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Speaker 2: Kristen is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and she's getting ghosted by Garrett. So we're

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Speaker 2: going to see if we can figure out why and

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Speaker 2: maybe get her another date if she still wants one. Kristin,

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Speaker 2: what's up? How are you hi?

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Speaker 3: I'm besides being ghosted doing great?

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Speaker 2: Not to bay before we ask about your dat and stuff?

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Speaker 2: How long has it been since you heard from Garrett?

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Speaker 4: Like three days?

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Speaker 5: All?

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Speaker 2: This is too bad?

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Speaker 6: Rather three day mark. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I feel like he's probably not interested in I want

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Speaker 3: to kind of figure out why.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, three days might not necessarily be a full ghost

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Speaker 2: yet you know, well there was a read for sheet.

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Speaker 2: Then maybe if you read a text and then hasn't

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Speaker 2: responded in three days, then that's infuriating.

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Speaker 7: Props to you and for not sending him eight paragraphs.

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Speaker 7: So what happened on the date though, Like, what is

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Speaker 7: it about him that makes you want to find out?

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Speaker 4: Well?

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Speaker 3: I mean we met through mutual friends, and you know,

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Speaker 3: we just kind of clicked and we went to a

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Speaker 3: and yeah, I haven't heard it from him ever since,

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Speaker 3: and you know, I'm trying to figure out maybe why

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Speaker 4: And I'm yeah, I'm at a loss.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, tell us about the date.

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Speaker 3: So we went to a concert and you know, we

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Speaker 3: had a couple of drinks and we made out, and

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Speaker 3: I think he was looking for something maybe a little more,

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Speaker 3: and I kind of backed out. You know, I'm not

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Speaker 3: kind of looking for a hookup right now. You know,

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Speaker 3: I think maybe I sang to him and got a

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Speaker 3: little drunk.

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Speaker 4: Maybe he'd like my singing.

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Speaker 3: I can get a little loud and voice teroused, So

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Speaker 3: maybe that maybe scared him.

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Speaker 8: I mean, that's what you're supposed to do at a concert.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, did it seem like.

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Speaker 9: It bothered him?

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Speaker 3: I mean I thought it seemed okay, But now that

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Speaker 3: I haven't heard from him, I'm really trying to rule

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Speaker 3: out what the possibilities were. And you know, I wish

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Speaker 3: he'd be an adult and you know, have a conversation

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Speaker 3: if there.

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Speaker 4: Was an issue.

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Speaker 8: Maybe it's just he wanted to hook.

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Speaker 4: Up, I guess, you know.

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Speaker 3: And it's a real bummer that he couldn't just be

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Speaker 3: upfront and tell me that you know, if that was

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Speaker 3: what he was looking for, and you know, I wasn't

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Speaker 4: He could just be an adult and say like.

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Speaker 6: Hey, you know, for whatever reason, I'm not interested and

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Speaker 6: be gracious about it as opposed to just hiding.

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Speaker 2: So how do you know that he was trying to

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Speaker 3: Yees? Yeah, he was kind of handsy and you know,

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Speaker 3: kind of got a little below the equator, okay, and

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Speaker 3: you know I kind of pulled his hand away, and

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Speaker 3: I'm like, I don't know if I'm ready for this

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Speaker 2: Further for the first date, okay. And did he seem

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Speaker 2: bothered by that when you you know, smacked his hand

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Speaker 9: Yeah, I know.

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Speaker 3: You know, I mean he wasn't thrown about it obviously,

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Speaker 3: but yeah, I just I don't know why he ghosts

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Speaker 4: He could have just been upfront about it.

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Speaker 2: If that is the reason. Would you want another date?

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Speaker 2: Because you know I've been you know, when I used

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Speaker 2: right now, I would be fine with it, you know,

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Speaker 2: Like I never threw a fit, but I've learned about

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Speaker 2: I've never cared. I've been like, Okay, that's cool, we

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Speaker 2: can wait till later. You know. So if he got

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Speaker 3: We really did have good chemistry at the beginning, you know,

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Speaker 3: and that's kind of what I want to.

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Speaker 4: Find out a little bit more about.

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Speaker 3: And you know, if there's a good reason why he

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Speaker 3: potentially having a second date.

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Speaker 4: But you know, I guess we'll have to find out why.

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Speaker 7: That's such a good point. We're jumping to all of

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Speaker 7: these conclusions. It's been three days. There's a really good

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Speaker 7: chance that just something else was going on.

