1 00:00:11,039 --> 00:00:14,720 Speaker 1: Welcome to the Therapy for Black Girls Podcast, a weekly 2 00:00:14,760 --> 00:00:19,520 Speaker 1: conversation about mental health, personal development, and all the small 3 00:00:19,560 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 1: decisions we can make to become the best possible versions 4 00:00:22,720 --> 00:00:26,840 Speaker 1: of ourselves. I'm your host, doctor Joy hard and Bradford, 5 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:32,280 Speaker 1: a licensed psychologist in Atlanta, Georgia. For more information or 6 00:00:32,400 --> 00:00:35,800 Speaker 1: to find a therapist in your area, visit our website 7 00:00:35,920 --> 00:00:39,640 Speaker 1: at Therapy for Blackgirls dot com. While I hope you 8 00:00:39,680 --> 00:00:43,680 Speaker 1: love listening to and learning from the podcast, it is 9 00:00:43,720 --> 00:00:46,640 Speaker 1: not meant to be a substitute for a relationship with 10 00:00:46,680 --> 00:00:57,639 Speaker 1: a licensed mental health professional. Hey, y'all, thanks so much 11 00:00:57,640 --> 00:00:59,720 Speaker 1: for joining me for the special bonus episode of the 12 00:00:59,680 --> 00:01:02,840 Speaker 1: Therapy for Black Girls Podcast. We'll get right into our 13 00:01:02,880 --> 00:01:16,720 Speaker 1: conversation afterword from our sponsors. In this episode, I'm joined 14 00:01:16,720 --> 00:01:19,759 Speaker 1: by our incredible production team for a fun and insightful 15 00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:22,760 Speaker 1: conversation about some of the pop culture moments that have 16 00:01:22,840 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 1: been giving us life lately. We're diving into Beyonce's Cowboy 17 00:01:27,080 --> 00:01:29,759 Speaker 1: Carter tour and what it means for how we understand 18 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:34,800 Speaker 1: black womanhood and creativity, unpacking the emotional and spiritual layers 19 00:01:34,800 --> 00:01:38,360 Speaker 1: of the film centers, and reflecting on the quiet power 20 00:01:38,440 --> 00:01:42,720 Speaker 1: of the Netflix series Forever. These stories are rich, complex 21 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:45,120 Speaker 1: and so reflective of the many ways we show up 22 00:01:45,120 --> 00:01:47,240 Speaker 1: in the world, and I'm excited for you to hear 23 00:01:47,280 --> 00:01:51,360 Speaker 1: this conversation. As always, it's about more than what we're watching. 24 00:01:51,880 --> 00:01:54,760 Speaker 1: It's about how it makes us feel, what it stirs up, 25 00:01:54,920 --> 00:01:57,840 Speaker 1: and what it says about us as a community. Take 26 00:01:57,880 --> 00:02:00,520 Speaker 1: a listen and let us know what resonates with you most. 27 00:02:00,920 --> 00:02:08,360 Speaker 1: Here's our conversation. Well, we are back with another fan 28 00:02:08,600 --> 00:02:12,200 Speaker 1: favorite producer, pop Culture Chat. It is time for us 29 00:02:12,240 --> 00:02:14,680 Speaker 1: to catch up on all the things we have been watching, 30 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:17,720 Speaker 1: paying attention to lots going on that we have not 31 00:02:17,800 --> 00:02:19,799 Speaker 1: had a chance to come on the podcast, So we're 32 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:22,400 Speaker 1: very excited for another conversation here. I mean, we have 33 00:02:22,440 --> 00:02:26,040 Speaker 1: a new team member since our last producer Ketchup, so 34 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:27,880 Speaker 1: we will start with you in day if you want 35 00:02:27,919 --> 00:02:29,960 Speaker 1: to introduce yourself and tell them what you do here 36 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:31,239 Speaker 1: at Therapy for Black Girls. 37 00:02:31,480 --> 00:02:35,880 Speaker 2: Oh, I'm so excited to be here. I'm in day Chubou, I'm. 38 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:39,320 Speaker 3: From Atlanta, I'm a new producer on the podcast team, 39 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:42,440 Speaker 3: and i feel like I'm in great company, so I'm 40 00:02:42,480 --> 00:02:43,200 Speaker 3: happy to be here. 41 00:02:43,840 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 4: I'm sorry. I am also a producer for TVG and TBGU. 42 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:52,480 Speaker 5: And always enjoy talking yapping about pop culture. That's what 43 00:02:52,520 --> 00:02:55,359 Speaker 5: we do in our meets anyway, So excited to talk today. 44 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 3: And Elise, Hey everyone, my name's Elise. I'm the senior 45 00:02:59,720 --> 00:03:05,200 Speaker 3: produce of the podcast fun Fact. This month marks five 46 00:03:05,320 --> 00:03:10,520 Speaker 3: years at TVGI. Wow, I know, I know, I know, 47 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 3: almost ten. 48 00:03:14,560 --> 00:03:16,680 Speaker 2: So that's very exciting. 49 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:19,640 Speaker 3: But yeah, happy to be here with doctor Joy, with Enday, 50 00:03:19,680 --> 00:03:22,840 Speaker 3: with Tyree, with the gang as you call us, and 51 00:03:22,919 --> 00:03:25,760 Speaker 3: the three of us were the hater circle, but I'm 52 00:03:25,760 --> 00:03:26,480 Speaker 3: here to hate today. 53 00:03:26,480 --> 00:03:28,200 Speaker 2: We're here to show some love to some of. 54 00:03:28,160 --> 00:03:31,720 Speaker 3: Our favorite movies, TV shows, things we've been tuned into 55 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:32,720 Speaker 3: in pop culture. 56 00:03:33,560 --> 00:03:36,320 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, I love that. Well, happy five year anniversary. 57 00:03:36,360 --> 00:03:38,360 Speaker 1: It definitely doesn't feel like it has been that long, 58 00:03:38,400 --> 00:03:40,400 Speaker 1: but I love that you have been here this long. 59 00:03:40,800 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 1: Always enjoy our conversations. So we're going to start with 60 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:47,200 Speaker 1: something that is a little bit like kind of not 61 00:03:47,320 --> 00:03:50,240 Speaker 1: everybody's talking about it anymore, but still very relevant and 62 00:03:50,320 --> 00:03:52,240 Speaker 1: we want us to share some of our thoughts. So 63 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:56,200 Speaker 1: Sinners was the movie that came out earlier this year 64 00:03:56,640 --> 00:03:59,840 Speaker 1: that many of the producers have seen multiple times. Now, 65 00:03:59,880 --> 00:04:02,400 Speaker 1: I will let y'all know, I've only seen it once. 66 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:05,040 Speaker 1: I will likely watch it again when it comes to streaming. 67 00:04:05,440 --> 00:04:08,400 Speaker 1: But the producers were very excited. They were very aggravated 68 00:04:08,400 --> 00:04:10,400 Speaker 1: that I had not seen it in enough time for 69 00:04:10,480 --> 00:04:13,760 Speaker 1: us to talk about it more recently. But how many 70 00:04:13,840 --> 00:04:17,280 Speaker 1: times have y'all actually seen Sinners? And tell me what 71 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:19,599 Speaker 1: made it like something that you needed to go to 72 00:04:19,720 --> 00:04:20,559 Speaker 1: over and over again. 73 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:26,120 Speaker 2: I've seen it three times. I saw it regular, just basic. 74 00:04:26,720 --> 00:04:29,200 Speaker 3: I saw it in Imax, and then I saw it 75 00:04:29,200 --> 00:04:33,680 Speaker 3: in Imax seventy millimeter thankfully God's favorite. And I just 76 00:04:33,680 --> 00:04:36,240 Speaker 3: felt like I needed to watch it because I don't know, 77 00:04:36,240 --> 00:04:38,040 Speaker 3: it's like any movie where you're like ingesting a lot 78 00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:41,000 Speaker 3: of information. There are so many like cultural references or whatever, 79 00:04:41,040 --> 00:04:43,400 Speaker 3: and I feel like it's good to rewatch after you 80 00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:45,320 Speaker 3: go into a rabbit hole, so you can watch with 81 00:04:45,400 --> 00:04:49,520 Speaker 3: new contexts and you're noticing new things, and then you 82 00:04:49,680 --> 00:04:51,880 Speaker 3: do the same thing, so it's like watch rets repeat 83 00:04:52,440 --> 00:04:53,160 Speaker 3: kind of vibes. 84 00:04:53,680 --> 00:04:56,880 Speaker 2: And I would see it again. What about you? 85 00:04:56,920 --> 00:04:58,599 Speaker 1: At least I feel like you might have the record 86 00:04:58,600 --> 00:04:59,680 Speaker 1: for the most watches. 87 00:05:00,320 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, I saw it three times. I'm so grateful to 88 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:06,680 Speaker 3: be in LA where I saw it first. In imax 89 00:05:06,720 --> 00:05:08,640 Speaker 3: and in thirty five milimeters, so that was like the 90 00:05:08,640 --> 00:05:11,159 Speaker 3: intended format. And then I saw it at my old 91 00:05:11,200 --> 00:05:13,839 Speaker 3: faithful the Alamol Draft House, like I needed a meal 92 00:05:14,200 --> 00:05:16,680 Speaker 3: with the movie. And then the third time, I saw 93 00:05:16,720 --> 00:05:19,799 Speaker 3: it at the Vista Theater, which is Quentin Tarantino's theater 94 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:23,360 Speaker 3: in the East Hollywood area in thirty five milimeter with 95 00:05:23,400 --> 00:05:25,960 Speaker 3: my brother, who was a big film buff. He's also 96 00:05:26,040 --> 00:05:28,920 Speaker 3: a producer and director. So that was a really great experience. 97 00:05:29,520 --> 00:05:32,440 Speaker 2: And to your question on why did I. 98 00:05:32,360 --> 00:05:36,040 Speaker 3: See it three times, I'm a big proponent of if 99 00:05:36,040 --> 00:05:38,200 Speaker 3: you like something, you like something, and there's nothing wrong 100 00:05:38,240 --> 00:05:41,520 Speaker 3: with indulging in that time and time again. Next week 101 00:05:41,560 --> 00:05:43,760 Speaker 3: I'm going to go see When Harry Met Sally because 102 00:05:43,760 --> 00:05:45,600 Speaker 3: it's playing at like a random theater I'm going to 103 00:05:45,680 --> 00:05:49,960 Speaker 3: go to. And I haven't been this excited about a 104 00:05:50,040 --> 00:05:51,960 Speaker 3: film in a while to the point where I would 105 00:05:51,960 --> 00:05:53,120 Speaker 3: see it multiple times. 106 00:05:53,640 --> 00:05:55,680 Speaker 2: But it's such a long film. 107 00:05:55,680 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 3: I think it's like two hours and thirty minutes, and 108 00:05:58,839 --> 00:06:01,200 Speaker 3: I think that first time you're really just taking it 109 00:06:01,440 --> 00:06:04,839 Speaker 3: all in. The second time I was watching for like, 110 00:06:04,880 --> 00:06:06,440 Speaker 3: what are the things I didn't catch? 111 00:06:06,520 --> 00:06:08,240 Speaker 2: Or how can I go a layer DP love with 112 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:10,880 Speaker 2: the game. The third time was honestly just for the 113 00:06:10,880 --> 00:06:11,400 Speaker 2: fun of it. 114 00:06:11,880 --> 00:06:14,240 Speaker 5: Like you, doctor Joy, I only saw it the one 115 00:06:14,279 --> 00:06:17,040 Speaker 5: time because I only had one set of twenty six 116 00:06:17,120 --> 00:06:20,960 Speaker 5: dollars to spend, and I am really interested for the 117 00:06:21,000 --> 00:06:23,359 Speaker 5: people who did see it multiple times. 118 00:06:24,080 --> 00:06:26,360 Speaker 4: I don't know it gives recession indicator. 119 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:28,800 Speaker 5: And I love this film, but going to the movies 120 00:06:28,800 --> 00:06:31,320 Speaker 5: that much, we haven't been doing that since the Great Depression, 121 00:06:31,520 --> 00:06:32,760 Speaker 5: and I'm concerned. 122 00:06:33,720 --> 00:06:34,880 Speaker 4: I really, I'm talkies. 123 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:38,880 Speaker 3: We just I feel like we need to restore the 124 00:06:38,960 --> 00:06:42,240 Speaker 3: feeling of like being in the movie theater, like even 125 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:44,400 Speaker 3: theater is an unmatched experience. 126 00:06:45,360 --> 00:06:50,040 Speaker 2: I loved it. I also literally like our president when 127 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:52,360 Speaker 2: it comes to the movie scene. I enjoyed it. 128 00:06:52,360 --> 00:06:54,479 Speaker 3: And it's also it was funny seeing it in Atlanta 129 00:06:54,560 --> 00:06:56,320 Speaker 3: with just like a whole different crowd and seeing it 130 00:06:56,320 --> 00:06:56,839 Speaker 3: in New York. 131 00:06:57,160 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 2: So Bush, back on your. 132 00:06:58,279 --> 00:07:03,640 Speaker 3: Point about the movies, it's a very exciting experience. 133 00:07:03,920 --> 00:07:05,440 Speaker 2: You're not supposed to talk. 134 00:07:05,200 --> 00:07:07,599 Speaker 3: But even if you do, because you know that, okay, 135 00:07:07,600 --> 00:07:09,479 Speaker 3: we're supposed to be hush hushed when you're making like 136 00:07:09,520 --> 00:07:11,600 Speaker 3: these comments, whether to your friend or just laughing. 137 00:07:11,880 --> 00:07:15,200 Speaker 2: It really is because the film pulled you in that way. 138 00:07:15,680 --> 00:07:18,080 Speaker 3: I go to movies at least once a week, and 139 00:07:18,440 --> 00:07:20,720 Speaker 3: I don't find it to be a recession indicator. I 140 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:23,680 Speaker 3: think Doctor Joy just did an episode about solo dates. 141 00:07:23,720 --> 00:07:26,960 Speaker 3: It's one of the best solo dates as well. So 142 00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:30,280 Speaker 3: I'm very much pro seeing movies multiple times or just 143 00:07:30,320 --> 00:07:31,720 Speaker 3: going to the movies as much as you can, and 144 00:07:31,720 --> 00:07:34,320 Speaker 3: I think you just start to appreciate film like, Okay, 145 00:07:34,320 --> 00:07:35,680 Speaker 3: if I'm gonna go once a week, if I'm gonna 146 00:07:35,680 --> 00:07:38,040 Speaker 3: go every other week, it's less about what's in theaters 147 00:07:38,080 --> 00:07:41,679 Speaker 3: and about trying to broaden your horizons when it comes 148 00:07:41,720 --> 00:07:44,040 Speaker 3: to different films or different genres. 149 00:07:45,120 --> 00:07:47,440 Speaker 1: So I think I have a couple of reactions to 150 00:07:47,480 --> 00:07:50,920 Speaker 1: what y'all have said. So one, I was surprised that 151 00:07:51,040 --> 00:07:53,679 Speaker 1: y'all were so excited about it, because y'all do describe 152 00:07:53,720 --> 00:07:56,560 Speaker 1: yourselves as the Haters Club, right, and so for all 153 00:07:56,600 --> 00:07:59,200 Speaker 1: of you to be so excited about this thing, that's like, 154 00:07:59,200 --> 00:08:01,200 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I got to see it multiple times, 155 00:08:01,240 --> 00:08:03,480 Speaker 1: and then I see it, I'm like, oh, I'm not 156 00:08:03,560 --> 00:08:05,920 Speaker 1: really sure I like these fall So I think that 157 00:08:05,920 --> 00:08:09,760 Speaker 1: that was interesting. But I also think that Ryan Coogler 158 00:08:09,960 --> 00:08:14,000 Speaker 1: himself made a big difference in people seeing it multiple times. 159 00:08:14,040 --> 00:08:16,080 Speaker 1: That video he did, I don't even know what it 160 00:08:16,160 --> 00:08:18,560 Speaker 1: was if it was a podcast interview, but where he 161 00:08:18,680 --> 00:08:21,800 Speaker 1: broke down like his vision and why the different film 162 00:08:21,840 --> 00:08:24,760 Speaker 1: formats were important, and like really broke that down. I 163 00:08:24,920 --> 00:08:27,000 Speaker 1: don't even really understand all of what he said, but 164 00:08:27,160 --> 00:08:29,880 Speaker 1: I think that led to people feeling like, oh, we 165 00:08:29,960 --> 00:08:32,160 Speaker 1: got to go see like this thing that he's talking 166 00:08:32,240 --> 00:08:35,040 Speaker 1: about and broke down so eloquently. So I think that 167 00:08:35,040 --> 00:08:38,280 Speaker 1: that really started the campaign for people to kind of 168 00:08:38,320 --> 00:08:40,400 Speaker 1: be primed in other words, to see it's. 169 00:08:40,360 --> 00:08:42,000 Speaker 4: Multi accessible to people. 170 00:08:42,240 --> 00:08:44,800 Speaker 5: Yeah, And I think that that's a thing that's stick 171 00:08:44,920 --> 00:08:46,720 Speaker 5: for me. Like I'm a film person. I have a 172 00:08:46,720 --> 00:08:49,559 Speaker 5: background on TV and film, but a lot of times 173 00:08:49,600 --> 00:08:54,640 Speaker 5: the technical aspects of filmmaking are unimportant to the people watching. 174 00:08:55,280 --> 00:08:57,679 Speaker 5: And I think it's a big thing with the industry now, 175 00:08:58,080 --> 00:09:01,360 Speaker 5: people not really caring about whether or not a scene 176 00:09:01,440 --> 00:09:04,480 Speaker 5: was made using AI or what goes into like the 177 00:09:04,520 --> 00:09:09,720 Speaker 5: physical production of like special effects, And he made us care, Like, 178 00:09:09,840 --> 00:09:13,160 Speaker 5: you know, I honestly would consider so I saw it 179 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:15,720 Speaker 5: in seventy millimeters, but I would consider seeing it like 180 00:09:15,880 --> 00:09:19,080 Speaker 5: in the digital sense, just to see those keen differences. 