WEBVTT - Episode 296: 10 Day Countdown (Feat. Tokyo Jetz) 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:03.440 Welcome to another episode of Lift Service. Today's guests is 0:00:03.440 --> 0:00:06.040 gonna be Tokyo Death. But before we get into that, 0:00:06.640 --> 0:00:08.760 we have our Woman on Top, which is presented to 0:00:08.800 --> 0:00:12.120 you by Delhi on Tequila and of course me, Lourial 0:00:12.320 --> 0:00:17.079 and Gigi. So today's woman on Top is Bearchest Dixon. Now, 0:00:17.239 --> 0:00:20.000 I know all of us get our periods. We all 0:00:20.040 --> 0:00:27.960 have vagina's right, so we're important to make for that 0:00:28.040 --> 0:00:31.600 we're using the right products. And Beatrist Dixon actually is 0:00:31.640 --> 0:00:34.440 the founder of honey Pot. Now, she had suffered from 0:00:34.440 --> 0:00:38.000 bacterio baginosis and it was uncomfortable for her for months, 0:00:38.120 --> 0:00:40.000 and she said an ancestor came to her in a 0:00:40.120 --> 0:00:42.880 dream and kind of gave her the formula to create 0:00:42.920 --> 0:00:46.400 honey Pot. So Honeypott is plant based, it's black owned, 0:00:46.760 --> 0:00:51.160 it's natural washes. There's wife, there's tampons, there's pads, luber Kinton, 0:00:51.240 --> 0:00:53.880 all of that so that you can take care of 0:00:54.000 --> 0:00:56.279 your lady, Frank, because you know it's important to make 0:00:56.280 --> 0:00:59.560 sure your vagina is always right. So today's woman on Top, 0:00:59.640 --> 0:01:02.760 we like to salute and congratulate to a Bearches Dixon 0:01:03.160 --> 0:01:06.280 for press for all of us, we salute you cheer 0:01:07.680 --> 0:01:09.920 f y. I love honey and I've been using this 0:01:09.959 --> 0:01:14.880 in and we go plant based in the the organic over here. 0:01:14.880 --> 0:01:20.720 When it comes to this up, I can g and 0:01:20.760 --> 0:01:24.280 luras no way better? Now shot up? How do you know? 0:01:25.600 --> 0:01:27.840 You know? Out of our business? If you know what 0:01:27.880 --> 0:01:34.759 I mean, West, it's lift service. I'm Angela Yeth, I'm 0:01:34.800 --> 0:01:43.640 g Require, I'm Luria and I'll yo girl. You didn't 0:01:43.640 --> 0:01:45.800 be here enough time and know when to show man 0:01:45.880 --> 0:01:50.400 you're right, You're right. We do that on purpose. It's 0:01:50.400 --> 0:01:53.520 a test and you did not pass. Now you felt 0:01:55.400 --> 0:01:59.040 so I need to make up guys on the new album. 0:01:59.080 --> 0:02:01.320 You know, we gotta talk about cancel culture first and 0:02:01.360 --> 0:02:07.200 foremost come on, they bring it already whatever y'all don't 0:02:06.880 --> 0:02:10.880 know me, so first of all, even them in that 0:02:11.000 --> 0:02:14.000 cancel culture, I don't like. I know that you've been 0:02:14.000 --> 0:02:15.680 through a lot, and I know if it's really hard 0:02:15.720 --> 0:02:17.600 for you, right because you have to go through people 0:02:17.639 --> 0:02:20.760 on social media having negative things to say about you 0:02:20.960 --> 0:02:24.400 have and then apologizing because you said something that you 0:02:24.400 --> 0:02:27.280 shouldn't have said. So what was that experience like? Because 0:02:27.280 --> 0:02:29.240 I don't think people even understand how hard it can 0:02:29.240 --> 0:02:31.919 be when you feel like everyone's coming at you, so 0:02:32.320 --> 0:02:34.000 I think it's easy to kind of look at it 0:02:34.000 --> 0:02:38.760 from the outside and people don't ever actually put themselves 0:02:38.919 --> 0:02:43.160 in the person shoes who's being canceled. Like, from my side, 0:02:43.200 --> 0:02:44.920 I think it's cool for you to feel however you 0:02:44.919 --> 0:02:46.919 want to feel about me. I can't make you feel 0:02:46.960 --> 0:02:49.480 a certain way about me. I think when people are 0:02:49.520 --> 0:02:51.720 being canceled, though, that kind of makes it a free 0:02:51.720 --> 0:02:55.760 for all for people to say