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Speaker 1: I accidentally boned a woman in arranged marriage. Now that

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Speaker 1: I know the truth, I'm leaving her, but she has

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Speaker 1: other ideas.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, wait can you say that again? That

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Speaker 2: was a lot to process.

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Speaker 1: I think op is is kind of home wrecking right now.

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Speaker 1: An arranged marriage home wrecker. Not a good look. But also,

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Speaker 1: you know who is a good look. Our guest, Ebba

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Speaker 1: and Nicole also knows hi Ema. Nicole a SIMS gamer.

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Speaker 1: Can you give us one fun fact about yourself?

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Speaker 2: Fun fact about myself is I've been playing the SIMS

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Speaker 2: four since the early days from SIMS one, so like

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Speaker 2: twenty twenty years. I've been playing the SIMS twenty years.

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Speaker 2: Twenty years.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's the that's definitely playing it before

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Speaker 1: it was cool and now it's like blown up many

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Speaker 1: years of SIMS. Yeah, okay, let's get into the story.

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Speaker 1: So I, nineteen male, hooked up with a girl twenty

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Speaker 1: two a few nights ago. Her name was not Anya,

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Speaker 1: but I'm gonna pretend it was in order to tell

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Speaker 1: the story without revealing real names. Smart So it's a mystery. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: to track them down. Yea Anya more like Nanya. So

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Speaker 1: Anya and I cross paths at an art gallery. It

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Speaker 1: was one of those ciche movie moments when a confused

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Speaker 1: character is staring at an abstract painting before another character

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Speaker 1: decides to approach the confused character to discuss the abstract painting,

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Speaker 1: like this is going it happens? Yeah, yeah, you know,

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Speaker 1: I feel like, like, uh, some some art art. Riz

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Speaker 1: is the best kind of I met my first girlfriend

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Speaker 1: at art gallery. Actually, oh wow, at the where was it?

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Speaker 1: It was at the Getty Getty Museum. Fancy you know

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Speaker 1: she cheated on me? So like probably yeah, And I

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Speaker 1: think this story is going to either So it was okay,

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Speaker 1: I was the person staring at the painting and Anya

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Speaker 1: we had fun trying to figure it out together. For

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Speaker 1: the first time in my life, I finally said the

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Speaker 2: Impressive.

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Speaker 1: So I guess both of them are spinning game. I

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Speaker 1: don't know. It seems like she was the one convincing

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Speaker 2: Started the conversation. You true.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she was like, she has RIZ and you're just

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Speaker 1: receiving the He's receiving the RIZ. Yeah, the RIZ receiver.

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Speaker 1: The receiver. There we go. Yeah, we're proud of that.

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Speaker 1: ONEIG five. Okay, it's about to get even steam here.

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Speaker 1: So okay, I fell asleep with Anya in my bed.

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Speaker 1: Damn not gonna lie. I was exhausted, but one round

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Speaker 1: wasn't enough for Anya. Man Oh if I ever tapped

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Speaker 1: She was wide awake with her phone in front of

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Speaker 1: reacting to messages from her fiance.

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Speaker 2: She just dropped the bomb like that, just like that.

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Speaker 1: Also, like reacting to messages from your fiance while this

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Speaker 1: And also I'm I mean.

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Speaker 2: I'm kind of impressed. And she was that honest though

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Speaker 1: Yeah, my fiance. Also, it's like, this is rude on

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Speaker 1: two levels. One kind of like terrible to have a

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Speaker 1: like like, you know, texting and like doing messages and

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Speaker 2: Also considering that he woke up to her laughing. That

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Speaker 1: Oh god, it was clear that Anya's fiance was worried

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Speaker 2: She was finding that fun.

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Speaker 1: That's so I feel bad for this Dude's he's getting

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Speaker 1: I had no idea that Anya was in a relationship,

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Speaker 1: let alone engaged. She explained that she was part of

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Speaker 2: Oh this is heart wrenching.

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Speaker 1: Stabbed in the heart. She said. It was funny reading

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Speaker 2: Oh my god. I was not expecting the store to

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Speaker 2: go in this direction though. I think the arranged marriage

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, and also, like, you know, I almost felt

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Speaker 2: That's true. Actually, he's losing.

