WEBVTT - Let’s Talk Halloween Fashion and Parties 0:00:04.760 --> 0:00:08.840 This is a girl. I'm not listening to exactly a 0:00:09.600 --> 0:00:16.200 production of my Heart Radio what I wanted today. I 0:00:16.239 --> 0:00:19.800 am excited because I'm not gonna front whatever what about. 0:00:19.880 --> 0:00:22.880 You know, a couple of things have to change on 0:00:22.920 --> 0:00:25.920 the show. But I do miss my co host. I 0:00:25.960 --> 0:00:28.680 do miss Stevie. Do y'all miss Steve? Because I do? 0:00:29.040 --> 0:00:31.160 Um he gave me such a good vibes and energy 0:00:31.240 --> 0:00:33.800 and I haven't spoken to him in a second, so 0:00:33.880 --> 0:00:37.120 I wanted to invite him as my special guest, my 0:00:37.280 --> 0:00:40.159 friend on the show. I know you guys miss him, 0:00:40.159 --> 0:00:41.960 and y'all miss his energy and his jokes and just 0:00:42.040 --> 0:00:43.960 the way that he is. So I am glad to 0:00:44.000 --> 0:00:53.400 have him back. And today we're also talking about Halloween together. 0:00:53.560 --> 0:00:57.280 Hi Stevie, how are you? Hi boo? You're looking and 0:00:57.480 --> 0:00:59.720 crusts up all you're giving me clear up like a 0:01:00.080 --> 0:01:06.480 like say seminicanen. During this time, we haven't been, you know, 0:01:06.520 --> 0:01:08.440 doing the show together because I know you're super busy, 0:01:08.480 --> 0:01:10.160 have so many projects and so many things going on. 0:01:10.240 --> 0:01:15.040 But because you now, oh my god, the kids are incredible. 0:01:15.520 --> 0:01:17.880 Me and baby are about to do a matching outfit 0:01:18.360 --> 0:01:20.720 for this weekend for the Halloween party that we got 0:01:20.720 --> 0:01:24.559 going on in Mikasa. We're about to be worthy Okay, worthy, 0:01:24.720 --> 0:01:27.880 Worthy junior and Worthy senior. You know, because if it 0:01:27.920 --> 0:01:34.199 wasn't for the worthy, I wouldn't he wouldn't be Yes, 0:01:34.280 --> 0:01:40.720 and today, but today I'm giving you Gemini. You know geminis. 0:01:41.360 --> 0:01:44.440 You know, two phase but but but my two faces 0:01:44.480 --> 0:01:50.720 are great. Okay, how about this, um Bosa, how has 0:01:50.800 --> 0:01:52.960 life been for you? You know these couple of weeks, 0:01:53.520 --> 0:01:56.080 um that we haven't really been well. Ever since you've 0:01:56.080 --> 0:02:00.360 given me this opportunity to be on your pod cast 0:02:00.480 --> 0:02:04.480 and I was the co host, my life has changed enormously. 0:02:04.520 --> 0:02:06.680 I mean, you believed in me and not my life 0:02:06.800 --> 0:02:10.400 is really taking like it's really taken off. I'm getting 0:02:10.560 --> 0:02:13.680 all these deals and that's what we've been talking about. 0:02:13.720 --> 0:02:16.200 It's so funny because we talked about this on the 0:02:16.240 --> 0:02:18.840 prior episodes, how we got to support each other as 0:02:18.840 --> 0:02:21.359 a Latin X community. And yo, that's what you've been doing. 0:02:21.440 --> 0:02:24.280 Because let me tell you, ever since you kind of 0:02:24.280 --> 0:02:33.720 like solidified me and on me talking about that, tell 0:02:33.800 --> 0:02:35.919 me what projects have you been working on or where 0:02:36.120 --> 0:02:39.840 do you plan on working on? Well? I do have 0:02:39.960 --> 0:02:43.079 a biopic that I'm producing. I'm gonna be executive producer. 0:02:43.520 --> 0:02:46.600 I can't talk about the artist, but if you know me, 0:02:46.680 --> 0:02:48.720 you probably kind of know a little bit. I'll just 0:02:48.760 --> 0:02:51.720 give you the artist was a person from the Bronx. 