and what where do you get that? Like? What is like?

801
00:49:24,280 --> 00:49:27,239
Speaker 1: What is it that has to be prescribed? That's prescribed?

802
00:49:27,280 --> 00:49:29,439
Speaker 1: It's not it's not hard to get. It's just needs

803
00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:33,240
Speaker 1: to be prescribed. Um. And it comes in different forms

804
00:49:33,320 --> 00:49:38,399
Speaker 1: like creams or suppositories, uh and such like that. So um,

805
00:49:38,800 --> 00:49:42,520
Speaker 1: a little bit goes a long way. Um, it's not harmful.

806
00:49:42,760 --> 00:49:45,400
Speaker 1: All of us get so freaked out with the word estrogen.

807
00:49:45,440 --> 00:49:49,600
Speaker 1: It's hilarious. Men flocked to testosterone flock. They're like, give

808
00:49:49,640 --> 00:49:52,040
Speaker 1: me more, give me more. We we get older, like,

809
00:49:52,160 --> 00:49:54,560
Speaker 1: oh no, don't give me that estrogen. I can't. That's

810
00:49:54,600 --> 00:49:59,360
Speaker 1: not normal. This is your body's hormone. Okay, you're suffering

811
00:49:59,480 --> 00:50:02,719
Speaker 1: all of the menopausal symptoms. You do hot flashes. It's

812
00:50:02,840 --> 00:50:07,360
Speaker 1: dry as a sierra down there. You're like, you cannot do,

813
00:50:07,520 --> 00:50:11,680
Speaker 1: not have to suffer. Estrogen is different, is our hormone.

814
00:50:11,719 --> 00:50:16,440
Speaker 1: So we they have succeeded in demonizing estrogen, and so

815
00:50:16,719 --> 00:50:20,080
Speaker 1: we're trying to backtrack and say, listen, ladies, it has

816
00:50:20,680 --> 00:50:24,239
Speaker 1: um some good. Uh, it has a lot of good. Actually. Um.

817
00:50:24,360 --> 00:50:27,320
Speaker 1: Then there's using lubricants too, just like I had a

818
00:50:27,840 --> 00:50:31,520
Speaker 1: TikTok about like using different lubricants, and I think especially

819
00:50:31,560 --> 00:50:36,000
Speaker 1: in black community, we like get weird about using anything

820
00:50:36,080 --> 00:50:41,279
Speaker 1: extra in the bedroom. I see that because like, you

821
00:50:41,360 --> 00:50:43,839
Speaker 1: gotta have some type of lubricano hand, because even if

822
00:50:43,880 --> 00:50:47,960
Speaker 1: you still are physically aroused, that condom is gonna dry

823
00:50:48,000 --> 00:50:53,400
Speaker 1: your ship up. Something. You gotta have something aside from spit. Okay,

824
00:50:54,000 --> 00:51:01,360
Speaker 1: which is a spit, o't mind a little bit. It's okay,

825
00:51:01,680 --> 00:51:03,920
Speaker 1: it helps, it means, it gets it wet, but then

826
00:51:05,040 --> 00:51:08,360
Speaker 1: you have to spend multiple times. You just have to

827
00:51:08,400 --> 00:51:10,319
Speaker 1: do it multiple times. But yeah, the wetter the better,

828
00:51:11,080 --> 00:51:16,280
Speaker 1: you know. So basically for a man, y'all got robot

829
00:51:16,360 --> 00:51:19,160
Speaker 1: dicks with a scroll the pump. But for a woman,

830
00:51:19,280 --> 00:51:23,399
Speaker 1: we got a little cream for you. That's it. We got. Yeah,

831
00:51:23,400 --> 00:51:28,279
Speaker 1: we got a little bit creams and you know it

832
00:51:28,360 --> 00:51:31,920
Speaker 1: ain't no pussy. So all right, one of um so

833
00:51:32,120 --> 00:51:34,600
Speaker 1: in my a salon and one of the sweets. There's

834
00:51:34,640 --> 00:51:38,680
Speaker 1: a lady who has she's a ran and she has