whatever, and nobody makes 0:02:55.800 --> 0:02:58.040 that a problem. Everybody feels like, oh, well, it's okay 0:02:58.040 --> 0:03:01.040 because you did this one thing. What how are you 0:03:01.120 --> 0:03:03.880 standing up for whatever you're canceling me for. You're doing 0:03:03.880 --> 0:03:06.800 the same thing to me, Like it's cool to hate 0:03:06.800 --> 0:03:09.799 me whatever. But like people started threatening me and my son, 0:03:10.000 --> 0:03:13.320 people started posting my address. People like it was just 0:03:13.440 --> 0:03:16.240 it was weird, and nobody cares about their part of 0:03:16.280 --> 0:03:21.160 it because cancel culture makes it okay and it's I'm 0:03:21.160 --> 0:03:23.320 not saying that, but people are like feel sorry for me, 0:03:23.400 --> 0:03:25.040 But like what if I was in me and I 0:03:25.080 --> 0:03:27.800 committed suicide or I did something to myself for like, 0:03:28.240 --> 0:03:30.080 you know, what if I took things a step further 0:03:30.639 --> 0:03:33.799 because of what the public was saying, Like that's not okay. Yeah, 0:03:33.840 --> 0:03:35.760 people should have this space to be able to mess 0:03:35.840 --> 0:03:38.800 up and then say, you know, way I did mess up, 0:03:38.840 --> 0:03:41.080 that was wrong because we all went forgiveness when we 0:03:41.160 --> 0:03:43.640 mess up. Nobody's perfect And I agree with you on that. 0:03:44.120 --> 0:03:45.840 And plus I know you were going through a lot, 0:03:45.920 --> 0:03:48.160 like having had a baby, and you've been very open 0:03:48.200 --> 0:03:51.360 about having to get some help for your mental health, 0:03:51.600 --> 0:03:54.200 um and get some therapy and post partiament all of that, 0:03:54.440 --> 0:04:00.520 so I'm sure all of those combined was really difficult. Yeah. Absolutely. Um. 0:04:00.600 --> 0:04:03.520 Luckily I have like a strong support system of people 0:04:03.560 --> 0:04:09.560 around me, but like, people are just really mean, and um, 0:04:09.960 --> 0:04:13.280 I think the thing makes it okay for people to 0:04:13.280 --> 0:04:16.440 say whatever and do whatever to you and nobody cares 0:04:16.560 --> 0:04:21.240 when in reality, these same people who are saying these 0:04:21.279 --> 0:04:24.960 mean things to you or trying to make the mean 0:04:25.000 --> 0:04:28.200 of comment they make mistakes to all of us make mistakes, yo, dirt, 0:04:28.279 --> 0:04:32.520 just not everybody, right. How long did you stay off 0:04:32.520 --> 0:04:35.919 of social media for a while after everything kind of 0:04:35.920 --> 0:04:39.320 blew up? Yeah? I probably was off on social media 0:04:39.400 --> 0:04:42.000 for like a few months. But even with that, like, 0:04:42.279 --> 0:04:45.839 it's so weird because people are never satisfied, Like, um, 0:04:45.920 --> 0:04:48.479 I apologize because in my heart I knew I was wrong. 0:04:49.120 --> 0:04:51.520 And then after I apologize, people were like, oh, she's 0:04:51.520 --> 0:04:53.840 being fake about it. But if I didn't apologize, people 0:04:53.920 --> 0:04:55.920 that said I didn't care. And then I got off 0:04:55.920 --> 0:04:58.200 on social media. I got off on social media because 0:04:58.320 --> 0:05:01.240 it was just a lot. And when I did that, 0:05:01.320 --> 0:05:04.280 people was like, oh, you high and from You're not 0:05:04.320 --> 0:05:06.080 trying to face the fact for this and that, and 0:05:06.080 --> 0:05:08.279 then we're not get on social media and I post pictures. 0:05:08.960 --> 0:05:13.960 It's still a problem. Like at this point, I understand 0:05:13.960 --> 0:05:16.520 that I was wrong. I apologize and that's just really 0:05:16.520 --> 0:05:18.600 all I can do at this point. How does that effect, 0:05:18.600 --> 0:05:21.359 like your relationship? Are you still with your man? No? 0:05:23.440 --> 0:05:26.840 But we weren't together before that, all right now, because 0:05:26.880 --> 0:05:28.920 I know sometimes that it could be stressful and then 0:05:28.920 --> 0:05:32.159 you bring that home and then it's a lot like 0:05:32.240 --> 0:05:34.640 for another person to deal with and and and somebody 0:05:34.640 --> 0:05:36.840 has to be really supportive to understand for you as 0:05:36.839 --> 0:05:40.520 an artist what you're going through. Yeah, he was still supportive. 