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Speaker 1: All my bad feelings have been raised. Now I'm like,

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Speaker 1: a first away, here we go. I'm I'm arranged marriage

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Speaker 2: What's going on? What's so funny? Oh?

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Speaker 1: I'm just texting my fiance. He's an idiot that I

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Speaker 2: You have a fiance. When were you gonna mention this?

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Speaker 1: Oh? Like right now?

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Speaker 2: Did you not to tell me before?

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Speaker 1: Uh? I mean again, he's a total dumb ass. Look

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Speaker 2: Oh? Okay, fair enough, all right, all right.

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Speaker 1: Let's get back into it. Anya kissed me and said

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Speaker 1: her plan was to fully embrace her ha pes and

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: I said it was kind of uncomfortable being the other guy,

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Speaker 1: if it made her unhappy. Anya got upset when I

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Speaker 2: Ah, oh my god, brutal. That's a bold statement.

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Speaker 1: She's just big brutal all around.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she's not considering his feelings at all.

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Speaker 1: In this and man just did three rounds, Like, come on,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, or maybe it was just like she's just like

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Speaker 1: maybe this next time will be less disappointing'll keep getting better.

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Speaker 1: Disappointed again, you know it's the man's kept letting her down.

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Speaker 1: So so Op responds, and probably the saddest way possible,

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Speaker 2: Decent, not decent any other word, but decent.

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Speaker 1: Man. Also, it's like, you know how it's like on

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Speaker 1: It's like you don't decide if you're an asshole.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I feel it's the same with like sex stuff, or

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Speaker 1: it's like you don't decide whether you're good or not.

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Speaker 1: Your partner decides whether they had a good time or not.

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Speaker 2: No, I feel like you can be confident. Yeah, but

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Speaker 2: I maybe wouldn't vocalize it. I wouldn't say those words

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Speaker 1: You wouldn't say I've I gave a C plus effort.

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Speaker 1: Yeah no, oh, I feel bad. This man's like whole life,

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Speaker 1: like he's like got picked up at this this art gallery,

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Speaker 1: like now he's I don't think he's ever going to

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Speaker 2: So true. I started so high. The story had so

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Speaker 2: much potential. It was really the beginning of a love story.

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Speaker 2: And it just quickly shuttered.

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Speaker 1: And nope, okay, so Anya disagreed and got dressed. I

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Speaker 1: Are they from London?

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Speaker 1: Probably, but she insisted on using an uber. I waited

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Speaker 2: Wait, why is she being so mean? What did he do?

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Speaker 2: He was medio good. Now she's being too harsh, She's

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Speaker 1: I mean she's going home, but she's not chilling No. Uh.

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Speaker 1: She said, my nipples were shaped like angry eyes, and

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Speaker 1: mean to body shavy.

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Speaker 2: Wait, it sounds like she's the non stop body shaming.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I've never heard that insult, but saying someone's belly

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's like she I feel like you have to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're really looking at you.

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Speaker 2: You're studying that belly button.

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Speaker 1: She said she didn't mean to body shamy, but she

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Speaker 1: Out of frustration, I said, I was beginning to feel

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Speaker 1: which is honestly, like, after all the insults that she gave,

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Speaker 1: I feel like that is like a very timid insult,

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Speaker 1: like a very like the least insulting insult that he

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Speaker 2: Yeah, agreed, maybe most the most feel delicate.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, do you feel like that's justified? Do you feel

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Speaker 1: like like that that? Uh that I'm I feel sorry

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Speaker 2: I feel like I've had a rollercoaster of who I've

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Speaker 2: entire story. But I think in conclusion, I'm leaning towards Yes,

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Speaker 2: I do feel sorry for the guy, and I would

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Speaker 1: Guess what. There's more Anya, Anya's not done. Anya looked

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Speaker 2: Oh, that's so sad. She she has some issues to

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Speaker 1: Also, also like it sounds like she's just salty. It

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Speaker 1: Well I guess, Like I mean, there are some guys

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Speaker 2: No? True, not her? If I was him, Oh you

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Speaker 2: I probably wouldn't. I mean he sounded like he took

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Speaker 1: I'd be like on your own, I'd be like, find

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Speaker 1: like she's not She's continuing going while this guy is

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Speaker 1: And it sounds like I think this guy deserves it.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like I could have concluded maybe in the bedroom,

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Speaker 1: It's the street fight now. So my question is, have

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Speaker 2: I have, I've dealt with a few body sham and comments.