835
00:51:38,719 --> 00:51:40,799
Speaker 1: this machine and she's like, oh, come try it, Come

836
00:51:40,840 --> 00:51:42,799
Speaker 1: over and try it that she puts in your coat

837
00:51:43,520 --> 00:51:47,160
Speaker 1: and it's supposed to like make your vagina tighter. And

838
00:51:47,239 --> 00:51:50,520
Speaker 1: it's like some type of machine that you just she

839
00:51:50,640 --> 00:51:52,880
Speaker 1: says it works, she does it, she said her she

840
00:51:53,000 --> 00:51:55,520
Speaker 1: has four kids, and she said she used it to

841
00:51:55,719 --> 00:51:59,520
Speaker 1: help with her tightness of her vagina or something that does.

842
00:52:00,160 --> 00:52:04,359
Speaker 1: Why what? What? What? My first question is what? Why

843
00:52:04,440 --> 00:52:06,960
Speaker 1: do you think your vagina needs to be tighter? That's

844
00:52:07,000 --> 00:52:09,839
Speaker 1: my first because I believe that's also like a thing.

845
00:52:10,400 --> 00:52:13,480
Speaker 1: Especially I don't know, like it's not money, you know

846
00:52:13,520 --> 00:52:15,960
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So, yeah, you gotta do a little exercise.

847
00:52:16,080 --> 00:52:19,400
Speaker 1: But to say, oh I fell in or it was

848
00:52:19,520 --> 00:52:22,840
Speaker 1: so big, like maybe your dick was small. Let's just maybe.

849
00:52:23,800 --> 00:52:26,760
Speaker 1: But I mean, alright, so as you get older, your

850
00:52:26,840 --> 00:52:29,640
Speaker 1: vagina does is not are your twenty two year old

851
00:52:29,680 --> 00:52:31,719
Speaker 1: couchie is not your thirty six year old gucci. Right,

852
00:52:32,760 --> 00:52:35,520
Speaker 1: well thirty six, I mean that's still young now, okay maybe,

853
00:52:35,680 --> 00:52:41,160
Speaker 1: but I mean the tightness it does change over time. Right. Actually, Actually,

854
00:52:42,320 --> 00:52:46,759
Speaker 1: if you have if you let's just take kids out

855
00:52:46,800 --> 00:52:51,120
Speaker 1: of the equation. Okay, one woman at twenty and that

856
00:52:51,239 --> 00:52:58,560
Speaker 1: woman at will go sixty. Okay, no kids, and um. Actually,

857
00:52:58,640 --> 00:53:01,360
Speaker 1: what happens, what we see a lot of times is

858
00:53:01,400 --> 00:53:06,440
Speaker 1: that vagina kind of contracts. It gets dry and it contracts. Okay,

859
00:53:07,400 --> 00:53:10,240
Speaker 1: where we get this whole vagina gets wider. That's doesn't

860
00:53:10,320 --> 00:53:12,840
Speaker 1: inherently happen just because we get older. It really doesn't.

861
00:53:12,920 --> 00:53:15,719
Speaker 1: There's nothing that inherently happens just because we get older

862
00:53:15,760 --> 00:53:19,759
Speaker 1: that makes our vagina whiten. Okay. And vaginas are they're

863
00:53:19,800 --> 00:53:23,080
Speaker 1: supposed to expand and contract like when we when they

864
00:53:23,239 --> 00:53:26,759
Speaker 1: when they penetration, they're expanding and then they contract. They're

865
00:53:26,840 --> 00:53:29,920
Speaker 1: not like these things that, oh, once you've expanded it

866
00:53:30,000 --> 00:53:33,319
Speaker 1: this far, that's it. You know, you know what I'm saying.

867
00:53:33,520 --> 00:53:36,920
Speaker 1: Humans come out of there, Well, humans come out of it, right,

868
00:53:37,440 --> 00:53:41,720
Speaker 1: and they come they come back. So there are pathologic

869
00:53:41,960 --> 00:53:47,280
Speaker 1: there are vaginas that are too wide because of baby,

870
00:53:47,360 --> 00:53:51,200
Speaker 1: lots of babies or babies, and um, they're not supportive

871
00:53:51,239 --> 00:53:54,320
Speaker 1: as well. That's different. That is a medical condition that

872
00:53:54,800 --> 00:53:59,640
Speaker 1: is bona fide, you know, but this notion that that's not.

