1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:03,240 Speaker 1: To This is the frend show. It is the Frend Show. 2 00:00:03,279 --> 00:00:05,880 Speaker 1: Good morning went on three five Kiss FM, Chicago's number 3 00:00:05,920 --> 00:00:08,600 Speaker 1: one in music station. I'm going through all the text now. 4 00:00:09,520 --> 00:00:12,399 Speaker 1: Eight to twelve pair of underwear for a week at 5 00:00:12,600 --> 00:00:13,080 Speaker 1: that's right? 6 00:00:13,560 --> 00:00:13,760 Speaker 2: Rag? 7 00:00:14,040 --> 00:00:14,239 Speaker 3: Yep? 8 00:00:15,080 --> 00:00:19,560 Speaker 1: Oh, man, I packed three pair a day. I laugh 9 00:00:19,640 --> 00:00:21,439 Speaker 1: a lot and drink a lot. So I pee a 10 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:26,239 Speaker 1: lot two per day and four extra. 11 00:00:27,240 --> 00:00:27,440 Speaker 2: Man. 12 00:00:27,600 --> 00:00:29,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, you guys drink a lot. 13 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:32,559 Speaker 1: So yeah, I don't Yeah, I'm not going to dig 14 00:00:32,640 --> 00:00:34,840 Speaker 1: too far into that, all right. So we gave away 15 00:00:34,840 --> 00:00:36,760 Speaker 1: the trip to Sydney. We have another trip that we're 16 00:00:36,760 --> 00:00:41,240 Speaker 1: giving away. When can we announce the next trip? Wow? 17 00:00:41,360 --> 00:00:45,000 Speaker 1: Hold on, I'm not ready. I'm not ready yet. I 18 00:00:45,040 --> 00:00:47,080 Speaker 1: wasn't prepared for that. I mean, we need, you know, 19 00:00:47,159 --> 00:00:49,879 Speaker 1: the art of the tea's here a little bit. Yeah right, 20 00:00:49,920 --> 00:00:52,240 Speaker 1: we need you know. We got to use every trick 21 00:00:52,280 --> 00:00:55,040 Speaker 1: available to us, you know what I mean? Yeah, we 22 00:00:55,080 --> 00:00:56,680 Speaker 1: got it, So maybe what do you say tomorrow? 23 00:00:57,480 --> 00:00:57,680 Speaker 4: Okay? 24 00:00:57,720 --> 00:01:00,640 Speaker 1: Because you either were graphics and then there were signatures, 25 00:01:00,680 --> 00:01:02,200 Speaker 1: and you had to get the you had to get 26 00:01:02,200 --> 00:01:04,240 Speaker 1: the guy the band to sign off on this, and 27 00:01:04,280 --> 00:01:07,479 Speaker 1: then we had to get the airfare approved and that yea, 28 00:01:07,600 --> 00:01:08,320 Speaker 1: you know the whole thing. 29 00:01:08,400 --> 00:01:10,560 Speaker 4: So we're good. A lot of approvals, A lot of approvals. 30 00:01:10,560 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 4: All right, good. 31 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:13,720 Speaker 1: So we're giving away another trip to see another artist, 32 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:20,240 Speaker 1: all expenses paid. How about tomorrow seven thirty, seven thirty 33 00:01:20,240 --> 00:01:22,479 Speaker 1: will tell you tomorrow on the show where you're going next? 34 00:01:22,560 --> 00:01:25,160 Speaker 4: You're good? Wait, you're good? Okay? Do you approve of that? Yes? 35 00:01:25,240 --> 00:01:25,560 Speaker 5: I do? 36 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:28,959 Speaker 1: Okay, perfect, So tomorrow morning at seven thirty, we'll say 37 00:01:28,959 --> 00:01:30,160 Speaker 1: where the next trip is? 38 00:01:30,200 --> 00:01:31,440 Speaker 4: The next friend? 39 00:01:31,600 --> 00:01:33,479 Speaker 1: Why don't we come up with some sort of where's 40 00:01:33,520 --> 00:01:36,199 Speaker 1: the boss with the rhymes and the alliteration. 41 00:01:36,319 --> 00:01:39,240 Speaker 4: Fred show flyaway. I just like typed it out yesterday. 42 00:01:39,280 --> 00:01:40,600 Speaker 4: I was like, oh, that looks cool. 43 00:01:40,400 --> 00:01:40,640 Speaker 1: Thank you. 44 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:43,679 Speaker 4: Yeah. I like the Fred Harry down under thing, but 45 00:01:43,760 --> 00:01:48,280 Speaker 4: that because it doesn't make sense anymore for this, you know, 46 00:01:48,320 --> 00:01:53,440 Speaker 4: it doesn't. 47 00:01:52,480 --> 00:01:58,000 Speaker 1: Fred Harry down under to see someone else somewhere else. Yeah, no, 48 00:01:58,120 --> 00:02:00,800 Speaker 1: we're going to see we're whiteboarding here. We gotta you know, 49 00:02:01,800 --> 00:02:03,280 Speaker 1: we got to get in the think take with the 50 00:02:03,360 --> 00:02:05,920 Speaker 1: uber folks who came up with the idea that women 51 00:02:06,080 --> 00:02:09,440 Speaker 1: driver features should be called women driver. It's crazy. I 52 00:02:09,480 --> 00:02:11,560 Speaker 1: have no idea where they came up with that, but 53 00:02:11,600 --> 00:02:14,080 Speaker 1: it's so good. Anyway, we'll get back to you tomorrow 54 00:02:14,080 --> 00:02:16,520 Speaker 1: by seven thirty. We'll have it for you the next 55 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:19,840 Speaker 1: trip and an easier way to win as well. Yes much, 56 00:02:19,919 --> 00:02:22,480 Speaker 1: because we learn as we go around here. On The 57 00:02:22,520 --> 00:02:34,359 Speaker 1: Fred Show, it's wait, wait, wait wait wait, Bridget, good morning, 58 00:02:34,600 --> 00:02:37,359 Speaker 1: how you doing? Welcome to the show. Fun fact about you. 59 00:02:37,600 --> 00:02:39,360 Speaker 4: Is I am running a marathon? 60 00:02:39,919 --> 00:02:43,040 Speaker 1: So what is What is your mental disorder that makes 61 00:02:43,040 --> 00:02:44,359 Speaker 1: you want to run the rafon? 62 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:44,520 Speaker 6: Like? 63 00:02:44,560 --> 00:02:45,919 Speaker 4: What is actually wrong with you? 64 00:02:46,200 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 1: Fred's show is on Good Morning Everybody, Tuesday, March sown. 65 00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:53,280 Speaker 4: It's The Fred Show. Glad you're here. II Kaylin, Hi, Jason, Hi, 66 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:54,520 Speaker 4: Paul La Hi, Kiki. 67 00:02:54,760 --> 00:02:56,880 Speaker 1: The Marnin Show be as a tie with Bobby in 68 00:02:56,919 --> 00:02:59,200 Speaker 1: the showdown in about twenty minutes. Eight hundred and fifty 69 00:02:59,200 --> 00:03:02,160 Speaker 1: bucks is the pro euyes. We'll do waiting by the phone. 70 00:03:02,200 --> 00:03:05,800 Speaker 1: Next hour, stay or go, we'll debate in relationship drama 71 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:08,400 Speaker 1: that's coming up the entertainer Important blogs on the way 72 00:03:08,400 --> 00:03:09,440 Speaker 1: to this hour two what are you working on? 73 00:03:09,520 --> 00:03:12,560 Speaker 7: K Joji Kat posted a rant going in on an 74 00:03:12,600 --> 00:03:14,800 Speaker 7: actor and I just hope that we got all the 75 00:03:14,880 --> 00:03:16,320 Speaker 7: f bombs that she said in there. 76 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:18,799 Speaker 4: So listen to see if we did. I hope so too. 77 00:03:18,960 --> 00:03:24,240 Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, they talk better than these are the radio 78 00:03:24,320 --> 00:03:25,799 Speaker 8: blogs on the Fred Show. 79 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:27,680 Speaker 1: All right, it's like we're writing in our diaries, except 80 00:03:27,720 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 1: we say them aloud. 81 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:30,760 Speaker 4: We call them blogs. Klin, you got one? 82 00:03:30,880 --> 00:03:35,080 Speaker 7: Yes, okay, go, thank you, dear blog. So you've heard 83 00:03:35,280 --> 00:03:39,400 Speaker 7: of getting invited somewhere via text message? 84 00:03:39,440 --> 00:03:42,440 Speaker 4: But have you heard I'm familiar, I'm familiar with you. 85 00:03:43,240 --> 00:03:43,640 Speaker 3: I've heard. 86 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:46,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, have you ever you know what that is? Sometimes 87 00:03:46,040 --> 00:03:48,240 Speaker 4: I get invited to stuff, all right? Cool? Via text? 88 00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:51,600 Speaker 4: Occasionally it happens that way. But have you heard of 89 00:03:51,760 --> 00:03:52,360 Speaker 4: a text to. 90 00:03:52,360 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 7: Let you know that something's happening but you are not invited. 91 00:03:55,600 --> 00:03:57,960 Speaker 7: Have you heard of that? Because I found out what 92 00:03:57,960 --> 00:03:58,880 Speaker 7: that was on Friday. 93 00:04:00,200 --> 00:04:03,040 Speaker 4: Anyone ever told me, Hey, this is happening, but just 94 00:04:03,080 --> 00:04:05,440 Speaker 4: to let you know, like why you are not included. 95 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:07,600 Speaker 4: I gotta hear this though. I got to hear both sides, 96 00:04:07,640 --> 00:04:09,560 Speaker 4: the Lords of Caleb. If you do. 97 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:12,160 Speaker 1: I'm trying to think about if anyone's ever been like, hey, 98 00:04:12,160 --> 00:04:14,760 Speaker 1: this is happening, but you're not going not in sex. 99 00:04:14,840 --> 00:04:16,720 Speaker 4: Probably gonna just did it to our face the other day. 100 00:04:16,800 --> 00:04:19,240 Speaker 4: I did. It's such a nice way it was so nice. 101 00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:21,279 Speaker 9: I did, well, I'm having a birthday party for my 102 00:04:21,360 --> 00:04:24,760 Speaker 9: daughter who's turning two, and we rented out a play 103 00:04:24,800 --> 00:04:26,760 Speaker 9: place where it's for literally five and under. 