WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: I'm Moving On... Or Next to YOU

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking Jebels second date of day. You know, for the

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<v Speaker 1>most part, long distance relationships only work out in the movies,

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<v Speaker 1>adult movies. Specifically, it's long distance relationships always work out

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<v Speaker 1>in adult movies. Google Google it. But that's not a

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<v Speaker 1>part of that is a bad thing because Dresden is

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone right now and he apparently went on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with somebody who's not calling him back. And

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<v Speaker 1>it's actually kind of a long distance thing. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know all the details. We'll get it from him. Dressing,

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<v Speaker 1>what's up, man? How are you? Hey? What's up? Man?

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<v Speaker 1>You can call me Dress? Dress? Okay, did you wake up? Dress?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you in a different time zone? No? I'm good. Sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>that's all right, all right, Dress. So what's the name

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<v Speaker 1>of the girl you want to call today? Her name

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<v Speaker 1>is Sierra? Sierra all right, and your email said that

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<v Speaker 1>she lives in another state. Yeah, I mean we met

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<v Speaker 1>on line, okay, So we hit it off right away.

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<v Speaker 1>She was the type that she seemed really intelligent. She

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<v Speaker 1>made me laugh, I mean her laugh, and we really

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<v Speaker 1>hit it off. So I said, you know, you live

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<v Speaker 1>far away, but maybe I could just fly down we

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<v Speaker 1>could actually meet in person. Then a little time together

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<v Speaker 1>see if it works. How long did you guys talk

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<v Speaker 1>online before you decided to meet in real life? A

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<v Speaker 1>few months? All right, so that's a good amount of Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so you feel like you really know a person by

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<v Speaker 1>then as much as you can you know online. Yeah

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<v Speaker 1>all right, So how was it when you actually went

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<v Speaker 1>to go see her? Dude? That's the thing, Like, it

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<v Speaker 1>was amazing, like the best day. So I went down

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<v Speaker 1>on Friday. We of course, got something to eat, She

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<v Speaker 1>gave me a tour of the city. We walked around,

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<v Speaker 1>we saw nature like one on a hike. But it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't like platonic. It was a very romantic kind of connection.

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<v Speaker 1>You can tell, I mean, your whole personality. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like just got uplifted even talking about this date. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you, man, it was a great experience. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean so great that I had booked a hotel but

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't stay there. Put it that way. That's nice,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. Also so great that she's not calling you back.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's live in the moment. I think this is the moment.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's live in the past, that reality. Why why do

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<v Speaker 1>you think he's not calling you back? Then? That's the

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing, because it's like, Okay, when I was leaving,

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<v Speaker 1>I was legit sad to go back home. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we're at the airport and she's dropping me

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<v Speaker 1>off and I'm like, you know, next time, you're coming

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<v Speaker 1>to see me, right, And she was like, of course,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, yeah, that's a done deal. Of course I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to be up there to see you. And then

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<v Speaker 1>I get home and initially we're texting and calling and everything,

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<v Speaker 1>but then it just like slacked off after like two weeks,

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<v Speaker 1>and the text slowed down and the call slowed down.

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<v Speaker 1>And I mean, I know she's a busy person. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a busy person. She's got a lot of friends, so

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<v Speaker 1>she's got a pretty full social calendar. But I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>this is an amazing weekend that we shared. It was

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<v Speaker 1>not your typical weekend. I mean, did you feel like

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<v Speaker 1>you were basically I mean, I would feel like you're

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<v Speaker 1>starting a relationship, Like that's more than a date to

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<v Speaker 1>spend a whole weekend with somebody. I mean that's how

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<v Speaker 1>I felt, And I really thought it was mutual. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not like we put any title on it, or or

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<v Speaker 1>in a full blown relationship or called each other like boyfriend,

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<v Speaker 1>or girlfriend or anything. But that's the vibe that I

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<v Speaker 1>was getting before I left totally. Was there anything awkward

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<v Speaker 1>that happened when you guys are hanging out. I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>say awkward. I mean, the deal was sealed, so that's unawkward.

