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Speaker 1: So what happened with you and Clinton? How did you

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Speaker 1: Yes there, Oh my god, here Clinton, high oh listen.

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Speaker 1: I'm actually so relieved, Like, if that's really the reason,

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Speaker 1: I work at a bookstore, like it, I don't make

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Speaker 1: Don't sell yourself short. You definitely get your discount. You guys,

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Speaker 1: we have our own money. She can take you out.

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Speaker 1: It's just been a bit tough with with my schedule.

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Speaker 1: But I hope that we can definitely make that happen,

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Speaker 1: I mean this sounds like it's going well. And really, Clinton,

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Speaker 1: I have a red Lobster gift card with your name

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Speaker 1: on it. Oh yes, show me those cheddar biscuits. We're

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Speaker 1: really moving up here. Would you like to go out

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Speaker 1: I would love to go out with her, And that's

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Speaker 1: very generous to you, guys, But I should let you

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Speaker 1: know I am allergic to shellfish. Okay, show up. You

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Speaker 1: can just get the sides of spaking biscuits. Yeah, we

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Speaker 1: would love that. I appreciate that. Oh, you guys are

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Speaker 1: but the shellfish thing is kind of a dealbreaker for me. What.

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Speaker 1: definitely hold on to that lingerie. Okay, Kara, Oh okay,

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Speaker 1: wait what lingerie? Oh you'll find out soon, but don't worry.

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Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.