WEBVTT - Awkward Tuesday: Proposal Sabotage 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:02.040 Your second Date podcast. We got a brand new one 0:00:02.040 --> 0:00:04.040 for you today. It's Brick and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:00:04.760 --> 0:00:06.000 A lot of response from the. 0:00:05.920 --> 0:00:07.080 Barefoot guy yesterday. 0:00:07.400 --> 0:00:09.799 Yeah, and that he didn't even think it was weird 0:00:09.880 --> 0:00:11.840 that he went an entire date. 0:00:12.000 --> 0:00:12.200 No. 0:00:12.600 --> 0:00:14.400 I don't know if you read the comments, but honestly, 0:00:14.520 --> 0:00:16.319 quite a few of our listeners didn't think it was weird. 0:00:16.320 --> 0:00:16.919 E there what. 0:00:17.160 --> 0:00:19.040 Yes, there's a lot of barefoot Yes. 0:00:18.920 --> 0:00:19.280 There is. 0:00:19.320 --> 0:00:22.520 We got it on the street. Yes, Sydney is too 0:00:22.600 --> 0:00:24.600 judgmental for my taste. I don't think it's a big 0:00:24.640 --> 0:00:27.560 deal to walk without shoes. Come to Australia. We don't 0:00:27.560 --> 0:00:29.440 wear shoes here. Shoes are overrated. 0:00:30.320 --> 0:00:32.000 I feel like I'm a hybrid of this, Like if 0:00:32.040 --> 0:00:34.600 I'm on carpet, grass, or sand, I want to feel 0:00:34.600 --> 0:00:34.879 it with. 0:00:34.840 --> 0:00:36.720 My Feet's normal. 0:00:37.000 --> 0:00:39.479 Yeah, that's crazy to me. Yeah, yeah, I don't want 0:00:39.479 --> 0:00:40.800 to walk down the road. 0:00:40.840 --> 0:00:43.319 Anywhere a car was. I don't like to be bear 0:00:44.280 --> 0:00:44.479 you know. 0:00:44.720 --> 0:00:45.400 Yeah, I don't know. 0:00:45.440 --> 0:00:46.080 I don't know why. 0:00:47.159 --> 0:00:49.200 And then one, well, he's right, trees have been around 0:00:49.240 --> 0:00:49.840 longer than plumbing. 0:00:49.840 --> 0:00:51.559 Because we didn't even talk about him beeing on the day. 0:00:52.600 --> 0:00:54.000 It is the original toilet. 0:00:54.160 --> 0:00:57.040 I mean, the longest living organism on the planet is 0:01:01.240 --> 0:01:01.920 are phenomenal. 0:01:02.040 --> 0:01:04.120 Okay, all right, we got a brand new awkward Tuesday 0:01:04.120 --> 0:01:05.559 for you, and it's going to start right now. 0:01:06.520 --> 0:01:09.920 I've looked at social media once or twice, and I've 0:01:10.000 --> 0:01:13.480 learned the only thing that goes more viral than a sweet, 0:01:13.560 --> 0:01:18.560 happy marriage proposal is a messy, awkward marriage proposal. 0:01:18.120 --> 0:01:19.360 Gone horribly wrong. 0:01:19.600 --> 0:01:21.560 That's so true, and that's why when I saw our 0:01:21.600 --> 0:01:24.280 listener's email today, I knew we had to talk to 0:01:24.360 --> 0:01:28.240 him because he hasn't had just one failed proposal, but 0:01:28.640 --> 0:01:31.920 three in a row, and he needs our help to 0:01:31.959 --> 0:01:35.920 figure out Am I doing something wrong here? Or is 0:01:35.959 --> 0:01:39.559 there another explanation? You're gonna hear it in your brand 0:01:39.600 --> 0:01:41.120 new awkward Tuesday phone call. 0:01:41.560 --> 0:01:48.040 Next, it's awkward, It's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call. 0:01:48.920 --> 0:01:53.639 Some people in relationships believe there's cosmic signs that show 0:01:53.800 --> 0:01:57.200 you're meant to be together. Okay, like when you start 0:01:57.240 --> 0:02:01.800 finishing each other's sentences, or every time you say their name, 0:02:02.120 --> 0:02:06.160 a church bell rings, wow, or a pigeon lands and 0:02:06.200 --> 0:02:09.400 poops on your shoulder then flies over in poops on 0:02:09.520 --> 0:02:10.120 their car. 0:02:10.400 --> 0:02:10.720 Wow. 0:02:11.440 --> 0:02:14.800 These are positive signs from the universe saying. 