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Speaker 2: Yeah that's true. Yeah, well we'll try to figure it

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Speaker 2: out for you. Okay, we'll play a song, come back,

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Speaker 2: and then call him and see if he'll tell us

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Speaker 2: why he's ghosting you and get you another date if

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Speaker 2: you still want one.

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Speaker 4: Okay, thanks you for me, Thank you?

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Speaker 2: Plus song come back, get your first date follow up.

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Speaker 1: Next first date of follow Up powered by the Advocates

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Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for today's first date follow up.

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Speaker 2: Kristen is on the phone and she's not getting a

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Speaker 2: call back from a dude named Garrett. So we're gonna

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Speaker 2: see if we can figure out why she's getting ghosted

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Speaker 2: and maybe get her another date when we call him.

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Speaker 2: In just a second before we do that, Kristen, remind

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Speaker 2: everybody about your date and why you think you're getting ghosted.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So Garrett and I met through mutual friends. We went

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Speaker 3: out on a date because we clucked almost instantly, and

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Speaker 3: we went to a concert and after the show, he

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Speaker 3: ghosted me.

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Speaker 4: It's seen three days.

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Speaker 3: I sent him a text left me on read and yeah,

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Speaker 3: I want to figure out why did I get a

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Speaker 3: little bit too drunk?

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Speaker 4: Was my singing really loud and bad? Or was it

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Speaker 4: just that he was looking to hook up?

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Speaker 6: And I'm not too sure which one it was, but

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Speaker 6: he seemed a little bit upset when we were making out,

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Speaker 6: and these tends started to go a little bit south,

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Speaker 6: and I told him I wasn't looking for that, So

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Speaker 6: I want to figure out why, and if there's a

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Speaker 2: It's only been three days, so you might not be

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Speaker 2: getting ghosted, but you probably are since he read a

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Speaker 2: text and didn't respond. We'll call him right now. Okay,

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Speaker 2: are you ready?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, here we go.

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Speaker 3: Bo him.

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Speaker 2: I speak to Garrett please too, Garrett, how are you?

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Speaker 2: My name is Jeuwbell, and I host a radio show

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Speaker 2: called The Jewbel Show.

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Speaker 8: Hi, Garrett. He hosts that show with some friends and

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Speaker 8: my name's Nina. I'm one of them in mine Victoria.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. So there's three people on the phone with you

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Speaker 2: right now. How are you?

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Speaker 9: I'm good? What are you guys calling for?

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Speaker 2: We're calling because we got an email about you from

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Speaker 2: somebody who listens to the show.

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Speaker 5: An email about me about what we do.

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Speaker 2: A segment on the show called the First Date follow Up.

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Speaker 2: That's where if you go out on a date with

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Speaker 2: can email us to call you and figure out why

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Speaker 2: you're ghosting them. So you went out with someone and

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Speaker 2: now you're not calling them back, and they want to

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I mean I went out on a few

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Speaker 2: All right, well let's see we can help you out.

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Speaker 2: You went to a concert together.

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Speaker 9: I think I know who you're talking about, Kristen, right.

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Speaker 2: Yes, so she emailed us and said that she really

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 9: I mean, you know, she's cool, don't gething wrong, But

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Speaker 9: like she wasn't down, So I don't know, I mean

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Speaker 5: I'm not really looking at like date right now.

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Speaker 2: If you just wanted to like hook up with someone

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Speaker 2: like conscious can kind of be expensive, why not just

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean that's true. I mean I don't know,

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Speaker 5: they weren't that expensive, And I don't mind you know,

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Speaker 2: Okay, so that's why you're not that's why you're ghosting

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Speaker 5: Yeah. I mean, well I'm not trying to ghost her.

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Speaker 5: It's only been like two or three days.

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Speaker 9: But I don't know, I just kind of lost interest.

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Speaker 2: I mean she thought maybe that the reason you weren't

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Speaker 5: Yeah. Well, I mean, I mean I feel a little

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Speaker 8: I mean, what would give you that impression.

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Speaker 5: Well, I mean she's being all flirtatious and you know,

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Speaker 5: like the first time we met, same thing, and she

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Speaker 5: was like texting me some stuff and I don't know,

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Speaker 5: it was just it was very clear that she was

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Speaker 2: Well, thanks for being honest, man, I appreciate it. And

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Speaker 2: now I'll be honest with you. Kristen is actually on

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Speaker 2: the phone. She's been listening this whole time and wants

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Speaker 2: to talk to you.