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Speaker 2: That's probably the most that I can relate to this

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Speaker 2: after a hookup, No, not after hookup, just in general,

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Speaker 2: if you know, not after a hookup. Has that happened

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Speaker 1: No? No, I feel like that's probably pretty weird.

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Speaker 1: I don't think so. Yeah, I'm racking my brain if

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Speaker 1: of like hooker. I've been a serial monogamous. So one

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Speaker 1: I don't know, man, maybe at some point, I don't know,

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Speaker 1: but I'm more of like a like a one gal

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Speaker 2: Think of all the people you could meet at the

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Speaker 2: art galleries.

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Speaker 1: Though, I know, you know what, maybe I just need

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Speaker 1: to hit up more art gallery or art gallery. What

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Speaker 1: I've learned, I need to hit up more art galleries.

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Speaker 1: Some interesting, interesting people that have beyonces. I guess she's

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Speaker 1: not wearing a ring. Oh yeah, don't have a ring on.

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Speaker 2: True. I've been in a relationship for nine years coming

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Speaker 2: up to ten, so I definitely cannot relate to.

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Speaker 1: Ten a decade's half. As long as you've been playing

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Speaker 2: I know, I know he used to play the Sims though.

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Speaker 2: That was that was a deal breaker for me.

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Speaker 1: So that he'd stopped playing the same He knew.

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Speaker 2: The Sims played the Sims. He's a Sims fan.

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Speaker 1: If he didn't play the Sims, it would just be like, nope.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we can't really, I got that's the only thing

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you know, we gotta we gotta plan our

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Speaker 1: Sims world that the Sims world is practiced for the

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Speaker 1: real world. Yeah, well, that was a doozy of an episode.

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Speaker 1: I'm actually all right, the worst hookup story that I've

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Speaker 1: even kissed, but it was a tender day. And the

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Speaker 1: reason that there it didn't go beyond us just talking

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Speaker 1: is that she would like, like, she made me drop

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Speaker 1: everything to call my mom to figure out the time

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Speaker 2: Wait, So you had to call your mom mid.

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Speaker 1: Day and it was six seventeen, six seventeen, was the

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Speaker 2: I love how you haven't forgotten. You're like, I'm going

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Speaker 1: The thing is, the thing is, if you're in LA,

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Speaker 1: there's a bunch of estra estrological astrology girlies all around.

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Speaker 1: And so now when they asked me.

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Speaker 2: Like you pull it out your star sign.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I have a note right here, and it's

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Speaker 1: like you're rising.

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Speaker 2: And see I don't I honestly don't know anything about this.

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Speaker 1: No, I just have I just have this note right here.

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Speaker 1: And seventeen nineteen, I was any one ask I'm ready.

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Speaker 2: I think it was like three am, three am, July sixteenth,

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Speaker 2: But yeah, three am. I was middle of the night

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Speaker 2: and my mom was in labor for twenty eight hours.

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Speaker 2: Twenty eight eight hours.

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Speaker 1: Damn brutal of that woman is blessed. Yeah, well, Emma,

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Speaker 1: shall we get into the next story.

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Speaker 2: Let's get into the next one.

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Speaker 1: Let's do it.

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Speaker 2: My boyfriend's brother just called me fat so I clap

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Speaker 2: back hard. My boyfriend is furious and says I went

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Speaker 2: too far? Am I?

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Speaker 1: The a hole depends if the clapback is like out

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Speaker 1: of the boyfriend's weight class. Okay, Like if she is

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Speaker 1: and her clap back is just just the force of

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Speaker 1: depends on how intense the clapback is. If someone like

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Speaker 1: you castrate them, then that clap back is just not

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Speaker 1: not appropriate. But if someone like you know shoots you

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Speaker 1: then I feel like that's like, you know, a heart

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Speaker 1: for a heart.