0:02:51.800 --> 0:02:58.239 I almost gave it away that Jenny does know him, though, Okay, 0:02:58.600 --> 0:03:00.760 and then that's all I could give you. And then 0:03:01.160 --> 0:03:04.480 I'm also gonna have my talk, my own talk show, 0:03:04.680 --> 0:03:08.600 which is funny because your talk show is, um, don't 0:03:08.600 --> 0:03:12.520 cancel me, don't cancel me right where I'm out, and mine, 0:03:12.880 --> 0:03:15.080 because I feel connected to you, is gonna be like, 0:03:15.240 --> 0:03:19.000 might as well cancel me, Oh my god, because you 0:03:19.080 --> 0:03:21.080 know I'd be a mess. And I say what I 0:03:21.120 --> 0:03:24.680 want to say unapologetically. I'm not scared enough, you know. 0:03:25.040 --> 0:03:28.119 Once you know that, once I'm in, I'm in, and 0:03:28.280 --> 0:03:30.200 I just feel like somebody has to be like a, 0:03:33.360 --> 0:03:37.080 don't cancel me. It's definitely different, though, don't cancel me. 0:03:37.120 --> 0:03:40.320 I think we have deeper conversations about like immigration and like, 0:03:40.800 --> 0:03:44.600 you know, I don't know body positivity, Like our conversation 0:03:44.600 --> 0:03:46.680 is a little bit different. But then I'm watching jail 0:03:47.920 --> 0:03:49.800 and I just think that you definitely need your own 0:03:49.800 --> 0:03:51.720 show for something like that. But I wanted to be 0:03:51.720 --> 0:03:55.000 able to hit on some more serious topics, but we 0:03:55.080 --> 0:03:57.120 were actually giving some facts and things like that, so 0:03:57.320 --> 0:03:59.000 it different in there. I still would love to be 0:03:59.040 --> 0:04:00.880 able to have a platform I could be scanned as 0:04:00.920 --> 0:04:06.440 loud and be myself and then that's what I having exactly. Yes, 0:04:06.600 --> 0:04:08.640 And you know it's so crazy because I've been looking 0:04:08.640 --> 0:04:13.160 at you look amazing. First of all, you look every set, 0:04:13.840 --> 0:04:17.599 every set is like, wow, look at you. You're giving 0:04:17.680 --> 0:04:22.920 us look you guys looks. I give you fashion, lights, camera, 0:04:23.120 --> 0:04:26.360 makeup thing no, no, because you know what not hear nothing. 0:04:26.400 --> 0:04:28.920 But after the pandemic, it really made me feel okay, 0:04:28.920 --> 0:04:30.800 I need to change things up and evolved a little 0:04:30.839 --> 0:04:33.440 bit more, trying new things. And I've been doing it 0:04:33.480 --> 0:04:37.880 and I feel grate, feel lovely worming. So girl, let 0:04:37.880 --> 0:04:40.600 me just tell you speaking about outfits, because girl, you 0:04:40.680 --> 0:04:43.560 know that, you know that you've been giving us looks. 0:04:43.600 --> 0:04:47.000 For now, you've been giving us looks. But honey, it 0:04:47.160 --> 0:04:51.840 is Halloween this weekend, so honey, hunty, and one day 0:04:51.960 --> 0:04:54.360 of year that you could be a quit, you could 0:04:54.400 --> 0:04:57.680 be a whole is on Halloween. You could be Yes, 0:04:57.800 --> 0:04:59.320 you need that one day because you do it a 0:04:59.440 --> 0:05:04.599 year around ha ha for real, that's how do you laugh? 0:05:05.040 --> 0:05:08.240 But honestly, um, there's so many great looks. I know 0:05:08.320 --> 0:05:11.080 every year I'm looking forward to like all the celebrities 0:05:11.120 --> 0:05:13.960 coming out giving us looks and giving us I mean, 0:05:14.000 --> 0:05:17.160 one year Kim Kardashian, I think she did Selena and 0:05:17.400 --> 0:05:21.920 people Beyonce, one year did Little Kim. So they has 0:05:21.960 --> 0:05:26.080 been like those wow moments, you know, can you tell 0:05:26.120 --> 0:05:28.280 me like are you gonna be dressing up this year? 0:05:28.600 --> 0:05:32.040 Or and if so, what are you going to be? 0:05:32.520 --> 0:05:34.200 Or are you like me last minute in the whole 0:05:34.240 --> 0:05:37.839 world the day before. It's not that I'm being boring, 0:05:37.920 --> 0:05:40.440 It's just that every day I gotta work, and I 0:05:40.480 --> 0:05:44.479 think I even work on Halloween and I don't really 0:05:44.480 --> 0:05:49.320 have Oh no, give I'm out a day off something 0:05:49.440 --> 0:05:51.400 my other day off, like oh I get to sleep. 