Speaker 1: Rooking jewels, second dat up date? What's the appropriate amount
Speaker 1: of time you can be late for a date? I
Speaker 1: don't know, five maybe ten days? And then after that
Speaker 1: it gets to be a little bit of a bother.
Speaker 1: Danny's on the phone for a second it up date today,
Speaker 1: and I guess he thinks the fact that he was
Speaker 1: a little late might be ruining his chances for a
Speaker 1: second date. What's up, Danny? How are you? Hey? I'm
Speaker 1: doing good. Guys, how are you all doing good? So?
Speaker 1: How many days late were you? I was pretty late
Speaker 1: to this date, but it was it was the days late. Okay,
Speaker 1: I understand what the problem is. Then you didn't force
Speaker 1: her to live at the restaurant for a while. No, no,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't do that too her. Okay, Well, before we
Speaker 1: find out about your date and exactly how late you were,
Speaker 1: what's the name of the girl you want to call today? Angela? Angela?
Speaker 1: All right? And where did you meet Angela? We met
Speaker 1: on dating app? Okay? Is there anything that stood out
Speaker 1: about her? She's got an amazing smile. All her pictures
Speaker 1: were really good, and she's a tet lover, which I
Speaker 1: really like. She's got a dog. Okay, So do you
Speaker 1: have a dog? I don't. I unfortunately, I had a
Speaker 1: dog that passed away last year and I haven't brought
Speaker 1: myself to get a new one. Maybe that's why what
Speaker 1: I sudn't want to about you, Because he had a
Speaker 1: dog that died. I'm super judgy about that. When anybody
Speaker 1: has a pet that died, I get super judgy. So
Speaker 1: maybe that's it. Yeah, So what did you guys do
Speaker 1: when you went out on your day? We decided to
Speaker 1: just keep it simple, get a drink, make sure we were,
Speaker 1: you know, compatible, face to face. And I guess that's
Speaker 1: when you were late. How late were you? I was
Speaker 1: about forty forty five minutes late. WHOA, Yes, it's pretty late,
Speaker 1: but I have a good reason. I have a good reason,
Speaker 1: I do, and I was being very communicative about my
Speaker 1: tardiness via text message. What was your reason? Well, I
Speaker 1: was having a package delivered that day and it was
Speaker 1: a surprise gift from my mom and she gave me
Speaker 1: a window. So it's like one of those services where
Speaker 1: you know they're like, this package will be delivered between
Speaker 1: ten am and six pm, and you have no idea
Speaker 1: when it's going to get there, right right, So I horse,
Speaker 1: you know, surprise, surprise, the guy finally delivers it at
Speaker 1: five fifty eight pm, you know, on the very end
Speaker 1: of the window. Yeah, And it was just one of
Speaker 1: those situations where I was getting the feeling that was
Speaker 1: a pretty valuable thing and I couldn't just leave it
Speaker 1: on my doorstep outside. I didn't want to risk that. Okay,
Speaker 1: And what's she understanding about that? I mean, did she
Speaker 1: seem understanding when you shut up? I mean I think so.
Speaker 1: She seemed pretty good. I mean we had this moment, so,
Speaker 1: you know, it was a pretty crowded bar, and it
Speaker 1: took me second to sort of pick her out of
Speaker 1: the crowd. There are a lot of people, and I
Speaker 1: was still kind of stressed because I kind of booked
Speaker 1: it as soon as the package arrived. And then she
Speaker 1: finally she like sees me and is like waving me over,
Speaker 1: and then it I see her, but then it takes
Speaker 1: me while to get there. But then I walk up
Speaker 1: and I don't know if it was like the the
Speaker 1: nerves or like the adrenaline, but I go in for
Speaker 1: the hug right away, and I give give her this
Speaker 1: like huge hug because yeah, I don't know, it's just
Speaker 1: a relief to sort of get there, and she returns
Speaker 1: the hug and it's this like amazing hug that's actually
Speaker 1: really nice. Yeah yeah, and it's like this hug hap
Speaker 1: and like all the stress just melted away, like it
Speaker 1: was just this great first connection and I immediately calmed
Speaker 1: down and I was like there and in it and
Speaker 1: present with her and it was great. So the rest
Speaker 1: how long did you guys have drinks? For probably a
Speaker 1: hour and a half, two hours something like that. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's not bad. I mean that seems like she probably
Speaker 1: wasn't too pissed that you shot up. Like then, plus
Speaker 1: love it first hug. Yeah, I love it first hug.
