Speaker 1: Rooking Jebels second date of day. You know, for the
Speaker 1: most part, long distance relationships only work out in the movies,
Speaker 1: adult movies. Specifically, it's long distance relationships always work out
Speaker 1: in adult movies. Google Google it. But that's not a
Speaker 1: part of that is a bad thing because Dresden is
Speaker 1: on the phone right now and he apparently went on
Speaker 1: a date with somebody who's not calling him back. And
Speaker 1: it's actually kind of a long distance thing. I don't
Speaker 1: know all the details. We'll get it from him. Dressing,
Speaker 1: what's up, man? How are you? Hey? What's up? Man?
Speaker 1: You can call me Dress? Dress? Okay, did you wake up? Dress?
Speaker 1: Are you in a different time zone? No? I'm good. Sorry,
Speaker 1: that's all right, all right, Dress. So what's the name
Speaker 1: of the girl you want to call today? Her name
Speaker 1: is Sierra? Sierra all right, and your email said that
Speaker 1: she lives in another state. Yeah, I mean we met
Speaker 1: on line, okay, So we hit it off right away.
Speaker 1: She was the type that she seemed really intelligent. She
Speaker 1: made me laugh, I mean her laugh, and we really
Speaker 1: hit it off. So I said, you know, you live
Speaker 1: far away, but maybe I could just fly down we
Speaker 1: could actually meet in person. Then a little time together
Speaker 1: see if it works. How long did you guys talk
Speaker 1: online before you decided to meet in real life? A
Speaker 1: few months? All right, so that's a good amount of Yeah,
Speaker 1: so you feel like you really know a person by
Speaker 1: then as much as you can you know online. Yeah
Speaker 1: all right, So how was it when you actually went
Speaker 1: to go see her? Dude? That's the thing, Like, it
Speaker 1: was amazing, like the best day. So I went down
Speaker 1: on Friday. We of course, got something to eat, She
Speaker 1: gave me a tour of the city. We walked around,
Speaker 1: we saw nature like one on a hike. But it
Speaker 1: wasn't like platonic. It was a very romantic kind of connection.
Speaker 1: You can tell, I mean, your whole personality. I feel
Speaker 1: like just got uplifted even talking about this date. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, man, it was a great experience. I
Speaker 1: mean so great that I had booked a hotel but
Speaker 1: I didn't stay there. Put it that way. That's nice,
Speaker 1: all right. Also so great that she's not calling you back.
Speaker 1: Let's live in the moment. I think this is the moment.
Speaker 1: Let's live in the past, that reality. Why why do
Speaker 1: you think he's not calling you back? Then? That's the
Speaker 1: whole thing, because it's like, Okay, when I was leaving,
Speaker 1: I was legit sad to go back home. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: you know, we're at the airport and she's dropping me
Speaker 1: off and I'm like, you know, next time, you're coming
Speaker 1: to see me, right, And she was like, of course,
Speaker 1: you know, yeah, that's a done deal. Of course I'm
Speaker 1: going to be up there to see you. And then
Speaker 1: I get home and initially we're texting and calling and everything,
Speaker 1: but then it just like slacked off after like two weeks,
Speaker 1: and the text slowed down and the call slowed down.
Speaker 1: And I mean, I know she's a busy person. I'm
Speaker 1: a busy person. She's got a lot of friends, so
Speaker 1: she's got a pretty full social calendar. But I'm like,
Speaker 1: this is an amazing weekend that we shared. It was
Speaker 1: not your typical weekend. I mean, did you feel like
Speaker 1: you were basically I mean, I would feel like you're
Speaker 1: starting a relationship, Like that's more than a date to
Speaker 1: spend a whole weekend with somebody. I mean that's how
Speaker 1: I felt, And I really thought it was mutual. It's
Speaker 1: not like we put any title on it, or or
Speaker 1: in a full blown relationship or called each other like boyfriend,
Speaker 1: or girlfriend or anything. But that's the vibe that I
Speaker 1: was getting before I left totally. Was there anything awkward
Speaker 1: that happened when you guys are hanging out. I wouldn't
Speaker 1: say awkward. I mean, the deal was sealed, so that's unawkward.
