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Speaker 1: It's Brig and Jeffrey in the morning, a brand new

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Speaker 1: second date today. I'm laughing because we never return a

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Speaker 1: return guest. She was definitely a surprise to us, and yes,

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Speaker 1: maybe one of the most hated people we've ever had

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Speaker 1: on the show. Disliked it's a nicer way to say it,

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Speaker 1: but maybe hated now, Yes, just listen to the whole

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Speaker 1: thing and yesterday's awkward Tuesday about not a pregnancy surprise,

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Speaker 1: not a BBL surprise, definitely a.

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Speaker 2: Lot of comments. What do you see, alexis?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Logan commented and said I knew it was going

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Speaker 3: to be good when I saw the title, and then

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Speaker 3: he replied to himself and has said had to reply

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Speaker 3: after I heard the word BBL.

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Speaker 4: A bunch of emojis.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and then we got OMG, this was the most

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Speaker 3: hilarious awkward call ever. It's hard to make me actually, lol,

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Speaker 3: but I loled on this one. O. Yet another another

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Speaker 3: ten out of ten.

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Speaker 1: Hard watch, but worth it, A hard watch, Yeah, awesome, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: hard listen for sure.

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, well, thank you so much for being here.

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Speaker 2: Definitely let us.

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Speaker 1: Know how you feel about this one, Oh doozy, and

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Speaker 1: it starts right now.

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Speaker 4: Second date up dated. I think for most guys in

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Speaker 4: the dating world, and this isn't universally true, but I

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Speaker 4: think a lot of men are pretty lazy when it

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Speaker 4: comes to dating. Really, you're just kind of coasting along,

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Speaker 4: having fun, meeting, ghosting, whatever, until you meet that one

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Speaker 4: girl who changes everything. She blows the doors off and

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Speaker 4: makes you think, I will do whatever it takes to

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Speaker 4: date her. I will give up my hobbies, I will

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Speaker 4: betray my own family. I will do it if she

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Speaker 4: says yes, right, be careful and.

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Speaker 2: That we're talking about two extremes.

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Speaker 4: Right now, Jeff, why welcome to the male mind, And

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Speaker 4: that happened recently to one of our listeners. His name

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Speaker 4: is Isaac. Isaac from your email, it sounds like you're

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Speaker 4: ready to finally become a better man. Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 4: Is that true? Am I overextending with this? Or do

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Speaker 4: you really feel like this girl is special?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Oh no, she definitely was. I mean it was definitely

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Speaker 5: a unique experience at first for me.

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Speaker 2: She was.

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Speaker 5: She was just amazing. She was a great girl and

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Speaker 5: just yeah.

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Speaker 4: Okay, a little more seriously then, Yeah, So what's this

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Speaker 4: lady's name?

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Speaker 5: Her name's Aura, Aura that's kind of fun.

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Speaker 2: Where'd you meet her?

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Speaker 5: We're on a dating app, and uh, she's really confident.

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Speaker 5: That's really sexy to me because.

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Speaker 6: I'm not the most confident.

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Speaker 5: I'm kind of shy, kind of just kind of go

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Speaker 5: with the flow. But I'm definitely confidence isn't isn't really

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Speaker 5: like my strong point.

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Speaker 1: So interesting, So, I mean it must be out of

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Speaker 1: the norm for you then to.

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Speaker 2: Call a radio show for help. Yeah, I mean that's

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Speaker 2: a good step towards confidence. And yeah, it.

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Speaker 5: Took a lot for me to do this. But she's

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Speaker 5: a hell of a lady.

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Speaker 4: Okay, wow, man moves. Okay, so what did I'm assuming

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Speaker 4: you actually met up with her?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so we were gonna meet at the bar, and

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Speaker 5: so I got there first and I was sitting at

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Speaker 5: a booth kind of face of the door, and when

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Speaker 5: she walked in, I mean it was like, you know,

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Speaker 5: when like Faida's come out in the restaurant, everybody does work.

