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Speaker 1: Your second Date podcast. We got a brand new one

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Speaker 1: for you today. It's Brick and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: A lot of response from the.

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Speaker 2: Barefoot guy yesterday.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and that he didn't even think it was weird

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Speaker 1: that he went an entire date.

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Speaker 2: No.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if you read the comments, but honestly,

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Speaker 3: quite a few of our listeners didn't think it was weird.

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Speaker 2: E there what.

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Speaker 4: Yes, there's a lot of barefoot Yes.

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Speaker 5: There is.

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Speaker 3: We got it on the street. Yes, Sydney is too

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Speaker 3: judgmental for my taste. I don't think it's a big

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Speaker 3: deal to walk without shoes. Come to Australia. We don't

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Speaker 3: wear shoes here. Shoes are overrated.

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Speaker 6: I feel like I'm a hybrid of this, Like if

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Speaker 6: I'm on carpet, grass, or sand, I want to feel

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Speaker 6: it with.

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Speaker 2: My Feet's normal.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's crazy to me. Yeah, yeah, I don't want

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Speaker 4: to walk down the road.

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Speaker 2: Anywhere a car was. I don't like to be bear

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Speaker 2: you know.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 8: I don't know why.

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Speaker 3: And then one, well, he's right, trees have been around

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Speaker 3: longer than plumbing.

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Speaker 2: Because we didn't even talk about him beeing on the day.

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Speaker 4: It is the original toilet.

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Speaker 2: I mean, the longest living organism on the planet is

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Speaker 2: are phenomenal.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, we got a brand new awkward Tuesday

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Speaker 1: for you, and it's going to start right now.

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Speaker 9: I've looked at social media once or twice, and I've

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Speaker 9: learned the only thing that goes more viral than a sweet,

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Speaker 9: happy marriage proposal is a messy, awkward marriage proposal.

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Speaker 4: Gone horribly wrong.

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Speaker 9: That's so true, and that's why when I saw our

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Speaker 9: listener's email today, I knew we had to talk to

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Speaker 9: him because he hasn't had just one failed proposal, but

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Speaker 9: three in a row, and he needs our help to

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Speaker 9: figure out Am I doing something wrong here? Or is

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Speaker 9: there another explanation? You're gonna hear it in your brand

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Speaker 9: new awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 10: Next, it's awkward, It's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 9: Some people in relationships believe there's cosmic signs that show

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Speaker 9: you're meant to be together. Okay, like when you start

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Speaker 9: finishing each other's sentences, or every time you say their name,

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Speaker 9: a church bell rings, wow, or a pigeon lands and

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Speaker 9: poops on your shoulder then flies over in poops on

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Speaker 9: their car.

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Speaker 5: Wow.

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Speaker 9: These are positive signs from the universe saying.

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Speaker 4: You belong together.

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Speaker 9: But one of our listeners apparently has been receiving a

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Speaker 9: different kind of message from the cosmos about his relationship. Oh,

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Speaker 9: his name is Keith. Keith, what are the signs telling you?

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Speaker 8: I mean, the signs are kind of.

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Speaker 7: The actions of my girlfriend recently.

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Speaker 2: All the signs aren't from the universe.

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Speaker 4: It can be determined as cosmic messages.

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Speaker 1: I think that's just girlfriend messages, jeh from the cos it's.

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Speaker 2: Her name, Cosmos. Is that what we're getting now?

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Speaker 4: He could be, But what what is it telling you? Keith?

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Speaker 7: Now her name is Lilah, but who knows.

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Speaker 8: Maybe there is some cosmic energy that's affecting her. Because

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Speaker 8: I really feel like she's trying to sabotage my marriage proposal.

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Speaker 2: I thought you were going to say my marriage.

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Speaker 9: We would be okay with either one of those things.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you're trying.

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Speaker 9: You're trying to propose to your girlfriend, but you feel

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Speaker 9: like she's sabotaging it.

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Speaker 7: Right, we are not married. We've been dating for two years.

