1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,040 Speaker 1: Okay, guys, I am officially on my High and Mighty tour. 2 00:00:03,920 --> 00:00:10,559 Speaker 1: March thirteenth, Cleveland, Ohio. March fourteenth Columbus, Ohio. March fifteenth, Cincinnati, Ohio, 3 00:00:10,640 --> 00:00:15,560 Speaker 1: and then March twentieth is Denver, Colorado. March twenty seventh, Portland, Maine. 4 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:21,000 Speaker 1: March twenty eighth, Providence, Rhode Island. March twenty ninth, Springfield, Massachusetts. 5 00:00:21,600 --> 00:00:24,400 Speaker 1: April tenth is Chicago. I'll be at the Chicago Theater. 6 00:00:25,320 --> 00:00:32,159 Speaker 1: April eleventh, Indianapolis, Indiana. April twelfth Louisville, Kentucky. April sixteenth 7 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:36,280 Speaker 1: is Albuquerque, New Mexico. April seventeenth is Mesa, Arizona. April 8 00:00:36,280 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 1: twenty third is Kansas City, Missouri. 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June fifth is Boston, mass 16 00:01:10,680 --> 00:01:13,280 Speaker 1: And June twelfth is Portland, Oregon. 17 00:01:13,480 --> 00:01:18,119 Speaker 2: And then Seattle is June thirteenth, So suck on that. Everybody. 18 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:23,000 Speaker 1: Go to Chelseahandler dot com for tickets. Okay, Hi, Hi Catherine, 19 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:25,200 Speaker 1: Hi Chelsea. Welcome to our minisode. You guys. 20 00:01:25,200 --> 00:01:29,280 Speaker 2: We are to today. We are discussing. I have tasked Catherine. 21 00:01:29,080 --> 00:01:32,560 Speaker 1: With teaching me what quantum physics is because I need 22 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:34,040 Speaker 1: to have a better understanding. 23 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:36,520 Speaker 3: And I got a text from you last night that said, hey, 24 00:01:36,560 --> 00:01:38,920 Speaker 3: can we talk about quantum physics? So I've just you know, 25 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:41,679 Speaker 3: discovered all the mysteries of the universe by tomorrow morning. 26 00:01:41,720 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 3: So here we are. We're ready, Thank you. I do 27 00:01:43,800 --> 00:01:45,640 Speaker 3: have to say my favorite thing is that last year 28 00:01:45,760 --> 00:01:47,400 Speaker 3: you learned that the sun and the moon are not 29 00:01:47,480 --> 00:01:47,720 Speaker 3: the same. 30 00:01:47,880 --> 00:01:50,480 Speaker 1: That was not last year, It was five years ago. 31 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:53,160 Speaker 1: That was my two books ago. So that was like, 32 00:01:53,320 --> 00:01:54,960 Speaker 1: I mean that this is a little while ago. 33 00:01:55,120 --> 00:01:57,360 Speaker 3: But now that you know that, like the natural next 34 00:01:57,360 --> 00:02:01,720 Speaker 3: step is quantum physics, right, yeah, exactly. So basically physics 35 00:02:01,760 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 3: as we know it is a large scale thing. 36 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:06,200 Speaker 4: Right, if I push you, you're going to go over there. 37 00:02:06,240 --> 00:02:07,840 Speaker 4: That's sort of a large scale thing, okay. 38 00:02:08,040 --> 00:02:10,440 Speaker 3: But when you get to the sub atomic level, the 39 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:13,440 Speaker 3: stuff that we're all made up of, and the quantum level, 40 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:16,560 Speaker 3: the energy the electrons, like the things between the air 41 00:02:16,639 --> 00:02:17,560 Speaker 3: in between. 42 00:02:17,360 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 1: The air within you mean in between our bodies, like, yes, 43 00:02:21,919 --> 00:02:23,959 Speaker 1: in between our electrons, our neutrons. 