WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Big Fajita Energy

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<v Speaker 1>It's Brig and Jeffrey in the morning, a brand new

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<v Speaker 1>second date today. I'm laughing because we never return a

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<v Speaker 1>return guest. She was definitely a surprise to us, and yes,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe one of the most hated people we've ever had

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<v Speaker 1>on the show. Disliked it's a nicer way to say it,

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<v Speaker 1>but maybe hated now, Yes, just listen to the whole

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<v Speaker 1>thing and yesterday's awkward Tuesday about not a pregnancy surprise,

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<v Speaker 1>not a BBL surprise, definitely a.

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<v Speaker 2>Lot of comments. What do you see, alexis?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Logan commented and said I knew it was going

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<v Speaker 3>to be good when I saw the title, and then

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<v Speaker 3>he replied to himself and has said had to reply

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<v Speaker 3>after I heard the word BBL.

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<v Speaker 4>A bunch of emojis.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and then we got OMG, this was the most

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<v Speaker 3>hilarious awkward call ever. It's hard to make me actually, lol,

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<v Speaker 3>but I loled on this one. O. Yet another another

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<v Speaker 3>ten out of ten.

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<v Speaker 1>Hard watch, but worth it, A hard watch, Yeah, awesome, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>hard listen for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, yeah, well, thank you so much for being here.

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<v Speaker 2>Definitely let us.

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<v Speaker 1>Know how you feel about this one, Oh doozy, and

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<v Speaker 1>it starts right now.

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<v Speaker 4>Second date up dated. I think for most guys in

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<v Speaker 4>the dating world, and this isn't universally true, but I

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<v Speaker 4>think a lot of men are pretty lazy when it

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<v Speaker 4>comes to dating. Really, you're just kind of coasting along,

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<v Speaker 4>having fun, meeting, ghosting, whatever, until you meet that one

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<v Speaker 4>girl who changes everything. She blows the doors off and

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<v Speaker 4>makes you think, I will do whatever it takes to

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<v Speaker 4>date her. I will give up my hobbies, I will

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<v Speaker 4>betray my own family. I will do it if she

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<v Speaker 4>says yes, right, be careful and.

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<v Speaker 2>That we're talking about two extremes.

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<v Speaker 4>Right now, Jeff, why welcome to the male mind, And

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<v Speaker 4>that happened recently to one of our listeners. His name

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<v Speaker 4>is Isaac. Isaac from your email, it sounds like you're

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<v Speaker 4>ready to finally become a better man. Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 4>Is that true? Am I overextending with this? Or do

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<v Speaker 4>you really feel like this girl is special?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh no, she definitely was. I mean it was definitely

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<v Speaker 5>a unique experience at first for me.

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<v Speaker 2>She was.

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<v Speaker 5>She was just amazing. She was a great girl and

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<v Speaker 5>just yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, a little more seriously then, Yeah, So what's this

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<v Speaker 4>lady's name?

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<v Speaker 5>Her name's Aura, Aura that's kind of fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Where'd you meet her?

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<v Speaker 5>We're on a dating app, and uh, she's really confident.

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<v Speaker 5>That's really sexy to me because.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not the most confident.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm kind of shy, kind of just kind of go

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<v Speaker 5>with the flow. But I'm definitely confidence isn't isn't really

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<v Speaker 5>like my strong point.

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<v Speaker 1>So interesting, So, I mean it must be out of

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<v Speaker 1>the norm for you then to.

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<v Speaker 2>Call a radio show for help. Yeah, I mean that's

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<v Speaker 2>a good step towards confidence. And yeah, it.

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<v Speaker 5>Took a lot for me to do this. But she's

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<v Speaker 5>a hell of a lady.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, wow, man moves. Okay, so what did I'm assuming

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<v Speaker 4>you actually met up with her?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so we were gonna meet at the bar, and

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<v Speaker 5>so I got there first and I was sitting at

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<v Speaker 5>a booth kind of face of the door, and when

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<v Speaker 5>she walked in, I mean it was like, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>when like Faida's come out in the restaurant, everybody does work.

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<v Speaker 1>That is really the perfect description though, because whenever they

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<v Speaker 1>come out, no matter how many times you've seen them,

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<v Speaker 1>you turn around and look, oh I.

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<v Speaker 4>Want some of that.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, you could definitely say she had Sahata energy.

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<v Speaker 4>We're off to a really good start of the date.

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<v Speaker 4>How did the rest of it go?

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<v Speaker 5>She sat down and immediately that she just started spilling out.

