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<v Speaker 1>out on a date when you're set up by friends

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<v Speaker 1>is the worst because there's the pressure of being on

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<v Speaker 1>the first date. Yeah yeah, and then there's the pressure

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<v Speaker 1>of screwing things up and making your friend angry. And

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<v Speaker 1>Charles emailed us about a girl he wants to call

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<v Speaker 1>today that was set up by one of his friends. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>not only is that girl not talking to him, but

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<v Speaker 1>his friend isn't even talking to him either. So Charles

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<v Speaker 1>obviously screwed up something on his date and he wants

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<v Speaker 1>to figure out what it was. Charles, how are you? Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>good man, how are you? I'm excited to be on

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<v Speaker 1>your show. Thanks, I'm good, I'm loveless, I'm friendless, I'm cool.

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<v Speaker 1>Sounds like you killed it on your first date. Many,

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<v Speaker 1>I killed something. I don't know what. Why don't you

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<v Speaker 1>tell us a little bit about it? What was the

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<v Speaker 1>girl's name that you went out with. Her name is Rebecca.

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<v Speaker 1>Rebecca okay? And Rebecca was set up by a friend

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<v Speaker 1>of yours. Yeah, a co worker friend of mine. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>and Rebecca a friend of hers who just moved to town.

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<v Speaker 1>And why did your friend think that Rebecca would be

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<v Speaker 1>a good fit for you? Well, I don't date a lot,

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<v Speaker 1>and my co worker knew this, but you know I

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<v Speaker 1>would I would like to date more. I would like

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<v Speaker 1>to you know, have a girlfriend one day. And so

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<v Speaker 1>I think my co worker was just trying to help

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<v Speaker 1>me out, help her friend Rebecca out, who's new to town,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, somebody could show her around. So she's like,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't date a lot, this girl's new to town.

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<v Speaker 1>She'd clearly has nobody else to hang out with, so

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<v Speaker 1>this can be a good opportunity for you, Charles, something

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<v Speaker 1>like that. And what did you and Rebecca do on

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<v Speaker 1>your date? We went to the park. We uh, well,

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<v Speaker 1>at first, I will admit I kind of like Facebook's

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<v Speaker 1>doctor a little bit. Um. I think I think that

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<v Speaker 1>that is totally okay, that's normal. Yeah, yeah, okay, good. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>And I saw her picture and she was super cute

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<v Speaker 1>and I was almost like like, I'm second getting myself

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<v Speaker 1>now I'm like, is she too cute for me? But

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<v Speaker 1>I you know, I set up a date. We did

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<v Speaker 1>it on a weekend, like a day date. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>the kind of guy that like goes want to go

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<v Speaker 1>to barn, like get smashed or whatever. Yeah, so you're boring.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're real baring dude. That sounds actually refreshing Charles

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<v Speaker 1>to not have the pressure of a night date. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not the kind of guy that's going to like

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<v Speaker 1>go to a bar and gets drunk. I mean, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just like kind of not who you are, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of like lowering people's inhibitions. It's like almost

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<v Speaker 1>like kind of like tricking a girl to go with

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<v Speaker 1>you because she smashed it. Yeah, see what you described

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<v Speaker 1>to me as my fantasy. I love it. That's that's

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<v Speaker 1>a great date to me, but apparently not for you. No,

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<v Speaker 1>not not for me personally. I understand why, though. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean it's also not as safe at nighttime. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's dark and where are you heading out like

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<v Speaker 1>back alley night? No, I don't know. I just that's

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<v Speaker 1>when like you know, crime goes up at night. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I understand what scary world out there all right. So anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>so you took her on a daytime date to the

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<v Speaker 1>park during the day because the nighttime is too scary.

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<v Speaker 1>So we went on a drive. We went to the park.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like kind of a nature loving guy. I was

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<v Speaker 1>hoping she would be too. So you know, we went.

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<v Speaker 1>I brought a blanket. When for a walk, we had

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<v Speaker 1>brought a fritzbee. It was fun. Well, define nature, define

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<v Speaker 1>nature loving like you enjoy nature or you actually like

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<v Speaker 1>love nature. I tried to refrain from going loving it

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<v Speaker 1>that much. Okay, Well, I was if that happened on

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<v Speaker 1>your first date, I could see why you're not getting

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<v Speaker 1>a call back and why your coworker would stop talking

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<v Speaker 1>to you. Like, No, I did not do that on

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<v Speaker 1>the day. Okay, okay, So how was it. How was

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<v Speaker 1>the conversation? Was it easy? Yeah? I thought it was great.