104 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:28,320 Speaker 4: For kids five and under, I like to play. 105 00:04:28,440 --> 00:04:30,520 Speaker 9: I know you guys like to play it, but I'm like, physically, 106 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:31,000 Speaker 9: I don't know. 107 00:04:31,000 --> 00:04:33,039 Speaker 4: If I invite more people, if we will physically fit. 108 00:04:33,160 --> 00:04:36,000 Speaker 9: Oh no, like like it's literally the size of like 109 00:04:36,040 --> 00:04:37,880 Speaker 9: the closet, Like it's a very small play place. 110 00:04:37,960 --> 00:04:39,919 Speaker 4: And I'm like, all right, if you guys want to come, 111 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:43,279 Speaker 4: you know, but like I don't know. That's yeah, that's okay. 112 00:04:43,520 --> 00:04:45,640 Speaker 1: If you were like, hey, I got you know that 113 00:04:45,839 --> 00:04:48,720 Speaker 1: Bunny called and and a lot of people are going 114 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:51,240 Speaker 1: to Casito with me, but not you guys, like I 115 00:04:51,240 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 1: would be upset about that. I would be like, I'm 116 00:04:52,960 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 1: missing out, but but this opportunity here to hang out 117 00:04:55,400 --> 00:04:56,800 Speaker 1: with a bunch of two year olds in a play place. 118 00:04:57,480 --> 00:05:00,440 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for thinking of me. I'm it 119 00:05:00,440 --> 00:05:03,560 Speaker 1: won't be enough room, but I'm not I guess I 120 00:05:03,600 --> 00:05:04,560 Speaker 1: won't go this time. 121 00:05:04,640 --> 00:05:07,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, I thought you would enjoy my uninvited So what. 122 00:05:07,120 --> 00:05:09,480 Speaker 1: Were you not invited to? That is happening that other 123 00:05:09,480 --> 00:05:10,440 Speaker 1: people are invited to. 124 00:05:10,600 --> 00:05:12,839 Speaker 4: So there is a sort of gathering. 125 00:05:12,880 --> 00:05:14,840 Speaker 7: I'm trying to be delicate with how I describe it, 126 00:05:14,880 --> 00:05:16,440 Speaker 7: and I want to be clear that the two friends 127 00:05:16,480 --> 00:05:18,640 Speaker 7: who message me to let me know I was not invited, 128 00:05:19,160 --> 00:05:21,560 Speaker 7: it is not their fault that I'm not invited, and 129 00:05:21,600 --> 00:05:24,160 Speaker 7: they were they had good intentions, like, hey, you're going 130 00:05:24,200 --> 00:05:26,120 Speaker 7: to see this and I would rather you know, now, 131 00:05:26,839 --> 00:05:29,400 Speaker 7: it's probably gonna sting, But it was just like it 132 00:05:29,440 --> 00:05:31,840 Speaker 7: was Friday. I was getting out of here. I was like, 133 00:05:31,920 --> 00:05:34,200 Speaker 7: the world is my oyster, all the things I could 134 00:05:34,240 --> 00:05:36,159 Speaker 7: get up to this weekend, And then I got that text, 135 00:05:36,160 --> 00:05:38,839 Speaker 7: and like, while I understand why they did it, and 136 00:05:38,880 --> 00:05:40,920 Speaker 7: while they had the best intentions and I know they 137 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:45,120 Speaker 7: love me, it was just like, oh okay, that that 138 00:05:45,120 --> 00:05:47,400 Speaker 7: one hurt a little bit. So I was like, all right, 139 00:05:48,080 --> 00:05:49,960 Speaker 7: hell yeah, And they made it seem like I was 140 00:05:49,960 --> 00:05:51,279 Speaker 7: the only one. 141 00:05:51,400 --> 00:05:54,640 Speaker 4: Really yeah, so wah. 142 00:05:53,839 --> 00:05:56,480 Speaker 7: Right, Like what was the the person who is organizing 143 00:05:56,520 --> 00:05:58,160 Speaker 7: it doesn't want me to go? 144 00:05:58,400 --> 00:06:01,440 Speaker 4: And I didn't know we had issues or whatever. Apparently 145 00:06:01,440 --> 00:06:04,919 Speaker 4: we do. Whoa yeah wow. 146 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:06,680 Speaker 7: So I mean I don't know the right way to 147 00:06:06,720 --> 00:06:08,520 Speaker 7: handle it. I mean I probably would want to do 148 00:06:08,560 --> 00:06:10,720 Speaker 7: the same thing like for warnant, maybe I would have 149 00:06:11,120 --> 00:06:13,119 Speaker 7: called the person and not done like a group text 150 00:06:13,120 --> 00:06:15,120 Speaker 7: between like two to one person. 151 00:06:15,240 --> 00:06:19,200 Speaker 4: But it is not their fault. However, that one that's 152 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:19,760 Speaker 4: a tough one. 153 00:06:19,800 --> 00:06:23,000 Speaker 7: That one's true me for that was a little tear 154 00:06:23,160 --> 00:06:25,719 Speaker 7: or two left my eye because I was like, oh, oh. 155 00:06:25,320 --> 00:06:27,880 Speaker 1: That very reason is the reason why, or that very 156 00:06:27,920 --> 00:06:29,400 Speaker 1: thing is the reason why. I think if I ever 157 00:06:29,480 --> 00:06:31,400 Speaker 1: did get married at this point in my life, I 158 00:06:31,400 --> 00:06:35,720 Speaker 1: would probably have to elope because there's just no way. 159 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:37,520 Speaker 1: I mean, you know you I'm not saying I have 160 00:06:37,600 --> 00:06:40,120 Speaker 1: that many friends, but I think at this point in 161 00:06:40,120 --> 00:06:42,320 Speaker 1: my life I haven't. There are enough people that think 162 00:06:42,360 --> 00:06:44,920 Speaker 1: that that that in their minds believe they should be 163 00:06:44,960 --> 00:06:47,080 Speaker 1: it's an event like that. Yeah, I'm not saying I'm 164 00:06:47,120 --> 00:06:49,520 Speaker 1: that important, but like you know, you live forty years 165 00:06:49,560 --> 00:06:51,320 Speaker 1: and then you just you a mass and you move 166 00:06:51,320 --> 00:06:53,320 Speaker 1: around a lot like like I have and whatever. I 167 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:55,400 Speaker 1: have a lot of different friend groups, and I'm sure 168 00:06:55,480 --> 00:06:57,480 Speaker 1: that if if there were a wedding and they were 169 00:06:57,480 --> 00:06:59,279 Speaker 1: photos of in the whole thing, there would be a 170 00:06:59,320 --> 00:07:01,240 Speaker 1: lot of people if they weren't there, they would think 171 00:07:01,279 --> 00:07:02,400 Speaker 1: I should have been there. 172 00:07:02,880 --> 00:07:05,720 Speaker 4: I was left out. That does that matter? No, I 173 00:07:05,760 --> 00:07:07,760 Speaker 4: mean that's not my prob that I would understand. 174 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:09,960 Speaker 7: This is a really small gathering and it's like sort 175 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 7: of like a group of us, and I would be 176 00:07:11,480 --> 00:07:14,120 Speaker 7: the only one left out of the situation. So I 177 00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:16,080 Speaker 7: mean a wedding, I always understand. I think it's it's 178 00:07:16,120 --> 00:07:18,480 Speaker 7: your day. However you want to celebrate, that's cool. 179 00:07:18,520 --> 00:07:20,160 Speaker 1: But but you know what I mean, if if I 180 00:07:20,160 --> 00:07:21,560 Speaker 1: got married, you guys would all be there. 181 00:07:21,880 --> 00:07:23,960 Speaker 7: But then even if you didn't invite us, like I 182 00:07:23,960 --> 00:07:25,240 Speaker 7: would get it, that's your day. 183 00:07:25,520 --> 00:07:27,360 Speaker 4: I don't know if that would fly around here. Yeah, 184 00:07:27,360 --> 00:07:28,640 Speaker 4: I would feel the way she would. 185 00:07:28,720 --> 00:07:32,840 Speaker 7: Yeah, but I Jason, and I would. 186 00:07:31,560 --> 00:07:33,760 Speaker 4: Talk behind you back. I'd give you a gift and 187 00:07:33,800 --> 00:07:36,680 Speaker 4: then say home same I would. You wouldn't be the 188 00:07:36,760 --> 00:07:38,600 Speaker 4: least bit upset if I got married didn't invite you. 189 00:07:38,880 --> 00:07:39,480 Speaker 4: It was everyone. 190 00:07:39,560 --> 00:07:40,400 Speaker 10: But that. 191 00:07:41,960 --> 00:07:47,280 Speaker 4: You're saying something. Yes, you're saying if you if you just. 192 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:52,800 Speaker 8: Which isn't off the truth? Okay, good to know it's 193 00:07:52,880 --> 00:07:58,960 Speaker 8: grat I have your reasons, and that would hurt your 194 00:07:58,960 --> 00:07:59,720 Speaker 8: feelings a little bit. 195 00:08:00,440 --> 00:08:02,000 Speaker 4: I thought if one. 196 00:08:01,840 --> 00:08:04,800 Speaker 1: Of you guys got married and I saw pictures of it, 197 00:08:04,920 --> 00:08:07,000 Speaker 1: which I'm thinking, is what's gonna happen with Kiki because 198 00:08:07,080 --> 00:08:08,920 Speaker 1: I always found out after. I always found out after 199 00:08:08,960 --> 00:08:11,560 Speaker 1: everybody else big news in Kiki's life. I get to 200 00:08:11,600 --> 00:08:12,640 Speaker 1: read it with the listeners. 201 00:08:12,680 --> 00:08:13,080 Speaker 4: That's right. 202 00:08:13,920 --> 00:08:15,920 Speaker 1: People text me and go, what's going on with this? 203 00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:17,960 Speaker 1: I go, I don't know, and they go, what do 204 00:08:17,960 --> 00:08:19,720 Speaker 1: you mean you don't know? She sits two feet away 205 00:08:19,720 --> 00:08:21,280 Speaker 1: from you five days a week. I said, that's a 206 00:08:21,400 --> 00:08:25,280 Speaker 1: very good point. You have to wait, what's this isle real? 207 00:08:25,360 --> 00:08:29,760 Speaker 1: Like everybody else? I don't know, But I don't feel 208 00:08:29,760 --> 00:08:32,800 Speaker 1: a certain kind of way. This isn't real. We're not 209 00:08:32,840 --> 00:08:35,319 Speaker 1: really fighting. I would feel a certain kind of way 210 00:08:35,720 --> 00:08:37,480 Speaker 1: if one of you guys got married and I and 211 00:08:37,800 --> 00:08:39,600 Speaker 1: I was not given the opportunity to go. 212 00:08:39,679 --> 00:08:43,040 Speaker 4: I would even if it was just like like five people. 213 00:08:44,000 --> 00:08:46,720 Speaker 4: Oh maybe not. Yeah, right, that's what we're saying. 