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<v Speaker 5>She did what she wanted to drink, she did what

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<v Speaker 5>she wanted to eat. So it was really cool.

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<v Speaker 2>Was your connection with her?

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<v Speaker 7>Like?

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<v Speaker 1>Because it's a lot about like how.

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<v Speaker 2>Amazing she was, but like, what did you two bond over?

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>She was easy to talk to, which is another issue

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<v Speaker 5>with me, is sometimes I don't really have the compidence

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<v Speaker 5>to talk to girls. But she would ask questions, and

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<v Speaker 5>she would ask about being I just felt comfortable.

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<v Speaker 8>Dude.

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<v Speaker 7>You know they say opposites a tract, and this sounds

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<v Speaker 7>like the perfect example.

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<v Speaker 4>She brings you outside of your shell a little bit.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, you feel like this could compliment you in

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<v Speaker 4>a relationshiship totally, So like what type of questions were

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<v Speaker 4>you tossing back and forth between each other.

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<v Speaker 5>We start having a just basic conversation, talking a little

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<v Speaker 5>bit about family, but then it got a little, in

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<v Speaker 5>my opinion.

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<v Speaker 6>Just weird.

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<v Speaker 5>It's a little bit different conversation because she she ends

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<v Speaker 5>up asking me how many other women that I'm dating

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<v Speaker 5>at the time?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that a normal question? Alexis I honestly don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like everyone knows people are talking to multiple people.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't think it's bad. As if I don't

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<v Speaker 2>think it's bad.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, if I was you, Isaac, I would take

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<v Speaker 4>it as a compliment that she's like, oh, you must

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<v Speaker 4>have lots of other ladies trying to lock you down.

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<v Speaker 4>How many others did you answer that question?

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<v Speaker 5>Well? I said it was two, but I'd lie a

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<v Speaker 5>little bit. I mean, I'm just seeing her. I want

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<v Speaker 5>to see them like I want to.

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<v Speaker 4>Like four, like something a little more exciting.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what's from I would it freak you

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<v Speaker 1>out if he said I'm only seeing you? No?

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<v Speaker 3>But what if you're debating between other people, Like a

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<v Speaker 3>guy tells you zero that you like equally, you might

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<v Speaker 3>go for him versus guy with two.

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<v Speaker 4>No. Okay, but at least the guy would too. Seems

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<v Speaker 4>a little bit more wanted, more desired.

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<v Speaker 2>It depends what she's into, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>Not totally unaccessible though, But I want to know. Did

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<v Speaker 4>you ask that question back to her?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I asked her what she said?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay?

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<v Speaker 4>Wow?

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<v Speaker 5>She says she was dating a couple of guys too.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so she just mirrored your response.

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<v Speaker 4>She said what you said, all right?

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<v Speaker 5>Then she took a shot and just like stared.

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<v Speaker 3>At me, a solo shot without you pounded some tequila.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, she really did, and it was kind of was like,

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<v Speaker 5>are you ready to step up?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh wows on the first days, that's a different.

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<v Speaker 4>This girl's really sounding like a personality, so like the

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<v Speaker 4>confidence even the description exudes this woman, Like she sounds

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<v Speaker 4>like she takes charge.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like that's almost scary.

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<v Speaker 4>Guys like to be scared a little bit. Really, how

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<v Speaker 4>just a little a little? How long did you two

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<v Speaker 4>spend together at this bar?

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<v Speaker 5>It was about forty five minutes and then she says

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<v Speaker 5>you had to go.

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<v Speaker 1>Like a shot. She asked for your number, She took

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<v Speaker 1>a shot, and she's like, it's really.

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<v Speaker 4>Funny to think about.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we're joking, but why do you think it

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<v Speaker 1>was only forty five minutes when you were to dinner.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know. Maybe she got what she wanted out

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<v Speaker 5>of me. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>Hmm. Has there been any contact since that day?

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<v Speaker 5>So it was about ten days ago this happen, and

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<v Speaker 5>maybe every day I sent her one like nice message

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<v Speaker 5>and but.

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<v Speaker 1>She responding every Listen, if she's responding, it's fine.

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<v Speaker 5>She responded to the first couple, but she pretty much

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<v Speaker 5>stopped so.

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<v Speaker 1>But what's strange about this is like you think a

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<v Speaker 1>woman that's that direct would just tell.

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<v Speaker 4>You, yeah, I'm not fine, you know, like.

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<v Speaker 1>Why why would she ghost?

