1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:03,239 Speaker 1: Second hour of Play and Buck kicks off right now. 2 00:00:03,640 --> 00:00:05,000 Speaker 1: Just remind her we are going to be joined for 3 00:00:05,040 --> 00:00:07,080 Speaker 1: the first time here on Clay and Buck by doctor 4 00:00:07,160 --> 00:00:10,640 Speaker 1: Laura Slessinger in about half an hour, so we're gonna 5 00:00:10,640 --> 00:00:14,200 Speaker 1: ask her about marriage, life and relationships. I know it's 6 00:00:14,240 --> 00:00:16,720 Speaker 1: a little bit of a digression from our usual fare 7 00:00:16,880 --> 00:00:20,720 Speaker 1: of Maga and Trump and saving the country and defeating 8 00:00:20,760 --> 00:00:24,840 Speaker 1: the communists, But we are a multi faceted. 9 00:00:24,320 --> 00:00:25,280 Speaker 2: Show here, you know what I mean. 10 00:00:25,320 --> 00:00:29,400 Speaker 1: We're a multi multi tier, multifaceted and we thought it'd 11 00:00:29,400 --> 00:00:30,760 Speaker 1: be fun to talk a little about this because I 12 00:00:30,760 --> 00:00:32,919 Speaker 1: actually think that so much of what we see in 13 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:36,159 Speaker 1: this country that as conservatives we have to address from 14 00:00:36,200 --> 00:00:39,440 Speaker 1: the perspective of politics and policy, a lot of things 15 00:00:39,479 --> 00:00:44,000 Speaker 1: actually boil down to parental relationships, the family. You're talking 16 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:48,080 Speaker 1: about education, you're talking about the future of this country. 17 00:00:48,479 --> 00:00:51,000 Speaker 1: You got to get these other things right. And I 18 00:00:51,040 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 1: think that important voices when it comes to marriage and 19 00:00:55,920 --> 00:00:59,520 Speaker 1: kids and child rearing and the importance of family. 20 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:03,279 Speaker 2: We need more of that these days. We need more 21 00:01:03,320 --> 00:01:03,920 Speaker 2: of those. 22 00:01:03,720 --> 00:01:10,800 Speaker 1: Discussions, I think, alongside tackling the debt and defeating the 23 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:13,560 Speaker 1: forces of jihadism in the Middle East and all this 24 00:01:13,600 --> 00:01:14,119 Speaker 1: other stuff. 25 00:01:14,160 --> 00:01:16,119 Speaker 2: So we we're going to get into that a little bit. 26 00:01:16,480 --> 00:01:18,200 Speaker 1: I did want to speaking of the news though, I 27 00:01:18,200 --> 00:01:20,640 Speaker 1: did want to update on where things stand. 28 00:01:20,800 --> 00:01:23,680 Speaker 2: With the border and how. 29 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:27,800 Speaker 1: The efforts of the Trump administration to rein in illegal 30 00:01:27,840 --> 00:01:31,200 Speaker 1: immigration are going in this moment. First off, as we know, 31 00:01:31,800 --> 00:01:34,280 Speaker 1: let's just let Tom Holman, this is cut twenty. Let's 32 00:01:34,319 --> 00:01:38,880 Speaker 1: let him say it. The numbers at the border continuing 33 00:01:38,920 --> 00:01:42,679 Speaker 1: to show one how serious Trump and his team are 34 00:01:42,840 --> 00:01:46,280 Speaker 1: about border security and two what a disaster intentionally the 35 00:01:46,280 --> 00:01:49,000 Speaker 1: Biden border was. Is Tom Holman play twenty. 36 00:01:48,840 --> 00:01:51,640 Speaker 3: Quick team President Trump's promise. President Trump has promised we're 37 00:01:51,640 --> 00:01:53,400 Speaker 3: going to secure the border, which we've done to a 38 00:01:53,440 --> 00:01:55,560 Speaker 3: large extent. We're still working on it, but we're at 39 00:01:55,640 --> 00:01:58,280 Speaker 3: ninety six percent decline on the border. Any promise we're 40 00:01:58,320 --> 00:02:01,720 Speaker 3: going to prioritize public threats and that's just security threats, 41 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:03,560 Speaker 3: and will go. It's in this country, and that's what 42 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:06,720 Speaker 3: we're doing. Austin I said that seat, there's story state, 43 00:02:07,040 --> 00:02:09,639 Speaker 3: and we're going to come and despite their sanctory status, 44 00:02:09,680 --> 00:02:11,519 Speaker 3: we're going to bring agents. Sara, We're gonna take these 45 00:02:11,520 --> 00:02:12,760 Speaker 3: worse of the worst off the street. 46 00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:18,840 Speaker 1: Nine Reduction play in illegal border crossings, which is an 47 00:02:18,840 --> 00:02:24,160 Speaker 1: astonishing figure. Now, of course they have begun to push 48 00:02:24,200 --> 00:02:27,320 Speaker 1: back on what's gone on with these well, they've been 49 00:02:27,320 --> 00:02:32,000 Speaker 1: pushing back on the trend to Arragua expulsions from this country. 50 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:36,800 Speaker 1: And this this was just here's an example of of 51 00:02:36,840 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 1: what we face here. People saying things like the expulsions 52 00:02:44,480 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 1: of trend to Arragua are so bad that quote the 53 00:02:48,120 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 1: Nazis got better treatment under the Alien Enemy Act. 54 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:52,400 Speaker 2: This has cut eighteen play it. 55 00:02:53,560 --> 00:02:56,800 Speaker 4: There were planeloads of people, there were no procedures in 56 00:02:56,919 --> 00:03:00,799 Speaker 4: place to notify people. Nazis got better treatment under the 57 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:03,960 Speaker 4: Alien Enemy Act, and has happened here where the proclamation 58 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 4: require the promulgation of regulations and they had hearing boards 59 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:10,400 Speaker 4: before people were removed. And yet here there's nothing in 60 00:03:10,400 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 4: there about hearing boards. There's no regulations, and nothing was 61 00:03:13,600 --> 00:03:17,600 Speaker 4: adopted by the agency officials that were administering this. People 62 00:03:17,639 --> 00:03:20,000 Speaker 4: weren't given notice, they weren't told where they were going. 63 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:21,160 Speaker 5: District Coard Gear. 64 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 4: Hasn't called in to question the constitutionality of the Alien 65 00:03:24,200 --> 00:03:26,640 Speaker 4: Enemies Act. It's been upheld. As you said, it's a 66 00:03:26,639 --> 00:03:29,239 Speaker 4: part of the war power. So that's not the question here. 67 00:03:29,320 --> 00:03:33,960 Speaker 4: The question is whether the implementation of this proclamation without 68 00:03:34,040 --> 00:03:37,840 Speaker 4: any process to determine whether people qualify under it. 69 00:03:39,280 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 1: Clay, I think the Democrats once again are showing that 70 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 1: they will they will oppose the administration even if it 71 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:50,360 Speaker 1: means they're going to do more damage to themselves politically. 72 00:03:51,640 --> 00:03:54,920 Speaker 6: What do you think so the border is solved, I 73 00:03:54,960 --> 00:03:58,120 Speaker 6: mean we talked for four the legal entry is solved. 74 00:03:58,760 --> 00:04:02,560 Speaker 1: A deportation is we're in the very first inning. We're 75 00:04:02,640 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 1: the first pitches of the first inning on that. 76 00:04:04,720 --> 00:04:07,560 Speaker 6: Which we said would be way more complicated. But the 77 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:11,280 Speaker 6: fact that illegal crossings have collapsed. I think that some 78 00:04:11,360 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 6: people are self deporting because they're aware that the open 79 00:04:14,680 --> 00:04:16,960 Speaker 6: border policy does not mean that they're going to become 80 00:04:17,000 --> 00:04:20,680 Speaker 6: citizens overnight, which some of them I think came to expect. 