1 00:00:02,680 --> 00:00:07,120 Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. 2 00:00:07,200 --> 00:00:08,719 Speaker 1: Hey Lewis, good morning, Welcome to the show. 3 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:09,200 Speaker 2: How are you. 4 00:00:09,840 --> 00:00:12,160 Speaker 3: I'm okay, I'm okay. Thanks for taking my call. 5 00:00:12,280 --> 00:00:14,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, hey, it's our pleasure. It's kind of our job, 6 00:00:14,160 --> 00:00:15,680 Speaker 1: you know, to take your call. So I mean, but 7 00:00:15,720 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 1: you're welcome, and thank you for saying thank you. What's 8 00:00:18,360 --> 00:00:21,160 Speaker 1: going on with this woman, Elena? How did you guys meet? 9 00:00:21,640 --> 00:00:24,439 Speaker 1: Let's hear about any dates that you've been on, your 10 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:27,080 Speaker 1: thoughts about that, and then where things are now and 11 00:00:27,120 --> 00:00:27,800 Speaker 1: how we can help. 12 00:00:27,920 --> 00:00:32,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, So we met on Instagram. I started following 13 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:35,199 Speaker 4: her that she's like a cool person to you know, 14 00:00:35,400 --> 00:00:36,479 Speaker 4: start a conversation with. 15 00:00:36,920 --> 00:00:38,040 Speaker 3: She followed me right back. 16 00:00:38,080 --> 00:00:43,440 Speaker 4: We started dming, we were flirting, you know, talking about 17 00:00:43,479 --> 00:00:45,800 Speaker 4: maybe going out on her first date, and then she 18 00:00:46,120 --> 00:00:49,280 Speaker 4: totally disappeared. But not only did she stop answering me, 19 00:00:49,840 --> 00:00:51,960 Speaker 4: she completely blocked me on Instagram. 20 00:00:52,120 --> 00:00:52,640 Speaker 2: Oh damn. 21 00:00:52,720 --> 00:00:55,840 Speaker 4: So yeah, like like it was, it kind of came 22 00:00:55,840 --> 00:00:58,840 Speaker 4: out of nowhere, and because the conversation like had just 23 00:00:58,920 --> 00:01:01,800 Speaker 4: been really good and really flowing and like we were like, 24 00:01:01,880 --> 00:01:05,280 Speaker 4: what's your weekend looking like? And then nothing and we 25 00:01:05,360 --> 00:01:07,200 Speaker 4: never even went out. So I'm like, what happened? I 26 00:01:07,240 --> 00:01:09,319 Speaker 4: really kind of just I am curious. I want to 27 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 4: know you know. 28 00:01:09,800 --> 00:01:12,240 Speaker 1: Wow, I mean that's we hear about that sometimes, but 29 00:01:12,600 --> 00:01:15,399 Speaker 1: I mean, to go from chatting and talking about going 30 00:01:15,440 --> 00:01:18,400 Speaker 1: out to that never even meeting and being blocked and 31 00:01:18,440 --> 00:01:21,800 Speaker 1: you really have no idea why, truly, Like you didn't 32 00:01:21,880 --> 00:01:24,520 Speaker 1: start talking about some crazy stuff or get into a 33 00:01:24,560 --> 00:01:27,640 Speaker 1: controversial topic, or get gross or send a picture you 34 00:01:27,640 --> 00:01:28,319 Speaker 1: shouldn't have sent. 35 00:01:28,959 --> 00:01:32,280 Speaker 2: Louis, Nope, I've thought all that. 36 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:36,880 Speaker 1: Come on, Louis, I swear, I like scrolled all the 37 00:01:36,880 --> 00:01:38,240 Speaker 1: way back and read our conversation. 38 00:01:38,319 --> 00:01:40,160 Speaker 4: We were totally just doing the like getting to know 39 00:01:40,280 --> 00:01:42,560 Speaker 4: you thing, like where are you originally from, and what 40 00:01:42,600 --> 00:01:44,440 Speaker 4: do you do for work? And what do you like 41 00:01:44,480 --> 00:01:44,720 Speaker 4: to do. 42 00:01:44,720 --> 00:01:45,199 Speaker 2: On the weekend? 