WEBVTT - Roz Chast Draws—and Talks to—Alec Baldwin

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<v Speaker 1>This is Alec Baldwin, and you're listening to Here's the thing,

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<v Speaker 1>My chance to talk with artists, policymakers, and performers, to

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<v Speaker 1>hear their stories. What inspires their creations, what decisions change

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<v Speaker 1>their careers, what relationships influenced their work. If you've ever

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<v Speaker 1>picked up an issue of The New Yorker, chances are

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<v Speaker 1>you've seen the work of cartoonist Ro's Chaste. Her characters

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<v Speaker 1>appear to be hastily drawn in colored pencils by a

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<v Speaker 1>clever child while talking on the phone, But on closer examination,

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<v Speaker 1>you recognize the complex emotions that her drawings contain. Though

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<v Speaker 1>their faces are made up of only a few squiggles.

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<v Speaker 1>You spot a look of resentment in the mother, resignation

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<v Speaker 1>in the father, entitlement in the sun, and defiance in

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<v Speaker 1>the daughter. Chaste gives life to the objects around the

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<v Speaker 1>family as well. She trains her eye on what the

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<v Speaker 1>rest of us don't see, archiving the detritus real or imagined,

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<v Speaker 1>that we lead behind in our wake. You could call

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<v Speaker 1>her an anthropologist of human emotions, but Ros's Chaste prefers

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<v Speaker 1>to keep our title simple. I guess a cartoonist. Yeah, cartoonist,

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<v Speaker 1>And how long have you been doing the pieces for

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<v Speaker 1>the New Yorker since when I started in for the

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<v Speaker 1>New Yorker. For the New Yorker, yeah, and did you

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<v Speaker 1>know how does that work? Did you submit and submit

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<v Speaker 1>for eons and eons and finally got accepted or no.

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<v Speaker 1>I had a very strange experience when I got out

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<v Speaker 1>of art school. I was starting to take a portfolio

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<v Speaker 1>around and I was doing cartoons for various places. I

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<v Speaker 1>actually thought I would wind up working for the Village Voice.

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<v Speaker 1>That was sort of my goal, because that's where I

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<v Speaker 1>pictured myself. You know, Jules Feiffer did cartoons for the

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<v Speaker 1>Village Voice, and I thought, well, if I work really

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<v Speaker 1>hard and if I'm really lucky, and if there's a

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<v Speaker 1>receptive editor, that's where I'll be. My parents subscribed The

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<v Speaker 1>New Yorker, and so at some point I thought, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I might as well try them. But I really did

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<v Speaker 1>not think that that was where my cartoons would be because,

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<v Speaker 1>especially in my cartoons were not what they had in

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<v Speaker 1>the magazine, and uh, but I thought, uh, how would

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<v Speaker 1>you describe what was in the magazine? And they were

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<v Speaker 1>mostly single panel cartoons with a gagline underneath a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of them were funny. I liked a lot of the

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<v Speaker 1>art in them. I loved, you know, Charles Adams and

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<v Speaker 1>Ed Coren, Jack Ziegler, there were a lot of Gay

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<v Speaker 1>Wilson when he appeared. There were a lot of cartoons

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<v Speaker 1>that I liked. But I just did not see my

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<v Speaker 1>stuff in there. I guess because of the single panel thing,

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<v Speaker 1>and especially back then, my stuff was lots of panels,

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<v Speaker 1>and they were really really tiny. The boxes were about

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<v Speaker 1>postage stamp sized, and in fact, the editor of The

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<v Speaker 1>New Yorker told me that I had to start making

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<v Speaker 1>them bigger because um, they were just very hard to see.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think, in this sort of logical but sort

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<v Speaker 1>of slightly in main way, I thought, if I just

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<v Speaker 1>draw really small, like, nobody will get really angry with me.

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<v Speaker 1>So anyway, one time, and it was in April of

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<v Speaker 1>seventy eight, I dropped off this portfolio of cartoons to

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<v Speaker 1>The New Yorker. I had called them up and found

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<v Speaker 1>out when they saw stuff over the transome. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know anybody there. I didn't know computers the internet paper right,

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<v Speaker 1>and I didn't know how many cartoons. Was the editor

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<v Speaker 1>then William Shaun and uh Lee Lawrence was the cartoon

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<v Speaker 1>the art editor. There was no cartoon editor. He was

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<v Speaker 1>in charge of all the art, the covers, the inside.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, there wasn't that much art. There was the cartoons,

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<v Speaker 1>there was the covers. They were spot drawings, and that

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<v Speaker 1>was pretty much it. When I came back next week

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<v Speaker 1>to pick them up. I had about sixty cartoons in there.

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<v Speaker 1>I really did not know what I was doing. There

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<v Speaker 1>was a note from him to come back and see him.

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<v Speaker 1>Turned out i'd sold a cartoon and he told me

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<v Speaker 1>to come back every week. So that's kind of what

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<v Speaker 1>I've been doing. Would you would say that you're in

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<v Speaker 1>the if they do they do double issues, so they

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<v Speaker 1>probably put out what about fifty issues or forty eight

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<v Speaker 1>issues a year, something like that, And you'd say that

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<v Speaker 1>you appear in the magazine how often per year? It

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<v Speaker 1>goes on streaks? I mean it's uh, they'll take whatever

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<v Speaker 1>you've got. No, no, I mean it's weird stuff you

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<v Speaker 1>send them, no tons because I mean they reject at

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<v Speaker 1>least of the stuff you submit. Yes, the way, there's

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, maybe forty cartoonists on staff, and we

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<v Speaker 1>all submit a group of cartoons. Every week. I send

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<v Speaker 1>in usually six to eight cartoons, and um, sometimes they

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<v Speaker 1>take one, sometimes they don't take any. Every blue moon

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<v Speaker 1>they take too. But the overwhelming majority of what I

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<v Speaker 1>turned in is rejected. Where does that go? It goes

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<v Speaker 1>on top of my file cabinet with its other reject brethren,

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<v Speaker 1>the graveyard, Graveyard chest imagination. Yeah, but you know, then

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<v Speaker 1>I publish somewhere else. I used to do sonics cartoons

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<v Speaker 1>for a Scientific American UM and read book. Uh, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't put them online on a website. That is ross

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<v Speaker 1>chess rejected cartoons, man, I so they don't go on

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<v Speaker 1>a website website, Okay, Now, Crumbler and UM, so much trouble,

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<v Speaker 1>so much trouble, and they're just bad anyway, And anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes I redraw them and and I reworked them. And

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<v Speaker 1>you know, because if I'm really stubborn about a joke,

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<v Speaker 1>if I think this could be a good joke, if

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<v Speaker 1>I just need to make it better, you know. So

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<v Speaker 1>where did you go to art school? I went to

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<v Speaker 1>Rhode Island School of Design. You went to Rid, Right,

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<v Speaker 1>What did you study there? You study art? And I

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<v Speaker 1>started out. I started out in graphic design because I

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<v Speaker 1>thought I would be practical, and I hated it. It

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<v Speaker 1>was just, you know, a lot of it's like this

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<v Speaker 1>was about learning to be neat and measure exactly, and uh,

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<v Speaker 1>I really was not good at that. I had been

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<v Speaker 1>cartooning since you were a child. Yeah, you started when

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<v Speaker 1>you were young. I started when I was really little.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think a lot of it had to do

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<v Speaker 1>with that I was an only child and my parents

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<v Speaker 1>were a lot older, and there was one way to

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<v Speaker 1>kind of keep me entertain after Known'm kidding, ha ha.

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<v Speaker 1>And the chasti and psychological condition was that in the

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<v Speaker 1>early drawings as well. Oh, I think ross chest as

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<v Speaker 1>a child, what's the point help me going to the library?

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<v Speaker 1>I like the library. What's the point of going to

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<v Speaker 1>the movies? We have snacks at home. No. I think

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<v Speaker 1>when I was a kid, I drew everything. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I like to draw people. I liked, you know, funny

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<v Speaker 1>remarks and conversations and yeah, you know, I just like

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<v Speaker 1>to draw. And then when you left Wristee, what did

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<v Speaker 1>you do before you started? I'm not coming who. You

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<v Speaker 1>became with the New Yorker and so you graduated risdy

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<v Speaker 1>Win in so it was only a year before you

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<v Speaker 1>submitted to Sean. Yeah, yeah, so it was actually less

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<v Speaker 1>the other work you do as an artist during that

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<v Speaker 1>period of time. I mean, do you wind up? Is

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<v Speaker 1>this the beginning of you making your living as a

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<v Speaker 1>cartoonist right away? Um? I started out actually doing illustrations.

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<v Speaker 1>They were terrible. I was doing cartoons on my own,

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<v Speaker 1>but I never thought that I would be able to

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<v Speaker 1>make a living at first as a cartoonist. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I was living in my parents apartment and that was enough,

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<v Speaker 1>and I sort of made up a weird illustration style

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<v Speaker 1>that was like a pastiche of all the popular styles

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<v Speaker 1>of the day, and they were pretty terrible. I did

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<v Speaker 1>not get much work, and at some point I just thought,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, I'm just going to try submitting the

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<v Speaker 1>cartoons because this is really what I like to do,

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<v Speaker 1>and at least if nobody takes them, then i'll know that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I tried. So I don't know if I

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<v Speaker 1>even thought it out that far, or whether it was

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<v Speaker 1>really that the illustrations weren't getting any work at all.

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<v Speaker 1>And when I started doing the cartoons, that's when I

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<v Speaker 1>started getting work. I started selling to do the illustrations

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<v Speaker 1>look like were they in? They're not in the style?