81 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:24,880 Speaker 6: What is buck If we were giving Trump advice, which 82 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:28,040 Speaker 6: sometimes we do, if we were giving him advice on 83 00:04:28,120 --> 00:04:31,320 Speaker 6: something he could come out in favor of what is 84 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:35,120 Speaker 6: the most popular public thing that he could decide to 85 00:04:35,160 --> 00:04:38,200 Speaker 6: make an issue that Democrats would reflexively oppose. 86 00:04:39,160 --> 00:04:40,280 Speaker 2: Men and women's. 87 00:04:39,920 --> 00:04:43,800 Speaker 6: Sports is actually a great test case because the idea 88 00:04:43,880 --> 00:04:48,000 Speaker 6: that you could get the Democrat party to essentially go 89 00:04:48,040 --> 00:04:52,719 Speaker 6: to war and make it a dogma that men pretending 90 00:04:52,760 --> 00:04:55,320 Speaker 6: to be women should be able to compete in women's sports. 91 00:04:55,400 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 6: I never would have believed was possible. What is something that, 92 00:04:59,320 --> 00:05:00,839 Speaker 6: first of all, it's hard to find things that like 93 00:05:00,920 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 6: eighty or ninety percent of Americans agree on. What is 94 00:05:05,040 --> 00:05:08,600 Speaker 6: something that Trump could add to his roster of common 95 00:05:08,680 --> 00:05:13,599 Speaker 6: sense endorsements that Democrats would then fill obligated to right? 96 00:05:13,600 --> 00:05:15,599 Speaker 6: I mean, they got think about this buck. We got 97 00:05:15,600 --> 00:05:19,919 Speaker 6: them opposed to electric vehicles now like yes, electric vehicles 98 00:05:19,920 --> 00:05:20,400 Speaker 6: on fire. 99 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:25,159 Speaker 1: We've shown that they don't want to stop waste, fraud, 100 00:05:25,200 --> 00:05:29,120 Speaker 1: and abuse of government spending. They don't want to expel 101 00:05:29,680 --> 00:05:34,839 Speaker 1: dangerous criminal alien illegals from this country who are preying 102 00:05:34,920 --> 00:05:36,720 Speaker 1: on their communities and have no right to be in 103 00:05:36,720 --> 00:05:39,320 Speaker 1: the United States in the first place. They don't want 104 00:05:39,360 --> 00:05:42,800 Speaker 1: to stop the entry of illegals from all over the 105 00:05:42,800 --> 00:05:45,720 Speaker 1: world and the mass exploitation of the American people that 106 00:05:45,760 --> 00:05:49,040 Speaker 1: occurs as a result of that. They don't want to 107 00:05:49,080 --> 00:05:52,600 Speaker 1: stop the Russia Ukraine War. You start to go down 108 00:05:52,600 --> 00:05:55,720 Speaker 1: this list and you wonder, at what point do they 109 00:05:55,760 --> 00:05:57,360 Speaker 1: realize that. 110 00:05:57,320 --> 00:05:58,919 Speaker 2: They're just kind of the bad guys in all this. 111 00:05:59,080 --> 00:06:00,919 Speaker 1: I know that's a simplest way of putting it, but 112 00:06:01,320 --> 00:06:05,240 Speaker 1: they really are on the wrong side of issue after issue. 113 00:06:05,240 --> 00:06:07,680 Speaker 1: And I'll tell you this this Judge Patricia Millet, who 114 00:06:07,800 --> 00:06:09,799 Speaker 1: was saying that Nazis got better treatment under the Alien 115 00:06:09,880 --> 00:06:13,760 Speaker 1: Enemy Act, I assure you. I assure you right now. 116 00:06:13,800 --> 00:06:17,040 Speaker 1: The same people who are saying, oh, we want trend 117 00:06:17,080 --> 00:06:19,960 Speaker 1: to Arragua. Remember, these are illegals supposed to be in 118 00:06:19,960 --> 00:06:23,240 Speaker 1: the country. They're deportable just by virtue of their status. 119 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:27,480 Speaker 1: They're being prioritized because they're illegals who are hurting people 120 00:06:27,600 --> 00:06:29,600 Speaker 1: in America. Okay, that's why they're at the front of 121 00:06:29,600 --> 00:06:31,920 Speaker 1: the line. That's why they got sent. But Clay went 122 00:06:31,960 --> 00:06:35,560 Speaker 1: with they're saying it's about process. I assure you, just 123 00:06:35,640 --> 00:06:38,680 Speaker 1: like mark this down. The next time around, if there 124 00:06:38,760 --> 00:06:40,680 Speaker 1: is process, they'll be saying. 125 00:06:40,720 --> 00:06:44,560 Speaker 2: No, we shouldn't, we shouldn't be kicking these illegals out. 126 00:06:44,800 --> 00:06:46,120 Speaker 2: They don't want them to leave. 127 00:06:46,200 --> 00:06:48,440 Speaker 1: They lie to you about what they really want, just 128 00:06:48,440 --> 00:06:49,919 Speaker 1: like they lie to you about how they want a 129 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:52,520 Speaker 1: secure border. They don't they lie to you about how 130 00:06:52,520 --> 00:06:56,280 Speaker 1: they want to expel these illegal criminals from trend to Aragua. 131 00:06:56,360 --> 00:06:56,880 Speaker 2: No, they don't. 132 00:06:57,800 --> 00:06:59,560 Speaker 1: I don't know why they want to do everything that's 133 00:06:59,560 --> 00:07:01,680 Speaker 1: bad for the country, but it seems quite clear that 134 00:07:01,720 --> 00:07:04,480 Speaker 1: they do that. That really is the operating you know, 135 00:07:04,560 --> 00:07:06,640 Speaker 1: Oh they care about due process? Did they care about 136 00:07:06,680 --> 00:07:09,720 Speaker 1: due process for j six individuals held in solitary confinement 137 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:13,120 Speaker 1: under the insane, the psychotic theory that they were going 138 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:16,920 Speaker 1: to have another insurrection if they were let out. That's insane, 139 00:07:17,160 --> 00:07:20,440 Speaker 1: that's a lunatic position. They didn't care about due process. 140 00:07:20,520 --> 00:07:26,800 Speaker 6: Then they got used to the idea that Trump reflexively 141 00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:31,680 Speaker 6: opposition to him was the route to political power. And 142 00:07:31,760 --> 00:07:35,520 Speaker 6: what I really think they have not managed to understand 143 00:07:36,320 --> 00:07:40,920 Speaker 6: is Trump two point zero is a far more sophisticated, dynamic, 144 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:48,600 Speaker 6: incredibly well executed in general team than Trump one point zero. 145 00:07:49,080 --> 00:07:53,320 Speaker 6: And I'll just go I think this is significant. How 146 00:07:53,360 --> 00:07:57,679 Speaker 6: many leaks have come out that the Trump team would 147 00:07:57,680 --> 00:08:00,520 Speaker 6: not want to have come out in the first two 148 00:08:00,600 --> 00:08:02,800 Speaker 6: months that he's been in office. Remember it was like 149 00:08:02,920 --> 00:08:05,760 Speaker 6: every day there was a new negative story on the 150 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:09,200 Speaker 6: Washington Post or the New York Times about internal deliberations 151 00:08:09,200 --> 00:08:12,120 Speaker 6: trying to embarrass the Trump team. How much stuff has 152 00:08:12,120 --> 00:08:15,520 Speaker 6: come out that has been leaked internally that they would 153 00:08:15,640 --> 00:08:17,360 Speaker 6: want to not be out. 154 00:08:17,440 --> 00:08:19,559 Speaker 2: I can't even hardly think of anything, Clay. 155 00:08:19,720 --> 00:08:21,320 Speaker 1: I think that what we saw in the first Trump 156 00:08:21,320 --> 00:08:24,680 Speaker 1: administration was Trump brought in people who were playing their 157 00:08:24,680 --> 00:08:28,520 Speaker 1: own version of Game of Thrones, trying to push each 158 00:08:28,560 --> 00:08:31,040 Speaker 1: other out of Trump's orbit because they realized how much 159 00:08:31,040 --> 00:08:33,720 Speaker 1: power and influence there was if you were close to 160 00:08:34,000 --> 00:08:37,600 Speaker 1: the hand of the king. This time around, there's none 161 00:08:37,600 --> 00:08:40,000 Speaker 1: of that nonsense going on. You can tell this team 162 00:08:40,160 --> 00:08:42,680 Speaker 1: is working as a team. And I can tell you 163 00:08:42,720 --> 00:08:46,040 Speaker 1: from knowing these people. You know, whether it's Cash as 164 00:08:46,320 --> 00:08:50,040 Speaker 1: FBI director, or Dan Bongino as deputy director, or Pete 165 00:08:50,040 --> 00:08:52,160 Speaker 1: hegsath At at Pentagon, I mean, go go to on 166 00:08:52,160 --> 00:08:55,360 Speaker 1: the list. These guys know each other, They like each other, 167 00:08:55,640 --> 00:08:58,000 Speaker 1: They Alsie and the whole crew. They respect each other, 168 00:08:58,280 --> 00:09:00,600 Speaker 1: and they're working toward the same end. This isn't the 169 00:09:00,640 --> 00:09:04,840 Speaker 1: petty kremlinology nonsense that we saw term one. 170 00:09:05,679 --> 00:09:08,839 Speaker 6: I think that is true. I think also Trump has 171 00:09:08,920 --> 00:09:12,480 Speaker 6: learned who he can trust, somebody who deserves a lot 172 00:09:12,520 --> 00:09:15,320 Speaker 6: of attention. We've had Stephen Miller on a bunch. She 173 00:09:15,400 --> 00:09:18,840 Speaker 6: doesn't even talk to the media anywhere. How about Susie Wiles, 174 00:09:19,640 --> 00:09:24,160 Speaker 6: Chief of staff ran a killer campaign in twenty twenty 175 00:09:24,160 --> 00:09:28,360 Speaker 6: four for Trump has been almost completely under the radar. 