214 00:08:46,720 --> 00:08:49,160 Speaker 7: We obviously if everyone is invited, we definitely want to go. 215 00:08:49,920 --> 00:08:52,640 Speaker 1: Kiki, you'll be there, I know. So everybody else is 216 00:08:52,679 --> 00:08:54,640 Speaker 1: sending a gift. I guess that's that's which a generous 217 00:08:54,679 --> 00:08:55,080 Speaker 1: supposed to. 218 00:08:55,040 --> 00:08:57,480 Speaker 11: Be invited everywhere, And you know I have that issue. 219 00:08:57,480 --> 00:09:00,120 Speaker 4: But oh yeah, so is Fried but he doesn't want 220 00:08:59,960 --> 00:09:00,280 Speaker 4: to go. 221 00:09:00,440 --> 00:09:04,560 Speaker 11: Yeah, I don't want to go you good, Okay. 222 00:09:02,200 --> 00:09:02,720 Speaker 3: I want to be. 223 00:09:05,400 --> 00:09:07,760 Speaker 1: Definitely want to be. I think it makes perfect sense. 224 00:09:07,800 --> 00:09:09,800 Speaker 1: I want to be included. I want to know people 225 00:09:09,880 --> 00:09:13,000 Speaker 1: care about me. But I don't necessarily want to have 226 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:13,920 Speaker 1: to be obligated to go you. 227 00:09:14,200 --> 00:09:15,679 Speaker 4: I want you to come. I think I think it 228 00:09:15,720 --> 00:09:16,480 Speaker 4: makes perfect sense. 229 00:09:16,520 --> 00:09:18,520 Speaker 1: I don't want to be excluded because then it's like 230 00:09:18,520 --> 00:09:21,200 Speaker 1: people don't like me or don't care. But I also 231 00:09:22,120 --> 00:09:24,800 Speaker 1: I also don't want the obligation of having to attend. 232 00:09:25,280 --> 00:09:28,360 Speaker 4: You want your cake, you want to eat? Hey. 233 00:09:28,480 --> 00:09:31,440 Speaker 1: I want validation that I'm not a piece of crap. 234 00:09:31,480 --> 00:09:34,680 Speaker 1: But I also I also don't necessarily want to have 235 00:09:34,760 --> 00:09:37,000 Speaker 1: to talk to people you know and strangers. 236 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:39,560 Speaker 4: I'm twenty eight, I have a two year old birthday party. 237 00:09:39,760 --> 00:09:42,440 Speaker 4: I'm busy. Thank you, Thank you, I'm busy. 238 00:09:42,559 --> 00:09:43,000 Speaker 2: Stay or. 239 00:09:44,440 --> 00:09:48,719 Speaker 4: Stay or go? All right? Mark? Good morning, Mark? How 240 00:09:48,720 --> 00:09:49,880 Speaker 4: you doing? Welcome to the show. 241 00:09:51,240 --> 00:09:53,240 Speaker 3: I'm doing great today. 242 00:09:52,360 --> 00:09:53,880 Speaker 1: How are you doing? 243 00:09:53,880 --> 00:09:54,439 Speaker 4: All right? Man? 244 00:09:54,480 --> 00:09:58,560 Speaker 1: What's going on with with your wife? Here is the 245 00:09:58,600 --> 00:10:00,520 Speaker 1: idea here is people hit us up, believe it or not. 246 00:10:00,600 --> 00:10:02,840 Speaker 1: People hit us up on you know the ig. They 247 00:10:02,880 --> 00:10:05,200 Speaker 1: hit us up on the website fretshire radio dot com wherever, 248 00:10:05,240 --> 00:10:08,200 Speaker 1: and they're like, Hey, run this by the thirteen. What's 249 00:10:08,240 --> 00:10:12,679 Speaker 1: going on with your wife? Oh? We got the robot 250 00:10:12,760 --> 00:10:16,079 Speaker 1: voice again? All right, hold on you there, Yeah, I'm here. 251 00:10:16,080 --> 00:10:16,319 Speaker 1: Hold on. 252 00:10:16,400 --> 00:10:20,480 Speaker 4: I had to add gas to the generator. Sorry, sorry 253 00:10:20,480 --> 00:10:20,840 Speaker 4: about that. 254 00:10:20,960 --> 00:10:24,000 Speaker 1: I forgot him and Paulina. They're supposed to pour diesel 255 00:10:24,040 --> 00:10:24,360 Speaker 1: in it. 256 00:10:24,520 --> 00:10:25,640 Speaker 4: Oh not the cheap one. 257 00:10:26,120 --> 00:10:30,360 Speaker 1: No, we can't use eighty seven of this thing, man. Anyway, Sorry, Mark, go. 258 00:10:30,360 --> 00:10:33,880 Speaker 3: Ahead, No worries. I just don't know what to do, 259 00:10:34,040 --> 00:10:35,040 Speaker 3: to be honest with you. 260 00:10:35,520 --> 00:10:38,800 Speaker 6: Well, it starts off the first that it's my daughter's 261 00:10:38,840 --> 00:10:41,120 Speaker 6: senior year in college and she wants to take a 262 00:10:41,160 --> 00:10:41,880 Speaker 6: senior trip. 263 00:10:42,440 --> 00:10:45,400 Speaker 3: I don't have anything against that. I'm all for having 264 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:45,920 Speaker 3: some fun. 265 00:10:46,200 --> 00:10:49,800 Speaker 6: She wants to go down to Cabo in Mexico, right, man, 266 00:10:50,480 --> 00:10:52,079 Speaker 6: I just don't know about that. 267 00:10:52,840 --> 00:10:54,599 Speaker 3: With the cartel and everything. 268 00:10:54,280 --> 00:10:57,440 Speaker 6: Going on right now, I'm kind of iffy on that 269 00:10:57,480 --> 00:10:58,319 Speaker 6: whole situation. 270 00:10:59,080 --> 00:11:01,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, the part Mexico there are you know, a bit 271 00:11:01,800 --> 00:11:04,960 Speaker 1: of dismay these days. Yeah, but a little upset parts 272 00:11:05,000 --> 00:11:06,400 Speaker 1: of parts of it though I don't know that Cobba 273 00:11:06,520 --> 00:11:09,880 Speaker 1: was included, but parts of whatever, it's not necessarily maybe 274 00:11:09,880 --> 00:11:12,600 Speaker 1: not the ideal time for a college kid. To go 275 00:11:12,600 --> 00:11:14,800 Speaker 1: to Mexico and don't at me on that. It's just 276 00:11:14,880 --> 00:11:16,640 Speaker 1: you know, I understand your concern. 277 00:11:18,000 --> 00:11:18,360 Speaker 3: Okay. 278 00:11:19,280 --> 00:11:21,720 Speaker 6: Well, my wife and I sat down with my daughter 279 00:11:21,760 --> 00:11:24,080 Speaker 6: and just kind of laid down the law, saying, hey, 280 00:11:24,679 --> 00:11:26,360 Speaker 6: I don't think it's a good idea for you to go. 281 00:11:27,559 --> 00:11:30,240 Speaker 6: Maybe we should reschedule this trip or try to find 282 00:11:30,240 --> 00:11:34,280 Speaker 6: somewhere else to go. Then I find out later that 283 00:11:34,400 --> 00:11:37,480 Speaker 6: my wife has gone behind my back and talk to 284 00:11:37,559 --> 00:11:40,040 Speaker 6: my daughter, told her it's okay for her to go, 285 00:11:41,040 --> 00:11:43,320 Speaker 6: and that she'll just handle. 286 00:11:43,000 --> 00:11:43,840 Speaker 3: Me later on. 287 00:11:44,760 --> 00:11:48,640 Speaker 6: I don't understand this, Like I don't understand what's going on, 288 00:11:48,720 --> 00:11:51,320 Speaker 6: Like there's a mutiny in my house of sorts. 289 00:11:52,280 --> 00:11:58,040 Speaker 1: Okay, So she overrode you, is what you're saying, Absolutely yes, okay, 290 00:11:58,080 --> 00:11:59,839 Speaker 1: and she did it behind your back, like you guys 291 00:11:59,840 --> 00:12:04,120 Speaker 1: have a couple. Mom and dad made a decision. Separate 292 00:12:04,160 --> 00:12:05,960 Speaker 1: from your daughter. Hey, I don't know that this is 293 00:12:06,040 --> 00:12:07,800 Speaker 1: this may not be a great idea. I'm not comfortable 294 00:12:07,840 --> 00:12:09,680 Speaker 1: with this for whatever reason, whether you're right or wrong, 295 00:12:09,920 --> 00:12:12,280 Speaker 1: you're not comfortable with it, and you would like a 296 00:12:12,280 --> 00:12:14,600 Speaker 1: different plant. And your wife is like fine, okay, and 297 00:12:14,640 --> 00:12:18,880 Speaker 1: then separate from that. Told your daughter no go, it's fine. 298 00:12:18,960 --> 00:12:22,080 Speaker 1: I'll deal with your dad absolutely. 299 00:12:22,880 --> 00:12:25,280 Speaker 3: Okay, don't get me wrong. I don't want to crush 300 00:12:25,320 --> 00:12:27,880 Speaker 3: my daughter's dreams of going on her senior trip. But 301 00:12:27,960 --> 00:12:31,320 Speaker 3: at the end of the day, I also am super 302 00:12:31,360 --> 00:12:33,320 Speaker 3: anxious about her being down there. 303 00:12:33,920 --> 00:12:36,280 Speaker 4: Hmm, okay, all right. 304 00:12:36,360 --> 00:12:38,280 Speaker 1: So then you go there, go back to your wife, 305 00:12:38,280 --> 00:12:40,840 Speaker 1: I assume, and you're like, hey, you know, we're a team, 306 00:12:40,960 --> 00:12:43,440 Speaker 1: we had a deal, we discussed this, and we're not 307 00:12:43,520 --> 00:12:47,880 Speaker 1: aligned now, and you sort of undermined me in this way, 308 00:12:48,160 --> 00:12:50,800 Speaker 1: you know, And what does she say. 309 00:12:51,480 --> 00:12:54,040 Speaker 6: She just kept telling me that everything's going to be okay, 310 00:12:54,360 --> 00:12:56,480 Speaker 6: that she's a smart girl, we raise her right, and 311 00:12:56,840 --> 00:12:58,640 Speaker 6: then she'll be safe as long as she stays on 312 00:12:58,679 --> 00:12:59,199 Speaker 6: the resort. 313 00:12:59,600 --> 00:13:02,640 Speaker 1: I mean, that's probably all true, but I guess you 314 00:13:02,679 --> 00:13:05,800 Speaker 1: guys made a decision together. And look, I'm not married, 315 00:13:05,840 --> 00:13:08,440 Speaker 1: I don't have kids, but I there were very few, 316 00:13:08,480 --> 00:13:10,520 Speaker 1: if any instances I can think of growing up where 317 00:13:10,880 --> 00:13:14,319 Speaker 1: mom decided something and dad with the other way. There 318 00:13:14,360 --> 00:13:16,480 Speaker 1: may have been some times when dad decided something and 319 00:13:16,520 --> 00:13:19,439 Speaker 1: mom went the other way, but it was nothing as 320 00:13:19,440 --> 00:13:22,920 Speaker 1: blatant as this. You know, I like, I don't like, 321 00:13:22,960 --> 00:13:24,400 Speaker 1: I don't There was never a time when it was 322 00:13:24,400 --> 00:13:28,800 Speaker 1: like fundamental, Hey, I'm concerned about someone's safety, right, you know, 323 00:13:28,960 --> 00:13:31,760 Speaker 1: and and one said one thing, and then one said 324 00:13:31,760 --> 00:13:33,640 Speaker 1: the other don't mind him whatever. I mean, that's you 325 00:13:33,679 --> 00:13:36,560 Speaker 1: can't do that, right, like in a marriage or a 326 00:13:36,600 --> 00:13:39,160 Speaker 1: parental situation, like you got to make a decision and 327 00:13:39,200 --> 00:13:41,160 Speaker 1: then you got to stay on the same page because otherwise, 328 00:13:42,080 --> 00:13:44,600 Speaker 1: you know, one person looks kind of ineffective or like 329 00:13:44,640 --> 00:13:49,040 Speaker 1: their opinion doesn't matter. That's true, I understand that. And 330 00:13:49,240 --> 00:13:51,960 Speaker 1: so your wife is basically like you overreacted whatever. So 331 00:13:52,000 --> 00:13:55,080 Speaker 1: now your daughter knows she just goes to mom, which 332 00:13:55,080 --> 00:13:58,400 Speaker 1: a lot of and a lot of situations that's not uncommon. 