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Speaker 2: We need details, well, we need details. Wey details. So

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Speaker 2: I at twenty five female, have been dating my boyfriend

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Speaker 2: at twenty nine male for eight months. I moved to

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Speaker 2: the US two years ago and met.

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Speaker 1: New relationship, new relationships, new relationship eight months under, not

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Speaker 1: ten years like Emma, No, yeah, month.

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Speaker 2: They're on honeymoon phase. I moved to the US two

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Speaker 2: years ago. I met my boyfriend at work. I mentioned

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Speaker 2: this for context, and all is good so far. Then

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Speaker 2: a week ago, he said he wants me to meet

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Speaker 2: his family. Okay, eight months mixed up? Eight months into

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Speaker 2: the relationship, No, I think that's I think I met

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Speaker 2: his family at like four months, so I would say

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I met Usually I met who would

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Speaker 2: Also depends on your age, how serious you are. Maybe. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I agreed, and honestly, I was nervous and giddy about

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Speaker 2: and was excited about where it was going. He called

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Speaker 1: God, I'm waiting for all the balls to drop at

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Speaker 1: it to go terribly.

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Speaker 2: It's too good right now. He called his parents and

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Speaker 2: they were really excited to meet me, so we decided

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Speaker 2: so they offered it to us. When we got there,

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Speaker 2: I was greeted with hugs from mother in law, sister

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Speaker 2: father in law gave me a stern pat on the back,

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Speaker 2: but he seemed like a reserved type of men, so

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Speaker 2: I took it as a good sign. A stern pat.

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Speaker 1: On the back, that's like the most father in law

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Speaker 1: thing to do. It's like, how's the girling son, or

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Speaker 1: like a firm handshake with my Firmat I met my

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Speaker 1: handshake but destroyed my dad's hand just just tried to

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Speaker 1: just like honest, like squeeze juices out of it. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Okay, so stern pat on the backs maybe a little nicer.

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Speaker 2: I then met one of his two brothers, nineteen and

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Speaker 2: the other one worked on Saturday, so he would only

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Speaker 2: be there for dinner. We sat down and chatted and

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Speaker 2: they got me some real British tea and slippers, and

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Speaker 2: it was going really well. Then it came to dinner.

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Speaker 2: It's hot and I'm in a summer dress. I don't

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Speaker 2: know where this is going. She's had to mention what

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Speaker 2: she's wearing, and that it's hot. I'm intrigued.

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Speaker 1: I I yeah, yeah, is the summer dress going to

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this is an interesting detail to include.

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Speaker 1: It was hot. I was wearing a summer dress, handbag

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Speaker 1: hair salon, like just like going through. Yeah, I love

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Speaker 1: what he's wearing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we want to amaze sell the fans. So that's

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Speaker 2: when Mike, twenty six male, came home. He loves. He

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Speaker 2: lives with his parents after a nasty breakup with his

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Speaker 2: him on Christmas for being a controlling, sexist a hole.

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Speaker 2: She kicked him out of their apartment. My boyfriend introduced me.

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Speaker 2: Mike looked me up and down but didn't say anything

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Speaker 2: but nice to meet you. I brushed it off. Oh

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Speaker 2: he like one of these like yeah, I don't know, or.

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Speaker 1: Was it like a freaking weird A look up and

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Speaker 1: down is weird? Yeah, but it's either like judgment, like

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Speaker 2: Yeah I got sexualizing in that, but I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Maybe yeah, we'll see. Halfway through dinner, the combo is

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Speaker 2: choked on his food. He got really upset by that comment.

435
00:23:07,760 --> 00:23:11,520
Speaker 2: I replied with a laugh and said, no, oh, the

436
00:23:11,640 --> 00:23:14,760
Speaker 2: pregnant question, that's never okay, that's never.

437
00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:18,080
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's ever appropriate to ask are

438
00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:21,439
Speaker 1: you pregnant, especially to someone you don't know. Maybe to

439
00:23:21,520 --> 00:23:27,480
Speaker 1: your girlfriend, where it's just like, hey, babe, are you pregnant?