873
00:54:00,000 --> 00:54:01,840
Speaker 1: And that's most of this time that I see. It's like,

874
00:54:01,960 --> 00:54:05,120
Speaker 1: oh well, it's just a lot of needs to be tight.

875
00:54:05,400 --> 00:54:07,880
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I think it's just again

876
00:54:08,360 --> 00:54:12,279
Speaker 1: something that we've been fed that has no really no

877
00:54:12,520 --> 00:54:17,200
Speaker 1: clear actual medical issue. Um, you can do you can

878
00:54:17,280 --> 00:54:20,359
Speaker 1: be too tight. Okay, you can be do too many

879
00:54:20,480 --> 00:54:25,600
Speaker 1: key goals and now sex hurts, you know what I'm saying.

880
00:54:25,800 --> 00:54:33,120
Speaker 1: I mean, okay, so um we you know I don't

881
00:54:33,160 --> 00:54:35,560
Speaker 1: want to I hate I shouldn't say. Hey, that's a

882
00:54:35,560 --> 00:54:41,440
Speaker 1: strong word, but I think a sound person will market

883
00:54:42,080 --> 00:54:45,040
Speaker 1: then the actual reasons why they're tightening the vagina. Oh,

884
00:54:45,160 --> 00:54:46,640
Speaker 1: for this and this and this and this, Not just

885
00:54:46,760 --> 00:54:48,799
Speaker 1: to tighten it because hey girl, hey says you need

886
00:54:48,880 --> 00:54:51,200
Speaker 1: a tighter vagina. You know, I was just gonna do

887
00:54:51,320 --> 00:54:53,279
Speaker 1: it because I have sometimes I have a break at

888
00:54:53,320 --> 00:55:00,719
Speaker 1: word as well, a little bit. All right, you know

889
00:55:00,920 --> 00:55:17,600
Speaker 1: it ain't no girl, so stupid lunch, Okay, mess around

890
00:55:17,600 --> 00:55:20,000
Speaker 1: and get a loose couchie messing with a random machine.

891
00:55:20,080 --> 00:55:24,359
Speaker 1: It's a random So basically, don't do that. I don't

892
00:55:24,360 --> 00:55:26,560
Speaker 1: think you need it. What I mean, I don't. I've

893
00:55:26,600 --> 00:55:28,640
Speaker 1: never had no kids. I don't feel like my coochie

894
00:55:28,680 --> 00:55:31,279
Speaker 1: is loose. I was just gonna do it, Like what hurt?

895
00:55:31,400 --> 00:55:33,120
Speaker 1: What would it hurt to be the tighter? You know?

896
00:55:33,280 --> 00:55:36,319
Speaker 1: Like that's what I was thinking. It can hurt, Then

897
00:55:36,400 --> 00:55:39,080
Speaker 1: it can't. It can't hurt too much. Tightness can be bad.

898
00:55:39,200 --> 00:55:43,040
Speaker 1: You don't want that. Yes, it can make sex painful.

899
00:55:43,200 --> 00:55:46,799
Speaker 1: So um, I meet some women that they're like, oh,

900
00:55:46,880 --> 00:55:49,239
Speaker 1: sex hurts, and then I go and examine them and

901
00:55:50,040 --> 00:55:52,800
Speaker 1: they're they, you know, like a kegel. They're just basically

902
00:55:52,840 --> 00:55:56,360
Speaker 1: like a kegel at all times. And I'm like, Okay,

903
00:55:56,640 --> 00:55:59,279
Speaker 1: you're just basically like this. You know what I'm saying.