0:05:40.680 --> 0:05:46.560 We're just not in that type of situation. Yeah, like 0:05:46.560 --> 0:05:52.599 we happened to who do you think? You usually always them? 0:05:52.839 --> 0:05:56.800 But you know we didn't did something. Now, Okay, Yeah, 0:05:56.839 --> 0:05:58.960 I don't know, because you've been talking about don't Say 0:05:59.040 --> 0:06:01.760 Nothing and your records and stuff, so I'm not sure 0:06:01.800 --> 0:06:05.880 if you maybe was creeping on your own side. No, 0:06:06.560 --> 0:06:11.640 I was, No, I called off. It was just I think, um, before, 0:06:11.800 --> 0:06:13.800 like when you're in a relationship, before you bring a 0:06:13.839 --> 0:06:17.080 baby into a lot of stuff you tolerate, and then 0:06:17.160 --> 0:06:20.120 this being my first child, like after I had him, 0:06:20.120 --> 0:06:22.280 it was just like, come on out, you gotta go. 0:06:25.240 --> 0:06:29.520 Was this his first child as well? Yeah? And he 0:06:29.560 --> 0:06:32.600 still wasn't acting right. Uh, somebody need to check him. 0:06:32.720 --> 0:06:40.680 What's wrong with trying to be nice about And then 0:06:40.760 --> 0:06:46.359 you're just like, yeah, I'm just let's talk about the 0:06:46.360 --> 0:06:49.000 album a little bit though, right, because all right now 0:06:49.040 --> 0:06:51.800 you have the song Game, and in that song we're 0:06:51.800 --> 0:06:55.120 talking about how it's better sometimes when you're speaking around 0:06:55.760 --> 0:06:59.719 in the relationship. So that's the fresh question I have 0:07:00.000 --> 0:07:02.720 to everybody here who has had a relationship brother had 0:07:02.760 --> 0:07:12.560 to sneak around for whatever reason. Men, everybody, everybody need 0:07:12.640 --> 0:07:15.320 some sneaky links here and there. Even Yeah, even the 0:07:15.360 --> 0:07:18.480 ones who acteel like they don't you know, around the 0:07:18.560 --> 0:07:20.920 sneaky ones be the the good ones, you know. The 0:07:20.960 --> 0:07:25.680 whole taboo together. That just add a whole another level 0:07:25.760 --> 0:07:29.280 to it, you know, And I feel like the sex, yeah, 0:07:29.480 --> 0:07:37.440 it's always like hold me now, you gotta hurry. Oh 0:07:37.480 --> 0:07:45.680 my god, it somebody a little sneak. You had to 0:07:45.680 --> 0:07:48.559 go with that. I've had sex in a long time. 0:07:50.080 --> 0:07:54.320 How long it is a long time? That long? She said? 0:07:54.520 --> 0:07:58.280 Was long? She said, a long seven months? Pray, and 0:07:58.360 --> 0:08:03.360 my son is about to be too, exceptem kay, I 0:08:03.440 --> 0:08:14.920 need the coin just at the point, like Marion now, yeah, 0:08:15.080 --> 0:08:20.320 but that, yeah, just buy your choice. I'm sure, yeah, 0:08:20.440 --> 0:08:23.600 for sure. Is it because you're having um just kind 0:08:23.600 --> 0:08:25.600 of around and then it's a pandemic and you don't 0:08:25.640 --> 0:08:27.520 really want to like go out like that, like what 0:08:27.720 --> 0:08:29.800 is it? Or you just don't like anybody you don't trust, 0:08:31.400 --> 0:08:34.199 and I don't know. People always say, like when people pregnant, 0:08:34.240 --> 0:08:37.000 they overly want to have six, and I was opposite, 0:08:37.040 --> 0:08:42.960 like repulsive to like, so that's why at the end 0:08:42.960 --> 0:08:45.040 of my privacy, I didn't really have six. And then 0:08:45.040 --> 0:08:48.120 me him kind of broke up, and then from man, 0:08:48.160 --> 0:08:50.920 I was like, oh mommy mo like I was talking 0:08:50.960 --> 0:08:54.439 to people, but it wasn't really I'm not gonna pussy. 