181 00:09:19,480 --> 00:09:21,480 Speaker 5: There's something too that I don't think that you can 182 00:09:21,520 --> 00:09:24,080 Speaker 5: strategize for that at your marketing campaign. It's just it 183 00:09:24,160 --> 00:09:26,920 Speaker 5: comes out when you know somebody who really cares about 184 00:09:26,960 --> 00:09:28,280 Speaker 5: what they do gets to talk about it. 185 00:09:28,960 --> 00:09:32,120 Speaker 3: I think you can tell that Ryan Coogler is like 186 00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:34,520 Speaker 3: like he really meets people where they're at, Like you 187 00:09:34,559 --> 00:09:36,920 Speaker 3: can just tell in interviews, like he is the same 188 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:40,800 Speaker 3: across the board, like people always talk about like his 189 00:09:41,000 --> 00:09:43,840 Speaker 3: strong I see from Oakland, his strong like Oakland accent, 190 00:09:44,120 --> 00:09:46,880 Speaker 3: and like how he doesn't code switch or try to 191 00:09:47,679 --> 00:09:50,839 Speaker 3: like kind of correct his accent to be more palatable 192 00:09:50,880 --> 00:09:51,800 Speaker 3: to whoever. 193 00:09:52,200 --> 00:09:55,120 Speaker 2: And I think that's like not only like in like. 194 00:09:55,040 --> 00:09:57,440 Speaker 3: The shallower parts of him, just like how he presents, 195 00:09:57,440 --> 00:09:59,920 Speaker 3: but it's clearly just like he's like I'm just gonna 196 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:01,880 Speaker 3: show up to where I am. 197 00:10:01,960 --> 00:10:03,160 Speaker 2: And you know, I think it. 198 00:10:03,080 --> 00:10:05,320 Speaker 3: Is cool that he was like, let's just do a 199 00:10:05,600 --> 00:10:08,600 Speaker 3: video breaking down because I think there is something like. 200 00:10:09,520 --> 00:10:12,200 Speaker 2: About the film buff community that. 201 00:10:12,160 --> 00:10:16,079 Speaker 3: Can feel a little exclusive and it's just like, oh, well, 202 00:10:16,080 --> 00:10:17,920 Speaker 3: you don't get it, Like you wouldn't get why. 203 00:10:17,760 --> 00:10:19,520 Speaker 2: You need to see it in seventy millimeter, like you 204 00:10:19,600 --> 00:10:20,520 Speaker 2: just and if you don't. 205 00:10:20,559 --> 00:10:22,360 Speaker 3: You don't, But I think it's nice that he is like, no, 206 00:10:22,520 --> 00:10:24,959 Speaker 3: let me explain to you why this is cool. 207 00:10:24,960 --> 00:10:28,079 Speaker 2: And people are like, oh, it is cool. Whoever pitched that, 208 00:10:28,679 --> 00:10:29,480 Speaker 2: give them a raise? 209 00:10:29,720 --> 00:10:32,000 Speaker 3: That whole team, Like, I hope they're really getting their 210 00:10:32,000 --> 00:10:33,800 Speaker 3: flowers after this because they I think they made a 211 00:10:33,840 --> 00:10:34,480 Speaker 3: huge impact. 212 00:10:34,720 --> 00:10:35,120 Speaker 2: Agreed. 213 00:10:35,520 --> 00:10:39,720 Speaker 3: Shout out to you know, my fellow trojan USCLM, Ryan 214 00:10:39,800 --> 00:10:43,560 Speaker 3: Kugler and his composer Ludwig. But I agree with what 215 00:10:43,679 --> 00:10:45,840 Speaker 3: both of you guys said, like, when you feel so 216 00:10:45,960 --> 00:10:48,760 Speaker 3: passionately about something, you want it to be accessible to 217 00:10:48,800 --> 00:10:51,160 Speaker 3: other people. And I think that also is really the 218 00:10:51,200 --> 00:10:54,760 Speaker 3: ethos of this podcast as well, the ability to take 219 00:10:54,840 --> 00:10:58,360 Speaker 3: these things that feel very complex. You're right, film people 220 00:10:58,480 --> 00:11:01,920 Speaker 3: are snobs, and to bring it to a general audience 221 00:11:02,080 --> 00:11:05,520 Speaker 3: that excites people. And it made me think about I've 222 00:11:05,520 --> 00:11:10,200 Speaker 3: been watching this show on Apple with seth Rogen what 223 00:11:10,320 --> 00:11:14,720 Speaker 3: is it the studio something like that, and them shooting 224 00:11:14,920 --> 00:11:17,560 Speaker 3: a movie in film, and I think when you watch that, 225 00:11:17,679 --> 00:11:19,960 Speaker 3: you're like, yeah, these people are super pressed. This is 226 00:11:20,000 --> 00:11:23,760 Speaker 3: super annoying. But when you hear someone like Ryan Cooler 227 00:11:24,240 --> 00:11:26,840 Speaker 3: talk about all the different formats and all the different 228 00:11:26,880 --> 00:11:29,559 Speaker 3: ways and how the experience affects the film. It's that 229 00:11:29,640 --> 00:11:32,280 Speaker 3: kind of like how and that ability to connect on 230 00:11:32,440 --> 00:11:35,200 Speaker 3: emotion that I think he does really well. And then 231 00:11:35,240 --> 00:11:37,959 Speaker 3: I think another layer to it is people are very 232 00:11:38,000 --> 00:11:41,640 Speaker 3: excited about him and Michael B Jordan's journey together as 233 00:11:41,679 --> 00:11:45,199 Speaker 3: an actor duo. And I think it was an interview 234 00:11:45,960 --> 00:11:48,840 Speaker 3: maybe it was like Variety or GQ where he talks 235 00:11:48,840 --> 00:11:50,800 Speaker 3: about telling Michael B Jordan that I think you're like 236 00:11:50,840 --> 00:11:53,440 Speaker 3: a real movie star, and Michael B Jordan did not 237 00:11:53,559 --> 00:11:57,440 Speaker 3: see that in himself, and I think it's very interesting 238 00:11:57,520 --> 00:12:00,559 Speaker 3: how someone who is a great act like Michael B 239 00:12:00,640 --> 00:12:04,160 Speaker 3: Jordan can like question that. But through the films, we've 240 00:12:04,200 --> 00:12:06,680 Speaker 3: seen that Ryan Coogler sees something in him, and I 241 00:12:06,679 --> 00:12:09,720 Speaker 3: think that is really beautiful. It's also really beautiful between 242 00:12:09,720 --> 00:12:14,040 Speaker 3: like two black men, like this brotherhood that spans multiple genres, 243 00:12:14,080 --> 00:12:17,120 Speaker 3: that is in the Marvel universe, a dramatization of a 244 00:12:17,160 --> 00:12:19,800 Speaker 3: real life story. And then we get this like rocky 245 00:12:19,880 --> 00:12:23,280 Speaker 3: horror picture show epic for black people, and so I 246 00:12:23,320 --> 00:12:25,560 Speaker 3: think that is what excites people like they've been rooting 247 00:12:25,559 --> 00:12:30,240 Speaker 3: for them since Fruit Veil Station. I agree that, like muse, 248 00:12:30,360 --> 00:12:33,120 Speaker 3: relationship between two black men is really nice to see 249 00:12:33,160 --> 00:12:36,280 Speaker 3: and I feel like I personally haven't seen something like that, 250 00:12:36,320 --> 00:12:38,160 Speaker 3: I mean before my time a bit, but I caught 251 00:12:38,240 --> 00:12:41,680 Speaker 3: up since Like Spike and Denzel, like when it comes 252 00:12:41,679 --> 00:12:43,920 Speaker 3: to like hit after hit after hit, like they just 253 00:12:44,000 --> 00:12:44,600 Speaker 3: make magic. 254 00:12:44,800 --> 00:12:46,640 Speaker 2: And so yeah, I think it's nice to Michael B. 255 00:12:46,760 --> 00:12:49,839 Speaker 3: Jordan is essentially like his muse, Like they just have 256 00:12:49,920 --> 00:12:51,400 Speaker 3: their own language and they get each other. 257 00:12:52,080 --> 00:12:55,160 Speaker 1: So how do we feel about him playing both of 258 00:12:55,200 --> 00:12:58,720 Speaker 1: these roles Smoke and Stack? And was that the initial plan? 259 00:12:58,840 --> 00:12:59,000 Speaker 6: Right? 260 00:12:59,040 --> 00:13:01,040 Speaker 1: Like, had it always been planned? I don't know if 261 00:13:01,040 --> 00:13:03,440 Speaker 1: I've seen that come out in interviews. Had it always 262 00:13:03,440 --> 00:13:06,559 Speaker 1: been planned that he would play both of these roles originally? 263 00:13:07,120 --> 00:13:08,280 Speaker 4: What was supposed to happen? 264 00:13:08,440 --> 00:13:10,960 Speaker 5: I mean, I know that we have some controversies with 265 00:13:11,559 --> 00:13:14,240 Speaker 5: one of the other Michael B. Jordan collaborators, but I 266 00:13:14,280 --> 00:13:16,439 Speaker 5: think there was no other way to do this. There 267 00:13:16,480 --> 00:13:20,040 Speaker 5: was something about them being twins and brothers that played 268 00:13:20,160 --> 00:13:22,840 Speaker 5: at a sort of double consciousness. I think in the 269 00:13:22,880 --> 00:13:26,559 Speaker 5: films Smoking Stack are different people but also went in 270 00:13:26,640 --> 00:13:30,360 Speaker 5: the same And when I watched it, I felt a 271 00:13:30,440 --> 00:13:35,400 Speaker 5: lot of things around how I relate to community. I 272 00:13:35,440 --> 00:13:37,160 Speaker 5: feel like there's always a kind of a push pool 273 00:13:37,240 --> 00:13:39,520 Speaker 5: with who you have to be in this world and 274 00:13:39,600 --> 00:13:42,000 Speaker 5: the sacrifices that you actually have to make in order 275 00:13:42,040 --> 00:13:44,080 Speaker 5: to relate to others, And I think that Smoking Stack 276 00:13:44,160 --> 00:13:47,120 Speaker 5: were great paradigms of that. So I don't know if 277 00:13:47,160 --> 00:13:50,480 Speaker 5: they always meant for Michael B. Jordan to play both roles, 278 00:13:50,520 --> 00:13:53,000 Speaker 5: but I'm so glad that it happened that way because 279 00:13:53,040 --> 00:13:54,960 Speaker 5: it definitely did something to the story. 280 00:13:55,840 --> 00:13:59,240 Speaker 3: Just from the story, to me, it's clear that they're 281 00:13:59,280 --> 00:14:04,000 Speaker 3: supposed to be identical twins and able to pick up 282 00:14:04,080 --> 00:14:07,760 Speaker 3: where the other one lacks. So I didn't understand the 283 00:14:07,880 --> 00:14:12,240 Speaker 3: discourse about other actors being in the film because I 284 00:14:12,280 --> 00:14:15,240 Speaker 3: was like, No, I watched it, and to me, it's like, 285 00:14:15,360 --> 00:14:18,400 Speaker 3: very clear these are identical twins, even the fact that 286 00:14:18,720 --> 00:14:20,160 Speaker 3: their names are like Smoke. 287 00:14:19,920 --> 00:14:23,080 Speaker 2: And Stack, the like double s. So I thought that 288 00:14:23,160 --> 00:14:24,000 Speaker 2: was very interesting. 289 00:14:25,440 --> 00:14:29,840 Speaker 3: They are he That's the thing I keep saying they 290 00:14:29,920 --> 00:14:34,040 Speaker 3: because he distinctly played both characters very well, like I'm 291 00:14:34,080 --> 00:14:37,240 Speaker 3: never thinking that's Michael Jordan, and that's Michael Jordan when 292 00:14:37,240 --> 00:14:40,160 Speaker 3: you're watching the film. No, these are two separate people, 293 00:14:40,440 --> 00:14:42,360 Speaker 3: and that's I think he did an excellent job at 294 00:14:42,400 --> 00:14:43,600 Speaker 3: that very much. 295 00:14:43,760 --> 00:14:47,040 Speaker 2: Lindsay Ohan in the parent Trap period exactly. 296 00:14:47,200 --> 00:14:51,040 Speaker 3: He channeled her for sure, to play a twin, not 297 00:14:51,120 --> 00:14:53,800 Speaker 3: even like a twin to yourself, and just like you 298 00:14:53,840 --> 00:14:56,320 Speaker 3: can tell that they were similar, like the nuances with 299 00:14:56,400 --> 00:14:59,400 Speaker 3: Smoke being a little bit more like stoic and emo 300 00:14:59,520 --> 00:15:01,840 Speaker 3: and Stack being like a little bit more flashy. 301 00:15:01,640 --> 00:15:03,200 Speaker 2: No stress, Like I think that is. 302 00:15:03,280 --> 00:15:05,880 Speaker 3: I'm not an actor, but I watch movies and I 303 00:15:05,920 --> 00:15:08,120 Speaker 3: feel like not a lot of people can accomplish that. 304 00:15:08,720 --> 00:15:11,120 Speaker 1: Mm hmm, yeah, you know, I appreciate you bringing out 305 00:15:11,160 --> 00:15:13,840 Speaker 1: at least like the different genres that they have kind 306 00:15:13,840 --> 00:15:17,119 Speaker 1: of had this music relationship in the Marvel universe with Fruitvale. 307 00:15:17,520 --> 00:15:20,400 Speaker 1: I actually feel like this was the first film that 308 00:15:20,600 --> 00:15:24,280 Speaker 1: I saw Michael B. Jordan disappear into the role like 309 00:15:24,360 --> 00:15:26,640 Speaker 1: I think usually he feels very much like Michael B. 310 00:15:26,760 --> 00:15:29,840 Speaker 1: Jordan in a role, and this one it definitely even 311 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:33,080 Speaker 1: though he was playing a comic book character in Black Panther, like, 312 00:15:33,320 --> 00:15:35,440 Speaker 1: this was the role that I think you really saw 313 00:15:35,520 --> 00:15:38,680 Speaker 1: him kind of like transcend into these characters. And I 314 00:15:38,720 --> 00:15:42,240 Speaker 1: agree that it definitely didn't feel like him playing himself twice, 315 00:15:42,320 --> 00:15:45,760 Speaker 1: it definitely felt like to the stake people. So something 316 00:15:45,760 --> 00:15:48,360 Speaker 1: else that you mentioned at least was people talking about 317 00:15:48,360 --> 00:15:49,240 Speaker 1: this as a musical. 318 00:15:49,480 --> 00:15:50,760 Speaker 2: I had not heard. 319 00:15:50,520 --> 00:15:53,000 Speaker 1: That conversation, nor did I necessarily think. 320 00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:54,840 Speaker 2: About the film as a musical. 321 00:15:54,880 --> 00:15:57,360 Speaker 1: But it's interesting that you're saying, like, oh, you thought 322 00:15:57,360 --> 00:15:59,040 Speaker 1: it was a musical, because I think in my mind 323 00:15:59,080 --> 00:16:01,840 Speaker 1: the framework for music is like Greece, which is like 324 00:16:01,880 --> 00:16:04,600 Speaker 1: one of my favorite movies right, very old school, and 325 00:16:04,840 --> 00:16:07,640 Speaker 1: I think about like a musical as like these songs 326 00:16:07,680 --> 00:16:09,920 Speaker 1: that come out of nowhere, and like they could have 327 00:16:10,120 --> 00:16:13,520 Speaker 1: talked this script, but it became a song somehow, and 328 00:16:14,480 --> 00:16:17,000 Speaker 1: Sinners didn't feel like that to me. So did it 329 00:16:17,080 --> 00:16:19,440 Speaker 1: feel like a musical to the rest of you? And like, 330 00:16:19,480 --> 00:16:23,280 Speaker 1: what are your thoughts around like a musical with this storyline? 331 00:16:23,320 --> 00:16:27,000 Speaker 5: It gave musical to me. Music has to it has 332 00:16:27,040 --> 00:16:30,120 Speaker 5: to move the narrative forward, it did. I put it 333 00:16:30,160 --> 00:16:32,000 Speaker 5: this way, This is going to be so such an 334 00:16:32,040 --> 00:16:36,000 Speaker 5: insane reference. Cheetah Girls one is a movie about musicians, 335 00:16:36,320 --> 00:16:42,280 Speaker 5: but Cheetah Girls two is an actual musical. And yeah, 336 00:16:42,520 --> 00:16:46,600 Speaker 5: I feel like in the Cheetah Girls too category because 337 00:16:46,640 --> 00:16:48,880 Speaker 5: the music actually moves the story along. 338 00:16:49,560 --> 00:16:53,680 Speaker 2: But it's both. 339 00:16:54,600 --> 00:16:58,880 Speaker 3: I agree because to your first point about there being 340 00:16:59,000 --> 00:17:02,160 Speaker 3: music films or a film about musicians. Obviously, we have 341 00:17:02,520 --> 00:17:07,840 Speaker 3: Miles Canton, who's preacher Boy, and the ethos of Sinners 342 00:17:07,880 --> 00:17:12,520 Speaker 3: or the Lords loosely based off Robert Johnson's story who allegedly. 343 00:17:11,960 --> 00:17:14,800 Speaker 2: Like sold his soul at a crossroads and became this 344 00:17:14,880 --> 00:17:17,399 Speaker 2: blues legend. So that's one part of the film. 345 00:17:17,640 --> 00:17:20,040 Speaker 3: But I do agree in a lot of films like Grease, 346 00:17:20,119 --> 00:17:21,440 Speaker 3: which doctor you, I didn't know that was one of 347 00:17:21,480 --> 00:17:25,040 Speaker 3: your favorite films. That was like essential text from my mom. 348 00:17:26,840 --> 00:17:30,159 Speaker 3: But I think we think a lot about musicals as 349 00:17:30,480 --> 00:17:35,080 Speaker 3: the music replacing like some of the conversations and dialogue, 350 00:17:35,200 --> 00:17:37,399 Speaker 3: and you know, of course high school musical balls into that. 351 00:17:37,440 --> 00:17:40,000 Speaker 3: But I do agree Sinners is more like we pushed 352 00:17:40,040 --> 00:17:42,399 Speaker 3: the story along through these songs, or there are things 353 00:17:42,440 --> 00:17:46,760 Speaker 3: that are unspoken that aren't necessarily conversations, but that the 354 00:17:46,880 --> 00:17:50,400 Speaker 3: songs make up for. But I will say the Sinners soundtrack, 355 00:17:50,480 --> 00:17:52,160 Speaker 3: you know, on a nice little walk. 356 00:17:52,600 --> 00:17:58,840 Speaker 2: It's hidden, so I guess the I love that song. 357 00:17:59,119 --> 00:18:02,040 Speaker 2: Like again, tyree to your point about Cheetah Girls. 358 00:18:02,040 --> 00:18:04,399 Speaker 3: I think it's like and I love musicals, but I 359 00:18:04,400 --> 00:18:07,560 Speaker 3: don't think I initially saw it as a musical, maybe 360 00:18:07,560 --> 00:18:10,639 Speaker 3: because it is a movie about musicians. I feel like 361 00:18:10,680 --> 00:18:13,960 Speaker 3: there are often musicals that are movies that just happen 362 00:18:14,040 --> 00:18:16,960 Speaker 3: to have songs, and it's like it also could have 363 00:18:17,000 --> 00:18:20,080 Speaker 3: been dialogue, Like the music wasn't necessary, and that doesn't 364 00:18:20,080 --> 00:18:20,800 Speaker 3: mean it's not good. 365 00:18:20,840 --> 00:18:24,160 Speaker 2: But I think Centers so intertwined. 