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<v Speaker 1>We were laughing, we were talking. I mean whatever you

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<v Speaker 1>would want to a date to go. Well, yeah, this

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<v Speaker 1>was it. I thought, was is there anything in your

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<v Speaker 1>mind that could have gone wrong? I mean, again, like

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<v Speaker 1>I said, I'm second getting myself. Um. So you know,

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<v Speaker 1>after the date, I drove her home. I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>be a gentleman. So you know, I'm like, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>going to go for kiss or anything. But I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we got to her place and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, hold on, don't get out of the car,

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<v Speaker 1>and I like ran around and opened the door for her.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah that's nice. Yeah I thought so. But I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if maybe people don't do that anymore, or she

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<v Speaker 1>thought it was weird. I don't know, maybe that was

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<v Speaker 1>nothing we've done second day updates before where a girl

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<v Speaker 1>has been like he's obviously a shoving it's because he

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<v Speaker 1>feels like he has to open my door or that one.

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<v Speaker 1>But that was one person. I mean, the majority of

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<v Speaker 1>people don't feel that way. How did you tell her

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<v Speaker 1>to stay in the car? Maybe that weirded her out.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you pulled up and you were like, stay in

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<v Speaker 1>the car. I didn't use that exact way. You have

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<v Speaker 1>two women who are not speaking to you right now

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<v Speaker 1>because of the one thing you did, and you literally

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<v Speaker 1>can't think of anything other than I opened her car door.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like a great name. No I even I said,

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<v Speaker 1>it's you know, it's hey. Could I call you again?

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<v Speaker 1>She was like sure, and I you know, I've called

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of times it's been like ten days. The

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<v Speaker 1>only thing I got back with a text that said

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<v Speaker 1>I'm busy and that's it. And then that's it and

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<v Speaker 1>then the coworker stopped talking to you. Weird. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>work directly with this co workers you have to see

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<v Speaker 1>him all the time or is it just somebody casually

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<v Speaker 1>in your offices? Yeah, it's a she and I Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I see her all the time. Like I'll literally go

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<v Speaker 1>in the break room and she'll leaves. Whoa, you must

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<v Speaker 1>have done something pretty bad. Yeah, I mean not in

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<v Speaker 1>my memory said you've been out of the dating world

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<v Speaker 1>for a while. It's not because you're like married and

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<v Speaker 1>they found that out right. No, I just don't. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't really like tender or anything like that. Is I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of want to meet somebody through people that I

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<v Speaker 1>know hasn't happened for me. Okay, well, we'll play a song,

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<v Speaker 1>come back and hopefully find out why she's not talking

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<v Speaker 1>to you and your co worker isn't talking to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Right after this, when we get your second date update. Okay, great,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, man, hang up brooking jubil in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Today's second dater is really living up to his namesake.

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<v Speaker 1>In case you don't know what that music is. That's

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<v Speaker 1>the theme to the Peanuts Charlie Brown, and if you

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<v Speaker 1>know anything about those stories, Charlie was always getting screwed

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<v Speaker 1>over having the football yanked out from underneath him, never

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<v Speaker 1>ending with him getting the girl and our second date

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<v Speaker 1>updator Today, his name is Charles, and Charles is going

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<v Speaker 1>to see if he can change history and maybe do

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<v Speaker 1>something good with his name, because he's apparently pissed off

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<v Speaker 1>everybody that he knows, and he has no idea why.

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<v Speaker 1>He was set up by his co worker to go

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<v Speaker 1>out on a date with a girl named Rebecca. They

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<v Speaker 1>went out, had fun, according to him, but now after

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<v Speaker 1>the date, she's not calling him back and the co

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<v Speaker 1>worker won't talk to him. Charles, are you ready to

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<v Speaker 1>see if you can change things for the name Charlie

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<v Speaker 1>for good? Yeah? All right, oh yeah, Look at the

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<v Speaker 1>passion in Charles's voice. Do you think your co worker

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<v Speaker 1>isn't just talking to you. Maybe she feels guilty that

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<v Speaker 1>you got set up with a girl that doesn't like

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<v Speaker 1>you or something. Maybe that makes sense, But we're good friends,

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<v Speaker 1>so I would think she would tell me. Yeah, there

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<v Speaker 1>could be. It could be just awkward for he like, Ah,

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<v Speaker 1>that didn't work out. Now, I don't know what to

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<v Speaker 1>say to him. You know, he's such a sad, pathetic

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<v Speaker 1>man already. I don't want to make it worse. Oh, thanks, Broke,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad I called the show today. Yeah, we are

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<v Speaker 1>really helping you out, man. Okay, I'm gonna doll the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and get your second date update. All right, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Hello, I was looking for Rebecca. Hey, Rebecca,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you. My name is Jubil and I host