0:08:54.920 --> 0:08:57.640 I mean I'm thinking about I'll keep you out updated 0:08:57.720 --> 0:09:06.120 and like the next two weeks you got you think 0:09:07.120 --> 0:09:10.800 somebody got knocked off him cob with Yeah, he got 0:09:10.800 --> 0:09:16.640 a bright black I ain't gonna count me. I'm not 0:09:16.720 --> 0:09:24.800 trying to wish that on you. I'm just asking I 0:09:25.760 --> 0:09:28.760 sometimes it could be whack kids, like maybe not there 0:09:28.840 --> 0:09:31.160 and you're not used to each other, and then or 0:09:31.160 --> 0:09:34.520 maybe he comes too fast. You, Oh, that would be 0:09:34.559 --> 0:09:37.760 bad because I'm imagining all these crazy wild stuff. And 0:09:37.800 --> 0:09:41.200 then if I probably want especially since it's been so 0:09:41.280 --> 0:09:43.280 long for you, I feel like, since it's been so 0:09:43.360 --> 0:09:46.480 long for you, you need a real like grand situation, 0:09:46.559 --> 0:09:49.600 like you like a version. And if he don't come, 0:09:50.800 --> 0:09:52.520 if he don't come with the big dig energy, that 0:09:52.720 --> 0:09:59.400 girl right for the SmackDown on I started there? Do 0:09:59.480 --> 0:10:01.640 you used always in the mean time, like when you 0:10:01.760 --> 0:10:04.040 wasn't having started all this time? You have a bad 0:10:04.080 --> 0:10:08.120 bits that you got. I use like the vibrators, but 0:10:08.160 --> 0:10:12.600 I haven't had penetration, okay, okay, just vibrated in your fingers. 0:10:12.640 --> 0:10:17.400 Do you watch a whole lot, Yes, ma'am. You watch 0:10:17.440 --> 0:10:20.280 it on the laptop around your phone. I watched it 0:10:20.280 --> 0:10:24.839 on my phone on my phone for sure. What's your 0:10:24.840 --> 0:10:30.960 go to category? Oh um, I like the fake burglars, 0:10:31.000 --> 0:10:44.280 like breaking the entry. That's like, yeah, watch all right, 0:10:44.840 --> 0:10:50.280 that's not what I said. She wanted it. I was 0:10:50.280 --> 0:10:56.320 watching Live Service. I like the Burglary ones. Oh I 0:10:56.400 --> 0:10:59.840 like that too. I like that girls, girls, you like 0:11:00.000 --> 0:11:06.000 which boy the pizza boy? You want some hard? I 0:11:06.360 --> 0:11:11.200 didn't watch anything how horny. I mean, listen, you know 0:11:11.240 --> 0:11:13.440 what's hell embarrassing. This happened to me not so long ago. 0:11:13.559 --> 0:11:15.280 I went to open up something on my phone and 0:11:15.360 --> 0:11:18.040 click Safari and it was like the poorn hub symbol 0:11:18.120 --> 0:11:23.520 and the and in my recent and it was just 0:11:23.559 --> 0:11:30.319 like sitting there and I was just like recently recently searched. 0:11:30.480 --> 0:11:33.280 So Twitter being embarrassing me. I could be strolling Twitter 0:11:33.320 --> 0:11:35.640 at three o'clock an afternoon and boom, he's like deacon 0:11:35.679 --> 0:11:40.520 balled everyone that. You know. That's interesting because you said 0:11:40.559 --> 0:11:42.800 you like like grantline for us, so you're like girl 0:11:42.880 --> 0:11:46.280 on girl in real life. I never tried it. I 0:11:46.320 --> 0:11:49.080 think we are like beautiful, but I'm going to skin. 0:11:49.800 --> 0:11:56.000 I might have to be drunk like anything. No, I'm 0:11:56.000 --> 0:12:02.600 missing out. I just felt like I'm fried. Really yeah, 0:12:02.679 --> 0:12:04.800 I would have thought for sure that you was like, yeah, 0:12:04.840 --> 0:12:07.760 I'm not gotta lie. A couple of times. I want 0:12:07.800 --> 0:12:09.599 to try it though. It just got to you with 0:12:09.640 --> 0:12:13.320 the right people, I would if I was gonna say recommend, 0:12:13.320 --> 0:12:14.880 like for the first time for somebody to do it, 0:12:14.880 --> 0:12:18.280 I would recommend you to do it with them. Good gee, 0:12:20.679 --> 0:12:25.880 I wint Why am Why am I the icebreaker? Because 0:12:25.880 --> 0:12:29.320 I'm not nervous. I'm gonna be my left y'all in 0:12:29.320 --> 0:12:35.560 the room. Alright. So we were we were talking about 0:12:35.600 --> 0:12:38.200 sneaking around. So I want to hear some scenarios of 0:12:38.440 --> 0:12:40.520 situations that you've been in where you actually had to 0:12:40.520 --> 0:12:43.960 sneep around. Oh my god, listen. I was talking to 0:12:44.000 --> 0:12:47.680 this guy. I probably was like twenty and he was 0:12:48.000 --> 0:12:50.120 He was way older than me. But I was talking 0:12:50.120 --> 0:12:53.880 to this guy and I'm super nighting. I'm the type 0:12:53.880 --> 0:12:56.320 of person like I'm gonna believe whatever you tell me 0:12:56.559 --> 0:12:58.600 until I killed you in a lie, So I'm gonna 0:12:58.600 --> 0:13:02.000 believe whatever. So he was like, oh, he's single, whatever, whatever, 0:13:02.400 --> 0:13:05.120 and um he used to sell drugs. Whatever. So we 0:13:05.200 --> 0:13:07.640 went in the middle of the movie. Team was like, 0:13:07.679 --> 0:13:09.520 I gotta we gotta go. I gotta go to my 0:13:09.559 --> 0:13:11.760 house to meet somebody really so cool. We go to 0:13:11.720 --> 0:13:14.839 the house, right, and he's in a bat and I'm 0:13:14.880 --> 0:13:17.640 sitting on the couch. And as I'm sitting on the couch, like, 0:13:17.760 --> 0:13:22.360 these girls are banging on the door. So he runs 0:13:22.400 --> 0:13:24.880 up to the front and he like, oh, she's tripping. 0:13:24.920 --> 0:13:28.559 He going on on. This bitch breaks through the window 0:13:28.720 --> 0:13:31.360 as I'm sitting on the sofa and I'm just sitting there, like, 0:13:34.800 --> 0:13:38.079 she right through the window, and he has burglar bars 0:13:38.080 --> 0:13:40.200 in the house, right, So she comes in the house. 0:13:40.240 --> 0:13:43.080 So she like as she comes in house, she grabs 0:13:43.120 --> 0:13:45.160 like something off the table real quick, and by the 0:13:45.160 --> 0:13:47.240 time like he's in the front, he's pushing her like 0:13:47.520 --> 0:13:51.040 to the burglar bars. Then was blocked. So he unlocks 0:13:51.080 --> 0:13:53.559 the door, pushes her out. She like falls down the stairs. 0:13:54.000 --> 0:13:57.720 I'm like takeing out. He grabbed the fucking keys off 0:13:57.760 --> 0:14:02.840 the table, so he couldn't say she stole his car. Yes, 0:14:02.960 --> 0:14:06.560 she stole the car. No, that was calling her card. 0:14:07.720 --> 0:14:13.680 This is nothing. This is not the burgnan. That was 0:14:13.720 --> 0:14:19.520 the wrong burglar. But I was stuck there until somebody 0:14:19.520 --> 0:14:22.800 came to get me. If I was like, that's one 0:14:22.840 --> 0:14:26.920 of my kinds. She really needed some drugs. She was wolent. No, 0:14:27.080 --> 0:14:29.920 she o she was pregnant. I forgot that part she 0:14:30.000 --> 0:14:33.360 was preg the most important parties that she was pregnant. 0:14:33.360 --> 0:14:37.080 I forgot. She was bigging hell And he puts you 0:14:37.120 --> 0:14:40.440 down the stage. He was pregnant. He probably wanted that 0:14:40.480 --> 0:14:44.800 baby gone, his baby. What the fuck? I hope. So, 0:14:45.000 --> 0:14:48.840 I don't know. I didn't talk right, but Larry I 0:14:48.880 --> 0:14:56.200 attacked that way. I can't a pregnant woman stole a car. 0:14:56.720 --> 0:15:04.000 What I got nothing, I was like leaking around. I 0:15:04.000 --> 0:15:07.080 don't know. I just remember one time, like I was 0:15:07.160 --> 0:15:11.160 in the same hotel is like other people that we knew, 0:15:11.600 --> 0:15:15.440 but we had a rum that was like different floors 0:15:15.560 --> 0:15:18.080 from each other. So like I went out and I 0:15:18.120 --> 0:15:20.800 was going to the elevator, but I like rant, like 0:15:20.840 --> 0:15:23.400 I see somebody coming out that I knew, So I 0:15:23.520 --> 0:15:27.760 like ran in the stairwell, like ran down the stairs, 0:15:28.040 --> 0:15:30.880 ran back up the stairs, like I was mas scared 0:15:30.920 --> 0:15:33.400 to come out. I'm sitting in the fucking hall way 0:15:33.480 --> 0:15:35.720 trying to look through the door. They're standing in front 0:15:35.760 --> 0:15:39.000 the door talking the ship like it was just a mess. 0:15:39.080 --> 0:15:41.560 That's what The last time I knew not to speak around. 