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<v Speaker 1>When when you're when you're an artist and you do illustrations,

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's it's like you draw birds like Audubon, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't draw birds like Ross Chest draws cartoons and people.

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<v Speaker 1>They're not squiggly lines of people with their hands up

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<v Speaker 1>around their mouths. They were just like these fake kind

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<v Speaker 1>of Milton Glazer mixed with a little weird abstract e

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<v Speaker 1>kind of junk. Because at Rizzy, I was taught like,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't want to be too tight when you draw,

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<v Speaker 1>so there was like a kind of like fake loose

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<v Speaker 1>kind of thing tossed off. Well they were not tossed off.

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<v Speaker 1>They were fake loose, you know. They were like to

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<v Speaker 1>look like they were just horrible, and I didn't like

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<v Speaker 1>doing them. I mean, that was the worst part. It

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<v Speaker 1>was just someone that taught you then, who helped you

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<v Speaker 1>that you remember, who was a great mentor of yours.

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<v Speaker 1>Um I was in high school. I went to the

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<v Speaker 1>Art Students League on week on. It was one Saturday

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<v Speaker 1>a month, and I had yeah, yeah, and that's I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I could not say that I know anatomy my any

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<v Speaker 1>stretch of the imagination, but it's where I took a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of figure drawing and I loved the Art Students League,

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<v Speaker 1>and I had an amazing teacher there named Andrew Lucash.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that a lot. When you start working with

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<v Speaker 1>for the New Yorker. How long does it go on

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<v Speaker 1>before you're making a living just doing that? Um, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think I've ever I've always done other things illustrations,

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<v Speaker 1>um and tossed off kind of phone. Know. What happened

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<v Speaker 1>was once my style got known through the New Yorker,

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<v Speaker 1>then people would hire me because it was okay to

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<v Speaker 1>draw my style. And uh, I remember doing some illustration.

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<v Speaker 1>I think what was that magazine? It wasn't called I

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<v Speaker 1>can't remember. Maybe it was it have been missed, I

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<v Speaker 1>can't remember. Somebody's closet. It was just like I had

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<v Speaker 1>all these clothes and these arrows with words like sick, yuck,

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<v Speaker 1>throw out, you know, and it was like I couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>incorporate the jokes and the writing into the illustrations. And

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<v Speaker 1>so you know, in the years after that, after my

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<v Speaker 1>cartoon started appearing in New Yorker, I was able to

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<v Speaker 1>get illustration work, but they knew what I did. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>every once in a while, something weird would happen, like, UM,

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<v Speaker 1>a magazine would say. I think it was seventeen magazine.

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<v Speaker 1>I I illustrated a booklet for teenagers about I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even manners or something, and they said, could you make

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<v Speaker 1>your people look more contemporary? And I thought, they don't

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<v Speaker 1>look contemporary? You know. I just thought, well, this is

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<v Speaker 1>how I draw contemporary people, you know, I mean, what

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<v Speaker 1>are they supposed to wear a different sort of hair

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<v Speaker 1>band or something. I just I don't know. It's just like,

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<v Speaker 1>no matter what I put on my characters, they look

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<v Speaker 1>how they look. They said, okay, and then we went

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<v Speaker 1>on from there. Sean was the editor when your first

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<v Speaker 1>commit was got Leeb. Next after that it was Sean Gottlieb,

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<v Speaker 1>Tina and David. How does that change the perception of

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<v Speaker 1>your work? Editor to editor and then art director and

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<v Speaker 1>cartoon editor and on and on. Have you had a

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<v Speaker 1>different reception for your work over the last several years? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>I was very panicky when Tina Brown took over, because

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<v Speaker 1>I think several people were because I had the impression

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<v Speaker 1>that she liked only topical stuff. And I think that

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<v Speaker 1>that a lot of my cartoons during that time became

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<v Speaker 1>more topical. But the thing with very topical cartoons is

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you can't really include them in a collection.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, who really cares about Monica Lewinsky joke right now?

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<v Speaker 1>So you know, I felt like if I could do

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<v Speaker 1>them in a way that was still my stuff, it

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<v Speaker 1>was all right. But um, that were your fears assuaged?

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<v Speaker 1>Once she got there, that she get your it was

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<v Speaker 1>all right, it was okay. But I think there is

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<v Speaker 1>some differences. I think so, I think so, um, and

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<v Speaker 1>who knows how much of it was in my own,

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<v Speaker 1>you know projection. Another thing I thought about was just

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<v Speaker 1>pure writing. Have you done a lot of writing and

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<v Speaker 1>do you do writing aside from doing the cartooning, because

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<v Speaker 1>so much of what you do involves writing. In this

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<v Speaker 1>book that you have about now is so beautifully written

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<v Speaker 1>in terms of the honesty and the well, thank you,

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<v Speaker 1>thanks um. I think that one thing I have always

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<v Speaker 1>loved about cartoons is that they have writing and they

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<v Speaker 1>have pictures. And it's not just like an illustration. In

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<v Speaker 1>the best cartoons, the best graphic novels graphic uh you know, storytelling,

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<v Speaker 1>The words and the pictures play off each other. The

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<v Speaker 1>illustration is not necessarily a literal illustration of the words

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<v Speaker 1>that you see on the page. It could be moving

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<v Speaker 1>the story forward or back, or could be like in

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<v Speaker 1>total contradiction to what's written. Um, there's some sort of

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<v Speaker 1>thing going on between the two of them. And what

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<v Speaker 1>I love is that I don't have to choose. Like

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<v Speaker 1>in this book, there are times where a picture served,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, best, to tell what I wanted to tell,

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<v Speaker 1>And there were parts where I really wanted it needed

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<v Speaker 1>to be all text. You know, the pictures would not

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<v Speaker 1>have helped, would have in fact attracted. And I do

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<v Speaker 1>like to write. I have written, Um, I've written for

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<v Speaker 1>The New Yorker, I've written a Talk of the Town piece,

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<v Speaker 1>I wrote shouts and murmurs. I've written an obituary um

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<v Speaker 1>for uh wonderful cartoonist Leo Collum. Um. I like to write.

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<v Speaker 1>I like to write mostly though, UM, I like cartoons.

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<v Speaker 1>You do, Yeah, Are you much of a television watcher?

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<v Speaker 1>Someone who's who's very funny and and humorist certainly applies

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<v Speaker 1>to you when your work, Like any good cartoonist. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>what kind of television do you watch? Oh? God, I

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<v Speaker 1>love so many of these, you know, repeating the series

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<v Speaker 1>that have been on. Oh my god, I watched yeah

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<v Speaker 1>Bench last night, I watched three episodes of broad Church,

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<v Speaker 1>British show. Um about a little kid who's murdered and

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<v Speaker 1>broad Church is the name of the town. Um, I've

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<v Speaker 1>watched that. I watched broad City, Girls, Madman, What's the

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<v Speaker 1>Wire of No? No, broad City though it was funny.

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<v Speaker 1>Not a sitcom watcher. No, I'm not much of a

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<v Speaker 1>sitcom watcher. Um, I watched sits. Know. When I was

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<v Speaker 1>a kid, I watched a ton of sitcotts, Bewitched, Green Acres,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I was obsessed with Bewitched. Where's the Agnes

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<v Speaker 1>More ahead of today? Oh my god, I can still

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<v Speaker 1>hear the credits in my head. I watched Beverly Hillbilly's Island,

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<v Speaker 1>Gilligan's Island, totally yeah. I mean I still see a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people in terms of Guilden's Island. I still

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<v Speaker 1>have dreams about Ginger. Oh my god, say, at least

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<v Speaker 1>is not like Gilligan weird tied up to a tree

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<v Speaker 1>in my dream Gilligan in this skipper, they're on the

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<v Speaker 1>other side of the island doing the laundry quote unquote

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<v Speaker 1>with I say, I say. And the last TV show

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<v Speaker 1>until the Sopranos came along that I watched with any

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<v Speaker 1>devotion was Mary Hartman. Mary Hartman, Yes, and I was

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<v Speaker 1>addicted to the weirdness of that show. When I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I forget sixteen or see, I did sort of get

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<v Speaker 1>into the Mary Tyler Moore show. And there were a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of years when I first got out of college.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe it was the first year I got out of

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<v Speaker 1>college where I was living in the apartment, living in

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<v Speaker 1>my first apartment. Actually it was when I got out

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<v Speaker 1>of college, when I still living at home for a

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<v Speaker 1>while and then I moved into my own apartment that

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't really have much of a social life, let's

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<v Speaker 1>put it that way. And working. I was working, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was working on my cartoons, and I was mostly

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<v Speaker 1>mostly pretty depressed. Big shock, because well I was living

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<v Speaker 1>at home and I just thought, this is still at

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<v Speaker 1>home with my parents in Brooklyn, and I thought this

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<v Speaker 1>is my life. I was twenty two, twenty two, and

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know how to fill my time. I think

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<v Speaker 1>that was another thing that like, you know, it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>so different now with the Internet, but before it was

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<v Speaker 1>like there were these stretches. I mean, I was also

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<v Speaker 1>in love with this guy and it wasn't reciprocal. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>what do do he was a painter U school. He

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<v Speaker 1>was yeah, yeah, um yeah. But anyway, uh so it

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<v Speaker 1>was it was a very depressing time. And I used

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<v Speaker 1>to watch the Mary Charler Wore Show and also The

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<v Speaker 1>Odd Couple, and there were these things that sort of

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<v Speaker 1>like like I knew if I got to those shows,

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<v Speaker 1>I would like live through the day. It's hard to

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<v Speaker 1>sort of explain, but remember that those shows made me

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<v Speaker 1>feel more. Yeah, they would pay that they'd play that

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<v Speaker 1>opening and gone with the wind. I told someone I

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<v Speaker 1>spent you're a real New Yorker. I spent six months

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<v Speaker 1>on the internet, surfing the carters and the baffles and

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<v Speaker 1>the warrens of YouTube to find the voice of the

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<v Speaker 1>man that was the voice of my childhood. Now, it's

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<v Speaker 1>interesting that you remember the voices. I don't remember that that.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember that Clapboard like really, well, which one do

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<v Speaker 1>you remember? That? Was the four thirty movie? No? That

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<v Speaker 1>was that? That was? I think that the Million Dollar

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<v Speaker 1>movie was the Clapboard was later one? Um, the four

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<v Speaker 1>thirty movie I think had a kind of grandfather clock

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<v Speaker 1>kind of I don't want I don't want to be

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<v Speaker 1>taking you on in the music was do I think

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<v Speaker 1>I've got you here. I don't mean to be lecturing Roch,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm going to tell you the clapboard and the

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<v Speaker 1>camera on the dolly was the four thirty movie. That

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<v Speaker 1>was the slate the Maybe I'm remembering something really long ago.