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<v Speaker 4>Why wouldn't she too many tequila shots and now she

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<v Speaker 4>needs time to recover before she musters up the strength

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<v Speaker 4>to write a text. Or maybe she wants a guy

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<v Speaker 4>to come after her.

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<v Speaker 1>She wants.

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<v Speaker 7>What she want.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't think of that.

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<v Speaker 4>That's true. Okay, it's possible that she is waiting to

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<v Speaker 4>be chased, and that's exactly what we're going to do

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<v Speaker 4>when we call her.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I mean, I feel like having the radio station

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<v Speaker 5>call is a pretty bold move, and I might say, like, hey,

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<v Speaker 5>she's the guy, he's.

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<v Speaker 1>The one, Okay, right, let's be bold.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's do it. In fact, let's all slam some shots

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<v Speaker 4>right before we come back.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I think you're already slurring when you said that.

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<v Speaker 4>It's gonna make this call real interesting. Whatever it is,

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<v Speaker 4>we'll do it with your second date update right after

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<v Speaker 4>this hold on second date update, I think we may

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<v Speaker 4>have just coined a new dating term. On the show

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<v Speaker 4>here did big Fahida energy because our listener Isaac said,

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<v Speaker 4>the lady he went out with had it in spades

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<v Speaker 4>as she was turning heads walking into the bar that

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<v Speaker 4>night like a big sizzling tray of fiel.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, everybody got a lot.

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<v Speaker 4>Unfortunately for him though, the date only lasted forty five

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<v Speaker 4>minutes and she took a shot right in the middle

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<v Speaker 4>of it.

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<v Speaker 2>But that it was not upsetting to him.

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<v Speaker 4>No, that's just that bf E big Fahida energy carrying.

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<v Speaker 4>How Come she didn't buy him or he didn't buy

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<v Speaker 4>himself a shot so they could cheers?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, shot to go.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think it was about him, Na, it was

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<v Speaker 2>all about her.

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<v Speaker 4>And it's been ten days since they last saw each other.

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<v Speaker 4>He's hoping that this move of having us reach out

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<v Speaker 4>to her will prove that he is different than all

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<v Speaker 4>the other guys that she's ever seen before.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, but he's.

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<v Speaker 4>Outside of the box right now.

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<v Speaker 2>He's not a very confident guy.

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<v Speaker 1>When you think confidence, you think our show radio listener, right, Isaac.

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<v Speaker 5>Yep, I cry sometimes, but yeah cry sometimes.

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<v Speaker 2>We all cry. Man, It's good.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that what you said?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm pretty sure, he said. Try. But if we label

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<v Speaker 4>him as a crier.

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<v Speaker 6>I think that's okay.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm trying.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm confident, then cry Jeff.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm a little nervous right now, you're good.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you need to channel your own big Faheita energy

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<v Speaker 4>before we get her on the phone.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you're right.

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<v Speaker 2>Remember you're the one that ordered the fajidas. What right

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<v Speaker 2>I do?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to give him confidence. Yeah, like take charge

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<v Speaker 1>of the situation. Tita's are coming to your table because

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<v Speaker 1>you made it happen.

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<v Speaker 3>Brook's taking it too far.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, she's gonna ask for a tip when this is

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<v Speaker 4>out again.

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<v Speaker 2>So let's just I will never start a cool trend

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<v Speaker 2>on the show.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's let's just stop and we're gonna call her. Hopefully

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<v Speaker 4>she picks up. But I'm really excited to talk to

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<v Speaker 4>Aura here. Well Hey is this Aura? Yeah, Hey Aura,

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<v Speaker 4>thanks for picking up the phone. We're actually we're a

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<v Speaker 4>radio show. We're called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning

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<v Speaker 4>and uh, good morning. How you doing today?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah? Oh my god, you guys again seriously again again?

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<v Speaker 7>A wait, you've gotta be kidding me. What do you

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<v Speaker 7>want now?

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<v Speaker 8>Well?

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, do you know us?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so sorry.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, you guys called me like four months ago you

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<v Speaker 7>called me for some.

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<v Speaker 6>Like second date, al bay, but that is not a.

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<v Speaker 4>Second it's actually a much better second definitely not.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, wait, wait, we've never we did not talk to

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<v Speaker 1>an aura four months ago.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't remember.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean what am I saying? I usually forget people's

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<v Speaker 2>day the.