43 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:48,600 Speaker 3: Like it was so casual, but it also was. 44 00:01:48,560 --> 00:01:51,279 Speaker 4: Like really like when I said, the conversation was flowing, 45 00:01:51,320 --> 00:01:53,000 Speaker 4: it was like it was so easy to talk to 46 00:01:53,040 --> 00:01:54,520 Speaker 4: her and we were really hitting it off. 47 00:01:54,560 --> 00:01:57,000 Speaker 3: So I'm That's why I'm so confused. Normally I just 48 00:01:57,080 --> 00:01:59,040 Speaker 3: let it go, but this is a little different. 49 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:08,639 Speaker 2: Okay, Well let's call now. Good luck Lewis. Thanks, Hello, 50 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:13,679 Speaker 2: Hi is this Elena? Hey? Good morning, It's Fred. My 51 00:02:13,760 --> 00:02:14,320 Speaker 2: name is Fred. 52 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:16,280 Speaker 1: I'm calling from the Fred Show, the Morning radio show, 53 00:02:16,440 --> 00:02:17,800 Speaker 1: and I have to tell you that we are on 54 00:02:17,840 --> 00:02:20,240 Speaker 1: the radio right now, and I do need your permission 55 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:21,920 Speaker 1: to continue with the call. Said, okay, if we chat 56 00:02:21,919 --> 00:02:25,880 Speaker 1: for just a second, sure, thank you very much. We're 57 00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:29,240 Speaker 1: calling on behalf of a dude named Lewis. I guess 58 00:02:29,240 --> 00:02:32,400 Speaker 1: you guys were recently messaging on Instagram and then and 59 00:02:32,440 --> 00:02:35,519 Speaker 1: then it stopped. Do you remember interacting with this guy? 60 00:02:36,760 --> 00:02:39,320 Speaker 1: I do, I do. So what happened because he called 61 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:41,440 Speaker 1: us and he was saying that, you know, you guys, 62 00:02:41,440 --> 00:02:44,680 Speaker 1: I guess followed each other and were dming on Insta 63 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:47,560 Speaker 1: and he thought everything was going well, and you guys 64 00:02:47,560 --> 00:02:49,560 Speaker 1: were talking about going on a dat according to him, 65 00:02:49,639 --> 00:02:52,120 Speaker 1: and then out of nowhere, he says, out of nowhere, 66 00:02:52,560 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 1: you stop responding and you blocked him. 67 00:02:54,840 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 2: Is that? I mean? What happened? 68 00:02:57,400 --> 00:02:59,240 Speaker 5: Well, if you were to go back to his messages, 69 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:01,400 Speaker 5: he'd see that. He asked how much I weighed? 70 00:03:02,760 --> 00:03:03,880 Speaker 2: He asked how much that way? 71 00:03:04,480 --> 00:03:04,679 Speaker 3: Yeah? 72 00:03:05,080 --> 00:03:08,799 Speaker 1: Whoa, whoa whoa Lewis. I always kim this somewhere here, 73 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:11,800 Speaker 1: but that's Lewis. By the way, I forgot to mention, 74 00:03:11,840 --> 00:03:14,880 Speaker 1: I'm sorry that he is on the phone as well. Elena, Elena, 75 00:03:14,960 --> 00:03:17,240 Speaker 1: can you please you were so rudely interrupted? 76 00:03:17,639 --> 00:03:18,359 Speaker 2: What happened? 77 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:22,720 Speaker 5: We we were we were having we were dming, it was, 78 00:03:22,800 --> 00:03:25,960 Speaker 5: it was going well, and then he asked how much 79 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:28,240 Speaker 5: I waited? And I was very put off by that question, 80 00:03:28,320 --> 00:03:30,480 Speaker 5: and immediately I was like, I don't want to see 81 00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:31,959 Speaker 5: this person. I don't want to talk to this person. 