366 00:18:23,480 --> 00:18:26,640 Speaker 3: Like it has musicians, it has fictional musicians, it has 367 00:18:26,680 --> 00:18:29,159 Speaker 3: real musicians with Buddy Guy at the end, and it 368 00:18:29,320 --> 00:18:33,600 Speaker 3: also like one of the themes is music, and so 369 00:18:33,680 --> 00:18:37,240 Speaker 3: I think it kind of like really elevates what a 370 00:18:37,320 --> 00:18:40,359 Speaker 3: musical can be because it's not just. 371 00:18:40,359 --> 00:18:43,080 Speaker 2: Like we're replacing dialogue with songs. 372 00:18:43,160 --> 00:18:46,080 Speaker 3: We are like kind of creating a world out of 373 00:18:46,680 --> 00:18:47,240 Speaker 3: the music. 374 00:18:48,000 --> 00:18:52,960 Speaker 5: I think that Black people have such a specific relationship 375 00:18:53,000 --> 00:18:56,440 Speaker 5: to music in general that even when we do storytelling, 376 00:18:56,920 --> 00:18:59,720 Speaker 5: rhythm and music is a natural part of it. So, 377 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:03,240 Speaker 5: for example, I love School Days. That's one of my 378 00:19:03,280 --> 00:19:05,800 Speaker 5: favorite movies. I did not know that was a musical 379 00:19:06,080 --> 00:19:09,159 Speaker 5: until like several years later that someone pointed out to me. 380 00:19:09,520 --> 00:19:11,320 Speaker 4: And the way that music is used, and it kind 381 00:19:11,359 --> 00:19:14,119 Speaker 4: of seems nebulous to the plot. 382 00:19:14,160 --> 00:19:16,280 Speaker 5: It just feels like a natural instance of things that 383 00:19:16,320 --> 00:19:20,199 Speaker 5: would be happening on a college campus. And when I 384 00:19:20,280 --> 00:19:23,880 Speaker 5: was watching Centers, it was almost like you can't tell 385 00:19:23,920 --> 00:19:25,320 Speaker 5: the story without the. 386 00:19:25,320 --> 00:19:28,800 Speaker 4: Songs being sung. So that is how I kind of. 387 00:19:28,720 --> 00:19:31,199 Speaker 5: Related to being a musical, like it wouldn't be a 388 00:19:31,240 --> 00:19:33,479 Speaker 5: complete body of work without the singing. 389 00:19:33,960 --> 00:19:37,399 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I mean, And you know, Ludwig is a 390 00:19:37,520 --> 00:19:39,560 Speaker 1: musical genius. I think Black Panther is one of my 391 00:19:39,640 --> 00:19:43,440 Speaker 1: favorite soundtracks, and so he made magic. So thinking about 392 00:19:43,440 --> 00:19:46,400 Speaker 1: like this universe that Ryan Coogler is created for himself, 393 00:19:46,440 --> 00:19:48,679 Speaker 1: like I would love to know, like the what is 394 00:19:48,680 --> 00:19:51,719 Speaker 1: the creative process? Like are they sitting in a room together, 395 00:19:51,800 --> 00:19:53,760 Speaker 1: and like is Ludwig kind of thinking about the music 396 00:19:53,800 --> 00:19:56,359 Speaker 1: as he's talking about like how the plot unfolds, Like 397 00:19:56,400 --> 00:19:58,720 Speaker 1: it definitely feels like that trio of him, Michael B. 398 00:19:58,840 --> 00:20:02,600 Speaker 1: Jordan Ludwig on the music just really makes magic. I 399 00:20:02,600 --> 00:20:03,760 Speaker 1: think that was incredible. 400 00:20:04,200 --> 00:20:07,960 Speaker 3: Ryan Coopler and Ludwick traveled and like heard like blues 401 00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:10,720 Speaker 3: in real time and maybe in Mississippi, but like in 402 00:20:10,760 --> 00:20:12,720 Speaker 3: the South, and like really did that research. 403 00:20:13,160 --> 00:20:14,840 Speaker 2: I feel like I saw a lot of people being like, 404 00:20:15,160 --> 00:20:15,879 Speaker 2: but he's white. 405 00:20:15,920 --> 00:20:19,000 Speaker 3: He's white, And I'm like, yeah, that's a fact, he 406 00:20:19,160 --> 00:20:21,840 Speaker 3: is white. But I feel like they're partners, so I 407 00:20:21,880 --> 00:20:24,920 Speaker 3: get it. But also if he's like doing the research 408 00:20:25,080 --> 00:20:27,560 Speaker 3: through and through and ultimately if. 409 00:20:27,440 --> 00:20:30,640 Speaker 2: The music is good, like the music is just like you. 410 00:20:30,640 --> 00:20:32,399 Speaker 3: Can't say he missed, So like if you want to 411 00:20:32,400 --> 00:20:33,960 Speaker 3: be mad that he's white, you can be. 412 00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:37,400 Speaker 2: But I also feel like he ain't that, so can't 413 00:20:37,440 --> 00:20:37,840 Speaker 2: be mad. 414 00:20:38,440 --> 00:20:51,879 Speaker 1: I agree more from our conversation after the break. So 415 00:20:51,960 --> 00:20:53,919 Speaker 1: I think we cannot talk about like the role of 416 00:20:54,040 --> 00:20:57,119 Speaker 1: music in this film without thinking about the one particular 417 00:20:57,280 --> 00:21:00,760 Speaker 1: juke joint scene where we see the genres blending and 418 00:21:00,840 --> 00:21:03,080 Speaker 1: like the ancestors in the room and thinking about the 419 00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:05,920 Speaker 1: future of music. And that is the scene I think 420 00:21:05,920 --> 00:21:08,600 Speaker 1: that I have seen the most well maybe one of two, 421 00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:11,520 Speaker 1: the most kind of conversation around whether people loved it 422 00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:14,600 Speaker 1: or not. Like I think some people felt, oh my gosh, 423 00:21:14,640 --> 00:21:16,920 Speaker 1: this was amazing, like I love to see this play out. 424 00:21:17,240 --> 00:21:19,119 Speaker 1: Other people, I think were kind of turned off and 425 00:21:19,200 --> 00:21:21,800 Speaker 1: like what was happening here? Like what do we just see? 426 00:21:22,200 --> 00:21:24,240 Speaker 1: So what were your reactions to the Dean and the 427 00:21:24,280 --> 00:21:27,160 Speaker 1: juke joint where we see the different genres of music 428 00:21:27,200 --> 00:21:27,920 Speaker 1: being represented. 429 00:21:28,080 --> 00:21:31,439 Speaker 5: My favorite play is called The Colored Museum by George 430 00:21:31,440 --> 00:21:34,680 Speaker 5: sea Wolf, and the final scene of the play all 431 00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:37,080 Speaker 5: of the ancestors are at a cookout basically in a 432 00:21:37,080 --> 00:21:42,400 Speaker 5: hallm apartment, Patti LaBelle and Polly Murray like exchanging barbs 433 00:21:42,440 --> 00:21:45,160 Speaker 5: around like where they get their LeMay. 434 00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:46,080 Speaker 4: Dresses or whatever. Like. 435 00:21:46,440 --> 00:21:50,760 Speaker 5: So seeing that sort of intergenerational blend of blackness, I 436 00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:53,520 Speaker 5: think was like very powerful, and it really like kind 437 00:21:53,520 --> 00:21:56,560 Speaker 5: of set up what the role of agriot even is 438 00:21:56,920 --> 00:21:59,640 Speaker 5: for people who maybe were not familiar with that term 439 00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:02,480 Speaker 5: going on into the film. But even if you don't 440 00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:04,680 Speaker 5: like it, I think it's impossible to not have a 441 00:22:04,800 --> 00:22:06,960 Speaker 5: visceral reaction to it. And I think that's what makes 442 00:22:07,040 --> 00:22:10,320 Speaker 5: like something really art, where like you can't really see 443 00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:12,440 Speaker 5: the scene and thing Matt, you either like really love 444 00:22:12,480 --> 00:22:15,080 Speaker 5: it or you're confused and it jars you. 445 00:22:15,200 --> 00:22:17,720 Speaker 4: So I thought it was effective either way. 446 00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:21,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like I loved it. 447 00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:24,359 Speaker 3: Like Sarry said, I think, yeah, you're going to react 448 00:22:24,359 --> 00:22:27,360 Speaker 3: to it, but like to not be like this is insane. 449 00:22:27,440 --> 00:22:29,679 Speaker 3: Like I think, like when I was watching it the 450 00:22:29,720 --> 00:22:33,160 Speaker 3: first time, I was to think about telling the story 451 00:22:33,200 --> 00:22:36,160 Speaker 3: in this way, how do we even land here? 452 00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:37,680 Speaker 2: And I started thinking about like. 453 00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:39,399 Speaker 3: How you put that on paper, Like how do you 454 00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:43,560 Speaker 3: write this on a script to then translate to screen. 455 00:22:43,640 --> 00:22:46,640 Speaker 3: Like obviously Ryan wrote and directed the movie, so there 456 00:22:46,680 --> 00:22:49,040 Speaker 3: was less translation that needed to happen there. But I 457 00:22:49,080 --> 00:22:52,280 Speaker 3: think that is when it comes to like storytelling. That 458 00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:55,240 Speaker 3: is like peak storytelling for me, And I feel like 459 00:22:55,240 --> 00:22:57,119 Speaker 3: I could watch that scene over and over you just 460 00:22:57,119 --> 00:23:02,960 Speaker 3: like learn so much and without saying anything, pays respects 461 00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:05,600 Speaker 3: to just like the legacy of black music, and then 462 00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:09,439 Speaker 3: even incorporating the Chinese characters who had on their like 463 00:23:09,480 --> 00:23:12,479 Speaker 3: traditional garb, Like I think there were so many kind 464 00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:15,760 Speaker 3: of historical threats pulled together and just like put into 465 00:23:15,800 --> 00:23:19,159 Speaker 3: beautiful display. Like I am a part of the hater circle, 466 00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:23,200 Speaker 3: but I have zero hate for that. See, I'm gonna 467 00:23:23,240 --> 00:23:25,440 Speaker 3: have to agree, I have zero hate for that scene. 468 00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:28,560 Speaker 3: And I think there are a lot of discussions around 469 00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:31,360 Speaker 3: people ask this big question like what is black culture, 470 00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:37,119 Speaker 3: especially as like America isn't our homeland for argument, And 471 00:23:37,200 --> 00:23:40,480 Speaker 3: I think that scene is really perfect in showing the 472 00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:44,960 Speaker 3: connection between being of African descent but also what that means, 473 00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:48,399 Speaker 3: you know, on like quote unquote American soil and so 474 00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:52,680 Speaker 3: to like honor the black and African music tradition that way. 475 00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:55,160 Speaker 3: I thought that was really special and I do think 476 00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:59,879 Speaker 3: sometimes it brings up uncomfortable feelings for people, especially it 477 00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:04,560 Speaker 3: fere like come from a very like Christian background of 478 00:24:05,040 --> 00:24:07,160 Speaker 3: a lot of the things we know are rooted in 479 00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:09,960 Speaker 3: African spiritual traditions are a lot of the ways we 480 00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:12,920 Speaker 3: show up, whether it's in music or you know, even 481 00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:14,960 Speaker 3: when you go into your grandma's house and see like 482 00:24:15,520 --> 00:24:18,680 Speaker 3: twelve photos of all these ancestors who have passed away 483 00:24:18,760 --> 00:24:21,399 Speaker 3: or your grandma, like that is an altar, and so 484 00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:24,320 Speaker 3: I like how the film really played with that, and 485 00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:28,359 Speaker 3: that scene was such an amazing showcase of it, and 486 00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:30,800 Speaker 3: it was just really fun. I really would love to 487 00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:34,520 Speaker 3: hear more about whether it was like CGI or everything 488 00:24:34,520 --> 00:24:37,679 Speaker 3: that was used to incorporate the actors who are in 489 00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:41,520 Speaker 3: the juke joint, but then also the women talking and 490 00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:44,600 Speaker 3: the ballerinas and all of those things. I thought visually 491 00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:47,000 Speaker 3: that was very interesting, So I'm interested in the technical 492 00:24:47,080 --> 00:24:48,280 Speaker 3: part behind that too. 493 00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:51,240 Speaker 1: So the other scene that I think there was lots 494 00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:55,280 Speaker 1: of conversation and controversy around is when the vampires are 495 00:24:55,359 --> 00:24:58,879 Speaker 1: let into the juke joint and we see Grace is 496 00:24:58,960 --> 00:25:01,719 Speaker 1: the character who allow them into the juke joint, and 497 00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:06,600 Speaker 1: so what were your thoughts around her inviting the vampires in. 498 00:25:07,200 --> 00:25:11,480 Speaker 5: I feel like everybody else, everybody else needed to lock 499 00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:14,760 Speaker 5: in with her, like she had it done, like we're 500 00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:18,320 Speaker 5: just gonna wait until the daytime. No, it's business time. 501 00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:21,120 Speaker 5: Let's get it, let's get this together. I also feel 502 00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:22,480 Speaker 5: like she lost more than everybody else. 503 00:25:23,119 --> 00:25:25,000 Speaker 2: She did it, and she went for her husband first. 504 00:25:25,280 --> 00:25:27,000 Speaker 2: She was in a way trying to save him. 505 00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:29,000 Speaker 3: But to my knowledge, like I don't know if anyone 506 00:25:29,080 --> 00:25:31,919 Speaker 3: else had children on planet Earth, you know. 507 00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:34,600 Speaker 2: And so again I was just talking to some friends 508 00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:36,000 Speaker 2: about this, I'm like, I get it. 509 00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:38,760 Speaker 3: Like she was like, Okay, they're just going to kill 510 00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:42,560 Speaker 3: more people, So come on, we prepare, grab your stakes, 511 00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:46,000 Speaker 3: your shanks, and let's get to work. Like obviously i'd 512 00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:47,880 Speaker 3: be like, oh my god, like can we get another hour? 513 00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:50,960 Speaker 3: Like can we just we can't survive the night? But 514 00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:54,399 Speaker 3: it was bound to happen anyways. It was bound to happen. 515 00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:57,560 Speaker 3: And I think what people forget or not even forget 516 00:25:57,880 --> 00:25:58,520 Speaker 3: if you're not. 517 00:25:58,680 --> 00:26:01,119 Speaker 2: Up to date on your life, vampire stories. 518 00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:05,520 Speaker 3: They are very enticing, like it's not a rational decision, 519 00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:10,400 Speaker 3: it's an emotional one. And so when Remnick was speaking Chinese, 520 00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:13,479 Speaker 3: those are the things that vampires do to pull at 521 00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:16,840 Speaker 3: you to invite them in or to give up and 522 00:26:16,880 --> 00:26:17,640 Speaker 3: become one, And. 523 00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:20,480 Speaker 2: So I think people, I think, are trying. 524 00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:24,919 Speaker 3: To make it like a race based decision when vampires 525 00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:30,160 Speaker 3: are supernatural beings that are known for being conniving and convincing. 526 00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:32,040 Speaker 3: So I was kind of like, yeah, this was going 527 00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:35,160 Speaker 3: to happen anyway to someone eventually. 