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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at advocatesla dot com.

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Speaker 2: Selena is on the phone today for a first day

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Speaker 2: follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Justin.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call him and see

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Speaker 2: if you'll tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe get

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Speaker 2: her a second date. But first, Selena, how long has

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Speaker 2: it been since you talked to Justin?

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Speaker 1: Ten days to hold days? Can you believe it?

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Speaker 2: I can't believe it, I know, and am len me

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Speaker 2: sound very nice? So I don't. I don't understand.

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Speaker 3: And it feels like it's meant to be, right Selena

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Speaker 3: and Justin? What a coincidence?

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Speaker 4: Right?

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Speaker 1: We could be the couple that makes.

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Speaker 3: It, make it, I know? But she could have. You

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Speaker 3: tried to get a hold of Justin.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I sent him a text, you know, and she

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Speaker 1: did not respond to it. I mean, it wasn't nineteen bad,

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Speaker 1: it was just casual. I said, hey, hope you're not

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Speaker 1: in a lavender donut coma text? Nothing, and then I

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Speaker 1: told her I can't wait to see him again, and

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Speaker 1: still nothing at last.

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Speaker 2: I don't understand the inside joke.

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Speaker 1: That's just an inside joke.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I was curious, So what did you guys do

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Speaker 2: on your date?

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Speaker 1: Okay? So we met at a food truck festival, which

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Speaker 1: is already cute, right yeah, right, yeah. I was wearing

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Speaker 1: I was wearing my fun and chill but also hot outfit,

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Speaker 1: and he was like in a Patagonia dad gear very

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Speaker 1: I hike for fun energy. Uh yeah yeah. And we

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Speaker 1: tried everything, tacos, dumplings, these insane garlic noodles.

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Speaker 4: I still dream about them.

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Speaker 1: And we ended the night sharing a lavender donut under

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Speaker 1: fairy lights. That's you. Yeah, and he laughed at all

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Speaker 1: my jokes. He said I had the best energy he's

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Speaker 1: been around in months. So yeah, obviously I thought we

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Speaker 1: were vibing hard.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. So did you guys kiss or anything?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, at the end of the night, like you know, well,

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Speaker 1: actually what happened was like I was wearing like really

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Speaker 1: strong perfume and he started sneezing a lot, and I

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Speaker 1: asked if he was allergic, and he goes, no, no,

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Speaker 1: but he started breathing like a pug and a sana

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Speaker 1: and I was like, oh shoot. And then I was like,

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Speaker 1: maybe I gave him a mile asthma pet like I

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Speaker 1: don't know. Yeah, but kissed goodbye and he didn't die,

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Speaker 1: so I figured.

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Speaker 2: We were cool through.

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Speaker 3: You do have good energy, ok have fun?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Why do you think he's ghosting you?

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Speaker 4: I really don't know.

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Speaker 1: I mean I was thinking that, you know, the whole like,

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Speaker 1: you know, maybe was like really actually allergic and he

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Speaker 1: didn't want to say anything, and he's maybe in a

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Speaker 1: coma right now, you know, we don't know.

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Speaker 2: All right, Well, let's figure it out for you. We'll

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Speaker 2: play a song come back, and then call him and

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Speaker 2: see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you and

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Speaker 2: maybe get you a second date. Okay, Yeah, Selena is

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Speaker 2: on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a guy

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Speaker 2: named Justin. So we're going to call him in just

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Speaker 2: a second and see if he'll tell us why he's

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Speaker 2: ghosting her and maybe get her a second date. But

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Speaker 2: real quick, Selena, why don't you break down your date

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Speaker 2: again and why you think you're getting ghosted?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? I had the most dreamy date.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 1: We went to a food truck festival. We ate a

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Speaker 1: lot of stuff, you know. We ended the night with

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Speaker 1: a dreamy kiss, and I think he might just be

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Speaker 1: ghosting me because of the perfume I was wearing. Maybe

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Speaker 1: it was too much, you know, and he didn't want

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Speaker 1: to say anything about that. I don't know, but like

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Speaker 1: I feel like we had a great date, but.

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Speaker 3: He was starting to what does it breathe like a pug?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, Well are you ready for us to

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Speaker 2: call the pug in asana and see how he's doing?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, here we go.

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Speaker 5: Hello.

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Speaker 2: Hey is this Justin?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Justin? How are you?

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Speaker 4: I'm doing? Don't care who's calling.

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Speaker 2: This is the Jubil Show. It's a radio show.

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Speaker 3: Hi, Justin. My name is Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 4: What's going on? Guys?

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Speaker 2: Not much? Have you ever listened to the show before?

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Speaker 4: I've heard of it, but I've been listening to it.

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Speaker 2: For Okay, guess what, Justin, you're on the show today

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Speaker 2: because we got an email about you. Okay, So we

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Speaker 2: do a segment that's called the first Date follow Up.

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Speaker 2: What that is is if you go on a date

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Speaker 2: with someone and you ghost them, they can email us

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Speaker 2: to call you and ask why you're ghosting? And you're

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Speaker 2: ghosting somebody, so they email us about you.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, this is about right.