44 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:31,119 Speaker 3: At the quantum level, physics behaves entirely differently. So one 45 00:02:31,160 --> 00:02:34,880 Speaker 3: of the main things that's important about quantum physics to 46 00:02:34,919 --> 00:02:35,799 Speaker 3: understand is this. 47 00:02:35,800 --> 00:02:37,760 Speaker 4: Idea of what's called superposition. 48 00:02:38,440 --> 00:02:42,440 Speaker 3: So superposition basically just means that something has a high 49 00:02:42,520 --> 00:02:47,880 Speaker 3: probability of being one of two states, and it is 50 00:02:47,919 --> 00:02:51,359 Speaker 3: not for sure in that state until it's actually being observed, 51 00:02:51,680 --> 00:02:53,760 Speaker 3: which is like it's it sounds spooky and it sounds 52 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:54,760 Speaker 3: weird and it doesn't make sense. 53 00:02:54,800 --> 00:02:56,280 Speaker 4: But it also if you relate that. 54 00:02:56,280 --> 00:03:00,400 Speaker 1: To a pregnancy, until you are actually positively pregnan it's 55 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:02,120 Speaker 1: not being observed. 56 00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:03,600 Speaker 4: That's actually a good way to describe it. 57 00:03:03,639 --> 00:03:08,079 Speaker 3: So there is a really typical example called Schrodinger's cat, 58 00:03:08,400 --> 00:03:11,800 Speaker 3: and it's basically like a pregnancy. So Schrodinger's cat says 59 00:03:12,320 --> 00:03:14,800 Speaker 3: that if you put a cat into a box, and 60 00:03:14,800 --> 00:03:16,639 Speaker 3: you're not looking at that cat because it's in the box. 61 00:03:16,760 --> 00:03:18,519 Speaker 4: You don't know if that cat is alive or dead. 62 00:03:18,840 --> 00:03:21,720 Speaker 3: Right, so before you open the box, that cat has 63 00:03:21,840 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 3: just as high of a probability of being alive as 64 00:03:24,320 --> 00:03:27,880 Speaker 3: being dead. But when you open the box, basically that's 65 00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:30,840 Speaker 3: what causes there's a cause of relationship of like, now 66 00:03:30,880 --> 00:03:32,600 Speaker 3: you know that the cat is alive or dead because 67 00:03:32,600 --> 00:03:34,480 Speaker 3: if you open the box and you've observed it. 68 00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 4: So the reality is based on observation. 69 00:03:37,840 --> 00:03:40,600 Speaker 3: And so while the cat is in that box, it's 70 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:44,400 Speaker 3: in a position of superposition, so it could equally be 71 00:03:44,680 --> 00:03:48,080 Speaker 3: one or the other. I'm following this, okay, okay, good, 72 00:03:48,160 --> 00:03:52,839 Speaker 3: good good, And so where that leads us is we're 73 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 3: kind of always in this state of being in the box, 74 00:03:55,880 --> 00:03:59,280 Speaker 3: if you will. We have an infinite possibility of going 75 00:03:59,320 --> 00:04:01,640 Speaker 3: this way or that, and say I decide to turn 76 00:04:01,720 --> 00:04:04,720 Speaker 3: left at the stoplight instead of right. What that means 77 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:06,840 Speaker 3: is like there might be one version of my reality 78 00:04:06,840 --> 00:04:09,280 Speaker 3: where I did go left or where I did go right. 79 00:04:09,600 --> 00:04:12,440 Speaker 3: And so the theory of the multiverse kind of spawned 80 00:04:12,640 --> 00:04:14,880 Speaker 3: out of all of this, and right now, that's sort 81 00:04:14,920 --> 00:04:18,719 Speaker 3: of the prevailing wisdom is that the multiverse does exist, 82 00:04:18,880 --> 00:04:20,479 Speaker 3: Like you were talking about, like are we living in 83 00:04:20,480 --> 00:04:23,479 Speaker 3: a simulation sort of thing? But so in the multiverse 84 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:25,919 Speaker 3: that theory says like, there is one version of me 85 00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:27,680 Speaker 3: that did this, one version of me that did that, 86 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:30,720 Speaker 3: and they both