528 00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:38,320 Speaker 2: So I wasn't mad at her. I wasn't mad at her. 529 00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:41,760 Speaker 3: I think after the conversations everyone that you've joined were 530 00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:46,040 Speaker 3: having was like you either if you're one of them, 531 00:26:46,080 --> 00:26:49,040 Speaker 3: you cannot join back with like the ancestors, like you 532 00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:52,399 Speaker 3: really won't go into the afterlife. And so also knowing 533 00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:55,560 Speaker 3: that your loved one is out there in that reality, 534 00:26:56,680 --> 00:26:59,959 Speaker 3: what would you do, especially if you're a spiritual person 535 00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:02,240 Speaker 3: And they don't touch on this directly in the film. 536 00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:05,280 Speaker 3: A little bit they do, but like, of course being 537 00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:07,560 Speaker 3: of Chinese descent, you are a very spiritual person. 538 00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:08,960 Speaker 2: And they even talked about. 539 00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:12,320 Speaker 3: How only having red paint to write the Duke Joint 540 00:27:12,560 --> 00:27:16,639 Speaker 3: sign red writing has a lot of meetings, so those 541 00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:17,720 Speaker 3: themes were wrapped. 542 00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:19,199 Speaker 2: Up in there. So I wasn't mad at her. 543 00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:20,680 Speaker 3: I was like, girl, you gotta do what you gotta do, 544 00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:23,119 Speaker 3: because I don't know how I would react if a 545 00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:28,560 Speaker 3: vampire started giving my home address. I would be like, okay, 546 00:27:28,640 --> 00:27:31,720 Speaker 3: let's take thirty seconds to just figure out a plan. 547 00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:34,320 Speaker 2: Which they had a plan, like you said, Tyree, but 548 00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:34,920 Speaker 2: the way. 549 00:27:34,760 --> 00:27:36,560 Speaker 3: She did, I'm like, okay, give us a bit of 550 00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:38,200 Speaker 3: a warning for like a little bit. 551 00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:42,480 Speaker 5: I really wish that we got like a post credit 552 00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:46,159 Speaker 5: scene that explained what happens to the daughter now because 553 00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:49,480 Speaker 5: her parents dead and she is the only Chinese girl 554 00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:52,879 Speaker 5: in Mississippi with two stores to ruin. That is the 555 00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:55,480 Speaker 5: story that I need to know about Preacher boy. It 556 00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:58,800 Speaker 5: made sense then, a little mischild, I do want to know. 557 00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:05,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, Lisa, what's her name? 558 00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:06,240 Speaker 2: Lisa? 559 00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:09,399 Speaker 1: I think so, yeah, you know, you make an excellent 560 00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:11,399 Speaker 1: point at Lisa. And again I don't think that I 561 00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:15,080 Speaker 1: knew like exactly what I was walking into with Sinners right, 562 00:28:15,119 --> 00:28:17,199 Speaker 1: Like it definitely felt like Okay, I want to go 563 00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:18,600 Speaker 1: see like what the hype is about, and I want 564 00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:21,280 Speaker 1: to support the cast and Ryan. But I was not 565 00:28:21,680 --> 00:28:23,959 Speaker 1: up on vampire lore because it is not something I'm 566 00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:26,240 Speaker 1: typically drawn to. Like I was one of those people 567 00:28:26,320 --> 00:28:28,840 Speaker 1: online talking about like, Okay, how scary is this is 568 00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:31,119 Speaker 1: this really gonna be something I can tolerate? And so 569 00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:33,600 Speaker 1: it would not be like if it were build more 570 00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:37,680 Speaker 1: as a vampire movie, it probably would not have been 571 00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:39,560 Speaker 1: something I would have seen. And so there was a 572 00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:43,280 Speaker 1: lot of that like vampire context which I found out afterwards, 573 00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:45,720 Speaker 1: right like around like the inviting them in like context 574 00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:48,120 Speaker 1: clues led me to understand it a little bit in 575 00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:50,760 Speaker 1: the film, but not until afterwards when I came home 576 00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:52,680 Speaker 1: and read about it, I was like, Oh, this is why, 577 00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:55,280 Speaker 1: like they needed to be invited in. So you make 578 00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:57,200 Speaker 1: a great point that if you are not in that 579 00:28:57,440 --> 00:29:00,720 Speaker 1: genre and understand like how vampires work, then I think 580 00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:02,040 Speaker 1: a lot was missed. 581 00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:04,840 Speaker 2: So why see it a second time? 582 00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:10,200 Speaker 1: And I will when it is dreaming? So Tarry, you 583 00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:12,520 Speaker 1: bring up an excellent point in terms of thinking about like, Okay, 584 00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:15,280 Speaker 1: what happens next? Right, like what is Lisa's story? And 585 00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:17,800 Speaker 1: there is conversation around like are we going to get 586 00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:19,640 Speaker 1: like a center cinematic universe? 587 00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:19,920 Speaker 4: Right? 588 00:29:20,200 --> 00:29:23,480 Speaker 1: Did this leave the door open for other films I've 589 00:29:23,480 --> 00:29:26,200 Speaker 1: seen people talk about loving would love to see like 590 00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:29,800 Speaker 1: Smoking Stack in Chicago? What happened? Are we gonna get 591 00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:31,920 Speaker 1: a prequel? Like do you think there will be more 592 00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:34,440 Speaker 1: Ciners films or is this like a one and done 593 00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:35,160 Speaker 1: kind of thing. 594 00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:37,400 Speaker 3: I can't speak to if there will be more, but 595 00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:40,280 Speaker 3: I can't speak to if I think we need them. 596 00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:41,880 Speaker 2: I just am gonna say no. 597 00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:47,240 Speaker 3: Like, I just think that sometimes expanding like wait, this 598 00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:50,200 Speaker 3: like idea of making things into a universe or like 599 00:29:50,320 --> 00:29:52,680 Speaker 3: making things into a world. I mean, the movie in 600 00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:56,720 Speaker 3: itself has built its own world, but I think sometimes 601 00:29:56,760 --> 00:29:58,040 Speaker 3: it's nice to just let. 602 00:29:57,880 --> 00:29:59,560 Speaker 2: That story be that story. 603 00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:03,880 Speaker 3: And like the idea of like franchising everything. 604 00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:07,120 Speaker 2: Don't let me get into my capitalism back, but. 605 00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:10,040 Speaker 3: You know, like just the idea of like trying to like, Okay, 606 00:30:10,080 --> 00:30:12,480 Speaker 3: this was successful, how can we let's make five more. 607 00:30:12,920 --> 00:30:14,000 Speaker 2: I'm like the story. 608 00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:16,120 Speaker 3: I think the story was great, and I kind of 609 00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:19,000 Speaker 3: like the idea of if you're reading a book, like 610 00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:21,120 Speaker 3: you'll never really know what those people look like, what 611 00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:23,880 Speaker 3: they wear. And I like the idea of like something 612 00:30:23,960 --> 00:30:27,280 Speaker 3: being left to the imagination of the story, you know, 613 00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:30,120 Speaker 3: And I think that's like kind of part of storytelling, 614 00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:33,160 Speaker 3: like letting people kind of participate in their own way. 615 00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:35,960 Speaker 2: So if there are more readings, I will be watching, 616 00:30:36,080 --> 00:30:37,360 Speaker 2: but I'm not asking for it. 617 00:30:37,880 --> 00:30:39,880 Speaker 3: And day you took all of the words right out 618 00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:41,720 Speaker 3: in my mouth because I was going to get on 619 00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:48,080 Speaker 3: my capitalism soapbox, where I don't think that is always necessary. 620 00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:51,680 Speaker 2: And I do think whether you're a reader or a viewer, 621 00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:54,080 Speaker 2: it does let you sit with your own imagination a 622 00:30:54,160 --> 00:30:56,720 Speaker 2: little bit more. And I think that is. 623 00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:01,920 Speaker 3: What is like beautiful about films. It's like, this is 624 00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:04,760 Speaker 3: the story I decided to tell you. Now, once you 625 00:31:04,840 --> 00:31:07,400 Speaker 3: leave this theater, once you put the book down, return 626 00:31:07,440 --> 00:31:10,200 Speaker 3: into the library, whatever you go on, and let that 627 00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:14,000 Speaker 3: inform you know what you think beyond your life. And 628 00:31:14,040 --> 00:31:16,160 Speaker 3: so I think I really did like that. It did 629 00:31:16,160 --> 00:31:17,240 Speaker 3: feel like a complete story. 630 00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:19,920 Speaker 2: I don't think there were anything, any holes, anything missing. 631 00:31:20,560 --> 00:31:24,200 Speaker 3: And I like when media allows me to just sit 632 00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:26,160 Speaker 3: with it and it doesn't kind of force me to 633 00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:29,520 Speaker 3: continue to follow the story, like it is contained within 634 00:31:29,600 --> 00:31:31,400 Speaker 3: itself and it says, this is what I gave you, 635 00:31:31,600 --> 00:31:33,080 Speaker 3: this is it, and now I'm going to go. 636 00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:34,720 Speaker 2: So I appreciate it. 637 00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:36,680 Speaker 5: I don't think that we're going to get a sequel 638 00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:38,920 Speaker 5: or that we need it, but I do think that 639 00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:43,560 Speaker 5: sinners already exist in a cinematic universe. I think that 640 00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:47,760 Speaker 5: Sinner's life and oh, brother, where art thou all are 641 00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:48,320 Speaker 5: the same? 642 00:31:48,480 --> 00:31:52,280 Speaker 4: Like universe? And yes that's my thought. 643 00:31:52,520 --> 00:31:53,800 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I love it. 644 00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:57,200 Speaker 5: I mean, granted they all are just to those other 645 00:31:57,240 --> 00:31:58,960 Speaker 5: movies amazing sound tricks. 646 00:31:59,040 --> 00:32:01,880 Speaker 2: I've also had a great sound on track did. 647 00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:04,480 Speaker 4: Life? 648 00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:05,880 Speaker 2: You've also had a great soundtrack. 649 00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:12,160 Speaker 3: So I do love what I mean really like we 650 00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:14,360 Speaker 3: really got to start like looking back into a lot 651 00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:16,520 Speaker 3: of these movies. And that's the thing you're so right, Tarry, 652 00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:18,760 Speaker 3: Like the amount of time just in life, Like I've 653 00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:21,600 Speaker 3: been with friends and someone says something and that everybody 654 00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:25,040 Speaker 3: just kind of turns it into us all, like those 655 00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:28,040 Speaker 3: musical moments happen in our life so much, which is 656 00:32:28,080 --> 00:32:31,040 Speaker 3: why like initially I was like, oh, this is a 657 00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:33,240 Speaker 3: music I was just like, this is a movie with music, 658 00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:35,680 Speaker 3: Like obviously black people are going to make music whenever 659 00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:37,160 Speaker 3: they can, you know. 660 00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:40,520 Speaker 1: So moving on to another thing that I don't know 661 00:32:40,520 --> 00:32:42,360 Speaker 1: that we talked about this as much as a team, 662 00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:45,520 Speaker 1: so I can't say you was universally loved, but definitely 663 00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:48,320 Speaker 1: to show that I love that I have talked about 664 00:32:48,360 --> 00:32:50,480 Speaker 1: online is like the best thing I have watched in 665 00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:53,440 Speaker 1: a very long time was Forever on Netflix. 666 00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:55,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, so has. 667 00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:56,840 Speaker 2: Everybody watched it. You all have watched it. 668 00:32:56,720 --> 00:33:01,400 Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, Okay, So what did you go into it expecting? 669 00:33:02,120 --> 00:33:05,680 Speaker 3: So I read the book Forever when I was younger, 670 00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:10,360 Speaker 3: and so I hoped, in just reading the book Noe 671 00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:13,680 Speaker 3: mar brock al kill out that it would incorporate sex 672 00:33:14,040 --> 00:33:16,920 Speaker 3: and like the adolescent experience in a very smart. 673 00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:20,000 Speaker 2: And layered way. So I really did. 674 00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:22,480 Speaker 3: Now that it's out and people i've seen it, I 675 00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:27,440 Speaker 3: think there is a lot of chatter about Keisha being promiscuous. 676 00:33:27,480 --> 00:33:30,480 Speaker 3: Not that I agree with that, but if you read 677 00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:34,480 Speaker 3: the original text, it challenges your thinking about that. So 678 00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:38,320 Speaker 3: I definitely did expect that. Honestly, I will say that 679 00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:43,240 Speaker 3: was probably it thematically, like just reading the original Forever, 680 00:33:43,360 --> 00:33:46,280 Speaker 3: like that's a big portion or the biggest portion of 681 00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:50,400 Speaker 3: the book is like, how are teenagers exploring sex and 682 00:33:50,520 --> 00:33:55,120 Speaker 3: romantic relationships? Less about like help because most times like 683 00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:58,040 Speaker 3: they're doing it in a smart way, but more about 684 00:33:58,080 --> 00:34:02,560 Speaker 3: like the emotional complication and also liking someone, but know 685 00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:04,680 Speaker 3: when you're so young. And so those are the themes 686 00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:07,000 Speaker 3: that I expected. Now we got a whole lot more 687 00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:09,560 Speaker 3: than I enjoyed. But that's kind of how I came. 688 00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:13,799 Speaker 2: To the series. I had not read Forever previously. 