176 00:09:28,400 --> 00:09:31,679 Speaker 6: I don't even remember seeing her do an interview, just 177 00:09:31,840 --> 00:09:36,840 Speaker 6: quietly managing everything. I think Steven Miller is, as you 178 00:09:36,880 --> 00:09:39,040 Speaker 6: guys know, we've had him on the show for years, 179 00:09:39,679 --> 00:09:43,960 Speaker 6: and intellectual heavyweight. Whatever you think of JD. Vance and 180 00:09:44,000 --> 00:09:49,240 Speaker 6: Pete Hegseth, both very smart guys, very accomplished guys. Tulsea 181 00:09:49,360 --> 00:09:52,520 Speaker 6: and RFGA were Democrats until a few years ago, and 182 00:09:52,520 --> 00:09:56,240 Speaker 6: now they've just joined the common sense revolution. I think 183 00:09:56,280 --> 00:09:59,960 Speaker 6: the challenge that Democrats have from a boxing perspective is 184 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:03,000 Speaker 6: they can't really get a glove on Trump because even 185 00:10:03,040 --> 00:10:04,920 Speaker 6: the things you're talking about, Buck Day. I saw a 186 00:10:04,920 --> 00:10:08,600 Speaker 6: poll this morning. Sixty six percent of Americans believe that 187 00:10:08,640 --> 00:10:13,960 Speaker 6: the trend Iiragua gang members should be deported. So the 188 00:10:14,040 --> 00:10:17,079 Speaker 6: judge is telling him, hey, you got to you got 189 00:10:17,120 --> 00:10:19,840 Speaker 6: to turn the plane around and bring all these violent 190 00:10:20,040 --> 00:10:23,040 Speaker 6: predators back into our country. In the American public is saying, no, 191 00:10:23,400 --> 00:10:25,800 Speaker 6: I saw a funny joke. It's circulating from a bunch 192 00:10:25,840 --> 00:10:28,400 Speaker 6: of different people have made it that a federal District 193 00:10:28,520 --> 00:10:31,520 Speaker 6: court judge has ruled that Jeffrey Goldberg. 194 00:10:31,040 --> 00:10:33,600 Speaker 2: Has to be added back to the group chat. 195 00:10:33,679 --> 00:10:37,440 Speaker 6: Which is kind of a funny take on what has 196 00:10:37,800 --> 00:10:41,199 Speaker 6: emerged as the primary opposition to Trump two point zero, 197 00:10:41,240 --> 00:10:42,400 Speaker 6: which is the judiciary. 198 00:10:42,720 --> 00:10:46,440 Speaker 1: Well it also you see with this judiciary is that 199 00:10:46,679 --> 00:10:50,600 Speaker 1: they were willing under Biden, these same judges to allow 200 00:10:51,040 --> 00:10:57,560 Speaker 1: the just clear and endless violations of law and the 201 00:10:57,600 --> 00:11:01,720 Speaker 1: dereliction of duty from the Biden execus necative branch, specifically 202 00:11:01,720 --> 00:11:04,840 Speaker 1: at the border. But a lot of places and people 203 00:11:05,040 --> 00:11:06,280 Speaker 1: are i think Clay fed. 204 00:11:06,120 --> 00:11:08,800 Speaker 2: Up with Oh, so, the rules only mean that. 205 00:11:08,800 --> 00:11:11,800 Speaker 1: We can't fix the country. The rules won't help save 206 00:11:11,880 --> 00:11:14,440 Speaker 1: the country, you know, so to speak. But the rules 207 00:11:14,480 --> 00:11:17,800 Speaker 1: mean we can't fix anything, you know, the rules only 208 00:11:17,840 --> 00:11:21,640 Speaker 1: go against the interest of America somehow right now. And 209 00:11:22,000 --> 00:11:24,680 Speaker 1: you'd say, well, a perfect example this is with ilegal immigration. 210 00:11:25,280 --> 00:11:28,520 Speaker 1: These people are all deportable, all legals are deportable under 211 00:11:28,520 --> 00:11:31,080 Speaker 1: the law, and yet they make it impossible to deport them. 212 00:11:31,200 --> 00:11:34,440 Speaker 2: How is that? How is that reasonable? Irrational? Right? 213 00:11:35,840 --> 00:11:39,400 Speaker 1: They effectively use the process as a weapon against the purpose. 214 00:11:40,080 --> 00:11:42,520 Speaker 1: And that's what you see with these judges. They'll do 215 00:11:42,559 --> 00:11:44,400 Speaker 1: it over and over again. But that's what you see 216 00:11:44,440 --> 00:11:47,280 Speaker 1: with the Democrats as well, remember the whole border wide 217 00:11:47,280 --> 00:11:53,040 Speaker 1: open policy under Biden was based on false asylum claims. Well, Clay, 218 00:11:53,080 --> 00:11:56,079 Speaker 1: that's really easy. What they do is they just say, Oh, 219 00:11:56,160 --> 00:11:58,800 Speaker 1: we're going to pretend that we're total morons and that 220 00:11:58,880 --> 00:12:01,400 Speaker 1: we believe anybody who shows up for any reason at 221 00:12:01,440 --> 00:12:03,199 Speaker 1: the border and says I have a credible fear of 222 00:12:03,280 --> 00:12:04,360 Speaker 1: violence in my country. 223 00:12:04,840 --> 00:12:05,800 Speaker 2: That's all you had to say. 224 00:12:06,600 --> 00:12:09,559 Speaker 1: Well, if that's the case, what's the point of having 225 00:12:09,600 --> 00:12:11,000 Speaker 1: any rules or laws about. 226 00:12:10,760 --> 00:12:11,640 Speaker 2: This in the first place. 227 00:12:11,720 --> 00:12:14,439 Speaker 1: Right, So they ignore the law, and they subvert the 228 00:12:14,520 --> 00:12:16,959 Speaker 1: law when it's to their purpose, which is I think 229 00:12:17,000 --> 00:12:18,800 Speaker 1: fundamentally undermining this country. 230 00:12:19,080 --> 00:12:20,840 Speaker 2: And then they turn around and say, I thought you 231 00:12:20,880 --> 00:12:22,240 Speaker 2: had respect for the constitution. 232 00:12:22,480 --> 00:12:25,640 Speaker 1: We're saying, can we stop fraudulent waight as, fraudulent spending 233 00:12:25,640 --> 00:12:28,040 Speaker 1: and wasteful spending. Can we stop people from entering the 234 00:12:28,040 --> 00:12:31,640 Speaker 1: country illegal illegally? Here this you know what, I don't 235 00:12:31,640 --> 00:12:32,920 Speaker 1: have time for this right now, but I wanted to 236 00:12:32,920 --> 00:12:35,839 Speaker 1: get to Kathy Hockel, who is saying New York State 237 00:12:36,080 --> 00:12:38,679 Speaker 1: will not help the federal government with its law enforcement 238 00:12:38,679 --> 00:12:42,160 Speaker 1: efforts when it comes to illegal immigration. I'm sorry, does 239 00:12:42,240 --> 00:12:44,959 Speaker 1: Kathy hockl that she just doesn't care about federal law 240 00:12:45,040 --> 00:12:48,000 Speaker 1: and doesn't care about federal law on no other part 241 00:12:48,120 --> 00:12:51,320 Speaker 1: of the law would you have state law enforcement told 242 00:12:51,480 --> 00:12:53,800 Speaker 1: stand down, don't help your federal counterparts. 243 00:12:55,080 --> 00:12:58,760 Speaker 6: This is also where they're going to lose. I think 244 00:12:58,800 --> 00:13:01,200 Speaker 6: she probably knows that she's going to lose, to the 245 00:13:01,240 --> 00:13:03,640 Speaker 6: extent that she's smart enough to understand the law. The 246 00:13:03,679 --> 00:13:06,640 Speaker 6: president sets immigration policy, the states have to follow. We 247 00:13:06,720 --> 00:13:11,280 Speaker 6: had these battles. Unfortunately, remember when Governor Abbott in Texas 248 00:13:11,320 --> 00:13:13,600 Speaker 6: was trying to stop the illegal crossings and the Biden 249 00:13:13,600 --> 00:13:16,880 Speaker 6: administration said, hey, you aren't allowed to protect Texas. I 250 00:13:16,920 --> 00:13:19,319 Speaker 6: get to make the decisions, and a lot of courts 251 00:13:19,440 --> 00:13:22,520 Speaker 6: lined up behind Biden because the president gets to decide 252 00:13:22,760 --> 00:13:25,959 Speaker 6: federal policy as it as it deals with immigration and 253 00:13:26,000 --> 00:13:26,559 Speaker 6: border control. 