exist equally. So then where that brings 87 00:04:30,800 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 3: us is one of my favorite things about Like when 88 00:04:33,160 --> 00:04:36,040 Speaker 3: I was researching this, the only people who are interested 89 00:04:36,040 --> 00:04:39,440 Speaker 3: in quantum physics are either like nerdy dudes or like 90 00:04:39,560 --> 00:04:45,400 Speaker 3: hot women who are into manifestation. So where that, ohay exactly, 91 00:04:46,080 --> 00:04:48,520 Speaker 3: So where that kind of brings us is. It's one 92 00:04:48,520 --> 00:04:50,719 Speaker 3: of the things that helps people understand sort of like 93 00:04:50,760 --> 00:04:54,200 Speaker 3: the the physical reality of like if you can manifest 94 00:04:54,240 --> 00:04:57,679 Speaker 3: things because you're basically just putting yourself in a different 95 00:04:58,240 --> 00:05:01,440 Speaker 3: headspace and focusing on on a different outcome and a 96 00:05:01,440 --> 00:05:05,680 Speaker 3: different reality, and that energetically brings you to that different reality. 97 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:13,719 Speaker 1: So in theory, if you believe in a multiverse situation, 98 00:05:13,760 --> 00:05:17,360 Speaker 1: which is different than quantum physics, because quantum physics sounds 99 00:05:17,360 --> 00:05:21,040 Speaker 1: more like the possibility rather than a multiverse, which is 100 00:05:21,360 --> 00:05:24,719 Speaker 1: assuming both all things, all possibilities are happening at the 101 00:05:24,760 --> 00:05:25,359 Speaker 1: same time. 102 00:05:25,839 --> 00:05:27,720 Speaker 3: I almost think and Brand weigh in on this. I 103 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:30,839 Speaker 3: almost think it's a little bit opposite. I think quantum 104 00:05:30,880 --> 00:05:34,440 Speaker 3: physics is the reality and the multiverse is potentially true. 105 00:05:34,920 --> 00:05:36,039 Speaker 4: Rat would you say that's correct? 106 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:39,760 Speaker 5: Is it entirely connected? I don't know. Quantum physics is 107 00:05:39,760 --> 00:05:42,480 Speaker 5: the study of the very very small, That's what I know. 108 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:48,120 Speaker 5: Is the multiverse necessarily related to that? I see where 109 00:05:48,120 --> 00:05:50,520 Speaker 5: you're going with the manifestations, That makes sense. 110 00:05:50,880 --> 00:05:52,040 Speaker 2: I don't think it's related. 111 00:05:52,200 --> 00:05:53,320 Speaker 4: You don't think it's related. 112 00:05:53,440 --> 00:05:53,520 Speaker 5: No. 113 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:58,400 Speaker 1: My understanding, which isn't one, is that the multiverse is 114 00:05:58,440 --> 00:06:02,000 Speaker 1: just something that like somebody, like you know, like people, right, 115 00:06:02,120 --> 00:06:05,000 Speaker 1: that's like a conjecture like, oh, maybe this is happening. 116 00:06:05,040 --> 00:06:08,680 Speaker 1: But quantum physics is actually scientific. 117 00:06:08,360 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 3: Right exactly, and there's even quantum computers that can do like. 118 00:06:12,279 --> 00:06:16,040 Speaker 1: Like a simulation is a conjecture, not, it's not proven 119 00:06:16,080 --> 00:06:19,080 Speaker 1: that we're in a simulation. That's just people going, what's 120 00:06:19,120 --> 00:06:22,640 Speaker 1: going on here? Like a matrix? Yes, right, a matrix 121 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:23,920 Speaker 1: is like a multiverse? 122 00:06:24,520 --> 00:06:26,039 Speaker 2: Correct? Yeah? Is that correct? 123 00:06:27,120 --> 00:06:29,640 Speaker 5: Yes? Sort of, that's kind of like a like a 124 00:06:29,920 --> 00:06:34,000 Speaker 5: superimposed reality though, right, we're talking about like the matrix matrix. 125 00:06:34,080 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I think that's kind of. 126 00:06:35,720 --> 00:06:39,400 Speaker 5: A different I think a simulation would be different than multiverse. 