333 00:13:58,960 --> 00:14:01,240 Speaker 1: I know where to go, yeah, for certain things. I 334 00:14:01,240 --> 00:14:02,839 Speaker 1: know who to talk to you on. I know when 335 00:14:02,840 --> 00:14:04,840 Speaker 1: to call dad, I know when to call mom. But 336 00:14:04,880 --> 00:14:07,760 Speaker 1: I don't blame you for being kind of upset or 337 00:14:07,800 --> 00:14:08,480 Speaker 1: real upset. 338 00:14:08,640 --> 00:14:08,920 Speaker 4: Right. 339 00:14:09,000 --> 00:14:13,760 Speaker 1: So the resolution is she's going, oh she's there, Oh, 340 00:14:14,040 --> 00:14:14,600 Speaker 1: even better. 341 00:14:14,760 --> 00:14:18,280 Speaker 4: Right, So you have no say in the matter. 342 00:14:19,040 --> 00:14:23,240 Speaker 9: So she's a senior in college, correct, Right, she's about 343 00:14:23,360 --> 00:14:25,280 Speaker 9: twenty twenty one years old, give or take. I mean, 344 00:14:25,320 --> 00:14:27,080 Speaker 9: like this might be a little unpopular, but at the 345 00:14:27,080 --> 00:14:29,040 Speaker 9: same time, does she really even have to ask for 346 00:14:29,080 --> 00:14:31,720 Speaker 9: that kind of permission. Essentially, like she's grown enough to 347 00:14:31,920 --> 00:14:34,040 Speaker 9: make decisions that kind of go on her own. I 348 00:14:34,080 --> 00:14:35,680 Speaker 9: wouldn't tell my mom probably that I'm going, or if 349 00:14:35,680 --> 00:14:37,160 Speaker 9: I did, I would tell her when I'm at the airport. 350 00:14:37,240 --> 00:14:39,720 Speaker 7: Guys, they're so paying for like her college, her trip, 351 00:14:39,840 --> 00:14:40,760 Speaker 7: or anything in her life. 352 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:42,600 Speaker 4: I think they have a say probably correct, Well, she 353 00:14:42,600 --> 00:14:44,760 Speaker 4: has great parents. I did not have that part. 354 00:14:44,800 --> 00:14:46,360 Speaker 9: But I would run off a lot to like New 355 00:14:46,440 --> 00:14:47,960 Speaker 9: York and stuff just because, like I was like, I 356 00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:49,640 Speaker 9: want to go hang out my friends and do these things. 357 00:14:49,640 --> 00:14:52,040 Speaker 4: But I never asked to go, and I recommend that. 358 00:14:52,120 --> 00:14:53,760 Speaker 4: So I was listening like ask your parents. 359 00:14:53,800 --> 00:14:55,840 Speaker 1: Well you would remember if the show for a while 360 00:14:55,840 --> 00:14:57,800 Speaker 1: a few years ago, well, god, it was six years ago. 361 00:14:57,800 --> 00:14:59,400 Speaker 1: At this point, I had planned to go to Egypt. 362 00:14:59,440 --> 00:15:00,880 Speaker 1: I wanted to see to Pyramids. I had the whole 363 00:15:00,920 --> 00:15:03,400 Speaker 1: trip plan, and and my mom, who watches too much 364 00:15:03,440 --> 00:15:06,240 Speaker 1: you know, CNN or whatever, calls me up and is like, hey, 365 00:15:06,320 --> 00:15:08,040 Speaker 1: you know, there's this COVID thing they're talking about. 366 00:15:08,040 --> 00:15:09,480 Speaker 4: It's gonna be it's gonna be an issue. 367 00:15:09,640 --> 00:15:11,120 Speaker 1: It's gonna be a thing, And like, I don't want 368 00:15:11,160 --> 00:15:13,760 Speaker 1: you there when that if that breaks or like you know, 369 00:15:13,800 --> 00:15:14,720 Speaker 1: cause you're gonna have an issue. 370 00:15:15,040 --> 00:15:15,280 Speaker 4: I don't. 371 00:15:15,360 --> 00:15:17,960 Speaker 1: I'm not comfortable with it. I won't sleep well, don't 372 00:15:17,960 --> 00:15:20,840 Speaker 1: do it. And I'm like, whatever, you're creating all everybody 373 00:15:20,880 --> 00:15:22,640 Speaker 1: here and give me a hard time, go on your 374 00:15:22,640 --> 00:15:26,440 Speaker 1: trip whatever. You're stupid and you know, and I'm like, 375 00:15:26,880 --> 00:15:29,120 Speaker 1: you know, you're an a joke. You're gonna tell you 376 00:15:29,160 --> 00:15:32,960 Speaker 1: did you? You you egged me, you know, and it's 377 00:15:33,000 --> 00:15:34,560 Speaker 1: like you're a grown up man, like you do what 378 00:15:34,600 --> 00:15:35,920 Speaker 1: you want to do, and I'm like, no, but I do. 379 00:15:36,040 --> 00:15:38,440 Speaker 1: I don't want my mom to be My mom is 380 00:15:38,440 --> 00:15:39,880 Speaker 1: a very active mind. I don't want to her up 381 00:15:39,880 --> 00:15:41,920 Speaker 1: it and I don't want to runcomfortable. Well, sure enough, 382 00:15:41,960 --> 00:15:44,200 Speaker 1: I would have been there when the whole thing went down. 383 00:15:44,280 --> 00:15:46,520 Speaker 4: You had run a pharaoh by now I would I 384 00:15:46,560 --> 00:15:47,360 Speaker 4: would still be there. 385 00:15:47,480 --> 00:15:50,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, I would live there now, which may not be 386 00:15:50,440 --> 00:15:52,840 Speaker 1: so bad, and you know, a nice view the pyramids 387 00:15:52,840 --> 00:15:55,160 Speaker 1: every day. But I and my finally my dad called me. 388 00:15:55,200 --> 00:15:56,920 Speaker 1: It was like, look, I'm not You're a grown up. 389 00:15:56,960 --> 00:15:59,440 Speaker 1: You can do what you want, but you know it 390 00:16:00,040 --> 00:16:03,320 Speaker 1: would really help my cause if you don't do it, 391 00:16:03,400 --> 00:16:05,360 Speaker 1: because she's really upset about it, and so I wound 392 00:16:05,440 --> 00:16:06,560 Speaker 1: up not doing it, and it wound up being the 393 00:16:06,600 --> 00:16:10,680 Speaker 1: right decision. But you know, no one was gonna undermine 394 00:16:10,680 --> 00:16:13,360 Speaker 1: each other. But it was like, this is important to us, 395 00:16:13,800 --> 00:16:16,120 Speaker 1: and they very rarely do that. They very rarely say 396 00:16:16,120 --> 00:16:19,240 Speaker 1: like I'm gonna worry too much, please consider another plan, 397 00:16:19,280 --> 00:16:22,240 Speaker 1: And so I did. But but that's not one person 398 00:16:22,360 --> 00:16:25,720 Speaker 1: saying that. That's how you guys collectively saying here's our decision, 399 00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:28,240 Speaker 1: and then mom going nap, just kidding. I don't really 400 00:16:28,280 --> 00:16:31,680 Speaker 1: care what he thinks. I can see why that feels bad. 401 00:16:31,760 --> 00:16:35,320 Speaker 1: You guys are both her parent and your opinion does matter, 402 00:16:35,360 --> 00:16:37,280 Speaker 1: and you made a collective decision. Let me take some 403 00:16:37,320 --> 00:16:38,920 Speaker 1: phone calls on this mark and see what people have 404 00:16:38,960 --> 00:16:41,000 Speaker 1: to say. But I wish you the best, man, I hope. 405 00:16:41,160 --> 00:16:43,160 Speaker 1: I'm sure everything will be fine. She'll she'll be okay 406 00:16:43,160 --> 00:16:45,400 Speaker 1: and return safely and all as well. 407 00:16:47,360 --> 00:16:50,720 Speaker 4: Have a good day. Appreciate you, mane he sounds have 408 00:16:50,720 --> 00:16:51,200 Speaker 4: a good day. 409 00:16:51,240 --> 00:16:51,400 Speaker 3: Man. 410 00:16:51,920 --> 00:16:54,880 Speaker 1: I get it. I get it. And again, she did 411 00:16:54,920 --> 00:16:56,480 Speaker 1: ask for their opinion. I don't know if they're paying 412 00:16:56,480 --> 00:16:58,760 Speaker 1: for it or not, but you know, I do think 413 00:16:58,760 --> 00:17:01,200 Speaker 1: that she can do whatever she wants. But if both 414 00:17:01,200 --> 00:17:03,520 Speaker 1: of her parents are like, hey, this is not ideal. 415 00:17:03,960 --> 00:17:06,520 Speaker 7: Even without the cartel, it's a scary thing to send 416 00:17:06,560 --> 00:17:08,639 Speaker 7: your kid to another country on like a drink all 417 00:17:08,720 --> 00:17:09,480 Speaker 7: day trip. 418 00:17:09,560 --> 00:17:10,400 Speaker 4: I would be terrified. 419 00:17:10,480 --> 00:17:13,760 Speaker 11: I still actually permission to go out of town, kind 420 00:17:13,760 --> 00:17:17,199 Speaker 11: of like my sister and my aunt, they don't play that, 421 00:17:17,440 --> 00:17:19,720 Speaker 11: Like they check my location in another country, They're like, 422 00:17:19,720 --> 00:17:22,240 Speaker 11: are you okay? Like, well, why wouldn't you tell us 423 00:17:22,440 --> 00:17:23,879 Speaker 11: we need to pray for you before you go. 424 00:17:23,920 --> 00:17:26,879 Speaker 4: Well, I mean, I agree that it would be scary. 425 00:17:26,920 --> 00:17:28,840 Speaker 1: I think it's one thing if you're helicoptering over your 426 00:17:28,840 --> 00:17:31,200 Speaker 1: twenty one year old kids saying don't go party in Mexico. 427 00:17:31,440 --> 00:17:33,400 Speaker 1: I think it's another thing if you're like, hey, I'm 428 00:17:33,440 --> 00:17:36,880 Speaker 1: concerned about some some you know, activity down there right 429 00:17:37,400 --> 00:17:40,040 Speaker 1: now that has caused a lot of problems for people 430 00:17:40,480 --> 00:17:42,800 Speaker 1: traveling and whatever else, And like I think now may 431 00:17:42,840 --> 00:17:44,760 Speaker 1: not be the time, you know what I mean, Like 432 00:17:45,000 --> 00:17:48,080 Speaker 1: I think that's a fair or hey there's a pandemic coming, 433 00:17:48,600 --> 00:17:49,840 Speaker 1: you know, maybe not now. 434 00:17:50,160 --> 00:17:52,359 Speaker 7: Yeah, to be fair, when I went on my senior 435 00:17:52,400 --> 00:17:54,119 Speaker 7: I think it was in high school, there was like 436 00:17:54,160 --> 00:17:56,120 Speaker 7: a war of travel warning and we all still went 437 00:17:56,160 --> 00:17:57,879 Speaker 7: and we're fine, So I think that there's often a 438 00:17:57,920 --> 00:17:58,639 Speaker 7: travel warning. 