0:02:14.840 --> 0:02:15.920 You belong together. 0:02:16.680 --> 0:02:20.000 But one of our listeners apparently has been receiving a 0:02:20.080 --> 0:02:23.919 different kind of message from the cosmos about his relationship. Oh, 0:02:24.360 --> 0:02:27.959 his name is Keith. Keith, what are the signs telling you? 0:02:29.160 --> 0:02:31.280 I mean, the signs are kind of. 0:02:31.440 --> 0:02:34.160 The actions of my girlfriend recently. 0:02:35.440 --> 0:02:36.680 All the signs aren't from the universe. 0:02:36.880 --> 0:02:39.000 It can be determined as cosmic messages. 0:02:39.280 --> 0:02:43.079 I think that's just girlfriend messages, jeh from the cos it's. 0:02:42.960 --> 0:02:44.919 Her name, Cosmos. Is that what we're getting now? 0:02:45.040 --> 0:02:47.080 He could be, But what what is it telling you? Keith? 0:02:47.600 --> 0:02:50.200 Now her name is Lilah, but who knows. 0:02:50.240 --> 0:02:54.120 Maybe there is some cosmic energy that's affecting her. Because 0:02:54.240 --> 0:02:59.959 I really feel like she's trying to sabotage my marriage proposal. 0:03:00.639 --> 0:03:04.600 I thought you were going to say my marriage. 0:03:05.200 --> 0:03:09.119 We would be okay with either one of those things. 0:03:10.240 --> 0:03:12.280 Yeah, you're trying. 0:03:13.440 --> 0:03:16.280 You're trying to propose to your girlfriend, but you feel 0:03:16.280 --> 0:03:17.680 like she's sabotaging it. 0:03:18.160 --> 0:03:22.520 Right, we are not married. We've been dating for two years. 0:03:23.600 --> 0:03:26.400 The first time I tried to propose her, I was 0:03:26.440 --> 0:03:28.280 going to do it in in a park, you know, 0:03:28.320 --> 0:03:32.000 I had the ring ready to go, and maybe she's 0:03:32.080 --> 0:03:34.000 got the sense that something was up because I was 0:03:34.000 --> 0:03:36.440 a little nervous and like a little walk in the 0:03:36.480 --> 0:03:39.240 park is not something that we normally do. 0:03:39.960 --> 0:03:42.640 As we're walking in the park, she just turns to 0:03:42.680 --> 0:03:45.600 me and says, Hey, if you're gonna do what I 0:03:45.640 --> 0:03:47.760 think you're gonna do, I don't want it to be 0:03:47.960 --> 0:03:48.360 like this. 0:03:48.880 --> 0:03:53.480 Oh pretty public that Okay. 0:03:53.640 --> 0:03:55.720 I can't believe she just came out and said that 0:03:55.800 --> 0:03:57.960 to you, Like, well, how did you react when she 0:03:58.080 --> 0:03:59.760 told you that, Like, don't propose to me? 0:03:59.840 --> 0:03:59.920 Right? 0:03:59.920 --> 0:04:01.600 No, I just joked it up. 0:04:01.760 --> 0:04:04.200 I was like, what do you think I'm not going 0:04:04.240 --> 0:04:06.840 to propose in a park like this? It's so corny, 0:04:07.000 --> 0:04:10.120 Like I just I just tried to play it cool. 0:04:10.400 --> 0:04:11.920 Yeah, hey, it'd have been like, oh I. 0:04:11.840 --> 0:04:13.640 Was just gonna kiss you, but not for these people. 0:04:13.680 --> 0:04:15.600 Okay, But I think you could take that as a 0:04:15.640 --> 0:04:18.040 positive too, Like she obviously wants you to do it, 0:04:18.120 --> 0:04:20.280 and she has a vision of how it's going to 0:04:20.320 --> 0:04:23.000 happen in her mind. That means she's thinking of you, 0:04:23.120 --> 0:04:25.680 and I mean it sounds like she'll say yes, which 0:04:25.720 --> 0:04:26.080 is great. 