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<v Speaker 1>But maybe it's something. I mean, did you say something

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<v Speaker 1>in the two weeks following that turned her off or

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<v Speaker 1>made her rethink the whole thing? Trust me, I have

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<v Speaker 1>combed over everything that I've said, all of my texts,

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<v Speaker 1>like trying to figure out is it anything I could

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<v Speaker 1>have said or done that turned everything sowarre? And I

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<v Speaker 1>just can't figure it out. So that's why I came

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<v Speaker 1>to you guys for help. And if she not talking

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<v Speaker 1>to you at all, it's like almost non existent at

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<v Speaker 1>this point. Man. That's always something when you go from

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<v Speaker 1>texting all the time NonStop, you can just feel there's

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<v Speaker 1>some kind of shift in the vibe. Right, Yeah, it

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<v Speaker 1>just seems like something's going on. I just want to know.

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<v Speaker 1>If it's not popping, I get it, but let me

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<v Speaker 1>know something like I'm just dangling here. Maybe it's super

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<v Speaker 1>romantic and it was too much for her and she

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't know how she could live without you, and so

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<v Speaker 1>she cut it off. Now, he said later, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know whatever I just tried to give. It could be

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<v Speaker 1>something good. Do you think maybe it could be the distance?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, that's the only thing I could think of, dude, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe people are in their ear, like, oh, it's never

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<v Speaker 1>gonna work because you guys are so far away. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not an adult movie. They only stay together long distance

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<v Speaker 1>in adult movies. But why wouldn't she just talk to

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<v Speaker 1>you about that? Right? Exactly exactly, we're adults. You're adults,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's obvious that's what you're doing. Exactly. Okay, Well

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<v Speaker 1>we'll play a song and then come back and call

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<v Speaker 1>and get your second day update. All right, okay, brooking

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<v Speaker 1>Jubil in the morning, sate in the middle of a

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<v Speaker 1>second day update and DRez is on the phone. Today

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<v Speaker 1>he wants to call a girl named Sierra. They actually

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<v Speaker 1>live long distance. They met online. He went to travel

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<v Speaker 1>to visit her. They hung out for an entire weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>He said, everything went great. They even sealed the deal.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not sure what that means, You're not, I have

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<v Speaker 1>no idea. Yeah, they it was a contract. What sort

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<v Speaker 1>of deal did you see dress? I'm a gentleman. If

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<v Speaker 1>nothing else, I'm a gentleman. I still don't understand what

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<v Speaker 1>you mean, dude. They slept together? What? Yes? Like it

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<v Speaker 1>in the same bed? No? Oh god, let's just say yes, Triss.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you guys sleep in the same bed? Yes, we

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<v Speaker 1>slept wow, hot and heavy. No, they definitely had a

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<v Speaker 1>great time. And then he came back home and since

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<v Speaker 1>then the conversation has fizzled off, and now she's not

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<v Speaker 1>really talking to him and he doesn't know why because

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<v Speaker 1>Court and him everything went great. All right, man, are

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<v Speaker 1>you ready to give her a call and see why

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<v Speaker 1>she's not getting back to you? Yeah? Man, I'm ready.

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<v Speaker 1>And did she ever indicate that maybe she was freaked

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<v Speaker 1>out by long distance? No? But I mean if they

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<v Speaker 1>did freak her out, like I would think that be

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<v Speaker 1>something that she would tell me about. We flew all

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<v Speaker 1>the way down to see her for our first date.

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<v Speaker 1>R YEA. Hopefully that is an expensive first date that

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<v Speaker 1>you did. All right, I'm a dollar fun number right

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<v Speaker 1>now here we go? Hello, Hi, man, I speak to Sierra. Please.