689 00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:16,520 Speaker 3: I saw a tweet that was like, I was not 690 00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:19,160 Speaker 3: reading Judy Bloom, I was reading Judy Beach Jones. 691 00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:20,719 Speaker 4: Was I was. 692 00:34:20,680 --> 00:34:22,480 Speaker 3: Definitely reading Judy be Jones. I think that was like 693 00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:24,080 Speaker 3: when I was a little bit younger. But I didn't 694 00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:26,680 Speaker 3: even know about this book, to be honest, and so 695 00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:29,279 Speaker 3: my first experience with it is through the lens of 696 00:34:29,280 --> 00:34:30,040 Speaker 3: Mark Brakikhel. 697 00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:33,120 Speaker 5: I was concerned because it is so much about like 698 00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:36,200 Speaker 5: a sexual relationship and it's like a time period thing, 699 00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:38,319 Speaker 5: and I was like, ooh, but black girls are not 700 00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:41,400 Speaker 5: going to be afforded the luxury to explore sexuality on 701 00:34:41,520 --> 00:34:46,080 Speaker 5: screen and like, have it be received well. I've never 702 00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:49,640 Speaker 5: seen a project that did it. There was this film, 703 00:34:50,120 --> 00:34:52,120 Speaker 5: Just Another Girl in the Irt, and it deals with 704 00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:56,240 Speaker 5: like teen pregnancy, but it's always very after school special 705 00:34:56,440 --> 00:34:59,400 Speaker 5: and not really like this is an autonomous human experience 706 00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:03,080 Speaker 5: that's linked to several emotions and not that I worried 707 00:35:03,120 --> 00:35:06,600 Speaker 5: about Marl brocka Kill's ability to handle the text and 708 00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:11,360 Speaker 5: the subtext. I was just not sure how black media 709 00:35:11,400 --> 00:35:14,440 Speaker 5: would cover it. And I'm really happy that it's being, 710 00:35:14,520 --> 00:35:17,160 Speaker 5: you know, received well, because I feel like it is 711 00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:20,239 Speaker 5: a great show for young kids, and like, we don't 712 00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:23,879 Speaker 5: have a lot of teen media currently, but also it's 713 00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:26,759 Speaker 5: like a it's an inner child healing series, Like I 714 00:35:26,800 --> 00:35:29,279 Speaker 5: think that adults are watching this, and it's like, oh, 715 00:35:29,360 --> 00:35:30,719 Speaker 5: I actually didn't get to. 716 00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:33,680 Speaker 4: Experience anything like this. To see this as a kid. 717 00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:36,400 Speaker 5: The closest maybe was like what Moesha and that is 718 00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:38,080 Speaker 5: actually traumatizing cinema. 719 00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:40,719 Speaker 4: So I was really happy with how it turned out. 720 00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:44,319 Speaker 1: I also had not read the book before and didn't 721 00:35:44,360 --> 00:35:46,759 Speaker 1: really know again what all it was going to be about, 722 00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:49,000 Speaker 1: though the previews I think showed me a little bit. 723 00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:53,200 Speaker 1: And like you, Tyrie, anything that has like Black Girls, 724 00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:55,320 Speaker 1: where there's a potential for a black girl to be 725 00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:58,319 Speaker 1: talked about as fast or you know, like as if 726 00:35:58,320 --> 00:36:01,640 Speaker 1: she is the only one exploring her sexuality, not her partners, 727 00:36:01,719 --> 00:36:04,600 Speaker 1: right like the male partners. It definitely had the potential goals. 728 00:36:04,680 --> 00:36:04,919 Speaker 4: Left. 729 00:36:04,960 --> 00:36:08,759 Speaker 1: But I trust no one better than Marl Brokakiel with 730 00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:12,040 Speaker 1: a story about black girls, black women, because it feels 731 00:36:12,080 --> 00:36:14,560 Speaker 1: like it fits perfectly with like the world she has 732 00:36:14,640 --> 00:36:18,400 Speaker 1: created in terms of girlfriends and love is and like 733 00:36:18,440 --> 00:36:21,160 Speaker 1: all of these things, and so I just really loved it, 734 00:36:21,239 --> 00:36:24,280 Speaker 1: and I have also been shocked by like the ways 735 00:36:24,280 --> 00:36:28,080 Speaker 1: that people have been so emotional I think about watching 736 00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:31,720 Speaker 1: the series. I think it really has into people's experiences 737 00:36:31,719 --> 00:36:34,120 Speaker 1: of like your first love and like the one that 738 00:36:34,200 --> 00:36:37,840 Speaker 1: got away maybe, but also like with the parenting, you know, 739 00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:40,560 Speaker 1: so I feel like there was something for everybody, which 740 00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:44,000 Speaker 1: was very, very surprising, And I, again, like you, Tyrie, 741 00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:48,080 Speaker 1: have been really pleased with like the ways that the conversations, 742 00:36:48,320 --> 00:36:53,280 Speaker 1: especially around Keisha, the black girl character there have been portrayed, 743 00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:56,120 Speaker 1: especially by black men, and now definitely individuals have had 744 00:36:56,160 --> 00:36:58,359 Speaker 1: strong reactions to her right, and I think that really 745 00:36:58,400 --> 00:37:01,120 Speaker 1: taps into, like you men, like the ways we were 746 00:37:01,200 --> 00:37:03,880 Speaker 1: not given grace maybe for mistakes we made, and so 747 00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:07,200 Speaker 1: it's hard to see her being given grace. But I 748 00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:11,239 Speaker 1: think overall the reception to her has been positive, so 749 00:37:11,320 --> 00:37:13,080 Speaker 1: at least I want to ask this next question to 750 00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:16,080 Speaker 1: you to start with, because I feel like Forever Now 751 00:37:16,280 --> 00:37:18,680 Speaker 1: falls in the genre of you know, we've talked I 752 00:37:18,680 --> 00:37:21,200 Speaker 1: think on the podcast around like what do teens have 753 00:37:21,719 --> 00:37:23,839 Speaker 1: in terms of media? Right, Like, it feels like there's 754 00:37:23,880 --> 00:37:26,240 Speaker 1: a lot missing in terms of like what are they watching? 755 00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:30,279 Speaker 1: Are they watching Gracy's Corner, or are they watching you know, 756 00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:33,719 Speaker 1: like Beyond the Gates right, like there is not necessarily 757 00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:36,520 Speaker 1: like a genre just for them, and so it feels 758 00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:39,919 Speaker 1: like it fits into like the all American category, which 759 00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:42,960 Speaker 1: I know you have had some strong feelings about I loved, 760 00:37:43,160 --> 00:37:45,480 Speaker 1: but you also were like, I don't really know about it. 761 00:37:45,640 --> 00:37:48,160 Speaker 1: So what do you think about like Forever kind of 762 00:37:48,239 --> 00:37:50,719 Speaker 1: joining that canon and maybe your thoughts about like the 763 00:37:50,760 --> 00:37:53,760 Speaker 1: differences between Forever versus like an all American. 764 00:37:53,960 --> 00:37:58,520 Speaker 3: Forever was great. I will say I did not bit 765 00:37:58,680 --> 00:38:01,840 Speaker 3: all American. All Amica is just it's on the CW. 766 00:38:02,160 --> 00:38:04,040 Speaker 3: You know what you're gonna get. There is a level 767 00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:07,440 Speaker 3: of corniness. It's of the gossip. 768 00:38:07,080 --> 00:38:10,600 Speaker 2: Girl tradition, so you know, we'll leave that there. So 769 00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:13,680 Speaker 2: then you have Netflix, so you have a higher production budget, you. 770 00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:19,880 Speaker 3: Have a director and showrunner who is known for telling 771 00:38:20,000 --> 00:38:24,440 Speaker 3: like black stories, but black stories about relationships and then 772 00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:28,879 Speaker 3: about younger people, and so I do think coming into 773 00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:30,359 Speaker 3: that you're getting something that's just. 774 00:38:30,360 --> 00:38:32,759 Speaker 2: Like a little more layered and a little less cliche 775 00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:33,640 Speaker 2: when it. 776 00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:36,920 Speaker 3: Comes to the high school experience especially, I think the 777 00:38:36,960 --> 00:38:39,200 Speaker 3: two things were, you know, the sex element of it, 778 00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:44,239 Speaker 3: but then also the learning disability element of that too, 779 00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:48,160 Speaker 3: and the class element. Something that all American I think 780 00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:51,320 Speaker 3: was interesting to me was there was this very stark 781 00:38:51,600 --> 00:38:53,360 Speaker 3: class divide in the show. 782 00:38:54,280 --> 00:38:55,359 Speaker 2: You still get that in. 783 00:38:55,400 --> 00:38:59,640 Speaker 3: Forever, but I think it's more layered than it. It 784 00:38:59,719 --> 00:39:01,640 Speaker 3: wasn't American, so I think it was a great teen 785 00:39:01,680 --> 00:39:07,000 Speaker 3: show in general. And another thing Terry you mentioned, Mosha, 786 00:39:07,360 --> 00:39:10,319 Speaker 3: we don't see black girls date on TV a lot, 787 00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:12,280 Speaker 3: and it's not like you should get your dating advice 788 00:39:12,320 --> 00:39:16,120 Speaker 3: from television. But I do think a lot of younger 789 00:39:16,120 --> 00:39:20,240 Speaker 3: Black girls, like late middle school throughout high school, don't 790 00:39:20,280 --> 00:39:24,319 Speaker 3: know how to navigate that. It's not something that at 791 00:39:24,360 --> 00:39:26,840 Speaker 3: times you're really open with your parents or maybe you 792 00:39:26,840 --> 00:39:28,160 Speaker 3: have an older sister and you can be. 793 00:39:28,520 --> 00:39:29,760 Speaker 2: So having that as. 794 00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:33,400 Speaker 3: A model I think is good because there are obviously 795 00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:35,360 Speaker 3: poor or like. 796 00:39:35,400 --> 00:39:38,080 Speaker 2: Ill informed decisions everyone in the show makes. But then 797 00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:39,400 Speaker 2: I think the show is really. 798 00:39:39,280 --> 00:39:43,440 Speaker 3: Good at being prescriptive of this is how you navigate 799 00:39:43,560 --> 00:39:45,320 Speaker 3: x YZ thing, or this is how you should navigate 800 00:39:45,440 --> 00:39:47,239 Speaker 3: x y Z thing, And so I'm. 801 00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:49,360 Speaker 2: Very happy that the show exists. 802 00:39:49,480 --> 00:39:53,080 Speaker 3: It's not salacious in my secret life of an American 803 00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:55,600 Speaker 3: teenager way where it's like I don't know if I 804 00:39:55,640 --> 00:39:57,920 Speaker 3: want my child watching that, Like, I think this is 805 00:39:58,000 --> 00:40:00,960 Speaker 3: something that you could watch and you would come away 806 00:40:01,080 --> 00:40:04,480 Speaker 3: with an understanding of this is how maybe my first 807 00:40:04,520 --> 00:40:07,200 Speaker 3: time should feel, This is how my partner should treat me, 808 00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:10,239 Speaker 3: This is how I can make decisions about my. 809 00:40:10,239 --> 00:40:11,799 Speaker 2: Life and going to college. 810 00:40:12,200 --> 00:40:15,560 Speaker 3: Ooh, these are the conversations that people are having about sex, 811 00:40:15,600 --> 00:40:18,600 Speaker 3: about boys or girls or whoever with their friends and 812 00:40:18,640 --> 00:40:22,239 Speaker 3: seeing that as a point of introspection. So I think 813 00:40:22,280 --> 00:40:24,920 Speaker 3: it was amazing and I think All American has all 814 00:40:24,960 --> 00:40:25,959 Speaker 3: of those things too. 815 00:40:26,320 --> 00:40:33,920 Speaker 2: It's just a CW show, a CW show, tam for sure. Tim. Yeah, yeah, 816 00:40:34,320 --> 00:40:36,919 Speaker 2: I feel like I was nervous. First of all. I'll 817 00:40:36,920 --> 00:40:38,320 Speaker 2: say I love love you Simone. 818 00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:41,080 Speaker 3: I've loved her since Greenley Sale in the spades, Like 819 00:40:41,120 --> 00:40:42,840 Speaker 3: I think she's a great actress and I want to 820 00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:45,560 Speaker 3: see her and more stuff because it is like. 821 00:40:45,560 --> 00:40:47,560 Speaker 2: A teen show about like teen love. 822 00:40:47,680 --> 00:40:51,239 Speaker 3: I was nervous because of shows like All American, which 823 00:40:51,280 --> 00:40:54,600 Speaker 3: I did watch, but it kind of is like watching 824 00:40:54,600 --> 00:40:56,520 Speaker 3: a train crash, but you just want to keep watching. 825 00:40:56,760 --> 00:40:59,640 Speaker 3: I was talking to my little sister, who's very much 826 00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:02,680 Speaker 3: gins and she loves All American. 827 00:41:02,200 --> 00:41:03,759 Speaker 2: And I was like, do you like forever? She's like 828 00:41:04,040 --> 00:41:05,040 Speaker 2: it was okay. 829 00:41:05,400 --> 00:41:07,719 Speaker 3: And I think also because it was like like she 830 00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:09,400 Speaker 3: enjoyed it, but I think it was like set in 831 00:41:09,440 --> 00:41:12,040 Speaker 3: a time that's just unfathomable. 832 00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:13,480 Speaker 2: To her, Like she was like early two thousands. I 833 00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:15,640 Speaker 2: was like, it is not in the early two thousands. 834 00:41:15,760 --> 00:41:20,279 Speaker 2: Don't say that. I was like like twenty tens okay. 835 00:41:20,680 --> 00:41:23,560 Speaker 3: But I think like when it comes to how conflict 836 00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:26,880 Speaker 3: is displayed in like a CW show, it's very like 837 00:41:26,960 --> 00:41:29,560 Speaker 3: A plus the equal C and I think in Forever 838 00:41:29,640 --> 00:41:32,080 Speaker 3: it was a lot more nuanced and allowed you to 839 00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:34,720 Speaker 3: be like if I was in that situation, I really 840 00:41:34,719 --> 00:41:36,719 Speaker 3: don't know what I would do. I think it's easier 841 00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:39,440 Speaker 3: in like a CW show. Sorry no, no shade to them, 842 00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:41,200 Speaker 3: but to be like who would do that? 843 00:41:41,239 --> 00:41:43,400 Speaker 2: In real life? You know, like that doesn't. 844 00:41:43,040 --> 00:41:47,040 Speaker 3: Feel like a real response, or you know, it doesn't 845 00:41:47,120 --> 00:41:48,240 Speaker 3: totally feel realistic. 