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Speaker 1: out on a date when you're set up by friends
Speaker 1: is the worst because there's the pressure of being on
Speaker 1: the first date. Yeah yeah, and then there's the pressure
Speaker 1: of screwing things up and making your friend angry. And
Speaker 1: Charles emailed us about a girl he wants to call
Speaker 1: today that was set up by one of his friends. Now,
Speaker 1: not only is that girl not talking to him, but
Speaker 1: his friend isn't even talking to him either. So Charles
Speaker 1: obviously screwed up something on his date and he wants
Speaker 1: to figure out what it was. Charles, how are you? Hey,
Speaker 1: good man, how are you? I'm excited to be on
Speaker 1: your show. Thanks, I'm good, I'm loveless, I'm friendless, I'm cool.
Speaker 1: Sounds like you killed it on your first date. Many,
Speaker 1: I killed something. I don't know what. Why don't you
Speaker 1: tell us a little bit about it? What was the
Speaker 1: girl's name that you went out with. Her name is Rebecca.
Speaker 1: Rebecca okay? And Rebecca was set up by a friend
Speaker 1: of yours. Yeah, a co worker friend of mine. Um,
Speaker 1: and Rebecca a friend of hers who just moved to town.
Speaker 1: And why did your friend think that Rebecca would be
Speaker 1: a good fit for you? Well, I don't date a lot,
Speaker 1: and my co worker knew this, but you know I
Speaker 1: would I would like to date more. I would like
Speaker 1: to you know, have a girlfriend one day. And so
Speaker 1: I think my co worker was just trying to help
Speaker 1: me out, help her friend Rebecca out, who's new to town,
Speaker 1: and you know, somebody could show her around. So she's like,
Speaker 1: you don't date a lot, this girl's new to town.
Speaker 1: She'd clearly has nobody else to hang out with, so
Speaker 1: this can be a good opportunity for you, Charles, something
Speaker 1: like that. And what did you and Rebecca do on
Speaker 1: your date? We went to the park. We uh, well,
Speaker 1: at first, I will admit I kind of like Facebook's
Speaker 1: doctor a little bit. Um. I think I think that
Speaker 1: that is totally okay, that's normal. Yeah, yeah, okay, good. Um.
Speaker 1: And I saw her picture and she was super cute
Speaker 1: and I was almost like like, I'm second getting myself
Speaker 1: now I'm like, is she too cute for me? But
Speaker 1: I you know, I set up a date. We did
Speaker 1: it on a weekend, like a day date. I'm not
Speaker 1: the kind of guy that like goes want to go
Speaker 1: to barn, like get smashed or whatever. Yeah, so you're boring.
Speaker 1: So you're real baring dude. That sounds actually refreshing Charles
Speaker 1: to not have the pressure of a night date. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm not the kind of guy that's going to like
Speaker 1: go to a bar and gets drunk. I mean, it's
Speaker 1: just like kind of not who you are, and you know,
Speaker 1: it's kind of like lowering people's inhibitions. It's like almost
Speaker 1: like kind of like tricking a girl to go with
Speaker 1: you because she smashed it. Yeah, see what you described
Speaker 1: to me as my fantasy. I love it. That's that's
Speaker 1: a great date to me, but apparently not for you. No,
Speaker 1: not not for me personally. I understand why, though. I
Speaker 1: mean it's also not as safe at nighttime. You know,
Speaker 1: it's it's dark and where are you heading out like
Speaker 1: back alley night? No, I don't know. I just that's
Speaker 1: when like you know, crime goes up at night. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: I understand what scary world out there all right. So anyway,
Speaker 1: so you took her on a daytime date to the
Speaker 1: park during the day because the nighttime is too scary.
Speaker 1: So we went on a drive. We went to the park.
Speaker 1: I'm like kind of a nature loving guy. I was
Speaker 1: hoping she would be too. So you know, we went.
Speaker 1: I brought a blanket. When for a walk, we had
Speaker 1: brought a fritzbee. It was fun. Well, define nature, define
Speaker 1: nature loving like you enjoy nature or you actually like
Speaker 1: love nature. I tried to refrain from going loving it
Speaker 1: that much. Okay, Well, I was if that happened on
Speaker 1: your first date, I could see why you're not getting
Speaker 1: a call back and why your coworker would stop talking
Speaker 1: to you. Like, No, I did not do that on
Speaker 1: the day. Okay, okay, So how was it. How was
Speaker 1: the conversation? Was it easy? Yeah? I thought it was great.