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<v Speaker 1>You have been breathing in a lot of chemicals there

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<v Speaker 1>in your cartooning studio, and your memory is failing you.

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<v Speaker 1>The one you're referring to as a famous piece called

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<v Speaker 1>syncopated clock, and that was the Late Show on CBS

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<v Speaker 1>and the Late Late Show on CBS. So the clapboard

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<v Speaker 1>was the ABC. But when did you realize that that

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<v Speaker 1>was a clapartelling this the clapboard in the Okay, sol See,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know. I thought it was like a black

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. I didn't know what it was until I

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<v Speaker 1>was much older. A clapboard. It looked like it looked

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<v Speaker 1>like a weird flashboard to me. You were depressed back then.

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<v Speaker 1>The painter wasn't around. You're looking with your parents and

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<v Speaker 1>crazy Ville. How old were you when you moved out

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<v Speaker 1>of the apartment, Uh, twenty three, So you're just there

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<v Speaker 1>for a year, just there for you about yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>And then you moved toward to Manhattan. Yes, moved to Manhattan,

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<v Speaker 1>a wonderful apartment on seventy third Street, loved one between

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<v Speaker 1>Amsterdam and Columbus area. It was wonderful. It was it was,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, kind of raddy back then. Not terrible, but

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<v Speaker 1>it was the wild wild West back Yeah, it was raddy.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, they were like linoleum stores in secondhand clothing stores.

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<v Speaker 1>Tinchers was still on Broadway, yes, And the prostitutes used

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<v Speaker 1>to wear like faux fur coats and approach you on Broadway. Yes.

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<v Speaker 1>And as you went up on Amsterdam Avenue, people in

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<v Speaker 1>the summer with like barbecue out of their cars. And

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<v Speaker 1>I remember that because the painter that I like lived

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<v Speaker 1>on two Street in Amsterdam. And whence you crossed like

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<v Speaker 1>seventy nine Street, you were just like, I don't even

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<v Speaker 1>know where I am. How old were you when you

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<v Speaker 1>met your husband? So this is again like a year

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<v Speaker 1>or two later when you met him, were at the

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<v Speaker 1>New Yorker. Well, you know you New Yorker people all

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<v Speaker 1>just commingle, yes, pretty much so much. Yeah, and only

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<v Speaker 1>another New Yorker staff member can understand just you know,

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<v Speaker 1>these are the people we know and really cross paths.

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<v Speaker 1>What did he do? Yeah, Bill. He's a writer, and

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<v Speaker 1>what does he right? Predominantly short humor, talking the town

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff like that. Well, now's some reason why the

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<v Speaker 1>lights in here. Like, I'm surprised, and I'm coming into

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<v Speaker 1>this interview with you having read your cartoons and loved

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<v Speaker 1>your cartoons, and I am a great cavelling, cavetching, whining

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<v Speaker 1>bundle of insecurity myself. I am. I'm a ball of insecurity.

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<v Speaker 1>And for you, of all people, I've got all these

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<v Speaker 1>presumptions about you to ask about the power fluctuations in

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<v Speaker 1>an old apartment building. I'm just surprised, this is an

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<v Speaker 1>old apartment building to take up this carpet his linoleum there, Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I come completely Joseph's Temple of communication explanation. I just

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to make sure about you don't have some neurological disorder.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't have any neurological disorder as far as I know.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it's but just you know, there's just things

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<v Speaker 1>going on, electrical things going on. Was trying to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to Charles Schultz is trying to talk to you. He's

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<v Speaker 1>born on my birthday. Actually, really, yes, what did you

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<v Speaker 1>think of that cartoon? Peanuts? When I was younger, I

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<v Speaker 1>liked it a lot. I still think it has some

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<v Speaker 1>fantastic archetypes, but you know, it's not completely my cup

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<v Speaker 1>of tea, but I like it. Charles Adams probably Jane Wilson,

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<v Speaker 1>Charles Adams sort of more odd. Tim Burton definitely definitely.

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<v Speaker 1>Chat said she loved Charles Adams work when she was

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<v Speaker 1>young because, quote, it made fun of stuff you weren't

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to make fun of. Unquote. It's clear she wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>your average kid growing up in Brooklyn in the fifties

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<v Speaker 1>and sixties. In her cartoon A Note on the Author,

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<v Speaker 1>Chaste drew her nine year old self reading the Big

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<v Speaker 1>Book of Horrible Rare Diseases. I'm Alec Baldwin, and here's

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<v Speaker 1>the thing. Take a listen to our archive more in

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<v Speaker 1>depth conversations with artists, policymakers, and performers like Lena Dunham.

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<v Speaker 1>Dunham and Chast both talk to me about their early years,

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<v Speaker 1>but Dunham's plans for her future were way off. Always

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<v Speaker 1>thought I would be like a weird gender and women

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<v Speaker 1>studies teacher who occasionally showed movies at film festivals and

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<v Speaker 1>hung out in my strange apartment that was stacked high

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<v Speaker 1>with books. Take a listen at Here's the Thing dot Org.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Alec Baldwin and you're listening to Here's the Thing.

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<v Speaker 1>My guest today is Ra's Chast. Can We talk About

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<v Speaker 1>Something more Pleasant? Her graphic memoir about taking care of

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<v Speaker 1>her elderly parents in their final years, was nominated for

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<v Speaker 1>a National Book Award last year. Along with her drawings

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<v Speaker 1>that told the story of her parents, the book includes

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<v Speaker 1>actual photographs of the objects they left behind. While cleaning

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<v Speaker 1>out her parents fridge, Chast found an invention of her

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<v Speaker 1>mother's from the sixties made from mismatched tupperware held together

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<v Speaker 1>with masking tape, called the cheese Tailor. Chast says anything

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<v Speaker 1>to do with death is funny, but the emotional honesty

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<v Speaker 1>of her book produced more than just laughs. The New

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<v Speaker 1>York Times called can We Talk as ambitious, raw and

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<v Speaker 1>personal as anything she has produced. Yeah. This is definitely

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<v Speaker 1>the most personal and how would you describe it? The

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<v Speaker 1>book is called can't We I'm sorry, Can't We talk

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<v Speaker 1>about Something more Pleasant? Which comes from my father. That's

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<v Speaker 1>something that he would say anytime a topic that was

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<v Speaker 1>a little dicey would come up. Because my mother loved

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<v Speaker 1>talking about like weird illnesses than friends of hers had,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you know, did you hear about Shirley She has

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<v Speaker 1>like blood coming out of her right ear, blood and puss,

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<v Speaker 1>and she was just sitting in the Chinese restrust. Actually

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<v Speaker 1>it was like it started at blood, then pus, then

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<v Speaker 1>it started shifting, then it was blood an enormous amen.

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<v Speaker 1>And then my father would just say, can't we talk

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<v Speaker 1>about so my mother? You and I are going to

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<v Speaker 1>go back and forth about our mother's and my family.

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<v Speaker 1>We we make fun of my mother because my mother

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<v Speaker 1>will not have six degrees of separation. She'll have a

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<v Speaker 1>hundred and six degrees of separation from someone and yet

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<v Speaker 1>feel the pain of someone she could never possibly meet.

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<v Speaker 1>Or No, she loved tragedy. She was addicted to tragedy. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the drama thing, drama, melodrama. Tell me about the genesis

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<v Speaker 1>of this book, if you will. Well, I think in

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<v Speaker 1>my head I do sort of take notes on things.