904
00:55:59,320 --> 00:56:02,280
Speaker 1: You're not rely axed. Uh. And that is a problem

905
00:56:02,440 --> 00:56:06,160
Speaker 1: that can cause painful sex. It can cause difficulty urinating

906
00:56:06,320 --> 00:56:12,759
Speaker 1: or frequent urination when your pelvic floor muscles are too tight. Yeah,

907
00:56:13,000 --> 00:56:16,960
Speaker 1: let's talk about squirting for a second. What is it?

908
00:56:18,400 --> 00:56:21,360
Speaker 1: What is it? Can everybody do it? Is it? Pin?

909
00:56:22,680 --> 00:56:24,680
Speaker 1: I know where it's coming from when I see the

910
00:56:24,760 --> 00:56:28,000
Speaker 1: movies I can't say that I've never done it, per se.

911
00:56:28,440 --> 00:56:31,080
Speaker 1: Can I just make a statement. I thought that rose

912
00:56:31,960 --> 00:56:34,000
Speaker 1: and I used that thing, and I don't think that

913
00:56:34,160 --> 00:56:36,359
Speaker 1: was a squirrel. I really think I peeed my whole bit,

914
00:56:36,719 --> 00:56:41,040
Speaker 1: because what is rose? The little roles that it's a

915
00:56:41,120 --> 00:56:43,320
Speaker 1: real popular sex toy. It looks like a rose and

916
00:56:43,400 --> 00:56:46,080
Speaker 1: it's like a little like a little suction that you

917
00:56:46,160 --> 00:56:49,439
Speaker 1: put on your cos Okay, it sucks, it got okay. Yeah,

918
00:56:49,680 --> 00:56:52,960
Speaker 1: And when I think, I don't know if I squirt it,

919
00:56:53,040 --> 00:56:54,960
Speaker 1: but I think I peeed up my whole bit. That

920
00:56:55,120 --> 00:56:57,799
Speaker 1: was a I made a miss. It was a big nood.

921
00:56:58,400 --> 00:56:59,880
Speaker 1: It felt great. I do it all the time. I

922
00:57:00,880 --> 00:57:13,200
Speaker 1: but I think it is that so uh so female

923
00:57:13,239 --> 00:57:18,160
Speaker 1: ejaculation takes different forms and um so female orgasm. I

924
00:57:18,160 --> 00:57:20,480
Speaker 1: should say it takes different forms, and I you know,

925
00:57:20,840 --> 00:57:23,200
Speaker 1: I don't want our audience to think that if you

926
00:57:23,320 --> 00:57:26,400
Speaker 1: don't squirt that something's wrong with you. Um you can

927
00:57:26,440 --> 00:57:30,800
Speaker 1: still orgasms, so you can have a more traditional ejaculate orgasm,

928
00:57:30,840 --> 00:57:34,560
Speaker 1: which is a lot less messy and just feels like

929
00:57:34,760 --> 00:57:38,800
Speaker 1: this spoozy wetness um as opposed to like a girsh

930
00:57:39,400 --> 00:57:42,840
Speaker 1: um And that probably we believe is coming from what

931
00:57:43,000 --> 00:57:46,040
Speaker 1: we call the Skemes glands. These are two. These are glands,

932
00:57:46,080 --> 00:57:49,000
Speaker 1: paired glands, one on each side of our your rethrow.

933
00:57:49,080 --> 00:57:52,000
Speaker 1: The throw is to the whole that we pee out of. Okay,

934
00:57:52,200 --> 00:57:55,000
Speaker 1: so these are glands next to it. And so that

935
00:57:55,280 --> 00:57:59,880
Speaker 1: type of orgasm is not urine inconsistency and doesn't really

936
00:58:00,000 --> 00:58:04,480
Speaker 1: feel like it either. Um. Now squirting and by the way,

937
00:58:04,600 --> 00:58:07,360
Speaker 1: what they show on porn is like exaggerated, right, So,

938
00:58:07,960 --> 00:58:11,760
Speaker 1: but squirting feels like a gush like like and it's

939
00:58:11,840 --> 00:58:15,600
Speaker 1: quite messy and it can feel like you're peen. And

940
00:58:15,760 --> 00:58:18,200
Speaker 1: that's because and this is the big mystery we you know,

941
00:58:18,400 --> 00:58:21,840
Speaker 1: there's been lots of analysis, but we we've shown that

942
00:58:21,960 --> 00:58:25,760
Speaker 1: there is uria in that fluid and uria is a

943
00:58:25,880 --> 00:58:28,760
Speaker 1: part is all is the main part of urine. And

944
00:58:28,960 --> 00:58:33,760
Speaker 1: so it is likely diluted urine um that is coming out.