439 00:17:59,080 --> 00:18:01,280 Speaker 4: But my mom was with me, so that was maybe 440 00:18:01,320 --> 00:18:06,200 Speaker 4: the difference. Asia. How you doing, I'm good, good morning, good. 441 00:18:06,000 --> 00:18:09,000 Speaker 1: Morning, eight five three five. I mean, what do you 442 00:18:09,000 --> 00:18:10,680 Speaker 1: guys think? What do you think? Are you a parent? 443 00:18:10,800 --> 00:18:11,359 Speaker 1: You married? 444 00:18:12,680 --> 00:18:16,840 Speaker 10: I am a parent? Okay, and no, she shouldn't be 445 00:18:16,880 --> 00:18:19,680 Speaker 10: able to go unless mom covers it. So his mom 446 00:18:19,720 --> 00:18:21,120 Speaker 10: wants to be sneaky about it. 447 00:18:21,960 --> 00:18:22,920 Speaker 3: Mom can cover. 448 00:18:22,720 --> 00:18:23,879 Speaker 4: It if I cover it. 449 00:18:23,920 --> 00:18:25,840 Speaker 1: What do you mean, like handle it with She did 450 00:18:25,880 --> 00:18:27,800 Speaker 1: say she's going to handle it with dad, but that 451 00:18:27,800 --> 00:18:29,439 Speaker 1: doesn't does no, no, no, no, no no. 452 00:18:29,480 --> 00:18:32,720 Speaker 10: There is no handling it with dad because Dad's it. No, 453 00:18:33,640 --> 00:18:36,400 Speaker 10: so you decided to go behind Dad and say yes, 454 00:18:36,560 --> 00:18:39,400 Speaker 10: so you can pay for her passport, you can pay 455 00:18:39,400 --> 00:18:42,120 Speaker 10: for the plane ticket, the suitcase, you can pay. 456 00:18:41,920 --> 00:18:43,840 Speaker 1: For everything, but the Asia, I don't think this is 457 00:18:43,880 --> 00:18:47,480 Speaker 1: about money. This is about dad had an opinion. I 458 00:18:47,560 --> 00:18:51,320 Speaker 1: think mom and Dad were aligned and then they weren't, 459 00:18:51,920 --> 00:18:54,280 Speaker 1: and so I think his issue is not with his daughter. 460 00:18:54,320 --> 00:18:56,640 Speaker 1: I think his issue is with his wife. It's like, hey, 461 00:18:56,640 --> 00:18:59,040 Speaker 1: wait a minute, we decided together, here is our position 462 00:18:59,480 --> 00:19:03,320 Speaker 1: as parents, and you decided to override that without telling 463 00:19:03,359 --> 00:19:07,240 Speaker 1: me essentially that's a lie. H. 464 00:19:07,840 --> 00:19:09,000 Speaker 4: So that's the issue. 465 00:19:09,280 --> 00:19:12,159 Speaker 10: I agree with dad though it's not safe for her 466 00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:15,959 Speaker 10: to go to Cabo. Yeah, wants to go to Cabo 467 00:19:16,760 --> 00:19:18,720 Speaker 10: and they already said no. 468 00:19:19,080 --> 00:19:20,080 Speaker 4: Well he said no. 469 00:19:20,240 --> 00:19:24,080 Speaker 10: In my opinion, Dad's opinion is important about her safety 470 00:19:24,240 --> 00:19:24,840 Speaker 10: in Cabo. 471 00:19:25,400 --> 00:19:27,240 Speaker 12: So since she doesn't care. 472 00:19:27,160 --> 00:19:30,520 Speaker 10: Enough to think about her daughter's safety, she can cover 473 00:19:30,560 --> 00:19:34,440 Speaker 10: the truck. Okay, Well, something happens to the daughter, it's 474 00:19:34,480 --> 00:19:36,440 Speaker 10: not going to be Dad's fart because Dad said no. 475 00:19:36,840 --> 00:19:38,800 Speaker 10: And my kids do that, and we have to tell 476 00:19:38,840 --> 00:19:39,600 Speaker 10: my kids. 477 00:19:39,320 --> 00:19:40,240 Speaker 4: To stop doing that. 478 00:19:40,600 --> 00:19:44,240 Speaker 10: When a parent says no, it doesn't matter if mom. 479 00:19:44,040 --> 00:19:46,119 Speaker 12: Said it or Dad said it. You don't go to 480 00:19:46,240 --> 00:19:53,679 Speaker 12: the other parents say yes. Mom went behind d and 481 00:19:53,720 --> 00:19:54,280 Speaker 12: said yes. 482 00:19:54,480 --> 00:19:58,000 Speaker 10: Mom can cover everything. And when something happens, it's on mom. 483 00:19:58,240 --> 00:20:00,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, thank you, Desa. But I not how that's going 484 00:20:00,920 --> 00:20:01,240 Speaker 4: to work. 485 00:20:01,400 --> 00:20:04,080 Speaker 1: God forbid something happens, it's going to affect both of 486 00:20:04,080 --> 00:20:06,080 Speaker 1: them equally. So I don't know that this is a 487 00:20:06,119 --> 00:20:08,080 Speaker 1: thing where Okay, you pay for it, and I told you, 488 00:20:08,960 --> 00:20:11,119 Speaker 1: I don't think anyone's arguing about the money here. It's 489 00:20:11,240 --> 00:20:13,280 Speaker 1: it has more to do with I mean, whatever the 490 00:20:13,320 --> 00:20:16,320 Speaker 1: decision is I mean, I think, you know, there were 491 00:20:16,640 --> 00:20:19,240 Speaker 1: I can remember growing up. You know, my sister and 492 00:20:19,280 --> 00:20:20,880 Speaker 1: I are seven and a half years apart, but there 493 00:20:20,960 --> 00:20:23,560 Speaker 1: was a I want to say, ear piercing debate in 494 00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:24,000 Speaker 1: the house. 495 00:20:24,240 --> 00:20:26,440 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, my dad and I don't want to be 496 00:20:26,480 --> 00:20:26,920 Speaker 4: wrong about this. 497 00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:28,359 Speaker 1: I don't want to misquote my dad here, but I 498 00:20:28,440 --> 00:20:30,199 Speaker 1: want to say he didn't want her to get her 499 00:20:30,320 --> 00:20:32,720 Speaker 1: ear pierced. Maybe in a high up in the ear. 500 00:20:32,760 --> 00:20:35,399 Speaker 1: I can't remember. Cartilage, yeah, there was. There was something 501 00:20:35,400 --> 00:20:38,040 Speaker 1: belly button maybe, I don't remember. There was one. There 502 00:20:38,080 --> 00:20:41,480 Speaker 1: was something that was not that he wasn't comfortable with, 503 00:20:42,080 --> 00:20:45,080 Speaker 1: and my mom overrote him on it, and I don't 504 00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:46,840 Speaker 1: think he was happy about it. But I think that 505 00:20:46,960 --> 00:20:51,000 Speaker 1: was more like a male female thing, like hey, let me, 506 00:20:51,359 --> 00:20:51,800 Speaker 1: I'm going to. 507 00:20:51,840 --> 00:20:53,560 Speaker 4: Handle the appearance. 508 00:20:53,640 --> 00:20:56,560 Speaker 1: And various other things I've heard about male female arguments 509 00:20:56,600 --> 00:20:58,840 Speaker 1: about their daughters and sons when it's like, no, let 510 00:20:58,880 --> 00:21:00,960 Speaker 1: me take this one because I'm a girl or I'm 511 00:21:01,000 --> 00:21:03,679 Speaker 1: a guy, so I can relate to this. You know, 512 00:21:03,880 --> 00:21:06,520 Speaker 1: I've heard about swimsuits and. 513 00:21:07,760 --> 00:21:11,080 Speaker 4: Life shaving is a thing. 514 00:21:09,880 --> 00:21:12,200 Speaker 1: Where it's like you're allowed to have a say it's 515 00:21:12,240 --> 00:21:15,080 Speaker 1: your kid. But like maybe in this particular case, let 516 00:21:15,119 --> 00:21:18,880 Speaker 1: me as the woman, I'm gonna let me take this one. Yeah, 517 00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:20,360 Speaker 1: you know, I think there were times where my dad 518 00:21:20,359 --> 00:21:22,040 Speaker 1: probably said to my mom like let me, I'm gonna 519 00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:24,919 Speaker 1: handle this like this is this is for me, and 520 00:21:24,960 --> 00:21:26,879 Speaker 1: maybe they didn't agree, but it was because maybe they 521 00:21:26,880 --> 00:21:28,120 Speaker 1: didn't relate right. 522 00:21:28,240 --> 00:21:30,560 Speaker 11: Okay, but it's about partnership at the end of the day, 523 00:21:30,640 --> 00:21:32,399 Speaker 11: and you got you gotta trust that your partner is 524 00:21:32,400 --> 00:21:34,840 Speaker 11: making the best decision for your child, and to not 525 00:21:35,000 --> 00:21:37,200 Speaker 11: consult him or just to sneak behind his back is 526 00:21:37,240 --> 00:21:38,359 Speaker 11: a big red flag. 527 00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:38,960 Speaker 4: Yeah. 528 00:21:39,040 --> 00:21:41,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, hey, Will, you're saying it it's okay to go 529 00:21:41,640 --> 00:21:45,120 Speaker 1: down there, so this is all for not Yeah. 530 00:21:45,240 --> 00:21:49,280 Speaker 2: Cabo is fine. I'm a travel agent. The only place they. 531 00:21:49,280 --> 00:21:52,920 Speaker 13: Don't want to go there right now is a portata 532 00:21:53,480 --> 00:21:58,520 Speaker 13: And even that's calming down. But I think the main 533 00:21:58,960 --> 00:22:00,800 Speaker 13: issue here is the wife. 534 00:22:00,920 --> 00:22:02,200 Speaker 3: The wife was wrong. 535 00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:03,040 Speaker 4: She was sold. 536 00:22:03,600 --> 00:22:06,360 Speaker 3: You don't if your father. 537 00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:09,119 Speaker 13: Tells you one thing, the mother shouldn't turn around and 538 00:22:09,160 --> 00:22:12,520 Speaker 13: say something different because now you have dissension in the house. 539 00:22:12,880 --> 00:22:15,040 Speaker 2: It has nothing to do with money. I heard the 540 00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:17,160 Speaker 2: last call. I was saying, nothing to do with money. 541 00:22:17,200 --> 00:22:21,879 Speaker 13: This is about you putting me against my father. 542 00:22:22,640 --> 00:22:25,040 Speaker 7: Now, you like wins in that situation, Like if one 543 00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:27,280 Speaker 7: wants her to go and live her dreams and have 544 00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:30,040 Speaker 7: the experience and one says it's not safe, one person 545 00:22:30,119 --> 00:22:31,760 Speaker 7: is winning, And why does that have to be the dad? 546 00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:33,000 Speaker 4: I guess. 