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<v Speaker 4>Second Yeah, so this is called second date update by

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<v Speaker 4>the way.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, whatever, but like your guy wanted to date me,

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<v Speaker 7>but I was dating.

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<v Speaker 6>A lot of people at the time.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like everybody sounds.

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<v Speaker 5>Is it?

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<v Speaker 8>Wait a second, Okay, you remember were you the one

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<v Speaker 8>who you were like dating a bunch of people and

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<v Speaker 8>you wanted our listener to be the third guy in

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<v Speaker 8>your list.

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<v Speaker 4>Of situationships like a roster. Yeah, there was like other

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<v Speaker 4>guys and she was like, you could be my third

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<v Speaker 4>if you want to remember.

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<v Speaker 6>That you like your show? Seriously, like, nothing better to

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<v Speaker 6>do than call me.

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<v Speaker 4>This is what our job is to do.

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<v Speaker 2>This kind of like an insult.

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<v Speaker 4>And the short answer to that is no, we don't.

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<v Speaker 4>The longer answer is we're actually doing this to help

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<v Speaker 4>out a listener because the dating world is tough right

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<v Speaker 4>now and it can be really confusing for somebody, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>when you feel a connection.

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<v Speaker 6>No, I get it, I get it. I already heard

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<v Speaker 6>the spiel. But when you called me the first time?

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<v Speaker 4>Uh huh?

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<v Speaker 6>So like, who is it now? Who's the guy?

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<v Speaker 2>Good question?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, well there's a new one named Isaac.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh god, what oh?

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<v Speaker 1>What was wrong with Isaac? Isaac felt like he was special?

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<v Speaker 2>But he did.

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<v Speaker 1>You asked some questions, you were engaged, you seem interested.

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<v Speaker 4>Good job, Brooke, that's true. Gets super specific with it, there, Brooke,

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<v Speaker 4>you took a shot. Remember the shot you took.

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<v Speaker 7>Can we just like skip to the part where you

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<v Speaker 7>tell me he's on the phone listening, But I'll just

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<v Speaker 7>stop the head.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, clearly, Okay, you've definitely done this before.

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<v Speaker 2>No, Or, she's going to take Jeffer's job soon.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, she's pretty good. Well, since you know, hey, Isaac,

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<v Speaker 4>you're up, bud, so good luck. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't feel like you set you up for success,

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<v Speaker 2>right there?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, go ahead, Isaac talk to her.

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<v Speaker 7>Ay Or, Isaac, this was a really really bad move.

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<v Speaker 6>But really it was these radio people.

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<v Speaker 7>They don't know what the hell they're doing.

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<v Speaker 6>You never should all them.

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<v Speaker 1>We're talking you about wed successful second dates.

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<v Speaker 8>Sometimes your voice is extremely high when you said that,

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<v Speaker 8>I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't, but don't apologize.

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<v Speaker 7>Learn your lesson, delete their numbers. They're pests, like leaking

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<v Speaker 7>off of our lives.

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<v Speaker 1>We're not leading off your lives. We're just trying to

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<v Speaker 1>help Isaac out because he liked you.

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<v Speaker 4>By attaching ourselves to his story and taking credit.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you wouldn't call him back, Like, what is the

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<v Speaker 1>guy supposed to do?

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<v Speaker 6>Chang off of our lives?

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<v Speaker 2>There's no r You didn't call him back. You weren't

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<v Speaker 2>contact him.

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<v Speaker 6>You're calling me twice?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well, I don't know how to tell you this,

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<v Speaker 1>but you weren't that rememberable.

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<v Speaker 2>We didn't remember you.

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I don't. I don't mind that. Can you tell

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<v Speaker 6>the Karen to stop talking?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm the Karen.

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<v Speaker 4>We're just gonna recluse ourselves because I think we're making

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<v Speaker 4>it worse. Why don't you just talk directly to her?

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<v Speaker 4>All right?

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<v Speaker 7>Well? Mind?

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<v Speaker 5>Did you say that they already called you before? Like

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<v Speaker 5>about like a different guy? Multiple?

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<v Speaker 7>It sounds like that's my business and the time that

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<v Speaker 7>we spent together.

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<v Speaker 6>I would call you if it was good.

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<v Speaker 4>Whoa Okay, but you didn't say why it wasn't good all.

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<v Speaker 7>First of all, you've been texting me good morning every.

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<v Speaker 6>Day at eight am?

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<v Speaker 5>But how is that a bad thing? Like, I'm just

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<v Speaker 5>being nice and it's nothing bad about that.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, think about it.