945
00:58:33,880 --> 00:58:37,760
Speaker 1: See we don't have in a man. They ejaculate and

946
00:58:37,840 --> 00:58:40,280
Speaker 1: p out of the same too, right, But it's just

947
00:58:40,440 --> 00:58:44,520
Speaker 1: coming from different I mean, semen is different from urine, Okay.

948
00:58:44,640 --> 00:58:48,800
Speaker 1: Semen comes from different organsms or or orgasms, different organs

949
00:58:48,840 --> 00:58:52,000
Speaker 1: that they have, and urine comes from their bladder. For us.

950
00:58:52,360 --> 00:58:56,560
Speaker 1: We don't really have like a semen. Well it's not semen,

951
00:58:56,640 --> 00:58:59,880
Speaker 1: but you know, like an ejaculate producing organ that goes

952
00:59:00,080 --> 00:59:03,040
Speaker 1: through the r urethra and so it is likely just

953
00:59:03,640 --> 00:59:07,440
Speaker 1: um diluted urine that's being expelled out. It freaks people

954
00:59:07,520 --> 00:59:09,640
Speaker 1: out because it feels like they're pain on the bed

955
00:59:10,240 --> 00:59:12,400
Speaker 1: and it's messy and it kind of smells like pe

956
00:59:12,600 --> 00:59:17,880
Speaker 1: maybe um, but it feels fabulous. You guys love it

957
00:59:18,600 --> 00:59:22,640
Speaker 1: and they just do it later. The penises love it.

958
00:59:22,920 --> 00:59:26,280
Speaker 1: They love it. They loved it. So I have patients

959
00:59:26,280 --> 00:59:28,640
Speaker 1: who will come and be like Dr Mellows, I don't

960
00:59:28,640 --> 00:59:30,720
Speaker 1: know what to do, like I feel I just pete,

961
00:59:31,280 --> 00:59:33,280
Speaker 1: I pete during sex. And I'm asking them like, well,

962
00:59:33,880 --> 00:59:36,160
Speaker 1: you know, feel good where you climax is like yes,

963
00:59:36,240 --> 00:59:38,440
Speaker 1: but it freaked me out and this I'm just so embarrassed,

964
00:59:38,800 --> 00:59:42,800
Speaker 1: and I'm like, baby, promise you promise you. Your partner

965
00:59:43,000 --> 00:59:45,600
Speaker 1: is like so proud of himself or herself, you know

966
00:59:45,600 --> 00:59:47,680
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. They're they're like, yes, you know what

967
00:59:47,760 --> 00:59:52,720
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Look what exactly from me. They're not worried

968
00:59:52,720 --> 00:59:55,680
Speaker 1: about that. They're happy. So yeah, that can happen, and

969
00:59:57,200 --> 00:59:59,480
Speaker 1: you know it's it's a beautiful thing. Sex is supposed

970
00:59:59,480 --> 01:00:03,000
Speaker 1: to be messy, right, It's supposedly messy. If we just

971
01:00:03,440 --> 01:00:07,760
Speaker 1: it's messy, it's wet, it's messy, so enjoy it. I

972
01:00:07,920 --> 01:00:09,440
Speaker 1: just feel like I've never been able to get that

973
01:00:09,600 --> 01:00:14,680
Speaker 1: gush feeling when you're penetration. Though it's usually like you know,

974
01:00:14,800 --> 01:00:18,360
Speaker 1: when I'm getting some kind of lingus okay, yes, with

975
01:00:18,560 --> 01:00:21,960
Speaker 1: some finger action involved, I'll have that feeling, but not

976
01:00:22,400 --> 01:00:25,200
Speaker 1: during sex, like actual penetration. So that's that. That's why