440
00:23:28,800 --> 00:23:32,119
Speaker 1: But even then, sketchy waters at the answer is.

441
00:23:32,200 --> 00:23:35,639
Speaker 2: No, not especially someone you just met. May maybe you

442
00:23:35,680 --> 00:23:37,600
Speaker 2: could get away with it if you're a friend, but

443
00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:39,919
Speaker 2: not if you literally just met.

444
00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:43,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would say, like, strike are you pregnant? From

445
00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:45,840
Speaker 1: your list of questions to strangers.

446
00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:49,280
Speaker 2: That's really rude. Table matters, really rude, table.

447
00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:51,280
Speaker 1: Matter terrible, table man terrible. I guess that's why I

448
00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:53,040
Speaker 1: got kicked out for being a sexist asshole.

449
00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:57,439
Speaker 2: Yes, boyfriend was staring daggers at Mike, who was staring

450
00:23:57,520 --> 00:24:00,600
Speaker 2: at me. Then he said, boyfriend has no ever dated

451
00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:03,880
Speaker 2: a fat girl before? I was so shocked my mouth

452
00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:07,760
Speaker 2: went dry. Everyone kind of sucked in air and froze.

453
00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:11,199
Speaker 2: Boyfriend has never dated a fat girl before.

454
00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:15,640
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Mike, you suck. Mike sucks.

455
00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:19,159
Speaker 2: Mike sucks. Well, no wonder Mike was kicked out. Everything

456
00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:22,680
Speaker 2: makes sense now, Mike, you don't go asking these things.

457
00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:26,919
Speaker 1: That's just a pure insult, like, you know, the the

458
00:24:27,200 --> 00:24:29,280
Speaker 1: are you pregnant thing? I'm like, Okay, maybe he just

459
00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:34,120
Speaker 1: doesn't understand social dynamics. Maybe, you know, like like there's

460
00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:37,480
Speaker 1: like more wiggle room to be like okay, like he's

461
00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:42,200
Speaker 1: completely just not there socially, but he could be still

462
00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:42,880
Speaker 1: a nice guy.

463
00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:46,080
Speaker 2: But this is like, oh, way past the line.

464
00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:46,879
Speaker 1: Yeah.

465
00:24:47,080 --> 00:24:48,960
Speaker 2: I also feel like it's kind of none of his

466
00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:54,280
Speaker 2: business who he's dated. Wait, they exactly they brothers, Mike

467
00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:55,200
Speaker 2: and boyfriend.

468
00:24:55,320 --> 00:25:00,240
Speaker 1: I believe Mike is the brother of oh he ease

469
00:25:01,040 --> 00:25:05,080
Speaker 1: huspend or or man's not boyfriend friend.

470
00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:09,120
Speaker 2: So it's it's actually none of his business who he did.

471
00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:11,800
Speaker 1: It actually is none of his business. It's actually none

472
00:25:11,800 --> 00:25:13,920
Speaker 1: of his Get the fuck away.

473
00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:17,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, he needs to be uninvited from dinner.

474
00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:21,800
Speaker 1: He needs to be uninvited from life. Push Mike off

475
00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:23,880
Speaker 1: a cliff that's the appropriate clapback.

476
00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:26,679
Speaker 2: Yeah. Oh, I'm excited to see what his clapback is.

477
00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:31,640
Speaker 1: Or or here here's another clapback. Force feed Mike McDonald's

478
00:25:31,720 --> 00:25:36,040
Speaker 1: until he becomes faund make Mike fast, then make Mike

479
00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:38,760
Speaker 1: fat and have him die of cardiac arrest.

480
00:25:39,440 --> 00:25:41,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then get everyone to ask him if he's pregnant.

481
00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:46,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, there we go, fits the crime. Yeah, God, we

482
00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:56,879
Speaker 1: just like developed the.

483
00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:56,800
Speaker 2: I think everyone was too stunned to speak because we

484
00:25:56,800 --> 00:25:59,879
Speaker 2: were all frozen and staring. I was staring at Mike

485
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:04,080
Speaker 2: when he looked down at my breasts and continued, and

486
00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:06,600
Speaker 2: you're showing a lot of skin. I'm not sure if

487
00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:08,879
Speaker 2: he was trying to haze me, but that did it.