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<v Speaker 1>There were a lot of cartoons in this book. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I was telling you earlier about how every week I

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<v Speaker 1>submit around six or eight cartoons. So and then you

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<v Speaker 1>were asking me about the rejects on top with the

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<v Speaker 1>file cabinet. Some of these cartoons, like the one with

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<v Speaker 1>the oven mitt, there were things that I did when

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<v Speaker 1>I would go visit my parents, and I would have

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<v Speaker 1>like a sort of insane conversation with my mother about

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<v Speaker 1>that was you know this oven mit, which was uh,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, who patches an oven mit? They cost like

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<v Speaker 1>four And this was before this was way before she

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<v Speaker 1>was you know, she was still grocery shopping, so I

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<v Speaker 1>know she could have bought an oven mit and it

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<v Speaker 1>was patched with a skirt that I had made in

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<v Speaker 1>seventh grade home economics class, and I could not understand

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<v Speaker 1>why she still had it, you know. But then you know,

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<v Speaker 1>as it became clear she they never threw anything away ever, ever, ever, ever,

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<v Speaker 1>They just kind of like shoved it farther back in

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<v Speaker 1>the closet. Um. And uh so, yes, they were kind

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<v Speaker 1>of hoarders and um, borderline hoarders, I think. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>they were not rats like scurrying. I mean I have

0:25:56.440 --> 0:26:00.240
<v Speaker 1>watched the Hoarders. They were, Yes, yes, they were were

0:26:00.440 --> 0:26:03.879
<v Speaker 1>you know, farm lee Cord hoarders. So some of the cartoons,

0:26:04.359 --> 0:26:09.040
<v Speaker 1>like the that the cheese dan Ish one, there's probably

0:26:09.480 --> 0:26:12.480
<v Speaker 1>ten or twenty in the book that I did, not

0:26:12.760 --> 0:26:15.680
<v Speaker 1>thinking in any way that they would become part of

0:26:15.720 --> 0:26:18.119
<v Speaker 1>a book, but that I did, you know, within a

0:26:18.160 --> 0:26:21.400
<v Speaker 1>couple of weeks of the incident happening, or the Theuigia

0:26:21.440 --> 0:26:25.320
<v Speaker 1>board one, you know where when my father was dying

0:26:25.720 --> 0:26:29.320
<v Speaker 1>and I my daughter was doing Wigia board with some

0:26:29.400 --> 0:26:34.159
<v Speaker 1>friends in her room, and you know, I barely was touching.

0:26:34.200 --> 0:26:36.160
<v Speaker 1>And I'm with my daughter and a couple of friends.

0:26:36.160 --> 0:26:39.480
<v Speaker 1>They're like sixteen years old, and the thing spells out,

0:26:40.119 --> 0:26:43.040
<v Speaker 1>you know, heaven beckons. I. Oh, I asked it, I

0:26:43.040 --> 0:26:46.920
<v Speaker 1>should say, I asked, Luigia board, is Grandpa going to

0:26:47.040 --> 0:26:50.360
<v Speaker 1>die soon? And my daughter was like, mom, that's so morbid.

0:26:50.680 --> 0:26:52.400
<v Speaker 1>But it was the first question that popped into my head.

0:26:52.480 --> 0:26:56.240
<v Speaker 1>So I asked it. And I was not touching the

0:26:56.320 --> 0:26:58.560
<v Speaker 1>plant chat you know, I was just like my hands

0:26:58.600 --> 0:27:01.600
<v Speaker 1>were like touching two adams worth because I was partly

0:27:01.640 --> 0:27:03.280
<v Speaker 1>curious to see, like where are these kids going to

0:27:03.359 --> 0:27:07.000
<v Speaker 1>move it? You know, and you know, so I wrote

0:27:07.040 --> 0:27:11.880
<v Speaker 1>that up. So so that's the genesis. But the genesis

0:27:11.960 --> 0:27:13.760
<v Speaker 1>from the book, I think it just sort of started

0:27:13.800 --> 0:27:20.240
<v Speaker 1>to fall together, probably like when you photographed the objects

0:27:20.400 --> 0:27:23.000
<v Speaker 1>in the house. There's that little piece in the book.

0:27:23.040 --> 0:27:27.000
<v Speaker 1>We have photographs of the pencil drawer, and these are

0:27:27.200 --> 0:27:31.280
<v Speaker 1>these wonderfully plane and simple things that there are snapshots

0:27:31.280 --> 0:27:33.359
<v Speaker 1>at all of us say that's that, this is how

0:27:33.480 --> 0:27:35.880
<v Speaker 1>we live. When you were doing that, were you saying

0:27:35.920 --> 0:27:38.080
<v Speaker 1>to yourself, I'm gonna put this down into a book

0:27:38.080 --> 0:27:42.320
<v Speaker 1>of some kind. Before that, I think that, well, I was.

0:27:42.520 --> 0:27:44.840
<v Speaker 1>I knew I was getting rid of almost everything in

0:27:44.880 --> 0:27:48.760
<v Speaker 1>the apartment, and I wanted memories of it. I think

0:27:49.560 --> 0:27:52.120
<v Speaker 1>that I thought it's the same way that when something

0:27:52.280 --> 0:27:57.280
<v Speaker 1>is interesting, I think somehow this might be useful, and

0:27:58.000 --> 0:28:01.480
<v Speaker 1>maybe in some very vague I was thinking about a book,

0:28:01.560 --> 0:28:04.120
<v Speaker 1>but I don't think I really thought about I wasn't

0:28:04.160 --> 0:28:06.000
<v Speaker 1>really thinking of this because I didn't even have a

0:28:06.040 --> 0:28:08.560
<v Speaker 1>title for it for the longest time, or how it

0:28:08.560 --> 0:28:10.800
<v Speaker 1>would be structured, or whether it could be a book.

0:28:10.800 --> 0:28:13.160
<v Speaker 1>I didn't even know whether it could really be a book,

0:28:13.240 --> 0:28:15.800
<v Speaker 1>or how I would use the photograph. So a lot

0:28:15.880 --> 0:28:22.560
<v Speaker 1>of it just kind of came together more later. So

0:28:22.760 --> 0:28:26.399
<v Speaker 1>for you, you didn't decide until when. When did you

0:28:26.480 --> 0:28:28.480
<v Speaker 1>sit there and go, I want to get this on paper.

0:28:28.560 --> 0:28:32.800
<v Speaker 1>This my feelings about my parents, I think probably, and

0:28:32.960 --> 0:28:36.960
<v Speaker 1>why somewhere between my father's death and my mother's death

0:28:37.359 --> 0:28:40.840
<v Speaker 1>somewhere in there. And why, I think because I didn't

0:28:40.840 --> 0:28:46.480
<v Speaker 1>want to forget, and I just I just knew that

0:28:46.600 --> 0:28:49.479
<v Speaker 1>if I did not get it down, I would forget.

0:28:49.600 --> 0:28:54.360
<v Speaker 1>I would uh, I'd forget how they sounded, I'd forget.

0:28:54.400 --> 0:28:56.520
<v Speaker 1>It's an instinct all of us have to some degree,

0:28:56.680 --> 0:28:58.720
<v Speaker 1>I mean normal people. Yeah, I think so. I want

0:28:58.720 --> 0:29:00.920
<v Speaker 1>to chronicle that in some way. I definitely think so.

0:29:01.520 --> 0:29:03.720
<v Speaker 1>I think it's why we tell stories. I think it's

0:29:03.800 --> 0:29:06.160
<v Speaker 1>why we tell our friends, Oh my god, this is

0:29:06.200 --> 0:29:08.200
<v Speaker 1>what or why you know we don't because maybe we

0:29:08.240 --> 0:29:10.840
<v Speaker 1>don't want to remember. We videotape our children out within

0:29:10.920 --> 0:29:13.520
<v Speaker 1>an inch of their lives right right. What people take

0:29:13.600 --> 0:29:15.800
<v Speaker 1>self is because you don't want to forget, and you

0:29:15.920 --> 0:29:18.120
<v Speaker 1>know on some level that it's all just going to

0:29:18.240 --> 0:29:21.560
<v Speaker 1>become like, you know, just like what did I have

0:29:21.640 --> 0:29:23.640
<v Speaker 1>for dinner? Guess I have no idea. I don't remember.

0:29:23.880 --> 0:29:26.360
<v Speaker 1>You were closer to your dad than your mom, definitely,

0:29:26.800 --> 0:29:29.920
<v Speaker 1>both of your parents being older parents was one of

0:29:29.960 --> 0:29:34.080
<v Speaker 1>the things you credited with them leaving you alone to draw. Yeah,

0:29:34.320 --> 0:29:37.360
<v Speaker 1>oh yeah, I think that they were a lot of

0:29:37.440 --> 0:29:40.200
<v Speaker 1>alone time, and most of their friends did not have children.

0:29:41.320 --> 0:29:43.200
<v Speaker 1>They were just you know a lot of school teacher

0:29:43.280 --> 0:29:48.640
<v Speaker 1>friends who some of them were you know, bachelor's or bachelorettes. Uh,

0:29:49.480 --> 0:29:52.760
<v Speaker 1>and just or couples that prefer to travel or go

0:29:52.920 --> 0:29:55.360
<v Speaker 1>to lectures or you know, go to the opera, and

0:29:55.400 --> 0:29:57.280
<v Speaker 1>they did not want to be burdened with children. And

0:29:57.760 --> 0:29:59.680
<v Speaker 1>both of my parents, I think we're sort of in

0:29:59.720 --> 0:30:02.479
<v Speaker 1>that category. And as I mentioned in this book, they

0:30:02.520 --> 0:30:07.440
<v Speaker 1>did have a child, baby that my mother lost. Um No,

0:30:07.680 --> 0:30:09.880
<v Speaker 1>she did not like lose it in the supermarket. She

0:30:10.000 --> 0:30:12.240
<v Speaker 1>lost the baby at seven and a half months. Um.

0:30:13.000 --> 0:30:17.080
<v Speaker 1>And I think they were very afraid to try again.

0:30:17.280 --> 0:30:20.120
<v Speaker 1>And then I was born to them when they were

0:30:20.120 --> 0:30:22.680
<v Speaker 1>in their forties, but they were old. They were like

0:30:22.760 --> 0:30:25.080
<v Speaker 1>an old forties. They were you know, you could see

0:30:25.120 --> 0:30:28.640
<v Speaker 1>from that photo that my mother wore blouses that buttoned

0:30:28.720 --> 0:30:30.560
<v Speaker 1>up the back. I don't even know where you get

0:30:30.640 --> 0:30:36.240
<v Speaker 1>these kind of blouses, you know. She she wore like

0:30:36.320 --> 0:30:39.840
<v Speaker 1>blouses with like the plaquette in the front, blouses. You know. Um,

0:30:40.000 --> 0:30:42.560
<v Speaker 1>I never saw her wear like a button down shirt

0:30:42.760 --> 0:30:46.200
<v Speaker 1>or any kind from she was she was born. Uh.