977
01:00:25,240 --> 01:00:28,040
Speaker 1: it leads me to think that maybe that's urine. I

978
01:00:28,200 --> 01:00:30,720
Speaker 1: just feel like, im like I'm never good like that

979
01:00:30,840 --> 01:00:33,080
Speaker 1: with a human being. The way the roles makes me

980
01:00:33,120 --> 01:00:36,520
Speaker 1: feel I need to marry the roles. Why don't you

981
01:00:36,600 --> 01:00:38,440
Speaker 1: wait a second, y'all if y'all want a gush like

982
01:00:38,480 --> 01:00:41,480
Speaker 1: that with the human just you like, okay, let's use

983
01:00:41,520 --> 01:00:44,920
Speaker 1: the toy and the like men who are not like,

984
01:00:45,480 --> 01:00:48,440
Speaker 1: uh opposed to that, because some men they are jealous

985
01:00:48,480 --> 01:00:50,520
Speaker 1: of the toys. I like them when they let me

986
01:00:50,600 --> 01:00:54,120
Speaker 1: bring it. It's less pressure. I've been feeling like why

987
01:00:54,200 --> 01:00:56,320
Speaker 1: do I need this? I only have the toy because

988
01:00:56,320 --> 01:00:58,360
Speaker 1: I don't have no dick around. That's how I like.

989
01:00:59,240 --> 01:01:02,120
Speaker 1: That's know, you shouldn't. You shouldn't feel that way. That's

990
01:01:03,120 --> 01:01:06,720
Speaker 1: that is are us. So I totally agree with what

991
01:01:06,880 --> 01:01:09,800
Speaker 1: you've said about men sometimes being intimidated by the toy.

992
01:01:10,320 --> 01:01:12,560
Speaker 1: So let's just talk about black men too, because black

993
01:01:12,640 --> 01:01:14,800
Speaker 1: men are different, you know what I'm saying. And black

994
01:01:14,840 --> 01:01:19,360
Speaker 1: men definitely are probably more likely to potentially be thrown

995
01:01:19,400 --> 01:01:23,680
Speaker 1: off because again, we in our community are not used

996
01:01:23,720 --> 01:01:27,960
Speaker 1: to bringing additives into the bedroom. Okay, you bring your vagina,

997
01:01:28,000 --> 01:01:32,840
Speaker 1: you bring your dick, and that's all that you need it. Okay,

998
01:01:34,000 --> 01:01:37,840
Speaker 1: hawk rings and you know, vibrators and roses and whatnots.

999
01:01:38,280 --> 01:01:39,880
Speaker 1: You know, why do we need all that? And Luke,

1000
01:01:40,320 --> 01:01:44,120
Speaker 1: but it can enhance it, Okay, it can enhance it.

1001
01:01:44,320 --> 01:01:46,280
Speaker 1: It's not taken away from what the partner is doing

1002
01:01:46,840 --> 01:01:49,080
Speaker 1: or what or whatever. It's not taken away from that.

1003
01:01:49,200 --> 01:01:52,400
Speaker 1: It's enhancing it for both of you all. And um,

1004
01:01:52,520 --> 01:01:54,680
Speaker 1: I think that if you want to introduce your man

1005
01:01:54,800 --> 01:01:59,040
Speaker 1: to a sex toy, don't bring like the big rod

1006
01:01:59,240 --> 01:02:03,520
Speaker 1: phallic looking. I don't even buy that type of things.

1007
01:02:03,560 --> 01:02:07,040
Speaker 1: I only do like little bullets there. It's like, yeah, yeah,

1008
01:02:07,960 --> 01:02:09,840
Speaker 1: start with the ones that don't look so much like

1009
01:02:09,920 --> 01:02:12,360
Speaker 1: a penis you know what I'm saying, and incorporate that

1010
01:02:13,240 --> 01:02:16,960
Speaker 1: and when he sees how you respond with that and

1011
01:02:17,160 --> 01:02:19,600
Speaker 1: the dick at the same time, Oh baby, he's gonna

1012
01:02:19,720 --> 01:02:21,360
Speaker 1: you know, and then maybe he can watch you. The

1013
01:02:21,440 --> 01:02:23,840
Speaker 1: other thing you can say is, oh baby, watch me.