0:04:26.320 --> 0:04:26.839 Yeah. 0:04:26.880 --> 0:04:29.960 We'll flash forward a little bit to a couple months ago, 0:04:30.560 --> 0:04:34.039 I tried again. We took a trip to New York 0:04:34.120 --> 0:04:38.320 City and I went like scrolling on online and tried. 0:04:38.360 --> 0:04:40.599 I tried to find like a really fancy dinner, and 0:04:41.360 --> 0:04:43.560 she like agreed to it for a little while. But 0:04:43.600 --> 0:04:47.600 then the night we were there, she says she thinks 0:04:47.600 --> 0:04:49.719 she has an eye infection and she wanted to stay 0:04:49.760 --> 0:04:50.719 in the hotel that night. 0:04:50.760 --> 0:04:53.200 So I was like, okay, you know, pink eye. 0:04:53.120 --> 0:04:54.000 It'll hit you broke. 0:04:54.120 --> 0:04:57.560 Yeah, she made up an excuse that she had some 0:04:57.760 --> 0:04:58.480 eye problem. 0:04:58.839 --> 0:05:01.200 I don't know if it was a fake eye infection 0:05:01.480 --> 0:05:04.520 or if it was a coincidence, but huh. There was 0:05:04.600 --> 0:05:07.719 one more time recently, I tried it again. 0:05:08.120 --> 0:05:10.080 I like that you're not giving up. This is important 0:05:10.360 --> 0:05:12.080 and you know how she'd want it though. 0:05:12.200 --> 0:05:15.600 I like that it is a good point of lexis 0:05:15.640 --> 0:05:17.640 that maybe you should have said, well, what do you want? 0:05:17.760 --> 0:05:18.840 Well, he's clearly trying. 0:05:18.920 --> 0:05:21.280 He's clearly trying to like make it a surprise, and 0:05:21.400 --> 0:05:24.040 she obviously knows something is coming, so he doesn't want 0:05:24.040 --> 0:05:25.239 to like blow it entirely. 0:05:25.360 --> 0:05:26.680 But at this rate, it's going to be like, oh, 0:05:26.680 --> 0:05:28.760 we've been married for three years, but I've been trying 0:05:28.760 --> 0:05:29.600 to propose. 0:05:29.240 --> 0:05:30.040 For fucking right. 0:05:30.160 --> 0:05:33.359 Yeah, so what was your what was your idea for 0:05:33.400 --> 0:05:34.520 your third proposal? 0:05:35.040 --> 0:05:37.560 Okay, yeah, this one is where I'm really like, Okay, 0:05:37.680 --> 0:05:40.359 something's up. So about two weeks ago, I had a 0:05:40.360 --> 0:05:43.640 picnic setup and the you know, I had like her 0:05:43.680 --> 0:05:48.120 favorite a favorite meal, and a candle and nice wine. 0:05:48.520 --> 0:05:49.400 We're back to a park. 0:05:49.440 --> 0:05:51.200 I know, why would you repeat the parts? Is it 0:05:51.240 --> 0:05:52.919 in the park or is it like private? 0:05:53.160 --> 0:05:55.000 This was on the beach, not in the park. 0:05:54.960 --> 0:05:58.640 Okay, okay, okay, a very private, exclusive beach. 0:05:59.200 --> 0:06:02.080 When she came and she showed up, she again had 0:06:02.120 --> 0:06:05.159 that like nervous look on her face. And not too 0:06:05.200 --> 0:06:09.120 long after, the blanket suddenly catches on fire. What whoa, 0:06:09.240 --> 0:06:10.920 whoa wha because of the candle. 0:06:11.040 --> 0:06:13.400 The candle fell over and the blanket catches on fire. 0:06:13.440 --> 0:06:14.400 So I had to put it out. 0:06:14.440 --> 0:06:17.119 And I had my phone set up on a tree 0:06:17.160 --> 0:06:20.320 nearby because I was going to film the proposal. And 0:06:20.400 --> 0:06:23.200 I saw in the tape that she knocked the candle 0:06:23.240 --> 0:06:24.440 over like on purpose. 