82 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:33,840 Speaker 2: Goodbye. Well, Lewis, why did you do that? 83 00:03:34,240 --> 00:03:36,520 Speaker 1: There are certain questions you don't ask, and one of 84 00:03:36,560 --> 00:03:37,840 Speaker 1: them is how much somebody weighs. 85 00:03:37,880 --> 00:03:39,640 Speaker 2: You don't ask anybody that question. 86 00:03:39,960 --> 00:03:45,480 Speaker 3: Right, And I can't believe this. She asked me how 87 00:03:45,520 --> 00:03:47,560 Speaker 3: tall I am, so she started it. 88 00:03:48,040 --> 00:03:49,640 Speaker 2: That's not the same thing at all. 89 00:03:50,080 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 3: Oh, asking a man how tally is. 90 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:53,680 Speaker 4: The equivalent of asking how much she weighs? 91 00:03:53,800 --> 00:03:58,000 Speaker 2: That is absolutely no, I have the same It just isn't. Oh. 92 00:03:58,160 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 3: I totally disagree. I think that she was like trying 93 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 3: to scope it out like my physical attributes, and I 94 00:04:03,720 --> 00:04:06,160 Speaker 3: was like, Okay, then I'm gonna flip it around on you. 95 00:04:06,280 --> 00:04:08,240 Speaker 3: I don't want to talk about my height. 96 00:04:07,960 --> 00:04:09,720 Speaker 4: And you don't want to talk about your weight. 97 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:11,720 Speaker 3: Like that's a I don't think that. 98 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:17,279 Speaker 5: Listen, how tall you are, you can't change that. So 99 00:04:17,400 --> 00:04:18,880 Speaker 5: I want to know what I'm getting into. I think 100 00:04:18,880 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 5: that's a fair question to ask somebody. But somebody's weight, 101 00:04:22,120 --> 00:04:23,960 Speaker 5: that's that's it's very personal. 102 00:04:24,160 --> 00:04:26,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not saying that I even really know why 103 00:04:26,960 --> 00:04:29,159 Speaker 1: there's a sigma against you. I mean, nobody should be 104 00:04:29,160 --> 00:04:31,120 Speaker 1: ashamed of their weight, and but it's just it's sort 105 00:04:31,120 --> 00:04:32,880 Speaker 1: of one of those unwritten rules, like you just you 106 00:04:32,920 --> 00:04:34,960 Speaker 1: don't ask people how old they are. Typically you don't 107 00:04:34,960 --> 00:04:37,040 Speaker 1: ask them how much they weigh. But I guess asking 108 00:04:37,080 --> 00:04:39,839 Speaker 1: somebody how tall they are is I don't think that's 109 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:41,040 Speaker 1: the same for whatever reason. 110 00:04:41,080 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 2: You know, I don't know for it. 111 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:44,839 Speaker 6: Because you're a tall king, right, so the short kings 112 00:04:44,920 --> 00:04:47,280 Speaker 6: might feel a little different because they're insecure about their 113 00:04:47,320 --> 00:04:48,040 Speaker 6: heighten but I can. 114 00:04:47,960 --> 00:04:50,080 Speaker 2: See that you're short, like it's not I mean, it's 115 00:04:50,080 --> 00:04:50,720 Speaker 2: not you know what I mean. 116 00:04:50,880 --> 00:04:54,000 Speaker 6: Well, yeah, online can be a lot this even like 117 00:04:54,080 --> 00:04:56,279 Speaker 6: for you know, I love a Marion and for years 118 00:04:56,320 --> 00:04:58,200 Speaker 6: I saw him on TV and I said, this man 119 00:04:58,320 --> 00:05:00,880 Speaker 6: is just fine and tall, and then I met him 120 00:05:00,880 --> 00:05:03,440 Speaker 6: and he was probably the sight no shade. 