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<v Speaker 1>This is she Sierah? How are you? This is Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>from brook and Jewble in the morning. Who's this Jebil

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<v Speaker 1>from Brooke and Jebil in the Morning. It's a radio show.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, how are you today? I'm fine? Any idea

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm calling you? No, No, I'm sorry. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know you guys, I'm sorry. I understand it. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>We want you would guess. I just want to see

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<v Speaker 1>what you would guess. I'm calling you today because we

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<v Speaker 1>do a segment on our show it's called the second

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<v Speaker 1>Date Update. That's where if you go out with somebody

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<v Speaker 1>on a date and then end up not calling them back,

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<v Speaker 1>they can email us to get you on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>and find out what happened. And we got an email

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<v Speaker 1>about you from Drezz. What Yeah, wow, Okay. He told

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<v Speaker 1>us how he met you on line and even travel

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<v Speaker 1>to come hang out with you, and he thought everything

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<v Speaker 1>was great. But since he came home, you haven't been

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<v Speaker 1>returning any of his calls and he's wondering if he

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<v Speaker 1>did something wrong. Oh my gosh, what wow? Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean so it's like you you meet people online and

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of strained, you know, and you just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of hope you don't get catfished along the way. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but Dres was absolutely amazing. And he was everything that

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<v Speaker 1>he said he was. So No, it was nothing like that. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>like I have really strong funds for him before he left.

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<v Speaker 1>So what happened? Are you just I mean he thought,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, maybe he's jumping the gun, and you were

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<v Speaker 1>just really busy and that's why you haven't really talked

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<v Speaker 1>to him. No, Like, Okay, so I've been at this crossroads, right,

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<v Speaker 1>so I don't have this big surprise that I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to surprise to him. I've just been so became used.

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<v Speaker 1>Like Okay, so my job wants to relocate and it's

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<v Speaker 1>close to him, it's you know, closer to that state,

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<v Speaker 1>that area, and I wanted to get closer to him.

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<v Speaker 1>I just didn't know how to do what to say.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're just are you just scared? Like you're scared

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<v Speaker 1>to tell him, like, hey, I might be moving to

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<v Speaker 1>your area. I mean, you know I kind of felt like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>this could be fat because this has never happened. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I didn't want to seem crazy. Yeah, like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>moving in next door now, right, Yeah, but like not

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<v Speaker 1>talking to him, that's crazy? Like how is it gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be fat if you just don't ever talk to him again? Okay? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>there's this a little situation. So I went out with you. No,

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<v Speaker 1>my god, No, I don't have a husband. Okay, god,

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<v Speaker 1>So my friends they threw me a party and before

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<v Speaker 1>my going away party. Yeah, and it got so crazy

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<v Speaker 1>and I feel so horrible about this, but I hooked

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<v Speaker 1>up with another guy that night. Oh okay, so hold up,

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<v Speaker 1>So hold up, the moving thing is for sure because

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<v Speaker 1>you said it was possibility. So you are actually going

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<v Speaker 1>to be moving closer to Dress. Yes, I want to,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like, I feel horrible about what happened, and

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<v Speaker 1>so honestly, I haven't spoken to either of them all right,

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<v Speaker 1>So you feel guilty for hooking up with another dude.

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<v Speaker 1>It makes me feel so horrible because I know how

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<v Speaker 1>I know how I felt about Dress, and I know

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<v Speaker 1>the weekend we had was like more than a freaking

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<v Speaker 1>first time meet up. Yeah I heard you guys slept

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<v Speaker 1>in the same bag. Well, yes, we slept. But Dress

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<v Speaker 1>even said you guys didn't have a relationship to finding talk,

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't set boundaries for each other because it was

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, yeah, it was a big weekend, but it

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<v Speaker 1>still was your first date. Yeah, well that's true and

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<v Speaker 1>true things like I really do care about him, and

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<v Speaker 1>that it was more to me than a first date.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, who spends the whole weekend together on the

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<v Speaker 1>first date. And we were just such a great connection.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, and maybe you needed that hook up with

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<v Speaker 1>the other dude to affirm everything you're feeling about Dress.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it was just a wild night. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>who knows. You don't even know that much about Dress.