0:06:24.520 --> 0:06:25.520 I saw her do it. 0:06:26.240 --> 0:06:27.840 Oh she started the fire. 0:06:28.320 --> 0:06:31.840 Maybe she doesn't want to marry you man, And I like. 0:06:31.839 --> 0:06:34.400 Honestly, well that's what I'm worried about, you know, like 0:06:34.800 --> 0:06:37.680 because we're still like everything else otherwise is still fine. Like, 0:06:37.760 --> 0:06:40.360 so either she doesn't want to get married or ready, 0:06:40.760 --> 0:06:41.360 So what. 0:06:41.279 --> 0:06:43.360 Do you want to do with your awkward call? 0:06:43.400 --> 0:06:43.760 Though? Like? 0:06:44.160 --> 0:06:47.159 Are we calling her to see the Yeah? 0:06:47.400 --> 0:06:49.360 This is this proposal number four. 0:06:50.360 --> 0:06:53.040 I just I did need some help navigating the conversation. 0:06:53.920 --> 0:06:54.919 She doesn't know that. 0:06:55.160 --> 0:06:58.320 I know she botched that last one, and you know, 0:06:58.320 --> 0:07:00.479 I don't want her to feel up about that. 0:07:00.520 --> 0:07:02.560 I just want to know, like what's going on? 0:07:02.720 --> 0:07:07.880 Oh, okay, okay, So this is an information finding mission 0:07:07.920 --> 0:07:10.040 to figure out why she keeps turning it down. 0:07:10.480 --> 0:07:12.600 Yeah, she might not even want to get married to me, 0:07:12.640 --> 0:07:14.480 and I would want to know that instead of just 0:07:14.600 --> 0:07:16.520 like trying and failing all these times? 0:07:16.600 --> 0:07:18.840 Is a return policy on these rings? 0:07:18.840 --> 0:07:19.560 What's the story that? 0:07:19.720 --> 0:07:21.080 I don't want to be negative? 0:07:21.080 --> 0:07:22.600 But what happens if you're like, oh, we don't want 0:07:22.640 --> 0:07:24.120 to get married, then you just break up? 0:07:24.360 --> 0:07:28.080 No, you get married anyway, Jose, that's what you've carried. 0:07:28.120 --> 0:07:30.000 You force the marriage, and then you break up. 0:07:30.200 --> 0:07:32.440 Some couple say together. Some couples break up. 0:07:33.240 --> 0:07:36.000 You won't know until you sign that document locking you 0:07:36.080 --> 0:07:39.520 together forever. How you really feel about the marriage. 0:07:39.320 --> 0:07:39.880 Till you're in it. 0:07:40.280 --> 0:07:42.520 I hope you know before you sign the document. 0:07:42.640 --> 0:07:46.800 How could you know until you're married exactly? Don't. 0:07:47.000 --> 0:07:49.720 Yeah, we do need to focus on some advice, though, 0:07:49.760 --> 0:07:51.120 so we'll think of some to give you. 0:07:51.200 --> 0:07:53.720 We'll come back and we'll call your maybe. 0:07:53.440 --> 0:07:57.200 Future fiance depending on how this conversation goes when we 0:07:57.240 --> 0:07:59.880 do your awkward Tuesday phone call right after this. 0:08:00.160 --> 0:08:01.000 Thank you so much. 0:08:01.080 --> 0:08:04.240 All right, man, hold on, it's awkward. 0:08:04.480 --> 0:08:08.240 It's it's awkward Tuesday phone call. 0:08:08.960 --> 0:08:12.360 How can you tell if your girlfriend is actively trying 0:08:12.400 --> 0:08:16.760 to sabotage your marriage proposals? Oh goodness, and I say 0:08:16.800 --> 0:08:20.480 proposals plural, because our listener Keith has attempted to pop 0:08:20.520 --> 0:08:25.000 the question three separate times to his girlfriend. Each one 0:08:25.080 --> 0:08:28.120 got shut down by Lylah before he even really got 0:08:28.120 --> 0:08:28.960 started with them. 0:08:29.280 --> 0:08:31.160 But the last one is the most. 0:08:30.880 --> 0:08:34.080 Incriminating because it was caught on camera while he was 0:08:34.120 --> 0:08:35.120 secretly filming. 