Speaker 1: We were laughing, we were talking. I mean whatever you
Speaker 1: would want to a date to go. Well, yeah, this
Speaker 1: was it. I thought, was is there anything in your
Speaker 1: mind that could have gone wrong? I mean, again, like
Speaker 1: I said, I'm second getting myself. Um. So you know,
Speaker 1: after the date, I drove her home. I wanted to
Speaker 1: be a gentleman. So you know, I'm like, I'm not
Speaker 1: going to go for kiss or anything. But I was like,
Speaker 1: you know, we got to her place and I was like,
Speaker 1: you know, hold on, don't get out of the car,
Speaker 1: and I like ran around and opened the door for her.
Speaker 1: Yeah that's nice. Yeah I thought so. But I don't
Speaker 1: know if maybe people don't do that anymore, or she
Speaker 1: thought it was weird. I don't know, maybe that was
Speaker 1: nothing we've done second day updates before where a girl
Speaker 1: has been like he's obviously a shoving it's because he
Speaker 1: feels like he has to open my door or that one.
Speaker 1: But that was one person. I mean, the majority of
Speaker 1: people don't feel that way. How did you tell her
Speaker 1: to stay in the car? Maybe that weirded her out.
Speaker 1: Maybe you pulled up and you were like, stay in
Speaker 1: the car. I didn't use that exact way. You have
Speaker 1: two women who are not speaking to you right now
Speaker 1: because of the one thing you did, and you literally
Speaker 1: can't think of anything other than I opened her car door.
Speaker 1: It sounds like a great name. No I even I said,
Speaker 1: it's you know, it's hey. Could I call you again?
Speaker 1: She was like sure, and I you know, I've called
Speaker 1: a couple of times it's been like ten days. The
Speaker 1: only thing I got back with a text that said
Speaker 1: I'm busy and that's it. And then that's it and
Speaker 1: then the coworker stopped talking to you. Weird. Do you
Speaker 1: work directly with this co workers you have to see
Speaker 1: him all the time or is it just somebody casually
Speaker 1: in your offices? Yeah, it's a she and I Yeah,
Speaker 1: I see her all the time. Like I'll literally go
Speaker 1: in the break room and she'll leaves. Whoa, you must
Speaker 1: have done something pretty bad. Yeah, I mean not in
Speaker 1: my memory said you've been out of the dating world
Speaker 1: for a while. It's not because you're like married and
Speaker 1: they found that out right. No, I just don't. I
Speaker 1: don't really like tender or anything like that. Is I
Speaker 1: kind of want to meet somebody through people that I
Speaker 1: know hasn't happened for me. Okay, well, we'll play a song,
Speaker 1: come back and hopefully find out why she's not talking
Speaker 1: to you and your co worker isn't talking to you.
Speaker 1: Right after this, when we get your second date update. Okay, great,
Speaker 1: all right, man, hang up brooking jubil in the morning.
Speaker 1: Today's second dater is really living up to his namesake.
Speaker 1: In case you don't know what that music is. That's
Speaker 1: the theme to the Peanuts Charlie Brown, and if you
Speaker 1: know anything about those stories, Charlie was always getting screwed
Speaker 1: over having the football yanked out from underneath him, never
Speaker 1: ending with him getting the girl and our second date
Speaker 1: updator Today, his name is Charles, and Charles is going
Speaker 1: to see if he can change history and maybe do
Speaker 1: something good with his name, because he's apparently pissed off
Speaker 1: everybody that he knows, and he has no idea why.
Speaker 1: He was set up by his co worker to go
Speaker 1: out on a date with a girl named Rebecca. They
Speaker 1: went out, had fun, according to him, but now after
Speaker 1: the date, she's not calling him back and the co
Speaker 1: worker won't talk to him. Charles, are you ready to
Speaker 1: see if you can change things for the name Charlie
Speaker 1: for good? Yeah? All right, oh yeah, Look at the
Speaker 1: passion in Charles's voice. Do you think your co worker
Speaker 1: isn't just talking to you. Maybe she feels guilty that
Speaker 1: you got set up with a girl that doesn't like
Speaker 1: you or something. Maybe that makes sense, But we're good friends,
Speaker 1: so I would think she would tell me. Yeah, there
Speaker 1: could be. It could be just awkward for he like, Ah,
Speaker 1: that didn't work out. Now, I don't know what to
Speaker 1: say to him. You know, he's such a sad, pathetic
Speaker 1: man already. I don't want to make it worse. Oh, thanks, Broke,
Speaker 1: I'm glad I called the show today. Yeah, we are
Speaker 1: really helping you out, man. Okay, I'm gonna doll the
Speaker 1: phone and get your second date update. All right, Okay,
Speaker 1: here we go. Hello, I was looking for Rebecca. Hey, Rebecca,
Speaker 1: how are you. My name is Jubil and I host
Speaker 1: a morning radio show called brook and in the Morning. Okay, Hi, Hi,
Speaker 1: do you have a few minutes to talk? What is
Speaker 1: this about? My name is je Bowl jowl jew Bowl. Yes,
Speaker 1: and host a morning radio show called Brook and Jewil
Speaker 1: in the Morning. It's on in the morning. If you
Speaker 1: can't tell, I've said it like four times now. Okay, sorry,
Speaker 1: I'm new to town. I don't really know any radio
Speaker 1: shows or anything. Yeah, I've heard that you're new in town.