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Speaker 2: Yes, it is about Selena.

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Speaker 4: But look, she's well, I had a time, but there

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Speaker 4: was just like there was just something that happened that

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Speaker 4: I couldn't shake.

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Speaker 2: It was about, do you have time to tell us

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Speaker 2: what that thing is that you couldn't shake.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, she brought it ziplop bag and in the ziploc

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Speaker 5: bag was.

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Speaker 4: Just like a fistful of her hair.

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Speaker 2: WHOA wait what?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: We were having this like picnic and you know, she

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Speaker 5: pulls out this bag like casually and I thought she

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Speaker 5: was bringing out snacks.

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Speaker 4: Nope, it was her hair, her hair.

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Speaker 3: Alsten, did you ask her why she had her hair?

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Speaker 4: I think I was just taking it all in.

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Speaker 5: I was just like, uh, oh, okay, there's got to

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Speaker 5: be an air explanation to this, and that's her hair.

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Speaker 5: And it was like like she was just like taking

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Speaker 5: out like oh yeah, like.

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Speaker 4: There's a Tuesday pile of hair.

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Speaker 3: Oh interesting, every day had its own pile.

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Speaker 5: I asked, And I guess he's tracking her hair scientifically.

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Speaker 4: I don't know what that meaning.

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Speaker 5: Really asked that many questions, but she said she loses

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Speaker 5: a certain amount of hair every day and so she

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Speaker 5: collected and she's just checking it for violamins. What if

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Speaker 5: that means interesting.

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Speaker 4: She literally said that. Look, she told me the amount of.

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Speaker 5: Hair she loses her and she was more humid, like

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Speaker 5: in humid in human weather.

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Speaker 4: I lose you know, two one hundred and forty strands

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Speaker 4: a day.

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Speaker 2: And she brought up back, who knows that?

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Speaker 1: Okay, first of all, it's not weird, it's.

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Speaker 2: Data just in. That's Selena. She's on the phone and

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Speaker 2: wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 1: Hi, do you have something against science or something? I

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Speaker 1: had no idea how judgmental you are?

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Speaker 4: Selena? Why are you on the call? Why might be

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Speaker 4: ambushed with this? This is ridiculous.

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Speaker 1: I just wanted to know why you were ghosting me,

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Speaker 1: and I can't believe this is your reason. Okay, I

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Speaker 1: am on a hair growth journey. If you can't handle

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Speaker 1: my routine, you don't deserve the results.

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Speaker 5: Wow, Okay, I don't have.

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Speaker 4: To be on the hair growth journey with you. I

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Speaker 4: do have to be on the hair growth journey.

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Speaker 5: Like why, Like a ziploc bag is your.

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Speaker 4: Hair, that's like that's a boundaries thing. It's not that's not.

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Speaker 5: Normal or comfortable for another person. You're around to you

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Speaker 5: pulling out sass of your hair, Like I don't you

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Speaker 5: could have done it like a little more discreetly. I

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Speaker 5: don't care what you do in private. I have nothing

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Speaker 5: against science, but I don't want to be looking at

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Speaker 5: your science. We're having a picnic.

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Speaker 1: Listen, there is a thing wrong with what I am doing.

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Speaker 1: I'm just tracking my shedding. It's responsible.

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Speaker 4: It's called file feedback. Okay, all right? The range, girl,

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Speaker 4: it's called the range. You're the range.

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Speaker 1: Serious more ankle stocks with slides, So maybe let's not

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Speaker 1: act like you're the pinnacle of.

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Speaker 5: All right.

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Speaker 4: It was a style choice.

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Speaker 5: It wasn't like at least I wasn't wearing slippers pair

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Speaker 5: on my feet.

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Speaker 1: Oh, so that was a style choice. I guess ghosting

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Speaker 1: was a style choice too.

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Speaker 5: Apparently, I was I supposed to handle a ziplock.

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Speaker 4: Of hair, I mean wardive.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, but that's not something you do on the first

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Speaker 6: aide I have to know about all your business and science.

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Speaker 6: I don't need to know about anything more. Your body

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Speaker 6: is working at that point when we're just trying to

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Speaker 6: enjoy a picnic.

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Speaker 1: Well, I have to keep it with me to track

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Speaker 1: my hair as they fall. Otherwise wouldn't be very scientific.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but I think science could be paused for enough

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Speaker 5: or during a picnic.

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Speaker 1: I can't believe this, Justin, we had such a great

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Speaker 1: time and you're gonna let it go. Over this, I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna have Lush's hair and you're gonna.

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Speaker 3: Be bald, all right, Justin?

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Speaker 2: Would you like another day with Selena? Will pay for it?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 4: I think I'm good.

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna be living in fear of being sorted in

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Speaker 5: the spreadsheet.

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Speaker 1: You'd be in the low testasterum zero grit column, and

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Speaker 1: you'd be in.

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Speaker 4: The cor own hair and a villain origin story column.

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Speaker 3: Wow.