0:05:51.400 --> 0:05:53.120 It's like, no, you have this to do. And it's like, 0:05:53.400 --> 0:05:56.640 which I'm grateful because you have to take advantage of it. 0:05:57.360 --> 0:05:59.320 Haven't you been in those situations? But you're like, damn, 0:05:59.480 --> 0:06:01.320 why isn't it re calling me? I need to get booked. 0:06:01.320 --> 0:06:03.200 I need to find something to do. And then there's 0:06:03.240 --> 0:06:05.360 other times when you're like, damn, everything is happening at 0:06:05.360 --> 0:06:07.000 the same time. So right now I'm in that stage. 0:06:07.040 --> 0:06:10.080 But I'm grateful for so no, and I'm not the 0:06:10.080 --> 0:06:12.720 way I'm Indeed, I've never really been the Halloween girl. 0:06:14.680 --> 0:06:22.200 I mean, they can full of blood, but I like 0:06:22.320 --> 0:06:28.719 the tricking part of it. Okay, come on now, for 0:06:29.920 --> 0:06:31.440 I got a trick for a treat, but that treat 0:06:31.480 --> 0:06:37.560 better that I enjoy seeing other people decorate their homes 0:06:37.839 --> 0:06:40.280 give away the candy. Which, to be honest, now, with 0:06:40.360 --> 0:06:42.120 the coronavirus and everything that happened, do you think the 0:06:42.200 --> 0:06:43.600 kids are gonna be trick or treating? As a matter 0:06:43.640 --> 0:06:46.000 of fact, let me ask you this. You have two kids, 0:06:46.320 --> 0:06:48.360 will you allow your kids to go trick or treating 0:06:48.480 --> 0:06:52.000 and then go to stranger's house and pick up some candy? Coronavirus? 0:06:52.360 --> 0:06:54.320 So we are going to have a party because it 0:06:54.400 --> 0:06:58.279 is Joanna's birthday and we're gonna celebrate her birthday, but 0:06:58.440 --> 0:07:01.000 we're also going to do a trick a trating around 0:07:01.000 --> 0:07:06.640 the area. But I'm gonna buy them their own candy, 0:07:06.680 --> 0:07:08.680 so I'm gonna let them do their thing. I'm sorry 0:07:08.720 --> 0:07:10.920 if I'm using other people's candy and I'm not gonna 0:07:10.920 --> 0:07:13.520 be using it, but what We're gonna have our own candy. 0:07:13.560 --> 0:07:15.960 But I still don't want to take out takeaway from 0:07:15.960 --> 0:07:18.440 the tradition. And you know, when I look at Halloween, 0:07:18.560 --> 0:07:21.160 I don't look at like look at it or tevilish 0:07:21.200 --> 0:07:23.480 like people do. I like to dress up. I like 0:07:23.640 --> 0:07:26.000 the part that you get to be who you want 0:07:26.040 --> 0:07:28.720 to be. And that's very important, and that has always 0:07:28.760 --> 0:07:32.800 been an outlet because but it's really it's Halloween really 0:07:32.840 --> 0:07:36.720 for kids or is it for adults? Well, after a 0:07:36.760 --> 0:07:39.280 while girl adults, let me tell you, as an adult, 0:07:39.320 --> 0:07:42.200 I had much more fun for Halloween. Man. I had 0:07:42.240 --> 0:07:45.960 three costumes. I would party Thursday for college night, Friday 0:07:45.960 --> 0:07:50.440 for regular nights, and sometimes Sunday, like I would party 0:07:50.480 --> 0:07:53.760 it up the whole weekend, sometimes a week before. You know, 0:07:53.800 --> 0:07:58.080 we get because they didn't follow Stevie, you don't get 0:07:58.120 --> 0:08:05.800 sending you seem didn't at the beach. Always about if 0:08:05.840 --> 0:08:09.920 you asked inside your house. Damn the coronavirus. You know, 0:08:10.960 --> 0:08:14.320 I can't. I can't be tied up and I cannot 0:08:14.520 --> 0:08:22.360 I cannot be locked in him. Oh my fine, but 0:08:22.480 --> 0:08:26.240 you know you do. We don't need whatever. I would 0:08:26.280 --> 0:08:27.880 definitely take them to or treating because I think it's 0:08:27.880 --> 0:08:29.520 stute for the kids. You dressed them off, but all 0:08:29.520 --> 0:08:31.040 they feel like, oh my god, I'm a princess, I'm 0:08:31.080 --> 0:08:34.120 a monster. That's great as the adult thing that you 0:08:34.160 --> 0:08:37.400 can pay along, but all right now, it's dangerous out 0:08:37.440 --> 0:08:41.400 here in these streets. I want todo dressing up like 0:08:41.480 --> 0:08:43.640 you know, monster