0:30:46.600 --> 0:30:50.600
<v Speaker 1>They were both grew up in Manhattan, East Harlem, both

0:30:50.640 --> 0:30:53.120
<v Speaker 1>New Yorkers. Yes, they were both born in this country,

0:30:53.280 --> 0:30:56.880
<v Speaker 1>but all of their grandparents were from Russia. And both

0:30:56.960 --> 0:30:59.960
<v Speaker 1>your parents were school teachers. Yes, for a long time.

0:31:00.000 --> 0:31:04.360
<v Speaker 1>In fact, my mother was Woody Allen's teacher. Yeah, I know,

0:31:04.640 --> 0:31:09.640
<v Speaker 1>I know, strange, Um, and he remembers her. Well, describe

0:31:09.760 --> 0:31:13.360
<v Speaker 1>your okay. She was very tough. She was well, you

0:31:13.400 --> 0:31:15.120
<v Speaker 1>asked me if they were school teachers. My mother became

0:31:15.160 --> 0:31:18.280
<v Speaker 1>an assistant principal, a job for which she was perfectly suited.

0:31:18.680 --> 0:31:24.720
<v Speaker 1>She was a disciplinarian. She was somebody. She was about

0:31:24.800 --> 0:31:27.440
<v Speaker 1>five to then. She shrunk as she got older. Was

0:31:27.480 --> 0:31:31.200
<v Speaker 1>a very tiny spark club more like a fire hydrant.

0:31:31.720 --> 0:31:36.720
<v Speaker 1>She was short, and she was very very strong, and

0:31:37.320 --> 0:31:42.760
<v Speaker 1>she was heavy, and she was zofted. She was very smart.

0:31:43.240 --> 0:31:46.479
<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't say, I mean she went to Hunter College,

0:31:46.800 --> 0:31:50.800
<v Speaker 1>my father went to City College. Um. She was very

0:31:50.920 --> 0:31:55.240
<v Speaker 1>very bright. Uh. She was good in a crisis. She

0:31:55.360 --> 0:31:58.000
<v Speaker 1>would be the kind she was, would be a great administrator.

0:31:58.720 --> 0:32:02.240
<v Speaker 1>She was very tough. It's a very capable, very very capable,

0:32:02.440 --> 0:32:08.560
<v Speaker 1>very tough. I think she resented that. Um. As a woman,

0:32:08.840 --> 0:32:11.400
<v Speaker 1>she was not going to necessarily get the same sorts

0:32:11.480 --> 0:32:14.080
<v Speaker 1>of promotions as like men who were much you know,

0:32:14.320 --> 0:32:18.680
<v Speaker 1>less capable than her. Uh. I think that there's a

0:32:18.760 --> 0:32:21.200
<v Speaker 1>kind of like then diagram where some of these skills

0:32:21.280 --> 0:32:23.320
<v Speaker 1>overlap with the skills of being a mom and some

0:32:23.480 --> 0:32:27.920
<v Speaker 1>of them really do not. And uh, she was very uncompromising,

0:32:28.040 --> 0:32:30.840
<v Speaker 1>and I think to be a parent it involves a

0:32:30.920 --> 0:32:34.880
<v Speaker 1>lot of compromise and can be too vigorously honest and apparently, no,

0:32:35.000 --> 0:32:37.120
<v Speaker 1>you can't be too rigorously honest, and you can't be

0:32:37.280 --> 0:32:41.160
<v Speaker 1>too strict. You can't be too rigid. You know, she

0:32:41.960 --> 0:32:45.560
<v Speaker 1>she was rigid, She would rog She had her view

0:32:45.640 --> 0:32:47.320
<v Speaker 1>of the world and the way things should be. This

0:32:47.440 --> 0:32:49.680
<v Speaker 1>is the woman that had the cheese tainer. Yes, yes,

0:32:49.880 --> 0:32:53.560
<v Speaker 1>my favorite. In fact, I think my mother chose that

0:32:53.760 --> 0:32:57.480
<v Speaker 1>she would rather stick to her guns about something that

0:32:57.600 --> 0:33:01.160
<v Speaker 1>she thought was right and have me hate her then

0:33:01.680 --> 0:33:03.600
<v Speaker 1>look for some other way of doing this. Do you

0:33:03.680 --> 0:33:06.960
<v Speaker 1>think your mother sensed the tension between the two of you.

0:33:07.480 --> 0:33:10.160
<v Speaker 1>I think she did. Was almost like she knew. Did

0:33:10.240 --> 0:33:12.960
<v Speaker 1>she know that even she knew this could have gone

0:33:12.960 --> 0:33:15.120
<v Speaker 1>a lot better? No, I don't think she did. I

0:33:15.240 --> 0:33:17.600
<v Speaker 1>think that was the thing that was sort of hard

0:33:17.680 --> 0:33:22.040
<v Speaker 1>to take that I think we would she had empathy,

0:33:22.160 --> 0:33:24.280
<v Speaker 1>but she or she had something I don't know what

0:33:24.440 --> 0:33:26.680
<v Speaker 1>she had, but whatever it was, we the two of

0:33:26.840 --> 0:33:31.840
<v Speaker 1>us were so completely different, like just cut from such

0:33:32.040 --> 0:33:35.880
<v Speaker 1>too completely to use this horrible cliche pieces of cloth,

0:33:36.080 --> 0:33:40.480
<v Speaker 1>not my fabric from seventh grade. Um that there was

0:33:40.600 --> 0:33:42.960
<v Speaker 1>just no way she could even understand. How did that

0:33:43.000 --> 0:33:45.320
<v Speaker 1>influence you raising your child? You have a boy and

0:33:45.360 --> 0:33:48.800
<v Speaker 1>a girl. Yeah, it was totally different. I mean when

0:33:48.920 --> 0:33:51.960
<v Speaker 1>she would say things, your kids set the house on fire.

0:33:52.040 --> 0:33:55.959
<v Speaker 1>Oh well, just short of that. I mean, you know, um,

0:33:56.600 --> 0:33:58.520
<v Speaker 1>you know you made cartoons about you as a mother.

0:33:58.680 --> 0:34:00.880
<v Speaker 1>I have I had to you, Oh my god, I

0:34:00.960 --> 0:34:03.520
<v Speaker 1>have a whole cartoon about being a wimp mom. Where

0:34:03.680 --> 0:34:06.440
<v Speaker 1>when my son was about like three or four, you

0:34:06.480 --> 0:34:08.200
<v Speaker 1>know those kind of crazy arguments where you're like you're

0:34:08.200 --> 0:34:12.120
<v Speaker 1>reading a book about dinosaurs and you go, dinosaurs were very,

0:34:12.360 --> 0:34:14.440
<v Speaker 1>very big, and the kid is in a certain pissy

0:34:14.480 --> 0:34:18.719
<v Speaker 1>moved they go, no, they weren't. And so I think

0:34:18.760 --> 0:34:23.200
<v Speaker 1>my response was, you're right, dinosaurs were as tiny as peas.

0:34:23.960 --> 0:34:27.000
<v Speaker 1>I mean, you know, but anyway, I remember when she

0:34:27.080 --> 0:34:31.160
<v Speaker 1>would say, when I would be like incredibly angry, she

0:34:31.200 --> 0:34:33.440
<v Speaker 1>would say, when you have children of your own, you'll understand.

0:34:33.480 --> 0:34:37.520
<v Speaker 1>And I knew I wouldn't you know. I understand, all right,

0:34:37.840 --> 0:34:40.120
<v Speaker 1>I'll understand. I'm going to do something. You know, I

0:34:40.680 --> 0:34:43.920
<v Speaker 1>don't want to not have a relationship. Is the family

0:34:43.960 --> 0:34:46.640
<v Speaker 1>with his one child. In my family, there were six children,

0:34:47.120 --> 0:34:50.040
<v Speaker 1>and money was just a constant, you know, it was

0:34:50.200 --> 0:34:53.800
<v Speaker 1>just a metronomic reality. Where did you grow up? Massive

0:34:53.800 --> 0:34:57.280
<v Speaker 1>Pequa Long Island part of residential Long Island? King corn stamps?

0:34:57.400 --> 0:35:01.960
<v Speaker 1>Did you snake stamps? Back when they had the old

0:35:04.080 --> 0:35:07.839
<v Speaker 1>and in the Great Atlantic and Pacific Tea Company? Yes, well,

0:35:08.400 --> 0:35:11.800
<v Speaker 1>we used to drink tang Tan had tang for breakfast.

0:35:11.880 --> 0:35:13.840
<v Speaker 1>My father would make us tang is what the astronauts

0:35:13.920 --> 0:35:19.200
<v Speaker 1>had been told. It was really sugar some tan. I

0:35:19.440 --> 0:35:22.040
<v Speaker 1>want to believe tang is out there. You can probably

0:35:22.040 --> 0:35:25.920
<v Speaker 1>get it on some like weird strawberry quick. We were drinking,

0:35:26.040 --> 0:35:29.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, our parents just let us not eat whatever

0:35:29.640 --> 0:35:32.000
<v Speaker 1>we wanted to. But pretty close. What did your parents

0:35:32.080 --> 0:35:34.400
<v Speaker 1>think about it? And I'm assuming they certainly picked up

0:35:34.680 --> 0:35:36.640
<v Speaker 1>at least allow that. Maybe your father did. Your father

0:35:36.760 --> 0:35:38.560
<v Speaker 1>was a pretty bright guy. Yeah, they were both bright.