Speaker 1: So like about an hour and a half in something
Speaker 1: like that, I go to the bathroom and I come back.
Speaker 1: We've had a couple some time. I'd be a little
Speaker 1: tipsy at this point, and I was just like I
Speaker 1: had been thinking about the first hug, and I was
Speaker 1: like kind of tried to explain to her how great
Speaker 1: it was for that hug to happen to me and
Speaker 1: kind of calmed down a little bit. Night. So I
Speaker 1: went ahead and I asked her for a second hug,
Speaker 1: if I could hug her again, that's kind of awkward. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you asked for a kiss. I understand well, and like
Speaker 1: the first hug was like natural, second hug sounds forced.
Speaker 1: Did you get it? Yeah, she hugged me. I mean,
Speaker 1: I guess in retrospect maybe it was a little weird,
Speaker 1: but she seemed okay with it, and we hugged again,
Speaker 1: and it was it was really good. It was another
Speaker 1: like really great hug that's really cute for ten seconds. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was really good. And then actually that wasn't even
Speaker 1: our last hug of the night, because pretty soon after
Speaker 1: that we decided to call it quitch. So we went
Speaker 1: outside and before we parted ways, we had another hug. Wow,
Speaker 1: this is getting too hot for me to listen to anymore. Honestly,
Speaker 1: it wasn't as good as the first two, but it
Speaker 1: was definitely like a really solid hug. Okay, there was
Speaker 1: no like pat in it. It was like a still solid. Yeah.
Speaker 1: It was good. It was good. It wasn't great, it
Speaker 1: was good, Okay, And that is that the last you've
Speaker 1: heard from her. You know, I was asking her if
Speaker 1: she wanted to see me again, we should hang out
Speaker 1: against and she was kind of positive but noncommittal. You know,
Speaker 1: she wasn't gonna be like, oh yeah Thursday, or she
Speaker 1: was just sort of like not really hitting me with
Speaker 1: any dates. And then we parted ways, and I haven't
Speaker 1: heard from her, okay, And you have tried to contact her,
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I sent her a couple of techs that
Speaker 1: she sort of responded to you shortly. Okay, But it's
Speaker 1: obvious that she doesn't really want to see you again.
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess, but I'm telling you if you
Speaker 1: had hugged her the way that I hugged her, sounds
Speaker 1: like it. Yeah, I know, seriously. All right, well, we'll
Speaker 1: play a song and then come back and call her
Speaker 1: and get your second day update. All right, all right,
Speaker 1: thank you, Okay, hang on jubil in the morning dates.
Speaker 1: I don't even know if we can continue with today's
Speaker 1: second date update. It's just a little too steamy, I think,
Speaker 1: I mean, lots of hugging action going on with Danny,
Speaker 1: who's on the phone for a second day update right now.
Speaker 1: If you missed the first part of it. He wants
Speaker 1: to call her girl name Angela. They met online and
Speaker 1: they went to go to a bar to have some drinks.
Speaker 1: He was actually pretty late, and that's why he thinks
Speaker 1: he's not going to call back. He was like forty
Speaker 1: something minutes late because he was waiting for a package
Speaker 1: to be delivered. She seemed okay with that, But the
Speaker 1: thing that he was really highlighting was how amazing the
Speaker 1: first hug was with her as soon as he got there.
Speaker 1: Then he hugged her again in the middle of the date,
Speaker 1: and then ended the date with a hug. But now
Speaker 1: it's obvious that she's kind of avoiding him, So we'll
Speaker 1: see what we can get her on the phone and
Speaker 1: find out why. Danny ready to go? Yeah, I'm ready
Speaker 1: to go. And do you regret that last hug because
Speaker 1: you said it wasn't as good as the other two?