this than that. So then come, you know, 0:08:43.720 --> 0:08:47.439 finagle your kids, um do things to people. Oh my god, 0:08:47.800 --> 0:08:50.160 you didn't see that news that happened that they went 0:08:50.200 --> 0:08:52.040 to like a haunted house and then one of the 0:08:52.120 --> 0:08:55.520 actors there was using like a real knife. You didn't 0:08:55.559 --> 0:08:57.240 hear about that, and then actually stabbed the kid at 0:08:57.240 --> 0:09:02.959 his feet. Wow, don't right now, girl, You're about to 0:09:03.000 --> 0:09:04.839 make me not want to take my kids. Dangerous out 0:09:04.920 --> 0:09:09.920 here and then you can't even tell who did what 0:09:10.040 --> 0:09:13.560 to who. So right now it's like I want to 0:09:13.880 --> 0:09:16.120 I want to enjoy this moment, you know, like a 0:09:16.160 --> 0:09:19.199 family moment. But I did we talk without It's also 0:09:19.360 --> 0:09:22.840 very dangerous Halloween, especially this year after the coronavirus and 0:09:22.880 --> 0:09:24.480 the pandemic and the people that were locked you know, 0:09:24.520 --> 0:09:30.360 lock up in their house. I know everybody's out here. 0:09:30.400 --> 0:09:32.480 I mean the other day. Did you see that my 0:09:32.600 --> 0:09:35.000 cousins came up from came down from up North and 0:09:35.000 --> 0:09:38.440 they all dressed like nuns and I just like an angel. 0:09:38.520 --> 0:09:41.640 Did you get to see you? Like? It was so? 0:09:41.920 --> 0:09:45.160 But that's what it's about. It's about having fun. I 0:09:45.200 --> 0:09:48.000 don't like to suck up the fund from Halloween because 0:09:48.080 --> 0:09:52.360 let me tell you, Halloween is extraordinary. It's like the 0:09:52.440 --> 0:09:55.120 day that I love hallows even and let me to 0:09:55.160 --> 0:09:57.200 also wear a mask, okay, because now that you have 0:09:57.200 --> 0:09:59.839 a real mask, you can get double protected. Now for nothing, 0:10:00.040 --> 0:10:04.400 I think everybody. I think everybody's sick of work for nothing. 0:10:04.400 --> 0:10:07.520 Like men, we still need to protect each other and 0:10:07.559 --> 0:10:09.280 we need to make sure game. As long as you're 0:10:09.280 --> 0:10:11.920 having fun, you're gonna be in these parties and needs 0:10:11.920 --> 0:10:14.400 in beds. I don't want to sound like the mom batto. 0:10:14.720 --> 0:10:16.280 You need to be in these parties, the hoping to 0:10:16.320 --> 0:10:18.720 strangers that you don't know all of in everybody's faces, like, 0:10:19.080 --> 0:10:23.360 let's also have fun, but still be aware that there's 0:10:23.360 --> 0:10:26.120 still ship happening in the world right now. But let 0:10:26.200 --> 0:10:28.080 me ask you this TV when you were younger, like, 0:10:28.200 --> 0:10:33.080 what are your youngest memories of celebrating Halloween? While what 0:10:33.120 --> 0:10:35.960 I do remember is that my mother always made me 0:10:36.000 --> 0:10:41.960 either vampire or pip. She liked that crap, Oh, that's 0:10:42.040 --> 0:10:45.320 so cute, like a pumpkin, like this one, yeah, like 0:10:46.960 --> 0:10:49.720 a little top in the head. I was just like, mom, 0:10:50.080 --> 0:10:52.880 Oh my god, you know which ones are really cute? 0:10:52.960 --> 0:10:56.959 Like um one day when I've seen like people do 0:10:57.080 --> 0:11:00.040 like outfits of their kids and babies as popping in. 0:11:00.200 --> 0:11:03.040 Oh my god, are you excited in the future when 0:11:03.080 --> 0:11:05.480 you ever have kids, are you excited like to dress 0:11:05.520 --> 0:11:08.880 them up amouta because that's like, no, of course, I 0:11:08.920 --> 0:11:10.800 think it's gonna be exciting to be able to, you know, 0:11:11.200 --> 0:11:13.720 share those things and and take a lot of pictures, 0:11:13.720 --> 0:11:16.840 a lot of memories, because memories not for nothing. These days. 0:11:16.840 --> 0:11:19.280 Everything is through social media, everything is through your phone. 