488
00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:12,760
Speaker 2: I laughed so loudly that a few people jumped. This

489
00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:13,720
Speaker 2: is getting so worse.

490
00:26:14,119 --> 00:26:17,919
Speaker 1: What the fuck? Like? I feel like Mike is going

491
00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:23,240
Speaker 1: from like objectifying her to degrading her. Yeah, he sounds

492
00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:25,520
Speaker 1: like a He sounds like like one of those red

493
00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:29,560
Speaker 1: pill Reddit fucking in cell dudes. Yeah.

494
00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:33,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, he is crossing so many lines right now, and

495
00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:36,719
Speaker 2: I'm just confused about who he thinks he is, Like,

496
00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:38,480
Speaker 2: who does he think he is?

497
00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:41,159
Speaker 1: What you think you are? Mike? Who the fuck do

498
00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:41,800
Speaker 1: you think you are?

499
00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:45,280
Speaker 2: Who do you think you are? Mike? The audacity. You'd

500
00:26:45,280 --> 00:26:49,000
Speaker 2: think twenty six year old man living with mummy and

501
00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:52,520
Speaker 2: daddy would learn not to judge people. But then again,

502
00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:55,120
Speaker 2: your girlfriend kicked you out for being a piece of shit,

503
00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:58,240
Speaker 2: So what do I know? Oh? I like the climback.

504
00:26:58,560 --> 00:26:59,840
Speaker 2: I like it treu.

505
00:27:01,240 --> 00:27:04,640
Speaker 1: Heat, that's heat. Oh my god, It's like every bad

506
00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:08,879
Speaker 1: thing that she knows about him, just in one chef's kissing.

507
00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:11,480
Speaker 2: Three words just summarized in a nice.

508
00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:13,600
Speaker 1: Thirty words to destroy a man's soul.

509
00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:18,679
Speaker 2: Yes, how to destroy a man in thirty words. I'm impressed.

510
00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:21,320
Speaker 2: I think she did well. I feel like it was confident,

511
00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:24,720
Speaker 2: it's factual. I think that was a justified fatback.

512
00:27:24,880 --> 00:27:28,160
Speaker 1: And it's funny, it's witty, it's good, it's it's it's

513
00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:30,880
Speaker 1: all the like. She deserves an Academy Award for insults

514
00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:31,320
Speaker 1: of that one.

515
00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:34,600
Speaker 2: Sister in law's wife and brother in law all laughed,

516
00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:39,800
Speaker 2: but everyone else was shocked. Mike, however, got angry, stood

517
00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:43,040
Speaker 2: up and told me fat girls shouldn't judge people. So

518
00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:45,479
Speaker 2: I told him that neither should a man with a

519
00:27:45,520 --> 00:27:53,479
Speaker 2: micro easy to say. Dinner was ruined, Okay, what are

520
00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:55,960
Speaker 2: you thinking about the micro I.

521
00:27:55,880 --> 00:28:00,640
Speaker 1: Mean, I feel with the micro she kind of like

522
00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:03,439
Speaker 1: went as low as he did, which is it's like

523
00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:05,720
Speaker 1: it made it made it equal. But it's like I

524
00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:08,520
Speaker 1: feel like she's better than that, you know, Like like

525
00:28:08,640 --> 00:28:12,240
Speaker 1: the insult before was just was just like pointing out

526
00:28:12,600 --> 00:28:15,240
Speaker 1: the situation that this dude is in and making him

527
00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:18,080
Speaker 1: like like just pointing out, who are you to judge

528
00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:22,200
Speaker 1: being in your situation? And then the micro was just like,

529
00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:25,719
Speaker 1: you know, like run of the male insult, like it's

530
00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:28,800
Speaker 1: it's a classic, like your dick is small kind of thing, like.

531
00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:30,200
Speaker 2: She just threw it in there.