Speaker 1: Like maybe it's like too much of a good thing.
Speaker 1: I mean, I wondered about that, but honestly, I never
Speaker 1: regret a hug. Okay, you know what, stand by your hug, Danny,
Speaker 1: stand by all right. Well, I'm gonna tell her funnel
Speaker 1: right now. Okay, Okay, all right, here we go. Hello him,
Speaker 1: speak to Angela. This is she who's calling? Hey, Angela?
Speaker 1: How are you? This is Jebel from the radio show
Speaker 1: Broken Jewel in the Morning. Okay, okay, how are you.
Speaker 1: Have you heard of the show before? Uh? Maybe where
Speaker 1: are you calling? Well, I'm calling you today because we
Speaker 1: do a segment on our show it's called the second
Speaker 1: Date Update that sort of go out on a date
Speaker 1: with somebody and then end up not wanting to see
Speaker 1: them again. They can email us to get you on
Speaker 1: the phone and ask why. Okay, Okay, we got an
Speaker 1: email about you from a dude named Danny. Okay, and
Speaker 1: Danny told us about your date. He said that he
Speaker 1: thought you guys had a good time, but now it's
Speaker 1: kind of obvious that you don't want to see him again,
Speaker 1: and he's wondering if he did something wrong. What did
Speaker 1: he tell you? Well, he did tell us that he
Speaker 1: was late for the day. He thought maybe that was
Speaker 1: a problem, But he also said everything seemed fine. I mean,
Speaker 1: other than just the standard Hey, we met for drinks,
Speaker 1: it was fun type of stuff. That's it. I take
Speaker 1: it there's something else he should have told us. I mean,
Speaker 1: it was a weird night. Okay, he didn't really mentioned
Speaker 1: anything that sounded weird to us. Sounded pretty normal. Okay,
Speaker 1: maybe how about you describe your date with Danny? Then
Speaker 1: it was fine, the kind of like funny weird thing
Speaker 1: is that we hugged when he got there, and then
Speaker 1: he like kept talking about it. Yeah, I'll be honest,
Speaker 1: he told us about that too, and he was really
Speaker 1: pumped about to hug you guys shared forget it. But
Speaker 1: it didn't sound weird to me. Oh well, like I'm
Speaker 1: dating right, Like, I met this guy in an app.
Speaker 1: I don't know him. I'm always like on alert for weirdos.
Speaker 1: And he hugged me, and then throughout the night he
Speaker 1: hugged our server, he hugged the random guy at the bar,
Speaker 1: and I think he hugged the valet guy. Danny's a hugger,
Speaker 1: is what you're saying. Yeah, he hugged a few people.
Speaker 1: He's just like a big hug guy. And does he
Speaker 1: say like he give me a hug or does he
Speaker 1: just go in without the announcement. Usually he just goes
Speaker 1: in just kind of like opens his arms and like
Speaker 1: to grasp you. So he was just like hugging everybody
Speaker 1: that walked by. I mean he would like say a
Speaker 1: few things to them first, but yeah, and I'm like
Speaker 1: anyone who hugs the server like that's weird. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I mean, I think it's only weird if people's reactions
Speaker 1: were weird. How did people take it? I think the
Speaker 1: valet I was like super not into it. But I
Speaker 1: bet your valet guys don't get enough hugs actually, because
Speaker 1: that's probably true. You need so many a day and
Speaker 1: they just not loved enough. He was just like so confused.
Speaker 1: But the guy at the bar was drunk and the
Speaker 1: server was nice, so that look wasn't a bigul I guess.
Speaker 1: But the weirdest part actually, I'm remembering when he would
Speaker 1: hug me. He would like moan a little bit, oh,
Speaker 1: how like M felt so good? He's just like a right,
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure he did it with every hug. That's
Speaker 1: like what he hugs so good? When you say it,
Speaker 1: I feel like I made motion Like no, I'm like,
Speaker 1: I think I do that. I think I do that too.