547 00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:36,560 Speaker 13: Actually, I don't think anybody really wins it here, because 548 00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:40,120 Speaker 13: now if I'm the father, I'm I'm angry now at 549 00:22:40,160 --> 00:22:44,199 Speaker 13: my wife. And you know, the daughter's going to have 550 00:22:44,240 --> 00:22:47,000 Speaker 13: a great time regardless as long as she goes. 551 00:22:46,920 --> 00:22:50,120 Speaker 2: To Carbo stays on the resort, she'll be fine. 552 00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:52,399 Speaker 13: So the daughter the house and. 553 00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:57,720 Speaker 1: Think you will have a great damn gout you called. 554 00:22:58,119 --> 00:23:00,840 Speaker 1: I think it's more like, don't make the dad out 555 00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:02,320 Speaker 1: to be the loser in that. Like I don't know 556 00:23:02,359 --> 00:23:05,159 Speaker 1: that anybody's winning or losing. It's it's like, hey, you 557 00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:07,879 Speaker 1: asked for our opinion. We together decided we don't think 558 00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:09,960 Speaker 1: it's safe, and we don't want you to go. If 559 00:23:09,960 --> 00:23:12,040 Speaker 1: you want to go anyway, that's fine, But like, don't 560 00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:13,200 Speaker 1: play one against the. 561 00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:15,600 Speaker 4: Other, right the good cop bad cop thing, because it's. 562 00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:17,800 Speaker 1: Not like dad is the no fun police, Like he 563 00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:22,439 Speaker 1: has concerns about her safety. Okay, that's valid. Yeah, Like 564 00:23:22,440 --> 00:23:25,400 Speaker 1: I don't think it's a bad position to take. It's 565 00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:28,320 Speaker 1: not like, no, you can't go because like I don't 566 00:23:28,359 --> 00:23:31,000 Speaker 1: like Mexico, like that would make him the loser. But 567 00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:33,080 Speaker 1: like he's taking a position of I don't want anything 568 00:23:33,080 --> 00:23:36,040 Speaker 1: bad to happen to you. And granted, you know, regionally, 569 00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:40,199 Speaker 1: maybe she's safe, but like in general, there's issue, there 570 00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:42,119 Speaker 1: are issues in certain parts of the world. Maybe not 571 00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:44,560 Speaker 1: the best time to go. He has a valid argument 572 00:23:44,760 --> 00:23:48,240 Speaker 1: if she decides on her own no, I'm going to 573 00:23:48,280 --> 00:23:49,159 Speaker 1: override you guys and go. 574 00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:49,960 Speaker 4: Well, it's her life. 575 00:23:50,040 --> 00:23:52,119 Speaker 1: But to then go play one against the other, I 576 00:23:52,119 --> 00:23:54,720 Speaker 1: don't now that's an issue between them. 577 00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:55,199 Speaker 4: You know. 578 00:23:55,280 --> 00:23:59,439 Speaker 1: Hey, Blanca, you're saying let her go. 579 00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:03,840 Speaker 14: I'm saying let her go. She's a senior in college. 580 00:24:04,200 --> 00:24:06,520 Speaker 14: She's a little more grown up. She should know how 581 00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:10,240 Speaker 14: to be responsible, Like, let her have fun, let her live, let. 582 00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:11,640 Speaker 3: Her experience new things. 583 00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:13,120 Speaker 4: But I do think we're her mom. 584 00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:16,840 Speaker 1: Yeah maybe, but look, I think I think some of 585 00:24:16,840 --> 00:24:18,879 Speaker 1: the callers and maybe you two are caught up on 586 00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:22,840 Speaker 1: the wrong part of this. The issue is really about 587 00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:28,560 Speaker 1: a partnership where one person violated their their united stance, 588 00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:31,080 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like they could have They 589 00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:33,399 Speaker 1: could have remained divided. You know, she could have said no, 590 00:24:33,560 --> 00:24:36,480 Speaker 1: I really think she should go. I don't agree with you. 591 00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:38,360 Speaker 1: I think it's going to be okay, And he can 592 00:24:38,359 --> 00:24:40,760 Speaker 1: say I'm not comfortable. They can each share their perspective, 593 00:24:40,840 --> 00:24:44,119 Speaker 1: she can make a decision. They decided together no, and 594 00:24:44,160 --> 00:24:45,720 Speaker 1: then the mom went and did her own thing. 595 00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:49,200 Speaker 14: That's I think that's should do that as a mom, 596 00:24:49,400 --> 00:24:51,320 Speaker 14: Like I have a sixteen year old. Me and my 597 00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:55,520 Speaker 14: husband literally argued about my sixteen year old getting her 598 00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:59,639 Speaker 14: belly button pears. He said no, I said, okay, I 599 00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:04,480 Speaker 14: still it took her Anyways. It's just some things moms 600 00:25:04,480 --> 00:25:06,320 Speaker 14: are just going to be like, you know what. Let 601 00:25:06,359 --> 00:25:10,560 Speaker 14: her live, because we understand dads could be overprotective and 602 00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:14,840 Speaker 14: want to take chance opportunities from their daughters just because 603 00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:16,920 Speaker 14: they're scared of what the world might be. 604 00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:18,359 Speaker 3: You can't do that. 605 00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:20,960 Speaker 14: You can't show and install fear in your kids. 606 00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:22,000 Speaker 4: You got to let them live. 607 00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:24,520 Speaker 3: You gotta let them experience could be, could be. 608 00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:28,000 Speaker 14: I feel like that's what the mom is doing in 609 00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:28,639 Speaker 14: this case. 610 00:25:28,800 --> 00:25:30,600 Speaker 4: Okay, fair naugh Hey, thank you Block. I have a 611 00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:31,080 Speaker 4: great day. 612 00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:37,399 Speaker 1: You too, appreciate you, Josh, Yes, you divorce your wife. 613 00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:39,840 Speaker 1: Good morning, you divorce your wife over this very thing? 614 00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:43,840 Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, it's undermining is something I think that 615 00:25:43,920 --> 00:25:46,760 Speaker 5: is an understatement in the conversation. I think it needs 616 00:25:46,800 --> 00:25:49,840 Speaker 5: to be talked about more one of many issues. 617 00:25:49,880 --> 00:25:51,400 Speaker 3: But yeah, undermining and parenting. 618 00:25:51,600 --> 00:25:54,320 Speaker 5: I mean, my kids are younger and actually teenagers now, 619 00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:58,679 Speaker 5: but constant undermining in parental decisions is something that I 620 00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:01,439 Speaker 5: think is really the problem here that needs to be 621 00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:04,199 Speaker 5: discussed more. The fact that they discussed this and agreed 622 00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:07,240 Speaker 5: to it and she went behind his back to me 623 00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:10,200 Speaker 5: is the biggest problem. I'm not saying the safety of 624 00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:14,639 Speaker 5: the daughter in Cavo is necessarily not an issue, but 625 00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:17,440 Speaker 5: the fact that she goes behind his back. I guarantee 626 00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:19,199 Speaker 5: you is someone that lived in a marriage for fourteen 627 00:26:19,280 --> 00:26:22,160 Speaker 5: years where this happened repeatedly. This is in the first 628 00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:24,200 Speaker 5: time he's dealt with this, So I say go. 629 00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:26,080 Speaker 1: And I do think that people are caught up on 630 00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:29,959 Speaker 1: the wrong points, like this has everything to do with 631 00:26:30,040 --> 00:26:32,200 Speaker 1: mom and dad, not the twenty one year old daughter. 632 00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:35,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's exactly what I'm saying. 