127 00:06:39,240 --> 00:06:41,800 Speaker 1: Right, because what if we're like, what because what's the 128 00:06:41,880 --> 00:06:46,479 Speaker 1: idea that supports the notion that we're living our past, present, 129 00:06:46,520 --> 00:06:48,040 Speaker 1: and future at the same time. 130 00:06:48,080 --> 00:06:50,520 Speaker 4: Okay, I've got this one. I've got this one. Okay. 131 00:06:50,760 --> 00:06:54,040 Speaker 3: So this is like when you have a radio. You 132 00:06:54,120 --> 00:06:56,119 Speaker 3: have all of the stations on the radio, You're getting 133 00:06:56,120 --> 00:06:58,880 Speaker 3: frequencies from all over the place, right, they all exist, 134 00:06:59,360 --> 00:07:02,320 Speaker 3: but when you two into just one radio frequency, that 135 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:05,480 Speaker 3: becomes your reality. So that's the one that you're tuned into. 136 00:07:05,640 --> 00:07:07,919 Speaker 3: That's the one that you're hearing. All the other ones 137 00:07:07,960 --> 00:07:11,720 Speaker 3: still exist, but to you, the only one that's real 138 00:07:11,880 --> 00:07:13,360 Speaker 3: is the one that you are tuned into. 139 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:14,920 Speaker 4: Okay, see what I did? 140 00:07:15,440 --> 00:07:16,000 Speaker 2: That was good? 141 00:07:16,160 --> 00:07:17,160 Speaker 4: So glad that I studied. 142 00:07:17,200 --> 00:07:19,520 Speaker 2: Good, good, Thank you. 143 00:07:19,640 --> 00:07:22,640 Speaker 3: Yes. But Neil deGrasse Tyson says that, like, nobody really 144 00:07:22,720 --> 00:07:24,440 Speaker 3: understands quantum physics, So it's. 145 00:07:24,360 --> 00:07:26,280 Speaker 1: Like, why don't we have him on I think we 146 00:07:26,320 --> 00:07:28,480 Speaker 1: actually should, let's book him because we need to talk 147 00:07:28,520 --> 00:07:30,480 Speaker 1: to him. Okay, great, Yeah, I had him on my 148 00:07:30,560 --> 00:07:33,440 Speaker 1: Netflix show once and it wasn't long enough conversations. So 149 00:07:33,640 --> 00:07:36,080 Speaker 1: this would be a better format for us. This is 150 00:07:36,080 --> 00:07:37,360 Speaker 1: perfect because. 151 00:07:37,040 --> 00:07:39,080 Speaker 2: Also there's an idea that you know. 152 00:07:39,840 --> 00:07:42,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, all these things are existing at the same time. 153 00:07:42,880 --> 00:07:46,280 Speaker 1: It just it's like what you just described, right, So 154 00:07:46,320 --> 00:07:48,320 Speaker 1: if I were to tune into my past, maybe I 155 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:50,160 Speaker 1: could jump back there or future. 156 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:53,200 Speaker 4: Yes, you know what I saw TikTok yesterday. 157 00:07:53,760 --> 00:07:56,640 Speaker 3: There is this I'm sort of on, like the witchy 158 00:07:56,720 --> 00:08:01,080 Speaker 3: side of TikTok. And there is this witch who like 159 00:08:01,160 --> 00:08:03,800 Speaker 3: witches like you know, like pagans and witches. 160 00:08:03,840 --> 00:08:06,280 Speaker 1: I didn't know this about you goes a lot with 161 00:08:06,320 --> 00:08:08,760 Speaker 1: those hard boiled eggs that you travel with. Oh, by 162 00:08:08,840 --> 00:08:11,960 Speaker 1: the way, my one of my ex boyfriends from Barcelona 163 00:08:12,040 --> 00:08:14,080 Speaker 1: sent me a picture of him on a plane with 164 00:08:14,120 --> 00:08:16,520 Speaker 1: a little container of for six hor hard boiled eggs 165 00:08:16,560 --> 00:08:17,040 Speaker 1: and goes. 166 00:08:16,880 --> 00:08:19,240 Speaker 2: I know you hate me now. I didn't respond, and 167 00:08:19,240 --> 00:08:20,240 Speaker 2: I'm going to block him. 168 00:08:20,280 --> 00:08:21,800 Speaker 3: He and I will do He and I will get 169 00:08:21,800 --> 00:08:25,880 Speaker 3: along famously. But so this Glasgow witch, I really loved 170 00:08:25,880 --> 00:08:27,560 Speaker 3: what she said, and I'll post a link to this. 171 00:08:27,600 --> 00:08:29,520 Speaker 2: And why do you like witches and pagans? 172 00:08:29,920 --> 00:08:31,880 Speaker 4: You know what I think there. 