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<v Speaker 4>Think about it? What are you doing?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, that's when I wake up and I just

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<v Speaker 5>wanted to say something nice.

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<v Speaker 6>You know who says things like that?

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<v Speaker 7>Though non alphas, it is kind of true.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean an alpha, that was a lot.

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<v Speaker 7>You can keep looking in the mirror and telling yourself

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<v Speaker 7>that and like maybe someday your fairy godmother will appear

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<v Speaker 7>with a magic wand and make you into a real

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<v Speaker 7>life alpha.

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<v Speaker 2>That was so condescending.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like since you're in alpha, or don't you

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<v Speaker 1>want someone who's not? Like two alphas together, all you

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<v Speaker 1>end up doing is fighting.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh I need a real man. I need a real man.

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<v Speaker 1>What does it make him a real because he said

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<v Speaker 1>good morning?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>Were you mad saying good night too?

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<v Speaker 7>Okay?

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<v Speaker 6>Do you to hang off?

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<v Speaker 7>Can you hang up on him or me?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, you see how this is going.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, wait, but Jeffrey has to ask a question. He's

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<v Speaker 1>got to ask the question before you hang up because

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<v Speaker 1>he is alpha.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, okay, okay, that was extremely condescending for no reason.

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<v Speaker 1>It's more thought of all of this, like stereotypical male

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<v Speaker 1>stuff that bothers me.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm sorry. Continue.

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<v Speaker 4>Normally I would ask if you two would go out

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<v Speaker 4>on another day, but it sounds like you're already hitting

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<v Speaker 4>it off so well. I don't want to stop the

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<v Speaker 4>chemistry anymore than it's already happen you.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't. I don't care.

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<v Speaker 6>Guys, can you do me a favor?

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<v Speaker 7>Any more of your sim friends I accidentally match with?

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<v Speaker 6>Do not call me? Okay?

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<v Speaker 7>You know why?

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<v Speaker 2>Now?

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<v Speaker 4>All right? We do not call it? All right? Okay?

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<v Speaker 4>She hung up.

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<v Speaker 1>She was terrible, Isaac.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know about you. Guys kind of liked it.

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<v Speaker 4>He's one of those guys. He likes getting down a

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<v Speaker 4>little pushed around a little bit.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, not even a little.

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<v Speaker 4>That was alright.

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<v Speaker 2>Relation he wants to be a masculine.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Brook, make his fantasies come true. Tell him something horrible,

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<v Speaker 4>you get him.

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<v Speaker 1>I was going to tell him that he deserved more,

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<v Speaker 1>but I guess he doesn't want to hear that.

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<v Speaker 5>I deserve more. Aura, that's what I deserve.

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<v Speaker 2>King texting. I'm sure you'll get it back from.

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<v Speaker 4>Her luck Jeffrey in the morning. Does our producer not

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<v Speaker 4>check these phone numbers before we call them?

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<v Speaker 2>It's a good idea. Let's blame him.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I like that.

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<v Speaker 2>We don't blame Boyd enough.

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<v Speaker 1>No, we don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>You know what. I think we need some type of

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<v Speaker 4>overly confident woman to sit down and have a word

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<v Speaker 4>with our producer.

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<v Speaker 1>Isn't that Oh yeah, I'll go yell at him.

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<v Speaker 6>No problem.

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<v Speaker 2>He's not very scared of me, is the only problem.

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<v Speaker 4>You got to really bring the intensity when you have

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<v Speaker 4>that meeting.

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<v Speaker 2>He usually laughs and that makes fun of me afterwards.

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<v Speaker 4>That's okay with Isaac. I don't know if he's fully

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<v Speaker 4>ready to give up on this yet or not. My

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<v Speaker 4>guess is he's definitely going to be sending her a

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<v Speaker 4>few more texts though.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, but listen, No, I'm not feeling sorry for him

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<v Speaker 1>when it doesn't work out anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, exactly. He's asking for it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but he likes that.

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<v Speaker 8>I know.

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<v Speaker 2>I know he's.

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<v Speaker 4>Probably texting her right now being like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 4>when you called me a simp over the radio, I

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<v Speaker 4>take my money too. And you know what that could

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<v Speaker 4>be you if there's someone in your life who's not

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<v Speaker 4>calling you back as long as her name isn't Aura, please,

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<v Speaker 4>we will go to back for you, and, as always,

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<v Speaker 4>find our entire library of Second Date updates wherever you

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<v Speaker 4>Brooke and Jeffrey