0:15:41.560 --> 0:15:43.880 No more. I'm like, I shouldn't be running up and 0:15:43.920 --> 0:15:46.960 down the stairs, yeah, to do all this ship. I 0:15:47.000 --> 0:15:51.920 just shouldn't be working with this nia. It was yeah, 0:15:51.920 --> 0:15:54.120 because it was like a thrill. It was like, oh ship, 0:15:54.200 --> 0:16:01.400 they almost caught me. It was bullshit, you man. I 0:16:01.400 --> 0:16:03.480 didn't snuk too many damn times. I've been sitting here 0:16:03.520 --> 0:16:04.960 all this time. I'm trying to think of a story. 0:16:05.000 --> 0:16:08.880 I can't think of. It got to just trickle ship. God, damn. 0:16:09.040 --> 0:16:10.320 And I don't want to say what I really want 0:16:10.320 --> 0:16:11.880 to say because I don't want to press everybody, y'all. 0:16:12.000 --> 0:16:18.040 So every I didn't snuck and did some ship that 0:16:18.080 --> 0:16:20.360 I wasn't supposed to do with somebody that that took 0:16:20.400 --> 0:16:22.200 them boles with somebody else, and I didn't take them 0:16:22.200 --> 0:16:24.640 boles with that person. So it ain't my fault. However, 0:16:32.520 --> 0:16:34.680 I was watching me now. First of all, I did 0:16:34.760 --> 0:16:36.960 not know who Derrick Jackson was, and feel this whole 0:16:37.040 --> 0:16:41.720 drama just happened. When y'all watching this whole thing unfold, Yeah, 0:16:41.800 --> 0:16:45.600 this thing is juicy, honey. He's a relationship expert, and 0:16:45.640 --> 0:16:48.760 I guess he gives advice to like women about men. 0:16:49.160 --> 0:16:56.360 He just got caught cheating. That man gives people advice 0:16:56.400 --> 0:16:59.480 on live, like relationship advice when he's not a relationship 0:17:00.160 --> 0:17:06.560 that the Samuel's guy, Kevin Samuels, I don't Yeah, I 0:17:06.560 --> 0:17:11.000 don't even watch that. He Like I had a debate 0:17:11.040 --> 0:17:14.960 about him with somebody. It was a guy, but he'd 0:17:14.960 --> 0:17:17.919 be he'd be going in. But no, this um, this 0:17:17.960 --> 0:17:21.560 old cheating scandal with Derek Jackson is just like he 0:17:21.600 --> 0:17:23.840 was pissing off his homies, like he was pissing off 0:17:23.880 --> 0:17:26.680 the men of his peers by saying all this stuff 0:17:26.680 --> 0:17:28.159 that he was saying. And it was like he was 0:17:28.240 --> 0:17:31.000 bashing man and all of his commentary with you know, 0:17:31.400 --> 0:17:34.240 these stories and whatever he was saying. And now they 0:17:34.280 --> 0:17:38.640 all like what that's what you get. And it's like, 0:17:38.960 --> 0:17:41.399 as a woman, I'm just like, I'm not surprised because 0:17:41.680 --> 0:17:44.679 I don't really believe that many men are faithful anyway. 0:17:44.760 --> 0:17:49.840 So you know, it's like and then to see him 0:17:49.880 --> 0:17:52.879 with his wife and the bonding and the holding hands 0:17:52.880 --> 0:17:57.800 and whatever, imagine that you just cheated at me and 0:17:58.480 --> 0:18:00.800 hold the hands while you talking out it like this. 0:18:05.160 --> 0:18:07.879 They was listen, since was supposed to call in the 0:18:07.960 --> 0:18:12.520 styles and yeah, she was supposed to get him get 0:18:12.680 --> 0:18:14.639 supposed to be sitting next to him looking like the 0:18:14.680 --> 0:18:20.639 hell she was new out think, yeah, come on, she 0:18:20.720 --> 0:18:27.000 out there, look at homeless. She got a chill right there, exactly. 0:18:27.320 --> 0:18:30.920 I think I don't think all men cheat, not all men, 0:18:31.040 --> 0:18:33.160 because that would that would be too broad of a statement. 