173 00:08:31,920 --> 00:08:34,080 Speaker 3: I don't understand a lot about it, but to me, 174 00:08:34,720 --> 00:08:36,600 Speaker 3: a lot of that stuff makes sense, like talking to 175 00:08:36,640 --> 00:08:40,880 Speaker 3: your ancestors, getting wisdom from our elders from especially women 176 00:08:40,920 --> 00:08:41,800 Speaker 3: who came before. 177 00:08:42,320 --> 00:08:43,760 Speaker 4: A lot of that really makes sense to me. 178 00:08:43,800 --> 00:08:46,360 Speaker 1: And also just are we actively doing that without knowing 179 00:08:46,360 --> 00:08:47,960 Speaker 1: it or you're saying you're not. 180 00:08:47,880 --> 00:08:51,280 Speaker 3: Doing it unless with intention you're doing it, you know, right, 181 00:08:51,400 --> 00:08:54,720 Speaker 3: Like I feel like I have a pretty lively rapport 182 00:08:54,760 --> 00:08:57,400 Speaker 3: with my ancestors with people have gone before me. I 183 00:08:57,400 --> 00:08:59,920 Speaker 3: think you do too, with your mom and with other 184 00:09:00,040 --> 00:09:02,120 Speaker 3: who have gone before you. And I think that all 185 00:09:02,240 --> 00:09:05,760 Speaker 3: to me goes into the same basket. But one thing 186 00:09:05,800 --> 00:09:08,760 Speaker 3: she was talking about that I really resonated with was, 187 00:09:09,200 --> 00:09:11,520 Speaker 3: you know we talk about like reparenting or you know, 188 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:13,760 Speaker 3: talking to yourself in different and she was like, let's 189 00:09:13,760 --> 00:09:16,920 Speaker 3: talk about time time travel basically going back to an 190 00:09:16,960 --> 00:09:19,840 Speaker 3: earlier version of yourself and like giving. 191 00:09:19,600 --> 00:09:21,520 Speaker 4: Her the whispers that you. 192 00:09:21,520 --> 00:09:25,280 Speaker 3: Wish you knew and communicating with her like the comfort 193 00:09:25,280 --> 00:09:26,960 Speaker 3: that you wish she had at the time, or the 194 00:09:27,000 --> 00:09:29,320 Speaker 3: wisdom that you wish you had. We're talking about yourself 195 00:09:29,440 --> 00:09:31,520 Speaker 3: is like you're going back and visiting yourself at different 196 00:09:31,520 --> 00:09:34,400 Speaker 3: points of it. And to me, that made so much 197 00:09:34,440 --> 00:09:38,120 Speaker 3: more sense than like reparenting or shadow self or any 198 00:09:38,200 --> 00:09:38,840 Speaker 3: of that stuff. 199 00:09:38,880 --> 00:09:40,679 Speaker 4: Like to me, that just clicked. 200 00:09:40,520 --> 00:09:42,520 Speaker 3: And she said, once you start to hear, you know, 201 00:09:42,600 --> 00:09:45,319 Speaker 3: practice hearing the whispers of yourself to your younger self, 202 00:09:45,400 --> 00:09:47,360 Speaker 3: you can start to hear this the you that will 203 00:09:47,360 --> 00:09:50,280 Speaker 3: come sending whispers back to your current self. 204 00:09:50,480 --> 00:09:52,680 Speaker 4: And I just wait, wait, say that one more time. 205 00:09:52,920 --> 00:09:55,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, she said, once you get better at hearing the 206 00:09:55,760 --> 00:09:58,160 Speaker 3: voice of yourself the way you talk to yourself in 207 00:09:58,200 --> 00:10:01,080 Speaker 3: the past, you'll be able to better understand your future 208 00:10:01,120 --> 00:10:03,440 Speaker 3: self giving you the whispers from. 209 00:10:03,400 --> 00:10:05,559 Speaker 4: Because this is a little bit what Laura Day said, 210 00:10:05,559 --> 00:10:07,640 Speaker 4: were like, all time exists at the same time. We 211 00:10:07,760 --> 00:10:10,559 Speaker 4: experience it as a line, as a linear. 