532
00:28:30,280 --> 00:28:34,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, it works every time, But like I feel like

533
00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:36,320
Speaker 1: you're I feel like you're better than that, you know,

534
00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:41,640
Speaker 1: like Op's got better insults than the small peepee joke.

535
00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:44,440
Speaker 2: I feel like that was probably her rage just coming out.

536
00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:47,400
Speaker 2: She's she she she needed to, you know, she needed

537
00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:51,240
Speaker 2: one last clapback. She one, she needed a one liner.

538
00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:53,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, a little a little micro liner.

539
00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:56,560
Speaker 2: Nice. Mike got up and stormed out of the house.

540
00:28:56,720 --> 00:28:58,880
Speaker 2: Sister in law and sister in law's wife stayed to

541
00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:00,880
Speaker 2: clean up, and boyfriend to me to our room to

542
00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:04,360
Speaker 2: calm me down. He told me what I did was justified.

543
00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:07,400
Speaker 2: The next day was just boyfriend, me and his parents.

544
00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:11,320
Speaker 2: Boyfriend in law's hiding in his room after an awkward breakfast.

545
00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:14,080
Speaker 2: Mother in law is worried because Mike didn't come home

546
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:17,320
Speaker 2: and won't answer his calls. We left sorely after breakfast

547
00:29:17,360 --> 00:29:19,720
Speaker 2: and father in law rubbed my back. But I got

548
00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:21,959
Speaker 2: no hugs from mother in law and I know I

549
00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:24,320
Speaker 2: over reacted, But am I the asshole?

550
00:29:24,560 --> 00:29:27,080
Speaker 1: A father in law rubbed my back?

551
00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:29,920
Speaker 2: That's an interesting detail to include. I think it was

552
00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:34,360
Speaker 2: because the mother in law was upset the father.

553
00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:36,800
Speaker 1: And lad okay, you know it's okay, like like one

554
00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:38,840
Speaker 1: of those I'm imagining him like giving her a full

555
00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:39,600
Speaker 1: on massage.

556
00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:45,160
Speaker 2: Oh, started to return. I think it was just because

557
00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:48,400
Speaker 2: the mother in law. In contrast, yeah, the mother in

558
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:49,800
Speaker 2: law wouldn't look at her in the eye.

559
00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:52,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, Mike sounds like an absolute piece of work.

560
00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:57,760
Speaker 1: I don't feel bad for him at all. I don't think.

561
00:29:58,000 --> 00:30:00,480
Speaker 1: I don't think Op is the asshole though, or for

562
00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:04,280
Speaker 1: clapping back, although although like if she's trying to win

563
00:30:04,360 --> 00:30:09,520
Speaker 1: brownie points by with like the family, this isn't the

564
00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:10,239
Speaker 1: way to do it.

565
00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:12,840
Speaker 2: But she didn't start it, so I don't.

566
00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:16,400
Speaker 1: I think that started. She's in the right for sure.

567
00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:20,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think the mother in law probably needs some

568
00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:22,920
Speaker 2: time to get over the situation because that sounds like

569
00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:27,880
Speaker 2: an awkward dinner. But I think that objectively, only one

570
00:30:27,920 --> 00:30:32,520
Speaker 2: person was in the wrong. So yeah, Mike has apologized obviously.

571
00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:37,520
Speaker 1: But but if I was in that situation right and

572
00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:39,880
Speaker 1: I was like at my girlfriend's place, and let's say

573
00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:43,800
Speaker 1: the brother was like, you know, saying how fat I was,

574
00:30:43,960 --> 00:30:47,520
Speaker 1: and like or like maybe maybe a more accurate just

575
00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:51,760
Speaker 1: say like you're so skinny, you got no muscles and

576
00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:55,520
Speaker 1: blah blah blah. That's probably probably the guy equivalent of

577
00:30:55,680 --> 00:31:01,800
Speaker 1: the fat shaming. Uh, And I would probably just take

578
00:31:01,880 --> 00:31:06,960
Speaker 1: it honestly. Two, I think I would just like, but

579
00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:08,560
Speaker 1: if I really like this girl and I want to

580
00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:11,280
Speaker 1: make a good impression on the family, like I would,

581
00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:15,960
Speaker 1: I probably wouldn't. I wouldn't say I say anything, but

582
00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:19,120
Speaker 1: like maybe maybe maybe it's because I'm too passive, but

583
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:22,520
Speaker 1: like I've had situations where like I've dated a girl

584
00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:26,120
Speaker 1: and like her family was like super rude to me,

585
00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:29,160
Speaker 1: but I was just like, oh this girl, I really

586
00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:31,640
Speaker 1: like this girl, So I'm just gonna I'm gonna endure it.