0:35:38.640 --> 0:35:40.640
<v Speaker 1>We're both both bright. But your your father seemed have

0:35:40.680 --> 0:35:42.440
<v Speaker 1>more of a sense of humor than your mother. I

0:35:42.520 --> 0:35:45.960
<v Speaker 1>don't know not they They just had a different sense

0:35:46.000 --> 0:35:48.600
<v Speaker 1>if you're very old fashioned. Did they know that they

0:35:48.719 --> 0:35:51.239
<v Speaker 1>were these the font of a lot of the humor

0:35:51.280 --> 0:35:54.760
<v Speaker 1>in your cartoons? M I think that my mother sort

0:35:54.800 --> 0:35:59.040
<v Speaker 1>of new. I think that they did. Yes, yes, they

0:35:59.120 --> 0:36:04.560
<v Speaker 1>did it. I always has denied it, and I would say,

0:36:05.200 --> 0:36:08.200
<v Speaker 1>I'd say, Mom, this is not you, this is this

0:36:08.480 --> 0:36:13.080
<v Speaker 1>is a sort of mom, it's a different different but

0:36:13.239 --> 0:36:15.759
<v Speaker 1>this of course, you know, they did not see this

0:36:15.920 --> 0:36:18.480
<v Speaker 1>book for obvious reasons, and it is not a book

0:36:18.520 --> 0:36:20.880
<v Speaker 1>that I could have written while they were alive. Definitely

0:36:20.960 --> 0:36:24.440
<v Speaker 1>not your Is your husband from the same kind of family? No, No,

0:36:24.680 --> 0:36:29.000
<v Speaker 1>he's from opposite land personally big pies. Yes, oh definitely

0:36:29.200 --> 0:36:34.879
<v Speaker 1>midwestern Minnesota. Yes, yes, and I wat yes, yes, I've

0:36:34.920 --> 0:36:37.279
<v Speaker 1>watched home movies of his family and they're all like

0:36:37.360 --> 0:36:42.200
<v Speaker 1>attractive and happy and they're like playing. Yes, yes, they're

0:36:42.239 --> 0:36:45.239
<v Speaker 1>like healthy, there courses of the dinner, they're going to

0:36:45.239 --> 0:36:49.200
<v Speaker 1>split some more wood. Yes, they're attractive. They get along

0:36:49.280 --> 0:36:52.960
<v Speaker 1>with each other theirs. No, I mean I've seen like

0:36:53.120 --> 0:36:56.319
<v Speaker 1>family photos and they're like setibiotics. What is that? Oh

0:36:56.440 --> 0:36:58.560
<v Speaker 1>my god, I have family photos that are not in

0:36:58.640 --> 0:37:01.160
<v Speaker 1>this book of like my relatives and they're like sitting

0:37:01.239 --> 0:37:04.240
<v Speaker 1>around like the dieting table with bottles of manis chevits

0:37:04.239 --> 0:37:06.719
<v Speaker 1>and those kind of seltzer bottles, and and like they're

0:37:06.960 --> 0:37:10.080
<v Speaker 1>one of them is actually wearing a babushka and they

0:37:10.160 --> 0:37:12.480
<v Speaker 1>look so glum. They look like they're just about to

0:37:12.520 --> 0:37:15.680
<v Speaker 1>get slaughtered. It is. And then they're just not smiling.

0:37:15.760 --> 0:37:19.200
<v Speaker 1>They look just his family, my family, my family, these

0:37:19.239 --> 0:37:22.160
<v Speaker 1>old black and white photos and they're just grim. And

0:37:22.239 --> 0:37:24.680
<v Speaker 1>you say to his family, say, is there any depression

0:37:24.760 --> 0:37:27.319
<v Speaker 1>in your family? After a pause, they say, well, there

0:37:27.440 --> 0:37:29.480
<v Speaker 1>was a sink hole out by the well ones back

0:37:29.520 --> 0:37:34.040
<v Speaker 1>in the then there's just nothing. No, well they you know,

0:37:34.120 --> 0:37:37.160
<v Speaker 1>they're they're Scandinavian, so there is that dark side, but

0:37:37.320 --> 0:37:41.560
<v Speaker 1>that's natural essentially. But yes, but you don't talk about it.

0:37:41.800 --> 0:37:43.400
<v Speaker 1>You just don't talk about You don't talk about it,

0:37:43.440 --> 0:37:45.360
<v Speaker 1>and you make the best and you know, you have

0:37:45.400 --> 0:37:48.040
<v Speaker 1>a drink or you you know, go out, Oh, we

0:37:48.200 --> 0:37:52.799
<v Speaker 1>discovered a really nice restaurant out on route and they

0:37:52.880 --> 0:37:56.160
<v Speaker 1>have But that aren't they onto something? Don't we find

0:37:56.239 --> 0:37:58.040
<v Speaker 1>that as we get older? Isn't that just the answer?

0:37:58.520 --> 0:38:00.480
<v Speaker 1>Someone said to me, what do you require? Had some life?

0:38:00.520 --> 0:38:02.560
<v Speaker 1>Now I'm gonna be fifty seven years old. I said,

0:38:02.560 --> 0:38:05.080
<v Speaker 1>I want a good reading lamp. I need a good

0:38:05.200 --> 0:38:08.319
<v Speaker 1>radio wherever I go. I'm a radio addict. I said

0:38:08.360 --> 0:38:10.160
<v Speaker 1>I need a good cup of coffee. I mean I don't.

0:38:10.200 --> 0:38:14.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't need five star hotels. I don't need private jets.

0:38:14.120 --> 0:38:16.000
<v Speaker 1>I mean all these things that might have been a

0:38:16.120 --> 0:38:19.239
<v Speaker 1>part of in my in my deck, I don't need

0:38:19.280 --> 0:38:21.880
<v Speaker 1>any of that anymore. You know, I need a good uh,

0:38:22.800 --> 0:38:27.879
<v Speaker 1>a good fireplace. Very simple needs spring, Scandinavian needs, yes side.

0:38:27.920 --> 0:38:29.759
<v Speaker 1>Well maybe that's like when you get older, it's like,

0:38:30.160 --> 0:38:32.520
<v Speaker 1>do we all become more Scandina, Yes, we all, We're

0:38:32.520 --> 0:38:35.719
<v Speaker 1>all like going towards the Scandinavian side. Tell me about

0:38:35.719 --> 0:38:39.359
<v Speaker 1>your dad in his relationship with your mom. She wore

0:38:39.400 --> 0:38:42.680
<v Speaker 1>the pants. She pretty much bore the pants. Yeah, he was.

0:38:43.800 --> 0:38:46.359
<v Speaker 1>I think she helped him a lot. He clung to her.

0:38:46.760 --> 0:38:50.880
<v Speaker 1>She knew what to do, she drove. She was internal relationship,

0:38:50.920 --> 0:38:53.440
<v Speaker 1>which many men back then did. Yes, he went from

0:38:53.560 --> 0:38:56.759
<v Speaker 1>his mother who was you know, she was actually I

0:38:56.840 --> 0:39:01.480
<v Speaker 1>think kind of nuts. I mean literally, she slept across

0:39:01.560 --> 0:39:03.400
<v Speaker 1>the foot of his bed until he was twenty one.

0:39:03.480 --> 0:39:06.120
<v Speaker 1>She was bat She was kind of like a borderline

0:39:06.160 --> 0:39:08.680
<v Speaker 1>bagged and he needed to marry some another woman to

0:39:08.760 --> 0:39:10.800
<v Speaker 1>take care of. Yes, exactly had a little bit of

0:39:10.800 --> 0:39:13.719
<v Speaker 1>an edge to her. Yes, Yes, very hard to please someone,

0:39:13.800 --> 0:39:16.880
<v Speaker 1>hard to please someone who I think he probably read,

0:39:17.200 --> 0:39:19.840
<v Speaker 1>you know, being screened at as love, you know, and

0:39:20.000 --> 0:39:23.160
<v Speaker 1>also that she would mention because I care. Because I care,

0:39:23.200 --> 0:39:24.800
<v Speaker 1>I will tell you the right thing to do, and

0:39:24.920 --> 0:39:26.680
<v Speaker 1>I will yell at you if you don't do it right.

0:39:26.920 --> 0:39:29.319
<v Speaker 1>And you know, this is how I show my love

0:39:29.560 --> 0:39:31.719
<v Speaker 1>and I will always take care of you. And she

0:39:31.840 --> 0:39:34.600
<v Speaker 1>always did, she always, But it was and it was

0:39:34.719 --> 0:39:37.440
<v Speaker 1>very much, you know, between the two of them. You know.

0:39:37.520 --> 0:39:39.879
<v Speaker 1>The death of my dad was just the seismic event.

0:39:40.520 --> 0:39:43.320
<v Speaker 1>He was five years old, and it was probably it

0:39:43.480 --> 0:39:45.960
<v Speaker 1>was so painful because I couldn't do anything for him.