212 00:10:10,240 --> 00:10:13,200 Speaker 3: Situation, but it actually all exists. We just happened to 213 00:10:13,200 --> 00:10:15,040 Speaker 3: be at one point. It's a little bit like tuning 214 00:10:15,040 --> 00:10:17,880 Speaker 3: into that one frequency. The frequency we're tuned into is 215 00:10:17,960 --> 00:10:20,959 Speaker 3: now right. But like the future arty exists, the past 216 00:10:21,000 --> 00:10:23,920 Speaker 3: obviously already exists, and so kind of what she was 217 00:10:23,920 --> 00:10:28,079 Speaker 3: talking about is tuning into different places in your timeline 218 00:10:28,120 --> 00:10:30,280 Speaker 3: and being able to communicate with yourself at different times, 219 00:10:30,440 --> 00:10:32,000 Speaker 3: And that really really resonated with me. 220 00:10:33,080 --> 00:10:37,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, there was a conversation I heard Bill Maher having 221 00:10:37,520 --> 00:10:39,760 Speaker 1: with I guess I think it was who was on 222 00:10:39,800 --> 00:10:43,000 Speaker 1: his show as a Paul Krugbin. I don't want to misspeak, 223 00:10:43,040 --> 00:10:44,839 Speaker 1: but I do do it all the time, so I 224 00:10:44,840 --> 00:10:45,880 Speaker 1: guess it's not that big. 225 00:10:45,720 --> 00:10:46,360 Speaker 2: Of a problem. 226 00:10:46,559 --> 00:10:50,120 Speaker 1: And he was talking about common knowledge. This is not 227 00:10:51,040 --> 00:10:53,160 Speaker 1: directly related to what we're talking about, but it's another 228 00:10:53,240 --> 00:10:57,120 Speaker 1: interesting conversation about common knowledge. It's like you see an 229 00:10:57,120 --> 00:11:01,320 Speaker 1: event happen, say nine to eleven, I know without talking 230 00:11:01,360 --> 00:11:03,840 Speaker 1: to you that you know what happened on nine eleven 231 00:11:04,280 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 1: because it's become common knowledge. I know that you know, 232 00:11:06,960 --> 00:11:09,680 Speaker 1: and I know that everyone else knows the same information 233 00:11:09,800 --> 00:11:12,839 Speaker 1: that I do that nine to eleven occurred, and that 234 00:11:13,200 --> 00:11:16,960 Speaker 1: once something becomes common knowledge, it's like then once everything 235 00:11:17,160 --> 00:11:20,160 Speaker 1: It's like how things get exposed, you know, like and 236 00:11:20,200 --> 00:11:22,680 Speaker 1: it was related to politics, and it's like, oh, like 237 00:11:22,800 --> 00:11:27,440 Speaker 1: January sixth, Like once that happened, everyone knew what happened, 238 00:11:27,760 --> 00:11:30,000 Speaker 1: and you can change the narrative of what happened, but 239 00:11:30,080 --> 00:11:32,400 Speaker 1: like we all saw what happened that day, there's no 240 00:11:32,520 --> 00:11:35,400 Speaker 1: denying what happened. So it was very interesting the way 241 00:11:35,400 --> 00:11:36,959 Speaker 1: he was talking. I wish I wasn't so stone so 242 00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:38,480 Speaker 1: I could better recollect it, but you know. 243 00:11:38,480 --> 00:11:39,400 Speaker 2: It was a nice to Yeah. 244 00:11:39,600 --> 00:11:41,400 Speaker 1: I was also making my very first meal before I 245 00:11:41,400 --> 00:11:42,760 Speaker 1: moved out of my friend's house cats. 246 00:11:42,760 --> 00:11:45,559 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, cooked. We made chicken pacata together. 247 00:11:46,240 --> 00:11:49,040 Speaker 4: How lovely. It wasn't very good. I have to be honest. 248 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:50,120 Speaker 2: It was not good. 249 00:11:50,200 --> 00:11:52,560 Speaker 1: But now I know the next time what to make, 250 00:11:52,800 --> 00:11:56,200 Speaker 1: how to make it better exactly. The chicken was overcooked. Yeah, 251 00:11:56,240 --> 00:11:59,439 Speaker 1: there was a lot of lemon. Yeah, the rhinds too. 252 00:12:01,360 --> 00:12:04,160 Speaker 1: But we did make it together. I had a cocktail 253 00:12:04,360 --> 00:12:06,640 Speaker 1: and I had an edible and it was fun. 254 00:12:06,880 --> 00:12:10,040 Speaker 2: It was cute. Yeah, and Kat was my mentor. I 255 00:12:10,080 --> 00:12:11,719 Speaker 2: love that she was really proud of. 256 00:12:11,760 --> 00:12:15,320 Speaker 3: Listening to the wisdom of other women. And recipes are 257 00:12:15,360 --> 00:12:16,440 Speaker 3: something that we passed. Yeah. 258 00:12:16,480 --> 00:12:18,640 Speaker 1: Cookie was fun and I can't believe I'm saying this 259 00:12:18,640 --> 00:12:20,000 Speaker 1: out loud, but it was fun. 260 00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:22,200 Speaker 2: We had a fun time cooking. 