846 00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:51,680 Speaker 2: But in Forever, I was like, yeah, maybe I would 847 00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:54,160 Speaker 2: have blocked. Maybe I would have you know, or like 848 00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:55,000 Speaker 2: maybe it would have. 849 00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:58,080 Speaker 3: Been really tough for me in that moment to express 850 00:41:58,120 --> 00:42:01,799 Speaker 3: my feelings rather than kind of fading to black for 851 00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:08,239 Speaker 3: a week. And even now, like in my early thirties, 852 00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:12,120 Speaker 3: those are like watching those things still made me kind 853 00:42:12,120 --> 00:42:14,560 Speaker 3: of check in with myself and be like, you know, 854 00:42:14,719 --> 00:42:17,560 Speaker 3: is that something that you know thinking about the times 855 00:42:17,600 --> 00:42:21,600 Speaker 3: where I have done those things fail to communicate and 856 00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:24,320 Speaker 3: just like experiencing caring about someone so much in a 857 00:42:24,320 --> 00:42:26,160 Speaker 3: way where you're like, I've never been through this before 858 00:42:26,200 --> 00:42:28,319 Speaker 3: and I don't really know how to express it all 859 00:42:28,320 --> 00:42:30,640 Speaker 3: the time. And so I think that's why a lot 860 00:42:30,640 --> 00:42:34,520 Speaker 3: of people outside of teenagers early twenty year olds like 861 00:42:34,640 --> 00:42:38,920 Speaker 3: really enjoyed it, because you see parts of like yourself 862 00:42:38,920 --> 00:42:41,880 Speaker 3: and parts of like how you can navigate dating even now, 863 00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:44,319 Speaker 3: in a way that just feels realistic. 864 00:42:45,400 --> 00:42:48,919 Speaker 5: I was a Secret Life of the American Teenager fan. 865 00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:52,919 Speaker 5: I was watching that show down. That is the one 866 00:42:52,960 --> 00:42:57,279 Speaker 5: time I've respected Shalene Woodley. But I think and that 867 00:42:57,400 --> 00:42:59,799 Speaker 5: you bring up a good point about one it being 868 00:42:59,800 --> 00:43:02,640 Speaker 5: a period piece, it being the twenty tens. You know, 869 00:43:02,719 --> 00:43:05,840 Speaker 5: you and I were doing our adolescent dating in twenty tens, 870 00:43:05,880 --> 00:43:07,479 Speaker 5: and it was. 871 00:43:07,440 --> 00:43:10,120 Speaker 4: Like it was somatic therapy, it was memory work. 872 00:43:10,160 --> 00:43:12,239 Speaker 5: I was watching this now, grants it, I ain't never 873 00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:14,759 Speaker 5: blocked nobody in my life, and I think that the 874 00:43:14,800 --> 00:43:19,120 Speaker 5: blocking was excessive in this series. But it was interesting 875 00:43:19,200 --> 00:43:21,759 Speaker 5: to kind of see like that. I talk about this 876 00:43:21,840 --> 00:43:25,360 Speaker 5: a lot. There's like a Bluey to Baddies pipeline for children, 877 00:43:26,200 --> 00:43:28,839 Speaker 5: there really is. There's no you know, there's no Yeah, 878 00:43:29,120 --> 00:43:32,400 Speaker 5: they're gone. Are the days of Christian Anderson, the Grim Brothers. 879 00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:35,359 Speaker 5: They're not there no more. So really the kids are 880 00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:38,640 Speaker 5: getting their mores from TV and Twitter. So I love 881 00:43:38,719 --> 00:43:41,480 Speaker 5: that they have these sort of case studies, Like even 882 00:43:41,520 --> 00:43:45,440 Speaker 5: if your sister thinks like this period is unrealistic, I 883 00:43:45,520 --> 00:43:47,959 Speaker 5: don't know that I thought that Degrassi was the most 884 00:43:48,040 --> 00:43:51,560 Speaker 5: realistic thing, but it did help me navigate. 885 00:43:51,120 --> 00:43:53,240 Speaker 4: Some conversations around sex as a teenager. 886 00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:53,880 Speaker 2: Totally. 887 00:43:54,160 --> 00:43:56,440 Speaker 1: Yeah. My husband and I watched this together, and so 888 00:43:56,680 --> 00:43:58,919 Speaker 1: I think that we saw a lot of ourselves in 889 00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:02,839 Speaker 1: like the parents Justin's parents, and we have boys, right, 890 00:44:02,880 --> 00:44:05,120 Speaker 1: and so I definitely think I was thinking about and 891 00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:08,320 Speaker 1: I'm also like reacting to like people having very strong 892 00:44:08,360 --> 00:44:10,360 Speaker 1: reactions to Dawn because I feel like I see a 893 00:44:10,400 --> 00:44:12,680 Speaker 1: lot of myself and Dawn as a parent. Like, of 894 00:44:12,719 --> 00:44:14,759 Speaker 1: course that's the decision we're making, like what are you 895 00:44:14,800 --> 00:44:17,239 Speaker 1: talking about? But I do think it is helping me 896 00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:19,200 Speaker 1: think about like, Okay, what kinds of conversations do I 897 00:44:19,239 --> 00:44:21,120 Speaker 1: want to have with my kids, right, and I could 898 00:44:21,120 --> 00:44:23,839 Speaker 1: see like using Forever and like watching that together when 899 00:44:23,840 --> 00:44:26,200 Speaker 1: they're a little older and thinking about, Okay, how do 900 00:44:26,239 --> 00:44:29,200 Speaker 1: we talk about this. I have also heard from the 901 00:44:29,680 --> 00:44:32,560 Speaker 1: whatever gin we are in that the blocking does not 902 00:44:32,640 --> 00:44:35,440 Speaker 1: feel accessive to them, like that this is actually how 903 00:44:35,840 --> 00:44:39,359 Speaker 1: they are blocking people, right, like any little transgression ends 904 00:44:39,440 --> 00:44:42,600 Speaker 1: up with your hitting gloves on, which I think is hilarious. 905 00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:45,560 Speaker 3: I will say when it comes to the parents, like, 906 00:44:45,800 --> 00:44:49,320 Speaker 3: I think it was really feeling to see black parents 907 00:44:49,480 --> 00:44:52,120 Speaker 3: let their kids, to your point, at least date and 908 00:44:52,239 --> 00:44:55,719 Speaker 3: like allow your kid to have their boyfriend or their 909 00:44:55,760 --> 00:44:58,520 Speaker 3: girlfriend or their do you say partner in high school? 910 00:44:58,520 --> 00:45:01,480 Speaker 3: I don't know their partner over and like hang out, 911 00:45:01,480 --> 00:45:03,320 Speaker 3: like while the families in the house invite their family 912 00:45:03,360 --> 00:45:04,440 Speaker 3: over for Christmas. 913 00:45:04,480 --> 00:45:07,880 Speaker 2: Like I feel like a lot of people's real. 914 00:45:07,760 --> 00:45:10,320 Speaker 3: Life experience, I feel like a bit of my experience 915 00:45:10,400 --> 00:45:13,920 Speaker 3: was just like no boyfriend, and so it's like, well. 916 00:45:13,760 --> 00:45:17,000 Speaker 2: Now I have to sneak. Okay, you gave me no choice. 917 00:45:17,040 --> 00:45:20,840 Speaker 3: And so it was really nice to see parents like 918 00:45:21,040 --> 00:45:23,799 Speaker 3: be involved in their children's relationships because it's like your 919 00:45:23,880 --> 00:45:26,480 Speaker 3: kid is curious, like your kid is going to date, 920 00:45:26,640 --> 00:45:28,840 Speaker 3: like you might as well allow them to do it 921 00:45:28,880 --> 00:45:29,880 Speaker 3: in front of your face. 922 00:45:30,560 --> 00:45:31,799 Speaker 2: I know Don was. 923 00:45:31,800 --> 00:45:34,799 Speaker 3: A little she had like a tighter leash on him, 924 00:45:34,880 --> 00:45:37,640 Speaker 3: but I think like even them just having the conversation, 925 00:45:38,040 --> 00:45:41,040 Speaker 3: or like when Keyshok had like a moment and wood 926 00:45:41,080 --> 00:45:43,640 Speaker 3: Harris I forget his name, and the show was like 927 00:45:43,719 --> 00:45:45,640 Speaker 3: go check on her and go make sure she's good. 928 00:45:45,719 --> 00:45:49,040 Speaker 2: I was like, wow, like that is to me? It 929 00:45:49,160 --> 00:45:50,920 Speaker 2: was just like really really beautiful. 930 00:45:50,440 --> 00:46:03,799 Speaker 1: To see more for our conversation after the break, there 931 00:46:03,840 --> 00:46:06,120 Speaker 1: has been a lot of conversation around Eric. Eric is 932 00:46:06,160 --> 00:46:08,719 Speaker 1: the dad's name around, like the way that he showed 933 00:46:08,800 --> 00:46:11,120 Speaker 1: up right and that we don't often see portrayals of 934 00:46:11,160 --> 00:46:14,319 Speaker 1: black fatherhood the way that we saw with Eric. Any 935 00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:16,439 Speaker 1: reactions to that are things that you want to share 936 00:46:16,440 --> 00:46:17,040 Speaker 1: about Eric. 937 00:46:17,480 --> 00:46:22,040 Speaker 3: I thought it was really cool how candidly he spoke 938 00:46:22,080 --> 00:46:27,440 Speaker 3: about having a wife who her connections are what built 939 00:46:27,480 --> 00:46:31,120 Speaker 3: his career and he wasn't emasculated by that. And the 940 00:46:31,160 --> 00:46:34,440 Speaker 3: way he spoke about Keisha his wife other women was 941 00:46:35,400 --> 00:46:37,920 Speaker 3: great to see, but it wasn't like he was necessarily 942 00:46:37,920 --> 00:46:40,440 Speaker 3: putting them on a pedestal. He was just being realistic 943 00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:44,279 Speaker 3: about the benefits of partnership. And I love how he 944 00:46:44,320 --> 00:46:47,920 Speaker 3: did not judge Keisha, like never was there anything about 945 00:46:47,960 --> 00:46:50,480 Speaker 3: her being fast or anything like that, because that is 946 00:46:50,520 --> 00:46:52,600 Speaker 3: the sentiment you kind of got from Dawn Lamar. 947 00:46:53,320 --> 00:46:55,960 Speaker 2: And he was even just this is normal. It was 948 00:46:56,080 --> 00:46:59,279 Speaker 2: kind of a sentiment. I really did appreciate that one. 949 00:46:59,400 --> 00:47:01,520 Speaker 3: Just I felt he was so rooted in like his 950 00:47:01,640 --> 00:47:07,280 Speaker 3: masculinity and gay just it was funny but needed advice 951 00:47:07,400 --> 00:47:12,160 Speaker 3: about like sex and condoms. And even when Justin was heartbroken, 952 00:47:12,200 --> 00:47:14,000 Speaker 3: he was kind of like, this is a part of life. 953 00:47:14,560 --> 00:47:17,200 Speaker 3: I did appreciate that because I don't think a lot 954 00:47:17,239 --> 00:47:19,799 Speaker 3: of parents speak openly also that like you are going 955 00:47:19,840 --> 00:47:22,600 Speaker 3: to get your heart broken. Sorry is going to happen, 956 00:47:23,160 --> 00:47:25,160 Speaker 3: and that's okay. It's not the end of the world. 957 00:47:25,680 --> 00:47:28,319 Speaker 3: And it seemed like his mom's response was like you 958 00:47:28,360 --> 00:47:30,239 Speaker 3: need to get up and get over it a little bit, 959 00:47:30,840 --> 00:47:33,520 Speaker 3: or let's block Keisha out of your life. And I 960 00:47:33,560 --> 00:47:35,319 Speaker 3: think his dad was a little more nuanced than that. 961 00:47:35,560 --> 00:47:38,520 Speaker 3: But then also just seeing them as like a partnership 962 00:47:38,640 --> 00:47:40,839 Speaker 3: was really great, Like without this person, I wouldn't be 963 00:47:41,239 --> 00:47:44,680 Speaker 3: where I am. But this is like our life, our household, 964 00:47:44,840 --> 00:47:48,280 Speaker 3: our community, and so yeah, I thought Wood Harris played 965 00:47:48,280 --> 00:47:49,600 Speaker 3: that role excellently. 966 00:47:50,400 --> 00:47:52,480 Speaker 2: More black dads like that on TV. 967 00:47:52,800 --> 00:47:56,440 Speaker 1: That's all yeah, no notes, Yeah, I appreciate you bringing 968 00:47:56,480 --> 00:47:58,200 Speaker 1: that up at least because it did feel like there 969 00:47:58,280 --> 00:48:00,400 Speaker 1: was a lot of raw Raye energy for the ways 970 00:48:00,400 --> 00:48:02,920 Speaker 1: that Dawn was able to help Eric build his business, 971 00:48:03,239 --> 00:48:05,520 Speaker 1: but then when she wanted to use those same connections 972 00:48:05,520 --> 00:48:07,560 Speaker 1: to like help Justin like get into school and think 973 00:48:07,600 --> 00:48:10,480 Speaker 1: about his future, then it feels like she was demonized 974 00:48:10,480 --> 00:48:12,640 Speaker 1: and it's like okay, and now are we okay with 975 00:48:12,760 --> 00:48:14,880 Speaker 1: her like using her network? So I thought that that 976 00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:17,480 Speaker 1: was a bit of a the achademy that I found 977 00:48:17,520 --> 00:48:20,400 Speaker 1: interesting that it was okay to help him build his restaurant, 978 00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:23,719 Speaker 1: but then helping Justin get into Northwest and it felt like, Okay, 979 00:48:23,760 --> 00:48:24,600 Speaker 1: we shouldn't have done that. 980 00:48:25,320 --> 00:48:29,120 Speaker 3: So I saw this TikTok that was talking about how, 981 00:48:30,480 --> 00:48:32,560 Speaker 3: and the sitcog was wrong in saying this, but how 982 00:48:32,560 --> 00:48:37,240 Speaker 3: the show was very like pro handling your kid's life. 983 00:48:37,320 --> 00:48:40,759 Speaker 3: It was very pro like the black upper middle class experience. 984 00:48:40,800 --> 00:48:45,319 Speaker 3: And I thought that what the show really unveiled was like, 985 00:48:46,760 --> 00:48:48,840 Speaker 3: how do you guide with a firm hand, but like 986 00:48:48,960 --> 00:48:51,960 Speaker 3: let your kid be who they are, because at the 987 00:48:52,040 --> 00:48:53,560 Speaker 3: end of the day, I think there could have been 988 00:48:53,640 --> 00:48:57,799 Speaker 3: some conversations about, hey, justin you can go to Northwestern, 989 00:48:58,200 --> 00:49:00,560 Speaker 3: but how can we build like a music life or 990 00:49:00,680 --> 00:49:02,799 Speaker 3: musical experience with that, or how can you buy to 991 00:49:02,840 --> 00:49:05,600 Speaker 3: like Berkeley School and music things like that. And I 992 00:49:05,640 --> 00:49:09,440 Speaker 3: think the show had like a critical lens of Donna. 993 00:49:09,440 --> 00:49:10,719 Speaker 3: I don't think it was like this is the right 994 00:49:10,760 --> 00:49:12,200 Speaker 3: way to parent or this is the wrong. 995 00:49:12,040 --> 00:49:14,000 Speaker 2: Way to parent. It was very nuanced, and so I 996 00:49:14,040 --> 00:49:15,279 Speaker 2: really did appreciate that. 997 00:49:15,800 --> 00:49:20,600 Speaker 3: But I think what was also really interesting is I 998 00:49:20,640 --> 00:49:22,640 Speaker 3: still think like as a whole, the black community is 999 00:49:22,719 --> 00:49:25,880 Speaker 3: very touchy on like nepotism, but like, at the end 1000 00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:26,680 Speaker 3: of the day, that is. 1001 00:49:26,640 --> 00:49:29,440 Speaker 2: The way it is and the way it should be. 1002 00:49:29,920 --> 00:49:32,919 Speaker 3: If my parent went somewhere and I want to go there, 1003 00:49:33,680 --> 00:49:36,719 Speaker 3: why wouldn't you fight tooth and nail, hit up your connections, 1004 00:49:37,520 --> 00:49:40,600 Speaker 3: go to these alumni events. But that's what it even 1005 00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:45,080 Speaker 3: if you didn't have those connections. Just from my college experience, 1006 00:49:45,160 --> 00:49:47,560 Speaker 3: like neither of my parents went to USC, some of 1007 00:49:47,600 --> 00:49:49,920 Speaker 3: my dads like Lyne brothers did. I had cousins, and 1008 00:49:49,960 --> 00:49:53,200 Speaker 3: I was hitting every point to see like how can 1009 00:49:53,280 --> 00:49:57,359 Speaker 3: I make myself seen in this space because other people 1010 00:49:57,440 --> 00:50:01,120 Speaker 3: are seeing based off living in California having parents who 1011 00:50:01,160 --> 00:50:03,399 Speaker 3: went there, and so I thought that was a very 1012 00:50:03,400 --> 00:50:06,720 Speaker 3: interesting conversation that the show brought up, like how far 1013 00:50:07,080 --> 00:50:09,440 Speaker 3: will you go for your kid to get what they want? 1014 00:50:09,600 --> 00:50:12,960 Speaker 3: And why wouldn't you use kind of the resources and 1015 00:50:12,960 --> 00:50:16,040 Speaker 3: connections to make that easier. I think it still makes 1016 00:50:16,080 --> 00:50:20,080 Speaker 3: people a little bit uncomfortable, and it's like what we 1017 00:50:20,120 --> 00:50:23,200 Speaker 3: work so hard for, so the generations behind us can 1018 00:50:23,239 --> 00:50:25,360 Speaker 3: have it a bit easier. And so I thought it 1019 00:50:25,400 --> 00:50:29,600 Speaker 3: was really cool to see that on television. And although 1020 00:50:29,640 --> 00:50:32,839 Speaker 3: there was tension there because he didn't necessarily want it, 1021 00:50:33,480 --> 00:50:35,239 Speaker 3: I think it was, like I said, it was good 1022 00:50:35,280 --> 00:50:37,440 Speaker 3: to see it, and I thought it was a very 1023 00:50:37,480 --> 00:50:39,800 Speaker 3: fair portrayal of like how that goes. 1024 00:50:40,480 --> 00:50:41,879 Speaker 2: And I know that's not like. 1025 00:50:41,920 --> 00:50:46,440 Speaker 3: Normal for everyone, but I think we should I normalize 1026 00:50:46,480 --> 00:50:48,200 Speaker 3: such an annoying word, but I think we should be 1027 00:50:48,239 --> 00:50:50,640 Speaker 3: more comfortable with saying like, hey, I know this person, 1028 00:50:50,719 --> 00:50:55,080 Speaker 3: I had this experience. If my cousin, my child, my niece, 1029 00:50:55,160 --> 00:50:58,520 Speaker 3: whoever wants that same experience, why wouldn't I open that 1030 00:50:58,600 --> 00:51:02,080 Speaker 3: door for them? High school teacher, that was like, your 1031 00:51:02,239 --> 00:51:05,160 Speaker 3: journey as a black person is not like more valid 1032 00:51:05,280 --> 00:51:08,080 Speaker 3: because you struggled. Don't invite a struggle where it's not 1033 00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:12,160 Speaker 3: truly not necessary, because there will be tons that exist. 