121 00:05:04,200 --> 00:05:06,080 Speaker 2: What am I supposed to do with it, so it's 122 00:05:06,200 --> 00:05:10,440 Speaker 2: just you can hid shame people too, So I guess 123 00:05:10,480 --> 00:05:11,640 Speaker 2: they're both superficial. 124 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:15,360 Speaker 1: You could argue, but I mean, yeah, she would see 125 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:17,640 Speaker 1: your height when you met up, whereas like you wouldn't 126 00:05:17,680 --> 00:05:18,640 Speaker 1: know someone's. 127 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:20,720 Speaker 2: Weight when you meet up. I don't know, it's just 128 00:05:21,520 --> 00:05:25,800 Speaker 2: just whatever reason knowing someone to wait before a date. 129 00:05:26,160 --> 00:05:28,360 Speaker 1: Lewis is it fair to say you're insecure about your height? 130 00:05:28,480 --> 00:05:30,640 Speaker 1: And that's sort of where this is coming from. 131 00:05:31,200 --> 00:05:34,200 Speaker 3: Listen, I'm not like, I'm not sure, but I'm. 132 00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:36,159 Speaker 4: Certainly not like the tallest guy in the room. 133 00:05:36,640 --> 00:05:40,040 Speaker 3: And honestly, like I would have never asked her her 134 00:05:40,160 --> 00:05:42,440 Speaker 3: weight if she didn't ask me that, And I just. 135 00:05:42,400 --> 00:05:44,240 Speaker 4: Thought I was kind of like flipping the script. And 136 00:05:44,279 --> 00:05:47,400 Speaker 4: I guess it's like you can't read tone on d MS. 137 00:05:47,360 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 3: Or whatever, because I thought we. 138 00:05:49,080 --> 00:05:50,960 Speaker 2: Were kind of like playing how tall are you? 139 00:05:51,200 --> 00:05:51,240 Speaker 4: She? 140 00:05:51,360 --> 00:05:53,360 Speaker 3: When she was five nine? 141 00:05:53,960 --> 00:05:56,279 Speaker 2: I mean, okay, how tall are you? 142 00:05:56,320 --> 00:06:03,040 Speaker 6: For real rights, not advertiser's license. 143 00:06:03,120 --> 00:06:05,880 Speaker 2: It's possible that you're five to seven. It's possibly short 144 00:06:05,960 --> 00:06:06,760 Speaker 2: king No. 145 00:06:07,040 --> 00:06:10,040 Speaker 3: No, I'm legit, I'm not, but it doesn't matter. 146 00:06:09,920 --> 00:06:14,160 Speaker 1: Like nobody, Okay, Elena wouldn't have mattered to you if 147 00:06:14,720 --> 00:06:16,360 Speaker 1: if you had found out that he was five nine. 148 00:06:16,720 --> 00:06:18,680 Speaker 2: Five to nine is a great height. I just don't 149 00:06:18,680 --> 00:06:19,520 Speaker 2: want anyone. 150 00:06:19,240 --> 00:06:19,880 Speaker 3: Shorter than me. 151 00:06:20,240 --> 00:06:22,480 Speaker 2: Okay, well, how tell are you? I'm five three? Well, 152 00:06:22,480 --> 00:06:23,200 Speaker 2: how much do you weigh? 153 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:25,320 Speaker 1: No, I'm kidding, I'm playing. 154 00:06:25,320 --> 00:06:28,039 Speaker 2: I'm playing. No answer to that. Yeah, I don't know 155 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:29,480 Speaker 2: the point of asking him in the first place. 156 00:06:29,480 --> 00:06:31,479 Speaker 3: If you're five to three, this man is not going 157 00:06:31,560 --> 00:06:33,360 Speaker 3: to be shorter than five three, even in a picture. 158 00:06:33,440 --> 00:06:40,120 Speaker 2: Well you don't know what I mean. A man on 159 00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:43,160 Speaker 2: the five three. That's a that's pretty specific right there. 