0:08:36.200 --> 0:08:39.480 As men like to do, let film us with our girlfriend. 0:08:39.760 --> 0:08:43.360 H that's very illegal, go to jail for a long time. 0:08:43.280 --> 0:08:45.960 Unless it's for a marriage proposal, which is totally fine 0:08:46.080 --> 0:08:49.640 because in the footage he saw her purposely knock over 0:08:49.679 --> 0:08:53.439 the candle and light their picnic blanket on fire. Geez, 0:08:53.520 --> 0:08:56.319 stopping the marriage proposal before he even got to it. 0:08:56.400 --> 0:08:58.120 Have we considered she's an arsonist? 0:08:58.240 --> 0:09:00.800 Could be a possibility he might need more flames in 0:09:00.880 --> 0:09:04.240 the next attempt. It's just after that, Keith is wondering, 0:09:04.559 --> 0:09:06.800 is the problem actually with the proposal or does she 0:09:06.920 --> 0:09:08.000 actually even want. 0:09:07.840 --> 0:09:08.360 To marry me? 0:09:08.600 --> 0:09:08.840 Yeah? 0:09:09.120 --> 0:09:12.880 Not exactly the easiest conversation to have with your significant other. 0:09:12.960 --> 0:09:15.000 So he needs advice, Brooke, what do you have to 0:09:15.040 --> 0:09:15.560 say to him? 0:09:15.720 --> 0:09:18.360 Well, I think you do something that my husband perfected 0:09:18.400 --> 0:09:19.400 a long time ago. 0:09:20.120 --> 0:09:23.160 Let's yeah, let's not go into the bedroom stuff, and that. 0:09:23.160 --> 0:09:26.959 Is play dumb. Okay, play dumb. Go into it and 0:09:27.040 --> 0:09:29.000 just be like, Okay, I didn't want to tell you, 0:09:29.000 --> 0:09:30.839 but I had a little surprise for you the other 0:09:30.920 --> 0:09:31.640 night on the beach. 0:09:32.600 --> 0:09:38.000 So I was filming and you wouldn't believe what I saw. 0:09:38.840 --> 0:09:41.679 It looked like you tried to light the blanket on fire. 0:09:41.760 --> 0:09:42.680 Isn't that crazy? 0:09:43.000 --> 0:09:43.600 I see? 0:09:43.880 --> 0:09:47.440 So it's not like you're actively accusing her of doing it. 0:09:47.520 --> 0:09:50.640 You're just like, I saw something weird, Yeah weird. What 0:09:50.679 --> 0:09:51.760 do you think about that? Keith? 0:09:52.240 --> 0:09:54.720 Then my work I'm pretty good at playing dumb. 0:09:57.080 --> 0:09:59.880 Yeah, all of us, sorry, have that ability. So okay, 0:10:00.120 --> 0:10:02.199 keep that in your back pocket, hose. What's your advice? 0:10:02.440 --> 0:10:04.760 Maybe it has nothing to do with you. 0:10:04.920 --> 0:10:07.480 It could be something that she's built this up in 0:10:07.520 --> 0:10:10.040 her mind and you're not living up to this expectation 0:10:10.600 --> 0:10:11.240 that you don't. 0:10:11.040 --> 0:10:11.720 Even know about. 0:10:11.840 --> 0:10:12.080 Right. 0:10:12.280 --> 0:10:15.080 It is interesting that all of your talks about marriage, 0:10:15.400 --> 0:10:17.400 those are going fine, but when it comes to the 0:10:17.440 --> 0:10:23.040 actual proposal, that's where everything falls off the right place. Yeah, 0:10:23.080 --> 0:10:25.720 all right, alexis where's your recommendation? Where should he propose? 0:10:26.080 --> 0:10:29.720 I don't want to get married, don't do it? 0:10:29.760 --> 0:10:33.040 Okay, there's no good place for all right. Well, that's 0:10:33.080 --> 0:10:39.800 our advice for you. Keep We're all scared in studio. 