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Speaker 1: That is really the perfect description though, because whenever they

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Speaker 1: come out, no matter how many times you've seen them,

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Speaker 1: you turn around and look, oh I.

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Speaker 4: Want some of that.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, you could definitely say she had Sahata energy.

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Speaker 4: We're off to a really good start of the date.

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Speaker 4: How did the rest of it go?

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Speaker 5: She sat down and immediately that she just started spilling out.

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Speaker 5: She did what she wanted to drink, she did what

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Speaker 2: Was your connection with her?

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Speaker 7: Like?

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Speaker 1: Because it's a lot about like how.

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Speaker 2: Amazing she was, but like, what did you two bond over?

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Speaker 6: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: She was easy to talk to, which is another issue

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Speaker 5: with me, is sometimes I don't really have the compidence

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Speaker 5: to talk to girls. But she would ask questions, and

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Speaker 8: Dude.

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Speaker 7: You know they say opposites a tract, and this sounds

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Speaker 4: She brings you outside of your shell a little bit.

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Speaker 4: You know, you feel like this could compliment you in

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Speaker 4: a relationshiship totally, So like what type of questions were

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Speaker 5: We start having a just basic conversation, talking a little

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Speaker 5: bit about family, but then it got a little, in

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Speaker 6: Just weird.

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Speaker 5: It's a little bit different conversation because she she ends

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Speaker 5: up asking me how many other women that I'm dating

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Speaker 2: Is that a normal question? Alexis I honestly don't know.

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Speaker 1: I feel like everyone knows people are talking to multiple people.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think it's bad. As if I don't

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Speaker 4: I mean, if I was you, Isaac, I would take

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Speaker 4: it as a compliment that she's like, oh, you must

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Speaker 4: have lots of other ladies trying to lock you down.

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Speaker 4: How many others did you answer that question?

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Speaker 5: Well? I said it was two, but I'd lie a

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Speaker 5: little bit. I mean, I'm just seeing her. I want

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Speaker 4: Like four, like something a little more exciting.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what's from I would it freak you

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Speaker 1: out if he said I'm only seeing you? No?

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Speaker 3: But what if you're debating between other people, Like a

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Speaker 3: guy tells you zero that you like equally, you might

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Speaker 3: go for him versus guy with two.

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Speaker 4: No. Okay, but at least the guy would too. Seems

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Speaker 4: a little bit more wanted, more desired.

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Speaker 2: It depends what she's into, you know.

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Speaker 4: Not totally unaccessible though, But I want to know. Did

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Speaker 4: you ask that question back to her?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I asked her what she said?

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Speaker 6: Okay?

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Speaker 4: Wow?

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Speaker 5: She says she was dating a couple of guys too.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so she just mirrored your response.

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Speaker 4: She said what you said, all right?

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Speaker 5: Then she took a shot and just like stared.

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Speaker 3: At me, a solo shot without you pounded some tequila.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, she really did, and it was kind of was like,

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Speaker 3: Oh wows on the first days, that's a different.

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Speaker 4: This girl's really sounding like a personality, so like the

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Speaker 4: confidence even the description exudes this woman, Like she sounds

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Speaker 4: like she takes charge.

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Speaker 1: I feel like that's almost scary.

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Speaker 4: Guys like to be scared a little bit. Really, how

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Speaker 4: just a little a little? How long did you two

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Speaker 5: It was about forty five minutes and then she says

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Speaker 1: Like a shot. She asked for your number, She took

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Speaker 4: Funny to think about.

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Speaker 1: I mean, we're joking, but why do you think it

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Speaker 5: I don't know. Maybe she got what she wanted out

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Speaker 4: Hmm. Has there been any contact since that day?

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Speaker 5: So it was about ten days ago this happen, and

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Speaker 1: She responding every Listen, if she's responding, it's fine.