0:11:23.360 --> 0:11:25.640 You lose all your memories, and those memories are great 0:11:25.679 --> 0:11:27.600 to have of your children, you dress them up for 0:11:27.640 --> 0:11:30.319 Halloween and as an adult, but all make sure to 0:11:30.400 --> 0:11:33.280 try to print them out and save them because anything 0:11:33.320 --> 0:11:35.160 can happen with it. Anything that's all you got, that's 0:11:35.200 --> 0:11:40.240 all you got. Because girl, let's talk about this. What 0:11:40.880 --> 0:11:44.360 is you We gotta switch, we gotta switch all the shades. 0:11:44.640 --> 0:11:48.320 But listen on your birthday when they shut down. That's 0:11:48.400 --> 0:11:50.440 like a perfect example. On your birthday when they shut 0:11:50.440 --> 0:11:52.880 down social media. Girl, I was like, I know, it's 0:11:52.920 --> 0:11:55.280 back to prainting, It's back to getting into the dark room, 0:11:55.640 --> 0:11:58.440 and it's back and I and you know that. My 0:11:58.520 --> 0:12:00.000 all my high school years, I was in the dark 0:12:00.200 --> 0:12:02.480 because I did graphic communications and we were like print 0:12:02.520 --> 0:12:04.840 out black one. I was like, everyone needs to print 0:12:04.840 --> 0:12:07.520 out photos because what if you miss all those memories. Look, 0:12:08.240 --> 0:12:12.880 you cannot be dependent on social media to save your memories. 0:12:20.800 --> 0:12:25.679 Talking about Halloween, Um, during Halloween, is here anything you 0:12:25.800 --> 0:12:28.440 like to watch, Like any scary movies that you're into anything? 0:12:28.480 --> 0:12:31.160 Oh my god. So let me tell you I only 0:12:31.200 --> 0:12:33.440 lived Um, I grew up up north, So I only 0:12:33.480 --> 0:12:37.160 lived about two hours away from Salem, Massachusetts, where all 0:12:37.640 --> 0:12:39.559 the witches were at And let me tell you that's 0:12:39.559 --> 0:12:41.480 a tradition for us. We used to go every year. 0:12:41.480 --> 0:12:44.120 If you have not gone to Salem, I moved down 0:12:44.120 --> 0:12:46.840 to Florida. And that's one thing I do miss is 0:12:47.120 --> 0:12:49.480 for up north, there is nothing like Christmas. And for 0:12:49.679 --> 0:12:51.880 up North, no, that would be so cold. That's why 0:12:51.960 --> 0:12:56.680 I have all the first So Salem is an incredible place. 0:12:56.840 --> 0:13:00.320 It's where they filmed Hocus Focused. Did you ever choke? 0:13:00.360 --> 0:13:04.200 Its focus? From Disney? The Sanderson sisters. Oh my god. 0:13:04.400 --> 0:13:08.560 They have location sites, they do tours, museums. It's like 0:13:08.720 --> 0:13:11.960 Universal Parker Disney or anything like that. Definitely for Halloween 0:13:12.000 --> 0:13:19.240 is such an experience. Oh girl, Yes, I think it's 0:13:19.240 --> 0:13:22.800 called Hollow Scream Girl. That is amazing. But up north 0:13:22.840 --> 0:13:26.480 it's real like down here, Yes, Disney can make it 0:13:26.480 --> 0:13:28.520 look beautiful and you know, but this is a real 0:13:28.600 --> 0:13:31.000 place where they have real witches, you know what. I 0:13:31.080 --> 0:13:33.960 definitely love watching. I love watching. I was such a 0:13:33.960 --> 0:13:39.640 fan of Saal once too, so three I saw them all. 0:13:40.080 --> 0:13:43.800 I love to see it all like Sadongo in the 0:13:43.840 --> 0:13:46.120 freaking marking and then they would just cut off the 0:13:46.240 --> 0:13:49.200 finger and the leads. You know. I love all types 0:13:49.240 --> 0:13:52.720 of horror movies. Um those how I know, But I 0:13:52.760 --> 0:13:54.439 like it to be really nasty. I'm okay with the 0:13:54.520 --> 0:13:56.640 blood and maybe feel like it's real. When it's like 0:13:57.080 --> 0:14:02.320 to um fantasy, I'll be over yes what I feel 0:14:02.320 --> 0:14:04.360 like it could really be me. I'm like, oh my god, 0:14:04.559 --> 0:14:09.080 put up your leg if he's coming for you around 0:14:10.880 --> 0:14:12.240 you look what you're right? Oh my god, you know 