Speaker 1: Balet guy, I don't know. Yeah, a lot of people
Speaker 1: not a valet guy. But I'm not fancy enough for
Speaker 1: ballet very often. So yeah, it's just a weird, funny night.
Speaker 1: All right, Well, thank you for explaining that. I appreciate that. Also,
Speaker 1: another thing weird is that he's on the other line
Speaker 1: listening and also talk to you that's weird too. Oh
Speaker 1: my god. Yeah, maybe he's still on the line. Are
Speaker 1: you still there, Danny? Yeah, yeah, I'm here, Angela. Is
Speaker 1: my hugging really the reason why you didn't want to
Speaker 1: set up a second day? You know what, You're like
Speaker 1: the sweetest, but I'm sorry, it's just not a match. No.
Speaker 1: I mean, look, I'm sorry if I worded you out,
Speaker 1: but just so you know, like I was born and
Speaker 1: raised a hugger. My my family hugs, and like that's
Speaker 1: just our thing. Like like some people talk and some
Speaker 1: people send letters, and some people give gifts, and we hug.
Speaker 1: I hug. I speak through hug and like I speak
Speaker 1: to us. I get it, Like you kind of feel
Speaker 1: like I'm a weirdo. But I just want you to know,
Speaker 1: like you're an amazing hugger, and like even just because
Speaker 1: you weren't raised that way, it doesn't mean that, like
Speaker 1: you can't still be this incredible hugger that you are.
Speaker 1: He sees your hugging potential. What's happening, Daddy? This sounds
Speaker 1: like more than just something you do. It sounds like
Speaker 1: your lifestyle religion. I mean, hugging is important. Hugging is
Speaker 1: like a beautiful connection between people. And Angela, that's what
Speaker 1: I felt like we had the other night, And like,
Speaker 1: I get it. Not everyone is a big hugger, but
Speaker 1: like the way that your arms went under my arms
Speaker 1: that fit perfectly, and like it wasn't like it was
Speaker 1: hugging a stranger. It was like someone I've known my
Speaker 1: entire life. You know, it was like hugging a family member,
Speaker 1: but not in a weird way, not like that, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like, Okay, obviously this is not
Speaker 1: going well. I mean, you are so sweet, but I'm
Speaker 1: not into hugsbike you man, But Angela, I mean, he
Speaker 1: sounds like a nice guy, sounds like, yeah, he's not creepy.
Speaker 1: He didn't creep you out. I mean, if anything, you
Speaker 1: were just uncomfortable with I don't know, maybe too many
Speaker 1: hugs for the valet or something. But yeah, it's a
Speaker 1: little weird. Yeah, well I get it. I get it.
Speaker 1: You know it's fine, But Angela, just know, like what's amazing,
Speaker 1: not just about your hugs that they're amazing, is that
Speaker 1: you're an amazing hugger and you don't even know it.
Speaker 1: That's a nice compliment, Angela. I rejected him, and he
Speaker 1: complimented me like, thank you. Well, that's because you don't
Speaker 1: realize how good of a hugger you are. That's the
Speaker 1: problem Danny would like to show. So would you like
Speaker 1: to go on a secondate with Danny? Will pay for it? Is? No, really,
Speaker 1: I'm not for sure. You give him another chance? What
Speaker 1: if he calmed down the hugs? You know what, I
Speaker 1: think there's someone out there that is gonna love hugs
Speaker 1: and love Danny. Okay, but you know, Danny, like, I'm
Speaker 1: down to be your friend if you want to like
Speaker 1: text me and like hang out in that way. Like,
Speaker 1: I don't know if you are down for that, but yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean I guess that's better than nothing. Do you
Speaker 1: think do you think we could steal hug? Oh? Wow? Hey,
Speaker 1: come on now, she just offered to be friends. Don't
Speaker 1: go in for that. We'll be friends that hug once
Speaker 1: in a while too. You know that never ends up
Speaker 1: fit it usually ruins friendships. We'll see, we'll take it
Speaker 1: one hug at a time, all right, Well, just know
Speaker 1: that I'm giving you a virtual hug over the airways. Right.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's hot. Broken Jupil in the morning