254 00:13:26,600 --> 00:13:28,000 Speaker 2: She's going to lose, but. 255 00:13:28,000 --> 00:13:30,520 Speaker 6: Again, a lot of this is just it's going to 256 00:13:30,559 --> 00:13:33,120 Speaker 6: take months for the courts to tell her that she's 257 00:13:33,160 --> 00:13:33,720 Speaker 6: going to lose. 258 00:13:33,880 --> 00:13:35,920 Speaker 1: I'm not sure she's going to lose. I'm I think 259 00:13:36,040 --> 00:13:38,160 Speaker 1: she's going to lose, which it depends on what she 260 00:13:38,520 --> 00:13:42,199 Speaker 1: because you can't have federal law enforcement can of commandeer 261 00:13:42,320 --> 00:13:45,760 Speaker 1: state law enforcement to federal law purposes. So it's a 262 00:13:45,840 --> 00:13:48,920 Speaker 1: it has to be a choice by the governor to assist. 263 00:13:49,240 --> 00:13:51,760 Speaker 1: So the point I'm making is she's choosing not to assist, 264 00:13:52,120 --> 00:13:54,240 Speaker 1: which shows you she has no respect for the federal law. 265 00:13:54,320 --> 00:13:57,400 Speaker 1: Now to your point on things like not giving DMV 266 00:13:57,559 --> 00:13:59,880 Speaker 1: data to the Feds and things like, I think that 267 00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:03,920 Speaker 1: they cross the line to obstruction, and that's where she 268 00:14:03,960 --> 00:14:05,960 Speaker 1: may lose in court. But it's gonna be picking and 269 00:14:06,040 --> 00:14:08,400 Speaker 1: choosing here and there what she has to do. 270 00:14:08,559 --> 00:14:11,320 Speaker 6: En she's up for reelection next year, she is making 271 00:14:11,400 --> 00:14:15,120 Speaker 6: the calculated decision that being contra Trump is going to 272 00:14:15,160 --> 00:14:18,320 Speaker 6: help her in the Democrat primary and then also in 273 00:14:18,400 --> 00:14:21,120 Speaker 6: the general election. That's I mean, that's the calculus. And 274 00:14:21,200 --> 00:14:24,600 Speaker 6: unfortunately the people of New York lose out because what 275 00:14:24,640 --> 00:14:27,720 Speaker 6: Trump is doing would actually be beneficial to him. 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After you play a five dollars lineup, 297 00:15:37,200 --> 00:15:39,920 Speaker 6: We're gonna give you picks Thursday and Friday here on 298 00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:42,160 Speaker 6: the show to have a little bit more fun with 299 00:15:42,240 --> 00:15:48,480 Speaker 6: the NCAA tournament. That's Pricepicks dot Com code Clay Saving America. 300 00:15:48,880 --> 00:15:50,360 Speaker 2: One thought at a time. 301 00:15:50,680 --> 00:15:54,280 Speaker 6: Clay Travis and Buck Sexton them find them on the 302 00:15:54,320 --> 00:15:56,280 Speaker 6: Free iHeartRadio. 303 00:15:55,480 --> 00:15:58,200 Speaker 2: App or wherever you get your podcasts. 304 00:15:58,760 --> 00:16:01,960 Speaker 6: Welcome back in Clay than Ravis buck Sexton Show. Let's 305 00:16:02,000 --> 00:16:05,080 Speaker 6: hit a couple of your calls in advance of doctor Laura, 306 00:16:05,160 --> 00:16:07,240 Speaker 6: who's going to join us here in a sec Mike 307 00:16:07,840 --> 00:16:09,440 Speaker 6: in West Palm Beach, Florida. 308 00:16:09,520 --> 00:16:12,120 Speaker 2: What you got for us, Hi, guys. 309 00:16:12,720 --> 00:16:15,160 Speaker 7: I know that you guys believe there's no such thing 310 00:16:15,200 --> 00:16:19,600 Speaker 7: as coincidence, and also that the Democrats are very crafty 311 00:16:19,600 --> 00:16:22,760 Speaker 7: in what they do. The more I've been reading in 312 00:16:22,800 --> 00:16:26,960 Speaker 7: the newspapers online, whatever may be, all this preoccupation now 313 00:16:27,000 --> 00:16:30,760 Speaker 7: with two process, free speech, et cetera, I'm of the 314 00:16:30,840 --> 00:16:34,760 Speaker 7: view that all these recent cases are the prelude to 315 00:16:34,840 --> 00:16:38,880 Speaker 7: the big finale, which is, before we can deport all 316 00:16:38,920 --> 00:16:41,400 Speaker 7: of the other illegal the other ten million, we're going 317 00:16:41,440 --> 00:16:44,480 Speaker 7: to need to have ten million trials because everybody will 318 00:16:44,520 --> 00:16:47,880 Speaker 7: be viewed as entitled to due process. Wanted to get 319 00:16:47,920 --> 00:16:48,680 Speaker 7: your thoughts on that. 320 00:16:50,680 --> 00:16:50,960 Speaker 2: Look. 321 00:16:51,040 --> 00:16:55,200 Speaker 6: I think that there's zero doubt that the deportation process 322 00:16:55,240 --> 00:16:57,440 Speaker 6: is going to be incredibly challenging, and they are trying 323 00:16:57,480 --> 00:17:00,680 Speaker 6: to put up as many roadblocks as possible, and that 324 00:17:00,720 --> 00:17:04,640 Speaker 6: there is no single president who can solve the issue. 325 00:17:04,720 --> 00:17:07,400 Speaker 6: And I mean you need multiple terms. We talked about 326 00:17:07,400 --> 00:17:09,600 Speaker 6: this beforehand. I said it was going to be very 327 00:17:09,640 --> 00:17:13,280 Speaker 6: hard to deport a huge percentage of people, and that's 328 00:17:13,320 --> 00:17:15,320 Speaker 6: proving true. So I think this is why you have 329 00:17:15,359 --> 00:17:20,280 Speaker 6: to stack multiple administrations together in order to fix this problem. 330 00:17:20,840 --> 00:17:23,160 Speaker 1: Yes, you have to start to turn this around. It's 331 00:17:23,160 --> 00:17:25,960 Speaker 1: a bit like dealing with the debt. Trump's not going 332 00:17:26,000 --> 00:17:28,119 Speaker 1: to make the debt disappear. It's not going to happen. 333 00:17:28,480 --> 00:17:30,800 Speaker 1: But if you can make it start to go in 334 00:17:30,840 --> 00:17:34,160 Speaker 1: the other direction, then there's hope because you can continue 335 00:17:34,160 --> 00:17:36,359 Speaker 1: that and the American people can vote for that continuation. 336 00:17:36,440 --> 00:17:37,680 Speaker 2: Same thing with deportations. 337 00:17:38,200 --> 00:17:41,119 Speaker 1: You can continue it and it can become a manageable 338 00:17:41,160 --> 00:17:43,120 Speaker 1: problem instead of what it is or has been clay, 339 00:17:43,119 --> 00:17:44,480 Speaker 1: which is totally unmanageable. 340 00:17:44,760 --> 00:17:47,440 Speaker 2: Totally. We're gonna come back. 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We are very pleased 367 00:19:02,800 --> 00:19:08,640 Speaker 6: to welcome onto the program doctor Laura Schlessinger, who recently celebrated. 368 00:19:08,240 --> 00:19:12,800 Speaker 2: Fifty years on the radio. She is a best selling author. 369 00:19:13,520 --> 00:19:16,879 Speaker 1: She's also auctioning off some handmade items to support children 370 00:19:16,960 --> 00:19:20,359 Speaker 1: of fallen patriots. Go to doctor Laura dot com for 371 00:19:20,440 --> 00:19:23,480 Speaker 1: more of that Again, doctor Laura dot com, Doctor Laura, 372 00:19:23,640 --> 00:19:25,640 Speaker 1: I just say it's an honor to speak to you 373 00:19:26,440 --> 00:19:30,000 Speaker 1: because I've been hearing your voice ever since I got married, 374 00:19:30,040 --> 00:19:33,720 Speaker 1: because my wife is a longtime doctor Laura listener. And 375 00:19:33,800 --> 00:19:35,520 Speaker 1: let me tell you, I am very thankful. I am 376 00:19:35,640 --> 00:19:36,640 Speaker 1: very thankful for it. 377 00:19:38,240 --> 00:19:39,919 Speaker 5: Well, then she's your girlfriend. 378 00:19:41,400 --> 00:19:43,520 Speaker 2: She's the best. She's fantastic. You know. 379 00:19:43,600 --> 00:19:46,880 Speaker 1: I come home and we got married, and I came 380 00:19:46,920 --> 00:19:48,920 Speaker 1: home and there's dinner on the table, and I say, honey, 381 00:19:48,960 --> 00:19:50,480 Speaker 1: I want to go to the shooting range with the guys. 382 00:19:50,520 --> 00:19:53,120 Speaker 2: She says, you need guide time. You know all these 383 00:19:53,200 --> 00:19:54,000 Speaker 2: rules and lessons. 