0:14:12.280 --> 0:14:14.160 which one scares me? I love you, you know which 0:14:14.160 --> 0:14:16.679 one scares me? Um thinning and in and and thing, 0:14:16.840 --> 0:14:21.040 damn and and and Michael Myerschael Myers is good. That 0:14:21.160 --> 0:14:24.160 was another one that it was on a monk, Michael Myers, 0:14:24.200 --> 0:14:25.480 let me tell you. And they have a new one 0:14:25.480 --> 0:14:27.480 out in theaters right now, So go check that out 0:14:27.480 --> 0:14:30.640 in theaters. Shout out to the Halloween franchise that's been 0:14:30.680 --> 0:14:34.320 around for so long with Jamie Lee Curtis, and that 0:14:34.360 --> 0:14:39.440 one right there has scared my whole entire existence. It's 0:14:39.480 --> 0:14:44.480 more scared women or men. I love scary men, scary movies, 0:14:44.880 --> 0:14:47.720 our men like. I don't know our men as into 0:14:47.920 --> 0:14:49.640 what I'm guessing they are because men are more like 0:14:50.120 --> 0:14:53.160 they like the gross stuff too. That's a good question 0:14:53.160 --> 0:14:55.360 for exactly about us Instagram page, and make sure you're 0:14:55.400 --> 0:14:56.880 checking that out and make sure you're making it popping 0:14:57.000 --> 0:14:59.280 and sharing and telling a friend of tell a friend girl. 0:14:59.320 --> 0:15:02.400 There have been so many movies. How about how about Chucky? 0:15:02.680 --> 0:15:08.800 I you, hey, daddy, We're going back into the whole fantasy. 0:15:08.880 --> 0:15:12.240 And for me, it's like the doll talk. I get it. 0:15:12.280 --> 0:15:15.920 He's cute, but I like more like realistic things where 0:15:15.960 --> 0:15:17.800 I'm like, oh, I'm scared that could be me, that 0:15:17.840 --> 0:15:20.520 could be my next door neighbor. You know, I can't 0:15:20.520 --> 0:15:22.000 wait to see what you're gonna be. The scary movies 0:15:22.000 --> 0:15:25.440 they're gonna come out this year. Girl, Well, I know 0:15:25.480 --> 0:15:28.920 that Halloween already came out. Um, so it's already out 0:15:29.000 --> 0:15:32.040 right now. Um. But let me tell you you know 0:15:32.120 --> 0:15:42.840 which one freaks me out, Clouds for clowns. It it's 0:15:42.840 --> 0:15:45.120 the member back in the days when all those people 0:15:45.120 --> 0:15:46.720 are dressed in my clowns and they were actally crazy 0:15:46.760 --> 0:15:48.840 out in the streets. And then it came out the movie. 0:15:49.160 --> 0:15:52.000 Did you watch the movie with the clown Stephen King 0:15:52.400 --> 0:15:55.480 came out with that? Oh my god, that was so scary. 0:15:55.960 --> 0:15:58.560 That didn't scared me down. Both are guys more scary 0:15:58.560 --> 0:16:01.840 than girls. No, I don't feel like I'm gonna hey 0:16:01.880 --> 0:16:05.440 y like I was a little It wasn't that bad. 0:16:07.880 --> 0:16:10.720 It wasn't that bad. And let me ask you something too, 0:16:10.840 --> 0:16:15.000 I want to get all. I don't know, do men 0:16:15.200 --> 0:16:18.200 dress up as much for Halloween than like women do? 0:16:18.560 --> 0:16:21.600 And I feel like men always have like less choices 0:16:21.680 --> 0:16:23.720 to dress up for things that women Women we could 0:16:23.720 --> 0:16:27.480 be a butterfly and ah this do you guys have 0:16:27.480 --> 0:16:32.120 a lot of a lot of options? No, and absolutely not. 0:16:32.280 --> 0:16:34.960 I've been to like, you know, party stores, and there's 0:16:35.000 --> 0:16:37.680 not a lot of options for men. I think women 0:16:37.800 --> 0:16:44.240 love the slutty outfits and they love yes, and they 0:16:44.280 --> 0:16:47.360 I love when they turn like man outfits into like 0:16:47.480 --> 0:16:51.040 women's slutty outfits, and they'll be like Dorothy, but the 0:16:51.080 --> 0:16:53.880 slutty Dorothy, or they'll be like a nurse, but the 0:16:53.960 --> 0:16:57.080 slutty nurse. I think that is so cool. But there's 0:16:57.160 --> 0:17:01.520 so much more options for women. And you're absolutely right, man, 0:17:01.640 --> 0:17:04.720 we don't have many options now. I wear costumes twenty 0:17:04.720 --> 0:17:08.480 four Yeah, I know every day every day. Your outfit 0:17:08.560 --> 0:17:15.679 it's like you're going to Halloween every day every every day. 0:17:16.000 --> 0:17:18.640 Just shut that's somebody because I already wore like three 0:17:18.680 --> 0:17:20.480 and I'm about to switch to the big shade because 0:17:20.520 --> 0:17:22.159 you just gave me the biggest shade. So now I 0:17:22.160 --> 0:17:23.920 gotta go to banky arena. Are you gonna go to 0:17:23.920 --> 0:17:27.000 any parties, any Halloween parties. I'm gonna be doing a lot. 0:17:27.080 --> 0:17:30.159 And it's Joanna, my wife's birthday. Oh yeah, I have 0:17:30.200 --> 0:17:32.440 a wife, did we ever do an episode on that. 0:17:32.520 --> 0:17:36.560 We spoke about it about it. Yes, but my wife 0:17:36.600 --> 0:17:39.479 is like my husband because she she is, She changes 0:17:39.520 --> 0:17:41.159 the oil and all of that. But how about this 0:17:41.240 --> 0:17:42.800 You were talking about your wife. So are you guys 0:17:42.840 --> 0:17:45.520 gonna dress up like the same as couples, you know 0:17:45.600 --> 0:17:47.719 for Halloween? Or what are you gonna do? You know 0:17:47.760 --> 0:17:50.119 as a couple, we have done that, but we're like 0:17:50.200 --> 0:17:52.040 in Halloween, you tell me, tell me what did you 0:17:52.080 --> 0:17:55.359 do as a couple for Halloween? Well? I didn't. I 0:17:55.440 --> 0:17:58.400 told her. This year we did Disney. You know, Chloe's 0:17:58.400 --> 0:18:01.959 gonna do vill and I'm gonna do We're doing like Disney. 0:18:01.960 --> 0:18:04.320 She's gonna be the Witch. So it's kind of like 0:18:06.640 --> 0:18:08.920 kind of yeah, because me and Joanna we've been doing 0:18:08.920 --> 0:18:12.119 this for like fifteen plus years dressing up. So this 0:18:12.200 --> 0:18:14.080 year we kind of were like, let's you know, I'm 0:18:14.080 --> 0:18:17.080 gonna dress like my daughter and then you do something 0:18:17.119 --> 0:18:20.440 with your son. So Copatima we went half and half half. 0:18:21.000 --> 0:18:24.399 As have you ever dressed up as a woman or 0:18:24.480 --> 0:18:28.400 something that's like women related? Has your daughter been like dad, 0:18:28.600 --> 0:18:32.480 what are you doing? Or she's like who oh my god? 0:18:32.640 --> 0:18:37.200 So I had Mac do my makeup um, I had 0:18:37.240 --> 0:18:42.439 a real Brazilian um with whatever I had. Listen, the 0:18:42.480 --> 0:18:45.760 way I looked was incredible, and my name was Caslature. 0:18:47.200 --> 0:18:52.520 I was card I was Cardi Bee's babies when they 0:18:52.520 --> 0:18:54.960 saw you, were they like, oh my god, what are 0:18:55.000 --> 0:18:56.639 you doing this weird? Or were they like, oh, this 0:18:56.680 --> 0:18:59.679 is my daughter is my biggest fan. I'm telling you 0:18:59.720 --> 0:19:02.359 these is they're just they've taught. They've been taught like 0:19:02.480 --> 0:19:05.239 nine binary all of these these kids, your kids, all 0:19:05.240 --> 0:19:08.439 those things. Oh yes, I mean I don't try to 0:19:08.480 --> 0:19:10.960 like bombard them with things. I want my kids to 0:19:11.000 --> 0:19:13.320 be educated. I mean, I don't want my kids to 0:19:13.320 --> 0:19:14.879 be like, oh I don't like that, and everything be 0:19:14.880 --> 0:19:17.680 a culture shock and then she becomes like this miserable friend. No, 0:19:17.880 --> 0:19:21.120 I want her to be supportive and whatever. I'll tell 0:19:21.160 --> 0:19:24.160 you this much. I don't know. It's not that I'm 0:19:24.160 --> 0:19:28.720 a party pooper, but okay, to the whole holway to 0:19:28.800 --> 0:19:31.359 dress up everything for the kids. I think it's cute. 0:19:31.520 --> 0:19:34.080 But for me, I just haven't gotten into it. And 0:19:34.080 --> 0:19:36.200 I think it has to do with my childhood. My 0:19:36.240 --> 0:19:39.720 mom was never not because she was religious, but