633 00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:37,200 Speaker 5: It is so important and it is such an important 634 00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:40,119 Speaker 5: part of parenting and being in a marriage and raising 635 00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:44,200 Speaker 5: children together, and when when partners decide whether they're married 636 00:26:44,280 --> 00:26:46,400 Speaker 5: or not, when partners decide on certain things and you're 637 00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:49,240 Speaker 5: especially when you're in the same household and one person 638 00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:53,720 Speaker 5: undermines the other one, it completely humiliates the other parents 639 00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:57,200 Speaker 5: in a way that over time cannot be repaired. So, yeah, 640 00:26:57,280 --> 00:26:58,919 Speaker 5: it would have been I know he's gone now, but 641 00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:00,840 Speaker 5: it would have been a great question ask is this 642 00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:03,160 Speaker 5: repeated behavior as it happened once or twice? 643 00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:05,320 Speaker 3: Because I bet money that it's happened a lot. 644 00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:07,880 Speaker 1: I think in any layer of leadership, whether it's at 645 00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:11,960 Speaker 1: work or in parent, parental relationship or whatever relationship, if 646 00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:16,280 Speaker 1: someone is going to override someone else's decision in the hierarchy, 647 00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:19,280 Speaker 1: then that has there has to be a careful dance there. 648 00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:23,080 Speaker 1: Because what happens is the dad now looks like he 649 00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:25,600 Speaker 1: is power, Like he looks like his opinion does not 650 00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:28,920 Speaker 1: matter about anything, Like we don't even care what he thinks. 651 00:27:28,960 --> 00:27:31,240 Speaker 1: And that's not fair to him because he's fifty percent 652 00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:33,800 Speaker 1: responsible for this child or and you know in this 653 00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:37,600 Speaker 1: case adult, but who asked for the opinion? So now 654 00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:39,240 Speaker 1: it's like, well, if I don't like the answer, I'll 655 00:27:39,280 --> 00:27:41,920 Speaker 1: just go to mom. Every single time, and I don't 656 00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:44,280 Speaker 1: I don't think that's that's not fair to the partnership. 657 00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:45,840 Speaker 4: But thank you, Josh, I appreciate you. 658 00:27:45,840 --> 00:27:45,959 Speaker 1: Man. 659 00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:46,560 Speaker 4: Have a good day. 660 00:27:47,320 --> 00:27:49,919 Speaker 3: Yeah, you two guys, thinks Camen his entertainment report. 661 00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:51,240 Speaker 4: He's on the Pread Show. 662 00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:56,400 Speaker 7: I told you yesterday that Timothy Shallamy angered ex fans 663 00:27:56,480 --> 00:27:59,800 Speaker 7: of opera and Broadway unnecessarily. Remember he was talking to 664 00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:03,000 Speaker 7: Matthew McConaughey. They were doing I still don't know what 665 00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:04,440 Speaker 7: a town hall is, what they call it that. I 666 00:28:04,480 --> 00:28:06,520 Speaker 7: don't know they're talking. It sounds old timy to me, 667 00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:09,159 Speaker 7: but it was for no reason, and he was like, 668 00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:11,399 Speaker 7: nobody cares about opera or ballet anymore. 669 00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:12,639 Speaker 4: And that seemed to sit. 670 00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:15,800 Speaker 7: Well with a lot of people, most recently, doja cat 671 00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:18,160 Speaker 7: yes please okay? 672 00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:19,439 Speaker 6: Eight. 673 00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:23,560 Speaker 15: By the way, opera is four hundred years old, ballet 674 00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:29,000 Speaker 15: is five hundred years old. Somebody named Timid ta Chi 675 00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:32,280 Speaker 15: Lammet had the nerve, big guy, by the way, I 676 00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:32,600 Speaker 15: had the. 677 00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:35,639 Speaker 4: Nerve to say on camera that nobody cares about it. 678 00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:36,840 Speaker 4: I'm sure you can walk. 679 00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:39,360 Speaker 15: Into an opera theater right now, seats will be filled 680 00:28:39,400 --> 00:28:42,080 Speaker 15: out and nobody's saying a word. As the performance is 681 00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:44,960 Speaker 15: going because everybody has that much respect for it, and 682 00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:48,320 Speaker 15: people go there every day to the dance studio. Dancers 683 00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:52,000 Speaker 15: show up eight am, six am, whatever. They show up 684 00:28:52,200 --> 00:28:55,120 Speaker 15: and they break and they bleed. It doesn't matter if 685 00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:58,200 Speaker 15: the industry is having a tough time at any time, 686 00:28:58,280 --> 00:29:00,760 Speaker 15: which a lot of industries have a tough time. Your 687 00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:03,880 Speaker 15: industry has a tough time, My industry has a tough time. 688 00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:06,360 Speaker 15: Doesn't mean people don't care about it. You show up 689 00:29:06,520 --> 00:29:09,240 Speaker 15: in a nice outfit, you sit down and shut the 690 00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:10,200 Speaker 15: fuck up. 691 00:29:10,600 --> 00:29:14,040 Speaker 7: Where's that name again, timidate Chala May And then she 692 00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:17,000 Speaker 7: goes a buddy name, big guy, timidate Chialamit. 693 00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:22,400 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, and I shout out to Joja. 694 00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:23,920 Speaker 7: I kind of felt the same, like, I don't know 695 00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:27,880 Speaker 7: why you're disrespecting people's like our forum or job or 696 00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:29,480 Speaker 7: like there was just no reason for it. 697 00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:30,800 Speaker 4: And he's a thesbian. 698 00:29:31,240 --> 00:29:33,200 Speaker 7: That's what I thought, right, Like, sir, you went to 699 00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:36,600 Speaker 7: theater high school and you were cosplaying some weirdo rapper. 700 00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:40,840 Speaker 4: So timidate Shalamit, sit down, you know what Doja Bob? 701 00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:42,720 Speaker 4: It's right. I'm on your side with this one. 702 00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:45,719 Speaker 7: Everybody's industry struggles and people still care about the Ballet 703 00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:50,560 Speaker 7: and the Opera. In other music news, Our iHeartRadio Music 704 00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:54,160 Speaker 7: Awards are back coming to Fox March twenty sixth, the 705 00:29:54,400 --> 00:29:56,760 Speaker 7: award show for fans, Yes, it's coming back. We need 706 00:29:56,840 --> 00:29:59,560 Speaker 7: to celebrate. And tomorrow I'm very excited. At eight or nine, 707 00:29:59,640 --> 00:30:02,040 Speaker 7: depending on where you are, you will find out. We 708 00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:03,880 Speaker 7: will all find out because I don't even know yet 709 00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:07,560 Speaker 7: which of your favorite artists will be performing. Don't miss 710 00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:10,600 Speaker 7: it tomorrow eight or nine right here, and uh yeah, 711 00:30:10,720 --> 00:30:11,400 Speaker 7: we're excited. 712 00:30:11,800 --> 00:30:14,600 Speaker 4: Any guesses any We're gonna shot high. We're gonna say 713 00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:18,200 Speaker 4: Taylor is gonna make an appearance. Okay, that is on 714 00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:18,920 Speaker 4: our wish list. 715 00:30:19,240 --> 00:30:20,800 Speaker 7: And if you want to catch up on any of 716 00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:23,360 Speaker 7: the reports or anything else you might miss today or 717 00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:25,760 Speaker 7: any day, The Fred Show on demand on the free iHeartRadio. 