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Speaker 9: She's on the line right now.

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Speaker 4: Ye Hi, how's it going nice to hear from you?

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Speaker 9: Yeah, I didn't know I would, you know.

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Speaker 3: I text you three days ago and you know, I

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Speaker 9: I'm sorry, you know, Look, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 5: You know I've been busy and I did mean to

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Speaker 5: text you back. I don't I don't really go with

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Speaker 9: But I guess you just I guess you just heard

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Speaker 9: I mean what I said, and I don't know. I mean,

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Speaker 9: I was looking to hook up and you weren't down,

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Speaker 9: and it just didn't end up going to where I

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, I mean the thing was, like we met

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Speaker 3: we were drinking that first.

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Speaker 4: Night, why didn't you just pick me home with you?

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Speaker 3: Like I don't understand like a concert and making an event,

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Speaker 3: you know what I mean, Like, if you wanted to

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Speaker 3: hook up, we could have thought it that night when

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Speaker 3: we're just drinking together, like you bought concert tickets, you

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Speaker 3: picked me up, like we went to a show.

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Speaker 4: I thought, well we were a little.

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Speaker 5: More like girl. I mean, you know, I'm a gentleman.

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Speaker 9: In that regard.

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Speaker 3: Well, gentleman, why do you think because you can't text

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Speaker 3: me back like an adult and say, hey, I had

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Speaker 3: a nice time, but you know, maybe we're not looking

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Speaker 3: for the same thing, Like you could at least be courteous.

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Speaker 4: Everyone's on their phone the entire time, like everybody's on.

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Speaker 6: Social media, and you say you're too googy to respond

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Speaker 6: to a text like that doesn't fly.

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Speaker 9: Well, it's literally been like two three days. I mean,

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Speaker 9: it's not like it's been lead I read.

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Speaker 4: The most obvious are you're ghosting.

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Speaker 2: What would he say to you that would make you

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Speaker 2: feel better about the situation if if that's all he wanted,

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Speaker 2: I mean, he could.

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Speaker 3: Have just been up front, you know and just said hey, like,

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Speaker 3: you know, I'm looking for this, And if I said

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Speaker 3: I wasn't looking for it, then it's like, okay, well

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Speaker 3: we can't give each other the same thing, have a

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Speaker 3: great you know life.

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Speaker 7: So Christin, if he would have said that upfront, do

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Speaker 7: you think that you would have wanted the same thing

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Speaker 7: in that moment?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Like, how do I even say that?

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Speaker 9: Like it's supposed to be in pod.

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Speaker 4: Implied. Okay, you can don't find you're like, what's that?

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Speaker 8: That true?

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Speaker 2: Man, it's tough in these streets.

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Speaker 9: Okay, fine, I want to sleep with you. That's what

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Speaker 9: I wanted out of the date. That's that's it. Are

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Speaker 9: you happy now?

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Speaker 5: I mean they're honest.

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Speaker 4: Thank you for your honesty. But yeah, I just you know,

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Speaker 4: you could have had better communication.

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Speaker 5: Yeah. Well, I mean I've never had a girl take

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Speaker 5: especially after like three days, Like, that's kind of wild.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if you want another date, but I'll

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Speaker 2: ask anyway, Garrett, would you like it to go on

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Speaker 2: another date with Kristen? We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 5: No, I'm okay, I'm done with this. It's it's all

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Speaker 5: too wild, too much.

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Speaker 8: Well, what if Kristin wants to sleep with you?

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Speaker 5: Then?

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Speaker 8: Would you be cool with it?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I don't know. I'm not down anymore. It's just the

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Speaker 5: radio called kind of weird.

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Speaker 3: Well, Garrett, how would you feel if I said I

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Speaker 3: actually want to sleep with you, I just didn't want

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Speaker 3: to do it on the first date.

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Speaker 5: Well maybe I would, Yeah, I mean.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I just not not on the first night.

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Speaker 2: So uh that mean that it's gonna happen? Or yeah,

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Speaker 2: are you saying that you want to go out with

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Speaker 2: him again? Still?

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Speaker 8: Of course?

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Speaker 2: Well then I'll text you, okay, all right, I mean

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Speaker 2: I'm taking this as a successful first day follow up. Christen,

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Speaker 2: you I think you have another date or I'm not sure?

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Speaker 2: And Garrett, thank you for your time.

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Speaker 8: Please be safe.

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Speaker 4: Thank you.

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