she 0:19:39.880 --> 0:19:47.440 was never really into like the devils in the streets, 0:19:47.760 --> 0:19:52.000 be careful that it was like a brainwashing. I'm okay now, 0:19:52.040 --> 0:19:54.240 I just don't get it. It's like I'd rather wait 0:19:54.280 --> 0:20:04.679 till Christmas or things giving. No, but you're right, But 0:20:04.800 --> 0:20:08.160 you're right. A lot of people don't celebrate Halloween because 0:20:08.160 --> 0:20:12.000 they say that it's the devil thing, or maybe it's 0:20:12.040 --> 0:20:16.520 just right. When I was really deep in church, um, 0:20:16.520 --> 0:20:18.480 we used to celebrate. We used to They used to 0:20:18.520 --> 0:20:21.040 call it harvest time, and it was like a harvest 0:20:21.080 --> 0:20:23.320 party and it was like a bunch of candy and 0:20:23.359 --> 0:20:25.880 pumpkins and stuff like that, so that the kids wouldn't 0:20:25.920 --> 0:20:28.800 feel not included, that, you know, at the whole world's 0:20:28.840 --> 0:20:31.520 party and we're not partying. It wasn't the same, you know. 0:20:31.600 --> 0:20:33.439 And it was the same day. And when I was 0:20:33.480 --> 0:20:35.800 a youth minister at the time, I used to make 0:20:35.840 --> 0:20:39.480 it on the same day. Um. And if I had kids, 0:20:39.640 --> 0:20:41.800 I think I'll I don't want to be the mom 0:20:41.880 --> 0:20:45.200 party pooper and tell me as a parent, because you know, battle, 0:20:45.400 --> 0:20:49.040 I want you to dress as nice things. I don't 0:20:49.040 --> 0:20:51.160 want you full of blood. I don't want your face 0:20:51.520 --> 0:20:54.360 like a monster. I don't want you with guns. Am 0:20:54.359 --> 0:20:57.960 I doing too much? I know? That some parents, that's perfect. 0:20:58.080 --> 0:21:00.000 I feel like you're a kid, You're supposed to have fun. 0:21:00.119 --> 0:21:01.720 Don't you want to be like a power ranger or 0:21:01.720 --> 0:21:04.560 anything like that. Like I would say, I would say, 0:21:06.800 --> 0:21:10.000 oh my god, I have to say this, and this 0:21:10.600 --> 0:21:15.479 is time, this is okay. We're always Superman. But then 0:21:15.520 --> 0:21:18.360 you see what they just released about Superman's son now 0:21:18.400 --> 0:21:22.399 in the new movie he's bisexual. That that he's bisexual, 0:21:22.600 --> 0:21:24.840 and I don't have an issue with that, because they 0:21:24.920 --> 0:21:28.520 keep saying, oh, now, the world keeps pushing this agenda 0:21:28.640 --> 0:21:32.680 about the LGBT. I don't think that that is an issue. 0:21:32.800 --> 0:21:35.080 I think that this is a part of life and 0:21:35.080 --> 0:21:36.760 it's that okay. Like I took my daughter the other 0:21:36.800 --> 0:21:38.960 day to go see my best friend. I had to 0:21:39.000 --> 0:21:41.480 explain to her that my best friend this is my 0:21:41.560 --> 0:21:45.520 child friend that was his partner soon to be husband. 0:21:45.960 --> 0:21:50.000 So this is a thing. So like they keep saying, oh, 0:21:50.040 --> 0:21:52.359 pushing it is a thing. Now, there's a lot of 0:21:52.359 --> 0:21:56.480 people and when I think that they have always been here, 0:21:56.600 --> 0:21:59.320 they were never hiding. I mean now they feel exactly 0:21:59.440 --> 0:22:02.760 more free to be themselves, right, but they were never hiding. 0:22:02.880 --> 0:22:06.000 I mean sense like we we we feel yeah, but 0:22:06.080 --> 0:22:11.520 like six but it's one of their bisexually, their gay 0:22:11.600 --> 0:22:13.919 trans all this has always existed, it's just that now 0:22:13.960 --> 0:22:18.199 it's more liberal, more open. And I thought, like you know, 0:22:18.280 --> 0:22:20.520 like and people always trying to talk about that is 0:22:20.560 --> 0:22:24.960 a thing because I know that Superman is one of 0:22:25.000 --> 0:22:28.880 those characters that kids enjoyed dressing up for Halloween as well. 0:22:29.080 --> 0:22:31.120 So now I'm curious, you know, how many of those 0:22:31.160 --> 0:22:34.320