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Speaker 5: She responded to the first couple, but she pretty much

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Speaker 1: But what's strange about this is like you think a

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Speaker 4: You, yeah, I'm not fine, you know, like.

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Speaker 1: Why why would she ghost?

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Speaker 4: Why wouldn't she too many tequila shots and now she

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Speaker 4: needs time to recover before she musters up the strength

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Speaker 4: to write a text. Or maybe she wants a guy

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Speaker 4: to come after her.

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Speaker 1: She wants.

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Speaker 7: What she want.

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Speaker 2: I didn't think of that.

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Speaker 4: That's true. Okay, it's possible that she is waiting to

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Speaker 4: be chased, and that's exactly what we're going to do

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Speaker 4: when we call her.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, I feel like having the radio station

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Speaker 5: call is a pretty bold move, and I might say, like, hey,

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Speaker 1: The one, Okay, right, let's be bold.

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Speaker 4: Let's do it. In fact, let's all slam some shots

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Speaker 4: right before we come back.

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Speaker 2: I think I think you're already slurring when you said that.

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Speaker 4: It's gonna make this call real interesting. Whatever it is,

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Speaker 4: we'll do it with your second date update right after

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Speaker 4: this hold on second date update, I think we may

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Speaker 4: have just coined a new dating term. On the show

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Speaker 4: here did big Fahida energy because our listener Isaac said,

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Speaker 4: the lady he went out with had it in spades

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Speaker 4: as she was turning heads walking into the bar that

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Speaker 4: night like a big sizzling tray of fiel.

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Speaker 1: Yes, everybody got a lot.

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Speaker 4: Unfortunately for him though, the date only lasted forty five

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Speaker 2: But that it was not upsetting to him.

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Speaker 4: No, that's just that bf E big Fahida energy carrying.

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Speaker 4: How Come she didn't buy him or he didn't buy

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Speaker 4: himself a shot so they could cheers?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, shot to go.

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Speaker 2: I don't think it was about him, Na, it was

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Speaker 4: And it's been ten days since they last saw each other.

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Speaker 4: He's hoping that this move of having us reach out

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Speaker 4: to her will prove that he is different than all

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Speaker 4: the other guys that she's ever seen before.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, but he's.

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Speaker 4: Outside of the box right now.

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Speaker 2: He's not a very confident guy.

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Speaker 1: When you think confidence, you think our show radio listener, right, Isaac.

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Speaker 5: Yep, I cry sometimes, but yeah cry sometimes.

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Speaker 2: We all cry. Man, It's good.

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Speaker 1: Is that what you said?

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Speaker 4: I'm pretty sure, he said. Try. But if we label

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Speaker 4: him as a crier.

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Speaker 6: I think that's okay.

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Speaker 5: I'm trying.

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Speaker 1: I'm confident, then cry Jeff.

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Speaker 5: I'm a little nervous right now, you're good.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you need to channel your own big Faheita energy

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Speaker 4: before we get her on the phone.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you're right.

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Speaker 2: Remember you're the one that ordered the fajidas. What right

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Speaker 2: I do?

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to give him confidence. Yeah, like take charge

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Speaker 1: of the situation. Tita's are coming to your table because

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Speaker 1: you made it happen.

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Speaker 3: Brook's taking it too far.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she's gonna ask for a tip when this is

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Speaker 2: So let's just I will never start a cool trend

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Speaker 4: Let's let's just stop and we're gonna call her. Hopefully

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Speaker 4: Aura here. Well Hey is this Aura? Yeah, Hey Aura,

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Speaker 4: thanks for picking up the phone. We're actually we're a

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Speaker 4: and uh, good morning. How you doing today?

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Speaker 7: Yeah? Oh my god, you guys again seriously again again?

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Speaker 7: A wait, you've gotta be kidding me. What do you

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Speaker 8: Well?

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Speaker 2: Wait, do you know us?