0:39:46.040 --> 0:39:48.360
<v Speaker 1>Once I made it, you know, I made it, and

0:39:48.440 --> 0:39:50.200
<v Speaker 1>I made more money than I could ever spend. And

0:39:50.239 --> 0:39:51.759
<v Speaker 1>I think to myself, what I wouldn't do to buy

0:39:51.800 --> 0:39:56.680
<v Speaker 1>my dad a car, house, a camel hair coat? Did

0:39:56.800 --> 0:39:58.840
<v Speaker 1>he want that sort of stuff? I mean I bought

0:39:59.000 --> 0:40:00.840
<v Speaker 1>I never had a chance to find. Yeah, yeah, I

0:40:00.920 --> 0:40:04.279
<v Speaker 1>guess that's I mean. I bought stuff. I mean I

0:40:04.320 --> 0:40:06.720
<v Speaker 1>didn't make that kind of money, but still I wanted

0:40:07.120 --> 0:40:10.880
<v Speaker 1>my parents had. Their clothing had was ratty, you know,

0:40:11.280 --> 0:40:14.440
<v Speaker 1>and I would buy sometimes stuff, you know, LLB and

0:40:14.440 --> 0:40:17.640
<v Speaker 1>I would send them stuff. But when I cleaned out

0:40:17.640 --> 0:40:21.080
<v Speaker 1>the apartment, I found bags of unopened stuff. I think

0:40:21.560 --> 0:40:23.920
<v Speaker 1>occasionally my father would wear a sweater that I had gotten.

0:40:24.040 --> 0:40:26.879
<v Speaker 1>But like the kind of pants that he wore. He wore,

0:40:26.880 --> 0:40:29.000
<v Speaker 1>I think of them as man pants. They were like

0:40:29.080 --> 0:40:32.000
<v Speaker 1>those kind of gray slacks with a crease down the front.

0:40:32.320 --> 0:40:34.880
<v Speaker 1>I never saw him in jeans or khakis, or chinos

0:40:35.040 --> 0:40:39.000
<v Speaker 1>or quarter pants. By the way, man pants, I wear

0:40:39.080 --> 0:40:43.040
<v Speaker 1>gray will blend pants. That's what he wore New York

0:40:43.080 --> 0:40:46.040
<v Speaker 1>man wear. Because you can come home and just throw

0:40:46.160 --> 0:40:48.080
<v Speaker 1>on a button down shirt and a blazer and you're

0:40:48.120 --> 0:40:50.480
<v Speaker 1>off to a cocktail party. Well, my father was not

0:40:50.600 --> 0:40:54.160
<v Speaker 1>going to any cocktail pread wasn't, strangely enough, No, And

0:40:54.360 --> 0:40:58.640
<v Speaker 1>he died first. He died first. And he died in

0:40:58.960 --> 0:41:01.440
<v Speaker 1>the place. Yes, And he had been in the place

0:41:01.520 --> 0:41:05.400
<v Speaker 1>for how long? Uh not that long, less than about

0:41:05.440 --> 0:41:10.359
<v Speaker 1>half a year. He died in the room with her. Uh. Well,

0:41:10.800 --> 0:41:12.640
<v Speaker 1>I say this in the book. It was this is

0:41:12.719 --> 0:41:17.120
<v Speaker 1>not a typical. He was in hospice and my mother

0:41:17.360 --> 0:41:21.760
<v Speaker 1>left the room briefly she left to use the bathroom

0:41:21.800 --> 0:41:24.800
<v Speaker 1>for like two minutes maybe less, and that's when he passed.

0:41:24.920 --> 0:41:26.840
<v Speaker 1>Isn't interesting because I'm a firm believer that not with

0:41:26.920 --> 0:41:29.080
<v Speaker 1>all people, but some people they have that kind of

0:41:29.239 --> 0:41:31.000
<v Speaker 1>mastery and they're like, I don't want to die in

0:41:31.160 --> 0:41:33.560
<v Speaker 1>front of you. I think that is exactly what happened,

0:41:33.600 --> 0:41:36.279
<v Speaker 1>and that's what the hospice lady said. She found out

0:41:36.280 --> 0:41:39.759
<v Speaker 1>about that. Oh, she was sort of shock. I mean

0:41:39.880 --> 0:41:43.839
<v Speaker 1>she was just, uh, I can't you know, it's hard

0:41:43.880 --> 0:41:47.440
<v Speaker 1>to even imagine they've been married for married in thirty

0:41:47.520 --> 0:41:51.879
<v Speaker 1>eight it was two thousand seven, I don't know years,

0:41:51.960 --> 0:41:54.120
<v Speaker 1>sixty nine years. Yeah, I mean it was just an

0:41:54.160 --> 0:41:56.759
<v Speaker 1>insane amount of time that they've been together. And they

0:41:56.800 --> 0:41:59.760
<v Speaker 1>were together before that, and they were each other's only

0:42:00.680 --> 0:42:06.440
<v Speaker 1>they were like, yeah, they were like one person. Did

0:42:06.480 --> 0:42:09.640
<v Speaker 1>she last after that almost two years? Did she change

0:42:09.760 --> 0:42:12.520
<v Speaker 1>in her demeanor towards you once? Once she were her

0:42:12.600 --> 0:42:19.000
<v Speaker 1>only blood? Kin? I know it was I think maybe

0:42:19.040 --> 0:42:22.000
<v Speaker 1>she was trying to protect me sometimes, that maybe she

0:42:22.160 --> 0:42:26.040
<v Speaker 1>thought real, her real emotions would be too much for

0:42:26.120 --> 0:42:29.040
<v Speaker 1>me to handle, and that it was just easier to

0:42:29.160 --> 0:42:33.040
<v Speaker 1>kind of well, you have the father who had crazy mommy. Yeah,

0:42:33.400 --> 0:42:35.239
<v Speaker 1>and if I can be so glib about this, and

0:42:35.600 --> 0:42:37.520
<v Speaker 1>I mean very often the woman like your mom, who's

0:42:37.520 --> 0:42:40.439
<v Speaker 1>as strident as leathery as they are, there's some hurt

0:42:40.560 --> 0:42:43.319
<v Speaker 1>that they're protecting what happened with her to the extent

0:42:43.400 --> 0:42:46.759
<v Speaker 1>you can say she has an unhappy childhood. I don't know.

0:42:47.120 --> 0:42:49.839
<v Speaker 1>I mean she never told me that she did if

0:42:49.880 --> 0:42:53.839
<v Speaker 1>she didn't ever explored that, and she did not want

0:42:53.880 --> 0:42:55.520
<v Speaker 1>to talk too much about that. I mean she would

0:42:55.560 --> 0:43:01.280
<v Speaker 1>tell me these fixed anecdotes about the past and parents.

0:43:01.320 --> 0:43:04.279
<v Speaker 1>To her father was he did a lot of things,

0:43:04.400 --> 0:43:06.520
<v Speaker 1>but one thing that he mostly did was he's a

0:43:06.640 --> 0:43:09.879
<v Speaker 1>pressor in the garment district. But before that he had

0:43:09.920 --> 0:43:13.200
<v Speaker 1>had an ice cream cone factory for a little while, um,

0:43:13.360 --> 0:43:16.920
<v Speaker 1>which she swept out. She wanted to be a ballerina

0:43:17.040 --> 0:43:20.960
<v Speaker 1>at one point, but she was not graceful, uh or

0:43:21.080 --> 0:43:23.520
<v Speaker 1>tall enough for anything, but she was saving up for

0:43:23.640 --> 0:43:26.279
<v Speaker 1>ballet shoes. She told me that one. Um. I think

0:43:26.320 --> 0:43:28.560
<v Speaker 1>he did some other things. He operated a movie theater

0:43:28.680 --> 0:43:31.920
<v Speaker 1>for a while, like as a projectionist and um, but

0:43:32.080 --> 0:43:35.759
<v Speaker 1>most yeah, I think he was he was he took

0:43:36.160 --> 0:43:39.200
<v Speaker 1>tickets on a trolley car. But the main thing he

0:43:39.239 --> 0:43:41.280
<v Speaker 1>did was he was a pressor in the garment district

0:43:41.360 --> 0:43:45.320
<v Speaker 1>and he had five children. His wife, my grandmother, raised

0:43:45.400 --> 0:43:49.719
<v Speaker 1>the children and they had no money. Do you think that, um,

0:43:50.640 --> 0:43:55.040
<v Speaker 1>do you think that your perspective which has this wonderful, wonderful,

0:43:55.120 --> 0:43:58.160
<v Speaker 1>wonderful neurosis in it. And I said, like, Woody Allen,

0:43:58.400 --> 0:44:00.839
<v Speaker 1>where you're expressing things? We all you're you're just doing

0:44:00.880 --> 0:44:02.680
<v Speaker 1>it in a in a funnier, you know, you and

0:44:02.760 --> 0:44:05.120
<v Speaker 1>he in a funnier kind of more interesting way. Do

0:44:05.200 --> 0:44:08.040
<v Speaker 1>you think you owe that to your mom? Probably to

0:44:08.239 --> 0:44:11.480
<v Speaker 1>both of them in some way. I think, you know,

0:44:11.600 --> 0:44:16.000
<v Speaker 1>my parents were extraordinary people in sweet and sour in combination.

0:44:16.120 --> 0:44:18.359
<v Speaker 1>In your work, do you get the sweet from your

0:44:18.400 --> 0:44:20.560
<v Speaker 1>dad and the sour from your mom? I think both

0:44:20.680 --> 0:44:24.800
<v Speaker 1>and both, I think and from both of them. Yeah, yeah, definitely.

0:44:24.960 --> 0:44:34.560
<v Speaker 1>What's your next book going to be? About? Things? Stories

0:44:34.760 --> 0:44:40.800
<v Speaker 1>and people, pictures and trying to cope? I'll talk about

0:44:40.800 --> 0:44:44.000
<v Speaker 1>it and then I'll like completely drinks it so understand.