384 00:19:54,000 --> 00:19:56,199 Speaker 1: And then I found this book, their Proper Care and 385 00:19:56,240 --> 00:19:59,760 Speaker 1: Feeding of Husbands, which is dog eared and underlined and 386 00:19:59,760 --> 00:20:02,439 Speaker 1: ever something else. I'd tell you. I got married a 387 00:20:02,440 --> 00:20:04,520 Speaker 1: little later in life, doctor Laura. So I got married 388 00:20:04,680 --> 00:20:08,000 Speaker 1: around forty I think it was forty one. And my 389 00:20:08,080 --> 00:20:11,160 Speaker 1: wife has absolutely loved my life. She's absolutely fantastic. We're 390 00:20:11,160 --> 00:20:14,560 Speaker 1: about to have a baby in a couple of weeks, 391 00:20:14,840 --> 00:20:16,840 Speaker 1: so everything is going, and I really wanted to have 392 00:20:16,880 --> 00:20:18,919 Speaker 1: you on in part just to thank you because, and 393 00:20:19,200 --> 00:20:21,760 Speaker 1: this comes from my wife as well. I think you 394 00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:27,200 Speaker 1: give so many women such incredibly important and powerful advice 395 00:20:28,320 --> 00:20:31,800 Speaker 1: for them to have great, meaningful lives as wives, as mothers. 396 00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:35,080 Speaker 1: Is so I'm always whenever Carrie starts saying, doctor Laura says, 397 00:20:35,119 --> 00:20:37,960 Speaker 1: I start nod in my head. Yep, that's great. She 398 00:20:38,200 --> 00:20:40,600 Speaker 1: sent in my wife's So I just got to tell 399 00:20:40,640 --> 00:20:41,480 Speaker 1: you this. It's the truth. 400 00:20:41,640 --> 00:20:42,960 Speaker 2: My wife's sent in a question for you. 401 00:20:43,000 --> 00:20:47,359 Speaker 1: In Clay's wife Laura has a question too, She says, Hi, 402 00:20:47,440 --> 00:20:50,639 Speaker 1: doctor Laura, I'm a longtime listener and read the Proper 403 00:20:50,680 --> 00:20:53,840 Speaker 1: Care and Feeding of Husbands. I also took the online course. 404 00:20:54,280 --> 00:20:56,159 Speaker 1: Your wisdom has not only made me the wife i 405 00:20:56,160 --> 00:20:58,640 Speaker 1: am today, but also led me to find an incredible 406 00:20:58,680 --> 00:20:59,639 Speaker 1: husband who adores me. 407 00:21:00,119 --> 00:21:01,040 Speaker 2: Fact check true. 408 00:21:01,600 --> 00:21:03,560 Speaker 1: In a couple of weeks, we will be welcoming our 409 00:21:03,600 --> 00:21:06,359 Speaker 1: first child. We're so thrilled to grow our family, but 410 00:21:06,440 --> 00:21:09,240 Speaker 1: what is your advice for ensuring our solid and healthy 411 00:21:09,280 --> 00:21:12,800 Speaker 1: marriage stays intact after the first baby comes. Thank you 412 00:21:12,840 --> 00:21:13,440 Speaker 1: for all you do. 413 00:21:15,960 --> 00:21:18,240 Speaker 5: You don't stop having your hands all over each other. 414 00:21:18,359 --> 00:21:21,720 Speaker 5: That means when you're walking around. That means when one 415 00:21:21,720 --> 00:21:24,000 Speaker 5: of you takes a shower, maybe we could, you know, 416 00:21:24,080 --> 00:21:26,159 Speaker 5: save on water. We could both be in the shower. 417 00:21:26,520 --> 00:21:30,760 Speaker 5: It's really the physicality and the silliness. Everybody thinks it's 418 00:21:30,800 --> 00:21:34,080 Speaker 5: got to be marital therapy and heavy duty conversations, which 419 00:21:34,080 --> 00:21:38,200 Speaker 5: you and I both know guys don't enjoy. So the 420 00:21:38,200 --> 00:21:40,600 Speaker 5: more physical you are with each other and the more 421 00:21:40,720 --> 00:21:43,720 Speaker 5: cute you are with each other, that's really all you need. 422 00:21:44,840 --> 00:21:46,719 Speaker 2: I love it. That's really good advice. 423 00:21:46,760 --> 00:21:49,320 Speaker 6: Now I don't even know what my wife has sent in, 424 00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:53,520 Speaker 6: but there is audio. She went and used the app 425 00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:55,359 Speaker 6: and then she needed more space, so. 426 00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:57,080 Speaker 2: She said, just give context, pray. How long? 427 00:21:57,160 --> 00:21:59,840 Speaker 6: How long have you been married? Tell doctor Laura how Yeah, 428 00:21:59,880 --> 00:22:04,040 Speaker 6: so I've been married man twenty one years, will be August. 429 00:22:04,240 --> 00:22:07,359 Speaker 6: So I've been married over twenty years now. We have 430 00:22:07,440 --> 00:22:12,360 Speaker 6: three boys, seventeen, fourteen, and ten year old. And here 431 00:22:12,480 --> 00:22:16,280 Speaker 6: is what my wife, Lara wanted to ask you. Listen, 432 00:22:16,440 --> 00:22:16,960 Speaker 6: Clay and. 433 00:22:16,880 --> 00:22:21,040 Speaker 8: I are parents of boys, and thus far I think 434 00:22:21,119 --> 00:22:26,399 Speaker 8: we have weathered adolescents fairly well. However, some of our 435 00:22:26,440 --> 00:22:30,320 Speaker 8: friends who have daughters, their experiences, the way they talk 436 00:22:30,359 --> 00:22:34,480 Speaker 8: about it sound very different. In fact, some of them 437 00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:39,520 Speaker 8: say raising daughters through adolescents is a complete nightmare. I 438 00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:42,399 Speaker 8: have a friend this morning tell me that she feels 439 00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:45,240 Speaker 8: she's coming home to a bag of snakes every day 440 00:22:45,280 --> 00:22:48,040 Speaker 8: when she comes home to her adolescent daughters, which is 441 00:22:48,080 --> 00:22:54,080 Speaker 8: funny but harsh. So in general, do you have some 442 00:22:54,240 --> 00:22:59,440 Speaker 8: great advice for parents going through adolescents with their children? 443 00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:02,879 Speaker 8: Obviously the children are going through adolescents, And do you 444 00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:09,320 Speaker 8: have different advice for parents of girls weathering adolescens versus 445 00:23:09,560 --> 00:23:12,440 Speaker 8: parents of boys weathering adolescence. 446 00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:15,879 Speaker 5: Thank you, I thought you were just going to have 447 00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:17,000 Speaker 5: me on for a few minutes. 448 00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:19,240 Speaker 2: That's going to take me about half an hour to 449 00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:19,960 Speaker 2: get through. 450 00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:24,240 Speaker 5: Let me try to bring it down number one, whether 451 00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:26,520 Speaker 5: it's a boy or a girl, that it's a tight 452 00:23:26,640 --> 00:23:29,760 Speaker 5: family that does things together, that is sweet with each other. 453 00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:32,680 Speaker 5: That the father spends time with the daughter, the father 454 00:23:32,720 --> 00:23:35,280 Speaker 5: spends time with the son, the mother spends time, and 455 00:23:35,359 --> 00:23:38,879 Speaker 5: the family is always together for dinner, if they have 456 00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:40,400 Speaker 5: to go do sports. 457 00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:40,919 Speaker 2: Things or what have you. 458 00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:45,160 Speaker 5: That you know, that's a very important part of the family. 459 00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:48,919 Speaker 5: People keep divvying it up. Yeah, there are differences in 460 00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:51,399 Speaker 5: how you raise girls from boys and I'd have to 461 00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:54,080 Speaker 5: come back another time to go through that. But the 462 00:23:54,119 --> 00:23:57,120 Speaker 5: first and foremost thing, just like I spoke about husbands 463 00:23:57,160 --> 00:24:01,159 Speaker 5: and wives and the physical and the cuteness, the I 464 00:24:01,240 --> 00:24:04,000 Speaker 5: was with a family and I thought, and I talked 465 00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:06,480 Speaker 5: about them on my air, that this was the best 466 00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:13,440 Speaker 5: family I had seen in decades. Anytime anybody got something, 467 00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:15,199 Speaker 5: may I would you send me? 468 00:24:15,359 --> 00:24:15,919 Speaker 6: Could I have? 469 00:24:16,160 --> 00:24:16,760 Speaker 7: Yes? Please? 470 00:24:16,840 --> 00:24:21,520 Speaker 5: Thank you? Everybody was so concerned and polite to one another. 