160 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:45,840 Speaker 1: Well, Lewis, I guess we can agree to disagree here, 161 00:06:45,839 --> 00:06:47,919 Speaker 1: But I don't think that asking somebody their height is 162 00:06:47,920 --> 00:06:50,640 Speaker 1: the same as asking somebody their weight. But that being said, 163 00:06:50,960 --> 00:06:52,080 Speaker 1: I guess you're entitled to that. 164 00:06:52,880 --> 00:06:53,240 Speaker 2: Elena. 165 00:06:53,279 --> 00:06:55,960 Speaker 1: Would you we've kind of straightened this out that you've 166 00:06:56,000 --> 00:06:59,719 Speaker 1: heard his logic. I don't agree with it, But would 167 00:06:59,760 --> 00:07:01,760 Speaker 1: you consider meeting him in person? 168 00:07:01,920 --> 00:07:04,360 Speaker 2: Maybe? And we'll pay for the date. No, I'm no 169 00:07:04,360 --> 00:07:08,279 Speaker 2: longer interested. Okay, not interested anymore? There you go. And also, 170 00:07:08,400 --> 00:07:10,840 Speaker 2: can I just make a p s A all you. 171 00:07:10,560 --> 00:07:13,280 Speaker 1: Tiny little nuggets like Paulina, Well, you don't need to 172 00:07:13,360 --> 00:07:17,120 Speaker 1: take super tall men tall women need the tall men. 173 00:07:17,400 --> 00:07:18,600 Speaker 2: Oh you know how you. 174 00:07:18,560 --> 00:07:20,200 Speaker 5: See a little tiny girl, she's like, I need him 175 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:21,960 Speaker 5: over six foot. 176 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:26,160 Speaker 1: Maybe sometimes the guy over six foot. I mean so 177 00:07:26,240 --> 00:07:28,520 Speaker 1: I've heard a guy over six foot once the small girl. 178 00:07:28,520 --> 00:07:30,080 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, well, then that's. 179 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:31,960 Speaker 2: Up to him. But ladies, come on, now, you're a 180 00:07:31,960 --> 00:07:32,640 Speaker 2: tiny little thing. 181 00:07:34,720 --> 00:07:36,520 Speaker 5: I don't need them to be six foot. I don't 182 00:07:36,560 --> 00:07:38,440 Speaker 5: need them to be six foot, but I wouldn't like 183 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:40,440 Speaker 5: them to be like only an inch or too taller 184 00:07:40,480 --> 00:07:44,200 Speaker 5: than me. I want to wear you, okay, Yeah, what's 185 00:07:44,240 --> 00:07:44,840 Speaker 5: your what's your height? 186 00:07:45,240 --> 00:07:48,720 Speaker 2: Right? What you what you go for? What what you 187 00:07:48,720 --> 00:07:49,000 Speaker 2: go for? 188 00:07:49,200 --> 00:07:49,600 Speaker 3: What you is? 189 00:07:49,720 --> 00:07:52,400 Speaker 2: You a tall man? I go I go from anywhere. 190 00:07:53,600 --> 00:07:56,520 Speaker 2: I go for women. I go for women. 191 00:07:58,320 --> 00:07:58,760 Speaker 6: I do not. 192 00:07:58,760 --> 00:08:02,040 Speaker 1: Discriminate tall, short, round, skinny. I do it done that. 193 00:08:02,760 --> 00:08:05,240 Speaker 2: I don't care where you're from. I don't care who 194 00:08:05,280 --> 00:08:07,640 Speaker 2: your mama is. I know you are where you're from. 195 00:08:07,640 --> 00:08:09,800 Speaker 2: What you do, as long as you love me? Thank you. 196 00:08:09,840 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 1: So that I'd like to quote the Backstreet Boys, because 197 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:19,000 Speaker 1: the boys, because that's exactly who. That's a model that 198 00:08:19,040 --> 00:08:22,240 Speaker 1: I it's actually on my mirror. I manifest that every day. Yeah, 199 00:08:22,560 --> 00:08:24,720 Speaker 1: with a little quote, you know, with the picture of 200 00:08:24,760 --> 00:08:27,080 Speaker 1: them as well. Okay, guys, thank you so much for 201 00:08:27,120 --> 00:08:28,600 Speaker 1: your time. Sorry's not going to work out. Best of 202 00:08:28,680 --> 00:08:29,320 Speaker 1: luck to both of you.