Speaker 1: But maybe it's something. I mean, did you say something
Speaker 1: in the two weeks following that turned her off or
Speaker 1: made her rethink the whole thing? Trust me, I have
Speaker 1: combed over everything that I've said, all of my texts,
Speaker 1: like trying to figure out is it anything I could
Speaker 1: have said or done that turned everything sowarre? And I
Speaker 1: just can't figure it out. So that's why I came
Speaker 1: to you guys for help. And if she not talking
Speaker 1: to you at all, it's like almost non existent at
Speaker 1: this point. Man. That's always something when you go from
Speaker 1: texting all the time NonStop, you can just feel there's
Speaker 1: some kind of shift in the vibe. Right, Yeah, it
Speaker 1: just seems like something's going on. I just want to know.
Speaker 1: If it's not popping, I get it, but let me
Speaker 1: know something like I'm just dangling here. Maybe it's super
Speaker 1: romantic and it was too much for her and she
Speaker 1: doesn't know how she could live without you, and so
Speaker 1: she cut it off. Now, he said later, I don't
Speaker 1: know whatever I just tried to give. It could be
Speaker 1: something good. Do you think maybe it could be the distance?
Speaker 1: I mean, that's the only thing I could think of, dude, Like,
Speaker 1: maybe people are in their ear, like, oh, it's never
Speaker 1: gonna work because you guys are so far away. It's
Speaker 1: not an adult movie. They only stay together long distance
Speaker 1: in adult movies. But why wouldn't she just talk to
Speaker 1: you about that? Right? Exactly exactly, we're adults. You're adults,
Speaker 1: and it's obvious that's what you're doing. Exactly. Okay, Well
Speaker 1: we'll play a song and then come back and call
Speaker 1: and get your second day update. All right, okay, brooking
Speaker 1: Jubil in the morning, sate in the middle of a
Speaker 1: second day update and DRez is on the phone. Today
Speaker 1: he wants to call a girl named Sierra. They actually
Speaker 1: live long distance. They met online. He went to travel
Speaker 1: to visit her. They hung out for an entire weekend.
Speaker 1: He said, everything went great. They even sealed the deal.
Speaker 1: I'm not sure what that means, You're not, I have
Speaker 1: no idea. Yeah, they it was a contract. What sort
Speaker 1: of deal did you see dress? I'm a gentleman. If
Speaker 1: nothing else, I'm a gentleman. I still don't understand what
Speaker 1: you mean, dude. They slept together? What? Yes? Like it
Speaker 1: in the same bed? No? Oh god, let's just say yes, Triss.
Speaker 1: Did you guys sleep in the same bed? Yes, we
Speaker 1: slept wow, hot and heavy. No, they definitely had a
Speaker 1: great time. And then he came back home and since
Speaker 1: then the conversation has fizzled off, and now she's not
Speaker 1: really talking to him and he doesn't know why because
Speaker 1: Court and him everything went great. All right, man, are
Speaker 1: you ready to give her a call and see why
Speaker 1: she's not getting back to you? Yeah? Man, I'm ready.
Speaker 1: And did she ever indicate that maybe she was freaked
Speaker 1: out by long distance? No? But I mean if they
Speaker 1: did freak her out, like I would think that be
Speaker 1: something that she would tell me about. We flew all
Speaker 1: the way down to see her for our first date.
Speaker 1: R YEA. Hopefully that is an expensive first date that
Speaker 1: you did. All right, I'm a dollar fun number right
Speaker 1: now here we go? Hello, Hi, man, I speak to Sierra. Please.