261 00:12:23,400 --> 00:12:23,640 Speaker 4: For you. 262 00:12:23,800 --> 00:12:24,000 Speaker 1: Yeah. 263 00:12:24,040 --> 00:12:26,520 Speaker 2: Now I get to move into another rental. 264 00:12:27,720 --> 00:12:30,439 Speaker 3: Well, I mean rental feels better than living in construction. 265 00:12:30,600 --> 00:12:32,719 Speaker 3: I mean any day of the week, right, just. 266 00:12:32,679 --> 00:12:34,480 Speaker 1: Shout out to the person that's renting me to their 267 00:12:34,520 --> 00:12:35,800 Speaker 1: house that never rents their house. 268 00:12:35,960 --> 00:12:40,160 Speaker 4: Perfect. 269 00:12:40,840 --> 00:12:44,120 Speaker 3: Well, I have a follow up, Chelsea from one of 270 00:12:44,160 --> 00:12:44,920 Speaker 3: our listeners. 271 00:12:45,559 --> 00:12:46,880 Speaker 4: This gal called in. 272 00:12:47,160 --> 00:12:48,679 Speaker 3: She didn't have a name, she was just calling an 273 00:12:48,720 --> 00:12:52,160 Speaker 3: under disappointed daughter but she was calling in about her mom, 274 00:12:52,240 --> 00:12:55,640 Speaker 3: who had gone through menopause and was basically like only 275 00:12:55,679 --> 00:12:58,559 Speaker 3: interested in men and kind of wilding out, like partying 276 00:12:58,600 --> 00:13:01,200 Speaker 3: a lot sort of things. So this is a little 277 00:13:01,200 --> 00:13:04,680 Speaker 3: bit of a bummer update. But she says, great, Hi, Catherine. 278 00:13:04,840 --> 00:13:06,560 Speaker 3: I'd love to say it went well when I talked 279 00:13:06,559 --> 00:13:08,640 Speaker 3: to my mom, but it did not. My mom was 280 00:13:08,640 --> 00:13:11,240 Speaker 3: pretty hurt by my entry, to say the least. She 281 00:13:11,320 --> 00:13:15,240 Speaker 3: felt blindsided, misrepresented, and confused by what I wrote. We 282 00:13:15,320 --> 00:13:19,000 Speaker 3: spend over a month not really speaking before things blew over. However, 283 00:13:19,160 --> 00:13:23,280 Speaker 3: after purchasing both Brooke Shields and Mel Robbins's books, hearing 284 00:13:23,360 --> 00:13:26,120 Speaker 3: Chelsea and Brook's perspective, and also taking a closer look 285 00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:28,960 Speaker 3: at myself, I realized it was best to dig deeper 286 00:13:29,040 --> 00:13:31,520 Speaker 3: into why I wrote in and apologized to my mom. 287 00:13:32,040 --> 00:13:34,600 Speaker 3: I found the following excerpt from Mel's book to be 288 00:13:34,640 --> 00:13:37,679 Speaker 3: particularly helpful. If you're not in control of the situation, 289 00:13:37,920 --> 00:13:40,560 Speaker 3: don't make yourself sick about it. Trying to control others 290 00:13:40,679 --> 00:13:43,680 Speaker 3: doesn't work. Give yourself the peace of trusting that life 291 00:13:43,800 --> 00:13:46,360 Speaker 3: is the best teacher, and people will learn as they go. 292 00:13:46,760 --> 00:13:49,280 Speaker 3: That's how it's designed. Let them learn from life and 293 00:13:49,320 --> 00:13:51,560 Speaker 3: be who they are. I spent a great deal of 294 00:13:51,559 --> 00:13:53,640 Speaker 3: my life begging my mom to let me be who 295 00:13:53,720 --> 00:13:55,960 Speaker 3: I am and here I am today, not allowing her 296 00:13:56,000 --> 00:13:58,920 Speaker 3: the same freedom. I can't thank Chelsea and brook enough 297 00:13:58,920 --> 00:14:01,439 Speaker 3: for their advice, as it gave me insight and perspective 298 00:14:01,480 --> 00:14:02,880 Speaker 3: I hadn't considered before. 299 00:14:03,600 --> 00:14:04,600 Speaker 4: My mom is only human. 300 00:14:04,800 --> 00:14:06,880 Speaker 3: This is her first time living too, and I did 301 00:14:06,920 --> 00:14:09,720 Speaker 3: her an injustice by judging her so harshly. If I 302 00:14:09,720 --> 00:14:12,480 Speaker 3: want peace and contentment in my own life, then I 303 00:14:12,520 --> 00:14:15,080 Speaker 3: need to let others be truthfully. My mom is one 304 00:14:15,080 --> 00:14:17,960 Speaker 3: of the strongest, most intelligent, and independent women I know. 305 00:14:18,360 --> 00:14:20,240 Speaker 3: She raised a daughter who's brave enough to speak her 306 00:14:20,280 --> 00:14:22,800 Speaker 3: mind and strong enough to face the consequences for that. 307 00:14:22,960 --> 00:14:24,600 Speaker 4: I'm thankful. Thank you all again. 