1034 00:51:11,960 --> 00:51:14,440 Speaker 2: Now anyway, we'll come on their own, Like, don't need 1035 00:51:14,480 --> 00:51:15,239 Speaker 2: for extra. 1036 00:51:15,600 --> 00:51:18,680 Speaker 5: Right, I agreed with don No child of mine is 1037 00:51:18,800 --> 00:51:23,000 Speaker 5: pursuing music. Actually, go you take your behind the college 1038 00:51:23,040 --> 00:51:25,120 Speaker 5: and that's could be a fun little hobby, but you're 1039 00:51:25,120 --> 00:51:26,200 Speaker 5: gonna get a real job. 1040 00:51:27,600 --> 00:51:30,160 Speaker 4: I'm tired of it. 1041 00:51:30,280 --> 00:51:33,719 Speaker 2: Yes, you said my child won't be mustard on the beat, 1042 00:51:34,080 --> 00:51:38,720 Speaker 2: he won't. 1043 00:51:38,880 --> 00:51:43,600 Speaker 5: A trade or something, because that's how I read it. Yeah, 1044 00:51:43,840 --> 00:51:45,800 Speaker 5: it didn't even have to be Northwest. He could have 1045 00:51:45,920 --> 00:51:48,359 Speaker 5: carried it on down to the community college and got 1046 00:51:48,360 --> 00:51:51,440 Speaker 5: an HVAC. But that that music absolutely not. 1047 00:51:52,719 --> 00:51:57,160 Speaker 3: I just sorry, you are right, I think, just to 1048 00:51:57,200 --> 00:52:01,200 Speaker 3: add another level, it also speaks to like knowing and 1049 00:52:01,239 --> 00:52:03,239 Speaker 3: it's sad that it is this way, and I think 1050 00:52:03,280 --> 00:52:05,560 Speaker 3: like in our current cultural climate, like it's kind of 1051 00:52:05,560 --> 00:52:06,720 Speaker 3: being broken down. 1052 00:52:07,160 --> 00:52:08,840 Speaker 2: But like how much. 1053 00:52:08,640 --> 00:52:11,799 Speaker 3: A degree can do for you, whether or not you're 1054 00:52:11,920 --> 00:52:13,799 Speaker 3: using that degree. And I think that's also kind of 1055 00:52:13,840 --> 00:52:17,000 Speaker 3: what what Harris's character was alluding to, Like without my 1056 00:52:17,120 --> 00:52:20,719 Speaker 3: wife's degree, I would not have this restaurant. And so 1057 00:52:21,640 --> 00:52:24,920 Speaker 3: it's uncomfortable because we know that there some schools just 1058 00:52:24,960 --> 00:52:27,680 Speaker 3: come with the name and the network that not everyone 1059 00:52:27,719 --> 00:52:30,400 Speaker 3: has access to. But I think it was really important 1060 00:52:30,440 --> 00:52:33,240 Speaker 3: to like have a parent not necessarily put that pressure, 1061 00:52:33,280 --> 00:52:35,520 Speaker 3: but a parent who like was saying like, I don't 1062 00:52:35,520 --> 00:52:37,400 Speaker 3: really care, like I want you to go to Northwestern, 1063 00:52:37,600 --> 00:52:38,960 Speaker 3: but at the end of the day, like you're not 1064 00:52:39,080 --> 00:52:41,040 Speaker 3: understanding what this will open up for you. 1065 00:52:41,120 --> 00:52:43,800 Speaker 2: And I think that's what his mom was saying as well. 1066 00:52:44,120 --> 00:52:45,239 Speaker 2: But she was just trying to get him to go 1067 00:52:45,280 --> 00:52:46,200 Speaker 2: to Northwestern r. 1068 00:52:46,880 --> 00:52:49,080 Speaker 1: And I wonder how much of it was that, like 1069 00:52:49,120 --> 00:52:52,200 Speaker 1: she wanted him to follow in her footsteps or that 1070 00:52:52,320 --> 00:52:54,480 Speaker 1: is where she had the connections, right, Like that is 1071 00:52:54,480 --> 00:52:57,120 Speaker 1: where she was able to most easily open some doors 1072 00:52:57,120 --> 00:52:59,520 Speaker 1: for him, you know. So I don't even know that 1073 00:52:59,560 --> 00:53:02,399 Speaker 1: it was so much about Northwestern and specific and then 1074 00:53:02,440 --> 00:53:04,239 Speaker 1: it was that's where her connections was. 1075 00:53:04,680 --> 00:53:06,640 Speaker 2: She just seemed quite hard though. I feel like it 1076 00:53:06,680 --> 00:53:07,520 Speaker 2: was a little bit of both. 1077 00:53:07,600 --> 00:53:13,080 Speaker 1: She was like, maybe maybe so we want to wrap 1078 00:53:13,200 --> 00:53:16,040 Speaker 1: up by talking about something that is taking over all 1079 00:53:16,040 --> 00:53:19,240 Speaker 1: of our TikTok for you pages and all the Instagram 1080 00:53:19,320 --> 00:53:22,880 Speaker 1: reels about the Cowboy quarters. Who are so I have 1081 00:53:23,000 --> 00:53:25,920 Speaker 1: not personally experienced it yet. My show is down until 1082 00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:28,680 Speaker 1: July here in Atlanta. But of course I have tuned 1083 00:53:28,680 --> 00:53:30,799 Speaker 1: into some of the Instagram and TikTok lives, so I 1084 00:53:30,800 --> 00:53:32,080 Speaker 1: feel like I have seen the show. 1085 00:53:32,560 --> 00:53:33,400 Speaker 2: But what are your. 1086 00:53:33,280 --> 00:53:37,160 Speaker 1: Thoughts about Cowboy Quarter? Are you going? How are you prepping? 1087 00:53:37,440 --> 00:53:38,520 Speaker 1: Is the outfit ready? 1088 00:53:38,680 --> 00:53:38,759 Speaker 4: Like? 1089 00:53:38,880 --> 00:53:41,360 Speaker 1: What are you feeling and thinking around the Cowboys? 1090 00:53:41,920 --> 00:53:48,799 Speaker 5: Last show date I was supposed to go, right, We'll 1091 00:53:48,800 --> 00:53:51,080 Speaker 5: start with the confession. Was supposed to go on a 1092 00:53:51,120 --> 00:53:56,040 Speaker 5: Sunday in New Jersey East Rutherford, but I was barbecuing 1093 00:53:56,120 --> 00:53:59,520 Speaker 5: that day and the community really they really took a 1094 00:53:59,520 --> 00:54:00,000 Speaker 5: lot out of me. 1095 00:54:00,360 --> 00:54:03,279 Speaker 4: And that, yeah, I couldn't do it. 1096 00:54:03,400 --> 00:54:06,080 Speaker 5: The commute from Brooklyn to New Jersey and back, it 1097 00:54:06,280 --> 00:54:07,359 Speaker 5: just was never It. 1098 00:54:07,280 --> 00:54:07,960 Speaker 4: Wasn't gonna work. 1099 00:54:08,080 --> 00:54:09,799 Speaker 5: Uncle was tired and they had to go to see 1100 00:54:10,160 --> 00:54:12,680 Speaker 5: But it also rained that show, so like that was 1101 00:54:12,719 --> 00:54:13,560 Speaker 5: a different kind of show. 1102 00:54:13,600 --> 00:54:15,840 Speaker 4: I think for a lot of people. I am proud 1103 00:54:15,920 --> 00:54:16,840 Speaker 4: of my niece Roomy. 1104 00:54:17,000 --> 00:54:20,040 Speaker 5: She locked in and she know she gave the people 1105 00:54:20,560 --> 00:54:23,680 Speaker 5: what was rehearsed, what Blue had approved. So I was 1106 00:54:23,680 --> 00:54:25,680 Speaker 5: happy about that. But I think I'm going to try 1107 00:54:25,680 --> 00:54:28,880 Speaker 5: to make another show, Okay. 1108 00:54:28,920 --> 00:54:31,800 Speaker 3: So I went to see Cowboy Carter on the last 1109 00:54:31,880 --> 00:54:35,760 Speaker 3: night in Los Angeles. I bought a ticket last minute, 1110 00:54:36,000 --> 00:54:36,920 Speaker 3: as I always. 1111 00:54:36,640 --> 00:54:38,200 Speaker 2: Do, and I can see it's on your level. 1112 00:54:38,239 --> 00:54:40,080 Speaker 3: See if you're on the fence, just wait till the 1113 00:54:40,160 --> 00:54:44,360 Speaker 3: day or the day before, because I will say I 1114 00:54:44,400 --> 00:54:45,600 Speaker 3: saw the same tickets. 1115 00:54:45,320 --> 00:54:47,400 Speaker 2: The day before and they were like fifty dollars cheaper. 1116 00:54:47,960 --> 00:54:50,319 Speaker 3: But yeah, the week up, that's when the tickets start 1117 00:54:50,400 --> 00:54:55,000 Speaker 3: to drop significantly. I really did enjoy the show. I 1118 00:54:55,000 --> 00:54:58,640 Speaker 3: would say it was a very different show than Renaissance. 1119 00:54:58,640 --> 00:55:02,400 Speaker 3: I feel like Renaissance totally story. This was more themed 1120 00:55:02,440 --> 00:55:04,359 Speaker 3: Cowboy Carter, but I didn't feel like there was an 1121 00:55:04,480 --> 00:55:07,839 Speaker 3: arc from beginning to end. That's not to say it 1122 00:55:07,880 --> 00:55:11,000 Speaker 3: wasn't an excellent show, but I wouldn't go in expecting that. 1123 00:55:11,400 --> 00:55:13,880 Speaker 3: What you can't expect are a fair amount of songs 1124 00:55:13,920 --> 00:55:17,160 Speaker 3: from Renaissance, So it did feel like Renaissance Part two. 1125 00:55:18,000 --> 00:55:19,560 Speaker 2: My favorite song on Cowboy. 1126 00:55:19,280 --> 00:55:22,400 Speaker 3: Carter is Flamenco, and so she performed that and that 1127 00:55:22,640 --> 00:55:26,839 Speaker 3: was one of the best performances before I Let Go. 1128 00:55:27,360 --> 00:55:30,200 Speaker 3: Was really good when the dancers were dancing to that. 1129 00:55:30,840 --> 00:55:33,800 Speaker 3: Of course, seeing Rouey and Blue is excellent, and Blue 1130 00:55:33,880 --> 00:55:37,759 Speaker 3: really does blend in as a background dancer, which I 1131 00:55:37,800 --> 00:55:41,359 Speaker 3: think is amazing to have that level of talent at 1132 00:55:41,360 --> 00:55:45,440 Speaker 3: that age. And when she does her little catwalk, I'm like, oh, like, 1133 00:55:45,480 --> 00:55:47,160 Speaker 3: I hate to push modeling on children. 1134 00:55:47,280 --> 00:55:49,399 Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, boys, it's that how we can't fall? 1135 00:55:50,680 --> 00:55:52,440 Speaker 2: It was so good. 1136 00:55:53,080 --> 00:55:58,360 Speaker 3: I really enjoyed the costumes as well. I think these 1137 00:55:58,440 --> 00:56:03,799 Speaker 3: are excellent. They are definitely definitely rivaling Renaissance for me. 1138 00:56:04,200 --> 00:56:07,319 Speaker 3: So I need a look book of every different one. 1139 00:56:07,360 --> 00:56:09,560 Speaker 3: I think it's always fun to just see, like what 1140 00:56:09,680 --> 00:56:12,680 Speaker 3: designers is she gonna partner with and how are they 1141 00:56:12,680 --> 00:56:15,600 Speaker 3: going to explore this being in their own way. She 1142 00:56:15,640 --> 00:56:18,120 Speaker 3: did a scap reality look last night, I think in 1143 00:56:18,200 --> 00:56:19,560 Speaker 3: New York, and that. 1144 00:56:19,640 --> 00:56:20,439 Speaker 2: Was really good. 1145 00:56:20,560 --> 00:56:22,720 Speaker 3: She did tell far looks she did like a Cowboy 1146 00:56:23,000 --> 00:56:26,640 Speaker 3: Nicks or was a Yankees outfit, and so I think 1147 00:56:26,680 --> 00:56:28,719 Speaker 3: that is really cool about the show, the way she 1148 00:56:28,800 --> 00:56:33,200 Speaker 3: plays with costume design. And I will say the set 1149 00:56:33,239 --> 00:56:36,520 Speaker 3: design on this was also a little underwhelming for me. 1150 00:56:36,560 --> 00:56:39,560 Speaker 3: It was still big, it was still very showy, but 1151 00:56:40,160 --> 00:56:42,719 Speaker 3: like the b outfit and Cowboy Carter and how that 1152 00:56:42,800 --> 00:56:46,600 Speaker 3: interacted with the set, the clam at the like those 1153 00:56:46,640 --> 00:56:47,680 Speaker 3: things are not Cowboy Carter. 1154 00:56:47,719 --> 00:56:48,680 Speaker 2: This was all Renaissance. 1155 00:56:48,920 --> 00:56:53,640 Speaker 3: Those are really exciting, So you're not getting that I 1156 00:56:53,680 --> 00:56:56,160 Speaker 3: don't want to say depth with that cohesion between the 1157 00:56:56,239 --> 00:57:01,160 Speaker 3: songs and the set design to me with But nevertheless 1158 00:57:01,200 --> 00:57:01,520 Speaker 3: it's good. 1159 00:57:01,560 --> 00:57:03,279 Speaker 2: I can usually go in I will be going. 1160 00:57:03,080 --> 00:57:07,879 Speaker 1: Again so in base yeah, okay, So my anxiety will 1161 00:57:07,960 --> 00:57:09,719 Speaker 1: not allow me to wait until the week of the 1162 00:57:09,760 --> 00:57:13,120 Speaker 1: show too, Like I feel like the idea that I 1163 00:57:13,239 --> 00:57:15,600 Speaker 1: might miss out on being able to go to the 1164 00:57:15,680 --> 00:57:19,720 Speaker 1: tour because I didn't pre plan. Although the jump in 1165 00:57:20,160 --> 00:57:22,960 Speaker 1: prices is like extreme, right, like what I've paid for 1166 00:57:23,120 --> 00:57:25,120 Speaker 1: my hundred level it sounds like it's very different than 1167 00:57:25,160 --> 00:57:27,680 Speaker 1: what you got your one hundred level ticket there. But 1168 00:57:27,680 --> 00:57:29,640 Speaker 1: I feel like my anxiety will not allow me to 1169 00:57:29,640 --> 00:57:32,600 Speaker 1: wait until like the week up a show to wait now, 1170 00:57:32,640 --> 00:57:34,640 Speaker 1: And then you said you were going to offer some 1171 00:57:34,680 --> 00:57:37,520 Speaker 1: thoughts on why you didn't get a ticket to the tour. 1172 00:57:38,480 --> 00:57:41,560 Speaker 2: Okay, so before anybody jumps on it. 1173 00:57:43,600 --> 00:57:49,160 Speaker 3: So I thoroughly enjoyed Renaissance, right, I went to see 1174 00:57:49,200 --> 00:57:53,280 Speaker 3: the tour twice. I had five computers open getting tickets, Like, 1175 00:57:53,320 --> 00:57:56,120 Speaker 3: I thoroughly enjoyed that show. So I listened to Cowboy 1176 00:57:56,160 --> 00:57:58,920 Speaker 3: Carter and there are definitely songs I enjoy, but I 1177 00:57:59,000 --> 00:58:03,800 Speaker 3: feel like and I appreciate the like world expanding into 1178 00:58:04,080 --> 00:58:07,680 Speaker 3: the genre of like country music. I also loved Daddy 1179 00:58:07,720 --> 00:58:10,760 Speaker 3: Lessons on Lemonade, like that was that I loved that song. 1180 00:58:11,080 --> 00:58:13,120 Speaker 2: But I think like I was just like, Okay, the 1181 00:58:13,160 --> 00:58:14,840 Speaker 2: turnaround time is kind of quick. 1182 00:58:15,400 --> 00:58:19,160 Speaker 3: I don't know if I felt like Cowboy Carter itself 1183 00:58:19,280 --> 00:58:21,520 Speaker 3: needed its own tour. Granted, I know she's doing a 1184 00:58:21,600 --> 00:58:25,240 Speaker 3: much more like truncated tour for this album, and I 1185 00:58:25,360 --> 00:58:29,960 Speaker 3: was a little worried that it would be like Renaissance 1186 00:58:30,000 --> 00:58:33,720 Speaker 3: Pack Part two and that like act too. And when 1187 00:58:33,760 --> 00:58:35,600 Speaker 3: I saw the videos of the tour, I'm like, Okay, 1188 00:58:35,600 --> 00:58:39,040 Speaker 3: we're seeing the Renaissance Robot again. Which granted, this is 1189 00:58:39,080 --> 00:58:42,720 Speaker 3: not to say that any parts of the show wouldn't be. 1190 00:58:43,280 --> 00:58:46,439 Speaker 2: Fantastic, but I was just curious to know like how 1191 00:58:46,480 --> 00:58:47,480 Speaker 2: different it was gonna be. 1192 00:58:47,520 --> 00:58:49,760 Speaker 3: So I think I just like made assumptions, and I'm like, 1193 00:58:50,080 --> 00:58:51,400 Speaker 3: if a ticket ends up in my. 1194 00:58:51,480 --> 00:58:53,720 Speaker 2: Hand, I will say, okay, I'll go. 1195 00:58:54,320 --> 00:58:57,200 Speaker 3: But listening to you at least say it's like quite different, 1196 00:58:57,320 --> 00:58:59,160 Speaker 3: I'm like okay, Like, but I think like I just 1197 00:58:59,160 --> 00:59:01,480 Speaker 3: made assumptions, being like okay, so what is it going 1198 00:59:01,560 --> 00:59:05,160 Speaker 3: to give for the Cowboy Carter tour? And also, y'all 1199 00:59:05,680 --> 00:59:09,440 Speaker 3: consert tickets are expensive, so at Soquinn, I'm like, I need. 1200 00:59:09,320 --> 00:59:13,120 Speaker 2: To put my foot down, but we'll see what appens. 1201 00:59:13,320 --> 00:59:17,080 Speaker 3: The only reason I'm going again is because one Vegas 1202 00:59:17,160 --> 00:59:18,680 Speaker 3: is just a hop and a skip in a way 1203 00:59:18,920 --> 00:59:22,080 Speaker 3: from LA. But my sister was like, what do you 1204 00:59:22,080 --> 00:59:24,400 Speaker 3: want for your birthday? She was like, I love to 1205 00:59:24,480 --> 00:59:28,600 Speaker 3: like go to a concert Life five somewhere, and we're 1206 00:59:28,640 --> 00:59:31,080 Speaker 3: seeing Kendrick when I'm in d C. So I'm like, okay, 1207 00:59:31,160 --> 00:59:33,000 Speaker 3: you know that's no fun. So she was like, I'll 1208 00:59:33,000 --> 00:59:34,200 Speaker 3: get Cowboy Carter tickets. 1209 00:59:34,200 --> 00:59:38,040 Speaker 2: I say, we're going shot them out out of that. 1210 00:59:39,720 --> 00:59:43,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, because concert tickets are so expensive, Like I want 1211 00:59:43,520 --> 00:59:46,120 Speaker 3: to see the weekend Who's coming to LA at the 1212 00:59:46,200 --> 00:59:48,480 Speaker 3: end of June and Marrie, you look at tickets, I'm like, 1213 00:59:48,480 --> 00:59:49,920 Speaker 3: another two hundred and fifty dollars. 1214 00:59:51,600 --> 00:59:55,800 Speaker 2: That's almost five hundred dollars for uber there. 