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Speaker 8: The first time I tried to propose her, I was

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Speaker 8: going to do it in in a park, you know,

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Speaker 8: I had the ring ready to go, and maybe she's

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Speaker 8: got the sense that something was up because I was

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Speaker 8: a little nervous and like a little walk in the

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Speaker 8: park is not something that we normally do.

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Speaker 7: As we're walking in the park, she just turns to

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Speaker 7: me and says, Hey, if you're gonna do what I

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Speaker 7: think you're gonna do, I don't want it to be

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Speaker 7: like this.

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Speaker 1: Oh pretty public that Okay.

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Speaker 9: I can't believe she just came out and said that

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Speaker 9: told you that, Like, don't propose to me?

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Speaker 10: Right?

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Speaker 7: No, I just joked it up.

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Speaker 8: I was like, what do you think I'm not going

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Speaker 8: to propose in a park like this? It's so corny,

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Speaker 8: Like I just I just tried to play it cool.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, hey, it'd have been like, oh I.

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Speaker 4: Was just gonna kiss you, but not for these people.

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Speaker 1: Okay, But I think you could take that as a

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Speaker 1: positive too, Like she obviously wants you to do it,

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Speaker 1: and she has a vision of how it's going to

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Speaker 1: happen in her mind. That means she's thinking of you,

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Speaker 1: and I mean it sounds like she'll say yes, which

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Speaker 1: is great.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 8: We'll flash forward a little bit to a couple months ago,

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Speaker 8: I tried again. We took a trip to New York

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Speaker 8: City and I went like scrolling on online and tried.

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Speaker 8: I tried to find like a really fancy dinner, and

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Speaker 8: she like agreed to it for a little while. But

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Speaker 8: then the night we were there, she says she thinks

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Speaker 8: she has an eye infection and she wanted to stay

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Speaker 8: in the hotel that night.

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Speaker 7: So I was like, okay, you know, pink eye.

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Speaker 4: It'll hit you broke.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, she made up an excuse that she had some

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Speaker 9: eye problem.

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Speaker 7: I don't know if it was a fake eye infection

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Speaker 7: or if it was a coincidence, but huh. There was

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Speaker 7: one more time recently, I tried it again.

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Speaker 2: I like that you're not giving up. This is important

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Speaker 2: and you know how she'd want it though.

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Speaker 1: I like that it is a good point of lexis

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Speaker 1: that maybe you should have said, well, what do you want?

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Speaker 4: Well, he's clearly trying.

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Speaker 9: He's clearly trying to like make it a surprise, and

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Speaker 9: she obviously knows something is coming, so he doesn't want

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Speaker 9: to like blow it entirely.

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Speaker 6: But at this rate, it's going to be like, oh,

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Speaker 6: we've been married for three years, but I've been trying

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Speaker 10: For fucking right.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so what was your what was your idea for

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Speaker 8: Okay, yeah, this one is where I'm really like, Okay,

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Speaker 8: something's up. So about two weeks ago, I had a

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Speaker 8: picnic setup and the you know, I had like her

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Speaker 8: favorite a favorite meal, and a candle and nice wine.

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Speaker 2: We're back to a park.

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Speaker 4: I know, why would you repeat the parts? Is it

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Speaker 7: This was on the beach, not in the park.

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Speaker 9: Okay, okay, okay, a very private, exclusive beach.

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Speaker 8: When she came and she showed up, she again had

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Speaker 8: that like nervous look on her face. And not too

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Speaker 8: long after, the blanket suddenly catches on fire. What whoa,

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Speaker 7: The candle fell over and the blanket catches on fire.

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Speaker 7: So I had to put it out.

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Speaker 8: And I had my phone set up on a tree

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Speaker 8: nearby because I was going to film the proposal. And

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Speaker 8: I saw in the tape that she knocked the candle

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Speaker 7: I saw her do it.

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Speaker 4: Oh she started the fire.

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Speaker 6: Maybe she doesn't want to marry you man, And I like.

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Speaker 8: Honestly, well that's what I'm worried about, you know, like

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Speaker 8: because we're still like everything else otherwise is still fine. Like,

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Speaker 8: so either she doesn't want to get married or ready,

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Speaker 8: So what.

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Speaker 2: Do you want to do with your awkward call?