1014
01:02:24,160 --> 01:02:28,120
Speaker 1: You know, like they enjoy watching us touch ourselves. Okay,

1015
01:02:28,160 --> 01:02:30,560
Speaker 1: watch me. So then they can watch you do what

1016
01:02:30,680 --> 01:02:32,680
Speaker 1: you do with your toy and they say, okay, alright,

1017
01:02:32,720 --> 01:02:34,760
Speaker 1: this is what I'm gonna do to her. I'd be

1018
01:02:34,880 --> 01:02:38,120
Speaker 1: so lazy with my toy. Like I'm so lazy with

1019
01:02:38,240 --> 01:02:39,760
Speaker 1: my toy. I just put it on it and I

1020
01:02:39,880 --> 01:02:44,960
Speaker 1: lay on the side. I'll be like two minutes, that's all.

1021
01:02:46,200 --> 01:02:49,640
Speaker 1: But the only thing with the toy is that thing.

1022
01:02:49,720 --> 01:02:52,800
Speaker 1: Get me there about a minute. If I got that

1023
01:02:52,920 --> 01:02:56,640
Speaker 1: man around like you're useless. Now go to bed because

1024
01:02:56,640 --> 01:02:58,440
Speaker 1: we can come again. You want to still do it?

1025
01:02:58,560 --> 01:03:01,560
Speaker 1: So and the toy and hug you. They can't rub

1026
01:03:01,640 --> 01:03:05,360
Speaker 1: your butt, like the toy can't get you a real intimacy. Okay,

1027
01:03:06,080 --> 01:03:11,920
Speaker 1: so I still want that. Yes, they does not right.

1028
01:03:13,480 --> 01:03:15,640
Speaker 1: I'd be like I'd be like, suck my titty as well.

1029
01:03:15,680 --> 01:03:18,640
Speaker 1: I do this, like yeah, that's I feel like to

1030
01:03:18,760 --> 01:03:22,960
Speaker 1: me a little bit, but we can come again and

1031
01:03:23,000 --> 01:03:25,520
Speaker 1: again and again. So who cares if you come the toy? Great?

1032
01:03:25,600 --> 01:03:29,480
Speaker 1: All right to go. So you know, with roe versus

1033
01:03:29,520 --> 01:03:31,680
Speaker 1: Wade and all this, have you seen an increase or

1034
01:03:31,680 --> 01:03:34,680
Speaker 1: an influx of men coming in for bisectomies? You do

1035
01:03:34,840 --> 01:03:41,240
Speaker 1: those procedures, right? Is that? Oh? Yes? So we in

1036
01:03:41,400 --> 01:03:45,720
Speaker 1: general the pattern is yes. Across the United States, there's

1037
01:03:45,800 --> 01:03:52,480
Speaker 1: been more increase in vasectomy with roe versus way being overturned. UM.

1038
01:03:52,600 --> 01:03:55,600
Speaker 1: I live in a state that roe versus weight where

1039
01:03:55,600 --> 01:03:59,880
Speaker 1: abortion is absolutely protected, UM, state of Illinois. So I

1040
01:04:00,320 --> 01:04:04,800
Speaker 1: think I haven't seen as great of like um of

1041
01:04:04,880 --> 01:04:07,760
Speaker 1: an increase. And I think again because we're in like

1042
01:04:07,880 --> 01:04:12,360
Speaker 1: a safe state if you will. UM. I have overall,

1043
01:04:13,000 --> 01:04:17,320
Speaker 1: just in the last two to four years, have seen

1044
01:04:17,520 --> 01:04:21,560
Speaker 1: more younger men get vasectomese like, more younger men, more

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Speaker 1: men who who have never had kids just decided, nah,

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Speaker 1: is there reversible at it? So it is technically reversible.

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Speaker 1: Technically speaking, it is reversible, okay, but you have to

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Speaker 1: understand the vasectomy was designed to permanently stop uh fertility. Okay.