0:10:39.840 --> 0:10:42.640 Thank god you're the person making this call, but we 0:10:42.679 --> 0:10:44.280 will be on the other line ready to jump in 0:10:44.320 --> 0:10:46.000 if we feel like you need a little bit of help. 0:10:46.120 --> 0:10:47.400 You ready, ma'am? Yeah? 0:10:47.440 --> 0:10:48.000 I think so. 0:10:48.320 --> 0:10:49.720 All right, you got it, buddy. 0:10:49.840 --> 0:10:51.960 What's the worst that can happen? You're just asking your 0:10:51.960 --> 0:10:53.880 girlfriend if the idea of marriage. 0:10:53.520 --> 0:10:55.080 Discusss her, they could break up. 0:10:55.400 --> 0:10:55.640 Yeah. 0:10:55.720 --> 0:10:58.640 Oh, I'm trying to ask that question in a positive way. 0:10:58.840 --> 0:10:59.960 What's the worst that could happen. 0:11:00.080 --> 0:11:04.280 I wasn't expecting everybody to jump on all right, Sorry 0:11:04.280 --> 0:11:05.480 about that, Keith, but good luck. 0:11:05.679 --> 0:11:07.079 We'll be here if you need here, we go. 0:11:17.520 --> 0:11:23.280 Hello, Hey babe, how's it going. Hey, I'm good. 0:11:23.280 --> 0:11:23.599 How are you? 0:11:23.880 --> 0:11:24.880 What's what's up? Good? 0:11:25.280 --> 0:11:27.520 So I just saying hi, you know, I'm just missing 0:11:27.559 --> 0:11:28.720 you a call and say hey. 0:11:28.880 --> 0:11:29.760 Want to hear your voice. 0:11:31.400 --> 0:11:32.240 Well, that's sweet of you. 0:11:33.880 --> 0:11:36.160 Yeah, yeah, you know, I was just thinking too. 0:11:37.120 --> 0:11:41.160 You know, I'm sorry about the little fire accident we had. 0:11:41.120 --> 0:11:44.920 A couple of weeks ago. That's not bad about that. 0:11:44.880 --> 0:11:45.200 I know. 0:11:45.640 --> 0:11:47.640 I know your beach is your favorite and kind of 0:11:47.840 --> 0:11:49.120 kind of ruined the mood there. 0:11:51.120 --> 0:11:54.360 Yeah, definitely. Yeah. It was a bummer to lose pizza 0:11:54.440 --> 0:11:55.880 and a blanket and all the things. 0:11:56.760 --> 0:12:00.920 I know, I know, yeah, yeah, I just uh, I 0:12:00.960 --> 0:12:04.040 was going to surprise you with something, so I had 0:12:04.080 --> 0:12:04.960 my phone. 0:12:04.760 --> 0:12:08.679 Set up so I could get your reaction and did. 0:12:08.720 --> 0:12:11.120 I was looking at the video again, and I don't know, 0:12:11.120 --> 0:12:12.880 I don't know why. It just it looked like it 0:12:12.920 --> 0:12:16.200 looked like you you might have set the blanket on 0:12:16.280 --> 0:12:19.160 fire on purpose, but like I don't think you would. 0:12:18.960 --> 0:12:21.560 Do that, you know, right, I don't know what happened. 0:12:23.040 --> 0:12:25.400 I mean I didn't. 0:12:25.640 --> 0:12:29.120 I didn't like it wasn't I don't. 0:12:29.440 --> 0:12:30.920 Did you get this sense that I was going to 0:12:31.000 --> 0:12:32.280 have like a surprise for you? 0:12:35.640 --> 0:12:36.199 Maybe? 0:12:37.840 --> 0:12:41.760 Okay? Yeah, yeah, I just this is not a big deal, 0:12:41.800 --> 0:12:44.559 you know. I just uh like we both want to 0:12:44.600 --> 0:12:45.920 get married, right. 0:12:49.000 --> 0:12:52.079 I mean, I'm just uh like processing all this because 0:12:52.600 --> 0:12:55.680 I wasn't expecting this during my work day. 0:12:57.720 --> 0:12:59.800 Is there is there a problem? Is there something going 0:12:59.840 --> 0:13:02.760 on on? Am I like a like, am I pick 0:13:02.880 --> 0:13:03.560 up on something? 