587
00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:33,760
Speaker 2: They were body not body shaming you though, right, just

588
00:31:35,040 --> 00:31:36,320
Speaker 2: maybe aggressive.

589
00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:39,160
Speaker 1: Being like like, yeah, there's been like passive aggressive. Although

590
00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:42,440
Speaker 1: this is this is a weird story. But my first girlfriend,

591
00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:46,080
Speaker 1: like I met her mom first and she saw me

592
00:31:46,160 --> 00:31:48,880
Speaker 1: without her shirt and was like, oh, my daughter would

593
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:54,360
Speaker 1: love you and like kind of felt me up and

594
00:31:54,360 --> 00:31:59,440
Speaker 1: then gave me her daughter's number and then we dated

595
00:31:59,480 --> 00:32:00,000
Speaker 1: for two years.

596
00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:02,040
Speaker 2: Oh so you hadn't met her daughter at this point.

597
00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:03,960
Speaker 2: This was like the introduction I had met her daughter.

598
00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:06,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, so they were a reverse body shame.

599
00:32:06,960 --> 00:32:08,640
Speaker 2: Reverse body was so weird.

600
00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:12,840
Speaker 1: It was. It was weird, maybe slightly problematic.

601
00:32:12,320 --> 00:32:16,360
Speaker 2: But okay, wow, how old were you at the time.

602
00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:17,640
Speaker 1: I was seventeen.

603
00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:18,960
Speaker 2: Oh it gets worse.

604
00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:22,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, a little a little weird, a little.

605
00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:27,840
Speaker 2: Weird, weird, a little weird. I feel like if I

606
00:32:27,840 --> 00:32:31,640
Speaker 2: if I'm in the situation where I'm meeting my partner's

607
00:32:31,920 --> 00:32:35,200
Speaker 2: my boyfriend's family for the first time, I think I

608
00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:38,840
Speaker 2: would probably be too nervous to clap back. I think

609
00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:42,200
Speaker 2: it's it's easier I think sitting here to say that

610
00:32:42,240 --> 00:32:43,640
Speaker 2: I would do it, But I don't think I think

611
00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:45,200
Speaker 2: I'd be too nervous. Now.

612
00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:48,120
Speaker 1: I think I would just like I would just want

613
00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:50,320
Speaker 1: things to go well with the family, so I would

614
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:53,080
Speaker 1: want to make a bad impression. Yeah, I think I would. Yeah, Like,

615
00:32:53,280 --> 00:32:55,600
Speaker 1: I think I would want to clap back, but I

616
00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:58,320
Speaker 1: would be like, hey, I like this, especially if I

617
00:32:58,440 --> 00:33:00,719
Speaker 1: like the girl. Yeah, you know I'm going to I'm

618
00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:01,640
Speaker 1: not gonna want to ruin it.

619
00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:03,880
Speaker 2: No, but I think give it a year. Like if

620
00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:07,120
Speaker 2: this was not the first the first time meeting, I

621
00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:08,960
Speaker 2: think it was like a year into the relationship, I

622
00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:10,080
Speaker 2: think it'd be a different story.

623
00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:12,480
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, one hundred percent. One hundred percent. But I

624
00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:13,920
Speaker 1: want to know what all of y'all do it would

625
00:33:13,920 --> 00:33:17,000
Speaker 1: do And also have you ever been insulted by your

626
00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:22,000
Speaker 1: significant others family or one of their family members. I

627
00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:25,240
Speaker 1: would love to hear those stories in the comments. And

628
00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:26,840
Speaker 1: with that, let's get into the next story.

629
00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:27,600
Speaker 2: Let's do it.