471 00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:25,240 Speaker 5: That is not something that families do. You have two 472 00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:28,160 Speaker 5: career families, you have all kinds of other stuff going 473 00:24:28,160 --> 00:24:32,680 Speaker 5: on in the house, and it's not a family, it's 474 00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:37,560 Speaker 5: mother and father and kids. But when it's a family, 475 00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:40,919 Speaker 5: when people are always saying please and thank you and 476 00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:44,520 Speaker 5: show concern for each other and discipline and kind ways, 477 00:24:44,600 --> 00:24:49,760 Speaker 5: with understanding and compassion, you'd be surprised how it minimizes 478 00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:52,320 Speaker 5: how crazy it gets. And also take your kids out 479 00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:53,080 Speaker 5: of public school. 480 00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:56,479 Speaker 1: Wow, doctor Laurie, We're definitely going to have to have 481 00:24:56,520 --> 00:24:58,240 Speaker 1: you back, and I'm really looking forward to all the 482 00:24:58,520 --> 00:25:00,720 Speaker 1: questions and comments we're gonna get from the audience about 483 00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:04,040 Speaker 1: you coming on and just beginning this arc of wisdom. 484 00:25:04,200 --> 00:25:06,440 Speaker 1: And like I said, as a husband and a very 485 00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:10,200 Speaker 1: happy husband who does completely adore his wife. And I, 486 00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:13,400 Speaker 1: you know, it's so important that I think women get 487 00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:16,239 Speaker 1: a lot of the messaging and men and men, but 488 00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:18,000 Speaker 1: that we both get a lot of the messaging that 489 00:25:18,040 --> 00:25:20,439 Speaker 1: you're putting out there. And I wanted you to address 490 00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:22,479 Speaker 1: something that's more just sort of general for the country 491 00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:24,560 Speaker 1: right now. You know, we talk here about politics and 492 00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:27,639 Speaker 1: national security and education, all these different things, but the 493 00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:32,000 Speaker 1: importance of family and marriage is central. Should be central, 494 00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:33,080 Speaker 1: maybe should be a better word. 495 00:25:33,119 --> 00:25:33,600 Speaker 2: These days. 496 00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:36,320 Speaker 1: You know, there's a story just out today and it 497 00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:39,479 Speaker 1: says and the headline is American women are giving up 498 00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:42,080 Speaker 1: on marriage, And one of the lines from it is 499 00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:46,000 Speaker 1: American women have never been this resigned to staying signal single. 500 00:25:46,359 --> 00:25:49,520 Speaker 1: They are responding to major demographic shifts, including huge and 501 00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:53,320 Speaker 1: growing gender gaps in economic and education attainment, and beliefs 502 00:25:53,320 --> 00:25:55,919 Speaker 1: about what a family should look like. What is going 503 00:25:55,960 --> 00:25:57,680 Speaker 1: on and how do we fix it? 504 00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:01,760 Speaker 5: Not enough fathers in the home raising suns to be 505 00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:09,119 Speaker 5: men of honor and courage and principle. And that's basically again, 506 00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:13,359 Speaker 5: the women have gone through the feminist thing where men 507 00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:18,800 Speaker 5: are the evil empire and all this negativity toward masculinity. 508 00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:22,359 Speaker 5: It's all toxic. I think it's wonderful. Give me a 509 00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:24,440 Speaker 5: guy with the cowboy hat and boots, and I pay 510 00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:28,720 Speaker 5: attention because there's a sense that there's a strength there. 511 00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:32,480 Speaker 5: And women like to feel protected. That's probably the number 512 00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:35,520 Speaker 5: one thing women don't admit. They want to feel protected, 513 00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:39,680 Speaker 5: and that's why they like those silly books where there's 514 00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:43,480 Speaker 5: this ripped guy on the cover and she's being carried, 515 00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:46,439 Speaker 5: you know, into safety. Why do they read those things 516 00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:50,520 Speaker 5: at such large amounts Because ultimately, as smart and incompetent 517 00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:53,440 Speaker 5: as we can be, we want to be protected. And 518 00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:56,560 Speaker 5: men have not been brought up to be that anymore. 519 00:26:58,040 --> 00:27:00,720 Speaker 6: Are you more You've been doing this for fifty years 520 00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:04,800 Speaker 6: and Buck just laid out. A marriage is becoming less common. 521 00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:08,560 Speaker 6: A lot of men are not presentent homes. Unfortunately, the 522 00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:13,760 Speaker 6: overall birth rate in many Western civilizations is collapsing. Are 523 00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:17,399 Speaker 6: you more or less optimistic about the future of the 524 00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:20,639 Speaker 6: family unit today than when you started? How would you 525 00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:24,960 Speaker 6: analyze the scope of relationship that you've seen over fifty years. 526 00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:30,600 Speaker 5: Oh no, I was more optimistic than that. I am 527 00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:32,760 Speaker 5: now because there have been so many forces we have, 528 00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:35,439 Speaker 5: like one or two generations now I think are lost. 529 00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:38,119 Speaker 5: These are young people who are not being brought up 530 00:27:38,160 --> 00:27:41,280 Speaker 5: that you finish school and you aim to be and 531 00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:43,680 Speaker 5: do things, and you make a family and you raise 532 00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:47,439 Speaker 5: kids and you have communities. And that was how I 533 00:27:47,600 --> 00:27:50,200 Speaker 5: was brought up, and it was all this optimism. Now 534 00:27:50,240 --> 00:27:54,719 Speaker 5: you have throngs of kids who have no idea where 535 00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:57,640 Speaker 5: they can go and what they can be, and so 536 00:27:57,680 --> 00:28:01,760 Speaker 5: they get involved in all of these cliques like non binary. 537 00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:04,159 Speaker 5: And you know, I belong now to a group of 538 00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:07,879 Speaker 5: people who are equally lost and don't have an identity 539 00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:09,920 Speaker 5: and don't have a direction and don't have a sense 540 00:28:09,960 --> 00:28:12,920 Speaker 5: of self other than I can belong to this community. 