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<v Speaker 1>He might like that sort of thing. Oh my goodness, No,

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<v Speaker 1>we should probably ask him, because he's actually on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line listening and wants to talk to you. I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>Dress is actually on the other line listening and he

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<v Speaker 1>wants to talk to you. Oh so he knows everything, now, Dress,

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<v Speaker 1>you there, Yeah, I'm here. Man. How are you feeling?

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta say, I'm really disparted. I mean I thought

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<v Speaker 1>we had like this cosmic connection, and I haven't been

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<v Speaker 1>able to think of anybody so blown, man, I haven't

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<v Speaker 1>even been able to think about anything else but you.

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<v Speaker 1>To be honest, like, I am just so sorry. I've

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<v Speaker 1>just been so conflicted. I've been going through that and

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<v Speaker 1>thinking about what happened and feeling horrible about that and

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<v Speaker 1>thinking about you and moving my job. Want to get

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<v Speaker 1>closer to you because I totally enjoyed our weekend as well. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I am so sorry, please forgive me. I mean, if

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<v Speaker 1>we hadn't been so far apart and we had, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>established boundaries or something, that I could be more upset.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, we didn't draw that line. We didn't say, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>now we're an item. So but I mean, I would

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<v Speaker 1>like to know what's to deal with you and this

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<v Speaker 1>other guy. Is there some kind of future in that still?

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<v Speaker 1>You're sure? Absolutely not. I'm certain in the hands, so like,

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<v Speaker 1>was he better than me? Ask? No? Of course not, nope. Never.

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<v Speaker 1>I am excited about thought of you being closer to

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<v Speaker 1>me because I mean I was ready to risk it all.

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta be honest, like if there was a situation

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<v Speaker 1>where it was the distance I would have come down there.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I just I really felt like we had

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<v Speaker 1>this just one in a lifetime shot going and whatever

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<v Speaker 1>I had to do, I was going to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh man, Now that is intense. You were worried about

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<v Speaker 1>freaking him out, Sierra, Yea, the feeling is so mutual.

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<v Speaker 1>I love you too, and I'm a little bummed out

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<v Speaker 1>about the situation. But you're gonna use your one get

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<v Speaker 1>out of jail free car. Well, then, Siera, would you

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<v Speaker 1>like to go on a second date with Dress? We'll

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<v Speaker 1>pay for it, not a plane ticket, like, we'll give

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<v Speaker 1>you a gift card to go somewhere to eat. But

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<v Speaker 1>he has to get to you or you have to

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<v Speaker 1>get to him first. Oh wow, you guys would do

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<v Speaker 1>that for us. Yeah, and we do it for everybody

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<v Speaker 1>on the second date update. But yeah, so we will,

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<v Speaker 1>we will do that. Well. I did promise to him

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<v Speaker 1>that i'd be there the next time we had our date,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'll be there. Oh my god, what are you

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<v Speaker 1>moving here? Well, my job moves within the next two weeks. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>so soon to day. I thought, Oh, there you go,

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<v Speaker 1>as you got a second day. Yeah, I can't wait, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta be honest. I'm really relieved. This is a

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<v Speaker 1>big surprise. So happy for you. And look at you.

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<v Speaker 1>Guys are already creating a great foundation of communication and

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<v Speaker 1>understanding and forgiveness. Yes, hey, Dress, Yeah, is this where

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<v Speaker 1>we tell her that we slept together last week? Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god? And Jubil shut up, man, don't tell her anything. Congratulations,

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<v Speaker 1>you too, Keep in touch with us and let us

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<v Speaker 1>know how everything goes all right, thank you, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. Broken Jubil in the morning,