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Speaker 5: Though? Like?

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Speaker 2: Are we calling her to see the Yeah?

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Speaker 4: This is this proposal number four.

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Speaker 7: I just I did need some help navigating the conversation.

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Speaker 7: She doesn't know that.

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Speaker 8: I know she botched that last one, and you know,

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Speaker 8: I don't want her to feel up about that.

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Speaker 7: I just want to know, like what's going on?

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Speaker 9: Oh, okay, okay, So this is an information finding mission

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Speaker 9: to figure out why she keeps turning it down.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, she might not even want to get married to me,

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Speaker 8: and I would want to know that instead of just

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Speaker 8: like trying and failing all these times?

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Speaker 2: Is a return policy on these rings?

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Speaker 5: What's the story that?

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Speaker 4: I don't want to be negative?

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Speaker 6: But what happens if you're like, oh, we don't want

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Speaker 9: No, you get married anyway, Jose, that's what you've carried.

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Speaker 9: You force the marriage, and then you break up.

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Speaker 2: Some couple say together. Some couples break up.

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Speaker 9: You won't know until you sign that document locking you

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Speaker 9: together forever. How you really feel about the marriage.

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Speaker 5: Till you're in it.

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Speaker 2: I hope you know before you sign the document.

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Speaker 4: How could you know until you're married exactly? Don't.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, we do need to focus on some advice, though,

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Speaker 9: so we'll think of some to give you.

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Speaker 4: We'll come back and we'll call your maybe.

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Speaker 9: Future fiance depending on how this conversation goes when we

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Speaker 9: do your awkward Tuesday phone call right after this.

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Speaker 7: Thank you so much.

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Speaker 4: All right, man, hold on, it's awkward.

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Speaker 10: It's it's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 9: How can you tell if your girlfriend is actively trying

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Speaker 9: to sabotage your marriage proposals? Oh goodness, and I say

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Speaker 9: proposals plural, because our listener Keith has attempted to pop

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Speaker 9: the question three separate times to his girlfriend. Each one

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Speaker 9: got shut down by Lylah before he even really got

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Speaker 4: But the last one is the most.

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Speaker 9: Incriminating because it was caught on camera while he was

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Speaker 9: secretly filming.

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Speaker 4: As men like to do, let film us with our girlfriend.

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Speaker 2: H that's very illegal, go to jail for a long time.

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Speaker 9: Unless it's for a marriage proposal, which is totally fine

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Speaker 9: because in the footage he saw her purposely knock over

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Speaker 9: the candle and light their picnic blanket on fire. Geez,

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Speaker 9: stopping the marriage proposal before he even got to it.

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Speaker 4: Have we considered she's an arsonist?

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Speaker 9: Could be a possibility he might need more flames in

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Speaker 9: the next attempt. It's just after that, Keith is wondering,

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Speaker 9: is the problem actually with the proposal or does she

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Speaker 9: actually even want.

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Speaker 4: To marry me?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 9: Not exactly the easiest conversation to have with your significant other.

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Speaker 4: So he needs advice, Brooke, what do you have to

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Speaker 4: say to him?

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Speaker 1: Well, I think you do something that my husband perfected

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Speaker 1: a long time ago.

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Speaker 4: Let's yeah, let's not go into the bedroom stuff, and that.

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Speaker 2: Is play dumb. Okay, play dumb. Go into it and

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Speaker 2: just be like, Okay, I didn't want to tell you,

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Speaker 2: but I had a little surprise for you the other

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Speaker 1: So I was filming and you wouldn't believe what I saw.

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Speaker 1: It looked like you tried to light the blanket on fire.

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Speaker 7: Then my work I'm pretty good at playing dumb.

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Speaker 9: keep that in your back pocket, hose. What's your advice?

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Speaker 4: Maybe it has nothing to do with you.

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Speaker 9: It is interesting that all of your talks about marriage,

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Speaker 2: I don't want to get married, don't do it?

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Speaker 4: You ready, ma'am? Yeah?

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Speaker 9: What's the worst that can happen? You're just asking your

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Speaker 4: Oh, I'm trying to ask that question in a positive way.