Speaker 1: Welcome That's a creepy It's like we're the welcome committee suddenly.
Speaker 1: How do you know I'm new? I know a lot
Speaker 1: about you, Rebecca, that's how do you know a lot
Speaker 1: about me? Let me I'll explain. We do a segment
Speaker 1: on our show called the second Date Update. So, even
Speaker 1: though you're new in town, you went out on a
Speaker 1: date recently with one of our listeners, and he emailed
Speaker 1: us to see if we could find out what happened
Speaker 1: on your date and why you don't want to go
Speaker 1: out with him again. I'm assuming you're talking about Charles. Yes,
Speaker 1: I am. Unless you've been on a bunch of dates.
Speaker 1: I don't know, oh this one. I haven't had time really. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: Charles is wondering why you don't want to go out
Speaker 1: with him again. He says he's tried to text you
Speaker 1: when you said you were busy, and then now you
Speaker 1: just stopped responding. Yeah, well I am busy. I'm getting
Speaker 1: set up and situated, and this is just weird. I
Speaker 1: understand that I don't like have many friends in town,
Speaker 1: and it's just like talking to a radio station. Oh hey,
Speaker 1: we're your new friends. Now you don't need any other friends.
Speaker 1: We're the best friends you never wanted. Wow. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: then did you like your date with Charles? Was it fun?
Speaker 1: It was? Um, it was something, there was a date,
Speaker 1: it was it just maybe a little boring. I mean
Speaker 1: it wasn't the most exciting date I've ever been on.
Speaker 1: I mean, would you mind telling us about the date
Speaker 1: in your own words? Because we actually talked to Charles
Speaker 1: about your date. He said that you guys went to
Speaker 1: the park and had a lot of fun. So he's confused.
Speaker 1: I mean, he's nice and all, but I just I
Speaker 1: don't know. I got a really creepy vibe from him. Creepy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we talked to him. I did not get a creepy
Speaker 1: vibe from him over the phone. Well neither did I
Speaker 1: at first, but didn't. Something happened. What happened? Well, when
Speaker 1: we went up to play frisbee, he left his phone
Speaker 1: on the blanket, and I noticed his screen faver was
Speaker 1: of my friend who set us up. Wait, the background
Speaker 1: on his phone was a picture of your friend. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: but I mean he said they were really good friends.
Speaker 1: Was it like a picture of him and her? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Now it's like a candid child like she didn't even
Speaker 1: know it was kicking. It's weird. So it looks like
Speaker 1: he just took a picture of your friend, his coworker,
Speaker 1: and saved it as the wallpaper on his phone. Yeah,
Speaker 1: did you ask him about it? I did? I mentioned that.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, this cousin. He's like yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: and then he started like talking about her and how
Speaker 1: close they are. But I know from her that they're
Speaker 1: not that close. So that was mean that was the
Speaker 1: creepers number one? Yeah, and is their number two? Because
Speaker 1: that's creepy enough for me. I don't know, I feel
Speaker 1: like we're jumping to conclusions. Well, he started gushing about
Speaker 1: her and just saying how amazing she was and talking
Speaker 1: about like, had it been a different time, who knows
Speaker 1: what would have happened between them. Awkward. So on your
Speaker 1: first date with him, he's talking about how much he
Speaker 1: loves your friend basically, yeah, and when you talk to
Speaker 1: your friend. She had no idea that Charles has a
Speaker 1: crush on her. No, she had no idea. She said
Speaker 1: that he hard like they talk, but it's never anything deep.
Speaker 1: And then I told her that he had a picture
Speaker 1: on his phone and she was like, what that explains
Speaker 1: a lot, Rebecca, because not only have you not been
Speaker 1: talking to Charles, neither has his coworker. Yeah. Well yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean she's like creep down up And it was
Speaker 1: like the first day back at the office. She tried
Speaker 1: to avoid him but he told us that you feel
Speaker 1: bad for him. It sounds like he took a candid
Speaker 1: picture of some girl and put it at as a
Speaker 1: screensaver on his phone. That's not that's creepy behavior. He
Speaker 1: doesn't have very good social etiquette, but he obviously has
Speaker 1: a crush on someone that's not you. So if somebody
Speaker 1: has a crush on somebody that they can take a
Speaker 1: picture of them without all right, well let's how about this, Rebecca.