Speaker 1: This is she Sierah? How are you? This is Jewil
Speaker 1: from brook and Jewble in the morning. Who's this Jebil
Speaker 1: from Brooke and Jebil in the Morning. It's a radio show.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, how are you today? I'm fine? Any idea
Speaker 1: what I'm calling you? No, No, I'm sorry. I don't
Speaker 1: know you guys, I'm sorry. I understand it. I don't know.
Speaker 1: We want you would guess. I just want to see
Speaker 1: what you would guess. I'm calling you today because we
Speaker 1: do a segment on our show it's called the second
Speaker 1: Date Update. That's where if you go out with somebody
Speaker 1: on a date and then end up not calling them back,
Speaker 1: they can email us to get you on the phone
Speaker 1: and find out what happened. And we got an email
Speaker 1: about you from Drezz. What Yeah, wow, Okay. He told
Speaker 1: us how he met you on line and even travel
Speaker 1: to come hang out with you, and he thought everything
Speaker 1: was great. But since he came home, you haven't been
Speaker 1: returning any of his calls and he's wondering if he
Speaker 1: did something wrong. Oh my gosh, what wow? Well, I
Speaker 1: mean so it's like you you meet people online and
Speaker 1: it's kind of strained, you know, and you just kind
Speaker 1: of hope you don't get catfished along the way. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but Dres was absolutely amazing. And he was everything that
Speaker 1: he said he was. So No, it was nothing like that. Yes,
Speaker 1: like I have really strong funds for him before he left.
Speaker 1: So what happened? Are you just I mean he thought,
Speaker 1: you know, maybe he's jumping the gun, and you were
Speaker 1: just really busy and that's why you haven't really talked
Speaker 1: to him. No, Like, Okay, so I've been at this crossroads, right,
Speaker 1: so I don't have this big surprise that I wanted
Speaker 1: to surprise to him. I've just been so became used.
Speaker 1: Like Okay, so my job wants to relocate and it's
Speaker 1: close to him, it's you know, closer to that state,
Speaker 1: that area, and I wanted to get closer to him.
Speaker 1: I just didn't know how to do what to say.
Speaker 1: So you're just are you just scared? Like you're scared
Speaker 1: to tell him, like, hey, I might be moving to
Speaker 1: your area. I mean, you know I kind of felt like, hey,
Speaker 1: this could be fat because this has never happened. I
Speaker 1: mean I didn't want to seem crazy. Yeah, like I'm
Speaker 1: moving in next door now, right, Yeah, but like not
Speaker 1: talking to him, that's crazy? Like how is it gonna
Speaker 1: be fat if you just don't ever talk to him again? Okay? Well,
Speaker 1: there's this a little situation. So I went out with you. No,
Speaker 1: my god, No, I don't have a husband. Okay, god,
Speaker 1: So my friends they threw me a party and before
Speaker 1: my going away party. Yeah, and it got so crazy
Speaker 1: and I feel so horrible about this, but I hooked
Speaker 1: up with another guy that night. Oh okay, so hold up,
Speaker 1: So hold up, the moving thing is for sure because
Speaker 1: you said it was possibility. So you are actually going
Speaker 1: to be moving closer to Dress. Yes, I want to,
Speaker 1: you know, like, I feel horrible about what happened, and
Speaker 1: so honestly, I haven't spoken to either of them all right,
Speaker 1: So you feel guilty for hooking up with another dude.
Speaker 1: It makes me feel so horrible because I know how
Speaker 1: I know how I felt about Dress, and I know
Speaker 1: the weekend we had was like more than a freaking
Speaker 1: first time meet up. Yeah I heard you guys slept
Speaker 1: in the same bag. Well, yes, we slept. But Dress
Speaker 1: even said you guys didn't have a relationship to finding talk,
Speaker 1: you didn't set boundaries for each other because it was
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, it was a big weekend, but it
Speaker 1: still was your first date. Yeah, well that's true and
Speaker 1: true things like I really do care about him, and
Speaker 1: that it was more to me than a first date.
Speaker 1: I mean, who spends the whole weekend together on the
Speaker 1: first date. And we were just such a great connection.