0:18:33.200 --> 0:18:35.040 But I do think so, I think a lot of 0:18:35.080 --> 0:18:38.399 the majority. But I don't think all men cheap. And 0:18:38.440 --> 0:18:40.680 I think also sometimes it would be the men that 0:18:41.280 --> 0:18:45.280 like where we talked to also that we like, you know, 0:18:45.320 --> 0:18:48.800 we'd be liking that like edgy player type of guy, 0:18:49.000 --> 0:18:51.720 and then we get cheating on. Yeah. I don't think 0:18:51.760 --> 0:18:59.480 all men cheat, but may see and that's it, right, 0:18:59.800 --> 0:19:02.920 So it's kind of know that's my own flaw. I 0:19:03.040 --> 0:19:07.200 know for sure, M like that guy that's gonna take 0:19:07.240 --> 0:19:09.160 care of you and not cheating on you. You don't 0:19:09.160 --> 0:19:12.960 want him, Yeah, And unfortunately he's gonna be married with 0:19:13.000 --> 0:19:14.960 a family, and I'm would be like you stupid beach 0:19:17.359 --> 0:19:22.200 later in ain't have you ever helped somebody cheat? That's 0:19:22.200 --> 0:19:24.320 what we were talking about before you got on, right, 0:19:24.680 --> 0:19:28.960 we were talking about helping somebody cheat. And how if 0:19:29.080 --> 0:19:32.439 say your boyfriend's mother lied to you about something and 0:19:32.760 --> 0:19:35.159 she knew the whole situation. Could you be cool with 0:19:35.240 --> 0:19:38.159 his mom or with his family when they knew he 0:19:38.280 --> 0:19:42.320 was cheating on you and they actually helped him? So like, 0:19:42.480 --> 0:19:46.920 I always feel like that's his people. The people don't 0:19:46.920 --> 0:19:51.879 owe me nothing. That's like, I don't know, I might 0:19:51.920 --> 0:19:54.160 not want to talk to your ballad as mama no more, 0:19:54.200 --> 0:20:00.679 but I can't. But it's not it's not really up 0:20:00.800 --> 0:20:04.080 here because that's her son. So she gonna do. Like 0:20:04.200 --> 0:20:06.600 just like, just like if any of my friends is like, 0:20:06.680 --> 0:20:08.320 y'all need you to cover for me because I was 0:20:08.359 --> 0:20:10.080 with you, I'm not gonna say no. Even if I 0:20:10.160 --> 0:20:12.840 like your boyfriend and I think he's cool for you, 0:20:13.359 --> 0:20:15.879 I can't be like, no, I'm not gonna coover for you. 0:20:16.080 --> 0:20:20.360 You're my friend first, like I know him because of you. 0:20:20.359 --> 0:20:23.080 You can really be mad. But what if it's years 0:20:23.119 --> 0:20:29.720 and you're about to get married, Oh when you feel betrayed? True, 0:20:29.840 --> 0:20:32.160 but you were still me personally. I was still feel 0:20:32.160 --> 0:20:35.440 betrayed because it's like, if you're gonna if you're gonna 0:20:35.480 --> 0:20:37.040 do all of this and smile in my face and 0:20:37.080 --> 0:20:39.000 all of that is one thing, but don't get too 0:20:39.040 --> 0:20:40.640 close to me to the point to where I feel 0:20:40.640 --> 0:20:42.159 as though I have to trust you if this is 0:20:42.200 --> 0:20:44.199 what you're doing. That's the staff in the back. You 0:20:44.200 --> 0:20:46.840 know what I'm saying. Yeah, no, you're gonna feel betrayed, 0:20:46.880 --> 0:20:50.399 but ship so I just feel like you gotta be 0:20:50.440 --> 0:20:53.920 honest with yourself best that man. People Listen, the loyalty 0:20:54.000 --> 0:20:56.080 is always gonna lie with the family member for sure. 0:20:56.480 --> 0:20:59.960 You know if you cheat, if your daughter was cheating 0:21:00.000 --> 0:21:03.439 of somebody, right, you wouldn't tell even if you like 0:21:03.560 --> 0:21:06.960 the person. Right, you have loyalty, but it's not up 0:21:06.960 --> 0:21:09.639 to you, you know what I'm saying. And like, like 0:21:09.760 --> 0:21:11.639 I had an ex boyfriend and he you know me 0:21:11.720 --> 0:21:14.119 all the time, and his cousin told me. His cousin 0:21:14.240 --> 0:21:16.480 was like, look and she's a woman. She was like, 0:21:16.520 --> 0:21:18.720 I'm gonna keep it real. You could do better than him. 0:21:18.920 --> 0:21:21.119 She did, and he actually didn't talk to her for 0:21:21.119 --> 0:21:27.119 like two years after that. Yeah, yeah, we broke up. 0:21:27.320 --> 0:21:30.600 We was gonna break up anyway. And