Speaker 1: I do have to let you know that Charles is
Speaker 1: actually on the other line listening and wants to talk
Speaker 1: to you. Are you serious? Yes, I am, Charles, you're there. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I need to explain myself. Yeah, I think you do. Charles.
Speaker 1: Catherine and I are just friends and I told you
Speaker 1: that on the date. Yeah. Well I don't have a
Speaker 1: screensaver of my coworker on my phone, Tea. You know,
Speaker 1: I'm unusual to have pictures of your friends on your phone. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but as a screensaver, like that's kind of strange. It's
Speaker 1: not that. I mean I see her all the time,
Speaker 1: like as we walked through the office, so it's like
Speaker 1: a shot. What I like what I see? You took
Speaker 1: a wait, hold a hold up. Sorry, Charles, you took
Speaker 1: a photo of what you see on a daily basis
Speaker 1: when you walk by your coworker. Yeah, yeah, I took
Speaker 1: a photo of my friend as I see her in
Speaker 1: the office. Does she know that you took that picture?
Speaker 1: I mean, that's not important. It's just a picture of
Speaker 1: my friend. I think that is kind of important, Charles.
Speaker 1: Yet that's important. She doesn't know, obviously, And I told
Speaker 1: her what the picture was, and she doesn't even remember
Speaker 1: you taking it. It was just like her was like
Speaker 1: up a coffee with her hair like falling into her mouth, like.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's weird. I don't I can't see her
Speaker 1: having a problem with it. She's not talking to you.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's obviously kind of creepy. I mean, I
Speaker 1: don't think he's meaning to be creepy. I just think, Charles,
Speaker 1: you obviously have a crush on your coworker. No, I don't.
Speaker 1: We're just friends, you said, and another time that you
Speaker 1: guys might have been together, had things worked out differently,
Speaker 1: that you would be together. So it's not another time,
Speaker 1: it's this time. It's this time. Now we're just been
Speaker 1: I mean, in another time, I could have been with
Speaker 1: Angelina Jolie, I'm speculating. Hey, well, no matter what, it's
Speaker 1: totally inappropriate on a first date to talk about how
Speaker 1: in love you are with somebody else when it's supposed
Speaker 1: to be about me, you know, I mean, that's just weird.
Speaker 1: I did not talking about how I was in love
Speaker 1: with her. I said that we could have been in love,
Speaker 1: but with your friends, Charles, you shouldn't bring up love
Speaker 1: and another woman's name like that. Your mom on a
Speaker 1: first date. That was is talking about how much I
Speaker 1: adored Katherine, her friend, which I think she would appreciate. Okay,
Speaker 1: you were talking about her hair, how shiny it was.
Speaker 1: You were talking about how strong she is, the yoga
Speaker 1: she does. I mean, you went talk about it was
Speaker 1: not like the normal friend conversation. It was like you
Speaker 1: had studied every inch of her, which is weird. She
Speaker 1: shut us up. She knows me. Uh Now, when I'm
Speaker 1: talking to her, she says that she doesn't know you
Speaker 1: that well. She said, you're just coworkers. I can't believe
Speaker 1: you even told her all that that I talked about her.
Speaker 1: And then I have a picture on my phone that
Speaker 1: was that was a conversation with you, not her. Okay, well,
Speaker 1: she's my friend, and if somebody has a creepy picture
Speaker 1: of someone on the phone, I'm going to tell her.
Speaker 1: I told you that confidence, Charles. If you're not okay,
Speaker 1: if your picture isn't creepy, why did you have to
Speaker 1: tell her in confidence? You know you have different conversations
Speaker 1: with different people about different things. You guys, I feel Charles.
Speaker 1: I feel bad for you. Right now. You're learning a
Speaker 1: lot of stuff about yourself. I don't feel like you're creepy.
Speaker 1: Maybe you just need to admit that you did some
Speaker 1: things that were wrong according to social nor I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't think it's wrong to have a picture of
Speaker 1: your friends. Hey, Rebecca, would you like a second date
Speaker 1: with Charles? We will pay for it. No, No, I
Speaker 1: don't think so, Charles. You need to confess your love
Speaker 1: to your coworker friend. I told you, guys, I'm not
Speaker 1: in love with her. She's just my friends and she
Speaker 1: happened to be like cool and awesome and pretty and
Speaker 1: like I'd like her a lot, But that doesn't mean
Speaker 1: we're anything more than friends. Okay, all right, we got it, Charles, Rebecca,
Speaker 1: thank you for thank you for answering the phone and
Speaker 1: Welcome to Town in the morning,