0:44:44.920 --> 0:44:48.480
<v Speaker 1>Probably possibly about the New York and that's all I'm

0:44:48.480 --> 0:44:50.799
<v Speaker 1>going to say. What about writing about yourself and your

0:44:50.880 --> 0:44:56.480
<v Speaker 1>marriage and your you and your husband or worry we

0:44:56.560 --> 0:45:00.400
<v Speaker 1>don't we got to stop and shot. We went to

0:45:00.480 --> 0:45:05.839
<v Speaker 1>Stop and Shop last night to read, and we went

0:45:05.920 --> 0:45:07.759
<v Speaker 1>to Stop and shopping. You miss living in New York

0:45:07.800 --> 0:45:10.680
<v Speaker 1>at all. I missed New York all due time. I

0:45:10.840 --> 0:45:13.640
<v Speaker 1>miss it. So wherever you I'm not going to say

0:45:13.640 --> 0:45:15.160
<v Speaker 1>it on the air, but you live outside the city

0:45:15.800 --> 0:45:18.080
<v Speaker 1>for many, many years, many years, describe what it's like.

0:45:18.239 --> 0:45:22.000
<v Speaker 1>They're it's very pretty, it's very clean. Air is christ

0:45:22.200 --> 0:45:25.200
<v Speaker 1>The air is crisp, and women a freshly worked out

0:45:25.239 --> 0:45:28.480
<v Speaker 1>and they have got a Yeah, to some extent, it's

0:45:28.560 --> 0:45:31.000
<v Speaker 1>people seem if they have you know, you don't see

0:45:31.040 --> 0:45:33.160
<v Speaker 1>too many people like yaking to themselves on the street

0:45:33.239 --> 0:45:36.719
<v Speaker 1>unless they're talking through their phone. It's it's great, But

0:45:36.880 --> 0:45:38.840
<v Speaker 1>I really do miss the city. I don't really like

0:45:38.960 --> 0:45:41.879
<v Speaker 1>to drive, I don't really like how kids are grown. Yes,

0:45:42.280 --> 0:45:43.800
<v Speaker 1>so why don't you and your husband moved back to

0:45:43.840 --> 0:45:46.120
<v Speaker 1>the city because he likes living out there? He does,

0:45:46.320 --> 0:45:48.360
<v Speaker 1>he does. He in the same boat I want to

0:45:48.400 --> 0:45:50.480
<v Speaker 1>move out of the city. And my wife was like,

0:45:50.640 --> 0:45:54.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, she's singing West Side Story every night. She

0:45:54.120 --> 0:45:57.439
<v Speaker 1>just can't imagine leaving New York. Yeah, well, without kids,

0:45:57.520 --> 0:45:59.400
<v Speaker 1>I mean we would not have left the city. But

0:45:59.520 --> 0:46:01.719
<v Speaker 1>with kids it was just impossible, and we can't talk

0:46:01.760 --> 0:46:05.920
<v Speaker 1>Bill into moving back. No, no, no, he really likes

0:46:05.960 --> 0:46:08.799
<v Speaker 1>it out there. He likes having a bird feeder, likes

0:46:08.800 --> 0:46:10.759
<v Speaker 1>that we have. I like having a bird feeder. That's

0:46:10.760 --> 0:46:13.160
<v Speaker 1>the one positive thing. We do. Have a bird feeder.

0:46:13.239 --> 0:46:15.160
<v Speaker 1>You have and you have two birds, and I have

0:46:15.200 --> 0:46:17.680
<v Speaker 1>two birds. I have a kayak and I have an

0:46:17.680 --> 0:46:21.080
<v Speaker 1>African gray who talks, and I love birds. I'm a

0:46:21.200 --> 0:46:23.680
<v Speaker 1>bird nut. Do you mind my asking what the bird says?

0:46:24.080 --> 0:46:26.560
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, Well she says a lot of things. Um,

0:46:26.840 --> 0:46:29.920
<v Speaker 1>she says good morning, she says good night, she says,

0:46:30.120 --> 0:46:32.759
<v Speaker 1>want want waffle? Can you still teach the bird to

0:46:32.800 --> 0:46:36.160
<v Speaker 1>do things? Yes, yes, she's very neurotic. She plucks. She

0:46:36.960 --> 0:46:42.719
<v Speaker 1>she's she's an African gray. She's very very sweet. They're

0:46:42.760 --> 0:46:45.960
<v Speaker 1>notoriously neurotic. She plucks her feathers, and she does say

0:46:46.200 --> 0:46:48.160
<v Speaker 1>she does say don't pluck, and then she keeps plucking.

0:46:48.239 --> 0:46:50.000
<v Speaker 1>But the thing I was going to tell you is

0:46:50.080 --> 0:46:52.719
<v Speaker 1>that when people come into the house, she might be

0:46:52.800 --> 0:46:54.719
<v Speaker 1>on her feeding stand, she'll get afraid, she'll fly to

0:46:54.800 --> 0:46:57.040
<v Speaker 1>the floor. And I always say it's okay, it's okay,

0:46:57.160 --> 0:47:00.560
<v Speaker 1>it's okay. So she taught herself that. Now, if she's

0:47:00.560 --> 0:47:02.360
<v Speaker 1>on her feeding stand and like some like a plumber

0:47:02.400 --> 0:47:04.320
<v Speaker 1>comes by, he's got like tools off his belt and

0:47:04.480 --> 0:47:07.440
<v Speaker 1>buckets and you know, strange shape, grange shapes like I

0:47:07.480 --> 0:47:09.640
<v Speaker 1>always think of them as man. My dog does this

0:47:09.680 --> 0:47:11.640
<v Speaker 1>when they see homeless people with like a shopping card

0:47:11.920 --> 0:47:14.439
<v Speaker 1>with plastic bottles, strange shape and like too many things

0:47:14.520 --> 0:47:17.520
<v Speaker 1>on the belt and the buckets. And she'll fly and

0:47:17.880 --> 0:47:20.600
<v Speaker 1>clanging sounds. She'll fly to the floor. She'll sort of

0:47:20.680 --> 0:47:24.920
<v Speaker 1>pace around, and she'll go, it's okay, it's okay, it's okay,

0:47:25.160 --> 0:47:28.719
<v Speaker 1>And and it is incredible, she soothes herself. It's so great.

0:47:29.400 --> 0:47:31.279
<v Speaker 1>So I needed to tell her, I want to I'm

0:47:31.280 --> 0:47:33.080
<v Speaker 1>going to get a bird. Now. There are a lot

0:47:33.120 --> 0:47:37.440
<v Speaker 1>of work, I'm telling you, but there's there's so great.

0:47:37.520 --> 0:47:40.520
<v Speaker 1>There's so great. I'll go to any lengths to be loved. Oh,

0:47:40.640 --> 0:47:42.480
<v Speaker 1>I know, I know. And I want to have I

0:47:42.560 --> 0:47:45.279
<v Speaker 1>want to have a I want to have a bird.

0:47:45.400 --> 0:47:47.360
<v Speaker 1>And I want the bird to say to me, it's okay,

0:47:47.480 --> 0:47:50.440
<v Speaker 1>it's okay, it's okay. She says, it's herself. Any more

0:47:50.480 --> 0:47:52.160
<v Speaker 1>than that, and that to my list of a good

0:47:52.200 --> 0:47:55.360
<v Speaker 1>reading lamp, A fireplace, a cup of coffee, and a

0:47:55.480 --> 0:47:59.920
<v Speaker 1>gray African one African gray and African gray, and should

0:48:00.120 --> 0:48:03.120
<v Speaker 1>name what's your bird's name? Eli? My son named her.

0:48:04.040 --> 0:48:05.640
<v Speaker 1>She We thought she was a boy. And you can't

0:48:05.719 --> 0:48:07.759
<v Speaker 1>it's I forget what the word is, but like there's

0:48:08.239 --> 0:48:09.960
<v Speaker 1>you can't tell from the outside. They have to have

0:48:10.000 --> 0:48:12.560
<v Speaker 1>a blood test, so the vet did a blood test.

0:48:12.640 --> 0:48:20.000
<v Speaker 1>They have they have no externals as it were nothing. Yeah,

0:48:21.239 --> 0:48:24.239
<v Speaker 1>blood blood test just get lost in the mail. Yeah,

0:48:24.360 --> 0:48:27.160
<v Speaker 1>So it was Elia. And the other one is a

0:48:27.239 --> 0:48:30.799
<v Speaker 1>kayik and she's not very name Jackie Jack. And she's

0:48:30.800 --> 0:48:32.640
<v Speaker 1>not very smart. She's not very smart, but she's so

0:48:32.800 --> 0:48:35.920
<v Speaker 1>adorable and she's really pretty. So you know who needs

0:48:36.080 --> 0:48:37.880
<v Speaker 1>when you're like that pretty, you don't have to be that.

0:48:38.400 --> 0:48:41.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to get a bird. Let me think about it.

0:48:41.440 --> 0:48:43.839
<v Speaker 1>But if I had a bird, I would name it ros.

0:48:44.960 --> 0:48:51.960
<v Speaker 1>I would name it Rose. You can see ross chests

0:48:52.080 --> 0:48:55.520
<v Speaker 1>cartoons in the pages of The New Yorker magazine and

0:48:55.760 --> 0:48:59.160
<v Speaker 1>on her website ras chest dot com. To see a

0:48:59.280 --> 0:49:02.560
<v Speaker 1>picture of Oz and her bird, Jackie, go to Here's

0:49:02.560 --> 0:49:05.200
<v Speaker 1>the Thing dot org, where you can also see Roz's

0:49:05.280 --> 0:49:14.080
<v Speaker 1>cartoon of this very interview. Oh This is Alec Baldwin

0:49:14.239 --> 0:49:15.839
<v Speaker 1>you're listening to. Here's the thing.