that's just kind 0:21:30.600 --> 0:21:34.800 of that really made me think, like you, yeah, your 0:21:34.800 --> 0:21:37.439 own that kind of really do expedite it. Because if 0:21:37.480 --> 0:21:40.960 your own family is generation and that's your cousin, like 0:21:41.080 --> 0:21:43.639 your first cousin, that you hang out with all the time, 0:21:44.040 --> 0:21:46.480 and she like, yo, Angela, I'm keep it real with you. 0:21:46.600 --> 0:21:48.560 You could do better, Like you don't need to be 0:21:48.600 --> 0:21:51.199 with him. He got issued he's a cheater and she 0:21:51.240 --> 0:21:53.040 didn't even have to be specific, and I kind of 0:21:53.119 --> 0:21:56.280 knew that already. So that was it. And he didn't 0:21:56.280 --> 0:21:58.439 sunk with her for a while after that. But she 0:21:58.600 --> 0:22:01.520 was like, I like you you cool. I would be 0:22:01.520 --> 0:22:04.320 pissed up. I know, she said he didn't speak to 0:22:04.320 --> 0:22:06.480 her for two years. I think when I I think 0:22:06.480 --> 0:22:08.720 when niggas to be cheating, we already be knowing though 0:22:08.840 --> 0:22:11.280 like y'all don't think we already know. We're just being 0:22:11.359 --> 0:22:14.920 denying like we might have. We may not know all 0:22:14.960 --> 0:22:19.720 the way. Then we become detectives. Sh and I'm gonna 0:22:19.720 --> 0:22:23.680 figure it out. Yeah, I think now, like I'm not 0:22:24.119 --> 0:22:28.600 searching for ship, like if I'm happy whatever, I don't know, 0:22:28.680 --> 0:22:30.560 and maybe that's not even me to say, but like, 0:22:30.600 --> 0:22:32.800 I'm not searching. I'm not gonna do phones, I'm not 0:22:32.840 --> 0:22:37.320 searching social media's. I'm not doing nothing that you as 0:22:37.359 --> 0:22:47.200 a woman, not as different woman woman that was brought 0:22:47.280 --> 0:22:49.760 to my door. But I feel like even when women 0:22:49.800 --> 0:22:53.080 do that, like it's on some ship, like you're mad 0:22:53.119 --> 0:22:55.840 at this nigga at this point, like because what made 0:22:55.880 --> 0:22:57.640 today the day? That too was like, oh, I'm gonna 0:22:57.640 --> 0:23:02.600 tell her what's going on, because he was like, because 0:23:02.640 --> 0:23:06.119 she wants him to leave you so she could have him. 0:23:06.160 --> 0:23:11.639 And then and then you sat competitive, like if I 0:23:11.680 --> 0:23:13.679 break up with him, he was gonna be with that bitch. 0:23:13.960 --> 0:23:15.959 So then you feel like I can't even just leave 0:23:16.040 --> 0:23:19.680 him alone because then they're gonna be happy together. Let's 0:23:19.680 --> 0:23:23.040 gonna be happy together with he's cheating, And I felt 0:23:23.040 --> 0:23:26.280 like he's still gonna keep cheating on that because I 0:23:26.600 --> 0:23:29.760 felt like that, like I can't let this bitch win. 0:23:30.200 --> 0:23:34.720 But now I realized we've dumb is here because yeah, nah, 0:23:35.080 --> 0:23:37.560 I ain't competing. You got it. I'm bob out gracefully. 0:23:37.760 --> 0:23:40.000 You got it. But like when I was younger, like 0:23:40.040 --> 0:23:42.840 I felt like that, but like the onlyder I got 0:23:42.920 --> 0:23:44.920 the same, I was like, that was the dumbest way 0:23:44.920 --> 0:23:47.280 of thinking. What then do I mean when when a 0:23:47.359 --> 0:23:49.960 cheater like he's gonna cheat on all of us, still 0:23:50.359 --> 0:23:54.400 he's still gonna stay with everybody, right, everybody's still with him? 0:23:54.520 --> 0:23:57.280 I thought, what Sweetie said went on Twitter like when 0:23:57.320 --> 0:23:58.919 she said she broke up and she was actually and 0:23:59.000 --> 0:24:00.959 checked out a long time and go you know how 0:24:01.000 --> 0:24:02.679 when you break up with somebody but they don't know 0:24:02.720 --> 0:24:05.000 you're you're all about to break out, but you know it, 0:24:05.440 --> 0:24:08.199 so you've been broke up in your head and you know, 0:24:08.280 --> 0:24:11.919