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<v Speaker 1>a morning radio show called brook and in the Morning. Okay, Hi, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>do you have a few minutes to talk? What is

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<v Speaker 1>this about? My name is je Bowl jowl jew Bowl. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and host a morning radio show called Brook and Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. It's on in the morning. If you

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<v Speaker 1>can't tell, I've said it like four times now. Okay, sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm new to town. I don't really know any radio

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<v Speaker 1>shows or anything. Yeah, I've heard that you're new in town.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome That's a creepy It's like we're the welcome committee suddenly.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you know I'm new? I know a lot

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<v Speaker 1>about you, Rebecca, that's how do you know a lot

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<v Speaker 1>about me? Let me I'll explain. We do a segment

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<v Speaker 1>on our show called the second Date Update. So, even

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<v Speaker 1>though you're new in town, you went out on a

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<v Speaker 1>date recently with one of our listeners, and he emailed

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<v Speaker 1>us to see if we could find out what happened

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<v Speaker 1>on your date and why you don't want to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with him again. I'm assuming you're talking about Charles. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I am. Unless you've been on a bunch of dates.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, oh this one. I haven't had time really. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>Charles is wondering why you don't want to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with him again. He says he's tried to text you

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<v Speaker 1>when you said you were busy, and then now you

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<v Speaker 1>just stopped responding. Yeah, well I am busy. I'm getting

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<v Speaker 1>set up and situated, and this is just weird. I

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<v Speaker 1>understand that I don't like have many friends in town,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's just like talking to a radio station. Oh hey,

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<v Speaker 1>we're your new friends. Now you don't need any other friends.

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<v Speaker 1>We're the best friends you never wanted. Wow. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>then did you like your date with Charles? Was it fun?

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<v Speaker 1>It was? Um, it was something, there was a date,

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<v Speaker 1>it was it just maybe a little boring. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't the most exciting date I've ever been on.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, would you mind telling us about the date

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<v Speaker 1>in your own words? Because we actually talked to Charles

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<v Speaker 1>about your date. He said that you guys went to

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<v Speaker 1>the park and had a lot of fun. So he's confused.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, he's nice and all, but I just I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I got a really creepy vibe from him. Creepy. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we talked to him. I did not get a creepy

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<v Speaker 1>vibe from him over the phone. Well neither did I

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<v Speaker 1>at first, but didn't. Something happened. What happened? Well, when

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<v Speaker 1>we went up to play frisbee, he left his phone

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<v Speaker 1>on the blanket, and I noticed his screen faver was

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<v Speaker 1>of my friend who set us up. Wait, the background

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<v Speaker 1>on his phone was a picture of your friend. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but I mean he said they were really good friends.

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<v Speaker 1>Was it like a picture of him and her? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Now it's like a candid child like she didn't even

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<v Speaker 1>know it was kicking. It's weird. So it looks like

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<v Speaker 1>he just took a picture of your friend, his coworker,

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<v Speaker 1>and saved it as the wallpaper on his phone. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>did you ask him about it? I did? I mentioned that.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, this cousin. He's like yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and then he started like talking about her and how

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<v Speaker 1>close they are. But I know from her that they're

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<v Speaker 1>not that close. So that was mean that was the

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<v Speaker 1>creepers number one? Yeah, and is their number two? Because

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<v Speaker 1>that's creepy enough for me. I don't know, I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like we're jumping to conclusions. Well, he started gushing about

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<v Speaker 1>her and just saying how amazing she was and talking

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<v Speaker 1>about like, had it been a different time, who knows

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<v Speaker 1>what would have happened between them. Awkward. So on your

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<v Speaker 1>first date with him, he's talking about how much he

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<v Speaker 1>loves your friend basically, yeah, and when you talk to

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<v Speaker 1>your friend. She had no idea that Charles has a

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<v Speaker 1>crush on her. No, she had no idea. She said

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<v Speaker 1>that he hard like they talk, but it's never anything deep.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I told her that he had a picture

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<v Speaker 1>on his phone and she was like, what that explains

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<v Speaker 1>a lot, Rebecca, because not only have you not been

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<v Speaker 1>talking to Charles, neither has his coworker. Yeah. Well yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean she's like creep down up And it was

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<v Speaker 1>like the first day back at the office. She tried

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<v Speaker 1>to avoid him but he told us that you feel

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<v Speaker 1>bad for him. It sounds like he took a candid

0:12:34.520 --> 0:12:36.280
<v Speaker 1>picture of some girl and put it at as a

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<v Speaker 1>screensaver on his phone. That's not that's creepy behavior. He

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't have very good social etiquette, but he obviously has

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<v Speaker 1>a crush on someone that's not you. So if somebody

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<v Speaker 1>has a crush on somebody that they can take a

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<v Speaker 1>picture of them without all right, well let's how about this, Rebecca.