308 00:14:24,720 --> 00:14:26,560 Speaker 3: Disappointed daughter, So, I guess not a bummer. 309 00:14:26,840 --> 00:14:28,440 Speaker 2: No, that sounds crazy. Did we give it? 310 00:14:28,480 --> 00:14:28,560 Speaker 5: What? 311 00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:30,520 Speaker 2: Did I advise her to confront her mother? 312 00:14:30,640 --> 00:14:30,800 Speaker 3: Yeah? 313 00:14:30,920 --> 00:14:34,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's probably bad advice, but you also good. 314 00:14:34,800 --> 00:14:36,440 Speaker 4: Yeah you said to read Mel's book. 315 00:14:36,520 --> 00:14:38,520 Speaker 3: And then a Brookshield also was like, you know, this 316 00:14:38,600 --> 00:14:39,760 Speaker 3: is kind of something happened. 317 00:14:39,760 --> 00:14:41,400 Speaker 4: So yeah, no, I thought that was really good. 318 00:14:41,440 --> 00:14:43,480 Speaker 3: She learned a lot kind of like maybe not through 319 00:14:43,480 --> 00:14:44,680 Speaker 3: the initial advice, but. 320 00:14:44,960 --> 00:14:47,320 Speaker 1: She says in the letter, this is my mom's first 321 00:14:47,320 --> 00:14:49,520 Speaker 1: life too. We we don't know that it is your 322 00:14:49,520 --> 00:14:51,800 Speaker 1: mom's first life because now we're all to talk. Now 323 00:14:51,840 --> 00:14:54,160 Speaker 1: there's past lives, like we don't know if that that's 324 00:14:54,240 --> 00:14:57,200 Speaker 1: real or that's not really so which one is it them? 325 00:14:58,560 --> 00:15:01,920 Speaker 1: Or are we in a multiverse or yeah. 326 00:15:01,680 --> 00:15:02,640 Speaker 4: Maybe all of the above. 327 00:15:02,840 --> 00:15:04,920 Speaker 1: Or am I on the spectrum? I mean I'm on 328 00:15:05,000 --> 00:15:08,680 Speaker 1: some spectrum, that's for sure. Okay, guys, I am officially 329 00:15:08,720 --> 00:15:12,920 Speaker 1: on my High and Mighty tour. March thirteenth, Cleveland, Ohio. 330 00:15:13,120 --> 00:15:18,120 Speaker 1: March fourteenth, Columbus, Ohio. March fifteenth, Cincinnati, Ohio. And then 331 00:15:18,240 --> 00:15:22,680 Speaker 1: March twentieth is Denver, Colorado. March twenty seventh, Portland, Maine. 332 00:15:22,720 --> 00:15:28,120 Speaker 1: March twenty eighth, Providence, Rhode Island. March twenty ninth, Springfield, Massachusetts. 333 00:15:28,760 --> 00:15:31,520 Speaker 1: April tenth is Chicago. I'll be at the Chicago Theater. 334 00:15:32,440 --> 00:15:39,280 Speaker 1: April eleventh, Indianapolis, Indiana. April twelfth, Louisville, Kentucky. April sixteenth 335 00:15:39,320 --> 00:15:43,360 Speaker 1: is Albuquerque, New Mexico. April seventeenth is Masa, Arizona. April 336 00:15:43,440 --> 00:15:46,520 Speaker 1: twenty third is Kansas City, Missouri. April twenty fourth is 337 00:15:46,520 --> 00:15:51,520 Speaker 1: Saint Louis, Missouri. April twenty fifth is Minneapolis, Minnesota. April 338 00:15:51,600 --> 00:15:55,880 Speaker 1: thirtieth Nashville, Tennessee. May first is Charlotte, North Carolina. May 339 00:15:55,960 --> 00:15:59,640 Speaker 1: second is Durham, North Carolina. May sixth, I'm doing Netflix 340 00:15:59,640 --> 00:16:02,200 Speaker 1: as a Joe Festival. I will be in Los Angeles. 341 00:16:02,240 --> 00:16:08,040 Speaker 1: That is a new announcement, along with Atlantic City May fifteenth, Saratoga, California, 342 00:16:08,160 --> 00:16:14,040 Speaker 1: May sixteenth, Monterey, California, May seventeenth, Modesto, California, and then June. 343 00:16:13,760 --> 00:16:15,200 Speaker 2: Fourth Portchester, New York. 344 00:16:15,880 --> 00:16:20,440 Speaker 1: June fifth is Boston, mass And June twelfth is Portland, Oregon. 345 00:16:20,640 --> 00:16:25,280 Speaker 1: And then Seattle is June thirteenth, So suck on that, everybody. 346 00:16:25,520 --> 00:16:27,560 Speaker 1: Go to Chelseahandler dot com for tickets. 347 00:16:29,120 --> 00:16:31,840 Speaker 3: If you want advice from Chelsea, write into Dear Chelsea 348 00:16:31,920 --> 00:16:35,240 Speaker 3: podcast at gmail dot com. 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