718 00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:29,320 Speaker 4: It's the Fred Show. Do you have what it takes 719 00:30:29,440 --> 00:30:32,760 Speaker 4: to battle show biz? Shelley in the show Biz Showdown? 720 00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:37,240 Speaker 1: What would you do Shelley if you made a decision 721 00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:42,800 Speaker 1: for your kids? And then Mike said, you guys decide together? Yeah, 722 00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:47,680 Speaker 1: Mike the Admiral, And then Admiral says, actually, Olivia, you 723 00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:49,720 Speaker 1: know what you head. 724 00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:50,240 Speaker 3: On out right? 725 00:30:50,280 --> 00:30:54,040 Speaker 4: You go to a besy girl, you head on out there. 726 00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:57,120 Speaker 4: I've seen him. You're listening to Hell Time. I know 727 00:30:57,280 --> 00:30:59,920 Speaker 4: you'd be pissed, wouldn't you. I would be I would. 728 00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:03,080 Speaker 16: This happens with like little things sometimes, like I'm like no, no, no, 729 00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:05,120 Speaker 16: I Pat He was like, oh, just five minutes, it's fine, 730 00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:08,440 Speaker 16: like weed and so yeah, so I could see as 731 00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:11,160 Speaker 16: they get older it gets more difficult. So yeah, you 732 00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:12,520 Speaker 16: gotta be on the same page. I feel like that 733 00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:14,040 Speaker 16: these things complicated. 734 00:31:14,160 --> 00:31:19,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think so too. Hey, Bobby, Hey guys, morning, Bobby. 735 00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:22,600 Speaker 1: Bobby's just chilling man, real casual this week Yeah. Yeah, 736 00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:24,560 Speaker 1: yesterday I kind of killed it. Today, I'm probably to 737 00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:26,000 Speaker 1: do it again. You know what's up? 738 00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:26,360 Speaker 4: Bobby? 739 00:31:29,560 --> 00:31:31,840 Speaker 1: And twenty eight wins for Shelley all time seventy seven loss. 740 00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:34,240 Speaker 1: It's eight hundred and fifty bucks a tie with Bobby yesterday, 741 00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:36,520 Speaker 1: which means he may earn himself an extra fifty bucks. 742 00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:40,360 Speaker 1: You guys ready, yes, okay, all right, Bobby, Good luck 743 00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:43,560 Speaker 1: Shelley audios a sound booth poof. She could not hear 744 00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:47,600 Speaker 1: the questions question number one for you, Bobby, even though 745 00:31:47,640 --> 00:31:51,560 Speaker 1: he's hosting this weekend, which singer crashed Ryan Gosling's opening 746 00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:57,480 Speaker 1: monologue on SNL last Saturday, Very, which actor made disparaging 747 00:31:57,560 --> 00:32:02,280 Speaker 1: and unnecessary comments about ballet an opera while talking to 748 00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:12,040 Speaker 1: Matthew McConaughey. Timothy Yeah, speaking of that, which paint the 749 00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:15,040 Speaker 1: town red Rapper posted a video calling him out for 750 00:32:15,120 --> 00:32:15,760 Speaker 1: those comments. 751 00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:19,280 Speaker 4: That was two free questions for you right there. 752 00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:22,560 Speaker 1: Actress Christina Applegate told Robin Roberts last week that she's 753 00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:27,960 Speaker 1: in constant pain, but putting on this TV network helps 754 00:32:28,080 --> 00:32:28,800 Speaker 1: name the network. 755 00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:35,760 Speaker 4: Three and which that's That's how I would answer that. 756 00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:39,320 Speaker 1: Which Miami rapper is knocking down one of his childhood 757 00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:42,000 Speaker 1: homes and building a new office for his mister three 758 00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:46,400 Speaker 1: to zero five headquarters, super hard. All right, that's a four. 759 00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:49,840 Speaker 1: That's a good score. And you were paying attention. You 760 00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:54,480 Speaker 1: got a couple of free ones there, four four again, Yeah, 761 00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:57,960 Speaker 1: he's good. Question number one for you show Bis Shelley 762 00:32:58,160 --> 00:33:00,880 Speaker 1: even though he's hosting this weekend which thinger crashed. Ryan 763 00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:05,280 Speaker 1: Gosling's opening monologue on SNL last weekend, Harry South Yeah, 764 00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:10,040 Speaker 1: which actor made disparaging and unnecessary comments about ballet and 765 00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:12,720 Speaker 1: opera while talking to Matthew McConaughey. 766 00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:15,080 Speaker 4: Timothy Shellett, that's exactly right. 767 00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:18,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly speaking of that which paint the town red, 768 00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:21,200 Speaker 1: Rapper posted a video calling him out for those comments. 769 00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:22,480 Speaker 6: Yeah. 770 00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:25,400 Speaker 1: Actress Christina Ablegate told Robin Roberts last week that she's 771 00:33:25,440 --> 00:33:29,200 Speaker 1: in constant pain, but putting on this TV network helps 772 00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:29,960 Speaker 1: name the network. 773 00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:32,320 Speaker 4: Bravo. Bravo's right, And which. 774 00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:34,600 Speaker 1: Miami rapper is knocking down one of his childhood homes 775 00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:36,440 Speaker 1: and building a new office for his mister three to 776 00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:37,520 Speaker 1: zero five headquarters. 777 00:33:37,960 --> 00:33:41,280 Speaker 4: Peopull's right, that's a five. That is a win. Bobby. 778 00:33:41,480 --> 00:33:43,760 Speaker 4: You did great, my dude, but you gotta say it. 779 00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:44,920 Speaker 4: My name is Bobby. 780 00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:47,120 Speaker 1: I got showed up on a showdown and you can't 781 00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:49,000 Speaker 1: hang with the gorilla, and I don't have the voice 782 00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:50,520 Speaker 1: for it today, so I'm really counting on you. 783 00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:54,680 Speaker 3: My name is Bobby. I got showed up on the 784 00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:55,560 Speaker 3: showdown and I. 785 00:33:55,600 --> 00:34:01,320 Speaker 4: Can't hang with the gorilla. It was pretty good. 786 00:34:01,680 --> 00:34:03,560 Speaker 1: That was a good job, Bobby. Hang on one second, man, 787 00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:05,200 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for playing for listening. Have a 788 00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:09,359 Speaker 1: great take. Good job, all right, you stay right there, Shelley. Yes, 789 00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:13,480 Speaker 1: excellent work. So we're up to nine hundred bucks. Tomorrow 790 00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:16,840 Speaker 1: we number one and twenty nine, and I don't know 791 00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:18,920 Speaker 1: what the wind streak like, thirteen or fourteen, something like that. 792 00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:22,359 Speaker 4: So a very good job. We'll play again tomorrow. Rest 793 00:34:22,480 --> 00:34:26,319 Speaker 4: up sounds good, but no, Okay, you have a good bye. 794 00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:26,680 Speaker 6: Thank you. 795 00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:28,799 Speaker 3: I'm gonna have a. 796 00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:30,640 Speaker 1: Good one, Shelley. I'm gonna have a good one. Thank 797 00:34:30,680 --> 00:34:33,200 Speaker 1: you for asking or for for requesting that of me. 798 00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:36,239 Speaker 1: I'm really gonna do my best work. Waiting by the phone. 799 00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:38,960 Speaker 1: Why did somebody get ghosted? Fun fact? We'll do headlines 800 00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:41,879 Speaker 1: and the entertainment of fort neet more Bread Show next.