1215 00:59:57,040 --> 00:59:59,960 Speaker 3: If I want a beverage, no an alcoholic or alcoholic, 1216 01:00:00,280 --> 01:00:00,720 Speaker 3: that's one. 1217 01:00:00,640 --> 01:00:03,520 Speaker 1: Hundred and there's no merch to be had. Then after that, 1218 01:00:03,640 --> 01:00:06,800 Speaker 1: then if you that merch, yeah. 1219 01:00:06,200 --> 01:00:08,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, you have to make a whole day out of it, 1220 01:00:08,480 --> 01:00:11,920 Speaker 3: and all the extra ancillary stuff. It's gonna be at 1221 01:00:11,960 --> 01:00:15,000 Speaker 3: least one hundred dollars. There's a lot of extra line items, 1222 01:00:15,040 --> 01:00:18,400 Speaker 3: for sure. I have really enjoyed the outfits. My best 1223 01:00:18,400 --> 01:00:21,320 Speaker 3: friend's little sister went in I think La so that 1224 01:00:21,400 --> 01:00:23,160 Speaker 3: might have been at the beginning of the tour, and 1225 01:00:23,200 --> 01:00:28,720 Speaker 3: their mom made her this like luxurious, like long bandana 1226 01:00:28,840 --> 01:00:32,120 Speaker 3: skirt with like I don't know, safety bandanas, and she 1227 01:00:32,240 --> 01:00:34,040 Speaker 3: went viral and so that was just like a nice 1228 01:00:34,080 --> 01:00:36,080 Speaker 3: moment to see like a mom who made. 1229 01:00:35,960 --> 01:00:38,560 Speaker 2: A costume and it's like girl, people are asking about this. 1230 01:00:38,640 --> 01:00:41,120 Speaker 2: I've enjoyed like the looks that been pulling for sure. 1231 01:00:41,880 --> 01:00:44,520 Speaker 1: Yeah. So at last, did you go in theme? Did 1232 01:00:44,560 --> 01:00:47,720 Speaker 1: you have your cowboy cowgirl outfit on? Yeah? 1233 01:00:47,800 --> 01:00:51,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, I had this shirt I got in Mexico. 1234 01:00:51,600 --> 01:00:53,800 Speaker 2: It's like a button down with like. 1235 01:00:53,880 --> 01:00:56,920 Speaker 3: Floral embellishments, and I wore leather pants and then some 1236 01:00:56,960 --> 01:01:00,680 Speaker 3: dinner cowboy boots the d Then I have a fan 1237 01:01:00,920 --> 01:01:04,480 Speaker 3: because I was like I need for this, so you 1238 01:01:04,520 --> 01:01:05,640 Speaker 3: but I'm excited. 1239 01:01:05,280 --> 01:01:05,840 Speaker 4: To have. 1240 01:01:07,560 --> 01:01:09,600 Speaker 2: A different outfit for Vegas. Yeah. 1241 01:01:10,080 --> 01:01:12,520 Speaker 3: I literally was like I want to dress like the 1242 01:01:12,600 --> 01:01:15,160 Speaker 3: song for Manco. So that was in my brain and 1243 01:01:15,280 --> 01:01:18,360 Speaker 3: I did it. So now I'm like, what other song 1244 01:01:18,840 --> 01:01:21,360 Speaker 3: do I want? Like spaghetti honey bucking? That might be 1245 01:01:21,360 --> 01:01:21,840 Speaker 3: a good. 1246 01:01:21,680 --> 01:01:24,080 Speaker 2: One to borrow inspirations. 1247 01:01:25,280 --> 01:01:26,200 Speaker 4: I don't don't get it. 1248 01:01:26,400 --> 01:01:27,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, I heard that. 1249 01:01:27,400 --> 01:01:33,280 Speaker 5: I don't like that. Oh well, you know, I am 1250 01:01:33,440 --> 01:01:36,400 Speaker 5: actually a black dandy. A lot of people don't notice. 1251 01:01:36,480 --> 01:01:40,040 Speaker 5: But if you're in Atlanta and you are like getting 1252 01:01:40,040 --> 01:01:42,040 Speaker 5: on a horse carriage, there's like a one and eight 1253 01:01:42,200 --> 01:01:44,440 Speaker 5: chance that that is my uncle. Like I grew up 1254 01:01:44,920 --> 01:01:47,120 Speaker 5: on a stable as a stable boy. I guess you 1255 01:01:47,160 --> 01:01:50,080 Speaker 5: could say. So anything in my closet at any time 1256 01:01:50,120 --> 01:01:53,280 Speaker 5: would have big cowboy card already. I got like seven 1257 01:01:53,360 --> 01:01:56,720 Speaker 5: denim shirts, a bowlo tie, I would and. 1258 01:01:56,720 --> 01:01:57,920 Speaker 4: It would have been it would have been there. 1259 01:01:58,280 --> 01:02:01,640 Speaker 1: Okay, you are ready? You are so speaking of these 1260 01:02:01,640 --> 01:02:03,840 Speaker 1: songs that y'all love or not? Is there any song 1261 01:02:03,880 --> 01:02:05,640 Speaker 1: at least you're the only one who has gone, but 1262 01:02:05,960 --> 01:02:08,200 Speaker 1: we clearly all have seen clips. Is there any song 1263 01:02:08,240 --> 01:02:10,640 Speaker 1: that she did not perform that you are missing that 1264 01:02:10,680 --> 01:02:12,120 Speaker 1: you're like, Oh, I really wish that would have been 1265 01:02:12,160 --> 01:02:12,840 Speaker 1: a part of the show. 1266 01:02:13,240 --> 01:02:14,840 Speaker 4: I actually have thoughts on this. 1267 01:02:15,320 --> 01:02:17,640 Speaker 5: I feel like Beyonce is really good at doing covers 1268 01:02:17,840 --> 01:02:20,760 Speaker 5: at her shows, and I was hoping that she would 1269 01:02:20,760 --> 01:02:24,640 Speaker 5: have covered more classic country records like from other artists. 1270 01:02:24,800 --> 01:02:26,200 Speaker 5: I would have loved that she would have done like 1271 01:02:26,360 --> 01:02:28,880 Speaker 5: The Night the Lights Went Out in Georgia, if she 1272 01:02:28,920 --> 01:02:31,840 Speaker 5: would have done The Heart Never Forgets, which I feel 1273 01:02:31,840 --> 01:02:34,480 Speaker 5: like is the black country anthem because of Moesha. 1274 01:02:35,000 --> 01:02:36,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, Like there were just. 1275 01:02:36,040 --> 01:02:38,360 Speaker 5: More songs if You're Not Back in Love by Monday 1276 01:02:38,400 --> 01:02:41,080 Speaker 5: by Merle Haggard, like I feel like, because the whole 1277 01:02:41,120 --> 01:02:45,760 Speaker 5: album is about like reintroducing blackness to country, Like playing 1278 01:02:45,800 --> 01:02:47,080 Speaker 5: with that would have been dope to me. 1279 01:02:48,480 --> 01:02:49,520 Speaker 4: But you know, there's still time. 1280 01:02:49,880 --> 01:02:52,000 Speaker 2: I feel like there is still time. 1281 01:02:52,080 --> 01:02:54,360 Speaker 3: I feel like speaking to like country songs that black 1282 01:02:54,360 --> 01:02:58,000 Speaker 3: folks go up for Tennessee Whiskey, and because I know 1283 01:02:58,080 --> 01:03:01,160 Speaker 3: she has her like certain David's moment during the show, 1284 01:03:01,760 --> 01:03:03,800 Speaker 3: who I've never met a black person who does not 1285 01:03:03,880 --> 01:03:06,680 Speaker 3: love test you would Scape by Chris Stapleton or whoever 1286 01:03:06,720 --> 01:03:08,120 Speaker 3: else decides to cover it. 1287 01:03:08,160 --> 01:03:12,320 Speaker 2: That is undoubtedly just an amazing song. I think that 1288 01:03:12,320 --> 01:03:16,800 Speaker 2: would be like my pitch for a cover for the show. 1289 01:03:18,680 --> 01:03:20,720 Speaker 1: So that's the other thing that I have been surprised 1290 01:03:20,760 --> 01:03:24,960 Speaker 1: about is that there are no special guests in this show, right, Like, 1291 01:03:25,120 --> 01:03:28,600 Speaker 1: so Kendrick came out, Meg has come out in Renaissance, 1292 01:03:28,640 --> 01:03:31,840 Speaker 1: and so I definitely was expecting to see Miley when 1293 01:03:31,880 --> 01:03:35,600 Speaker 1: see Shabouzzi maybe and there are no guests here. Are 1294 01:03:35,640 --> 01:03:37,880 Speaker 1: we surprised by that or were you expecting this to 1295 01:03:37,880 --> 01:03:38,640 Speaker 1: be like just her? 1296 01:03:39,160 --> 01:03:42,520 Speaker 2: I think Beyonce said my kids, My. 1297 01:03:42,520 --> 01:03:43,400 Speaker 1: Kids are the guests. 1298 01:03:46,520 --> 01:03:50,800 Speaker 3: I'm curious if once we get to like the southern 1299 01:03:51,080 --> 01:03:54,320 Speaker 3: Southern shows, because we're not there yet, people other people 1300 01:03:54,360 --> 01:03:56,360 Speaker 3: will come out. I could also see Vegas is it 1301 01:03:56,400 --> 01:04:00,400 Speaker 3: being more like showy city? So I'm curious like Nashville 1302 01:04:01,480 --> 01:04:05,320 Speaker 3: in Houston, like if those will be the cities with guests. 1303 01:04:05,320 --> 01:04:08,400 Speaker 3: But I was also surprised at that too, Doctor Joy, 1304 01:04:08,480 --> 01:04:10,320 Speaker 3: I'm kind of curious because you know a lot of 1305 01:04:10,320 --> 01:04:16,600 Speaker 3: people will not watch anything online before they see the tour. 1306 01:04:17,080 --> 01:04:19,919 Speaker 3: And you sound like you've seen some stuff like what's 1307 01:04:19,920 --> 01:04:23,880 Speaker 3: your kind of take on seeing like spoilers or previews 1308 01:04:24,080 --> 01:04:25,720 Speaker 3: before you actually see it in real life. 1309 01:04:25,920 --> 01:04:28,280 Speaker 1: So I don't look up spoilers and stuff for like 1310 01:04:28,360 --> 01:04:32,120 Speaker 1: movies and things. But I'm also not a huge concert person, 1311 01:04:32,200 --> 01:04:35,440 Speaker 1: like I'm a just big Beyonce person, and so typically 1312 01:04:35,480 --> 01:04:37,360 Speaker 1: I think I would not, but I feel like it's 1313 01:04:37,440 --> 01:04:40,720 Speaker 1: also really kind of hard to miss right now. Right 1314 01:04:40,840 --> 01:04:42,959 Speaker 1: until now, I'm just like, Okay, well, I'm still going 1315 01:04:42,960 --> 01:04:45,000 Speaker 1: to enjoy it when it's my turn to go in person. 1316 01:04:45,360 --> 01:04:47,360 Speaker 1: But I definitely have been tuned into some of the 1317 01:04:47,400 --> 01:04:48,760 Speaker 1: lives now. I don't think i've made it to the 1318 01:04:48,880 --> 01:04:50,920 Speaker 1: end of the show because it also feels very long, 1319 01:04:51,520 --> 01:04:56,360 Speaker 1: but I've definitely seen like the opening actors. I'm not spoilers. 1320 01:04:57,480 --> 01:05:00,880 Speaker 2: I feel like what concerts is fine, you're what. 1321 01:05:03,040 --> 01:05:05,120 Speaker 1: I feel like she did that for Renaissance. Also, though, 1322 01:05:05,160 --> 01:05:07,280 Speaker 1: are some others who are like she's done a gender 1323 01:05:07,320 --> 01:05:09,560 Speaker 1: reveal and like she didn't understand like what they were 1324 01:05:09,600 --> 01:05:10,280 Speaker 1: asking her. 1325 01:05:10,120 --> 01:05:17,680 Speaker 6: To do this moment, but insane, that was a spent 1326 01:05:17,760 --> 01:05:21,120 Speaker 6: this money to try to force this play some rebellion 1327 01:05:21,200 --> 01:05:22,240 Speaker 6: baby gender. 1328 01:05:21,920 --> 01:05:23,360 Speaker 4: For the rest, we don't need to know. That's not 1329 01:05:23,400 --> 01:05:24,400 Speaker 4: what I paid for. 1330 01:05:27,080 --> 01:05:30,680 Speaker 2: Work. We did not ask to come to your gender reveal. Also, 1331 01:05:30,720 --> 01:05:31,400 Speaker 2: I'm kind of stotch. 1332 01:05:31,640 --> 01:05:34,560 Speaker 1: That's so funny. So I saw a comment because of 1333 01:05:34,600 --> 01:05:37,760 Speaker 1: course Mama Tina reposted like the gender reveal, and I 1334 01:05:37,800 --> 01:05:40,640 Speaker 1: think the dad was in the comment saying like we 1335 01:05:41,040 --> 01:05:43,400 Speaker 1: did not at all expect that like she would actually 1336 01:05:43,440 --> 01:05:45,240 Speaker 1: see us, like we did it of course hoping, but 1337 01:05:45,320 --> 01:05:48,080 Speaker 1: didn't at all expect that she was, and so that 1338 01:05:48,160 --> 01:05:50,600 Speaker 1: it was such a memorable moment. Also, I think that 1339 01:05:50,640 --> 01:05:52,600 Speaker 1: they was just like taking a chance, right, like Okay, 1340 01:05:52,600 --> 01:05:55,000 Speaker 1: we're already gonna be here, Like why not try to 1341 01:05:55,560 --> 01:05:57,640 Speaker 1: make this moment for our future child. 1342 01:05:59,240 --> 01:06:02,960 Speaker 3: That's a nice part of the child's lore her. 1343 01:06:03,480 --> 01:06:05,560 Speaker 1: Yes, And I feel like this is the second child 1344 01:06:05,600 --> 01:06:07,920 Speaker 1: and the first child. I think the first child's name 1345 01:06:07,960 --> 01:06:10,040 Speaker 1: is Carter, and so the child has like all this 1346 01:06:10,120 --> 01:06:12,120 Speaker 1: cowboy quarter and birch and so I mean, so it 1347 01:06:12,160 --> 01:06:15,080 Speaker 1: definitely feels like a big Beyonce family. So I think 1348 01:06:15,080 --> 01:06:16,200 Speaker 1: it was cute that they. 1349 01:06:16,160 --> 01:06:16,800 Speaker 4: Were able to help. 1350 01:06:17,680 --> 01:06:18,480 Speaker 2: That is cute. 1351 01:06:19,120 --> 01:06:24,680 Speaker 3: I was watching Blue from like the first tour to 1352 01:06:24,800 --> 01:06:27,880 Speaker 3: seeing her now like speaking of nepotism or this is 1353 01:06:27,880 --> 01:06:30,800 Speaker 3: nepotism that I fully support, Like this is black nepotism 1354 01:06:31,200 --> 01:06:35,320 Speaker 3: at its peak, And like she's thirteen and she is 1355 01:06:35,760 --> 01:06:39,080 Speaker 3: professionally dancing, like not just for one but like throughout 1356 01:06:39,160 --> 01:06:41,960 Speaker 3: the show you can tell that she's been in rehearsal. 1357 01:06:42,480 --> 01:06:44,440 Speaker 2: I love when you can tell a performer has been 1358 01:06:44,440 --> 01:06:47,480 Speaker 2: in rehearsal. And Blue Ivy is a performer. 1359 01:06:47,400 --> 01:06:51,960 Speaker 3: Like watching a young black girl just be confident and 1360 01:06:52,160 --> 01:06:55,800 Speaker 3: strut and dance and like have her moment, especially because 1361 01:06:55,800 --> 01:06:57,920 Speaker 3: you know, like I feel like Blue Ivy and like 1362 01:06:58,560 --> 01:07:01,560 Speaker 3: the critiques around her said she she was a child, 1363 01:07:01,800 --> 01:07:04,080 Speaker 3: had been a lot, and I think they talked about 1364 01:07:04,080 --> 01:07:05,920 Speaker 3: how she's kind of seen some of that, you know, 1365 01:07:06,040 --> 01:07:09,440 Speaker 3: it's in her like older years. So just seeing her 1366 01:07:09,680 --> 01:07:13,720 Speaker 3: like stunt on everybody is something that warms my heart 1367 01:07:13,920 --> 01:07:16,080 Speaker 3: so much. And I just feel like if she's here 1368 01:07:16,320 --> 01:07:20,000 Speaker 3: now at thirteen, like when she is twenty, like and 1369 01:07:20,080 --> 01:07:22,200 Speaker 3: obviously she has access to the best of the best, 1370 01:07:22,240 --> 01:07:24,880 Speaker 3: like the best of the best trainers. I think Beyonce's 1371 01:07:24,960 --> 01:07:27,760 Speaker 3: dance Captain has kind of like taken Blue Ivy under 1372 01:07:27,800 --> 01:07:31,640 Speaker 3: her wing. I'm just excited to see Blue Ivy like 1373 01:07:31,760 --> 01:07:32,680 Speaker 3: evolved as. 1374 01:07:32,720 --> 01:07:35,080 Speaker 2: Whatever she decides to do. But she clearly loves the stage. 1375 01:07:35,640 --> 01:07:38,160 Speaker 3: I'm excited to see her like evolve further into that 1376 01:07:38,200 --> 01:07:39,560 Speaker 3: because I think she's killing it. 1377 01:07:40,480 --> 01:07:43,720 Speaker 1: She really so in the Deja Vou solo to me 1378 01:07:44,160 --> 01:07:47,000 Speaker 1: is like the best, Like did you know how you 1379 01:07:47,000 --> 01:07:49,080 Speaker 1: would not be able to tell me anything? First of all, 1380 01:07:49,120 --> 01:07:52,360 Speaker 1: if Beyonce was my mom, and I was like doing 1381 01:07:52,400 --> 01:07:57,400 Speaker 1: her deja vu choreography years later, like and like summoning 1382 01:07:57,480 --> 01:07:59,240 Speaker 1: all of who she was when she was doing it, 1383 01:07:59,360 --> 01:08:01,320 Speaker 1: Like is It's just I kind of like, I'm just 1384 01:08:01,360 --> 01:08:03,440 Speaker 1: so proud of her. She looks like she's having so 1385 01:08:03,560 --> 01:08:05,880 Speaker 1: much fun, and like you said, she clearly has been 1386 01:08:05,880 --> 01:08:10,000 Speaker 1: in rehearsals and like is a very studied performer and 1387 01:08:10,120 --> 01:08:12,920 Speaker 1: really working part of the show. So it's just been 1388 01:08:12,960 --> 01:08:13,760 Speaker 1: incredible to. 1389 01:08:13,720 --> 01:08:14,880 Speaker 2: See ery Blue iby. 1390 01:08:15,320 --> 01:08:17,719 Speaker 1: Well, this has been so much fun. I was always 1391 01:08:17,760 --> 01:08:20,599 Speaker 1: looking forward to catching up on our next roundtable when 1392 01:08:20,600 --> 01:08:23,000 Speaker 1: we talk about more of what we're watching. Quickly, let 1393 01:08:23,000 --> 01:08:24,720 Speaker 1: the people know where they can find you if they 1394 01:08:24,760 --> 01:08:26,759 Speaker 1: want to see more of your thoughts around pop culture 1395 01:08:26,800 --> 01:08:28,760 Speaker 1: and all the things you start end day. 1396 01:08:29,040 --> 01:08:32,200 Speaker 3: You can find me on Instagram at in Day Last Soul. 1397 01:08:32,240 --> 01:08:35,000 Speaker 2: That's in d E y E l A s o 1398 01:08:35,120 --> 01:08:35,479 Speaker 2: U L. 1399 01:08:36,040 --> 01:08:39,479 Speaker 3: Maybe I'll start posting more on my not close friends 1400 01:08:40,360 --> 01:08:42,559 Speaker 3: with my thoughts and things, so maybe I'll do that. 1401 01:08:42,680 --> 01:08:43,720 Speaker 2: But yeah, that's where I am. 1402 01:08:45,160 --> 01:08:46,080 Speaker 1: What about you, relief? 1403 01:08:46,400 --> 01:08:49,720 Speaker 3: You can follow me on Instagram at e l l 1404 01:08:49,840 --> 01:08:52,240 Speaker 3: I C E l l I s. It's just my 1405 01:08:52,320 --> 01:08:55,360 Speaker 3: first in my last name, but there's no extra or 1406 01:08:55,520 --> 01:08:57,880 Speaker 3: additional E at the end of my last name. I 1407 01:08:57,920 --> 01:09:00,559 Speaker 3: also have a TikTok's my TikTok oh, my tik talk 1408 01:09:00,640 --> 01:09:06,040 Speaker 3: is the same thing, so yeah on all platforms and me, oh, thank. 1409 01:09:05,920 --> 01:09:08,240 Speaker 2: You, doctor Joy. I also have a substack and you can. 1410 01:09:08,160 --> 01:09:10,240 Speaker 3: Search it on Google if you search a few minutes. 1411 01:09:10,680 --> 01:09:15,040 Speaker 3: Elise Ellis, I talk about media wellness and I share 1412 01:09:15,160 --> 01:09:18,000 Speaker 3: article recommendations. 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