0:13:03.600 --> 0:13:03.800 Here? 0:13:04.120 --> 0:13:07.119 Is everything? Okay? 0:13:09.120 --> 0:13:15.400 I didn't really want to talk about this, but I 0:13:15.400 --> 0:13:16.920 guess I should. 0:13:19.760 --> 0:13:19.960 Yeah. 0:13:19.960 --> 0:13:23.080 I've just been having some second thoughts and I've been 0:13:23.920 --> 0:13:26.640 just too scared to talk to you about it. 0:13:28.760 --> 0:13:32.120 Okay, uh like, what what do you what do you mean? 0:13:33.559 --> 0:13:35.920 The thing is I'm having the thoughts and I don't 0:13:35.960 --> 0:13:41.040 know what to do about the thoughts, and and I 0:13:41.040 --> 0:13:43.440 don't want to. I don't want you to. I didn't 0:13:43.440 --> 0:13:45.079 want you to be hurt by this, which is why 0:13:45.120 --> 0:13:46.960 I was like resisting. 0:13:48.360 --> 0:13:50.680 Yeah, yeah, babe, I just like I don't. I don't 0:13:50.720 --> 0:13:53.240 like this, Like I feel very nervous, Like I feel 0:13:53.280 --> 0:13:55.680 like you'd be better if you just told me. 0:13:58.200 --> 0:14:05.200 Mmm, okay, M, I don't know how to say this. Okay, 0:14:05.440 --> 0:14:09.160 So probably about three months ago I went to pick 0:14:09.200 --> 0:14:12.160 you up at the gym and I saw that you 0:14:12.200 --> 0:14:15.679 were playing basketball outside, and for me, I've always dreamed 0:14:15.880 --> 0:14:20.400 of having athletic children, and after watching you play basketball, 0:14:21.000 --> 0:14:23.440 I don't know. I'm not sure if that's possible. 0:14:25.360 --> 0:14:28.320 What that is? 0:14:28.400 --> 0:14:28.520 Not? 0:14:28.560 --> 0:14:31.040 A thing? That's not that's not it? 0:14:31.600 --> 0:14:32.640 What's going on? 0:14:33.040 --> 0:14:35.120 What? Who are all these people? 0:14:35.160 --> 0:14:38.880 What's happening these people that you're hearing. We're a radio 0:14:38.880 --> 0:14:43.760 show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Oh gosh, yeah, 0:14:44.040 --> 0:14:50.560 we hear with your future he's really good. Yeah that 0:14:50.640 --> 0:14:51.400 doesn't matter. 0:14:52.280 --> 0:14:55.720 It could matter to her if she prioritizes that high 0:14:55.720 --> 0:14:57.320 on her list of potential partners. 0:14:57.400 --> 0:14:59.160 I have a story that will change your mind. I 0:14:59.200 --> 0:15:02.200 promise going to be here for how much time do 0:15:02.200 --> 0:15:02.560 we help? 0:15:02.920 --> 0:15:03.720 Hold on everybody? 0:15:03.760 --> 0:15:05.240 I just I just want to say something. I like, 0:15:05.320 --> 0:15:08.920 I actually am really good at basketball, Like I've played 0:15:09.000 --> 0:15:10.040 all through high school. 0:15:10.320 --> 0:15:14.040 Everybody plays h Brooks on the volleyball team, on the 0:15:14.080 --> 0:15:14.680 c squad. 0:15:14.840 --> 0:15:17.960 So, Keith, I'm so sorry. I didn't know all these 0:15:17.960 --> 0:15:20.520 people were on this call. I wouldn't have said these 0:15:20.560 --> 0:15:21.480 things on the radio. 0:15:22.000 --> 0:15:22.960 That's what he wanted though. 0:15:23.000 --> 0:15:26.040 He wanted the truth out and sounded like you guys 0:15:26.120 --> 0:15:28.160 needed some help to start this conversation. 