541 00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:14,920 Speaker 5: It's like what we used to look at with groupies 542 00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:20,200 Speaker 5: with rock stars. This is what's happening. So I'm worried, 543 00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:23,400 Speaker 5: be honest with you, I'm worried. But the one little 544 00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:27,440 Speaker 5: piece of optimism I have is I'm still here. People 545 00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:33,520 Speaker 5: are still calling. Somebody wants the help to pull it 546 00:28:33,560 --> 00:28:36,760 Speaker 5: back together again and make life meaningful in something you 547 00:28:36,760 --> 00:28:40,600 Speaker 5: can feel comfortable and safe with and productive and loving 548 00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:44,720 Speaker 5: and receive all of that. So as long as I 549 00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:47,400 Speaker 5: still get that response, I keep my optimism up. 550 00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:48,760 Speaker 2: I worry. 551 00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:53,320 Speaker 6: That's a great line. You just laid out some of 552 00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:55,560 Speaker 6: the challenges. How much do you think it has to 553 00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:59,520 Speaker 6: do with kids getting phones too young? What advice would 554 00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:02,280 Speaker 6: you give parents out there? My wife asked a question 555 00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:05,760 Speaker 6: about adolescens, but what advice would you give to parents 556 00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:09,520 Speaker 6: about social media and about what they allow their kids 557 00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:12,040 Speaker 6: to be exposed to, particularly on the internet. 558 00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:16,479 Speaker 5: Well, everybody tells me I'm insane to think. You know, 559 00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:19,360 Speaker 5: you can push up against a tsunami, but it takes 560 00:29:19,520 --> 00:29:24,040 Speaker 5: just everybody lining up. I tell people that they're irresponsible 561 00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:28,440 Speaker 5: parents if they give smartphones to their kids, any minor 562 00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:31,800 Speaker 5: child period. Get them a flip phone that takes calls. 563 00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:32,920 Speaker 2: That's it. 564 00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:37,480 Speaker 5: No texting, no Internet. And instead of spending one's time 565 00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:41,320 Speaker 5: with screens, how about we actually have families that do 566 00:29:41,440 --> 00:29:45,080 Speaker 5: stuff together. I mean, my kid was talk about a 567 00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:45,720 Speaker 5: screen though. 568 00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:46,800 Speaker 2: We would watch. 569 00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:49,160 Speaker 5: Law and Order as a whole family, and then we 570 00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:51,560 Speaker 5: would sit here and we would go I think he 571 00:29:51,600 --> 00:29:53,600 Speaker 5: did it, No, I think she did it. And so 572 00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:57,760 Speaker 5: it was all of this thinking through using pieces of information. 573 00:29:58,160 --> 00:30:01,240 Speaker 5: And I just read today that our children are really 574 00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:05,040 Speaker 5: suffering the inability to have fine motor skills because they're 575 00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:07,640 Speaker 5: not playing with crayons, they're not playing with scissors, They're 576 00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:12,080 Speaker 5: just sitting there like that, And so we're actually losing physicality. 577 00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:13,800 Speaker 5: I mean, is that not shocking? 578 00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:17,880 Speaker 1: It's it's amazing. And we think about all the influences 579 00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:21,000 Speaker 1: that are on kids these days and what they're being told, 580 00:30:21,120 --> 00:30:23,440 Speaker 1: and how I think a lot of them are being 581 00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:26,280 Speaker 1: set up for misery. I mean, doctor Laura, you know, 582 00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:27,080 Speaker 1: yes you have. 583 00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:27,880 Speaker 2: I agree. 584 00:30:27,720 --> 00:30:31,160 Speaker 1: The metrics these days, and the metrics for young women 585 00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:34,080 Speaker 1: in particular in terms of happiness self described happiness. It's 586 00:30:34,240 --> 00:30:36,560 Speaker 1: terrifying in terms of how bad it is. How do 587 00:30:36,640 --> 00:30:39,360 Speaker 1: we start to go Yeah, turn again, you're going up 588 00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:41,000 Speaker 1: against the tsunami. But how do we start to turn 589 00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:41,520 Speaker 1: that around? 590 00:30:43,280 --> 00:30:46,040 Speaker 5: Well, I just it popped into my head as you 591 00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:49,200 Speaker 5: were asking me the question. Look at all the very 592 00:30:49,200 --> 00:30:54,320 Speaker 5: intelligent and very attractive women that are now in positions 593 00:30:54,320 --> 00:30:58,360 Speaker 5: of power in our government. I am so enthralled with that, 594 00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:01,720 Speaker 5: And I think that's wonderful for young women to have 595 00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:05,520 Speaker 5: something to aspire to keep my act clean. No more 596 00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:07,840 Speaker 5: shacking up, using drugs, this and that and the other thing. 597 00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:10,360 Speaker 5: I want to be like that lady who's now running 598 00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:15,080 Speaker 5: the whatever It is so having role models like that. 599 00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:19,400 Speaker 5: You know, I have people calling who say I was 600 00:31:19,560 --> 00:31:22,280 Speaker 5: in a car seat in the back of my parents' 601 00:31:22,360 --> 00:31:25,320 Speaker 5: car listening to you, and now I have kids and 602 00:31:25,360 --> 00:31:29,080 Speaker 5: I'm using what I've learned. So anytime you can be 603 00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:31,080 Speaker 5: a positive influence. 604 00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:31,600 Speaker 7: Do it. 605 00:31:32,520 --> 00:31:34,000 Speaker 1: My wife makes fun of me because I just always 606 00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:35,320 Speaker 1: sit there in the car when she turns you on, 607 00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:36,640 Speaker 1: I'm just like doctor Laura's right. 608 00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:37,840 Speaker 2: So I'm telling you this. 609 00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:39,920 Speaker 1: I was like, we have to have doctor Lauren's I'm 610 00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:42,000 Speaker 1: like doctor Laura's right, and carry looks at me, she goes, oh, 611 00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:43,360 Speaker 1: I know, Clay, go ahead. 