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<v Speaker 1>I do have to let you know that Charles is

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<v Speaker 1>actually on the other line listening and wants to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you. Are you serious? Yes, I am, Charles, you're there. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I need to explain myself. Yeah, I think you do. Charles.

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<v Speaker 1>Catherine and I are just friends and I told you

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<v Speaker 1>that on the date. Yeah. Well I don't have a

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<v Speaker 1>screensaver of my coworker on my phone, Tea. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm unusual to have pictures of your friends on your phone. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but as a screensaver, like that's kind of strange. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not that. I mean I see her all the time,

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<v Speaker 1>like as we walked through the office, so it's like

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<v Speaker 1>a shot. What I like what I see? You took

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<v Speaker 1>a wait, hold a hold up. Sorry, Charles, you took

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<v Speaker 1>a photo of what you see on a daily basis

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<v Speaker 1>when you walk by your coworker. Yeah, yeah, I took

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<v Speaker 1>a photo of my friend as I see her in

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<v Speaker 1>the office. Does she know that you took that picture?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, that's not important. It's just a picture of

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<v Speaker 1>my friend. I think that is kind of important, Charles.

0:13:50.920 --> 0:13:55.360
<v Speaker 1>Yet that's important. She doesn't know, obviously, And I told

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<v Speaker 1>her what the picture was, and she doesn't even remember

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<v Speaker 1>you taking it. It was just like her was like

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<v Speaker 1>up a coffee with her hair like falling into her mouth, like.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's weird. I don't I can't see her

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<v Speaker 1>having a problem with it. She's not talking to you.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's obviously kind of creepy. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think he's meaning to be creepy. I just think, Charles,

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<v Speaker 1>you obviously have a crush on your coworker. No, I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>We're just friends, you said, and another time that you

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<v Speaker 1>guys might have been together, had things worked out differently,

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<v Speaker 1>that you would be together. So it's not another time,

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<v Speaker 1>it's this time. It's this time. Now we're just been

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, in another time, I could have been with

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<v Speaker 1>Angelina Jolie, I'm speculating. Hey, well, no matter what, it's

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<v Speaker 1>totally inappropriate on a first date to talk about how

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<v Speaker 1>in love you are with somebody else when it's supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to be about me, you know, I mean, that's just weird.

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<v Speaker 1>I did not talking about how I was in love

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<v Speaker 1>with her. I said that we could have been in love,

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<v Speaker 1>but with your friends, Charles, you shouldn't bring up love

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<v Speaker 1>and another woman's name like that. Your mom on a

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<v Speaker 1>first date. That was is talking about how much I

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<v Speaker 1>adored Katherine, her friend, which I think she would appreciate. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you were talking about her hair, how shiny it was.

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<v Speaker 1>You were talking about how strong she is, the yoga

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<v Speaker 1>she does. I mean, you went talk about it was

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<v Speaker 1>not like the normal friend conversation. It was like you

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<v Speaker 1>had studied every inch of her, which is weird. She

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<v Speaker 1>shut us up. She knows me. Uh Now, when I'm

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<v Speaker 1>talking to her, she says that she doesn't know you

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<v Speaker 1>that well. She said, you're just coworkers. I can't believe

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<v Speaker 1>you even told her all that that I talked about her.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I have a picture on my phone that

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<v Speaker 1>was that was a conversation with you, not her. Okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>she's my friend, and if somebody has a creepy picture

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<v Speaker 1>of someone on the phone, I'm going to tell her.

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<v Speaker 1>I told you that confidence, Charles. If you're not okay,

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<v Speaker 1>if your picture isn't creepy, why did you have to

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<v Speaker 1>tell her in confidence? You know you have different conversations

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<v Speaker 1>with different people about different things. You guys, I feel Charles.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel bad for you. Right now. You're learning a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of stuff about yourself. I don't feel like you're creepy.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you just need to admit that you did some

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<v Speaker 1>things that were wrong according to social nor I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think it's wrong to have a picture of

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<v Speaker 1>your friends. Hey, Rebecca, would you like a second date

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<v Speaker 1>with Charles? We will pay for it. No, No, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think so, Charles. You need to confess your love

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<v Speaker 1>to your coworker friend. I told you, guys, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>in love with her. She's just my friends and she

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<v Speaker 1>happened to be like cool and awesome and pretty and

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<v Speaker 1>like I'd like her a lot, But that doesn't mean

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<v Speaker 1>we're anything more than friends. Okay, all right, we got it, Charles, Rebecca,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for thank you for answering the phone and

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Town in the morning,