0:15:28.480 --> 0:15:30.440 I don't know if this is overstepping, but I feel 0:15:30.440 --> 0:15:33.440 like Keith has noticed a few things over the last 0:15:33.480 --> 0:15:36.320 several months that are pointing to you not wanting to 0:15:36.960 --> 0:15:37.520 say yes. 0:15:38.080 --> 0:15:42.240 I mean, I'm just hesitant, okay, because you're worried that 0:15:42.440 --> 0:15:44.600 someday you're going to have babies with Keith, and there's 0:15:44.640 --> 0:15:47.080 babies aren't going to be not able to dunk. I 0:15:47.200 --> 0:15:52.480 grew up playing sports. I always imagined being at sports 0:15:52.480 --> 0:15:54.920 with my kids and doing those type of things. 0:15:55.080 --> 0:15:56.200 And you can't know. 0:15:56.160 --> 0:15:59.040 That, Like there's no way to know, Like how your 0:15:59.120 --> 0:16:01.600 kids don't don't exist right now, are going to be 0:16:01.760 --> 0:16:02.360 in sports? 0:16:02.560 --> 0:16:03.080 I don't know. 0:16:03.200 --> 0:16:07.360 I saw him, Well, they'll get all the love and 0:16:07.440 --> 0:16:08.880 support I can give them. 0:16:08.920 --> 0:16:12.080 That, Okay, Like that is such a great response. 0:16:12.160 --> 0:16:13.720 And that's what you really want to look for, is 0:16:13.760 --> 0:16:16.680 someone that'll be a great father, not someone based on 0:16:16.680 --> 0:16:17.960 their athletic ability. 0:16:18.240 --> 0:16:20.960 I never heard Lila say anything about wanting her children 0:16:21.000 --> 0:16:22.000 to be loved or supported. 0:16:23.080 --> 0:16:23.920 She didn't bring it up. 0:16:24.880 --> 0:16:26.600 Supporting they get participation. 0:16:26.680 --> 0:16:28.000 Trooper, I'm sorry I'm doing it. 0:16:28.040 --> 0:16:30.280 But my best friend and Mary, one of the most 0:16:30.480 --> 0:16:34.120 unathletic people I have ever met in my life and friends. 0:16:34.240 --> 0:16:37.800 Oh no, he just that's what he is. He would 0:16:37.840 --> 0:16:42.200 admit that. And her kids are like elite basketball players. 0:16:42.320 --> 0:16:43.680 Well does that make you feel better? 0:16:43.720 --> 0:16:47.080 Lilah Brooke knows somebody who has kids and they turned 0:16:47.080 --> 0:16:50.000 out to be that's why they say, you don't know. 0:16:50.400 --> 0:16:52.480 Obviously, I don't want to force them to be anything, 0:16:52.600 --> 0:16:56.280 but like I would encourage sports and being athletic, and 0:16:56.920 --> 0:16:58.640 I don't know if that's possible. 0:16:58.840 --> 0:17:01.440 Okay, we're just word going to read between the lines. 0:17:01.760 --> 0:17:04.120 Instead of shooting more three pointers, you go for more 0:17:04.160 --> 0:17:06.359 layups during pick up basketball. 0:17:06.560 --> 0:17:07.040 All right. 0:17:07.400 --> 0:17:09.840 Well it's also a team sport, right, and I'm a 0:17:09.840 --> 0:17:10.720 great team player. 0:17:11.119 --> 0:17:14.320 Okay, so much of a team player. You never shoot 0:17:14.320 --> 0:17:16.200 the ball yourself, just keep passing. 0:17:15.800 --> 0:17:19.040 It, all right. I mean, of course we can talk 0:17:19.040 --> 0:17:22.000 more about this. I'm seeing that maybe as we're talking 0:17:22.040 --> 0:17:27.160 this out loud, that maybe there's still room for the possibility. 0:17:27.640 --> 0:17:29.880 There's a sliver of hope for you right there. 0:17:29.920 --> 0:17:31.760 So if I was you, I would propose in the 0:17:31.800 --> 0:17:34.840 next ten seconds and use the positive momentum to your advantage. 0:17:34.920 --> 0:17:36.840 This is not the time before you lose it. Keith, 0:17:36.880 --> 0:17:37.400 now or never. 0:17:38.160 --> 0:17:40.680 You don't have to propose right now, but I am 0:17:40.880 --> 0:17:42.200 more in joh. 0:17:44.400 --> 0:17:44.879