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Speaker 1: I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, you guys called me like four months ago you

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Speaker 7: called me for some.

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Speaker 6: Like second date, al bay, but that is not a.

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Speaker 4: Second it's actually a much better second definitely not.

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Speaker 1: Okay, wait, wait, we've never we did not talk to

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Speaker 4: I don't remember.

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Speaker 2: I mean what am I saying? I usually forget people's

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Speaker 4: Second Yeah, so this is called second date update by

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Speaker 7: Okay, whatever, but like your guy wanted to date me,

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Speaker 7: but I was dating.

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Speaker 6: A lot of people at the time.

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Speaker 1: It sounds like everybody sounds.

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Speaker 5: Is it?

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Speaker 8: Wait a second, Okay, you remember were you the one

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Speaker 8: who you were like dating a bunch of people and

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Speaker 8: you wanted our listener to be the third guy in

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Speaker 4: Of situationships like a roster. Yeah, there was like other

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Speaker 4: if you want to remember.

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Speaker 6: That you like your show? Seriously, like, nothing better to

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Speaker 6: do than call me.

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Speaker 4: This is what our job is to do.

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Speaker 2: This kind of like an insult.

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Speaker 4: And the short answer to that is no, we don't.

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Speaker 4: The longer answer is we're actually doing this to help

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Speaker 4: now and it can be really confusing for somebody, you know,

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Speaker 6: No, I get it, I get it. I already heard

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Speaker 6: the spiel. But when you called me the first time?

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Speaker 4: Uh huh?

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Speaker 6: So like, who is it now? Who's the guy?

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Speaker 2: Good question?

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Speaker 4: Okay, well there's a new one named Isaac.

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Speaker 6: Oh god, what oh?

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Speaker 1: What was wrong with Isaac? Isaac felt like he was special?

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Speaker 2: But he did.

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Speaker 1: You asked some questions, you were engaged, you seem interested.

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Speaker 4: Good job, Brooke, that's true. Gets super specific with it, there, Brooke,

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Speaker 4: you took a shot. Remember the shot you took.

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Speaker 7: Can we just like skip to the part where you

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Speaker 7: tell me he's on the phone listening, But I'll just

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Speaker 7: stop the head.

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Speaker 4: Okay, clearly, Okay, you've definitely done this before.

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Speaker 2: No, Or, she's going to take Jeffer's job soon.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she's pretty good. Well, since you know, hey, Isaac,

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Speaker 4: you're up, bud, so good luck. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I don't feel like you set you up for success,

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Speaker 2: right there?

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Speaker 4: Okay, go ahead, Isaac talk to her.

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Speaker 7: Ay Or, Isaac, this was a really really bad move.

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Speaker 6: But really it was these radio people.

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Speaker 7: They don't know what the hell they're doing.

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Speaker 6: You never should all them.

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Speaker 1: We're talking you about wed successful second dates.

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Speaker 8: Sometimes your voice is extremely high when you said that,

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Speaker 8: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 6: I don't, but don't apologize.

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Speaker 7: Learn your lesson, delete their numbers. They're pests, like leaking

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Speaker 7: off of our lives.

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Speaker 1: We're not leading off your lives. We're just trying to

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Speaker 4: By attaching ourselves to his story and taking credit.

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Speaker 1: Well, you wouldn't call him back, Like, what is the

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Speaker 6: Chang off of our lives?

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Speaker 2: There's no r You didn't call him back. You weren't

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Speaker 6: You're calling me twice?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, I don't know how to tell you this,

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Speaker 1: but you weren't that rememberable.

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Speaker 2: We didn't remember you.

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Speaker 1: Whatever?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I don't. I don't mind that. Can you tell

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Speaker 2: I'm the Karen.

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Speaker 4: We're just gonna recluse ourselves because I think we're making

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Speaker 4: it worse. Why don't you just talk directly to her?

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Speaker 4: All right?

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Speaker 7: Well? Mind?