612 00:31:43,600 --> 00:31:45,840 Speaker 6: Last question for you, and we appreciate your time. And 613 00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:48,800 Speaker 6: you're certainly a radio legend. You've been so influential for 614 00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:52,440 Speaker 6: so long when the modern era, like I was reading 615 00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:55,880 Speaker 6: the other day, the number of successful women that are 616 00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:59,680 Speaker 6: choosing to go find a sperm donor to have a 617 00:31:59,800 --> 00:32:04,520 Speaker 6: child with instead of an actual man is staggering to me. 618 00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:08,080 Speaker 6: What kind of worldis me? 619 00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:10,320 Speaker 2: Okay, I wanted to get your tags. 620 00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:15,120 Speaker 5: Me makes me angry because kids need a dad, and 621 00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:17,200 Speaker 5: I just say to these women, oh, that's not well. 622 00:32:17,240 --> 00:32:18,960 Speaker 5: I have money and I can take care of I 623 00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:21,800 Speaker 5: don't care about that. You had a mommy and a daddy, 624 00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:24,280 Speaker 5: and I'm sure that meant something to you. Now you're 625 00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:26,760 Speaker 5: gonna rob a kit of a dad because it's convenient 626 00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:31,120 Speaker 5: for you not to commit and give of yourself and 627 00:32:31,160 --> 00:32:34,479 Speaker 5: be vulnerable to another human being and be invested in 628 00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:38,479 Speaker 5: each other's lives beautifully. That's a real shame. That's a 629 00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:40,080 Speaker 5: real shame. That is so selfish. 630 00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:44,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I don't like it, doctor Laura. 631 00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:46,000 Speaker 1: We gotta have we gotta have you back, because you know, 632 00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:48,720 Speaker 1: for you to solve all problems of relationships and family 633 00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:51,920 Speaker 1: and short child rearing in about ten minutes is asking 634 00:32:51,960 --> 00:32:55,120 Speaker 1: a lot. But you didn't know a remarkable job, guys 635 00:32:55,160 --> 00:32:56,920 Speaker 1: that there's so many books. I mean, the Proper Care 636 00:32:56,960 --> 00:32:59,600 Speaker 1: and Feeding of Husbands. 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Clay, 671 00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:27,280 Speaker 2: Travis and Buck Sexton. 672 00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:30,680 Speaker 6: Find them on the free iHeartRadio app or wherever you 673 00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:35,920 Speaker 6: get your podcasts. Welcome back in Clay Travis Buck Sexton show. 674 00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:39,320 Speaker 6: Doctor Laura was awesome. A lot of great reaction rolling 675 00:34:39,360 --> 00:34:43,560 Speaker 6: in ver her. She's a fifty year radio legend, much 676 00:34:43,640 --> 00:34:45,879 Speaker 6: like Rush was a thirty plus. 677 00:34:45,640 --> 00:34:46,800 Speaker 2: Year radio legend. 678 00:34:46,840 --> 00:34:50,200 Speaker 6: Many of you grew up listening to her as well 679 00:34:50,280 --> 00:34:53,520 Speaker 6: as to him, and I think we could have talked 680 00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:55,920 Speaker 6: to her for a long time. Buck like that, she 681 00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:58,040 Speaker 6: could have kept taking questions, and I think we would 682 00:34:58,080 --> 00:35:00,360 Speaker 6: have gotten a lot based on what I'm seeing in 683 00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:01,680 Speaker 6: from you guys as well. 684 00:35:01,960 --> 00:35:03,759 Speaker 1: And I think it's so important. I think a lot 685 00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:08,880 Speaker 1: of people don't get. They don't get a basic framework, 686 00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:11,960 Speaker 1: like we're taught so many things about so much different 687 00:35:12,040 --> 00:35:15,640 Speaker 1: stuff in our lives. How are you a good husband? 688 00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:18,719 Speaker 1: How are you a good wife? What builds now? I 689 00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:20,799 Speaker 1: know some people say, well, I didn't get instruction and 690 00:35:20,840 --> 00:35:23,520 Speaker 1: I've been married fifty years and I'm so happy and okay, fine, 691 00:35:23,560 --> 00:35:27,400 Speaker 1: But the same way that learning about personal finance is 692 00:35:27,440 --> 00:35:32,080 Speaker 1: just empowering. I think learning about healthy and productive personal relationships, 693 00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:35,000 Speaker 1: I mean being you know, getting an understanding of it, 694 00:35:35,120 --> 00:35:37,880 Speaker 1: not just going through the experiential side of it, is 695 00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:40,480 Speaker 1: really important with family and child rearing, you know, I'm 696 00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:42,160 Speaker 1: reading books now about how to be a great dad 697 00:35:42,200 --> 00:35:45,160 Speaker 1: and the expecting father and all this stuff. I think 698 00:35:45,239 --> 00:35:47,560 Speaker 1: it is a really good thing to know. I know 699 00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:49,480 Speaker 1: a lot of you have a tremendous amount of knowledge 700 00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:51,839 Speaker 1: from your lives about this, but you know, does your 701 00:35:51,880 --> 00:35:54,040 Speaker 1: twenty year old. I think the twenty year olds are 702 00:35:54,040 --> 00:35:56,720 Speaker 1: getting terrible information about dating now. I think the twenty 703 00:35:56,719 --> 00:35:59,080 Speaker 1: five and thirty five year olds are getting terrible information 704 00:35:59,120 --> 00:36:00,560 Speaker 1: about how to find a husband away. 705 00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:05,359 Speaker 6: I also think that this ties in with boys and 706 00:36:05,480 --> 00:36:08,799 Speaker 6: men in crisis. We have a lot of people who 707 00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:12,280 Speaker 6: aren't getting raised by men. Somebody said on the show recently, 708 00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:14,719 Speaker 6: or I think I heard it on our show, but 709 00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:17,879 Speaker 6: that we basically have tried to turn women into men 710 00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:20,759 Speaker 6: and men into women. That we've created sort of this 711 00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:23,560 Speaker 6: amorphous unisex which frequently. 712 00:36:23,040 --> 00:36:24,800 Speaker 2: Makes both men and women unhappy. 713 00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:30,359 Speaker 6: But the data reflects buck that the overall young men 714 00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:34,680 Speaker 6: suffer by far the most from being in single parent households. 715 00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:36,960 Speaker 6: Young women tend to not be bad, probably because they're 716 00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:38,960 Speaker 6: often being raised by women and they have a strong 717 00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:42,120 Speaker 6: female role model. But as good as a mom is, 718 00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:45,160 Speaker 6: it's very hard to do both sides of the raising, 719 00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:49,200 Speaker 6: and men, frankly, are not lifting up enough, and I 720 00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:51,960 Speaker 6: think that's one reason we've seen masculinity in crisis. We'll 721 00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:54,040 Speaker 6: talk more about this dive into the third hour next 722 00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:55,000 Speaker 6: Thanks for hanging with us.