Speaker 1: So yeah, and maybe you needed that hook up with
Speaker 1: the other dude to affirm everything you're feeling about Dress.
Speaker 1: I think it was just a wild night. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: who knows. You don't even know that much about Dress.
Speaker 1: He might like that sort of thing. Oh my goodness, No,
Speaker 1: we should probably ask him, because he's actually on the
Speaker 1: other line listening and wants to talk to you. I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: Dress is actually on the other line listening and he
Speaker 1: wants to talk to you. Oh so he knows everything, now, Dress,
Speaker 1: you there, Yeah, I'm here. Man. How are you feeling?
Speaker 1: I gotta say, I'm really disparted. I mean I thought
Speaker 1: we had like this cosmic connection, and I haven't been
Speaker 1: able to think of anybody so blown, man, I haven't
Speaker 1: even been able to think about anything else but you.
Speaker 1: To be honest, like, I am just so sorry. I've
Speaker 1: just been so conflicted. I've been going through that and
Speaker 1: thinking about what happened and feeling horrible about that and
Speaker 1: thinking about you and moving my job. Want to get
Speaker 1: closer to you because I totally enjoyed our weekend as well. Like,
Speaker 1: I am so sorry, please forgive me. I mean, if
Speaker 1: we hadn't been so far apart and we had, you know,
Speaker 1: established boundaries or something, that I could be more upset.
Speaker 1: But you know, we didn't draw that line. We didn't say, okay,
Speaker 1: now we're an item. So but I mean, I would
Speaker 1: like to know what's to deal with you and this
Speaker 1: other guy. Is there some kind of future in that still?
Speaker 1: You're sure? Absolutely not. I'm certain in the hands, so like,
Speaker 1: was he better than me? Ask? No? Of course not, nope. Never.
Speaker 1: I am excited about thought of you being closer to
Speaker 1: me because I mean I was ready to risk it all.
Speaker 1: I gotta be honest, like if there was a situation
Speaker 1: where it was the distance I would have come down there.
Speaker 1: I mean, I just I really felt like we had
Speaker 1: this just one in a lifetime shot going and whatever
Speaker 1: I had to do, I was going to do it.
Speaker 1: Oh man, Now that is intense. You were worried about
Speaker 1: freaking him out, Sierra, Yea, the feeling is so mutual.
Speaker 1: I love you too, and I'm a little bummed out
Speaker 1: about the situation. But you're gonna use your one get
Speaker 1: out of jail free car. Well, then, Siera, would you
Speaker 1: like to go on a second date with Dress? We'll
Speaker 1: pay for it, not a plane ticket, like, we'll give
Speaker 1: you a gift card to go somewhere to eat. But
Speaker 1: he has to get to you or you have to
Speaker 1: get to him first. Oh wow, you guys would do
Speaker 1: that for us. Yeah, and we do it for everybody
Speaker 1: on the second date update. But yeah, so we will,
Speaker 1: we will do that. Well. I did promise to him
Speaker 1: that i'd be there the next time we had our date,
Speaker 1: so I'll be there. Oh my god, what are you
Speaker 1: moving here? Well, my job moves within the next two weeks. Actually,
Speaker 1: so soon to day. I thought, Oh, there you go,
Speaker 1: as you got a second day. Yeah, I can't wait, man,
Speaker 1: I gotta be honest. I'm really relieved. This is a
Speaker 1: big surprise. So happy for you. And look at you.
Speaker 1: Guys are already creating a great foundation of communication and
Speaker 1: understanding and forgiveness. Yes, hey, Dress, Yeah, is this where
Speaker 1: we tell her that we slept together last week? Oh
Speaker 1: my god? And Jubil shut up, man, don't tell her anything. Congratulations,
Speaker 1: you too, Keep in touch with us and let us
Speaker 1: know how everything goes all right, thank you, all right,
Speaker 1: thank you. Broken Jubil in the morning,