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Speaker 5: Did you say that they already called you before? Like

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Speaker 7: It sounds like that's my business and the time that

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Speaker 6: I would call you if it was good.

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Speaker 4: Whoa Okay, but you didn't say why it wasn't good all.

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Speaker 7: First of all, you've been texting me good morning every.

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Speaker 6: Day at eight am?

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Speaker 5: But how is that a bad thing? Like, I'm just

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Speaker 6: Well, think about it.

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Speaker 4: Think about it? What are you doing?

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Speaker 5: I mean, that's when I wake up and I just

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Speaker 6: You know who says things like that?

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Speaker 7: Though non alphas, it is kind of true.

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Speaker 5: I mean an alpha, that was a lot.

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Speaker 7: You can keep looking in the mirror and telling yourself

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Speaker 1: I feel like since you're in alpha, or don't you

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Speaker 6: Oh I need a real man. I need a real man.

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Speaker 1: What does it make him a real because he said

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Were you mad saying good night too?

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Speaker 7: Okay?

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Speaker 6: Do you to hang off?

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Speaker 7: Can you hang up on him or me?

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Speaker 6: Okay, you see how this is going.

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Speaker 1: Okay, wait, but Jeffrey has to ask a question. He's

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Speaker 4: Well, okay, okay, that was extremely condescending for no reason.

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Speaker 1: It's more thought of all of this, like stereotypical male

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sorry. Continue.

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Speaker 4: Normally I would ask if you two would go out

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Speaker 7: I don't. I don't care.

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Speaker 6: Guys, can you do me a favor?

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Speaker 7: Any more of your sim friends I accidentally match with?

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Speaker 6: Do not call me? Okay?

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Speaker 7: You know why?

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Speaker 2: Now?

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Speaker 4: All right? We do not call it? All right? Okay?

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Speaker 4: She hung up.

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Speaker 1: She was terrible, Isaac.

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Speaker 5: I don't know about you. Guys kind of liked it.

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Speaker 4: He's one of those guys. He likes getting down a

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Speaker 3: Yeah, not even a little.

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Speaker 4: That was alright.

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Speaker 2: Relation he wants to be a masculine.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Brook, make his fantasies come true. Tell him something horrible,

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Speaker 4: you get him.

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Speaker 1: I was going to tell him that he deserved more,

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Speaker 5: I deserve more. Aura, that's what I deserve.

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Speaker 2: King texting. I'm sure you'll get it back from.

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Speaker 4: Her luck Jeffrey in the morning. Does our producer not

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Speaker 4: check these phone numbers before we call them?

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Speaker 2: It's a good idea. Let's blame him.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I like that.

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Speaker 2: We don't blame Boyd enough.

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Speaker 1: No, we don't know.

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Speaker 4: You know what. I think we need some type of

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Speaker 1: Isn't that Oh yeah, I'll go yell at him.

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Speaker 6: No problem.

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Speaker 2: He's not very scared of me, is the only problem.

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Speaker 4: You got to really bring the intensity when you have

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Speaker 2: He usually laughs and that makes fun of me afterwards.

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Speaker 4: That's okay with Isaac. I don't know if he's fully

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Speaker 1: Okay, but listen, No, I'm not feeling sorry for him

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Speaker 1: when it doesn't work out anymore.

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Speaker 2: Yes, exactly. He's asking for it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but he likes that.

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Speaker 8: I know.

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Speaker 2: I know he's.

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Speaker 4: Probably texting her right now being like, oh my god,

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Speaker 4: when you called me a simp over the radio, I

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Speaker 4: take my money too. And you know what that could

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Speaker 4: be you if there's someone in your life who's not

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Speaker 4: calling you back as long as her name isn't Aura, please,

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Speaker 4: we will go to back for you, and, as always,

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Speaker 4: find our entire library of Second Date updates wherever you

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Speaker 4: Brooke and Jeffrey