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Speaker 7: What's what's up? Good?

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Speaker 8: So I just saying hi, you know, I'm just missing

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Speaker 5: I've just been having some second thoughts and I've been

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Speaker 7: Okay, uh like, what what do you what do you mean?

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Speaker 5: The thing is I'm having the thoughts and I don't

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Speaker 5: So probably about three months ago I went to pick

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Speaker 5: I don't know. I'm not sure if that's possible.

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Speaker 10: What that is?

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Speaker 1: Not?

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Speaker 7: What's going on?

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Speaker 5: What? Who are all these people?

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Speaker 4: What's happening these people that you're hearing. We're a radio

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Speaker 4: we hear with your future he's really good. Yeah that

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Speaker 9: It could matter to her if she prioritizes that high

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Speaker 2: I have a story that will change your mind. I

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Speaker 4: Hold on everybody?

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Speaker 7: I just I just want to say something. I like,

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Speaker 9: Everybody plays h Brooks on the volleyball team, on the

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Speaker 5: So, Keith, I'm so sorry. I didn't know all these

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Speaker 2: That's what he wanted though.

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Speaker 1: He wanted the truth out and sounded like you guys

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Speaker 9: I don't know if this is overstepping, but I feel

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Speaker 5: I mean, I'm just hesitant, okay, because you're worried that

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Speaker 5: babies aren't going to be not able to dunk. I

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Speaker 2: And you can't know.

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Speaker 1: That, Like there's no way to know, Like how your

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 8: I saw him, Well, they'll get all the love and

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Speaker 2: That, Okay, Like that is such a great response.

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Speaker 1: And that's what you really want to look for, is

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Speaker 9: I never heard Lila say anything about wanting her children

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Speaker 4: She didn't bring it up.

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Speaker 6: Supporting they get participation.

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Speaker 2: Trooper, I'm sorry I'm doing it.

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Speaker 1: But my best friend and Mary, one of the most

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Speaker 2: Oh no, he just that's what he is. He would

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Speaker 4: Well does that make you feel better?

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Speaker 5: Obviously, I don't want to force them to be anything,

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Speaker 5: I don't know if that's possible.

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Speaker 9: Okay, we're just word going to read between the lines.

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Speaker 8: Well it's also a team sport, right, and I'm a

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Speaker 9: Okay, so much of a team player. You never shoot

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Speaker 5: It, all right. I mean, of course we can talk

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Speaker 4: There's a sliver of hope for you right there.

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Speaker 9: So if I was you, I would propose in the

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Speaker 4: This is not the time before you lose it. Keith,

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Speaker 5: You don't have to propose right now, but I am

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Speaker 4: Your chance.

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Speaker 2: It was right there.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, yes, keep us updated down the line. What happens

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Speaker 7: Well do, Thanks so much.

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Speaker 9: Just remember to stay away from any beaches, parks, fancy

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Speaker 1: And basketball it's freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 9: Is anything more of a turnoff than an unathletic baby.

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Speaker 3: I'm telling you you can't judge how athletic your kids

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Speaker 9: Well sure, but once once an unathletic child comes out,

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Speaker 2: Baby doesn't come out with a six pack.

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Speaker 4: Just disappointing.

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Speaker 9: Look, I don't think we fixed this relationship by any

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Speaker 4: Really want to get out of a potential marriage. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: it might not be.

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Speaker 9: The same things but it's better to figure that out

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Speaker 1: Hey, but they could be good at theater, you know, yeah, instrument.

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Speaker 8: There you go.

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Speaker 2: Chess. Okay.

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Speaker 4: Some people want loving, trusting partners.

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Speaker 9: Other people want a Edick Bull who produces guaranteed NBA superstars.

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Speaker 4: You're allowed to want that, Brook, Let the women want

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Speaker 2: Its weird.

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Speaker 4: Oh that's fine.

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Speaker 9: If you want help with your dating life or you're

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Speaker 9: approving that, Brook.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, then you can.

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Speaker 9: Then you're safe to email our show and we'll help

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Speaker 9: you out with an awkward Tuesday. And check all of

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