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Speaker 1: We cut clips, sometimes we burn, sometimes we stitch up.

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Speaker 1: Though that vast too, okay, so, and what happens is

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Speaker 1: just because you can sew it back together. First of all,

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Speaker 1: sewing it back together is technically not like easy um,

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Speaker 1: And we have to use a microscope. It's like a

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Speaker 1: two resentially right, I mean, it's it's thinner than that um,

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Speaker 1: thinner than floping too, so super super tuper duper small

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Speaker 1: and um. And then we have to say, okay, now, sperm,

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Speaker 1: you've been kind of like you know, m I A.

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Speaker 1: We haven't been shipping you out for however long. Now resume.

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Speaker 1: And what happens is your body is like no, like

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Speaker 1: you cut us off and we're you know, your testicles

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Speaker 1: may not produce good moving sperm that moved through that

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Speaker 1: tube that you've reconnected. Okay, um. Sometimes it may be

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Speaker 1: hard to reconnect the two because of the way the

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Speaker 1: vasectomy was done, and if it's been longer and longer

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Speaker 1: longer time period from vasectomy to reversal, the scar, tissue

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Speaker 1: and what and whatnot can make it harder. So we

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Speaker 1: always advise patients do not do a vasectomy with the

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Speaker 1: intent of, you know, you're going to reverse it into

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Speaker 1: three like years. That's not really how it's It's not

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Speaker 1: a condom. It's not a condom. It's not our birth

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Speaker 1: control where we can here, it's not it's it's it

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Speaker 1: is meant to be a permanent form of um um

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Speaker 1: a birth control for men. Okay, permanent form of birth

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Speaker 1: control for men. Um just like our tubes being tied. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: technically we can get our tubes read, you know, undone,

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Speaker 1: But like the reality is that doesn't guarantee squat, doesn't

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Speaker 1: guarantee that you might have like some in there and stuff. Yes, yeah,

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Speaker 1: my mom had her tubes tied and got pregnant with

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Speaker 1: my little sister. He didn't do the job. After she

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Speaker 1: had my little sister, she's like, all right, this time

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Speaker 1: time around my neck, so I can take the whole

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Speaker 1: two out, take the whole two out. Yes, yeah, I

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01:06:51,920 --> 01:06:54,000
Speaker 1: mean the good news is even if you've had a basectomy,

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01:06:54,160 --> 01:06:56,480
Speaker 1: you can um you know, we can get sperm out

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Speaker 1: of your testicle if you can't conceive naturally and use that.

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Speaker 1: Oh so you're not necessarily Yeah, I have one more question.

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Speaker 1: So I always see this on TV. All right, the

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Speaker 1: ahead of man come in and pull his dick out

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Speaker 1: and they hold his nuts and they're like cough for me,

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Speaker 1: What does that. What is that? What do you learn

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Speaker 1: by coughing and holding some nuts because I've been doing

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Speaker 1: that to my boo sometimes, but i'd just be playing.

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01:07:21,760 --> 01:07:25,320
Speaker 1: I don't know what's going on. I just you gotta

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Speaker 1: stick the thing in it. But at the same time, though,

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Speaker 1: to feel the prostate right now, really, oh I didn't

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Speaker 1: no no no, no no no. The coughing is more

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Speaker 1: to check to check for a hernia. So a hernia

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Speaker 1: is like, uh, you know, like the inner parts of

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Speaker 1: the abdomen is coming down into the scroll them. So

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Speaker 1: that's what it does. When you cough. It puts pressure

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Speaker 1: into your abdomen that gets translated, and so that's what

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Speaker 1: we're trying to ditect detect. It's so stupid, girl, I'll

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Speaker 1: just be holding nuts like cough baby. It's more than

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Speaker 1: holding the nuts though. They do just be doing that

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Speaker 1: on TV. But of course he is. Tell people where

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Speaker 1: they can find you. I plug yourself, please, I will.

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Speaker 1: So first of all, I want to thank you Tam,

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Speaker 1: Bam and AJ for having me on your show. This

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Speaker 1: hold your peace. This is bye,