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Speaker 1: out on a date when you're set up by friends

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Speaker 1: today that was set up by one of his friends. Now,

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Speaker 1: obviously screwed up something on his date and he wants

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Speaker 1: good man, how are you? I'm excited to be on

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Speaker 1: your show. Thanks, I'm good, I'm loveless, I'm friendless, I'm cool.

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Speaker 1: Sounds like you killed it on your first date. Many,

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Speaker 1: I killed something. I don't know what. Why don't you

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Speaker 1: girl's name that you went out with. Her name is Rebecca.

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Speaker 1: Rebecca okay? And Rebecca was set up by a friend

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Speaker 1: of yours. Yeah, a co worker friend of mine. Um,

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Speaker 1: And why did your friend think that Rebecca would be

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Speaker 1: a good fit for you? Well, I don't date a lot,

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Speaker 1: your date? We went to the park. We uh, well,

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Speaker 1: all right, man, hang up brooking jubil in the morning.

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Speaker 1: the theme to the Peanuts Charlie Brown, and if you

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Speaker 1: know anything about those stories, Charlie was always getting screwed

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Speaker 1: here we go. Hello, I was looking for Rebecca. Hey, Rebecca,

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Speaker 1: then did you like your date with Charles? Was it fun?

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Speaker 1: Welcome to Town in the morning,